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Speaker 1: It's time to ask the CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey.

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Speaker 1: Here we go, Sonya in Clearwater. Right, my ex boyfriend

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Speaker 1: is threatening to show up at my wedding if I

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Speaker 1: don't pay him the thirty five hundred dollars that he

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Speaker 1: loaned me. He said, if I can pay for a wedding,

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Speaker 1: I can pay him. He won't let me do a

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Speaker 1: payment plan with him. Should I tell my fiance about

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Speaker 1: this now?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah yeah, and then show up and see

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Speaker 3: what happened.

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Speaker 4: Yeah see See, don't let this guy threaten you with

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Speaker 4: this right here, if you could throw a wed and

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Speaker 4: you can't, you could pay my thirty five.

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Speaker 3: You may own the thirty five hundred. I'm not arguing that.

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Speaker 4: But what you need to do is share this information

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Speaker 4: with your fiance so he's on point. He understands, and

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Speaker 4: so we have the right amount of people at the

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Speaker 4: dome at.

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Speaker 3: The wed yep.

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Speaker 4: Like him, and you walk up the fee if you

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Speaker 4: want to, right, you know, we already at the church.

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Speaker 1: One.

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Speaker 4: You know, it's just a couple of services go down

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Speaker 4: up here at the church. Church is famous for different

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Speaker 4: types of services. Don't mess around to be a part

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Speaker 4: of one.

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Speaker 1: All right, Celo, we're moving on to Ali and Paramis.

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Speaker 1: Ali says, I'm twenty eight years old and dating an

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Speaker 1: older man that I used to work with. He brags

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Speaker 1: to everyone that we're soulmates, but he won't get serious

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Speaker 1: about marriage because he thinks I'll find a younger man

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Speaker 1: and leave him.

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Speaker 2: How do I assure him that I won't.

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Speaker 4: You go, Well, I don't really know how you can

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Speaker 4: assure him. I mean, he knows he's playing on battle time,

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Speaker 4: and he is because eventually you will depends on the

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Speaker 4: age difference.

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Speaker 3: Let's just go.

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Speaker 4: Let's just say, for example, let's say he's fifty six,

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Speaker 4: and let's say you're twenty eight. That's twenty eight years

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Speaker 4: older than you. So in twenty years he'll be.

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Speaker 3: Seventy eight. Yes, see how it's starting to look a

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Speaker 3: little know that's coming. You know, he on ball time.

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Speaker 3: Nothing you could do to convince him he'd have lucked up.

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Speaker 4: Now, he really and he know that he holding strong

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Speaker 4: because y'all soul mates, because of what he's able to

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Speaker 4: do for you. So the moment that the for you

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Speaker 4: starts to dwindling, and the what he can do to

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Speaker 4: you starts to dwindle. You gonna be gone. And plus

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Speaker 4: you don't even know what you're talking about. You don't

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Speaker 4: even know what you gotta do in a minute, you

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Speaker 4: gotta do. You're gonna have to start learning how to

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Speaker 4: do stuff that you ain't really.

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Speaker 2: You know, what what do you mean?

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Speaker 3: Bine? You know, bine denchy cream. Don't even know where that.

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Speaker 4: You don't know what out that's on. You can't just

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Speaker 4: start to dye diseque.

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Speaker 3: That ain't nothing. You never look, Yeah, you know what

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Speaker 3: does it depend?

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Speaker 2: You don't know.

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Speaker 3: You've never even been.

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Speaker 4: Look when you go to the drug store, you don't

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Speaker 4: even go down into that medical apparatus our.

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Speaker 3: You don't even know what's down there.

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Speaker 2: Okay, you don't know where.

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Speaker 4: See, you gonna find out they got push button pop

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Speaker 4: out canes.

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Speaker 3: Now you don't even know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they kind.

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Speaker 4: Of fly, they really yeah see see see see right there,

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Speaker 4: you start looking, Oh that kind of fly right there.

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Speaker 3: Ain't nobody got not this time. See you don't know

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Speaker 3: that he said nobody got nothing this time. That's that's

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Speaker 3: the problem. Yeah, run little girl, all right.

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Speaker 1: Cassius in Vegas says, my wife has a job that

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Speaker 1: requires her to be gone a lot as a man,

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Speaker 1: I'm not going to be alone for weeks at a

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Speaker 1: time and not have sex. So I have a few

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Speaker 1: women that entertained me. My wife is hearing things about

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Speaker 1: me from her messy friend who I've had sex with twice.

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Speaker 1: How do I keep her quiet without us having sex again?

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Speaker 2: What friends to tell.

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Speaker 3: Me your name and things about us from her messy friend?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: All these women out here though.

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Speaker 1: Well, he says he's not going to be alone. He's

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Speaker 1: he's a man, and he's not going to be alone

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Speaker 1: for weeks at a time and not have sex.

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Speaker 4: Clearly, bro, you ain't gonna have to worry about this

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Speaker 4: in a minute, because ain't a woman going to go

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Speaker 4: out here making money, struggling me and coming home and

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Speaker 4: hear in rumors about her man with her message friend,

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Speaker 4: Hey dog dog you on the low down end of

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Speaker 4: the spectrum. Yeah, let's just admit that Steve can't help you.

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Speaker 4: You know, you've already made a decision what you're gonna do.

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Speaker 4: You've come to the conclusion of what type of man

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Speaker 4: you are, So what you want us to do, I

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Speaker 4: ain't nothing to.

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Speaker 3: Do for you. Man.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you gonna get boosted, You gonna get busting this

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Speaker 4: all off, and now you can be with who.

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Speaker 3: You want, whatever you want. You hit the vesil.

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Speaker 1: God, does it sound like he regrets regrets it though, Steve,

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Speaker 1: When he says, how could I keep her quiet without

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Speaker 1: us having sex again, it sounds like he doesn't want

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Speaker 1: to have sex.

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Speaker 2: With her anymore?

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Speaker 3: No, that's not true.

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Speaker 2: Uh huh, he said, how.

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Speaker 4: Could he keep her quiet without having sex with her again?

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Speaker 3: Because if she ain't gonna be quiet, I'm having to

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Speaker 3: go back over here.

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Speaker 4: See right, you have to understand the male mind, that's

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Speaker 4: what he said, shurely.

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Speaker 2: That's what that's the I'm asking.

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Speaker 3: No, I know, but that's I'm just helping women understand

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Speaker 3: the male mind.

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Speaker 4: He there's no regret, okay, And the only reason he's

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Speaker 4: addressing this is cause she'd have started talking and.

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Speaker 2: The wife has heard some stuff.

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Speaker 4: And what she's heard is true because you tapping her friend.

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Speaker 4: Now you are quiet without having sex again.

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Speaker 2: Well, all right, let's move on to Brittany and Madison.

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Speaker 1: Brittany says, I'm dating a married man and we just

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Speaker 1: had a threesome with his wife and it didn't go

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Speaker 1: how we planned. He was scared to touch me, so

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Speaker 1: I took over he said his wife could tell we

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Speaker 1: have chemistry.

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Speaker 2: Now he's mad at me. How is any of this

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Speaker 2: my fault?

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Speaker 3: Is?

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Speaker 4: This?

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Speaker 3: Is this? What the hell day I think it is?

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Speaker 4: I think you're sitting up in here heaven.

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Speaker 3: Man.

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Speaker 4: Why he trying to act like he ain't really involved?

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Speaker 4: And she found out y'all had chemistry? Okay, Hey, look, hey,

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Speaker 4: thanks for calling today. I'll tell you I can't. I

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Speaker 4: can't go in the house with my wife with none

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Speaker 4: of this. I don't even know that

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