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Speaker 1: greatest city, km Chicago, and I an't radio station. Wait,

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Speaker 1: it's the French show. Shout out to you. Um, my

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Speaker 1: close friend, my good friend, Jim Graziano. This guy's my

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Speaker 1: boys haven't been there. Um, a couple of weeks ago

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Speaker 1: they were honored. I should know how long they've been open,

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Speaker 1: like seventy five, one hundred and eighty thousand years or something,

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Speaker 1: and the streets seemed after them down there. Uh, JP

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Speaker 1: Grazianos and west Loop and um, this guy, here's another

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Speaker 1: free plug this morning. Management's gonna love this. Um. They're

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Speaker 1: now this is brilliant, by the way, brilliant. They're now

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Speaker 1: going to be open Thursday through Saturday until one in

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Speaker 1: the morning. Sir, Can you please start your friend to

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Speaker 1: open on Sundays because that's what I always wanted. I know,

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Speaker 1: I know they're religious and Italians like got it, but

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Speaker 1: I am always craving. What are they? Grazianos they got ye,

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Speaker 1: they got sandwiches, they got uh, they got charcou They

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Speaker 1: have charkout trays. I didn't know they had charcout trays

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Speaker 1: until I saw it. One of the posts one of

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Speaker 1: the gym's post. Next party I'm having in my house,

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Speaker 1: which will be like six or seven years. There's a

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Speaker 1: party tomorrow. We could bring it in. No, we're good.

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah okay friend, Yeah you know what. I have

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Speaker 1: a party at my house. Yeah you know what. Charcuterie boards.

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Speaker 1: Everyone except for Pauline's invited to my pre party in

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Speaker 1: my house with Rasiano charkout. Yeah, party for me like

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Speaker 1: you will now, No, no, no recovery. I want another

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Speaker 1: place you guys need to know about it while I'm

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Speaker 1: thinking about places that need to be opened until one

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Speaker 1: or two o'clock in the morning. Is called Mickey's Park

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Speaker 1: and it's in River North and it's next to Boss Bar.

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Speaker 1: It's across from like Joy District over there or whatever,

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Speaker 1: and they have a little windows. Um, you've been there,

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Speaker 1: but I anyway, it's a different thing. It's a different story.

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Speaker 1: But um, yes you've been there. But it's like Korean

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Speaker 1: kind of confusion kind of I don't know. It's amazing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they have these dumplings there I'm not getting paid to

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Speaker 1: say this that don't have meat in them. And you

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Speaker 1: would never know that they didn't have meat in them.

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Speaker 1: You would never know. I don't know what kind of

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Speaker 1: concoccition is. Place is delicious and they have these like

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Speaker 1: little Korean sliders that have like I think it's kimchi

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Speaker 1: on him or whatever. And I'm like, dude, why you

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Speaker 1: need to be open until like four in the morning

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Speaker 1: because all these drunk people coming out of all these

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Speaker 1: bars would crush this place. Crush this place. I said,

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Speaker 1: another one needs to be open until two in the morning.

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Speaker 1: But there you go. There. I didn't like, Oh my god,

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Speaker 1: these are so good. These are amazing. What's it called

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Speaker 1: Nicky's Park? Okay, yeah, it's next to Boss bar Um

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Speaker 1: something else, right, it was Mexicans Tacos. Before that, it

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Speaker 1: was I don't know, it's good. H eighty four years

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Speaker 1: for JP Graziano, so shout out to him, and they

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Speaker 1: invited me to the saying it was last Monday. I

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Speaker 1: think it was when they celebrated eighty four years and

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Speaker 1: I couldn't go. I was maybe it was when I

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Speaker 1: was coming. I don't know, I was going to Dallas

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Speaker 1: or something. I don't know where I was going. I

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Speaker 1: was going somewhere to see my niece, and I couldn't

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Speaker 1: tell my niece. I form my old niece. Hey, sorry,

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Speaker 1: these guys have amazing sandwiches. So I'm not gonna make it,

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Speaker 1: but um, I'll see you another time. Paulina wanted to

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Speaker 1: make a public apology. She said, oh, yeah, I did

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Speaker 1: what I have an apology to make. Huh go ahead,

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Speaker 1: after some thinking and some you know, thinking to my

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Speaker 1: in your head, yeah, a lot of that. Yeah, I'd

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Speaker 1: like to publicly apologize to your Chicoude friends at the

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Speaker 1: beautiful restaurant of JP Grassianos. Why why are we apologizing

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Speaker 1: to Jim Because I actually think I might want some chut.

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Speaker 1: It's too late. I just realized they have a whole

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Speaker 1: table to fail. It's too late. It's too late. You

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Speaker 1: you denied the charcoot. You didn't know the name of

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Speaker 1: the place she was apologize. You didn't even know where

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Speaker 1: you were apologized. No, I not going, beautiful friend, I'm

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Speaker 1: not going out of my way to go get sharkcoot

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Speaker 1: because you didn't want it an hour ago. You didn't

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Speaker 1: This a different shortcoot party. I love that. I love that.

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Speaker 1: I was just showing off because Rufio is in my

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Speaker 1: it's my fault. I wasn't that suggested to bring it

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Speaker 1: to your party? Said no, throw me off. No, I

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Speaker 1: remember that you went off script. Jim. Jim texted me

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Speaker 1: and he said that you said it was only going

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Speaker 1: to be your food. That was your quote. You old

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Speaker 1: food at the party, so he said, he said, freddie boy,

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Speaker 1: she doesn't need it, he said, But I got all

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Speaker 1: the shartcoot you need in the west Loop until one

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Speaker 1: am on the weekends. Shout out to Jim Graziano. I

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Speaker 1: need it though at the party. You better go get

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Speaker 1: some Oscar meyer us. Better sort of roll him up

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Speaker 1: like you know whatever. That's what I do. You some lunchables,

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Speaker 1: lay them out. Oh no, no, I want the real deal,

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Speaker 1: ain't it. Let's plan this um so. A bride's wedding

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Speaker 1: registry is playing viral for all around reasons. From Yahoo News.

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Speaker 1: The bride hiller requests to the list of very expensive

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Speaker 1: gifts in a now viral Facebook post. It was screenshotted

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Speaker 1: by an Australian news outlet. Many people found her demands

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Speaker 1: to be unthinkable. The registry included designer handbags, a new car,

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Speaker 1: home renovations, and cash. I would like this is a

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Speaker 1: quote from it. I would like to announce our gift

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Speaker 1: registry to everyone, to those coming to my wedding. There's

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Speaker 1: a list of gifts that you can bring. You must

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Speaker 1: choose from the list or consult me first. There are

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Speaker 1: no exceptions, she says. Um the bride expected that wedding

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Speaker 1: guests would pay no less than four hundred dollars for

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Speaker 1: a gift. Any kitchen aid appliance over three to fifty.

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Speaker 1: This does not mean kitchen items like an eight printer, spatulor,

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Speaker 1: she wrote this I'm taking. I'm talking about stand mixer, blender,

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Speaker 1: et cetera. Any Gucci or Louis Vuton purses. Other purses

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Speaker 1: are allowed, but please consult me first. Any clothes over

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Speaker 1: four hundred dollars from Calvin Klein, Norah's new floor tiles

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Speaker 1: for the entire house. I know this one's a stretched,

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Speaker 1: but I would appreciate it, she wrote on her wedding registry.

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Speaker 1: She goes on and on four hundred dollars or more

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Speaker 1: in gift cards than following places, but talk to me

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Speaker 1: first before you do it. She goes on and on.

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Speaker 1: That has to be the nicest wedding. I would have

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Speaker 1: better send that. Oh right, I better begin lit and

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Speaker 1: fed and everything. They had better have everything. If I'm

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Speaker 1: paying four hundred dollars to go to your wedding, But

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Speaker 1: how about you don't get to tell someone how much

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Speaker 1: they spend on your wedding. I mean, that's the wildest thing.

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Speaker 1: If I wouldn't be friends with that person anymore. If

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Speaker 1: if I went to a friend's wedding registry and they

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Speaker 1: put all that on there, well, don't you know you

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Speaker 1: better spend four hundred bucks and you better consult me first,

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Speaker 1: and don't don't you know that's not what gift giving

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Speaker 1: is about. I wouldn't want to be friends of that

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Speaker 1: person anymore. I would thinking them differently forever. I like

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Speaker 1: the directiveness of it because Calencom probably attest to this.

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Speaker 1: I have gift anxiety, so I never know, like am

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Speaker 1: I spending too much? Did I spend not? In you

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Speaker 1: know this? Should I get another thing? Is this? Two things?

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Speaker 1: I kind of like that. It's like very specific dollar amounts,

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Speaker 1: like four hundred dollars per person. That's a very high

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Speaker 1: end wedding. But you also got to think, like she's

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Speaker 1: got to be friend if she's like that her friends,

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Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying, Like she's got to have

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Speaker 1: you're getting married, and the only gifts to people can give.

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Speaker 1: And I don't know who she's marrying, a man or

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Speaker 1: and all the rest of this stuff. I mean. So

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Speaker 1: that's what I wonder for people who have done this,

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Speaker 1: and I know you have a review, you've done a

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Speaker 1: registry before eight five nine one on three five, is

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Speaker 1: that you get ahold of us? How do you you

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Speaker 1: can't possibly wind up scanning everything that you see that

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Speaker 1: you really want like you've got to be Because my mom,

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Speaker 1: for example, thinks that giving your friends money is rude.

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Speaker 1: She will never She'll write a check for a graduation.

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Speaker 1: She'll write a check for or that's about it, a graduation,

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Speaker 1: a college graduation, high school graduation. But she will not give.

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Speaker 1: She won't give her friends who are getting married, or

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Speaker 1: wouldn't I guess, And I already had my own house,

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Speaker 1: and I already have my own toaster. You know what

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Speaker 1: I really need is money to either offset the cost

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Speaker 1: of this wedding, which shouldn't necessarily be your logic. In

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Speaker 1: my opinion, I don't think you should plan no one.

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Speaker 1: I don't think in here did this, But you shouldn't

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Speaker 1: plan your wedding in my opinion, based on how much

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Speaker 1: you think you're going to get back. I think you

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Speaker 1: should plan your wedding based on what you want. What

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Speaker 1: do you want your wedding to be? What can you afford?

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Speaker 1: Because I hear people go, well, I bet that wedding

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Speaker 1: was two hundred bucks a plate, so I gotta give

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Speaker 1: two Everyone needs to give two hundred bucks. We could

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Speaker 1: pay for the wedding. It's like, well, okay, but how

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Speaker 1: about you do the wedding that you want to do.

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Speaker 1: Everybody accepts the fact that it's either super bougeape or

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Speaker 1: intimate or super whatever it is. And then the money

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Speaker 1: I don't know, put it towards the house or go

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Speaker 1: on a vacation or whatever it is. I hate the

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Speaker 1: idea that I'm paying for myself helf to go. It's like, no,

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Speaker 1: this is a gift, like you should be using this

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Speaker 1: don't need another stack of place I already had to

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Speaker 1: buy places cards when you go to wedding. My sister

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Speaker 1: she could buy a flight to wherever. That makes sense, Scott,

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Speaker 1: that makes sense? Yeah? Yeah, um, Alyssa, Hi, Hi are

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Speaker 1: you hi? Good morning? So this is your wedding register.

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Speaker 1: We're talking about you for you? Yes, okay? And and

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Speaker 1: and so this woman put Louivaton bags and basically a

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Speaker 1: four hundred dollar minimum on everything. And it was all

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Speaker 1: gift cards and Louivaton and Gucci and the rest of it.

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Speaker 1: I mean, how do you determine? You gotta have some

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Speaker 1: discipline on this thing, right, so you don't come off

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Speaker 1: a certain kind of way. Oh yeah, I would absolutely never.

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Speaker 1: I was saying, Um, I put all this stuff on

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Speaker 1: my registry, and my mother in law looked here. She's like,

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Speaker 1: you do not have enough expensive stuff on here, like

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Speaker 1: you need to op it up. And I was like, okay,

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Speaker 1: but I like a four length mirror from Creating Barrel.

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Speaker 1: It's like five hundred dollars. My mom called me within

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Speaker 1: the day and she was like, who are you putting

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Speaker 1: that on there? That is ridiculous. I'm not going to

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Speaker 1: I don't know, I don't have to put on this thing. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: it's gonna be hard though, because you know, you're not

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Speaker 1: if you put it on there, it doesn't mean somebody

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Speaker 1: It's not the same as what you're talking about matching outfits.

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Speaker 1: Hi Rachel, good morning. So we're talking about wedding registry

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Speaker 1: How are you going to manifest that into real life?

422
00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:30,639
Speaker 1: Like it happening you were. I sleep with people in

423
00:20:30,680 --> 00:20:33,040
Speaker 1: my dream all the time. That doesn't happen in real life.

424
00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:35,439
Speaker 1: Rihanna and I have never slept together. You can't if

425
00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:36,800
Speaker 1: I had a girlfriend, you couldn't be mad at me

426
00:20:36,880 --> 00:20:38,680
Speaker 1: boy sleeping with Rihanna because we never did. It was

427
00:20:38,680 --> 00:20:40,800
Speaker 1: just in my dream. But if you're in a relationship

428
00:20:40,840 --> 00:20:43,040
Speaker 1: and you have a dream about your significant other cheating,

429
00:20:43,119 --> 00:20:45,480
Speaker 1: normally that means there's some sort of insecurity there or

430
00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:50,440
Speaker 1: like some thought about it happening so your life. Why absolutely,

431
00:20:50,480 --> 00:20:53,040
Speaker 1: I didn't do anything, because it's in my head that

432
00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:57,040
Speaker 1: you you might. You know so clearly something something in

433
00:20:57,160 --> 00:20:59,560
Speaker 1: your head, Chris say yes that I must have put

434
00:20:59,640 --> 00:21:01,639
Speaker 1: it there, so it's my fault, and so you should.

435
00:21:01,800 --> 00:21:04,960
Speaker 1: You have every right to get mad at me. Yes, no, yes,

436
00:21:05,160 --> 00:21:07,920
Speaker 1: for a dream that you concocted, well exactly, you can

437
00:21:08,240 --> 00:21:09,920
Speaker 1: get it out of something. It doesn't come out of

438
00:21:10,000 --> 00:21:11,880
Speaker 1: no one. You don't have any accountability for your own

439
00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:14,280
Speaker 1: thoughts and your own feelings. They're all instilled in you

440
00:21:14,400 --> 00:21:16,040
Speaker 1: by someone else. I'm not going to start like a

441
00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:18,159
Speaker 1: fight fight, but I have thought with someone over a

442
00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,639
Speaker 1: dream of him cheating, because it you know, because of

443
00:21:20,760 --> 00:21:24,000
Speaker 1: your insecurity of you thinking your boyfriend's gonna cheat on you,

444
00:21:24,160 --> 00:21:26,960
Speaker 1: but it came out of something. No, you're insecurity. It

445
00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:29,080
Speaker 1: doesn't have to be that somebody else. It doesn't have

446
00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:31,200
Speaker 1: to be that whoever you were with did something to you.

447
00:21:31,440 --> 00:21:33,200
Speaker 1: I don't know. One time, my ex was flirting with

448
00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:34,800
Speaker 1: somewhat had a dream that he cheated that night, and

449
00:21:34,800 --> 00:21:36,840
Speaker 1: I was like, this is your fault because you flirted

450
00:21:36,880 --> 00:21:40,600
Speaker 1: with a girl last night while your fault and you're single. Unbelievable.

451
00:21:40,720 --> 00:21:42,520
Speaker 1: I don't know no idea. I don't know no idea

452
00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:44,440
Speaker 1: that could have happened. Um, So this this is a

453
00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:46,920
Speaker 1: common Unreddit. It was have you ever you know, what

454
00:21:46,960 --> 00:21:49,040
Speaker 1: do you do with somebody who's penalizing you for something

455
00:21:49,040 --> 00:21:51,520
Speaker 1: to happen in their dream. One person says I had

456
00:21:51,520 --> 00:21:53,520
Speaker 1: an ex who would watch movies on Lifetime and then

457
00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:55,480
Speaker 1: get mad at me, claiming that I was doing all

458
00:21:55,520 --> 00:21:58,360
Speaker 1: the things that the terrible guy was doing in the movies. Um,

459
00:21:58,680 --> 00:22:02,080
Speaker 1: she would imagine me kidnapping someone, cheating, murder and then

460
00:22:02,119 --> 00:22:04,480
Speaker 1: go out for fifteen minutes about it. When she said

461
00:22:04,520 --> 00:22:06,520
Speaker 1: I when she did it a few times, it was

462
00:22:06,640 --> 00:22:09,639
Speaker 1: bizarre and annoying, but Eventually I became very cautious what

463
00:22:09,840 --> 00:22:12,119
Speaker 1: I did next. I had a friend who was in

464
00:22:12,160 --> 00:22:14,800
Speaker 1: the same situation. His girlfriend would make him sleep on

465
00:22:14,840 --> 00:22:17,080
Speaker 1: the sofa to punish him because she'd had a dream

466
00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:20,800
Speaker 1: where he'd been unfaithful. It's scary how commonness is the

467
00:22:20,920 --> 00:22:24,120
Speaker 1: sort of thing that issues a danger signal. But yeah,

468
00:22:24,160 --> 00:22:29,480
Speaker 1: I mean that the catalysts of your dreams can happen

469
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:32,120
Speaker 1: from anything that you see all day throughout your life.

470
00:22:32,160 --> 00:22:34,200
Speaker 1: It may not have anything to do. It could be

471
00:22:34,240 --> 00:22:36,280
Speaker 1: a story somebody else told you about something it's happening

472
00:22:36,320 --> 00:22:39,080
Speaker 1: in their lives. So then why am I penalizing my

473
00:22:39,240 --> 00:22:41,719
Speaker 1: significant other? It this thing that never happened. Hey, Alex,

474
00:22:43,560 --> 00:22:47,959
Speaker 1: Alex going, Hey, what did you have dreams about? All right,

475
00:22:48,000 --> 00:22:50,560
Speaker 1: so it's a little off topic, but I've had dreams

476
00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 1: where my wife didn't exist and I was with my

477
00:22:55,680 --> 00:23:00,720
Speaker 1: act and it was very heartbreaking, and I was just

478
00:23:00,840 --> 00:23:03,119
Speaker 1: so computed in the dream and it was it was

479
00:23:03,680 --> 00:23:06,639
Speaker 1: kind of a sad moment for me. And it's actually

480
00:23:06,680 --> 00:23:09,560
Speaker 1: a reoccurring dream that keeps that. Mince me, you have

481
00:23:09,640 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 1: a reoccurring dream that your your wife is no longer there? Yeah,

482
00:23:15,680 --> 00:23:18,119
Speaker 1: that I'm not with my wife. She doesn't make exist.

483
00:23:18,760 --> 00:23:22,560
Speaker 1: But I'm back with my ex who I didn't want

484
00:23:22,600 --> 00:23:25,000
Speaker 1: to be with. There's some some psychologists listening out who

485
00:23:25,000 --> 00:23:27,400
Speaker 1: can dissect that right as to why that's happening. How

486
00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:30,600
Speaker 1: dare you? How dare your wife made you dream that? Yeah?

487
00:23:30,880 --> 00:23:34,560
Speaker 1: I know your wife? How dare whatever? No, No, let's

488
00:23:34,600 --> 00:23:38,040
Speaker 1: playing on your wife. Accorne Christie's argument, because this one's

489
00:23:38,080 --> 00:23:40,560
Speaker 1: on him. Oh, this one's on him. It's because your

490
00:23:40,600 --> 00:23:44,120
Speaker 1: wife must have done something to erase herself from your

491
00:23:44,520 --> 00:23:47,920
Speaker 1: from your your slumber and um and now look at it.

492
00:23:48,000 --> 00:23:49,760
Speaker 1: Look at a torch here going through because of her.

493
00:23:51,200 --> 00:23:53,720
Speaker 1: But they actually made me realize how much I love

494
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Speaker 1: my wife. Though in my dream I may see heartbroken

495
00:23:57,200 --> 00:24:01,520
Speaker 1: and it's just it's just a giant fear. I still

496
00:24:01,560 --> 00:24:03,280
Speaker 1: want to know, Alice, why you killed her off? Though,

497
00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:04,840
Speaker 1: I want to know why she's dead in your dreams.

498
00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:06,719
Speaker 1: I'd like to know. Let's get Keith Worst in date,

499
00:24:06,800 --> 00:24:08,760
Speaker 1: let NBC in here, let's figure it out. What have

500
00:24:08,880 --> 00:24:11,080
Speaker 1: a good day? Man? Thank you? I think she I

501
00:24:11,200 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 1: think she really set that up, Like she probably whispers

502
00:24:13,720 --> 00:24:16,800
Speaker 1: in his ear or something like that. Yeah, so he

503
00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:20,000
Speaker 1: wakes up like, I love you so much never leaves me.

504
00:24:20,119 --> 00:24:27,080
Speaker 1: You have to go back strategy. Thanks guys, Drea, good morning,

505
00:24:27,960 --> 00:24:30,560
Speaker 1: Good morning guys. Hi. Have you ever penalized somebody for

506
00:24:30,640 --> 00:24:34,320
Speaker 1: a dream that you had? Yeah? Only because typically when

507
00:24:34,320 --> 00:24:37,040
Speaker 1: I have Daiza boom, it's from a dream. It's like

508
00:24:37,200 --> 00:24:40,199
Speaker 1: something that I dreamt about, and then in reality it happens,

509
00:24:40,240 --> 00:24:42,960
Speaker 1: and I'm like, oh, I had daza boom about that.

510
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:47,159
Speaker 1: So yeah, I typically get angry when I have significant

511
00:24:47,200 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 1: other cheating dreams only because my dreams have become reality.

512
00:24:52,320 --> 00:24:56,359
Speaker 1: Sometimes okay, but wow, So you dream about this stuff

513
00:24:56,720 --> 00:24:58,720
Speaker 1: and then you let it go and then it happens,

514
00:24:58,880 --> 00:25:01,000
Speaker 1: and then you get mad that you dreamt about it before,

515
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:06,480
Speaker 1: like you should have been a perpinition or something. We

516
00:25:06,600 --> 00:25:09,600
Speaker 1: don't do cheaters. But what I'm saying is is that

517
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:12,200
Speaker 1: I will have a dream about something and then in

518
00:25:12,359 --> 00:25:15,280
Speaker 1: reality it will kind of happen. Then I would say,

519
00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:19,639
Speaker 1: I want to dream about businesses totally, like it's not

520
00:25:19,760 --> 00:25:22,080
Speaker 1: a day dream. It's not I closed my eyes that

521
00:25:22,960 --> 00:25:26,359
Speaker 1: I was sleeping and it happened, and now it happened

522
00:25:26,359 --> 00:25:29,200
Speaker 1: in reality. That happens to me too. I dream about

523
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:30,960
Speaker 1: things before they happen a lot. So then when I

524
00:25:31,320 --> 00:25:34,160
Speaker 1: have a gnarly dream that like is so bad. I'm

525
00:25:34,200 --> 00:25:36,280
Speaker 1: like terrified that it's going to happen. And so I

526
00:25:36,600 --> 00:25:38,560
Speaker 1: know how to cipher which is which, Like is it

527
00:25:38,640 --> 00:25:41,200
Speaker 1: gonna happen? Or am I insane? I don't know. I

528
00:25:42,119 --> 00:25:47,560
Speaker 1: got yeah, maybe maybe insane? But um, thank you dream.

529
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 1: We have a good day. You need a dream that

530
00:25:51,000 --> 00:25:54,480
Speaker 1: I win the lottery. I was gonna say, dream, can

531
00:25:54,520 --> 00:26:02,400
Speaker 1: you write these dreams down in case? Hey Lauren Lorne Lord,

532
00:26:02,480 --> 00:26:04,560
Speaker 1: welcome to your husband cheated on you in a dream?

533
00:26:05,240 --> 00:26:07,200
Speaker 1: He did, he cheated on me in a dream. And

534
00:26:07,280 --> 00:26:09,920
Speaker 1: I went into like all the details and a group

535
00:26:09,960 --> 00:26:13,440
Speaker 1: talks that we have um among our friends, and one

536
00:26:13,480 --> 00:26:15,360
Speaker 1: of his friends are like, well, Jack, I guess you're

537
00:26:15,359 --> 00:26:17,119
Speaker 1: just gonna have to get your wife's new car. Now.

538
00:26:17,240 --> 00:26:19,000
Speaker 1: That's the only way that she won't be mad at you.

539
00:26:19,160 --> 00:26:21,200
Speaker 1: I'm like, amen to that, Dad, Get me in my

540
00:26:21,280 --> 00:26:23,879
Speaker 1: new car. I want the most expensive one ever, and

541
00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,840
Speaker 1: then maybe we won't be fighting Anywow. Wow, brother, what

542
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:31,560
Speaker 1: kind of Ferrari you driving? Now? I'm driving a Traverse.

543
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:34,720
Speaker 1: It's a beautiful car, so I can't complain it's your model.

544
00:26:34,840 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 1: So I did in a whole lot of second, you're kidding.

545
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:39,080
Speaker 1: He didn't actually buy a car. Oh no, no, no, no, no, no,

546
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:46,239
Speaker 1: he didn't actually buy me a car. I was definitely right. Yes,

547
00:26:46,480 --> 00:26:50,760
Speaker 1: you dream about a car, Okay, now that would be

548
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 1: really nice. But I did hear though that if you

549
00:26:53,000 --> 00:26:56,200
Speaker 1: you don't have a dream about like a relationship with

550
00:26:56,320 --> 00:26:59,480
Speaker 1: someone cheating on you or something bad, that it actually

551
00:26:59,560 --> 00:27:04,000
Speaker 1: means that you're in a very healthy, stable relationship. How

552
00:27:04,320 --> 00:27:07,520
Speaker 1: and what looks the logic there? Because yeah, it was

553
00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:09,720
Speaker 1: in a dream book that me and my friends have

554
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:13,200
Speaker 1: at work. So I don't really know how true it

555
00:27:13,280 --> 00:27:15,800
Speaker 1: is that I'm in a very healthy, loving relationship. But

556
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:20,520
Speaker 1: I did want to, you know, murder my husband. All right, Well,

557
00:27:20,600 --> 00:27:23,560
Speaker 1: I thank you, Lauren, have a good day. People love you.

558
00:27:23,800 --> 00:27:25,479
Speaker 1: People taking notes this morning when I get a new

559
00:27:25,520 --> 00:27:27,919
Speaker 1: car to this too. I had a terrible dream last night,

560
00:27:28,000 --> 00:27:33,520
Speaker 1: honey that you cheated on me, You bastard. Hey Mike, Mike, Yeah, Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike, Mike,

561
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:37,240
Speaker 1: What happened? Man? Who had to what dream? My wife

562
00:27:37,280 --> 00:27:42,280
Speaker 1: had it? And am uh well see uh when I

563
00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:46,200
Speaker 1: was sixteen, my celebody crouches Mike and Park and I

564
00:27:46,280 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 1: guess like after years of being with my wife. Should

565
00:27:48,440 --> 00:27:50,440
Speaker 1: remember when my celebody crouch was and had a dream

566
00:27:50,480 --> 00:27:54,119
Speaker 1: about it and I stopt on the cost for like

567
00:27:54,119 --> 00:27:57,159
Speaker 1: a month. But of course this was a dream never

568
00:27:57,280 --> 00:28:01,320
Speaker 1: obviously never happened. You see, repenalize the Yeah, it never happened.

569
00:28:01,520 --> 00:28:04,920
Speaker 1: My wife is trying a petty like that. Yeah, kind

570
00:28:04,960 --> 00:28:06,920
Speaker 1: of petty like that. She can dream something up and

571
00:28:06,960 --> 00:28:10,000
Speaker 1: then you have to pay the penalty for them. Well, yeah,

572
00:28:11,160 --> 00:28:15,000
Speaker 1: the day girlfriend, and now you have to tell your

573
00:28:15,080 --> 00:28:17,639
Speaker 1: wife of a fake dream you have of her celebrity crush,

574
00:28:17,760 --> 00:28:19,920
Speaker 1: or she can sleep on the couch firm money. You're mad.

575
00:28:20,040 --> 00:28:21,640
Speaker 1: This is what you gotta do when your friends are

576
00:28:21,640 --> 00:28:23,360
Speaker 1: like why are you sleeping on the couch and be like, ah,

577
00:28:23,480 --> 00:28:26,200
Speaker 1: I slept with Megan Fox again. You know, okay, you

578
00:28:26,280 --> 00:28:27,840
Speaker 1: know what. I cheated on him with Megan Fox. He's

579
00:28:27,840 --> 00:28:29,879
Speaker 1: pissed about it, you know, like, no, just make it

580
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:31,840
Speaker 1: make it reality. If she if she could have penalize

581
00:28:31,880 --> 00:28:33,679
Speaker 1: you for it, then just start telling everybody else what happened,

582
00:28:34,040 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 1: you know, get a little street credit out of the deal.

583
00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:38,080
Speaker 1: Mike Like, oh, Megan Fox called again. I'm like dog

584
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:40,360
Speaker 1: all right, Megan stop? You know my wife Maghi to

585
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 1: sleep on a couch is terrible. Um, Mike, have a

586
00:28:42,640 --> 00:28:46,760
Speaker 1: good day. Thank you. Yeah, you can't help your emotions.

587
00:28:46,840 --> 00:28:50,200
Speaker 1: Sometimes you get absolute and then you can have control

588
00:28:50,280 --> 00:28:52,880
Speaker 1: over your emotions and then you cannot penalize people for

589
00:28:52,960 --> 00:28:54,920
Speaker 1: things they didn't do to you. I wouldn't make someone

590
00:28:55,000 --> 00:28:56,800
Speaker 1: sleep on the couch, but yeah, I can be mad

591
00:28:56,840 --> 00:29:01,000
Speaker 1: at him for a couple hours. This is a daily

592
00:29:01,080 --> 00:29:04,320
Speaker 1: advertisement for Christie's dating issues. Like you're making me see

593
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,160
Speaker 1: You're making the rest of us in this room seem

594
00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:09,520
Speaker 1: like total peaches. I'm like the ideal person to date.

595
00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 1: I didn't realize I was such a down girlfriend. I'm serious.

596
00:29:15,960 --> 00:29:17,800
Speaker 1: You might want to change your name on the dating

597
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:20,719
Speaker 1: app so that nobody likes association that it's Christie from

598
00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:22,840
Speaker 1: the radio. It's Christie who so so it's morning. She

599
00:29:22,880 --> 00:29:24,640
Speaker 1: says she'll penalize me for dreams that she has. It

600
00:29:24,720 --> 00:29:28,160
Speaker 1: has nothing to do with me, swy bright penalize. I say,

601
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:31,400
Speaker 1: you're allowed to be mad. You're last dreams that you

602
00:29:31,480 --> 00:29:35,160
Speaker 1: have of your boyfriend cheating. It's okay. You can't help it. God,

603
00:29:38,320 --> 00:29:42,760
Speaker 1: I say that what I'm saying sad privately. But you

604
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:47,720
Speaker 1: can't punish them for MICHAELA. Yeah, hi MICHAELA, good morning.

605
00:29:47,960 --> 00:29:49,280
Speaker 1: Look you get the final word. What do you want

606
00:29:49,280 --> 00:29:52,200
Speaker 1: to say? I want to say that you and Ruthie

607
00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:55,040
Speaker 1: are absolutely right. I've had a dream about my husbands

608
00:29:55,080 --> 00:29:57,600
Speaker 1: chating on me before, and okay, so like I loove

609
00:29:57,760 --> 00:30:01,680
Speaker 1: up crying, I was a bet. Why would I punish him?

610
00:30:02,200 --> 00:30:06,840
Speaker 1: He didn't do anything. He wouldn't bear cheat me, honestly, Yeah,

611
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:08,959
Speaker 1: because you have because you'd have to end him, right,

612
00:30:09,120 --> 00:30:10,960
Speaker 1: he knows that, like you would have to end him

613
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,080
Speaker 1: and you'd miss him forever, but he would have to

614
00:30:13,160 --> 00:30:17,480
Speaker 1: die after that. Yeah, my goodness. You guys are actually

615
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:19,719
Speaker 1: like I say, throw a guy off of a tall building.

616
00:30:19,760 --> 00:30:21,680
Speaker 1: If you have a dream, that's cheat. I'm saying you're

617
00:30:21,680 --> 00:30:23,800
Speaker 1: allowed to be mad, You're allowed to be upset. If

618
00:30:23,960 --> 00:30:26,920
Speaker 1: I'm dating a girl and she's penalizing me for a

619
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:30,280
Speaker 1: dream that she had this based in zero reality, and

620
00:30:30,400 --> 00:30:33,480
Speaker 1: I'm and she's mad at me for the dream of

621
00:30:33,640 --> 00:30:36,120
Speaker 1: me cheating but I didn't cheat, I may as well

622
00:30:36,160 --> 00:30:38,560
Speaker 1: have cheated then, because you're mad at me either way.

623
00:30:38,920 --> 00:30:41,560
Speaker 1: Penalizing is a strong word. I'm not trying to cut

624
00:30:41,640 --> 00:30:44,280
Speaker 1: his legs off. I'm just saying if I'm mad. Let

625
00:30:44,360 --> 00:30:46,960
Speaker 1: me be mad. You could be mad with yourself. Yeah,

626
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:48,959
Speaker 1: but you can't. You can't. You can't be mad at

627
00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:52,640
Speaker 1: him for something he didn't do. Yeah, no, I'm not. No,

628
00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:54,680
Speaker 1: you trust me if you're in a relationship with me.

629
00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:56,160
Speaker 1: There are plenty of reasons to be mad about things

630
00:30:56,200 --> 00:31:00,520
Speaker 1: I did. Dot let's not dream them up to MICHAELA,

631
00:31:00,520 --> 00:31:02,640
Speaker 1: I have a good day. Thank you. My good Guy's

632
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:08,960
Speaker 1: hard enough as it is. I create things. Hello, Russell, Hey,

633
00:31:09,480 --> 00:31:12,240
Speaker 1: how you doing some Russell? I saw a video of

634
00:31:12,480 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 1: speaking of Russell's Russell Wilson the Seattle Seahawks after he

635
00:31:16,880 --> 00:31:20,040
Speaker 1: got his wisdom teeth taken out. His wife's Sierra had

636
00:31:20,120 --> 00:31:22,040
Speaker 1: You know, it is typical like you were, you know,

637
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:25,040
Speaker 1: coming off the effects of the n Sason saying crazy

638
00:31:25,080 --> 00:31:26,840
Speaker 1: stuff and I guess he was trying to talk and

639
00:31:26,960 --> 00:31:28,840
Speaker 1: like he couldn't because the stuff was in his mouth

640
00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:31,120
Speaker 1: and the whole thing. Anyway, it was, it was a

641
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:33,720
Speaker 1: sterical gave me a little guffa to start to day this.

642
00:31:33,960 --> 00:31:35,680
Speaker 1: I was just going to tell Peter Post that, Yeah,

643
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:39,280
Speaker 1: a little what a guffa? I believe it's not using

644
00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:41,920
Speaker 1: it's an other word for laugh. I think I don't

645
00:31:41,920 --> 00:31:45,520
Speaker 1: know playing balderdash refeel likes to me. I don't know

646
00:31:45,600 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 1: that why McCaw, I think that's no guff faw a

647
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 1: loud and boisterous laugh. See, sometimes that's not a little

648
00:31:54,400 --> 00:31:56,560
Speaker 1: guffa like you can't have a little gu I had

649
00:31:56,560 --> 00:31:59,320
Speaker 1: a smaller guffa than the normal guffaw. That's what I had.

650
00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:04,160
Speaker 1: It wouldn't be so you had a chuckle? Yeah, is

651
00:32:04,160 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 1: a quarrel. As I said, the word of life? Is

652
00:32:09,920 --> 00:32:12,120
Speaker 1: that a female body part? Or is that a laugh?

653
00:32:12,960 --> 00:32:16,000
Speaker 1: I was scared, Russell, what's going on in your relationship?

654
00:32:16,000 --> 00:32:18,600
Speaker 1: Why don't you tell us what's going on? Um, this

655
00:32:18,760 --> 00:32:23,080
Speaker 1: is about your fiance. Yeah, yeah, and it's it's specifically

656
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:26,640
Speaker 1: about a conversation that we recently had and that's sitting

657
00:32:26,720 --> 00:32:30,360
Speaker 1: well with me kind of a thing. And uh So, anyway,

658
00:32:30,560 --> 00:32:34,320
Speaker 1: the other night we were talking and so I referred

659
00:32:34,360 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 1: to her name is Carolyn, and I said, you know,

660
00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:41,200
Speaker 1: you're the love of my life, which you know is normal.

661
00:32:41,360 --> 00:32:43,880
Speaker 1: It's a no brainer. We are engaged, we're going to

662
00:32:43,920 --> 00:32:46,240
Speaker 1: get married, and I just, you know, I just have

663
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 1: zero doubts about the fact that she is the love

664
00:32:49,040 --> 00:32:52,520
Speaker 1: of my life. I know it. Yeah, and you would

665
00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:54,560
Speaker 1: say that to her, you know, yeah, And I just

666
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:57,440
Speaker 1: known that for a long time and I just assumed

667
00:32:57,560 --> 00:33:02,240
Speaker 1: she's way um. But then she didn't say anything. She

668
00:33:02,320 --> 00:33:04,680
Speaker 1: didn't reciprocated in any way, and I thought it was odd.

669
00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:06,840
Speaker 1: So I just I asked, I was like, you know,

670
00:33:07,800 --> 00:33:10,760
Speaker 1: what does she feel about that? And she said, oh,

671
00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:14,080
Speaker 1: you know, I don't really believe everyone has just one

672
00:33:14,520 --> 00:33:18,400
Speaker 1: love of their life. Okay, so that's her response. He

673
00:33:19,080 --> 00:33:21,120
Speaker 1: so you say you're the love of my life, like

674
00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:23,640
Speaker 1: you're the pinnacle, you're number one, you're the only one

675
00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:26,040
Speaker 1: for me, all this stuff, And then her response is, yeah,

676
00:33:26,080 --> 00:33:28,560
Speaker 1: that's nice. Thanks, but um, I'm not sure that I

677
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:33,280
Speaker 1: believe there's only one. Yes, doesn't mean she doesn't love you,

678
00:33:33,400 --> 00:33:36,080
Speaker 1: by the way, she's just saying that maybe, you know,

679
00:33:36,480 --> 00:33:39,200
Speaker 1: maybe out there somewhere there's It doesn't mean she doesn't

680
00:33:39,240 --> 00:33:40,680
Speaker 1: choose you. It doesn't mean that she doesn't want to

681
00:33:40,720 --> 00:33:42,560
Speaker 1: be with you. But you know, I don't know. Maybe

682
00:33:42,640 --> 00:33:45,520
Speaker 1: she doesn't believe in this idea that you know, destiny

683
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:50,239
Speaker 1: takes place and that you only have one love to continue. Yes,

684
00:33:50,480 --> 00:33:52,960
Speaker 1: she's on your side, she gives She's completely said the

685
00:33:53,040 --> 00:33:57,160
Speaker 1: same thing. She basically that people have, you know, multiple loves,

686
00:33:57,320 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 1: and one isn't greater than the other, and it's all

687
00:34:00,000 --> 00:34:03,800
Speaker 1: about timing and that listener, I'm just shocked here because

688
00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:07,720
Speaker 1: maybe I'm getting jitters, maybe I'm overthinking this. I just

689
00:34:07,800 --> 00:34:10,520
Speaker 1: don't understand how, you know, she could want to marry

690
00:34:10,640 --> 00:34:15,000
Speaker 1: me without feeling that way or this way or close

691
00:34:15,040 --> 00:34:17,359
Speaker 1: to that. And honestly, I don't. I don't know why

692
00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:19,800
Speaker 1: am I getting jitters here? Am I freaking out? You

693
00:34:19,840 --> 00:34:22,239
Speaker 1: know that she's starting to rupt g Rosal. I don't

694
00:34:22,239 --> 00:34:25,000
Speaker 1: know that she's necessarily saying that she doesn't have a

695
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:27,719
Speaker 1: great amount of love for you. Now, I don't think

696
00:34:27,760 --> 00:34:29,719
Speaker 1: her timing was great. I don't know that I would

697
00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:33,399
Speaker 1: have responded to in this conversation in that way. Yeah,

698
00:34:33,480 --> 00:34:35,319
Speaker 1: thank you for that, but I don't feel the same

699
00:34:35,360 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 1: way about you, but because I think it minimizes how

700
00:34:38,280 --> 00:34:40,839
Speaker 1: she might actually feel about you, right like, But I don't.

701
00:34:40,840 --> 00:34:42,960
Speaker 1: I don't think she's saying that she doesn't want to

702
00:34:43,000 --> 00:34:45,600
Speaker 1: marry you, or that she doesn't love you, or that

703
00:34:45,680 --> 00:34:48,239
Speaker 1: she doesn't have, you know, love you tremendously. I think

704
00:34:48,400 --> 00:34:50,840
Speaker 1: what she's saying is that you say that she's the

705
00:34:50,920 --> 00:34:55,560
Speaker 1: only one, and she says she doesn't believe in that

706
00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:58,520
Speaker 1: only one thing. I don't know that. I mean again,

707
00:34:58,880 --> 00:35:00,719
Speaker 1: it may seem a little use to be based on

708
00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:02,600
Speaker 1: the context of the conversation, but I don't know that

709
00:35:03,040 --> 00:35:06,399
Speaker 1: I would be worried about marrying her. Rufio, How would

710
00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:08,200
Speaker 1: you feel if you tell Jess, hey, I love you

711
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:10,880
Speaker 1: and she's like, oh, I could love a lot of people, right, Like?

712
00:35:10,960 --> 00:35:15,160
Speaker 1: Who did who say that she has a love for

713
00:35:15,239 --> 00:35:17,440
Speaker 1: the life. That's the point, though, is I don't know

714
00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:19,520
Speaker 1: that she knows who that person is, or that she

715
00:35:19,640 --> 00:35:22,480
Speaker 1: even cares. I think she's just saying, like, I don't

716
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: a lot of people. I think I believe this. I

717
00:35:24,680 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 1: don't know that there's one person out there for me

718
00:35:27,200 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 1: that I'm just waiting to me. I think there may

719
00:35:29,560 --> 00:35:31,560
Speaker 1: be a few people for me that would and then,

720
00:35:31,640 --> 00:35:33,440
Speaker 1: depending on the direction of my life takes like it

721
00:35:33,560 --> 00:35:35,640
Speaker 1: choose your own adventure book or something, then I might

722
00:35:35,719 --> 00:35:37,759
Speaker 1: wind up with this person of that person. I don't

723
00:35:37,760 --> 00:35:39,960
Speaker 1: think it means that my love for the person I

724
00:35:40,120 --> 00:35:42,160
Speaker 1: choose is any less. I think it just means that

725
00:35:42,200 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 1: if I'm out here looking for one single thing, I

726
00:35:45,200 --> 00:35:47,160
Speaker 1: may never find it. Yet came It also sounds like

727
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:48,680
Speaker 1: she didn't like come out to say it to be

728
00:35:48,800 --> 00:35:51,160
Speaker 1: mean like he said it, she didn't reciprocate, and then

729
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:54,320
Speaker 1: he pushed and asked why she didn't, So she was

730
00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:56,239
Speaker 1: kind of forced to be honest. And I mean, I

731
00:35:56,320 --> 00:35:59,040
Speaker 1: appreciate the honesty. Yeah, I'm not sure that I would

732
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:04,680
Speaker 1: have necessarily approached this topic in that segment of the conversation.

733
00:36:04,840 --> 00:36:06,239
Speaker 1: You know, I may have just I love you too,

734
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:08,800
Speaker 1: and then I don't know, yeah, but she does. I

735
00:36:08,920 --> 00:36:11,319
Speaker 1: would say, am I the love of your I feel

736
00:36:11,360 --> 00:36:13,560
Speaker 1: like it would have gotten there, and I can't lie.

737
00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:15,680
Speaker 1: I would have been like if I don't feel that way,

738
00:36:15,800 --> 00:36:19,160
Speaker 1: you know, Yeah, I don't, dude, Russell, I don't think

739
00:36:19,200 --> 00:36:22,160
Speaker 1: this is anything to leave or break it engagement or

740
00:36:22,200 --> 00:36:24,480
Speaker 1: not be with somebody. For it's not necessarily what you

741
00:36:24,520 --> 00:36:27,080
Speaker 1: wanted to hear, because you believe strongly in in this

742
00:36:27,239 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 1: idea that she's the only one for you, and of

743
00:36:29,120 --> 00:36:31,000
Speaker 1: course you know that's what you want to hear from

744
00:36:31,040 --> 00:36:33,800
Speaker 1: somebody else. But she's not telling you she doesn't love you.

745
00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:36,759
Speaker 1: She obviously loves you. She's marrying you. She's choosing to

746
00:36:36,840 --> 00:36:38,960
Speaker 1: do that if she believed there was something better out there.

747
00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:43,520
Speaker 1: Why is she marrying you and telling you about it? Yeah, yeah,

748
00:36:43,560 --> 00:36:46,200
Speaker 1: it's just a little a little weird, you know. I

749
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:48,439
Speaker 1: wasn't sure if it's like a red flag or maybe

750
00:36:48,480 --> 00:36:50,960
Speaker 1: I'm just being too sensitive. I wouldn't want to hear

751
00:36:51,000 --> 00:36:54,319
Speaker 1: it either, But I also I also feel that way,

752
00:36:54,400 --> 00:36:57,719
Speaker 1: so I don't ye say it. I feel like in

753
00:36:57,800 --> 00:36:59,960
Speaker 1: the relationship, like if my boyfriend I had this kind

754
00:37:00,040 --> 00:37:01,680
Speaker 1: versation and he's like, well, you know, I could love

755
00:37:01,800 --> 00:37:04,040
Speaker 1: multiple people and if we weren't together, I'd love someone

756
00:37:04,080 --> 00:37:06,640
Speaker 1: else or whatever, right, like the whole having more than

757
00:37:06,680 --> 00:37:08,239
Speaker 1: one love. And it sounds like a Sex in the

758
00:37:08,280 --> 00:37:11,359
Speaker 1: City episode two, because Carrie Redshaw actually set that in it. Well,

759
00:37:11,400 --> 00:37:14,160
Speaker 1: Pauline is quoted sex in the City Now, I'm telling

760
00:37:14,239 --> 00:37:16,480
Speaker 1: you an iconic show, and she literally says that. But

761
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:18,919
Speaker 1: she says, in this lifetime, we have two great loves

762
00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:20,359
Speaker 1: and she already went through them. So it's this whole

763
00:37:20,400 --> 00:37:22,640
Speaker 1: episode about it. But I feel like she's not wrong,

764
00:37:23,080 --> 00:37:25,799
Speaker 1: but I would never keep a man. She just loved

765
00:37:25,800 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 1: mister Big always, and I hate that. For hate that,

766
00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:31,440
Speaker 1: but I still feel like, just lie to me, like

767
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:36,000
Speaker 1: at that point, like don't don't Oh yeah, it just sounds.

768
00:37:36,120 --> 00:37:40,359
Speaker 1: There's no way to make that sound like the way

769
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:42,120
Speaker 1: that Russell feels. You know what I'm saying, There's no

770
00:37:42,239 --> 00:37:44,400
Speaker 1: there's no way to have that conversation in that context

771
00:37:44,440 --> 00:37:46,839
Speaker 1: and not make somebody start to jump to conclusions like, oh,

772
00:37:46,880 --> 00:37:48,960
Speaker 1: what are you saying that? Right? You know somebody else

773
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,359
Speaker 1: could come along and then you lead me for them.

774
00:37:51,440 --> 00:37:53,520
Speaker 1: I don't think that's what she's saying, but m rush,

775
00:37:53,640 --> 00:37:56,400
Speaker 1: let me take some phone calls. I what do we

776
00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:59,040
Speaker 1: vote here? Christy? You say ghost day? No, I don't

777
00:37:59,120 --> 00:38:01,240
Speaker 1: know what. Don't leave, But I think she was definitely

778
00:38:01,239 --> 00:38:05,359
Speaker 1: in the wrong. Girl's crazy for saying that. You're calling

779
00:38:05,440 --> 00:38:09,520
Speaker 1: another girl crazy. I just hold it it. Just say everything.

780
00:38:10,640 --> 00:38:17,000
Speaker 1: You don't need to say everything children as well. Um, stay,

781
00:38:17,160 --> 00:38:19,480
Speaker 1: I say everything that comes to my mind. Didn't hopefully

782
00:38:19,520 --> 00:38:21,800
Speaker 1: someone will love me for that, Rufi. I mean, I

783
00:38:21,880 --> 00:38:26,120
Speaker 1: say stay, but it's already eating it. It's already eating it,

784
00:38:26,600 --> 00:38:31,040
Speaker 1: like he can't get over it. Then maybe he needs to. Paulina,

785
00:38:31,480 --> 00:38:33,759
Speaker 1: I only say go because you made a really great point.

786
00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 1: What if somebody else comes along during this marriage? That's

787
00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:40,640
Speaker 1: not what she's she's saying. You could have multiple loves, Okay,

788
00:38:40,680 --> 00:38:42,200
Speaker 1: so what if she has a little fling at the

789
00:38:42,239 --> 00:38:45,239
Speaker 1: office and now that's hurt. No, she could be talking

790
00:38:45,239 --> 00:38:48,399
Speaker 1: about her parents, her you know what I'm saying. We're

791
00:38:48,400 --> 00:38:50,719
Speaker 1: talking about romantic love, but the other person could be

792
00:38:50,800 --> 00:38:54,920
Speaker 1: an anti arctic. She's saying she doesn't believe in one soulmate,

793
00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:58,160
Speaker 1: one love of your life. Yeah, I don't either, like

794
00:38:58,320 --> 00:39:01,320
Speaker 1: fine to not believe. But your man is literally standing

795
00:39:01,360 --> 00:39:06,920
Speaker 1: in front of you. Yeah that way problem. Have your

796
00:39:07,000 --> 00:39:08,680
Speaker 1: radio and let's see what the world has to say

797
00:39:08,719 --> 00:39:14,399
Speaker 1: about your situation. But but good luck and thanks for calling. Yeah, thanks, thanks, Yeah,

798
00:39:14,480 --> 00:39:17,279
Speaker 1: thank you so much. Love fine one three five. He

799
00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: called you the love of his life. I thought, right there, friend,

800
00:39:19,360 --> 00:39:23,160
Speaker 1: apparently there's more than one. I heard it. I heard it.

801
00:39:23,520 --> 00:39:25,160
Speaker 1: I mean, but just think about it, and maybe I

802
00:39:25,320 --> 00:39:27,160
Speaker 1: used to think that I would like meet my person

803
00:39:27,640 --> 00:39:30,120
Speaker 1: and then my one person and then but I don't

804
00:39:30,160 --> 00:39:33,960
Speaker 1: know the older I get, I'm thinking, well, obviously I

805
00:39:34,040 --> 00:39:36,239
Speaker 1: missed it if that's the case, or or still out

806
00:39:36,280 --> 00:39:38,600
Speaker 1: there somewhere, But I don't. I just think that's so unrealistic.

807
00:39:38,640 --> 00:39:42,120
Speaker 1: And if you're looking for one person, one single person,

808
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:45,120
Speaker 1: you know, how are you ever gonna find that? Like,

809
00:39:45,480 --> 00:39:47,279
Speaker 1: how are you gonna I don't. I don't know. And

810
00:39:47,560 --> 00:39:50,560
Speaker 1: how many people have told you they met their person

811
00:39:50,719 --> 00:39:56,520
Speaker 1: and then divorce that person? So no, everyone's from high school?

812
00:39:57,040 --> 00:40:03,200
Speaker 1: Am I right? Exactly? Where's my thing? He's not Stephanie

813
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:06,719
Speaker 1: high Hi, Stephanie, good morning. All right. You heard the

814
00:40:06,760 --> 00:40:10,960
Speaker 1: scenario here, and just to recap, Russell says that his fiance.

815
00:40:11,280 --> 00:40:13,800
Speaker 1: He and his fiance were talking. He said that she

816
00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:17,879
Speaker 1: is the love of his life, and her response, I'm paraphrasing,

817
00:40:18,000 --> 00:40:21,480
Speaker 1: was basically that I don't believe in a love of

818
00:40:21,719 --> 00:40:25,280
Speaker 1: my life. What do you do with that? I definitely

819
00:40:25,400 --> 00:40:29,040
Speaker 1: think you stay because my husband has the same response

820
00:40:29,680 --> 00:40:33,160
Speaker 1: and we've been happily married for almost eight years. So

821
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 1: it's just something that I've learned to not stay or

822
00:40:36,760 --> 00:40:38,400
Speaker 1: ask because I know that I'm not going to get

823
00:40:38,400 --> 00:40:43,040
Speaker 1: the risk of God responds like, you are the love

824
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:45,600
Speaker 1: of my life? He's just no, do you? But I

825
00:40:45,680 --> 00:40:51,000
Speaker 1: got other people? I can see how it would come

826
00:40:51,040 --> 00:40:52,480
Speaker 1: off that way, but that's not what I say. Now,

827
00:40:52,560 --> 00:40:54,960
Speaker 1: do you feel that he is the love? Is he

828
00:40:55,080 --> 00:41:00,120
Speaker 1: the only one? Stephanie? Ever? H? I think so? I

829
00:41:00,200 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 1: mean I would never consider, you know, living a life

830
00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:06,680
Speaker 1: without him, But I can also see, you know, his

831
00:41:06,840 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 1: side of it, and I can, you know, Russell Beyonce,

832
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:11,160
Speaker 1: I can see the side of it, you know, like

833
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:12,640
Speaker 1: and like what you guys were saying. If you were

834
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:14,719
Speaker 1: to get a divorced or you know, if you know,

835
00:41:14,840 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 1: God forbid somebody were to pass away, I would want

836
00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:20,719
Speaker 1: to go find another love. So you know, I can

837
00:41:20,760 --> 00:41:22,920
Speaker 1: see both sides of it. I just I just choose

838
00:41:22,960 --> 00:41:25,920
Speaker 1: not to bring that topic up in conversation anymore. That's

839
00:41:25,960 --> 00:41:29,640
Speaker 1: a good point for my husband to say, all your

840
00:41:30,040 --> 00:41:32,920
Speaker 1: love of my life, not yeah we're cool for each other,

841
00:41:34,040 --> 00:41:36,399
Speaker 1: which I understand that's how you feel when he says

842
00:41:36,440 --> 00:41:38,319
Speaker 1: of it. I don't believe that's what he's saying, because

843
00:41:38,360 --> 00:41:40,200
Speaker 1: if that's what he was saying, then or we're saying,

844
00:41:40,280 --> 00:41:43,360
Speaker 1: then he wouldn't be married to you, you know, right exactly.

845
00:41:43,480 --> 00:41:45,279
Speaker 1: So Stephanie, thank you so much. Have a good day.

846
00:41:45,920 --> 00:41:50,359
Speaker 1: What'd you call? Hey, trash? Good morning? Hello trash? Stay

847
00:41:50,400 --> 00:41:53,200
Speaker 1: or go? What do you think? I think? Stay? I

848
00:41:53,320 --> 00:41:56,080
Speaker 1: agree with the last caller. I mean, obviously she needs

849
00:41:56,120 --> 00:41:58,319
Speaker 1: to work on her context so once she brings up

850
00:41:58,360 --> 00:42:01,640
Speaker 1: these topics. But I think it was a sign of comfort,

851
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:03,880
Speaker 1: kind of like the last caller said, like, my husband

852
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:05,880
Speaker 1: and I have been married for eight months now, but

853
00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:08,600
Speaker 1: we've been together forever, and I would help you would know,

854
00:42:08,840 --> 00:42:10,840
Speaker 1: you know, like she says, something happened or one of

855
00:42:10,920 --> 00:42:12,759
Speaker 1: us passed away. It's not like old times there, it's

856
00:42:12,800 --> 00:42:15,480
Speaker 1: like you just live lonely for the next fifty years

857
00:42:15,520 --> 00:42:18,120
Speaker 1: of your life. Yeah, I would hope that your spouse.

858
00:42:18,320 --> 00:42:20,160
Speaker 1: It's discomforting to know that they would want you to

859
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 1: be happy and to move on versus like, no, you

860
00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:25,880
Speaker 1: better love me forever until you die. And that's yeah. Well,

861
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:27,600
Speaker 1: that's what my mom tells my dad all the time,

862
00:42:27,719 --> 00:42:31,440
Speaker 1: is if anything happens to her, that that he's not

863
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:34,880
Speaker 1: allowed to remarry and that I'm supposed to charge him

864
00:42:34,960 --> 00:42:38,880
Speaker 1: rent in the house. Apparently if he decides to remarry. Now,

865
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:41,920
Speaker 1: she apparently is going to marry a gay man if

866
00:42:42,000 --> 00:42:45,239
Speaker 1: my dad dies. That's what she says very publicly. So

867
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:47,680
Speaker 1: apparently the other love of her life is a gay

868
00:42:47,760 --> 00:42:49,800
Speaker 1: man that she's yet to meet. So it's amazing and

869
00:42:49,920 --> 00:42:53,120
Speaker 1: I love that for her obviously. Hope my dad lives forever.

870
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:55,799
Speaker 1: Thank you, Trish, have a good day. Love you guys.

871
00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:58,880
Speaker 1: I love you too. You you, I love you I

872
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:00,839
Speaker 1: love many of you. You know, I have many loves

873
00:43:00,880 --> 00:43:04,680
Speaker 1: of my life. I believe hy Mary, Hi, Hi, say

874
00:43:04,760 --> 00:43:06,880
Speaker 1: or go? What do you think? I think he should

875
00:43:06,920 --> 00:43:10,160
Speaker 1: definitely stay. I think it's super important to be honest

876
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:14,520
Speaker 1: about like love language, expectations, like before you get married.

877
00:43:14,640 --> 00:43:18,000
Speaker 1: And this was just her being like straightforward, like I'm

878
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:20,600
Speaker 1: not that much of a romantic and I think she

879
00:43:20,719 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 1: definitely still loved him. Yeah, do you too? I mean,

880
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:26,640
Speaker 1: what is she doing there? If she doesn't, why are they?

881
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:29,399
Speaker 1: I mean they definitely love each other now because they're

882
00:43:29,400 --> 00:43:31,040
Speaker 1: about to get married. Give it a few years and

883
00:43:31,120 --> 00:43:34,360
Speaker 1: maybe maybe you want anymore. Um, thank you, have a

884
00:43:34,400 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 1: great day. You do? Oh god, Sarah? Hi? Hi, good morning, Sarah.

885
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 1: We got ourselves a go. What do you why? I say,

886
00:43:43,120 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 1: it's a definite goal. I don't know. Why would you

887
00:43:45,600 --> 00:43:48,080
Speaker 1: want to marry someone who doesn't see you as their soulmate.

888
00:43:48,120 --> 00:43:51,760
Speaker 1: I mean it's one thing when you know, loving someone,

889
00:43:51,840 --> 00:43:53,719
Speaker 1: it's one thing having a partner in life. But if

890
00:43:53,719 --> 00:43:56,760
Speaker 1: you don't feel that emotional connection right before a marriage,

891
00:43:56,760 --> 00:44:01,080
Speaker 1: when you're supposed to have the deepest connection, and you know,

892
00:44:01,239 --> 00:44:03,880
Speaker 1: like Toolina said, he finds you know, she'll find somebody

893
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:06,400
Speaker 1: else that she'll have a deeper connection with. You know,

894
00:44:06,520 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 1: he goes out the window. That could be five, ten,

895
00:44:08,280 --> 00:44:11,360
Speaker 1: fifteen years from now. So in my opinion, he should

896
00:44:11,400 --> 00:44:14,319
Speaker 1: definitely go if she is being honest with him, even

897
00:44:14,400 --> 00:44:17,439
Speaker 1: before a marriage. But he's not his soulmate. Why would

898
00:44:17,440 --> 00:44:19,120
Speaker 1: you want to marry someone. I think she said that

899
00:44:19,320 --> 00:44:21,600
Speaker 1: he could have they could have multiple soulmates, which I

900
00:44:21,640 --> 00:44:23,920
Speaker 1: think a lot of people believe, which I don't think

901
00:44:24,000 --> 00:44:26,080
Speaker 1: means that it's the next soulmate comes along that she

902
00:44:26,200 --> 00:44:28,239
Speaker 1: just goes with that person. But I mean, I hear

903
00:44:28,280 --> 00:44:31,080
Speaker 1: what you're saying. I just I don't. I've said it

904
00:44:31,160 --> 00:44:34,000
Speaker 1: like four times, but I don't interpret what she was saying.

905
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:36,160
Speaker 1: While the timing may have been bad or maybe it

906
00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:38,279
Speaker 1: was brutal honesty that he doesn't want to hear, but

907
00:44:38,440 --> 00:44:41,279
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't. I what I don't hear her

908
00:44:41,360 --> 00:44:45,160
Speaker 1: saying is well, you know you're you're great, but there

909
00:44:45,239 --> 00:44:47,360
Speaker 1: might be somebody better. And so when I meet that

910
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:50,440
Speaker 1: person than your toast, you know. Well. The other part

911
00:44:50,480 --> 00:44:52,279
Speaker 1: of it, too, is is she doesn't say your mind

912
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:55,320
Speaker 1: soul made however, like it was. I think the context

913
00:44:55,400 --> 00:44:58,160
Speaker 1: is different if she had said your mind soulmate and

914
00:45:00,000 --> 00:45:02,879
Speaker 1: if that changed on the line up to different story.

915
00:45:02,920 --> 00:45:05,160
Speaker 1: But I'm hearing you because I ask you like you're mithful.

916
00:45:05,400 --> 00:45:07,880
Speaker 1: She never said that. Yeah, Like, what I'm going to

917
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,560
Speaker 1: tell my future partner is I'm so glad I met you.

918
00:45:10,719 --> 00:45:12,400
Speaker 1: I'm wild about you. I can't wait to be with

919
00:45:12,480 --> 00:45:16,120
Speaker 1: you forever, unless Casey Musgraves calls, in which case fair,

920
00:45:16,360 --> 00:45:20,160
Speaker 1: that's super fake, in which case, you know, Syonara, I

921
00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:23,200
Speaker 1: need you out twenty four to forty eight hours. House

922
00:45:23,320 --> 00:45:25,000
Speaker 1: is mine. None of this Bill Gates stuff where you

923
00:45:25,520 --> 00:45:28,280
Speaker 1: you know? Yeah, actually all the Bill Gates stuff. Apparently

924
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:33,520
Speaker 1: she's not asking for spousal maintenance apparently. So yeah, anyway,

925
00:45:33,560 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 1: I thank you so much, Sarah, have a good day.

926
00:45:36,239 --> 00:45:38,480
Speaker 1: I don't believe in love anymore because Bill Gates and

927
00:45:38,520 --> 00:45:41,759
Speaker 1: Melinda Gates had broken up after twenty seven years. Yeah. Oh, no, one,

928
00:45:42,239 --> 00:45:45,160
Speaker 1: they're on my vision Board couples. Wait what Yeah, yeah,

929
00:45:45,400 --> 00:45:49,640
Speaker 1: I was very carefully following their relationship. Now, Paul, Hey,

930
00:45:49,880 --> 00:45:53,759
Speaker 1: good morning. Well this is happening to you right now?

931
00:45:54,000 --> 00:45:56,439
Speaker 1: Oh boy, yes it is. I'm currently in the middle

932
00:45:56,480 --> 00:46:00,279
Speaker 1: of it. Okay, So who's who's arguing which position? So

933
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:04,440
Speaker 1: she is so she's believing me for the love of

934
00:46:04,520 --> 00:46:09,759
Speaker 1: her life. Who way, that's okay, No, we need a

935
00:46:09,800 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 1: little more, a little more information here. So, Paul, were

936
00:46:12,080 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 1: you married to this person? Yes? I was. Okay, So

937
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:18,319
Speaker 1: you're is a woman? Yeah, so you're married to this woman?

938
00:46:18,480 --> 00:46:22,400
Speaker 1: How long for three years? Now? Three years? Okay? So

939
00:46:22,800 --> 00:46:27,680
Speaker 1: everything was? Was everything fine? I mean really was it fine? Yeah? Okay?

940
00:46:27,960 --> 00:46:30,160
Speaker 1: And so you're married and one day she comes to

941
00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 1: you and says, Paul, yeah, how long were you gone?

942
00:46:35,960 --> 00:46:41,200
Speaker 1: I was gone for a year and a half. Oh, man, man, Paul.

943
00:46:41,239 --> 00:46:43,120
Speaker 1: That happened to my uncle when he was on deployment.

944
00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:45,399
Speaker 1: He went, he got married again, went on deployment, cheating again.

945
00:46:45,480 --> 00:46:47,120
Speaker 1: But now he's with his third wife and it is

946
00:46:47,200 --> 00:46:51,880
Speaker 1: the best marriage. He was a cheater, No, he chet cheated, Okay,

947
00:46:52,080 --> 00:46:54,080
Speaker 1: but now he's on his third marriage and sometimes being

948
00:46:54,120 --> 00:46:55,959
Speaker 1: in the military, it takes a few times to figure

949
00:46:56,000 --> 00:46:58,640
Speaker 1: it out, but once you get it, he's really really happy. Now. So,

950
00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:00,759
Speaker 1: did you come home from deploy and then she breaks

951
00:47:00,800 --> 00:47:02,000
Speaker 1: this to you? Or does she do it while you

952
00:47:02,040 --> 00:47:05,880
Speaker 1: were gone? No? So I came home and I noticed

953
00:47:05,920 --> 00:47:12,839
Speaker 1: that another dude struck was in the draw. Yeah, because

954
00:47:12,840 --> 00:47:18,600
Speaker 1: I came home early. Oh my god, man, I hate,

955
00:47:18,719 --> 00:47:22,200
Speaker 1: I hate, dude. You are better off. Yeah, you are

956
00:47:22,360 --> 00:47:25,440
Speaker 1: way better off. Forget So did you walk in and

957
00:47:25,640 --> 00:47:29,279
Speaker 1: you just see it? Yeah, it is more And now

958
00:47:29,360 --> 00:47:33,759
Speaker 1: she's trying to take don away from me. This is

959
00:47:33,840 --> 00:47:39,360
Speaker 1: a terrible story, a terrible story. That's horrible. Well, I

960
00:47:39,400 --> 00:47:41,000
Speaker 1: don't know what to make of that, though. I don't

961
00:47:41,000 --> 00:47:42,919
Speaker 1: think this has anything to do with love of your life.

962
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:45,040
Speaker 1: I think this has to do with some characters saws

963
00:47:45,960 --> 00:47:49,560
Speaker 1: my life. That was the thing. She wasn't, But she wasn't,

964
00:47:49,800 --> 00:47:53,000
Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying. Yeah, you should feel really

965
00:47:53,080 --> 00:47:55,360
Speaker 1: good about the fact that you now know she was

966
00:47:55,480 --> 00:47:57,239
Speaker 1: not and that there's something better out there for you

967
00:47:57,520 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 1: on And I know, I know this all sounds nice

968
00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:00,800
Speaker 1: and fans of well now and you're going through it

969
00:48:00,800 --> 00:48:02,400
Speaker 1: and you're like, screw you, Fred, I don't want to

970
00:48:02,440 --> 00:48:04,200
Speaker 1: hear it. But I think that you should know for

971
00:48:04,360 --> 00:48:08,120
Speaker 1: sure that you were just you were just wrong about this. Yeah.

972
00:48:08,840 --> 00:48:10,960
Speaker 1: Oh man, I'm sorry. Well, thank you for your service. Dude.

973
00:48:10,960 --> 00:48:12,919
Speaker 1: You're gonna go out. You're gonna find some lady much

974
00:48:13,000 --> 00:48:16,839
Speaker 1: better than her, and she can rock your world. She's

975
00:48:16,840 --> 00:48:18,560
Speaker 1: gonna do that thing. The other girl wouldn't do I'll

976
00:48:18,560 --> 00:48:21,160
Speaker 1: tell you right now, that thing you know, you know

977
00:48:21,280 --> 00:48:23,120
Speaker 1: the thing, you know, the thing that you kept in

978
00:48:23,320 --> 00:48:25,960
Speaker 1: she wouldn't do it. Yeah, and she wouldn't. And now

979
00:48:26,000 --> 00:48:27,600
Speaker 1: you're gonna finding girl. And so you're gonna do that

980
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:30,320
Speaker 1: thing all day, you know what I mean? Whatever that

981
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:37,240
Speaker 1: thing is for you, my boy, Paul, Yeah, oh, Paul Bro'

982
00:48:38,360 --> 00:48:40,560
Speaker 1: great father Paulus. Anytime you want us to pump you up,

983
00:48:40,560 --> 00:48:44,560
Speaker 1: We're happy to do it. Have a good day, man.

984
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to hear that. I don't. I don't. I

985
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:53,560
Speaker 1: don't want to end on that, but I hate that story.

986
00:48:54,120 --> 00:48:55,600
Speaker 1: He's like, oh, I was actually trying to get her

987
00:48:55,600 --> 00:49:01,480
Speaker 1: back on the radio, right to talk, waiting by the phone. Oh,

988
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:04,120
Speaker 1: and I would have a military and if you were

989
00:49:04,160 --> 00:49:06,719
Speaker 1: trying to take that woman back, And you know, I don't.

990
00:49:06,760 --> 00:49:09,319
Speaker 1: I'm not even there are two sides there his story.

991
00:49:09,360 --> 00:49:12,600
Speaker 1: But I don't. There's no there's no excuse. I don't.

992
00:49:12,719 --> 00:49:15,120
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993
00:49:15,160 --> 00:49:17,160
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994
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995
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996
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997
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998
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999
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1000
00:49:35,640 --> 00:49:38,000
Speaker 1: one one h three five It's the Fred Show on

1001
00:49:38,160 --> 00:49:41,360
Speaker 1: kiss Shelly there, show you there? What are you doing

1002
00:49:42,920 --> 00:49:45,720
Speaker 1: making a balloon? Why did you just make a condom balloon?

1003
00:49:46,560 --> 00:49:49,440
Speaker 1: To one? But why would you need to know how

1004
00:49:49,480 --> 00:49:51,520
Speaker 1: big it gets when you blow it up? Honestly, I've

1005
00:49:51,520 --> 00:49:53,600
Speaker 1: never used one this bag. I've never used to con

1006
00:49:53,719 --> 00:49:55,680
Speaker 1: But if you're not supposed to, but hey, here's a

1007
00:49:55,719 --> 00:49:58,479
Speaker 1: news flash for you, then ain't gonna fit like that either.

1008
00:49:59,360 --> 00:50:06,440
Speaker 1: So he's like, this works. Yeah, okay, what good morning?

1009
00:50:06,560 --> 00:50:08,360
Speaker 1: You've never somebody had a lot of faith in in

1010
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:11,680
Speaker 1: your dating life when they when they selected those could

1011
00:50:11,680 --> 00:50:14,319
Speaker 1: I just selected a general category? But it's good. Another

1012
00:50:14,320 --> 00:50:16,480
Speaker 1: goat puff will bring you that, you know, because dans

1013
00:50:16,600 --> 00:50:19,359
Speaker 1: you up safety first? Yeah, and apparently yeah, I don't.

1014
00:50:19,400 --> 00:50:25,319
Speaker 1: Can we put that away? No? No, no, no, disgusting

1015
00:50:25,480 --> 00:50:29,440
Speaker 1: you guys, just stop. Yeah, there's a there's a get

1016
00:50:29,560 --> 00:50:35,279
Speaker 1: rid of that it's disgusting Shelley in Florida. Really, I mean,

1017
00:50:35,320 --> 00:50:39,840
Speaker 1: honestly missing there's a balloon. There's a blown up balloon

1018
00:50:39,960 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 1: condom being pushed around the room, and I don't appreciate

1019
00:50:43,600 --> 00:50:46,040
Speaker 1: it at all, honestly, no better way to start the morning,

1020
00:50:46,080 --> 00:50:51,600
Speaker 1: I guess, going on twelve ridiculous. Absolutely. Do you know

1021
00:50:51,640 --> 00:50:57,320
Speaker 1: what the word shoogy means? No? No, because I'm you know,

1022
00:50:57,320 --> 00:51:00,279
Speaker 1: because as you know, um, I am on the holes

1023
00:51:00,320 --> 00:51:02,520
Speaker 1: of all of the lexicon that is that is being

1024
00:51:02,640 --> 00:51:06,399
Speaker 1: used by cool people. No, no cap, no cap, because

1025
00:51:06,400 --> 00:51:08,440
Speaker 1: it'd be very sussy. It mean not to know what

1026
00:51:08,560 --> 00:51:11,719
Speaker 1: all these these words mean. V sussy. You can't say

1027
00:51:11,840 --> 00:51:13,759
Speaker 1: very It's gonna be v. And I'll say, however I

1028
00:51:13,800 --> 00:51:16,720
Speaker 1: want to I know how to do it, you don't, Okay,

1029
00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:19,000
Speaker 1: So anyway, So this is a word that I want

1030
00:51:19,000 --> 00:51:21,320
Speaker 1: everyone to know today. It describes a person who is

1031
00:51:22,360 --> 00:51:26,399
Speaker 1: out me, out of trend, or trying too hard um

1032
00:51:27,640 --> 00:51:31,600
Speaker 1: blown up on TikTok, prompting users, particularly twenty and thirty somethings,

1033
00:51:31,640 --> 00:51:34,640
Speaker 1: to wonder if they fall into the category. So choogie

1034
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:38,920
Speaker 1: is the word. Gucci belts, ripped skinny jeans, monogram tops,

1035
00:51:39,000 --> 00:51:42,879
Speaker 1: all made it onto users. Certain users list of these

1036
00:51:43,000 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 1: chuogie items gardering nearly three hundred thousand likes. Other things

1037
00:51:46,760 --> 00:51:51,640
Speaker 1: called out um Ray Doune pottery, what is that? Um

1038
00:51:51,800 --> 00:51:58,200
Speaker 1: having hashtag girl boss energy and um and decorative wooden

1039
00:51:58,320 --> 00:52:02,120
Speaker 1: signs for the live Left Love variety that kind of thing.

1040
00:52:02,520 --> 00:52:11,239
Speaker 1: Oh chuge Okay, somebody somebody put phoneticscept one here. I

1041
00:52:11,280 --> 00:52:14,320
Speaker 1: guess I'm not either. Really. Uh. It may seem like

1042
00:52:14,360 --> 00:52:17,320
Speaker 1: a playful label, but it can't have negative effects, particularly

1043
00:52:17,400 --> 00:52:20,759
Speaker 1: for women. Experts said that we shouldn't pay the the

1044
00:52:20,960 --> 00:52:23,720
Speaker 1: trendy put down too much attention ed. It's the latest

1045
00:52:23,840 --> 00:52:26,520
Speaker 1: version of as it's the latest version of a tired insult.

1046
00:52:27,239 --> 00:52:28,880
Speaker 1: So we're not supposed to call people now. But but

1047
00:52:28,960 --> 00:52:31,279
Speaker 1: that's what it is. If you're trying too hard, um,

1048
00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:35,640
Speaker 1: then you are huge shobilly. So five of those live

1049
00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:38,680
Speaker 1: laugh love signs, that's a chugi because I have a

1050
00:52:38,760 --> 00:52:41,279
Speaker 1: few of those. Unless you have it ironically, like, unless

1051
00:52:41,360 --> 00:52:45,320
Speaker 1: you're trying to be ironic with it, then you're no.

1052
00:52:45,480 --> 00:52:47,320
Speaker 1: I really have no do you really you have a

1053
00:52:47,320 --> 00:52:52,319
Speaker 1: little laugh love side in your house? Yeah? You can

1054
00:52:52,360 --> 00:52:59,200
Speaker 1: find them all at hobby Right. She has a sign

1055
00:52:59,280 --> 00:53:01,279
Speaker 1: that tells her we're the kitchen is because it says

1056
00:53:05,800 --> 00:53:08,560
Speaker 1: I forget no. I mean those are those are important

1057
00:53:08,600 --> 00:53:11,680
Speaker 1: signs to have. Yeah, cussing, no fussing, no bad talking,

1058
00:53:14,120 --> 00:53:18,360
Speaker 1: those sizes. I have one in my says, what is it?

1059
00:53:18,480 --> 00:53:28,040
Speaker 1: No ass, no grass, nobody rides for free. That's just funny.

1060
00:53:29,320 --> 00:53:31,439
Speaker 1: What was it again? It was it waiting by the phone.

1061
00:53:31,440 --> 00:53:33,560
Speaker 1: It was a grass or something. Nobody rides for it.

1062
00:53:33,600 --> 00:53:36,240
Speaker 1: What was the third one? No cash? Oh cash, grass

1063
00:53:36,400 --> 00:53:41,680
Speaker 1: or ass? Nobody rides for free. Stick. I had that

1064
00:53:41,719 --> 00:53:45,560
Speaker 1: made into a wooden sign hung above my door, my entryway.

1065
00:53:45,600 --> 00:53:49,960
Speaker 1: As you come in, your neighbors love you. Yeah, oh boy. Anyway,

1066
00:53:49,960 --> 00:53:51,759
Speaker 1: it's a new word for you. Show mis Shelley. But

1067
00:53:51,800 --> 00:53:54,239
Speaker 1: apparently you might be it. You might be that. Well,

1068
00:53:54,280 --> 00:53:58,160
Speaker 1: I guess I am one. Sorry, I'm a huggie. You're

1069
00:53:58,160 --> 00:54:04,080
Speaker 1: not a chogie. Oh I'm ye. And she's always Shelley's

1070
00:54:04,080 --> 00:54:09,200
Speaker 1: always walking around hashtag girl boss all the time. Back

1071
00:54:09,320 --> 00:54:12,040
Speaker 1: on your damn Instagram caption. That is chugye. If you're

1072
00:54:12,120 --> 00:54:14,000
Speaker 1: like being dead serious and you're like, take me back,

1073
00:54:14,200 --> 00:54:18,480
Speaker 1: it's like a picture of Florida Gore. It's two. I'm

1074
00:54:18,480 --> 00:54:21,239
Speaker 1: glad that we could learn a new word together today. UM,

1075
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:23,480
Speaker 1: so you know you can use that in a sentence

1076
00:54:23,560 --> 00:54:25,200
Speaker 1: later on today. But I'm glad that we were able

1077
00:54:25,239 --> 00:54:27,759
Speaker 1: to tell you the proper tense in which to use

1078
00:54:27,800 --> 00:54:29,759
Speaker 1: her to the proper application, because I don't want you.

1079
00:54:30,280 --> 00:54:31,960
Speaker 1: What would make you even more chuggy is if you

1080
00:54:32,120 --> 00:54:36,120
Speaker 1: use the word improperly you call yourself just did I know?

1081
00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:41,680
Speaker 1: I know? It's the freend show on one three five?

1082
00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:44,640
Speaker 1: Kiss at him? Do you have what it takes? The

1083
00:54:44,719 --> 00:54:55,319
Speaker 1: battle show bish Shelley in the Showbiz showdown show there

1084
00:54:56,120 --> 00:54:58,520
Speaker 1: you're there? All right, Well this is uh. You got

1085
00:54:58,560 --> 00:55:01,480
Speaker 1: a couple of days off on this, but this was wolf. Uh.

1086
00:55:01,719 --> 00:55:04,080
Speaker 1: Last week Brendan tied you four times and we all

1087
00:55:04,120 --> 00:55:07,680
Speaker 1: believed and Ruffille even updated the board prematurely. We believe

1088
00:55:07,800 --> 00:55:09,600
Speaker 1: that three wasn't going to do it. And then you

1089
00:55:09,719 --> 00:55:14,280
Speaker 1: tied Brendan yet again. Again. I don't think Shelly, gosh,

1090
00:55:14,560 --> 00:55:16,480
Speaker 1: did you even enjoy your weekend? Or did you spend

1091
00:55:16,520 --> 00:55:19,520
Speaker 1: all weekend studying? At this point? Like, no, I just

1092
00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:22,600
Speaker 1: tortuned by this game. Sometimes he has said that I'd

1093
00:55:22,640 --> 00:55:24,680
Speaker 1: actually like to know Brendan, why is he so good?

1094
00:55:24,800 --> 00:55:27,640
Speaker 1: Can That's a good question I'm gonna bring Brendan back. Brendon.

1095
00:55:27,680 --> 00:55:30,560
Speaker 1: The question from Shelley, welcome back. Good morning, by the way,

1096
00:55:31,040 --> 00:55:33,560
Speaker 1: good morning. The question is how are you so good?

1097
00:55:34,760 --> 00:55:37,840
Speaker 1: I mean, I listened to the show. I feel like

1098
00:55:37,920 --> 00:55:39,920
Speaker 1: you guys, you know, give us a lot of this

1099
00:55:40,080 --> 00:55:42,560
Speaker 1: information and we keep us, you know, up to day

1100
00:55:42,560 --> 00:55:45,359
Speaker 1: with pop culture. So look at that. You listen every day,

1101
00:55:45,480 --> 00:55:47,520
Speaker 1: You're you're golden. Look at that. Can you send that

1102
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:52,719
Speaker 1: email any email to our boss? Please thank you? Yeah? No,

1103
00:55:53,160 --> 00:55:55,359
Speaker 1: you're the man. Definitely part of the thirteen and it's

1104
00:55:55,400 --> 00:55:58,040
Speaker 1: paying off four straight ties. We're gonna go at it

1105
00:55:58,080 --> 00:56:00,120
Speaker 1: again here four ninety six and thirty four. We've been

1106
00:56:00,239 --> 00:56:02,640
Speaker 1: out there for over a week, one hundred and three

1107
00:56:02,680 --> 00:56:05,399
Speaker 1: dollars and fifty cents, and here I thought, I guess

1108
00:56:05,640 --> 00:56:07,640
Speaker 1: this won't even be a five hundred week I don't

1109
00:56:07,680 --> 00:56:10,279
Speaker 1: think it can happen this week either. I mean, unbelievable.

1110
00:56:10,480 --> 00:56:13,319
Speaker 1: This guy, Brandon is just amazing. And Connie, his wife,

1111
00:56:13,360 --> 00:56:15,880
Speaker 1: also amazing, and the baby Poppy amazing. Is I know

1112
00:56:15,960 --> 00:56:18,000
Speaker 1: this guy. I'm based in part of his family. Now

1113
00:56:18,200 --> 00:56:20,399
Speaker 1: I get invited to holidays. We talk every single time

1114
00:56:20,480 --> 00:56:22,080
Speaker 1: I talked to Brandon more than I talked to my

1115
00:56:22,120 --> 00:56:27,680
Speaker 1: own sister. I love it. No, please do send that over,

1116
00:56:27,880 --> 00:56:30,319
Speaker 1: send that over. Okay, here we go, guys, Let's play

1117
00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 1: the game. Good luck, good luck. Let's shell it with

1118
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:39,200
Speaker 1: all the respect if you would get out All right, Brandon,

1119
00:56:39,840 --> 00:56:42,160
Speaker 1: Question number one, what is the name of the Drake

1120
00:56:42,320 --> 00:56:46,680
Speaker 1: album that came out over the weekend? Thirtified lover boy.

1121
00:56:47,320 --> 00:56:50,040
Speaker 1: I can hear the confidence in his voice. Royal staffers

1122
00:56:50,080 --> 00:56:53,360
Speaker 1: have reportedly rescinded claims that they were bullied by this

1123
00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:58,319
Speaker 1: actress turned duchess Meghan Markle. YouTube Olivia jay It has

1124
00:56:58,360 --> 00:57:00,440
Speaker 1: showing the cast of the next season of Dancing with

1125
00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:04,680
Speaker 1: the Stars. Who are her famous parents? Oh um aunt

1126
00:57:04,800 --> 00:57:10,239
Speaker 1: Becky and the stude who designed Mosmo brand. I don't know.

1127
00:57:11,719 --> 00:57:14,440
Speaker 1: We can't. I can't accept that answer. No, I mean,

1128
00:57:14,520 --> 00:57:17,720
Speaker 1: I mean yes, but no, we need more specific. Kristin

1129
00:57:17,800 --> 00:57:21,400
Speaker 1: Cavalari and Chase Rice are reportedly an item. What does

1130
00:57:21,480 --> 00:57:25,600
Speaker 1: Chase do for a living? Is a country singer and

1131
00:57:25,720 --> 00:57:27,840
Speaker 1: the late Easy E has a birthday today. He rose

1132
00:57:27,880 --> 00:57:31,400
Speaker 1: to fame as the lead of this West Coast rap group.

1133
00:57:32,720 --> 00:57:35,920
Speaker 1: All right, four, we'll know that one. She's gonna know

1134
00:57:36,040 --> 00:57:40,240
Speaker 1: that one. That's four what's you're working at this point.

1135
00:57:40,440 --> 00:57:42,560
Speaker 1: I'm not gonna take the board, but Shelley's gonna get

1136
00:57:42,560 --> 00:57:44,640
Speaker 1: a five today. I'm calling it. It's over. I do

1137
00:57:44,760 --> 00:57:46,560
Speaker 1: not think she will know the last one, but that's okay,

1138
00:57:46,600 --> 00:57:51,120
Speaker 1: well all right, yeah she will, oh maybe, okay, all right,

1139
00:57:51,440 --> 00:57:56,920
Speaker 1: four shells, come on, shells. Oh okay, you know we

1140
00:57:57,080 --> 00:57:59,720
Speaker 1: love Brendan, but we're rooting for you. Here, um, here

1141
00:57:59,760 --> 00:58:01,800
Speaker 1: we go. Question number one, What is the name of

1142
00:58:01,880 --> 00:58:06,200
Speaker 1: the Drake album that came out over the weekend? Certified

1143
00:58:06,280 --> 00:58:10,000
Speaker 1: Loverboys Correct? Royal staffers have reportedly rescinded claims that they

1144
00:58:10,040 --> 00:58:15,680
Speaker 1: were bullied by this actress turned duchess Meghan Markle. YouTuber

1145
00:58:15,800 --> 00:58:18,200
Speaker 1: Olivia Jade Is joined the cast of the next season

1146
00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:23,440
Speaker 1: of Dancing with the Stars. Who are her famous parents? Uh?

1147
00:58:23,640 --> 00:58:29,400
Speaker 1: Lori Laughlin and Massimo. That is correct, Lori Laughlin and Massimo.

1148
00:58:29,640 --> 00:58:31,680
Speaker 1: He was close with Aunt Becky and the dude who

1149
00:58:31,720 --> 00:58:34,120
Speaker 1: designed Massimo, but not I would give I would have

1150
00:58:34,160 --> 00:58:36,600
Speaker 1: give him half half of the Massimo part. Yeah, we

1151
00:58:36,640 --> 00:58:39,120
Speaker 1: don't give malf We don't get point five. So Kristin

1152
00:58:39,160 --> 00:58:41,919
Speaker 1: Cavalari and Chase Reiser reportedly an item. What does Chase

1153
00:58:42,040 --> 00:58:46,920
Speaker 1: do for a livin. He's a country singer. Correct and finally,

1154
00:58:47,000 --> 00:58:49,360
Speaker 1: the late Easy E has a birthday today. He rose

1155
00:58:49,440 --> 00:58:52,800
Speaker 1: to fame as the lead of this West Coast rap

1156
00:58:52,920 --> 00:59:05,080
Speaker 1: group music. Wow Oo, I saw it. I just saw

1157
00:59:05,120 --> 00:59:06,840
Speaker 1: it the other day. I got his name and I

1158
00:59:06,960 --> 00:59:16,200
Speaker 1: was like, oh, yeah, wow, Brendan has been silenced. Brendan.

1159
00:59:16,600 --> 00:59:18,280
Speaker 1: I mean, I have to tell you, man, we gotta

1160
00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:20,760
Speaker 1: we're gonna find something for you. You gotta you get something, man,

1161
00:59:21,080 --> 00:59:25,480
Speaker 1: after all these performances, incredible work. I mean, Brendan, let's

1162
00:59:25,480 --> 00:59:27,640
Speaker 1: just brend of applause for Brendon. You know, we thank

1163
00:59:27,720 --> 00:59:32,760
Speaker 1: you guys. He missed uh Laurie, he said, Aunt Becky

1164
00:59:32,880 --> 00:59:36,240
Speaker 1: and the Bossimo guy. So it was so close, but

1165
00:59:36,440 --> 00:59:39,520
Speaker 1: unfortunately we can't accept that answer. Um, And you have

1166
00:59:39,640 --> 00:59:41,080
Speaker 1: to say it, Brendon. I know you didn't think you

1167
00:59:41,120 --> 00:59:42,520
Speaker 1: were going to have to be My name is Brendon.

1168
00:59:42,560 --> 00:59:45,400
Speaker 1: I got showed up on the showdown. My name is Brendan.

1169
00:59:45,520 --> 00:59:48,600
Speaker 1: I got showed up on the showdown, And I can't

1170
00:59:48,760 --> 00:59:56,840
Speaker 1: hang with that was good you nearly nearly and for

1171
00:59:57,000 --> 01:00:11,480
Speaker 1: some time, but eventually could not hang with all. It

1172
01:00:11,560 --> 01:00:13,320
Speaker 1: didn't a good one. I think you just missed doing it.

1173
01:00:13,680 --> 01:00:15,280
Speaker 1: One of these days, I'm gonna pass out. One of

1174
01:00:15,280 --> 01:00:17,880
Speaker 1: these days, I'm just gonna go pop like Timber and

1175
01:00:18,000 --> 01:00:20,800
Speaker 1: then you'll have to ressussitate me. Rufe probably won't, he'll

1176
01:00:20,800 --> 01:00:22,640
Speaker 1: just come. He'll just come over. You take the chair

1177
01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:28,520
Speaker 1: and then start trying to change my work day. Oh okay,

1178
01:00:28,880 --> 01:00:33,000
Speaker 1: all right, like when you print, I got you stop

1179
01:00:34,920 --> 01:00:38,400
Speaker 1: held grab my cold dead hands and he would take

1180
01:00:38,480 --> 01:00:40,640
Speaker 1: my finger print. Right, I go on that phone and

1181
01:00:40,800 --> 01:00:43,680
Speaker 1: be like, okay, open friend's eyes real quick. Let's go, guys,

1182
01:00:44,200 --> 01:00:46,800
Speaker 1: need to get into count right at this. Let's transfer

1183
01:00:46,920 --> 01:00:51,680
Speaker 1: his money to that's my brother over there, Kevin. All right, guys, Brendan,

1184
01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:53,080
Speaker 1: have a great day. Hold on, we'll get your info

1185
01:00:53,160 --> 01:00:56,280
Speaker 1: sending you something. Hold on, good job man. They had

1186
01:00:56,280 --> 01:00:59,400
Speaker 1: a Coddy and Poppy and everybody. We love Shelley and

1187
01:00:59,480 --> 01:01:01,120
Speaker 1: the whole school, the whole cross. See you guys at

1188
01:01:01,160 --> 01:01:05,080
Speaker 1: thanks you having the showby Shelley show later on today

1189
01:01:05,120 --> 01:01:07,240
Speaker 1: everyone be here ten to noon, Shells. We love you,

1190
01:01:07,400 --> 01:01:10,960
Speaker 1: well done. Win number four ninety seven nineteen straight almost

1191
01:01:11,000 --> 01:01:13,560
Speaker 1: a five hundred Roofie Wood. Can you play NWA for

1192
01:01:13,640 --> 01:01:16,919
Speaker 1: your lunch break? Boogie to day? Oh maybe I should

1193
01:01:16,960 --> 01:01:18,480
Speaker 1: do we have that? This is so? Are there even

1194
01:01:18,520 --> 01:01:21,200
Speaker 1: any if we play the radio version? Are there any words? Yes?

1195
01:01:22,360 --> 01:01:24,520
Speaker 1: Is it just an instrumental? I don't even know if

1196
01:01:24,560 --> 01:01:27,960
Speaker 1: you can are some easy? You know? Do we have

1197
01:01:28,040 --> 01:01:33,520
Speaker 1: any of that? I probably we probably have that. We

1198
01:01:33,600 --> 01:01:35,480
Speaker 1: don't have a lot of other stuff. All right, have

1199
01:01:35,560 --> 01:01:39,480
Speaker 1: a great tast shell. Okay, you do buy by every

1200
01:01:39,600 --> 01:01:44,200
Speaker 1: time the French Show is on one three five, Kiss up?

1201
01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:49,840
Speaker 1: It feels good, good news stories every day on the show.

1202
01:01:49,920 --> 01:01:53,800
Speaker 1: Canlon what she got? So? TikTok user Esther Andrews handed

1203
01:01:53,960 --> 01:01:56,640
Speaker 1: her own wedding dress over a period of nine months

1204
01:01:56,680 --> 01:01:59,720
Speaker 1: while commuting to work on the New York City subway.

1205
01:02:00,200 --> 01:02:02,439
Speaker 1: Talk about a good use of your time? She took

1206
01:02:02,520 --> 01:02:05,160
Speaker 1: to TikTok in a new video that a since went

1207
01:02:05,320 --> 01:02:07,840
Speaker 1: viral and the clips she went right down to the wire,

1208
01:02:08,000 --> 01:02:10,720
Speaker 1: she said, not finishing the dress until the day before

1209
01:02:10,920 --> 01:02:13,680
Speaker 1: the wedding. The dress is actually pretty cute too. We

1210
01:02:13,760 --> 01:02:16,400
Speaker 1: can post a picture of it. It looks intricate, so

1211
01:02:16,560 --> 01:02:19,720
Speaker 1: it couldn't have been easy to make. She also made

1212
01:02:19,800 --> 01:02:22,840
Speaker 1: the groom's outfit and crafted a pair of handbeated socks

1213
01:02:22,920 --> 01:02:25,680
Speaker 1: for him to look like a story sky continuing the

1214
01:02:25,760 --> 01:02:29,320
Speaker 1: weddings theme. Her husband actually commented on the video saying,

1215
01:02:29,440 --> 01:02:31,320
Speaker 1: just so you know, I'm the husband and if you're

1216
01:02:31,360 --> 01:02:33,440
Speaker 1: thinking I'm lucky, you don't even know the half of it.

1217
01:02:33,560 --> 01:02:37,040
Speaker 1: So she made both of their outfits on the train

1218
01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:43,760
Speaker 1: on the sumwhere So an anonymous dinery New Hampshire and

1219
01:02:43,840 --> 01:02:46,240
Speaker 1: a restaurant there left a generous tip for the staff

1220
01:02:46,280 --> 01:02:49,960
Speaker 1: a few weekends ago, dropping sixteen grand on a thirty

1221
01:02:50,000 --> 01:02:53,720
Speaker 1: seven dollars tab. He was not a regular customer, says Michael,

1222
01:02:53,760 --> 01:02:58,160
Speaker 1: the owner of stumble In Bar and Grill. He just

1223
01:02:58,280 --> 01:03:01,000
Speaker 1: started coming in a month ago. Owner says the anonymous

1224
01:03:01,040 --> 01:03:03,520
Speaker 1: diner did not reveal his motivation for leaving the whopping

1225
01:03:03,560 --> 01:03:06,360
Speaker 1: gratuity during his June twelfth visit. However, he was asked

1226
01:03:06,360 --> 01:03:08,800
Speaker 1: several times if he had somehow made a mistake, but

1227
01:03:08,960 --> 01:03:11,880
Speaker 1: repeatedly told the bar manager that he intended to leave

1228
01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:15,360
Speaker 1: the additional sixteen grand on the thirty seven dollars ninety

1229
01:03:15,440 --> 01:03:18,320
Speaker 1: three cent tip. You wanted them to have it, he said,

1230
01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:20,800
Speaker 1: don't spend it all in one place. Sixteen thousand dollars

1231
01:03:20,840 --> 01:03:23,920
Speaker 1: tips split between eight bartenders who workships on June twelfth,

1232
01:03:23,960 --> 01:03:27,919
Speaker 1: so each got what two grand or something like the grand. So, yeah,

1233
01:03:28,040 --> 01:03:31,320
Speaker 1: there you go. Chili dogs. What they served there thirty

1234
01:03:31,360 --> 01:03:34,640
Speaker 1: seven bucks, sixteen thousand dollars. A lot of chili dogs.

1235
01:03:34,680 --> 01:03:38,960
Speaker 1: Thirty seven dollars. I guess so, I guess so. Anyway,

1236
01:03:41,560 --> 01:03:43,880
Speaker 1: the Stumbling Bar and Grilled they had only opened for

1237
01:03:43,960 --> 01:03:46,040
Speaker 1: indoor dining on May eighteenth, af they're closing up for

1238
01:03:46,040 --> 01:03:49,520
Speaker 1: a few months. Of course, the restaurant's very thankful for

1239
01:03:49,560 --> 01:03:52,440
Speaker 1: a really large customer base that helped ease some of

1240
01:03:52,480 --> 01:03:55,600
Speaker 1: the burden unemployees by patronizing the restaurant over the past year,

1241
01:03:55,640 --> 01:03:59,680
Speaker 1: and the tip didn't hurt anything. Red Show Life for

1242
01:04:00,040 --> 01:04:07,040
Speaker 1: Winterress Studios in America's Greatest city, the UKSM Chicago and

1243
01:04:07,200 --> 01:04:13,040
Speaker 1: I Heart Radio Station a couple who chained themselves together

1244
01:04:13,120 --> 01:04:16,200
Speaker 1: for three months as a test of their love. Uh.

1245
01:04:16,360 --> 01:04:21,600
Speaker 1: They they they was breaking up anyway. Um. Alexander Alexander

1246
01:04:21,720 --> 01:04:24,240
Speaker 1: or is thirty three in Victoria's twenty nine. They're from

1247
01:04:24,240 --> 01:04:27,080
Speaker 1: the Ukraine. They spent one hundred and twenty three days together,

1248
01:04:27,360 --> 01:04:29,760
Speaker 1: but admitted their efforts to repair their often on relationship

1249
01:04:29,840 --> 01:04:33,440
Speaker 1: didn't work. Um. They literally chained themselves together for one

1250
01:04:33,480 --> 01:04:35,920
Speaker 1: hundred and twenty three days. Um, as the chain was

1251
01:04:36,000 --> 01:04:39,960
Speaker 1: finally severed by giant cutters, they were, I guess lacked

1252
01:04:40,000 --> 01:04:41,960
Speaker 1: together and then they decided that they wanted to go

1253
01:04:42,040 --> 01:04:44,000
Speaker 1: to separate ways after that. I want to live on

1254
01:04:44,080 --> 01:04:46,760
Speaker 1: my own independent life and grow as an independent person,

1255
01:04:46,880 --> 01:04:50,240
Speaker 1: she said and shouted for Ray as she was cut free.

1256
01:04:50,360 --> 01:04:53,120
Speaker 1: I'm finally free, she said. Alexander came up with the

1257
01:04:53,200 --> 01:04:56,200
Speaker 1: idea after she said she wanted to break up. Thank

1258
01:04:56,240 --> 01:05:00,480
Speaker 1: their supporters who followed their unusual journey. I want to

1259
01:05:00,520 --> 01:05:02,720
Speaker 1: break that plenty. Let's chain ourselves together for three months

1260
01:05:02,720 --> 01:05:05,160
Speaker 1: and see if that saves things. Four months. Actually it

1261
01:05:05,240 --> 01:05:08,680
Speaker 1: sounds beautiful. I love that, I would want a whole

1262
01:05:08,760 --> 01:05:10,760
Speaker 1: year of it, though I have a lot of questions.

1263
01:05:10,760 --> 01:05:13,480
Speaker 1: I'm trying to see. They were literally handcuffed to each

1264
01:05:13,480 --> 01:05:20,200
Speaker 1: other and then not off my foot like song coming track,

1265
01:05:20,480 --> 01:05:22,080
Speaker 1: And I don't like they didn't have like a long

1266
01:05:22,120 --> 01:05:24,080
Speaker 1: I mean, it was like you know, traditional handcuffs. It

1267
01:05:24,160 --> 01:05:25,480
Speaker 1: looks like here, But I'm trying to figure out how

1268
01:05:25,480 --> 01:05:27,960
Speaker 1: they did things like go to the restroom or whatever else. Um,

1269
01:05:28,040 --> 01:05:31,040
Speaker 1: for three months, they had no personal space, did everything

1270
01:05:31,080 --> 01:05:35,160
Speaker 1: together from bathroom breaks, a grocery shopping. Oh, that's so cute. No,

1271
01:05:35,320 --> 01:05:38,120
Speaker 1: it's not well this kind of relationship. You're hey, I

1272
01:05:38,200 --> 01:05:40,120
Speaker 1: think we want to break up. No, let's spin every

1273
01:05:40,200 --> 01:05:46,600
Speaker 1: second together. Let's go that has to have happened. That's cute.

1274
01:05:46,920 --> 01:05:49,320
Speaker 1: This this is a gimmick though. It was all for

1275
01:05:49,520 --> 01:05:52,520
Speaker 1: Instagram and you know, you could follow along and the

1276
01:05:52,600 --> 01:05:56,480
Speaker 1: whole thing. Um. Yeah. Has anyone ever done anything like

1277
01:05:56,600 --> 01:06:01,000
Speaker 1: that where you set yourself to somebody? Yeah, yeah, yeah,

1278
01:06:01,680 --> 01:06:04,880
Speaker 1: No where you like, I've heard about people who are

1279
01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:07,880
Speaker 1: not doing well in a relationship so they they have

1280
01:06:08,000 --> 01:06:10,240
Speaker 1: a kid, you know, or like things aren't going well,

1281
01:06:10,360 --> 01:06:13,480
Speaker 1: so let's double down, you know, and somehow that'll bring

1282
01:06:13,600 --> 01:06:15,800
Speaker 1: us closer together. And I feel like it, to the

1283
01:06:15,840 --> 01:06:18,720
Speaker 1: best of my knowledge, it never works. I've never heard

1284
01:06:18,760 --> 01:06:20,920
Speaker 1: of anybody who was like, this is awful, Let's have

1285
01:06:21,000 --> 01:06:23,920
Speaker 1: a child, and then everything gets better all of a sudden,

1286
01:06:24,040 --> 01:06:26,160
Speaker 1: like now we're you know, because then now you're I guess,

1287
01:06:26,240 --> 01:06:28,080
Speaker 1: trying to say together. You already hate each other, you've

1288
01:06:28,160 --> 01:06:30,120
Speaker 1: established that, and then you're trying to say together for

1289
01:06:30,160 --> 01:06:32,920
Speaker 1: a kid, which is stressful in itself. So then you're

1290
01:06:32,960 --> 01:06:35,200
Speaker 1: probably more miserable because you realize you've sort of stuck

1291
01:06:35,240 --> 01:06:38,360
Speaker 1: to this person now forever. I don't know, at least

1292
01:06:38,400 --> 01:06:41,440
Speaker 1: with the handcuffs, you can you know, unlock them and

1293
01:06:42,120 --> 01:06:43,560
Speaker 1: go drop a deuce, you know what I mean? Or

1294
01:06:43,600 --> 01:06:45,480
Speaker 1: like do you go about your merry way. But this

1295
01:06:45,600 --> 01:06:47,280
Speaker 1: whole thing was to give a guest Paul, you know. Yeah,

1296
01:06:47,280 --> 01:06:49,160
Speaker 1: I think the whole like having a baby thing to

1297
01:06:49,280 --> 01:06:52,000
Speaker 1: save your relationship. I feel like I've seen it happen,

1298
01:06:52,080 --> 01:06:54,200
Speaker 1: and like you say, it never works out because I

1299
01:06:54,320 --> 01:06:56,320
Speaker 1: feel like a lot of men and women think that

1300
01:06:56,400 --> 01:06:58,880
Speaker 1: that might, you know, save the relationship, or that it's

1301
01:06:58,920 --> 01:07:01,240
Speaker 1: going to bring it the next level. And that's I

1302
01:07:01,360 --> 01:07:03,080
Speaker 1: do his fear. I feel like, why would you want

1303
01:07:03,080 --> 01:07:05,000
Speaker 1: to bring a child into the world when you you

1304
01:07:05,040 --> 01:07:07,240
Speaker 1: guys aren't even doing well to begin with. That's your

1305
01:07:07,280 --> 01:07:09,760
Speaker 1: biggest fear, would have a baby the wrong person? Yeah,

1306
01:07:09,800 --> 01:07:14,520
Speaker 1: well yeah, no, oh no, I hear that. I hear that. Yeah, roofing.

1307
01:07:14,640 --> 01:07:17,880
Speaker 1: We know a couple that's going through a crazy divorce

1308
01:07:18,000 --> 01:07:21,360
Speaker 1: right now that had a baby, and uh, I don't

1309
01:07:21,360 --> 01:07:22,960
Speaker 1: want to say on these that's a hill Mary though,

1310
01:07:23,080 --> 01:07:25,160
Speaker 1: was it was the baby? Was the baby? Say? It

1311
01:07:25,200 --> 01:07:27,720
Speaker 1: was kind of yeah, like what was it? Yeah? Like,

1312
01:07:29,040 --> 01:07:31,520
Speaker 1: but then he ended up being a huge cheater. Oh yeah,

1313
01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:34,120
Speaker 1: oh yeah, I know exactly who you're talking about, the

1314
01:07:34,200 --> 01:07:35,960
Speaker 1: worst part of that I feel in some ways like

1315
01:07:36,000 --> 01:07:38,440
Speaker 1: I enabled that. I don't even I don't know how

1316
01:07:38,520 --> 01:07:40,760
Speaker 1: much more I can say, but well I guess I can't.

1317
01:07:40,760 --> 01:07:44,800
Speaker 1: No one knows who we're talking about. But um, this if,

1318
01:07:44,960 --> 01:07:47,960
Speaker 1: if the story's true, this couple that we're talking about, um,

1319
01:07:48,360 --> 01:07:51,640
Speaker 1: the dude and the couple asked me to help him, um,

1320
01:07:52,120 --> 01:07:53,920
Speaker 1: you know, guide him, like give him advice and how

1321
01:07:53,920 --> 01:07:56,040
Speaker 1: to get a pilot's license and then and then how

1322
01:07:56,080 --> 01:07:58,080
Speaker 1: to get a plane. It turned out the plane was

1323
01:07:58,120 --> 01:08:05,400
Speaker 1: being used to visit various locations where you facilitated a

1324
01:08:05,520 --> 01:08:07,520
Speaker 1: cheater on accident. Well, how could I have ever known

1325
01:08:07,560 --> 01:08:09,960
Speaker 1: that you would use your pilot license for bad in

1326
01:08:10,040 --> 01:08:12,440
Speaker 1: the plane? He's like, go ahead, buddy, Yeah I know,

1327
01:08:12,520 --> 01:08:14,520
Speaker 1: I did. I did. I actually paid for the plane.

1328
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:17,880
Speaker 1: I was like, no, make this easier for you, no idea.

1329
01:08:18,640 --> 01:08:20,400
Speaker 1: I had no idea. Would my friends call and tell

1330
01:08:20,400 --> 01:08:22,519
Speaker 1: me they're interested in my in my hobby. I don't

1331
01:08:22,840 --> 01:08:24,600
Speaker 1: normally think like, oh, you're gonna use this as a

1332
01:08:24,680 --> 01:08:27,519
Speaker 1: vehicle so you can go a couple with different girls

1333
01:08:27,560 --> 01:08:31,960
Speaker 1: and whichitall and el Paso and wherever where you were going.

1334
01:08:32,720 --> 01:08:35,000
Speaker 1: I actually momentarily felt very guilty about that. But how

1335
01:08:35,000 --> 01:08:36,360
Speaker 1: could I have known? How could I have known? You

1336
01:08:36,479 --> 01:08:39,479
Speaker 1: didn't know? Um anyway, So it didn't work. It didn't

1337
01:08:39,520 --> 01:08:41,240
Speaker 1: work in that case, and I don't recommend it. And

1338
01:08:41,360 --> 01:08:43,600
Speaker 1: that also, I don't know that I would go for handcuffing.

1339
01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:45,439
Speaker 1: The only person here who votes for that is Christie,

1340
01:08:45,439 --> 01:08:47,680
Speaker 1: and that's because the man could never leave her sight.

1341
01:08:47,840 --> 01:08:50,200
Speaker 1: I'm so lonely. I would do it right now with anyone.

1342
01:08:50,360 --> 01:08:52,000
Speaker 1: I'm not sure how you're lonely, because every day on

1343
01:08:52,080 --> 01:08:54,080
Speaker 1: our topic sheet there's a story about a different guys.

1344
01:08:56,640 --> 01:08:58,679
Speaker 1: I mean, I guess lowly. It's more of a mental

1345
01:08:58,720 --> 01:09:13,160
Speaker 1: status than why were you left waiting by the phone? Hi?

1346
01:09:13,479 --> 01:09:16,720
Speaker 1: Good morning, Welcome to the show. Hi, good morning, thank

1347
01:09:16,800 --> 01:09:18,679
Speaker 1: you for being here with us. We have your email

1348
01:09:18,720 --> 01:09:21,280
Speaker 1: here from fred shot radio dot com. What's going on

1349
01:09:21,520 --> 01:09:24,160
Speaker 1: with Reggie? How did you meet? Tell us about any

1350
01:09:24,240 --> 01:09:27,680
Speaker 1: dates that you've been on and what the problem is,

1351
01:09:29,640 --> 01:09:32,760
Speaker 1: and like she quickly asked for a date, and boy,

1352
01:09:32,840 --> 01:09:34,599
Speaker 1: I was really excited about that. It's just like really

1353
01:09:34,640 --> 01:09:37,080
Speaker 1: shut to the point. It was really cool. And we

1354
01:09:37,200 --> 01:09:39,719
Speaker 1: went on this date and I thought it was great

1355
01:09:39,920 --> 01:09:44,280
Speaker 1: and I really expected to see him again, and I

1356
01:09:44,360 --> 01:09:46,320
Speaker 1: just haven't heard from them. He's just been m ia

1357
01:09:46,520 --> 01:09:50,200
Speaker 1: ever since I've been encountered at all. So okay, I

1358
01:09:50,280 --> 01:09:52,479
Speaker 1: just got a really fun time. So I'm just a lot.

1359
01:09:52,760 --> 01:09:54,840
Speaker 1: What you gotta do on these apps, I'm telling you, guys,

1360
01:09:54,840 --> 01:09:57,240
Speaker 1: just jump on it. If you master with somebody, you

1361
01:09:57,320 --> 01:09:58,760
Speaker 1: just gotta be like, do you want to meet in person?

1362
01:09:58,920 --> 01:10:01,479
Speaker 1: Or not? Because no, because if you start messaging and

1363
01:10:01,560 --> 01:10:03,280
Speaker 1: trying to carry on on these things, then you just

1364
01:10:03,360 --> 01:10:05,160
Speaker 1: get lost in the shuffle. So if you if you

1365
01:10:05,240 --> 01:10:07,040
Speaker 1: find somebody you're interested, you got to go boom, what

1366
01:10:07,080 --> 01:10:11,040
Speaker 1: are we doing? And no water splash, let's go hello?

1367
01:10:11,200 --> 01:10:14,160
Speaker 1: How sure? In your case? In my case, it's more like,

1368
01:10:14,439 --> 01:10:16,120
Speaker 1: you know, do you want to get a drink in person?

1369
01:10:16,200 --> 01:10:18,519
Speaker 1: And whatever? Because I'm telling you, if you try and

1370
01:10:19,280 --> 01:10:21,960
Speaker 1: carry on this whole dialogue, eventually that gets boring. And

1371
01:10:22,080 --> 01:10:24,400
Speaker 1: it's the same script for everybody. It's hey, how are

1372
01:10:24,400 --> 01:10:27,120
Speaker 1: you doing? I'm good, How are you? How's it going

1373
01:10:27,160 --> 01:10:29,080
Speaker 1: on here? Oh it's good. What do you do for

1374
01:10:29,080 --> 01:10:31,519
Speaker 1: a living? Oh? I do this? It's just corny. And

1375
01:10:31,600 --> 01:10:33,360
Speaker 1: so you just went for it, or he went for it.

1376
01:10:33,439 --> 01:10:34,680
Speaker 1: I guess we went for it, and I thought it

1377
01:10:34,760 --> 01:10:36,280
Speaker 1: was awesome. And then I, like I said, I thought

1378
01:10:36,280 --> 01:10:39,479
Speaker 1: we had a great time. So I'm just like, I'm

1379
01:10:39,479 --> 01:10:41,719
Speaker 1: wanting to talk more and want to hang out more. Okay,

1380
01:10:41,840 --> 01:10:43,880
Speaker 1: all right, and you look back on this experience and

1381
01:10:43,960 --> 01:10:46,280
Speaker 1: you're like, no, no, no, everything went greater. You're fully

1382
01:10:46,320 --> 01:10:48,040
Speaker 1: expected to hear from him and go out with him again.

1383
01:10:48,240 --> 01:10:50,880
Speaker 1: I really did. Yeah, all right, Well, we're gonna call

1384
01:10:51,200 --> 01:10:53,439
Speaker 1: him Reggie. See, we can get Reggie on the phone.

1385
01:10:53,439 --> 01:10:56,280
Speaker 1: We're gonna ask some questions, and hopefully whatever's going on,

1386
01:10:56,360 --> 01:10:58,680
Speaker 1: we can straighten it out and set you guys up

1387
01:10:58,720 --> 01:11:00,840
Speaker 1: on another date and we'll pay for that one. Okay,

1388
01:11:01,439 --> 01:11:03,200
Speaker 1: thank you. We're gonna play one song and come back

1389
01:11:03,240 --> 01:11:05,720
Speaker 1: and we'll give him a ringy ding. Can you hang

1390
01:11:05,800 --> 01:11:08,080
Speaker 1: on to stay right here, give me a couple of minutes.

1391
01:11:08,080 --> 01:11:10,720
Speaker 1: We'll come back and you'll hear the drama. What happus? Next?

1392
01:11:10,760 --> 01:11:12,800
Speaker 1: Part two? Waiting by the phone on The Fred Show

1393
01:11:13,000 --> 01:11:16,880
Speaker 1: one three five Little three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number

1394
01:11:16,920 --> 01:11:19,080
Speaker 1: one him music station. Good morning, thanks for having us on.

1395
01:11:19,320 --> 01:11:23,120
Speaker 1: It's the Friend Show. Hey Maya, welcome back. Okay, let's

1396
01:11:23,160 --> 01:11:26,000
Speaker 1: call Reggie you guys met on Hinge and he got

1397
01:11:26,080 --> 01:11:27,920
Speaker 1: right to it, set up a date, you went out,

1398
01:11:28,640 --> 01:11:30,640
Speaker 1: you had a great time, except now he's ghosting and

1399
01:11:30,640 --> 01:11:33,120
Speaker 1: you want to know what's up exactly. Let's call him now,

1400
01:11:33,200 --> 01:11:44,600
Speaker 1: good luck. Hey is this Reggie Reggie Fred from the

1401
01:11:44,640 --> 01:11:47,360
Speaker 1: Friend Show one on three five Kiss FM in Chicago.

1402
01:11:47,439 --> 01:11:49,880
Speaker 1: Everybody's here, and I have to say that we are

1403
01:11:49,920 --> 01:11:51,519
Speaker 1: on the radio right now. I need your consent to

1404
01:11:51,560 --> 01:11:53,200
Speaker 1: continue with the calls. I don't care if we talked

1405
01:11:53,240 --> 01:11:56,200
Speaker 1: for a minute. Sure, sure, Thank you very much, We

1406
01:11:56,280 --> 01:11:58,880
Speaker 1: appreciate it. Um, we're calling on behalf of a woman

1407
01:11:58,880 --> 01:12:02,040
Speaker 1: who says she met you on Hinge and you guys

1408
01:12:02,080 --> 01:12:08,439
Speaker 1: went out. Her name is Maya. Yeah, So what happening

1409
01:12:08,520 --> 01:12:11,880
Speaker 1: because she u described to us, you know, being excited

1410
01:12:11,920 --> 01:12:13,400
Speaker 1: to meet you, and that you talked on the app

1411
01:12:13,479 --> 01:12:15,080
Speaker 1: and and that you asked her out kind of right

1412
01:12:15,120 --> 01:12:16,680
Speaker 1: away and then you went out, and she said she

1413
01:12:16,760 --> 01:12:19,160
Speaker 1: had a great time and expected to hear from you again. Uh,

1414
01:12:19,240 --> 01:12:21,679
Speaker 1: and hasn't. So what's going on with that? Why aren't

1415
01:12:21,680 --> 01:12:26,040
Speaker 1: you calling her? Uh? The honest guy is, Um, I'm

1416
01:12:26,080 --> 01:12:29,160
Speaker 1: a little scared. That's why I haven't called her. You're scared?

1417
01:12:29,200 --> 01:12:31,880
Speaker 1: What are you scared of Well, like I get, you're

1418
01:12:31,920 --> 01:12:34,479
Speaker 1: not really supposed to talk about past relationships on the

1419
01:12:34,600 --> 01:12:40,000
Speaker 1: first date. Um, but she she did, and she casually

1420
01:12:40,080 --> 01:12:43,519
Speaker 1: mentioned that she wished her X was thin, and I

1421
01:12:45,640 --> 01:12:48,240
Speaker 1: thought it was funny. I know how people say things sometimes,

1422
01:12:48,479 --> 01:12:52,439
Speaker 1: you know it was probably um but she laughs. And

1423
01:12:53,200 --> 01:12:55,720
Speaker 1: I'm pretty sure she was serious about it, because she

1424
01:12:55,920 --> 01:13:00,679
Speaker 1: mentioned it about eleven other times. Oh so, she said

1425
01:13:00,760 --> 01:13:03,120
Speaker 1: on multiple occasions throughout the day that she wishes her

1426
01:13:03,200 --> 01:13:06,840
Speaker 1: ex were dead. And we're talking not hat, which I

1427
01:13:06,840 --> 01:13:08,360
Speaker 1: don't even know how funny that is, but not like

1428
01:13:08,600 --> 01:13:11,519
Speaker 1: I wish you were dead ha ha ha he wish

1429
01:13:12,240 --> 01:13:17,400
Speaker 1: at one point, come on, oh oh, come on, everybody

1430
01:13:17,520 --> 01:13:22,840
Speaker 1: fantasizes about murdering their ex. Okay, hold on, everybody, that's Maya.

1431
01:13:23,360 --> 01:13:25,920
Speaker 1: Um I forgot to mention Reggie that Maya's here. No,

1432
01:13:26,120 --> 01:13:30,200
Speaker 1: everybody doesn't. Everyone doesn't wish that they could murder their ex. No, No,

1433
01:13:30,240 --> 01:13:32,040
Speaker 1: I don't wish they could. I'm just saying everyone to

1434
01:13:32,080 --> 01:13:34,519
Speaker 1: allow you to think about, like, how lovely and vindigating

1435
01:13:34,560 --> 01:13:36,920
Speaker 1: would I need to like stab them. I've never thought

1436
01:13:36,960 --> 01:13:41,000
Speaker 1: about murdering an X. No, you get different examples of

1437
01:13:41,080 --> 01:13:43,000
Speaker 1: how you wanted to kill your ex? I don't know.

1438
01:13:44,000 --> 01:13:45,840
Speaker 1: How does she say she wanted to do what? I'm curious?

1439
01:13:46,360 --> 01:13:53,880
Speaker 1: It was totally a joke, is involved? Wow? Okay, I

1440
01:13:53,960 --> 01:13:56,880
Speaker 1: watch a lot of crime TV. Yeah, maybe much the

1441
01:13:56,960 --> 01:13:59,160
Speaker 1: same I do too, but I'm not out here trying

1442
01:13:59,160 --> 01:14:01,280
Speaker 1: to be on one. It's started to think about, like,

1443
01:14:01,760 --> 01:14:05,040
Speaker 1: you know, not leasing that anger and whatever. Yeah, working

1444
01:14:05,080 --> 01:14:07,840
Speaker 1: out in therapy. Not on a date though. But it

1445
01:14:08,320 --> 01:14:11,519
Speaker 1: obviously was a joke and apparently he does not have

1446
01:14:11,600 --> 01:14:14,120
Speaker 1: the same sins of humor. Yeah, murder, it's one or

1447
01:14:14,160 --> 01:14:17,720
Speaker 1: two things. It's either it's either scary or it's a

1448
01:14:17,840 --> 01:14:21,479
Speaker 1: little obsessive. You know. I'm sure she wasn't being literal,

1449
01:14:21,880 --> 01:14:24,559
Speaker 1: but it's like it obviously shows that you're carrying, you're

1450
01:14:24,600 --> 01:14:28,040
Speaker 1: harboring some resentment, real resentment for this guy. Um, and

1451
01:14:28,200 --> 01:14:30,439
Speaker 1: I wouldn't necessarily want to go out with somebody who's

1452
01:14:30,479 --> 01:14:34,880
Speaker 1: who hates is still sort of actively hating someone that much. Yeah,

1453
01:14:34,920 --> 01:14:37,080
Speaker 1: but he probably did her dirty, you know, like, Yeah,

1454
01:14:41,160 --> 01:14:42,960
Speaker 1: it wasn't just like I was talking about my ex.

1455
01:14:43,080 --> 01:14:45,880
Speaker 1: I just happened to mention that she wasn't alive anymore.

1456
01:14:46,400 --> 01:14:52,080
Speaker 1: I wasn't planning a murder though I wasn't like strangers

1457
01:14:52,080 --> 01:14:53,800
Speaker 1: on a train having a meeting. I mean, come on,

1458
01:14:54,000 --> 01:14:55,760
Speaker 1: how would you do it, Maya? I guess if I

1459
01:14:56,320 --> 01:14:58,760
Speaker 1: had to pick that, I would do the whole like

1460
01:14:59,280 --> 01:15:02,280
Speaker 1: take it to it side. Probably. Oh, it feels like

1461
01:15:02,280 --> 01:15:03,880
Speaker 1: a little more in detail. Why do I feel like

1462
01:15:03,920 --> 01:15:08,320
Speaker 1: we're going we're gonna. I feel like we're you know

1463
01:15:08,400 --> 01:15:11,280
Speaker 1: that you are beautiful and you're a good person. Yeah,

1464
01:15:11,840 --> 01:15:13,920
Speaker 1: she's a fan of afraid you're gonna. Yeah, this is

1465
01:15:14,000 --> 01:15:16,639
Speaker 1: Calin speaking, So I love you. Was this a date

1466
01:15:16,800 --> 01:15:18,120
Speaker 1: or were you just trying to get Were you just

1467
01:15:18,200 --> 01:15:21,400
Speaker 1: trying to pay this man to to murder your ex boyfriend?

1468
01:15:21,880 --> 01:15:23,560
Speaker 1: Not even a little bit? Oh my gosh. I was

1469
01:15:23,560 --> 01:15:27,400
Speaker 1: like it was ten percent. Why hello? I think she

1470
01:15:27,400 --> 01:15:30,040
Speaker 1: said it was ten percent? Real. We lose, Maya. Are

1471
01:15:30,080 --> 01:15:36,479
Speaker 1: you there? Your phone's being tapped? Yeah? I think the

1472
01:15:36,560 --> 01:15:38,720
Speaker 1: taps are after, you know, or something. I don't know.

1473
01:15:39,200 --> 01:15:42,519
Speaker 1: FBI is like, enough of this, guys, this isn't a match.

1474
01:15:42,560 --> 01:15:45,800
Speaker 1: It's not gonna happen. No, no second date. I would

1475
01:15:45,800 --> 01:15:49,160
Speaker 1: recommend in the future, Maya maybe toning down the next

1476
01:15:49,280 --> 01:15:51,760
Speaker 1: day on the murderer, you know, talk on the day.

1477
01:15:51,960 --> 01:15:55,759
Speaker 1: But if you do just say allegedly just for you know, legalities. Okay,

1478
01:15:56,600 --> 01:15:58,560
Speaker 1: all right, Regie, thanks for your time, best election of

1479
01:15:58,600 --> 01:16:03,320
Speaker 1: both of you. Did your parents ever, did they have

1480
01:16:03,479 --> 01:16:05,880
Speaker 1: creative ways to punish you? Or did they punish you

1481
01:16:05,920 --> 01:16:08,400
Speaker 1: in the way that everybody eight five five nine one

1482
01:16:08,479 --> 01:16:11,160
Speaker 1: one h three five? But JB before you go, did um?

1483
01:16:11,320 --> 01:16:12,960
Speaker 1: Cause j B answous the phone. But then he also

1484
01:16:13,080 --> 01:16:15,920
Speaker 1: talks on the radio. Did did James Lee roy Brown

1485
01:16:16,040 --> 01:16:17,840
Speaker 1: your father? Did he did he have creative ways to

1486
01:16:18,160 --> 01:16:19,800
Speaker 1: punish you? Or was it like your grounded, you can't

1487
01:16:19,840 --> 01:16:21,800
Speaker 1: go out? Yeah? So it was grounding. I mean it

1488
01:16:21,920 --> 01:16:23,560
Speaker 1: was when you were like when I was young. It

1489
01:16:23,680 --> 01:16:25,640
Speaker 1: was like the spanking, you know. And he'll tell the

1490
01:16:25,680 --> 01:16:28,200
Speaker 1: story to this day where he he spanked me in

1491
01:16:28,280 --> 01:16:30,479
Speaker 1: the store and it was so bad. People were like

1492
01:16:30,600 --> 01:16:32,880
Speaker 1: looking at him like, well, what is going on? He

1493
01:16:33,479 --> 01:16:35,840
Speaker 1: still says, tells that to this day. But no, it

1494
01:16:35,920 --> 01:16:37,599
Speaker 1: was very much. I was so scared of him because

1495
01:16:37,640 --> 01:16:40,519
Speaker 1: he was such like a large man with a deep voice.

1496
01:16:40,560 --> 01:16:43,000
Speaker 1: Like it was scary. I didn't do anything bad. I

1497
01:16:43,080 --> 01:16:45,000
Speaker 1: was a really good kid. I was too, but yeah

1498
01:16:45,120 --> 01:16:47,160
Speaker 1: I got ground It was like they take away, they

1499
01:16:47,240 --> 01:16:49,439
Speaker 1: take something away, you know, for a while. They sent

1500
01:16:49,520 --> 01:16:50,800
Speaker 1: me to my room. But in my room I had

1501
01:16:50,840 --> 01:16:53,479
Speaker 1: a TV and a Nintendo, So that wasn't that much

1502
01:16:53,479 --> 01:16:56,240
Speaker 1: of a punishment, you know. So I have a really

1503
01:16:56,280 --> 01:16:59,000
Speaker 1: creative punishment. So when I was a kid, I walked

1504
01:16:59,040 --> 01:17:01,720
Speaker 1: into a tree, and my whole school saul and my

1505
01:17:01,800 --> 01:17:04,479
Speaker 1: brother started the nickname tree and everyone made front of me.

1506
01:17:04,560 --> 01:17:06,280
Speaker 1: So I cried. I told my mom, and she made

1507
01:17:06,360 --> 01:17:09,920
Speaker 1: my brother at home walk into the wall in front

1508
01:17:09,920 --> 01:17:13,479
Speaker 1: of everybody. This is creative punishment, I'm telling you. So

1509
01:17:13,760 --> 01:17:15,360
Speaker 1: she was like, you made fun of your sister for

1510
01:17:15,479 --> 01:17:17,720
Speaker 1: walking into the trees. You have to walk into a wall.

1511
01:17:17,920 --> 01:17:19,479
Speaker 1: How fast that you have to go? He had to go.

1512
01:17:19,600 --> 01:17:21,600
Speaker 1: It was a pretty decent speed. He not like a

1513
01:17:21,680 --> 01:17:23,519
Speaker 1: Harry potter'scar in your forehead? Is that way? I got

1514
01:17:23,520 --> 01:17:27,679
Speaker 1: bangs from the tree. I was reading and walking outside

1515
01:17:27,680 --> 01:17:29,960
Speaker 1: because I was really nerdy. So I walked into tree.

1516
01:17:30,080 --> 01:17:31,760
Speaker 1: So then my brother had to walk into a wall.

1517
01:17:31,800 --> 01:17:34,439
Speaker 1: It's punishment walk into it. I don't even know how

1518
01:17:34,439 --> 01:17:37,680
Speaker 1: to walk right into a wall. I don't go. I

1519
01:17:37,760 --> 01:17:39,320
Speaker 1: feel like if I see the wall coming, then I

1520
01:17:39,400 --> 01:17:41,280
Speaker 1: walked slowly and I don't hit it that hard, and

1521
01:17:42,320 --> 01:17:50,400
Speaker 1: again run a little faster into right wild creative parenting nuts. Well,

1522
01:17:50,439 --> 01:17:54,240
Speaker 1: I'm looking, what about you, any any Paulina like MoMA Martha,

1523
01:17:54,640 --> 01:17:56,360
Speaker 1: you know, because she grew up in the Old Country.

1524
01:17:56,560 --> 01:17:59,200
Speaker 1: She's Old Country country, So I mean, what kind of

1525
01:17:59,200 --> 01:18:01,880
Speaker 1: stuff did she I love my mom so much, but

1526
01:18:02,000 --> 01:18:04,240
Speaker 1: some of the things she did, I really don't understand

1527
01:18:04,320 --> 01:18:07,040
Speaker 1: if they're like even acceptable to any standard. I hear

1528
01:18:07,080 --> 01:18:09,760
Speaker 1: you on that one. I feel I'm not trying to

1529
01:18:09,920 --> 01:18:13,000
Speaker 1: like appropriate here. But my my my friends in the South,

1530
01:18:13,240 --> 01:18:16,200
Speaker 1: and my friends whose parents were Eastern European or Asian

1531
01:18:17,160 --> 01:18:20,639
Speaker 1: in many cases, they had to do some really crazy stuff. Yeah,

1532
01:18:20,920 --> 01:18:23,400
Speaker 1: the Eastern European friends like really crazy stuff. And I

1533
01:18:23,439 --> 01:18:25,640
Speaker 1: don't know if it's just because maybe they grew up

1534
01:18:25,680 --> 01:18:27,920
Speaker 1: and I don't I don't know. I don't know why,

1535
01:18:28,080 --> 01:18:30,640
Speaker 1: but it was it was much worse than anything I

1536
01:18:30,720 --> 01:18:32,960
Speaker 1: ever had to do in the South. It was my

1537
01:18:33,120 --> 01:18:35,519
Speaker 1: friends would have to go outside, pick their own switch,

1538
01:18:36,200 --> 01:18:38,600
Speaker 1: pick their own stick to them get the butt with.

1539
01:18:39,240 --> 01:18:40,600
Speaker 1: And if you didn't pick a thick enough one, you

1540
01:18:40,640 --> 01:18:42,640
Speaker 1: had to go ahead and get another one that I

1541
01:18:42,720 --> 01:18:45,040
Speaker 1: had to get. I got my butt many times with

1542
01:18:45,120 --> 01:18:48,080
Speaker 1: many different objects, Like we got the sandal, we got

1543
01:18:48,160 --> 01:18:51,280
Speaker 1: the cord from the lamp. We had everything everything. Yeah,

1544
01:18:51,320 --> 01:18:54,200
Speaker 1: and I had to bare butt. I don't know this conversation.

1545
01:18:54,280 --> 01:18:56,560
Speaker 1: I had bare butt out, like my whole butt. That

1546
01:18:56,720 --> 01:18:58,920
Speaker 1: was really painful. I had to kneel on the like

1547
01:18:59,040 --> 01:19:03,719
Speaker 1: by the way. Yeah, I had to hit two books

1548
01:19:03,760 --> 01:19:06,120
Speaker 1: like Jesus and stand like this. I had a whole

1549
01:19:06,200 --> 01:19:08,280
Speaker 1: two text books. I don't feel was like Xyclopedias and

1550
01:19:08,439 --> 01:19:11,840
Speaker 1: Jesus that he didn't he helped. He helped two encyclopedia

1551
01:19:12,400 --> 01:19:14,479
Speaker 1: just trying to make Jesus. I'm not very religious, so

1552
01:19:14,520 --> 01:19:18,200
Speaker 1: I didn't know if it was they were Encyclopedia Britannic.

1553
01:19:19,200 --> 01:19:21,599
Speaker 1: They were. Yeah, he got him free when he signed

1554
01:19:21,640 --> 01:19:25,040
Speaker 1: the first checking the count exactly. Yeah. He tried to

1555
01:19:25,080 --> 01:19:26,559
Speaker 1: tell hey, can I can I hold up in Carter

1556
01:19:26,880 --> 01:19:29,600
Speaker 1: you know those CD ROMs, And they said no, no,

1557
01:19:29,800 --> 01:19:33,560
Speaker 1: you hold this is getting Poland I got into like

1558
01:19:33,920 --> 01:19:36,040
Speaker 1: a chicken fight if you will, because I we have

1559
01:19:36,200 --> 01:19:38,200
Speaker 1: chickens right in the farm, so like I thought it

1560
01:19:38,320 --> 01:19:40,320
Speaker 1: was funny to like hit them with sticks or do

1561
01:19:40,400 --> 01:19:42,360
Speaker 1: we chase them? I hit them chase them with sticks

1562
01:19:42,400 --> 01:19:45,120
Speaker 1: because it was like funny. I got in trouble out

1563
01:19:45,160 --> 01:19:46,599
Speaker 1: of everybody with me and my cousin, but the little

1564
01:19:46,640 --> 01:19:48,439
Speaker 1: kids didn't get in trouble. So I had a shovel

1565
01:19:48,600 --> 01:19:50,760
Speaker 1: cow crap for like the night because it was a farm,

1566
01:19:51,040 --> 01:19:54,599
Speaker 1: so it was just like very labor intensive punishment. Um yeah,

1567
01:19:54,600 --> 01:19:56,160
Speaker 1: I'm looking. You read it and there was a comment

1568
01:19:56,280 --> 01:19:58,840
Speaker 1: or there was a threat about this. Um we lost it.

1569
01:19:58,920 --> 01:20:02,640
Speaker 1: Shows snow shovels during building snow for it. So our

1570
01:20:02,680 --> 01:20:06,240
Speaker 1: parents made a shovel snow using pots and pans um.

1571
01:20:06,560 --> 01:20:09,200
Speaker 1: Anything we broke we had to fix. I signed the

1572
01:20:09,280 --> 01:20:10,720
Speaker 1: door really hard when I was mad. My mom and

1573
01:20:10,800 --> 01:20:13,519
Speaker 1: grandparents would make me practice closing it nicely. I would

1574
01:20:13,520 --> 01:20:15,719
Speaker 1: have to open and close it gently about fifty times,

1575
01:20:15,800 --> 01:20:17,560
Speaker 1: counting out loud. If I close too hard, I have

1576
01:20:17,600 --> 01:20:21,000
Speaker 1: to start over. I once misfired a NERF gun in

1577
01:20:21,080 --> 01:20:23,000
Speaker 1: front of my dad and he had me go through

1578
01:20:23,080 --> 01:20:30,479
Speaker 1: a manual on gun safety. Hey Michael, Yeah, Michael, how'd

1579
01:20:30,520 --> 01:20:35,240
Speaker 1: your parents punish you? So? When I was young kid,

1580
01:20:35,439 --> 01:20:38,000
Speaker 1: my grandpa I started the car one time I was

1581
01:20:38,000 --> 01:20:40,680
Speaker 1: like maybe five years old, and my grandpa brought me

1582
01:20:40,720 --> 01:20:42,840
Speaker 1: in the house. He put me and then after that

1583
01:20:42,960 --> 01:20:44,720
Speaker 1: I had to kneel down for like a good hour

1584
01:20:44,760 --> 01:20:47,439
Speaker 1: and a half but the kneel for an hour and

1585
01:20:47,479 --> 01:20:50,320
Speaker 1: a half. Yeah, like the kneel down in the bed.

1586
01:20:51,920 --> 01:20:58,400
Speaker 1: You know, problems right, Oh you know what? Shirt there

1587
01:20:58,439 --> 01:21:04,000
Speaker 1: you go. I'm telling you the explanation I did. Just

1588
01:21:04,080 --> 01:21:06,800
Speaker 1: hear you say though about maybe from redd and somebody

1589
01:21:06,840 --> 01:21:11,400
Speaker 1: having closed the door whatever time. My mom actually used

1590
01:21:11,400 --> 01:21:12,920
Speaker 1: to do that too, Like we would slam the door,

1591
01:21:13,040 --> 01:21:16,640
Speaker 1: she'd close it times nice. You know what, I know

1592
01:21:16,760 --> 01:21:19,639
Speaker 1: people more than one person who would they would close

1593
01:21:19,720 --> 01:21:21,320
Speaker 1: their door and locked the door when they were in

1594
01:21:21,360 --> 01:21:23,240
Speaker 1: a fight with their parents, and more than one dad

1595
01:21:23,280 --> 01:21:25,360
Speaker 1: came and ripped the door off the hinges. Oh yeah,

1596
01:21:25,680 --> 01:21:29,360
Speaker 1: either either physically ripped it off or or like removed it. Yeah,

1597
01:21:29,439 --> 01:21:32,479
Speaker 1: and there was no door on the on their room. Yeah,

1598
01:21:32,560 --> 01:21:35,400
Speaker 1: thank you, Michaell have a good day. We didn't have

1599
01:21:35,479 --> 01:21:36,960
Speaker 1: locks on the doors. My sister and I did not

1600
01:21:37,040 --> 01:21:38,519
Speaker 1: have locks on our doors. We were not allowed to

1601
01:21:38,560 --> 01:21:40,880
Speaker 1: lock it. We couldn't. That's crazy. My best friend Ashley

1602
01:21:41,320 --> 01:21:44,559
Speaker 1: got caught drinking and her dad poured like a full

1603
01:21:44,640 --> 01:21:47,680
Speaker 1: glass of bourbon and was like, drink this whole thing

1604
01:21:49,120 --> 01:21:51,120
Speaker 1: didn't feel nice for her. Yeah, I can tell you

1605
01:21:51,200 --> 01:21:53,679
Speaker 1: my parents in an earlier age, it was probably appropriate.

1606
01:21:53,720 --> 01:21:55,280
Speaker 1: I mean not like as a child, but maybe he's

1607
01:21:55,280 --> 01:21:58,000
Speaker 1: a teenager would let me drink on vacation and they'd

1608
01:21:58,080 --> 01:22:00,439
Speaker 1: let me take it a little far under their sup provision.

1609
01:22:00,560 --> 01:22:03,160
Speaker 1: And the reality is I learned my limits, and when

1610
01:22:03,160 --> 01:22:04,920
Speaker 1: I didn't feel well, they wouldn't get let me off

1611
01:22:04,960 --> 01:22:07,320
Speaker 1: the hook you probably had like Daki's or something. Oh yeah,

1612
01:22:07,360 --> 01:22:09,479
Speaker 1: it wasn't wild, like trust me, it wasn't out of control.

1613
01:22:09,520 --> 01:22:11,840
Speaker 1: But but here's the thing, and people might argue that, well,

1614
01:22:11,840 --> 01:22:13,599
Speaker 1: that's not appropriate or whatever. But then when I went

1615
01:22:13,640 --> 01:22:16,600
Speaker 1: to college, there was no real like need to experiment.

1616
01:22:16,680 --> 01:22:18,840
Speaker 1: I knew my limit and I wasn't really impressed by

1617
01:22:18,840 --> 01:22:20,920
Speaker 1: it or whatever. And when you know, half of people

1618
01:22:20,960 --> 01:22:22,960
Speaker 1: I went to college with were hammered in the hallway

1619
01:22:23,000 --> 01:22:24,880
Speaker 1: and like couldn't go to class and had no idea

1620
01:22:25,160 --> 01:22:29,880
Speaker 1: because they were repressed from everything growing up. Hey Rachel, Hi,

1621
01:22:30,200 --> 01:22:34,599
Speaker 1: Hi Rachel, how'd your parents punish you? Um? So, one

1622
01:22:34,680 --> 01:22:38,320
Speaker 1: time it was in junior high and I accidentally shrunk

1623
01:22:38,400 --> 01:22:42,439
Speaker 1: all my mom's pants in the dryer, so she took

1624
01:22:42,560 --> 01:22:45,360
Speaker 1: all of my jeans and I had to wear suchy

1625
01:22:45,479 --> 01:22:48,519
Speaker 1: pants and overalls for a months. When they were not

1626
01:22:49,680 --> 01:22:54,920
Speaker 1: she took all of your jeans them everywhere. I could

1627
01:22:54,960 --> 01:22:58,720
Speaker 1: not find them. Wow, she stole your pants, man, so

1628
01:22:58,800 --> 01:23:01,800
Speaker 1: you had to look on. I'm really good at laundry now,

1629
01:23:02,080 --> 01:23:04,280
Speaker 1: I bet, I bet, thank you. Rachel have a great day.

1630
01:23:04,360 --> 01:23:06,639
Speaker 1: She does. She doesn't want a dryer, just a washer. Yeah,

1631
01:23:06,720 --> 01:23:11,560
Speaker 1: right there with a clothes line. I would get a

1632
01:23:11,600 --> 01:23:14,360
Speaker 1: friend to bring me pants every day to school. I guess. Yeah,

1633
01:23:14,760 --> 01:23:18,760
Speaker 1: that's good thinking work around there. Alex, Hi, Hi, Hi Alex.

1634
01:23:18,800 --> 01:23:22,599
Speaker 1: How'd your parents punish you? Well, it wasn't really my parents.

1635
01:23:22,680 --> 01:23:25,640
Speaker 1: It was my grandmother because she would watch me and

1636
01:23:25,760 --> 01:23:29,200
Speaker 1: my sister during the summer and stuff like that. And

1637
01:23:29,360 --> 01:23:34,880
Speaker 1: my grandma's old country from Europe. Oh, Paulina probably knows this.

1638
01:23:35,560 --> 01:23:38,320
Speaker 1: Oh yeah. She would have us meel on a corner

1639
01:23:38,760 --> 01:23:42,519
Speaker 1: on rice, or she'd put us in the closet and

1640
01:23:42,640 --> 01:23:48,920
Speaker 1: tell us the devil was in there, Grandma, the devil

1641
01:23:49,120 --> 01:23:51,439
Speaker 1: was in there. What she would she say? What you

1642
01:23:51,520 --> 01:23:54,080
Speaker 1: got to go in there with the devil? He would

1643
01:23:54,120 --> 01:23:56,160
Speaker 1: just tell us like he was in there because you

1644
01:23:56,280 --> 01:23:58,559
Speaker 1: were bad and everything else, and like it's you dark

1645
01:23:58,640 --> 01:24:03,640
Speaker 1: in the closet and everything out there. Do you have

1646
01:24:03,800 --> 01:24:09,280
Speaker 1: kids now? I do? Yes? I say, like it's probably

1647
01:24:09,320 --> 01:24:13,280
Speaker 1: nothing like that, right, No, No, I even got beat

1648
01:24:13,320 --> 01:24:15,720
Speaker 1: with like a wooden spoon. Yeah, I'm telling you. It's

1649
01:24:15,920 --> 01:24:18,840
Speaker 1: my friends whose parents, you know, the first genera, a

1650
01:24:18,880 --> 01:24:23,560
Speaker 1: lot of first generation, regardless of the ethnicity. Uh, the

1651
01:24:23,640 --> 01:24:25,920
Speaker 1: punishment was way worse than it is, you know, from

1652
01:24:26,000 --> 01:24:28,519
Speaker 1: my parents. But thank you so much, Alice, have a

1653
01:24:28,560 --> 01:24:30,920
Speaker 1: good day. You're welcome. I don't know what that's about.

1654
01:24:30,920 --> 01:24:34,400
Speaker 1: I guess it's just stylistically different. Hey Jen, Yeah, Jen,

1655
01:24:34,520 --> 01:24:37,360
Speaker 1: good morning. How are you punished? So my mom, when

1656
01:24:37,400 --> 01:24:39,800
Speaker 1: I was in high school, she would call up my

1657
01:24:39,880 --> 01:24:42,280
Speaker 1: friend find out where the nearest party was, and then

1658
01:24:42,360 --> 01:24:47,519
Speaker 1: she would show up. So you could imagine the guys

1659
01:24:47,560 --> 01:24:50,120
Speaker 1: would be like, Ken, moms here and it was you

1660
01:24:50,200 --> 01:24:54,160
Speaker 1: know her. What's the lesson then, Like the lesson is

1661
01:24:54,240 --> 01:24:55,720
Speaker 1: you just wouldn't go to parties because you didn't want

1662
01:24:55,720 --> 01:24:57,960
Speaker 1: her to show up. Well, the lesson was don't kiss

1663
01:24:57,960 --> 01:25:00,400
Speaker 1: off your mom because she's gonna show up the party

1664
01:25:00,439 --> 01:25:03,200
Speaker 1: and ruin the day. Yeah. Yeah, I don't like your

1665
01:25:03,240 --> 01:25:06,320
Speaker 1: mom wanted to go to these parties. She probably did.

1666
01:25:10,040 --> 01:25:13,200
Speaker 1: Jen's here at our house. I could always remember. I

1667
01:25:13,640 --> 01:25:15,880
Speaker 1: remember the girls who had hot moms and it was

1668
01:25:16,080 --> 01:25:19,559
Speaker 1: you know. Yeah, yeah, you know. Stacy's mom played at everything.

1669
01:25:20,240 --> 01:25:23,680
Speaker 1: Oh yeah, you know about that yet she does, yeah,

1670
01:25:23,720 --> 01:25:24,920
Speaker 1: but she doesn't like it when I say that, so

1671
01:25:24,960 --> 01:25:26,840
Speaker 1: I don't anymore. Thank you, Jen, have a good day.

1672
01:25:27,240 --> 01:25:29,559
Speaker 1: Thank you too. I think she's an attractive, intelligent woman.

1673
01:25:29,600 --> 01:25:34,280
Speaker 1: That's what I think. Uh. Hello, Jordan's mark, Jordan, had

1674
01:25:34,320 --> 01:25:37,519
Speaker 1: your parents punish you? Oh? This is my mother and

1675
01:25:37,600 --> 01:25:39,760
Speaker 1: I'm forty and I still think of this in the winter,

1676
01:25:39,920 --> 01:25:42,760
Speaker 1: so obviously it worked. But I was little and I

1677
01:25:42,760 --> 01:25:46,000
Speaker 1: wouldn't wear gloves, and so she took me to the library.

1678
01:25:46,120 --> 01:25:49,400
Speaker 1: And obviously this is pre you know, computer research, but

1679
01:25:49,520 --> 01:25:52,760
Speaker 1: you made me write a research paper with documentation on

1680
01:25:52,960 --> 01:25:59,640
Speaker 1: frost bite bibliography and I had to do that. I

1681
01:25:59,720 --> 01:26:02,479
Speaker 1: had to a really long paper on the Detroit Riots

1682
01:26:02,479 --> 01:26:05,080
Speaker 1: because my teacher caught me flicking him off. And every

1683
01:26:05,200 --> 01:26:08,000
Speaker 1: day late it was it like was another page longer.

1684
01:26:08,360 --> 01:26:11,000
Speaker 1: So I have been like a sixteen page paper. Oh

1685
01:26:11,080 --> 01:26:13,960
Speaker 1: my mom was a teacher, so maybe that makes sense.

1686
01:26:14,080 --> 01:26:16,280
Speaker 1: That makes sense. Thank you, Jordan, have a great day.

1687
01:26:17,120 --> 01:26:20,519
Speaker 1: Thank you for listening. Hey, Nikki, by guys morning, Nicky,

1688
01:26:20,600 --> 01:26:23,640
Speaker 1: good morning. How'd your parents punish you creative ways? So

1689
01:26:23,960 --> 01:26:26,920
Speaker 1: we are Italian and contrary a popular opinion, it was

1690
01:26:27,000 --> 01:26:29,640
Speaker 1: never anything physical. But I always say that my mom

1691
01:26:29,680 --> 01:26:33,080
Speaker 1: would play mental games. So when I was doing something wrong,

1692
01:26:33,479 --> 01:26:35,519
Speaker 1: she would say, Nikki, that's it, I'm taking into new

1693
01:26:35,600 --> 01:26:38,519
Speaker 1: Mommy store. And somehow, even at a young age, I

1694
01:26:38,640 --> 01:26:40,960
Speaker 1: knew that whatever was at the new Mommy store was

1695
01:26:41,040 --> 01:26:43,000
Speaker 1: probably going to be worse than whatever I was with

1696
01:26:43,200 --> 01:26:50,960
Speaker 1: now Nemmy store. Y. Yeah, and it works. I really

1697
01:26:51,040 --> 01:26:53,000
Speaker 1: set me in line, like I don't want a new

1698
01:26:53,040 --> 01:26:56,000
Speaker 1: mom so I'll behave now. If it was so good,

1699
01:26:56,040 --> 01:26:57,680
Speaker 1: they wouldn't be at the new Mommy store for me

1700
01:26:57,760 --> 01:27:01,599
Speaker 1: to choose what I mean, If they're still on the shelf,

1701
01:27:01,680 --> 01:27:04,080
Speaker 1: that means they're not very good. Oh my god, so

1702
01:27:04,240 --> 01:27:06,360
Speaker 1: screwed up. But look at this. You don't forget this stuff. However,

1703
01:27:06,400 --> 01:27:10,479
Speaker 1: many years later, you don't forget that now? Do you

1704
01:27:10,520 --> 01:27:12,800
Speaker 1: think it? Did it? Did you behave because of it?

1705
01:27:12,960 --> 01:27:18,160
Speaker 1: Or not? Really? Yes? Because you and this is what

1706
01:27:18,280 --> 01:27:23,200
Speaker 1: I'm not learned. Great say all right, yeah, probably not

1707
01:27:23,280 --> 01:27:27,680
Speaker 1: the worst. Thank you, Nick, you have a good day. Yes,

1708
01:27:27,960 --> 01:27:30,120
Speaker 1: thank you, have a good one. I was scared of

1709
01:27:30,200 --> 01:27:33,000
Speaker 1: my parents growing up. I really didn't defy them. I

1710
01:27:33,120 --> 01:27:36,400
Speaker 1: really I thought they had me convinced that like, disappointing

1711
01:27:36,479 --> 01:27:39,200
Speaker 1: them was the worst thing that could possibly happen. It

1712
01:27:39,360 --> 01:27:42,599
Speaker 1: was my grandfather's disappointment was the worst thing I could

1713
01:27:42,640 --> 01:27:46,120
Speaker 1: think of, way worse than any thing else. All he

1714
01:27:46,160 --> 01:27:47,639
Speaker 1: had to do, and he didn't do it very often.

1715
01:27:48,200 --> 01:27:50,360
Speaker 1: The guy knew, you know, he knew how to use

1716
01:27:50,439 --> 01:27:52,720
Speaker 1: that phrase. It maybe two or three times ever, but

1717
01:27:52,800 --> 01:27:55,840
Speaker 1: when he did it, I was I was crushed. Yeah,

1718
01:27:56,240 --> 01:27:57,640
Speaker 1: I think that's the kind of power you want to

1719
01:27:57,640 --> 01:28:02,120
Speaker 1: have over your children, complete mental control. That's what do

1720
01:28:02,160 --> 01:28:05,599
Speaker 1: you want. One or three five Kiss FM, Chicago's number

1721
01:28:05,600 --> 01:28:07,960
Speaker 1: one at music station, Fred shows seventy percent of women

1722
01:28:08,520 --> 01:28:13,160
Speaker 1: still attracted to dad bods. Um so. In twenty seventeen,

1723
01:28:13,160 --> 01:28:16,040
Speaker 1: the inaugural dad Bods Study took place from Planet Fitness

1724
01:28:16,080 --> 01:28:19,440
Speaker 1: and covered that seventy percent of women found dad bods attractive.

1725
01:28:19,479 --> 01:28:22,200
Speaker 1: Sixty four percent of men with dad bods were comfortable

1726
01:28:22,200 --> 01:28:25,639
Speaker 1: and confident in their own skin. The same figures continue

1727
01:28:25,680 --> 01:28:28,360
Speaker 1: to climb, just so many people. Well, seventy percent of

1728
01:28:28,439 --> 01:28:32,320
Speaker 1: women admit they're still attracted to men with this body type. Yeah,

1729
01:28:32,439 --> 01:28:37,160
Speaker 1: I love a dad body. Explain Explain your your definition

1730
01:28:37,160 --> 01:28:39,080
Speaker 1: of a dad bod. Please I don't like guys with

1731
01:28:39,240 --> 01:28:42,920
Speaker 1: muscles because it makes me feel intimidated, um, very like

1732
01:28:43,000 --> 01:28:44,400
Speaker 1: too much, and it makes me feel like I gotta

1733
01:28:44,439 --> 01:28:46,080
Speaker 1: go to the gym. I want to. I want to

1734
01:28:46,080 --> 01:28:48,080
Speaker 1: go with a little bit of like stomach so that

1735
01:28:48,160 --> 01:28:50,080
Speaker 1: if I lay with him, it feels comfortable, like a

1736
01:28:50,160 --> 01:28:53,680
Speaker 1: soft pillow, Like a little soft pillow. I don't like

1737
01:28:53,800 --> 01:28:56,160
Speaker 1: hard rocks. Why does it matter if somebody else goes

1738
01:28:56,200 --> 01:28:57,599
Speaker 1: to the gym and you dumb? I guess I could

1739
01:28:57,600 --> 01:29:00,439
Speaker 1: see if someone's like super fitness oriented. It's not really

1740
01:29:00,479 --> 01:29:02,360
Speaker 1: how they look, because some people just look fit and

1741
01:29:02,400 --> 01:29:04,200
Speaker 1: they don't have to do anything for it. I think

1742
01:29:04,240 --> 01:29:06,760
Speaker 1: it's more the lifestyle that would intimidate me. Like those

1743
01:29:06,800 --> 01:29:09,000
Speaker 1: people and it's not intimidate me. But it's like if

1744
01:29:09,040 --> 01:29:10,800
Speaker 1: I were dating somebody and they were getting up every

1745
01:29:10,840 --> 01:29:13,439
Speaker 1: single morning and working out or you know, and going

1746
01:29:13,520 --> 01:29:16,120
Speaker 1: for runs every day and doing all this athletic stuff,

1747
01:29:16,120 --> 01:29:18,160
Speaker 1: and then I won't do that. That would probably make

1748
01:29:18,200 --> 01:29:21,360
Speaker 1: me feel insecure because I would just feel lazy. But

1749
01:29:21,439 --> 01:29:22,960
Speaker 1: I don't know that I would look at somebody and

1750
01:29:23,080 --> 01:29:26,000
Speaker 1: feel like, you know, a certain kind of way, because again,

1751
01:29:26,880 --> 01:29:29,040
Speaker 1: some people just are able to they have the metabolism

1752
01:29:29,080 --> 01:29:31,280
Speaker 1: to stay skinny all the time. But it's the activity

1753
01:29:31,320 --> 01:29:32,840
Speaker 1: that would bother me because I would feel like I

1754
01:29:32,880 --> 01:29:35,000
Speaker 1: should be doing it too, you know what I mean.

1755
01:29:35,040 --> 01:29:37,479
Speaker 1: I would also feel like it's a it's a subtle nudge,

1756
01:29:38,040 --> 01:29:39,800
Speaker 1: Like if you know, I'm dating somebody who's running every

1757
01:29:39,840 --> 01:29:41,800
Speaker 1: single morning, I think they're probably saying to me, get

1758
01:29:41,840 --> 01:29:45,320
Speaker 1: your fat ass up and run as well, And maybe

1759
01:29:45,360 --> 01:29:47,320
Speaker 1: that would motivate me to do it, you know, because

1760
01:29:47,360 --> 01:29:49,280
Speaker 1: they're already doing it. So it's like, you know, But

1761
01:29:49,360 --> 01:29:50,760
Speaker 1: at the same time, I don't. I don't think it's

1762
01:29:51,479 --> 01:29:54,400
Speaker 1: the way people look that would intimidate me. But everyone

1763
01:29:54,479 --> 01:29:57,760
Speaker 1: loves the dad bud. Men do feel judge for having them.

1764
01:29:58,439 --> 01:30:01,360
Speaker 1: Dad bonds exude confidence. Apparently, four out of five women

1765
01:30:01,640 --> 01:30:03,160
Speaker 1: believe that a dad bods a sign of a man

1766
01:30:03,200 --> 01:30:05,880
Speaker 1: who's confident in his own skin, no need for six

1767
01:30:06,000 --> 01:30:11,040
Speaker 1: pack abs. It's the preferred body type. Happy dad, happy marriage.

1768
01:30:11,240 --> 01:30:13,800
Speaker 1: All these are all results of this study. More than

1769
01:30:13,880 --> 01:30:16,320
Speaker 1: three and five Americans agree that men with dad bods

1770
01:30:16,360 --> 01:30:18,719
Speaker 1: have happier marriages. Also, it's the sign of a family

1771
01:30:18,800 --> 01:30:23,760
Speaker 1: man like that. In relating studies, not really, And this

1772
01:30:23,880 --> 01:30:26,879
Speaker 1: one's for you, Christie People who send texts a sexts

1773
01:30:27,200 --> 01:30:30,760
Speaker 1: rather sexually explicit text messages, photographs the video with their

1774
01:30:30,800 --> 01:30:36,160
Speaker 1: phone tend to have dark personality traits. International team of

1775
01:30:36,200 --> 01:30:39,080
Speaker 1: researchers conducted surveys of more than six thousand people across

1776
01:30:39,080 --> 01:30:41,559
Speaker 1: eleven countries. They linked to the habit of sending sexts

1777
01:30:42,000 --> 01:30:44,799
Speaker 1: to two personality traits that make up for the famous

1778
01:30:44,960 --> 01:30:53,360
Speaker 1: dark triad psychological model, narcissism and macavelianism. Narcissism characterized by grandiosity, pride, egotism,

1779
01:30:53,439 --> 01:30:58,000
Speaker 1: and lack of empathy. Macavelianism, characterized by manipulation and exploitation

1780
01:30:58,080 --> 01:31:02,080
Speaker 1: of others, also linked to cynical disregard from morality and

1781
01:31:02,120 --> 01:31:05,880
Speaker 1: to focus on self interest and deception. What if you're

1782
01:31:05,920 --> 01:31:08,360
Speaker 1: just horny? Yeah, this is a lie of a study.

1783
01:31:08,720 --> 01:31:10,920
Speaker 1: Like I'm a nice person, I might make dark jokes,

1784
01:31:11,040 --> 01:31:13,160
Speaker 1: but I send sex because I'm horny. But I also

1785
01:31:13,240 --> 01:31:18,680
Speaker 1: I think that they're I think, I think though, that

1786
01:31:18,800 --> 01:31:21,120
Speaker 1: there are people who are probably sending the pictures simply

1787
01:31:21,160 --> 01:31:22,760
Speaker 1: for the feedback they're going to get from. They're not

1788
01:31:22,920 --> 01:31:25,280
Speaker 1: doing it because they care about the other person getting

1789
01:31:25,360 --> 01:31:28,559
Speaker 1: getting excited. They're doing it because they expect a compliment

1790
01:31:28,680 --> 01:31:31,519
Speaker 1: in return, so they're doing it for them. If you

1791
01:31:31,600 --> 01:31:34,559
Speaker 1: don't compliment in return, that's kind of a bad move. Yeah,

1792
01:31:34,600 --> 01:31:40,000
Speaker 1: I mean you're just like okay, dark place, Yes, Malianism,

1793
01:31:40,680 --> 01:31:44,000
Speaker 1: ass lady will hurt you. No, that's what I But seriously,

1794
01:31:44,000 --> 01:31:47,880
Speaker 1: if you think about sometimes I get them unsolicited from people,

1795
01:31:47,920 --> 01:31:50,000
Speaker 1: and I'm like, wow, like, oh that's cool that you have.

1796
01:31:50,080 --> 01:31:52,400
Speaker 1: That's cool, and like maybe i'm you know, maybe that's

1797
01:31:52,400 --> 01:31:55,640
Speaker 1: air drop onto everybody in public. The motivates me. No,

1798
01:31:55,760 --> 01:31:57,439
Speaker 1: maybe it pumps me up. But I also think like

1799
01:31:57,920 --> 01:32:01,240
Speaker 1: motivate well. I mean, if you're just going about your

1800
01:32:01,360 --> 01:32:04,400
Speaker 1: day and someone who's attractive and who you are attracted

1801
01:32:04,439 --> 01:32:08,800
Speaker 1: to sends you a random hot picture or sends you

1802
01:32:08,880 --> 01:32:12,080
Speaker 1: a random suggestive messages. Now that message, now all of

1803
01:32:12,120 --> 01:32:13,920
Speaker 1: a sudden, I'm thinking about something else that could that

1804
01:32:14,000 --> 01:32:16,320
Speaker 1: could inspire some other kind of thoughts of behaviors in me,

1805
01:32:16,520 --> 01:32:18,040
Speaker 1: that gets you to work out, that gets you off

1806
01:32:18,080 --> 01:32:27,080
Speaker 1: the couch and starts running. No, right, No, yeah, yeah,

1807
01:32:27,120 --> 01:32:29,280
Speaker 1: I got a most location right, you're right, No, I

1808
01:32:29,360 --> 01:32:30,600
Speaker 1: did have to get up in move. If you're right,

1809
01:32:30,720 --> 01:32:32,360
Speaker 1: from wherever I was in public to wherever I need

1810
01:32:32,400 --> 01:32:38,320
Speaker 1: to be in pride. But I also I also think

1811
01:32:38,360 --> 01:32:43,560
Speaker 1: that un those were the days. I also think that

1812
01:32:43,640 --> 01:32:46,040
Speaker 1: unsolicited text messages are really about the other person. Though

1813
01:32:46,120 --> 01:32:47,639
Speaker 1: I can see this. I can see it being about

1814
01:32:47,800 --> 01:32:49,400
Speaker 1: I want you to tell me how hot I am.

1815
01:32:49,520 --> 01:32:51,120
Speaker 1: That's why I sent you this for me. It's like

1816
01:32:51,160 --> 01:32:53,120
Speaker 1: a power thing. It's like ha ha, get you to

1817
01:32:53,240 --> 01:33:00,840
Speaker 1: get a little hard. Who got you? Yeah? To you? Okay,

1818
01:33:01,080 --> 01:33:04,519
Speaker 1: Now you're in a meeting. Okay, but then see you go.

1819
01:33:04,640 --> 01:33:06,920
Speaker 1: It's it's for your thrill. It's not I'm e meeting it.

1820
01:33:06,920 --> 01:33:08,519
Speaker 1: But I don't need someone. I don't send pictures really,

1821
01:33:08,560 --> 01:33:09,960
Speaker 1: but I don't need someone to tell me I'm hot.

1822
01:33:10,040 --> 01:33:13,200
Speaker 1: I just I'm like, gody, Okay, well, I mean you're

1823
01:33:13,280 --> 01:33:16,280
Speaker 1: you know, trust me. These shows, it's everyone in the meeting. Guys,

1824
01:33:19,200 --> 01:33:22,000
Speaker 1: that's just words. What do I care. They'd be like, yeah, yeah,

1825
01:33:22,000 --> 01:33:24,960
Speaker 1: because he just words. Yeah, I like words. I'm a

1826
01:33:25,000 --> 01:33:29,360
Speaker 1: word smith. Never that's what it's always saying about you.

1827
01:33:29,680 --> 01:33:31,840
Speaker 1: They're saying that you're you're the Shakespeare of sex thing.

1828
01:33:31,880 --> 01:33:33,800
Speaker 1: That's what they say about you. Literally, I'm good with

1829
01:33:33,880 --> 01:33:36,880
Speaker 1: my words. Be surprised. Well read the last sex that

1830
01:33:36,960 --> 01:33:40,040
Speaker 1: you sent. I'm not gonna do that. They're filthy? Will

1831
01:33:40,080 --> 01:33:42,519
Speaker 1: you do them on the podcast? No, you will not

1832
01:33:42,640 --> 01:33:44,599
Speaker 1: read to us the sex that you've sent. We don't

1833
01:33:44,600 --> 01:33:47,280
Speaker 1: know who they're too. Oh that doesn't really matter. They're

1834
01:33:47,320 --> 01:33:49,920
Speaker 1: like filthy. Well, I know, but that's why we like

1835
01:33:49,920 --> 01:33:51,240
Speaker 1: to That's what we want to hear. I mean, you're

1836
01:33:51,280 --> 01:33:54,000
Speaker 1: you're over here bragging about how you're you're a word smith,

1837
01:33:54,120 --> 01:33:59,439
Speaker 1: sorry about your luck. You'll never find out out I know,

1838
01:34:00,080 --> 01:34:02,280
Speaker 1: and right she says she'll never send you a sex

1839
01:34:02,400 --> 01:34:07,320
Speaker 1: friend what my co worker, I didn't hear that. Yeah,

1840
01:34:07,479 --> 01:34:12,840
Speaker 1: I sment weird. That's fine. I consider myself a bit

1841
01:34:12,840 --> 01:34:17,080
Speaker 1: of a Shakespeare the sex thing as well. Oh yeah absolutely.

1842
01:34:18,240 --> 01:34:33,920
Speaker 1: I who sent you? The who sent you? My last

1843
01:34:34,000 --> 01:34:38,040
Speaker 1: sex show? Three five Kids FM, Chicago number one hit

1844
01:34:38,160 --> 01:34:40,479
Speaker 1: music station. The friend show is. Do you guys have

1845
01:34:40,680 --> 01:34:43,200
Speaker 1: any of your toys from when you were children? Did

1846
01:34:43,240 --> 01:34:45,200
Speaker 1: your parents save any of that stuff? I know you

1847
01:34:45,400 --> 01:34:49,760
Speaker 1: your bedroom is basically still your bulls the Chicago Bulls Shrine. Right,

1848
01:34:49,960 --> 01:34:51,800
Speaker 1: uh huh? Like in your home, you're I still have

1849
01:34:52,400 --> 01:34:55,280
Speaker 1: your little kids locker. I got my Michael Jordan posters

1850
01:34:55,320 --> 01:34:57,679
Speaker 1: on the wall. Um, are you gonna give all that stuff?

1851
01:34:57,680 --> 01:35:04,599
Speaker 1: To Ashland put it in his room if Jessel yes, okay,

1852
01:35:04,640 --> 01:35:07,160
Speaker 1: so probably not then, but you should save this stuff,

1853
01:35:07,200 --> 01:35:09,080
Speaker 1: I guess, because I feel like there are stories about

1854
01:35:09,120 --> 01:35:11,000
Speaker 1: this every few months, about all the toys from the

1855
01:35:11,560 --> 01:35:14,960
Speaker 1: nineties and uh eighties and nineties that are worth something. Now,

1856
01:35:15,000 --> 01:35:17,360
Speaker 1: for example, there's one beating maybe and this isn't the

1857
01:35:17,520 --> 01:35:21,040
Speaker 1: this isn't the Princess I one that's worth fifty grand?

1858
01:35:21,200 --> 01:35:24,519
Speaker 1: Which one? Um? Which one? Is it a chameleon? Is

1859
01:35:24,560 --> 01:35:28,519
Speaker 1: how you say it? Chameleon? Chameleon million? Yeah, chamelion that's

1860
01:35:28,560 --> 01:35:33,920
Speaker 1: a hard word for me to say. A chamellionaire. Yeah, yeah, chamellionaire.

1861
01:35:35,200 --> 01:35:39,880
Speaker 1: Chon right, fifty thousand dollars for this thing? Is that

1862
01:35:40,040 --> 01:35:42,519
Speaker 1: the chameleon? Yeah, that's what it is. Okay, that's what

1863
01:35:42,560 --> 01:35:44,519
Speaker 1: it looks like, at least, like I guess. I'm looking

1864
01:35:44,560 --> 01:35:46,560
Speaker 1: at a picture of it. One. Yeah, I have the

1865
01:35:46,640 --> 01:35:50,840
Speaker 1: Chamellionaire one h Yeah, that one. Yeah. But do you

1866
01:35:50,920 --> 01:35:55,200
Speaker 1: have the collectible car that he stole too? Yeah? There

1867
01:35:55,200 --> 01:35:57,400
Speaker 1: weren't many of those. I have it, and I still

1868
01:35:57,439 --> 01:35:59,479
Speaker 1: have the tag on it too. Then your sister ripped

1869
01:35:59,479 --> 01:36:00,960
Speaker 1: the tag off one that was supposed to be worth

1870
01:36:00,960 --> 01:36:03,160
Speaker 1: a bunch of money. I will literally never forget her

1871
01:36:03,240 --> 01:36:06,200
Speaker 1: for that. Yes, I had I had the right Princess Diwan,

1872
01:36:06,240 --> 01:36:07,800
Speaker 1: and she ripped the tag right in half, so now

1873
01:36:07,840 --> 01:36:11,560
Speaker 1: it is worth nothing. Um this Golden Eye Double O

1874
01:36:11,760 --> 01:36:15,519
Speaker 1: seven Super Nintendo game which I think I have. Golden

1875
01:36:15,640 --> 01:36:18,639
Speaker 1: Eye was the bomb. I have it, but I don't

1876
01:36:18,680 --> 01:36:20,800
Speaker 1: have the box or anything for it. But that's worth

1877
01:36:20,880 --> 01:36:23,000
Speaker 1: fifteen thousand dollars. I guess that's where that was, like

1878
01:36:23,080 --> 01:36:25,800
Speaker 1: the first like where you could play multiplayer and you

1879
01:36:25,920 --> 01:36:29,519
Speaker 1: find the Golden Gun. It's it's yeah. I'm always confused

1880
01:36:29,520 --> 01:36:32,360
Speaker 1: about these lists though, because sometimes they put what it's

1881
01:36:32,400 --> 01:36:34,920
Speaker 1: worth based on what it's selling for on eBay, but

1882
01:36:35,000 --> 01:36:36,640
Speaker 1: not what it's sold for. Do you know what I mean?

1883
01:36:37,439 --> 01:36:39,320
Speaker 1: People are listing it as as opposed to who's a

1884
01:36:39,720 --> 01:36:42,040
Speaker 1: good point. This is from nineteen ninety three. The game

1885
01:36:42,360 --> 01:36:45,360
Speaker 1: was new then and says the biggest sale was for

1886
01:36:45,520 --> 01:36:48,400
Speaker 1: Golden Eye Double O seven on Nintendo sixty four. It's

1887
01:36:48,439 --> 01:36:51,439
Speaker 1: sold in the fall of twenty twenty for a dollar

1888
01:36:51,600 --> 01:36:55,760
Speaker 1: under fifteen thousand. I guess home alone merchandise is is

1889
01:36:55,960 --> 01:36:58,200
Speaker 1: a big really too, Like I had remember that talk

1890
01:36:58,280 --> 01:37:00,040
Speaker 1: boy that he has, I have it I did. I

1891
01:37:00,360 --> 01:37:02,680
Speaker 1: have it in at my current house right now. I

1892
01:37:02,760 --> 01:37:05,439
Speaker 1: did to the Tiger Deluxe talk Boy have it? He

1893
01:37:05,600 --> 01:37:12,400
Speaker 1: had one of those in the moments stop playing with

1894
01:37:13,120 --> 01:37:15,679
Speaker 1: is I guess? Maven? Is Maven? Where they sell toys?

1895
01:37:15,800 --> 01:37:18,559
Speaker 1: Is that? Is that like a place anyway? Ten thousand

1896
01:37:18,600 --> 01:37:21,439
Speaker 1: dollars what they were thirty bucks new and they sell

1897
01:37:21,520 --> 01:37:24,360
Speaker 1: for up to ten thousand dollars. Works and everything's gonna

1898
01:37:24,400 --> 01:37:26,160
Speaker 1: push ash on to the floor. Get out of that time.

1899
01:37:26,200 --> 01:37:29,120
Speaker 1: That's my toy, Maven. I'm looking at what it is.

1900
01:37:29,160 --> 01:37:33,800
Speaker 1: There's a ten thousand dollars Furby box. Those you put

1901
01:37:33,840 --> 01:37:35,600
Speaker 1: them out the garage? Is it gonna talking? Yeah? I

1902
01:37:35,720 --> 01:37:38,519
Speaker 1: started swearing because my mom used colored language around it

1903
01:37:38,600 --> 01:37:40,200
Speaker 1: and we had to hide it in the laundry room.

1904
01:37:40,520 --> 01:37:46,719
Speaker 1: Oh I see, yeah, anyway, say what you said, Yancy Furby.

1905
01:37:47,120 --> 01:37:49,320
Speaker 1: I did the same one. Everyone else has a seventy

1906
01:37:49,320 --> 01:37:53,840
Speaker 1: one hundred dollars American Girl doll. I always wanted American Girl,

1907
01:37:54,000 --> 01:37:59,160
Speaker 1: always wanted one. The escape Slave Addie Walker. Yeah, that's

1908
01:37:59,240 --> 01:38:04,679
Speaker 1: the one. Yeah, she's an American Girl. Molly don't Yeah,

1909
01:38:04,680 --> 01:38:07,760
Speaker 1: I don't know anyway. There's all these toys. Yeah, they're

1910
01:38:07,800 --> 01:38:10,920
Speaker 1: all characters. In history Pokemon cards. I have so many

1911
01:38:11,000 --> 01:38:14,200
Speaker 1: Pokemon cards. Well, you probably got like a super Charsard

1912
01:38:14,880 --> 01:38:18,519
Speaker 1: Rare the whole binder. You should do. You should just

1913
01:38:18,560 --> 01:38:20,240
Speaker 1: get one of those cards because I don't I wouldn't

1914
01:38:20,240 --> 01:38:25,280
Speaker 1: know the difference, and then make a necklace like uh like, yeah,

1915
01:38:25,360 --> 01:38:27,680
Speaker 1: pretty sick. I actually I don't like him, but I

1916
01:38:27,760 --> 01:38:29,920
Speaker 1: thought that was cool. A thirty thousand dollars or is

1917
01:38:29,960 --> 01:38:32,320
Speaker 1: it thirty or three hundred thousand dollars cards? Anyway, he

1918
01:38:32,360 --> 01:38:34,360
Speaker 1: worried around and like in case in plastic around his

1919
01:38:34,439 --> 01:38:36,760
Speaker 1: neck and wore that around as a flax. Yeah, most

1920
01:38:36,840 --> 01:38:39,360
Speaker 1: people wouldn't know if you made it look all fancy

1921
01:38:39,400 --> 01:38:41,680
Speaker 1: that it was only like a you know, twenty set one.

1922
01:38:42,120 --> 01:38:43,640
Speaker 1: But then you know, you need find out one kid

1923
01:38:43,680 --> 01:38:48,160
Speaker 1: that would be like you. Poser one has a Pikacher.

1924
01:38:48,200 --> 01:38:50,080
Speaker 1: What are you talking about? It thinks in mass production

1925
01:38:50,160 --> 01:38:52,320
Speaker 1: you mora and you get custed out by an eighth grader.

1926
01:38:52,800 --> 01:38:54,080
Speaker 1: So I guess the moral of the story is that

1927
01:38:54,160 --> 01:38:56,280
Speaker 1: you should take all your kids toy That's the other

1928
01:38:56,320 --> 01:38:58,320
Speaker 1: problem is it was supposed to be like buy doubles

1929
01:38:58,360 --> 01:39:00,599
Speaker 1: of everything. Yeah, but all these toys are as, they're

1930
01:39:00,640 --> 01:39:03,479
Speaker 1: so mass producers. Now they are, yeah, but like so

1931
01:39:03,760 --> 01:39:06,800
Speaker 1: they were mass producers time machine back to nineteen eighty

1932
01:39:06,800 --> 01:39:08,519
Speaker 1: and buy doubles of everything. No, I'm just saying, like,

1933
01:39:08,640 --> 01:39:10,800
Speaker 1: now you would buy doubles of everything that That's why

1934
01:39:10,840 --> 01:39:13,040
Speaker 1: I don't understand. Like when I got a toy, I

1935
01:39:13,880 --> 01:39:15,640
Speaker 1: ripped that sucker open, I played with it. Yeah, I

1936
01:39:15,680 --> 01:39:17,960
Speaker 1: did too, Like you know, I wasn't like, well, let

1937
01:39:18,000 --> 01:39:21,639
Speaker 1: me just be like just save this something someday. Well

1938
01:39:21,680 --> 01:39:23,560
Speaker 1: that's the other problem is the other biggest racket in

1939
01:39:23,560 --> 01:39:25,799
Speaker 1: the world were sports cards, and I even my parents

1940
01:39:25,880 --> 01:39:27,760
Speaker 1: bawned into the idea that I was spending money on

1941
01:39:27,800 --> 01:39:30,240
Speaker 1: something that would be worth something someday. Even my parents

1942
01:39:30,280 --> 01:39:32,240
Speaker 1: were I'm i gonna say they were frugal, they were

1943
01:39:32,280 --> 01:39:35,360
Speaker 1: responsible spenders. And even they were like, Okay, yeah, you

1944
01:39:35,400 --> 01:39:37,760
Speaker 1: should earn money and go buy these these basketball cards

1945
01:39:37,800 --> 01:39:39,280
Speaker 1: because they're gonna be worth something some day. I think

1946
01:39:39,280 --> 01:39:41,439
Speaker 1: I have like ninety million that are worth like five

1947
01:39:41,520 --> 01:39:45,280
Speaker 1: dollars cumulatively, like all of them like collectively, So I'm

1948
01:39:45,360 --> 01:39:47,679
Speaker 1: not going to be able to retire on my Shaquille

1949
01:39:47,680 --> 01:39:52,120
Speaker 1: O'Neil Rookie card. Yeah. Yeah. Well, and Glenn Big Dog

1950
01:39:52,240 --> 01:39:54,519
Speaker 1: Robinson is put all three together, we can go to

1951
01:39:54,600 --> 01:39:59,080
Speaker 1: like uh McDonald yeah yeah, and then I can still

1952
01:39:59,120 --> 01:40:03,639
Speaker 1: pay group. It would take the money. I think Fred

1953
01:40:03,720 --> 01:40:03,960
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