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Speaker 2: We rolling. If you need a person, get Pam.

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Speaker 3: Shut up at the man. Pam was like a dick

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Speaker 4: No, my issue is that it wasn't my eye, it

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we didn't meet. Paying Pam wherever you are. It's

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Speaker 4: I like the collection was paid to the wrong collection

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Speaker 1: I spoke to Mitch pat herself and she told me

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Speaker 3: Yes, Pam was like a dick boy. I'd be like,

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Speaker 3: how do you get me on these ship and this stuff? No,

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Speaker 3: no offense, But I've never I don't watch podcasts.

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Speaker 1: I love it. I love the fact that you have

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Speaker 2: You know, when I walked the house, like, okay, two

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Speaker 3: Here, just the other hosts. Okay yah, she confused me

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Speaker 4: I'm very happy that you separated us. That makes you

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Speaker 3: I know about you, Ginger, y'all burn that's one white person.

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Speaker 3: That's the best way that I was burning.

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Speaker 1: I know about this. I know I had CD some

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Speaker 1: good old gun and rear balls selling one week. That

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Speaker 1: ship is gone. We are enjoying today by the talented,

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Speaker 1: the funny comedian actress Miss pat Thank you for coming back.

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Speaker 4: Welcome, welcome, and I love that you had to run

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Speaker 3: Going down the stairs was gross and nasty, but coming

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Speaker 2: My chest was burned. I was like, damn, what the

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Speaker 2: Apart who that? I mean, everything was burning my.

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Speaker 3: I was so glad I had on two paints, a

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Speaker 4: They only helped you up the steps because it's an

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Speaker 3: Yeah, well, I don't live here, So that's gonna work

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Speaker 1: Pat, that got you New York working. How's the city

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Speaker 1: You new York is New York? Because said where you live?

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Speaker 1: You said Atlanta. I would never live nowhere else, Atlanta

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Speaker 2: This is a you know, New York got great food,

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Speaker 1: Too many.

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Speaker 3: I mean, y'all bombs be talking to everybody. My bomb stated.

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Speaker 3: They said, yeah, there's a person, this.

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Speaker 4: You, thought Pam. Butked you with that homeles first year

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Speaker 1: Yes, man, Pam. I'm thankful for Pam.

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Speaker 2: I'm sorry I mistake you for an unginger white man.

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Speaker 1: We're helpful when we're not burning in the sun or

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Speaker 3: But John hair that don't lay down. This dude got

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Speaker 4: So you're saying, metaphorically laid laid my my fit out.

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Speaker 4: You're saying a black woman laid my foot out today. No,

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Speaker 4: Trying to get to the industry where the black women were,

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Speaker 3: I say, hey, and buy all of that because my

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Speaker 3: so it's never gonna be equal.

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Speaker 1: You don't play, don't don't you say? You guys found

442
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Speaker 1: out about that. Yeah, we showed that always keeping her

443
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Speaker 1: a secaret. Why you say that you're in the DEI.

444
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Speaker 3: So, I mean I understood her argument, and in some

445
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Speaker 3: places I agree with her, But you know, that was

446
00:21:13,640 --> 00:21:15,920
Speaker 3: her fight. That wasn't at the time, that wasn't happening

447
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Speaker 3: to me. But I'm glad she spoke up about it,

448
00:21:18,359 --> 00:21:20,680
Speaker 3: because this is an industry. If you let it walk

449
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Speaker 3: over you, it would truly walk over you. You know,

450
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Speaker 3: people telling them on New York you shouldn't be talking

451
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Speaker 3: about this. I say, if you feel like you're not

452
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Speaker 3: being treated right, then speak up. So if you don't

453
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Speaker 3: speak up, you're gonna forever get stepped on. That wasn't

454
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Speaker 3: my fight. I haven't experienced that as far as I

455
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Speaker 3: can think. Because if you come to me with a price,

456
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Speaker 3: I'm gonna come back to you and say, ask for

457
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Speaker 3: this and keep asking for this. And I'm at a

458
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Speaker 3: position now where and I'm blessed where I can say no,

459
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Speaker 3: I don't want to do that.

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Speaker 1: It ain't about the money. I don't want to do that.

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Speaker 2: And I say that all the time.

462
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Speaker 1: Yeah, I just want to make clear that's not paying, right, No,

463
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Speaker 1: that is my thank God.

464
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Speaker 4: Me a second we were saying all that she was

465
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Speaker 4: on the phone. She hasn't an answer, and she wanted

466
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Speaker 4: to make sure that that wasn't paying for everything that

467
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Speaker 4: we just had because I thought she was emailing some

468
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Speaker 4: hr company and she was quiet in the course. I

469
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Speaker 4: just want to make sure that was not paying. And

470
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Speaker 4: we said that behind her back because I know she's

471
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Speaker 4: not gonna listen. List what parment is my pr person,

472
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Speaker 4: that's my assistant, that guy with miss pat settles it.

473
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Speaker 4: That's out now when it's coming right. What was your

474
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Speaker 4: favorite case?

475
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Speaker 1: Just like as a.

476
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Speaker 3: Teaser, obviously, don't have to give away everything. What was

477
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Speaker 3: your favorite case going into the season. I think did

478
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Speaker 3: you even settle it? I think it was my kids.

479
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Speaker 3: My kids ended up on there, yes with the stuts. No, no,

480
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Speaker 3: it's my gay daughter and my fat son. And so

481
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Speaker 3: my gay daughter took my son to the script club,

482
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Speaker 3: but he didn't have no money, so she gave him

483
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Speaker 3: money to throw at the scriptles and she wanted her

484
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Speaker 3: money back, five hundred dollars and he never paid it back.

485
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Speaker 1: What you happened for real?

486
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Speaker 3: And they had been arguing about this money for over

487
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Speaker 3: a year and a case fell out and it was like,

488
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Speaker 3: do you have a case? And they told him and

489
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Speaker 3: they didn't even tell me they was gonna be on

490
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Speaker 3: the show. And they walk in and I'm thinking, like,

491
00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:06,879
Speaker 3: both of y'all owe me money? Well they hell, I'm

492
00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 3: gonna look like give you some money because I had

493
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Speaker 3: just paid for my daughter teeth to get done and

494
00:23:11,640 --> 00:23:13,480
Speaker 3: she didn't pay me for that. And I'm always helping

495
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Speaker 3: my son out. So I just threw the case out.

496
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Speaker 1: That's a good mom right there.

497
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Speaker 4: Yeah, you know I would make the case with the

498
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Speaker 4: like all right, you got the daughter, the teeth, give

499
00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:22,760
Speaker 4: me some lippo?

500
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Speaker 1: Who need leightpo my fat son? Oh the fat son?

501
00:23:27,800 --> 00:23:29,080
Speaker 1: No you don't.

502
00:23:28,600 --> 00:23:35,960
Speaker 3: He need a new joystick for his game. He forty

503
00:23:36,040 --> 00:23:37,840
Speaker 3: years old and all he do and play the game.

504
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Speaker 3: He said he wanted to be a screamer. I said, sir,

505
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Speaker 3: you're forty years old. Nobody wants to look at you.

506
00:23:43,640 --> 00:23:45,800
Speaker 3: They gonna scream when they see your big black ass

507
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:50,440
Speaker 3: on this screaming system. He wait till he gets forty

508
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Speaker 3: years old. Cocaine or coy sit whatever that little kid name.

509
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Speaker 1: You know man, All the.

510
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Speaker 3: Broke nigroes think they can get rich by streaming. Oh,

511
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Speaker 3: he cornered the mark. Y'all it's over. You're gonna have

512
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Speaker 3: to go do something else. My son even tried to

513
00:24:03,800 --> 00:24:06,240
Speaker 3: get on screaming with his shirt off. And I'm strolling

514
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Speaker 3: one now. He had one work. He had two people

515
00:24:08,640 --> 00:24:10,720
Speaker 3: looking at him, Me and somebody else got.

516
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Speaker 1: To stand out. Why he ain't posted? Two people like,

517
00:24:15,000 --> 00:24:16,920
Speaker 1: why he ain't post my do't post my link?

518
00:24:17,440 --> 00:24:20,560
Speaker 2: I was killing him, right, take your fat ass back.

519
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Speaker 1: You started picked up fast ship.

520
00:24:22,520 --> 00:24:25,200
Speaker 3: I'm all in the comments, right, you ain't got no job,

521
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Speaker 3: your big black bitch.

522
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Speaker 1: I'm killing him. He blocked me.

523
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Speaker 4: It's only subscriber, his only Oh what was he streaming?

524
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Speaker 1: He was just playing this.

525
00:24:37,920 --> 00:24:40,960
Speaker 2: He was playing video game with everybody else with you.

526
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Speaker 1: Everybody know him.

527
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Speaker 3: It's my min passing funk out. He got get out

528
00:24:44,680 --> 00:24:46,200
Speaker 3: this game. He need to go look for John.

529
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Speaker 1: I know that's your son. Well, the people on the head,

530
00:24:49,400 --> 00:24:50,200
Speaker 1: it's only two people.

531
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Speaker 3: The people playing the game knew I was He knew

532
00:24:55,280 --> 00:24:57,159
Speaker 3: he was my son. He oh them to tell everybody

533
00:24:57,359 --> 00:24:57,800
Speaker 3: their mama.

534
00:24:57,960 --> 00:25:00,800
Speaker 1: Oh my god. How's bt Tree? How how's the business

535
00:25:00,800 --> 00:25:02,960
Speaker 1: over there? It's great, you know, it's great.

536
00:25:03,000 --> 00:25:05,840
Speaker 3: I've been over there for five seasons, so it's it's

537
00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:06,600
Speaker 3: been really good.

538
00:25:07,119 --> 00:25:08,119
Speaker 1: I don't have any problem.

539
00:25:08,280 --> 00:25:10,200
Speaker 3: But I don't have no problem nowhere I go because

540
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:10,880
Speaker 3: I speak up.

541
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Speaker 1: Yeah, what's what's the difference between the two shows?

542
00:25:14,440 --> 00:25:17,600
Speaker 2: One is a sitcom and one is more like as.

543
00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:19,480
Speaker 1: Far as like the process and how that works. Oh,

544
00:25:19,600 --> 00:25:20,159
Speaker 1: it takes me.

545
00:25:20,359 --> 00:25:23,119
Speaker 3: It takes me two weeks to shoot Miss Pat settles it,

546
00:25:23,400 --> 00:25:25,840
Speaker 3: and it takes me two to three months to shoot

547
00:25:25,840 --> 00:25:28,680
Speaker 3: the Miss Pat show because it's a sitcom in front

548
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Speaker 3: of a live studio audience.

549
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Speaker 1: Okay, Oh, we have to get for the next season.

550
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Speaker 1: We got to be in a live studio.

551
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Speaker 5: Yah.

552
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:35,680
Speaker 1: We got to pull up to pull up. You know what.

553
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:40,679
Speaker 3: It's like a backyard celebration. Have so much fun we have,

554
00:25:40,840 --> 00:25:43,600
Speaker 3: I mean, and the episodes will be writing as you

555
00:25:43,640 --> 00:25:46,159
Speaker 3: know that some emotional, some is hilarious.

556
00:25:46,440 --> 00:25:48,520
Speaker 1: We try to touch on all kinds of stuff. This season.

557
00:25:48,560 --> 00:25:50,200
Speaker 1: We had an episode.

558
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Speaker 3: About immigration, which was very touching, and so you know,

559
00:25:56,720 --> 00:25:58,560
Speaker 3: we had all kinds of things going on this year.

560
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:00,920
Speaker 3: So make sure y'all tune in when I give y'all

561
00:26:00,920 --> 00:26:03,359
Speaker 3: a data when Miss Pat's show is dropping. How did

562
00:26:03,440 --> 00:26:06,720
Speaker 3: y'all take the immigration angle? I don't want to give

563
00:26:06,720 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 3: it away. Absolutely, I'm not your baby mama, you ain't slip.

564
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:21,080
Speaker 4: I'm saying that the Gaze infiltrated Atlanta. That was the immigration,

565
00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:23,880
Speaker 4: the Gaze. They came from Atlanta.

566
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:24,639
Speaker 1: They run around.

567
00:26:25,040 --> 00:26:27,000
Speaker 2: You can't do nothing alone without the Gaze.

568
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Speaker 1: I love the game.

569
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Speaker 3: You know what I love about a gay man because

570
00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,520
Speaker 3: they do they make up better than women do they do?

571
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:37,760
Speaker 3: They do everything or woman supposed to do, but they

572
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Speaker 3: do it perfect.

573
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Speaker 1: Why do you think that is? I guess they have

574
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Speaker 1: more time to practice.

575
00:26:42,359 --> 00:26:45,159
Speaker 3: I don't know, but you go to those drag shows,

576
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:48,280
Speaker 3: you'd be like, damn that nigga look good. They have

577
00:26:48,480 --> 00:26:51,560
Speaker 3: be laid, they lashes, they know everything. They the ones

578
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Speaker 3: started the whole corsets thing. Bring your waist in. You

579
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Speaker 3: don't lift your boobs up high. They know pull, you know,

580
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Speaker 3: take the tape and pull your eyes back so you

581
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Speaker 3: can look twenty years younger. All of that came from

582
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583
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Speaker 2: I'm I'm lying.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he was grabbing the kid's tongue, but one of

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I didn't see that. Yeah, I mean that

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Speaker 1: wasn't in my past. You Irish, right, I mean you Catholic,

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Speaker 2: Black Church.

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Speaker 3: Somebody testified in the middle of the pastor they're back

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Speaker 3: here fucking with these kids. That's what happened at the

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659
00:30:44,400 --> 00:30:47,040
Speaker 3: But then you gotta be on all that medications because

660
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 3: you know they don't put black kids on all that medication.

661
00:30:49,520 --> 00:30:52,360
Speaker 3: We cret that ship right there and there. Yeah, that's

662
00:30:52,360 --> 00:30:55,560
Speaker 3: why you keep blinking your eye. Who touches you? Don't

663
00:30:55,600 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 3: listen to the show. I know, listen to the show.

664
00:30:58,800 --> 00:30:59,480
Speaker 1: You've been touched?

665
00:30:59,640 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, why is it every time we get a comedian

666
00:31:02,000 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 3: on here? I knew because I knew because he was

667
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 3: blinking out you know that's a that's help. That's a

668
00:31:13,360 --> 00:31:15,720
Speaker 3: y'all don't know, that's a sign that he needs some help.

669
00:31:15,920 --> 00:31:17,640
Speaker 4: I thought it was because I had a nice eyelashes.

670
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 3: No, but they be blinking like that. That means somebody,

671
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:24,760
Speaker 3: somebody messed up his equal liberty, his take off.

672
00:31:25,360 --> 00:31:28,040
Speaker 1: Not that ship, right you? I mean they're dead. Now.

673
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:31,360
Speaker 1: Who touched you? You want to tell his government name? No?

674
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:34,200
Speaker 1: Who was her government name? It was her. It was

675
00:31:34,240 --> 00:31:36,440
Speaker 1: a man and a woman. It was a wild day

676
00:31:37,360 --> 00:31:38,200
Speaker 1: at the same time.

677
00:31:38,440 --> 00:31:41,440
Speaker 3: No, it's different at the church. No, it was never

678
00:31:41,480 --> 00:31:45,040
Speaker 3: at the church. But they was affiliated for sure. Was

679
00:31:45,040 --> 00:31:46,760
Speaker 3: the black and white? They was white both.

680
00:31:48,200 --> 00:31:50,560
Speaker 1: Was he a priest? No, they weren't like part of

681
00:31:50,600 --> 00:31:50,960
Speaker 1: the church.

682
00:31:51,160 --> 00:31:52,240
Speaker 2: They was in your neighborhood.

683
00:31:52,320 --> 00:31:57,800
Speaker 1: Yeah. Did you tell anybody years later? No? No, Now

684
00:31:57,800 --> 00:31:59,760
Speaker 1: we talked about on the Podel's. It's like a running joke.

685
00:31:59,800 --> 00:32:00,440
Speaker 1: They just closed.

686
00:32:00,800 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 3: Was uh six and it is gonna not be a

687
00:32:05,040 --> 00:32:06,080
Speaker 3: joke at six and nine?

688
00:32:06,080 --> 00:32:08,400
Speaker 1: I want to say six and nine. Yeah, okay, it

689
00:32:08,440 --> 00:32:10,040
Speaker 1: could be wrong. Did you tell how long? Did it

690
00:32:10,080 --> 00:32:10,720
Speaker 1: go on for a while?

691
00:32:10,880 --> 00:32:10,960
Speaker 3: No?

692
00:32:11,040 --> 00:32:12,480
Speaker 4: I was just it was one and done. I wasn't

693
00:32:12,480 --> 00:32:15,640
Speaker 4: that good, So you had to sucker, dick. No, I

694
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,160
Speaker 4: didn't do that, thank you. Okay, thank god I held out.

695
00:32:20,800 --> 00:32:25,200
Speaker 4: He may have batted my ship around. I'm just trying

696
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:26,920
Speaker 4: to get to the bottom up. I'm trying to see

697
00:32:26,920 --> 00:32:31,880
Speaker 4: why he'd be blinking. Miss Pat is genuinely concerned. She's

698
00:32:31,920 --> 00:32:34,760
Speaker 4: not letting him so she just had another question.

699
00:32:37,080 --> 00:32:39,960
Speaker 3: Because I could tell he got child unless stationized.

700
00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:44,720
Speaker 1: Finally, everyone thinks this is me, Miss Pat. Finally I'm

701
00:32:44,720 --> 00:32:45,240
Speaker 1: being seen.

702
00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:48,959
Speaker 3: I appreciate you because at one point when I couldn't

703
00:32:48,960 --> 00:32:52,720
Speaker 3: talk about I bet too so so so they just so.

704
00:32:52,720 --> 00:32:55,440
Speaker 1: What they do? He just I mean, I'm not gonna

705
00:32:55,480 --> 00:32:57,040
Speaker 1: like getting the full details.

706
00:32:57,240 --> 00:32:59,160
Speaker 4: I will say, though, once I started talking about on

707
00:32:59,160 --> 00:33:00,640
Speaker 4: the show, felt better.

708
00:33:00,920 --> 00:33:01,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure.

709
00:33:02,560 --> 00:33:06,480
Speaker 4: I picked my pops up in Staten Island, New York,

710
00:33:07,080 --> 00:33:08,480
Speaker 4: and he had caught up on some episodes.

711
00:33:08,480 --> 00:33:15,560
Speaker 1: He was like, he was touched. Look, so did the

712
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:18,800
Speaker 1: lady trying to tell you this? Did the lady make

713
00:33:18,800 --> 00:33:21,640
Speaker 1: you suck a titty? Because she did too.

714
00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:25,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, and I thought it was cool, but I felt uncomfortable.

715
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:29,080
Speaker 3: Oh my god, you didn't need it.

716
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:35,360
Speaker 1: I didn't. I'm sorry you might have to bleek. Sorry,

717
00:33:35,560 --> 00:33:38,320
Speaker 1: I'm fine keeping on by the way, this is.

718
00:33:38,880 --> 00:33:41,320
Speaker 4: This is better than when I went to therapy. This

719
00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:45,680
Speaker 4: is better. She's genuinely no, I know she cared, but

720
00:33:46,120 --> 00:33:48,200
Speaker 4: I was touched. So I'm just asking.

721
00:33:48,280 --> 00:33:50,600
Speaker 3: I mean, and you know the great part about when,

722
00:33:50,720 --> 00:33:52,320
Speaker 3: no matter what you've been through in life, when you

723
00:33:52,360 --> 00:33:54,800
Speaker 3: can laugh about it, that means you have control of it.

724
00:33:55,080 --> 00:33:57,479
Speaker 3: And I'm not trying to be a mean person, but

725
00:33:57,520 --> 00:34:00,200
Speaker 3: I could tell something had happened to him. But because

726
00:34:00,200 --> 00:34:02,800
Speaker 3: he don't have no controls of here, I lead. So

727
00:34:02,920 --> 00:34:06,880
Speaker 3: I'm like, what is going on with him? No, you

728
00:34:06,920 --> 00:34:07,520
Speaker 3: don't understand.

729
00:34:07,560 --> 00:34:10,640
Speaker 4: I've been the years three this is the best I felt. Yes,

730
00:34:11,000 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 4: So she was like, oh all right, said yeah, because

731
00:34:14,520 --> 00:34:16,040
Speaker 4: I was like, I think he's been molisted.

732
00:34:16,080 --> 00:34:20,640
Speaker 3: That's what I said to myself, and that's why.

733
00:34:20,440 --> 00:34:22,400
Speaker 1: I asked you, you know, But yeah, I mean, you

734
00:34:22,520 --> 00:34:23,040
Speaker 1: over it now?

735
00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:25,760
Speaker 3: I'm over Oh yeah, I mean my my mama barfriend

736
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 3: molisted me. I can't ride in El Caminos. Thank god,

737
00:34:28,680 --> 00:34:33,279
Speaker 3: they don't make him no more. I went to, you're

738
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:37,880
Speaker 3: so fucking stupid laughing at everything. No, but this is

739
00:34:37,880 --> 00:34:40,040
Speaker 3: what they do to me. We have I g clips

740
00:34:40,080 --> 00:34:41,480
Speaker 3: of him laughing at me being touched.

741
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:44,040
Speaker 1: Like the fact that you just add to make him

742
00:34:44,120 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 1: laughing more laughing together. Yes, I can't write.

743
00:34:49,200 --> 00:34:56,000
Speaker 3: It fucking co spoking to me? You ever been molested

744
00:34:56,040 --> 00:35:03,960
Speaker 3: in the one seaton that been taking out of one seat?

745
00:35:04,200 --> 00:35:05,440
Speaker 3: We can't go nowhere?

746
00:35:06,120 --> 00:35:18,440
Speaker 1: That I should have had no choice. Yeah, most kids.

747
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:19,920
Speaker 3: Get me a lesson and a pick up trunk or

748
00:35:19,960 --> 00:35:24,879
Speaker 3: two seats one sees. But I'm glad you're talking about it.

749
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:28,440
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, somebody happened to you. Yeah, I'm glad you

750
00:35:28,480 --> 00:35:29,480
Speaker 3: didn't turn the other way.

751
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:32,759
Speaker 4: I've been talking about it for years and I ended

752
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:35,520
Speaker 4: up just a few years ago and going into couples therapy,

753
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,000
Speaker 4: and you know, in therapy, that's like the first fucking

754
00:35:38,040 --> 00:35:39,560
Speaker 4: question who was touched?

755
00:35:39,960 --> 00:35:42,320
Speaker 3: I was like, I'm trying to talk about this crazy bitch.

756
00:35:43,000 --> 00:35:46,200
Speaker 3: I'm oping that, Like I don't care about what happened?

757
00:35:46,239 --> 00:35:48,399
Speaker 3: Then can we please talk about what's going on now?

758
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,920
Speaker 3: So No, I'm happy I can laugh about it.

759
00:35:51,239 --> 00:35:53,800
Speaker 1: That affect your relationships? Yeah? Probably?

760
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:55,720
Speaker 3: Do you ever do do you have in a sexual

761
00:35:55,840 --> 00:35:59,279
Speaker 3: move and then somehow that older lady titty popping your

762
00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:01,080
Speaker 3: head and you can't finish sunk.

763
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:03,280
Speaker 1: In the TV? Uh?

764
00:36:03,320 --> 00:36:06,840
Speaker 4: Maybe it wasn't an attractive titty for the flashes that

765
00:36:06,880 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 4: I have during the entire thing.

766
00:36:08,800 --> 00:36:11,520
Speaker 1: It was a lot of the ship. Was it a

767
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:14,480
Speaker 1: lone titty? They were?

768
00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:14,759
Speaker 5: Oh?

769
00:36:14,920 --> 00:36:15,160
Speaker 1: Was she?

770
00:36:16,600 --> 00:36:20,840
Speaker 3: I was like nine, I would guess if he alone,

771
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:22,360
Speaker 3: she had to be in her forties.

772
00:36:22,400 --> 00:36:24,960
Speaker 2: Forties for sure, Yeah, because thirty two is still hold up.

773
00:36:25,120 --> 00:36:28,799
Speaker 4: I mean then there was one time with a babysitter,

774
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,279
Speaker 4: but like I was an active artist. It would be

775
00:36:31,320 --> 00:36:36,400
Speaker 4: technically molestation, but I was fine with the babysitters white.

776
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:38,040
Speaker 1: Yes, she was white.

777
00:36:38,880 --> 00:36:42,480
Speaker 4: Family member too, but not like a director your cousin. No,

778
00:36:42,520 --> 00:36:44,640
Speaker 4: I'm not fucked a cousin. You said it was a

779
00:36:44,640 --> 00:36:48,240
Speaker 4: family member, but like you know, like family, neighborhood family,

780
00:36:48,520 --> 00:36:51,880
Speaker 4: like my blood friend of the family from Queens.

781
00:36:52,480 --> 00:36:54,239
Speaker 3: Oh, I didn't know they get down like that up here.

782
00:36:54,440 --> 00:37:00,480
Speaker 3: Oh for sure, that's not like some Alabama shit too.

783
00:37:02,640 --> 00:37:05,400
Speaker 3: I'm sorry. Maybe I thought it was Alabama because you're white.

784
00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:09,600
Speaker 3: I had no idea it was. She think Rory is like.

785
00:37:09,640 --> 00:37:13,680
Speaker 1: Red white Nias from New York. He's from the hood, like.

786
00:37:15,520 --> 00:37:18,120
Speaker 3: You know, he told my cousins and long titties and

787
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:19,319
Speaker 3: fast you know.

788
00:37:20,280 --> 00:37:24,320
Speaker 1: Yeah, not long titties and family friends. I'm just saying

789
00:37:24,360 --> 00:37:26,640
Speaker 1: I just it sounded like the South Ship.

790
00:37:27,200 --> 00:37:29,480
Speaker 4: No, not at all, but somebody would considered like family

791
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:30,080
Speaker 4: friend type shit.

792
00:37:30,200 --> 00:37:33,520
Speaker 1: But she she was. Have you seen her? No, I

793
00:37:33,520 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 1: haven't seen her in a long long time. Okay.

794
00:37:36,719 --> 00:37:39,000
Speaker 4: I didn't even consider that me losing my virginity because

795
00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:40,560
Speaker 4: I didn't say to me losing my virginity when I

796
00:37:40,560 --> 00:37:42,880
Speaker 4: was fourteen, because I was probably who.

797
00:37:42,680 --> 00:37:46,200
Speaker 3: You lost it with. Uh, No, wonder you like black pussy.

798
00:37:46,200 --> 00:37:49,359
Speaker 3: It's so much white pussy they took. You know, I've

799
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:51,359
Speaker 3: never even gone down that path. Now, yeah, well they

800
00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:53,600
Speaker 3: all forced it on you, so it turned you off.

801
00:37:53,680 --> 00:37:55,080
Speaker 4: And now that I think about it, like when I

802
00:37:55,120 --> 00:37:57,399
Speaker 4: was growing up, the nicest people to me were black women.

803
00:37:57,560 --> 00:37:59,479
Speaker 4: He's actually more therapy than I think I've ever gotten.

804
00:37:59,520 --> 00:38:02,000
Speaker 4: I've never even and put those two. You can write

805
00:38:02,040 --> 00:38:04,920
Speaker 4: me a check, keep.

806
00:38:07,840 --> 00:38:07,920
Speaker 3: You.

807
00:38:08,280 --> 00:38:09,560
Speaker 1: I never even put and two together.

808
00:38:09,560 --> 00:38:12,480
Speaker 3: Then. Yeah, So that's probably why you attracted to black

809
00:38:12,520 --> 00:38:15,720
Speaker 3: people and black women because every time.

810
00:38:15,560 --> 00:38:18,520
Speaker 4: There was black people around when I was, I mean,

811
00:38:18,560 --> 00:38:24,879
Speaker 4: you didn't tell them about you, but they but black

812
00:38:24,920 --> 00:38:27,560
Speaker 4: people didn't last you know, I was never I think

813
00:38:27,760 --> 00:38:33,560
Speaker 4: mentally say a crazy sentence to say I'm person.

814
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:37,840
Speaker 3: So that's why you that's why you like black women

815
00:38:38,200 --> 00:38:41,359
Speaker 3: because white women threw it on you. So you were

816
00:38:41,400 --> 00:38:44,520
Speaker 3: like you took Yeah, they took your dick, so you

817
00:38:44,560 --> 00:38:46,120
Speaker 3: don't want no part of them.

818
00:38:46,200 --> 00:38:49,799
Speaker 1: Hmm yeah, I never even put it's funny. But she

819
00:38:49,800 --> 00:38:50,479
Speaker 1: makes a good point.

820
00:38:50,640 --> 00:38:53,239
Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm not even joking around. That might be the

821
00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:54,040
Speaker 4: most fair point.

822
00:38:55,040 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 1: I never thought about it. Maybe they was right. I

823
00:38:56,520 --> 00:38:59,399
Speaker 1: do have a fetish, maybe a fetish with what that's

824
00:38:59,400 --> 00:39:02,879
Speaker 1: always gonna Uh we're Joe twa women, which I don't.

825
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:04,799
Speaker 1: They say that he fetish ots black women.

826
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,560
Speaker 4: But every time I brought up, like how black women

827
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:09,280
Speaker 4: took care of me as a kid, like it's always

828
00:39:09,280 --> 00:39:10,160
Speaker 4: it's never been a.

829
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:12,960
Speaker 1: Sexual that they care you. You have a nanny.

830
00:39:13,480 --> 00:39:15,840
Speaker 4: No, I've lived with a Jamaican family when I was

831
00:39:15,840 --> 00:39:16,719
Speaker 4: fucking homeless.

832
00:39:16,760 --> 00:39:19,560
Speaker 3: Like oh okay, oh you oh you oh you want

833
00:39:19,600 --> 00:39:20,520
Speaker 3: them eminems?

834
00:39:27,000 --> 00:39:29,160
Speaker 2: You ain't no baron Trump, you are eminem.

835
00:39:30,120 --> 00:39:32,640
Speaker 1: For my ship got battered around. I had to get

836
00:39:32,640 --> 00:39:38,680
Speaker 1: out the house. I had to run away. Bless your

837
00:39:38,719 --> 00:39:43,680
Speaker 1: little I'm glad you're doing good. Really, I'm glad you're

838
00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:44,120
Speaker 1: doing good.

839
00:39:44,680 --> 00:39:46,960
Speaker 4: My eyes are still bad, not off I am. It's

840
00:39:46,960 --> 00:39:49,879
Speaker 4: slowed down since we got that out. Yeah, I feel

841
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:52,719
Speaker 4: better than I feel like I've been since slowed down.

842
00:39:53,200 --> 00:39:57,759
Speaker 3: Yeah, I thought he had Touret's earlier. I said, fuck

843
00:39:57,800 --> 00:40:01,320
Speaker 3: wrong with eyes, but I could tell that was trauma

844
00:40:01,440 --> 00:40:03,600
Speaker 3: behind is it's priul?

845
00:40:04,840 --> 00:40:07,920
Speaker 1: Yeah? Is fucking crazy? You were You weren't one of

846
00:40:07,960 --> 00:40:11,680
Speaker 1: the lucky ones? Oh my god, what you mean lucky ones?

847
00:40:12,120 --> 00:40:13,200
Speaker 3: That mean he's the only one of the couch that

848
00:40:13,239 --> 00:40:15,600
Speaker 3: has been a lesson. Yes, you haven't got a lesson

849
00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:16,120
Speaker 3: to the top.

850
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:20,000
Speaker 1: Oh okay, but I did read your story about it.

851
00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:23,840
Speaker 1: Ain't fun? Well no, I mean you know we're laughing

852
00:40:23,880 --> 00:40:25,480
Speaker 1: about it, and that's that's great that we can't. But no,

853
00:40:25,520 --> 00:40:28,920
Speaker 1: it's nothing fun about that. But that is the greatest

854
00:40:29,320 --> 00:40:31,319
Speaker 1: read I think Rory has ever gotten in his life.

855
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:33,520
Speaker 1: I don't know how you figured all of that out

856
00:40:33,560 --> 00:40:36,000
Speaker 1: just by blinking his eyes. But I'm a black mama.

857
00:40:36,080 --> 00:40:36,640
Speaker 1: We know ship.

858
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:38,799
Speaker 3: You know how you bring a Walmer home with your MoMA, Like, hey,

859
00:40:38,880 --> 00:40:40,759
Speaker 3: let me tell you that's a whole red down at

860
00:40:40,800 --> 00:40:44,840
Speaker 3: my house. A black mama can that got an STD

861
00:40:45,080 --> 00:40:46,879
Speaker 3: We can tell you right out that, We can tell

862
00:40:46,920 --> 00:40:48,239
Speaker 3: you read out the fucking map.

863
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:51,320
Speaker 1: You ain't gotten it red there? Yeah, I think I

864
00:40:51,400 --> 00:40:54,839
Speaker 1: think that is something that I think protecting me growing

865
00:40:54,880 --> 00:40:57,560
Speaker 1: up is that having a strong black mom. Yeah, definitely

866
00:40:57,640 --> 00:40:58,879
Speaker 1: what I'm saying because my mother was white.

867
00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:06,279
Speaker 4: That's why I'm like, you've great woman trying to well.

868
00:41:06,200 --> 00:41:08,440
Speaker 2: Let me say this. We're culturally different.

869
00:41:08,560 --> 00:41:11,880
Speaker 3: Soa when you're white, I think it's more free, you know,

870
00:41:12,000 --> 00:41:14,920
Speaker 3: like you don't have to have that talk. Nobody told you,

871
00:41:14,960 --> 00:41:16,520
Speaker 3: don't you go out there more for the door. When

872
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:18,840
Speaker 3: you go out that door, you make Black kids go

873
00:41:18,840 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 3: out the door, and they say, make sure your drawers

874
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:22,320
Speaker 3: are clean in case you get hit by a car.

875
00:41:22,400 --> 00:41:24,960
Speaker 3: We always were told that, I don't know why clean underway,

876
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:27,439
Speaker 3: it's important. If a nigga don't draw you thirty miles

877
00:41:27,480 --> 00:41:29,440
Speaker 3: down the street, my leg is shattered.

878
00:41:29,520 --> 00:41:34,160
Speaker 1: But with black.

879
00:41:35,680 --> 00:41:38,319
Speaker 3: Black parents always had to have a conversation with their

880
00:41:38,400 --> 00:41:41,200
Speaker 3: child and white parents have never had to have those

881
00:41:41,200 --> 00:41:45,200
Speaker 3: conversations with the police with don't do this, don't do this,

882
00:41:45,280 --> 00:41:47,960
Speaker 3: look over your shoulder, pay attention. So it's just different.

883
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:50,040
Speaker 3: It doesn't make your mama weak. It's just the things

884
00:41:50,040 --> 00:41:54,200
Speaker 3: that you that that y'all had to endure, that we

885
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:56,319
Speaker 3: had to endure that y'all didn't have to endure, so

886
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:58,840
Speaker 3: your life was a little more like a flower.

887
00:41:59,360 --> 00:41:59,960
Speaker 1: Do what I want to do.

888
00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:01,759
Speaker 3: Where he was with his mother. So let me talk

889
00:42:01,760 --> 00:42:03,799
Speaker 3: to you, little little john. You take your ass out

890
00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:05,640
Speaker 3: of the No, you look both way. Did anybody touch

891
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:07,839
Speaker 3: your drawers? You tell me, because I'm gonna killer nigga

892
00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:09,880
Speaker 3: for sucking on you. So that's what a black parents

893
00:42:09,920 --> 00:42:13,239
Speaker 3: tell me. Anybody touch you, I kill him. And when

894
00:42:13,280 --> 00:42:15,040
Speaker 3: I first got married to my husband, used to tell

895
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:16,600
Speaker 3: my daughter because that says not his daddy. I said,

896
00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:18,600
Speaker 3: let me tell you something. If this man ever touched you,

897
00:42:18,719 --> 00:42:20,319
Speaker 3: I want you to know that I would love I

898
00:42:20,360 --> 00:42:22,600
Speaker 3: love y'all way more than I love him. I kill

899
00:42:22,680 --> 00:42:25,120
Speaker 3: his ass because I had been molessed, and every day

900
00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:27,880
Speaker 3: I gave my kids a child molestation story on the

901
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:30,600
Speaker 3: way to school, I said, if he touched you, I

902
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:33,160
Speaker 3: would kill him. To Finally, my daughter's in the eighth grade,

903
00:42:33,200 --> 00:42:35,880
Speaker 3: she said, Mama, the man ain't gonna touch me. It

904
00:42:36,040 --> 00:42:39,480
Speaker 3: been five years and I stopped asking, but I had

905
00:42:39,480 --> 00:42:42,880
Speaker 3: to let her know. You know, anybody touch you, especially

906
00:42:42,960 --> 00:42:45,400
Speaker 3: out of move his man into moved up to the

907
00:42:45,400 --> 00:42:47,759
Speaker 3: house with this man. I know him, but you don't

908
00:42:47,920 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 3: really never know a person. So That's the talk I

909
00:42:50,719 --> 00:42:52,799
Speaker 3: had to have with my kids and my son, mean,

910
00:42:52,840 --> 00:42:55,480
Speaker 3: because people digging booties, so I had to make sure

911
00:42:55,560 --> 00:42:57,200
Speaker 3: nobody was gonna be digging in my sons.

912
00:42:57,480 --> 00:43:00,800
Speaker 1: Yeah, that is something that I like getting older, having

913
00:43:00,840 --> 00:43:03,759
Speaker 1: talks with women like I never realized how many women

914
00:43:03,840 --> 00:43:05,560
Speaker 1: actually experienced that in their home.

915
00:43:05,880 --> 00:43:09,440
Speaker 4: Yes, and I don't think that's a racial thing at all.

916
00:43:09,320 --> 00:43:11,400
Speaker 3: But you know what I'm saying is I think I

917
00:43:11,440 --> 00:43:16,320
Speaker 3: think with black families we have the conversations more where

918
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:18,040
Speaker 3: you know, we used to sit the kids down and

919
00:43:18,080 --> 00:43:20,840
Speaker 3: say whatever where you know a lot of times with

920
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:23,000
Speaker 3: white people, yeah, like it don't.

921
00:43:22,760 --> 00:43:23,800
Speaker 1: Exist to it exists.

922
00:43:24,320 --> 00:43:26,360
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean I can only speak from my family.

923
00:43:26,440 --> 00:43:28,520
Speaker 4: The more I learned, once I started having those conversations

924
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:30,360
Speaker 4: with my mom and what she went through, I was like,

925
00:43:30,440 --> 00:43:33,879
Speaker 4: we allowed him around, Yes, so I see what you said.

926
00:43:33,920 --> 00:43:35,759
Speaker 4: I'm not gonna I'm not speaking for all whites, but

927
00:43:35,760 --> 00:43:37,560
Speaker 4: I can speak from my family that regard. Once I

928
00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:39,399
Speaker 4: learned more, I was like, why you let him? Well,

929
00:43:39,400 --> 00:43:42,040
Speaker 4: see he was there every holiday and he did that.

930
00:43:42,320 --> 00:43:44,719
Speaker 3: But the thing with Okay, so when you have a

931
00:43:44,800 --> 00:43:47,320
Speaker 3: child and lester in the family, and your uncle is

932
00:43:47,320 --> 00:43:49,279
Speaker 3: a child and less. They say, so the black fellow

933
00:43:49,239 --> 00:43:51,640
Speaker 3: will tell you, look, hire your uncle be touching kids.

934
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:53,280
Speaker 3: So don't go over that fucking with that nigga. Okay,

935
00:43:53,280 --> 00:43:55,640
Speaker 3: stay away from Uncle John or uncle whatever.

936
00:43:55,880 --> 00:43:56,239
Speaker 1: We tell.

937
00:43:56,320 --> 00:43:58,560
Speaker 3: We told that before we go to the barbecue. Can't

938
00:43:58,600 --> 00:44:01,120
Speaker 3: he come to the barbecue. Yes, but everybody gonna be

939
00:44:01,120 --> 00:44:03,960
Speaker 3: watching his head. Everybody know what he do and we're

940
00:44:03,960 --> 00:44:06,239
Speaker 3: gonna tell them, kid, if he touched you, we're gonna

941
00:44:06,320 --> 00:44:06,719
Speaker 3: kill him.

942
00:44:06,960 --> 00:44:08,439
Speaker 1: So all the kids know him.

943
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:11,520
Speaker 2: Child mo Leicester, Chester, Chester molested Chester molester.

944
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:12,840
Speaker 1: So we stayed away from.

945
00:44:12,760 --> 00:44:14,759
Speaker 4: We put that on a house on our block. I

946
00:44:14,800 --> 00:44:17,200
Speaker 4: have no idea to this day. He never touched anybody

947
00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:19,160
Speaker 4: in the nigga. It was just a house that was

948
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:20,960
Speaker 4: everyone would say Chester molester lives there.

949
00:44:21,280 --> 00:44:21,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know.

950
00:44:21,760 --> 00:44:24,000
Speaker 4: It was just like a kid thing. Where is Chester

951
00:44:24,080 --> 00:44:26,200
Speaker 4: the molester? I didn't know that was a universal thing.

952
00:44:26,520 --> 00:44:29,360
Speaker 3: Yes, So that that I think that's the culture different

953
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:32,640
Speaker 3: is that African black people say it out loud.

954
00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:34,520
Speaker 1: And other everybody get touched.

955
00:44:34,520 --> 00:44:38,480
Speaker 4: So I think I don't know if every I think

956
00:44:38,600 --> 00:44:40,400
Speaker 4: every molestation is.

957
00:44:40,400 --> 00:44:41,200
Speaker 1: In there every race.

958
00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:43,719
Speaker 3: Like I was just talking about that movie on what's

959
00:44:43,719 --> 00:44:46,959
Speaker 3: the name of that movie, adding in plain sight.

960
00:44:46,880 --> 00:44:47,480
Speaker 1: You've seen that.

961
00:44:48,040 --> 00:44:50,680
Speaker 3: That was the craziest ship That man slept with the

962
00:44:50,680 --> 00:44:53,480
Speaker 3: whole family kept kidnapping the daughter. You couldn't have that

963
00:44:53,640 --> 00:44:55,880
Speaker 3: chance in no black household. He'd have been fucked as

964
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,440
Speaker 3: soon as he sucked the daddy penis. Everybody would have

965
00:44:58,520 --> 00:45:03,279
Speaker 3: killed him. You don't get those kind of chances. Yeah,

966
00:45:03,320 --> 00:45:04,400
Speaker 3: that was the crazy.

967
00:45:04,840 --> 00:45:07,560
Speaker 4: Outside of that being the sickest part of the entire premise,

968
00:45:07,600 --> 00:45:11,200
Speaker 4: the fact that Homie got on that camera and was like,

969
00:45:11,680 --> 00:45:18,760
Speaker 4: he sucked my dick too. That was like the last episode.

970
00:45:18,760 --> 00:45:24,400
Speaker 4: I'm like, you've been on this whole series. It was like, listen,

971
00:45:24,480 --> 00:45:30,799
Speaker 4: I was sitting there watching that. Good on me too,

972
00:45:31,040 --> 00:45:33,280
Speaker 4: I said, how I still didn't resist?

973
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:34,719
Speaker 1: Is that about this.

974
00:45:34,680 --> 00:45:36,600
Speaker 2: Stupid and rural towns.

975
00:45:36,640 --> 00:45:39,120
Speaker 3: It's gotta be the craziest shiit ever. But those are

976
00:45:39,160 --> 00:45:41,840
Speaker 3: the things that even though those neighbors knew it, or

977
00:45:42,520 --> 00:45:45,480
Speaker 3: some of the neighbors suspected it, nobody saying it out loud.

978
00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:48,240
Speaker 3: Nobody went over there and had a talk with that family.

979
00:45:48,600 --> 00:45:51,000
Speaker 3: In all neighborhoods, they would have knocked on the door

980
00:45:51,000 --> 00:45:53,560
Speaker 3: and had a talk with mom. Hey he be touching key,

981
00:45:53,680 --> 00:45:57,040
Speaker 3: Oh he been the privilege, and I think it's now.

982
00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:01,360
Speaker 3: I think it's more prominent now in all communities because

983
00:46:01,400 --> 00:46:05,840
Speaker 3: they have that that that predator watch you know you have.

984
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:08,240
Speaker 3: You know, when I was living in playing for Indiana,

985
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:11,600
Speaker 3: every time somebody moved into a neighborhood that had been

986
00:46:11,760 --> 00:46:13,840
Speaker 3: the jail for molestation.

987
00:46:13,239 --> 00:46:15,560
Speaker 1: Of rates, Yeah, you had to raise.

988
00:46:15,800 --> 00:46:18,000
Speaker 3: So you would get an email a child unlesson just

989
00:46:18,040 --> 00:46:21,000
Speaker 3: moved three days, three those down. But back in those

990
00:46:21,080 --> 00:46:23,000
Speaker 3: days you didn't have it, so people didn't talk about it,

991
00:46:23,239 --> 00:46:25,600
Speaker 3: but the black community always talked about it.

992
00:46:25,719 --> 00:46:28,040
Speaker 4: I downloaded that app right when Omar was born. Remember

993
00:46:28,040 --> 00:46:30,200
Speaker 4: we were in the studio and that shit. I was like,

994
00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 4: there's one walking down the street right now. Yeah, you

995
00:46:33,480 --> 00:46:34,560
Speaker 4: know he's in route.

996
00:46:35,160 --> 00:46:37,040
Speaker 3: That ship will suck you up with the amount that

997
00:46:37,080 --> 00:46:39,680
Speaker 3: are around you this building right now. But I will

998
00:46:39,680 --> 00:46:42,040
Speaker 3: say this, I think in some of all, back in

999
00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:44,799
Speaker 3: some of all days, like all grandparents look the other way.

1000
00:46:45,440 --> 00:46:48,160
Speaker 3: But you know, if if she had, for instance, they

1001
00:46:48,200 --> 00:46:50,000
Speaker 3: had a man that was taking care of them and

1002
00:46:50,040 --> 00:46:52,200
Speaker 3: they didn't want they world to be rocked, I would

1003
00:46:52,200 --> 00:46:55,720
Speaker 3: say in the black community, some people looked the way.

1004
00:46:55,880 --> 00:46:58,320
Speaker 3: When I was born in seventy two, I think people

1005
00:46:58,360 --> 00:47:00,200
Speaker 3: started to speak out a little bit more.

1006
00:47:00,320 --> 00:47:03,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, but yeah, how much of that? How much of

1007
00:47:03,680 --> 00:47:07,319
Speaker 1: your trauma do you turn into? All of it? All

1008
00:47:07,360 --> 00:47:09,239
Speaker 1: of it. I talk about any and everything that ever

1009
00:47:09,280 --> 00:47:09,839
Speaker 1: happened to me.

1010
00:47:10,960 --> 00:47:13,839
Speaker 3: If I can remember it, I try to talk about it,

1011
00:47:14,480 --> 00:47:17,399
Speaker 3: because you know, if it comes up, it always come

1012
00:47:17,480 --> 00:47:20,759
Speaker 3: up as pain. And my way of controlling it is

1013
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:23,520
Speaker 3: to find the funny in it, because if I don't,

1014
00:47:23,560 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 3: I could be somewhere sitting and crying about it. So

1015
00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:28,440
Speaker 3: I just told myself a long time ago, I can't

1016
00:47:28,520 --> 00:47:30,920
Speaker 3: change what people done to me. I can't change the

1017
00:47:30,920 --> 00:47:33,439
Speaker 3: family that I was born into. You know, I can't

1018
00:47:33,600 --> 00:47:35,480
Speaker 3: change I can't change anything.

1019
00:47:35,719 --> 00:47:37,000
Speaker 1: The past is the past.

1020
00:47:37,160 --> 00:47:38,640
Speaker 3: But what I can do is I can learn how

1021
00:47:38,640 --> 00:47:42,120
Speaker 3: to take control of my life. So anything comes up

1022
00:47:42,440 --> 00:47:44,879
Speaker 3: that I can remember, I talk about it. And I've

1023
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:47,279
Speaker 3: had my husband be like, why the hell do you

1024
00:47:47,440 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 3: tell these stories? They're horrific, And I say they're funny.

1025
00:47:50,800 --> 00:47:54,080
Speaker 1: To me, and they are. How long it took you

1026
00:47:54,080 --> 00:47:55,440
Speaker 1: a while to get to that place.

1027
00:47:55,200 --> 00:47:58,480
Speaker 3: Though, yes, because you know, one of the biggest things

1028
00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:01,520
Speaker 3: I was embarrassed about I was a teenage mom. I

1029
00:48:01,560 --> 00:48:04,880
Speaker 3: had two kids by a married man fourteen and fifteen,

1030
00:48:04,920 --> 00:48:07,720
Speaker 3: and he was in his twenties and he was married,

1031
00:48:07,800 --> 00:48:11,799
Speaker 3: and so I didn't really realize that didn't happen. I

1032
00:48:11,840 --> 00:48:14,520
Speaker 3: thought it happened to everybody, you know, because I'm from

1033
00:48:14,560 --> 00:48:15,480
Speaker 3: the inner city of Atlanta.

1034
00:48:15,840 --> 00:48:17,479
Speaker 1: I didn't really realize I had a.

1035
00:48:17,480 --> 00:48:21,279
Speaker 3: Messed up life until I started doing comedy and I

1036
00:48:21,400 --> 00:48:24,319
Speaker 3: realized all black people wasn't raised like me. Because I

1037
00:48:24,320 --> 00:48:25,880
Speaker 3: would be telling these stories, they'd be like, who the

1038
00:48:25,920 --> 00:48:28,520
Speaker 3: fuck raised you? And I'm looking they got my skin

1039
00:48:28,560 --> 00:48:30,480
Speaker 3: coulor I'm like, y'all, y'all.

1040
00:48:30,320 --> 00:48:30,839
Speaker 1: Didn't go there.

1041
00:48:30,960 --> 00:48:34,880
Speaker 3: Hell no, I went to college what I dropped out

1042
00:48:34,920 --> 00:48:38,920
Speaker 3: in eighth grade. So you know, I had to learn

1043
00:48:39,239 --> 00:48:43,680
Speaker 3: just to accept, you know, the hand I was dealt,

1044
00:48:44,400 --> 00:48:46,319
Speaker 3: and not cry about it, because you know, I can

1045
00:48:46,320 --> 00:48:48,360
Speaker 3: tell these stories, and I can tell them in the

1046
00:48:48,400 --> 00:48:50,480
Speaker 3: way we all be here crying, and then I can

1047
00:48:50,520 --> 00:48:52,600
Speaker 3: turn around and tell them in the way we all laughing,

1048
00:48:53,000 --> 00:48:55,719
Speaker 3: and I just chose to laugh with mine. Now, my

1049
00:48:55,800 --> 00:48:58,160
Speaker 3: sister been on Crag for over thirty years, and she's

1050
00:48:58,200 --> 00:49:00,399
Speaker 3: never got over some of the things that we've been through.

1051
00:49:00,760 --> 00:49:03,280
Speaker 3: So everybody deal with their pain the way they want.

1052
00:49:03,120 --> 00:49:04,760
Speaker 1: To deal with it. I just chose to laugh.

1053
00:49:05,280 --> 00:49:08,160
Speaker 3: You know, when I say I can't, my mama boyfriend

1054
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:10,279
Speaker 3: will literally will molest me and my sister at the

1055
00:49:10,320 --> 00:49:11,080
Speaker 3: same time.

1056
00:49:11,120 --> 00:49:12,680
Speaker 1: And his hell comino.

1057
00:49:13,800 --> 00:49:16,120
Speaker 2: And she never talks about it.

1058
00:49:16,200 --> 00:49:16,600
Speaker 1: I do.

1059
00:49:17,600 --> 00:49:21,160
Speaker 3: And sometimes memories will come up and I have to

1060
00:49:21,200 --> 00:49:23,880
Speaker 3: call my sister because she'll be in that memory. And

1061
00:49:23,920 --> 00:49:26,799
Speaker 3: I said, Maypop, do you remember this? And to make

1062
00:49:26,840 --> 00:49:29,479
Speaker 3: sure she because she's a big liar, to make sure

1063
00:49:29,680 --> 00:49:31,919
Speaker 3: I'm just not making up things, I let her tell

1064
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:34,319
Speaker 3: the story and see if the same story is in

1065
00:49:34,360 --> 00:49:37,080
Speaker 3: my head. That's how I know it's really happened to me.

1066
00:49:37,800 --> 00:49:41,240
Speaker 3: Because when you've been traumatizing, hurt a lot of times,

1067
00:49:41,320 --> 00:49:44,839
Speaker 3: your brain will lock will lock stuff out, you know,

1068
00:49:45,080 --> 00:49:45,680
Speaker 3: to keep.

1069
00:49:45,520 --> 00:49:47,439
Speaker 1: You, to allow you to live.

1070
00:49:47,480 --> 00:49:50,400
Speaker 3: I believe, and I think when it don't lock stuff out,

1071
00:49:50,440 --> 00:49:52,719
Speaker 3: that's how people go crazy. So a lot of this

1072
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:56,080
Speaker 3: stuff that happened to me is locked up in my head.

1073
00:49:56,520 --> 00:49:58,960
Speaker 3: And as I get older and things happen to me

1074
00:49:59,080 --> 00:50:01,120
Speaker 3: or sense, my brain will.

1075
00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:05,240
Speaker 1: Unlock them and you start to I start to remember.

1076
00:50:05,520 --> 00:50:08,160
Speaker 3: And so I called somebody if if I got a

1077
00:50:08,160 --> 00:50:11,160
Speaker 3: family member in their thought, I say, hey, did this

1078
00:50:11,239 --> 00:50:14,640
Speaker 3: happen or tell tell me what you know about this,

1079
00:50:15,080 --> 00:50:17,120
Speaker 3: and I let them tell the story to make sure

1080
00:50:17,360 --> 00:50:18,720
Speaker 3: I'm not making up stuff.

1081
00:50:18,880 --> 00:50:21,520
Speaker 1: Right. Well, I mean, I'm glad that you know, that's you.

1082
00:50:21,640 --> 00:50:23,640
Speaker 1: You were able to get past that and turn that

1083
00:50:23,719 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 1: into you know, a way that we can all kind

1084
00:50:26,600 --> 00:50:29,200
Speaker 1: of laugh and you know, even though it's just some

1085
00:50:29,280 --> 00:50:32,319
Speaker 1: very traumatic, very serious situations. But like you said, you

1086
00:50:32,440 --> 00:50:34,239
Speaker 1: choose how you want to heal and get over it

1087
00:50:34,320 --> 00:50:36,280
Speaker 1: and move on to live the rest of your life.

1088
00:50:36,360 --> 00:50:39,240
Speaker 3: I just want people to realize you can't change the past.

1089
00:50:39,320 --> 00:50:41,560
Speaker 3: So don't sit there and cry about it. You know,

1090
00:50:42,000 --> 00:50:42,840
Speaker 3: we all winners.

1091
00:50:42,840 --> 00:50:44,319
Speaker 1: All you gotta do is just get up and do

1092
00:50:44,360 --> 00:50:46,360
Speaker 1: something about it and start with laughter.

1093
00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:49,600
Speaker 3: You know, just because you was an abuse relationship or

1094
00:50:49,600 --> 00:50:52,480
Speaker 3: you've been molested, whatever it might be, don't let those

1095
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Speaker 3: things hold you down.

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 1: He never gave me that speech. He just keeps making

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00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 1: it just I just I mean, that's that's my boy, yo.

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Speaker 4: The fact I got hyper sexualized in my twenties, I

1100
00:51:03,160 --> 00:51:05,080
Speaker 4: try to be telling like real facts and ship.

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00:51:05,040 --> 00:51:07,640
Speaker 3: Well, how do you get hyper sexualizing your twenty What

1102
00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:08,040
Speaker 3: is that?

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00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:09,960
Speaker 4: I think that was a I was just trying to

1104
00:51:09,960 --> 00:51:11,400
Speaker 4: fuck a bunch of bitches, and I think that was

1105
00:51:11,600 --> 00:51:12,960
Speaker 4: I think that came from being molested.

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Speaker 3: M M.

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00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:15,880
Speaker 4: I think I was hyper sexualized as a kid that.

1108
00:51:16,120 --> 00:51:17,560
Speaker 4: Oh you just want to have a lot of sex.

1109
00:51:17,719 --> 00:51:19,279
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that was part of it.

1110
00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:22,880
Speaker 4: You packing like that, I'm burning like that. That's how

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Speaker 4: that episode started.

1112
00:51:25,080 --> 00:51:26,759
Speaker 1: Miss Patt telling them what they can find you at.

1113
00:51:26,800 --> 00:51:28,840
Speaker 1: Miss Pat. I ain't never seen the white boy. Just

1114
00:51:28,880 --> 00:51:33,920
Speaker 1: slang dig I'm sorry me, I ain't never seen the

1115
00:51:33,920 --> 00:51:34,600
Speaker 1: white boy yet.

1116
00:51:34,560 --> 00:51:37,480
Speaker 3: Be slanging things because you'll produce over that body to

1117
00:51:37,520 --> 00:51:39,719
Speaker 3: go crazy with all these bad words.

1118
00:51:39,840 --> 00:51:40,839
Speaker 1: Oh no, no, it was just.

1119
00:51:42,719 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 3: He over that sweat you got. You go to misspac

1120
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Speaker 3: Comedy dot com and catch me on any and everything.

1121
00:51:53,000 --> 00:51:55,600
Speaker 3: Make sure you watch Miss Pack Sellers. It come on

1122
00:51:55,760 --> 00:51:58,600
Speaker 3: b E T now and Miss Past. Miss Pat the

1123
00:51:58,640 --> 00:52:01,479
Speaker 3: Miss Past show will be out, so y'all, So just hey,

1124
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Speaker 3: go join me on Instagram, Facebook and every.

1125
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Speaker 1: Streaming Miss Pat all month, that's what we're doing. Please

1126
00:52:08,320 --> 00:52:10,440
Speaker 1: stream it. I want to hear something crazy out on

1127
00:52:10,480 --> 00:52:13,600
Speaker 1: Netflix now. Yes, it's already out. Go stream that. And

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Speaker 1: because our good friend Vince Stables this new show season

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Speaker 1: two is great to start that, it's very important that

1130
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Speaker 1: we hit the like button at the end of it. Yes,

1131
00:52:20,560 --> 00:52:22,239
Speaker 1: at the end of your special, make sure you hit

1132
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Speaker 1: the like button on y'all want to hear something crazy,

1133
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Speaker 1: Miss Pat, thank you for coming through. Thank y'all for

1134
00:52:27,560 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 1: some pleasure me and you. You are fucking crazy, but

1135
00:52:29,719 --> 00:52:31,960
Speaker 1: I love it. I love it. We talked to y'all soon.

1136
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Speaker 1: I'm that nigga. He's just jinging. That's Miss Pat, that

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Speaker 1: nigga and Ginger