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Speaker 1: Tuesday's your new favorite day of the week. I love that.

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Speaker 2: Welcome Awkward Tuesday.

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Speaker 3: Welcome to the Brooke and Jeffrey of course Second Date podcast.

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Speaker 3: But today is always a little special with our Awkward

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Speaker 3: Tuesday phone call. And all I'll say is one of

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Speaker 3: our listeners dabbled in workplace romance and I'm definitely backfired.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, backfired.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: So hey, thank you for all the comments on last

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Speaker 3: week's Awkward Tuesday.

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Speaker 1: We've got so many. Yeah, you guys love it and

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Speaker 1: it makes me so happy.

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Speaker 5: Yes.

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Speaker 3: Sarah Herbie wrote, Oh my god, thanks for posting this

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Speaker 3: so fast. I heard the first half of my way

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Speaker 3: to work yesterday and was excited to hear the rest

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Speaker 3: of it, which I always forget that a lot of

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Speaker 3: podcast listeners listen to part of us on the radio

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Speaker 3: on their commune.

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Speaker 6: Yeah great.

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Speaker 3: Matt Bright just simply said that was absolutely brutal, which

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Speaker 3: I think is a compliment.

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Speaker 5: I think that.

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Speaker 6: Describes a lot of all we have, brutal.

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Speaker 1: So always keep your comments coming.

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Speaker 3: We love it, whether that's on the podcast as or

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Speaker 3: on our socials at Brook and Jeffrey. And don't forget

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Speaker 3: to order your limited edition Second Date Update merch for

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Speaker 3: a cause. But you can get it now. The link

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Speaker 3: is in the show notes. And let's get this awkward started.

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Speaker 6: It's awkward.

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Speaker 5: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 7: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. For years, I would always

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Speaker 7: get the best office gossip from the head of our

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Speaker 7: HR department. She would tell me all of the dirt

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Speaker 7: about everybody here.

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Speaker 6: I know exactly what you're talking about. I'm not sure

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Speaker 6: why they let her go.

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Speaker 1: Wait, she get you dirt.

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Speaker 6: Oh, she's give me dirt.

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Speaker 3: Took about best, but apparently she was talking about.

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Speaker 7: Me to Oh, I know some stuff about you. But look,

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Speaker 7: certain work issues are too awkward to bring to HR.

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Speaker 7: Then you got to take the elevator all the way

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Speaker 7: down to the basement of morality and be honest.

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Speaker 1: HR is only there to protect the company, not protecting.

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Speaker 6: And we're I'm able to protect anybody.

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Speaker 7: That's why you can always tell us whatever's going on

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Speaker 7: in your life, which is why our listener Dave has

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Speaker 7: reached out with a work problem too scandalous for H.

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Speaker 6: Dave, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 8: Thank you guys.

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Speaker 3: Are you second guessing your decision after that intro?

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Speaker 4: Well, I have a really awkward situation and I really

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Speaker 4: didn't want to do it on the radio, but I

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Speaker 4: don't know what else to do.

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Speaker 8: Here.

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Speaker 6: We go.

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Speaker 7: Whatever dirt that you want to share, we promise we

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Speaker 7: won't share it with anybody else.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, I'm telling everybody, But I don't know where

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Speaker 3: your office is, so it's fine.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, Well what's going on?

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Speaker 8: So? Uh?

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Speaker 4: Not too long ago, I was at a company and

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Speaker 4: I ended up having a fling with one of my

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Speaker 4: younger coworkers.

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Speaker 1: Co workers, is key. It wasn't like somebody you were the.

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Speaker 4: Boss that I was her boss.

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Speaker 1: That's important detail. It's like a power dynamic you can't do,

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Speaker 7: That's exactly what Brooke tried to do with me when

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Speaker 7: I first started working here on the show as a

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Speaker 3: I never tried to hook up with you, and I

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Speaker 3: still she just did have zero injury.

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Speaker 7: Remember HR told me everything I told you you were

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Speaker 7: taking advantage of. So anyway, that's an awkward situation for

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Speaker 7: you to be in Dave with one of your subordinates.

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Speaker 1: But you did it to yourself.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, and unlike Brooke, she liked me.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, listen, buddy. Just because she liked it, you

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Speaker 1: still can't do it. You're the boss, I know, so, yes.

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Speaker 4: So we were keeping everything on the d L, keeping

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Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, But then we got to.

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Speaker 4: The point where we wanted to bring it out into

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Speaker 8: I felt that way. She felt that way.

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Speaker 4: Yes, okay, but we felt like if we did that,

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Speaker 8: Have a problem.

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Speaker 8: So I thought, yeah, she's right.

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Speaker 4: And I thought, Okay, what I'm going to do is

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Speaker 8: So I put in my notice and.

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Speaker 2: Should have inspired her.

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Speaker 3: You guys, he should have gotten another job before you

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Speaker 3: put in your notice.

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Speaker 4: I was able to get another job less money, but

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Speaker 4: I did get another job for it. Well, so this

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Speaker 4: is the part where it might not have been worth it,

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Speaker 4: because ever since I quit, the relationships gone kind of cold.

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Speaker 3: Wait, how long were you dating before you quit your job?

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Speaker 8: A month?

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Speaker 7: You could it be that forbidden fruit thing where it's like,

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Speaker 7: since you're doing it and sneaking around, it's kind of

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Speaker 4: I have no idea because she won't respond to my text,

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Speaker 4: she won't respond to my call, no explanation, and meanwhile,

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Speaker 4: I'm over here, like what the hell I went and

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Speaker 4: quit my job for you, and now I'm out.

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Speaker 3: I hate to say it, but it sounds kind of

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she just I mean a couple of months. I

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Speaker 4: But the thing was, she was all for it when

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Speaker 3: That's a lot of pressure on her for you to

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Speaker 4: Well that was to quote Adam Sandler, that's information I

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Speaker 3: Okay, maybe it's Adam Sale.

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Speaker 6: I see, you're just looking for an explanation.

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Speaker 8: You want to know what's going on.

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Speaker 6: Okay, that's fair.

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Speaker 7: And it says in your email here that you're only

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Speaker 7: forty six years older than her, so hopefully that's.

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Speaker 6: What I'm just kidding.

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Speaker 8: I'm just.

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Speaker 6: You, guys, it's not like that. It's like they hooked up.

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Speaker 4: No, I don't have dementia.

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Speaker 8: I know what's going on now.

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Speaker 2: I'm worried.

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Speaker 1: Is there a huge age gap between you two twelve years?

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Speaker 8: She's twelve years younger than I'm crazy.

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Speaker 6: That's not crazy A lot worse.

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Speaker 7: It is crazy that she agreed to like tell him, hey,

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Speaker 1: Crazy that after a month he's like, I'm gonna quit

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Speaker 1: I would feel backed into a corner.

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Speaker 6: We weren't there, Brooke. I don't know if she reacted like.

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Speaker 1: That, only that would just be my reaction.

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Speaker 7: Yes, let's come back, We're gonna let Dave call his

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Speaker 1: We don't know for sure.

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Speaker 7: I was gonna say his ex coworker, And we'll see

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Speaker 7: for why she told him, go ahead, quit your job

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Speaker 1: Not on her, put on her.

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Speaker 6: The facts are she's ghosting.

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Speaker 1: That's true.

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Speaker 6: So let's see if she has.

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Speaker 7: Anything to say about it when we come back and

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Speaker 7: do your awkward Tuesday phone call right after this. It's awkward.

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Speaker 7: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. We always ask the question,

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, well, our listener Dave was willing to quit his

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Speaker 7: job for it. Literally, he was dating one of his

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Speaker 7: the best bet is for Dave to leave the company

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Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, cuts out all the awkwardness.

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Speaker 2: It's funny, how normal you read that? But yeah, someone

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that is the crazy. It wouldn't be crazy if

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Speaker 6: They say, what you know you know.

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Speaker 7: But the weird part is a month after he quit,

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Speaker 7: where she's gone. So understandably, Dave is feeling confused and

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Speaker 4: Now.

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Speaker 7: We need to give him some advice, Jose, what do

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Speaker 7: you think Dave needs to keep in mind saying goodbye?

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Speaker 1: Oh, like you're gonna be the one that is okay

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Speaker 1: with the breakup.

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Speaker 2: You tell her you haven't talked to me for months,

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Speaker 2: and I hate the feeling like I'm talking to myself

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Speaker 2: or I'm bugging somebody. So you just say goodbye, thank

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Speaker 2: you for the wonderful memories. I can take a hint

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Speaker 2: and I wish you the best.

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Speaker 1: Are you just saying this from personal experience that they

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Speaker 1: all come crawling?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you say.

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Speaker 7: A minute, take back the power by saying goodbye first.

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Speaker 4: Well, I don't want to say goodbye without knowing what happened.

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Speaker 7: Okay, it's very risky because he does want an explanation.

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Speaker 6: So maybe Brooke, you have some advice on that front.

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Speaker 1: I mean, closure is always hard to come by, Dave.

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Speaker 3: I really think that no matter what you do to

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Speaker 3: with compliments.

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Speaker 1: You need to say how you felt.

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Speaker 3: About her and what a great time you had together,

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Speaker 3: not that, and then maybe just say you know, I

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Speaker 3: was hoping for more time with you. Is there something

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Speaker 3: I can do to make things better?

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Speaker 6: I think Brooke is wanting a compliment from you, Da.

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Speaker 7: Can you just practice on her first?

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Speaker 8: You have a lovely voice, brook Wow, almost believed it.

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Speaker 6: So use some compliments to soften her up.

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Speaker 7: A little bit and say goodbye before she can say goodbye.

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Speaker 6: Take back the power.

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Speaker 2: You're really pretty by.

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Speaker 7: Hopefully that helps. But I'm gonna dial your ex co worker.

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Speaker 7: What's her name, by the way, Nicole? Okay, all right,

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Speaker 7: me write that down, Nicole. I'm dialing Nicole's number and

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Speaker 6: Here we go.

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Speaker 8: Hello, Hey, Hey, it's me.

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Speaker 5: Oh I'm sorry?

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Speaker 8: What who says? It's Dave? It's me Dave?

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Speaker 5: Okay?

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Speaker 7: Hi?

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Speaker 5: Uh?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 8: Wow?

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Speaker 4: I wish you were I wish you were a little

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Speaker 4: more excited to hear from me because I haven't heard

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Speaker 8: You know, I missed talking to you. I miss hearing

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Speaker 5: Okay, Hi, how are you doing.

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Speaker 4: Well?

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Speaker 8: How funny you should ask.

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Speaker 4: That's why I'm calling to see how we're doing, because

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Speaker 4: and I literally quit my job so we could be together.

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Speaker 4: So I just I just want to know what's going on.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I know, And thank you so much for doing that.

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Speaker 5: By the way, that was really sweet, and I promise

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Speaker 4: Well, I mean I did it because you are the

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Speaker 8: I've never I've.

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Speaker 4: Never been with somebody's as beautiful and smart as you are. Well,

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Speaker 4: thank you so much for Okay, I mean, you know,

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Speaker 4: if you're if you're too uncomfortable Lewis on the phone,

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Speaker 4: I can come into the office, we can sit down,

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Speaker 8: You know.

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Speaker 5: Now, I wouldn't do that, and I don't think the

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Speaker 8: What do you mean the supervisor won't let me?

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Speaker 4: I mean I was pretty real wife at that place.

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Speaker 5: I think there have been some changes in staff here

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Speaker 8: What kind of.

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Speaker 4: What kind of changes are you talking about?

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Speaker 8: You'll be a league here? What's going on over there?

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Speaker 5: Okay, well I didn't know how to tell you this,

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Speaker 5: but after you quit, they came to me and they

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Speaker 5: offered me a promotion and it's to your job.

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Speaker 8: Oh well, we wait, what you took my old job?

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Speaker 5: I mean, I make a lot more money now.

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Speaker 4: And yeah, I'm sure you would because I know how

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Speaker 5: I mean, so it was a bit hard for me

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Speaker 4: So I I of course I wasn't there. We agreed

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Speaker 6: Thank god?

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Speaker 5: Who is this? What's going on? I'm not understand what's

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Speaker 1: It's kind of like a conference call.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, with a conference call with a whole morning show

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Speaker 5: I'm I'm feeling a bit ambushed for you.

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Speaker 6: You don't need to, by the way, congrats on your promotion. Yeah,

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Speaker 8: I don't congratulate her.

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Speaker 4: I'm taking my job.

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Speaker 6: Well, why did you.

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Speaker 1: Plan on this?

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Speaker 8: Is this why you got me to quit so you

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Speaker 5: No, I'm sorry, I am just so shocked. I didn't

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Speaker 1: No, totally.

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Speaker 5: It was a great opportunity to pass it up, and

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Speaker 4: But you were the one who told me to leave.

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Speaker 8: You said it would be better for both of us

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Speaker 1: It was it was better for her.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, he brought that up to me. I never went

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Speaker 4: Oh no, no, no, no, you brought that up.

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Speaker 8: To me and I agreed.

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Speaker 5: No, I told you that I was just as shocked

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Speaker 4: Really, I'm going to take you to word now what.

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Speaker 1: She didn't lie him about. It doesn't sound like she

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Speaker 8: No, that she shocked.

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Speaker 4: I find it hard to believe that she's shocked, you.

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Speaker 5: Know, Dave, I really don't want to be rude, but

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Speaker 5: everyone at work really likes me more than you. I

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Speaker 5: reinstated fun Fridays. You took that away, and everyone's really

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Speaker 5: I don't need you to yell at me, and especially

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Speaker 8: Okay, wow, I.

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Speaker 3: Mean it does kind of sound like you you made

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Speaker 8: Yeah, and she dug it for me?

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Speaker 1: Did she.

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Speaker 5: Did?

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Speaker 1: There was no job before you left. It's not like

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Speaker 6: Into the cemetery. He went to the boss and quit.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and he was dating someone that was you know,

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Speaker 1: you can't do that. She was getting a boss and

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Speaker 7: Here's the question that we don't have that I think

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Speaker 7: Dave wants from Nicole, is that why did you ghost him?

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Speaker 4: Like?

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Speaker 7: Why did you break off the romantic relationship with no explanation?

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Speaker 5: So I would say the majority of the things that

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Speaker 5: was something that I couldn't talk to him about anymore.

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Speaker 6: Work is what bonded you together.

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Speaker 7: So once that was taken away, there was nothing left

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Speaker 3: You don't have faith that he would have celebrated your

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Speaker 8: Yeah. Yeah, maybe you could have taken me out to

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Speaker 5: It's his money, yeah, look, I feel really bad and

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Speaker 5: maybe if you're up for it, we could get together

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Speaker 8: In and help you get more ahead.

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Speaker 1: On you said you cared about her. Someone had to

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Speaker 3: It might as well be somebody that you cared about.

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Speaker 4: For her, somebody who puts the knife in my back.

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Speaker 1: The okay on your big promotion.

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Speaker 6: Yeah and cool on fun fridays to really good idea.

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Speaker 5: Thank you. I don't know what else to say. This

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Speaker 4: Maybe I should go in and talk to HR.

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Speaker 8: You know, maybe what we were doing.

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Speaker 1: You're sounding kind of petty my friend.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, oh yes, you can call me Tom.

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Speaker 6: Okay, Oh Tom petty Okay.

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Speaker 8: Dad.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry this played out how it did.

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Speaker 7: And Nicole, I know you're a supervisor now and you

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Speaker 1: I don't think she's going to make It usually doesn't work.

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Speaker 5: Out very well, and you know what, trust me, I

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Speaker 1: Freaking Jeffrey in the morning,