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Speaker 1: From Hollywood to you.

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Speaker 2: Thank you for listening to us.

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Speaker 1: Ryan Air on Air with a Ryan Seacrest.

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Speaker 3: Do you follow at Secret dot Los Angeles on Instagram?

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Speaker 3: You on Instagram, So it's a good follow. A lot

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Speaker 3: of local recommendations here, and there is something cool about

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Speaker 3: living in southern California where you know what you're talking about.

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Speaker 3: When you say, for example, I gotta go over the hill.

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Speaker 3: It doesn't mean you gotta get old no, no, no, right,

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Speaker 3: but where I grub. If you're over the hill, you're

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Speaker 3: over forty. That was the mile marker.

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Speaker 1: Not here.

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Speaker 4: If you're say over the hill, you're going to be

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Speaker 4: stuck on Coldwater Canyon or Laurel Canyon.

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Speaker 1: Traffic.

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Speaker 3: Over the hill means which way from the valley to

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Speaker 3: the west side or the west side to the valley. Exactly,

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Speaker 3: I gotta get over the hill. Oh it's going to

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Speaker 3: take me an hour and a half.

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Speaker 1: Exactly.

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Speaker 2: You don't have to go over the hill. I gotta

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Speaker 2: go over the hill.

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Speaker 3: Spend your whole day over the hill because you can't

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Speaker 3: get back and forth the hill right right, and you're

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Speaker 3: going over the hill today.

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Speaker 2: I got a pack a bag of going over the hill.

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Speaker 5: Not for going over the hill on the opposite of traffic.

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Speaker 3: Well, then you have to have the right schedule, right,

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Speaker 3: But how about when you are relieved that you want

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Speaker 3: your job is over the hill, and then you move

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Speaker 3: over the hill.

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Speaker 2: You no longer have to go over the hill to

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Speaker 2: get it to work.

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Speaker 3: So the other day they asked, what are some phrases

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Speaker 3: only people in LA would understand?

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Speaker 2: And it's so true. It's so true. Like when it rains.

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Speaker 2: What did people say when it rains?

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Speaker 1: Oh, we need it, we need it right matter what

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Speaker 1: we need it. Oh, we need it, we need it.

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Speaker 2: Yeah it's raining again. Yeah, but we need it.

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Speaker 1: We need it.

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Speaker 2: Do you are you checking?

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Speaker 3: How do you know we need it? Like we've had

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Speaker 3: a lot lately, but we still need it.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, we need it.

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Speaker 6: Uh.

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Speaker 2: Here's another one that's so good.

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Speaker 3: That you're waiting for your friend to get to your

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Speaker 3: apartment and they're like here looking for parking.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, me too.

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Speaker 2: Some people do it.

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Speaker 3: Like as a short They just short it to l

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Speaker 3: LFP or something for parking.

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Speaker 2: Oh, so La, Oh, this one's so good. We're coming.

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Speaker 3: You're el sisting at three for a barbecue, and then

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Speaker 3: you reply, bring a jacket just in case.

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Speaker 2: It might get cold.

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Speaker 4: I honestly will probably get cold if it's not summertime.

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Speaker 2: I need a blazer. Why are we dressing up?

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Speaker 7: No?

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Speaker 2: It might get cold? Yes, did you feel that? What

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Speaker 2: is that? Laism?

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Speaker 5: Earthquake?

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Speaker 3: There's no second guessing. Did you feel that? And all

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Speaker 3: we do is google for earthquake?

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Speaker 8: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: I got an x May Gray or June Gloom this one.

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Speaker 3: I'm I'm burnt out on these two. Right, these are laisms,

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Speaker 3: so Myra said. She wrote to said, you know, Runyon,

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Speaker 3: that's a big laism right. Also, Jerry said to us

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Speaker 3: here listens geographically undesirable. That's something we use in something

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Speaker 3: California a lot because it's so spread out. And Leilah

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Speaker 3: slash Ryan said she ate that outfit, which means what

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Speaker 3: it was great.

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Speaker 4: Crushed it crushed, it look fantastic.

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Speaker 3: And you can tell someone is from la when they

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Speaker 3: get you distance and minutes, as in how far away

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Speaker 3: do you live? Like thirty minutes but you would just

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Speaker 3: say like next door, but it's not it's thirty minutes, right, Or.

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Speaker 4: You can say I live I don't know, thirty minutes

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Speaker 4: without traffic or forty five minutes with traffic.

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Speaker 2: The what without traffic.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, those are laisms. I love him so much. If

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Speaker 3: you want to add to those, reach out to us.

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Speaker 3: Let's get the salespeople in here for this one.

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Speaker 2: One. Two kids up.

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Speaker 3: They're always yeah, I mean I got an email the

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Speaker 3: other day.

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Speaker 2: They want to They want to know if I've had

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Speaker 2: if I've.

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Speaker 3: Ever flooded a house or something, because they're looking for

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Speaker 3: an advertiser for house flooding.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: Has My house is not flooded, But if anybody has.

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Speaker 3: Greg Ashlock's looking for.

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Speaker 6: You, they should talk to the house three houses down

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Speaker 6: from ours.

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Speaker 5: It just keeps gushing over.

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Speaker 3: To tell Greg that because he's looking for somebody to

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Speaker 3: do a commercially I will sales department. You might want

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Speaker 3: to listen to this story because it's going to get

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Speaker 3: some airtime right now. And it is a major cruise line,

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Speaker 3: isn't it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the Norwegian Pearl, which will be renamed to the

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Speaker 4: Big Nude Boat.

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Speaker 3: But for the journey is it a Norwegian cruise line ship?

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Speaker 1: It is Norwegian.

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Speaker 2: I feel like they advertise in a lot of places.

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Speaker 3: So this is an interesting What if we gave this away,

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Speaker 3: would people want to win it?

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Speaker 4: That would be very interesting. I would I'm actually curious

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Speaker 4: to know.

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Speaker 2: So listen to the story and tell me.

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Speaker 3: If it's a prize you'd want to win, I would

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Speaker 3: put it like nine thirty in every day, but I

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Speaker 3: don't know, right, you don't want to do it in

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Speaker 3: early because it's an adult win. But it's a nude

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Speaker 3: cruise out of Miami to the Caribbean, Sissy, what do you.

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Speaker 1: Have for eleven day nude cruise?

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Speaker 4: You would be able to hold twenty three hundred passengers,

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Speaker 4: so quite a few people that are nude. But if

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Speaker 4: it makes stops in Bahamas, Puerto Rico, and Saint Martin,

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Speaker 4: And there's one place on the boat where you have

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Speaker 4: to wear clothing and do you want to guess where?

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Speaker 2: Let me oh, the water.

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Speaker 4: This is like the one place that you have to

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Speaker 4: wear clothing. Dinner the gym, right ding ding ding? Indoor

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Speaker 4: dining rooms, yeah, you can't, but they do have outdoor buffets.

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Speaker 4: If you do want to just continue the nudity, you

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Speaker 4: can go grab some food in the buffet.

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Speaker 3: Out Can you also wear a banding suit? Is it

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Speaker 3: nude optional? Does everybody be naked? Or can you go

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Speaker 3: and look at people but wear a bathing sit?

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Speaker 1: It's sounding like you could wear bottoms.

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Speaker 4: I don't know about the top because when I was

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Speaker 4: reading about the hygiene, they were saying that nudists will

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Speaker 4: have to put a towel down before sitting anywhere, So

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Speaker 4: like the lounge chairs things like that, if you're not

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Speaker 4: wearing that, if you're not wearing bottoms, those lounge chase

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Speaker 4: lounge straps could really leave a mark. I always want

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Speaker 4: to put a towel down anyways, even if I am

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Speaker 4: wearing a banting suit.

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Speaker 2: Question is there entertainment is like the entertainment like they

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Speaker 2: have shows.

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Speaker 1: I would imagine show.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, it's like a full crew eleven days. There's going

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Speaker 4: to be tons of entertainment marks.

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Speaker 2: And to be dimbar let's talk to them.

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Speaker 4: When you disembark, you have to wear clothing and the

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Speaker 4: bahamas and interested in this.

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Speaker 2: Just take it's bizarreeam bonding.

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Speaker 4: Guys.

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Speaker 3: Imagine if you're in into somebody you knew on one

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Speaker 2: That's not what you want.

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Speaker 1: No, this is not for me.

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Speaker 2: I can't well, I don't know Tanya likes to walk

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Speaker 2: around like this? You guys, tell me I do?

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Speaker 7: I like?

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Speaker 6: I enjoy being nude, but I don't know if I

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Speaker 6: would enjoy it around other people.

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Speaker 5: Does that make sense?

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Speaker 2: I think I'm I think I'm with you on it,

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Speaker 6: Do enjoy I love being nude in the in my home,

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Speaker 6: but I don't love it.

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Speaker 5: I don't know if I would love to go to

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Speaker 4: Oh so I want to know the demographics of the

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Speaker 4: people that are doing a cruise like this.

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Speaker 1: Is it all you know? Older people?

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Speaker 4: Or because they did they did a little survey and

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Speaker 4: they basically found out that, uh, when you get older,

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Speaker 4: you feel a little bit more comfortable in your skin,

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Speaker 4: so you're more comfortable being nude.

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Speaker 1: So I could see it being on the older end.

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Speaker 3: Maybe we'll find the spokesperson for that. What's it called,

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Speaker 3: the big Nude boat, the.

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Speaker 5: Big Nude Boat, Marigian Pearl.

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Speaker 2: We'll see it.

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Speaker 3: I don't if we're any way trips or not, but

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Speaker 3: we'll see how this goes. Interesting picture. I don't where

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Speaker 3: to get these pictures you showed us. But these pictures

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Speaker 3: or is this like rendering?

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Speaker 1: No, no, no, this is these are real from uh

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Speaker 3: Post of the thousands of people in the pool naked. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: that's crazy. I mean, it covered everything in the photo,

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Speaker 3: so you don't know but.

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Speaker 5: The big nude boat.

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Speaker 3: So are you dating or trying to date? And how

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Speaker 3: do you feel about it? It's just not It's just

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Speaker 3: not so easy most of the time. So there is

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Speaker 3: this trend. Tanya clearly is for it. Sisney's gonna explain

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Speaker 3: it and then we can all weigh in. But it

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Speaker 3: is a new dating trend here in Los Angeles where

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Speaker 3: you give a PowerPoint presentation about your friend and why

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Speaker 3: they shouldn't be single, exaactly exactly.

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Speaker 4: I think dating in general has probably got a big struggle,

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Speaker 4: especially here in LA.

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Speaker 3: Why why why don't we say that? Though, I mean

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Speaker 3: I say it too, but why here.

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Speaker 4: In La Because this is such a fast moving city.

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Speaker 4: And then also public transportation here is not the easiest,

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Speaker 4: so you need to have a car to get to

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Speaker 4: somebody on the west side, and then you're dealing with traffic,

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Speaker 4: and so then you just.

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Speaker 6: Give up and the city is like the bigger, better

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Speaker 6: deal syndrome.

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Speaker 2: Not everywhere, that's that's the blocks you.

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Speaker 5: Walk, Okay, just saying there's not.

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Speaker 2: The blocks everywhere, all right, So explain this to me.

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Speaker 4: So now I imagine you're instead of having to do

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Speaker 4: the apps, your best friend is the one that's pitching

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Speaker 4: you to strangers. And so this group in LA called

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Speaker 4: the Next Fun Thing throws regular dating events.

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Speaker 2: I just did one.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well yeah, and they actually just did this specific

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Speaker 4: one this past weekend.

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Speaker 7: Seen.

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Speaker 4: But before this, they've done like speed dating, like the

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Speaker 4: traditional speed dating and all that stuff, or mingles and

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Speaker 4: things like that. But this is the first power point

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Speaker 4: one where your friends are just explaining to.

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Speaker 1: A group of strangers.

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Speaker 4: Are up on stage and they're explaining to a group

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Speaker 4: of strangers why.

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Speaker 3: I mean I circulate, I'm out in the wild. You

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Speaker 6: So that is huge loyalty right there, bing bing bing.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so I'd put that in there, and then i'd

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Speaker 5: He loves and.

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Speaker 2: Gosh, all right, do you know the founder? I think

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Speaker 1: We should have her.

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Speaker 1: It's just it's so beautiful. I love it. The next

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Speaker 3: This is the new dating trend here in la. Are

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Speaker 3: So if you want to stay looking young, stop putting

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Speaker 3: The alcohol causes wrinkles on your neck.

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Speaker 2: But I spray my neck all the time.

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Speaker 1: But don't you all, I'm also lotion your neck.

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Speaker 3: Fun fact, right, Today's quote one of the most freeing

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Speaker 3: One of the most freeing things we learn in life

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Speaker 3: is that we don't like everyone. Everyone doesn't like us. Great,

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Speaker 3: These are some of this stuff just strikes me as nuts,

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Speaker 3: but let's get into it. So these are the most

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Speaker 2: Some do work.

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Speaker 3: But the one I that struck me the belly button one.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if I've ever told you that I

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Speaker 3: A TikToker with a bunch of followers says it fights

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Speaker 2: Why is it safe? No? And does it work?

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Speaker 3: No? It can cause irritation and clog your pores cause

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Speaker 5: It's so weird.

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Speaker 3: Next one, this is about coffee part of my morning.

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Speaker 3: Some people put brood coffee in a spray bottle, spray

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Speaker 3: Tanya who tapes her mouth shut at night. Have you

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Speaker 3: heard about this? One duct tape to remove warts? By

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Speaker 5: It is the best sleep ever.

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Speaker 1: Maybe too good a sleep.

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Speaker 3: Maybe it's but half the tape. So you get here

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Speaker 3: They say, putting duct tape over a wart once every

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Speaker 3: The weirdest trends on TikTok right now. So we were

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Speaker 3: I don't believe you because I say I can't, and

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Speaker 3: I do find it meditative to go to the coast

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Speaker 5: I can see that meditation.

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Speaker 4: It can be.

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Speaker 3: So you are the reason I bring this uping is

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Speaker 5: I'm trying to cut down on those two things.

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Speaker 4: Why would you try cutting down on drinking in the

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Speaker 6: So I'm trying to cut down to two drinks a week,

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Speaker 6: very Stagnan's not the right word.

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Speaker 5: Uh, it takes me a lot.

454
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Speaker 6: No, it gives me a lot longer to get something

455
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Speaker 6: done than it ever has my life. And I'm like,

456
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Speaker 6: this is crazy that this just took me an hour

457
00:18:54,200 --> 00:18:56,760
Speaker 6: and it should have taken me ten minutes. And I

458
00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:58,560
Speaker 6: realize it's because I get distracted and I go and

459
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Speaker 6: I start looking through my phone like it sucked into

460
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Speaker 6: TikTok sucked in or whatever.

461
00:19:02,960 --> 00:19:04,080
Speaker 5: No, so now I'm.

462
00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:06,480
Speaker 6: Trying to put my phone down whenever I'm doing tasks

463
00:19:06,520 --> 00:19:08,159
Speaker 6: and I'm not allowed to look at it until I

464
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Speaker 6: finish the task.

465
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Speaker 4: What happens if you need your phone for the task?

466
00:19:10,880 --> 00:19:12,840
Speaker 4: Sometimes that happens to me, and then I do get lost,

467
00:19:12,960 --> 00:19:15,000
Speaker 4: Like I'll always say, I'm like on Instagram when I

468
00:19:15,000 --> 00:19:16,280
Speaker 4: wanted to check my email.

469
00:19:16,040 --> 00:19:17,680
Speaker 6: Right, or like you just need to send a quick text,

470
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Speaker 6: like what time is this appointment.

471
00:19:19,240 --> 00:19:19,960
Speaker 5: To start scrowling.

472
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Speaker 2: Yeah, I can't do it.

473
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Speaker 5: I can't do it. It hasn't happened yet.

474
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Speaker 1: Get a ship phone.

475
00:19:26,280 --> 00:19:28,119
Speaker 5: That feels it feels way harsh.

476
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Speaker 2: Yeah.

477
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Speaker 3: I like what you I like what you're trying to do.

478
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Speaker 3: It is tough to do it in summer. I feel

479
00:19:32,880 --> 00:19:35,320
Speaker 3: like this is a fall. This is like an October.

480
00:19:35,640 --> 00:19:36,520
Speaker 5: Over in September.

481
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Speaker 1: January first type of thing.

482
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Speaker 2: Yeah, this is the drive January, no social January program.

483
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Speaker 5: I know, like this is like social months.

484
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Speaker 2: Whatever you need.

485
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Speaker 3: Uh, I'm really with you on the putting the phone

486
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Speaker 3: down in a way when trying to focus on something,

487
00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:53,760
Speaker 3: because I too find that, oh my gosh, I can't

488
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Speaker 3: get through a page I'm trying to read because I've

489
00:19:56,280 --> 00:19:57,920
Speaker 3: got my phone in my lap and I keep having

490
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Speaker 3: to reread the same page over and over again.

491
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Speaker 2: I'm trying to respond to what I'm reading and it's

492
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Speaker 2: just too overwhelming.

493
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Speaker 5: Yeah.

494
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Speaker 6: Like I was doing this a global entry application that

495
00:20:05,359 --> 00:20:07,800
Speaker 6: should take five minutes and it took me forty five

496
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Speaker 6: minutes the other day because I was just like.

497
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Speaker 2: They should not let you enter. Yeah, so it's something I.

498
00:20:15,400 --> 00:20:18,520
Speaker 3: Have done before, just to torture myself on a flight.

499
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Speaker 3: But it's become a trend. Why is it just guys

500
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Speaker 3: doing it?

501
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Speaker 1: I don't know that part.

502
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Speaker 4: I don't know why it's men that are kind of

503
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Speaker 4: leading the way with this. But the only thing I

504
00:20:27,240 --> 00:20:29,400
Speaker 4: can think of is that they are trying to one

505
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Speaker 4: up each other with their records, and so it's almost

506
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Speaker 4: like a pride thing to.

507
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Speaker 2: Post how long ragging?

508
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Speaker 7: Right?

509
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Speaker 1: Yeah, how many hours you raw dogged on a flight?

510
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Speaker 1: Et cetera, et cetera.

511
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Speaker 2: Okay, explain what it is because there's some confusion.

512
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Speaker 4: In men are foregoing the modern comforts of flying with

513
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Speaker 4: basically no music, no streaming, no food, no drinks.

514
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Speaker 1: That's the raw part, and that is the raw part.

515
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Speaker 4: So that is what they what they mean when they

516
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Speaker 4: say I just raw dog that seven hour flight.

517
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Speaker 1: Basically they stare at They.

518
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Speaker 4: Just stare and so it's it has to be a

519
00:21:01,359 --> 00:21:03,200
Speaker 4: flight that doesn't have the little TV in front of

520
00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:04,800
Speaker 4: you to be able to stream movies, or if it does,

521
00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:05,160
Speaker 4: you just.

522
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Speaker 1: Don't use it. The only thing they are able to

523
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Speaker 1: use is the flight tracker, so they can see.

524
00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:13,360
Speaker 2: Yes, I watched that the flight tracker. I meditate watching.

525
00:21:13,040 --> 00:21:14,480
Speaker 1: Them, and that's what they're saying.

526
00:21:14,520 --> 00:21:17,720
Speaker 4: They're saying, it's like a form of meditation for them,

527
00:21:17,840 --> 00:21:20,760
Speaker 4: especially if it's an hour long more than an hour

528
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Speaker 4: long flight, they just sit there and stare.

529
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Speaker 1: They don't ever.

530
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Speaker 5: Grab to your neighbor.

531
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Speaker 2: No.

532
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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know that that was on the list

533
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Speaker 4: of things to do or not do, but it made

534
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Speaker 4: it seem like it was just like it's their own

535
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Speaker 4: personal like quiet time.

536
00:21:37,640 --> 00:21:40,040
Speaker 3: Not bringing anything to listen do, not bringing headphones, not

537
00:21:40,080 --> 00:21:42,040
Speaker 3: bringing something to read, not bringing a scroll, not looking

538
00:21:42,080 --> 00:21:43,680
Speaker 3: at their phone, I mean not not not so they

539
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Speaker 3: can then post the amount of time this.

540
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Speaker 2: Way, do it like fifteen hours.

541
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Speaker 4: Yeah, so, I guess I saw one that said fifteen

542
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Speaker 4: hour flight back to LA But I could never do this.

543
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Speaker 4: I mean forty five minutes maybe the Vegas but max, I.

544
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Speaker 3: Mean, I'm not good in my car and I'm occupied

545
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Speaker 3: driving it getting home in traffic.

546
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Speaker 5: I could do it if I could talk to the

547
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Speaker 5: person next to me.

548
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Speaker 2: But that's not I think that would be a flag.

549
00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:09,600
Speaker 2: It's not because that's not wrong. Raw. No, it's not.

550
00:22:09,720 --> 00:22:10,560
Speaker 2: It's not raw.

551
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Speaker 6: It's like the epitome, because that's like that codependency.

552
00:22:14,359 --> 00:22:17,520
Speaker 1: It is codependency. You're right, I will.

553
00:22:17,320 --> 00:22:20,760
Speaker 2: Tell you that map strikes me as so interesting.

554
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:22,080
Speaker 1: That's like a dude thing.

555
00:22:22,640 --> 00:22:24,359
Speaker 2: When I see the airplane in the line and how

556
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Speaker 2: much we don't.

557
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Speaker 4: Make it too, I quite like, I think it's all right,

558
00:22:27,600 --> 00:22:28,840
Speaker 4: but I don't even stare at it and.

559
00:22:30,040 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 3: So excited when we've tracked more than half of what

560
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Speaker 3: we have to get through.

561
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Speaker 2: I don't like the line more than half.

562
00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:37,600
Speaker 4: And then what if it's not more than half of

563
00:22:37,680 --> 00:22:41,360
Speaker 4: You're like, oh, we have so much long anxiety on air.

564
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Speaker 2: With a Ryan Seacrets.

565
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Speaker 3: My coworkers stiffed my daughter. Why don't two point seven

566
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Speaker 3: kids FM? That's the headline of this call. You know,

567
00:22:50,000 --> 00:22:52,960
Speaker 3: not giving a wedding gift? You remember who doesn't give

568
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Speaker 3: you away?

569
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Speaker 1: Still either?

570
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Speaker 4: Five people that came to my two hundred person wedding

571
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Speaker 4: that did not give wedding gifts.

572
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Speaker 1: And I remember who those people are?

573
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Speaker 5: Hundred people.

574
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Speaker 2: There was a lot of guest that's a way.

575
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Speaker 3: That's why she invited so many people, all those kiss

576
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Speaker 3: she's taken names, taking names. I remember, you want to

577
00:23:14,240 --> 00:23:18,440
Speaker 3: throw anybody out there? Is there still on that list.

578
00:23:18,160 --> 00:23:20,600
Speaker 4: That I'm meant that I'm that it's in my life, yes,

579
00:23:23,400 --> 00:23:24,720
Speaker 4: because you know what, maybe they had the reasons.

580
00:23:24,760 --> 00:23:26,320
Speaker 1: Maybe they forgot, maybe they thought their wife was going

581
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Speaker 1: to do it.

582
00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:28,920
Speaker 2: Who knows that it's impacted their friendship with you?

583
00:23:29,960 --> 00:23:30,399
Speaker 9: It's not.

584
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Speaker 2: I mean, you are holding a grudge match.

585
00:23:33,040 --> 00:23:35,360
Speaker 1: It's not a grudge. It's just a messarage.

586
00:23:35,600 --> 00:23:36,879
Speaker 2: You think a definition of a grudge.

587
00:23:37,359 --> 00:23:38,159
Speaker 1: It's not a grudges.

588
00:23:38,720 --> 00:23:40,400
Speaker 4: I don't think about it every time I see them,

589
00:23:40,520 --> 00:23:43,359
Speaker 4: full and grudge. But when this topic comes up, I

590
00:23:43,359 --> 00:23:44,120
Speaker 4: do think about it.

591
00:23:44,880 --> 00:23:46,679
Speaker 2: Way you do think about it when you see them.

592
00:23:46,720 --> 00:23:50,080
Speaker 2: I guarantee you know, I really I really don't think

593
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Speaker 2: about when you see anyway, Rachel.

594
00:23:51,320 --> 00:23:53,640
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Rachel, this is the thing.

595
00:23:55,280 --> 00:23:57,080
Speaker 2: Holds grudges. Let's just be clear.

596
00:23:57,880 --> 00:24:01,280
Speaker 3: So, Rachel, your coworker did not give your daughter a

597
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:04,160
Speaker 3: wedding gift. Tell us what happened and about the awkwardness.

598
00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:10,359
Speaker 7: Now, well, the awkwardness is very awkward. But okay, So

599
00:24:10,480 --> 00:24:11,240
Speaker 7: my daughter.

600
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Speaker 9: Just got married, and my husband and I helped pay

601
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Speaker 9: for half the wedding, so of course we were entitled

602
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Speaker 9: to invite coworkers. I've been working at this company a

603
00:24:20,680 --> 00:24:24,480
Speaker 9: long time, so these coworkers have known my daughter, they've

604
00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:27,600
Speaker 9: seen her grow up, they know a boyfriend she dated,

605
00:24:27,840 --> 00:24:32,000
Speaker 9: They knew this this husband before he was the husband.

606
00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:34,359
Speaker 9: You know, all the things that led up to this

607
00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:38,280
Speaker 9: special day, so they were like involved and part of it.

608
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Speaker 9: And of course I found out at the end that

609
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Speaker 9: one of my coworks who attended the wedding wasn't invited

610
00:24:45,440 --> 00:24:49,320
Speaker 9: and not attended the wedding, didn't give her a gift.

611
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Speaker 9: So it's extremely awkward because we work together, and I

612
00:24:54,400 --> 00:24:56,600
Speaker 9: don't know how to handle it because I think that

613
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Speaker 9: it's very rude to my daughter and my else and

614
00:25:01,480 --> 00:25:04,080
Speaker 9: I'm not sure if there's a way that I can

615
00:25:04,560 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 9: say something to her.

616
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Speaker 1: But when was the wedding.

617
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Speaker 9: A month and a half ago?

618
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Speaker 4: Tradition shows they have up to a year to give

619
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Speaker 4: a gift. I mean, you could wait the full year.

620
00:25:20,440 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 4: You never know, but tradition shows you have up to

621
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Speaker 4: a year to give a gift.

622
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Speaker 9: And then is it extra special because they spent that

623
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Speaker 9: much time to pick it.

624
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Speaker 2: I don't know.

625
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Speaker 9: Something had a whole year to do it.

626
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Speaker 2: How is it? How is it?

627
00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:35,800
Speaker 4: Like?

628
00:25:36,200 --> 00:25:39,000
Speaker 2: How are you feeling when you see this coworker regularly?

629
00:25:40,960 --> 00:25:43,119
Speaker 9: Hurt and and mad?

630
00:25:43,840 --> 00:25:46,160
Speaker 7: I hate to say it, hurt and mad?

631
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Speaker 9: I mean I know that the point of a wedding

632
00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 9: is not to be given gifts, and that you're there

633
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:55,960
Speaker 9: to celebrate the newlywed couples.

634
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Speaker 7: But if you attended, you know that it's.

635
00:26:00,720 --> 00:26:03,680
Speaker 9: An X amount of money per head and I don't

636
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:08,080
Speaker 9: know we call that little either. But if you didn't attend,

637
00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 9: there's people gifts you don't.

638
00:26:10,760 --> 00:26:12,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, did she come to the bridle shower?

639
00:26:14,080 --> 00:26:15,640
Speaker 7: She did, and she wrote a gift.

640
00:26:15,800 --> 00:26:19,119
Speaker 4: Okay, that's probably she's justifying it that that's what she

641
00:26:19,200 --> 00:26:20,800
Speaker 4: gave a gift already, that's what happened.

642
00:26:21,800 --> 00:26:24,200
Speaker 9: Well, here's the other scenario. If you gave the gifts

643
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Speaker 9: at the time of the shower, not a year later.

644
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:27,520
Speaker 7: Wouldn't you give a gift at the wedding.

645
00:26:28,640 --> 00:26:29,520
Speaker 2: I just want to tell you.

646
00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:32,119
Speaker 3: I've only known you for three minutes and three seconds.

647
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:35,800
Speaker 3: I think you have the skills and the character to

648
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:37,200
Speaker 3: address this directly with your.

649
00:26:37,119 --> 00:26:38,000
Speaker 2: Coworker at work.

650
00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:39,800
Speaker 1: You don't address you even.

651
00:26:39,840 --> 00:26:41,440
Speaker 3: Think you are now in front of all these people

652
00:26:41,520 --> 00:26:44,840
Speaker 3: in the air, Rach, I think you can. I want

653
00:26:44,880 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 3: you to handle this directly, face to face with heart work.

654
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Speaker 1: Don't Rachel.

655
00:26:48,320 --> 00:26:51,680
Speaker 2: Let us know who knows more about weddings.

656
00:26:52,800 --> 00:26:55,160
Speaker 1: It's not it's not about the gift. At this point,

657
00:26:55,240 --> 00:26:57,000
Speaker 1: it's just more like, look, she didn't give a gift.

658
00:26:57,080 --> 00:26:57,600
Speaker 1: It is what it is.

659
00:26:57,640 --> 00:26:59,600
Speaker 4: But she did like a bridle shower gift. So I

660
00:26:59,600 --> 00:27:02,119
Speaker 4: think she's yeah, boring.

661
00:27:02,200 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 3: Let's have some fun address this awkwardly face to face

662
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:12,879
Speaker 3: at work. Come on, guys, because I agree Rachel. Let

663
00:27:12,960 --> 00:27:16,200
Speaker 3: us know after the confrontation. You let us know. Thank

664
00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,159
Speaker 3: you for calling. I'm fired up for you.

665
00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:21,760
Speaker 2: Good luck, she's got it.

666
00:27:21,800 --> 00:27:22,840
Speaker 1: Maybe you should talk to.

667
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:26,280
Speaker 2: That advantage, Rachel. He's a tennis.

668
00:27:26,080 --> 00:27:28,399
Speaker 1: Term mad mama.

669
00:27:28,440 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 3: But by the way, there's one person that's not shy

670
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:35,320
Speaker 3: about handling something. Handle it. Oh got me fired up.

671
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 3: So I don't know if you know, but Sisney's husband,

672
00:27:38,520 --> 00:27:44,199
Speaker 3: Michael is it's a rock band. Yeah, he's a garage

673
00:27:44,200 --> 00:27:46,040
Speaker 3: band essentially, and he takes it pretty seriously.

674
00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:48,920
Speaker 4: Right, They do take it seriously. They're recording music, they're

675
00:27:48,960 --> 00:27:53,400
Speaker 4: doing all the things. But I have a home office

676
00:27:53,680 --> 00:27:58,720
Speaker 4: where I have our studio equipment in and it's my

677
00:27:58,760 --> 00:28:01,920
Speaker 4: own little like sanctuary. It's taken me a really long

678
00:28:02,000 --> 00:28:05,240
Speaker 4: time to get it looking cute. It was basically like

679
00:28:05,480 --> 00:28:07,520
Speaker 4: the storage room for the longest time. We moved in

680
00:28:07,600 --> 00:28:09,960
Speaker 4: because room that we would fix, we would just put

681
00:28:09,960 --> 00:28:13,200
Speaker 4: the extra boxes in the office. So I finally, over

682
00:28:13,359 --> 00:28:16,919
Speaker 4: the holiday break found the time to make it super

683
00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,639
Speaker 4: cute in my space, Like I cleared out all the

684
00:28:19,680 --> 00:28:21,880
Speaker 4: boxes and it's just it's a great room to walk

685
00:28:21,920 --> 00:28:26,679
Speaker 4: into now. And the next day Michael puts all of

686
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:30,119
Speaker 4: his guitars, all of his amps, all of his records

687
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:32,160
Speaker 4: in there.

688
00:28:32,320 --> 00:28:33,280
Speaker 2: I don't know how much stuff.

689
00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,360
Speaker 4: That's what it looks like. Honestly, they're like stacked amps

690
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:40,440
Speaker 4: in the corner the car if you take over your space.

691
00:28:40,480 --> 00:28:42,040
Speaker 1: No, he didn't tell me, but then he told me.

692
00:28:42,080 --> 00:28:44,200
Speaker 4: He was like, this is necessary because it's so hot.

693
00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:45,520
Speaker 4: They can't be in the garage.

694
00:28:45,560 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 2: It's not right, right, lose the equipment.

695
00:28:48,160 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 1: And not about losing the equipments. He says it's gonna

696
00:28:50,040 --> 00:28:50,800
Speaker 1: warp with the heat.

697
00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:54,680
Speaker 4: They could warp, which I understand, sure, but he did

698
00:28:54,680 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 4: not run it by me.

699
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:57,719
Speaker 1: And now I'm like, well cool, now it's just back

700
00:28:57,760 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 1: to the storage.

701
00:28:58,280 --> 00:29:01,400
Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know what it's like, Michael.

702
00:29:01,400 --> 00:29:02,920
Speaker 2: It's a hobby. Don't take it so seriously.

703
00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:04,960
Speaker 1: It's so serious, right.

704
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:09,200
Speaker 3: Like sometimes people take their hobbies so seriously. You often

705
00:29:09,280 --> 00:29:10,920
Speaker 3: have to say, just make it fun.

706
00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:13,400
Speaker 4: I mean, I understand that's expensive equipment. We don't want

707
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:13,840
Speaker 4: it to warp.

708
00:29:13,920 --> 00:29:16,120
Speaker 2: Or are you really investing in this hobby being in

709
00:29:16,120 --> 00:29:16,800
Speaker 2: a garage band.

710
00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:20,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, Like, if there's like an opportunity to get him

711
00:29:20,640 --> 00:29:23,800
Speaker 4: a gift for like a special birthday, a special anniversary,

712
00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:26,040
Speaker 4: like I always go music based because it's going to

713
00:29:26,080 --> 00:29:26,840
Speaker 4: make him the happiest.

714
00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:28,239
Speaker 2: Well, here's what you should do.

715
00:29:28,320 --> 00:29:30,720
Speaker 3: I don't know what you've got, dresses, shoes, closed, whatever,

716
00:29:30,760 --> 00:29:33,520
Speaker 3: putting stuff in his closet space and tell him that

717
00:29:33,560 --> 00:29:36,680
Speaker 3: you've run out of your space, you know, like just

718
00:29:36,720 --> 00:29:37,800
Speaker 3: put your shoes where he.

719
00:29:37,920 --> 00:29:42,040
Speaker 5: Normally passive aggressive. I think it's not quite the answer.

720
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:44,840
Speaker 4: Passive aggressive has already left the building with me talking

721
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:46,560
Speaker 4: about it on the air and not to him.

722
00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:48,120
Speaker 2: What's the name of the band? When are they going

723
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:48,480
Speaker 2: on tour?

724
00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:51,200
Speaker 3: What I need to know access dot com Echo Bird.

725
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 4: They officially have an Instagram now if you want to

726
00:29:54,000 --> 00:29:54,520
Speaker 4: look them.

727
00:29:54,440 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 3: Up Echobird, Echobird. Are they performing the Iredy of Music Festival?

728
00:29:58,800 --> 00:29:59,520
Speaker 2: Is that just Jgent?

729
00:30:00,240 --> 00:30:00,480
Speaker 3: Yeah?

730
00:30:00,480 --> 00:30:02,480
Speaker 1: That's just yeah, du Alipa and Hall.

731
00:30:02,960 --> 00:30:04,480
Speaker 2: You know the Black Crows.

732
00:30:05,000 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 5: What does ech word stand for?

733
00:30:08,040 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 4: I don't know what it means. You no I was like, cool,

734
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:13,960
Speaker 4: cool name.

735
00:30:14,640 --> 00:30:16,600
Speaker 1: Actually that wasn't of all the name that they were choosing,

736
00:30:16,600 --> 00:30:19,120
Speaker 1: that wasn't it. One was not my favorite, but they

737
00:30:19,200 --> 00:30:22,840
Speaker 1: chose it. Do you guys talk beyond.

738
00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 2: Ever since we were talking about pizza, my stomach is growling.

739
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:26,760
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm getting hungry, camean.

740
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:28,080
Speaker 2: Look, you know I also do this.

741
00:30:28,120 --> 00:30:30,080
Speaker 3: Sometimes I'll pick up I'll be traveling, I'll pick up

742
00:30:30,120 --> 00:30:33,360
Speaker 3: a food magazine and I can't look at the food

743
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:37,360
Speaker 3: without needing it, like wanting. It's like you're trying to

744
00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:39,880
Speaker 3: fat intermitt it fast. You're trying not to, you know,

745
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 3: have some. But then you look at that picture and

746
00:30:42,440 --> 00:30:44,400
Speaker 3: it's like my stomach can't help itself. But speak to

747
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:45,360
Speaker 3: me out loud.

748
00:30:45,440 --> 00:30:46,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's like torture.

749
00:30:47,400 --> 00:30:49,479
Speaker 3: That's good for you sometimes. All right, let's get to

750
00:30:49,720 --> 00:30:55,080
Speaker 3: Kyle Kyle and Los Angeles. Kyle, good morning, Hi Ryan.

751
00:30:55,760 --> 00:30:56,280
Speaker 2: How you doing?

752
00:30:58,360 --> 00:31:02,400
Speaker 7: You know, not too well. I only need some advice.

753
00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:04,840
Speaker 3: Okay, And this is in the dating department about your

754
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:06,680
Speaker 3: girlfriend's family. Tell us what's happening.

755
00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 7: Yeah, So I just so we've been dating for about

756
00:31:11,800 --> 00:31:14,280
Speaker 7: a year now and things are going great between us,

757
00:31:14,320 --> 00:31:18,000
Speaker 7: but her families just really mean, like as I've been

758
00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:21,160
Speaker 7: spending more time with them. They make a lot of

759
00:31:21,240 --> 00:31:24,600
Speaker 7: snide little comments and you know, bigger comments sometimes, and

760
00:31:24,720 --> 00:31:27,640
Speaker 7: I'm she says it's fine and she's used to it,

761
00:31:27,680 --> 00:31:31,160
Speaker 7: but you know, I'm wondering if it's overstepping my bound

762
00:31:31,240 --> 00:31:32,000
Speaker 7: if I step in?

763
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:33,920
Speaker 2: What they what do they do? What do they give

764
00:31:34,000 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 2: us an example of what's happening that you're noticing.

765
00:31:37,120 --> 00:31:39,680
Speaker 7: Like, you know, when we're out to eat for like

766
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:44,480
Speaker 7: a family lunch or something, someone like her mom or

767
00:31:44,520 --> 00:31:46,520
Speaker 7: something will say like, oh, are you sure you want

768
00:31:46,520 --> 00:31:48,959
Speaker 7: to get that? Like you know, it's really it's like

769
00:31:49,120 --> 00:31:54,920
Speaker 7: it's real, you know, comments about her body weight and

770
00:31:55,040 --> 00:31:57,240
Speaker 7: body and stuff, and it's just kind of like it's

771
00:31:57,360 --> 00:31:59,800
Speaker 7: it's it's not cool, but you know it.

772
00:32:00,080 --> 00:32:01,680
Speaker 2: It's not cool at all.

773
00:32:02,400 --> 00:32:06,719
Speaker 3: Sometimes though, it's a I got what you're questioning, because

774
00:32:06,760 --> 00:32:10,080
Speaker 3: like sometimes families or people close to each other have

775
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:13,080
Speaker 3: a certain way that they do speak to each other,

776
00:32:13,960 --> 00:32:17,680
Speaker 3: or certain things that they say. Like I've heard really

777
00:32:17,880 --> 00:32:23,520
Speaker 3: close friends call close friends crazy words, but they mean

778
00:32:23,600 --> 00:32:27,240
Speaker 3: it in terms of endearment, right, you know what I'm saying,

779
00:32:27,800 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 3: And like if you were to say that to somebody,

780
00:32:30,080 --> 00:32:32,920
Speaker 3: like what But yet like they call each other that,

781
00:32:34,120 --> 00:32:37,560
Speaker 3: so it it's not yeah, and looking in it is

782
00:32:37,600 --> 00:32:39,480
Speaker 3: not a good It's not a good situation.

783
00:32:40,280 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 2: But I don't know how you get involved.

784
00:32:43,200 --> 00:32:45,320
Speaker 4: Have you talked to your girlfriend to like say, does

785
00:32:45,320 --> 00:32:48,240
Speaker 4: it bother her? Does she tell you it bothers her?

786
00:32:49,000 --> 00:32:52,120
Speaker 7: I mean, she says it doesn't bother her, But sometimes

787
00:32:52,160 --> 00:32:54,440
Speaker 7: when they say that, she just kind of like it

788
00:32:54,520 --> 00:32:57,120
Speaker 7: takes the wind out of her sales, you know, she

789
00:32:57,120 --> 00:33:00,000
Speaker 7: she just kind of starts looking down then gets caught.

790
00:33:00,320 --> 00:33:03,200
Speaker 7: So I can tell it bothers. It's just I don't

791
00:33:03,240 --> 00:33:04,640
Speaker 7: know what to say about it.

792
00:33:06,040 --> 00:33:07,640
Speaker 4: I know it's so tough because it's like I don't

793
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:09,479
Speaker 4: know that it's your place to step in and like

794
00:33:09,840 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 4: change the way that her family I might say her, I.

795
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:16,360
Speaker 3: Might say this too, and again this is probably not

796
00:33:16,520 --> 00:33:18,000
Speaker 3: the best way to do it, but I might say

797
00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:21,160
Speaker 3: this to that family member as in aside, like not

798
00:33:21,520 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 3: at the table. I might say, you know, I don't

799
00:33:24,720 --> 00:33:26,720
Speaker 3: want to step on any toes here, but that I

800
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:29,360
Speaker 3: just want to know that does make sometimes she feels

801
00:33:29,360 --> 00:33:31,760
Speaker 3: bad like somebody, she feels bad when she hears that.

802
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:33,240
Speaker 3: I just want you to know that. And she would

803
00:33:33,240 --> 00:33:35,080
Speaker 3: never say it to you, but I wanted you to

804
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:36,200
Speaker 3: know that's a good thing.

805
00:33:36,120 --> 00:33:37,840
Speaker 1: That's not a bad way to approach it, right.

806
00:33:37,720 --> 00:33:38,920
Speaker 2: And she would never say it to you.

807
00:33:39,200 --> 00:33:41,000
Speaker 3: I just wanted you to know that sometimes she feels

808
00:33:41,000 --> 00:33:43,440
Speaker 3: bad about that and then get out, like don't let

809
00:33:43,440 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 3: it linger, like get out and use that sort of

810
00:33:45,560 --> 00:33:46,720
Speaker 3: like inflection your voice.

811
00:33:46,800 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 4: And I think kind of starting it off by saying

812
00:33:48,360 --> 00:33:49,880
Speaker 4: like I don't want to step on any toes like.

813
00:33:50,080 --> 00:33:52,360
Speaker 3: And she would never want to say it, but I

814
00:33:52,440 --> 00:33:54,000
Speaker 3: just want you to know, like sometimes she feels bad

815
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:54,760
Speaker 3: and then boom, move on.

816
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:56,640
Speaker 2: That might be an effective way to do it.

817
00:33:56,800 --> 00:34:00,920
Speaker 6: Or you can encourage her to stand up for herself. Yeah,

818
00:34:01,280 --> 00:34:03,480
Speaker 6: so that way it's coming from her and you just

819
00:34:03,520 --> 00:34:05,600
Speaker 6: kind of give her and like encourage her to say,

820
00:34:05,600 --> 00:34:07,600
Speaker 6: you know, if you don't really don't like it, they

821
00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 6: may not realize it's bothering you.

822
00:34:08,920 --> 00:34:09,800
Speaker 5: You should say something.

823
00:34:12,800 --> 00:34:15,480
Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I can get some good advice.

824
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:17,600
Speaker 2: So I think you have a plan. Kyle. Good luck

825
00:34:17,719 --> 00:34:18,560
Speaker 2: and thank you for Colin.

826
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:20,840
Speaker 3: It's really thoughtful of you to think that way for

827
00:34:20,920 --> 00:34:21,560
Speaker 3: someone you love.

828
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:25,359
Speaker 7: All right, thank you you take care so much.

829
00:34:25,920 --> 00:34:26,400
Speaker 2: Bye too.

830
00:34:28,160 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 3: Someways that thing in life where like do I get involved,

831
00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:31,840
Speaker 3: do I not get involved.

832
00:34:32,080 --> 00:34:33,960
Speaker 2: Do I open up this and do it.

833
00:34:34,040 --> 00:34:36,200
Speaker 3: But it's like, if it's if it's bothering the person

834
00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:38,360
Speaker 3: he loves and it's bothering him, there might be a

835
00:34:38,400 --> 00:34:42,200
Speaker 3: way to finesse it so that there can be progress. Right.

836
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:45,239
Speaker 2: So, uh, the Love Language Quiz, we like it.

837
00:34:45,280 --> 00:34:47,440
Speaker 3: We took it. We all got our results. I can't

838
00:34:47,480 --> 00:34:50,400
Speaker 3: remember who was what, but you know it was pretty close.

839
00:34:50,520 --> 00:34:52,120
Speaker 5: Well, you're getting to my next point.

840
00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:54,200
Speaker 4: I think, like my I remember mind being act of

841
00:34:54,239 --> 00:34:56,879
Speaker 4: service that was mine?

842
00:34:57,000 --> 00:34:58,800
Speaker 1: No, no, no words of affirmation.

843
00:34:58,760 --> 00:35:01,520
Speaker 3: That was the exactly service. What was I?

844
00:35:00,960 --> 00:35:01,000
Speaker 2: No?

845
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:03,160
Speaker 1: Mark has the results from like that?

846
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:04,960
Speaker 2: It definitely has the probably has.

847
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:07,279
Speaker 1: I want to retake mine too.

848
00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:09,239
Speaker 4: I want, like my Michael and I to retake it

849
00:35:09,239 --> 00:35:11,319
Speaker 4: because I feel like you're different from five years old.

850
00:35:11,320 --> 00:35:15,120
Speaker 6: Okay, thank you, Sisney. This is exactly so I sent Robbie.

851
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:17,359
Speaker 6: I was like, I think we should retake and he goes,

852
00:35:17,680 --> 00:35:19,000
Speaker 6: I already took the Love Language test.

853
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:19,880
Speaker 5: Why would I retake it?

854
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:21,560
Speaker 6: I was like, it's been four and a half years,

855
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:24,759
Speaker 6: and I think, you know, things change, people change, The

856
00:35:24,760 --> 00:35:27,000
Speaker 6: way we want to love changes, and I think it's

857
00:35:27,040 --> 00:35:30,600
Speaker 6: a good refresher to retake the quiz, and I think

858
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 6: we all should retake the quiz because we change, we evolve.

859
00:35:34,360 --> 00:35:35,680
Speaker 1: I remember it being kind of long.

860
00:35:36,160 --> 00:35:37,359
Speaker 5: It's like it is long.

861
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:41,799
Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, why do we change? Do we change because

862
00:35:41,840 --> 00:35:43,800
Speaker 3: we learned that our language needs to evolve because of

863
00:35:43,880 --> 00:35:46,080
Speaker 3: the way that we're loving somebody that has a language

864
00:35:46,120 --> 00:35:49,240
Speaker 3: that needs to be heard, or like, why do we change?

865
00:35:49,239 --> 00:35:50,760
Speaker 2: I'm not so sure my love language?

866
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:51,200
Speaker 1: What was it?

867
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:51,399
Speaker 7: Mark?

868
00:35:51,560 --> 00:35:52,160
Speaker 2: I think it's like.

869
00:35:52,360 --> 00:35:54,360
Speaker 5: Acts of service? I think was yours?

870
00:35:54,920 --> 00:35:56,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, you and I remember were very synced up.

871
00:35:56,560 --> 00:35:59,800
Speaker 2: I remember I love language was words of affirmation.

872
00:35:59,440 --> 00:36:01,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, the top one, and then like maybe the next

873
00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 4: one was physical touch or something like that.

874
00:36:03,560 --> 00:36:06,000
Speaker 2: I doubt it. This was, however, almost seven years ago.

875
00:36:07,280 --> 00:36:10,880
Speaker 5: Time to retake quiz.

876
00:36:10,640 --> 00:36:11,839
Speaker 2: Finding we should all redtake it.

877
00:36:12,280 --> 00:36:15,760
Speaker 1: Yes, pregnant with the twins, I was probably like, no physical.

878
00:36:15,360 --> 00:36:17,960
Speaker 5: Touch nothing, Yeah, see things change.

879
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:21,080
Speaker 2: Wait what so what's the what are the results of Robbie?

880
00:36:21,160 --> 00:36:22,879
Speaker 6: Well, so I had him retake it, and I think

881
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:25,239
Speaker 6: I sent him the wrong quiz because it was like

882
00:36:25,360 --> 00:36:26,480
Speaker 6: ten questions.

883
00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:27,480
Speaker 1: Well, that sounds nice.

884
00:36:27,520 --> 00:36:30,800
Speaker 5: Ten questions is no more not accurate.

885
00:36:30,840 --> 00:36:32,200
Speaker 6: It was not accurate, and I need to go to

886
00:36:32,200 --> 00:36:36,400
Speaker 6: the official Love languageh.

887
00:36:35,200 --> 00:36:38,680
Speaker 3: Go, get the official questionnaire, get his results, share with us.

888
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 2: I like this.

889
00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:41,320
Speaker 1: Homework better than eating in the shower.

890
00:36:41,560 --> 00:36:43,359
Speaker 3: Yeah, we can do this fast too, Right, and there's

891
00:36:43,360 --> 00:36:45,000
Speaker 3: a quick quiz. We'll do it right here, right here,

892
00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:46,600
Speaker 3: starting six. We'll do the results at nine.

893
00:36:46,680 --> 00:36:48,760
Speaker 5: I'm more worried about you doing it, Ryan than Sisney.

894
00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:49,719
Speaker 5: And Sisney will do it.

895
00:36:49,880 --> 00:36:51,319
Speaker 3: Why are you so worried about me taking the love

896
00:36:51,360 --> 00:36:52,000
Speaker 3: language quiz?

897
00:36:52,000 --> 00:36:54,880
Speaker 1: You'll do it, bring it home activity.

898
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:56,000
Speaker 2: Wait, how many questions?

899
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:57,160
Speaker 5: Is it like a hundred?

900
00:36:57,480 --> 00:36:57,600
Speaker 3: No?

901
00:36:57,719 --> 00:36:58,400
Speaker 2: I don't want to do that one.

902
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Speaker 4: Let me have the don't say it like that, Tanya,

903
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Speaker 4: it's like ten. It's like ten pages on the website.

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Speaker 1: You just you know, folks.

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00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:07,799
Speaker 5: Easy, it's like and then it gives.

906
00:37:07,560 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 4: You the bar that tells you like, oh my gosh,

907
00:37:09,320 --> 00:37:12,040
Speaker 4: you're fifty percent complete, you're sixty percent excited.

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00:37:12,520 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 1: Okay, it's gonna be.

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00:37:13,280 --> 00:37:15,560
Speaker 6: No, this is going to be the gate, the key

910
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:20,279
Speaker 6: that opens the gate to feeling loved and giving love the.

911
00:37:20,200 --> 00:37:21,319
Speaker 5: Way your partner wants to.

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Speaker 1: Sit down with this. Let's do it before Valentine's Day.

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Speaker 2: So I'm the bad guy if I'm not down. So

914
00:37:25,360 --> 00:37:26,879
Speaker 2: I'm down with this, okay.

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00:37:26,600 --> 00:37:29,319
Speaker 1: Great, yeah, wait, but I like his Nobody said that.

916
00:37:29,600 --> 00:37:32,360
Speaker 2: Nobody said, by the way, I'm excited to do it.

917
00:37:32,400 --> 00:37:33,799
Speaker 4: Can you do the same thing my kids do when

918
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:35,600
Speaker 4: like I say something like well, I guess you, I

919
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:37,760
Speaker 4: guess you guess you'll love me?

920
00:37:38,360 --> 00:37:42,799
Speaker 3: No, that's whay I feel. That's the way that those

921
00:37:42,800 --> 00:37:45,680
Speaker 3: are your words of non affirmation to me. I'm like, asa,

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00:37:47,200 --> 00:37:50,200
Speaker 3: let me grab Emma on the line. Emma, good morning.

923
00:37:50,239 --> 00:37:50,799
Speaker 3: How are you doing.

924
00:37:51,760 --> 00:37:52,600
Speaker 7: Hi, I'm good.

925
00:37:52,640 --> 00:37:55,000
Speaker 2: How are you super good? How can we help you?

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Speaker 7: Okay?

927
00:37:56,320 --> 00:37:59,080
Speaker 8: So I work at this restaurant and I was serving

928
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:02,080
Speaker 8: from tables outside and this cute guy walked past. This

929
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Speaker 8: happened a couple weeks ago, and we made eye contact

930
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Speaker 8: and he asked to sit in my section, and we're flirting,

931
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Speaker 8: and he asked to take me out for a drink

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Speaker 8: after work, and I was like sure, And we go

933
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Speaker 8: and sit for hours and drink and talk about like

934
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Speaker 8: how much we have in common, and he was like,

935
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Speaker 8: I found out that he got out of a six

936
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Speaker 8: year relationship, and which is great for me because I

937
00:38:23,280 --> 00:38:25,040
Speaker 8: got out of a ten year relationship. And so we

938
00:38:25,080 --> 00:38:26,879
Speaker 8: had all this in common, and there was this huge

939
00:38:26,920 --> 00:38:29,279
Speaker 8: spark and so we like get together again for a

940
00:38:29,320 --> 00:38:33,279
Speaker 8: second date and we hook up, and then after the

941
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,880
Speaker 8: second date, he texted me and is like, hey, like

942
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:37,879
Speaker 8: I thought I should let you know, like I did

943
00:38:37,880 --> 00:38:41,799
Speaker 8: some Instagram stocking and I'm ninety nine percent sure our

944
00:38:41,880 --> 00:38:46,440
Speaker 8: exes are dating. And I was like, how is that

945
00:38:46,480 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 8: even possible because they don't even live in the same

946
00:38:48,640 --> 00:38:50,799
Speaker 8: state as we do, Like they live in Wisconsin and

947
00:38:50,840 --> 00:38:53,560
Speaker 8: we live in LA And I don't even know how

948
00:38:53,600 --> 00:38:56,120
Speaker 8: that could have happened because it's not like we met

949
00:38:56,160 --> 00:38:59,480
Speaker 8: on Instagram or through some algorithm that like was designed

950
00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:02,279
Speaker 8: to connect. It was like a happenstance thing. And I

951
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:04,719
Speaker 8: feel like he maybe did it on purpose, and I

952
00:39:04,760 --> 00:39:08,200
Speaker 8: don't know what to think or do, and it's it's

953
00:39:08,280 --> 00:39:11,480
Speaker 8: just like, honestly, the craziest coincidence. If it is a coincidence,

954
00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:14,240
Speaker 8: kind of wild.

955
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Speaker 4: And how did the conversation come up with the whole

956
00:39:16,040 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 4: exes in general? Are you guys talking about your exes

957
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:20,840
Speaker 4: that he just said it or blurted it out.

958
00:39:20,600 --> 00:39:23,200
Speaker 8: Of no one, because yeah, yeah, because he was really

959
00:39:23,239 --> 00:39:24,480
Speaker 8: upfront and he was like, well, I just want to

960
00:39:24,520 --> 00:39:26,279
Speaker 8: let you know, like I was in a long term

961
00:39:26,320 --> 00:39:28,960
Speaker 8: relationship and I was like, try me. I was also

962
00:39:29,000 --> 00:39:31,719
Speaker 8: in a long term relationship, and it's like, you know,

963
00:39:31,800 --> 00:39:34,520
Speaker 8: when you're in a relationship that long, like it's kind

964
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:37,279
Speaker 8: of important to disclose it, Like if you're hopefully, you know,

965
00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:38,880
Speaker 8: going to be dating this person.

966
00:39:39,719 --> 00:39:42,279
Speaker 2: Hold on, is it possible that he sought you out

967
00:39:43,200 --> 00:39:46,640
Speaker 2: up with seeing? I mean that, like, is what you

968
00:39:46,719 --> 00:39:52,080
Speaker 2: think is happening here? That's what we think by that. Okay,

969
00:39:52,719 --> 00:39:54,000
Speaker 2: how well do you like the guy? Emma?

970
00:39:55,200 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 9: I like him a lot.

971
00:39:56,760 --> 00:39:59,520
Speaker 3: I like the whole scenario. I actually like him more

972
00:40:00,239 --> 00:40:04,240
Speaker 3: that that's happening, Like, I like your connection better because

973
00:40:04,680 --> 00:40:07,279
Speaker 3: your exes are hooking up, and that means they're there.

974
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:10,399
Speaker 3: Drama's done, like they're together, they're doing their thing. I

975
00:40:10,600 --> 00:40:16,840
Speaker 3: like him better for you, Emma, because this is happening.

976
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Speaker 8: Do I have to call my ex though and tell him, like, no, no,

977
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Speaker 8: you don't know that.

978
00:40:22,600 --> 00:40:24,719
Speaker 4: This guy seems like he I want to know what

979
00:40:24,760 --> 00:40:26,680
Speaker 4: his intentions were exactly.

980
00:40:27,880 --> 00:40:29,759
Speaker 8: That was my question. That's what I'm worried about. So

981
00:40:29,760 --> 00:40:30,920
Speaker 8: should I call him out on it?

982
00:40:31,040 --> 00:40:31,600
Speaker 1: I think he should.

983
00:40:31,640 --> 00:40:34,520
Speaker 2: Yes, I still like it though it makes it kind

984
00:40:34,560 --> 00:40:34,960
Speaker 2: of fun.

985
00:40:35,520 --> 00:40:37,600
Speaker 1: No, we've done it makes it kind of stalker.

986
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Speaker 5: Ish sketch, really sketch.

987
00:40:39,840 --> 00:40:41,120
Speaker 3: But I feel like you have a connection, you have

988
00:40:41,120 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 3: a bond. Like clearly you guys have something in common

989
00:40:43,600 --> 00:40:45,439
Speaker 3: because you have x's that are the same, that are.

990
00:40:45,400 --> 00:40:45,919
Speaker 2: With each other.

991
00:40:46,000 --> 00:40:48,440
Speaker 4: But it's the way he went about it. If he

992
00:40:48,560 --> 00:40:52,279
Speaker 4: like researched Emma, it's yeah, you gotta talk talk to

993
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:53,360
Speaker 4: him and get to the bottom of it.

994
00:40:53,600 --> 00:40:55,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, get to the bottom of it. But if you

995
00:40:55,239 --> 00:40:59,080
Speaker 3: like him a lot, remember that. I think he's great.

996
00:40:59,120 --> 00:41:00,960
Speaker 3: Your exes are fine.

997
00:41:01,080 --> 00:41:01,960
Speaker 2: Good on.

998
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:05,640
Speaker 3: Everybody wins in the scenario. Everybody wins. The ex'es are happy,

999
00:41:05,640 --> 00:41:06,439
Speaker 3: they're seeing each other.

1000
00:41:06,480 --> 00:41:08,720
Speaker 2: You like the guy. Everybody wins.

1001
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:11,640
Speaker 8: So if it goes well, do I just hard launch

1002
00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:14,200
Speaker 8: it on Instagram and watch the drama unfold.

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00:41:14,520 --> 00:41:15,360
Speaker 2: That's how I do it.

1004
00:41:15,880 --> 00:41:18,200
Speaker 5: Kay, yeah's a hard lunch.

1005
00:41:19,239 --> 00:41:21,400
Speaker 3: Yeah all right?

1006
00:41:21,440 --> 00:41:24,040
Speaker 2: Well good, Like just the laughter in your voice. There's

1007
00:41:24,080 --> 00:41:26,279
Speaker 2: happiness here. That's what we wanted, right.

1008
00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:33,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, you understand they're both with each other, their happy.

1009
00:41:33,160 --> 00:41:34,800
Speaker 1: So now I don't agree with she's happy.

1010
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm with on this one. Honestly.

1011
00:41:37,960 --> 00:41:40,480
Speaker 2: Hm, it's weird.

1012
00:41:42,400 --> 00:41:45,080
Speaker 3: Let's understand how it happened, and then if she really

1013
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 3: likes it, it's going to bring them closer.

1014
00:41:47,000 --> 00:41:50,360
Speaker 6: Like let's say Tubbs and I were dating, and then

1015
00:41:51,600 --> 00:41:55,839
Speaker 6: you and Sysney were dating, and then Tubbs and I

1016
00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:58,400
Speaker 6: break up, you and Sysney break up, and then me

1017
00:41:58,440 --> 00:42:00,760
Speaker 6: and you start dating, and then Sisney up start dating.

1018
00:42:00,840 --> 00:42:04,960
Speaker 2: That is so whack. You just described their scenario.

1019
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:06,960
Speaker 1: If it happened organically, it's not.

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Speaker 4: But if it happened with ill intentions, like he found

1021
00:42:11,320 --> 00:42:12,680
Speaker 4: her on Instagram and the.

1022
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Speaker 2: Connection, let's see what happened. She's into the guy.

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00:42:17,719 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 3: That's what I'm trying to say. She's happy, all right,

1024
00:42:20,280 --> 00:42:22,280
Speaker 3: that's it is that the whole show. Wow did it, guys,

1025
00:42:22,320 --> 00:42:22,759
Speaker 3: We did it.

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00:42:22,920 --> 00:42:23,799
Speaker 2: I was ready for more.

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Speaker 4: Me too.

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Speaker 5: We'll come back tomorrow, all.

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Speaker 3: Right, So let me look at we're gonna do tomorrow.

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Speaker 3: It's Ryan Roses. That's probably only one. No, Ryan Roses tomorrow, backroom,

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Speaker 3: Thank you. Let's get through Wednesday. Yes, bye bye you

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Speaker 3: guys hit the post show meeting, No you won't.

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Speaker 2: Thanks for listening to On Air with Ryan Seacrest. Make

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Speaker 2: sure to subscribe and we'll talk to you again tomorrow