WEBVTT - Sunday Sampler - The Nashville Podcast Network (6-9-24)

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<v Speaker 1>Hey guys, Bobby Here Sunday Sampler. It's a bunch of

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<v Speaker 1>cool podcast clips. We got a lot on the Bobby Cast.

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<v Speaker 1>I sat down with Zach Williams. He was working at

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<v Speaker 1>a church when he got his record deal after twenty

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<v Speaker 1>years of trying to make it big and quitting music.

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<v Speaker 1>Crazy story coming up, movie Mike, coming up, Sore Losers.

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<v Speaker 1>But we just want to give you a taste in

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<v Speaker 1>case you haven't tasted yet, and maybe you want to

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<v Speaker 1>go subscribe to one of these.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, here we go.

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<v Speaker 3>Let's start it off with the Bobbycast.

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<v Speaker 4>Looking for You? Is that that song for me? That's

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<v Speaker 4>like it just kind of says it. It's it's you

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<v Speaker 4>know it. It tells the story of the road that

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<v Speaker 4>I've been on for so many years and in my

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<v Speaker 4>past and what I've gone through, and you know, I

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<v Speaker 4>grew up I kind of said it well ago. You know,

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<v Speaker 4>I grew up every night playing music on stages when

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<v Speaker 4>I was in the band, smoky bars and nightclubs, and

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<v Speaker 4>it was great for two or three hours while you're

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<v Speaker 4>on stage, and then you'd step off, you'd be empty,

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<v Speaker 4>and you know, drugs, alcohol, relationships, chasing fortune, fame, It

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<v Speaker 4>was all that, like, what can make that better?

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<v Speaker 5>What can make me feel better?

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<v Speaker 4>And and it did for a season, you know, it

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<v Speaker 4>was like and then that goes away.

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<v Speaker 5>And my dad, when I.

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<v Speaker 4>Was working for him on the construction site, we would

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<v Speaker 4>sit down on these job sites and he would it'd

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<v Speaker 4>always tell me. He would say, hey, I don't I

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<v Speaker 4>don't have an answer for you other than Jesus, like

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<v Speaker 4>you need to get your life together. And I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>want to hear it at the time, but I knew

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<v Speaker 4>he was telling the truth. And I used to hear

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<v Speaker 4>this saying as a kid, it's the first place you

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<v Speaker 4>find something is always the last place you look for it.

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, I've tried everything else, but Jesus

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<v Speaker 4>might as well give it a shot. And it was

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<v Speaker 4>like when I got in that place in my life

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<v Speaker 4>and I you know, I was like, God, can you.

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<v Speaker 5>Help me out?

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<v Speaker 4>He was there and I realized all my life I've

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<v Speaker 4>been looking for him, like all those things that I've

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<v Speaker 4>been trying to find to feel that hole that was

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<v Speaker 4>actually in search of him.

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<v Speaker 5>And so yeah, when I played that song for Dolly, she.

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<v Speaker 3>Was like I was going there now, Yeah, dude, she was.

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<v Speaker 4>We were in Dollywood working on her Christmas Christmas thing,

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<v Speaker 4>and she asked me what I was working on, and

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<v Speaker 4>I told her that I told her this record and

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<v Speaker 4>I said, I actually got the title from it, from

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<v Speaker 4>this song called looking for You.

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<v Speaker 5>I said, there's a lyric that.

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<v Speaker 4>Says, down one hundred highways of empty pursuit and a

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<v Speaker 4>thousand foolish things I went through.

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<v Speaker 5>Didn't know it back then, but now I do.

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<v Speaker 4>I was looking for You and she's like playing the song,

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<v Speaker 4>and so I play it for and she's, I mean.

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<v Speaker 3>Is there a little bit of pressure again?

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<v Speaker 2>You know you're good?

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<v Speaker 3>There was, but it's Dolly.

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<v Speaker 5>It was Dollie, but she was.

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<v Speaker 4>Dolly has a way of like making you feel like

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<v Speaker 4>you're the only person in the room. And she she

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<v Speaker 4>is so down to earth and so humble and just

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<v Speaker 4>so so much fun. She's like the I've told people,

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<v Speaker 4>she's like the the fun ant at Christmas that everybody

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<v Speaker 4>wants to see and hang out with.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, It's like.

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<v Speaker 3>She's very warm and you always feel a valued Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>And just to even make it even better, that day,

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<v Speaker 4>while all this was going on, we were I was

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<v Speaker 4>on the Keto die. A couple of her guys on

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<v Speaker 4>crew were on a ketto Die and she's like, she's like,

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<v Speaker 4>you know what we do. She was like, it's really good.

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<v Speaker 4>She's like they got these poor ground here at dolly Wood.

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<v Speaker 4>She was like, and I make this blue cheese dip

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<v Speaker 4>and we eat poor crands and blue cheese when we're

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<v Speaker 4>on keto and I was like, oh yeah, and she's

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<v Speaker 4>like yeah, I'm gonna send somebody out to get the

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<v Speaker 4>stuff and I'll make it for you. So she sends

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<v Speaker 4>somebody out to get all this stuff and we're sitting

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<v Speaker 4>there eating poor crounds and blue cheese dip that she

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<v Speaker 4>just made, and I'm about to play on my song.

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<v Speaker 4>And so I played the song and she's like coming along.

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<v Speaker 5>Harmony parts and I was like, oh, that's really cool.

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<v Speaker 4>And then as the song's finished, and she's like wiping

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<v Speaker 4>tears out of her eyes and she slaps me on

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<v Speaker 4>the leg and she's like, za, she said that's beautiful.

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<v Speaker 5>She said why didn't you ask me to sing on

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<v Speaker 5>that one?

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<v Speaker 4>And I was like, I didn't know if you'd want to,

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<v Speaker 4>and she was like, well, I thought we did pretty

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<v Speaker 4>good on the first one.

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<v Speaker 5>And I was like, you're right. And I still thought

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<v Speaker 5>she was joking.

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<v Speaker 4>And so a year later, we were trying to decide

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<v Speaker 4>what we wanted to do as a you know, a

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<v Speaker 4>last single on this record, and I said, well, Dollie

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<v Speaker 4>did say she would sing on it, and I didn't

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<v Speaker 4>know if she really would.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's a weird thing to follow through on, like

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<v Speaker 1>follow up on it, because you're like, yeah, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know said it.

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<v Speaker 3>But again it's you're in like the moment.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, and I did.

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<v Speaker 4>We we uh, we reached out to here on like

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<v Speaker 4>a Thursday Friday. She said, yeah, send it over Monday.

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<v Speaker 4>She sent it back and it was done with her vocals,

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<v Speaker 4>like over the weekend.

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<v Speaker 5>She did it.

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<v Speaker 3>What's really cool?

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<v Speaker 1>First of all is that and that you have and

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<v Speaker 1>have have had a relationship with Dollie. But secondly, you've

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<v Speaker 1>want a Grammy with Dolly? Yeah, like that kind of

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<v Speaker 1>trumps everybody. That kind of trump's stories of like doing

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<v Speaker 1>charity work with Dolly, Like you want to grammy?

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<v Speaker 3>Like that's awesome.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's man, I know it was.

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<v Speaker 3>Does the grammy have your names on it?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>So you on your Grammy. It's like in the car

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<v Speaker 3>it has pretty cool man.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>What was wild though, is that day, you know that

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<v Speaker 4>we that was nearing COVID. So the Grammys were a

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<v Speaker 4>lot different that year. And we had a little Grammy

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<v Speaker 4>party at my house and we were supposed to supposed

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<v Speaker 4>to have like found out like late in the afternoon

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<v Speaker 4>when the when it was going to be announced, and

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<v Speaker 4>I had all these people coming over to my house

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<v Speaker 4>and we were all going to be sitting there watching

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<v Speaker 4>it at the same time. And then they were like, no,

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<v Speaker 4>we're going to announce it early. So they were going

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<v Speaker 4>to announce my like noon and I was like, oh, man,

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<v Speaker 4>if we lose this, this party's gonna say, like, this

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<v Speaker 4>is going to be bad.

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<v Speaker 5>All these people showing up.

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<v Speaker 4>And when they announced it, they announced Casey Bethard's name first,

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<v Speaker 4>and I thought, oh, we freaking lost. And now I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, wait a minute. He wrote the song with me.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, we won, like and it was just

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<v Speaker 4>like and so I call Casey, Me and Jonathan call

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<v Speaker 4>Casey and he's like he's in Florida on the beach

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<v Speaker 4>making a sandwich in his beach house and I'm like, hey, dude,

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<v Speaker 4>we just want to Grammy and he was like, are

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<v Speaker 4>you kidding me? He wasn't even watching it. I was

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<v Speaker 4>just like, yeah, that's that sounds a bit like him. Dang,

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<v Speaker 4>that's it was really.

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<v Speaker 3>Cool, It's really cool. It's super cool that.

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<v Speaker 1>Again, I would just be my neurosis would go, I

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<v Speaker 1>know Dolly said that, but did.

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<v Speaker 3>She really mean it?

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<v Speaker 1>That's exactly what I don't want to like bother her

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<v Speaker 1>because I already have a good relationship.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I was, Yeah, she's been so she's been so

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<v Speaker 4>sweet to us, like we we go down and rehearsing

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<v Speaker 4>her place down on Laverne, Like it's just she's been like, hey,

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<v Speaker 4>if you guys want to come down to use it

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<v Speaker 4>for rehearsals, Like, are you serious?

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<v Speaker 5>She's like yeah, wow.

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<v Speaker 1>She just sent So I have the these little funkos,

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<v Speaker 1>which I've only been introduced lately to the funko culture.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you familiar with the funko? I don't know what

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<v Speaker 1>that is, Mike, will you hand me the dollie funk

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<v Speaker 1>so I have? Again, I didn't know what they were.

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<v Speaker 5>But that as like something my kids might.

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<v Speaker 1>Probably athletes have them, celebrities have them. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>bought a few dolli ones and so this is a

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<v Speaker 1>Dolly one and I sent them over to her and

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<v Speaker 1>she signed them for me, and then I auction them

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<v Speaker 1>off for a Saint Day.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, but they don't come signed and Dollie doesn't have

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<v Speaker 1>any sign you can get. But I just sent him

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<v Speaker 1>over and she sent him back all signed. I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it was like, and I don't want to ask her

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<v Speaker 1>to do anything, but I know that if it happens

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<v Speaker 1>to do with something like nice or good, she's gonna

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<v Speaker 1>do it. Oh, but it's still like, I don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to bother her. But she's yeah, No, she's awesome. She's

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<v Speaker 1>on my comedy special.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, that's great.

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<v Speaker 6>It's crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>She was telling me she's got a she was telling

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<v Speaker 4>me she's got a Broadway musical coming out in twenty

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<v Speaker 4>twenty five.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm sure to be a massive success and it deserves

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<v Speaker 3>to be.

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<v Speaker 7>Kind good.

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<v Speaker 3>Levee cast up little food for yourself.

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<v Speaker 8>Life.

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<v Speaker 6>Oh it's pretty bad.

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<v Speaker 3>Hey, it's pretty beautiful.

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<v Speaker 5>Beautiful.

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<v Speaker 9>That for a little more exciting, said he you're kicking

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<v Speaker 9>with full Thing with Amy Brown.

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<v Speaker 10>Hey, it's Amy Brown from Four Things with Amy Brown.

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<v Speaker 10>And here's what we talked about this week on my podcast.

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<v Speaker 10>All Right, I kind of want to talk about the

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<v Speaker 10>Taco bell motto. Here for a second, because your great

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<v Speaker 10>grandma and grandpa owned Taco Bells, and then your grandpa

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<v Speaker 10>ended up running a lot of them, to which my

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<v Speaker 10>mom was then his assistant. So she worked at Taco

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<v Speaker 10>Bell for twenty five years. And then my ex husband's

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<v Speaker 10>dad also worked there.

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<v Speaker 11>In the office.

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<v Speaker 10>I mean the tangled webs we weave, because then my

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<v Speaker 10>dad ended up dating your great grandmother, so your grandpa

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<v Speaker 10>was dating you know. Yeah, it gets complicated. So see,

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<v Speaker 10>we really welcome everybody, everybody as everyone everyone is welcomed us.

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<v Speaker 10>But a Taco Bell saying was serving on both sides

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<v Speaker 10>of the counter. And even my mom her work email,

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<v Speaker 10>she would sign off like her signature on her email

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<v Speaker 10>was here to serve. I know, a big motto within

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<v Speaker 10>at least that franchise group. So Taco Bell is a

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<v Speaker 10>franchise in our family. That was a franchise that was

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<v Speaker 10>based in Austin, and they would all go to the

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<v Speaker 10>office every day, and that was a company that cultivated

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<v Speaker 10>a lot of connection and community and love and service.

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<v Speaker 10>And I know that your mom talks about serving both

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<v Speaker 10>sides of the counter and that if there are a

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<v Speaker 10>group of people coming over, everybody kind of jumps in

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<v Speaker 10>and serves. She's not also just serving y'all all over,

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<v Speaker 10>like y'all come and are part of it too. I'm

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<v Speaker 10>picturing like the island table, like everybody's just doing their part.

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<v Speaker 10>Like say, if it does turn into more of a

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<v Speaker 10>sit down dinner, it's like everybody is welcome to start

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<v Speaker 10>pitching in and serving each other.

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<v Speaker 12>Yeah, that was one thing that we always did. We

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<v Speaker 12>would always set timers and do pus, which is a

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<v Speaker 12>pickup session, and so we do like seven minute pus.

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<v Speaker 12>And it was something where my friends, especially my best

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<v Speaker 12>friends who were over all the time in high school,

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<v Speaker 12>and my brother's friends do the exact same thing. You'll

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<v Speaker 12>find the teenage boys around the kitchen cleaning up after

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<v Speaker 12>dinner because they know if they're coming over that they're

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<v Speaker 12>probably going to get fed a really good meal. And

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<v Speaker 12>that happens every single time, whether it's like sausage on

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<v Speaker 12>the fire or a really nice like pork tacos, anything,

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<v Speaker 12>but they always know if they're gonna come eat, Like

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<v Speaker 12>we're all mutually gonna help my mom clean up because

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<v Speaker 12>she does so much for us, And it was something

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<v Speaker 12>that was expected that as my parents are serving us,

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<v Speaker 12>we will serve them back. And it was something I

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<v Speaker 12>remember at first feeling nervous, like, oh, I don't want

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<v Speaker 12>to make my friends have to help clean up in

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<v Speaker 12>the kitchen. But then it just became this fun thing

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<v Speaker 12>like turn on music, set a time, or see how

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<v Speaker 12>fast you can get it done. That was a way

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<v Speaker 12>where we kind of created mutual like, Okay, I'm allowed

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<v Speaker 12>to have people over if we're gonna serve on both

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<v Speaker 12>ends of this, like we'll serve my.

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<v Speaker 11>Family and then my mom and dad.

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<v Speaker 12>They'll serve us in probably so many more ways than

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<v Speaker 12>me and my friends would serve.

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<v Speaker 11>Them, but still it's a little mutual exchange.

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<v Speaker 10>Now. I love that that expectation was set up and

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<v Speaker 10>it's just something that's been in their family and they knew, hey,

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<v Speaker 10>this is how we're going to do it. And I

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<v Speaker 10>think that it takes the pressure off too of some

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<v Speaker 10>parents that are maybe wanting to create this space and

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<v Speaker 10>they feel like they have to burn themselves out to serve, serve,

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<v Speaker 10>serve their kids. And really it invites it to be

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<v Speaker 10>like this is an experience for all of us, and

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<v Speaker 10>then it welcomes even more people to come because it

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<v Speaker 10>makes it less stressful. And I know that your parents

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<v Speaker 10>were good at Okay, if somebody needs a ride and

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<v Speaker 10>they want to come, we'll go pick them up, or

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<v Speaker 10>we can give them a ride home, or yes, making

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<v Speaker 10>sure people can carpool, and just being that type of family.

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<v Speaker 10>And I'll admit sometimes I don't like I'll just have

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<v Speaker 10>certain things going on and I don't pause to think, Okay,

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<v Speaker 10>if I just go create this space for my kids

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<v Speaker 10>by allowing them to get somewhere or have others come

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<v Speaker 10>over here, they're going to remember me pausing life to

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<v Speaker 10>do that. I really think that, even listening to you talk,

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<v Speaker 10>I feel as though they absolutely will remember if for

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<v Speaker 10>whatever reason, one of their friends couldn't make it and

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<v Speaker 10>I could pause and figure out how to get someone over.

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<v Speaker 12>It means a lot more to them than they'll show

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<v Speaker 12>then they'll show in the time being. But then those

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<v Speaker 12>are all the things that now, being three years out

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<v Speaker 12>of the house, I still remember all the little things

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<v Speaker 12>my parents would do well.

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<v Speaker 10>And then at the coffee shop, well, Root Design is

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<v Speaker 10>the design build firm. Then there's the coffee shop, Root

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<v Speaker 10>House coffee. But there's hats and cups, there's a logo,

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<v Speaker 10>a theme of Root for each other. Do you think

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<v Speaker 10>that that's been a big part of your friend's experience

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<v Speaker 10>when they're over, did they feel rooted for?

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<v Speaker 12>Yeah, because I'd watched my dad like specifically just go

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<v Speaker 12>and hang out with my friends without me even being

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<v Speaker 12>there and talk about life. And my dad was someone

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<v Speaker 12>who he genuinely knew the core things going on in

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<v Speaker 12>my friends' lives and he cares about it and that

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<v Speaker 12>means the world to me, and in turn, like my

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<v Speaker 12>friends feel rooted for, and then they root for my family.

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<v Speaker 12>We had all of my friends working at the coffee

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<v Speaker 12>shop at one point. That was the best thing ever

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<v Speaker 12>in high school. But yeah, just like mutually all rooting

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<v Speaker 12>for each other, and that kind of starts at the

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<v Speaker 12>house when people are over and they feel seen and

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<v Speaker 12>taken care of, and my mom and dad just have

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<v Speaker 12>such a welcoming spirit.

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<v Speaker 11>It's hard.

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<v Speaker 12>It's hard for my friends not to feel rooted for

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<v Speaker 12>when they're over at our house, which makes me just

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<v Speaker 12>so grateful for my parents and everything they do.

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<v Speaker 11>I mean, watching you tah.

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<v Speaker 13>They're going to love this episode.

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<v Speaker 10>Well, I truly am encouraged because I could be better

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<v Speaker 10>at that, and I need to be more intentional about

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<v Speaker 10>asking more questions and trying to get to know the

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<v Speaker 10>kids well that my kids are hanging out with and

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<v Speaker 10>said just letting them go off and do their thing,

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<v Speaker 10>and that they're probably not going to be as annoyed

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<v Speaker 10>as I would think.

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<v Speaker 2>We're gonna do it live. We are the one, two,

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<v Speaker 2>three sore Losers.

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<v Speaker 8>What up, everybody? I am lunchbox. I know the most

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<v Speaker 8>about sports. I'll give you the sports facts, my sports opinions,

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<v Speaker 8>because I'm pretty much a sports genius, y'all.

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<v Speaker 2>It's Sison. I'm from the North. I'm an alpha male.

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<v Speaker 2>I live on the north side of Nashville with bays

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<v Speaker 2>Or my wife. We do have a farm. It's beautiful,

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<v Speaker 2>a lot of acreage, no animals, a lot of crops.

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<v Speaker 2>Hopefully soon corn pumpkins, rye. I believe maybe a little

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<v Speaker 2>fescue to be determined.

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<v Speaker 8>Over to you, coach, And here's a clip from this

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<v Speaker 8>week's episode of The Sore Losers.

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<v Speaker 2>I got a message. We can just say it's an email,

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<v Speaker 2>but it's from our Facebook.

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<v Speaker 6>I'd love to hear it.

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<v Speaker 2>This is a deeper, deeper way to think about things.

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<v Speaker 2>So this is the next level. A lot of our

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<v Speaker 2>truckers aren't even going to understand this because it's one

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<v Speaker 2>step tug boaters as well, not a lot of deep thinkers.

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<v Speaker 2>But it's on our Facebook. Christopher Toefer. Almost this is

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<v Speaker 2>about us in that internship that somebody thought they were

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<v Speaker 2>applying for, and there was people execs and upper managineah,

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<v Speaker 2>we're wondering are we hiring people? Chris says. It sounds

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<v Speaker 2>like whoever applied has an end with the higher ups

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<v Speaker 2>and their connection worked because they have the exect contacting

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<v Speaker 2>you guys. So I would tell them that you guys

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<v Speaker 2>were interested in an intern higher but don't know how

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<v Speaker 2>to go exactly about it. And then since you have

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<v Speaker 2>their attention already and they're emailing you and see how

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<v Speaker 2>they can now help us, and maybe they'll hook you

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<v Speaker 2>guys up and won't have to pay anything out of

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<v Speaker 2>your pockets, and we officially have an arnold. So we

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<v Speaker 2>reverse osmosis the emails about the inquiry about the internship

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<v Speaker 2>and say, well, yes, we're interested in doing this.

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<v Speaker 8>So we go back to the exec and be like, wow,

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<v Speaker 8>you guys are looking to hire someone for us. That

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<v Speaker 8>is amazing. How much were you guys going to pay

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<v Speaker 8>this person?

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<v Speaker 2>Because we have the exec's attention and we just said, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>wrong house, we're not here. We set the guy on

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<v Speaker 2>his way.

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<v Speaker 6>Dude.

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<v Speaker 8>That is like the scene in Dumb and Dumber when

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<v Speaker 8>they get the hotty bus and they're like, hi, we're

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<v Speaker 8>suit is and they run down the bus and they're like,

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<v Speaker 8>oh my god, they're getting on the bus. They're getting

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<v Speaker 8>on the bus and they say, nope, it is that way.

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<v Speaker 8>Oh my gosh. We did that with the exact We

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<v Speaker 8>are Larry, Harry and Lloyd. We are Harry and Lloyd

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<v Speaker 8>because the exec is right there for the taking. We

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<v Speaker 8>have a chance to reach out to him and say, hey,

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<v Speaker 8>can you help us with this?

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<v Speaker 6>This and this? And instead we slam the door shut.

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<v Speaker 6>What an analogy? Can't believe this?

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<v Speaker 2>Floyd, First, Mary dumps us and the cops take our

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<v Speaker 2>nest egg, and then our hot breaks down.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, when are we ever going to catch a break.

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<v Speaker 6>Plus the hotties.

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<v Speaker 14>Spoiler alert, Hi y'all, Hi guys.

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<v Speaker 10>We're going on a national bikini tour and we're looking

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<v Speaker 10>for two oil boys.

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<v Speaker 7>Who can grease us up before each competition.

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<v Speaker 2>This is us getting the email.

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<v Speaker 6>You are in luck.

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<v Speaker 3>There's a town about three miles that way. I'm sure,

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<v Speaker 3>you'll find a couple of guys there.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, Yeah, we don't know what you're talking about. The

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<v Speaker 2>email guys see it.

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<v Speaker 15>Yeah, we're not.

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<v Speaker 2>Looking for an intern.

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<v Speaker 6>My man, get out of here. Do you realize what

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<v Speaker 6>you've done?

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<v Speaker 5>Why?

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<v Speaker 2>Why this is me bringing up the email to you?

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<v Speaker 2>Now we're running after the email, Jane trying to talk.

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<v Speaker 6>We got it, We caught him.

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<v Speaker 3>You'll have to excuse my friend.

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<v Speaker 6>He's a little slow.

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<v Speaker 3>The town is back.

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<v Speaker 1>That way, got that time.

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<v Speaker 8>Can I just tell you, I still don't understand one

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<v Speaker 8>of my college roommates, Clay, he hated Dumb and Dumber.

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<v Speaker 8>He did not think it was funny at all.

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<v Speaker 2>It was one of the best movies of our childhood.

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<v Speaker 8>I agree, And he was like, it is just so

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<v Speaker 8>stupid because there's crime.

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<v Speaker 2>Also, Am I not right on that there's a touch

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<v Speaker 2>of it?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, so that it caters to now the crime generation.

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<v Speaker 2>Last podcast I tagged every crime podcast crime Officionado crime

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<v Speaker 2>hashtag there was because we talked about Natalie Holloway.

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<v Speaker 8>I don't understand how you don't find Dumb and Dumber funny.

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<v Speaker 8>That worries me. It worried me about Clay. I mean

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<v Speaker 8>he's a great dude, but just off his rocker. Now

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<v Speaker 8>we're going to read another email.

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<v Speaker 2>Ray, I'm out here without a segue.

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<v Speaker 8>Nope, I was doing emails then we went to that.

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<v Speaker 8>I love listening to this podcast. I only recently started

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<v Speaker 8>listening because I didn't have a lot of interest in sports.

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<v Speaker 2>Who said didn't have a lot going for me?

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<v Speaker 6>But it's so much more.

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<v Speaker 8>I love lunchbox and raised stories about their kids, wives,

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<v Speaker 8>et cetera. And I'm learning a bit about sports.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't have kids.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, she's just saying stories. You guys definitely should have

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<v Speaker 8>more segments on what you call the Big Show. I

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<v Speaker 8>love all those guys, but some of your stories on

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<v Speaker 8>here are better. Keep it up, guys. Alyssa chorus, chorus,

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<v Speaker 8>Thank you Alyssa.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah that was good.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good segment, dude. How many emails do we get?

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<v Speaker 2>Real talk?

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<v Speaker 8>We get a lot, and I should read them more

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<v Speaker 8>because I don't. I get behind and I just I

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<v Speaker 8>miss them.

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<v Speaker 2>And all our information is at sored Loosers dot com.

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<v Speaker 8>Right, yeah, you can go to our website and our emails.

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<v Speaker 8>We are the sore Losers at gmail dot com. Because

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<v Speaker 8>you know, we really should talk about that more.

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<v Speaker 2>He paid some money for that site.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, we did. You realize I had to buy it

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<v Speaker 6>from someone?

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<v Speaker 2>Couldn't we have negotiated that down? Ont I tried, Oh

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<v Speaker 2>you did?

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<v Speaker 6>I trust you?

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<v Speaker 2>Did you do it like the lady in the country,

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<v Speaker 2>the country people negotiations?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes, I did. And it didn't go very well?

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<v Speaker 2>Right, things went south.

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<v Speaker 5>We lost.

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<v Speaker 8>Well, let's just say it might have been in the case, right,

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<v Speaker 8>But did you talk them down?

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<v Speaker 6>Please just say you did?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 6>Originally it was five.

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<v Speaker 2>K Okay, then that's impressed with what you did.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 16>Hey, it's Mike d And this week on movie Mike's

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<v Speaker 16>Movie Podcast, my wife Kelsey joins me and we recap

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<v Speaker 16>all the best and worst movies we watched in the

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<v Speaker 16>month of May, giving you recommendations on movies you should

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<v Speaker 16>check out in theaters or streaming, and giving you our

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<v Speaker 16>picks of movies you need to avoid. I also gave

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<v Speaker 16>my spoiler free review on Furiosa and why it didn't

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<v Speaker 16>do so well at the box office For the first

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<v Speaker 16>time ever, I'm actually worried about the fate of movie theater.

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<v Speaker 16>So I get into all that, Plus a look at

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<v Speaker 16>the new Malwana IU trailer so be sure to check

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<v Speaker 16>out this entire episode. But right now, here's just a

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<v Speaker 16>little bit of our best and worst of May. All right,

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<v Speaker 16>we have a lot to get into, so let's start

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<v Speaker 16>off with what was the best movie you saw in May?

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<v Speaker 11>That's so easy. It was Babes.

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<v Speaker 16>I knew it was going to be Babes, hands down

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<v Speaker 16>your favorite movie.

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<v Speaker 11>I already want to see it again already. Yeah, that's

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<v Speaker 11>what you're doing right now.

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<v Speaker 16>That's rare to go see a movie and want to

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<v Speaker 16>see it again these days.

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<v Speaker 11>It made me laugh so hard, And.

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<v Speaker 16>As many movies as we watch, it's pretty rare we

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<v Speaker 16>go back and rewatch a movie. I can't remember the

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<v Speaker 16>last one that as soon as it hits streaming, I

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<v Speaker 16>wanted to go rewatch again. My best had to go

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<v Speaker 16>to The Fall Guy. And I think the reason that

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<v Speaker 16>is now looking back on it, is because I feel

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<v Speaker 16>like as big of a fan of just movies in

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<v Speaker 16>general i am. I think that's why that movie spoke

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<v Speaker 16>so much to me, because it also shows you the

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<v Speaker 16>movie making process.

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<v Speaker 11>You love a movie about a movie.

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<v Speaker 16>Yeah, it's pretty meta, and I didn't know how well

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<v Speaker 16>it was going to do with people who maybe didn't

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<v Speaker 16>care so much about that because it.

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<v Speaker 11>Was so good.

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<v Speaker 17>Though, that was my runner up for Best of the

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<v Speaker 17>Month because it just was. I loved it because everything

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<v Speaker 17>about it.

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<v Speaker 16>Ryan Gosling plays a stunt man who gets hurt, retires

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<v Speaker 16>from stunt stunting, stunting stunting stunt manning, and then gets

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<v Speaker 16>pulled back in. So while he is doing stuntman things

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<v Speaker 16>in the fake movie on set, he is also doing

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<v Speaker 16>stunt like things in The fall Guy, so it goes

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<v Speaker 16>kind of like two layers. He's also acting as a stuntman,

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<v Speaker 16>but he's also doing stunt things as the actor.

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<v Speaker 11>It was meta within a meta movie.

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<v Speaker 16>There are a lot of those moments, and I feel

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<v Speaker 16>like at times it almost got way too into it.

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<v Speaker 16>But I loved how unorthodox and different it felt than

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<v Speaker 16>anything I'd seen in theaters in a long time. So

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<v Speaker 16>that was my best of the month. What is your worst?

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<v Speaker 11>A movie? I should have let you go see by yourself.

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<v Speaker 11>It's called I Saw the TV.

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<v Speaker 3>I knew you were gonna do it.

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<v Speaker 11>It was too artsy for me. I am not high

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<v Speaker 11>brown comes to movies.

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<v Speaker 17>The only thing I would say I'm ever maybe highbrow

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<v Speaker 17>about his books, and I'll even read like popular books.

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<v Speaker 11>Like I'm not a book.

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<v Speaker 17>Snob, but like I enjoy deeper books than I do

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<v Speaker 17>deeper movies.

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<v Speaker 11>I was so bored. I was so freakin' bored.

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<v Speaker 16>I will say I didn't love I Saw the TV Glow,

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<v Speaker 16>but I also didn't hate it as much as you did.

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<v Speaker 16>I really enjoyed the vibe of I Saw the TV Glow.

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<v Speaker 16>So what it's about is this kid named Owen and

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<v Speaker 16>him and a friend get infatuated with this late night

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<v Speaker 16>show that is kind of reminiscent of what you would

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<v Speaker 16>see on Nickelodeon in the early nineties, kind of like

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<v Speaker 16>the show.

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<v Speaker 6>Are You Afraid of the Dark?

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<v Speaker 16>Is what this show is in the movie, it's called

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<v Speaker 16>the pink Opake, and it's them becoming infatuated with this

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<v Speaker 16>show and then not being able to tell reality from

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<v Speaker 16>the show, and that is generally what the movie is about.

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<v Speaker 16>I will say the trailer was a little bit misleading

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<v Speaker 16>because I thought it was going to have a little

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<v Speaker 16>bit more of a traditional story structure of here's this

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<v Speaker 16>story with these two characters find this weird show, and

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<v Speaker 16>then they have to go on some adventure. There was

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<v Speaker 16>really no adventure in the movie. The storytelling was really abstract,

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<v Speaker 16>which even for me that I loved the vibe of it,

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<v Speaker 16>that nineties retro vibe. The soundtrack soundtrack is great. Oh,

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<v Speaker 16>I've been listening to it NonStop. Literally, it is my

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<v Speaker 16>most played thing for the last week and a half

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<v Speaker 16>because I loved it so much and even for a

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<v Speaker 16>movie to make me want to go seek out its soundtrack,

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<v Speaker 16>I feel is really powerful.

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<v Speaker 17>Willy Wonka made you seek out the soundtrack Willy Wonka.

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<v Speaker 16>I also listened to the Asteroid City soundtrack.

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<v Speaker 11>We listened to Willy Wonka for quite a while.

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<v Speaker 6>That was maybe a week. It was probably a week.

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<v Speaker 16>Cashtroid City I listened to that probably for a week.

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<v Speaker 16>Two Last Train, Yeah, I listened to that on a

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<v Speaker 16>lot too, but for like for music that would actually

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<v Speaker 16>go into something I would listen to on the rag.

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<v Speaker 17>You also wanted to see this movie because Phoebe Bridgers

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<v Speaker 17>wasn't it for sixty seconds?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? I thought she was gonna be bigger wrong, but she.

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<v Speaker 11>There's a lot of things we thought about this movie.

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<v Speaker 16>Music was a big part of it, because at times

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<v Speaker 16>this movie felt like it transformed into a music video.

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<v Speaker 16>There were sequences that were just really beautifully shot, a

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<v Speaker 16>lot of cool, fun neon visuals with a really cool

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<v Speaker 16>song playing over it, and it was these moments where

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<v Speaker 16>it didn't really feel that attached to the movie, so

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<v Speaker 16>I enjoyed that part of it. I think that's why

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<v Speaker 16>all the songs were so cemented in my head. Even

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<v Speaker 16>the song with Phoebe Bridges was on screen in her band,

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<v Speaker 16>I was like, I need to go listen to that song.

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<v Speaker 16>It didn't occur to me. Oh, it's probably a real song,

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<v Speaker 16>a part of the soundtrack. So I feel like all

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<v Speaker 16>of the parts of it were good, but when you

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<v Speaker 16>put them all together, the overall movie wasn't what I

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<v Speaker 16>thought it was going to be. It's like taking a

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<v Speaker 16>bunch of good ingredients and throwing them all together into

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<v Speaker 16>a dinner, but then the dinner not being good because

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<v Speaker 16>it's just a bunch of ingredients that don't really go

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<v Speaker 16>well together, which also happens to us often. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 16>that was exactly how was speaking to me right now.

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<v Speaker 16>Sometimes I think I want something and then I make

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<v Speaker 16>exactly what I wanted, and I think that's not what

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<v Speaker 16>I wanted.

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<v Speaker 6>It taste good.

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<v Speaker 11>I say that often.

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<v Speaker 17>I throw things in a bowl and I'm like, this

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<v Speaker 17>wasn't the vibee was going for, and that's what the

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<v Speaker 17>movie gave me, not the vibe I it was going for.

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<v Speaker 6>That's your worst.

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<v Speaker 16>Huh what would you rate it? Because I know what

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<v Speaker 16>you said right after we watched it, You're like zero

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<v Speaker 16>out of five.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm out of here? Are you still at the zero?

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<v Speaker 6>You can be at the zero.

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<v Speaker 11>I'll give it a point five for the soundtrack.

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<v Speaker 6>Soundtrack is good.

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<v Speaker 16>I recommend well, you kind of got to be into

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<v Speaker 16>sad indie music, which is like my jam Phoebe Bridges

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<v Speaker 16>on a soundtrack that's gonna be all me all day.

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<v Speaker 11>Yeah, I'll give it a point five for the soundtrack.

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<v Speaker 16>All right, we got it to a point five everybody.

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<v Speaker 16>She was at a zero for me. The worst movie

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<v Speaker 16>I saw in May, hands down, is not only the

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<v Speaker 16>worst movie I've seen in May, but so far probably

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<v Speaker 16>the worst I've seen all year maybe ever. Oh, it's

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<v Speaker 16>up there for being one of the worst movies of

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<v Speaker 16>all time. It is unfrosted with Jerry Seinfeld.

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<v Speaker 11>How was that a real movie? I have so many

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<v Speaker 11>big names.

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<v Speaker 16>I don't know how he thought this was funny to me.

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<v Speaker 16>Jerry Seinfeld hasn't been funny. I mean, I never really

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<v Speaker 16>found Seinfeld to be that funny. It was not my

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<v Speaker 16>go to show.

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<v Speaker 17>He also just said in an interview that he misses

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<v Speaker 17>toxic masculinity and the like dominant male personality.

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<v Speaker 11>So his really his whole terrible takes.

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<v Speaker 16>His whole promotional run for this movie was really weird

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<v Speaker 16>because he came out saying that movies were dead, They're

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<v Speaker 16>not relevant anymore, and he's saying this while promoting a movie.

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<v Speaker 16>To me, he feels like he is this authority on comedy.

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<v Speaker 6>I get it.

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<v Speaker 16>He was big in the nineties. He has a really big,

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<v Speaker 16>prominent stand up career. He's very influential to people. A

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<v Speaker 16>lot of comedians look up to him. I never found

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<v Speaker 16>him funny.

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<v Speaker 11>He did the ant movie that says a lot B movie,

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<v Speaker 11>the B movie.

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<v Speaker 16>Yeah, B movie director has opinions on what movies need

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<v Speaker 16>to be going forwards. Ants yea, yeah, there was a

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<v Speaker 16>Bugs Life, and there was Bugs.

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<v Speaker 17>Life, perfect movie, no notes, Untouchable, the B movie Yes, Okay.

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<v Speaker 6>Thank You isn't actually bad.

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<v Speaker 11>It isn't terrible. It's a B movie though.

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<v Speaker 16>Yeah, B movie's pretty bad. But Seinfeld as a whole

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<v Speaker 16>I've never really been that big a fan of I

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<v Speaker 16>know people say, oh, you don't get his comedy. He

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<v Speaker 16>likes pointing out the mundane, Like I just think he's

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<v Speaker 16>out of touch. I don't want to hear a billionaire

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<v Speaker 16>tell me what is funny.

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<v Speaker 17>The funniest person on Seinfeld was Julia Louis Dreyfus.

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<v Speaker 16>Yeah, that's the other thing about Seinfeld. He was not

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<v Speaker 16>the funniest part about that show.

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<v Speaker 11>He was not.

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<v Speaker 16>It was her and Kramer. Yeah, and I put Costanzo

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<v Speaker 16>at third.

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<v Speaker 11>It was not him.

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<v Speaker 16>He was the least funny thing about Seinfeld.

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<v Speaker 6>Carol, she's a queen of talking.

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<v Speaker 16>She's getting You're not afraid to fail this episode, so

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<v Speaker 16>just let it flow.

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<v Speaker 6>No one can do. We have a care lne Is

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<v Speaker 6>found Caroline.

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<v Speaker 15>Hey, y'all, it's Caroline Hobby from Get Real with Caroline Hobby,

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<v Speaker 15>And here is a clip from this week's episode.

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<v Speaker 7>One thing your dad said to you one time.

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<v Speaker 13>That he didn't even remember.

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<v Speaker 7>He didn't even remember.

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<v Speaker 15>He probably said it in the heat of him being

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<v Speaker 15>triggered trying to get you to behave in the way

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<v Speaker 15>he needed you to behave because you ultimately he loves you,

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<v Speaker 15>and he thought he needed to keep you safe by

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<v Speaker 15>keeping you in these boundaries that he thought you needed

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<v Speaker 15>to be in, which you obviously didn't. But like he's

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<v Speaker 15>trying to love you in the best way he knows how,

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<v Speaker 15>but he just mess it up because it's human and

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<v Speaker 15>it's one thing he said that shaped your whole life.

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<v Speaker 15>Let's talk about that story, because it's just like so

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<v Speaker 15>many of us can relate to this and giving your

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<v Speaker 15>dad so much grace.

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<v Speaker 13>Which I do, you know, and both of us are

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<v Speaker 13>crying speaking this.

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<v Speaker 7>It's apparent child relationship is so difficult.

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<v Speaker 13>It's so difficult. I think, Yeah, I think what you

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<v Speaker 13>just said. I'm going to go back and listen to

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<v Speaker 13>this podcast and have my dad hear what you just said. Actually,

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<v Speaker 13>because it's so powerful and it's so healing to acknowledge

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<v Speaker 13>our parents for being human and at the same time,

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<v Speaker 13>you know, owning that what happened to us was real, right,

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<v Speaker 13>And so my dad and so I had my dad

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<v Speaker 13>read this chapter a year ago because I had finished

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<v Speaker 13>the book and I knew he needed to read it

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<v Speaker 13>well in advance.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh yeah, oh yeah, that's a big one.

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<v Speaker 13>And we didn't talk for two months. He was very

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<v Speaker 13>upset by it.

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<v Speaker 7>It was a big one.

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<v Speaker 13>It's a big one. Yeah, and he wanted he was

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<v Speaker 13>the one that wanted to talk to me, actually, but

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<v Speaker 13>I had held a boundary and just kind of got

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<v Speaker 13>a little messy, as parent child relationships do, even in

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<v Speaker 13>your forties.

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<v Speaker 7>Well in your forties is when you started to have

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<v Speaker 7>the real.

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<v Speaker 13>Reckoning, correct, And that's what I'm amen.

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<v Speaker 15>It's a transition from you're not the kid anymore. You've

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<v Speaker 15>done your work, yes, and maybe you've even healed some

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<v Speaker 15>beyond what your dad was capable of because you have

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<v Speaker 15>new resources.

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<v Speaker 13>Well that's exactly what had happened. There was a reckoning.

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<v Speaker 13>So we met for breakfast after not talking for a while,

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<v Speaker 13>and I looking back on that moment, I know that

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<v Speaker 13>I wrote this book like my higher self, like I said,

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<v Speaker 13>wrote this book for many reasons. I wrote this book

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<v Speaker 13>to heal my lineage with my dad. You know, he

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<v Speaker 13>was so shocked and hurt that.

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<v Speaker 7>You have no idea that you felt this way. No,

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<v Speaker 7>because he was in survival.

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<v Speaker 15>He wasn't survival think about Marguerite honestly bringing it back

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<v Speaker 15>like that's his deep lineage. Yeah, and that's his survival.

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<v Speaker 15>He probably didn't like Holocaust survivors or.

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<v Speaker 13>His parents, his parents. Yeah, most of my family, extended

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<v Speaker 13>family died in the Holocaust. My grandfather, his dad, my grandfather.

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<v Speaker 7>He cave to you.

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<v Speaker 13>Yeah, he my great grandfather did.

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<v Speaker 7>And that's your dad's grandfather.

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<v Speaker 15>Yeah, my dad's craved you and spoke messages over you,

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<v Speaker 15>which is incredible.

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<v Speaker 13>Yeah.

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<v Speaker 7>But your dad didn't have the opportunity to have this easy.

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<v Speaker 13>No, he didn't.

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<v Speaker 7>He experienced it was all hard.

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<v Speaker 13>His upbringing was tougher than mine, and survival dramatically harder

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<v Speaker 13>than mine.

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<v Speaker 15>It's like people were like, oh, let's find some enjoyment today.

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<v Speaker 15>Let's how can we make your day great today?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh?

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<v Speaker 7>Dad, Absolutely, it's like, how can you survive today?

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<v Speaker 13>He had. And it was that breakfast, that reckoning that

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<v Speaker 13>I realized, like, my okay, how do I say this?

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<v Speaker 13>My dad told me in that breakfast that when I

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<v Speaker 13>was ten years old, I pulled away from him, that

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<v Speaker 13>I got, you know, too cool for my dad. And

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<v Speaker 13>he never got over that.

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<v Speaker 7>He never he didn't know how to transition, He never.

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<v Speaker 13>Knew how to evolve, evolve. It made him sad that

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<v Speaker 13>I am mad that I would stop wanting to hold

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<v Speaker 13>his hand.

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<v Speaker 15>But here's the thing I've seen this so many times.

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<v Speaker 15>The age from nine to eleven, girls change. I've seen

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<v Speaker 15>it with like, yeah, a firsthand. That's when you transition

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<v Speaker 15>from the little girl into the teenager, moving on to

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<v Speaker 15>the woman. It's a transitional time and you become a

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<v Speaker 15>new person.

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<v Speaker 13>I know that. But my dad's wounding care girl was gone,

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<v Speaker 13>His little girl was gone, and I get that.

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<v Speaker 15>I look at Sunny and I think to myself all

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<v Speaker 15>the time, this is going to evaporate. Her littleness is

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<v Speaker 15>gonna leave, and like, I miss it already. Yeah, and

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<v Speaker 15>once it's gone, it's gone. You can't ever get it back. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 15>it's only memories and it's gone. It's like disappears.

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<v Speaker 13>And I don't think my dad again had the tools

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<v Speaker 13>and how to reconcile that within himself.

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<v Speaker 7>He was sad.

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<v Speaker 13>Oh, he was so sad, and then his sadness manifested

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<v Speaker 13>into anger.

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<v Speaker 7>We y'all super close when you were a little.

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<v Speaker 13>Yeah. So when I was fourteen years old, my dad

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<v Speaker 13>and I got into a big fight, and in his fury,

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<v Speaker 13>he told me that he was going to call me

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<v Speaker 13>Jessica zero because I was going to amount to nothing.

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<v Speaker 15>And he's just trying to shock you back into line. Correct,

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<v Speaker 15>that's all I was trying to do. He's just trying

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<v Speaker 15>to shock you back in to lines that he can control,

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<v Speaker 15>can keep you safe.

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<v Speaker 13>Correct, that's it, And that is exactly it.

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<v Speaker 7>And I see parents do that all the time.

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<v Speaker 15>That's hard to parent. And I resorted to threat sometimes.

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<v Speaker 15>I'm like, Sonny, you're not gonna get any ice cream or.

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<v Speaker 7>Washed iPod ever get in your life. You don't do

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<v Speaker 7>like what in the world.

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<v Speaker 13>So I can't relate to being a mother. I know

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<v Speaker 13>that that is the hardest job in the world. And

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<v Speaker 13>I said that in my book, like if you want to,

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<v Speaker 13>if you want your ego to be brought to your

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<v Speaker 13>knees to see how flawed you are to have a kid.

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<v Speaker 15>But my point, you run out of and you can't

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<v Speaker 15>get him to do what you want. You resort to

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<v Speaker 15>all these tactics, especially if you haven't worked on your

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<v Speaker 15>own wounds. Oh my god, the tactics that parents can

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<v Speaker 15>resort to are so crazy because you're you got to

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<v Speaker 15>keep your kids in line, because your things, they're going

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<v Speaker 15>to die if stray off.

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<v Speaker 13>And there's just trauma that forms around all of it.

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<v Speaker 7>And you say these things and you don't even realize

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<v Speaker 7>the impact your He.

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<v Speaker 13>Didn't even remember that that one freaking sentence drove my

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<v Speaker 13>entire life until I was forty. I am going to

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<v Speaker 13>prove my dad wrong.

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<v Speaker 7>I'm going to show him about it again. You just

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<v Speaker 7>carried it.

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<v Speaker 13>I just carried inside, and I was like, I'm going

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<v Speaker 13>to prove to all I've ever wanted to do. This

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<v Speaker 13>is why I mean, I've made a ton of money.

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<v Speaker 13>I've had a ton of success. I've had so many

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<v Speaker 13>third party validations with awards and media and book deals

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<v Speaker 13>and dah dah dah dah and money in the bank

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<v Speaker 13>and people telling me I'm awesome at my retreats, and

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<v Speaker 13>my staff loving to work for me.

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<v Speaker 7>Like even validating all I'm about.

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<v Speaker 13>But underneath it all, all they wanted to do is

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<v Speaker 13>make my dad proud of me. Was he ever being

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<v Speaker 13>able to, Oh, he's so proud of me. He's so

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<v Speaker 13>proud of me. But see, that's the thing he did.

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<v Speaker 13>I didn't know that that sentence, that moment, the way

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<v Speaker 13>that he raised me in his own unconscious stuff, especially

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<v Speaker 13>when I was a teenager, became the like under belly

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<v Speaker 13>hum of my entire ambition, And this whole time, my

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<v Speaker 13>Dad's like, my daughter's amazing, tells us all of his

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<v Speaker 13>friends about me. It comes to everything I do, like,

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<v Speaker 13>is so proud of me and has even said it.

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<v Speaker 13>But because I never healed it, and that's why I

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<v Speaker 13>think it open wound.

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<v Speaker 7>It was an open and deep open wa Yeah.

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