WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Best Date of My Life 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:01.920 Hey, we got a brand new second date for you 0:00:02.000 --> 0:00:05.880 today podcasts Brook and Jeffrey in the morning, and today 0:00:05.880 --> 0:00:08.440 we got either romantic or a cringey first kiss story. 0:00:08.480 --> 0:00:10.840 I feel like we're right, Yes, we are. I don't 0:00:10.840 --> 0:00:14.040 know right now, dude, I'm just a scholar. 0:00:14.200 --> 0:00:17.479 Honestly, I'm kind of overly emotional today because my daughter's 0:00:17.520 --> 0:00:21.239 done with fifth grade today. 0:00:22.600 --> 0:00:23.320 See you again. 0:00:23.600 --> 0:00:25.040 She doesn't move after fifth grade. 0:00:25.200 --> 0:00:30.600 Yeah, mommy's going to live with her in the dorm. 0:00:28.200 --> 0:00:28.360 Wo. 0:00:31.160 --> 0:00:35.440 So sorry. I didn't mean to be so mpr All right, 0:00:35.479 --> 0:00:36.920 what about comments? What do we gotta like? 0:00:37.159 --> 0:00:40.080 Yes, Zane said, I thirty one years old showed one 0:00:40.120 --> 0:00:42.360 of your podcasts to my coworker sixty. 0:00:42.040 --> 0:00:44.000 Seven, and he absolutely loved it. 0:00:44.120 --> 0:00:46.000 But then he heard one where they didn't get back 0:00:46.000 --> 0:00:47.959 together at the end, and now I have to pre 0:00:48.120 --> 0:00:50.720 listen to them before showing him because I'm not allowed 0:00:50.720 --> 0:00:51.960 to show him the sad one. 0:00:55.000 --> 0:00:55.280 Like that. 0:00:55.400 --> 0:00:58.200 The sixty seven year old believes in love, Sue, I 0:00:58.240 --> 0:01:00.279 don't know that the success rate is a high. He's 0:01:00.280 --> 0:01:00.920 gonna hope it. 0:01:01.280 --> 0:01:01.400 You know. 0:01:01.440 --> 0:01:03.080 I don't want to laugh through this whole thing and 0:01:03.520 --> 0:01:05.039 sad at the Yeah. 0:01:05.160 --> 0:01:08.560 Finished fun You're usually just mad at each other at the. 0:01:09.240 --> 0:01:10.720 It's sad, but they're all funny. 0:01:12.560 --> 0:01:14.560 H Yeah, see how today's goes. 0:01:14.920 --> 0:01:16.119 It's gonna start right now. 0:01:17.240 --> 0:01:21.640 The second date up date, Brooke, I want you to 0:01:21.720 --> 0:01:25.560 think about the best date that you've ever been on. 0:01:27.240 --> 0:01:31.040 I know it's probably not with your husband. Nobody here 0:01:31.040 --> 0:01:35.000 expected it would be. What's the thing that happened that 0:01:35.160 --> 0:01:41.440 made you say this date tops them all? A big question? 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:45.759 Honestly, it's just the person I'm with, Like, I come, you're. 0:01:45.600 --> 0:01:46.760 Talking about yourself again. 0:01:46.959 --> 0:01:50.640 The fireworks are like the the chef made me a 0:01:50.680 --> 0:01:52.520 seven hundred dollars snail. 0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:54.880 The three way kiss at the end. That's it. 0:01:54.440 --> 0:01:56.520 That's the waiter. 0:01:56.720 --> 0:02:00.800 Okay, yeah, that makes sense. One of our lists emailed 0:02:00.800 --> 0:02:05.440 the show saying his most recent date easily ranks number 0:02:05.520 --> 0:02:09.680 one all time, and I'm just assuming he's been on 0:02:09.760 --> 0:02:12.600 more than one otherwise that statement really doesn't say much. 0:02:12.680 --> 0:02:15.480 So let's talk to Chris about it. Chris, Welcome to 0:02:15.520 --> 0:02:16.040 the show Man. 0:02:16.040 --> 0:02:18.760 How you doing, Hey, guys, thanks for taking my call. 0:02:18.880 --> 0:02:20.040 I really appreciate it. 0:02:20.160 --> 0:02:22.400 Yeahs like you're putting a lot of pressure on this 0:02:22.480 --> 0:02:23.000 first date. 0:02:23.120 --> 0:02:24.960 Yeah, you have been on more than one date in 0:02:24.960 --> 0:02:25.639 your life right. 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:26.200 Yes. 0:02:26.320 --> 0:02:27.840 No, I've been on a lot of dates in the 0:02:27.919 --> 0:02:30.840 last few years, and honestly, none of them really hit 0:02:30.960 --> 0:02:33.520 at all, Like I didn't feel like there was any connection. 0:02:33.639 --> 0:02:36.839 But this last girl, Kendra, it was like the date 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:37.680 of a lifetime. 0:02:37.840 --> 0:02:42.040 Okay, are you saying that because of Kendra or because 0:02:42.080 --> 0:02:43.760 of the activity in the environment. 0:02:44.000 --> 0:02:46.359 I think it was a combination of the entire The 0:02:46.440 --> 0:02:48.120 huntire night was kind of great. 0:02:48.200 --> 0:02:50.960 You'll see, You'll see by the endow. 0:02:50.440 --> 0:02:53.079 Our dated lives will look paltry in comparison. 0:02:53.480 --> 0:02:57.880 Oh yeah, yeah, yes, let's get right into it. Tell 0:02:57.960 --> 0:02:59.799 us where'd you meet Kendra? Okay? 0:02:59.840 --> 0:03:02.440 So I bought her flowers? We went to a restaurant, 0:03:02.440 --> 0:03:03.160 a question that. 0:03:03.200 --> 0:03:03.799 I asked her. 0:03:03.919 --> 0:03:06.320 You're really eager to tell us, and I appreciate that, but. 0:03:07.800 --> 0:03:10.280 Maybe maybe so excited about this story. 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:11.600 Where did you meet her? 0:03:11.800 --> 0:03:12.160 Oh? 0:03:12.400 --> 0:03:13.400 We met online? 0:03:13.480 --> 0:03:18.160 There understand why that was a confusing question. 0:03:18.280 --> 0:03:21.679 Yeah, I see. And now where did you two meet 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:24.440 at a restaurant? It sounds like at a restaurant. 0:03:24.840 --> 0:03:27.920 I'm glad he bought her flowers. 0:03:27.560 --> 0:03:29.600 Okay, And I bought her flowers, which is an important 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:31.600 part of the story because she was so shocked by 0:03:31.600 --> 0:03:34.840 the guy, because no guys buy flowers anymore. That's what 0:03:34.840 --> 0:03:36.080 she said at me at least. 0:03:36.160 --> 0:03:38.280 Oh, no guys buy flowers. 0:03:38.280 --> 0:03:44.320 Well, they are pretty expensive. I've got in trouble. Like 0:03:44.560 --> 0:03:45.720 the girls like flowers. 0:03:45.440 --> 0:03:46.839 And they like them after. 0:03:47.440 --> 0:03:49.400 That is a good point, Alexis. I mean, what did 0:03:49.560 --> 0:03:52.240 Kendra do with the flowers after you gave them to her? 0:03:52.760 --> 0:03:53.960 Well, that was part of the story. 0:03:54.040 --> 0:03:58.680 The server even complimented the flowers. When when the server 0:03:58.800 --> 0:04:02.480 complimented the flowers, she offered to let the server put 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:04.720 flowers on everyone's tables. 0:04:04.760 --> 0:04:05.520 So nice. 0:04:05.800 --> 0:04:09.280 Oh so she accepted your gift and immediately gave it 0:04:09.320 --> 0:04:10.360 away to the records. 0:04:11.000 --> 0:04:13.000 Okay, which, when you say it like that, it doesn't 0:04:13.000 --> 0:04:16.000 sound so good. It was really nice to watch that happen, 0:04:16.000 --> 0:04:17.960 and I'll see other people happy with these flowers. 0:04:18.000 --> 0:04:19.200 It was a really nice moment. 0:04:19.320 --> 0:04:21.239 Yeah, you bought everyone flowers. 0:04:21.240 --> 0:04:24.000 Well, everyone in the restaurant doesn't get it. 0:04:24.200 --> 0:04:26.279 It is a really good move, though. I feel like 0:04:26.320 --> 0:04:28.839 it looks good in her eyes, and I assume it 0:04:28.920 --> 0:04:31.920 must have led to some good conversation, to some good moments. 0:04:32.279 --> 0:04:32.960 It really did. 0:04:33.200 --> 0:04:35.240 In fact, I'd say it got a little cheesy and 0:04:35.360 --> 0:04:37.040 so good that I got myself a little. 0:04:36.880 --> 0:04:38.680 Vulnerable, you know what I mean? 0:04:39.279 --> 0:04:41.160 Oh, hants came off that quickly. 0:04:41.320 --> 0:04:43.680 I say it like that. Did you say I cried? 0:04:44.000 --> 0:04:44.720 Is that what you just said? 0:04:45.000 --> 0:04:46.919 I but didn't cry. But I'm sort of as a 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:49.839 twenty six year old. I gave up on meeting anybody 0:04:49.839 --> 0:04:50.440 at this point. 0:04:50.960 --> 0:04:52.679 So twenty six isn't that old? 0:04:52.920 --> 0:04:58.840 Just so you know, she's twenty nine, and she said 0:04:58.839 --> 0:05:00.599 she was going through similar stuff, so it was like 0:05:00.680 --> 0:05:02.320 we kind of hit on the same subjects. 0:05:02.640 --> 0:05:05.280 Wow, what happened At the end of the night. 0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:07.200 We went back to her place. 0:05:07.240 --> 0:05:08.320 We walked to her place. 0:05:08.360 --> 0:05:10.400 She didn't live that far from the restaurant, so it 0:05:10.480 --> 0:05:12.000 was a really nice romantic walk. 0:05:12.120 --> 0:05:13.440 Did you hold hands? 0:05:14.080 --> 0:05:14.960 We held pinkies? 0:05:16.400 --> 0:05:18.839 That's even better. 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:19.800 I don't know. 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:24.480 That's the friend finger. Yea, you have a friend finger. 0:05:24.640 --> 0:05:26.680 That's the one you do pinky promises with your friends. 0:05:27.360 --> 0:05:32.160 I thought you were going anyway? Did you after the 0:05:32.200 --> 0:05:33.719 pinky hole thing? Did you get a kiss? 0:05:34.279 --> 0:05:36.760 So it was kind of a funny situation. She lives 0:05:36.800 --> 0:05:39.039 in a community that has a wall around it, and 0:05:39.080 --> 0:05:41.360 you have to it's not easy to get into, you know. 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:44.479 A biodome or a prison something. 0:05:44.720 --> 0:05:46.880 I think it's just an apartment with a gate, is 0:05:46.880 --> 0:05:49.760 what it means. Twins are pretty common. 0:05:49.880 --> 0:05:53.279 Okay, I like bio prison. I'm not familiar, but okay, 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:54.240 I get it. 0:05:54.320 --> 0:05:56.440 There's a gate, so there's a gate, and she didn't 0:05:56.440 --> 0:06:00.560 have her key. 0:05:58.800 --> 0:05:59.640 So you're locked out. 0:05:59.800 --> 0:06:02.920 Or maybe it's a move that she's pulling where she's like, oh, 0:06:03.040 --> 0:06:04.520 I can't find my keys. 0:06:05.720 --> 0:06:09.520 She happened? Do you need me to strip search myself? 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:15.080 Maybe I was more like, maybe we should go back 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:17.160 to your place instead. Maybe that's what I think. 0:06:17.240 --> 0:06:21.600 She need to go back to a guy. 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:24.120 Yeah, yeah, I'm standing naked. 0:06:25.360 --> 0:06:27.640 Brook States. So what happened, Chris? 0:06:28.520 --> 0:06:31.360 I know this sounds ridiculous, but so I decided to 0:06:31.440 --> 0:06:32.400 jump the gate. 0:06:33.400 --> 0:06:37.040 So you can open it on the other side. 0:06:37.160 --> 0:06:37.480 Yeah. 0:06:37.560 --> 0:06:39.800 Yeah, I had to climb it and pull myself up 0:06:39.839 --> 0:06:44.600 over it. As I'm pulling myself up over it, I 0:06:44.680 --> 0:06:45.400 get stuck. 0:06:45.520 --> 0:06:48.000 My pants get stuck on it, and I get gone. 0:06:48.680 --> 0:06:50.400 I'm hanging upside down, no. 0:06:52.800 --> 0:06:59.920 Spiky fences, right, Yes, what did she do? 0:07:01.320 --> 0:07:02.159 Well? She kissed me? 0:07:02.680 --> 0:07:04.480 What man? 0:07:04.600 --> 0:07:04.840 Kiss? 0:07:05.000 --> 0:07:08.680 Upside down? Upside down man? 0:07:09.240 --> 0:07:10.360 And she kissed you. 0:07:10.920 --> 0:07:12.480 I was just as shocked as you were. 0:07:12.800 --> 0:07:14.640 Wow, I guess she. 0:07:14.640 --> 0:07:16.560 Likes her mobile vulnerable. 0:07:17.560 --> 0:07:20.160 I can get him hereun did you like it? 0:07:20.240 --> 0:07:20.280 Like? 0:07:20.400 --> 0:07:21.880 Was that awkward or was it romo? 0:07:22.080 --> 0:07:24.440 No, it was a nice It's a very nice romantic moment. 0:07:24.560 --> 0:07:26.600 But it's been a couple of days since that happened. 0:07:26.600 --> 0:07:29.040 We texted for a couple of days, and then since 0:07:29.200 --> 0:07:30.880 then she hasn't gotten back to me. 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:34.400 Maybe you're a man upside Yeah. It can be confusing 0:07:34.440 --> 0:07:36.760 because usually you put your tongue this way, but when 0:07:36.800 --> 0:07:38.600 you're upside down, he needs to go that way. 0:07:39.560 --> 0:07:42.360 So we found another man suspended on a fence and 0:07:42.560 --> 0:07:44.120 took Yeah. 0:07:44.080 --> 0:07:45.040 Maybe that's her thing. 0:07:45.160 --> 0:07:47.040 Some guy working on the phone lines. 0:07:47.760 --> 0:07:50.680 Okay, well we're gonna we're gonna come back. We'll call 0:07:50.800 --> 0:07:54.240 Kendra for you and try to get you your next 0:07:54.400 --> 0:07:57.200 most romantic date ever. When we get you maybe a 0:07:57.280 --> 0:08:01.000 right side up kiss. Crazy. We'll do it with your 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:06.360 second date update, next second date update. If you're just 0:08:06.440 --> 0:08:10.000 joining us, we've basically got the real life Peter Parker 0:08:10.080 --> 0:08:16.640 on the phone received the rare coveted upside down kiss 0:08:16.800 --> 0:08:18.320 during his date with Kendra. 0:08:18.520 --> 0:08:21.160 You didn't see the sequel where the Spider Man got 0:08:21.160 --> 0:08:21.960 his pants. 0:08:23.240 --> 0:08:27.800 Okay, yeah, we're still in the Tobey Maguire universe. 0:08:29.280 --> 0:08:32.520 Toby would totally get his pants stuck on a f Yeah. 0:08:32.400 --> 0:08:36.560 Because it happened after Chris fell while scaling the security 0:08:36.600 --> 0:08:39.760 gate outside of Kendra's apartment, as you do a lot 0:08:39.800 --> 0:08:44.120 of dates and hard to climb though, but pants got 0:08:44.160 --> 0:08:46.720 caught when he fell, and it was there in that 0:08:46.880 --> 0:08:52.400 embarrassing moment when animal instinct took over and Kendra walked 0:08:52.480 --> 0:08:54.800 right up to him and smooched him in the face, 0:08:55.280 --> 0:08:56.079 which is such. 0:08:55.880 --> 0:08:57.640 A good sign because that really could have been an 0:08:57.640 --> 0:08:58.559 ick moment for her. 0:08:58.800 --> 0:09:00.959 Yeah, you know, and she thought it. 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:03.920 Was adorable, So no wonder Chris is describing it as 0:09:03.920 --> 0:09:07.160 his best date ever. But weird that she's not texting 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:10.319 him back since she's the one who initiated that moment. 0:09:10.360 --> 0:09:13.000 You know, we never asked, Chris, did she ever get 0:09:13.040 --> 0:09:17.679 back into her apartment, because maybe that's why she hasn't responded. 0:09:18.040 --> 0:09:18.720 That's a good point. 0:09:19.120 --> 0:09:21.120 Yeah, somebody came by a few minutes later and let 0:09:21.160 --> 0:09:21.360 her in. 0:09:21.480 --> 0:09:25.200 Oh okay, I guess I didn't even take about just 0:09:25.200 --> 0:09:26.719 waiting until somebody else showed up. 0:09:29.360 --> 0:09:31.640 We're gonna call Kendra. We'll see if she picks up. 0:09:31.679 --> 0:09:33.960 And God, I hope this works out for you. I mean, 0:09:34.000 --> 0:09:36.400 there's so much pressure on this one. You know, it's 0:09:36.440 --> 0:09:38.080 like his best date he's ever been on. 0:09:38.240 --> 0:09:40.360 Well, I felt pretty relaxed until you said that. Now 0:09:40.480 --> 0:09:42.760 all of a sudden, I'm stressed out for no reason. 0:09:42.840 --> 0:09:44.160 Don't screw it up, jeff. 0:09:44.000 --> 0:09:45.760 Oh God, okay, here we go. 0:09:45.840 --> 0:09:47.120 Then. 0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:58.439 Hello, Hey, is this Kendra? 0:10:03.840 --> 0:10:05.320 Yes, she said, is this. 0:10:06.920 --> 0:10:07.120 Yeah? 0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:11.120 Sorry, Kendrick. Yeah, we're a radio show. We're called Brooke 0:10:11.120 --> 0:10:12.040 and Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:10:12.880 --> 0:10:14.959 How many How many of you are there? 0:10:15.000 --> 0:10:15.480 Too many? 0:10:15.640 --> 0:10:21.719 Yes, it's a whole show. Okay, all right. 0:10:22.600 --> 0:10:25.959 So we're reaching out to you because one of our 0:10:26.040 --> 0:10:28.240 listeners has asked us to get a hold of you. 0:10:28.280 --> 0:10:30.160 A guy that you went on a date with recently 0:10:30.679 --> 0:10:31.600 named Chris. 0:10:33.400 --> 0:10:37.960 Oh okay, yeah. 0:10:38.080 --> 0:10:39.760 So this is all part of a segment we do 0:10:39.880 --> 0:10:42.920 call the Second Date Update, where we're trying to figure 0:10:42.960 --> 0:10:46.440 out if there's a reason you have stopped texting him 0:10:46.559 --> 0:10:47.240 after the date. 0:10:50.640 --> 0:10:52.240 I mean obviously, yeah. 0:10:52.559 --> 0:10:55.640 Obviously the reason should be obvious. 0:10:56.640 --> 0:10:58.800 No, no, no, just like it's obvious that yes, I 0:10:58.960 --> 0:10:59.600 have a reason. 0:11:00.160 --> 0:11:03.360 Yeah, okay, we just want to know because we spoke 0:11:03.400 --> 0:11:06.240 to Chris and he told us about your date, and 0:11:06.600 --> 0:11:09.920 it sounded actually much better than we ever thought it 0:11:10.120 --> 0:11:12.319 could have been given the circumstances. 0:11:12.440 --> 0:11:14.800 Honestly, I'd love to hear your side of the story. 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:19.320 Yeah, okay, it was a good date. Like, it was 0:11:19.320 --> 0:11:19.920 a really. 0:11:19.679 --> 0:11:21.400 Good date, honestly, so cute. 0:11:21.600 --> 0:11:25.240 Okay, I mean I wouldn't have kissed him at the 0:11:25.320 --> 0:11:26.719 end of it if it was a bad date. 0:11:26.840 --> 0:11:27.360 Oh my god. 0:11:27.520 --> 0:11:28.920 That's where you and Brook differed. 0:11:33.000 --> 0:11:35.600 But he told us about that first kiss, like that 0:11:35.840 --> 0:11:37.720 was crazy, the upside down one. 0:11:38.480 --> 0:11:41.640 Yeah, I mean, when you have a movie moment, you 0:11:41.720 --> 0:11:42.840 have to like take it right. 0:11:42.920 --> 0:11:45.679 Oh, you felt like it was that magical too, Like 0:11:45.720 --> 0:11:47.040 it really was a movie moment. 0:11:48.120 --> 0:11:50.120 Well, yeah, it was a spider Man kiss. 0:11:50.520 --> 0:11:53.000 Okay, Yeah, that's the first thing we jumped to as well. 0:11:53.120 --> 0:11:56.360 Well yeah, if that's the case, then why after your 0:11:56.400 --> 0:11:58.720 movie moment aren't you calling Chris back? 0:11:59.520 --> 0:12:03.000 Well, I mean, I don't really know what he told 0:12:03.040 --> 0:12:06.280 you besides that week kiss. 0:12:06.040 --> 0:12:08.640 That, I mean, that was the majority we know that 0:12:08.679 --> 0:12:10.000 you guys went to a restaurant. 0:12:10.040 --> 0:12:13.160 He told us about the flowers that he brought you flowers, 0:12:13.200 --> 0:12:14.400 and you guys passed. 0:12:14.200 --> 0:12:15.920 Him out among the other table. 0:12:16.000 --> 0:12:17.280 He immediately gave his gift away. 0:12:17.440 --> 0:12:23.679 Oh yes, I didn't think he would mind, so it 0:12:23.720 --> 0:12:28.000 was really sweet. Oh okay, okay, okay, yeah, yeah, here's 0:12:28.040 --> 0:12:32.760 the thing. Chris is great, but he lied to me, 0:12:33.480 --> 0:12:36.560 and I mean he lied about something pretty big, and 0:12:36.679 --> 0:12:37.760 I big. 0:12:38.600 --> 0:12:40.439 Like what like his name or something? 0:12:40.679 --> 0:12:43.200 Dude, I mean no, it's not his name. 0:12:43.679 --> 0:12:47.360 He said that he was twenty six and he's like 0:12:47.520 --> 0:12:48.600 forty two ish. 0:12:50.640 --> 0:12:54.640 Yeah again, Wait a second, you had a good time. 0:12:55.040 --> 0:13:00.439 I had a good time. Why does it matter what anybody? 0:12:58.400 --> 0:13:03.040 Okay, okay, Chris, that doesn't sound good. Yeah, Kendrick, you 0:13:03.080 --> 0:13:04.840 didn't know this, but Chris has been listening on the 0:13:04.880 --> 0:13:09.560 other line. Maybe a yeah, my gods. 0:13:08.679 --> 0:13:10.920 That because I'm forty two. But that's off. 0:13:10.960 --> 0:13:11.280 Wait you. 0:13:13.320 --> 0:13:15.880 Are forty two, Chris? You told us that you were 0:13:15.880 --> 0:13:16.440 twenty six. 0:13:16.520 --> 0:13:17.520 Yeah, I'm kidding, bro. 0:13:17.800 --> 0:13:20.440 But age doesn't matter. It doesn't matter how old I am. Again, 0:13:20.480 --> 0:13:21.080 we had a good. 0:13:21.080 --> 0:13:23.560 Und flying about it. 0:13:23.120 --> 0:13:26.040 So it doesn't matter. Why do you lie? 0:13:26.280 --> 0:13:28.080 That's only thirteen years different? 0:13:28.440 --> 0:13:31.959 Okay, okay, that is wild so long and Chris, if 0:13:32.000 --> 0:13:34.120 age isn't important, then why did you lie? 0:13:34.160 --> 0:13:36.160 About it, because she wouldn't have gone out with me 0:13:36.240 --> 0:13:37.480 if I said I was forty two. 0:13:37.840 --> 0:13:40.240 I had color that of course when I was in 0:13:40.280 --> 0:13:42.680 my twenties, I wouldn't date somebody in the forties either. 0:13:42.760 --> 0:13:46.200 Yeah, it happens in Hollywood all the time. Men and 0:13:46.240 --> 0:13:48.440 women are older than the significant others. 0:13:48.640 --> 0:13:50.680 Actually normal, a lot. 0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:54.640 Of healthy relationships and yaps, and it's people having the 0:13:54.679 --> 0:13:56.600 information to make that choice. 0:13:56.720 --> 0:13:58.719 Right, So she you lied to her? 0:13:58.840 --> 0:14:00.640 Yeah, Kendri, what are your thought this? 0:14:01.120 --> 0:14:03.240 I mean, here's the thing, Like, I'm not entirely true 0:14:03.720 --> 0:14:06.480 my age on the apps either. What wait, I say 0:14:06.520 --> 0:14:08.679 that I'm twenty nine, but I'm actually thirty one. 0:14:09.160 --> 0:14:11.800 But that's not like a wait a second, wait a second, 0:14:11.800 --> 0:14:14.959 you lie about your age online. That's dis shocking. 0:14:16.040 --> 0:14:19.960 Okay, chancastic, you don't really have a leg to stand on. 0:14:20.160 --> 0:14:22.760 I think he's being sarcastic. You being sarcastic, right, No, 0:14:22.880 --> 0:14:23.520 it's the same. 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:26.640 A lie is a lie, whether it's twenty nine or 0:14:26.720 --> 0:14:27.240 forty two. 0:14:28.080 --> 0:14:30.640 So you're not upset that she lied about her age 0:14:30.760 --> 0:14:32.320 because you lied about yours. 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:35.920 I'm upset that she's upset about me lying about my age. 0:14:35.920 --> 0:14:38.680 If she lies about hers somehow. 0:14:39.040 --> 0:14:41.320 You think, no matter what it is, the lies should 0:14:41.360 --> 0:14:43.520 cancel out and you should be on even playing field. 0:14:43.680 --> 0:14:45.840 Yeah, a lie should cancel out a lie. 0:14:46.040 --> 0:14:48.520 Okay, Okay, I'm kind of messed up that you like. 0:14:49.480 --> 0:14:52.440 No, here's my thing. It's like when people are like 0:14:52.560 --> 0:14:54.760 looking for people who they want to date, and they 0:14:54.760 --> 0:14:57.640 go to my age bracket. They're looking for people between 0:14:58.000 --> 0:15:00.840 thirty and forty, and I don't want to people like 0:15:00.920 --> 0:15:03.320 I'd rather use someone who's a little bit younger. 0:15:03.480 --> 0:15:06.440 So you aged out of the age bracket you're interested in. 0:15:06.680 --> 0:15:07.400 Is the problem? 0:15:08.480 --> 0:15:11.120 Yes, but not by sixteen years. 0:15:11.840 --> 0:15:12.480 It's thirteen. 0:15:12.960 --> 0:15:14.080 Yeah, it's sixteen. 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:16.440 He doesn't know how to do math. It's literally sixteen. 0:15:16.520 --> 0:15:18.920 But he's doing the same exact thing that you're doing. 0:15:18.960 --> 0:15:22.400 He's lying about his age to open up his options 0:15:22.400 --> 0:15:23.160 the same way. 0:15:22.960 --> 0:15:26.120 That you are, but he's opening it too far. 0:15:26.440 --> 0:15:29.000 Yeah okay, I mean I don't think what she's doing 0:15:29.080 --> 0:15:30.880 is right, but I can see her point, Like, you 0:15:30.920 --> 0:15:33.640 have a generation gap between somebody, Well, I guess you're 0:15:33.680 --> 0:15:36.600 thirty one now, so now you're only eleven years apart 0:15:36.640 --> 0:15:38.640 in age, So now it's not as big. 0:15:38.680 --> 0:15:42.560 A billions of years old. What's the difference between thirteen years. 0:15:42.320 --> 0:15:43.760 I can't tell who side I'm on him. 0:15:44.040 --> 0:15:47.440 Yeah, and technically the age gap is just eleven years now. 0:15:47.600 --> 0:15:48.520 Yeah, that's what I just said. 0:15:49.080 --> 0:15:51.040 But I wasn't listening to you Brook because you're older. 0:15:52.680 --> 0:15:56.200 I have my cutoff at age thirty five. So alexis, 0:15:56.200 --> 0:15:58.000 if you have anything to say, feel free to jump in. 0:15:58.240 --> 0:15:59.160 I'm so confused. 0:16:00.120 --> 0:16:02.440 My question is when you kissed him, did you know 0:16:02.520 --> 0:16:06.640 he was forty by then? I had suspicions. 0:16:06.720 --> 0:16:08.360 I mean, I knew he wasn't twenty six. 0:16:08.520 --> 0:16:10.720 But that means you guys got along so well, even 0:16:10.800 --> 0:16:15.200 you were bending your rules a little in your exactly, I. 0:16:15.040 --> 0:16:17.920 Wasn't bending my rules eleven years. 0:16:18.320 --> 0:16:20.720 No, you're right, you are right, But I'm just saying 0:16:20.760 --> 0:16:24.000 that a point you came to a conclusion almost. 0:16:23.640 --> 0:16:25.600 And you still I think Jose's on to something. You 0:16:25.640 --> 0:16:27.680 both can you get over this? Is that? 0:16:27.680 --> 0:16:29.320 That's really the question is not. 0:16:29.200 --> 0:16:31.480 The only problem, because if you guys just get along great, 0:16:32.120 --> 0:16:33.360 Just a big lie about who you. 0:16:33.360 --> 0:16:35.800 Are is that it well the same That age is 0:16:35.880 --> 0:16:38.160 just a number. It shouldn't matter if the connection is real, 0:16:38.280 --> 0:16:41.440 and if that connection is true, we'd like to offer 0:16:41.440 --> 0:16:43.480 to send you to out on another date and we 0:16:43.480 --> 0:16:44.360 would pay for it. 0:16:44.880 --> 0:16:46.480 That would be nice. I like when people pay for 0:16:46.560 --> 0:16:48.040 my dates. I do it. I'm down. 0:16:50.000 --> 0:16:50.240 Food. 0:16:50.280 --> 0:16:53.840 Yeah, cheap, old man, I see waiting for that senior discount. 0:16:53.880 --> 0:16:56.400 But Kenjo, we will pay for it. It's up to you. 0:16:57.320 --> 0:16:57.520 Yeh. 0:16:58.200 --> 0:17:01.680 Look, if we would have met organic and had the 0:17:01.880 --> 0:17:05.600 connection we had, then I might have been able to 0:17:05.680 --> 0:17:09.760 forgive that he's forty two. But the lying is it's 0:17:10.040 --> 0:17:11.080 just gonna bother me. 0:17:12.280 --> 0:17:14.360 Your lies don't bother that's right. 0:17:14.440 --> 0:17:15.440 But you're no. 0:17:15.560 --> 0:17:22.560 My lie is fine. 0:17:21.280 --> 0:17:27.840 Lies, you know, Chris, I'm sorry, man, it was the 0:17:27.920 --> 0:17:29.919 best state of his entire life. 0:17:31.119 --> 0:17:32.840 Well, if that's it, guys, I'm gonna let him know 0:17:32.880 --> 0:17:35.280 the truth that I'm not actually forty two, I'm forty six. 0:17:35.400 --> 0:17:38.679 What life, No, you're not? 0:17:39.880 --> 0:17:41.960 Is that what you wore the baseball hat backwards on 0:17:41.960 --> 0:17:44.639 our days? Like you're literally a dad and that's why 0:17:44.680 --> 0:17:45.600 you couldn't get over the fence. 0:17:47.560 --> 0:17:52.200 No wonder he knows who Toldy maguire is rooking Jeffrey 0:17:52.200 --> 0:17:54.919 in the morning. Man. I know this happens all the 0:17:54.960 --> 0:17:57.320