1 00:00:02,160 --> 00:00:09,600 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time to y'all don't know. Y'all have 2 00:00:09,880 --> 00:00:14,480 Speaker 1: a suit on looking back to back down, giving them 3 00:00:15,240 --> 00:00:20,439 Speaker 1: like American buck things. And it's not me true good 4 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: it Steve har listening to move to other STU please moy, 5 00:00:38,240 --> 00:01:23,640 Speaker 1: I don't join by joining me. You gotta use that turn. 6 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:43,880 Speaker 1: You gotta turn to turn them out. Turn't got to 7 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:55,720 Speaker 1: turn them out. Then turn the water the water. Come 8 00:01:58,040 --> 00:02:03,360 Speaker 1: come on your baby daddy, uh I show well, good 9 00:02:03,400 --> 00:02:06,320 Speaker 1: morning everybody. You are listening to the voice, Come on 10 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:09,119 Speaker 1: dig me now, one and all is Steve Harvey got 11 00:02:09,120 --> 00:02:15,600 Speaker 1: a radio show particular me this morning. Steve Harvey got 12 00:02:15,680 --> 00:02:20,120 Speaker 1: a radio show. Feel with nothing but joy and hope 13 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 1: about it too. You know, it's a great thing to 14 00:02:22,639 --> 00:02:25,160 Speaker 1: be able to wake up in the morning with peace 15 00:02:25,200 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: in your heart and joy. Peace and joy is is immeasurable. 16 00:02:31,040 --> 00:02:33,280 Speaker 1: It has a value attached to it, and I have 17 00:02:33,360 --> 00:02:36,960 Speaker 1: no idea what it is. It's invaluable. It is worth 18 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:39,480 Speaker 1: so much more than than any amount of money you 19 00:02:39,480 --> 00:02:44,480 Speaker 1: can make. Peace and joy. I have not always had that. 20 00:02:45,639 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: I have not always been a peaceful person or a 21 00:02:49,800 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 1: person who lived his life in a joy spirit. It 22 00:02:54,240 --> 00:02:57,560 Speaker 1: took an arrival at this moment. Some people arrive sooner 23 00:02:57,600 --> 00:03:02,160 Speaker 1: than others. I wish I had arrived at this point sooner, 24 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:05,919 Speaker 1: but I think it was necessary for me to learn 25 00:03:05,960 --> 00:03:10,040 Speaker 1: a few things too. That's the amazing thing I've learned 26 00:03:10,080 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 1: about life is that instead of reflecting on your past 27 00:03:16,800 --> 00:03:21,040 Speaker 1: incidences and calling them failures, instead of focusing on the 28 00:03:21,120 --> 00:03:26,639 Speaker 1: negative and calling them bad times, I look at them 29 00:03:26,639 --> 00:03:31,200 Speaker 1: now as experiences. I had to have those experiences that 30 00:03:31,280 --> 00:03:36,480 Speaker 1: were negative, that were good, positive, wrong, even I had 31 00:03:36,480 --> 00:03:43,040 Speaker 1: to have all those experiences to become to shape who 32 00:03:43,040 --> 00:03:46,080 Speaker 1: we are today. We all have to have them. If 33 00:03:46,120 --> 00:03:49,200 Speaker 1: you look back at all the negative experiences you've had, 34 00:03:49,960 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: all the things that you called failures, all the businesses 35 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:56,840 Speaker 1: I started that went under, all of the jobs I 36 00:03:56,920 --> 00:04:00,040 Speaker 1: had that I was fired from, all the shows that 37 00:04:00,080 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: were canceled, all of the times I thought I was 38 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:06,440 Speaker 1: gonna get something happened in my way and turned out 39 00:04:06,480 --> 00:04:08,480 Speaker 1: I didn't get it at all. When you look at 40 00:04:08,520 --> 00:04:12,920 Speaker 1: all of it, all of it, hopefully along the way, 41 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,360 Speaker 1: what you have done as a person is you've taken 42 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:19,919 Speaker 1: those negatives and those failures and you've used them for 43 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:24,680 Speaker 1: what they actually are. They are experiences and they've now 44 00:04:24,800 --> 00:04:30,680 Speaker 1: created in you an experienced person, and you know that 45 00:04:30,839 --> 00:04:36,159 Speaker 1: is worth something. That's then it becomes a positive. But 46 00:04:36,279 --> 00:04:39,120 Speaker 1: what too many people do is they let the negative 47 00:04:39,200 --> 00:04:41,840 Speaker 1: things that have happened in their life. They allow the 48 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:45,159 Speaker 1: failures that have happened in them lives never to manifest 49 00:04:45,200 --> 00:04:49,000 Speaker 1: themselves as experiences. And you sit up there and you 50 00:04:49,120 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 1: dwell on it, and you dwell on it until you 51 00:04:51,800 --> 00:04:55,240 Speaker 1: have this woe is me attitude. Stop looking at it 52 00:04:55,279 --> 00:04:59,200 Speaker 1: like that, y'all. You go through things in order to 53 00:04:59,279 --> 00:05:02,400 Speaker 1: become the person that you are today. I'll tell you 54 00:05:02,400 --> 00:05:04,359 Speaker 1: who you sometimes have to sit down and talk to. 55 00:05:04,640 --> 00:05:07,160 Speaker 1: Sometimes you are to sit down to an inmate that 56 00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 1: really gets it, an inmate that says, man, I've actually 57 00:05:11,680 --> 00:05:13,839 Speaker 1: heard inmates say it to me and write to me, 58 00:05:13,920 --> 00:05:18,119 Speaker 1: and they've said things like, man, coming to prison, save 59 00:05:18,279 --> 00:05:20,479 Speaker 1: my life. Now those of you have never gone, how 60 00:05:20,560 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 1: can he say a thing like that? But some men, no, Man, 61 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:26,919 Speaker 1: I was so far out there that if I had 62 00:05:27,040 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 1: stayed out there, I wouldn't even be here today. This 63 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:32,800 Speaker 1: actually allowed me to stop, spend some time with myself 64 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:35,960 Speaker 1: and learn some things about me. Now does that happen 65 00:05:35,960 --> 00:05:39,080 Speaker 1: for everybody like that? Now? But here's a person who 66 00:05:39,200 --> 00:05:42,080 Speaker 1: was taking an experience that could be considered a failure 67 00:05:42,160 --> 00:05:45,279 Speaker 1: or a negative and turning it into a positive and 68 00:05:45,520 --> 00:05:48,040 Speaker 1: using it to enrich their lives. You can do it 69 00:05:48,080 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 1: no matter what your set of circumstances is. I recommend 70 00:05:51,400 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 1: to everybody that you try changing your outlook in order 71 00:05:55,400 --> 00:05:58,640 Speaker 1: to change your outcome. Everything that happens to you that's 72 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:02,039 Speaker 1: negative or you consider failure their experiences. You've got to 73 00:06:02,080 --> 00:06:04,320 Speaker 1: go through these things in order to have the knowledge 74 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:07,480 Speaker 1: that you have today. So I wish that I had 75 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:10,599 Speaker 1: come to this arrival that I may now this place 76 00:06:10,640 --> 00:06:13,719 Speaker 1: of peace and joy. But then guess what, I would 77 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:16,760 Speaker 1: not know what I know. I could not share some 78 00:06:16,839 --> 00:06:19,240 Speaker 1: of the things that I'm able to share if I 79 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:22,159 Speaker 1: had not gone through some of them. And sometimes that's 80 00:06:22,160 --> 00:06:24,120 Speaker 1: the purpose of them, is to teach you a lesson 81 00:06:24,400 --> 00:06:26,720 Speaker 1: because you know, God has a plan for you, He 82 00:06:26,760 --> 00:06:30,160 Speaker 1: really really does. And eventually he can use you no 83 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:32,880 Speaker 1: matter how old you are, and he can use you 84 00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:35,919 Speaker 1: no matter how young you are. If you just say, Okay, 85 00:06:36,040 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 1: I'm ready to hear your plan. I've tried mine, mine 86 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:42,760 Speaker 1: ain't worked out. What's your plan for me? God? What 87 00:06:42,800 --> 00:06:45,120 Speaker 1: do you want me to do. That's why I say 88 00:06:45,160 --> 00:06:48,360 Speaker 1: every day Steve Harvey Got radio show, y'all, because man, 89 00:06:48,400 --> 00:06:51,119 Speaker 1: I ain't see it coming. I didn't see that coming. 90 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:53,120 Speaker 1: I ain't see this book coming. I ain't seen I 91 00:06:53,160 --> 00:06:55,720 Speaker 1: ain't seen it. Half of the amazing things that are 92 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:59,279 Speaker 1: happened to me, I didn't plan them. I was sitting there, 93 00:06:59,320 --> 00:07:02,919 Speaker 1: man as skin, God for some direction, and then I 94 00:07:03,000 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 1: got smart enough to stay watchful, be a hard worker 95 00:07:06,480 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 1: now because faithful, our works is dead, and it came. 96 00:07:09,560 --> 00:07:12,000 Speaker 1: And I remind you of this. God has given all 97 00:07:12,080 --> 00:07:15,040 Speaker 1: of you a gift. Every last one of you listening 98 00:07:15,240 --> 00:07:17,920 Speaker 1: has a gift. God has never created a soul that 99 00:07:18,000 --> 00:07:21,320 Speaker 1: he did not provide a gift to. God gives everyone 100 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:26,440 Speaker 1: a gift, and a gift is not just singing, rapping entertainment. 101 00:07:27,040 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 1: The richer gifts are much more than that. Teachers are 102 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:33,560 Speaker 1: gifted people who really have the gift of sharing information. 103 00:07:33,880 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 1: That's a gift, you know, and in that you can 104 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 1: become great. You know a lot of people people think 105 00:07:44,160 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 1: that successful and greatness is the same thing. Cornell West 106 00:07:48,040 --> 00:07:51,120 Speaker 1: said it at my daughter's graduation. He was a spokesperson. 107 00:07:51,240 --> 00:07:54,040 Speaker 1: He said something so pointed. He said don't ever confuse 108 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: success with greatness. The two have nothing to do with 109 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:01,920 Speaker 1: each other. See people determined success about money and fame 110 00:08:01,960 --> 00:08:05,680 Speaker 1: and all this here, but greatness. Greatness ain't got nothing 111 00:08:05,680 --> 00:08:07,720 Speaker 1: to do with your money. It ain't got nothing to 112 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:10,600 Speaker 1: do with your fame. It's how you conduct your life. 113 00:08:10,920 --> 00:08:15,080 Speaker 1: It's how meaningful and significant you become in your community, 114 00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: at your church, on your job, to the cub Scout 115 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:21,480 Speaker 1: unit that you run, to the little girls lives that 116 00:08:21,560 --> 00:08:24,440 Speaker 1: you change, that that little center in the hood. Who 117 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:27,440 Speaker 1: are you just one place of hope to so many people? 118 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:29,800 Speaker 1: And they come back. And I used the example of 119 00:08:29,880 --> 00:08:32,599 Speaker 1: lou Danzler who passed away in LA who had the 120 00:08:32,679 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 1: Boys and Girls Challenges Club out in LA. And he 121 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:37,959 Speaker 1: wasn't a rich man at all, and if you walk 122 00:08:38,040 --> 00:08:40,000 Speaker 1: by him, you wouldn't even know who he was. But 123 00:08:40,080 --> 00:08:42,440 Speaker 1: if you look at all the people who have gone 124 00:08:42,440 --> 00:08:46,679 Speaker 1: on to become politicians, who have gone on to become CEO's, 125 00:08:46,880 --> 00:08:49,400 Speaker 1: who have gone on to become athletes, that have passed 126 00:08:49,400 --> 00:08:53,680 Speaker 1: through this man's small building in the hood in La, 127 00:08:53,920 --> 00:08:57,760 Speaker 1: he was a great trust me man prad changes things, 128 00:08:57,760 --> 00:08:59,720 Speaker 1: I said all the time. But when you see people, 129 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:03,680 Speaker 1: I'm successful or great that somebody praying somewhere may not 130 00:09:03,800 --> 00:09:06,160 Speaker 1: even beat them. Maybe it's day Mama. You know, I 131 00:09:06,200 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 1: think of Tiger Woods and all the greatness he's accomplished. 132 00:09:09,280 --> 00:09:11,679 Speaker 1: You know they always talk about as farther than all 133 00:09:11,720 --> 00:09:16,080 Speaker 1: this here, somebody somewhere praying for Tiger Woods. I got 134 00:09:16,120 --> 00:09:19,240 Speaker 1: cash money riding on that Tiger Woods. Mama is a 135 00:09:19,280 --> 00:09:22,360 Speaker 1: praying woman or something. My mother was. She prayed me 136 00:09:22,440 --> 00:09:24,920 Speaker 1: into this place because she should call me all the time. 137 00:09:25,040 --> 00:09:29,080 Speaker 1: Praying for your boy and prayer changes things. It really does. 138 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:32,920 Speaker 1: Try it today. It can change you. It has changed 139 00:09:33,120 --> 00:09:36,360 Speaker 1: millions of people. Open up yourself to the greatness that's 140 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 1: in you because God is giving you a gift. Now 141 00:09:39,240 --> 00:09:41,440 Speaker 1: the fact that you ain't using it. Who fought you 142 00:09:41,520 --> 00:09:44,200 Speaker 1: think that is? I'm just telling you you got one, 143 00:09:44,679 --> 00:09:48,240 Speaker 1: and if you start praying about it, it'll manifest itself 144 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 1: and you can become one or two things, successful or 145 00:09:52,440 --> 00:10:00,600 Speaker 1: great or both. You can make the decision. Today Morning show, 146 00:10:02,800 --> 00:10:07,320 Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen, now have your attention, please Steve Harvey 147 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:12,079 Speaker 1: Morning Show of the International Steve Harvey Morning Show that 148 00:10:12,280 --> 00:10:18,200 Speaker 1: brings you snippets or far away places to gently place 149 00:10:18,360 --> 00:10:23,720 Speaker 1: it in your faces so that you might then incorporate 150 00:10:23,760 --> 00:10:28,360 Speaker 1: it into your imagination and see the things that are 151 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:32,000 Speaker 1: possible for you. You don't have to do exactly what 152 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: I do, but you do want to be capable of 153 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 1: doing the things that you can do. Live your life 154 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:44,840 Speaker 1: in possibilities. Get out of probabilities, because probability means as 155 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 1: a probability that it probably won't happen. Possibility means it's possible. Period. 156 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:56,280 Speaker 1: This show is dedicated to people who are living their 157 00:10:56,360 --> 00:11:01,559 Speaker 1: life in the possibility that that's what I am. Ladies 158 00:11:01,559 --> 00:11:06,199 Speaker 1: and gentlemen. Steve Harvey Morning Show, Shirley Strawberry, Good morning, Steve, 159 00:11:06,280 --> 00:11:12,559 Speaker 1: Living my best life. Carlin Ferrell, Good morning. What's up? Crew? 160 00:11:13,760 --> 00:11:19,720 Speaker 1: Junior Ball Morning, un International, Mental One and Only Nephew. 161 00:11:19,800 --> 00:11:24,760 Speaker 1: Prommit possibility, Baby, It's the possibility that's all I live 162 00:11:24,880 --> 00:11:29,760 Speaker 1: my life, and it's possibilities. Probabilities had Lee's room for, 163 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:34,040 Speaker 1: you know, the probability of it happening, you know, and 164 00:11:34,480 --> 00:11:40,320 Speaker 1: probability start out all sounding like problem. Yeah, yeah, yeah, dude, 165 00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:43,840 Speaker 1: ask why you know the definition could be close to 166 00:11:43,880 --> 00:11:48,240 Speaker 1: the saint. But probability, you know, because every time I 167 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:52,240 Speaker 1: hear somebody probably it probably ain't gonna have as long 168 00:11:52,280 --> 00:11:57,040 Speaker 1: as you wake up and you breathe, it's possible. It's possible. 169 00:11:57,880 --> 00:12:00,640 Speaker 1: With that being said of me and my way decided 170 00:12:01,640 --> 00:12:05,640 Speaker 1: that we didn't want to have no kids. So late 171 00:12:05,679 --> 00:12:07,400 Speaker 1: on the night we haven't done. We're letting them know. 172 00:12:07,600 --> 00:12:10,760 Speaker 1: That's it. We threw with y'all. Oh, you don't want 173 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:17,360 Speaker 1: to have the ward you got, you don't want you return. 174 00:12:17,679 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 1: You know, tell me they don't leave probably fifteen, fifteen, 175 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:36,040 Speaker 1: twenty times. You got experience in this team. Oh boy, 176 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:40,640 Speaker 1: I can tell you mine thirty seven all the way 177 00:12:40,679 --> 00:12:45,920 Speaker 1: down to twenty two. And I'm telling you, yes, sometimes 178 00:12:46,120 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 1: you heard that. Just give me two hundred. I'm get 179 00:12:48,880 --> 00:12:53,120 Speaker 1: back to your Nick, just Nick Friday. Then I got you, Okay. 180 00:12:53,200 --> 00:12:57,280 Speaker 1: I wish it was two hundred. Yeah, I give you 181 00:12:57,320 --> 00:13:01,120 Speaker 1: two hundred just to get away from me him. But 182 00:13:01,520 --> 00:13:04,319 Speaker 1: does it work that way? You apparent to the day 183 00:13:04,360 --> 00:13:07,760 Speaker 1: you leave this earth? Amen to that. And coming up 184 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:11,240 Speaker 1: at thirty two minutes after the hour, Um, Steve is 185 00:13:11,280 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 1: out of the country. He's in Dubai. Uh and we'll 186 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:24,400 Speaker 1: Shajar shar sharga charger, Yeah, charger charger, who charger charger 187 00:13:25,120 --> 00:13:28,000 Speaker 1: one of the seven Emirates of the UAE. That's why 188 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:33,800 Speaker 1: I'm at the International Book Fair. Okay, all right, all right, 189 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 1: we'll find out tonight's Halloween, Big night for everybody who 190 00:13:38,240 --> 00:13:44,400 Speaker 1: celebrates Halloween. We'll talk about that right after this. You're 191 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:50,679 Speaker 1: listening to show, all right, Steve, We're gonna start with you. Uh. 192 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:55,840 Speaker 1: You're in set against Sharja sharjah. Yeah, just just say 193 00:13:55,840 --> 00:14:00,240 Speaker 1: it best you can because you're confusing me. Sharga s 194 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 1: h a r j a h ok use it in 195 00:14:04,880 --> 00:14:16,200 Speaker 1: a sentence. I'm in I um. I was invited here 196 00:14:16,240 --> 00:14:22,400 Speaker 1: to come because well, my books have gone international, so 197 00:14:23,440 --> 00:14:27,880 Speaker 1: I got invited. I am a special guest of His Highness, 198 00:14:29,280 --> 00:14:33,480 Speaker 1: Uh check doctor Sultan and he. I don't want to 199 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:36,400 Speaker 1: mispronounce his other name. So that's why I've been leaving it. 200 00:14:37,600 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 1: We've had lunch together, We've had dinner together. Today, I 201 00:14:41,800 --> 00:14:44,960 Speaker 1: speak to a group of students, a Q and A 202 00:14:45,080 --> 00:14:49,240 Speaker 1: with a group of students, and then tonight, uh interview 203 00:14:49,440 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 1: social media and more Q and A and then uh 204 00:14:54,840 --> 00:14:57,880 Speaker 1: we off to the next day. And so I will 205 00:14:57,920 --> 00:15:05,840 Speaker 1: be here through Sunday working. God has allowed me to 206 00:15:05,960 --> 00:15:09,800 Speaker 1: have a global brand in presence, which is amazing. To me, 207 00:15:10,600 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 1: amazing blessing, because ten years ago you could not have 208 00:15:13,640 --> 00:15:17,200 Speaker 1: told me I would be here in this position, that 209 00:15:17,280 --> 00:15:22,080 Speaker 1: I would be traveling around the globe. All this is 210 00:15:22,120 --> 00:15:26,400 Speaker 1: possible right now. Though. It's a funny thing. Man, it's 211 00:15:26,440 --> 00:15:30,800 Speaker 1: a really really funny thing. You know. Everybody was talking about, man, 212 00:15:30,840 --> 00:15:32,480 Speaker 1: what are he gonna do now? He ain't got no 213 00:15:32,560 --> 00:15:36,680 Speaker 1: TV showing he ain't got no there. But what what 214 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:41,160 Speaker 1: everybody didn't know was that God is always working on 215 00:15:41,200 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 1: your behalf, if your believer, if you love him, He's 216 00:15:45,080 --> 00:15:47,920 Speaker 1: always operating on your behalf in ways that you don't 217 00:15:47,960 --> 00:15:51,400 Speaker 1: even know. That you don't even know if you just 218 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:54,480 Speaker 1: keep the faith in Him, you don't You don't look 219 00:15:54,520 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 1: at the losses. You don't look at the doors closing. 220 00:15:57,680 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 1: You look at the possibilities of what can happen. And 221 00:16:01,960 --> 00:16:04,720 Speaker 1: had I still been in the position that I was in, 222 00:16:05,600 --> 00:16:09,080 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be here. I wouldn't be in Africa. You know, 223 00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:12,680 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be invited to Egypt. You know, I wouldn't 224 00:16:12,680 --> 00:16:14,640 Speaker 1: be sitting with the people that God has blessed me 225 00:16:14,680 --> 00:16:18,600 Speaker 1: to sit with. Had I stayed where I thought was safe, 226 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:22,800 Speaker 1: but God saw something else, and now here I am man. 227 00:16:22,880 --> 00:16:27,760 Speaker 1: It's just it's amazing that I'm traveling the way I 228 00:16:27,800 --> 00:16:30,800 Speaker 1: am because God has positioned me in a way that 229 00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:33,440 Speaker 1: I didn't know I would even be positioned. So that 230 00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 1: really makes me just extremely grateful and humble because I 231 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:40,640 Speaker 1: can't take credit for it. This is God, man, This 232 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:43,960 Speaker 1: is all God. Because I don't know how to set 233 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:45,680 Speaker 1: none of this up. I had never heard of the 234 00:16:45,720 --> 00:16:51,320 Speaker 1: International Book Fat I had never heard of the Diamond 235 00:16:51,400 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 1: Council in Boswanna. I had never heard of it until 236 00:16:57,080 --> 00:17:00,200 Speaker 1: last year. I had never heard of I heard the 237 00:17:00,240 --> 00:17:03,480 Speaker 1: Formula one, but we got invited to the Formula one 238 00:17:03,560 --> 00:17:06,760 Speaker 1: race in Abu Dhabi. I don't even know how. The 239 00:17:06,880 --> 00:17:09,320 Speaker 1: guy just got in touch with some people and said, 240 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:12,240 Speaker 1: I'm a big fan of Steve Harveys and they love 241 00:17:12,320 --> 00:17:13,720 Speaker 1: him over here and we want to know if he 242 00:17:13,720 --> 00:17:17,360 Speaker 1: would come as our guests. What you don't You don't 243 00:17:17,400 --> 00:17:21,200 Speaker 1: plan that, yeah, And so it's it's it's just been 244 00:17:21,200 --> 00:17:23,760 Speaker 1: an amazing thing, man. And I just I say to 245 00:17:23,920 --> 00:17:28,520 Speaker 1: people everywhere when you're going through something, just keep going, 246 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:32,720 Speaker 1: don't stop. You know, somebody sent me a plaque one 247 00:17:32,760 --> 00:17:34,440 Speaker 1: time that sits on my desk. A matter of fact, 248 00:17:34,560 --> 00:17:36,840 Speaker 1: Roger Salter send it to me. He said, when you're 249 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:41,040 Speaker 1: going through hell, just keep going. Why would you stop that? 250 00:17:43,040 --> 00:17:48,000 Speaker 1: When you're going through hell? Why would you stop there? 251 00:17:49,200 --> 00:17:51,960 Speaker 1: Keep going? And that's that's what I've managed to learn 252 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:53,639 Speaker 1: how to do in my life. And by the grace 253 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:56,440 Speaker 1: of God, I always land on my feet. He didn't 254 00:17:56,440 --> 00:17:58,440 Speaker 1: bring me, his father leave me. You all have heard 255 00:17:58,520 --> 00:18:01,440 Speaker 1: that a million times. All you gotta do is accepting 256 00:18:01,560 --> 00:18:06,120 Speaker 1: us faith in your life. That's yeah. So so next 257 00:18:06,200 --> 00:18:08,600 Speaker 1: year when we go to the book fair, act like 258 00:18:08,720 --> 00:18:11,159 Speaker 1: a food, think like a nephew. We're over there pushing 259 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:14,720 Speaker 1: that me and you. I'm not gonna be over there 260 00:18:14,760 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 1: pushing that well, you don't know. You just said you 261 00:18:20,840 --> 00:18:23,840 Speaker 1: don't know what God has for you. You just said 262 00:18:23,880 --> 00:18:30,359 Speaker 1: that He don't have that for me. He might have 263 00:18:30,520 --> 00:18:33,920 Speaker 1: that for Tommy. But you think I'm gonna be over 264 00:18:33,960 --> 00:18:36,960 Speaker 1: here in this Muslim country talking about act like a food. 265 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:44,399 Speaker 1: Do they do they celebrate Halloween? I am gone a mask. 266 00:18:45,520 --> 00:18:48,640 Speaker 1: You ain't seen nothing over that. I ain't seen a mask. 267 00:18:50,520 --> 00:18:53,120 Speaker 1: I know they're not celebrating it here in charge, that's 268 00:18:53,240 --> 00:18:56,240 Speaker 1: for sure. I have no idea. What's happening to do? 269 00:18:56,359 --> 00:19:01,359 Speaker 1: Bob but I haven't seen any minds up. Well, you 270 00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:06,720 Speaker 1: know they celebrated Big over here, Steve Big. Yeah, there's 271 00:19:06,760 --> 00:19:10,080 Speaker 1: never been nothing I've done. Yeah, Carla, what what is 272 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:11,960 Speaker 1: the baby gonna be? I know she's not a baby. 273 00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:16,320 Speaker 1: But what's Tasha gonna be tonight? It's gonna be a surprise. 274 00:19:16,600 --> 00:19:20,280 Speaker 1: But you guys have seen this person trending on social 275 00:19:20,320 --> 00:19:23,720 Speaker 1: media the last two days. And Tisha picked this costume 276 00:19:23,760 --> 00:19:35,920 Speaker 1: out two months ago. She picked this costume out. Trump. No, never, absolutely, 277 00:19:39,400 --> 00:19:43,000 Speaker 1: you said you have a costume too, Yes, I do. 278 00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:45,080 Speaker 1: We're dressing up. We do Halloween big. We have a 279 00:19:45,080 --> 00:19:50,680 Speaker 1: big Halloween party. All the kids come over. Hey, what 280 00:19:50,840 --> 00:19:55,200 Speaker 1: you gonna be? What? It's a surprise, don't I want 281 00:19:55,200 --> 00:19:59,680 Speaker 1: to wait to see I No, we want to know. Okay, 282 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 1: I'm going to be I'll just say this. I'm going 283 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:10,960 Speaker 1: to be a world champion. Oh someone a world champion? 284 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:25,439 Speaker 1: You don't You better not try to down to that hospital. Alright, 285 00:20:27,119 --> 00:20:29,720 Speaker 1: coming up next, the nephew is here, would run that 286 00:20:29,760 --> 00:20:38,320 Speaker 1: prank back right after me. You're listening to stew coming 287 00:20:38,400 --> 00:20:41,960 Speaker 1: up at the top of the hour entertainment of National News. 288 00:20:42,280 --> 00:20:44,439 Speaker 1: But right now it is time for the nephew to 289 00:20:44,560 --> 00:20:48,080 Speaker 1: run that prank back? What you got for us? Now? Girls? 290 00:20:48,080 --> 00:20:52,920 Speaker 1: Scout cookies? What are you saying? Sound like a cooking girl? 291 00:20:53,000 --> 00:21:01,800 Speaker 1: Scout cookies? Oh? I know, girls scout cooks. Hello? Hello, 292 00:21:02,960 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 1: who's this? Hey? Um? How are you doing? Man? My 293 00:21:06,080 --> 00:21:08,800 Speaker 1: name is Glenn Man. I'm working. Uh, I'm working building too. 294 00:21:09,240 --> 00:21:13,280 Speaker 1: You work for media? Right? Yeah? What what's fun? So 295 00:21:13,520 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 1: we probably met a couple of times. Uh do you 296 00:21:16,800 --> 00:21:20,119 Speaker 1: have a girl? You have a girlfriend? Uh? Why what's up? 297 00:21:20,440 --> 00:21:25,320 Speaker 1: Did you guys? You guys live together or or what? What? 298 00:21:25,680 --> 00:21:27,680 Speaker 1: What is this your business? Like? What? What? What's what's 299 00:21:27,720 --> 00:21:29,600 Speaker 1: what's the deal? What? What's why are you asking about 300 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:31,760 Speaker 1: my girl? Well? Let me ask you this here. What's 301 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:35,640 Speaker 1: what's what's going on with you and at the job? Uh? 302 00:21:36,680 --> 00:21:39,439 Speaker 1: What what do you? What do you mean? What's going on? It? Like? 303 00:21:39,640 --> 00:21:42,960 Speaker 1: Like I mean you you know you know right? I 304 00:21:43,000 --> 00:21:45,520 Speaker 1: mean so what like what what's what's the deal? What? What? 305 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:48,720 Speaker 1: Who are you like? Who the who the are you like? What? What? 306 00:21:48,720 --> 00:21:52,400 Speaker 1: What the what what is this for? Like? Why are you? Like? 307 00:21:52,440 --> 00:21:56,399 Speaker 1: I don't even know you? Right? I just calmed down, bro, 308 00:21:56,600 --> 00:21:58,360 Speaker 1: just climed down. Like I say, my name is Ben, 309 00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:01,360 Speaker 1: I work at Gilda too, you know, And I know 310 00:22:01,880 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 1: I'm just telling you now. I know you. I know 311 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:07,600 Speaker 1: what you're doing. Okay, I know what y'all doing at 312 00:22:07,600 --> 00:22:10,080 Speaker 1: the job. I already know, and a couple other people 313 00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:12,400 Speaker 1: know what's going on. And I know you got a girl. 314 00:22:12,720 --> 00:22:14,720 Speaker 1: I know you got a girl at home. I know that. 315 00:22:15,520 --> 00:22:18,880 Speaker 1: What so so what? What? What? What the what? What 316 00:22:19,000 --> 00:22:20,879 Speaker 1: is this about? Like? Why why do you call my 317 00:22:20,880 --> 00:22:23,880 Speaker 1: pholt trying to harass me about the boat? Like who 318 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:28,640 Speaker 1: are you? Like? What? What? What is your problem? Like? Hey, man, hey, hey, 319 00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:30,920 Speaker 1: hey came now. Man, I ain't finished. I ain't trying 320 00:22:30,920 --> 00:22:32,439 Speaker 1: to tell you a little secret or nothing like that. 321 00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:35,040 Speaker 1: I ain't trying to do that, all right, but but 322 00:22:35,040 --> 00:22:37,560 Speaker 1: but I'm gonna be real with you, okay, all right, 323 00:22:37,600 --> 00:22:39,280 Speaker 1: Like I said, you know, I got one of your names. 324 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:41,560 Speaker 1: I got your number from one of the co workers. Okay, 325 00:22:41,680 --> 00:22:43,159 Speaker 1: I got your number. I said, I want to I 326 00:22:43,200 --> 00:22:45,479 Speaker 1: want to give the call and you talk to him 327 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:47,880 Speaker 1: about something. That's how I got your number. So yeah, 328 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:51,800 Speaker 1: who gave you ten? We'll get to that later. Okay, 329 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:53,399 Speaker 1: we'll get to that later. But let me but let 330 00:22:53,400 --> 00:22:55,720 Speaker 1: me say this though, I know what's going on with 331 00:22:55,800 --> 00:22:57,880 Speaker 1: you and to the job, all right, And I ain't 332 00:22:57,880 --> 00:23:00,080 Speaker 1: gonna say nothing about it, you know, that's just so 333 00:23:00,240 --> 00:23:02,360 Speaker 1: a little secret or whatever. But I do have something 334 00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 1: I want you to do, though, What do you want, dude? Like, 335 00:23:05,400 --> 00:23:08,159 Speaker 1: what do you want? You call me, bugging me about 336 00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:10,760 Speaker 1: and all this book? Like what do you want? What 337 00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:13,080 Speaker 1: do you want? Well? Here it is, man, Listen, I 338 00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:15,159 Speaker 1: ain't gonna say nothing about what you got going on, 339 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,280 Speaker 1: all right, That ain't that ain't even I don't even 340 00:23:17,280 --> 00:23:19,280 Speaker 1: care about that. But here here's what I do want 341 00:23:19,320 --> 00:23:21,320 Speaker 1: you to do. I do need some help from you, 342 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:25,439 Speaker 1: all right. Listen. My little girl is selling girl Scout 343 00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:28,760 Speaker 1: cookies and I want you to buy fifty boxes of them, 344 00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,879 Speaker 1: all right, will be a cash out because she gotta 345 00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:36,719 Speaker 1: have them soul by tomorrow morning. Are you kidding me? Bro? 346 00:23:37,119 --> 00:23:40,600 Speaker 1: You okay, so you're on some black mail's books and 347 00:23:41,359 --> 00:23:43,920 Speaker 1: listen to who the gave you my number? Because you're 348 00:23:43,920 --> 00:23:47,120 Speaker 1: gonna call me asked me to buy them some cookies 349 00:23:47,160 --> 00:23:50,119 Speaker 1: and you should just bet a man and ask me 350 00:23:50,160 --> 00:23:52,920 Speaker 1: about it, Like, don't be calling my phone trying to 351 00:23:52,960 --> 00:23:55,879 Speaker 1: give me that book, Like come on, man, like I 352 00:23:56,080 --> 00:23:59,199 Speaker 1: ain't got no time for this, Like I'm asking you 353 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,280 Speaker 1: to do is buy some damn cookies. Man. That's it. 354 00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:04,440 Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. I I'm just saying. I 355 00:24:04,480 --> 00:24:05,840 Speaker 1: just want you to box my cookie. I need you 356 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:08,159 Speaker 1: to buy fifty box you girl scout cookies. Can you 357 00:24:08,200 --> 00:24:10,240 Speaker 1: do that? No? No, no no no no no no 358 00:24:10,240 --> 00:24:12,399 Speaker 1: no no no no no. You ain't gonna call and 359 00:24:12,440 --> 00:24:16,840 Speaker 1: try to manipulate me and defying like you're you're talking? 360 00:24:17,200 --> 00:24:19,480 Speaker 1: Are you trying to make me vise? So I ain't, 361 00:24:19,280 --> 00:24:23,440 Speaker 1: But you're nothing for you disrespecting me, calling my phone, 362 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:26,880 Speaker 1: trying to act like you like, just trying to manipulate. 363 00:24:27,359 --> 00:24:30,760 Speaker 1: I ain't down with that, bro, I ain't do you. 364 00:24:30,760 --> 00:24:33,280 Speaker 1: You don't want to buy my cookies though? So do 365 00:24:33,320 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 1: you want me to call your your girls and ship 366 00:24:35,880 --> 00:24:39,120 Speaker 1: ship on my cookies? So you gotta say the way 367 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:41,919 Speaker 1: for my throw man like, don't don't come near her, Okay, 368 00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:44,200 Speaker 1: you don't call her, you don't come near her. Shut 369 00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:46,639 Speaker 1: come near me. You just get get the out of here. 370 00:24:46,680 --> 00:24:49,240 Speaker 1: I'm about to start this ninety figure out who you 371 00:24:49,280 --> 00:24:51,480 Speaker 1: are and come right after you, man like, because I 372 00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:54,399 Speaker 1: ain't playing, bro, I ain't right. I'm gonna tell you 373 00:24:54,440 --> 00:24:56,960 Speaker 1: what man I ain't argue with you. I gonna argue 374 00:24:57,000 --> 00:24:59,240 Speaker 1: with you, but I get off the phone right now. 375 00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:03,000 Speaker 1: It off right now, and I'm anna your girl. I'm 376 00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:04,879 Speaker 1: gonna call your girl and see if you want to 377 00:25:04,920 --> 00:25:09,040 Speaker 1: buy some cookies. No, no, no, no no, you didn't 378 00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:12,960 Speaker 1: call nobody. You you just get you get I try 379 00:25:13,000 --> 00:25:14,520 Speaker 1: to God, I'm gonna find out who you are. I'm 380 00:25:14,520 --> 00:25:16,400 Speaker 1: gonna find out who gave you that number. I'm gonna 381 00:25:16,480 --> 00:25:19,080 Speaker 1: call you up like yo, you'nna call me trying to 382 00:25:19,320 --> 00:25:22,080 Speaker 1: right me? Okay, a man, hey, hey, you know what? 383 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:24,800 Speaker 1: Angre cool, We're still talking about it, all right. I'm 384 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:27,720 Speaker 1: gonna get the right like you so so so I'll 385 00:25:27,760 --> 00:25:29,520 Speaker 1: get off the phone like you want me to as. 386 00:25:29,840 --> 00:25:31,679 Speaker 1: I'll do that. But let me let me ask you 387 00:25:31,760 --> 00:25:34,240 Speaker 1: this though. Let me ask you this though. You sure 388 00:25:34,320 --> 00:25:36,840 Speaker 1: you want me to call you? Sure you want me 389 00:25:36,880 --> 00:25:41,520 Speaker 1: to do that? And right? Ain't it that her name? Man? 390 00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:46,720 Speaker 1: You something? Individuals? All right? Look how much of these cookies? 391 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:50,199 Speaker 1: How much you want? A man? Tommy told me you 392 00:25:50,200 --> 00:25:54,359 Speaker 1: would buy the cookies? Tommy, Yeah, Tommy told me you 393 00:25:54,400 --> 00:26:00,400 Speaker 1: would buy the cookies. Tommy, Tommy, hey man, hey man, 394 00:26:00,520 --> 00:26:02,720 Speaker 1: check it out. This is nephew timing me from the 395 00:26:02,720 --> 00:26:06,200 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning Show. Your co worker got me to 396 00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:18,280 Speaker 1: pray fu call yah, my god, I'm gonna kill him, 397 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:24,200 Speaker 1: so so oh god, listen, so listen, Agrian. We have beat. 398 00:26:24,560 --> 00:26:27,040 Speaker 1: We have beat all the names, so nobody knows the 399 00:26:27,160 --> 00:26:32,120 Speaker 1: things at all. Okay, you're good, bro, you're good man, 400 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:38,600 Speaker 1: and I you got me. Oh God, I'm I'm gonna go. 401 00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:41,479 Speaker 1: I'm gonna take an man. I just used up all 402 00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:48,399 Speaker 1: my Yeah, I'm done. Oh God, Like, hey, where's you go? 403 00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:53,480 Speaker 1: I am going out? You up? Man, I can't believe 404 00:26:53,640 --> 00:26:57,200 Speaker 1: you got me on this. Tell me this man, one 405 00:26:57,200 --> 00:26:59,560 Speaker 1: more thing before you go age. What's the bad as that? 406 00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:03,639 Speaker 1: I mean, the baddest radio show in the land, the 407 00:27:03,760 --> 00:27:05,920 Speaker 1: Steve Harvard Morning Show Man, which is way he got 408 00:27:05,920 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 1: played every morning? Killed me brow your life. Girls. Girls 409 00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,639 Speaker 1: don't play with the girls, Okay, alright, I don't want to. 410 00:27:23,720 --> 00:27:27,679 Speaker 1: I bought four girls Scout cookies. Then, all, y'all, I 411 00:27:27,760 --> 00:27:30,800 Speaker 1: believe that I see that. Yeah, I can see. I've 412 00:27:30,800 --> 00:27:35,119 Speaker 1: been forced got a lot of girls on several people 413 00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:41,040 Speaker 1: who know me. Let me drop this on y'all, y'all 414 00:27:41,119 --> 00:27:49,359 Speaker 1: ain't ready. Holiday comedy Jane they ain't Holiday comedy jam. 415 00:27:49,520 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 1: That's deep sent of the twenties at the Mint Philadelphia, Baby, 416 00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:55,399 Speaker 1: you do not want to mention it? Hit go the 417 00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:59,040 Speaker 1: lineup hosted by yours truely Nephew Times. Guess who else 418 00:27:59,080 --> 00:28:05,800 Speaker 1: on the building one Junior or the one and only 419 00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:11,680 Speaker 1: Jay Anthony Oh laying in the cut on the tail 420 00:28:11,880 --> 00:28:18,040 Speaker 1: and earthquake and shaken it up. It is Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. 421 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:22,360 Speaker 1: That is Friday, the twenty of December at the met Philadelphia. 422 00:28:22,400 --> 00:28:28,560 Speaker 1: You dot want to miss it? And Ji, Who's who's 423 00:28:28,600 --> 00:28:35,640 Speaker 1: the promoter for this show? W Yeah they sound O. 424 00:28:35,880 --> 00:28:41,920 Speaker 1: Frankie Darsil, we gotta go. Coming up at the top 425 00:28:41,960 --> 00:28:45,440 Speaker 1: of the hour entertainment news and national news. Right after this, 426 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:53,160 Speaker 1: you're listening to Steve Harvey Morning Show. In today's entertainment news, 427 00:28:53,800 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 1: you know, speaking of comedians and everything. Um, you know, 428 00:28:57,360 --> 00:29:02,040 Speaker 1: one of the greatest stand ups in our community that 429 00:29:02,080 --> 00:29:05,960 Speaker 1: we love so much was the one and only John Witherspoon, 430 00:29:06,200 --> 00:29:10,400 Speaker 1: and U you know, very sad to say that mister Witherspoon, 431 00:29:10,440 --> 00:29:13,680 Speaker 1: everyone called him Pops, passed away yesterday at the age 432 00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:17,280 Speaker 1: of seventy seven years old. Some of his first roles 433 00:29:17,280 --> 00:29:21,160 Speaker 1: were on TV way back in the nineteen seventies, Steve 434 00:29:22,000 --> 00:29:24,920 Speaker 1: he was on Barnaby Jones and Richard Pryor's show What's 435 00:29:24,960 --> 00:29:29,280 Speaker 1: Happening Good Times, also known for his role as Craig 436 00:29:29,320 --> 00:29:33,200 Speaker 1: and Dana's dad, mister Jones. Of course, in the Friday films, 437 00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:37,160 Speaker 1: he was known as Pops on The Wayans Brothers Show. 438 00:29:37,440 --> 00:29:41,240 Speaker 1: He also voiced Robert Grandad Freeman in the animated sitcom 439 00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:46,120 Speaker 1: The Boondocks. John Witherspoon was beloved by so many people 440 00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:52,200 Speaker 1: his lines in Boomerang about coordinate and in Friday. You know, 441 00:29:52,280 --> 00:29:57,920 Speaker 1: I mean, he was just an icon man. You know. 442 00:29:58,640 --> 00:30:01,360 Speaker 1: I posted a picture him on Instagram, you know, and 443 00:30:01,840 --> 00:30:04,960 Speaker 1: I'm in a whole other times one over here, so 444 00:30:05,800 --> 00:30:10,600 Speaker 1: I got the news beyond you know. You know what, Man, 445 00:30:11,360 --> 00:30:15,800 Speaker 1: here is a guy that I've worked with backstage a 446 00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:20,720 Speaker 1: few times. You know, always saw him. He was the 447 00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:25,080 Speaker 1: exact same every time I saw him. Wow, I never 448 00:30:25,440 --> 00:30:28,960 Speaker 1: I never saw a dude that was the same every 449 00:30:29,000 --> 00:30:32,880 Speaker 1: time you saw him. And uh we were. We ran 450 00:30:33,000 --> 00:30:34,840 Speaker 1: up in each other one time in the lobby of 451 00:30:34,880 --> 00:30:39,280 Speaker 1: a hotel in Monte Carlo, and uh, he walked up 452 00:30:39,320 --> 00:30:41,840 Speaker 1: behind me. He said, Hell, you're doing in here? You 453 00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:46,880 Speaker 1: don't belong in here. And I turned and I because 454 00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:49,760 Speaker 1: you know, I was tight, because first of all, ain't 455 00:30:49,800 --> 00:30:53,480 Speaker 1: nobody over there black. And then somebody turned around and said, here, 456 00:30:53,560 --> 00:30:55,080 Speaker 1: you're doing it here. You don't belong in the hill. 457 00:30:55,320 --> 00:30:57,800 Speaker 1: And I went, okay, cool, when I spin, I'm a 458 00:30:58,000 --> 00:30:59,920 Speaker 1: really spinning or whoever this is it. I turned around 459 00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:04,240 Speaker 1: with this food and we and we just laughed. Man. 460 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:09,240 Speaker 1: The thing about Spoon was he was, like I put 461 00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:13,600 Speaker 1: in my Instagram post, he was the godfather and I 462 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:18,240 Speaker 1: don't care what you think comedy. He was the godfather 463 00:31:18,360 --> 00:31:22,160 Speaker 1: of I don't care what you think comedy because I'm funny. 464 00:31:22,680 --> 00:31:25,400 Speaker 1: He just did his stuff. Man, sitting up there, he'd 465 00:31:25,440 --> 00:31:27,160 Speaker 1: just be looking at you like you just you don't 466 00:31:27,200 --> 00:31:29,880 Speaker 1: get it. I mean, he was a master of that. 467 00:31:30,600 --> 00:31:33,800 Speaker 1: And he's just just just a great human being. Man. 468 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,800 Speaker 1: I was just on Instagram trying to read more about it. 469 00:31:36,880 --> 00:31:39,200 Speaker 1: I looked at all the posts everybody put pictures up, 470 00:31:39,200 --> 00:31:42,840 Speaker 1: and then with Spoon and a comedians, nuw this dude, man, 471 00:31:43,040 --> 00:31:46,120 Speaker 1: he was like you know that uncle man, that uncle 472 00:31:46,480 --> 00:31:50,240 Speaker 1: always boy. You got hanging out, you you got you 473 00:31:50,240 --> 00:31:52,640 Speaker 1: got Kim Kennedy jokes. You ain't got nothing else, you 474 00:31:52,680 --> 00:31:55,320 Speaker 1: can't paying calls? Yeah, I mean he was just he 475 00:31:55,560 --> 00:31:58,200 Speaker 1: tell me stuff like that, what's talk about you? You 476 00:31:58,520 --> 00:32:00,840 Speaker 1: gotta tell the joke? What what what are you think 477 00:32:00,880 --> 00:32:03,400 Speaker 1: to do? It was true, I ain't have enough to 478 00:32:03,440 --> 00:32:06,480 Speaker 1: do because I'd be complaining sometimes, Man, I can't get 479 00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:10,040 Speaker 1: a gig on here? What were you working? And he 480 00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:17,120 Speaker 1: was always that guy. Also um Steve are very on joy. 481 00:32:17,120 --> 00:32:21,800 Speaker 1: Anthony Brown shared his thoughts on Jay John Witherspoon take 482 00:32:21,800 --> 00:32:25,120 Speaker 1: a listen to this. As a comedian coming up, you 483 00:32:25,160 --> 00:32:28,520 Speaker 1: know when you just start, you just really a lot 484 00:32:28,560 --> 00:32:31,280 Speaker 1: of people don't understand it. But pretty much anything, you 485 00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:34,160 Speaker 1: just want somebody to talk to about the craft, just 486 00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:36,960 Speaker 1: somebody to chop it up with, somebody who's doing what 487 00:32:37,120 --> 00:32:39,920 Speaker 1: you're doing and maybe give you some pointers or not 488 00:32:39,960 --> 00:32:42,760 Speaker 1: even something, give you points, just a buddy, a friend 489 00:32:42,840 --> 00:32:47,920 Speaker 1: or something like that. And John Witherspoon was always John Witherspoon. 490 00:32:48,040 --> 00:32:50,600 Speaker 1: What you see in the movies is the same guy 491 00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:53,640 Speaker 1: you saw on and off the screen. He was the 492 00:32:53,760 --> 00:32:58,920 Speaker 1: same guy all the time. A quick antidote about John Witherspoon, 493 00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:03,040 Speaker 1: John with Boon and made it. We would do shows 494 00:33:03,080 --> 00:33:07,360 Speaker 1: together and before every show, John would would dies here. 495 00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:11,880 Speaker 1: He would die. Yeah, he said, uh Jay, nobody's ever 496 00:33:11,880 --> 00:33:14,160 Speaker 1: gonna see my heir great ever, ever, ever, ever, it 497 00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:15,920 Speaker 1: never gonna I won't even play an old man in 498 00:33:15,960 --> 00:33:18,040 Speaker 1: the movie I will I won't. He won't do it, 499 00:33:18,040 --> 00:33:20,520 Speaker 1: So he would dies here and die would be all 500 00:33:20,560 --> 00:33:23,880 Speaker 1: over the dressing room. It was one of the nicest guys, 501 00:33:23,880 --> 00:33:26,680 Speaker 1: one of the most friendly guys in terms of comics 502 00:33:26,680 --> 00:33:28,480 Speaker 1: that you would meet, that had been in the business 503 00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:32,480 Speaker 1: long before you. He's truly gonna be missed. It's always sad. 504 00:33:32,840 --> 00:33:35,120 Speaker 1: It's pretty much sad when anybody passes it, but it's 505 00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:38,360 Speaker 1: come for me. It's extra sad when a comedian passes 506 00:33:38,400 --> 00:33:42,320 Speaker 1: because of what we do. Our job is to bring 507 00:33:42,400 --> 00:33:45,520 Speaker 1: joy to people, and the passing of that person means 508 00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:49,080 Speaker 1: that joy will no longer be heard, or be passed 509 00:33:49,120 --> 00:33:51,840 Speaker 1: out or be given and nobody will hear comedy from 510 00:33:51,920 --> 00:33:54,960 Speaker 1: John Willispoon again, not original comedy. I mean, you have 511 00:33:55,040 --> 00:33:57,760 Speaker 1: his movies and stuff like that to watch forever, but 512 00:33:58,000 --> 00:34:02,719 Speaker 1: his original comedy comedy, to see him in person performing, 513 00:34:03,240 --> 00:34:06,160 Speaker 1: you won't get that anymore because of the past. John Witherspoon, 514 00:34:06,520 --> 00:34:14,400 Speaker 1: We're gonna miss you. Bang Bang Bang Rest in peace. Wow. Yeah, yeah, 515 00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:18,480 Speaker 1: John Witherspoon is. Yeah, he's survived by his wife Angela's 516 00:34:18,560 --> 00:34:21,960 Speaker 1: two sons, j D and Alexander. The family said they 517 00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:24,600 Speaker 1: were in shock over his death and asked for privacy. 518 00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:28,600 Speaker 1: Mister Witherspoon used to say, I'm no big deal, but 519 00:34:29,160 --> 00:34:33,480 Speaker 1: his family said he was a huge deal to us. Yeah, 520 00:34:33,520 --> 00:34:37,440 Speaker 1: they called him pops um ice cube. I think posted 521 00:34:37,520 --> 00:34:41,279 Speaker 1: that he's devastated by the loss of John Witherspoon and 522 00:34:41,320 --> 00:34:45,840 Speaker 1: life won't be as funny without him. And I mean everyone, Steve, 523 00:34:45,920 --> 00:34:51,680 Speaker 1: you had something to say, Regina King. Yeah, that man, 524 00:34:51,080 --> 00:34:54,040 Speaker 1: when that man light went out, Like Jay said, you 525 00:34:54,160 --> 00:34:58,719 Speaker 1: just don't understand man, what that is. Yeah, when comedians 526 00:34:59,080 --> 00:35:04,920 Speaker 1: go away, that style, that that he bought to the table, 527 00:35:05,920 --> 00:35:10,480 Speaker 1: his style of comedy, it's not done no more. It's 528 00:35:10,520 --> 00:35:13,560 Speaker 1: just it's a hole in the atmosphere. And and and 529 00:35:13,560 --> 00:35:17,120 Speaker 1: and comedians dying is is rough man, And you know 530 00:35:17,600 --> 00:35:22,120 Speaker 1: it's just I really could relate to what Jay said. Yeah, 531 00:35:22,280 --> 00:35:26,240 Speaker 1: great dude, John Witherspoon, greatness boy. Yeah, he will be missed. 532 00:35:26,960 --> 00:35:29,360 Speaker 1: Coming up in twenty minutes after the hour, we'll have 533 00:35:29,520 --> 00:35:32,080 Speaker 1: more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show. Right after this 534 00:35:32,680 --> 00:35:38,440 Speaker 1: you're listening to show. All right, so today is Halloween. 535 00:35:38,920 --> 00:35:45,600 Speaker 1: Happy Halloween everyone, and uh I know. Yeah, so Steve, 536 00:35:45,680 --> 00:35:47,960 Speaker 1: you're here to tell us you know you're too old 537 00:35:47,960 --> 00:35:51,479 Speaker 1: a tricker treat. You know, I've got something for y'all, 538 00:35:51,480 --> 00:35:53,879 Speaker 1: because come on, it's it's time. Come on, pull out 539 00:35:53,920 --> 00:35:57,040 Speaker 1: some of these stops, some of y'all tricker treats. You're 540 00:35:57,080 --> 00:36:02,480 Speaker 1: too old, Yeah, you're too old. I've come up with 541 00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:07,560 Speaker 1: some ways to let you know that you're too old 542 00:36:07,800 --> 00:36:12,399 Speaker 1: to trick a treat. Okay, here's the first one. If 543 00:36:12,440 --> 00:36:20,440 Speaker 1: your tricker treat bag is a fanny pack, yeah, you 544 00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:24,960 Speaker 1: just drop that right in there, lady. Yeah, you know, 545 00:36:24,960 --> 00:36:27,520 Speaker 1: because you got because you got to have your hands free, 546 00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:30,200 Speaker 1: because you gotta have you know, your hand one of 547 00:36:30,200 --> 00:36:32,360 Speaker 1: your hands on your can't so you can't have a 548 00:36:32,400 --> 00:36:35,120 Speaker 1: hand on the bag and can't you got a fanny pack. 549 00:36:35,440 --> 00:36:37,279 Speaker 1: Here's another way you know you're too old a trick 550 00:36:37,320 --> 00:36:42,439 Speaker 1: a treat. If you're driving from house to house. Yeah, yeah, 551 00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:49,080 Speaker 1: you can't, it's too much. Come on, let's walk back 552 00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:53,160 Speaker 1: towards the light. Man. This is how you know you 553 00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:55,080 Speaker 1: too old a trick a treat. If you walk up 554 00:36:55,120 --> 00:36:59,279 Speaker 1: to somebody dope, and you gotta ask them, are they 555 00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:02,200 Speaker 1: certain that candy that they serve it ain't gonna run 556 00:37:02,239 --> 00:37:11,920 Speaker 1: your blood sugar. That's a definite sign right there. This 557 00:37:12,000 --> 00:37:13,839 Speaker 1: is how you know you too old a trick treat 558 00:37:14,000 --> 00:37:17,600 Speaker 1: if your Halloween costume is mister t and all the 559 00:37:17,760 --> 00:37:22,160 Speaker 1: stuff you got on was already in your closet. You 560 00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:25,040 Speaker 1: don't have to go shopping. You got them chains. And 561 00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:32,800 Speaker 1: then this is how you know you're too old a 562 00:37:32,840 --> 00:37:35,040 Speaker 1: trigger tree. Every time you go up to a house 563 00:37:35,080 --> 00:37:36,919 Speaker 1: and knock on the door, they come to the back. 564 00:37:37,040 --> 00:37:39,280 Speaker 1: They come to the door and say, oh, the boxes 565 00:37:39,400 --> 00:37:49,000 Speaker 1: is around back, sir. You just the damn garbage. If 566 00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,399 Speaker 1: you got to put your cigarette out before you walk 567 00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:56,040 Speaker 1: up to the door at the end of the driveway, 568 00:37:56,600 --> 00:38:00,880 Speaker 1: I love that I'm smoking. Another way to tell you 569 00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:04,040 Speaker 1: too old a trick a treat if if every house 570 00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:12,839 Speaker 1: you go to you gotta use day bath room right quick, 571 00:38:13,800 --> 00:38:17,600 Speaker 1: fresh root. There's another way to tell you too old 572 00:38:17,640 --> 00:38:21,640 Speaker 1: a trigger treat if you're going trick of treating not 573 00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:29,680 Speaker 1: for the candy, but just because you got the munchies. Yeah, 574 00:38:31,239 --> 00:38:34,560 Speaker 1: here is the last reason you know you too old 575 00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:39,719 Speaker 1: a trick a treat if all your costumes is too tight. 576 00:38:44,000 --> 00:38:47,560 Speaker 1: Coming up at thirty four after the hour, Kevin Hart 577 00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:51,120 Speaker 1: says his world has changed forever, and we'll talk about 578 00:38:51,160 --> 00:38:56,960 Speaker 1: that right after this. You're listening to show well. As 579 00:38:57,040 --> 00:38:59,799 Speaker 1: we all know. Over the Labor Day weekend, Kevin Hart 580 00:39:00,160 --> 00:39:04,880 Speaker 1: was the backseat passenger of a horrendous single car accident. 581 00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:09,320 Speaker 1: The car's roof sheared off and another writer needed to 582 00:39:09,400 --> 00:39:12,600 Speaker 1: be cut out of the vehicle. Kevin spent ten days 583 00:39:12,680 --> 00:39:16,439 Speaker 1: in the hospital and still wears a back brace. Kevin 584 00:39:16,520 --> 00:39:19,839 Speaker 1: posted a video on his Instagram page and gave us 585 00:39:19,840 --> 00:39:22,520 Speaker 1: a look at his recovery and physical therapy, and he 586 00:39:22,640 --> 00:39:26,560 Speaker 1: said his world has changed forever. Take a listen. Basically, 587 00:39:26,600 --> 00:39:29,239 Speaker 1: would you realize that you're not in control? No matter 588 00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:31,720 Speaker 1: how much you think you're in control, You're not in control. 589 00:39:32,160 --> 00:39:33,879 Speaker 1: At the end of the day, it can all be over. Man. 590 00:39:34,120 --> 00:39:39,560 Speaker 1: You know, when God talks, you gotta listen. I swear 591 00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:42,440 Speaker 1: life is funny because some of the craziest things that 592 00:39:42,600 --> 00:39:45,480 Speaker 1: happened to you end up being the things that you 593 00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:48,800 Speaker 1: needed most. And in this case, I honestly feel like 594 00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,359 Speaker 1: God basically told me to sitam You know when you're 595 00:39:51,360 --> 00:39:53,520 Speaker 1: moving too fast, and you're doing too much. Sometimes you 596 00:39:53,640 --> 00:39:56,040 Speaker 1: can't see the things that you're meant to see. But 597 00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:59,600 Speaker 1: after my accident, I see things differently. I see life 598 00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:03,719 Speaker 1: from a whole new perspective. My appreciation for life is 599 00:40:04,239 --> 00:40:08,120 Speaker 1: through the roof. I'm thankful for my family, my friends. 600 00:40:09,080 --> 00:40:11,239 Speaker 1: I'm thankful for the people that have simply ride with 601 00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:14,120 Speaker 1: me and I've been with me because you stood by me, 602 00:40:14,440 --> 00:40:17,560 Speaker 1: my fans. Thankful for all your love and support. So 603 00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:21,640 Speaker 1: don't take today for granted, because tomorrow's not promised. More importantly, 604 00:40:21,640 --> 00:40:25,120 Speaker 1: I'm thankful for God, thankful for life. I'm thankful for 605 00:40:25,239 --> 00:40:27,880 Speaker 1: simply still being here the road to being a bigger 606 00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:34,919 Speaker 1: and better version than me. Wow. That yeah, yeah, yeah, 607 00:40:35,200 --> 00:40:37,640 Speaker 1: And that was the first time he's really posted something 608 00:40:37,719 --> 00:40:42,560 Speaker 1: like that since the accident. Yeah, first time. Yeah, he's 609 00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:47,400 Speaker 1: got I'm not really surprised by this, you know, Kevin's 610 00:40:47,400 --> 00:40:52,000 Speaker 1: a good dude man, And I think what is happening 611 00:40:52,120 --> 00:40:57,560 Speaker 1: right now because I heard this clip in over here 612 00:40:57,560 --> 00:41:00,920 Speaker 1: in the Middle East. They play this clip on a 613 00:41:01,040 --> 00:41:05,080 Speaker 1: radio show over here, and so I heard this clip 614 00:41:06,160 --> 00:41:11,040 Speaker 1: and they opened up the conversation on this Arabic radio 615 00:41:11,080 --> 00:41:14,359 Speaker 1: show after they played it, and then they said, call 616 00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:18,320 Speaker 1: in and tell us if you've had a life changing moment, 617 00:41:19,440 --> 00:41:22,040 Speaker 1: And all of them were calling in talking about faith. 618 00:41:22,160 --> 00:41:25,399 Speaker 1: See when a person like Kevin Hart opens his mouth 619 00:41:25,480 --> 00:41:28,879 Speaker 1: about faith and you start hearing him talk about God, 620 00:41:30,239 --> 00:41:38,200 Speaker 1: he moves people by the millions. That Instagram post goes 621 00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:43,839 Speaker 1: to millions. Yeah, it's different, man. And to hear him 622 00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:48,839 Speaker 1: say God in his speech as often as he did, 623 00:41:50,560 --> 00:41:53,800 Speaker 1: that's that's a thing. And like he said, you know, 624 00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:56,719 Speaker 1: sometimes you know, the thing that needs to happen to 625 00:41:56,840 --> 00:42:00,520 Speaker 1: you most happens at the perfect time. God has a way. 626 00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:03,879 Speaker 1: And I'm not saying this about this. He gets all 627 00:42:03,920 --> 00:42:07,480 Speaker 1: of our attention. He could get our attention one way 628 00:42:07,560 --> 00:42:10,080 Speaker 1: or the other. And it's just like and it's not 629 00:42:10,280 --> 00:42:15,080 Speaker 1: like beating us up. It just it's almost like a shake. 630 00:42:15,200 --> 00:42:19,080 Speaker 1: Do you understand who I am? Yeah? While you moving 631 00:42:19,120 --> 00:42:23,520 Speaker 1: and shaking and grooving, have you paid attention that? Like 632 00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:27,640 Speaker 1: Kevin said, I'm in control of this, this this life 633 00:42:27,680 --> 00:42:29,400 Speaker 1: that you have, this life that all of us have. 634 00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:33,520 Speaker 1: It's not ours. This life can be taken from us 635 00:42:33,960 --> 00:42:38,759 Speaker 1: at any moment. We do not control waking up. We 636 00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:42,200 Speaker 1: don't control breaths. If we did, we'd all wake up 637 00:42:42,280 --> 00:42:45,880 Speaker 1: and we'd all continue to breathe. It's not It's bigger 638 00:42:45,920 --> 00:42:49,920 Speaker 1: than that, man, It's so much bigger than that. So yeah, right, 639 00:42:51,239 --> 00:42:53,600 Speaker 1: that's right. It was really good to see him getting 640 00:42:53,640 --> 00:42:58,240 Speaker 1: back into his workout. I mean, he seems very strong 641 00:42:58,480 --> 00:43:03,960 Speaker 1: and everything he man was so very powerful. Yeah, it 642 00:43:04,120 --> 00:43:07,840 Speaker 1: was really something. Yeah. Yeah, God spared his life. M 643 00:43:08,680 --> 00:43:15,759 Speaker 1: m m yeah, and he's changed forever. Yeah, yeah, it 644 00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:22,080 Speaker 1: looks like it. M M wow. Wow, Kevin. Yeah, we're 645 00:43:22,120 --> 00:43:24,680 Speaker 1: so happy that you know you're on the road to 646 00:43:24,800 --> 00:43:27,800 Speaker 1: recovery and that you do have a new appreciation and 647 00:43:28,360 --> 00:43:30,439 Speaker 1: and all of that. And thanks for sharing that because 648 00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:33,560 Speaker 1: that was really powerful to see. Yeah, it really really was, 649 00:43:34,640 --> 00:43:40,239 Speaker 1: and it's all over the world, uh, Steve, Yeah, Yeah, 650 00:43:40,360 --> 00:43:44,880 Speaker 1: we love you. Kevin Hart. Coming up next, Yeah, Nephew, 651 00:43:44,960 --> 00:43:47,640 Speaker 1: you're up next with today's prank phone call. That's right 652 00:43:47,680 --> 00:43:53,239 Speaker 1: after this you're listening to. Coming up at the top 653 00:43:53,400 --> 00:43:55,719 Speaker 1: of the hour, right about four minutes after. It's my 654 00:43:55,800 --> 00:44:00,759 Speaker 1: Strawberry letter for today's subject adding insult to injury. Uh, 655 00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,520 Speaker 1: that is the subject. But right now Junior is in 656 00:44:03,680 --> 00:44:06,239 Speaker 1: for the nephew with today's prank phone call. What you 657 00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:08,960 Speaker 1: got for us, Junior, Well, it's simply called the ring. 658 00:44:09,680 --> 00:44:12,640 Speaker 1: Oh like the scary movie. Nah, no, it's the prank. Oh, 659 00:44:14,600 --> 00:44:19,480 Speaker 1: ain't scary, ain't scary. This ain't non scary. Back then, 660 00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:23,560 Speaker 1: it's scary that the nephew did it. But this is 661 00:44:23,640 --> 00:44:28,719 Speaker 1: the ring. Okay, running cat. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to 662 00:44:28,760 --> 00:44:32,920 Speaker 1: reach a Denise. Yes, this is she, Hi Denise. My 663 00:44:33,040 --> 00:44:36,520 Speaker 1: name is Gavin. I'm I'm actually the head jeweler here, diamond. No, 664 00:44:36,760 --> 00:44:39,120 Speaker 1: how you doing, I'm good. You brought your ring in 665 00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:42,120 Speaker 1: what was it last week? I actually wasn't here, but 666 00:44:42,239 --> 00:44:44,279 Speaker 1: you gave it to one of my salespersons and um, 667 00:44:44,560 --> 00:44:47,319 Speaker 1: yes you wanted to get it resized as well as 668 00:44:48,000 --> 00:44:50,120 Speaker 1: get it a praise. Correct, yes, yes, yes, and you 669 00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:56,360 Speaker 1: don't have to tell him to be on my own. Okay, wow, okay, listen, 670 00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:59,359 Speaker 1: I actually do the resize the ring. And first of all, 671 00:44:59,440 --> 00:45:02,920 Speaker 1: let me be the first to say, um, congratulations, when 672 00:45:03,040 --> 00:45:05,440 Speaker 1: when is your wedding? Thank you? I'm getting married and stuff. 673 00:45:05,480 --> 00:45:09,560 Speaker 1: Come there. Well, congratulations to listen. I don't know how 674 00:45:09,600 --> 00:45:12,280 Speaker 1: to tell you this now as far as the appraiserless concern, 675 00:45:12,520 --> 00:45:16,560 Speaker 1: I've looked at your ring over and over and this 676 00:45:16,920 --> 00:45:21,200 Speaker 1: this ring is probably worth maybe fifty dollars. Excuse me, 677 00:45:22,040 --> 00:45:25,200 Speaker 1: I've been I've been in this business for over twenty years. 678 00:45:25,320 --> 00:45:27,360 Speaker 1: But you know what, I'm confused on what you just said. 679 00:45:27,760 --> 00:45:29,480 Speaker 1: And I understand that what I'm trying to explain to 680 00:45:29,560 --> 00:45:31,360 Speaker 1: you is that I've been in this business for over 681 00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:34,040 Speaker 1: twenty years. I've seen so many different pieces of jewelry. 682 00:45:34,520 --> 00:45:37,759 Speaker 1: And this is something that you that you buy late 683 00:45:37,880 --> 00:45:41,279 Speaker 1: night on an infomercial for nineteen ninety nine. This is 684 00:45:41,360 --> 00:45:45,879 Speaker 1: a Cubic Zaconian stones and the gold is not real 685 00:45:45,960 --> 00:45:49,320 Speaker 1: at all. It's like, wait, wait, you lost me. You 686 00:45:49,440 --> 00:45:51,520 Speaker 1: lost me as much money as my pen make and 687 00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:54,160 Speaker 1: as much money as my father is putting down on 688 00:45:54,239 --> 00:45:57,800 Speaker 1: his wedding or half put down. And I understand everything 689 00:45:57,840 --> 00:46:00,640 Speaker 1: you're saying, but Denise, honestly I need you to do 690 00:46:00,760 --> 00:46:03,600 Speaker 1: is hold on. Wait no, no, I need you to 691 00:46:03,680 --> 00:46:06,839 Speaker 1: hold on because we need to call victims. Wait. Wait man. 692 00:46:07,480 --> 00:46:10,560 Speaker 1: First of all, I can't wait wait wait, wait wait wait, 693 00:46:10,760 --> 00:46:17,480 Speaker 1: hold hold on because you wait wait wait, what are 694 00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:19,360 Speaker 1: you trying to what you're trying to do, sir? I 695 00:46:19,840 --> 00:46:22,440 Speaker 1: need I need you to repeat because what you just 696 00:46:22,520 --> 00:46:26,279 Speaker 1: said to me, Okay, I need you personal stuff. Man. 697 00:46:26,880 --> 00:46:29,160 Speaker 1: You oh, you hit it. It's personal now, so I 698 00:46:29,239 --> 00:46:33,960 Speaker 1: need you to hold on. Okay, oh she called it 699 00:46:34,120 --> 00:46:39,200 Speaker 1: hu man, Okay, thank thank hello, Victim. I need to 700 00:46:39,320 --> 00:46:41,239 Speaker 1: listen to this zula that's on the front. I want 701 00:46:41,280 --> 00:46:43,279 Speaker 1: you to hit it. And he just told me, hold, 702 00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:45,040 Speaker 1: what's what's the problem? What you mean, what's the problem. 703 00:46:45,080 --> 00:46:47,160 Speaker 1: He gonna tell you what the problem is. Gonna hit on, sir, 704 00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:50,920 Speaker 1: gonna hit on. Hello, Yeah, who's this all right? My 705 00:46:51,080 --> 00:46:54,959 Speaker 1: name is Gavin. I'm from Diamonds. And actually your wife, 706 00:46:55,160 --> 00:46:57,480 Speaker 1: i mean where your fiance. Rather, she brought her ring 707 00:46:57,560 --> 00:47:01,360 Speaker 1: in to actually be resized, and we also did an 708 00:47:01,400 --> 00:47:05,399 Speaker 1: appraisal on the ring for her, and actually the ring 709 00:47:05,560 --> 00:47:08,200 Speaker 1: is estimated to be only in the worth of around 710 00:47:08,280 --> 00:47:12,759 Speaker 1: fifty dollars. Fifty dollars dollars fifty that's what the man said, 711 00:47:13,840 --> 00:47:18,319 Speaker 1: dollars in these homes, sir. Obviously there's some sort of mistakes, sir. Yeah, 712 00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:21,560 Speaker 1: what you got to say about that? Fifty dollars? That's 713 00:47:21,800 --> 00:47:23,680 Speaker 1: that's got to be some kind of mistakes. What'd you 714 00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:25,680 Speaker 1: say your name was, sir? My name is Gavin. I 715 00:47:25,760 --> 00:47:28,040 Speaker 1: work here at Diamonds. I'm the head jeweler here. I've 716 00:47:28,040 --> 00:47:31,640 Speaker 1: been here for twenty years, and there's there's no way 717 00:47:31,880 --> 00:47:33,840 Speaker 1: that that ring is worth fifty dollars. I know what 718 00:47:33,920 --> 00:47:36,440 Speaker 1: I paid for it. So obviously there's some sort of mistakes. 719 00:47:37,360 --> 00:47:39,759 Speaker 1: There's not a mistake. I've been dealing with jury, I've 720 00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:42,399 Speaker 1: seen it. I can pretty much look at a ring, 721 00:47:42,480 --> 00:47:44,759 Speaker 1: but I actually went into detail on this one, as 722 00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:46,960 Speaker 1: I do all of them, and so I promise you 723 00:47:47,200 --> 00:47:50,719 Speaker 1: this is probably maybe between forty and fifty dollars before 724 00:47:50,760 --> 00:47:54,920 Speaker 1: his workers now, absolutely not. That's that's impossible. How is 725 00:47:54,960 --> 00:47:56,960 Speaker 1: that impossible? He's a jeweler. You heard him say, he's 726 00:47:56,960 --> 00:48:01,239 Speaker 1: been doing it for twenty He's highest impossible. Understand all 727 00:48:01,280 --> 00:48:03,240 Speaker 1: the money that my dad is putting down on this wedding, 728 00:48:03,480 --> 00:48:07,000 Speaker 1: and you don't pay fifty You bought a cheap ring. 729 00:48:07,200 --> 00:48:09,040 Speaker 1: So no, no, no, I did not buy a tea. 730 00:48:10,160 --> 00:48:12,360 Speaker 1: This is this is this is obviously some kind of mistake. 731 00:48:12,400 --> 00:48:15,200 Speaker 1: You don't got it? You show got right, You show 732 00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:16,719 Speaker 1: got that right. So what you got to say for 733 00:48:16,800 --> 00:48:21,160 Speaker 1: yourself fifty? Don't you can't? I believe that that's right, 734 00:48:21,239 --> 00:48:23,759 Speaker 1: that this is obviously some kind of mistakes. Oh, it 735 00:48:23,920 --> 00:48:26,160 Speaker 1: is a mistake. I'm mistake and thinking I'm gonna get 736 00:48:26,200 --> 00:48:28,400 Speaker 1: married to the man of my dream. I do have 737 00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:31,960 Speaker 1: the engagement ring that was purchased and bought for your wife. No, 738 00:48:32,040 --> 00:48:33,279 Speaker 1: I don't think you. I would think you do. I 739 00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:34,960 Speaker 1: don't think you have my ring, because if you have 740 00:48:35,120 --> 00:48:37,200 Speaker 1: my ring, you wouldn't be telling me this worse fifty dollars. 741 00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:41,000 Speaker 1: I have the ring that your wife, your fiance brought 742 00:48:42,080 --> 00:48:44,120 Speaker 1: his wife. Yet hold on, hold on, the man trying 743 00:48:44,160 --> 00:48:47,520 Speaker 1: to explain. I'm trying to get to the body. Thank you, 744 00:48:47,640 --> 00:48:49,799 Speaker 1: so you have I don't think he has the right ring. 745 00:48:50,400 --> 00:48:52,600 Speaker 1: I have the right ring. And what I'm letting you know, sir, 746 00:48:52,920 --> 00:48:55,239 Speaker 1: is that this is something you buy on an inframercial 747 00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:59,800 Speaker 1: in two occock in the morning. Dude, you don't like 748 00:49:00,160 --> 00:49:02,759 Speaker 1: bottle damn ring on inframercial. I bought the ring from 749 00:49:02,800 --> 00:49:07,000 Speaker 1: a reputable establishment. I have the receipt, I have the certificate. 750 00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:09,919 Speaker 1: So obviously the mistake is on your and where you're 751 00:49:10,000 --> 00:49:12,279 Speaker 1: the mistakes now here. So you bought a piece of 752 00:49:12,400 --> 00:49:15,040 Speaker 1: jump after he's ain't doing it all these years? How 753 00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:17,480 Speaker 1: hell he's gonna make a mistake worse? You come off 754 00:49:17,719 --> 00:49:19,440 Speaker 1: telling me I bought a piece of jump. I know 755 00:49:19,560 --> 00:49:21,640 Speaker 1: what I bought. If there's any mistakes that's been made, 756 00:49:21,840 --> 00:49:25,200 Speaker 1: it's on your end world, where it's not on my end. Yeah. No, 757 00:49:25,440 --> 00:49:29,840 Speaker 1: hold don't, we don't. Don't, lady, you want things that 758 00:49:30,080 --> 00:49:32,000 Speaker 1: my dad has had too much money for this wedding, 759 00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:35,600 Speaker 1: So your doll's gonna pay fifty dollars dollars? Wait, I 760 00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:38,440 Speaker 1: tell him this, chill hold on. First of all, I 761 00:49:38,440 --> 00:49:40,440 Speaker 1: don't appreciate you. I want to tell you this. This 762 00:49:40,600 --> 00:49:42,560 Speaker 1: is a typical case of you trying to put it 763 00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:44,880 Speaker 1: off on us because you bought a piece of stuff 764 00:49:44,880 --> 00:49:47,080 Speaker 1: for fifty bucks. I have the money to two dollars. 765 00:49:47,120 --> 00:49:49,800 Speaker 1: Don't make it. I get fifty dollars worth of a ring, Denise. 766 00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:52,200 Speaker 1: Hold on, let me talk this where you gonna talk 767 00:49:52,280 --> 00:49:56,880 Speaker 1: and get dollars? I never heard of it. So your 768 00:49:56,920 --> 00:49:58,960 Speaker 1: wife knows exactly where that she's the one that brought 769 00:49:59,000 --> 00:50:01,279 Speaker 1: the ring. I tell you what, I'm gonna come down 770 00:50:01,360 --> 00:50:03,799 Speaker 1: there to see the ring that you're talking about. If 771 00:50:03,840 --> 00:50:05,719 Speaker 1: it's not the ring that I gave my girl, I'm 772 00:50:05,719 --> 00:50:08,359 Speaker 1: gonna take seventy six hundred dollars out of your because 773 00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:12,439 Speaker 1: that's so. Now you want to jump on me because 774 00:50:12,520 --> 00:50:15,120 Speaker 1: you bought your wife a piece. Come on, you want 775 00:50:15,160 --> 00:50:17,160 Speaker 1: to put it on me. You you don't tell me 776 00:50:17,239 --> 00:50:19,360 Speaker 1: what the I don't know what the I spin on 777 00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:21,640 Speaker 1: the ring and you I don't kind of trying to pull. 778 00:50:22,000 --> 00:50:23,520 Speaker 1: First of all, I don't appreciate you coming in my 779 00:50:23,560 --> 00:50:25,520 Speaker 1: household trying to mess my and you want to come 780 00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:27,480 Speaker 1: at me with this one. I know the ring gotta 781 00:50:27,520 --> 00:50:30,560 Speaker 1: be real. No, man, if I were you, mister niece, 782 00:50:30,600 --> 00:50:33,920 Speaker 1: I would not marry somebody that's gonna be I'm coming there. 783 00:50:33,920 --> 00:50:36,680 Speaker 1: I'm looking for your pocket and you know what, you 784 00:50:36,760 --> 00:50:38,520 Speaker 1: don't get the ring in a right man, you're gonna 785 00:50:38,560 --> 00:50:40,200 Speaker 1: go in it? Can I say one more thing to 786 00:50:40,280 --> 00:50:42,000 Speaker 1: both of you? Are better? I tell you what if 787 00:50:42,080 --> 00:50:43,799 Speaker 1: they did, I want to hear me, and you're gonna 788 00:50:43,800 --> 00:50:46,200 Speaker 1: have some more problems. This is nephew telling me from 789 00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:49,560 Speaker 1: the Steve Orvin Morning Show. Y'all just got pranked by 790 00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:59,200 Speaker 1: the niece's sister that that why she ain't got no 791 00:50:59,320 --> 00:51:06,080 Speaker 1: man to be Wow. Wow, that's how cool? Time are 792 00:51:06,080 --> 00:51:09,800 Speaker 1: you about to start with? Wow? I think I'm sorry, baby, 793 00:51:09,920 --> 00:51:13,960 Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I will make a woman's ring. 794 00:51:15,400 --> 00:51:18,680 Speaker 1: I gotta ask y'all something. What is the baddest radio 795 00:51:18,920 --> 00:51:26,759 Speaker 1: show in the low. But Steve Harvey morn I did. 796 00:51:28,120 --> 00:51:33,600 Speaker 1: I did? I did that proud right there? What proud 797 00:51:33,760 --> 00:51:36,400 Speaker 1: and strong wind? I did that right down? Pop collar? 798 00:51:36,600 --> 00:51:40,239 Speaker 1: What when you pop? When you pop a prank collar? 799 00:51:40,280 --> 00:51:45,480 Speaker 1: You popping something? Did that thing? Baby? All right? Get Timmy. 800 00:51:45,520 --> 00:51:47,919 Speaker 1: So that's all I'm saying. Give me some I'm gonna 801 00:51:47,920 --> 00:51:50,319 Speaker 1: push this thing one more time. That holiday comedy jam. 802 00:51:50,680 --> 00:51:52,520 Speaker 1: It sounds so good. I ain't gonna lie. I'm thinking 803 00:51:52,520 --> 00:51:55,640 Speaker 1: about buying myself some tickets. I ain't laying decen with 804 00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:57,960 Speaker 1: the twentieth I am. I'm buying me a couple of 805 00:51:58,000 --> 00:52:01,759 Speaker 1: tickets to see me. Why I wouldn't I at the 806 00:52:01,920 --> 00:52:06,520 Speaker 1: Mint Philadelphia. That's earthquake. J Anthony Brown killed Junior Space 807 00:52:06,640 --> 00:52:10,279 Speaker 1: and the one and only ignorant nephew Tommy, Oh my god, 808 00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:13,319 Speaker 1: I'm yeah. I'm gonna take it math in a minute, 809 00:52:13,320 --> 00:52:15,680 Speaker 1: give me a couple of sec That's what I'm finishing. 810 00:52:16,239 --> 00:52:20,279 Speaker 1: No that I don't gonna spend on that. The whole 811 00:52:20,320 --> 00:52:25,160 Speaker 1: dog on section. Invest in yourself, invest in you, yeah, yeah, 812 00:52:25,280 --> 00:52:31,560 Speaker 1: yeah yeah, Okay, whole last row. Okay, we're going for sure. 813 00:52:31,680 --> 00:52:42,160 Speaker 1: Then you leave your lass row. Congratulations, guys, it's gonna 814 00:52:42,200 --> 00:52:45,520 Speaker 1: be great, put a little work in, a little working. 815 00:52:48,280 --> 00:52:49,960 Speaker 1: I'm fenn't do something. You know what I'm gonna do 816 00:52:50,000 --> 00:52:51,680 Speaker 1: this weekend. I'm gonna do a pop up where I 817 00:52:51,760 --> 00:52:56,319 Speaker 1: just pop up someone. It's better be pop up. Ain't 818 00:52:56,360 --> 00:53:03,479 Speaker 1: shut up? Watch me? All right, get ready, I'm gonna 819 00:53:03,480 --> 00:53:05,600 Speaker 1: do a pop up this Well, when you do it, 820 00:53:05,960 --> 00:53:12,719 Speaker 1: everybody gonna take as a pop tart. We're gonna see 821 00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:14,520 Speaker 1: you go here. They're gonna be talking about it into 822 00:53:14,600 --> 00:53:17,920 Speaker 1: bad Temmy did a pop up, watch and up, just 823 00:53:18,080 --> 00:53:20,200 Speaker 1: pop up somewhere. Watch me do it like a pop 824 00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:25,160 Speaker 1: up store. Yeah yeah, just just pop up. That's all right, 825 00:53:25,360 --> 00:53:28,520 Speaker 1: all right, well nephew, thank you. Coming up next, Strawberry Letter. 826 00:53:28,560 --> 00:53:31,919 Speaker 1: We'll get into it subject smiling in my face while 827 00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:37,200 Speaker 1: backstabbing me. Right after this, you're listening to Steven Show 828 00:53:38,040 --> 00:53:41,480 Speaker 1: Time now for today's Strawberry Letter. And if you need 829 00:53:41,520 --> 00:53:46,360 Speaker 1: advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting, and more. Please 830 00:53:46,440 --> 00:53:49,959 Speaker 1: submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey FM and click 831 00:53:50,080 --> 00:53:52,879 Speaker 1: submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading your letter live 832 00:53:53,080 --> 00:53:55,359 Speaker 1: on the air, just like we're gonna read this one 833 00:53:55,480 --> 00:53:59,480 Speaker 1: right here, right now. Let's go bugle up and hold 834 00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:01,200 Speaker 1: on tight. He got it. Toll you here. It is 835 00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:06,080 Speaker 1: strawberry letter thanking a few smiling in my face while 836 00:54:06,239 --> 00:54:10,440 Speaker 1: backstabbing me is the subject. Dear Stephen Shirley. I've been 837 00:54:10,520 --> 00:54:13,960 Speaker 1: married for seventeen years to a man who I thought 838 00:54:14,480 --> 00:54:18,400 Speaker 1: was trustworthy, honest, and a good Christian man. We are 839 00:54:18,440 --> 00:54:21,280 Speaker 1: both in our forties and have been together for twenty 840 00:54:21,360 --> 00:54:25,080 Speaker 1: five years total. For the last four years, he has 841 00:54:25,120 --> 00:54:28,479 Speaker 1: been friends with a basic girl that he met at work. 842 00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:32,080 Speaker 1: I call her basic because that's what she is. I 843 00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:36,000 Speaker 1: have always expressed how displeased I am with their friendship, 844 00:54:36,280 --> 00:54:39,200 Speaker 1: but he insisted that I was worrying for no reason. 845 00:54:39,719 --> 00:54:42,360 Speaker 1: We hung out with her and her basic husband oftened, 846 00:54:42,800 --> 00:54:45,640 Speaker 1: and my husband always made me feel like I was 847 00:54:45,719 --> 00:54:49,720 Speaker 1: crazy for being suspicious of this friendship. I even started 848 00:54:49,800 --> 00:54:53,400 Speaker 1: hanging out with this basic woman too, after he insisted 849 00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:56,480 Speaker 1: that I get to know her. We had family outings 850 00:54:56,560 --> 00:55:00,720 Speaker 1: with this basic couple. We actually enjoyed their company. Here's 851 00:55:00,719 --> 00:55:04,600 Speaker 1: where the pain and deceit began. Two weeks ago, her 852 00:55:04,719 --> 00:55:09,560 Speaker 1: husband caught my husband and the basic woman cheating. When confronted, 853 00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,760 Speaker 1: they admitted that it had been going on for three years, 854 00:55:12,920 --> 00:55:17,279 Speaker 1: right under our noses. I was so hurt. Then I 855 00:55:17,360 --> 00:55:20,640 Speaker 1: guess my husband's conscience got the best of him, and 856 00:55:20,800 --> 00:55:23,680 Speaker 1: he admitted that he had had an affair with three 857 00:55:23,760 --> 00:55:27,000 Speaker 1: other women, and two of these women were also in 858 00:55:27,200 --> 00:55:30,640 Speaker 1: our married friends circle. My husband told me that he 859 00:55:30,760 --> 00:55:34,200 Speaker 1: has a problem and he needs counseling. He begged me 860 00:55:34,280 --> 00:55:36,520 Speaker 1: to stay with him and help him through this. My 861 00:55:36,680 --> 00:55:40,440 Speaker 1: trust for him is shattered now. He had his mistresses 862 00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:44,120 Speaker 1: in my face and they all played it off perfectly. 863 00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:48,040 Speaker 1: I feel like a fool and I'm totally disgusted by him, 864 00:55:48,400 --> 00:55:52,359 Speaker 1: But I am unsure if divorce is the answer. We've 865 00:55:52,440 --> 00:55:55,560 Speaker 1: lost all of our friends because of this. Should I 866 00:55:55,640 --> 00:56:01,560 Speaker 1: forgive him? Please? Help? Wow? What a letter. First of all, 867 00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:05,440 Speaker 1: these were not your friends, and I gotta tell you 868 00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:09,880 Speaker 1: forgiveness is up to you, but most importantly it's for you, 869 00:56:10,640 --> 00:56:14,839 Speaker 1: and you know in this instance, I would just say, 870 00:56:16,120 --> 00:56:18,680 Speaker 1: I don't know. It's gonna be hard, and it's gonna 871 00:56:18,760 --> 00:56:22,400 Speaker 1: take some time. The trust, like you said, is already broken. 872 00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:27,200 Speaker 1: Gonna be very very hard for you to rebuild the trust. 873 00:56:27,400 --> 00:56:30,279 Speaker 1: And quite frankly, for you to even be considering not 874 00:56:30,760 --> 00:56:34,600 Speaker 1: divorcing him is amazing to me because he's been so 875 00:56:34,840 --> 00:56:37,839 Speaker 1: fall with what he did. Like you said, he had 876 00:56:37,920 --> 00:56:41,160 Speaker 1: his mistresses in your face, right under your noses for 877 00:56:41,440 --> 00:56:45,640 Speaker 1: three years. That's crazy, But you did suspect something he 878 00:56:45,760 --> 00:56:48,440 Speaker 1: kept trying to steer you off of that made you 879 00:56:48,520 --> 00:56:50,799 Speaker 1: get to be friends with the woman he was having 880 00:56:50,840 --> 00:56:53,880 Speaker 1: an affair with, and all of that. I mean, you 881 00:56:54,000 --> 00:56:56,640 Speaker 1: should be disgusted. You said you disgusted with him. You 882 00:56:56,800 --> 00:56:59,840 Speaker 1: should be disgusted with him and all of them. You 883 00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:03,600 Speaker 1: said you're so disgusted with him. You should be, and 884 00:57:03,719 --> 00:57:06,680 Speaker 1: you should insist that he gets help. Only time will 885 00:57:06,800 --> 00:57:10,200 Speaker 1: tell if he's truly sorry. His behavior and how he 886 00:57:10,320 --> 00:57:13,320 Speaker 1: treats you from this point on should help you decide 887 00:57:13,400 --> 00:57:17,520 Speaker 1: whether to stay or go. But please do not do 888 00:57:17,720 --> 00:57:19,920 Speaker 1: not make this easy for him. If you decide to 889 00:57:20,000 --> 00:57:23,520 Speaker 1: stay in this, this relationship, which or this marriage that 890 00:57:23,640 --> 00:57:27,480 Speaker 1: you've had for seventeen years, this is not really a marriage. 891 00:57:27,480 --> 00:57:29,960 Speaker 1: He's been treat cheating on you, and treating you like this. 892 00:57:31,160 --> 00:57:33,680 Speaker 1: You don't have to. Don't feel badly if you walk 893 00:57:33,720 --> 00:57:35,760 Speaker 1: away from him, But if you decide to keep him 894 00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:40,680 Speaker 1: and forgive him, don't make it easy. Steve. Let me, 895 00:57:40,800 --> 00:57:43,520 Speaker 1: I can't know what you just said. If you're going 896 00:57:43,640 --> 00:57:48,800 Speaker 1: to stay with him, and forgive him, don't make it easy. Wow, 897 00:57:50,600 --> 00:57:55,880 Speaker 1: that's an interesting concept, because why I forgive if you're 898 00:57:55,920 --> 00:57:59,880 Speaker 1: gonna steady make a person pay. I don't. I don't. 899 00:58:00,040 --> 00:58:03,000 Speaker 1: But then that's the part when you hurt a woman, 900 00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:07,240 Speaker 1: that's the part that you have to grapple with because 901 00:58:07,360 --> 00:58:11,440 Speaker 1: you did hurt her. So in that regard, I understand 902 00:58:11,480 --> 00:58:15,280 Speaker 1: where it's Shirley coming from. But that's a tough statement, though. 903 00:58:16,160 --> 00:58:18,959 Speaker 1: If you stay with him and forgive him, but don't 904 00:58:19,080 --> 00:58:24,080 Speaker 1: make it easy, Jesus Christ. Well, let's go back to 905 00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:28,440 Speaker 1: the top. Smiling in my face. While I've been Shirley, 906 00:58:28,480 --> 00:58:32,080 Speaker 1: I've been married seventeen years to a Christian man. He's 907 00:58:32,080 --> 00:58:35,480 Speaker 1: still a Christian man who I thought was trustworthy. Were 908 00:58:35,520 --> 00:58:37,680 Speaker 1: both in owt forties and were beginning other for twenty 909 00:58:37,720 --> 00:58:40,720 Speaker 1: five years. Last four years, he's been friends with a 910 00:58:40,840 --> 00:58:43,400 Speaker 1: basic girl that he met at work. I call her 911 00:58:43,440 --> 00:58:47,280 Speaker 1: basic because that's where she is. I've always expressed how 912 00:58:47,360 --> 00:58:49,720 Speaker 1: displeased I was with a friendship, but here since says 913 00:58:49,720 --> 00:58:51,760 Speaker 1: nothing to worry about. Now, let me ask you a question. 914 00:58:52,360 --> 00:58:55,520 Speaker 1: I have told y'all and told y'all and told y'all 915 00:58:55,520 --> 00:58:59,480 Speaker 1: about the friendships. I have told y'all that they don't 916 00:58:59,560 --> 00:59:02,720 Speaker 1: normally work out that good. But let me ask you 917 00:59:02,880 --> 00:59:08,560 Speaker 1: this question. Who makes new female friends in their thoughties 918 00:59:08,680 --> 00:59:15,520 Speaker 1: while married? Dog? I can understand if you had a 919 00:59:15,560 --> 00:59:18,680 Speaker 1: relationship in college or something, You've been friends with this 920 00:59:18,840 --> 00:59:20,840 Speaker 1: girl since high school or something like that, and you 921 00:59:20,960 --> 00:59:23,280 Speaker 1: get married and you're trying to convince your wife we've 922 00:59:23,320 --> 00:59:27,960 Speaker 1: been friends all this time. I got that. Who makes 923 00:59:28,480 --> 00:59:36,720 Speaker 1: new female friends if they thoughties while they married? How 924 00:59:36,800 --> 00:59:40,360 Speaker 1: did y'all develop this friendship? Not much time it takes 925 00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:44,720 Speaker 1: to develop a friendship. Not much time away from your 926 00:59:44,800 --> 00:59:47,960 Speaker 1: wife and outside your house it takes to form a 927 00:59:48,280 --> 00:59:52,840 Speaker 1: new friendship. Now you call in the woman basic? What 928 00:59:53,000 --> 00:59:57,160 Speaker 1: the hell do that mean? What? What do that mean? Anybody? 929 00:59:57,400 --> 01:00:01,280 Speaker 1: They she basic? Plane I took is playing? Yeah? Well 930 01:00:01,560 --> 01:00:06,440 Speaker 1: well yeah, let me tell you this. I like playing donuts. 931 01:00:08,800 --> 01:00:13,120 Speaker 1: But I still liked the donut because I can dunk it. Uh. 932 01:00:14,360 --> 01:00:19,000 Speaker 1: All right, hold on thought, hold on, all right, we'll 933 01:00:19,040 --> 01:00:22,920 Speaker 1: come back with part two of Steve's response to smiling 934 01:00:23,000 --> 01:00:25,920 Speaker 1: in my face while backstabbing me at twenty three minutes 935 01:00:25,920 --> 01:00:32,439 Speaker 1: after the hour right after this you're listening show, all right, Steve, 936 01:00:32,560 --> 01:00:36,080 Speaker 1: come on, let's recap Today's Strawberry Letters subjects smiling in 937 01:00:36,280 --> 01:00:41,479 Speaker 1: my face while backstabbing me. They'd been married seventeen years, 938 01:00:41,840 --> 01:00:45,880 Speaker 1: Christian Man, so she thought trustworthy, so she thought, and 939 01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:49,760 Speaker 1: they fought. He's been together twenty five years total. Last 940 01:00:49,840 --> 01:00:52,280 Speaker 1: four years he'd been friends with a basic girl he 941 01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:56,200 Speaker 1: met at work. Now Man said that she started having 942 01:00:56,240 --> 01:00:59,880 Speaker 1: problems with his new friendship. My question when we left 943 01:01:00,240 --> 01:01:04,640 Speaker 1: was who makes new female friends in their forties while married? 944 01:01:06,440 --> 01:01:09,960 Speaker 1: Because it takes a long time to develop a friendship. 945 01:01:10,640 --> 01:01:14,200 Speaker 1: That's time out your house where y'all going lunch, eating, 946 01:01:14,840 --> 01:01:18,040 Speaker 1: talking on the phone, texting. All this could be time 947 01:01:18,120 --> 01:01:21,080 Speaker 1: spent with your girl, But now you outside your house 948 01:01:21,160 --> 01:01:23,440 Speaker 1: with it. Now here we come. I told y'all this 949 01:01:23,520 --> 01:01:26,280 Speaker 1: don't hardly ever work out. He insisted not to worry 950 01:01:26,320 --> 01:01:29,680 Speaker 1: about it. Then hit a cool part. We hung out 951 01:01:29,720 --> 01:01:35,760 Speaker 1: with her and her basic husband. All y'all are fossil alway, 952 01:01:35,800 --> 01:01:38,840 Speaker 1: and your husband made you feel crazy for being suspicious 953 01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:41,560 Speaker 1: about this friendship. I even started hanging with the basic 954 01:01:41,640 --> 01:01:44,080 Speaker 1: woman too, so he gets to know that y'all went 955 01:01:44,120 --> 01:01:50,040 Speaker 1: to family outings, everything en George the company. Then you 956 01:01:50,160 --> 01:01:53,160 Speaker 1: got hurt two weeks ago. Now hit a part that 957 01:01:53,280 --> 01:01:58,480 Speaker 1: I don't understand. Two weeks ago, her hub caught my 958 01:01:58,800 --> 01:02:05,120 Speaker 1: husband and the basic woman cheating. When confronted, they admitted 959 01:02:05,240 --> 01:02:07,480 Speaker 1: that it had been going on for three years. So 960 01:02:07,560 --> 01:02:10,960 Speaker 1: the whole of the wold, I'm i'm are we missing 961 01:02:11,080 --> 01:02:17,600 Speaker 1: something here? He called his wife cheating with another man. 962 01:02:19,280 --> 01:02:24,880 Speaker 1: When confronted, they admitted that means this confrontation was y'all cheating. 963 01:02:25,520 --> 01:02:31,880 Speaker 1: And then they admitted, boy, listen to me, let me 964 01:02:31,920 --> 01:02:36,000 Speaker 1: tell you what's involved in this. In this when I 965 01:02:36,760 --> 01:02:42,920 Speaker 1: can't shoot, there's gonna have to be some depositions. That's 966 01:02:42,960 --> 01:02:46,920 Speaker 1: gonna be to be some retainers. That's gonna have to 967 01:02:47,000 --> 01:02:50,439 Speaker 1: be some video. Ever this, we're gonna be looking back 968 01:02:50,480 --> 01:02:54,560 Speaker 1: at text records. Uh, there's gonna be some people at 969 01:02:54,600 --> 01:02:58,440 Speaker 1: the house. Uh, they gonna be spraying that blue stuff 970 01:02:58,480 --> 01:03:02,439 Speaker 1: in the room with the lights out there. They're gonna 971 01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:05,480 Speaker 1: be spreading all that. They're trying to figure out what 972 01:03:05,840 --> 01:03:12,400 Speaker 1: the hell did Steve do about the finger? Yeah, wout 973 01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:21,600 Speaker 1: the fingers, stupid hand full of his hand to target 974 01:03:22,320 --> 01:03:28,800 Speaker 1: who come in here, gonna take a look at this. 975 01:03:28,880 --> 01:03:30,240 Speaker 1: You're gonna come here and take a look at this. 976 01:03:30,960 --> 01:03:32,640 Speaker 1: I don't know how this Scott up here, gonna take 977 01:03:32,640 --> 01:03:38,360 Speaker 1: a picture of handcuffs on the shower route and uh, 978 01:03:38,880 --> 01:03:41,240 Speaker 1: and take a picture of that change. So I think 979 01:03:41,280 --> 01:03:45,320 Speaker 1: that's gonna have something to do. This is starting to 980 01:03:45,400 --> 01:03:49,960 Speaker 1: look a lot like scarf forself in here. So now 981 01:03:50,840 --> 01:03:53,520 Speaker 1: now they admitted, they admitted they've been going out for 982 01:03:53,640 --> 01:03:57,040 Speaker 1: three years, right under our noses. I was so hurt 983 01:03:57,560 --> 01:04:00,680 Speaker 1: and uh. Then she said her husband conscience got the 984 01:04:00,760 --> 01:04:02,760 Speaker 1: best of him, and he said that he had had 985 01:04:02,800 --> 01:04:05,640 Speaker 1: an affair with three other women, and two of these 986 01:04:05,720 --> 01:04:11,040 Speaker 1: women was also our married friends. God, but why is 987 01:04:11,120 --> 01:04:14,720 Speaker 1: he still living? Yeah, he's good. I'm not understanding that 988 01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:17,920 Speaker 1: he ain't no good? Why is he still living? The 989 01:04:18,160 --> 01:04:22,920 Speaker 1: husband ain't killed him. You ain't killed him. He's sleeping 990 01:04:22,960 --> 01:04:29,760 Speaker 1: with everybody's wife? Who how fine is he? And now 991 01:04:29,840 --> 01:04:32,200 Speaker 1: there now, my husband told me that he got a problem, 992 01:04:32,280 --> 01:04:35,520 Speaker 1: he needed counsel. He begged me to stay with him 993 01:04:35,560 --> 01:04:38,120 Speaker 1: and help him through this. Help help him. What's how 994 01:04:38,200 --> 01:04:42,640 Speaker 1: you feeling to help him? Help me understand? Cheating is simple. 995 01:04:43,040 --> 01:04:45,240 Speaker 1: It's a decision that a dude made because he thinks 996 01:04:45,280 --> 01:04:46,720 Speaker 1: he can get away with it, and he figured you 997 01:04:46,760 --> 01:04:48,520 Speaker 1: ain't gonna know, so what you ain't gonna know ain't 998 01:04:48,520 --> 01:04:50,640 Speaker 1: gonna hurt you, and it might not mean that much 999 01:04:50,720 --> 01:04:53,240 Speaker 1: to him, which can be a true statement. But when 1000 01:04:53,280 --> 01:04:55,480 Speaker 1: you get busted all of a sudden, you mean the 1001 01:04:55,640 --> 01:04:59,680 Speaker 1: world to him. That's what happens in cheat true. Do 1002 01:04:59,840 --> 01:05:04,480 Speaker 1: we understand this. You got to go to school. They 1003 01:05:04,640 --> 01:05:08,200 Speaker 1: got to go to school for this, therapy, for this. 1004 01:05:08,480 --> 01:05:11,640 Speaker 1: It's upset that he got caught. He made her if 1005 01:05:11,800 --> 01:05:15,280 Speaker 1: you had, if she had never caught him, this would 1006 01:05:15,320 --> 01:05:19,160 Speaker 1: still be going on and he wouldn't be asking for help. Then, Yes, sir, 1007 01:05:19,600 --> 01:05:23,080 Speaker 1: help is with one when you got more than one, two, 1008 01:05:23,200 --> 01:05:29,240 Speaker 1: three women? You helping yourself to all the cookies in 1009 01:05:29,360 --> 01:05:33,800 Speaker 1: the jaws not. Don't make it easy for help him 1010 01:05:33,880 --> 01:05:37,000 Speaker 1: through him, my trust him, him and shadowed. Now he 1011 01:05:37,160 --> 01:05:40,080 Speaker 1: had his mistresses in my face and they all played 1012 01:05:40,120 --> 01:05:42,560 Speaker 1: it off perfectly. That's the cold part of this letter 1013 01:05:42,680 --> 01:05:46,840 Speaker 1: right here. He talked all these women into going along 1014 01:05:47,000 --> 01:05:51,400 Speaker 1: with it. Yeah, they were all friends. What have your 1015 01:05:51,640 --> 01:06:00,760 Speaker 1: husband been doing to y'all? This? What is this man doing? Yeah, 1016 01:06:01,240 --> 01:06:08,600 Speaker 1: say the one more time? Come onto y'all? What is it? 1017 01:06:10,040 --> 01:06:17,760 Speaker 1: Keeping it a secret? A fifth board? Right in the 1018 01:06:17,920 --> 01:06:28,120 Speaker 1: words of mc hammill, Stop, oh y'all, what is it? Doing. 1019 01:06:29,360 --> 01:06:32,680 Speaker 1: That's what I want to hear. Thank you, Steve. Post 1020 01:06:32,720 --> 01:06:38,080 Speaker 1: your comments on today Library Letter at Steve Harvey FM 1021 01:06:38,280 --> 01:06:41,440 Speaker 1: on Instagram and Facebook. And don't forget to check out 1022 01:06:41,480 --> 01:06:44,400 Speaker 1: the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now coming up at 1023 01:06:44,400 --> 01:06:46,640 Speaker 1: forty six after the hour from the talk, it will 1024 01:06:46,640 --> 01:06:50,560 Speaker 1: be our girl Cheryl Underwood. Right after this, you're listening 1025 01:06:50,840 --> 01:06:54,720 Speaker 1: to the Steven Show coming up at the top of 1026 01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:58,800 Speaker 1: the hour. It's Carla's Reality Update. But right now, Steve, 1027 01:06:59,040 --> 01:07:08,800 Speaker 1: please introduced our girlfriend. Yes, Steve, Hey, I'll be at 1028 01:07:08,920 --> 01:07:15,080 Speaker 1: Helium Comedy Club in Portland, Oregon with Mike Washington this weekend. 1029 01:07:15,160 --> 01:07:19,400 Speaker 1: Two shows Friday, two shows Saturday. Come on out to Portland, Oregon. So, Junior, 1030 01:07:19,440 --> 01:07:21,640 Speaker 1: where will you be this weekend? I'll be down at 1031 01:07:21,680 --> 01:07:24,320 Speaker 1: the Mail Letter Carriers Hall down in Tampa, Florida or 1032 01:07:24,400 --> 01:07:30,080 Speaker 1: Saint Pete. Yeah, I know somebody's trying to keep us apart. 1033 01:07:30,400 --> 01:07:37,240 Speaker 1: I think it's the airline. I think this Lord. Why 1034 01:07:37,280 --> 01:07:40,760 Speaker 1: would you ask the Lord to intercede on true passion, 1035 01:07:40,920 --> 01:07:44,640 Speaker 1: Steve far I didn't ask. You said somebody trying to 1036 01:07:44,720 --> 01:07:49,200 Speaker 1: keep us apart, and you think I think it's the Lord. 1037 01:07:50,000 --> 01:07:53,080 Speaker 1: You shouldn't think the Lord would do we are both 1038 01:07:53,160 --> 01:08:08,600 Speaker 1: equally yoke, were both short, we both shave every day? Sure, 1039 01:08:08,920 --> 01:08:12,720 Speaker 1: huh yeah. I heard Junior say one time he went 1040 01:08:12,880 --> 01:08:15,840 Speaker 1: to have kids were good. He can bring something with him, man, 1041 01:08:16,000 --> 01:08:20,080 Speaker 1: I can't. My transmission Ben dropped, Julian, you got babies 1042 01:08:20,160 --> 01:08:22,640 Speaker 1: over here? It's better be three wisemen at the door 1043 01:08:22,640 --> 01:08:27,719 Speaker 1: because it's Christmas. That ain't happen. I have no babies 1044 01:08:28,120 --> 01:08:29,720 Speaker 1: when you want to have in the natural way? Or 1045 01:08:30,000 --> 01:08:33,120 Speaker 1: can we go Hollywood with the viatros? Can we go 1046 01:08:33,200 --> 01:08:39,639 Speaker 1: to vatro? Julian, you Sagan? That's this to me, that's 1047 01:08:39,680 --> 01:08:42,679 Speaker 1: the best way. Shut See how you put us together. 1048 01:08:43,160 --> 01:08:45,679 Speaker 1: Gave us a good idea. Because I'm letting another broad 1049 01:08:45,800 --> 01:08:52,160 Speaker 1: carry Junior. Baby, that's gonna be a baby gonna come 1050 01:08:52,240 --> 01:08:59,400 Speaker 1: out difference. What hey, while we're laughing, let me say 1051 01:09:01,800 --> 01:09:04,200 Speaker 1: we lost a good guy in comedy. We lost a 1052 01:09:04,240 --> 01:09:06,360 Speaker 1: good guy in comedy this week down with his bone 1053 01:09:06,360 --> 01:09:08,920 Speaker 1: pass and we love him. We miss him. I got 1054 01:09:08,960 --> 01:09:10,800 Speaker 1: a chance to do his roast. I worked on him 1055 01:09:10,840 --> 01:09:12,320 Speaker 1: and I got the hook up. But I found out 1056 01:09:12,400 --> 01:09:15,320 Speaker 1: he was an ebony model and a jet model and 1057 01:09:15,520 --> 01:09:20,160 Speaker 1: as an actor, he appeared on Barnaby Jones. He was 1058 01:09:20,600 --> 01:09:23,160 Speaker 1: on an episode of Barnaby Jones. So we love you, 1059 01:09:23,640 --> 01:09:25,760 Speaker 1: uh and we miss you. Hey, don't forget to watch 1060 01:09:25,800 --> 01:09:30,400 Speaker 1: the talk. Our Halloween October show is today. And guess what, Junior, 1061 01:09:30,640 --> 01:09:33,720 Speaker 1: I'm playing something close to what I am. Somebody big 1062 01:09:34,120 --> 01:09:47,160 Speaker 1: and sexy. Check out. I'm sure yeah that bad wellween 1063 01:09:49,439 --> 01:09:52,280 Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour, it's Carla's 1064 01:09:52,400 --> 01:10:01,280 Speaker 1: Reality Update right after this you're listening to. All right, Temmy, 1065 01:10:01,320 --> 01:10:05,120 Speaker 1: come on, introduce that girl, Kyla. Let's go, let's go, 1066 01:10:05,320 --> 01:10:08,200 Speaker 1: let's go. She is here, the one and only carl 1067 01:10:08,280 --> 01:10:11,839 Speaker 1: A Farrell with what reality updates? All right, thank you, nephew. 1068 01:10:11,960 --> 01:10:21,240 Speaker 1: We're gonna talk about a show called Ready to Love. Yeah, okay, 1069 01:10:21,720 --> 01:10:24,640 Speaker 1: all right, so listen Ready to Love. It's hosted by 1070 01:10:24,680 --> 01:10:27,760 Speaker 1: our very own nephew, Tommy, and on the show, it 1071 01:10:27,880 --> 01:10:36,760 Speaker 1: explores Yes, Thomas Yes. Hosted by Thomas Smiles. Thank you. 1072 01:10:37,000 --> 01:10:41,439 Speaker 1: Don't get Hollywood anyway. The show explores the real life 1073 01:10:41,560 --> 01:10:47,639 Speaker 1: dating interactions of successful grown folks, black men and women 1074 01:10:47,920 --> 01:10:52,320 Speaker 1: who are looking for lasting love, right Tommy, Yes, long 1075 01:10:52,479 --> 01:10:55,800 Speaker 1: term relationships in the city of the atl in Atlanta. 1076 01:10:56,080 --> 01:10:58,360 Speaker 1: So now in this episode that I watched Tommy set 1077 01:10:58,439 --> 01:11:01,880 Speaker 1: up group dates and the singles, they started to let 1078 01:11:01,960 --> 01:11:05,200 Speaker 1: their guard down a little bit. Nephew. Now some of 1079 01:11:05,280 --> 01:11:08,720 Speaker 1: the guys they get in trouble, uh sending out questionable 1080 01:11:08,880 --> 01:11:12,920 Speaker 1: text messages, uh low talking to woman in the club. 1081 01:11:13,200 --> 01:11:17,360 Speaker 1: So their behavior, some of the brothers got into it. Yeah, 1082 01:11:17,840 --> 01:11:21,040 Speaker 1: and the women on Yeah, and the women on this episode, 1083 01:11:21,160 --> 01:11:24,559 Speaker 1: Tommy had the power to decide. You gave the women 1084 01:11:24,640 --> 01:11:27,559 Speaker 1: a power. Who gets to say? Everybody get power? Power 1085 01:11:28,000 --> 01:11:31,920 Speaker 1: equal right, So this episode, the women had the power 1086 01:11:32,520 --> 01:11:34,680 Speaker 1: to decide who gets to stay, who goes? All right, 1087 01:11:35,479 --> 01:11:39,639 Speaker 1: the ladies discussed uh with Tommy who they were feeling. 1088 01:11:39,760 --> 01:11:42,599 Speaker 1: Tommy took the ladies out to this bar, this wine bar, 1089 01:11:42,840 --> 01:11:47,679 Speaker 1: right and take a listen to this. I'm feeling Darren. 1090 01:11:48,320 --> 01:11:51,880 Speaker 1: We have a lot in common, and we are calling 1091 01:11:51,960 --> 01:11:55,799 Speaker 1: and texting every day throughout the day. I'm very confident 1092 01:11:55,920 --> 01:12:01,559 Speaker 1: that there is a mutual interest in both hand hunt Shima. Yeah, okay, Oh, 1093 01:12:01,640 --> 01:12:04,400 Speaker 1: I'm wonderful. Let's talk about it. I like Darren a 1094 01:12:04,439 --> 01:12:09,760 Speaker 1: whole lot. Darren and I are connected instantly. Darren and 1095 01:12:09,840 --> 01:12:14,120 Speaker 1: I talk every day all day. Really, he definitely lets 1096 01:12:14,200 --> 01:12:17,240 Speaker 1: me know that he is focused on me and he 1097 01:12:17,400 --> 01:12:19,719 Speaker 1: wants us to focus on each other and he doesn't 1098 01:12:19,760 --> 01:12:24,360 Speaker 1: have another connection. That's news to me because I promise 1099 01:12:24,400 --> 01:12:29,360 Speaker 1: you that's not what I'm hearing. But we gilth no 1100 01:12:29,600 --> 01:12:34,400 Speaker 1: one is no one until it becomes official. We'll see 1101 01:12:34,400 --> 01:12:40,599 Speaker 1: how it plays out, right when the fight breakout. Yeah right, 1102 01:12:41,080 --> 01:12:47,479 Speaker 1: Because that's the question, Timmy. The second voice of the 1103 01:12:47,680 --> 01:12:57,760 Speaker 1: second girl concerned me. The tone of boys. Yeah, that's 1104 01:12:57,840 --> 01:13:02,920 Speaker 1: what she signed. She got that sign in her tone 1105 01:13:02,960 --> 01:13:14,400 Speaker 1: and her voice like little girl. Yeah. Now that's the question. 1106 01:13:14,640 --> 01:13:16,879 Speaker 1: That's my question. I want to throw out there to everybody. 1107 01:13:17,240 --> 01:13:19,519 Speaker 1: What do you do when you find out that the 1108 01:13:19,720 --> 01:13:23,559 Speaker 1: guy you like like someone else? So that's a question. 1109 01:13:23,640 --> 01:13:27,679 Speaker 1: You guys can hit me up. Everybody listening to talk 1110 01:13:27,880 --> 01:13:32,160 Speaker 1: and texting all damn day to one, Yeah, all damn 1111 01:13:32,360 --> 01:13:38,240 Speaker 1: day to the other one with his job has to 1112 01:13:38,320 --> 01:13:41,920 Speaker 1: be exhausted. Yeah, you got some that's texting three four 1113 01:13:42,120 --> 01:13:46,439 Speaker 1: five girls. Yeah, see, Tommy, you got in from day awake, 1114 01:13:46,640 --> 01:13:49,880 Speaker 1: way morning with a good morning text, go to bed 1115 01:13:50,000 --> 01:13:52,479 Speaker 1: at night with a good night text. I mean, just 1116 01:13:52,640 --> 01:13:58,760 Speaker 1: working working it. Who do you think? Who do you think? Yeah, 1117 01:13:59,360 --> 01:14:02,360 Speaker 1: he's uh yeah, dance que Who do you think it's 1118 01:14:02,400 --> 01:14:04,559 Speaker 1: gonna get together? The three couples who do you think 1119 01:14:06,240 --> 01:14:12,920 Speaker 1: while I was trying to get some information, you don't 1120 01:14:12,960 --> 01:14:14,400 Speaker 1: try to get to the bottom of it. So make 1121 01:14:14,439 --> 01:14:17,559 Speaker 1: sure you check out Ready to Love This Saturday, hosted 1122 01:14:17,600 --> 01:14:20,559 Speaker 1: by a very own nephew, Tommy on the Own Network 1123 01:14:20,960 --> 01:14:24,120 Speaker 1: ten pm, nine Central on the Own Network, and then 1124 01:14:24,240 --> 01:14:29,240 Speaker 1: quickly on the scripted TV show Power. Oh, everybody has 1125 01:14:29,280 --> 01:14:32,120 Speaker 1: lost their entire mind and everybody is turning on everybody, 1126 01:14:32,200 --> 01:14:40,160 Speaker 1: and Tyreek is gonna kill his daddy. Go list my, Carl. 1127 01:14:40,320 --> 01:14:42,559 Speaker 1: We'll be back in twenty minutes after the hour Tyrika 1128 01:14:42,680 --> 01:14:46,400 Speaker 1: lost his mind. You're listening to the Steve Harvey Morning Show. 1129 01:14:48,479 --> 01:14:53,280 Speaker 1: The World Series is over. Hey, Hey, you don't have 1130 01:14:53,400 --> 01:14:55,760 Speaker 1: to bring it up. Sure, we know, just saying we 1131 01:14:55,880 --> 01:14:57,720 Speaker 1: know it's a well. All I can say is we 1132 01:14:57,880 --> 01:15:01,840 Speaker 1: went to the World Series. We got that in we went. 1133 01:15:02,160 --> 01:15:05,519 Speaker 1: We was that they brought millions of millions of dollars 1134 01:15:05,560 --> 01:15:07,479 Speaker 1: to the city. Every time he had a game. I 1135 01:15:07,520 --> 01:15:11,679 Speaker 1: could say that, yeah, yeah, yeah, we got some nice 1136 01:15:12,320 --> 01:15:16,320 Speaker 1: on shirts. Shirt. I don't know what we're gonna do 1137 01:15:16,360 --> 01:15:20,400 Speaker 1: with them, championship shirts we bought. I don't know who's 1138 01:15:20,400 --> 01:15:25,040 Speaker 1: gonna get in, what, what country off to We're gonna 1139 01:15:25,040 --> 01:15:33,360 Speaker 1: be winning in Brazil. It's good job, good job. They'll 1140 01:15:33,400 --> 01:15:37,360 Speaker 1: put it on in the Philippine. Yeah, world champion in 1141 01:15:37,400 --> 01:15:42,880 Speaker 1: the Philippine. I think it's a great job made it Yeah, yeah, fun. 1142 01:15:44,400 --> 01:15:49,120 Speaker 1: Ain't man, I'm not man. We're still screaming the Strokes. Yeah. Still, 1143 01:15:51,040 --> 01:15:54,400 Speaker 1: let's gonna say this though, Rockets, it's on you. Now, 1144 01:15:54,960 --> 01:15:58,439 Speaker 1: you got next, y'all got next. Let's rock Yeah. But 1145 01:15:58,560 --> 01:16:02,800 Speaker 1: we have to say congratulations to the Washington Nationals are 1146 01:16:03,680 --> 01:16:12,960 Speaker 1: world championslation Yeah, Beatles fan hitting that ball. Nope. I've 1147 01:16:13,040 --> 01:16:17,559 Speaker 1: never seen a series where nobody won at home. Nobody, Yeah, 1148 01:16:17,920 --> 01:16:23,920 Speaker 1: nobody won at home where you saw it? Go to 1149 01:16:24,080 --> 01:16:30,120 Speaker 1: history coming up at thirty three after the hour, right 1150 01:16:30,160 --> 01:16:36,000 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening to show, all right. So, officials 1151 01:16:36,040 --> 01:16:40,800 Speaker 1: in California currently have twenty five million people in California 1152 01:16:40,920 --> 01:16:45,400 Speaker 1: under red flag mornings. These fires are serious as active 1153 01:16:45,439 --> 01:16:49,080 Speaker 1: fires burn across the state. That means high winds are 1154 01:16:49,160 --> 01:16:53,360 Speaker 1: increasing the fire danger in the danger zone. Forty three counties, 1155 01:16:53,400 --> 01:16:58,479 Speaker 1: including San Diego, Los Angeles, Sacramento, and San Francisco. Southern 1156 01:16:58,560 --> 01:17:03,520 Speaker 1: California alone could see the strongest winds in years. Meteorologists 1157 01:17:03,560 --> 01:17:06,880 Speaker 1: say it will feel like a hurricane with gusts between 1158 01:17:07,000 --> 01:17:10,240 Speaker 1: fifty and seventy miles an hour. Off you can believe 1159 01:17:10,320 --> 01:17:15,000 Speaker 1: that Southern California's Getty Fire also stands at fifteen percent containment, 1160 01:17:15,280 --> 01:17:18,280 Speaker 1: and officials are blaming the blaze on the wind. The 1161 01:17:18,400 --> 01:17:22,040 Speaker 1: newly formed Easy fire quickly consumed thirteen hundred acres in 1162 01:17:22,160 --> 01:17:26,160 Speaker 1: Ventura County. Officials said it threatened sixty five hundred homes 1163 01:17:26,200 --> 01:17:30,120 Speaker 1: and four school closures and evacuations, including one at the 1164 01:17:30,280 --> 01:17:33,920 Speaker 1: Ronald Reagan Presidential Library. The former president and his wife, 1165 01:17:34,040 --> 01:17:37,280 Speaker 1: Nancy are buried at that site. Apparently, the Getty Fire 1166 01:17:37,400 --> 01:17:40,720 Speaker 1: was sparked when high winds carried a tree branch into 1167 01:17:40,760 --> 01:17:43,280 Speaker 1: a power line, and it was all caught on a 1168 01:17:43,520 --> 01:17:47,800 Speaker 1: dash cam video from a car. Whow, I mean it 1169 01:17:48,000 --> 01:17:52,160 Speaker 1: is a blaze? Yeah, it really really is something there. 1170 01:17:52,360 --> 01:17:56,960 Speaker 1: You know, No, they're not, and all this stuff is 1171 01:17:57,040 --> 01:18:02,439 Speaker 1: happening too frequently, now, you know. And now hurricane gust 1172 01:18:03,120 --> 01:18:07,840 Speaker 1: when rightify to seventy miles per hour, old, well, you 1173 01:18:07,920 --> 01:18:12,760 Speaker 1: know that that's blowing ambers and that's yeah, and that 1174 01:18:12,960 --> 01:18:17,120 Speaker 1: that that puts the fire. It leaps over places and 1175 01:18:17,360 --> 01:18:20,280 Speaker 1: starts fires, and then that's when it's hard to contain 1176 01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:24,160 Speaker 1: because you have a fire that that's already raging out 1177 01:18:24,200 --> 01:18:30,360 Speaker 1: of control. Now it skips four hundred yards away and 1178 01:18:30,560 --> 01:18:33,719 Speaker 1: starts a new blaze, right, and then some more ambers 1179 01:18:33,840 --> 01:18:37,599 Speaker 1: go up and six hundred yards away land and starts 1180 01:18:37,640 --> 01:18:41,200 Speaker 1: another blaze. And that's that's the danger of the wind. 1181 01:18:41,320 --> 01:18:44,000 Speaker 1: And it just feeds. It's just like blowing on the flame. 1182 01:18:44,080 --> 01:18:47,160 Speaker 1: You're just blowing on and adding more more oxygen to 1183 01:18:47,280 --> 01:18:51,280 Speaker 1: the five's really really a bad situation, definitely. It is 1184 01:18:52,400 --> 01:18:56,720 Speaker 1: your prayers going up. Yeah, really sad. And I mean 1185 01:18:56,800 --> 01:19:00,360 Speaker 1: the first responders of firefighters, you know, praying for them. 1186 01:19:01,479 --> 01:19:05,080 Speaker 1: It's just a sad situation. It just really is. It 1187 01:19:05,439 --> 01:19:08,679 Speaker 1: is you know, twenty five million people under red flag 1188 01:19:08,760 --> 01:19:17,479 Speaker 1: warnings out a lot. Yeah, it's a lot. Yeah, get out, 1189 01:19:17,720 --> 01:19:22,320 Speaker 1: Yeah you have to. I was reading where this woman 1190 01:19:22,400 --> 01:19:26,519 Speaker 1: said that the possibility that she had to evacuate what 1191 01:19:26,600 --> 01:19:28,640 Speaker 1: was happening, And the neighbor knocked on the door and 1192 01:19:28,760 --> 01:19:31,080 Speaker 1: said you gotta go, and she said, you know, she 1193 01:19:31,200 --> 01:19:33,160 Speaker 1: just turned around and looked at saying, Hey, this might 1194 01:19:33,200 --> 01:19:35,040 Speaker 1: be the last time I see my house. But you 1195 01:19:35,160 --> 01:19:41,200 Speaker 1: got your life and your family. That's what. Yeah, wow, 1196 01:19:42,840 --> 01:19:46,240 Speaker 1: all right, well we'll be back with um. The last 1197 01:19:46,320 --> 01:19:48,840 Speaker 1: break of the day and some closing remarks from Steve 1198 01:19:48,920 --> 01:19:51,519 Speaker 1: Harvey at forty nine minutes after the hour. Right after 1199 01:19:51,640 --> 01:19:57,040 Speaker 1: this you're listening to all right, here we are, last 1200 01:19:57,080 --> 01:19:59,120 Speaker 1: break of the day. Right before we get to Steve's 1201 01:19:59,160 --> 01:20:04,960 Speaker 1: closing remark, It's been a good day, yes Halloween yesterday. 1202 01:20:05,040 --> 01:20:09,559 Speaker 1: If you did do Halloween, what would you go as? Oh? 1203 01:20:09,680 --> 01:20:12,160 Speaker 1: My goodness, I used to go all the time, almost 1204 01:20:12,280 --> 01:20:18,000 Speaker 1: every year as Marilyn Monroe, the iconic movie star Marilyn Monroe. 1205 01:20:18,320 --> 01:20:22,559 Speaker 1: We not have my blonde wig everything. Yeah, I always 1206 01:20:22,600 --> 01:20:26,280 Speaker 1: wanted Maryland. One year, I want as Cleopatra. One year 1207 01:20:26,280 --> 01:20:32,760 Speaker 1: I want as Cleopatra. But alone we can go as 1208 01:20:32,840 --> 01:20:38,320 Speaker 1: Kim kardash You got air thing. Yeah. Our next question, Steve, 1209 01:20:39,920 --> 01:20:46,720 Speaker 1: we know you're going as an elf hebler, Yeah, right, 1210 01:20:46,800 --> 01:20:53,160 Speaker 1: all time. Surely I'll talk about you. What about you? 1211 01:20:54,240 --> 01:21:00,280 Speaker 1: I'm going at a cleaner I'm already there or what 1212 01:21:00,760 --> 01:21:05,120 Speaker 1: clean on Star trick? Uh huh, never saw you know 1213 01:21:05,280 --> 01:21:08,160 Speaker 1: you don't know the clean on y You don't watch 1214 01:21:10,120 --> 01:21:12,639 Speaker 1: gotta be a treky to know that. Yeah, yeah, he didn't, 1215 01:21:12,720 --> 01:21:16,040 Speaker 1: he didn't know. They're just the star trek walker watcher. 1216 01:21:17,080 --> 01:21:21,720 Speaker 1: You ain't gonna tell us man hate let me think 1217 01:21:22,200 --> 01:21:30,400 Speaker 1: he ain't let you think as you are. I could 1218 01:21:30,439 --> 01:21:35,040 Speaker 1: go as you really put the much days, much day 1219 01:21:36,120 --> 01:21:38,680 Speaker 1: and put some money in my pocket that I'm now 1220 01:21:39,400 --> 01:21:41,400 Speaker 1: what But tell me you think you sell what you're 1221 01:21:41,400 --> 01:21:45,240 Speaker 1: gonna do for h your uncle. I don't mean he's 1222 01:21:45,320 --> 01:21:49,800 Speaker 1: not so a gnom as that goes that you could 1223 01:21:49,840 --> 01:21:52,920 Speaker 1: be an keep telling him we don't have cute men 1224 01:21:53,000 --> 01:21:54,840 Speaker 1: and our family. I don't know why he keeps trying 1225 01:21:54,880 --> 01:21:58,240 Speaker 1: to be cute. I'm gonna let you be ugly by yourself. 1226 01:22:00,240 --> 01:22:03,479 Speaker 1: You remember who told you you was cute? Who said 1227 01:22:04,560 --> 01:22:06,360 Speaker 1: a lot of people, but I am not fassed to 1228 01:22:06,400 --> 01:22:09,920 Speaker 1: be ugly, but you are him? Y'all excuse y'all go 1229 01:22:10,000 --> 01:22:13,800 Speaker 1: together ugly? And could you one of a lot of 1230 01:22:13,920 --> 01:22:22,800 Speaker 1: people for real? That's like dumber and dumber. Yeah, ugly, 1231 01:22:22,880 --> 01:22:26,240 Speaker 1: and y'all go together with that. I'm not getting in 1232 01:22:26,320 --> 01:22:32,880 Speaker 1: that lane with y'all. Not like it. You're not cute. 1233 01:22:34,000 --> 01:22:37,200 Speaker 1: You go there on TV two years, ain't none of 1234 01:22:37,280 --> 01:22:40,759 Speaker 1: them girls said I showed want I want the host 1235 01:22:41,880 --> 01:22:51,920 Speaker 1: that yet not one of them. Nothing. We'll go over 1236 01:22:51,960 --> 01:22:54,800 Speaker 1: there with bors and see how fast you could kick 1237 01:22:54,840 --> 01:23:01,320 Speaker 1: out that line going over and see you get right 1238 01:23:07,000 --> 01:23:12,879 Speaker 1: with boars coo and you are you all are talking 1239 01:23:13,040 --> 01:23:20,200 Speaker 1: to a woman who has been for Halloween white and 1240 01:23:20,320 --> 01:23:28,120 Speaker 1: a woman. So while y'all talking to her about that? Now, Tommy, 1241 01:23:28,680 --> 01:23:31,360 Speaker 1: let's get real about what you can be for Halloween. 1242 01:23:31,680 --> 01:23:35,680 Speaker 1: And let's stop this you cute conversation. Why does that 1243 01:23:35,840 --> 01:23:39,840 Speaker 1: make you feel? No? Okay, okay, hold, okay, survey survey, 1244 01:23:39,920 --> 01:23:50,200 Speaker 1: Here we go. Brad Pitt, nephew, Timmy, whoa bow you dressed? 1245 01:23:50,280 --> 01:24:01,280 Speaker 1: Elba Nephew Times Tommy, Tommy all day, Boarsko, mom Mo, 1246 01:24:02,960 --> 01:24:11,479 Speaker 1: nephew who come on? Yeah, come on? Is as really question? Steve? Really? 1247 01:24:12,200 --> 01:24:19,360 Speaker 1: Tads nephew, Tommy, I got t d Nah, you can 1248 01:24:19,520 --> 01:24:25,800 Speaker 1: keep going. Yeah, yeah, I hurt him wherever you heard 1249 01:24:25,840 --> 01:24:28,080 Speaker 1: it to them? Whoever you say it to them? Hurt 1250 01:24:28,160 --> 01:24:36,479 Speaker 1: him on George w Yeah because I had one. Yeah yeah, 1251 01:24:37,080 --> 01:24:44,560 Speaker 1: bok wood By Nephew Time, jan Brown, nephew, Tommy he 1252 01:24:45,040 --> 01:24:56,959 Speaker 1: quick yeah yeah, qu oh god, Morgan Freeman, nephew Timegan Freeman. 1253 01:24:57,240 --> 01:25:04,720 Speaker 1: What I'm not doing, Zail, I'm completely out of it. 1254 01:25:04,840 --> 01:25:11,840 Speaker 1: I'm out. Yeah you are been out? Morgan Freeman, Yes 1255 01:25:12,160 --> 01:25:17,080 Speaker 1: to me, really, just get over a little. Really, I 1256 01:25:17,160 --> 01:25:22,240 Speaker 1: thought you were okay to me. Oh, I'm gonna say 1257 01:25:22,280 --> 01:25:25,160 Speaker 1: something really true for listening to me. This gonna hurt you. 1258 01:25:27,000 --> 01:25:30,320 Speaker 1: Don't hurt him, Uncle ski me and you as a 1259 01:25:30,479 --> 01:25:45,439 Speaker 1: toss up? Oh that hurt him? Thoughts up? Yeah, shot fired. 1260 01:25:45,880 --> 01:25:50,800 Speaker 1: It could go either way. You say it yourself. You 1261 01:25:50,880 --> 01:25:55,000 Speaker 1: could go out on Halloween as me. Thank you. But 1262 01:25:55,120 --> 01:25:59,360 Speaker 1: I gotta pick on this. Oh my god, he's rich. 1263 01:25:59,720 --> 01:26:06,599 Speaker 1: He's Richard, Tommy or Steve Harvey, rest of your life. 1264 01:26:09,120 --> 01:26:11,840 Speaker 1: Everybody go with the money, Go ahead, going on with 1265 01:26:11,960 --> 01:26:22,479 Speaker 1: the money. Yeah, Monica or Steve Harvey, Montica Wood, Jia, Nephew, Tommy. Hey, 1266 01:26:27,960 --> 01:26:39,120 Speaker 1: if Junior don't want you the ultimatic, ugly contest conversation, 1267 01:26:39,640 --> 01:26:45,680 Speaker 1: I have a great weekend. Talk to God. For all 1268 01:26:45,760 --> 01:26:49,440 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey contests, no purchase necessary, void where prohibited. 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