1
00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:22,320
Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your big sister Cheeky's and you've reached

2
00:00:22,320 --> 00:00:26,320
Speaker 1: my personal voicemailbox for the Dear Cheeky's podcast. I'm here

3
00:00:26,360 --> 00:00:28,640
Speaker 1: to give you a device on anything and everything you

4
00:00:28,680 --> 00:00:31,159
Speaker 1: need help with. Whether you're going through a breakup or

5
00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:33,640
Speaker 1: having issues with your family, or maybe you have a

6
00:00:33,720 --> 00:00:36,360
Speaker 1: question about my personal life. Whatever the case is, I

7
00:00:36,400 --> 00:00:39,360
Speaker 1: want to hear from you. Remember these are my thoughts

8
00:00:39,360 --> 00:00:41,640
Speaker 1: in my opinions, and if you're suffering from a serious

9
00:00:41,680 --> 00:00:45,560
Speaker 1: issue or hardship, you should seek help from a qualified professional.

10
00:00:45,960 --> 00:00:48,800
Speaker 1: All right, now, go ahead and leave your message at

11
00:00:48,800 --> 00:00:49,560
Speaker 1: the sound of the beeB.

12
00:00:51,360 --> 00:00:52,000
Speaker 2: Hi, Cheekey's.

13
00:00:52,040 --> 00:00:54,120
Speaker 3: Thank you for taking a call from me in the past.

14
00:00:54,240 --> 00:00:58,160
Speaker 3: Or you answered questions about your interior dialogue being Spanish

15
00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:00,960
Speaker 3: or English, and your thoughts on Mariposa about you, and

16
00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:03,240
Speaker 3: I'm hoping you take this call today to take me

17
00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:07,440
Speaker 3: on a deep dive about perfume. I'm a collector and

18
00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:10,800
Speaker 3: a lover. I have several bottles of Reina and I've

19
00:01:10,800 --> 00:01:13,839
Speaker 3: been collecting your mom's perfumes as well. Now, of course

20
00:01:13,880 --> 00:01:16,680
Speaker 3: i've heard you talk about how you helped develop per perfume,

21
00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:19,840
Speaker 3: went to China. All of that tell us about it.

22
00:01:19,880 --> 00:01:23,240
Speaker 3: Go on a deep dive. I have been collecting the

23
00:01:23,400 --> 00:01:28,080
Speaker 3: four women's perfumes that I've seen. There's Forever, There's Jenny,

24
00:01:28,240 --> 00:01:31,399
Speaker 3: they have the same bottle design. There is Jr. And

25
00:01:31,440 --> 00:01:36,720
Speaker 3: Mariposa they have a different but similar bottle design. And

26
00:01:37,080 --> 00:01:39,640
Speaker 3: tell me about it. Were those all ones that you did?

27
00:01:40,040 --> 00:01:42,160
Speaker 3: Were they ones that your mom had any input on?

28
00:01:42,760 --> 00:01:46,840
Speaker 3: And also, as a lover of perfumes, tell me a

29
00:01:46,920 --> 00:01:49,800
Speaker 3: little bit more about what's coming next for you as

30
00:01:49,840 --> 00:01:53,240
Speaker 3: a maker. I actually have created my own the Amnthe

31
00:01:53,440 --> 00:01:56,720
Speaker 3: and Jenay perfumes. I would love to share them with

32
00:01:56,760 --> 00:01:59,000
Speaker 3: you someday. You let me know, let your people reach

33
00:01:59,040 --> 00:02:01,480
Speaker 3: out to my people and I'll get you some sample's girlfriend.

34
00:02:01,880 --> 00:02:03,760
Speaker 3: But yeah, tell us all about it. What was the

35
00:02:03,800 --> 00:02:07,080
Speaker 3: process like, was your mom really involved in all of these?

36
00:02:07,320 --> 00:02:09,720
Speaker 3: What was even the order of the release? All these

37
00:02:09,760 --> 00:02:13,720
Speaker 3: information details I'm dying to know. Let's get into it.

38
00:02:14,760 --> 00:02:18,640
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Alyssa, your voice, it's so like beautiful.

39
00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:20,480
Speaker 1: You should have your own podcast or like do like

40
00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:23,920
Speaker 1: meditation guides or something. You have a beautiful voice. And

41
00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:25,720
Speaker 1: thank you so much. I'm so glad that I was

42
00:02:25,760 --> 00:02:28,480
Speaker 1: able to answer your question before and I gladly will

43
00:02:28,480 --> 00:02:31,920
Speaker 1: answer your question now. Thank you for the support that

44
00:02:31,960 --> 00:02:34,680
Speaker 1: you've given my perfume and my mom's as well. And

45
00:02:34,760 --> 00:02:36,560
Speaker 1: yes I have Reina, and just let me get into

46
00:02:36,600 --> 00:02:39,680
Speaker 1: it really quick. But I do have a working on

47
00:02:39,720 --> 00:02:41,720
Speaker 1: a new fragrance right now. It's going to be a

48
00:02:41,840 --> 00:02:44,280
Speaker 1: unisex and it's going to be called Actually I probably

49
00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:46,840
Speaker 1: shouldn't say the name yet, but it is a unisex

50
00:02:46,840 --> 00:02:49,360
Speaker 1: and it smells divine. It's so beautiful and I cannot

51
00:02:49,360 --> 00:02:52,639
Speaker 1: wait to smell what you came up with the month.

52
00:02:52,760 --> 00:02:55,280
Speaker 1: I love that. That's actually a great name. So yes,

53
00:02:55,400 --> 00:02:57,280
Speaker 1: we will figure it out to see how I can

54
00:02:57,280 --> 00:03:00,720
Speaker 1: get a sample of it. But yes, so I started

55
00:03:00,919 --> 00:03:03,760
Speaker 1: the perfume. My mom would just have these ideas like

56
00:03:03,880 --> 00:03:08,160
Speaker 1: I want a makeup and skincare line, and we found

57
00:03:08,160 --> 00:03:10,280
Speaker 1: the right person and I, you know, did all the

58
00:03:10,320 --> 00:03:13,160
Speaker 1: footwork and handled all the day to day stuff and

59
00:03:13,360 --> 00:03:15,240
Speaker 1: just made it happen for her. And one day she

60
00:03:15,240 --> 00:03:17,000
Speaker 1: said I want a gene line, and I helped her

61
00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:19,520
Speaker 1: with that too. I would find the manufacturers. And when

62
00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:21,560
Speaker 1: she told me that she wanted to perfume a fragrance

63
00:03:21,600 --> 00:03:24,040
Speaker 1: because she loved fragrances, she would always wear tressoor that

64
00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,480
Speaker 1: was like her go to and she wanted to come

65
00:03:26,520 --> 00:03:28,920
Speaker 1: out with her own because people would always tell her

66
00:03:29,040 --> 00:03:30,680
Speaker 1: you smell so good. And she's like, you know what,

67
00:03:30,880 --> 00:03:33,280
Speaker 1: there's something here. I want my own fragrance. And she

68
00:03:33,280 --> 00:03:36,840
Speaker 1: gave me a budget, very small budget. She says, I want,

69
00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:39,280
Speaker 1: you know, here, sixty thousand dollars. Figure out how you're

70
00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:40,840
Speaker 1: going to do it, but I want my own perfume.

71
00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:43,080
Speaker 1: And I looked and I looked, and it was just

72
00:03:43,200 --> 00:03:45,760
Speaker 1: very expensive to make it here in the States. So

73
00:03:45,800 --> 00:03:47,520
Speaker 1: I said, Mom, I'm gonna have to go overseas. I

74
00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:49,880
Speaker 1: need to go to China. And what I'll do is

75
00:03:50,080 --> 00:03:51,680
Speaker 1: have them make it there and then maybe we can,

76
00:03:52,160 --> 00:03:55,160
Speaker 1: you know, replicate it here in the States or whatnot.

77
00:03:55,320 --> 00:03:57,200
Speaker 1: So that's what I did. I was around twenty three

78
00:03:57,240 --> 00:03:59,680
Speaker 1: years old, and I found someone that could help me

79
00:03:59,680 --> 00:04:02,280
Speaker 1: out there. I'm found a manufacturer, and I flew out

80
00:04:02,280 --> 00:04:06,920
Speaker 1: there by myself and it was a very nice experience.

81
00:04:07,400 --> 00:04:09,400
Speaker 1: But the day that I left to China, my mom

82
00:04:09,400 --> 00:04:11,840
Speaker 1: and I were fighting. We got an argument because I

83
00:04:11,880 --> 00:04:13,680
Speaker 1: don't know what, so we weren't talking and I was

84
00:04:13,720 --> 00:04:17,560
Speaker 1: just like, but it gave me that fire within to say,

85
00:04:17,600 --> 00:04:20,880
Speaker 1: you know what, I need to show my mom that

86
00:04:20,960 --> 00:04:24,560
Speaker 1: I can do this, and it just I don't know.

87
00:04:24,760 --> 00:04:27,160
Speaker 1: I freaking killed it in three weeks. I had a

88
00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:30,920
Speaker 1: whole thing. I knew what my mom liked already. I

89
00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:33,200
Speaker 1: knew her very well, so like the scent and everything.

90
00:04:33,200 --> 00:04:35,280
Speaker 1: I mean, because there was no time, obviously, I was

91
00:04:35,320 --> 00:04:37,960
Speaker 1: all the way in China, in Guanzhou to send her

92
00:04:37,960 --> 00:04:40,120
Speaker 1: samples or anything. So I just did it myself. And

93
00:04:40,160 --> 00:04:41,560
Speaker 1: I was like, I know she's gonna be happy. I

94
00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:43,760
Speaker 1: know my mother, and thank goodness I did because she

95
00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:48,000
Speaker 1: loved everything. And that was how the Perfume JR. Was born,

96
00:04:48,360 --> 00:04:50,880
Speaker 1: because we didn't really name it anything. It was just JR,

97
00:04:50,960 --> 00:04:55,640
Speaker 1: her logo, her initials, and that's I think, to this day,

98
00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:58,800
Speaker 1: our top seller. And with the other fragrances that you

99
00:04:58,880 --> 00:05:01,760
Speaker 1: have that are also amazing, I did not. I just

100
00:05:01,920 --> 00:05:04,440
Speaker 1: helped with, you know, choosing the set and saying I

101
00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:06,039
Speaker 1: like it, or maybe we should add a little bit

102
00:05:06,080 --> 00:05:10,200
Speaker 1: of this or whatnot. But everything else the old administration

103
00:05:10,320 --> 00:05:15,039
Speaker 1: handled and my siblings. But yeah, I mean, I love fragrances.

104
00:05:15,279 --> 00:05:17,680
Speaker 1: I always have. I want to smell good, So I'm

105
00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:20,160
Speaker 1: so glad that you're enjoying them, and yeah, I mean

106
00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:22,200
Speaker 1: I totally get into it a lot more because there's

107
00:05:22,200 --> 00:05:24,320
Speaker 1: so much of that story, but obviously we're on Dear

108
00:05:24,400 --> 00:05:26,480
Speaker 1: Cheeky so we can't. But maybe one day I can

109
00:05:26,520 --> 00:05:29,520
Speaker 1: do a Cheeki's and Chill episode to talk about that experience,

110
00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:33,200
Speaker 1: because it was definitely a good one. Thank you so much,

111
00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:35,760
Speaker 1: Melyssa for your question, and I look forward to hearing

112
00:05:35,760 --> 00:05:42,320
Speaker 1: from you again. Okay, guys, next question comes from Joscelyn

113
00:05:43,240 --> 00:05:43,880
Speaker 1: Hi Tiggie's.

114
00:05:43,920 --> 00:05:46,160
Speaker 4: I'm a very big supporter of yours and recently met

115
00:05:46,200 --> 00:05:48,080
Speaker 4: you for the first time doing really the amount of store.

116
00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:50,359
Speaker 4: I've always felt that you were such an inspiring and

117
00:05:50,400 --> 00:05:52,920
Speaker 4: comforting person who I admire very much, which is why

118
00:05:52,960 --> 00:05:55,400
Speaker 4: I wanted your advice on this topic. I'm currently a

119
00:05:55,440 --> 00:05:57,760
Speaker 4: senior in high school preparing to go off to college

120
00:05:57,880 --> 00:06:00,080
Speaker 4: later on this year. My question for you is, do

121
00:06:00,120 --> 00:06:01,840
Speaker 4: you have any advice you could give me, as I've

122
00:06:01,839 --> 00:06:04,240
Speaker 4: never really been away from home or my parents, any

123
00:06:04,279 --> 00:06:06,440
Speaker 4: advice that you'd give on how to navigate through a

124
00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:08,960
Speaker 4: completely new chapter while we're taking on that role of

125
00:06:09,000 --> 00:06:11,320
Speaker 4: complete independence. Thank you for being who you are and

126
00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:13,279
Speaker 4: I love and miss you very much and hope to

127
00:06:13,279 --> 00:06:14,120
Speaker 4: see you again soon.

128
00:06:15,400 --> 00:06:17,480
Speaker 1: Oh, Jocelyn, thank you so much.

129
00:06:17,720 --> 00:06:18,560
Speaker 5: You're so sweet.

130
00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:22,480
Speaker 1: Well, so, I know it is a little scary. It's

131
00:06:22,520 --> 00:06:25,160
Speaker 1: a scary thought because you're stepping into the unknown, you know,

132
00:06:25,320 --> 00:06:29,440
Speaker 1: moving out. It's something new, and you feel that you

133
00:06:29,440 --> 00:06:31,800
Speaker 1: know your parents protect you and you feel safe, and

134
00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:32,560
Speaker 1: I get that.

135
00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:32,800
Speaker 3: You know.

136
00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:35,840
Speaker 1: It took me a while to move out. My circumstances

137
00:06:35,839 --> 00:06:39,039
Speaker 1: were a little different, but when I did, that's when

138
00:06:39,040 --> 00:06:42,720
Speaker 1: I really like stepped into my own and it just

139
00:06:42,880 --> 00:06:46,400
Speaker 1: helps you appreciate the value, the real value of money

140
00:06:46,440 --> 00:06:48,080
Speaker 1: and budgeting and stuff like that. So I think my

141
00:06:48,160 --> 00:06:50,200
Speaker 1: advice to you would be, make sure you have a

142
00:06:50,279 --> 00:06:53,599
Speaker 1: job first of all before you move out, because you're

143
00:06:53,680 --> 00:06:56,320
Speaker 1: going to need means to pay for your rent and

144
00:06:56,400 --> 00:06:59,760
Speaker 1: feed yourself and stuff and budgeting yourself and knowing you

145
00:06:59,800 --> 00:07:01,599
Speaker 1: know exactly how much your rent will be, or are

146
00:07:01,600 --> 00:07:04,320
Speaker 1: you going to roommate and we're going to go grocery shopping,

147
00:07:04,360 --> 00:07:08,080
Speaker 1: because all of that stuff matters. So definitely a job

148
00:07:08,120 --> 00:07:11,760
Speaker 1: is number one. And just knowing that you will have

149
00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:14,040
Speaker 1: some bumps in the road that is normal, and don't

150
00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:18,800
Speaker 1: get discouraged. It's part of adulting, and adulting is uncomfortable.

151
00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:22,760
Speaker 1: But with that comes you becoming your best self, you know,

152
00:07:22,800 --> 00:07:26,120
Speaker 1: and stepping into your own strength and your own courage

153
00:07:26,120 --> 00:07:27,960
Speaker 1: and your wisdom. And that's going to take time, so

154
00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:31,600
Speaker 1: be patient and compassionate. But that is I think the

155
00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:35,360
Speaker 1: number one thing. Definitely getting a job and hopefully finding

156
00:07:35,400 --> 00:07:39,000
Speaker 1: a roommate because carrying that whole weight on your own

157
00:07:39,160 --> 00:07:41,120
Speaker 1: could be a lot, especially if you're moving out for

158
00:07:41,160 --> 00:07:43,920
Speaker 1: the first time on your own. So those are the

159
00:07:43,960 --> 00:07:46,040
Speaker 1: things that I would definitely do. But I think it's

160
00:07:46,080 --> 00:07:48,920
Speaker 1: great that you are willing to do this and start

161
00:07:48,960 --> 00:07:51,480
Speaker 1: your life. I feel like the sooner, the better kind

162
00:07:51,480 --> 00:07:54,200
Speaker 1: of ish and the Latin family, It's like the longer

163
00:07:54,200 --> 00:07:55,920
Speaker 1: you stay at home, the better. Don't leave until you

164
00:07:55,960 --> 00:07:58,600
Speaker 1: get married. But if you are feeling this in your heart,

165
00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:01,080
Speaker 1: then I think that you should try. It's my advice.

166
00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:11,080
Speaker 1: So thank you so much, Justlyn. Okay, guys, next question

167
00:08:11,120 --> 00:08:13,240
Speaker 1: comes from Valerie hi Chieky's.

168
00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:15,320
Speaker 5: I just wanted to stop by and tell you that

169
00:08:15,400 --> 00:08:18,120
Speaker 5: I love your podcast and I love every topic you

170
00:08:18,200 --> 00:08:21,600
Speaker 5: speak about on the podcast. So I have a very

171
00:08:21,640 --> 00:08:24,840
Speaker 5: sensitive topic to speak about, which would be a miscarriage.

172
00:08:25,240 --> 00:08:28,800
Speaker 5: I myself had a miscarriage October twenty twenty four. I

173
00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:33,160
Speaker 5: also struggle with infertility for two years, and I'm finding

174
00:08:33,440 --> 00:08:37,360
Speaker 5: myself struggling and dealing with the miscarriage grief. How did

175
00:08:37,400 --> 00:08:39,880
Speaker 5: you deal with miscarriage grief? And I know this pain

176
00:08:39,960 --> 00:08:43,439
Speaker 5: never ends, but how are you dealing with the miscarriage grief?

177
00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:46,520
Speaker 5: I would love for you to respond back and give

178
00:08:46,559 --> 00:08:49,160
Speaker 5: me some tips of how you're dealing with your miscarriage grief.

179
00:08:49,280 --> 00:08:52,960
Speaker 1: Thank you, oh Valerie, thank you so much. Thank you

180
00:08:53,480 --> 00:08:57,760
Speaker 1: first and foremost for supporting being a listener and loving

181
00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:00,760
Speaker 1: my podcast. It means a lot to me. Love the feedback.

182
00:09:01,640 --> 00:09:05,080
Speaker 1: And yes, so miscarriage, Yeah, that was That was a

183
00:09:05,120 --> 00:09:05,640
Speaker 1: tough one.

184
00:09:05,720 --> 00:09:06,079
Speaker 2: It was.

185
00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:10,640
Speaker 1: It was hard. I think what helped me was definitely

186
00:09:10,840 --> 00:09:13,880
Speaker 1: like my faith in God and just knowing and I

187
00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:16,000
Speaker 1: know it sounds cliche and stuff, but like knowing that

188
00:09:16,080 --> 00:09:19,920
Speaker 1: everything does happen for a reason. Also, when I spoke

189
00:09:19,960 --> 00:09:22,280
Speaker 1: to my doctor and my doctor said that most likely

190
00:09:22,920 --> 00:09:26,280
Speaker 1: it wasn't a healthy egg, that also made me feel

191
00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:28,080
Speaker 1: a little bit better. You know, I'm like, Okay, well

192
00:09:28,120 --> 00:09:31,920
Speaker 1: maybe that's just God, you know, helping me make the

193
00:09:31,960 --> 00:09:34,280
Speaker 1: decision for me so I don't have to make the

194
00:09:34,280 --> 00:09:37,040
Speaker 1: decision later. Kind of that also helped me, gave me

195
00:09:37,080 --> 00:09:39,960
Speaker 1: more peace and just you know, leaning on God is

196
00:09:40,080 --> 00:09:43,000
Speaker 1: what really helped me, you know, and and my partner

197
00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:46,439
Speaker 1: and having his support too and medios. But I prayed

198
00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:49,880
Speaker 1: myself through it and I was like, you know, God,

199
00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:52,480
Speaker 1: if this is your will, then helped me accept it,

200
00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:55,440
Speaker 1: heal my heart. And when I think about it is

201
00:09:55,480 --> 00:09:57,920
Speaker 1: something that kind of just tugs at my at the

202
00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:00,280
Speaker 1: strings of my heart a little bit. But I know

203
00:10:00,320 --> 00:10:02,920
Speaker 1: that I have a little angel in you know, in

204
00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:07,760
Speaker 1: heaven and is you know, there to give me love from.

205
00:10:08,040 --> 00:10:10,480
Speaker 1: It's just I know it's just so hard. I get it,

206
00:10:11,600 --> 00:10:14,199
Speaker 1: but it's just going to take time. It happened in October,

207
00:10:14,280 --> 00:10:18,240
Speaker 1: mine happened in June, so so just know it's going

208
00:10:18,320 --> 00:10:20,480
Speaker 1: to take a little bit of time and time heals.

209
00:10:20,559 --> 00:10:23,080
Speaker 1: And just know that God knows what he's doing. God

210
00:10:23,120 --> 00:10:26,840
Speaker 1: knows when, why, and how, so you'll have your rainbow baby.

211
00:10:26,840 --> 00:10:28,640
Speaker 1: Have faith that you'll have a rainbow baby. I didn't

212
00:10:28,640 --> 00:10:31,000
Speaker 1: know what a rainbow baby was until I had my miscarriage.

213
00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:34,240
Speaker 1: So I will be praying for both of our uteruses

214
00:10:35,280 --> 00:10:38,040
Speaker 1: and praying for God's will to be done. But I'm

215
00:10:38,040 --> 00:10:40,520
Speaker 1: sending you a big hug valery because I know there's

216
00:10:41,000 --> 00:10:44,839
Speaker 1: I'm even like it's tough. I feel like with situations

217
00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:47,000
Speaker 1: like this, there's really nothing that anyone can tell you

218
00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:49,480
Speaker 1: to make you feel better. But all I could say

219
00:10:49,559 --> 00:10:51,240
Speaker 1: is that the faith I had in God and I

220
00:10:51,280 --> 00:10:53,800
Speaker 1: haven't God, should I say it really helped me through.

221
00:10:53,880 --> 00:10:59,640
Speaker 1: So sending you a big hug. K Okay, guys, So

222
00:10:59,679 --> 00:11:02,880
Speaker 1: next question comes. The last question actually comes from Emily.

223
00:11:03,679 --> 00:11:06,720
Speaker 2: Hey, Cheeky, how are you. I hope you're doing well.

224
00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:11,640
Speaker 2: And my question to you is what is the most

225
00:11:11,760 --> 00:11:15,040
Speaker 2: valuable thing to you? And I'm just curious to know.

226
00:11:15,559 --> 00:11:19,280
Speaker 2: I love you and I watch all your podcasts all

227
00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:23,880
Speaker 2: the time, like I always look forward to them, and yeah,

228
00:11:23,920 --> 00:11:27,120
Speaker 2: and I always tell my friends family about it. And

229
00:11:27,160 --> 00:11:29,679
Speaker 2: I really love the advice you give on the podcast.

230
00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:34,120
Speaker 2: I appreciate your honest opinions. And yeah, I love your

231
00:11:34,160 --> 00:11:36,920
Speaker 2: Cheeky's hope you have a wonderful day. Bye.

232
00:11:38,120 --> 00:11:40,000
Speaker 1: Oh I love this. I love when people tell me

233
00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:42,760
Speaker 1: they love my podcast. Thank you guys so much for listening,

234
00:11:42,760 --> 00:11:45,720
Speaker 1: for taking the time and coming back and you know,

235
00:11:46,280 --> 00:11:50,400
Speaker 1: feeding your soul with positive things. So thank you so much.

236
00:11:50,440 --> 00:11:52,600
Speaker 1: And Emily in regards to your question. That's a good question.

237
00:11:52,640 --> 00:11:54,160
Speaker 1: It's so crazy because I'm like, I feel like I

238
00:11:54,200 --> 00:11:56,160
Speaker 1: can give advice all day long, but then you ask

239
00:11:56,240 --> 00:11:59,640
Speaker 1: me a question and I'm like, oh, wait, what is

240
00:11:59,679 --> 00:12:02,240
Speaker 1: the most valuable thing to me or what's valuable to

241
00:12:02,280 --> 00:12:06,080
Speaker 1: me more than like a materialistic thing. Emily, I'd have

242
00:12:06,160 --> 00:12:11,760
Speaker 1: to say, I think honesty is very valuable to me

243
00:12:11,840 --> 00:12:17,600
Speaker 1: because with honesty comes integrity, and comes trust and so

244
00:12:17,720 --> 00:12:20,160
Speaker 1: many other things. I think when you are able to

245
00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:24,439
Speaker 1: be honest with yourself and with the world, I think

246
00:12:25,480 --> 00:12:30,120
Speaker 1: that definitely gives you a lot of power within yourself.

247
00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:33,000
Speaker 1: So I feel like that's very, very valuable to me,

248
00:12:33,160 --> 00:12:36,640
Speaker 1: is honesty, Honesty with myself, honesty with others, people being

249
00:12:36,640 --> 00:12:39,800
Speaker 1: honest with me. So that's the first thing that popped

250
00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:41,720
Speaker 1: into my head when you were asking the question. So,

251
00:12:42,000 --> 00:12:43,520
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm sure there's other things that are very

252
00:12:43,600 --> 00:12:46,040
Speaker 1: valuable to me, but that's the first thing that came up.

253
00:12:46,160 --> 00:12:50,800
Speaker 1: And actually, Emily talking about a materialistic thing, because maybe

254
00:12:50,840 --> 00:12:52,520
Speaker 1: if you asked me this question when I was younger,

255
00:12:52,600 --> 00:12:54,520
Speaker 1: I'd think like, oh my gosh, like a purse or

256
00:12:54,520 --> 00:12:58,640
Speaker 1: some shoes or something. I don't know, But now I

257
00:12:58,679 --> 00:13:02,760
Speaker 1: think if I had to choose something that was materialistic,

258
00:13:02,840 --> 00:13:08,280
Speaker 1: I guess something you know, physical. I would probably for

259
00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:11,199
Speaker 1: sure take my ring, my wedding ring. It's very important

260
00:13:11,200 --> 00:13:15,400
Speaker 1: to me. That's definitely valuable for so many reasons, not

261
00:13:15,520 --> 00:13:17,079
Speaker 1: just because you know, I media gave it to me

262
00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:18,720
Speaker 1: and it's a beautiful ring. I love it, but also

263
00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:20,920
Speaker 1: because what it stands for, what it means, what it represents.

264
00:13:22,400 --> 00:13:26,600
Speaker 1: My dogs are very valuable, you know. Other than that,

265
00:13:26,840 --> 00:13:30,800
Speaker 1: I think that's it. Like even my mom's stuff, for instance,

266
00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:34,360
Speaker 1: that for so long I held onto because they gave

267
00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:37,320
Speaker 1: me comfort. I had a dress, I had some of

268
00:13:37,360 --> 00:13:42,880
Speaker 1: her hair before, and those things I think were keeping

269
00:13:42,920 --> 00:13:48,640
Speaker 1: me from completely healing. So I let them go and

270
00:13:49,240 --> 00:13:51,079
Speaker 1: you guys will probably see those things in my mom's

271
00:13:51,160 --> 00:13:55,560
Speaker 1: museum coming very soon, hopefully. But I even had to

272
00:13:55,600 --> 00:13:57,360
Speaker 1: feel like I had to. Like my mom, I felt

273
00:13:57,400 --> 00:13:59,559
Speaker 1: like was telling me for so long, like you can't

274
00:13:59,559 --> 00:14:01,360
Speaker 1: hold on to that, You got to kind of let

275
00:14:01,440 --> 00:14:04,440
Speaker 1: it go, you know, And when I did, I felt

276
00:14:04,520 --> 00:14:06,800
Speaker 1: a little bit better. So I feel like my mom

277
00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:09,080
Speaker 1: is in my heart and in my mind, and that's

278
00:14:09,080 --> 00:14:11,800
Speaker 1: where I keeper, you know, because I was holding onto

279
00:14:11,840 --> 00:14:14,680
Speaker 1: those things with dear life and I think it was

280
00:14:14,679 --> 00:14:16,679
Speaker 1: affecting me more than helping me. So I feel like

281
00:14:16,679 --> 00:14:20,000
Speaker 1: like material things I try not to like don't hold

282
00:14:20,040 --> 00:14:24,720
Speaker 1: that much value for me as much as other things. Anyways,

283
00:14:25,120 --> 00:14:27,720
Speaker 1: I really appreciate your question. I like that so you guys,

284
00:14:27,720 --> 00:14:30,480
Speaker 1: You guys can ask me anything, so you know, it

285
00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:34,840
Speaker 1: could be deeper questions about relationships, about love, about even businesses.

286
00:14:34,840 --> 00:14:36,680
Speaker 1: If you are wanting to start your own business, I

287
00:14:36,720 --> 00:14:40,160
Speaker 1: can definitely give you advice. I mean, you know, all

288
00:14:40,200 --> 00:14:42,200
Speaker 1: the advice that I give you, guys comes from my

289
00:14:42,240 --> 00:14:45,960
Speaker 1: own personal experiences, and you know I'm not always right

290
00:14:46,000 --> 00:14:48,080
Speaker 1: and I'm not a professional. Let me remind you, guys,

291
00:14:48,680 --> 00:14:52,080
Speaker 1: but I definitely will give you the best advice that

292
00:14:52,120 --> 00:14:54,520
Speaker 1: I possibly can. I have your best interests at heart,

293
00:14:54,560 --> 00:14:56,760
Speaker 1: for sure. So if you have a question, you can

294
00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:59,560
Speaker 1: leave it at speakpipe dot com, slash Cheekys and Chill

295
00:14:59,600 --> 00:15:02,600
Speaker 1: Podcast And thank you guys. Thank you Alyssa, Jocelyn, Valerie

296
00:15:02,640 --> 00:15:05,680
Speaker 1: and Emily for your questions. Mosquio mucho. See you here

297
00:15:05,760 --> 00:15:12,960
Speaker 1: from the next one. This is a production of iHeartRadio

298
00:15:13,120 --> 00:15:16,800
Speaker 1: and the Michael Dura podcast Network. Follow us on Instagram

299
00:15:16,800 --> 00:15:19,800
Speaker 1: at Michael Dura Podcasts and follow me Cheeky's That's c

300
00:15:20,120 --> 00:15:23,520
Speaker 1: h i q u i s. For more podcasts from iHeart,

301
00:15:23,680 --> 00:15:27,280
Speaker 1: visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen

302
00:15:27,320 --> 00:15:28,600
Speaker 1: to your favorite podcast