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Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, Welcome back to bach Or Happy Hour.

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Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Serena and we are here.

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Speaker 1: With Jen from Joey Season. Hi.

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Speaker 3: Jen, Oh, thanks for having me today. I'm so excited.

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Speaker 4: Of course, So you we thought that you were running

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Speaker 4: to this podcast from surgery, and when we were told that,

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Speaker 4: I was like, oh my god, what is she having

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Speaker 4: surgery for? And then we were informed, no, you were

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Speaker 4: performing with the surgery. So please give us a better

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Speaker 4: understanding of.

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Speaker 2: What you got.

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Speaker 1: I don't know any of this.

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Speaker 2: You were in the bathroom.

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Speaker 3: Oh Okayri, I was never performing surgery, not performing surgery

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Speaker 3: yet I'm assisting. So I'm a physician assistant suon right

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Speaker 3: now and I actually took like a little break to

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Speaker 3: go on the show. But basically I'm in my clinical

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Speaker 3: rotations right now, and so every six weeks I go

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Speaker 3: to a different specialty and I'm currently in surgery. It's

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Speaker 3: only my second week, so I'm very, very new to

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Speaker 3: the whole thing. I know nothing except for the fact

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Speaker 3: that I held a gold bladdery yesterday for the first time,

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Speaker 3: which was like the weird this thing. Ever, I thought, yeah,

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Speaker 3: what was down there? Well, I thought it was going

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Speaker 3: to be in there like just watching. I was like,

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Speaker 3: I'm a studid, I don't know anything. I didn't like

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Speaker 3: soady up on the surgery because it was like an

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Speaker 3: emergent surgery and the surgeon comes over to me and

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Speaker 3: he goes, come here, I hold this thing, and I

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Speaker 3: was like, what is this. He's like, it's the gould

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Speaker 3: bladder and he was basic and in surgery, like you

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Speaker 3: can't like move, like when swind tells you to hold something,

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Speaker 3: You're like a statue the entire time. So I was

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Speaker 3: just like trying not to pass out, even though it

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Speaker 3: was only like a fifteen thirty minute surgery, but I

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Speaker 3: was like, literally, you cannot move. But yeah, I mean

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Speaker 3: it was crazy and really cool.

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Speaker 1: How is this how okay? How is it handed to you?

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Speaker 1: Is it is it like in plastic? Is it in

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Speaker 1: a in like a little bin?

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Speaker 3: Or is it just like no, no, no, no no no

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Speaker 3: no no. So we did a laproscopic surgery, which basically

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Speaker 3: you don't open up the entire abdomen. You poke little holes,

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Speaker 3: like three different holes, and then there's like these like

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Speaker 3: a clamp thing through to act as your hand. So

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Speaker 3: I was holding the clam thing that was holding the

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Speaker 3: gall bladder, was kind of exercising the whole gold clatter out.

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Speaker 2: I also just pictured Jed there like a hand out.

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Speaker 1: Gall ladder Starbucks.

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Speaker 3: Hold.

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Speaker 2: Literally, that's what I was picturing it too.

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Speaker 3: But no, no, it was crazy.

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Speaker 4: So you were holding the clamp essentially that was holding

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Speaker 4: the gall bladder.

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Speaker 3: Yes, exactly, Sorry, I just started with that.

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Speaker 2: That's okay. We just have no knowledge of this.

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Speaker 1: Where you live.

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Speaker 3: I love a Miami right now.

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Speaker 1: Miami. Oh nice, we're going Uh, we're going to Miami

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Speaker 1: in a few weeks.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, Joe surprised with the Valentine's Day trip to Miami.

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Speaker 1: Oh that's so cute. How's the how's the weather like

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Speaker 1: the second week of February?

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Speaker 3: Well, getting no, no, no, no no. So like I'm from

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Speaker 3: the Northeast, but like I've been living here for like

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Speaker 3: a year and a half now, and I've become a

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Speaker 3: true because my friends were visiting me a couple of

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Speaker 3: weeks ago and I was like, guys, it's so cold

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Speaker 3: outside and it's straight up like seven degrees, like it's sunny.

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Speaker 3: It's great. But I'm just so used to like it

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Speaker 3: So it'll be fine. It's gonna be perfect weather, don't worry.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, it's gonna be warmer than the New York

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Speaker 4: And that's really all we care about.

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Speaker 2: Do you have like a favorite restaurant or anything we

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Speaker 3: Once? It opened up near five It's called Cassadonna, and

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Speaker 3: it's supposedly really really good. It's Italian food, and I

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Speaker 3: love Italian food.

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Speaker 1: Have you heard a Jaguar Son?

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Speaker 3: Yes? I love that place.

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Speaker 1: Okay, that's actually one of.

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Speaker 3: My top You're gonna be obsessed. It's not like it's

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Speaker 3: not like one of those big Miami restaurants. It's like

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Speaker 3: kind of it's an hotel and it's very very viby,

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Speaker 3: and the food is immaculate. I'm so jealous. Are you're

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Speaker 3: going nice?

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Speaker 2: I'm so excited.

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Speaker 4: I walked past it when I was there with my sister. Yeah,

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Speaker 4: it's in like a cute little area.

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Speaker 3: It's super cue.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, what brought you to Miami?

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Speaker 3: PA School? So yeah, and I'll probably be here until

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Speaker 3: I graduate, So another year but it's nice. I just

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Speaker 3: I find myself missing the cold weather, which is so really.

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Speaker 3: I know, I thought I would never say that. WAGE

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Speaker 3: truly think not having seasons makes you go a little crazy,

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Speaker 3: which is why I think everyone's a little crazy down here.

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Speaker 1: That makes sense. I actually really agree with that. Where

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Speaker 1: are you said the Northeast. Where are you from?

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Speaker 3: So? I grew up in New Jersey, but then I

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Speaker 3: lived in Boston for a couple of years, like after college,

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Speaker 3: and now that's kind of where my family's at.

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Speaker 1: Cool, Okay, how did you get on? How did you

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Speaker 1: get on Joey's season?

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Speaker 3: What a question? Well, I got a little dup in

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Speaker 3: my Instagram one day and at first I thought it

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Speaker 3: my friends about it. I was like, these people want

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Speaker 3: me to get on the Bachelor. That's really funny. And

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Speaker 3: then at one point, I think when I learned it

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Speaker 3: I was really I was like, oh shit, like this

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Speaker 3: is kind of happening. I kind of have to like

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Speaker 3: talk to my school about this. And I was really

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Speaker 3: nervous because I was like, are they gonna laugh? At

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Speaker 3: I was nervous to like ask them in the first place.

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Speaker 3: But thank god, I'm a very very supportive program and

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Speaker 3: they were like so excited for me and we were here.

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Speaker 1: What they say? What did they say when you when

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Speaker 1: you said? Hey?

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Speaker 3: Well, I like I wrote a very skeptic email to

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Speaker 3: my program counselor, and so I asked to meet with

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Speaker 3: TV show And she was like, that was the last

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Speaker 3: you're gonna tell me like something happened. You were like

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Speaker 3: dropping out of school or something. And I was like, well,

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Speaker 3: I'm not dropping out, but I'd like to take a

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Speaker 4: That's so funny because like I remember so clearly having

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Speaker 4: to tell a like my boss at the time, and

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Speaker 4: was like, you know, you go into it thinking people

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Speaker 4: Like you're gonna leave like your career for two months

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Speaker 4: or to go do this show.

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Speaker 2: People are always like so supportive and excited for you.

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Speaker 1: Any boss that would say no is just a dick.

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Speaker 4: I would be like, I cannot physically give you this.

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Speaker 1: I mean I guess if that was the case, but

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Speaker 1: like I would be like if I was the boss,

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Speaker 1: I'd be like, yeah, go do it, like you better win.

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Speaker 3: Well, what I think it is. Some people just like

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Speaker 3: don't understand it and like doubt if you're going for

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Speaker 3: I'm like back working, But it's fine. They don't understand it,

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Speaker 3: so it's okay.

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Speaker 1: That makes sense. I would say most people that are

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Speaker 1: that are holding gallbladders on a Wednesday don't really like that. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So what did you What was your prep going into

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Speaker 1: night one? What'd you expect what did you what was

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Speaker 3: I honestly can't remember anything going into Night one except

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Speaker 3: me like shitting my pants like fifteen minutes beforehand. Like

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Speaker 3: I was just like so like I.

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Speaker 2: Could literally or emotionally.

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Speaker 3: Emotionally me literally too, and I was always have some

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Speaker 3: kind of Boubel problem going on.

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Speaker 2: Just hot girls are tummy issues.

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Speaker 3: It's nice ex actually exactly. No. I emotionally it was

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Speaker 3: just like all over the place. Like I remember jamming

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Speaker 3: yeah it was. It was crazy and I didn't have

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Speaker 3: go into it knowing so much like like what Joey

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Speaker 1: Ye did you watch the show prior to Yeah?

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Speaker 3: No, I didn't. I really debated it. I was like,

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Speaker 3: do I kind of want to go into this like

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Speaker 3: dating him like normally somewhat you know, and being able

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Speaker 2: So had you ever watched the season in the show

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Speaker 2: you the.

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Speaker 1: Way the show worked?

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Speaker 3: Funny enough, the only season I watched was Matt James

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Speaker 3: the season Oh nice?

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Speaker 2: I was on that line.

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Speaker 1: No, but I.

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Speaker 3: Actually remember watching Serena. I was like, we're literally the

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Speaker 3: same age, Like, how is she so emotionally intelligent? So mature?

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Speaker 3: And I like, specifically very much remember you and being like,

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Speaker 3: that's the kind of person I want to be, like

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Speaker 3: I want to body like that kind of spirit. So

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Speaker 3: it's that is so nice.

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Speaker 2: That's maybe one of the nicest comins I've ever seen.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much.

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Speaker 1: That's trying to throw me a KFC birthday.

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Speaker 4: I'm not trying to throw you a KFC birthday, right,

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Speaker 4: I just thought the idea would be cool.

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Speaker 3: That is the best idea. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: Thank you.

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Speaker 4: Okay, wait, let me let me lay this out to Jack. Okay,

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Speaker 4: you feel like she's gonna understand it the quickly, just quickly.

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Speaker 2: Okay.

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Speaker 4: So you know how in tik talk, they'll be like

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Speaker 4: themed parties, like Shrek theme parties, where it's like everyone

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Speaker 4: dresses up as a character and like everything's green.

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Speaker 2: It's like swamp vibes.

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Speaker 4: I was like, you guys basically had a KFC theme

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Speaker 4: pool party. But I'm like, imagine everyone dressed up as

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Speaker 4: like the KFC guy or like something in relation to KFC,

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Speaker 4: and then you had like buckets of chicken everywhere, and

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Speaker 4: I do love they should like sponsor KFC should sponsor

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Speaker 1: I just never really felt this person about KFC.

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Speaker 4: I love KFC, but Jen, you said you love KFC too,

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Speaker 3: I love that is like the best idea ever that's

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Speaker 3: Now like that, thank you your pong with the chicken

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Speaker 3: popcorn chicken. That's iconic. I've never heard of that.

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Speaker 1: I made it up right now, food after Really, we're

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Speaker 3: Favorite piece of chicken. I need to know, Like, what's

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Speaker 4: I like either like a piece of dark meat like bonans,

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Speaker 3: Yes, oh definitely, Oh absolutely, yeah, bum, drumstick.

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Speaker 2: Wing, I'm gonna go drumstick and thigh.

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Speaker 1: Interesting?

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Speaker 2: Really yeah, what about you you like?

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Speaker 3: I'm a wing girl.

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Speaker 2: I've never had wings from KFC.

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Speaker 4: I like the breast what which, of course you do?

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Speaker 2: Joe likes white meat?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I do.

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Speaker 2: Well, there's a few jokes. I'm not gonna I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: The KFC talk right now because this has gone out

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Speaker 1: for too long. Okay, Chad, do you feel Okay? So

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Speaker 1: you meet Joey, is there that initial spark? Do you

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Speaker 3: Absolutely? Yeah. It's honestly crazy to say, like crazy to

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Speaker 1: And did you did you have any conversations with any

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Speaker 3: I don't think so. I think my motto of the

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Speaker 2: That was me.

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Speaker 4: Also, I was like, I'm just gonna mind my business

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Speaker 4: Just ignorance is blissed sometimes in that exactly exactly.

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Speaker 1: And who are you? Who are you friends with?

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Speaker 3: Do you have priends with?

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Speaker 1: Yeah? Like, do you have like anyone that you're super

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Speaker 3: Of the girls, Yeah, I definitely had a few. Star

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Speaker 3: for One's definitely one of my best friends now. She

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Speaker 1: Star Joey looked like they could be.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, Joe did say this when we're watching.

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Speaker 4: Yes, there was a clip of them on the group

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Speaker 4: Date and she was like sitting next to him, and

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Speaker 1: Let's say like dark dark features.

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Speaker 2: Yes, and they're like their complexion. Yeah.

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Speaker 4: No, they totally when they're sitting down, like just like

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Speaker 4: next to each other face wise, Yeah, totally look like

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Speaker 3: Okay, I'll have to watch out for her for some reason,

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Speaker 3: Like I never saw that.

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Speaker 2: Look in episode three on the group date.

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Speaker 3: Okay, okay, interesting. I think Maria and him look really similar.

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Speaker 1: What are your thoughts on Maria Maria?

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Speaker 3: I love Maria. She's one of my best friends now too. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: So I was a little like, do I want to

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Speaker 3: was like, oh scared. You know, I'm a little I'm

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Speaker 1: And what are your thoughts on Maria versus Sydney? And

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Speaker 1: she like, do you know what's going like being in

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Speaker 1: you guys involved in this?

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Speaker 3: Well? I think when I was in the house, I

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Speaker 3: just telling me this is what she said, this is

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Speaker 4: Was like the tone of the house kind of falling

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Speaker 4: more towards one side or the other. Was everyone kind

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Speaker 4: of just like this has gotten kind of out of control.

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Speaker 4: I'm just gonna stay.

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Speaker 2: Out of it. Like anyone like really like a team

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Speaker 3: That I can think of or really know of like, well,

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Speaker 3: I think maybe Sydney had more of like a team,

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Speaker 3: don't really think.

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Speaker 1: It was.

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Speaker 3: Anything crazy juicy to be like talking about.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it doesn't.

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Speaker 4: It seems like the fighting is the juicy part, but

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Speaker 4: like what they're fighting about is like kind of nothing.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Like I love drama. I love to see the

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Speaker 3: drama happen. I loved gossip, but like I was, like,

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Speaker 3: this is not fun drama.

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Speaker 2: It was juicy, like we're fighting to make something exist.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, yeah, yeah, Okay, So Jesse waks In and

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Speaker 1: you get the one on one? Are you excited? Shocked?

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Speaker 3: All of the bove I think I was really hoping

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Speaker 3: just because I don't know, I just really wanted it,

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Speaker 1: So when they say, okay, you are going to surf,

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Speaker 1: how confident are you? Like, like, I, I mean, you're

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Speaker 1: from You're from New Jersey, I'm from Chicago. Like surfing,

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Speaker 1: it was you're from Toronto. But yeah you had lakes if.

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Speaker 2: You have lakes out there?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, thanks, say surfing is just not no.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, like I'm not surfing in Lake Ontario.

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Speaker 3: I don't know. Can you surf in lakes?

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Speaker 2: No you can't.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 4: I wasn't gonna point that out, but yeah, no, we

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Speaker 2: You have to be in an ocean.

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Speaker 3: when I found out I was going surfing, I was like,

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Speaker 3: it's just really gonna go. Well, I've always wanted to

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Speaker 3: surfing has always been on my list. I think the

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Speaker 3: only thing that was stopping me is I'm a terrifying

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Speaker 3: like I was terrified, but I think like my whole

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Speaker 3: thought process was okay, like they're not gonna let me

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Speaker 3: somebody must have done research about the sharks in the area.

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Speaker 3: And then when we were actually.

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Speaker 2: Out, you're like so close to shore too. No, no,

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Speaker 2: you really just never they could come out of nowhere, they.

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Speaker 3: Could just come out of the sand. But I also

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Speaker 3: think though, like when I was in the water, I

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Speaker 3: honestly felt super super comfortable with Joey, Like for even

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Speaker 3: he has this calming presence about him and like he

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Speaker 3: just really he seems like he knew who's what he

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Speaker 3: you understand this, Like you're not gonna let me die,

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Speaker 3: it's fine. And if there's a shark, like you're gonna

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Speaker 3: save me, so it's fine. And I mean I was

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Speaker 1: Is Joey R? Is Joey your type? Is he like

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Speaker 1: the type you usually date?

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Speaker 3: This is really bad, but yes, he he might look

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Speaker 3: like my ex a little bit. I I have I

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Speaker 4: So okay, no, I like that you admit that, because

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Speaker 4: no one ever admits it. They're always like, no, I

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Speaker 1: Like do you do you like? So I always find

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Speaker 1: that funny when people like kind of date someone that's

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Speaker 1: similar to their acts, like when you first met him?

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Speaker 1: Are you seeing like those?

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Speaker 3: Is it?

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Speaker 1: He reminded, No, no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 3: No no no. When I say similar, like in like

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Speaker 3: it's like in futures, like yeah, like the Italian look

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Speaker 3: he has, like the facial hair, but personalitywise, no, I

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Speaker 3: think all my exes are very different, and Joey's very

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Speaker 3: different from all of my exes. I think the ones

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Speaker 3: that I did in the past not the best.

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Speaker 4: So so we're thumbs up for Joey.

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Speaker 3: Yes, tons of green flas. Oh my god, I said,

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Speaker 3: red flax, green flos, all green flocks, all green flags.

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Speaker 1: So then we go we go to the night portion

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Speaker 1: where you open up and you're you're more vulnerable. What

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Speaker 1: made you make that decision to open up to Joey

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Speaker 1: pretty early on?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Well, I think I've always been like a not

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Speaker 3: I'm very much I I'm like people oriented, so like

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Speaker 3: I love learning about other people, I love catering other

444
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Speaker 3: people's needs. I'm a people pleaser, and.

445
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Speaker 1: So your personal is nobody else's business.

446
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Speaker 3: Right, Yeah, Yeah, Yeah.

447
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Speaker 1: That's how I feel too. That's how you feel, you,

448
00:20:55,080 --> 00:20:56,919
Speaker 1: that's I feel like that's how everyone feels when they

449
00:20:56,960 --> 00:20:58,439
Speaker 1: go on the show. But then the show does a

450
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Speaker 1: good job of.

451
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Speaker 2: Like helping you open up.

452
00:21:00,920 --> 00:21:03,080
Speaker 1: Yeah, like it's okay to vulnerable and you're like, that's

453
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Speaker 1: not it's Oh.

454
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Speaker 3: I tried to find it, I really did. But I

455
00:21:07,600 --> 00:21:10,679
Speaker 3: was also I wanted to learn from my previous relationship.

456
00:21:10,760 --> 00:21:13,960
Speaker 3: So it's like if the reason why other relationships didn't

457
00:21:14,000 --> 00:21:16,720
Speaker 3: work out was a lot of it was the guy obviously,

458
00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:19,000
Speaker 3: but also me not opening up and being vulnerable, and

459
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Speaker 3: I really wanted to like go into this and give

460
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Speaker 3: it my best shot, and you know, he just made

461
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Speaker 3: me feel really comfortable, and I did want him to

462
00:21:26,480 --> 00:21:30,800
Speaker 3: like get to know everything about me and know and

463
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Speaker 3: for him to know like why I am the way

464
00:21:32,560 --> 00:21:35,080
Speaker 3: I am and things like that. So I just I

465
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Speaker 3: wanted to start off on a good foot.

466
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Speaker 2: No, I think I think it was great.

467
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Speaker 4: And I also think that when you get a one

468
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Speaker 4: on one date on the show, it's like guaranteed private time.

469
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Speaker 4: So you're like, if I want to open up, and

470
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Speaker 4: I think especially like you're sharing your experience about past

471
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Speaker 4: relationships and your relationship with your parents and their relationship,

472
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Speaker 4: so it's very like relevant to how you date and

473
00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:05,480
Speaker 4: like how you view relationships. So I think it makes

474
00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:07,560
Speaker 4: sense that you're like, Okay, I've got this extended time.

475
00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:09,000
Speaker 4: I might not get this again. Like I don't want

476
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Speaker 4: to be opening up to him on a group date

477
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Speaker 4: and have someone come steal him. It's kind of like

478
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Speaker 4: here's your chair.

479
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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, no, I agree. I didn't want to be

480
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Speaker 3: in the position where I was like spilling my guts

481
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Speaker 3: and somebody was interrupting and then he didn't have time

482
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Speaker 3: to process.

483
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Speaker 1: All of that.

484
00:22:21,840 --> 00:22:23,840
Speaker 3: So I was like, one on one is definitely the

485
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Speaker 3: time to do it for sure?

486
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Speaker 4: How do you feel like that conversation went with him?

487
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Speaker 3: I blacked out a little bit. I'm not gonna lie.

488
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Speaker 3: That was my first time ever really sharing my entire

489
00:22:41,240 --> 00:22:44,959
Speaker 3: story with somebody, so it was scary to share it

490
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Speaker 3: with him, even though I wanted to. But it was

491
00:22:46,640 --> 00:22:50,119
Speaker 3: also like another layer of like, oh, a lot of

492
00:22:50,160 --> 00:22:52,119
Speaker 3: people are going to see this about me, and a

493
00:22:52,119 --> 00:22:55,280
Speaker 3: lot of my close friends still don't know a lot

494
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Speaker 3: about like how I grew up and stuff like that.

495
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Speaker 3: So it was it was hard being vulnerable. I definitely

496
00:23:02,880 --> 00:23:05,080
Speaker 3: don't do it a lot, and it was it was tough,

497
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Speaker 3: but I'm happy that I did it.

498
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Speaker 2: And he seemed receptive.

499
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Speaker 3: Yeah, he was so incredibly receptive and supportive. And I think,

500
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Speaker 3: like the reason why I don't get vulnerable is because,

501
00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:19,399
Speaker 3: you know, like I think people are going to look

502
00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:21,920
Speaker 3: at me differently or treat me differently, and like obviously

503
00:23:21,920 --> 00:23:24,159
Speaker 3: he didn't do that, Like he still saw me for

504
00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:27,920
Speaker 3: who I am, and I was really appreciative of that.

505
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Speaker 4: Do you think if the day portion of the date

506
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Speaker 4: hadn't gone as well as it did, you might have

507
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Speaker 4: not opened up to him, Like do you think you

508
00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:38,040
Speaker 4: were like my feelings are here with this guy, I

509
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Speaker 4: want to like share more.

510
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Speaker 3: Oh my gosh, for sure. I think like if we

511
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:44,679
Speaker 3: didn't have that connection and chemistry during the day and

512
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Speaker 3: didn't have as much fun as we did, then no,

513
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Speaker 3: I absolutely probably would not have opened up to him.

514
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Speaker 3: But because we did have such a great time and

515
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Speaker 3: he really made me feel safe the entire day, I

516
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Speaker 3: was like, this is definitely it felt like the right

517
00:23:58,680 --> 00:23:59,480
Speaker 3: time for sure.

518
00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:00,440
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

519
00:24:01,280 --> 00:24:02,480
Speaker 1: How was a fireworks show?

520
00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 3: It was actually a drone show.

521
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Speaker 2: We couldn't figure out what it was.

522
00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:12,840
Speaker 3: Okay, you were just as confused as I am.

523
00:24:13,359 --> 00:24:16,960
Speaker 1: Yeah, so because you guys both looked you guys both

524
00:24:17,000 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 1: looked really confused.

525
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:20,879
Speaker 3: Well, I don't know why he looked confused, because he

526
00:24:20,960 --> 00:24:24,600
Speaker 3: knew what was going on. I was super confused. But

527
00:24:25,200 --> 00:24:26,960
Speaker 3: so we were standing in the middle of the cemetery.

528
00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:29,760
Speaker 3: Then I hear like this weird buzzing sound and this

529
00:24:29,840 --> 00:24:33,680
Speaker 3: is where like the conspiracy theorist in me is coming out.

530
00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:36,359
Speaker 3: I'm like, are these aliens? Like what is going on?

531
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Speaker 3: I literally was like it's it sounded like a spaceship

532
00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:41,919
Speaker 3: was landing or something. There's a bunch of lights in

533
00:24:41,960 --> 00:24:43,879
Speaker 3: the air, and I'm like they look like fireworks, but

534
00:24:43,920 --> 00:24:47,360
Speaker 3: they don't sound like fireworks. So I was mega confused,

535
00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:50,320
Speaker 3: and then eventually I figured it out and it was

536
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Speaker 3: so cool.

537
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Speaker 4: No, I'm glad that you said that, because I don't

538
00:24:53,840 --> 00:24:55,560
Speaker 4: know what I thought it was, but I didn't realize

539
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Speaker 4: it was drones.

540
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Speaker 1: If the government actually he had contact with aliens, they did.

541
00:25:05,160 --> 00:25:07,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, They're like, this is how we're gonna tell the world.

542
00:25:08,320 --> 00:25:09,320
Speaker 2: Forget the aliens.

543
00:25:10,160 --> 00:25:14,040
Speaker 4: Date number one on one, date number two, Bachelor season whatever,

544
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Speaker 4: We're gonna show the world nuts.

545
00:25:16,320 --> 00:25:19,159
Speaker 2: That would be crazy, that'd be a legendary date th

546
00:25:19,160 --> 00:25:20,440
Speaker 2: that that'd be better than the drones.

547
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:22,840
Speaker 3: That would make my life. Honestly, I don't know why

548
00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:24,440
Speaker 3: they didn't do that.

549
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:28,080
Speaker 1: Okay, we're gonna we're gonna we'll play a game. But

550
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Speaker 1: before we do, if you can, if you could describe

551
00:25:33,320 --> 00:25:38,639
Speaker 1: this season without without spoiling it, do it.

552
00:25:38,560 --> 00:25:39,400
Speaker 2: A little teaser.

553
00:25:42,960 --> 00:25:46,520
Speaker 3: Emotional emotion, emotional.

554
00:25:47,880 --> 00:25:48,840
Speaker 1: You righty, you got the game.

555
00:25:49,280 --> 00:25:51,280
Speaker 2: I got the game. It's very easy.

556
00:25:51,600 --> 00:25:52,800
Speaker 1: It's just like fire.

557
00:25:52,840 --> 00:25:55,720
Speaker 2: Fun questions about you, rapid fire questions.

558
00:25:55,760 --> 00:25:58,840
Speaker 1: Okay, everything you say, everything you say, it could be

559
00:25:58,880 --> 00:25:59,880
Speaker 1: a lie. That's what really matter.

560
00:26:00,480 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 2: Oh, perfect, but don't lie. I tell the truth.

561
00:26:03,359 --> 00:26:06,399
Speaker 1: When I asked rapid fire questions, usually what I'm saying

562
00:26:06,560 --> 00:26:07,920
Speaker 1: is just like a lie.

563
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, but I would say you're the minority. You just

564
00:26:10,480 --> 00:26:13,399
Speaker 2: panic and panic.

565
00:26:13,440 --> 00:26:13,640
Speaker 1: Lie.

566
00:26:14,960 --> 00:26:15,840
Speaker 3: I'm a panic fly.

567
00:26:16,880 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 4: I don't think you will once you see these questions. Okay,

568
00:26:20,640 --> 00:26:23,560
Speaker 4: so question one night out or stay in?

569
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Speaker 3: Stay in? I'm a home body.

570
00:26:27,280 --> 00:26:28,240
Speaker 2: Coffee or tea?

571
00:26:29,760 --> 00:26:32,880
Speaker 3: Oh, coffee, Unfortunately, it's really bad for you though.

572
00:26:33,600 --> 00:26:34,760
Speaker 1: Okay, I love coffee.

573
00:26:35,119 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 2: Are you more of an introvert or an extrovert?

574
00:26:38,520 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 3: Oh? Extroverted? Introvert?

575
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:44,840
Speaker 2: What's your go to drink at the bar?

576
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:51,000
Speaker 3: Oh? Okay? I recently have been into a little like

577
00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:53,440
Speaker 3: mescal apparel, mixed.

578
00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:59,600
Speaker 1: Did you invent this or is that like going around?

579
00:27:00,080 --> 00:27:02,879
Speaker 3: No? No, no. They have him on some cocktail lists, and

580
00:27:02,920 --> 00:27:04,680
Speaker 3: then when they don't have him on the list, I

581
00:27:04,720 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 3: will just ask for it.

582
00:27:06,000 --> 00:27:06,960
Speaker 2: And what do you get.

583
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:09,800
Speaker 3: I'm thinking of? It's I just get like mezcal and apparel,

584
00:27:10,080 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 3: like some club soda, lime juice. Whatever they do, I

585
00:27:13,000 --> 00:27:13,439
Speaker 3: tell them.

586
00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:15,639
Speaker 1: Make it good.

587
00:27:17,119 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 3: You should. I love mescal too.

588
00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:21,159
Speaker 2: Would you ever skydive?

589
00:27:22,320 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 3: Absolutely?

590
00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:23,240
Speaker 1: Yes?

591
00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:25,680
Speaker 2: What is your love language?

592
00:27:27,880 --> 00:27:28,160
Speaker 1: Uh?

593
00:27:28,280 --> 00:27:28,880
Speaker 3: Quality time?

594
00:27:30,400 --> 00:27:32,960
Speaker 2: What is your favorite quality about Joey.

595
00:27:33,880 --> 00:27:40,439
Speaker 3: Ooh, there's so many. I don't know. Like, I just

596
00:27:40,640 --> 00:27:43,720
Speaker 3: like his presence, like the calmness of everything. He just

597
00:27:43,760 --> 00:27:45,800
Speaker 3: makes me feel so calm, and I think that's my

598
00:27:45,840 --> 00:27:47,280
Speaker 3: favorite thing about him.

599
00:27:47,960 --> 00:27:54,800
Speaker 4: What's your favorite music genre? Ugh, pop, horror movie or

600
00:27:54,840 --> 00:27:57,160
Speaker 4: comedy comedy.

601
00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,840
Speaker 3: Wait, I'm changing my music genre to country because that's

602
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:01,240
Speaker 3: actually probably more.

603
00:28:01,119 --> 00:28:06,040
Speaker 2: Accurate country pop. What's your favorite season?

604
00:28:10,200 --> 00:28:13,560
Speaker 3: Fall? Fall? For sure, fall fashion.

605
00:28:13,960 --> 00:28:15,920
Speaker 2: You're not getting a lot of fall out there in Miami.

606
00:28:16,840 --> 00:28:19,120
Speaker 1: That's why she does like Miami I got to move.

607
00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:21,760
Speaker 4: It is such a real struggle of like I don't

608
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:24,639
Speaker 4: like the cold, but I like seasons, and you just

609
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:25,840
Speaker 4: you have to pick one or the other.

610
00:28:26,119 --> 00:28:28,600
Speaker 3: Yeah. I also love fall fashion, Like I just like

611
00:28:28,640 --> 00:28:31,760
Speaker 3: being able to dress like sweaters and boots, Like that's

612
00:28:31,760 --> 00:28:33,040
Speaker 3: what I like me too.

613
00:28:33,280 --> 00:28:34,359
Speaker 2: I agree, it's so cozy.

614
00:28:35,200 --> 00:28:40,959
Speaker 4: What is your dream vacation spot.

615
00:28:41,400 --> 00:28:46,600
Speaker 3: That's a hard long everywhere. Maybe somewhere in Asia because

616
00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:49,000
Speaker 3: I've never been to Asia, so I want to say

617
00:28:49,000 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 3: maybe like Thailand or something nice.

618
00:28:52,160 --> 00:28:53,480
Speaker 1: We want to go to Asia this year.

619
00:28:53,600 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're thinking maybe Japan.

620
00:28:56,320 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 3: Ooh, my mom loves Japan. Have you guys ever been

621
00:28:59,120 --> 00:28:59,600
Speaker 3: to Asia?

622
00:29:00,040 --> 00:29:02,320
Speaker 1: I've been to Japan I've never been to. It was like,

623
00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:05,040
Speaker 1: I can't wait to go back because it was still

624
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,520
Speaker 1: like to this day, my favorite place I've ever been.

625
00:29:07,840 --> 00:29:08,480
Speaker 1: It's so cool.

626
00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:11,280
Speaker 3: So really, yeah, I want to go to like a

627
00:29:11,320 --> 00:29:12,520
Speaker 3: Summer eleven in Japan.

628
00:29:13,600 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 2: Yeah, apparently there's cool sex. I have an allergy.

629
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:20,080
Speaker 4: I like what, I can't read the ingredient listing on

630
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:23,719
Speaker 4: like any of the food though, so like I like,

631
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:27,000
Speaker 4: I don't want to accidentally send myself ato analytic shock,

632
00:29:27,240 --> 00:29:29,760
Speaker 4: but I want to go for the sushi that's you know,

633
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:32,640
Speaker 4: I've allergy like a.

634
00:29:33,960 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, us actually Google translate peanut allergy.

635
00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:40,640
Speaker 4: And just say exactly, just like, hold it up. We've

636
00:29:40,640 --> 00:29:42,120
Speaker 4: got a system. We've got a system.

637
00:29:44,040 --> 00:29:46,840
Speaker 2: What a dating deal breaker of yours.

638
00:29:50,400 --> 00:29:51,520
Speaker 3: Not being a family guy.

639
00:29:52,840 --> 00:29:57,560
Speaker 4: And last, but at least, what's your favorite food or cuisine?

640
00:29:57,560 --> 00:30:01,400
Speaker 3: What it means food? I love my momkes sebast.

641
00:30:02,320 --> 00:30:07,360
Speaker 1: Nice nice alrighty, Jen, thank you so much for coming

642
00:30:07,360 --> 00:30:08,880
Speaker 1: on Happy Hour. I really appreciate it.

643
00:30:09,360 --> 00:30:12,320
Speaker 3: Well, thanks for having me. I heve me with you guys, of.

644
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Speaker 1: Course, and thank you to all our listeners for tuning in.

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Speaker 1: We really appreciate you, guys, And we have new episodes

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Speaker 1: every week and.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for listening, Bye bye,