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Speaker 1: We have been talking and texting ever since. His wife

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Speaker 1: you were all Stare's your name, Steve, Steve, you were

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Speaker 1: You compused about I hate this letter. We'll be back back.

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Speaker 1: You're listening to Steve Morning Show. But come on, Steve

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Speaker 1: with your part two of the response to today's Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: Let's go. It's kind of stuff right here. Man. That's

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Speaker 1: fun when people write me, I say what I want

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Speaker 1: to say, because you write what you want to write.

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Speaker 1: You're just living your life the way you want to

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Speaker 1: you're too hard on me, Steve doing what you're doing.

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Speaker 1: What you write? Steve gonna say? What do you say?

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Speaker 1: The letter phone confused in South Carolina. I met this

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Speaker 1: I tell you something confused in South Carolina? You're not confused.

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Speaker 1: You are a liar and a cheat. See, let's just

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Speaker 1: You're not confused. You're lying and you're cheating. But what's

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Speaker 1: this because in the very beginning, when your friend hesitated

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Speaker 1: telling you, you you know, women, y'all say what y'all want

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Speaker 1: the cheetah, then guess what we would have nothing? Thank you, Steve.

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Speaker 1: You know we gotta get out of here. Email us

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Speaker 1: Girls Shirley and don't forget tomorrow. Tomorrow at one thirty

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Speaker 1: pm Eastern time, I will be doing the Strawberry Letter

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Speaker 1: live after show on Facebook at one thirty pm Eastern time.

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Speaker 1: Please join me. You can check me out at My

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Speaker 1: Girl Shirley. That's where you can find me, or go

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