WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: Christian Singles

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<v Speaker 1>the dating world you can feel like there's little messages,

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<v Speaker 1>like cosmic signs coming from the universe guiding you to

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<v Speaker 1>your destined path. Is that how you go about dating? Yeah? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>You know It's like, OMG, I was just driving and

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<v Speaker 1>then my car just broke down outside of a chapel,

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<v Speaker 1>and I knew that was the universe telling me, you

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<v Speaker 1>know what, I need to divorce my husband and start

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<v Speaker 1>dating the pastor from this chapel. Why else would my

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<v Speaker 1>car break down right there? It's the universe, Okay, the

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<v Speaker 1>universe knows my dating life best. Very specific messaging from

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<v Speaker 1>the universe. Well, we have a guy named Connor on

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<v Speaker 1>the phone today who also got a message from the universe.

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<v Speaker 1>Please don't tell me you married a pastor. Bro Connor.

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<v Speaker 1>What's up? Hey, what's going on? Guys? How you doing? Okay?

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<v Speaker 1>What was your sign dude. Yeah, I'm scaredness to find

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<v Speaker 1>out they don't believe in cosmic signs. You just said.

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<v Speaker 1>It's awful. Connor, do you converse with the universe on

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<v Speaker 1>the regular. Yeah, you know, I do love to pray.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm I'm a man of God. You know, you open

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<v Speaker 1>up your heart and you live with love, you never

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<v Speaker 1>know what might happen. Oh okay, the guy says, Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>I believe in God, and all of a sudden You're like,

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<v Speaker 1>oh my God, you're a sweetheart. I'm crazy over here

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<v Speaker 1>talking about signs from the universe. You're a hypocrite. You

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<v Speaker 1>think forcing someone based on a car breaking down and

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<v Speaker 1>he's trying to live with that, God telling you God

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<v Speaker 1>stepping in. He's trying to get me. Yeah, jess right

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<v Speaker 1>once you say God? Yeah, no argument there, but sorry, Connor,

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<v Speaker 1>go ahead, no, no, no worries, no where. Connor is

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<v Speaker 1>so chill. Yeah, you know, I think you just live

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<v Speaker 1>with love, my man, It'll come, it'll come. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that's good encouragement. Connor. Who Now, who did you meet? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I met Aaron and I met her on Christian singles,

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<v Speaker 1>So I guess that might be the signies referring to

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<v Speaker 1>as we were both on the Christian Singles dating app.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think that's a side. I think that's just

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<v Speaker 1>an algorithm working correctly to match you up with someone. Again,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm not blind to that, but I think just since

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<v Speaker 1>we're both on that platform, I guess we would have

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<v Speaker 1>the same beliefs in general, So you're kind of having

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<v Speaker 1>a smaller pond of fishing. I guess you could say, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but the actual well, the funny thing is, this isn't

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<v Speaker 1>the first time we matched on the app. So about

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<v Speaker 1>a year ago, me and this the same girl, we

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<v Speaker 1>matched and we started talking and you know, we wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to meet up, and then she actually ghosted me. Oh yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't really know why. She just kind of stopped

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<v Speaker 1>talking to me. For a Christian, yeah, not a Christian

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<v Speaker 1>of her at all. Is it if it's on a

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<v Speaker 1>Christian dating app? Is it angela new instead of that's

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<v Speaker 1>a good one. You might you might have to copyright

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<v Speaker 1>that one. So so, but you get that, like it

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<v Speaker 1>happens all the time on these apps. So a year later,

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<v Speaker 1>I took some new photos, you know, spruced up the

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<v Speaker 1>profile a little bit, and we ended up matching again,

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<v Speaker 1>so I called her out. I was like, oh, so

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<v Speaker 1>you know, he came crawling back to me, and I

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<v Speaker 1>reminded her that we matched last year. She remembered and

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<v Speaker 1>felt super embarrassed. See, that was more of the sign

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<v Speaker 1>from the universe that I was talking about the double matching.

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<v Speaker 1>When you matched twice, I feel like that's the universe

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<v Speaker 1>telling you something special as well, tell you remember, well,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever something's telling you something. Yeah, I feel like God

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<v Speaker 1>would be smart enough to help the algorithms out and

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<v Speaker 1>lead us to the right path. Did she take it

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<v Speaker 1>in stride though? I mean you said she was a

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<v Speaker 1>little embarrassed about that, Yeah, but it was cool. Now

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<v Speaker 1>we laughed about it. We laughed about it, but she

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<v Speaker 1>actually wanted to meet up this time. So we're talking

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<v Speaker 1>about what we wanted to do. In her pictures, she's

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<v Speaker 1>really fit, takes care of her body. So I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really know. I mean, not that a good Christian man

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<v Speaker 1>would care about that, now, would he. Well, I didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know what she might want to eat, so I'm not

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<v Speaker 1>that smart. I guess I thought she was vegetarian because

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<v Speaker 1>she was so in shape, So I suggested the vegetarian place,

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<v Speaker 1>and then she replied, She's like gross, that's disgusting. Is

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<v Speaker 1>if you're a vegetarian, I don't think this is gonna work.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, it's another sign. So what did you guys

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<v Speaker 1>end up doing? So we actually ended up going to

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<v Speaker 1>a barbecue joint. So that was the complete opposite. There

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<v Speaker 1>you go, that's reading the signs correctly. You're getting it

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<v Speaker 1>common exactly. So dinner was great. You know, I got

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<v Speaker 1>the ribs, she got a chicken dinner, and everything was

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<v Speaker 1>really good. But she wanted to try mine and I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, yeah, of course you don't have a rib

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<v Speaker 1>or two. And I share my plate with her and

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<v Speaker 1>she's mowing down my ribs. I mean we just watched, like,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, the fourth of July hot dog eating contest.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean she's going for the world record of a

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<v Speaker 1>racket rich. Oh was this sexy to you? Or was

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<v Speaker 1>this gross? Because I mean there's two different types of

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<v Speaker 1>guys and how they would read that in the moment,

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<v Speaker 1>I was wicked hungry, right, I was like slow down.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like easy, you know. I eventually I was

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<v Speaker 1>just like, hey, could you stop and let me have

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<v Speaker 1>some of my dinner? Did you laugh? She kept apologizing,

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<v Speaker 1>but we were laughing about it, and then I made

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<v Speaker 1>some jokes about how, you know, like there's no way

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to share a dessert with her. That's pretty funny,

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<v Speaker 1>So overall I thought it was awesome. At the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the night, there was a pretty passionate kiss. I

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<v Speaker 1>think I got a little riblet out of her teeth. Dude,

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<v Speaker 1>losing her teeth with your tongue. Yeah, you know, you

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<v Speaker 1>know you didn't get to enjoy the dinner there, so

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<v Speaker 1>I got a little later, a little second meal in there.

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<v Speaker 1>That's nice. You did not say that to her after

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<v Speaker 1>you were done kissing her, did you? No? I did?

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<v Speaker 1>That really just turned me off, But overall I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it went well. I thought was one hundred percent chance

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<v Speaker 1>we would get to have a second date. But since

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<v Speaker 1>then I haven't spoken to her. And again I thought

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<v Speaker 1>it and really really well. So I'm just trying to

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<v Speaker 1>figure out what went on. So that's why i'm here.

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<v Speaker 1>What what do you think could possibly be the reason

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<v Speaker 1>that she's not calling back? I don't know. Maybe she

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<v Speaker 1>was mad about me not letting her eat all the ribs,

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<v Speaker 1>But like we were joking, everything, everything seems fun like

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<v Speaker 1>it all seemed coach er to me, So, did you

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<v Speaker 1>ever find out the reason she goes to you the

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<v Speaker 1>first time a year ago? No? No, I mean that

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<v Speaker 1>was just online. So I feel like that's pretty standard.

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<v Speaker 1>Just sometimes just stop talking. Yeah, well, here's what we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna do. We're gonna play a song for you, Connor.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna it's just for you. By the way, no

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<v Speaker 1>one else is allowed to listen. Just condy. Yeah. But

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<v Speaker 1>when we're done with the song, we're gonna come back.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll call Aaron for you, and we'll get you your

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<v Speaker 1>second date update. Okay, all right, sounds good. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>if you're just tuning in for the second date update.

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<v Speaker 1>We're on the phone with a good Christian man named Connor. Yes,

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<v Speaker 1>so I think before we continue any further, we should

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<v Speaker 1>probably bless this phone call. Connor, would you like to

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<v Speaker 1>say grace over this call? Because I'm Jewish, I don't

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<v Speaker 1>know how works. Sure, I think we can. I think

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<v Speaker 1>we can all come together, all right? Can we close

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<v Speaker 1>our eyes and hold hands. Let's just do it, all right?

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<v Speaker 1>We don't do this stuff. We can we can do it.

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<v Speaker 1>We can do it, all right. Let's all take a

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<v Speaker 1>deep breath and just thank our heavenly Father for bringing

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<v Speaker 1>us together today in the quest of real love and friendship.

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<v Speaker 1>We realize that there are ups and downs and misunderstandings

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<v Speaker 1>and opportunities to just keep getting better and lead our

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<v Speaker 1>lives with love and lead our lives with truth. All right,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to interrupt, but we gotta wrap this up.

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<v Speaker 1>Can you can you do the abbreviated version of the prayer?

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<v Speaker 1>I wrapped it up. That wasn't baby? Yeah, okay, I

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<v Speaker 1>think to say you do it? You say amen at

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<v Speaker 1>the end of Amen. Hashtag hotties for God. Yeah, no,

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<v Speaker 1>you don't. I kind of like it. I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>how this Christian thing works anyway, Oh my God. If

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<v Speaker 1>you're if you're just tuning in, Connor is trying to

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<v Speaker 1>get a hold of a woman he met on Christians

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<v Speaker 1>single name Aaron. They went out to get barbecue together,

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<v Speaker 1>had a really good time. They swapped dishes, and then

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of the night they even shared a

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<v Speaker 1>very saucy, no unintended kiss. Yeah, a lot more swapping there. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>barbecue saucy kiss and it was really great. But now

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<v Speaker 1>Aaron has not been reaching out to Connor since then.

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<v Speaker 1>We're trying to figure out why. I remember they matched

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<v Speaker 1>a year ago and she ghosted him then too, So

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<v Speaker 1>this is the second ghosting by the same woman. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right. Actually, oh what was that, Connor? I'm hungry

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<v Speaker 1>from the barbecue interested reaction to hearing that. Stay focused

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<v Speaker 1>for a few more minutes, Connor. Okay, because we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to call her right now and then you can go

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<v Speaker 1>order barbecue. All right, let's do it, all right, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>a doll the number. Here we go. Hello, Hi, can

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<v Speaker 1>I speak to Aaron please? This is Aaron. Hi, Aaron,

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<v Speaker 1>how are you doing? My name is Jeffrey from the

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<v Speaker 1>radio show Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning. Hi. Hi, Hi,

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<v Speaker 1>your moments talk with us? What's up? Not much. We're

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<v Speaker 1>just doing a little segment that we do all the

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<v Speaker 1>time on our show called a second date Update. It's

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<v Speaker 1>where if you go out on a date with someone

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<v Speaker 1>and afterwards you're not calling them back, you can reach

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<v Speaker 1>out to us and we'll call that person for you

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<v Speaker 1>to figure out the reason why. Okay, And we're reaching

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<v Speaker 1>out to you today because you recently went on a

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<v Speaker 1>date with a guy named Connor. Oh yeah, that's not

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<v Speaker 1>going to happen, so no need really, yeah, no need.

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<v Speaker 1>Why would you not just call him back and tell

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<v Speaker 1>him why or something? Um? I am just not interested

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<v Speaker 1>because the way that Connor described it to us, he

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<v Speaker 1>said a very nice story about how you matched on

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<v Speaker 1>Christian singles and that you had actually matched a year

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<v Speaker 1>before then, So it was kind of like it felt

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<v Speaker 1>like it was meant to be. Okay, someone read that

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<v Speaker 1>sign different. Yeah. Well he said that you guys eventually

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<v Speaker 1>went to a barbecue place together and it even ended

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<v Speaker 1>with a very passionate, smokey barbecue flavored kiss. So did

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<v Speaker 1>I get any of that wrong or what did I miss? Well?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean that was all accurate, but there is something

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<v Speaker 1>that he doesn't know that happened after the date that

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<v Speaker 1>really just made me like, no, nope, happened after the date? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Did he do something or did you find something out

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<v Speaker 1>about it? Yeah? Well both? I like saw him after

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<v Speaker 1>the date. What do you mean you saw him? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>we were going out of the parking lot doing kind

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<v Speaker 1>of like the same way, okay, So I was like

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<v Speaker 1>right behind him. I don't he didn't notice me or anything, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>And I saw him like put on his blinker and

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I maybe I shouldn't have done this part,

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<v Speaker 1>but I just started to follow him because, oh no,

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<v Speaker 1>well he he was going in a different direction, like

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<v Speaker 1>from where he said he lived. So I was maybe

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<v Speaker 1>he just needed to get gas for his car, or

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<v Speaker 1>maybe it's not your like it's one date, it's none

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<v Speaker 1>of your business where he's going. Maybe the best nat well,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean at that point was harmless. I was just

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<v Speaker 1>like curious. So anyway, I followed him, and first he

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<v Speaker 1>pulled up to an ATM. But then he gets back

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<v Speaker 1>in his car and he like drives a block and

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<v Speaker 1>pulls into this parking lot for a gentleman's club. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he goes inside. Okay, So wait, are you

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<v Speaker 1>against strippers or are you just not liking it that

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<v Speaker 1>it happened after your date? I just thought, like, how

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<v Speaker 1>classless and weird. Right after our date with me he

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<v Speaker 1>goes there to like get his jollis or something. That

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<v Speaker 1>was just like just freaking out. It's a little strange

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<v Speaker 1>after the first date to go to I mean, he said,

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<v Speaker 1>you guys shared a pretty passionate kiss at the end

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<v Speaker 1>of the night, so now maybe you riled him up

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<v Speaker 1>a little bit, Okay, unacceptable? I mean, is there. Any way,

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<v Speaker 1>there could be an explanation as to why he's there,

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<v Speaker 1>Like his mom works there as a bartender. Yes, that

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<v Speaker 1>would be the worst possible for it. But anyway, the

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<v Speaker 1>worst part of it all the next day, I'm driving, like,

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<v Speaker 1>because it's kind of on my way back and forth

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<v Speaker 1>from my house, past this gentleman's club, and his car

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<v Speaker 1>is still in the parking lot. Okay, but you're stalking

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<v Speaker 1>him at this point. No, I was driving past because

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<v Speaker 1>that's my route, Okay, but there's his car, and like,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, I mean, obviously he got wasted and

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<v Speaker 1>like Ubert home or something or when home wants someone.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know. It's just all of a too too

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<v Speaker 1>too sketchy. Well, I mean there could be I mean

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<v Speaker 1>I know it's maybe out of the realm of possibility,

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<v Speaker 1>but there could be an explanation for this. What could

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<v Speaker 1>that possibly be? I wonder the same thing, And I

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<v Speaker 1>think that's why I should probably tell you. At this point,

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<v Speaker 1>Connor's been on the other line listening and he's heard

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<v Speaker 1>everything that she said, So let's just ask him. Connor. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>you naughty little Christian boy, what were you doing and

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<v Speaker 1>going to very very, very great detail when you tell

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<v Speaker 1>us sure, sure, I mean, I mean, I'm just a

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<v Speaker 1>little taking back that you were keeping tabs on me.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I should be alarmed or flattered,

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<v Speaker 1>but neither. So when we were on our day, as

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<v Speaker 1>it was winding down, I was getting text messages from

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<v Speaker 1>my friend and people who I also don't know on

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<v Speaker 1>my friend's phone. So my friend, as a lord loving

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<v Speaker 1>man himself, has some fun and his vice seems to

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<v Speaker 1>be the club with the dollar bills, and he went

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<v Speaker 1>to the club after a couple of drinks, didn't have

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<v Speaker 1>the right amount of funds, and started getting lap dances

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<v Speaker 1>on credit. As we all know, that's probably not a

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<v Speaker 1>good idea in general. I don't think it is a

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<v Speaker 1>thing because I started getting calls from the club bouncer

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<v Speaker 1>that they were going to take this guy out back

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<v Speaker 1>and you know, teach them a lesson what The club

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<v Speaker 1>bouncer has your phone number, and you certainly seem to

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<v Speaker 1>know a lot about how things work in there, so

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<v Speaker 1>it sounds like you're a regular. Come on, be honest, Connor,

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<v Speaker 1>you can't be. Jeffrey, Jeffrey, Jeffrey and Brook. You guys

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<v Speaker 1>didn't hear the story okay, callowing me from my friends phone.

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<v Speaker 1>So my friends drunk. He was a couple grand of

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<v Speaker 1>back room dances. They're calling me and they're saying, hey,

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<v Speaker 1>like if you want to come get your boy and

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<v Speaker 1>bail them out or else. So I didn't want to

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<v Speaker 1>let my friend go down that road and get his

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<v Speaker 1>you know, beat up and get hurt. So I went

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<v Speaker 1>over there, I got some money, I went, I got

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<v Speaker 1>him out out there. I didn't want to leave this

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<v Speaker 1>car there because they were going to probably mess up

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<v Speaker 1>as car as he left it overnight. So I decided

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<v Speaker 1>to drive his car home and I got him out

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<v Speaker 1>of it. Do you believe him? I don't know, but

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<v Speaker 1>it just sounds like they're covering up something to me,

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<v Speaker 1>that's just what it sounds like. Oh, as a god

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<v Speaker 1>fearing Christian man, it's hard to cover up the truth.

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<v Speaker 1>So I just I got to put it out there,

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<v Speaker 1>and I guess we can all make our final decisions.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like I believe the lies, the lies in

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<v Speaker 1>the specifics. I mean, how specific can you get? I

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<v Speaker 1>can show you the text messages of this guy founding

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<v Speaker 1>me for money, you wouldn't. Okay, here, here's where my

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<v Speaker 1>issue lies. So Why are you so defensive about it

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<v Speaker 1>if it's all the truth? Because I don't want to.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't want to ruin a fun relationship. We had

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<v Speaker 1>a great time, Like, I want to go out on

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<v Speaker 1>a second date. I like this person. Why so now

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna lose it over something that I thought might

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<v Speaker 1>be a you know, a year's future. Probably my friend

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<v Speaker 1>will look back and say, wow, my buddy bailed me out,

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<v Speaker 1>Like I thought I did the right thing you did.

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<v Speaker 1>What do you think, in Aaron, after hearing that description,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I I'm inclined to believe him. I don't

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<v Speaker 1>even though, come on, it's worth a second chance. Isn't

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<v Speaker 1>that what they teach in the Bible, like multiple chances,

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<v Speaker 1>or that they forgive this. So at this point, Aaron,

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<v Speaker 1>I would like to ask you if you would be

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<v Speaker 1>interested in going on another date with Connor. We will

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<v Speaker 1>pay for it. Do it. What do you have to lose?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, All right, fine, but Connor, I'm trusting

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<v Speaker 1>you right now. But I actually wouldn't mind if you

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<v Speaker 1>give me your friend's number so I could talk to

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<v Speaker 1>him about it. That wouldn't make you feel better? Ah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>that seems fair. I'll give him a call. First, let

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<v Speaker 1>him know that you're gonna call him, and then you

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<v Speaker 1>can whoa hold on, hold on, I mean now, hold on.

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<v Speaker 1>You already agreed to a date. Let's all right now

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<v Speaker 1>you guys have already agreed to go on another date.

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<v Speaker 1>So good luck on the second date, guys. And lord,

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<v Speaker 1>if this is a bad idea, give us a sign

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<v Speaker 1>right now. Look out. Aaron Raiding and Studio Moving ninety

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<v Speaker 1>two point five