WEBVTT - Jenn’s Making Waves with Joey!

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, everyone, Welcome back to bach Or Happy Hour.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm Joe and I'm Serena and we are here.

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<v Speaker 1>With Jen from Joey Season. Hi.

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<v Speaker 3>Jen, Oh, thanks for having me today. I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 4>Of course, So you we thought that you were running

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<v Speaker 4>to this podcast from surgery, and when we were told that,

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, oh my god, what is she having

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<v Speaker 4>surgery for? And then we were informed, no, you were

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<v Speaker 4>performing with the surgery. So please give us a better

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<v Speaker 4>understanding of.

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<v Speaker 2>What you got.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know any of this.

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<v Speaker 2>You were in the bathroom.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh Okayri, I was never performing surgery, not performing surgery

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<v Speaker 3>yet I'm assisting. So I'm a physician assistant suon right

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<v Speaker 3>now and I actually took like a little break to

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<v Speaker 3>go on the show. But basically I'm in my clinical

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<v Speaker 3>rotations right now, and so every six weeks I go

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<v Speaker 3>to a different specialty and I'm currently in surgery. It's

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<v Speaker 3>only my second week, so I'm very, very new to

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<v Speaker 3>the whole thing. I know nothing except for the fact

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<v Speaker 3>that I held a gold bladdery yesterday for the first time,

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<v Speaker 3>which was like the weird this thing. Ever, I thought, yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>what was down there? Well, I thought it was going

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<v Speaker 3>to be in there like just watching. I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a studid, I don't know anything. I didn't like

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<v Speaker 3>soady up on the surgery because it was like an

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<v Speaker 3>emergent surgery and the surgeon comes over to me and

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<v Speaker 3>he goes, come here, I hold this thing, and I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, what is this. He's like, it's the gould

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<v Speaker 3>bladder and he was basic and in surgery, like you

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<v Speaker 3>can't like move, like when swind tells you to hold something,

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<v Speaker 3>You're like a statue the entire time. So I was

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<v Speaker 3>just like trying not to pass out, even though it

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<v Speaker 3>was only like a fifteen thirty minute surgery, but I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, literally, you cannot move. But yeah, I mean

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<v Speaker 3>it was crazy and really cool.

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<v Speaker 1>How is this how okay? How is it handed to you?

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<v Speaker 1>Is it is it like in plastic? Is it in

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<v Speaker 1>a in like a little bin?

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<v Speaker 3>Or is it just like no, no, no, no no no

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<v Speaker 3>no no. So we did a laproscopic surgery, which basically

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<v Speaker 3>you don't open up the entire abdomen. You poke little holes,

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<v Speaker 3>like three different holes, and then there's like these like

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<v Speaker 3>big structures and then you can put like basically like

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<v Speaker 3>a clamp thing through to act as your hand. So

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<v Speaker 3>I was holding the clam thing that was holding the

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<v Speaker 3>gall bladder, was kind of exercising the whole gold clatter out.

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<v Speaker 2>I also just pictured Jed there like a hand out.

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<v Speaker 1>Gall ladder Starbucks.

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<v Speaker 3>Hold.

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<v Speaker 2>Literally, that's what I was picturing it too.

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<v Speaker 3>But no, no, it was crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>So you were holding the clamp essentially that was holding

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<v Speaker 4>the gall bladder.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, exactly, Sorry, I just started with that.

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<v Speaker 2>That's okay. We just have no knowledge of this.

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<v Speaker 1>Where you live.

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<v Speaker 3>I love a Miami right now.

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<v Speaker 1>Miami. Oh nice, we're going Uh, we're going to Miami

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<v Speaker 1>in a few weeks.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, Joe surprised with the Valentine's Day trip to Miami.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh that's so cute. How's the how's the weather like

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<v Speaker 1>the second week of February?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, getting no, no, no, no no. So like I'm from

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<v Speaker 3>the Northeast, but like I've been living here for like

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<v Speaker 3>a year and a half now, and I've become a

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<v Speaker 3>true because my friends were visiting me a couple of

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<v Speaker 3>weeks ago and I was like, guys, it's so cold

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<v Speaker 3>outside and it's straight up like seven degrees, like it's sunny.

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<v Speaker 3>It's great. But I'm just so used to like it

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<v Speaker 3>being ninety degrees all the time, So when I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>sweating outside, I'm like, it's kind of chilly, isn't it.

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<v Speaker 3>So it'll be fine. It's gonna be perfect weather, don't worry.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, Yeah, it's gonna be warmer than the New York

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<v Speaker 4>And that's really all we care about.

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<v Speaker 2>Do you have like a favorite restaurant or anything we

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<v Speaker 2>should go to?

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<v Speaker 3>Once? It opened up near five It's called Cassadonna, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's supposedly really really good. It's Italian food, and I

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<v Speaker 3>love Italian food.

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<v Speaker 1>Have you heard a Jaguar Son?

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<v Speaker 3>Yes? I love that place.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, that's actually one of.

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<v Speaker 3>My top You're gonna be obsessed. It's not like it's

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<v Speaker 3>not like one of those big Miami restaurants. It's like

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<v Speaker 3>kind of it's an hotel and it's very very viby,

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<v Speaker 3>and the food is immaculate. I'm so jealous. Are you're

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<v Speaker 3>going nice?

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<v Speaker 2>I'm so excited.

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<v Speaker 4>I walked past it when I was there with my sister. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>it's in like a cute little area.

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<v Speaker 3>It's super cue.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, what brought you to Miami?

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<v Speaker 3>PA School? So yeah, and I'll probably be here until

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<v Speaker 3>I graduate, So another year but it's nice. I just

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<v Speaker 3>I find myself missing the cold weather, which is so really.

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<v Speaker 3>I know, I thought I would never say that. WAGE

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<v Speaker 3>truly think not having seasons makes you go a little crazy,

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<v Speaker 3>which is why I think everyone's a little crazy down here.

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<v Speaker 1>That makes sense. I actually really agree with that. Where

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<v Speaker 1>are you said the Northeast. Where are you from?

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<v Speaker 3>So? I grew up in New Jersey, but then I

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<v Speaker 3>lived in Boston for a couple of years, like after college,

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<v Speaker 3>and now that's kind of where my family's at.

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<v Speaker 1>Cool, Okay, how did you get on? How did you

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<v Speaker 1>get on Joey's season?

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<v Speaker 3>What a question? Well, I got a little dup in

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<v Speaker 3>my Instagram one day and at first I thought it

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<v Speaker 3>was a joke. I was laughing. I was telling all

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<v Speaker 3>my friends about it. I was like, these people want

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<v Speaker 3>me to get on the Bachelor. That's really funny. And

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<v Speaker 3>then at one point, I think when I learned it

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<v Speaker 3>was Joey and it was actually actually gonna be a thing,

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<v Speaker 3>I was really I was like, oh shit, like this

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<v Speaker 3>is kind of happening. I kind of have to like

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<v Speaker 3>talk to my school about this. And I was really

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<v Speaker 3>nervous because I was like, are they gonna laugh? At

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<v Speaker 3>me or are they even gonna let me go? So

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<v Speaker 3>I was nervous to like ask them in the first place.

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<v Speaker 3>But thank god, I'm a very very supportive program and

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<v Speaker 3>they were like so excited for me and we were here.

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<v Speaker 1>What they say? What did they say when you when

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<v Speaker 1>you said? Hey?

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I like I wrote a very skeptic email to

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<v Speaker 3>my program counselor, and so I asked to meet with

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<v Speaker 3>her on a phone call. And when I called her,

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<v Speaker 3>she was likething okay, and I was like, yeah, I

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<v Speaker 3>just want to know if I can go do this

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<v Speaker 3>TV show And she was like, that was the last

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<v Speaker 3>thing I thought you were gonna ask me. I thought

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<v Speaker 3>you're gonna tell me like something happened. You were like

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<v Speaker 3>dropping out of school or something. And I was like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>I'm not dropping out, but I'd like to take a

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<v Speaker 3>little break.

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<v Speaker 4>That's so funny because like I remember so clearly having

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<v Speaker 4>to tell a like my boss at the time, and

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<v Speaker 4>be I was also finishing a post grad so my

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<v Speaker 4>program had so I had to like get like permission

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<v Speaker 4>from both of them to like get time off, because

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<v Speaker 4>if I couldn't get time off, like I wasn't even

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<v Speaker 4>able to do it. And it's just like such the

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<v Speaker 4>way the conversations go is so interesting, and like I

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<v Speaker 4>was telling one of my girlfriends the other day, I

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<v Speaker 4>was like, you know, you go into it thinking people

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<v Speaker 4>are going to be like judgmental or like what the heck,

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<v Speaker 4>Like you're gonna leave like your career for two months

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<v Speaker 4>or to go do this show.

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<v Speaker 2>People are always like so supportive and excited for you.

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<v Speaker 1>Any boss that would say no is just a dick.

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<v Speaker 4>I would be like, I cannot physically give you this.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean I guess if that was the case, but

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<v Speaker 1>like I would be like if I was the boss,

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, yeah, go do it, like you better win.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, what I think it is. Some people just like

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<v Speaker 3>don't understand it and like doubt if you're going for

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<v Speaker 3>the right reasons, like whatever. So I've had a couple

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<v Speaker 3>of doctors like make weird comments at me now that

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like back working, But it's fine. They don't understand it,

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<v Speaker 3>so it's okay.

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<v Speaker 1>That makes sense. I would say most people that are

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<v Speaker 1>that are holding gallbladders on a Wednesday don't really like that. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>So what did you What was your prep going into

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<v Speaker 1>night one? What'd you expect what did you what was

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<v Speaker 1>going on?

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<v Speaker 3>I honestly can't remember anything going into Night one except

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<v Speaker 3>me like shitting my pants like fifteen minutes beforehand. Like

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<v Speaker 3>I was just like so like I.

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<v Speaker 2>Could literally or emotionally.

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<v Speaker 3>Emotionally me literally too, and I was always have some

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<v Speaker 3>kind of Boubel problem going on.

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<v Speaker 2>Just hot girls are tummy issues.

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<v Speaker 3>It's nice ex actually exactly. No. I emotionally it was

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<v Speaker 3>just like all over the place. Like I remember jamming

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<v Speaker 3>out to Taylor Swift to like calm myself down, and

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<v Speaker 3>yeah it was. It was crazy and I didn't have

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<v Speaker 3>any expectations. The only thing I'd hoped for was like

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<v Speaker 3>a spark and like a connection, you know, like you

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<v Speaker 3>go into it knowing so much like like what Joey

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<v Speaker 3>puts on TV. You know, so you're like, am I

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<v Speaker 3>really gonna vibe with this guy? Am I really gonna

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<v Speaker 3>like him? And it obviously worked out really well.

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<v Speaker 1>Ye did you watch the show prior to Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I didn't. I really debated it. I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>do I want to like know everything about him or

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<v Speaker 3>do I kind of want to go into this like

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<v Speaker 3>dating him like normally somewhat you know, and being able

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<v Speaker 3>to get to know things for myself, and I chose

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<v Speaker 3>the latter.

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<v Speaker 2>So had you ever watched the season in the show

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<v Speaker 2>you the.

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<v Speaker 1>Way the show worked?

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<v Speaker 3>Funny enough, the only season I watched was Matt James

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<v Speaker 3>the season Oh nice?

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<v Speaker 2>I was on that line.

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<v Speaker 1>No, but I.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually remember watching Serena. I was like, we're literally the

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<v Speaker 3>same age, Like, how is she so emotionally intelligent? So mature?

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<v Speaker 3>And I like, specifically very much remember you and being like,

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<v Speaker 3>that's the kind of person I want to be, like

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<v Speaker 3>I want to body like that kind of spirit. So

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<v Speaker 3>it's that is so nice.

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<v Speaker 2>That's maybe one of the nicest comins I've ever seen.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you so much.

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<v Speaker 1>That's trying to throw me a KFC birthday.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm not trying to throw you a KFC birthday, right,

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<v Speaker 4>I just thought the idea would be cool.

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<v Speaker 3>That is the best idea. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, wait, let me let me lay this out to Jack. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>you feel like she's gonna understand it the quickly, just quickly.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay.

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<v Speaker 4>So you know how in tik talk, they'll be like

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<v Speaker 4>themed parties, like Shrek theme parties, where it's like everyone

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<v Speaker 4>dresses up as a character and like everything's green.

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<v Speaker 2>It's like swamp vibes.

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<v Speaker 4>I was like, you guys basically had a KFC theme

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<v Speaker 4>pool party. But I'm like, imagine everyone dressed up as

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<v Speaker 4>like the KFC guy or like something in relation to KFC,

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<v Speaker 4>and then you had like buckets of chicken everywhere, and

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<v Speaker 4>then there was signs that were like finger looking good,

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<v Speaker 4>and then you had like games that were KFC related,

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<v Speaker 4>like you can play like beer pong with pop in

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<v Speaker 4>chicken instead of the pong balls. I just think this

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<v Speaker 4>would be so funny. Like I just think someone at

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<v Speaker 4>KOs and I.

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<v Speaker 2>Need to chat.

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<v Speaker 1>I do.

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<v Speaker 4>I do love they should like sponsor KFC should sponsor

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<v Speaker 4>like a sorority or like a fraternity or like just

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<v Speaker 4>even like a group of people at university and like

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<v Speaker 4>throw these KFC parties because I feel like it's like

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<v Speaker 4>for the family, but it's also really good drunk food,

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<v Speaker 4>which like I never thought of ordering KFC as drunk food,

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<v Speaker 4>but like I feel like they should tap into that market.

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<v Speaker 1>I just never really felt this person about KFC.

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<v Speaker 4>I love KFC, but Jen, you said you love KFC too,

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<v Speaker 4>so you get me.

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<v Speaker 3>I love that is like the best idea ever that's

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<v Speaker 3>gonna go in the books for my twenty seventh birthday party.

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<v Speaker 3>Now like that, thank you your pong with the chicken

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<v Speaker 3>popcorn chicken. That's iconic. I've never heard of that.

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<v Speaker 1>I made it up right now, food after Really, we're

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<v Speaker 1>really going in which I'm found for and I do

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<v Speaker 1>like KFC. So if you are listening, I will wait.

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<v Speaker 3>Favorite piece of chicken. I need to know, Like, what's

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<v Speaker 3>your favorite?

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<v Speaker 4>I like either like a piece of dark meat like bonans,

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<v Speaker 4>get on.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, oh definitely, Oh absolutely, yeah, bum, drumstick.

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<v Speaker 2>Wing, I'm gonna go drumstick and thigh.

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<v Speaker 1>Interesting?

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<v Speaker 2>Really yeah, what about you you like?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a wing girl.

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<v Speaker 2>I've never had wings from KFC.

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<v Speaker 4>I like the breast what which, of course you do?

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<v Speaker 2>Joe likes white meat?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I do.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, there's a few jokes. I'm not gonna I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 2>make it.

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<v Speaker 1>The KFC talk right now because this has gone out

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<v Speaker 1>for too long. Okay, Chad, do you feel Okay? So

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<v Speaker 1>you meet Joey, is there that initial spark? Do you

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<v Speaker 1>feel something?

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely? Yeah. It's honestly crazy to say, like crazy to

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<v Speaker 3>think about, but one hundred percent, he just like has

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<v Speaker 3>this like presence and something about that in the way

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<v Speaker 3>we vibed and like our connection from the first like

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<v Speaker 3>initial coming out of the go kart was yeah, we

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<v Speaker 3>just we connected really well.

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<v Speaker 1>And did you did you have any conversations with any

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<v Speaker 1>other women in the house that felt similar to how

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<v Speaker 1>you felt like having us, like being like, oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>actually think he may be into me.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't think so. I think my motto of the

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<v Speaker 3>whole time that I was there was like, don't ask,

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<v Speaker 3>don't tell, don't share, Like I was very much like

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<v Speaker 3>my connection with Joey's my connection. I don't want to

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<v Speaker 3>hear anybody else's. Like I remember a couple of instances

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<v Speaker 3>people will come up to me and I'd be like,

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<v Speaker 3>I gotta go. If you're I gotta go.

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<v Speaker 2>That was me.

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<v Speaker 4>Also, I was like, I'm just gonna mind my business

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<v Speaker 4>and I'm gonna not I don't want to know about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Just ignorance is blissed sometimes in that exactly exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>And who are you? Who are you friends with?

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<v Speaker 3>Do you have priends with?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah? Like, do you have like anyone that you're super

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<v Speaker 1>close with out.

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<v Speaker 3>Of the girls, Yeah, I definitely had a few. Star

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<v Speaker 3>for One's definitely one of my best friends now. She

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<v Speaker 3>lives in Florida, which is nice. It's really close. She

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<v Speaker 3>lives like super close.

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<v Speaker 1>Star Joey looked like they could be.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, Joe did say this when we're watching.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, there was a clip of them on the group

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<v Speaker 4>Date and she was like sitting next to him, and

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<v Speaker 4>Joe goes, oh my god, look at Star.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's say like dark dark features.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, and they're like their complexion. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>No, they totally when they're sitting down, like just like

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<v Speaker 4>next to each other face wise, Yeah, totally look like

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<v Speaker 4>they could be.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, I'll have to watch out for her for some reason,

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<v Speaker 3>Like I never saw that.

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<v Speaker 2>Look in episode three on the group date.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, okay, interesting. I think Maria and him look really similar.

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<v Speaker 3>Actually really yeah. I think it's the dark features is

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<v Speaker 3>what it is.

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<v Speaker 1>What are your thoughts on Maria Maria?

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<v Speaker 3>I love Maria. She's one of my best friends now too. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 3>lover her. We weren't super close in the beginning, Like

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<v Speaker 3>I didn't know a lot about her. She's got that

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<v Speaker 3>one of those personalities that kind of intimidates you at first.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was a little like, do I want to

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<v Speaker 3>know her? Well? I wanted to know her, but I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, oh scared. You know, I'm a little I'm

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<v Speaker 3>a little shy sometimes, but she's like a girl's girls

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<v Speaker 3>through and through, Like I absolutely love her. She's the best.

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<v Speaker 1>And what are your thoughts on Maria versus Sydney? And

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<v Speaker 1>she like, do you know what's going like being in

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<v Speaker 1>the house, Like is everyone aware? Like how much are

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<v Speaker 1>you guys involved in this?

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<v Speaker 3>Well? I think when I was in the house, I

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<v Speaker 3>was really confused what was going on, Like people were

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<v Speaker 3>just telling me this is what she said, this is

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<v Speaker 3>what she said, and like I'm one of those people who,

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<v Speaker 3>like I don't want to form an opinion until I

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<v Speaker 3>actually know what's going on, so I and I never

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<v Speaker 3>felt like I was getting the full story from anybody,

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<v Speaker 3>so I kind of was just sitting there and watching

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<v Speaker 3>it all happen. So I don't know, I think maybe

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<v Speaker 3>things were blown up out of proportion. Whatever it was, so.

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<v Speaker 4>Was like the tone of the house kind of falling

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<v Speaker 4>more towards one side or the other. Was everyone kind

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<v Speaker 4>of just like this has gotten kind of out of control.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just gonna stay.

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<v Speaker 2>Out of it. Like anyone like really like a team

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<v Speaker 2>behind them, not.

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<v Speaker 3>That I can think of or really know of like, well,

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<v Speaker 3>I think maybe Sydney had more of like a team,

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<v Speaker 3>I feel like, and and then there was a lot

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<v Speaker 3>of other people who were also just like in the

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<v Speaker 3>middle and not getting involved. I just think the whole

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<v Speaker 3>thing really did get blown out of proportion and caused

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<v Speaker 3>so much tension. And it's silly because I don't I

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<v Speaker 3>don't really think.

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<v Speaker 1>It was.

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<v Speaker 3>Anything crazy juicy to be like talking about.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, it doesn't.

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<v Speaker 4>It seems like the fighting is the juicy part, but

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<v Speaker 4>like what they're fighting about is like kind of nothing.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Like I love drama. I love to see the

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<v Speaker 3>drama happen. I loved gossip, but like I was, like,

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<v Speaker 3>this is not fun drama.

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<v Speaker 2>It was juicy, like we're fighting to make something exist.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, So Jesse waks In and

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<v Speaker 1>you get the one on one? Are you excited? Shocked?

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<v Speaker 3>All of the bove I think I was really hoping

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<v Speaker 3>for it, but I'm sure every girl was hoping for

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<v Speaker 3>it at that point. But I think based on our

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<v Speaker 3>last conversation that we had, I really just felt like

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<v Speaker 3>it was like the right time for one on one

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<v Speaker 3>just because I don't know, I just really wanted it,

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<v Speaker 3>and so yes, I'm so so shocked getting it and

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<v Speaker 3>obviously just like so excited to like get that one

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<v Speaker 3>on one time with him.

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<v Speaker 1>So when they say, okay, you are going to surf,

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<v Speaker 1>how confident are you? Like, like, I, I mean, you're

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<v Speaker 1>from You're from New Jersey, I'm from Chicago. Like surfing,

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<v Speaker 1>it was you're from Toronto. But yeah you had lakes if.

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<v Speaker 2>You have lakes out there?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, thanks, say surfing is just not no.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, like I'm not surfing in Lake Ontario.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know. Can you surf in lakes?

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<v Speaker 2>No you can't.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>I wasn't gonna point that out, but yeah, no, we

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<v Speaker 4>do have lakes, but they're not surf of all.

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<v Speaker 2>You have to be in an ocean.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So yeah, have you ever surfed before?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I've never searched my life, I think, so, Like

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<v Speaker 3>when I found out I was going surfing, I was like,

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<v Speaker 3>it's just really gonna go. Well, I've always wanted to

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<v Speaker 3>try surfing, like you know, like I'm the kind of

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<v Speaker 3>person who are like is John to try anything, and

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<v Speaker 3>surfing has always been on my list. I think the

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<v Speaker 3>only thing that was stopping me is I'm a terrifying

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<v Speaker 3>of sharks, like I've just seen so many like news

0:18:03.560 --> 0:18:06.320
<v Speaker 3>articles about like people getting short attacked and whatnot, so

0:18:06.359 --> 0:18:10.440
<v Speaker 3>like I was terrified, but I think like my whole

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<v Speaker 3>thought process was okay, like they're not gonna let me

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<v Speaker 3>die on TV, so like this is probably fine, Like

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<v Speaker 3>somebody must have done research about the sharks in the area.

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<v Speaker 3>And then when we were actually.

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<v Speaker 2>Out, you're like so close to shore too. No, no,

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<v Speaker 2>you really just never they could come out of nowhere, they.

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<v Speaker 3>Could just come out of the sand. But I also

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<v Speaker 3>think though, like when I was in the water, I

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<v Speaker 3>honestly felt super super comfortable with Joey, Like for even

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<v Speaker 3>though it was our first date, Like for some reason,

0:18:40.760 --> 0:18:44.480
<v Speaker 3>he has this calming presence about him and like he

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<v Speaker 3>just really he seems like he knew who's what he

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<v Speaker 3>was doing. So I was kind of like, okay, like

0:18:48.760 --> 0:18:50.960
<v Speaker 3>you understand this, Like you're not gonna let me die,

0:18:50.960 --> 0:18:54.000
<v Speaker 3>it's fine. And if there's a shark, like you're gonna

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<v Speaker 3>save me, so it's fine. And I mean I was

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<v Speaker 3>really thinking about it, and I feel like if there

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<v Speaker 3>was a shark in the water and it was choosing

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<v Speaker 3>between me and Joey, like it's obviously going for Joey's.

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<v Speaker 1>Is Joey R? Is Joey your type? Is he like

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<v Speaker 1>the type you usually date?

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<v Speaker 3>This is really bad, but yes, he he might look

0:19:15.160 --> 0:19:17.919
<v Speaker 3>like my ex a little bit. I I have I

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<v Speaker 3>have a thing for Italian guys.

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<v Speaker 4>So okay, no, I like that you admit that, because

0:19:22.600 --> 0:19:24.560
<v Speaker 4>no one ever admits it. They're always like, no, I

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<v Speaker 4>don't have a type, like.

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<v Speaker 1>Like do you do you like? So I always find

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<v Speaker 1>that funny when people like kind of date someone that's

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<v Speaker 1>similar to their acts, like when you first met him?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you seeing like those?

0:19:36.920 --> 0:19:37.080
<v Speaker 3>Is it?

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<v Speaker 1>He reminded, No, no, no, no, no.

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<v Speaker 3>No no no. When I say similar, like in like

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<v Speaker 3>it's like in futures, like yeah, like the Italian look

0:19:45.280 --> 0:19:50.440
<v Speaker 3>he has, like the facial hair, but personalitywise, no, I

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<v Speaker 3>think all my exes are very different, and Joey's very

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<v Speaker 3>different from all of my exes. I think the ones

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<v Speaker 3>that I did in the past not the best.

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<v Speaker 4>So so we're thumbs up for Joey.

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<v Speaker 3>Yes, tons of green flas. Oh my god, I said,

0:20:05.119 --> 0:20:08.320
<v Speaker 3>red flax, green flos, all green flocks, all green flags.

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<v Speaker 1>So then we go we go to the night portion

0:20:10.560 --> 0:20:14.879
<v Speaker 1>where you open up and you're you're more vulnerable. What

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<v Speaker 1>made you make that decision to open up to Joey

0:20:18.680 --> 0:20:19.480
<v Speaker 1>pretty early on?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, Well, I think I've always been like a not

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<v Speaker 3>super emotional girl, and I think that's kind of what

0:20:31.960 --> 0:20:35.080
<v Speaker 3>hindered a lot of my previous relationships from progressing. Is

0:20:35.119 --> 0:20:36.960
<v Speaker 3>like the fact that I didn't want to open up.

0:20:37.080 --> 0:20:41.119
<v Speaker 3>I'm very much I I'm like people oriented, so like

0:20:41.160 --> 0:20:43.400
<v Speaker 3>I love learning about other people, I love catering other

0:20:43.400 --> 0:20:46.640
<v Speaker 3>people's needs. I'm a people pleaser, and.

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<v Speaker 1>So your personal is nobody else's business.

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<v Speaker 3>Right, Yeah, Yeah, Yeah.

0:20:53.040 --> 0:20:54.760
<v Speaker 1>That's how I feel too. That's how you feel, you,

0:20:55.080 --> 0:20:56.919
<v Speaker 1>that's I feel like that's how everyone feels when they

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<v Speaker 1>go on the show. But then the show does a

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<v Speaker 1>good job of.

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<v Speaker 2>Like helping you open up.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, like it's okay to vulnerable and you're like, that's

0:21:03.160 --> 0:21:05.520
<v Speaker 1>not it's Oh.

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<v Speaker 3>I tried to find it, I really did. But I

0:21:07.600 --> 0:21:10.679
<v Speaker 3>was also I wanted to learn from my previous relationship.

0:21:10.760 --> 0:21:13.960
<v Speaker 3>So it's like if the reason why other relationships didn't

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<v Speaker 3>work out was a lot of it was the guy obviously,

0:21:16.760 --> 0:21:19.000
<v Speaker 3>but also me not opening up and being vulnerable, and

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<v Speaker 3>I really wanted to like go into this and give

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<v Speaker 3>it my best shot, and you know, he just made

0:21:23.680 --> 0:21:26.320
<v Speaker 3>me feel really comfortable, and I did want him to

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<v Speaker 3>like get to know everything about me and know and

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<v Speaker 3>for him to know like why I am the way

0:21:32.560 --> 0:21:35.080
<v Speaker 3>I am and things like that. So I just I

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<v Speaker 3>wanted to start off on a good foot.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I think I think it was great.

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<v Speaker 4>And I also think that when you get a one

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<v Speaker 4>on one date on the show, it's like guaranteed private time.

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<v Speaker 4>So you're like, if I want to open up, and

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<v Speaker 4>I think especially like you're sharing your experience about past

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<v Speaker 4>relationships and your relationship with your parents and their relationship,

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<v Speaker 4>so it's very like relevant to how you date and

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<v Speaker 4>like how you view relationships. So I think it makes

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<v Speaker 4>sense that you're like, Okay, I've got this extended time.

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<v Speaker 4>I might not get this again. Like I don't want

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<v Speaker 4>to be opening up to him on a group date

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<v Speaker 4>and have someone come steal him. It's kind of like

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<v Speaker 4>here's your chair.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, yeah, no, I agree. I didn't want to be

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<v Speaker 3>in the position where I was like spilling my guts

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<v Speaker 3>and somebody was interrupting and then he didn't have time

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<v Speaker 3>to process.

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<v Speaker 1>All of that.

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<v Speaker 3>So I was like, one on one is definitely the

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<v Speaker 3>time to do it for sure?

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<v Speaker 4>How do you feel like that conversation went with him?

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<v Speaker 3>I blacked out a little bit. I'm not gonna lie.

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<v Speaker 3>That was my first time ever really sharing my entire

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<v Speaker 3>story with somebody, so it was scary to share it

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<v Speaker 3>with him, even though I wanted to. But it was

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<v Speaker 3>also like another layer of like, oh, a lot of

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<v Speaker 3>people are going to see this about me, and a

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<v Speaker 3>lot of my close friends still don't know a lot

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<v Speaker 3>about like how I grew up and stuff like that.

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<v Speaker 3>So it was it was hard being vulnerable. I definitely

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<v Speaker 3>don't do it a lot, and it was it was tough,

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<v Speaker 3>but I'm happy that I did it.

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<v Speaker 2>And he seemed receptive.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, he was so incredibly receptive and supportive. And I think,

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<v Speaker 3>like the reason why I don't get vulnerable is because,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, like I think people are going to look

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<v Speaker 3>at me differently or treat me differently, and like obviously

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<v Speaker 3>he didn't do that, Like he still saw me for

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<v Speaker 3>who I am, and I was really appreciative of that.

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<v Speaker 4>Do you think if the day portion of the date

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<v Speaker 4>hadn't gone as well as it did, you might have

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<v Speaker 4>not opened up to him, Like do you think you

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<v Speaker 4>were like my feelings are here with this guy, I

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<v Speaker 4>want to like share more.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh my gosh, for sure. I think like if we

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<v Speaker 3>didn't have that connection and chemistry during the day and

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<v Speaker 3>didn't have as much fun as we did, then no,

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<v Speaker 3>I absolutely probably would not have opened up to him.

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<v Speaker 3>But because we did have such a great time and

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<v Speaker 3>he really made me feel safe the entire day, I

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<v Speaker 3>was like, this is definitely it felt like the right

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<v Speaker 3>time for sure.

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<v Speaker 2>Mm hmm.

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<v Speaker 1>How was a fireworks show?

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<v Speaker 3>It was actually a drone show.

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<v Speaker 2>We couldn't figure out what it was.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you were just as confused as I am.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, so because you guys both looked you guys both

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<v Speaker 1>looked really confused.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, I don't know why he looked confused, because he

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<v Speaker 3>knew what was going on. I was super confused. But

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<v Speaker 3>so we were standing in the middle of the cemetery.

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<v Speaker 3>Then I hear like this weird buzzing sound and this

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<v Speaker 3>is where like the conspiracy theorist in me is coming out.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm like, are these aliens? Like what is going on?

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<v Speaker 3>I literally was like it's it sounded like a spaceship

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<v Speaker 3>was landing or something. There's a bunch of lights in

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<v Speaker 3>the air, and I'm like they look like fireworks, but

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<v Speaker 3>they don't sound like fireworks. So I was mega confused,

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<v Speaker 3>and then eventually I figured it out and it was

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<v Speaker 3>so cool.

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<v Speaker 4>No, I'm glad that you said that, because I don't

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<v Speaker 4>know what I thought it was, but I didn't realize

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<v Speaker 4>it was drones.

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<v Speaker 1>If the government actually he had contact with aliens, they did.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, They're like, this is how we're gonna tell the world.

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<v Speaker 2>Forget the aliens.

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<v Speaker 4>Date number one on one, date number two, Bachelor season whatever,

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<v Speaker 4>We're gonna show the world nuts.

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<v Speaker 2>That would be crazy, that'd be a legendary date th

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<v Speaker 2>that that'd be better than the drones.

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<v Speaker 3>That would make my life. Honestly, I don't know why

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<v Speaker 3>they didn't do that.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, we're gonna we're gonna we'll play a game. But

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<v Speaker 1>before we do, if you can, if you could describe

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<v Speaker 1>this season without without spoiling it, do it.

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<v Speaker 2>A little teaser.

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<v Speaker 3>Emotional emotion, emotional.

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<v Speaker 1>You righty, you got the game.

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<v Speaker 2>I got the game. It's very easy.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just like fire.

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<v Speaker 2>Fun questions about you, rapid fire questions.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, everything you say, everything you say, it could be

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<v Speaker 1>a lie. That's what really matter.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh, perfect, but don't lie. I tell the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>When I asked rapid fire questions, usually what I'm saying

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<v Speaker 1>is just like a lie.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, but I would say you're the minority. You just

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<v Speaker 2>panic and panic.

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<v Speaker 1>Lie.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm a panic fly.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't think you will once you see these questions. Okay,

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<v Speaker 4>so question one night out or stay in?

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<v Speaker 3>Stay in? I'm a home body.

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<v Speaker 2>Coffee or tea?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh, coffee, Unfortunately, it's really bad for you though.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, I love coffee.

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<v Speaker 2>Are you more of an introvert or an extrovert?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? Extroverted? Introvert?

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<v Speaker 2>What's your go to drink at the bar?

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<v Speaker 3>Oh? Okay? I recently have been into a little like

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<v Speaker 3>mescal apparel, mixed.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you invent this or is that like going around?

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<v Speaker 3>No? No, no. They have him on some cocktail lists, and

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<v Speaker 3>then when they don't have him on the list, I

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<v Speaker 3>will just ask for it.

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<v Speaker 2>And what do you get.

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<v Speaker 3>I'm thinking of? It's I just get like mezcal and apparel,

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<v Speaker 3>like some club soda, lime juice. Whatever they do, I

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<v Speaker 3>tell them.

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<v Speaker 1>Make it good.

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<v Speaker 3>You should. I love mescal too.

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<v Speaker 2>Would you ever skydive?

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<v Speaker 3>Absolutely?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes?

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<v Speaker 2>What is your love language?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh?

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<v Speaker 3>Quality time?

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<v Speaker 2>What is your favorite quality about Joey.

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<v Speaker 3>Ooh, there's so many. I don't know. Like, I just

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<v Speaker 3>like his presence, like the calmness of everything. He just

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<v Speaker 3>makes me feel so calm, and I think that's my

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<v Speaker 3>favorite thing about him.

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<v Speaker 4>What's your favorite music genre? Ugh, pop, horror movie or

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<v Speaker 4>comedy comedy.

0:27:57.160 --> 0:27:59.840
<v Speaker 3>Wait, I'm changing my music genre to country because that's

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<v Speaker 3>actually probably more.

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<v Speaker 2>Accurate country pop. What's your favorite season?

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<v Speaker 3>Fall? Fall? For sure, fall fashion.

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<v Speaker 2>You're not getting a lot of fall out there in Miami.

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<v Speaker 1>That's why she does like Miami I got to move.

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<v Speaker 4>It is such a real struggle of like I don't

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<v Speaker 4>like the cold, but I like seasons, and you just

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<v Speaker 4>you have to pick one or the other.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah. I also love fall fashion, Like I just like

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<v Speaker 3>being able to dress like sweaters and boots, Like that's

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<v Speaker 3>what I like me too.

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<v Speaker 2>I agree, it's so cozy.

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<v Speaker 4>What is your dream vacation spot.

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<v Speaker 3>That's a hard long everywhere. Maybe somewhere in Asia because

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<v Speaker 3>I've never been to Asia, so I want to say

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<v Speaker 3>maybe like Thailand or something nice.

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<v Speaker 1>We want to go to Asia this year.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we're thinking maybe Japan.

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<v Speaker 3>Ooh, my mom loves Japan. Have you guys ever been

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<v Speaker 3>to Asia?

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<v Speaker 1>I've been to Japan I've never been to. It was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't wait to go back because it was still

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<v Speaker 1>like to this day, my favorite place I've ever been.

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<v Speaker 1>It's so cool.

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<v Speaker 3>So really, yeah, I want to go to like a

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<v Speaker 3>Summer eleven in Japan.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, apparently there's cool sex. I have an allergy.

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<v Speaker 4>I like what, I can't read the ingredient listing on

0:29:20.160 --> 0:29:23.719
<v Speaker 4>like any of the food though, so like I like,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to accidentally send myself ato analytic shock,

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<v Speaker 4>but I want to go for the sushi that's you know,

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<v Speaker 4>I've allergy like a.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh yeah, us actually Google translate peanut allergy.

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<v Speaker 4>And just say exactly, just like, hold it up. We've

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<v Speaker 4>got a system. We've got a system.

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<v Speaker 2>What a dating deal breaker of yours.

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<v Speaker 3>Not being a family guy.

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<v Speaker 4>And last, but at least, what's your favorite food or cuisine?

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<v Speaker 3>What it means food? I love my momkes sebast.

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<v Speaker 1>Nice nice alrighty, Jen, thank you so much for coming

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<v Speaker 1>on Happy Hour. I really appreciate it.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, thanks for having me. I heve me with you guys, of.

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<v Speaker 1>Course, and thank you to all our listeners for tuning in.

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