WEBVTT - She's Just Not That Into You Bruh...

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<v Speaker 1>Morning. Everybody is t j Envy, Angela Yee, Charlomagne the day.

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<v Speaker 1>We are the breakfast Club. It's time for ass C

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<v Speaker 1>and E. If you need relationship advice, we are here. Hello.

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<v Speaker 1>Who's this morning? Morning? Uh? This is aunt man Man.

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<v Speaker 1>I enjoy you on Avengers. What's your question? I mean

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<v Speaker 1>my question is, uh, yeah, I'm dealing with some of

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<v Speaker 1>my relationship problems. You know what I mean, I got

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<v Speaker 1>a toxic you know what I mean? Girlfriend? Shall I say?

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<v Speaker 1>And uh? We booked a trip for her birthday to

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<v Speaker 1>go to Jamaica and everything is you know, I mean

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<v Speaker 1>booked in my name. I don't booked up like everything,

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<v Speaker 1>and we just got into this huge argument. She's now

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<v Speaker 1>telling me that you don't want me to go, and

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<v Speaker 1>you know, if I'm to go, then she's not gonna go.

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<v Speaker 1>So you didn't have to just to go ahead and

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<v Speaker 1>just let her do her and just like break this

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<v Speaker 1>whole thing off together. You have been together, bro, bro

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<v Speaker 1>sixty years, six years, and what's the argument about out?

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<v Speaker 1>Be honest, it was it was petty bro. Honestly, I

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<v Speaker 1>think the looker got the best of her, and you

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<v Speaker 1>know what I mean, it was It's just it's pettiness, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>What was the pettiness? You got to tell me what

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<v Speaker 1>the dogument was about? Was she flirted when you flirting

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<v Speaker 1>when it was something in your phone? Or was it

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<v Speaker 1>just an argument? What was on TV? Okay, honestly, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>Like so check this out. We went out to the lunch.

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<v Speaker 1>I took out the lunch, and you know, we were

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<v Speaker 1>sitting there talking about jam make a lazy LAZZI, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and um, I'm literally like in my phone. She was,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, looking up stuff in her phone, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>I just said, you know, and because I'm looking at

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<v Speaker 1>I'm looking at the CDC guidelines or whatever, because you know,

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<v Speaker 1>because I don't I don't have the shot. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>thinking like, okay, well I may need I may need

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<v Speaker 1>the shot to get inside this country. So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>two minutes go down the line and then she does

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<v Speaker 1>the same thing I do. She's like mmm, so I

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<v Speaker 1>you know, I asked her, you know, like, what's up,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, what's going on with you? And she was like, oh, well,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, it's nothing. You know, you you probably would

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<v Speaker 1>get mad or upset about the body. So I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like talk to me, what's going on, like

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<v Speaker 1>what would you do that for? And then she was

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<v Speaker 1>like nothing, It's like turn into an argument, bro, y'all know,

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<v Speaker 1>y'all all get over. I thought you about to tell

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<v Speaker 1>I thought you was telling me you saw a girl

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<v Speaker 1>on Instagram and made you that's what she probably don't

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<v Speaker 1>you give what I'm saying, patty pattiness. So I think

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<v Speaker 1>you're lying, bro, Bro, I kid you not. Man, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have nothing to lie about. Bro, Like you know

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<v Speaker 1>what I'm saying, like I'm taking her out to lunch.

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<v Speaker 1>We're saying we were saying about the trip. Bro. Now

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<v Speaker 1>you let ego get involved, like y'all really about to

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<v Speaker 1>break it off of um m, and if it was nothing, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not why we're about to break off, bro. It

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<v Speaker 1>got it got more serious what happened at DA It

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<v Speaker 1>got serious after that. Basically after that, you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, it turned into you know what I mean?

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<v Speaker 1>Argument on the way home, you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>She was telling me how like she should have just

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<v Speaker 1>went on about her day, you know, she shouldn't have

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<v Speaker 1>went out to lunch with me, and I was extra this.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, she basically caught the attitude out of nowhere.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm thinking to myself, like, Okay, so what the hell

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<v Speaker 1>did I do? How long you said, y'all been together

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<v Speaker 1>six years years? Bro? And she over you already, Bro.

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<v Speaker 1>Like she she she pretended to be mad at you

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<v Speaker 1>just so she don't get a free trip to Jamaica. Damn,

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<v Speaker 1>she don't like you no more. King, Noah, it ain't

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<v Speaker 1>even know. It's ain't even about the free trip to Jamaica.

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<v Speaker 1>You get what I'm saying, Okay, but you're annoying the

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<v Speaker 1>part why I said she don't like you no more?

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<v Speaker 1>No No, I'm like, you know, it's crazy because you

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<v Speaker 1>know she does something that she don't. You know that

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<v Speaker 1>she don't that she would to break it off with

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<v Speaker 1>me and stuff like that. Oh my god, what is

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<v Speaker 1>wrong with you? Brother? I have to get a signed.

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<v Speaker 1>I have to get a plane. B She's been telling

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<v Speaker 1>you she wants to break it off with you. You

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<v Speaker 1>tried to get the trip to Jamaica to try to

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<v Speaker 1>keep but she really don't want to be with you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's to the point where she don't like you. Remember

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<v Speaker 1>we had Gary Owens up here. Well, no, Gary was

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<v Speaker 1>gonna bringing his podcast and he said, you know it's

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<v Speaker 1>over when the smallest things bother you, like the way

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<v Speaker 1>somebody choose. I think he did the same thing Gary said,

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<v Speaker 1>and his wife got upset with him. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>that one something either way. She don't like you no more,

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<v Speaker 1>don't want to be with you no more. The smallest

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<v Speaker 1>things didn't You might as well cancel the trip or

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<v Speaker 1>take it, take the boys to the trip. But it's

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<v Speaker 1>what you do. Pray to God to give you a sign.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it over? And I'm gonna send your wife money

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<v Speaker 1>for a billboard that says it's over. Yo. Okay, But honestly, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>if if I mean honest, if I put it to

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<v Speaker 1>this situation, she wanted to be And it's nice about that.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean it says that we're you know what I mean.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like we have our days where it could be

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<v Speaker 1>like I could come home. Bro. Bro, Bro, Bro what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying. Bro, it's over? Broa take this out? Bro?

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<v Speaker 1>Like nope, no bulls like literally like last week, like

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<v Speaker 1>you want me to tell you that you still got

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<v Speaker 1>a chance. You want me to tell you that you

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<v Speaker 1>still got a chance and this situation is still salvageable.

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<v Speaker 1>She already told you she don't want to be with you,

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<v Speaker 1>Charlott Mayne, take this out like you come home, like

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<v Speaker 1>literally just a few days spy, right, you come home

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<v Speaker 1>and you have candles lit up, you have note sprinting

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<v Speaker 1>all around the house saying, Oh, come in, I got

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<v Speaker 1>a hot meal ready for you to come in, take

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<v Speaker 1>a shower, you know what I mean. She got everything

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<v Speaker 1>laid out for you, everything, the whole nine, and then

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<v Speaker 1>she just switch just like that. Bro. No, it's it's

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<v Speaker 1>it's mental health. Bro, it is what it is. Oh god,

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<v Speaker 1>god everything. That's what I'm saying. Everything to her, I say,

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<v Speaker 1>she like you and it did not work. That was

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<v Speaker 1>watching Hey hey, but as c and need relationship advice

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<v Speaker 1>to any type of advice called us now it's to

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<v Speaker 1>breakfast Club morning. That was Wild Morning. Everybody is DJ

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<v Speaker 1>Envy and Juline Charlemagne, the guy we are the breakfast

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<v Speaker 1>club in the middle of a seat and eat And

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<v Speaker 1>I just want to say that the guy who called

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<v Speaker 1>last Hour, you know, he just needed to deal with

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<v Speaker 1>the reality that his woman doesn't want to be with

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<v Speaker 1>him anymore. Like you can't diagnose her with mental health

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<v Speaker 1>issues just because she told you repeating she don't want

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<v Speaker 1>to be with you. No, more, just use mental health

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<v Speaker 1>as an excuse. Well that's him using that as an

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<v Speaker 1>excuse for her. That's silly. All right, Well let's go

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<v Speaker 1>to the phone lines. We have Nate on the line. Nate,

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<v Speaker 1>good morning, Good morning. What's going on? DJ Shi King asked,

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<v Speaker 1>see any what's your question? Yeah, listen, man, what you

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<v Speaker 1>do when you got two wives that you've been with

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<v Speaker 1>the years together? There was one for twenty five, worth

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<v Speaker 1>for seventeen. But they're still in competition. Huh. He has

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<v Speaker 1>two wives, so he's been married twice. He's been married

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<v Speaker 1>to one for twenty five years. But you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>know that you're gonna come come a little marriage seven years? Right? What?

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<v Speaker 1>Because I'm in a little marriage of seven years. Oh yeah, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>he's been married to one for twenty five and the

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<v Speaker 1>other one seven. I ain't married to either one of

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<v Speaker 1>them because I can't get man unless I changed my religion.

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<v Speaker 1>So they both but my wive, Oh they both live

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<v Speaker 1>in the house with you, same health. Okay one I

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<v Speaker 1>just had a baby with one four years ago. The

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<v Speaker 1>other one we're trying to have a baby for the

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<v Speaker 1>past four years, but we can't. But they origin a competition.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell about you don't love me, you only love her.

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<v Speaker 1>Well that's good. I mean you should want them to

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<v Speaker 1>constantly be in competition with each other and keep them

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<v Speaker 1>on their toes. You went, you went either way, like

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<v Speaker 1>you know that talk. I think you don't see what's

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<v Speaker 1>the problem. Get hurt. I think what's gonna happen is you.

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<v Speaker 1>You put them in competition with each other. Man hating

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<v Speaker 1>on you, envy, hating on you. Nope, no, I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>putting them in competition. I'm just like you chose what

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<v Speaker 1>you chold it ain't tell you, don't do it. But

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<v Speaker 1>everybody bought up. Though. I don't see nothing wrong with

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<v Speaker 1>the competition. I think a little friendly competition is fine. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>let me ask you a question. How hold you bro

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<v Speaker 1>you at age forty four? Forty four, so let me

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<v Speaker 1>ask you a question. You still got enough energy in

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<v Speaker 1>town for two for two wives? I mean, big Doug.

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<v Speaker 1>When when you when you commit will in if they choose,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, put it to you. I put it to

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<v Speaker 1>you like this. They say, let them make a choice,

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<v Speaker 1>right did you tell them and they know what it is?

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<v Speaker 1>And then all you do is bring them together. Now

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<v Speaker 1>you you kind of lose your power because now they

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<v Speaker 1>tell each other, but then come back to you, tobo

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<v Speaker 1>with one to do but the other. So let me

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<v Speaker 1>out of Do they sleep with each other? Man, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what nobody's doing. I just do what I do,

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<v Speaker 1>big dog. I'm saying, you don't know if the women

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<v Speaker 1>sleep with each other in the house like you'll have three.

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<v Speaker 1>Some say but that that doesn't really like I put

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<v Speaker 1>it to you like this. You know now it's a

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<v Speaker 1>way to fake it is a way to make it.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, liter you fake it to make it. It

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<v Speaker 1>ain't gonna last. They don't talk to me like you know, pimp,

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<v Speaker 1>I ain't one of your wives. Now tell you tell

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<v Speaker 1>me the truth. Do they sleep with each other or not?

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, but they yet? All right? They have okay,

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<v Speaker 1>levitre blue? Choose a gas? Big does none of that?

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<v Speaker 1>Is there? A little push ups? Get that blood flow,

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<v Speaker 1>that's all. There's a hit The thing um, competition is

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<v Speaker 1>very good long as it's healthy. It's what makes one

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<v Speaker 1>person describe to be better. So I don't see the

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<v Speaker 1>problem with a little healthy comfort competition in the household Sir,

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<v Speaker 1>When when when is it? Though? When they can get

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<v Speaker 1>comfortable do they ever gonna get you should you never

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<v Speaker 1>let them get comfortable. He ain't got too wild. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't have too wid Bro. You you setting yourself up.

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<v Speaker 1>You got one of them pregnant, the other one having

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<v Speaker 1>a baby. You're setting yourself up. Bro, don't listen to him. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I myself up, but I made my choice, so I

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<v Speaker 1>sleep with it. Don't don't let them get comfortable. King,

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<v Speaker 1>you do your thing? Can you keep doing your thing

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<v Speaker 1>until you can't do your thing no more? When you

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<v Speaker 1>can't do your thing no more, you call us and

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<v Speaker 1>let us know about it. You can't wait till you

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<v Speaker 1>got to take your kids to elementary school on the

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<v Speaker 1>first day of school, and you got two mamas and

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<v Speaker 1>one daddy and two kids and all you're gonna be

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<v Speaker 1>the envy of all the daddy. No, no, no, what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saying to you, I got a grown son. I waited,

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<v Speaker 1>so we was rocking. I waited until my son went

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<v Speaker 1>to college to make another baby. So once I made

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<v Speaker 1>the baby with one, I gotta get the other one,

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<v Speaker 1>the baby from seventeen joint, She's gonna be like, Yo,

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<v Speaker 1>where's Muza? I don't know what you're talking about? Confusing

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<v Speaker 1>but I do know that competition is good as long

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<v Speaker 1>as it's healthy. Keep the competitiveness up between your two

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<v Speaker 1>sister wise, is that what they call I think something

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<v Speaker 1>like that, all right,