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Speaker 1: the dating world you can feel like there's little messages,
Speaker 1: like cosmic signs coming from the universe guiding you to
Speaker 1: your destined path. Is that how you go about dating? Yeah? Right?
Speaker 1: You know It's like, OMG, I was just driving and
Speaker 1: then my car just broke down outside of a chapel,
Speaker 1: and I knew that was the universe telling me, you
Speaker 1: know what, I need to divorce my husband and start
Speaker 1: dating the pastor from this chapel. Why else would my
Speaker 1: car break down right there? It's the universe, Okay, the
Speaker 1: universe knows my dating life best. Very specific messaging from
Speaker 1: the universe. Well, we have a guy named Connor on
Speaker 1: the phone today who also got a message from the universe.
Speaker 1: Please don't tell me you married a pastor. Bro Connor.
Speaker 1: What's up? Hey, what's going on? Guys? How you doing? Okay?
Speaker 1: What was your sign dude. Yeah, I'm scaredness to find
Speaker 1: out they don't believe in cosmic signs. You just said.
Speaker 1: It's awful. Connor, do you converse with the universe on
Speaker 1: the regular. Yeah, you know, I do love to pray.
Speaker 1: I'm I'm a man of God. You know, you open
Speaker 1: up your heart and you live with love, you never
Speaker 1: know what might happen. Oh okay, the guy says, Oh,
Speaker 1: I believe in God, and all of a sudden You're like,
Speaker 1: oh my God, you're a sweetheart. I'm crazy over here
Speaker 1: talking about signs from the universe. You're a hypocrite. You
Speaker 1: think forcing someone based on a car breaking down and
Speaker 1: he's trying to live with that, God telling you God
Speaker 1: stepping in. He's trying to get me. Yeah, jess right
Speaker 1: once you say God? Yeah, no argument there, but sorry, Connor,
Speaker 1: go ahead, no, no, no worries, no where. Connor is
Speaker 1: so chill. Yeah, you know, I think you just live
Speaker 1: with love, my man, It'll come, it'll come. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: that's good encouragement. Connor. Who Now, who did you meet? Well?
Speaker 1: I met Aaron and I met her on Christian singles,
Speaker 1: So I guess that might be the signies referring to
Speaker 1: as we were both on the Christian Singles dating app.
Speaker 1: I don't think that's a side. I think that's just
Speaker 1: an algorithm working correctly to match you up with someone. Again,
Speaker 1: I'm not blind to that, but I think just since
Speaker 1: we're both on that platform, I guess we would have
Speaker 1: the same beliefs in general, So you're kind of having
Speaker 1: a smaller pond of fishing. I guess you could say, Okay,
Speaker 1: but the actual well, the funny thing is, this isn't
Speaker 1: the first time we matched on the app. So about
Speaker 1: a year ago, me and this the same girl, we
Speaker 1: matched and we started talking and you know, we wanted
Speaker 1: to meet up, and then she actually ghosted me. Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: I don't really know why. She just kind of stopped
Speaker 1: talking to me. For a Christian, yeah, not a Christian
Speaker 1: of her at all. Is it if it's on a
Speaker 1: Christian dating app? Is it angela new instead of that's
Speaker 1: a good one. You might you might have to copyright
Speaker 1: that one. So so, but you get that, like it
Speaker 1: happens all the time on these apps. So a year later,
Speaker 1: I took some new photos, you know, spruced up the
Speaker 1: profile a little bit, and we ended up matching again,
Speaker 1: so I called her out. I was like, oh, so
Speaker 1: you know, he came crawling back to me, and I
Speaker 1: reminded her that we matched last year. She remembered and
Speaker 1: felt super embarrassed. See, that was more of the sign
Speaker 1: from the universe that I was talking about the double matching.
Speaker 1: When you matched twice, I feel like that's the universe
Speaker 1: telling you something special as well, tell you remember, well,
Speaker 1: whatever something's telling you something. Yeah, I feel like God
Speaker 1: would be smart enough to help the algorithms out and
Speaker 1: lead us to the right path. Did she take it
Speaker 1: in stride though? I mean you said she was a
Speaker 1: little embarrassed about that, Yeah, but it was cool. Now
Speaker 1: we laughed about it. We laughed about it, but she
Speaker 1: actually wanted to meet up this time. So we're talking
Speaker 1: about what we wanted to do. In her pictures, she's
Speaker 1: really fit, takes care of her body. So I didn't
Speaker 1: really know. I mean, not that a good Christian man
Speaker 1: would care about that, now, would he. Well, I didn't
Speaker 1: know what she might want to eat, so I'm not
Speaker 1: that smart. I guess I thought she was vegetarian because
Speaker 1: she was so in shape, So I suggested the vegetarian place,
Speaker 1: and then she replied, She's like gross, that's disgusting. Is
Speaker 1: if you're a vegetarian, I don't think this is gonna work.
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, it's another sign. So what did you guys
Speaker 1: end up doing? So we actually ended up going to
Speaker 1: a barbecue joint. So that was the complete opposite. There
Speaker 1: you go, that's reading the signs correctly. You're getting it
Speaker 1: common exactly. So dinner was great. You know, I got
Speaker 1: the ribs, she got a chicken dinner, and everything was
Speaker 1: really good. But she wanted to try mine and I
Speaker 1: was like, yeah, of course you don't have a rib
Speaker 1: or two. And I share my plate with her and
Speaker 1: she's mowing down my ribs. I mean we just watched, like,
Speaker 1: you know, the fourth of July hot dog eating contest.
Speaker 1: I mean she's going for the world record of a
Speaker 1: racket rich. Oh was this sexy to you? Or was
Speaker 1: this gross? Because I mean there's two different types of
Speaker 1: guys and how they would read that in the moment,
Speaker 1: I was wicked hungry, right, I was like slow down.
Speaker 1: I was like easy, you know. I eventually I was
Speaker 1: just like, hey, could you stop and let me have
Speaker 1: some of my dinner? Did you laugh? She kept apologizing,
Speaker 1: but we were laughing about it, and then I made
Speaker 1: some jokes about how, you know, like there's no way
Speaker 1: I'm going to share a dessert with her. That's pretty funny,
Speaker 1: So overall I thought it was awesome. At the end
Speaker 1: of the night, there was a pretty passionate kiss. I
Speaker 1: think I got a little riblet out of her teeth. Dude,
Speaker 1: losing her teeth with your tongue. Yeah, you know, you
Speaker 1: know you didn't get to enjoy the dinner there, so
Speaker 1: I got a little later, a little second meal in there.
Speaker 1: That's nice. You did not say that to her after
Speaker 1: you were done kissing her, did you? No? I did?
Speaker 1: That really just turned me off, But overall I thought
Speaker 1: it went well. I thought was one hundred percent chance
Speaker 1: we would get to have a second date. But since
Speaker 1: then I haven't spoken to her. And again I thought
Speaker 1: it and really really well. So I'm just trying to
Speaker 1: figure out what went on. So that's why i'm here.
Speaker 1: What what do you think could possibly be the reason
Speaker 1: that she's not calling back? I don't know. Maybe she
Speaker 1: was mad about me not letting her eat all the ribs,
Speaker 1: But like we were joking, everything, everything seems fun like
Speaker 1: it all seemed coach er to me, So, did you
Speaker 1: ever find out the reason she goes to you the
Speaker 1: first time a year ago? No? No, I mean that
Speaker 1: was just online. So I feel like that's pretty standard.
Speaker 1: Just sometimes just stop talking. Yeah, well, here's what we're
Speaker 1: gonna do. We're gonna play a song for you, Connor.
Speaker 1: We're gonna it's just for you. By the way, no
Speaker 1: one else is allowed to listen. Just condy. Yeah. But
Speaker 1: when we're done with the song, we're gonna come back.
Speaker 1: We'll call Aaron for you, and we'll get you your
Speaker 1: second date update. Okay, all right, sounds good. All right,
Speaker 1: if you're just tuning in for the second date update.
Speaker 1: We're on the phone with a good Christian man named Connor. Yes,
Speaker 1: so I think before we continue any further, we should
Speaker 1: probably bless this phone call. Connor, would you like to
Speaker 1: say grace over this call? Because I'm Jewish, I don't
Speaker 1: know how works. Sure, I think we can. I think
Speaker 1: we can all come together, all right? Can we close
Speaker 1: our eyes and hold hands. Let's just do it, all right?
Speaker 1: We don't do this stuff. We can we can do it.
Speaker 1: We can do it, all right. Let's all take a
Speaker 1: deep breath and just thank our heavenly Father for bringing
Speaker 1: us together today in the quest of real love and friendship.
Speaker 1: We realize that there are ups and downs and misunderstandings
Speaker 1: and opportunities to just keep getting better and lead our
Speaker 1: lives with love and lead our lives with truth. All right,
Speaker 1: I don't want to interrupt, but we gotta wrap this up.
Speaker 1: Can you can you do the abbreviated version of the prayer?
Speaker 1: I wrapped it up. That wasn't baby? Yeah, okay, I
Speaker 1: think to say you do it? You say amen at
Speaker 1: the end of Amen. Hashtag hotties for God. Yeah, no,
Speaker 1: you don't. I kind of like it. I don't know
Speaker 1: how this Christian thing works anyway, Oh my God. If
Speaker 1: you're if you're just tuning in, Connor is trying to
Speaker 1: get a hold of a woman he met on Christians
Speaker 1: single name Aaron. They went out to get barbecue together,
Speaker 1: had a really good time. They swapped dishes, and then
Speaker 1: at the end of the night they even shared a
Speaker 1: very saucy, no unintended kiss. Yeah, a lot more swapping there. Yeah,
Speaker 1: barbecue saucy kiss and it was really great. But now
Speaker 1: Aaron has not been reaching out to Connor since then.
Speaker 1: We're trying to figure out why. I remember they matched
Speaker 1: a year ago and she ghosted him then too, So
Speaker 1: this is the second ghosting by the same woman. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you're right. Actually, oh what was that, Connor? I'm hungry
Speaker 1: from the barbecue interested reaction to hearing that. Stay focused
Speaker 1: for a few more minutes, Connor. Okay, because we're going
Speaker 1: to call her right now and then you can go
Speaker 1: order barbecue. All right, let's do it, all right, I'm
Speaker 1: a doll the number. Here we go. Hello, Hi, can
Speaker 1: I speak to Aaron please? This is Aaron. Hi, Aaron,
Speaker 1: how are you doing? My name is Jeffrey from the
Speaker 1: radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hi. Hi, Hi,
Speaker 1: your moments talk with us? What's up? Not much. We're
Speaker 1: just doing a little segment that we do all the
Speaker 1: time on our show called a second date Update. It's
Speaker 1: where if you go out on a date with someone
Speaker 1: and afterwards you're not calling them back, you can reach
Speaker 1: out to us and we'll call that person for you
Speaker 1: to figure out the reason why. Okay, And we're reaching
Speaker 1: out to you today because you recently went on a
Speaker 1: date with a guy named Connor. Oh yeah, that's not
Speaker 1: going to happen, so no need really, yeah, no need.
Speaker 1: Why would you not just call him back and tell
Speaker 1: him why or something? Um? I am just not interested
Speaker 1: because the way that Connor described it to us, he
Speaker 1: said a very nice story about how you matched on
Speaker 1: Christian singles and that you had actually matched a year
Speaker 1: before then, So it was kind of like it felt
Speaker 1: like it was meant to be. Okay, someone read that
Speaker 1: sign different. Yeah. Well he said that you guys eventually
Speaker 1: went to a barbecue place together and it even ended
Speaker 1: with a very passionate, smokey barbecue flavored kiss. So did
Speaker 1: I get any of that wrong or what did I miss? Well?
Speaker 1: I mean that was all accurate, but there is something
Speaker 1: that he doesn't know that happened after the date that
Speaker 1: really just made me like, no, nope, happened after the date? Yeah?
Speaker 1: Did he do something or did you find something out
Speaker 1: about it? Yeah? Well both? I like saw him after
Speaker 1: the date. What do you mean you saw him? Well,
Speaker 1: we were going out of the parking lot doing kind
Speaker 1: of like the same way, okay, So I was like
Speaker 1: right behind him. I don't he didn't notice me or anything, okay,
Speaker 1: And I saw him like put on his blinker and
Speaker 1: I don't know, I maybe I shouldn't have done this part,
Speaker 1: but I just started to follow him because, oh no,
Speaker 1: well he he was going in a different direction, like
Speaker 1: from where he said he lived. So I was maybe
Speaker 1: he just needed to get gas for his car, or
Speaker 1: maybe it's not your like it's one date, it's none
Speaker 1: of your business where he's going. Maybe the best nat well,
Speaker 1: I mean at that point was harmless. I was just
Speaker 1: like curious. So anyway, I followed him, and first he
Speaker 1: pulled up to an ATM. But then he gets back
Speaker 1: in his car and he like drives a block and
Speaker 1: pulls into this parking lot for a gentleman's club. Okay,
Speaker 1: and then he goes inside. Okay, So wait, are you
Speaker 1: against strippers or are you just not liking it that
Speaker 1: it happened after your date? I just thought, like, how
Speaker 1: classless and weird. Right after our date with me he
Speaker 1: goes there to like get his jollis or something. That
Speaker 1: was just like just freaking out. It's a little strange
Speaker 1: after the first date to go to I mean, he said,
Speaker 1: you guys shared a pretty passionate kiss at the end
Speaker 1: of the night, so now maybe you riled him up
Speaker 1: a little bit, Okay, unacceptable? I mean, is there. Any way,
Speaker 1: there could be an explanation as to why he's there,
Speaker 1: Like his mom works there as a bartender. Yes, that
Speaker 1: would be the worst possible for it. But anyway, the
Speaker 1: worst part of it all the next day, I'm driving, like,
Speaker 1: because it's kind of on my way back and forth
Speaker 1: from my house, past this gentleman's club, and his car
Speaker 1: is still in the parking lot. Okay, but you're stalking
Speaker 1: him at this point. No, I was driving past because
Speaker 1: that's my route, Okay, but there's his car, and like,
Speaker 1: I don't know, I mean, obviously he got wasted and
Speaker 1: like Ubert home or something or when home wants someone.
Speaker 1: I don't know. It's just all of a too too
Speaker 1: too sketchy. Well, I mean there could be I mean
Speaker 1: I know it's maybe out of the realm of possibility,
Speaker 1: but there could be an explanation for this. What could
Speaker 1: that possibly be? I wonder the same thing, And I
Speaker 1: think that's why I should probably tell you. At this point,
Speaker 1: Connor's been on the other line listening and he's heard
Speaker 1: everything that she said, So let's just ask him. Connor. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you naughty little Christian boy, what were you doing and
Speaker 1: going to very very, very great detail when you tell
Speaker 1: us sure, sure, I mean, I mean, I'm just a
Speaker 1: little taking back that you were keeping tabs on me.
Speaker 1: I don't know if I should be alarmed or flattered,
Speaker 1: but neither. So when we were on our day, as
Speaker 1: it was winding down, I was getting text messages from
Speaker 1: my friend and people who I also don't know on
Speaker 1: my friend's phone. So my friend, as a lord loving
Speaker 1: man himself, has some fun and his vice seems to
Speaker 1: be the club with the dollar bills, and he went
Speaker 1: to the club after a couple of drinks, didn't have
Speaker 1: the right amount of funds, and started getting lap dances
Speaker 1: on credit. As we all know, that's probably not a
Speaker 1: good idea in general. I don't think it is a
Speaker 1: thing because I started getting calls from the club bouncer
Speaker 1: that they were going to take this guy out back
Speaker 1: and you know, teach them a lesson what The club
Speaker 1: bouncer has your phone number, and you certainly seem to
Speaker 1: know a lot about how things work in there, so
Speaker 1: it sounds like you're a regular. Come on, be honest, Connor,
Speaker 1: you can't be. Jeffrey, Jeffrey, Jeffrey and Brook. You guys
Speaker 1: didn't hear the story okay, callowing me from my friends phone.
Speaker 1: So my friends drunk. He was a couple grand of
Speaker 1: back room dances. They're calling me and they're saying, hey,
Speaker 1: like if you want to come get your boy and
Speaker 1: bail them out or else. So I didn't want to
Speaker 1: let my friend go down that road and get his
Speaker 1: you know, beat up and get hurt. So I went
Speaker 1: over there, I got some money, I went, I got
Speaker 1: him out out there. I didn't want to leave this
Speaker 1: car there because they were going to probably mess up
Speaker 1: as car as he left it overnight. So I decided
Speaker 1: to drive his car home and I got him out
Speaker 1: of it. Do you believe him? I don't know, but
Speaker 1: it just sounds like they're covering up something to me,
Speaker 1: that's just what it sounds like. Oh, as a god
Speaker 1: fearing Christian man, it's hard to cover up the truth.
Speaker 1: So I just I got to put it out there,
Speaker 1: and I guess we can all make our final decisions.
Speaker 1: I feel like I believe the lies, the lies in
Speaker 1: the specifics. I mean, how specific can you get? I
Speaker 1: can show you the text messages of this guy founding
Speaker 1: me for money, you wouldn't. Okay, here, here's where my
Speaker 1: issue lies. So Why are you so defensive about it
Speaker 1: if it's all the truth? Because I don't want to.
Speaker 1: I don't want to ruin a fun relationship. We had
Speaker 1: a great time, Like, I want to go out on
Speaker 1: a second date. I like this person. Why so now
Speaker 1: I'm gonna lose it over something that I thought might
Speaker 1: be a you know, a year's future. Probably my friend
Speaker 1: will look back and say, wow, my buddy bailed me out,
Speaker 1: Like I thought I did the right thing you did.
Speaker 1: What do you think, in Aaron, after hearing that description,
Speaker 1: I mean, I I'm inclined to believe him. I don't
Speaker 1: even though, come on, it's worth a second chance. Isn't
Speaker 1: that what they teach in the Bible, like multiple chances,
Speaker 1: or that they forgive this. So at this point, Aaron,
Speaker 1: I would like to ask you if you would be
Speaker 1: interested in going on another date with Connor. We will
Speaker 1: pay for it. Do it. What do you have to lose?
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, All right, fine, but Connor, I'm trusting
Speaker 1: you right now. But I actually wouldn't mind if you
Speaker 1: give me your friend's number so I could talk to
Speaker 1: him about it. That wouldn't make you feel better? Ah, yeah,
Speaker 1: that seems fair. I'll give him a call. First, let
Speaker 1: him know that you're gonna call him, and then you
Speaker 1: can whoa hold on, hold on, I mean now, hold on.
Speaker 1: You already agreed to a date. Let's all right now
Speaker 1: you guys have already agreed to go on another date.
Speaker 1: So good luck on the second date, guys. And lord,
Speaker 1: if this is a bad idea, give us a sign
Speaker 1: right now. Look out. Aaron Raiding and Studio Moving ninety
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