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Speaker 1: Scrubbing In with Becca Tilly and Tanya rev An iHeartRadio podcast.

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Speaker 1: Hello everybody, we are scrubbing in. Yes, and we have

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Speaker 1: a special guest today that is very much in the

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Speaker 1: center of what everybody is talking about because she is

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Speaker 1: an American TV personality. She's a podcast host, a fashion blogger,

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Speaker 1: a model, and she's an author. She's actually a two

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Speaker 1: time New York Times best selling author, so I'm excited

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Speaker 1: to ask her about that. And she is best known

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Speaker 1: for starring on Bravo's reality TV series Vanderpunk Rules. She

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Speaker 1: got married to her prince charming beau Clark back in

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Speaker 1: twenty twenty. She has an adorable two year old daughter,

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Speaker 1: and she's expecting her second baby. She really does it all.

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Speaker 1: Please help us welcome the one and only Stas Schroeder Clark. Hello.

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Speaker 1: I didn't realize you didn't know Tanya. No, I don't

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Speaker 1: think we've met properly before, but I know of you,

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Speaker 1: and I'm so excited to be here, so thank you

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Speaker 1: for having me here. We're so excited, I mean all,

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Speaker 1: I have never known so much about Vander pump Rolls

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Speaker 1: than I do right now. Yes, at this very moment,

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Speaker 1: just like I think my unborn child knows all about

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Speaker 1: scannable right now. Yes, while yeah, scandabal well that's what

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Speaker 1: everybody's Oh wow, sorry I'm behind. Um, well, congratulations you

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Speaker 1: just announced your pregnancy. Yes, thank you so much. Are

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Speaker 1: you having like differences like in just like between this

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Speaker 1: one the in the first you know what? Not? Really

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Speaker 1: I had a pretty easy pregnancy the first time, except

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Speaker 1: I was just like maybe a little depressed because I

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Speaker 1: was stuck at home. It was during COVID twenty was

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Speaker 1: a rough year for everyone, and so like I felt

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Speaker 1: very isolated. Um, all my symptoms in are the same,

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Speaker 1: but this time I just feel really excited that I

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Speaker 1: can like walk out of my house curiously, you know,

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Speaker 1: in my car, go do things, just like go out

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Speaker 1: to dinner. As a pregnant person is fun and new.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, you're like very different experience than the twenty

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Speaker 1: twenty pregnancy. Yeah, so now I have fomo like a

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Speaker 1: ton more. Like I highly recommend being pregnant, you know,

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Speaker 1: during a pandemic, because like there's no missing out on

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Speaker 1: anything and everyone else is at home. But is it

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Speaker 1: because are you just tired more tired and you like

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Speaker 1: don't want to go out? No, it's just that, like,

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Speaker 1: do I really want to go out like late at

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Speaker 1: night to something when I can't drink, I can't let loose.

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Speaker 1: It's like, no, I'd rather be tucked into bed, you know. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: so a lot with no pregnancy would rather be touched

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Speaker 1: often correct, And you think that, but like when it's

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Speaker 1: like totally just like taken off the table for you,

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Speaker 1: like you don't have a choice, you can't drink alcohol

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Speaker 1: little harder to deal with because it wasn't your choice. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I could see that. Yeah, that makes sense. It's a choice.

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Speaker 1: I still have the choice of, you know, if I

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Speaker 1: So before I would drink every day, like you know,

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Speaker 1: Of course I miss it. So now I'm doing it

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Speaker 1: only on special occasions, which feels like I'm not drinking anymore.

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Speaker 1: I think that's just like super healthy of you. I

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Speaker 1: mean the hashtag balance, thank you. That's where I'm very

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Speaker 1: I'm a very balanced girly right now. When you like

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Speaker 1: think about your like beginning, vander Pump rules day and

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Speaker 1: especially because I feel like it's it's having like a

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Speaker 1: I kind of like shudder a little bit and just

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Speaker 1: get so embarrassed because those people who are watching don't

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Speaker 1: It's crazy. Where do you think that shift came from?

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Speaker 1: But also I mean, I think stepping away from Vanner

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Speaker 1: like it really does make you like shifty and everything

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Speaker 1: It is interesting because I feel like we talked about

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Speaker 1: yourself to van Erpunt rules. When when that ends, you

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Speaker 1: of made you shift? And then also like did it

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Speaker 1: just like that's so funny, like rip, like waking up

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Speaker 1: then along with priority shifts, then like what you're interested

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Speaker 1: and like at first I was like, oh, this is

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Speaker 1: like this is unfair. It is unfair when you heard

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Speaker 1: And that's that's where I was. I'll tell my grandchildren

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Speaker 1: wait for Okay, can you watch Friends at all? I mean,

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Speaker 1: obviously I don't watch it like religiously, but you know

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Speaker 1: the gist. Yeah, could you explain the vander Pump rules

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Speaker 1: You're always pointing the finger at other people, You're always

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Speaker 1: He just loves to hold everyone else accountable for things

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Speaker 1: I think that that's something that someone does when they're

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Speaker 1: the ones that should be being held accountable for something

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Speaker 1: like never at fault. That's a red fly. Right yeah,

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Speaker 1: but did did any like they were together for nine years? Right,

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Speaker 1: it is. Well, I'm like I see all their names

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Speaker 1: and I'm like, who's who, and it's strucu. The friends

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Speaker 1: more like that. No, think about it. It's like it's

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Speaker 1: So I would say that like Tom and arian are

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Speaker 1: but like he became my best friend, and I felt

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Speaker 1: like that was the moment that was when I really

425
00:23:00,119 --> 00:23:03,240
Speaker 1: was like I can see my life with him, because

426
00:23:03,840 --> 00:23:07,360
Speaker 1: like we would that that friendship is there, that respect

427
00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:10,400
Speaker 1: is there, that like if all else goes away, we

428
00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:14,120
Speaker 1: still have that foundation. Yeah. Yeah, I do think it's

429
00:23:14,119 --> 00:23:15,639
Speaker 1: important to talk about because I think a lot of

430
00:23:15,640 --> 00:23:17,720
Speaker 1: times I will say when I met my girlfriend it

431
00:23:17,800 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 1: was like this, it was like instant like and that's great. Yeah,

432
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:23,520
Speaker 1: but I think that a lot of people wait for

433
00:23:23,560 --> 00:23:25,439
Speaker 1: that and they're like they go on one date or

434
00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:28,640
Speaker 1: two dates and they're like, oh, it's not this immediate thing,

435
00:23:29,000 --> 00:23:31,440
Speaker 1: and they write someone off where it's like it might

436
00:23:31,480 --> 00:23:33,360
Speaker 1: be a slow burn and it might be that like

437
00:23:33,480 --> 00:23:36,440
Speaker 1: you are building a foundation that's deeper than like immediate

438
00:23:36,480 --> 00:23:39,400
Speaker 1: like lust or passion or whatever it is. Yeah. No,

439
00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,159
Speaker 1: I think it's so important. Again, it's like, oh, my

440
00:23:41,200 --> 00:23:44,240
Speaker 1: friends say that they complain about that that well, I

441
00:23:44,240 --> 00:23:45,840
Speaker 1: don't know. We've only been on a couple of dates.

442
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:49,160
Speaker 1: But like I'm like, just give it a few more chances,

443
00:23:49,160 --> 00:23:51,399
Speaker 1: like really try and get to know this person. Like

444
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:54,600
Speaker 1: you never know, like you really never know. Do everything

445
00:23:54,640 --> 00:23:59,440
Speaker 1: differently than what you've done before. That's true. Patterns. Patterns

446
00:23:59,440 --> 00:24:01,879
Speaker 1: are the they're the worst but they're hard to break.

447
00:24:01,880 --> 00:24:04,479
Speaker 1: Like a lot of people just like going to the

448
00:24:04,520 --> 00:24:07,560
Speaker 1: pattern that they're hard to break. Those patterns no where

449
00:24:07,600 --> 00:24:09,800
Speaker 1: they are. I get it. I get it. Would you

450
00:24:09,880 --> 00:24:12,560
Speaker 1: ever go on a reality show again? Yeah? I think so.

451
00:24:13,040 --> 00:24:16,119
Speaker 1: I think it's like in my blood. I just feel

452
00:24:16,119 --> 00:24:19,200
Speaker 1: like I've done it for so long. I mean that's

453
00:24:19,240 --> 00:24:22,520
Speaker 1: where I met Brock, my first boyfriend. I was like

454
00:24:22,560 --> 00:24:24,919
Speaker 1: on The Amazing Race when I was sixteen years old,

455
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:27,520
Speaker 1: and I just like haven't stopped since, so like I

456
00:24:27,560 --> 00:24:31,120
Speaker 1: don't really know anything anything else. I mean, I haven't

457
00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:33,000
Speaker 1: done it in three years, but I feel like it's

458
00:24:33,040 --> 00:24:37,240
Speaker 1: like riding a bike. So yeah, if the situation was right,

459
00:24:37,440 --> 00:24:40,800
Speaker 1: I think so. I totally forgot about The Amazing Race

460
00:24:40,840 --> 00:24:45,280
Speaker 1: and I just didn't I was so ugly, and so

461
00:24:45,400 --> 00:24:48,000
Speaker 1: during COVID we got into like I guess we watched

462
00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:50,720
Speaker 1: a season and we're like, there's so many of these seasons,

463
00:24:50,760 --> 00:24:52,280
Speaker 1: let's just go watch them. And I was like, oh,

464
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 1: like I had a family friend that was on the show,

465
00:24:54,000 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 1: so we watched. I was like, oh my god, all

466
00:24:58,440 --> 00:25:01,440
Speaker 1: babies on the show. No. I was like, so want

467
00:25:01,440 --> 00:25:04,159
Speaker 1: to be goth, but wouldn't fully commit to it. So

468
00:25:04,200 --> 00:25:07,600
Speaker 1: it was like half in, half out. You couldn't it

469
00:25:07,680 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 1: was no, not the vibe, not the vibe. What would

470
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:13,480
Speaker 1: be your dream show to be on? You know? I

471
00:25:13,480 --> 00:25:17,160
Speaker 1: have y'all watched Special Forces? It's on, Yes, I told

472
00:25:17,200 --> 00:25:19,760
Speaker 1: you about that. It's like an army like military show

473
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:23,760
Speaker 1: where they like, like what you're talking? I could see you. No, no,

474
00:25:23,760 --> 00:25:26,120
Speaker 1: no way, that wouldn't be the one that doesn't sound

475
00:25:27,040 --> 00:25:34,280
Speaker 1: like that character. I have some you know, you know,

476
00:25:34,560 --> 00:25:39,359
Speaker 1: it's been thirty four years of building character. Enough character, Okay, fine,

477
00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 1: what show would you if you were like, oh, that

478
00:25:41,600 --> 00:25:44,200
Speaker 1: would be a really such a dream show would be

479
00:25:44,800 --> 00:25:49,879
Speaker 1: like Stanley Jucci show Finding Italy. That's what it's called, right, Yeah,

480
00:25:50,840 --> 00:25:54,520
Speaker 1: if I could just go travel and like try food,

481
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:57,359
Speaker 1: try food, like learn about and even if it wasn't

482
00:25:57,400 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 1: just food, it's like, well, I love Italy. My hu

483
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:03,440
Speaker 1: has been is a dual citizen, so he he has

484
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:07,080
Speaker 1: a right, so he has an Italian citizen citizenship, and

485
00:26:07,119 --> 00:26:11,280
Speaker 1: so my daughter will I have to like whatever? Yeah me,

486
00:26:12,400 --> 00:26:14,280
Speaker 1: but like I would just love to go and live

487
00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:17,879
Speaker 1: my life, like exploring Italy with my family and and

488
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:21,400
Speaker 1: just like learning about everything. And if that could be filmed, cool,

489
00:26:21,880 --> 00:26:25,560
Speaker 1: that would be like a dream show. Bravo. Are you listening? Yeah, Bravo,

490
00:26:25,400 --> 00:26:31,879
Speaker 1: who fired me? Are you listening? Art for Sauce, a

491
00:26:32,080 --> 00:26:36,439
Speaker 1: tourism food trying show with the fam Wholesome Wholesome Show.

492
00:26:36,560 --> 00:26:39,560
Speaker 1: We're bringing some wholesome stuff to Bravo, No beca. Do

493
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:41,440
Speaker 1: you know what I've realized ever since I watched the

494
00:26:41,560 --> 00:26:45,320
Speaker 1: Megan and Harry documentary. Oh no, I am no. I

495
00:26:45,359 --> 00:26:49,280
Speaker 1: love Megan and Harry. One of those okay, one of

496
00:26:49,359 --> 00:26:53,040
Speaker 1: those people. Okay, But what I realized after watching it

497
00:26:53,080 --> 00:26:56,159
Speaker 1: was like I am starved for wholesome television. Like I

498
00:26:56,200 --> 00:27:00,280
Speaker 1: am like it's all so just like backstabby and just

499
00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:03,600
Speaker 1: like women fighting and just like taking each other down.

500
00:27:03,600 --> 00:27:05,760
Speaker 1: And I'm like every moment that I saw them with

501
00:27:05,960 --> 00:27:09,160
Speaker 1: Archie or I just saw them just like loved up,

502
00:27:09,160 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 1: I was like, I'm I'm starving to watch this, Like

503
00:27:11,960 --> 00:27:14,600
Speaker 1: I want to see this on my screen. I want

504
00:27:14,760 --> 00:27:17,359
Speaker 1: more wholesome TV. I want to watch it come to

505
00:27:17,440 --> 00:27:19,680
Speaker 1: my house. We watched a lot of wholesome tells. Where's

506
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:25,359
Speaker 1: It TLC? Yeah, no, next Level Chef, I watched Crime

507
00:27:25,359 --> 00:27:31,040
Speaker 1: Scene Kitchen, I watch What's the Physical one hundred um.

508
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:34,480
Speaker 1: We watched The Mole. That's more like, I haven't heard

509
00:27:34,480 --> 00:27:37,520
Speaker 1: of any of the shows you just listed the one

510
00:27:38,080 --> 00:27:40,000
Speaker 1: the one she didn't list that is her main one

511
00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:43,440
Speaker 1: is low Okay, that's not wholesome. It's not Yeah, it's

512
00:27:43,440 --> 00:27:45,560
Speaker 1: not wholesome. That's why didn't mention it, but to say,

513
00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:49,560
Speaker 1: like Lego Masters, I also watched Legs also like dumb

514
00:27:49,640 --> 00:27:54,400
Speaker 1: is it cake? Which cake? Um? So yeah, just come

515
00:27:54,440 --> 00:27:56,480
Speaker 1: on over. I can give you a whole list of

516
00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:00,920
Speaker 1: what do you have because you have host your own podcast,

517
00:28:01,040 --> 00:28:03,080
Speaker 1: is there any like would you want to host? Like

518
00:28:03,200 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 1: is there anything interesting too in that to you? I mean,

519
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:09,879
Speaker 1: I really enjoy hosting, but I'm kind of just taking

520
00:28:09,920 --> 00:28:12,080
Speaker 1: my career like one step at a time. I think

521
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:14,760
Speaker 1: one thing I learned over the last three years is

522
00:28:14,760 --> 00:28:16,560
Speaker 1: is that I don't have to like have a hand

523
00:28:16,600 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 1: in everything. I'd be Like before twenty twenty, it was

524
00:28:19,800 --> 00:28:21,840
Speaker 1: like what more can I do? What more can I do?

525
00:28:22,000 --> 00:28:24,679
Speaker 1: Like this brand deal, touring, now, this this It was

526
00:28:24,720 --> 00:28:28,400
Speaker 1: just like everything all at once, and life doesn't really

527
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:30,320
Speaker 1: have to be that way. So I kind of just

528
00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 1: like take one thing at a time and like hope

529
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:34,639
Speaker 1: that I'm doing a really good job of it and

530
00:28:34,800 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 1: just like slowly let things unfold, like's hosting fun? Yeah?

531
00:28:38,960 --> 00:28:41,280
Speaker 1: Is it like my ultimate dream? I'm not sure, but

532
00:28:41,360 --> 00:28:44,080
Speaker 1: like if the right thing happened or came, you know,

533
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:48,200
Speaker 1: maybe yeah. Yeah, you just announced your tour they did.

534
00:28:48,560 --> 00:28:52,200
Speaker 1: How do you feel about doing that whilst pregnant? Yeah, okay,

535
00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:55,280
Speaker 1: so that's I'm honestly most excited. I excited for that.

536
00:28:55,360 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 1: So at first I put off getting pregnant because I

537
00:28:58,480 --> 00:29:01,760
Speaker 1: knew that I wanted to tour the Spring and I

538
00:29:01,800 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 1: was like, this is horrible, but like, but we love

539
00:29:04,960 --> 00:29:07,320
Speaker 1: drinking so many apple sprits and we're on tour. It's

540
00:29:07,320 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 1: like a party, Like, you know, my husband's there, my

541
00:29:09,600 --> 00:29:12,200
Speaker 1: best friend Taylor, she tours with us because she opens

542
00:29:12,880 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 1: for me, and so like it's it's just really fun

543
00:29:16,080 --> 00:29:18,200
Speaker 1: to be touring. And I'm like, I can't do that.

544
00:29:18,400 --> 00:29:22,239
Speaker 1: What if I get pregnant. I got pregnant, and I

545
00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 1: was like, you know what, Like, no, this is gonna

546
00:29:24,480 --> 00:29:27,040
Speaker 1: be a whole new experience this time. And I feel

547
00:29:27,040 --> 00:29:30,320
Speaker 1: way more motivated than I was the last time that

548
00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 1: I toured, and I feel like I'm just excited to

549
00:29:33,680 --> 00:29:37,960
Speaker 1: challenge myself and like to be able to say like

550
00:29:38,000 --> 00:29:45,800
Speaker 1: I did it, prig it not pregnant, but doing our

551
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:48,200
Speaker 1: live shows with a little a little drinking us too,

552
00:29:48,240 --> 00:30:05,880
Speaker 1: so I get of course, yeah it's fun. I had

553
00:30:05,880 --> 00:30:07,800
Speaker 1: a moment a couple of weeks ago where I went

554
00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:11,800
Speaker 1: to a show and it was like really late and

555
00:30:11,840 --> 00:30:13,680
Speaker 1: I didn't drink at all, and I was like, I

556
00:30:13,760 --> 00:30:16,440
Speaker 1: had a great time, did you? I can't see? That

557
00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:20,120
Speaker 1: makes me so excited because I think there's like this

558
00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:23,960
Speaker 1: this idea that we have to have that buzz or

559
00:30:24,000 --> 00:30:27,920
Speaker 1: whatever to like enjoy idea. It's like the fact for me.

560
00:30:28,040 --> 00:30:30,440
Speaker 1: For me personally, I'd like to calm down the nerves

561
00:30:30,480 --> 00:30:33,320
Speaker 1: because I do get really nervous before every show, Like

562
00:30:33,360 --> 00:30:35,400
Speaker 1: I can't talk to anyone, you know. I know lots

563
00:30:35,400 --> 00:30:37,440
Speaker 1: of people that tour and they're like, come to my

564
00:30:37,480 --> 00:30:39,400
Speaker 1: green room before the show, and it's like a bunch

565
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:42,080
Speaker 1: of people. I'm like, how the fuck are you doing this?

566
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:44,480
Speaker 1: Like before I go on stage, I'm like, no one

567
00:30:44,560 --> 00:30:50,360
Speaker 1: talked to me. I'm like, I get nervous because I

568
00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:53,920
Speaker 1: really care. Yeah, and so like drinking April spritzes or

569
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:56,720
Speaker 1: like some rose like that helps. So now I'm just

570
00:30:57,320 --> 00:30:59,920
Speaker 1: I can't do that. Ye, maybe a mocktail and you're

571
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 1: like placebo effect kicks. No, mocktails are so lam just

572
00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:09,040
Speaker 1: on the best mocktail, it's like wasted calories. I'd rather

573
00:31:09,040 --> 00:31:13,600
Speaker 1: eat some cake too, What about cake with a mocktail? No?

574
00:31:13,720 --> 00:31:18,120
Speaker 1: Okay no, But do you like being pregnant? I thought no,

575
00:31:18,240 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 1: I so so I thought I did, like before I

576
00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:22,600
Speaker 1: got pregnant again. I think you just forget that you

577
00:31:22,600 --> 00:31:26,080
Speaker 1: don't like it truly. Yeah, like right now, last night

578
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:27,440
Speaker 1: I said to my husband and I was just like,

579
00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:30,239
Speaker 1: this is so like not the vibe, and like I

580
00:31:30,280 --> 00:31:32,520
Speaker 1: can't wait to not feel like this again. But what's

581
00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:35,160
Speaker 1: the feeling? I think it's just like the not having

582
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:38,160
Speaker 1: control over your body and like watching it just change

583
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:41,120
Speaker 1: in so many ways, and and like well, like I know,

584
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:44,200
Speaker 1: you know, my husband still thinks I'm beautiful no matter what,

585
00:31:44,320 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 1: and all that it's not my version of how I

586
00:31:46,960 --> 00:31:50,200
Speaker 1: like to look, and and that's just really hard to

587
00:31:50,200 --> 00:31:53,040
Speaker 1: deal with. And like I'm hungry all the time, and

588
00:31:53,080 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 1: it's like so it's like I can't deny this baby food.

589
00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 1: You can't like diet, you can't. It's just a weird

590
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:04,240
Speaker 1: It messes with your mind to like not have control

591
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:07,719
Speaker 1: over your body. Yeah, well it's just not yours, Like

592
00:32:07,760 --> 00:32:09,960
Speaker 1: it's not all just based on what you want now

593
00:32:10,160 --> 00:32:15,280
Speaker 1: you know, it's like you're literally keeping this thing alive. Yeah,

594
00:32:15,280 --> 00:32:17,840
Speaker 1: and it's like getting dressed every day and then you

595
00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:20,760
Speaker 1: know you're constipated and then like it's just like all

596
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:26,480
Speaker 1: of these things. That's it's a thing. Just like you know,

597
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:28,640
Speaker 1: it's like a thing that I complain about a lot,

598
00:32:29,160 --> 00:32:32,160
Speaker 1: Like it's a lot not everyone. We all like, I

599
00:32:32,160 --> 00:32:34,920
Speaker 1: don't get sick. I've never thrown up because I was pregnant,

600
00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:38,080
Speaker 1: Like I've never that hasn't been my journey. But yeah,

601
00:32:38,160 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 1: like constipation has been a journey. That's not a journey

602
00:32:41,880 --> 00:32:44,440
Speaker 1: that I I've heard like after giving birth, like through

603
00:32:44,520 --> 00:32:47,640
Speaker 1: if you're like you know the medications and stuff, but

604
00:32:47,680 --> 00:32:50,320
Speaker 1: I didn't know what happened during this part. That's how

605
00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:54,120
Speaker 1: have you seen the girl at the list on TikTok

606
00:32:54,120 --> 00:32:56,480
Speaker 1: of like reasons why I won't be having a baby

607
00:32:56,480 --> 00:32:59,000
Speaker 1: And she'll see a TikTok and then stitch it and

608
00:32:59,040 --> 00:33:01,360
Speaker 1: write it down on her because it'll be like that.

609
00:33:01,520 --> 00:33:04,240
Speaker 1: It'll be like you can tear up to your buttle

610
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 1: and she's like add it to the that's funny. No,

611
00:33:07,680 --> 00:33:11,840
Speaker 1: TikTok hasn't served me that pump rolls right now? Well,

612
00:33:12,000 --> 00:33:15,400
Speaker 1: say mine is that? And you know my dog one

613
00:33:15,440 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 1: of Paltrow. Yeah, oh I'm so into that right now.

614
00:33:18,400 --> 00:33:20,200
Speaker 1: Right now, I just want to like say to everyone

615
00:33:20,240 --> 00:33:21,719
Speaker 1: every time I talk to someone and just be like, well,

616
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:25,080
Speaker 1: I lost half a day skiing, so I lost half

617
00:33:25,160 --> 00:33:28,080
Speaker 1: Dave skiing the next time anything goes wrong, but I

618
00:33:28,120 --> 00:33:33,040
Speaker 1: lost half a Dames. Yeah, it was very into it.

619
00:33:33,120 --> 00:33:36,520
Speaker 1: I cannot stop watching her in the witness stand. So

620
00:33:36,680 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 1: you're like watching it the way I watched Amber Heard

621
00:33:39,600 --> 00:33:41,920
Speaker 1: and Johnny Dupp. Yes, okay, Like I was in a

622
00:33:42,160 --> 00:33:45,120
Speaker 1: in the car, like we were driving to like pump

623
00:33:45,200 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 1: Springs or something, and I literally had to have my

624
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 1: phone watching it live, like the whole entire trip. So

625
00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:52,640
Speaker 1: it's only when she's in the witness stand. I'm not

626
00:33:52,720 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 1: so keen on the other people. Yeah, just her. She's

627
00:33:55,840 --> 00:33:58,200
Speaker 1: pretty funny. I mean she's funny, like seeing her in

628
00:33:58,200 --> 00:34:02,720
Speaker 1: that position. Yeah, weird. The lawyer off here the questions,

629
00:34:02,760 --> 00:34:05,680
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, she was strange, very strange. Um do you

630
00:34:05,720 --> 00:34:08,920
Speaker 1: have any opinions of um just hot topics that have

631
00:34:09,000 --> 00:34:11,640
Speaker 1: come up? Harry styles and em Rada. Have you seen

632
00:34:11,719 --> 00:34:13,920
Speaker 1: the video? Yes, of course I was in the video.

633
00:34:14,040 --> 00:34:15,919
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I don't know what's

634
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:18,080
Speaker 1: on your feed. Oh that's on my feed. Yeah, no,

635
00:34:18,200 --> 00:34:21,000
Speaker 1: it's on my feed. Um how to say? I feel

636
00:34:21,000 --> 00:34:25,840
Speaker 1: like it's a good match. No interesting, No one likes it.

637
00:34:26,160 --> 00:34:28,759
Speaker 1: No one likes it. I can see that in the

638
00:34:28,800 --> 00:34:31,480
Speaker 1: comment section. No I like it, but you know, he

639
00:34:31,840 --> 00:34:35,600
Speaker 1: he um. She was his celebrity crush and that's what

640
00:34:35,840 --> 00:34:38,600
Speaker 1: makes me like it even more. It's like, okay, so

641
00:34:38,640 --> 00:34:41,520
Speaker 1: he like kind of manifests manifested her. This is what

642
00:34:41,600 --> 00:34:45,160
Speaker 1: I don't like about it. It's giving a tinty bit

643
00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:48,520
Speaker 1: of raquel because I saw that, like she hangs out

644
00:34:48,560 --> 00:34:51,200
Speaker 1: with Olivia Wilde and like they've all hung out together.

645
00:34:51,360 --> 00:34:55,240
Speaker 1: So I'm like, well, don't get Becka started on that started.

646
00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:58,400
Speaker 1: There was a blind item on Dumois. There was I

647
00:34:58,440 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 1: saw that too, So Dumas doesn't always get it right,

648
00:35:01,640 --> 00:35:04,520
Speaker 1: so we don't know that's true. That's true, like that,

649
00:35:04,600 --> 00:35:06,280
Speaker 1: I feel like they get it right pretty often. Okay,

650
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:08,000
Speaker 1: but like I kind of just feel like two really

651
00:35:08,040 --> 00:35:10,680
Speaker 1: hot people that like could wear really cool outfits and

652
00:35:10,680 --> 00:35:15,919
Speaker 1: give us lots of street Style inspiration What's not to love? Yeah,

653
00:35:15,920 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 1: I was like shocked by my when someone sends it

654
00:35:18,480 --> 00:35:20,719
Speaker 1: to me, my feeling about it. I was like, I

655
00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:23,239
Speaker 1: don't know that. I don't know these people. I don't care.

656
00:35:23,400 --> 00:35:33,719
Speaker 1: Why did my heart sink? Like Harry Styles, I'm not

657
00:35:33,800 --> 00:35:35,719
Speaker 1: like I love him. I love his music. I think

658
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:38,040
Speaker 1: he's so cute, but like, I'm not like I'm gonna

659
00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:40,839
Speaker 1: marry Harry stuff. That is so funny that you had

660
00:35:40,840 --> 00:35:43,160
Speaker 1: that reaction. And I don't even care that much, But

661
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:45,759
Speaker 1: why did my heart? I gotta I gotta talk about

662
00:35:45,760 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 1: in therapy because like there was a it was an

663
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:51,840
Speaker 1: unexpected feeling. I'm processing it. I love him a lot.

664
00:35:52,280 --> 00:35:55,560
Speaker 1: My love goes deep for Harry Styles. I'm sorry happy.

665
00:35:55,840 --> 00:36:00,960
Speaker 1: I just wanted to do though. So I don't know

666
00:36:00,960 --> 00:36:03,279
Speaker 1: if she's going to be that for him. I mean,

667
00:36:03,280 --> 00:36:04,640
Speaker 1: do you think that I don't know that this is

668
00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:08,200
Speaker 1: going to be like a relationship or you know, if

669
00:36:08,239 --> 00:36:10,319
Speaker 1: it does turn into a relationship, I could see it

670
00:36:10,400 --> 00:36:13,239
Speaker 1: being like the Kim and Pete thing. Yeah, where it's

671
00:36:13,280 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: like it's for like a chunk of time. It's fun

672
00:36:15,840 --> 00:36:19,120
Speaker 1: for everyone. It's exciting for us to like watch a

673
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:22,080
Speaker 1: viewers but like, are they going to get married? I

674
00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:24,000
Speaker 1: don't know. I feel like she's making up for lost

675
00:36:24,040 --> 00:36:27,320
Speaker 1: time because she was married for like most of her career,

676
00:36:27,400 --> 00:36:29,960
Speaker 1: and so she's like, I could have been literally dating

677
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:33,040
Speaker 1: all of these cool hot celebrities. I didn't, Yeah, and

678
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:35,680
Speaker 1: now I'm going to now yeah. Or it could be

679
00:36:35,680 --> 00:36:41,000
Speaker 1: like the Emroda Pete Davidson. I forgot that. I forgot

680
00:36:41,040 --> 00:36:43,960
Speaker 1: that that even happened. Yeah right, She's just like going,

681
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:47,480
Speaker 1: you know, she's like, who's hot right now? Great Emerda

682
00:36:47,920 --> 00:36:54,160
Speaker 1: is Pete Davidson. Yeah, she is the Pete Davidson. I

683
00:36:54,160 --> 00:36:56,960
Speaker 1: didn't come up with that on my own. I saw that.

684
00:36:58,360 --> 00:37:01,640
Speaker 1: I can't take full credit for that one. Um, when

685
00:37:01,719 --> 00:37:06,040
Speaker 1: you get asked about like um Vander pump Roule stuff,

686
00:37:06,080 --> 00:37:09,400
Speaker 1: does you're like, do you get just like h or

687
00:37:09,560 --> 00:37:11,799
Speaker 1: you like that was a really like this is a

688
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 1: fun thing to talk about for me because I'm not

689
00:37:13,719 --> 00:37:15,719
Speaker 1: in it anymore. Okay, it's a fun thing to talk

690
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:18,280
Speaker 1: about privately, so like when my neighbors text me about

691
00:37:18,280 --> 00:37:20,080
Speaker 1: it or something like. I think it's fun, but I

692
00:37:20,120 --> 00:37:22,600
Speaker 1: do have a little anxiety like being here been talking

693
00:37:22,600 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 1: about it really publicly because I know that um, it

694
00:37:26,280 --> 00:37:29,200
Speaker 1: will then be turned into like a headline and it'll

695
00:37:29,200 --> 00:37:31,080
Speaker 1: look like I'm just like doing a press tour about

696
00:37:31,120 --> 00:37:32,840
Speaker 1: vander pump Rolls, which I think is like kind of

697
00:37:32,880 --> 00:37:36,640
Speaker 1: thirsty and embarrassing. So like this isn't like the normal

698
00:37:37,200 --> 00:37:39,160
Speaker 1: way I talk about it. I normally like just do

699
00:37:39,239 --> 00:37:42,000
Speaker 1: it like behind everyone's backs. Yeah, you know. Yeah, it's

700
00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:46,040
Speaker 1: like you're like text gossip. Yeah I get that. Sorry,

701
00:37:46,080 --> 00:37:52,279
Speaker 1: we made sure kind of you uncomfortable like talking about it,

702
00:37:52,440 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 1: you know how it is. It's like things that they

703
00:37:55,160 --> 00:37:58,440
Speaker 1: just everything always looks not how you intended it to be,

704
00:37:58,760 --> 00:38:00,759
Speaker 1: Like the headlines always just see and then people don't

705
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:04,280
Speaker 1: actually listen, so they're like they just get a snippet

706
00:38:04,320 --> 00:38:06,440
Speaker 1: of like what it. Yeah, and then it's like Staci's

707
00:38:06,440 --> 00:38:09,239
Speaker 1: still thirsty because she's like doing podcasts now talking about

708
00:38:09,280 --> 00:38:11,359
Speaker 1: Vanner pump Roules. It's like that's not why I was there.

709
00:38:11,760 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 1: Were there whatever Harry Styles And yeah, I was there

710
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:17,040
Speaker 1: to talk about Harry Styles. Okay. It is so one

711
00:38:17,080 --> 00:38:20,279
Speaker 1: of those things, and like it's I wouldn't even say that.

712
00:38:20,360 --> 00:38:22,560
Speaker 1: I am like, oh, I don't watch the show, but

713
00:38:22,680 --> 00:38:24,960
Speaker 1: I know so much about the show and the people

714
00:38:25,000 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 1: on the show. More than I ever have because of

715
00:38:27,320 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 1: it's like you almost can't talk about it, and especially

716
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:32,319
Speaker 1: being a part of the show for so long, it's

717
00:38:32,360 --> 00:38:36,200
Speaker 1: like it's a it's a delicate like balance of like

718
00:38:36,320 --> 00:38:40,760
Speaker 1: acknowledging it and not letting it become like the only

719
00:38:40,840 --> 00:38:44,120
Speaker 1: thing that like people see when they look at me. Yeah, well,

720
00:38:44,120 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 1: I think you're I think you've done a really good

721
00:38:45,800 --> 00:38:49,000
Speaker 1: job with your separation from the show of you're writing books,

722
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:51,239
Speaker 1: you're doing the podcast, you're a mom. I mean, there's

723
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:53,200
Speaker 1: like so much that you're like separated, but you're not

724
00:38:53,239 --> 00:38:56,400
Speaker 1: like what, I'm gonna go deep on you here, Okay,

725
00:38:56,680 --> 00:38:58,440
Speaker 1: what do you want people to see when they look

726
00:38:58,480 --> 00:39:02,000
Speaker 1: at you? Oh? That is so so deep? You know,

727
00:39:02,800 --> 00:39:07,600
Speaker 1: we're the headline grabbing podcast. We're like the deep down.

728
00:39:07,880 --> 00:39:12,000
Speaker 1: Can't Yeah, oh god, I don't know. I mean I

729
00:39:12,320 --> 00:39:16,439
Speaker 1: feel like I want people to look at me and

730
00:39:16,440 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: and be like, you know what. No, Like, she is

731
00:39:19,200 --> 00:39:22,560
Speaker 1: a good person, and she's a great mom. She's a

732
00:39:22,600 --> 00:39:25,520
Speaker 1: good wife, and she's good at her job, and she

733
00:39:25,600 --> 00:39:27,759
Speaker 1: hasn't like totally lost her head. She's still like a

734
00:39:27,760 --> 00:39:30,640
Speaker 1: little like you know, like mildly evil, Like if you

735
00:39:30,680 --> 00:39:33,680
Speaker 1: had had to make her evil, you know, like you know,

736
00:39:33,840 --> 00:39:36,759
Speaker 1: just like still like somewhat edgy, Like I haven't like

737
00:39:36,840 --> 00:39:40,120
Speaker 1: fully lost it and turned like I'll live laugh love. Yeah, No,

738
00:39:40,200 --> 00:39:43,600
Speaker 1: I don't see you as love laffla, thank you, m.

739
00:39:45,160 --> 00:39:47,920
Speaker 1: I haven't really thought about it, but I think I

740
00:39:47,960 --> 00:39:51,799
Speaker 1: just don't want people to think that vander pump rolls

741
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:54,120
Speaker 1: and drama is the only thing I'm good for. Like,

742
00:39:54,160 --> 00:39:56,040
Speaker 1: if I don't have drama in my life, then what

743
00:39:56,280 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 1: then I'm worth riving? Right, you know? A moment of silence. No,

744
00:40:05,560 --> 00:40:08,800
Speaker 1: because no, I do like a lot of self work.

745
00:40:08,880 --> 00:40:10,320
Speaker 1: I read like a lot of self help books, and

746
00:40:10,360 --> 00:40:13,640
Speaker 1: I'm always asking myself these like really intense questions. But

747
00:40:13,719 --> 00:40:16,040
Speaker 1: I find it interesting because I'm like, if you don't

748
00:40:16,040 --> 00:40:17,759
Speaker 1: know what you want people to see, how are you

749
00:40:17,800 --> 00:40:22,120
Speaker 1: supposed to like live that out. That's a good point, Okay.

750
00:40:22,120 --> 00:40:24,960
Speaker 1: I guess I didn't like fully mean the world word evil.

751
00:40:27,239 --> 00:40:32,200
Speaker 1: I kind of just meant like, yeah, okay, I'm still

752
00:40:32,320 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 1: cool and edgy. I'm still hip, all right, Yeah, yeah,

753
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:38,720
Speaker 1: Like I still have a little bit of a dark side.

754
00:40:39,560 --> 00:40:41,279
Speaker 1: I like where you would do edgy. I feel like

755
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:44,319
Speaker 1: he really leaned into that role. I love because I

756
00:40:44,360 --> 00:40:46,760
Speaker 1: love dark things. I love witchy things. I love horror movies.

757
00:40:46,960 --> 00:40:50,240
Speaker 1: I love haunted houses. I love spooky things. My daughter

758
00:40:50,600 --> 00:40:54,279
Speaker 1: like her first word, I'm you not with skull, Like

759
00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:57,680
Speaker 1: I'm not joking. She knew the word skull before like

760
00:40:58,000 --> 00:41:01,879
Speaker 1: any other word. Um, she loves halloween. We just like

761
00:41:02,239 --> 00:41:03,799
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just like I've always been like

762
00:41:03,840 --> 00:41:07,480
Speaker 1: really interested in spooky things. The semi goth girl from

763
00:41:07,520 --> 00:41:14,000
Speaker 1: Amazing Strong. Yeah she's come a long way. Yeah, Um,

764
00:41:14,719 --> 00:41:18,520
Speaker 1: what I wanted to say? Where can people follow you

765
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:21,920
Speaker 1: on Instagram? Are you popping? Like do you like pop

766
00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 1: off on TikTok or do you a TikToker? I um

767
00:41:24,680 --> 00:41:27,759
Speaker 1: and a TikTok observer. I post every now and then,

768
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:31,239
Speaker 1: but like I'm really into TikTok. I love scrolling, I

769
00:41:31,280 --> 00:41:33,680
Speaker 1: love watching. But I'm not somebody that posts all the time.

770
00:41:34,360 --> 00:41:36,440
Speaker 1: It's like so daunting, Like people are like I'll tell

771
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,280
Speaker 1: you how to do it, like you have to post

772
00:41:38,280 --> 00:41:39,920
Speaker 1: five to eight times a day, and I'm like, you

773
00:41:39,920 --> 00:41:42,759
Speaker 1: guys are working batch crazy if you think I'm gonna

774
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:46,880
Speaker 1: do that, like your TikTok, like your Instagram stories, I'm like,

775
00:41:47,160 --> 00:41:51,239
Speaker 1: oh no, I overthink everything I post on TikTok, and

776
00:41:51,280 --> 00:41:53,279
Speaker 1: I spend so much time on it. I'm like, I'm

777
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:55,239
Speaker 1: gonna make this montage of me and my daughter in

778
00:41:55,320 --> 00:41:58,840
Speaker 1: Paris to like a renaissance like music, and like literally

779
00:41:58,880 --> 00:42:03,120
Speaker 1: five people like it. I just spend six hours on that. No,

780
00:42:03,440 --> 00:42:05,320
Speaker 1: it is so funny when the videos like, do you

781
00:42:05,400 --> 00:42:07,080
Speaker 1: want to know how to grow your TikTok, here's what

782
00:42:07,120 --> 00:42:11,560
Speaker 1: you have to do eight times a day, Yes, every

783
00:42:11,640 --> 00:42:15,799
Speaker 1: day for one year. Yeah, and you might grow. It's insane. Yeah,

784
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:20,080
Speaker 1: you might. It's insane. There's no Well, we appreciate you

785
00:42:20,160 --> 00:42:23,359
Speaker 1: coming on here. I'm sorry that we asked about vander Pump,

786
00:42:23,840 --> 00:42:28,080
Speaker 1: but thank we made you uncomfortable. You guys did not

787
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:31,640
Speaker 1: make me uncomfortable. Get it like you. It's like you.

788
00:42:31,960 --> 00:42:33,719
Speaker 1: And to be honest, I feel like a lot of

789
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:35,920
Speaker 1: people that are from the show have been like this

790
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 1: my moment to like get it out there. So I

791
00:42:38,920 --> 00:42:40,959
Speaker 1: think it's fair to not one. But it's not even

792
00:42:41,040 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 1: I think the thing is it's it's in reverse. It's

793
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:46,359
Speaker 1: not like like you have other stuff going on, so

794
00:42:46,400 --> 00:42:48,759
Speaker 1: you do press you. It's just a byproduct of the

795
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:51,360
Speaker 1: fact that you were from this show. And it's literally

796
00:42:51,480 --> 00:42:55,080
Speaker 1: everything I know and I think I'm overthinking it right now,

797
00:42:55,360 --> 00:42:57,759
Speaker 1: your person ourselves, but like I've had to learn to

798
00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:02,520
Speaker 1: overthink so it is. You did not make me uncomfortable whatsoever.

799
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:06,520
Speaker 1: This was so much I really myself. But I swear,

800
00:43:07,000 --> 00:43:09,359
Speaker 1: if people think you're thirsty, then Mike, I think you're

801
00:43:09,360 --> 00:43:11,359
Speaker 1: doing all right. If that's like the worst people think,

802
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:15,120
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like all right right, not really,

803
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:18,279
Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't want like, I don't want

804
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:21,120
Speaker 1: to be thirsty. Nobody does what I'm saying out of

805
00:43:21,120 --> 00:43:24,480
Speaker 1: everything else, Like there's worse things worse. Yeah, yeah, yeah,

806
00:43:24,520 --> 00:43:28,560
Speaker 1: there's worse things. Yeah. I don't think exactly that's true.

807
00:43:29,120 --> 00:43:33,560
Speaker 1: You could be doing sit down interviews with DMZ. Yes,

808
00:43:33,680 --> 00:43:37,720
Speaker 1: that's a that's a good point. You're gonna get that money,

809
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:41,000
Speaker 1: the whole what did you say, like a whole year's

810
00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:46,799
Speaker 1: contract worth? Yeah, one interview too. I don't think that's

811
00:43:46,840 --> 00:43:51,399
Speaker 1: accurate anything. Um. Where can people find you on social media? Um?

812
00:43:51,880 --> 00:43:54,759
Speaker 1: On Instagram at stas Schroeder. I guess it's the same

813
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:56,600
Speaker 1: on TikTok. If you want to give me a follow

814
00:43:56,640 --> 00:44:00,719
Speaker 1: and see a TikTok like once every three months. Um,

815
00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:02,200
Speaker 1: that's it. If people want to go to my tour.

816
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:04,759
Speaker 1: It's Stacy Schroeder dot com slash the Mommy Deers Tour,

817
00:44:04,840 --> 00:44:07,800
Speaker 1: and they can listen to my podcast Stripe with Stacy anywhere.

818
00:44:08,239 --> 00:44:11,040
Speaker 1: And then I have a second podcast, The Good, The Bad,

819
00:44:11,040 --> 00:44:13,600
Speaker 1: the Baby on Patreon, so that's patreon dot com slash

820
00:44:13,600 --> 00:44:18,799
Speaker 1: stac Oh. Wow, Like I can love it really and

821
00:44:18,840 --> 00:44:20,680
Speaker 1: I feel so much safer there, Like I feel like

822
00:44:20,719 --> 00:44:22,880
Speaker 1: I can say whatever I want and like it doesn't

823
00:44:22,880 --> 00:44:25,520
Speaker 1: really matter because it's behind a paywall. I know. I've

824
00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:29,239
Speaker 1: been thinking Stacy's got my brain well, like I have,

825
00:44:29,360 --> 00:44:31,799
Speaker 1: Like I have my public one and then I have

826
00:44:31,840 --> 00:44:33,680
Speaker 1: a more private one, so it's like I feel like

827
00:44:33,680 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 1: it's the best of both worlds. Yeah, you're you're a busy,

828
00:44:38,760 --> 00:44:41,880
Speaker 1: busy woman, and thank you for your time. Thank you guys.

829
00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:44,279
Speaker 1: We can't wait to see what's next. And are you

830
00:44:44,280 --> 00:44:47,040
Speaker 1: coming to LA for the show? Yes? On my birthday.

831
00:44:47,280 --> 00:44:50,560
Speaker 1: Actually it'll be my thirty fifth birthday June twenty fourth

832
00:44:50,800 --> 00:44:53,400
Speaker 1: at the Ace Hotel downtown and so I'm just like

833
00:44:53,520 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 1: really going to lean in. Yeah, yeah, hopefully we'll be

834
00:44:58,480 --> 00:45:01,640
Speaker 1: there cheering you on. I would love to have sober

835
00:45:02,200 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 1: make it all around you. Thanks Jussie, thank you,