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Speaker 1: Thank you, nephew. Subject he described a different experience. Dear

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Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I'm in a long distance relationship with a

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Speaker 1: guy that I dated in high school. We both married

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Speaker 1: other people, and we both got divorced last fall, so

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Speaker 1: we decided to give dating a try again. But he

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Speaker 1: lives almost three hours away, so I don't get to

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Speaker 1: see him as much as I'd like to. He came

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Speaker 1: to see me over the weekend, and this was our

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Speaker 1: first time having sex in nineteen years. I was so

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Speaker 1: ready for it. He got in Thursday and I went

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Speaker 1: to his hotel room after work. I took a shower,

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Speaker 1: and then he put it on me like he promised.

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Speaker 1: He kept on saying that I had been waiting for

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Speaker 1: that moment for years, and he said I'm by far

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Speaker 1: the best woman he ever had sex with. We went

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Speaker 1: in for round two before I went to work the

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Speaker 1: next day. I had been twisted and turned in the

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Speaker 1: best way, and I could barely make it through the

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Speaker 1: day without having flashbacks. I went straight to the room

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Speaker 1: after I got off. I was surprised that his bed

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Speaker 1: wasn't made and he was still in it. I was

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Speaker 1: expecting more sex, but he said he was still tired

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Speaker 1: from the night before, so we did an oral exchange

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Speaker 1: that put me to sleep. I woke up to wrap

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Speaker 1: my hair up and I overheard him in the bathroom

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Speaker 1: on the phone talking low. He was describing a sexual

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Speaker 1: encounter he had earlier that day, but it was definitely

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Speaker 1: not with me. He said it was the kisses that

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Speaker 1: had him so turned on, and it is hard for

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Speaker 1: him to be intimate without kissing sensual touch. He didn't

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Speaker 1: kiss me in the mouth at all. He also said

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Speaker 1: he kept eye contact with whoever he was intimate with.

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Speaker 1: He and I never locked eyes. He was in there

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Speaker 1: describing a different experience than we had should I assume

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Speaker 1: that he's not ready to settle down. Can I tell

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Speaker 1: him what I heard? Well, I don't mean to be

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Speaker 1: harsh here, but he only wants you for the sex. Okay, whatever,

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Speaker 1: whatever gave you the idea that you were in a

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Speaker 1: relationship with this guy. Yes, you knew him in high school,

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Speaker 1: but like you said, that was nineteen years ago. All

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Speaker 1: you have in common now, besides the sex, is that

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Speaker 1: you're both divorced. He's single and ready to mingle, but

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Speaker 1: he's not thinking about settling down with you. And he's

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Speaker 1: more serious about the other woman because they're kissing and

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Speaker 1: making eye contact and stuff. And you heard him say

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Speaker 1: that turned him on, but it wasn't like that with you.

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Speaker 1: He said you're the best woman he ever had sex with.

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Speaker 1: That's it. So you have the wrong idea idea about

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Speaker 1: this guy. No, he's not ready to settle down. I'll

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Speaker 1: say that again. You should get out while you can

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Speaker 1: if you're looking for something more serious, because he's not

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Speaker 1: serious about you. And if you tell him what you heard,

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Speaker 1: so what I mean, what difference is that gonna make? Steve?

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Speaker 3: Some of these dudes, I can't help y'all, brus y'all

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Speaker 3: just man, I don't know if you don't care, I

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Speaker 3: don't know if you don't know how to be careful.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if you understand.

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Speaker 2: All of the powers that women have.

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Speaker 3: Let me start by saying, one of the major powers

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Speaker 3: that all women have that's exceptional is hearing.

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Speaker 2: They ask can heal?

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Speaker 3: I don't know why God gave it to them like that,

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Speaker 3: but they have dog hear it a key in the back, no,

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Speaker 3: downstairs in the basement, a dog hit at she hit.

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Speaker 3: Women have exceptional hearing. You're in the bathrooms on your

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Speaker 3: phone talking low not low enough?

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 3: I'm in a long distance relationship with a guy that

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Speaker 3: I dated in high school. We both married other people,

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Speaker 3: we got divorced, so last fall we decided to give

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Speaker 3: dating a try again. But he lives almost three hours away,

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Speaker 3: so I don't get to see him as much as

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Speaker 3: I like to. Now in this we don't know how

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Speaker 3: long you've been seeing him, but he came to see

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Speaker 3: you over the weekend, and all, this is your first

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Speaker 3: time having sex in nineteen years. So I'm gonna assume

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Speaker 3: y'all thirty seven, eighteen year old high school leave. I'm

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Speaker 3: assuming y'all around thirty seven so, and he lives three

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Speaker 3: hours away. So how did you all find each other?

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Speaker 3: Was this on Facebook? Have y'all always stayed in touch? See,

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Speaker 3: I don't know none of this was our first time

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Speaker 3: having sex in nineteen years. I was so ready for it.

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Speaker 3: He got in Thursday. I went to his hotel room

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Speaker 3: after work. I took a shower. He put it on

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Speaker 3: me like he promised. Come through, boy, come through, come through.

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Speaker 3: Be able to deliver on your promises. Do first rule

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Speaker 3: of manhood. I teach at the mintor in campus. Do

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Speaker 3: what you say you gonna do. That is the number

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Speaker 3: one rule of manhood. If you can master that rule

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Speaker 3: right there, you will have the respect of your peers.

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Speaker 3: You will have respect of your coworkers. You will have

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Speaker 3: your mate, you will have the respect of your employers anybody.

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Speaker 3: All you gotta do is a man, do like you

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Speaker 3: say you're gonna do. He said he's gonna put it

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Speaker 3: on her. He came in here and get to that.

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Speaker 3: He waxed that car to the shine. We come back, Steve,

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Speaker 3: tell you what all that car waxing got you.

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Speaker 1: Hang on, we'll have part two of your response coming

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Speaker 1: up at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's Strawberry Letter.

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Speaker 1: Subject he described a different experience. We'll get it back

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Speaker 1: into it right after this. You're listening hard morning show.

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Speaker 1: All right, come on, Steve, let's recap today's Strawberry letter.

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Speaker 1: The subject is he described a different experience.

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Speaker 3: Woman in a longest relationship with a guy that she

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Speaker 3: dated in high school. Has been nineteen years. They hooked

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Speaker 3: up somehow they started seeing each other again.

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Speaker 2: He lived three.

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Speaker 3: Hours away, but he came up over the weekend to

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Speaker 3: see her, and it was our first time having sex

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Speaker 3: in nineteen years. She came over after work, took a shower,

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Speaker 3: got into bed, and he put it on her jest.

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Speaker 3: Like he promised. It was a complete and total waxing.

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Speaker 3: The car is shy and polished. Now the car is shining.

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Speaker 3: He kept on saying that he had been waiting for

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Speaker 3: this moment for years, and he said, I am, by far,

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Speaker 3: the best woman he ever had sex with.

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Speaker 2: We need to keep this line in mind.

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Speaker 3: This is very important, by far the best woman I

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Speaker 3: ever had sex with. We went for round two. I

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Speaker 3: went to work the next day. I've been twisted. I

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Speaker 3: could barely make it through the day without flashbacks.

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Speaker 2: She said.

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Speaker 3: I got he had I had been twisted and turned

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Speaker 3: in the best way.

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Speaker 2: And this boy you got flipped. This boy was in.

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Speaker 3: Here doing pancakes and it worked. I went straight to

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Speaker 3: the room after I got off. I was surprised that

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Speaker 3: his bed wasn't made and he was still in it.

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Speaker 3: I was expecting most sex, but he said he was

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Speaker 3: still tired from the night before, so we did an

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Speaker 3: all exchange. That put me to sleep. I woke up

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Speaker 3: to wrap my hair. That's how you know. You gotta

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Speaker 3: get up and wrap your hair. Gotta get that hair

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Speaker 3: wrapped or else. Because he come out of that bathroom,

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Speaker 3: he ain't gonna know who you are, so you gotta

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Speaker 3: get that hair wrapped. And I overheard him in the

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Speaker 3: bathroom on the phone talking. I don't know why men

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Speaker 3: don't understand this gift that women have. Why are you

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Speaker 3: in the bathroom talking women? All women have an incredible gift.

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Speaker 2: What is that gift? It is called the gift of hearing.

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Speaker 3: They can hear any damn thing that's about them being

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Speaker 3: said anywhere. Your ass could have been in the parking lot,

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Speaker 3: in your car with the windows roll up, in the

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Speaker 3: radio if you was talking about her, her ass would

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Speaker 3: have heard it. I'm telling you they have dog ass.

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Speaker 2: Hearing German shepherd here. I don't know what you thought.

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Speaker 2: He was talking low.

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Speaker 3: He was describing a sexual encounter he had earlier that day. Well,

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Speaker 3: that's why he was acting like he was in the

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Speaker 3: tossed the bed up. Now he got to get in

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Speaker 3: and act like he wasn't doing nothing. He was describing it,

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Speaker 3: but it definitely wasn't me. He said he had kisses

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Speaker 3: that he said the kisses turned him on, and it

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Speaker 3: was hard for him to be intimate without kissing the

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Speaker 3: central touch. He ain't kiss me in the mouth at all. Well, see,

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Speaker 3: well you ain't wonna get kissed. H You just said

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Speaker 3: in the letter what type of exchange y'all had. Now,

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Speaker 3: if you want mouth kissing, you got to start talking.

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Speaker 3: Speak up. You wasn't interested in the mouth kissing a

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Speaker 3: mouth kissing this other girl. Now you won't be mouth

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Speaker 3: kissed too. That ain't what you said in your letter.

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Speaker 3: Y'all had a different type of exchange. You want mouth kissing,

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Speaker 3: you gonna.

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Speaker 2: Have to speak up.

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Speaker 1: We got it, thank you.

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Speaker 3: I'm just saying and sensual touch. He didn't kiss me

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Speaker 3: never we never locked that he was in there describing

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Speaker 3: not ready to settle down? He ain't settled down? What

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Speaker 3: you the hell you fitlinghed soon? He just had somebody

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Speaker 3: is what he said in the letter. He said, you

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Speaker 3: are by far the best woman he ever had sex with.

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Speaker 3: Well now by far. So now he got to test

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Speaker 3: it now, don't he? He said by far that means

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Speaker 3: up till now. So after you left, he called somebody over.

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Speaker 3: Now this is odd what you need to be because

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Speaker 3: he got to see if he may got to make

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Speaker 3: sure he wasn't lying. Now and now hit the other part.

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Speaker 3: He came up for the weekend to see you. How

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Speaker 3: did he end up with the other chick? So it

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Speaker 3: ain't just you just three hours away because he came

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Speaker 3: up to a hotel room with you. Now you find

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Speaker 3: out another woman was in there. So how many people

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Speaker 3: Should I assume he's not ready to settle down? He

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Speaker 3: to him, because guess what, y'all ain't got no clarity

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Speaker 3: on what your relationship is. Now, Can I tell him

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Speaker 3: what I heard? Might as well? Why not tell him

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Speaker 3: what you heard and see what that changed? So what, yeah,

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Speaker 3: tell him what you heard. I heard you in that

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Speaker 3: talking about looking at this woman in the eyes, and

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Speaker 3: y'allways kissing. You know what he gonna tell you, you

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Speaker 3: ain't kiss me crazy and then and then you're gonna

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Speaker 3: say you ain't looking me in your Eyea. You know

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Speaker 3: he's gonna say, every time I looked at you, your

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Speaker 3: eyes in the back of your head. But you know

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Speaker 3: your pupils was in the back of your head. I

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Speaker 3: saw the whites of your eyes. Now, if you want

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Speaker 3: to make eye contact, you got to look at me.

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Speaker 3: When I'm looking at.

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Speaker 1: You, looking at the whites are kind of scared.

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Speaker 3: And I do like kissing, but you didn't. You didn't

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Speaker 3: seem to care for that. So now here we are,

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Speaker 3: there's nothing except.

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Speaker 2: You want to know.

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Speaker 3: Was Should I assume he's not ready to settle down.

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Speaker 3: He's not settled down. You don't have to assume that

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Speaker 3: he's not settled down. He didn't tell you he was

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Speaker 3: settled down either. He just said he'd been thinking about

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Speaker 3: this for nineteen years. Yeah, yeah, okay, that I did it.

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Speaker 3: Can I tell him what I heard? You can?

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Speaker 1: They've just been seeing each other since the fall. They

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Speaker 1: just got divorced in the fall.

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Speaker 3: Oh you know what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and you wonder how long they were dating.

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Speaker 2: Yeah.

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Speaker 3: I don't know if you've been up there to see

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Speaker 3: him or but it seemed like the first time.

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Speaker 1: Well, yeah, definitely the first time because you.

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Speaker 3: Hadn't been intimate in nineteen years with him, but he

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Speaker 3: ain't been You ain't been intimate with him, but he

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Speaker 3: been intimate, and he's been intimate with that other girl

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Speaker 3: that's three hours away too.

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Speaker 1: Yep.

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Speaker 2: On the same day.

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