1 00:00:06,880 --> 00:00:10,480 Speaker 1: Y'all know what time of y'all don't know. Y'all back 2 00:00:14,600 --> 00:00:18,360 Speaker 1: a suit, looking back the back down, giving them more 3 00:00:19,960 --> 00:00:24,279 Speaker 1: like the milking buck things in its tub. Y'all me 4 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 1: good it sehen to the movie together for study. I 5 00:00:43,080 --> 00:01:04,480 Speaker 1: don't join, join me, be doing me. Honey, you gotta 6 00:01:06,160 --> 00:01:49,440 Speaker 1: turn you gotta turn the turnout. Turn got the turnout 7 00:01:49,720 --> 00:02:00,440 Speaker 1: the turn turn water to the water, go me come 8 00:02:02,760 --> 00:02:09,800 Speaker 1: come on, uh huh, I sure will. Good morning everybody 9 00:02:09,960 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 1: you're listening to the voice, Come on now, dig me 10 00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:20,640 Speaker 1: want and only Steve Harvey got what radio show man? 11 00:02:20,800 --> 00:02:23,120 Speaker 1: What you're doing with it? Trying to do the very 12 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:25,640 Speaker 1: very best I can with it? I really am. You know, 13 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:29,560 Speaker 1: I get tired sometimes on my journey. I'm not gonna 14 00:02:29,639 --> 00:02:35,400 Speaker 1: kid you. UM. Trying to make something out yourself is 15 00:02:35,480 --> 00:02:40,040 Speaker 1: a task. UM. If you want to attempt to do 16 00:02:40,160 --> 00:02:46,040 Speaker 1: something and and and understand going in that that the 17 00:02:46,160 --> 00:02:49,400 Speaker 1: if the thing you're trying to do is to improve yourself, 18 00:02:50,120 --> 00:02:56,239 Speaker 1: to better your position, to better your relationship, your family, anything, 19 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:59,800 Speaker 1: you're trying to be a better you. You're trying to 20 00:02:59,800 --> 00:03:03,840 Speaker 1: make more money, you're trying to get it together, you're 21 00:03:03,840 --> 00:03:08,520 Speaker 1: trying to change if any of those things are in 22 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:13,799 Speaker 1: your hopes and dreams. Know this right here, you are 23 00:03:13,880 --> 00:03:18,359 Speaker 1: about to face some challenges. But you might as well 24 00:03:18,440 --> 00:03:22,799 Speaker 1: go ahead anyway and face those challenges, because if you don't, 25 00:03:23,440 --> 00:03:26,200 Speaker 1: you have a whole other set of challenges to face. 26 00:03:27,080 --> 00:03:29,520 Speaker 1: You know, it's a it's a It's an amazing thing. Man, 27 00:03:30,160 --> 00:03:34,080 Speaker 1: How people sit around and they watch other people strike 28 00:03:34,160 --> 00:03:37,760 Speaker 1: out to become successful. They sit in the stands watching 29 00:03:37,800 --> 00:03:40,960 Speaker 1: these people play out these games, and they and they 30 00:03:41,160 --> 00:03:44,520 Speaker 1: and they criticize, They boo, they laugh at their efforts 31 00:03:44,520 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 1: and everything, and they talk about the fairies. He missed 32 00:03:48,240 --> 00:03:51,040 Speaker 1: that game when it shot. Boy, he sucked. Man, he 33 00:03:51,080 --> 00:03:54,000 Speaker 1: did this. He ain't worth that man high in the world. 34 00:03:54,040 --> 00:03:56,680 Speaker 1: She stepped on that line right or that man she 35 00:03:56,800 --> 00:04:00,200 Speaker 1: can't shooting. She made a shot all day. Man, you 36 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:04,080 Speaker 1: see this guy, everybody dunking on him. This dude right here, Man, 37 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:06,480 Speaker 1: he ain't he ain't he ain't been on base in 38 00:04:06,800 --> 00:04:09,640 Speaker 1: thirty five games. Man, This dude right here ain't nothing. 39 00:04:09,680 --> 00:04:13,840 Speaker 1: They're paying him all that money. I hear people who 40 00:04:14,040 --> 00:04:19,000 Speaker 1: sit and stands who criticize people who are out there 41 00:04:19,080 --> 00:04:24,039 Speaker 1: on the playing field. Now, when you're on the playing field, 42 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:27,279 Speaker 1: you have a set of challenges in front of you. 43 00:04:27,279 --> 00:04:30,640 Speaker 1: You're going to be open to criticism. You're going to 44 00:04:30,720 --> 00:04:34,320 Speaker 1: be open to ridicule. You're going to be talked about 45 00:04:34,440 --> 00:04:39,440 Speaker 1: when you don't know the people who are talking about you. Now, 46 00:04:42,200 --> 00:04:46,240 Speaker 1: here's the upside to being the player on the field 47 00:04:46,760 --> 00:04:50,680 Speaker 1: that's facing all the challenges, to criticisms, the laughing, the joke, 48 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:55,760 Speaker 1: to being talked about. He has something going for him. 49 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 1: This person, boy, woman, ch our girl, man has an 50 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:09,200 Speaker 1: opportunity to win. They have an opportunity to win. And 51 00:05:09,240 --> 00:05:14,080 Speaker 1: then the game of life. Just because you lose one 52 00:05:14,120 --> 00:05:16,720 Speaker 1: of the games, or you lose one of the matches, 53 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:20,480 Speaker 1: it don't mean you've lost. You don't get put out. 54 00:05:20,960 --> 00:05:26,480 Speaker 1: You keep playing. And when you're playing, here's the upside. 55 00:05:26,839 --> 00:05:29,760 Speaker 1: You have the opportunity to win. And but guess what, 56 00:05:29,920 --> 00:05:32,560 Speaker 1: You're gonna win some of the matches. You're gonna win 57 00:05:32,600 --> 00:05:34,440 Speaker 1: some of the points. You're gonna make some of the dunks. 58 00:05:34,440 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 1: You're gonna hit some of them over the wall. You're 59 00:05:36,360 --> 00:05:38,960 Speaker 1: gonna hit some of out the park. You're gonna score 60 00:05:39,000 --> 00:05:44,559 Speaker 1: some goals. You will if you're playing the game. Here's 61 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:49,560 Speaker 1: a problem with the people who don't face criticism, who 62 00:05:49,600 --> 00:05:54,960 Speaker 1: nobody boos or cheers for who sits in the stands 63 00:05:55,000 --> 00:06:01,680 Speaker 1: and knows neither victory nor defeat. The old people, without 64 00:06:01,800 --> 00:06:06,719 Speaker 1: realizing it, are facing a set of challenges also, And 65 00:06:06,800 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 1: the challenges they're facing is how I'm gonna live with myself? 66 00:06:13,000 --> 00:06:18,640 Speaker 1: What I'm gonna do? Now? What direction am I going in? 67 00:06:20,800 --> 00:06:25,680 Speaker 1: Where am I gonna live? Wonder what job will hire me? 68 00:06:28,680 --> 00:06:33,120 Speaker 1: I wonder if I can get paid for criticize? Oh 69 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:38,320 Speaker 1: woe is me? I can't find the purpose in my life. 70 00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:42,599 Speaker 1: And man, I'm just waking up in a state of confusion. 71 00:06:42,640 --> 00:06:46,040 Speaker 1: I don't know what to do. Now, let me ask 72 00:06:46,040 --> 00:06:48,720 Speaker 1: you something, which one of them set of challenges you 73 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:52,760 Speaker 1: better be faced with? Because if I'm on the flow playing, 74 00:06:53,000 --> 00:06:55,800 Speaker 1: if I'm on the field playing, if I'm out on 75 00:06:55,839 --> 00:06:59,640 Speaker 1: the court playing, then guess what I got a chance 76 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:02,479 Speaker 1: that in it? But guess what I'm doing every day 77 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:06,479 Speaker 1: while I'm playing. I'm strategizing. I'm waking up with a purpose. 78 00:07:06,800 --> 00:07:10,240 Speaker 1: I'm waking up trying to come up with another angle. 79 00:07:11,480 --> 00:07:16,880 Speaker 1: I'm in pursuit of a goal every single day. Versus 80 00:07:17,720 --> 00:07:25,320 Speaker 1: the people in the stands who know neither victory nor defeat. 81 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:29,920 Speaker 1: But they got the nerve to boot. They got the 82 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:34,160 Speaker 1: nerve to criticize any time I see him, He got 83 00:07:34,200 --> 00:07:36,520 Speaker 1: that on anytime. And he think he does, he think, 84 00:07:36,600 --> 00:07:39,400 Speaker 1: do you know people like that? Of course you do. 85 00:07:40,240 --> 00:07:43,200 Speaker 1: Now you gotta you gotta make sure though that you're 86 00:07:43,240 --> 00:07:48,080 Speaker 1: not the person that we're talking about. Get on the field, 87 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:54,440 Speaker 1: get on the court, get in the game. Face the challenges. 88 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:58,640 Speaker 1: Better yourself, better your wife, better your children, better your condition, 89 00:07:58,760 --> 00:08:01,640 Speaker 1: better your employments. That it's better your job, better your career, 90 00:08:02,040 --> 00:08:06,240 Speaker 1: start your business, man, invest take a shot. Come on, man, 91 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 1: what you're waiting on? Because the alternative is to watch 92 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 1: other people play the game? You know what I just do? 93 00:08:14,520 --> 00:08:19,560 Speaker 1: Sometimes sometimes I just I get Forbes magazine or Money magazine, 94 00:08:19,640 --> 00:08:23,120 Speaker 1: or sometimes I still grab a copy of rob Report. 95 00:08:23,880 --> 00:08:26,640 Speaker 1: I just flipped through it just to see. I used 96 00:08:26,680 --> 00:08:30,400 Speaker 1: to get these this book called Unique Homes. Unique Homes 97 00:08:30,520 --> 00:08:33,679 Speaker 1: is a magazine that just has a lot of extravagant 98 00:08:33,720 --> 00:08:36,720 Speaker 1: houses that's on sale across the country, across the world. 99 00:08:36,840 --> 00:08:40,360 Speaker 1: I used to flip through. Man, let me just see, man, 100 00:08:40,720 --> 00:08:43,440 Speaker 1: what the people that's playing the game out there doing. 101 00:08:44,200 --> 00:08:47,760 Speaker 1: Stop watching other people become successful when you could very 102 00:08:47,840 --> 00:08:51,679 Speaker 1: easily be you if you make the decision. But when 103 00:08:51,679 --> 00:08:54,920 Speaker 1: you make the decision to become successful, get ready for 104 00:08:55,000 --> 00:09:00,360 Speaker 1: a series of challenges. But if you don't accept the challenge, man, 105 00:09:00,720 --> 00:09:04,880 Speaker 1: look at the challenge you face with. That's the hard part. Man. 106 00:09:05,360 --> 00:09:08,680 Speaker 1: For me, personally, I think it's harder to be nothing. 107 00:09:10,679 --> 00:09:13,720 Speaker 1: For me, personally, I think it's more difficult not to 108 00:09:13,760 --> 00:09:18,320 Speaker 1: accept the challenge. I think it's for me. This is 109 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:20,080 Speaker 1: just for me. It may not be the case for you. 110 00:09:20,320 --> 00:09:22,600 Speaker 1: For me, I think it's far more difficult to wake 111 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:25,480 Speaker 1: up and just see how life gonna go today, because man, 112 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:27,920 Speaker 1: it could just deal you any kind of hand today. 113 00:09:30,800 --> 00:09:36,439 Speaker 1: You understand I don't like you know, spades. Let's talk 114 00:09:36,440 --> 00:09:39,800 Speaker 1: a card game, folks, the game of spades. Really, man, 115 00:09:39,840 --> 00:09:41,160 Speaker 1: it ain't a whole lot you can do if you 116 00:09:41,200 --> 00:09:44,840 Speaker 1: don't get no spades. Really, it's a little couple of 117 00:09:44,840 --> 00:09:47,360 Speaker 1: little strategies you're gonna do. But you can have all 118 00:09:47,400 --> 00:09:49,719 Speaker 1: this age, keen, queen diamond all you want. But man, 119 00:09:49,760 --> 00:09:52,040 Speaker 1: you ain't got no spades. They're cutting them. You're in trouble. 120 00:09:53,760 --> 00:09:57,760 Speaker 1: Be it whist different game. You can create what's in 121 00:09:57,800 --> 00:10:00,800 Speaker 1: your hand. You got dealt a hand too, But you 122 00:10:00,840 --> 00:10:03,560 Speaker 1: can create a hand. You can call a trump. You 123 00:10:03,600 --> 00:10:07,079 Speaker 1: can make diamonds your spades. You can make hard to 124 00:10:07,200 --> 00:10:09,720 Speaker 1: clubs your spades. That's what I'm saying. That's what it is. 125 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:12,280 Speaker 1: You can do something with it. It's a different game, man. 126 00:10:12,800 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 1: You can strategize. I would rather have a say so 127 00:10:15,760 --> 00:10:17,680 Speaker 1: in my life than to wake up every day and 128 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:20,559 Speaker 1: just see how it's going. I think it's more difficult 129 00:10:21,000 --> 00:10:24,080 Speaker 1: to not accept the challenge to be something than it 130 00:10:24,120 --> 00:10:26,720 Speaker 1: is to accept the challenge to be something. I think 131 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:29,520 Speaker 1: it's more difficult to sit around and not be nothing. 132 00:10:29,800 --> 00:10:32,960 Speaker 1: I think it's harder to watch everybody's life going somewhere 133 00:10:33,000 --> 00:10:35,480 Speaker 1: but mine. I think it would be very difficult for 134 00:10:35,520 --> 00:10:38,160 Speaker 1: me to sit here and hear them talking about other 135 00:10:38,200 --> 00:10:40,920 Speaker 1: people and never mention my name. I would be difficult 136 00:10:40,960 --> 00:10:44,640 Speaker 1: for me to see everybody rising getting promotions accept me. 137 00:10:45,120 --> 00:10:47,520 Speaker 1: That would be difficult for me. It may not be 138 00:10:47,640 --> 00:10:49,800 Speaker 1: for you, but for me it would be quite challenging. 139 00:10:50,040 --> 00:10:53,240 Speaker 1: I would rather accept the challenge of making something out 140 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:56,680 Speaker 1: of my life than to sit there and criticize those 141 00:10:56,960 --> 00:11:00,720 Speaker 1: and then watch and see how my life just may go. Okay, 142 00:11:00,880 --> 00:11:08,439 Speaker 1: that's the thought today. You're listening, man, I have your attention. 143 00:11:08,520 --> 00:11:12,400 Speaker 1: Please Steve Harvey Morning Show is now underway. We are excited, 144 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:18,240 Speaker 1: we are thrilled. We are here to motivate, uplift. Get 145 00:11:18,360 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 1: to you straight ladies and gentlemen. Steve Harvey Morning Show, 146 00:11:23,320 --> 00:11:29,640 Speaker 1: Straight Talk. No chasing your Shelly Strong baby, Good morning, 147 00:11:29,800 --> 00:11:41,800 Speaker 1: see caller, Good morning. Now, how June morn your kills? 148 00:11:41,800 --> 00:11:53,120 Speaker 1: Space morning? Goodbye. Now it's time y'all to introduce the food. Y'all. 149 00:11:54,080 --> 00:12:02,280 Speaker 1: Number one, y'all, stupid man ain't got no since he 150 00:12:02,440 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 1: was born this way. Nothing you can do about it. 151 00:12:06,960 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 1: Got most stupid on the way. If you time many 152 00:12:11,440 --> 00:12:15,600 Speaker 1: Steve your side. Yeah, we all hear the groups, y'all here. 153 00:12:15,720 --> 00:12:21,440 Speaker 1: Jay ain't here today because he's sometime. I'm gonna just 154 00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 1: put that out. I work with him. Sometimes he's different, 155 00:12:26,320 --> 00:12:30,680 Speaker 1: love him, I love Jay. I don't know Jay. I 156 00:12:30,679 --> 00:12:32,920 Speaker 1: don't know if he gained any weight making bigger suits. 157 00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:36,960 Speaker 1: I don't know what he's doing losing weight either. Vegan man, 158 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:40,480 Speaker 1: that's what y'all, thank you, well, that's what he says. 159 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:42,960 Speaker 1: He says he misses chicken. You know, I don't understand 160 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: how you're gonna be a vegan and be unhealthy. You 161 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:48,440 Speaker 1: might well gonna get yourself a burger. It really is 162 00:12:48,480 --> 00:12:52,600 Speaker 1: big vegans as well. Oh yeah, I mean, man, look, 163 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:58,120 Speaker 1: because you're a vegan or because you're a vegetarian doesn't 164 00:12:58,200 --> 00:13:01,280 Speaker 1: mean you're eating healthy. Yeah, you can eat potato chip 165 00:13:01,400 --> 00:13:04,400 Speaker 1: so you're a vegan and eat pasta and not lose 166 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:07,520 Speaker 1: any weight. You can eat a lot of carbs a lot. 167 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:09,640 Speaker 1: You can eat a lot of carbs and and and 168 00:13:09,840 --> 00:13:14,320 Speaker 1: just blow the fact that you're thinking in terms of weight. Yeah, 169 00:13:14,320 --> 00:13:16,320 Speaker 1: that's jake, because I can't. I can't keep a bag 170 00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:19,560 Speaker 1: of chips to myself. Oh if you have something he's got, 171 00:13:19,760 --> 00:13:23,880 Speaker 1: he's gonna have some of your chip. Uh huh, give 172 00:13:23,920 --> 00:13:27,640 Speaker 1: me three him like that. I don't do that. I don't. 173 00:13:27,760 --> 00:13:31,800 Speaker 1: I don't share food with people. I can't eat. Can't 174 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:36,640 Speaker 1: stick your hand in my bad Oh yeah, yeah, Well okay, 175 00:13:36,960 --> 00:13:39,360 Speaker 1: he says he's a vegan, and he says he misses chicken. 176 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:42,520 Speaker 1: That's all I know. M I ain't a lie. I 177 00:13:42,600 --> 00:13:44,280 Speaker 1: even got me if he's chicken back, now, I ain't. 178 00:13:44,360 --> 00:13:47,040 Speaker 1: I wouldn't be waiting that long. That don't. But if 179 00:13:47,080 --> 00:13:49,840 Speaker 1: you make a commitment, if you make a commitment and 180 00:13:49,880 --> 00:13:55,560 Speaker 1: say to itself, well to someone okay, and you say 181 00:13:55,559 --> 00:13:57,600 Speaker 1: you're a vegan. Don't you have to live up to 182 00:13:57,679 --> 00:14:00,520 Speaker 1: that at least for a while. I'm to be a vegan. 183 00:14:00,960 --> 00:14:02,280 Speaker 1: Can you do it all the time? He do it 184 00:14:02,320 --> 00:14:06,680 Speaker 1: for about two weeks? And do what I do? Work 185 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:10,520 Speaker 1: for about vegan? Oh yeah, I can't make the total 186 00:14:10,600 --> 00:14:20,880 Speaker 1: flip some meat. You'll be vegan on Doctor King Day? Uh, yeah, 187 00:14:20,960 --> 00:14:23,760 Speaker 1: I'm I'm not. Yeah, Yeah, I'm I'm I'm vegan. Next, 188 00:14:24,360 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 1: what's that I'm vegan to the next time? I like that? 189 00:14:30,720 --> 00:14:33,320 Speaker 1: All right, listen, coming up at thirty two after the hour, 190 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:37,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna ask the guys, um some questions. How would 191 00:14:37,120 --> 00:14:39,800 Speaker 1: you change television? We all love TV? How would you 192 00:14:39,920 --> 00:14:43,800 Speaker 1: change TV if you were in charge of a television network? Okay, 193 00:14:43,840 --> 00:14:46,560 Speaker 1: so honder on that and we'll talk about it right 194 00:14:46,600 --> 00:14:53,080 Speaker 1: after that. You're listening show, all right, as promised, it's 195 00:14:53,120 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 1: time for something funny. We're gonna talk about TV. We 196 00:14:55,600 --> 00:14:57,560 Speaker 1: talk about a lot on this show, what we watch, 197 00:14:57,640 --> 00:15:00,840 Speaker 1: what we love, what's going on with TV, and while 198 00:15:00,840 --> 00:15:03,200 Speaker 1: we're off the air we talk about it. So this 199 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:06,880 Speaker 1: is to you, guys, how would you change television? Say, 200 00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:09,440 Speaker 1: if you were in charge of a TV network? Steve, 201 00:15:09,480 --> 00:15:11,640 Speaker 1: what would you get rid of? What would you add 202 00:15:12,440 --> 00:15:15,960 Speaker 1: since you're you know, into honestly, yeah, a lot more 203 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:20,160 Speaker 1: blacks and Latinos. Yeah, diversity, yeah, no, non diversity, A 204 00:15:20,160 --> 00:15:26,520 Speaker 1: lot more, a lot more, yeah, diversity. Then they perfectly 205 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:29,920 Speaker 1: comfortable where they are now. I think more. You need 206 00:15:29,960 --> 00:15:32,440 Speaker 1: a lot more blacks and a lot more Latinos on 207 00:15:32,520 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 1: TV and Asian Asians. Yeah, yea, yeah you really do, man. 208 00:15:38,320 --> 00:15:42,600 Speaker 1: I think television does does not look like America, No 209 00:15:43,640 --> 00:15:46,680 Speaker 1: until you get over their own reality TV, and then 210 00:15:46,800 --> 00:15:52,240 Speaker 1: I don't care for reality shows because that crypted. That 211 00:15:52,320 --> 00:15:54,960 Speaker 1: was going to be my second question, what shows? What 212 00:15:55,000 --> 00:15:57,560 Speaker 1: would you cancel? First? Where would you cancel? As a 213 00:15:57,640 --> 00:16:01,280 Speaker 1: TV exact? I would cancel any thing that shows black 214 00:16:01,320 --> 00:16:05,800 Speaker 1: women fighting on it because that's just not indicative of 215 00:16:05,920 --> 00:16:08,720 Speaker 1: how we really are as a race and a people. 216 00:16:09,000 --> 00:16:11,440 Speaker 1: And I don't care what they portray. But no group 217 00:16:11,520 --> 00:16:16,080 Speaker 1: of black women that I know with any fiber in 218 00:16:16,160 --> 00:16:19,040 Speaker 1: them at all get together with a group of friends 219 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:23,480 Speaker 1: and fight every sad day, go out and just fight, 220 00:16:23,760 --> 00:16:27,400 Speaker 1: jumping on tables, slapping each other, throwing drinks on each other, 221 00:16:27,600 --> 00:16:30,600 Speaker 1: calling each other all out there, and then the next 222 00:16:30,680 --> 00:16:36,640 Speaker 1: weekend they back out again. What this doesn't It doesn't cool. 223 00:16:37,400 --> 00:16:40,880 Speaker 1: I just think it's bad for us. I would get 224 00:16:40,960 --> 00:16:45,000 Speaker 1: rid of that. What about you, Tommy, I would have 225 00:16:45,200 --> 00:16:50,480 Speaker 1: more of Ready to Love. Yes, I'd be picking up 226 00:16:50,480 --> 00:16:52,800 Speaker 1: a second season of that, because that's something you don't 227 00:16:52,840 --> 00:16:56,600 Speaker 1: want to miss, right there. Jesus, if you can hear 228 00:16:56,680 --> 00:17:03,840 Speaker 1: my cry lord that the please sit down and watch it. 229 00:17:04,280 --> 00:17:06,720 Speaker 1: You gotta check it out. It's good. I just get 230 00:17:06,760 --> 00:17:09,679 Speaker 1: to see clips. I don't watch TV. Yeah, but I 231 00:17:09,800 --> 00:17:15,680 Speaker 1: heard it's good. I think. But Tommy, come back or 232 00:17:15,760 --> 00:17:20,239 Speaker 1: not that it can be on? You know, yeah it can. 233 00:17:20,320 --> 00:17:23,440 Speaker 1: But I see now I see your whole side. You know, 234 00:17:23,480 --> 00:17:26,560 Speaker 1: I've been witching for my whole life. But now I 235 00:17:26,640 --> 00:17:33,080 Speaker 1: see the other side. Oh my god, just the whole everything. 236 00:17:33,119 --> 00:17:35,679 Speaker 1: I mean, we've done. It's been so many shows. It 237 00:17:35,800 --> 00:17:39,400 Speaker 1: was Steve Harvey Show, it was Steve Harvey big time. 238 00:17:39,640 --> 00:17:42,760 Speaker 1: It's been a bunch of things. Now I see this 239 00:17:42,840 --> 00:17:45,040 Speaker 1: side of it, like now I'm over here, Like, man, 240 00:17:45,320 --> 00:17:47,239 Speaker 1: I thought, I thought we did a good job. Why 241 00:17:47,240 --> 00:17:50,199 Speaker 1: ain't nobody hold iss nothing yet? Why? Hey, dog, you 242 00:17:50,200 --> 00:17:52,639 Speaker 1: can do you know that I'm in that. I'm in 243 00:17:52,680 --> 00:17:55,320 Speaker 1: that pocket now, Tommy, you could do a great job 244 00:17:55,359 --> 00:17:59,639 Speaker 1: on TV and be removed. Yeah, yeah, it's not about 245 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:04,960 Speaker 1: and don't even let it affect your spirit or cause 246 00:18:05,040 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 1: you to think you're not this or that they make 247 00:18:08,880 --> 00:18:13,240 Speaker 1: piss poor decisions all the time. Hey, Steve, did that 248 00:18:13,359 --> 00:18:15,879 Speaker 1: happen with your first TV show? Me and the Boys? 249 00:18:16,240 --> 00:18:18,399 Speaker 1: My first TV show, Me and the Boys finished the 250 00:18:18,480 --> 00:18:21,120 Speaker 1: season at number twenty one. That was one hundred and 251 00:18:21,160 --> 00:18:25,160 Speaker 1: forty seven TV shows on TV at the time. One 252 00:18:25,200 --> 00:18:28,399 Speaker 1: hundred and forty seven shows got rated. We finished the 253 00:18:28,480 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 1: season number twenty one, the highest rated news show on ABC. 254 00:18:34,480 --> 00:18:38,680 Speaker 1: I was on with Roseanne, I was on with Brett Butler, 255 00:18:39,359 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 1: I was on with Tim Allen. We had a powerhouse 256 00:18:42,560 --> 00:18:48,879 Speaker 1: block of television. The producers of Home Improvement, Matt as 257 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:51,400 Speaker 1: Williams I think that was his name, had a deal 258 00:18:51,440 --> 00:18:54,720 Speaker 1: with ABC where if he showed, which was Home Improvement, 259 00:18:55,000 --> 00:18:57,840 Speaker 1: finished in the top ten, he could have the time 260 00:18:57,920 --> 00:19:00,560 Speaker 1: slot behind him, which means he could produce another show 261 00:19:00,640 --> 00:19:03,480 Speaker 1: that dude could get very rich. So the time slot 262 00:19:03,520 --> 00:19:07,240 Speaker 1: behind Home Improvement was Me and the Boys, and it 263 00:19:07,359 --> 00:19:11,840 Speaker 1: finished the season at number twenty one. Well, they canceled 264 00:19:11,840 --> 00:19:16,119 Speaker 1: my show for new reason. Matt Williams new show that 265 00:19:16,200 --> 00:19:19,920 Speaker 1: he produced was starring Tony Danzer. So the next season, 266 00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:23,160 Speaker 1: instead of having on Me and the Boys, they put 267 00:19:23,280 --> 00:19:33,320 Speaker 1: on Hudson Street. Wow, was that before? Who's the Bosow? Yeah, 268 00:19:33,800 --> 00:19:36,840 Speaker 1: they put it on Hudson Street. Hudson Street finished the 269 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:41,240 Speaker 1: season sixty six, so they gave up a twenty one 270 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 1: show to get a sixty six show. But the head 271 00:19:46,840 --> 00:19:52,159 Speaker 1: of the network at the time was Ted Harbor, really 272 00:19:52,200 --> 00:19:55,520 Speaker 1: cool guy man, and he gave me a holding deal, 273 00:19:55,560 --> 00:19:57,399 Speaker 1: a big holding deal. I went in and talked with 274 00:19:57,480 --> 00:19:58,600 Speaker 1: him and told him what I had to hear, and 275 00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:01,000 Speaker 1: he wrote the check for me, and I went back 276 00:20:01,000 --> 00:20:03,800 Speaker 1: to Texas and bought my first house. That's how I 277 00:20:03,800 --> 00:20:06,960 Speaker 1: bought my house with that holding chapel. He gave me 278 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 1: that much and I was able to buy a home 279 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:12,879 Speaker 1: for the first time. And said after that, they resigned 280 00:20:12,880 --> 00:20:14,679 Speaker 1: me to a deal and sold it to the WB 281 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:20,520 Speaker 1: and and Steve Harvey Show was born. Yeah. What kind 282 00:20:20,520 --> 00:20:22,680 Speaker 1: of advice would you give people that want to get 283 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:26,760 Speaker 1: into TV? Like writing in it? I mean, it's a 284 00:20:26,800 --> 00:20:29,880 Speaker 1: great business, you know, it's it's a good business if 285 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:34,080 Speaker 1: you can be successful at it. Uh. You know, basketball 286 00:20:34,160 --> 00:20:35,439 Speaker 1: is good if you can get in it and be 287 00:20:35,480 --> 00:20:38,240 Speaker 1: successful at it. Is not so good if you keep 288 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:41,280 Speaker 1: getting cut. Yeah, so you know it's a it's a 289 00:20:41,320 --> 00:20:45,199 Speaker 1: good business. But I would say, don't get into it 290 00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:47,120 Speaker 1: because it's something you like to do. You should get 291 00:20:47,119 --> 00:20:49,080 Speaker 1: into it if you gifted at it. If you gifted, 292 00:20:49,160 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 1: you can make money and last a lot longer. If 293 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:53,240 Speaker 1: you're doing it for a job, you're gonna be a 294 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:58,440 Speaker 1: pa somewhere. There's a there's always a market for talented people. 295 00:20:58,880 --> 00:21:02,200 Speaker 1: It's just that we as African Americans. If we don't 296 00:21:02,320 --> 00:21:05,280 Speaker 1: hire a lot of African Americans, a lot of that 297 00:21:05,520 --> 00:21:10,119 Speaker 1: qualified African Americans won't get an opportunity. That's just the 298 00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:14,040 Speaker 1: fact that the matter. Yeah, I go to shows and 299 00:21:14,119 --> 00:21:21,520 Speaker 1: don't see a black anywhere. Wow. Yeah, well okay, Well 300 00:21:21,560 --> 00:21:24,920 Speaker 1: we need you to head a network like Oprah. Yeah, 301 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:26,920 Speaker 1: I have an idea. I don't want to hear the 302 00:21:27,000 --> 00:21:32,120 Speaker 1: network that's not for me. I cuss too much. I'm 303 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:34,679 Speaker 1: sure the one that headed right now. Man, if I 304 00:21:34,760 --> 00:21:44,600 Speaker 1: hit three two to a whole, all right, coming up next, 305 00:21:44,720 --> 00:21:47,160 Speaker 1: it is a nephew. These start are ready to love. 306 00:21:47,320 --> 00:21:50,320 Speaker 1: He's coming back to run that prank back right after this. 307 00:21:51,320 --> 00:21:56,640 Speaker 1: You're listening to coming up at the top of the hour, 308 00:21:56,720 --> 00:22:00,320 Speaker 1: guys in entertainment news, Alicia Keys is going to host 309 00:22:00,359 --> 00:22:04,720 Speaker 1: the Grammys and uh yeah that's big right, and yeah 310 00:22:04,760 --> 00:22:08,040 Speaker 1: and essence names it's woman in Hollywood on the reads. 311 00:22:08,160 --> 00:22:10,920 Speaker 1: But right now the nephew is here, would run that 312 00:22:11,040 --> 00:22:15,480 Speaker 1: prank back? What you got, nev, I got alarm alert? 313 00:22:16,040 --> 00:22:20,360 Speaker 1: Alarm alert, that's what it is. You've been called. You've 314 00:22:20,400 --> 00:22:22,560 Speaker 1: been called by the alarm people before. If at your 315 00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:27,600 Speaker 1: house alarm went off. Everybody been through this, right, Okay, cool, okay, 316 00:22:27,720 --> 00:22:32,520 Speaker 1: watch this though. Alarm alert. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to 317 00:22:32,520 --> 00:22:36,280 Speaker 1: reach the nie please. Yeah, this is Anise, Hi, Denise, 318 00:22:36,400 --> 00:22:40,800 Speaker 1: this is Tony. I'm calling security. I've got an alarm 319 00:22:40,800 --> 00:22:43,240 Speaker 1: that we've got an alarm that's gone off on you, guys. 320 00:22:43,280 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 1: Property is all right, are you guys? We're just checking 321 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:49,280 Speaker 1: before we send authorities out. Is everything? Okay? Then maybe 322 00:22:49,280 --> 00:22:53,200 Speaker 1: someone tripped the alarm? Oh my gosh, No, I'm at work. 323 00:22:54,280 --> 00:22:57,399 Speaker 1: I'm at work right now, I'm not home. Okay. Do 324 00:22:57,440 --> 00:22:59,400 Speaker 1: you have a tet or dog or anything that could 325 00:22:59,400 --> 00:23:03,440 Speaker 1: actually trip be alone? No, No, that's strange. It never 326 00:23:03,480 --> 00:23:07,639 Speaker 1: goes off like that. I'm nervous. Okay, give you a second. 327 00:23:07,720 --> 00:23:11,320 Speaker 1: We've got a call into the neighborhood security that actually 328 00:23:11,320 --> 00:23:13,919 Speaker 1: are en route to the property, and they were going 329 00:23:13,960 --> 00:23:18,280 Speaker 1: to give us some information before we actually sent sent 330 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:20,560 Speaker 1: the police officers out, unless you would like for me 331 00:23:20,640 --> 00:23:22,600 Speaker 1: to send them out now. But yeah, I feel like 332 00:23:22,640 --> 00:23:25,000 Speaker 1: you should send the police. I mean, if I'm not 333 00:23:25,160 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 1: home and nobody's home and my alarms going off and 334 00:23:29,040 --> 00:23:32,560 Speaker 1: it never goes off, that I'm worried. Okay, hang on 335 00:23:32,560 --> 00:23:35,320 Speaker 1: one second, this is neighborhood security calling the Hang on 336 00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:38,440 Speaker 1: one second. I'll be right back to you. Okay, niece, 337 00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:41,879 Speaker 1: are you there, Yes, yes, yes, I'm here. They have 338 00:23:43,040 --> 00:23:45,880 Speaker 1: they're out there at the property, the neighborhood security. Do 339 00:23:45,960 --> 00:23:49,639 Speaker 1: you um there is a black guy there is on 340 00:23:49,800 --> 00:23:54,200 Speaker 1: your premise? Are you familiar with who that might be? Well, 341 00:23:54,240 --> 00:23:56,479 Speaker 1: I mean my husband's black, but he should be at 342 00:23:56,480 --> 00:24:01,480 Speaker 1: work right now. Okay, Oh, definitely, okay, and you probably 343 00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:03,840 Speaker 1: would have texted me if you know the alarm was 344 00:24:03,880 --> 00:24:06,440 Speaker 1: going off. Okay, Well, I mean, do you have any 345 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:11,360 Speaker 1: other black male friends? Excuse me, do you have any 346 00:24:11,359 --> 00:24:14,560 Speaker 1: other Do you have any other black male friends that 347 00:24:14,640 --> 00:24:19,280 Speaker 1: might be at the house. I mean, yeah, it's a 348 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:22,160 Speaker 1: very weird question. I mean, I have black friends yes, 349 00:24:22,440 --> 00:24:26,359 Speaker 1: but I don't think they would be in my house. Okay, Well, 350 00:24:26,400 --> 00:24:28,720 Speaker 1: I mean, should we just assume that this is your husband? 351 00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:31,159 Speaker 1: What do you think? I I mean, what would you 352 00:24:31,160 --> 00:24:36,359 Speaker 1: like to work? I mean? What? How tall is this person? 353 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:40,560 Speaker 1: My husband's sixty three? On? Hold on one second, let 354 00:24:40,560 --> 00:24:42,560 Speaker 1: me go back to the scurry from the neighborhood. I 355 00:24:42,560 --> 00:24:46,160 Speaker 1: ain't one second. Don't know if somebody's in my larm's 356 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:52,040 Speaker 1: going off. I don't know. I mean, okay, Denise, yes, okay, 357 00:24:52,119 --> 00:24:55,000 Speaker 1: they have The black guy that they're looking at is 358 00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:59,560 Speaker 1: about five foot ten, maybe late twenties. How old is 359 00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:05,040 Speaker 1: your husband? No, my husband is I just told you 360 00:25:05,080 --> 00:25:08,000 Speaker 1: that my husband's not there. He would have texted me 361 00:25:08,119 --> 00:25:10,800 Speaker 1: or called me and told me that he accidentally set 362 00:25:10,800 --> 00:25:13,480 Speaker 1: the alarm off. And I'm actually going to text him. 363 00:25:13,640 --> 00:25:16,720 Speaker 1: I mean, this is crazy. I should probably call him. Okay, 364 00:25:16,880 --> 00:25:19,359 Speaker 1: you do realize if we send you do realize if 365 00:25:19,359 --> 00:25:21,600 Speaker 1: we send the authorities out and this is a false call, 366 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,400 Speaker 1: that you're gonna get charged for that. You do know that, right, 367 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:27,520 Speaker 1: a false call. You just said somebody's in my house 368 00:25:27,640 --> 00:25:33,560 Speaker 1: and it's not me or my husband. You're saying your 369 00:25:33,640 --> 00:25:36,119 Speaker 1: husband's black, and then there's a black guy there. I mean, 370 00:25:36,119 --> 00:25:39,720 Speaker 1: they probably know each other, right, Are you kidding me? 371 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:44,719 Speaker 1: What kind of question is that? Why? Because they're both black. 372 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:46,879 Speaker 1: I'm just trying to save you some money, man, I 373 00:25:46,920 --> 00:25:49,800 Speaker 1: don't want to send out police officers when they get 374 00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:51,480 Speaker 1: there and then all of a sudden, your husband knows 375 00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:54,000 Speaker 1: the black guy or he's he's a relative or something. 376 00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:56,320 Speaker 1: I mean, do they I mean, you know, do you 377 00:25:56,320 --> 00:26:01,520 Speaker 1: want to call him? What do you think like this? 378 00:26:01,520 --> 00:26:05,399 Speaker 1: This is really offensive and and I don't understand. If 379 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:07,440 Speaker 1: I'm telling you that I don't know who the person 380 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:11,280 Speaker 1: is in my house, that means send the police. I mean, 381 00:26:11,280 --> 00:26:18,040 Speaker 1: this is ridiculous. They're calling back neighborhoods. Just hold on 382 00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:22,800 Speaker 1: one second. Neighborhood security is calling back here. Oh my god, 383 00:26:25,359 --> 00:26:31,080 Speaker 1: this is ridiculous. Okay, Denise, Now the security in the neighborhood. 384 00:26:31,119 --> 00:26:34,520 Speaker 1: They're telling me that this guy just drove out of 385 00:26:34,560 --> 00:26:36,639 Speaker 1: the garage and a white pickup. Do you do you 386 00:26:36,680 --> 00:26:41,760 Speaker 1: guys have a white pickup? Yes, we do. So this 387 00:26:41,760 --> 00:26:44,199 Speaker 1: guy just pulled out of your your your garage and 388 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:46,960 Speaker 1: a white pickup. Well, I have my car at work 389 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:50,399 Speaker 1: and my husband has his car. That's like the truck 390 00:26:50,440 --> 00:26:53,720 Speaker 1: that he uses on the weekends for like construction and stuff. 391 00:26:53,760 --> 00:26:57,399 Speaker 1: So that means somebody just stole our car. I can't 392 00:26:57,400 --> 00:27:00,320 Speaker 1: believe this is happening. You are watching some to my 393 00:27:00,359 --> 00:27:05,000 Speaker 1: house and you you basically watched them steal my truck. Well, well, 394 00:27:05,040 --> 00:27:06,919 Speaker 1: I'm gonna go ahead and now and get the police 395 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:09,879 Speaker 1: to go over. Okay, why the are you going to 396 00:27:09,960 --> 00:27:12,760 Speaker 1: send them? Now? He probably took all my in my house. 397 00:27:13,200 --> 00:27:15,560 Speaker 1: I mean, the police get there, there's not gonna be 398 00:27:15,600 --> 00:27:18,240 Speaker 1: anything left in my house. Probably set the back of 399 00:27:18,280 --> 00:27:20,680 Speaker 1: the truck. I mean, I'm doing the best I can. 400 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:22,840 Speaker 1: I'm trying to help you with you is going to 401 00:27:22,920 --> 00:27:25,080 Speaker 1: do me now? I mean, the whole time you've been 402 00:27:25,119 --> 00:27:28,720 Speaker 1: talking to me, he's been cleaning up my house out 403 00:27:28,800 --> 00:27:31,600 Speaker 1: and stealing. Well, how did you get in your house? 404 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:38,040 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know this guy. You're what 405 00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:41,440 Speaker 1: I was asking you? How could somebody gave her house? 406 00:27:41,920 --> 00:27:46,240 Speaker 1: Did you leave something open? What did you go? Hey, listen, 407 00:27:46,720 --> 00:27:48,720 Speaker 1: you would know because I wouldn't have been able to 408 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:52,240 Speaker 1: set my alarm this morning. If something was open, it 409 00:27:52,280 --> 00:27:54,320 Speaker 1: would beef and it wouldn't let me set the alarm. 410 00:27:54,600 --> 00:27:57,760 Speaker 1: And the fact that you're interrogating me when somebody's robbing 411 00:27:57,760 --> 00:28:01,480 Speaker 1: my house. You need to do your job. I need 412 00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:04,520 Speaker 1: to call my husband. You're wasting my time. I mean, 413 00:28:04,560 --> 00:28:06,920 Speaker 1: by the time the police get there, it's gonna be tomorrow. 414 00:28:07,400 --> 00:28:11,440 Speaker 1: So you're gonna so you're gonna call Darrel. Now, I'm sorry, 415 00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,960 Speaker 1: you're gonna call Darrel? Now, how do you know my 416 00:28:15,040 --> 00:28:22,399 Speaker 1: husband's name? Denise? This is nephew telling me from the 417 00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey More to show your husband. Darrel got me 418 00:28:25,440 --> 00:28:30,760 Speaker 1: through prank phone coffee. Oh my god, I was gonna 419 00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:41,440 Speaker 1: come down there and right nobody stole your truck, nobody's 420 00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:44,240 Speaker 1: at your house, Your alarm is fine, everything is good. 421 00:28:44,320 --> 00:28:46,600 Speaker 1: But Darrel told me, he said, we gotta get my wife. 422 00:28:46,600 --> 00:28:52,120 Speaker 1: We gotta get a good that's so did we get you? 423 00:28:52,560 --> 00:28:55,440 Speaker 1: Oh my god, I was sweating. I was so angry. 424 00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:59,320 Speaker 1: I was sweating over here. All right, So tell me this. 425 00:28:59,480 --> 00:29:02,480 Speaker 1: What is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio 426 00:29:02,680 --> 00:29:10,440 Speaker 1: show in the land. So Steve Harvey Morning Show, come on. 427 00:29:11,040 --> 00:29:13,720 Speaker 1: I need it. No, you come on, I got to 428 00:29:13,800 --> 00:29:17,720 Speaker 1: have it for real, man, lady, and your takeover right here. 429 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:23,560 Speaker 1: I'm from I'm pranking white ladies, not Hello. Yeah. Now 430 00:29:23,600 --> 00:29:27,280 Speaker 1: he's doing good. Right now, that's him. He asked the question. First, 431 00:29:27,320 --> 00:29:29,840 Speaker 1: we gotta hype him up. Huh did he tell them 432 00:29:29,880 --> 00:29:32,000 Speaker 1: what he's doing? He can't come to date, but we 433 00:29:32,120 --> 00:29:36,560 Speaker 1: like when you're doing. Huh? Was I everything when I 434 00:29:36,640 --> 00:29:40,160 Speaker 1: write down? Come on now, I don't hear nobody. Yeah, 435 00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:42,600 Speaker 1: I don't hear the greatest. Come on now, you're the 436 00:29:42,640 --> 00:29:47,400 Speaker 1: best that every day? What man? How dare they hold on? 437 00:29:47,400 --> 00:29:50,840 Speaker 1: I'll prank your white folks now, new level, new devil. 438 00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,320 Speaker 1: I'm out here killing them. We gotta get out of here, 439 00:29:57,680 --> 00:30:01,680 Speaker 1: coming out. Thank you, rear Endo, I just get you. 440 00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:05,959 Speaker 1: That's right, you need me open. Thank you, nephew, Thank you, Steve. 441 00:30:06,120 --> 00:30:08,560 Speaker 1: Coming up at the top of the hour, Alicia Keys 442 00:30:08,640 --> 00:30:11,640 Speaker 1: is going to host the Grammys and essence names it's 443 00:30:11,680 --> 00:30:15,680 Speaker 1: Women in Hollywood on a Reese right after this, you're 444 00:30:15,720 --> 00:30:24,640 Speaker 1: listening in entertainment news Alicia Keys. Congratulations to her. Alicia 445 00:30:24,720 --> 00:30:29,000 Speaker 1: Keys has been tapped to host the twenty nineteen Grammy Awards. 446 00:30:30,320 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 1: Yeah that's cool, right. She shared a video on her 447 00:30:34,520 --> 00:30:37,600 Speaker 1: YouTube channel making the big announcement. She said, I'm so 448 00:30:37,680 --> 00:30:41,080 Speaker 1: excited to announce that I'll be hosting the sixty first 449 00:30:41,160 --> 00:30:44,640 Speaker 1: annual Grammy Awards. She says, there's so much in store. Yeah, 450 00:30:44,680 --> 00:30:46,920 Speaker 1: there's so much in store, and she can't wait for 451 00:30:47,000 --> 00:30:49,120 Speaker 1: us to see it and for it all to come 452 00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:52,880 Speaker 1: to life. The Grammys will air live on February tenth 453 00:30:52,920 --> 00:30:57,800 Speaker 1: on CBS. Hey, who's the Oscars? No one? I think 454 00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:02,280 Speaker 1: it's yeah, no no one, Hostess Oscar. I think everybody 455 00:31:02,320 --> 00:31:04,479 Speaker 1: that go up there, they just bring up the next person. 456 00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:09,400 Speaker 1: You just keep it moving, that's all. That's the only way. Yeah, yeah, 457 00:31:09,520 --> 00:31:13,320 Speaker 1: that's gonna be next. I I ain't got to watch it, nohow, 458 00:31:13,400 --> 00:31:15,720 Speaker 1: but I really after they played Kevin like that, I said, 459 00:31:15,800 --> 00:31:20,400 Speaker 1: I'm not watching. I probably don't watch it no way. 460 00:31:20,480 --> 00:31:23,640 Speaker 1: But you know, this just gives you a better reason. Now, 461 00:31:23,720 --> 00:31:26,080 Speaker 1: Oh this was a show. Ain't gonna why it ain't 462 00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:29,280 Speaker 1: gonna be on. But I love the fact that Kevin 463 00:31:29,400 --> 00:31:31,440 Speaker 1: is still winning though he has a number one movie 464 00:31:32,040 --> 00:31:36,200 Speaker 1: right now, you know with the other do yeah, I 465 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,280 Speaker 1: mean a talent to ye, you're responsible to right, he 466 00:31:39,680 --> 00:31:44,320 Speaker 1: got talent work ethic great dude, man yeah man, yeah, 467 00:31:44,360 --> 00:31:47,360 Speaker 1: and and other entertainment news congratulations are in order for 468 00:31:47,400 --> 00:31:51,520 Speaker 1: our girl. He's got plenty of money. Kevin had enough 469 00:31:51,520 --> 00:31:54,680 Speaker 1: money to buy his co host calls and everything. You 470 00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,240 Speaker 1: know what I'm saying, he got. I just want to 471 00:31:56,560 --> 00:32:00,400 Speaker 1: that out there his cost, you know, I can you 472 00:32:00,400 --> 00:32:04,720 Speaker 1: see different. I'm just telling you right now, you're talking 473 00:32:04,720 --> 00:32:09,760 Speaker 1: about the guys at tool with him. Yes, yeah, y'all 474 00:32:09,760 --> 00:32:15,840 Speaker 1: need to nowhere what you mean with you for a 475 00:32:15,840 --> 00:32:21,880 Speaker 1: long time on one. I mean we did a long 476 00:32:22,080 --> 00:32:31,000 Speaker 1: time one yield. Then you start smelling yourself off. Told me, no, got, 477 00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:37,720 Speaker 1: we're not gonna do this. I ain't you know, my 478 00:32:37,840 --> 00:32:40,160 Speaker 1: money was set. I didn't have to wear about my money. 479 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:46,200 Speaker 1: Can we continue to congratulate Regina Hall please? And a 480 00:32:46,280 --> 00:32:49,720 Speaker 1: man list on Stenberg. They are the stars of the 481 00:32:49,760 --> 00:32:53,040 Speaker 1: hate you give. They're being honored at essence at their 482 00:32:53,080 --> 00:32:57,960 Speaker 1: annual Black Women in Hollywood luncheon. If yeah, that's really nice. 483 00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:02,200 Speaker 1: If Bill Street could talk, Star Kiki Lane and Jennifer Lewis. 484 00:33:02,240 --> 00:33:05,400 Speaker 1: So we love us from Jennifer Lewis and black yes, 485 00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:09,920 Speaker 1: miss Ruby all yeah, please help me black Jesus black 486 00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:15,920 Speaker 1: social media? Oh yes, yeah, clown, especially when it's Ronne 487 00:33:15,920 --> 00:33:20,040 Speaker 1: election time, get your butt out and vote, all right? 488 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:23,120 Speaker 1: Uh yeah, anyway, Jennifer Lewis is also going to be 489 00:33:23,160 --> 00:33:25,880 Speaker 1: honored for all of their marvelous work and for their 490 00:33:25,920 --> 00:33:29,280 Speaker 1: stunning achievements. The Black Women in Hollywood Luncheon takes place 491 00:33:29,280 --> 00:33:34,120 Speaker 1: on February twenty first in Beverly Hills. So there you go. Good, 492 00:33:34,640 --> 00:33:40,880 Speaker 1: that's right. Congratulations, Yes, deservingly so. Though. Regina Hall, I mean, 493 00:33:41,200 --> 00:33:43,680 Speaker 1: she's such a talent and a sweet person. She really 494 00:33:43,800 --> 00:33:46,800 Speaker 1: really is. Yeah, I see you on a cover Essence magazine. Yeah, 495 00:33:46,960 --> 00:33:50,800 Speaker 1: look really good family. I ain't forgot them. I love 496 00:33:50,840 --> 00:33:56,840 Speaker 1: him to death. Yeah, absolutely forgot him. I ain't forgot him. 497 00:33:56,840 --> 00:33:59,000 Speaker 1: Boy did seven years over there? That was pretty good. 498 00:33:59,040 --> 00:34:02,440 Speaker 1: Run man was Yeah, I did seven I hosted for 499 00:34:02,520 --> 00:34:07,040 Speaker 1: seven years. Dude. Wow A not bad. I ain't mad 500 00:34:07,120 --> 00:34:12,359 Speaker 1: at nothing. Oh. We love Essence. Yeah, and we also 501 00:34:12,400 --> 00:34:16,200 Speaker 1: love miss and Steve. Well, let's bring our own out there. Okay, 502 00:34:16,280 --> 00:34:24,560 Speaker 1: let's do it. Well. Hell, ladies and gentlemen. I worked 503 00:34:24,560 --> 00:34:27,000 Speaker 1: with some crazy all the way live people, don't I anyway? 504 00:34:27,040 --> 00:34:29,760 Speaker 1: This is answered with the news everybody, Good morning. President 505 00:34:29,760 --> 00:34:32,120 Speaker 1: Trump's nominee to take Jeff Sessions place at the head 506 00:34:32,160 --> 00:34:35,479 Speaker 1: of Justice Department face some intense questioning on Capitol Hill today. 507 00:34:35,520 --> 00:34:37,920 Speaker 1: He's going to get some more questioning later on William 508 00:34:37,920 --> 00:34:41,360 Speaker 1: Barr was pelted with questions yesterday, mostly centering on Special 509 00:34:41,480 --> 00:34:44,960 Speaker 1: Counsel Robin Muller's Russia investigation, specifically if he was going 510 00:34:45,000 --> 00:34:47,480 Speaker 1: to do anything to stop it. President Trump continues to 511 00:34:47,560 --> 00:34:50,040 Speaker 1: label the pro but witch hunt. Barr testified that he 512 00:34:50,040 --> 00:34:53,440 Speaker 1: would give Mueller adequate time and resources to complete the investigation, 513 00:34:53,520 --> 00:34:55,239 Speaker 1: and he went further, I am not going to do 514 00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:57,000 Speaker 1: anything that I think is wrong, and I will not 515 00:34:57,040 --> 00:35:00,239 Speaker 1: be bullied into doing anything I think it's wrong any 516 00:35:00,239 --> 00:35:02,760 Speaker 1: whether it be editorial boards or Congress or the President. 517 00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:04,200 Speaker 1: I'm going to do what I think is right. Bar 518 00:35:04,239 --> 00:35:06,640 Speaker 1: says he believes in Moscow did try to interfere with 519 00:35:06,680 --> 00:35:09,160 Speaker 1: the last presidential election and that US officials need to 520 00:35:09,200 --> 00:35:11,239 Speaker 1: get to the bottom of that. A federal judge in 521 00:35:11,280 --> 00:35:13,880 Speaker 1: New York is ruled against the Trump administration's decision to 522 00:35:13,920 --> 00:35:17,520 Speaker 1: add a citizenship question to the twenty twenty census, US 523 00:35:17,520 --> 00:35:20,360 Speaker 1: Sister Judge Jesse Furman ordering the White House to stop 524 00:35:20,400 --> 00:35:22,560 Speaker 1: its plans to include the question. The question is is 525 00:35:22,600 --> 00:35:25,680 Speaker 1: this person a citizen of the US. That's something that 526 00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:29,360 Speaker 1: all US households apparently have not been asked since nineteen fifty. 527 00:35:30,200 --> 00:35:32,440 Speaker 1: The I R. S is recalling about forty six thousand 528 00:35:32,480 --> 00:35:35,040 Speaker 1: of its furloughed employees to handle tax returns and get 529 00:35:35,040 --> 00:35:38,000 Speaker 1: out those refunds. By the way, those furloughed workers will 530 00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:42,080 Speaker 1: still be working without pay. New York Centator Kiston Gilbrand yesterday, 531 00:35:42,120 --> 00:35:45,680 Speaker 1: so she's authorized the formation of an exploratory committee to 532 00:35:45,800 --> 00:35:48,319 Speaker 1: engage the feasibility of her running for president. She's laid 533 00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:49,799 Speaker 1: out some of the reasons she wants to be the 534 00:35:49,800 --> 00:35:52,239 Speaker 1: commander in chief on the Late Show. Healthcare should be 535 00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:56,360 Speaker 1: a right and not a privilege. I believe we should 536 00:35:56,440 --> 00:35:59,280 Speaker 1: have better public schools for our kids because it shouldn't 537 00:35:59,280 --> 00:36:02,400 Speaker 1: matter what you grow up on. And I believe that 538 00:36:02,480 --> 00:36:05,480 Speaker 1: anybody who wants to work hard enough should be able 539 00:36:05,520 --> 00:36:07,719 Speaker 1: to get whatever job training they need to earn their 540 00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:10,759 Speaker 1: way into the middle class. But you are never going 541 00:36:10,800 --> 00:36:14,040 Speaker 1: to accomplish any of these things if you don't take 542 00:36:14,600 --> 00:36:18,759 Speaker 1: on the systems of power that make all of that impossible, 543 00:36:19,160 --> 00:36:22,719 Speaker 1: which is taking on institutional racism, taking on the corruption 544 00:36:22,800 --> 00:36:27,680 Speaker 1: and greed in Washington, taking on the special interests that 545 00:36:27,800 --> 00:36:30,920 Speaker 1: write legislation in the dead of night. And I know 546 00:36:31,400 --> 00:36:34,640 Speaker 1: that I have the compassion, the courage, and the fearless 547 00:36:34,640 --> 00:36:37,480 Speaker 1: determination to get that done well, Sana jelibrand joints. What's 548 00:36:37,520 --> 00:36:40,560 Speaker 1: expect to be a real crowded primary field of democratic hopefuls. 549 00:36:40,800 --> 00:36:44,000 Speaker 1: Various community blend black women's group scheduled to rally outside 550 00:36:44,040 --> 00:36:47,040 Speaker 1: Sony Music headquarters in Manhattan this morning to demand that 551 00:36:47,080 --> 00:36:50,520 Speaker 1: OURCA records drop r Kelly. They're delivering about one hundred 552 00:36:50,520 --> 00:36:52,719 Speaker 1: and eight thousand citishes on their petition as well, and 553 00:36:52,800 --> 00:36:55,160 Speaker 1: maybe there aren't too many men in certain parts of Arizona. 554 00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:57,480 Speaker 1: A trial date set for a Phoenix woman who police 555 00:36:57,520 --> 00:37:00,440 Speaker 1: say sent a man more than sixty five and text 556 00:37:00,440 --> 00:37:03,200 Speaker 1: messages after one date. One of them read, I'll make 557 00:37:03,239 --> 00:37:06,000 Speaker 1: sushi out of your kidneys and chopsticks out of your handbones. 558 00:37:06,440 --> 00:37:10,280 Speaker 1: Two words, get out. Now back to the Steve Harvey 559 00:37:10,280 --> 00:37:16,040 Speaker 1: Morning Show. You're listening to. One of the great things 560 00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:18,840 Speaker 1: about winning a sports championship, you know, is a trip 561 00:37:18,880 --> 00:37:22,520 Speaker 1: to the White House, meeting and seeing the President and 562 00:37:22,960 --> 00:37:26,719 Speaker 1: maybe having a little lunch with the president as well. Right, well, 563 00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:30,319 Speaker 1: Monday nights visit by the college football champs Clemson Tigers. 564 00:37:30,680 --> 00:37:34,040 Speaker 1: It was a bit unusual, shall we say, thanks to 565 00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:38,200 Speaker 1: the partial government showdown shutdown, I should say White House 566 00:37:38,200 --> 00:37:41,720 Speaker 1: staff has been furloughed. So instead of a nice meal 567 00:37:41,840 --> 00:37:44,160 Speaker 1: from the kitchen, you know, one of the best chefs 568 00:37:44,160 --> 00:37:47,719 Speaker 1: in the world, the president ordered out and treated the 569 00:37:47,840 --> 00:37:51,280 Speaker 1: champs to a meal of American fast food. He even 570 00:37:51,320 --> 00:37:54,239 Speaker 1: picked up the tab. So wonder if the players were 571 00:37:54,280 --> 00:37:56,120 Speaker 1: bummed out. They had to dress up. They were all 572 00:37:56,120 --> 00:37:57,960 Speaker 1: in suits and everything. You know, they had to go 573 00:37:58,040 --> 00:38:00,879 Speaker 1: through the security get on the plane. And how many 574 00:38:00,880 --> 00:38:05,040 Speaker 1: players went because I only saw maybe ten players gathering 575 00:38:05,040 --> 00:38:07,319 Speaker 1: around the table eating. I thought the whole team one. 576 00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:10,080 Speaker 1: I think the whole team. I'm just saying the clip. 577 00:38:10,160 --> 00:38:14,120 Speaker 1: I saw like ten people around the table. Yeah, so 578 00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:18,759 Speaker 1: they were served McDonald's, Burger King, and Wendy's and uh 579 00:38:19,160 --> 00:38:22,440 Speaker 1: Donald Trump said, we went off and we ordered American 580 00:38:22,520 --> 00:38:25,919 Speaker 1: fast food, paid for by me. Lots of burgers, lots 581 00:38:25,920 --> 00:38:28,719 Speaker 1: of pizza. I think they'd like it better than anything 582 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:32,080 Speaker 1: we could give. The president. We all know he loves 583 00:38:32,120 --> 00:38:38,319 Speaker 1: fast food. It's been well document. Yeah, what did you 584 00:38:38,320 --> 00:38:40,520 Speaker 1: see how many? How many times he was talking the 585 00:38:40,560 --> 00:38:43,800 Speaker 1: whole time, but the players weren't. They couldn't eat. McDonald 586 00:38:43,880 --> 00:38:47,279 Speaker 1: fries ain't good at Room ten. Okay, we gotta eat 587 00:38:47,520 --> 00:38:51,200 Speaker 1: while they hot and then they have to be hot. 588 00:38:51,560 --> 00:38:53,080 Speaker 1: And then you know they had to go through some 589 00:38:53,120 --> 00:38:55,320 Speaker 1: sort of security just to get in the White House 590 00:38:55,320 --> 00:38:58,520 Speaker 1: from outside, so they went through every one of them 591 00:38:58,520 --> 00:39:02,000 Speaker 1: burgers press. I wouldn't have flown down that shirt. I 592 00:39:02,000 --> 00:39:08,359 Speaker 1: couldn't gone. Why I'm doing everything campus. It's a burger King, Yeah, 593 00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:11,440 Speaker 1: I mean Burger King and McDonald's and Wendy's. They're right 594 00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:17,160 Speaker 1: around the corner blighting candles and stuff and burgers and 595 00:39:17,280 --> 00:39:23,600 Speaker 1: candle light. Ain't that ain't sick? No, Look, I wasn't 596 00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:25,640 Speaker 1: mad at it. I didn't care. We gotta open the 597 00:39:25,719 --> 00:39:28,759 Speaker 1: damn government. But you got right, right, But you do 598 00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:31,480 Speaker 1: go to the White House, Steve for the experience. You know, 599 00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:33,920 Speaker 1: all the cooks is out, yeah, I know. And to 600 00:39:34,000 --> 00:39:37,359 Speaker 1: shut the government down. And what did the presidents say? 601 00:39:37,400 --> 00:39:40,960 Speaker 1: He's never ever gonna back down? What this dude? I 602 00:39:41,000 --> 00:39:44,839 Speaker 1: don't see, not compromise. Yeah, but you know what's aggravating 603 00:39:44,880 --> 00:39:49,320 Speaker 1: to me is that the Republican Party that g OP 604 00:39:50,200 --> 00:39:53,960 Speaker 1: will not get him and take him to task and 605 00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:57,160 Speaker 1: help him make right decisions. They go along with this. 606 00:39:57,400 --> 00:39:59,840 Speaker 1: He said Mexico was gonna be on the wall. That 607 00:40:00,040 --> 00:40:02,800 Speaker 1: didn't turn out true. Then they gave him a budget 608 00:40:02,840 --> 00:40:06,680 Speaker 1: to do some border security. When the Senate and House 609 00:40:07,160 --> 00:40:10,360 Speaker 1: had a proposal, he turned that down. Now he's sitting 610 00:40:10,400 --> 00:40:13,919 Speaker 1: up in that hold in America, hostage with this foolishness 611 00:40:14,120 --> 00:40:17,719 Speaker 1: about this wall. Yeah, it's crazy man. Well, coming up 612 00:40:17,719 --> 00:40:21,200 Speaker 1: at thirty four after the hour, the social media ten 613 00:40:21,920 --> 00:40:25,239 Speaker 1: Year Challenge and birthday self reflection questions, we'll have some 614 00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:28,640 Speaker 1: more for you, mister Steve Harvey, right after this. Okay, cool, 615 00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:34,720 Speaker 1: I like that you're listening to show, all right, Steve. 616 00:40:34,760 --> 00:40:37,480 Speaker 1: We talked about the ten year Challenge, trending on social 617 00:40:37,520 --> 00:40:40,480 Speaker 1: media where people you know, post a picture of what 618 00:40:40,520 --> 00:40:43,280 Speaker 1: they looked like a decade ago alongside a recent picture 619 00:40:43,320 --> 00:40:47,360 Speaker 1: of themselves. So, Steve, with everyone posting and taking pictures 620 00:40:47,360 --> 00:40:49,719 Speaker 1: and talk about aging and all that stuff. Well, your 621 00:40:49,719 --> 00:40:52,359 Speaker 1: birthday is tomorrow, so we're going to ask you some 622 00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:56,880 Speaker 1: more birthday self reflection questions. Are you ready? Stay ready 623 00:40:58,160 --> 00:41:01,640 Speaker 1: and ready ready? He is ready? All right, tell me 624 00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:04,080 Speaker 1: you want to go first? Go ahead? All right, don't 625 00:41:04,160 --> 00:41:08,319 Speaker 1: hear you? What is your what's your favorite way to 626 00:41:08,400 --> 00:41:11,600 Speaker 1: spend your day? And without work? Let's take that out 627 00:41:11,640 --> 00:41:14,560 Speaker 1: without your favorite way to spend a free day. I'd 628 00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:18,680 Speaker 1: either like to play golf or sitting on the beach 629 00:41:18,760 --> 00:41:26,000 Speaker 1: looking at the water with access to a butler. Now 630 00:41:26,000 --> 00:41:28,480 Speaker 1: that's probably a private beach. Right, Well, let's just not 631 00:41:28,560 --> 00:41:43,120 Speaker 1: sit there and be polled. Yeah, this is different way 632 00:41:43,239 --> 00:41:45,319 Speaker 1: you being an enjoyable time. You ain't got to get 633 00:41:45,360 --> 00:41:48,960 Speaker 1: them go there and buy them damn chicken ring. All right, Carla, 634 00:41:49,600 --> 00:41:53,680 Speaker 1: all right, Steve, here you go. How is the public ye, 635 00:41:55,000 --> 00:42:01,600 Speaker 1: different from the private view? The private me's a lot 636 00:42:01,640 --> 00:42:05,600 Speaker 1: more reserved than quiet. Yeah. I try to spend as 637 00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:09,760 Speaker 1: little time as I can talk in private. I agree 638 00:42:09,760 --> 00:42:13,560 Speaker 1: with that. Yeah, knowing you privately, Yeah yeah, that's been 639 00:42:13,600 --> 00:42:17,440 Speaker 1: out to dinner with you. Yeah yeah, yeah, because you're 640 00:42:17,440 --> 00:42:20,040 Speaker 1: always on so because I gotta save it when I 641 00:42:20,120 --> 00:42:24,120 Speaker 1: get up from here. Yeah yeah, and that's cool. We 642 00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:26,799 Speaker 1: can respect that. Come on, Junior, what you guy? Hey? 643 00:42:27,520 --> 00:42:30,720 Speaker 1: What surprised you most about your life? Just in general? 644 00:42:30,840 --> 00:42:34,120 Speaker 1: Just about your life? The level that God has gotten 645 00:42:34,120 --> 00:42:38,319 Speaker 1: me too, Because it's not the level I thought I 646 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:42,320 Speaker 1: would get to. He has actually taken me far beyond 647 00:42:42,440 --> 00:42:44,480 Speaker 1: where I thought I would get over. And I have 648 00:42:44,680 --> 00:42:48,359 Speaker 1: dreams and aspirations of what I like, but everything I've 649 00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:53,319 Speaker 1: ever dreamed like, he surpassed that's been the most surprising 650 00:42:54,160 --> 00:42:57,719 Speaker 1: thing to me, how much grace he's given me over 651 00:42:57,760 --> 00:43:01,240 Speaker 1: the years. You know, that's the beautiful. That's been surprising 652 00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:05,160 Speaker 1: to everybody in the family too, I swear to God, 653 00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:10,359 Speaker 1: especially you, nephew. What let me tell you something. They 654 00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:15,600 Speaker 1: were convinced that I would be nothing. That's all I've 655 00:43:15,880 --> 00:43:18,200 Speaker 1: used to be. We'll just be sitting on the front 656 00:43:18,200 --> 00:43:23,240 Speaker 1: porch doing nothing though nothing. Yeah, what playing that's my card? 657 00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:27,360 Speaker 1: Stuff like that. Six cars come up the street, that's mine, 658 00:43:28,000 --> 00:43:30,720 Speaker 1: but calling number five come up. I try to change 659 00:43:30,760 --> 00:43:34,000 Speaker 1: my number because the number five look real cold coming 660 00:43:34,000 --> 00:43:37,640 Speaker 1: out to man, you have to fight. And kids today 661 00:43:37,680 --> 00:43:40,880 Speaker 1: have no conception of what that's like. They have no 662 00:43:41,000 --> 00:43:43,959 Speaker 1: idea how to play what's My Car? And stuff like that. 663 00:43:44,400 --> 00:43:47,760 Speaker 1: We're playing on the highway, were playing? Are you still playing? Okay? 664 00:43:48,360 --> 00:43:50,920 Speaker 1: We teach them some of that stuff. We tried. Well, 665 00:43:50,920 --> 00:43:52,960 Speaker 1: that's a good thing to keep the tradition going in. 666 00:43:53,840 --> 00:43:56,160 Speaker 1: We make them put down their phone. You can't play 667 00:43:56,160 --> 00:44:02,000 Speaker 1: that's my car now, huh, because you ain't yours? All right, 668 00:44:02,000 --> 00:44:05,279 Speaker 1: there we go. You finish the sentence for me. Okay, 669 00:44:06,200 --> 00:44:11,000 Speaker 1: Being myself is hard because to who much has given 670 00:44:11,080 --> 00:44:18,440 Speaker 1: much is required quirements. A heavy, man, that's deep. Heavy 671 00:44:18,920 --> 00:44:25,120 Speaker 1: is the head that wears the crown. Lord, Sometimes I'm 672 00:44:25,120 --> 00:44:27,879 Speaker 1: gonna take this crown off. That it's good to be king. 673 00:44:28,680 --> 00:44:31,440 Speaker 1: Yeah that's true. But boy, heavy is the head that 674 00:44:31,560 --> 00:44:34,520 Speaker 1: wears the crown. Sometimes you want to take it off, man, 675 00:44:34,560 --> 00:44:39,120 Speaker 1: but you can't. It's attached. All right, all right, come on, Tommy, 676 00:44:39,400 --> 00:44:46,720 Speaker 1: he has moved faster. Okay, all right, finished, finish, finish 677 00:44:46,800 --> 00:44:48,359 Speaker 1: this sentence right here. Let me see, let me see, 678 00:44:48,760 --> 00:44:54,200 Speaker 1: I missed a great opportunity when I had blank, probably 679 00:44:54,200 --> 00:44:59,760 Speaker 1: to take you along. I don't have any deep regrets 680 00:45:00,080 --> 00:45:04,239 Speaker 1: my life about now. That's a beautiful answer as well. 681 00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:06,960 Speaker 1: I don't have any I can't think of anything that 682 00:45:07,080 --> 00:45:09,279 Speaker 1: I because everything you've gone through has made you what 683 00:45:09,440 --> 00:45:12,399 Speaker 1: you are today, got what I was supposed to have, 684 00:45:13,480 --> 00:45:16,640 Speaker 1: plus song in the words everyone in five you can't 685 00:45:16,680 --> 00:45:19,520 Speaker 1: give what you never hate. Wow, won't you do it? 686 00:45:20,239 --> 00:45:23,240 Speaker 1: All right? Look, coming up next it is a nephew 687 00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:26,120 Speaker 1: with the prank phone call for it today. Right after 688 00:45:26,160 --> 00:45:31,960 Speaker 1: this you're listening to. Coming up at the top of 689 00:45:32,000 --> 00:45:34,680 Speaker 1: the hour, right about four minutes after, it's my strawberry 690 00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:37,399 Speaker 1: letter for it Today. The subject if you don't get 691 00:45:37,440 --> 00:45:43,680 Speaker 1: your mama. I will see that's where you roll. You 692 00:45:45,760 --> 00:45:51,960 Speaker 1: don't get your mama. I'm going to do it right 693 00:45:52,000 --> 00:45:54,080 Speaker 1: now though. It is the nephew's turn to give us 694 00:45:54,080 --> 00:45:55,919 Speaker 1: a prank phone call for it today. What you got 695 00:45:56,000 --> 00:46:04,440 Speaker 1: nef wax status? Huh wax daddy. Oh look that's the 696 00:46:04,680 --> 00:46:11,160 Speaker 1: Prince early. Okay, well we go, wax daddy. Call it 697 00:46:11,239 --> 00:46:21,520 Speaker 1: gonna get you done. But I'm just drainings wrong with you. Yes, 698 00:46:25,320 --> 00:46:29,759 Speaker 1: I'm gonna say it again. Wax daddy. Here we go 699 00:46:30,040 --> 00:46:35,640 Speaker 1: running Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Owen. Please, Yeah, 700 00:46:35,680 --> 00:46:38,719 Speaker 1: this is on Hi Owen. This is ramone on giving 701 00:46:38,760 --> 00:46:41,360 Speaker 1: you a call um where we're just confirming your appointment 702 00:46:41,400 --> 00:46:44,719 Speaker 1: at eleven on Thursday, and I wanted to make you're 703 00:46:44,719 --> 00:46:46,360 Speaker 1: a new client, so we wanted to make sure that 704 00:46:46,400 --> 00:46:49,719 Speaker 1: you were Okay, wait a minute, putent for what you 705 00:46:49,840 --> 00:46:54,520 Speaker 1: have a spa treatment scheduled? Um at eleven on Thursday. 706 00:46:54,680 --> 00:46:59,480 Speaker 1: You did receive a spa treatment from your wife for Christmas. Um, 707 00:47:00,000 --> 00:47:03,560 Speaker 1: I don't remember being set up for anything or any appointment. Well, 708 00:47:03,719 --> 00:47:06,719 Speaker 1: she's made an appointment for you for eleven o'clock on 709 00:47:06,880 --> 00:47:10,160 Speaker 1: this coming Thursdays. I'm just calling them confirm that you 710 00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:13,000 Speaker 1: would definitely be in to the salon. Well, I thought 711 00:47:13,000 --> 00:47:15,160 Speaker 1: this was like a couple's massage or something like that. 712 00:47:15,200 --> 00:47:18,160 Speaker 1: So what is the treatment all about? What's what do 713 00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:21,239 Speaker 1: you guys? I don't I understand? Um, well, she's got 714 00:47:21,320 --> 00:47:25,520 Speaker 1: you signed up for Let me look, she's got you 715 00:47:25,600 --> 00:47:31,000 Speaker 1: signed up for us to actually wax your back in 716 00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:35,120 Speaker 1: your buttocks on Thursday. And we actually have a special 717 00:47:35,840 --> 00:47:41,480 Speaker 1: that we have, um a man zillion, which is a 718 00:47:42,680 --> 00:47:45,319 Speaker 1: this isn't for real? Sure we have you lined up 719 00:47:45,360 --> 00:47:47,840 Speaker 1: for an appointment. If you don't want the appointment, please 720 00:47:48,400 --> 00:47:53,319 Speaker 1: let us know. Whax my my back and my get 721 00:47:53,360 --> 00:47:59,440 Speaker 1: that all out of you man zillion? What your your 722 00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:03,479 Speaker 1: wife is set you up for a back and butt 723 00:48:03,600 --> 00:48:06,920 Speaker 1: hair removal, which is waxing. And what I'm saying is 724 00:48:06,920 --> 00:48:09,600 Speaker 1: a manzilion is if you would like that, we would 725 00:48:09,600 --> 00:48:14,439 Speaker 1: remove all the hair from your private area as well. Yeah, 726 00:48:14,520 --> 00:48:18,759 Speaker 1: try again, man, there's no way I'm getting my private laugh. 727 00:48:19,480 --> 00:48:25,000 Speaker 1: What's I could be hairless like? But no way get 728 00:48:25,040 --> 00:48:28,160 Speaker 1: out of here. Evidently, if your wife has set you 729 00:48:28,239 --> 00:48:31,600 Speaker 1: up for this, maybe she's not into all you have. 730 00:48:31,680 --> 00:48:33,560 Speaker 1: You evidently have a lot of hair on your back 731 00:48:33,600 --> 00:48:36,920 Speaker 1: I'm assuming, Yeah, I'm a hairy guy, but she's never 732 00:48:36,960 --> 00:48:39,919 Speaker 1: said anything A batters. He likes it. Okay, he calls 733 00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:43,799 Speaker 1: me he loves it. Well, maybe there's a mix of communication, 734 00:48:43,920 --> 00:48:46,400 Speaker 1: because this is the thing she's asking us to do, 735 00:48:46,480 --> 00:48:49,800 Speaker 1: is to remove your hair. Yeah, no, that's not happening. 736 00:48:49,880 --> 00:48:52,520 Speaker 1: And if she's gonna tell me yourself, and there's no 737 00:48:52,840 --> 00:48:55,239 Speaker 1: way I'm going in to have somebody ripped the hair 738 00:48:55,280 --> 00:48:58,880 Speaker 1: off my back and my hands and my private kidding 739 00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:01,760 Speaker 1: me to get the out of here. This is crazy. 740 00:49:01,800 --> 00:49:05,400 Speaker 1: This is this is a very professional procedure. It won't 741 00:49:05,440 --> 00:49:07,439 Speaker 1: take long. We don't have you in and out within 742 00:49:07,520 --> 00:49:13,120 Speaker 1: forty five minutes, but you're gonna forty five minutes, forty 743 00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:15,160 Speaker 1: five minutes to rip off all of this hair. That 744 00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:20,720 Speaker 1: sounds like tot s he mean, okay, sure you know No, no, 745 00:49:20,800 --> 00:49:24,799 Speaker 1: I think we're done. I think you know we're done. 746 00:49:24,800 --> 00:49:26,440 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, I'm gonna tell her to get 747 00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:31,319 Speaker 1: a refund. It's getting a refund. Okay, they're not gonna 748 00:49:31,360 --> 00:49:34,320 Speaker 1: be a refund. Now you're supposed to come in at eleven. 749 00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:36,279 Speaker 1: This is something that she wants you to do. Yeah, 750 00:49:36,320 --> 00:49:40,440 Speaker 1: I'm not listen to me. I am not getting WAF 751 00:49:40,880 --> 00:49:43,839 Speaker 1: That's not something a man does. There's no way I'm 752 00:49:43,920 --> 00:49:46,239 Speaker 1: doing that. If this is for real, I'm gonna have 753 00:49:46,239 --> 00:49:47,799 Speaker 1: a talk with her as soon as she gets home. 754 00:49:47,960 --> 00:49:52,560 Speaker 1: Because no, no, no, sir, shirt right now, right now, 755 00:49:52,640 --> 00:49:56,919 Speaker 1: you're are disrespecting my profession. That's what you're doing. Okay. Look, 756 00:49:56,960 --> 00:49:58,480 Speaker 1: I'm not sure. I don't. I don't know what this 757 00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:01,040 Speaker 1: is all about. I don't. I'm not trying to suspect anybody, 758 00:50:01,040 --> 00:50:03,279 Speaker 1: but stop why I'm doing this all right, I'm not 759 00:50:03,320 --> 00:50:08,440 Speaker 1: getting it back. No, there's no way. Okay. So evidently 760 00:50:08,480 --> 00:50:11,000 Speaker 1: your wife wanted or she wouldn't have purchased it from 761 00:50:11,120 --> 00:50:13,239 Speaker 1: us to have you come in and get it done. Well, yeah, 762 00:50:13,239 --> 00:50:15,319 Speaker 1: I'm gonna have to talk to her about that. I mean, 763 00:50:15,360 --> 00:50:17,040 Speaker 1: if there's something she wants to watch, you can wax 764 00:50:17,080 --> 00:50:19,719 Speaker 1: her private that's cool, But a man has hair. I mean, 765 00:50:19,760 --> 00:50:23,560 Speaker 1: it's well, if she didn't have an appointment, then she's 766 00:50:23,640 --> 00:50:27,240 Speaker 1: serious about getting it done. Yeah. Well I'm serious about 767 00:50:27,280 --> 00:50:30,080 Speaker 1: not going. So I mean, you know, I don't know 768 00:50:30,080 --> 00:50:32,200 Speaker 1: how I can explain it to you. I'm not coming in. 769 00:50:32,600 --> 00:50:35,319 Speaker 1: You can reschedule it for somebody else. I'll talk to 770 00:50:35,360 --> 00:50:37,440 Speaker 1: her when she gets home. But that's that's it. I'm 771 00:50:37,480 --> 00:50:41,400 Speaker 1: just your wife has paid two hundred dollars for this procedure. 772 00:50:42,160 --> 00:50:45,040 Speaker 1: Did you say two hundred dollars? Your wife has paid 773 00:50:45,080 --> 00:50:49,439 Speaker 1: two hundred dollars for this procedure. Yeah, no, who's gonna 774 00:50:49,440 --> 00:50:54,800 Speaker 1: get a refund? You guys are this is sir, sir owen. 775 00:50:55,040 --> 00:50:59,399 Speaker 1: This is not refundable, so there is no money coming back. 776 00:50:59,440 --> 00:51:03,279 Speaker 1: I will let you know that. Two hundred bucks. There's 777 00:51:03,320 --> 00:51:08,200 Speaker 1: no way. You gotta be kidding me to take care 778 00:51:08,239 --> 00:51:14,240 Speaker 1: off on my back and my back, two hundred bucks. 779 00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:16,800 Speaker 1: This is a very referable spa here. I don't, I 780 00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:18,440 Speaker 1: don't do it. I'm gonna get I'm gonna go to 781 00:51:18,480 --> 00:51:21,759 Speaker 1: the dollar store and get a pack of Raisors for 782 00:51:21,880 --> 00:51:24,040 Speaker 1: a dollar, and she's gonna do it herself, and I'll 783 00:51:24,040 --> 00:51:26,399 Speaker 1: give her. I'll give her ten bucks. This is good. 784 00:51:26,400 --> 00:51:29,279 Speaker 1: I'll give her a tip. That's the five tip food bucks. 785 00:51:29,360 --> 00:51:33,319 Speaker 1: I'm done. I'm say two hundred bucks. There's no way, 786 00:51:33,480 --> 00:51:37,080 Speaker 1: there is no way we are playing that money and 787 00:51:37,160 --> 00:51:39,440 Speaker 1: you guys are keeping that money. There's nowhere pray, do 788 00:51:39,480 --> 00:51:44,960 Speaker 1: you understand there's no there's not a refund, mister Owen. 789 00:51:45,040 --> 00:51:48,640 Speaker 1: There's definitely not a refrom mister Owen, what are you? 790 00:51:49,239 --> 00:51:54,000 Speaker 1: There's alway and I'm gonna raman. I am Ramone here 791 00:51:54,040 --> 00:51:56,280 Speaker 1: at the spa and your wife came in and purchases 792 00:51:56,560 --> 00:52:00,440 Speaker 1: wonderful gift for you for Christmas. Remote, I don't give up, Ramone. 793 00:52:00,520 --> 00:52:03,799 Speaker 1: Listen to me. Now, you're not respecting my profession. You're 794 00:52:03,840 --> 00:52:06,600 Speaker 1: acting I don't look. Look, I'm not trying to disrespect you, 795 00:52:06,600 --> 00:52:10,319 Speaker 1: but I don't care about the profession. There's no way. 796 00:52:10,400 --> 00:52:13,719 Speaker 1: That's actually that's robbery. Charging somebody two hundred bucks to 797 00:52:13,800 --> 00:52:16,640 Speaker 1: rip off hair off their their body. He gets just 798 00:52:16,680 --> 00:52:19,719 Speaker 1: no way. I'm just doing it, and I'm gonna talk 799 00:52:19,760 --> 00:52:21,759 Speaker 1: to her. She's gonna do it herself. I want to 800 00:52:21,800 --> 00:52:24,640 Speaker 1: cash because you're disrespecting my profession and you're not coming 801 00:52:24,680 --> 00:52:26,880 Speaker 1: in at eleven all would you supposed to come in 802 00:52:26,880 --> 00:52:29,200 Speaker 1: at eleven so we could watch your back in your body? 803 00:52:29,239 --> 00:52:32,840 Speaker 1: And now you're saying no, there will be nothing whack. 804 00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:35,319 Speaker 1: I'm not coming in eleven. I'm not coming in ever. 805 00:52:35,800 --> 00:52:37,880 Speaker 1: She's gonna take care of this though. You don't have 806 00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:40,520 Speaker 1: to worry about it. Ramone. I mean respect to you, 807 00:52:40,719 --> 00:52:44,959 Speaker 1: but no need to know and there is no refund. Okay, 808 00:52:45,360 --> 00:52:47,960 Speaker 1: I mean, this is getting ridiculous. I don't even know 809 00:52:47,960 --> 00:52:50,279 Speaker 1: why I'm talking to you. You're cousin Peter. Have you 810 00:52:50,280 --> 00:52:53,520 Speaker 1: spoken to him lately? How to you know? Peter? You 811 00:52:54,040 --> 00:52:57,120 Speaker 1: got me to call you. This is nephew Tommy from 812 00:52:57,120 --> 00:53:04,360 Speaker 1: the Steve Robin Wanted Show. You just out of here, 813 00:53:04,400 --> 00:53:12,600 Speaker 1: you idiot. Oh, I gotta ask you something, man. What 814 00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:15,680 Speaker 1: is the baddest and I mean the baddest radio show 815 00:53:15,880 --> 00:53:23,800 Speaker 1: in the land, Steve Harvey Morning Show? Did I watch? Oh? 816 00:53:24,080 --> 00:53:27,480 Speaker 1: Did I watch much? Time? I know where you're coming from. Time. 817 00:53:27,520 --> 00:53:34,840 Speaker 1: I feel the same way about that race? Did you 818 00:53:34,960 --> 00:53:43,120 Speaker 1: Pip pop teeing me in twenty nineteen? He got you? Oh, Junior, 819 00:53:43,320 --> 00:53:45,680 Speaker 1: you know what I mean to tell you? Last month, 820 00:53:45,800 --> 00:53:47,799 Speaker 1: like right over the holidays, I meant to text you. 821 00:53:48,080 --> 00:53:50,080 Speaker 1: Guess what popped up on my timeline? You know, in 822 00:53:50,160 --> 00:53:53,040 Speaker 1: your pictures one year ago to day the race year 823 00:53:55,000 --> 00:53:59,360 Speaker 1: I didn't do with you run on the thirteenth or 824 00:53:59,360 --> 00:54:01,960 Speaker 1: something like that, and what like that? It was December 825 00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:05,239 Speaker 1: and what was what was Carla saying Steve on that tape? 826 00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:15,800 Speaker 1: This bank, I lost my father, this blankety blank, I 827 00:54:15,960 --> 00:54:19,479 Speaker 1: lost my blanket father. But when we played the tape back, 828 00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:23,239 Speaker 1: it was there, Carla. You remember that, y'all. Y'all act 829 00:54:23,280 --> 00:54:26,799 Speaker 1: like y'all didn't walk off. I was laughing. Y'all just 830 00:54:26,840 --> 00:54:33,000 Speaker 1: walked off. No, we didn't show, did it. We walked 831 00:54:33,040 --> 00:54:36,880 Speaker 1: off like this? Thankod of you. Up next time about 832 00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:40,360 Speaker 1: four minutes after. It's today's Strawberry Letters subject if you 833 00:54:40,560 --> 00:54:42,880 Speaker 1: if you don't get your mama, I will. It's coming 834 00:54:42,960 --> 00:54:47,120 Speaker 1: up right after this. You're listening to Steve Morning Show. 835 00:54:48,000 --> 00:54:50,600 Speaker 1: All right time now, guys for today's Strawberry Letter. If 836 00:54:50,600 --> 00:54:54,680 Speaker 1: you need advice on relationships, on dating, on sex, on work, 837 00:54:55,000 --> 00:54:58,239 Speaker 1: on parenting, and more, please submit your letter to the 838 00:54:58,360 --> 00:55:03,000 Speaker 1: Steve Harvey f M Com crew and click submit Strawberry Letter, 839 00:55:03,040 --> 00:55:05,080 Speaker 1: and we'll take care of you. We'll read your letter live. 840 00:55:05,120 --> 00:55:07,400 Speaker 1: It could be your letter live on the air like 841 00:55:07,440 --> 00:55:13,680 Speaker 1: we're reading this one right right. Mr. Buggle up and 842 00:55:13,800 --> 00:55:15,520 Speaker 1: hold on tight. We got it for you. Here. It 843 00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:19,319 Speaker 1: is the Strawberry let us subjects If you don't get 844 00:55:19,440 --> 00:55:21,799 Speaker 1: yo Mama, That's what it says in the title. If 845 00:55:21,800 --> 00:55:28,040 Speaker 1: you don't get yo Mama, I will, steveson, Dear Stephen Shirley, 846 00:55:28,120 --> 00:55:30,399 Speaker 1: I have found the man of my dreams and we've 847 00:55:30,400 --> 00:55:33,400 Speaker 1: been together for five years. We have one child together, 848 00:55:33,480 --> 00:55:38,200 Speaker 1: and I'm pregnant with our second child. Our relationship is great, 849 00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:42,360 Speaker 1: but my boyfriend's mother is a huge problem, and I'm 850 00:55:42,360 --> 00:55:46,080 Speaker 1: fed up with her inserting herself into every aspect of 851 00:55:46,120 --> 00:55:50,759 Speaker 1: our lives. She comments and how we parent, our finances, 852 00:55:50,840 --> 00:55:56,200 Speaker 1: my decorating style, how I cook, and my housekeeping skills. Recently, 853 00:55:56,440 --> 00:55:59,040 Speaker 1: our child was sick and she caused a big scene 854 00:55:59,040 --> 00:56:01,319 Speaker 1: in the hospital that it was my fault for not 855 00:56:01,440 --> 00:56:04,960 Speaker 1: taking better care of her grandchild. My child is young, 856 00:56:05,200 --> 00:56:08,200 Speaker 1: and she constantly critiques him, which makes him not like 857 00:56:08,280 --> 00:56:10,759 Speaker 1: her very much. Last week, she told me that she 858 00:56:10,800 --> 00:56:13,360 Speaker 1: hopes the new baby is not a brat like my toddler. 859 00:56:14,320 --> 00:56:17,520 Speaker 1: My boyfriend seems to overlook her insults when she goes 860 00:56:17,680 --> 00:56:20,040 Speaker 1: in on him, but it's hard for me to hear 861 00:56:20,040 --> 00:56:22,600 Speaker 1: her telling him that he's a sorry excuse for a man. 862 00:56:23,080 --> 00:56:26,879 Speaker 1: I have told her that her behavior is unacceptable, and 863 00:56:26,960 --> 00:56:29,400 Speaker 1: she said that she is just giving us much needed 864 00:56:29,400 --> 00:56:33,719 Speaker 1: advice and constructive criticism because we're young and don't know anything. 865 00:56:34,120 --> 00:56:37,080 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, we are in our early thirties and we 866 00:56:37,239 --> 00:56:40,359 Speaker 1: can take care of ourselves. I'm starting to think that 867 00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:43,480 Speaker 1: she might be right about my boyfriend being sorry because 868 00:56:43,480 --> 00:56:46,120 Speaker 1: he won't talk to her about her foul mouth and 869 00:56:46,200 --> 00:56:49,359 Speaker 1: bad attitude. I have told him that she is no 870 00:56:49,400 --> 00:56:51,840 Speaker 1: longer welcome in our home and that I do not 871 00:56:51,960 --> 00:56:55,200 Speaker 1: want her to have a relationship with our new baby. 872 00:56:55,560 --> 00:56:57,920 Speaker 1: I don't need this stress during the last trimester of 873 00:56:57,960 --> 00:57:00,200 Speaker 1: my pregnancy. How can I get this man to step 874 00:57:00,320 --> 00:57:03,040 Speaker 1: up and get his mom in check? Please advise? All right, 875 00:57:03,040 --> 00:57:05,680 Speaker 1: first of all, let me tell you this. Not welcoming 876 00:57:05,719 --> 00:57:07,880 Speaker 1: her in your home and not wanting her to have 877 00:57:07,920 --> 00:57:11,520 Speaker 1: a relationship with the new baby, that's kind of hearts. Okay, 878 00:57:11,760 --> 00:57:14,080 Speaker 1: Now is your boyfriend and mama's boy I have to 879 00:57:14,120 --> 00:57:16,320 Speaker 1: say yes to that. I have to say also that 880 00:57:16,360 --> 00:57:18,720 Speaker 1: you're right. Your man should be checking his mom in 881 00:57:18,760 --> 00:57:22,080 Speaker 1: a respectful way. She is too messy, she is too 882 00:57:22,200 --> 00:57:25,120 Speaker 1: involved in your relationship, she's too petty. She does need 883 00:57:25,120 --> 00:57:27,400 Speaker 1: to get her some business. I'm in agreement with all 884 00:57:27,440 --> 00:57:31,280 Speaker 1: of that. But unless he says something to her, she's 885 00:57:31,360 --> 00:57:35,400 Speaker 1: not gonna She's not gonna pull up. You've already said something. 886 00:57:35,640 --> 00:57:38,280 Speaker 1: But you're right, you don't need this kind of stress 887 00:57:38,320 --> 00:57:41,600 Speaker 1: in your last try trimester of your pregnancy. But but 888 00:57:41,720 --> 00:57:45,400 Speaker 1: how dare she though? I mean, what's what's all this disrespect? 889 00:57:46,120 --> 00:57:49,080 Speaker 1: Has this been going on for the entire five years? 890 00:57:49,360 --> 00:57:51,200 Speaker 1: I can't believe you guys have allowed it to go 891 00:57:51,240 --> 00:57:54,240 Speaker 1: on for so long. Now I'm gonna ask you this. 892 00:57:54,720 --> 00:57:57,000 Speaker 1: Do you think it has anything to do with the 893 00:57:57,040 --> 00:58:01,200 Speaker 1: fact that you guys aren't married? Five years, two kids later, 894 00:58:03,000 --> 00:58:05,480 Speaker 1: that's a lot. Maybe, you know, she might be messy 895 00:58:05,520 --> 00:58:07,520 Speaker 1: and all of that, you know, with her ways and everything, 896 00:58:07,560 --> 00:58:10,280 Speaker 1: but she might also be old school and she wants 897 00:58:10,280 --> 00:58:13,120 Speaker 1: you to to stop having children and making you know, 898 00:58:13,200 --> 00:58:15,360 Speaker 1: making babies and all this and go ahead and tie 899 00:58:15,400 --> 00:58:18,919 Speaker 1: the knot. You know. Maybe that's where this is really 900 00:58:18,920 --> 00:58:22,280 Speaker 1: coming from. Just something to think about there, Steve. The 901 00:58:22,480 --> 00:58:28,840 Speaker 1: mama is out of line, yeah, and period. It ain't 902 00:58:28,840 --> 00:58:31,520 Speaker 1: got nothing to do really with the boy or the girl, 903 00:58:31,920 --> 00:58:35,880 Speaker 1: the son or the daughter. The mama is way out 904 00:58:35,920 --> 00:58:40,000 Speaker 1: of line. Now. With that being said, whose job is 905 00:58:40,000 --> 00:58:43,840 Speaker 1: it to check him? The sun? But Shirley hid it. 906 00:58:43,880 --> 00:58:47,320 Speaker 1: It's a mama's boy. Now, this is a mama's boy 907 00:58:47,400 --> 00:58:50,760 Speaker 1: we're talking about. And we got a little problem. But 908 00:58:50,800 --> 00:58:52,920 Speaker 1: I got news for it. He doesn't even have to 909 00:58:53,000 --> 00:58:56,520 Speaker 1: be a mama's boy, because it's not that he's over 910 00:58:56,560 --> 00:59:01,080 Speaker 1: there all the time. It's that she interjects herself into 911 00:59:01,240 --> 00:59:04,560 Speaker 1: y'alls every aspect of your life, and you just won't 912 00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:07,000 Speaker 1: get him to say nothing. The dude that don't say 913 00:59:07,000 --> 00:59:10,480 Speaker 1: nothing to his mama's really not because he's a mama's boy. 914 00:59:11,320 --> 00:59:14,680 Speaker 1: He just you know, this ain't nothing new to him. 915 00:59:14,840 --> 00:59:18,280 Speaker 1: Let me get to the letter. She comments on how 916 00:59:18,280 --> 00:59:22,200 Speaker 1: we're parent our finances, my decorating style, how I cook, 917 00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:25,720 Speaker 1: my house cleaning, and then your child got sick and 918 00:59:25,840 --> 00:59:28,880 Speaker 1: she calls a big scene at the hospital, saying it 919 00:59:28,960 --> 00:59:33,280 Speaker 1: was my fault for not taking better care of her grandchild. Dude, 920 00:59:33,400 --> 00:59:36,800 Speaker 1: is this half a crazy you want? That's how you 921 00:59:36,840 --> 00:59:41,360 Speaker 1: get a person arrested, That's how you get child protective services, 922 00:59:41,480 --> 00:59:44,840 Speaker 1: That's how you get children taken from people. She's got 923 00:59:44,880 --> 00:59:47,240 Speaker 1: to be crazy. Once you start making these statements in 924 00:59:47,280 --> 00:59:52,960 Speaker 1: the hospital, they start checking real closer. Yeah, my child 925 00:59:53,080 --> 00:59:57,960 Speaker 1: is young, and she constantly critiques him, which makes him 926 00:59:58,040 --> 01:00:01,760 Speaker 1: not like her very much. See this is an old 927 01:00:01,840 --> 01:00:13,800 Speaker 1: battle ax right here, this health right here. She she 928 01:00:13,800 --> 01:00:17,520 Speaker 1: she ain't happy with herself, so she ain't happy with you. 929 01:00:17,760 --> 01:00:21,080 Speaker 1: The way your parents where you clean where she ain't 930 01:00:21,080 --> 01:00:23,640 Speaker 1: happy with the grandchild, She ain't happy with us, So 931 01:00:25,280 --> 01:00:29,280 Speaker 1: this is an old old battle AX. Last week she 932 01:00:29,360 --> 01:00:32,160 Speaker 1: told me she hopes the new baby is not a 933 01:00:32,240 --> 01:00:37,120 Speaker 1: brat like my toddler. Is she serious? What's wrong with her? Man? 934 01:00:38,080 --> 01:00:41,680 Speaker 1: She's just a nasty person. Your mother in law, his 935 01:00:41,800 --> 01:00:45,880 Speaker 1: mama is just a nasty person. My boyfriend seems to 936 01:00:45,880 --> 01:00:49,000 Speaker 1: overlook her insults when she goes in on him, But 937 01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:51,120 Speaker 1: it's hard for me to hear her telling him that 938 01:00:51,160 --> 01:00:56,520 Speaker 1: he's a side excuse for a man she raised him. See, 939 01:00:57,280 --> 01:01:02,840 Speaker 1: I see the same. It's my son. You are sorry, 940 01:01:02,840 --> 01:01:06,400 Speaker 1: excuse for a man you raised it. Yeah, so you know, 941 01:01:06,520 --> 01:01:10,040 Speaker 1: let's get some of these fingers pointing at you if 942 01:01:10,120 --> 01:01:13,040 Speaker 1: you if you made him side, you made him side. 943 01:01:13,720 --> 01:01:17,240 Speaker 1: You're the parent. So that's what I hear in that. 944 01:01:18,080 --> 01:01:21,840 Speaker 1: I told her that her behavior is unacceptable, and she 945 01:01:21,960 --> 01:01:25,400 Speaker 1: said that she's just given us much needed advice and 946 01:01:25,520 --> 01:01:30,520 Speaker 1: constructive criticism. Take the word constructive out. It's just criticism 947 01:01:30,560 --> 01:01:33,200 Speaker 1: and it's not much needed. It's that you do it 948 01:01:33,280 --> 01:01:36,360 Speaker 1: all the time because you're funky, because you ain't happy 949 01:01:36,400 --> 01:01:39,880 Speaker 1: with yourself. She said, she's doing that because you're young, 950 01:01:39,960 --> 01:01:42,520 Speaker 1: and you don't know anything. Stephen Sherley. We're in our 951 01:01:42,560 --> 01:01:46,400 Speaker 1: early thirties and we can take care of ourselves. I'm starting. 952 01:01:46,480 --> 01:01:49,680 Speaker 1: She thinks she might be right about my boyfriend being sorry. Okay, 953 01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:53,000 Speaker 1: she's winning now, want she gets you over that leaning 954 01:01:53,080 --> 01:01:56,200 Speaker 1: that that right there? She winning. Don't let her do it. 955 01:01:57,600 --> 01:02:00,920 Speaker 1: Your dude ain't sorry. He just talk to her about 956 01:02:00,920 --> 01:02:03,800 Speaker 1: her fire mouth and bad attitude. You know why this 957 01:02:03,840 --> 01:02:07,960 Speaker 1: ain't new to him. He grew up with her, her 958 01:02:08,040 --> 01:02:11,240 Speaker 1: bad attitude and file mouth. He grew up with it. 959 01:02:11,440 --> 01:02:14,640 Speaker 1: He don't even hit no more. It's the norm for him. 960 01:02:14,800 --> 01:02:18,480 Speaker 1: This is new to you. So what you're tripping on 961 01:02:19,000 --> 01:02:22,240 Speaker 1: he's made the adjustment to he don't even hear her. Wow, 962 01:02:23,400 --> 01:02:27,120 Speaker 1: he'd been cut her out? All right, Steve, hang on, 963 01:02:27,480 --> 01:02:30,439 Speaker 1: we'll have part two of your response to today's Strubberry letter. 964 01:02:30,520 --> 01:02:33,240 Speaker 1: If you don't get your mama, I will at twenty 965 01:02:33,240 --> 01:02:38,880 Speaker 1: three after the hour, right after get your mama, right 966 01:02:38,920 --> 01:02:44,560 Speaker 1: after this. You're listening, all right? Come on, Steve, Let's 967 01:02:44,600 --> 01:02:47,240 Speaker 1: recap today's Strubberry letter. If you don't get your mama, 968 01:02:47,520 --> 01:02:51,120 Speaker 1: recap the old Mama is an old battle act. She's 969 01:02:51,200 --> 01:02:57,080 Speaker 1: not happy. She better she evil. She don't like nothing. 970 01:02:58,240 --> 01:03:01,280 Speaker 1: She debased this woman out in the house spital Damn 971 01:03:01,360 --> 01:03:04,120 Speaker 1: near got in trouble. Talk about you hoping the new 972 01:03:04,160 --> 01:03:08,760 Speaker 1: baby ain't like this? Braught you to raise? Wow? She evil? 973 01:03:09,320 --> 01:03:12,320 Speaker 1: She don't like the way the lady could clean do house, 974 01:03:13,240 --> 01:03:21,320 Speaker 1: parent nothing. She she say her son is a side 975 01:03:21,320 --> 01:03:26,280 Speaker 1: excuse for a man, and that's who she raised. Now 976 01:03:26,560 --> 01:03:28,680 Speaker 1: I'm starting to think she might be right about my 977 01:03:28,760 --> 01:03:32,160 Speaker 1: boyfriend being side. He's not. He's just used to her 978 01:03:33,200 --> 01:03:35,520 Speaker 1: because he won't talk to her about her firemouth and 979 01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:39,280 Speaker 1: bad attitude. Once again, because he used to her. He 980 01:03:39,320 --> 01:03:41,800 Speaker 1: grew up with the firemouth and the attitude. That's just 981 01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:46,280 Speaker 1: how his mamma is. She didn't just get this way. 982 01:03:46,880 --> 01:03:50,000 Speaker 1: I've told him that she is no longer welcome. I've 983 01:03:50,040 --> 01:03:52,720 Speaker 1: told him and she's no longer welcome in our home 984 01:03:53,200 --> 01:03:55,160 Speaker 1: and that I do not want her to have a 985 01:03:55,200 --> 01:04:00,400 Speaker 1: relationship with our new baby. Okay, that's not cool, I 986 01:04:00,520 --> 01:04:03,959 Speaker 1: got she ain't cool at all. But two wrongs ain't 987 01:04:03,960 --> 01:04:08,160 Speaker 1: gonna make it right. You told your husband that his 988 01:04:08,240 --> 01:04:11,040 Speaker 1: mama ain't welcome in our home no more. You got 989 01:04:11,080 --> 01:04:14,240 Speaker 1: him in a bad spot. You got him in a 990 01:04:14,280 --> 01:04:18,360 Speaker 1: horrible spot because it's crazy. As wrong as she is, 991 01:04:18,560 --> 01:04:22,840 Speaker 1: it's still his mama. He loved her. I don't need 992 01:04:22,840 --> 01:04:25,840 Speaker 1: this stress during my last trimester of my pregnancy. How 993 01:04:25,880 --> 01:04:27,560 Speaker 1: can I get my man to step up and get 994 01:04:27,600 --> 01:04:30,680 Speaker 1: his mom in check? His mom has never been in check. 995 01:04:32,440 --> 01:04:37,360 Speaker 1: This ain't new, so I don't know. You know, he's 996 01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:39,200 Speaker 1: got to sit his mom down and go, mom, just 997 01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:43,880 Speaker 1: my family. I loved them. Yeah, and he's got to 998 01:04:43,880 --> 01:04:45,640 Speaker 1: make the case in point to her so she can 999 01:04:45,720 --> 01:04:51,240 Speaker 1: lighten up, or you're gonna lose, you know us, because 1000 01:04:51,280 --> 01:04:53,640 Speaker 1: I'm not gonna keep bringing my girl around for this hire, 1001 01:04:53,680 --> 01:04:58,440 Speaker 1: for you to do this to And maybe she'll come around. 1002 01:04:58,480 --> 01:05:02,400 Speaker 1: I don't know, but I don't think she will because 1003 01:05:02,400 --> 01:05:13,680 Speaker 1: she old old heath and what old battle that. Oh, 1004 01:05:13,720 --> 01:05:16,080 Speaker 1: I'm talking about, cranky with a ank on, a big 1005 01:05:16,120 --> 01:05:19,520 Speaker 1: old rusty ankle. She's mean though she's a mean she's 1006 01:05:19,560 --> 01:05:23,760 Speaker 1: a mean woman. Man is It's hard to deal with 1007 01:05:23,800 --> 01:05:27,360 Speaker 1: people that stink. She did everything but call her ugly. 1008 01:05:27,480 --> 01:05:33,200 Speaker 1: She really did. She insults her everything, her cooking or cleaning, 1009 01:05:33,320 --> 01:05:38,240 Speaker 1: her decorating style, how they parent their finances. Called the 1010 01:05:38,360 --> 01:05:41,160 Speaker 1: baby a brat, right, Called the baby a brad, said 1011 01:05:41,680 --> 01:05:45,600 Speaker 1: her husband as a boyfriend is a side useful man. Yeah. 1012 01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:47,480 Speaker 1: And then she said they need it, they need her 1013 01:05:47,480 --> 01:05:55,800 Speaker 1: advice because they're young and they don't know anything. Man. Yeah. 1014 01:05:56,040 --> 01:05:59,800 Speaker 1: And then she's pregnant with their second child. Who she's right. 1015 01:06:00,000 --> 01:06:02,560 Speaker 1: He doesn't need that kind of stress. No, she don't. 1016 01:06:03,600 --> 01:06:09,160 Speaker 1: Your main concern is the health of your baby. Absolutely. Yeah. Yeah, 1017 01:06:09,200 --> 01:06:13,000 Speaker 1: he definitely needs to sit down and and talk to 1018 01:06:13,000 --> 01:06:15,720 Speaker 1: his mom. Maybe they can do it together, you know, Look, 1019 01:06:17,280 --> 01:06:20,720 Speaker 1: let's try to get along as a family. Huh you 1020 01:06:20,760 --> 01:06:23,439 Speaker 1: mean together with the baby mom. Yeah, I mean, maybe 1021 01:06:23,480 --> 01:06:26,120 Speaker 1: the two of them can set the mom down and say, look, 1022 01:06:26,160 --> 01:06:29,480 Speaker 1: we can't do this. Because if they permit present a 1023 01:06:29,680 --> 01:06:32,560 Speaker 1: united front to the mom, maybe she'll get it. And 1024 01:06:32,640 --> 01:06:35,240 Speaker 1: where where's the dad? Where's her husband? She doesn't have 1025 01:06:35,320 --> 01:06:43,760 Speaker 1: one in all this. He left when he was a boy, 1026 01:06:48,440 --> 01:06:52,280 Speaker 1: when the sun was Yeah, he got hit by a 1027 01:06:52,280 --> 01:06:58,080 Speaker 1: car when he probably know. I'm just saying he father 1028 01:06:58,200 --> 01:07:00,320 Speaker 1: might not be in his life at all. Is he 1029 01:07:00,400 --> 01:07:02,320 Speaker 1: trying to get back over there because he got to 1030 01:07:02,360 --> 01:07:04,840 Speaker 1: deal with her? Yeah, But they gotta do something because 1031 01:07:05,040 --> 01:07:07,640 Speaker 1: I you know, like I said, I think it's harsh 1032 01:07:07,760 --> 01:07:11,120 Speaker 1: if she doesn't want her in the new baby's life 1033 01:07:11,320 --> 01:07:16,280 Speaker 1: and not to come over there anymore. They have to work. Yeah, yeah, 1034 01:07:16,320 --> 01:07:21,640 Speaker 1: she called him a brat, right, yeah, she's she's a mean, 1035 01:07:22,480 --> 01:07:29,680 Speaker 1: mean one. Oh yeah, but you're right, he probably tuned 1036 01:07:29,720 --> 01:07:34,640 Speaker 1: her out. Oh don't even Yeah, but does she just 1037 01:07:34,760 --> 01:07:37,120 Speaker 1: walk up in their house and start talking or what? 1038 01:07:37,880 --> 01:07:39,720 Speaker 1: How does she get in there? They have to let 1039 01:07:39,760 --> 01:07:46,920 Speaker 1: her in sign. Yeah, they're gonna have to sit and 1040 01:07:46,920 --> 01:07:49,520 Speaker 1: sit her down and really really talk to her and 1041 01:07:49,640 --> 01:07:55,240 Speaker 1: tell her about herself in a respectful way. And luck 1042 01:07:55,280 --> 01:07:59,320 Speaker 1: with that. But her question is how can she get 1043 01:07:59,520 --> 01:08:01,800 Speaker 1: her man to step up and get his mom in check? 1044 01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:07,880 Speaker 1: Maybe if they both do it together, because yeah, her 1045 01:08:07,880 --> 01:08:09,800 Speaker 1: son has tuned him out and tuned her out, like 1046 01:08:09,840 --> 01:08:16,240 Speaker 1: you say, Steve, Yeah, yeah, I mean completely tuned. It's 1047 01:08:16,280 --> 01:08:19,600 Speaker 1: such a bad case right here, because you know, just 1048 01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:23,240 Speaker 1: put an ultimatum down about mama can't come over the 1049 01:08:23,240 --> 01:08:25,599 Speaker 1: house no more, and I don't have a relationship with 1050 01:08:25,640 --> 01:08:28,080 Speaker 1: the child because her mother is so evil to her 1051 01:08:28,160 --> 01:08:31,600 Speaker 1: first baby. Yeah yeah. And then Shirley, there's something to 1052 01:08:31,640 --> 01:08:34,519 Speaker 1: play with them not being married, but it wouldn't matter 1053 01:08:34,560 --> 01:08:37,920 Speaker 1: to her. She's an evil woman regardless, right right. She 1054 01:08:38,200 --> 01:08:40,479 Speaker 1: might can be using the fact that they're not married 1055 01:08:40,520 --> 01:08:43,040 Speaker 1: as the excuse, but she would be nasty to the 1056 01:08:43,080 --> 01:08:48,759 Speaker 1: girl if they were married. Yeah, she would. She's trifling, 1057 01:08:48,920 --> 01:08:51,599 Speaker 1: she would. And I agree with you with what you said. 1058 01:08:51,640 --> 01:08:53,920 Speaker 1: If they're in the hospital and she's making all this 1059 01:08:54,120 --> 01:08:56,800 Speaker 1: noise about her mystery, it's crazy. You can't do that, 1060 01:08:56,920 --> 01:08:59,599 Speaker 1: do that? What are you doing? Hey? Man? Listen. Hospitals 1061 01:08:59,640 --> 01:09:03,320 Speaker 1: take that stuff serious. Yeah, and they really do because 1062 01:09:03,400 --> 01:09:07,000 Speaker 1: so many children come in there that are abused and 1063 01:09:07,640 --> 01:09:10,320 Speaker 1: it's their duty to report. Yeah. And then what is 1064 01:09:10,320 --> 01:09:12,400 Speaker 1: the what does this? What does the mom know about 1065 01:09:12,439 --> 01:09:15,880 Speaker 1: their finances? What is she criticizing them about their finances? 1066 01:09:15,880 --> 01:09:23,120 Speaker 1: Why is she in he's too much in the business. Yeah, 1067 01:09:23,120 --> 01:09:29,920 Speaker 1: he got a man up. Yeah, yeah. Coming up in 1068 01:09:29,960 --> 01:09:33,519 Speaker 1: ten minutes, doctor Steve Perry will be here to talk 1069 01:09:33,560 --> 01:09:36,720 Speaker 1: about his brand new talk show. It's called Breakthrough. Get 1070 01:09:36,720 --> 01:09:47,760 Speaker 1: your mama, you're listening, and y'all joining us now we 1071 01:09:47,880 --> 01:09:51,560 Speaker 1: got a family member. Uh. He's a highly sought out educator. 1072 01:09:51,600 --> 01:09:57,240 Speaker 1: He's a motivational speaker. He's also contributed to CNN, MSNBC, 1073 01:09:58,200 --> 01:10:01,280 Speaker 1: and after fighting for disadvantage children and families for over 1074 01:10:01,439 --> 01:10:04,960 Speaker 1: thirty years, you can finally see his work on TV Yes, 1075 01:10:05,439 --> 01:10:09,160 Speaker 1: he's got a new talk show on Fox. It's Breakthrough 1076 01:10:09,200 --> 01:10:12,519 Speaker 1: with Doctor Steve Perry, and he's joining us to tell 1077 01:10:12,600 --> 01:10:15,640 Speaker 1: us about the show. He is my friend. He is 1078 01:10:15,680 --> 01:10:19,000 Speaker 1: at my mentoring camp every year and all we do 1079 01:10:19,040 --> 01:10:25,360 Speaker 1: when we get there is we smoked meat. Yea, we smoke. 1080 01:10:26,080 --> 01:10:33,639 Speaker 1: We is meat smokers anywhere nearby. Vegetable sacrifice but nothing 1081 01:10:34,280 --> 01:10:39,559 Speaker 1: not one. Yeah you want fire, but you better get 1082 01:10:39,560 --> 01:10:45,679 Speaker 1: some metal. Mucles say, we don't have it meat with 1083 01:10:45,760 --> 01:10:53,519 Speaker 1: meat on top of it. Other ladies and gentley, my buddy, 1084 01:10:53,600 --> 01:10:59,639 Speaker 1: doctor Steve Perry, what's up. Congratulate and welcome. Yeah, I'm 1085 01:10:59,640 --> 01:11:01,920 Speaker 1: really excited man to be a part of this because 1086 01:11:01,920 --> 01:11:03,599 Speaker 1: what I get to do is I get to take 1087 01:11:03,800 --> 01:11:05,479 Speaker 1: what you see, what you and I do when you're 1088 01:11:05,479 --> 01:11:07,719 Speaker 1: working with the boys, or what I'm doing in the schools, 1089 01:11:07,720 --> 01:11:09,559 Speaker 1: and I get to bring it to the people in 1090 01:11:09,560 --> 01:11:12,280 Speaker 1: a very real and authentic way because people have a breakthrough. 1091 01:11:12,320 --> 01:11:14,840 Speaker 1: Everybody deserves to have a breakthrough because somebody, everybody have 1092 01:11:14,920 --> 01:11:17,479 Speaker 1: something that they need to break through. Yeah, and you 1093 01:11:17,560 --> 01:11:20,320 Speaker 1: got this show and then listen to me. It's a 1094 01:11:20,400 --> 01:11:23,639 Speaker 1: daytime talk show. It's currently doing a two week trial run. 1095 01:11:23,760 --> 01:11:26,240 Speaker 1: So what we want to do is get behind it 1096 01:11:26,840 --> 01:11:30,160 Speaker 1: to support it. It's airing an eight markets and so 1097 01:11:30,280 --> 01:11:32,800 Speaker 1: the show is just what he said it is. I 1098 01:11:32,800 --> 01:11:37,240 Speaker 1: don't know of anybody that's really more deserving because of 1099 01:11:37,280 --> 01:11:40,599 Speaker 1: the road work he didn't put in. But also, man, 1100 01:11:40,800 --> 01:11:45,000 Speaker 1: just the quality of understanding of children and young people 1101 01:11:45,040 --> 01:11:48,320 Speaker 1: and high development. I just think it's run. So let 1102 01:11:48,320 --> 01:11:50,639 Speaker 1: me let me say this to you. P. In each 1103 01:11:50,680 --> 01:11:54,280 Speaker 1: episode to breakthrough, you're counseling a guest that may be 1104 01:11:54,400 --> 01:11:58,479 Speaker 1: in a crisis of facing a life altering decision. What's 1105 01:11:58,520 --> 01:12:00,600 Speaker 1: that like for you? Do you get to interject a 1106 01:12:00,640 --> 01:12:04,240 Speaker 1: little humor? Do you keep it light? Yeah? We have fun. 1107 01:12:04,320 --> 01:12:07,320 Speaker 1: I mean we have fun because he can't be heavy 1108 01:12:07,360 --> 01:12:09,639 Speaker 1: all the time and insight. You know, there's a very 1109 01:12:09,680 --> 01:12:12,720 Speaker 1: powerful guest that we have. Her name is Cassie, and 1110 01:12:12,800 --> 01:12:17,560 Speaker 1: Cassie's this redhead woman who's lost her husband to suicide. 1111 01:12:17,560 --> 01:12:20,640 Speaker 1: And that's a rough, tough topic, but her smile is 1112 01:12:20,680 --> 01:12:23,800 Speaker 1: so effervescent and when you see her, Man, you're gonna think, 1113 01:12:23,840 --> 01:12:26,360 Speaker 1: you know what, there ain't nothing that I'm dealing with 1114 01:12:26,600 --> 01:12:28,880 Speaker 1: that I can't get through. And that's going to break 1115 01:12:28,920 --> 01:12:31,040 Speaker 1: through for you. You know what I mean? As if 1116 01:12:31,080 --> 01:12:32,960 Speaker 1: you were on the same token. We got a little 1117 01:12:33,000 --> 01:12:35,200 Speaker 1: boy like H and I like Steph and I sometimes 1118 01:12:35,240 --> 01:12:37,720 Speaker 1: have down and down in the mentor in camp who 1119 01:12:37,800 --> 01:12:40,120 Speaker 1: feels himself. He told us we need him at the camp. 1120 01:12:40,240 --> 01:12:43,200 Speaker 1: This little boy told his mother to drink bleach called 1121 01:12:43,240 --> 01:12:46,439 Speaker 1: a fat be what's done. I recognize that you do 1122 01:12:46,560 --> 01:12:49,200 Speaker 1: things in particular way where you from, but right here, 1123 01:12:49,439 --> 01:12:51,560 Speaker 1: these cameras can't save you from what it is I do. 1124 01:12:51,880 --> 01:12:54,519 Speaker 1: So I'm gonna need you. I'm gonna need you to 1125 01:12:54,640 --> 01:12:57,519 Speaker 1: chill out. Yeah, And that's that's what I love about 1126 01:12:57,560 --> 01:13:00,640 Speaker 1: the show, Doctor Perry, because you're so related Bowl and 1127 01:13:00,840 --> 01:13:03,160 Speaker 1: you're a good listener. You're not just sitting up there 1128 01:13:03,920 --> 01:13:06,040 Speaker 1: like you're not a part of what's going on. You 1129 01:13:06,160 --> 01:13:09,760 Speaker 1: actually listen to these people and really delve into what's 1130 01:13:09,800 --> 01:13:12,160 Speaker 1: going on and actually come up with a solution to 1131 01:13:12,280 --> 01:13:14,920 Speaker 1: help them get their breakthrough. And that's what this comes 1132 01:13:14,920 --> 01:13:17,559 Speaker 1: all about. Yeah, because because I'm trying to work through 1133 01:13:17,600 --> 01:13:19,880 Speaker 1: my own breakthroughs too. You know, I'm a father. I 1134 01:13:19,960 --> 01:13:22,720 Speaker 1: got two sons and you know, see you know, and 1135 01:13:22,840 --> 01:13:25,160 Speaker 1: they wake up every single day. I think to prove 1136 01:13:25,240 --> 01:13:26,720 Speaker 1: that I'm not really that good at what I do. 1137 01:13:27,120 --> 01:13:30,960 Speaker 1: So I gotta you know. I think that they huddle 1138 01:13:31,080 --> 01:13:35,880 Speaker 1: up every night like look you do it today, say 1139 01:13:36,200 --> 01:13:38,639 Speaker 1: they wake up every morning to prove that you ain't 1140 01:13:38,680 --> 01:13:41,680 Speaker 1: good what you do? They like this brother, he got 1141 01:13:41,720 --> 01:13:45,560 Speaker 1: a TV show, But we know better. So all I 1142 01:13:45,600 --> 01:13:47,439 Speaker 1: can be is humble and all I can do is listen. 1143 01:13:47,560 --> 01:13:48,880 Speaker 1: And what I get to do is I get to 1144 01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:52,160 Speaker 1: work with people for real on their real issues to 1145 01:13:52,240 --> 01:13:54,840 Speaker 1: help them get to a place and honestly, to show 1146 01:13:55,000 --> 01:13:57,479 Speaker 1: us that you can't have enough black people who are 1147 01:13:57,520 --> 01:14:00,320 Speaker 1: doing good things on television. I mean, he really can't. 1148 01:14:00,400 --> 01:14:03,160 Speaker 1: We haven't been represented for long enough. And then ate 1149 01:14:03,240 --> 01:14:05,720 Speaker 1: you jump out there and doing a fantastic job. And 1150 01:14:05,920 --> 01:14:09,000 Speaker 1: whatever I can do to add to the long weight 1151 01:14:09,080 --> 01:14:10,960 Speaker 1: that you're putting up in front of us, I can't 1152 01:14:11,320 --> 01:14:13,720 Speaker 1: say enough work that you do. Want to build on 1153 01:14:13,800 --> 01:14:18,360 Speaker 1: that and Steve, on another note, you will appreciate doctor 1154 01:14:18,439 --> 01:14:22,479 Speaker 1: Perry's bow ties on the show. Yeah, they're very fine. 1155 01:14:22,760 --> 01:14:26,160 Speaker 1: They are very fine. Dude. Man, it's his work, man, 1156 01:14:26,320 --> 01:14:31,320 Speaker 1: his work ethic, his commitment to the uplifting edification of 1157 01:14:31,520 --> 01:14:34,800 Speaker 1: young people. I mean, this dude does it. I learned 1158 01:14:34,840 --> 01:14:37,000 Speaker 1: from him every minute and camp when I listened to 1159 01:14:37,120 --> 01:14:39,599 Speaker 1: him speak and you know we just sit around, man, 1160 01:14:39,640 --> 01:14:42,160 Speaker 1: we just boys. Man. This is like one of them, 1161 01:14:42,680 --> 01:14:45,040 Speaker 1: one of the people in my life, man who every 1162 01:14:45,520 --> 01:14:49,760 Speaker 1: time he calls me is with uplift. You know, Yeah, 1163 01:14:49,880 --> 01:14:52,240 Speaker 1: I ain't got to worry about him. Man. And Man, 1164 01:14:52,280 --> 01:14:55,960 Speaker 1: I can't lead. They said this, he ain't never man 1165 01:14:56,080 --> 01:14:59,439 Speaker 1: me and this dude and sit down and structured statement 1166 01:14:59,520 --> 01:15:04,720 Speaker 1: someone to the press about some more ignorant mess I say, Man, 1167 01:15:04,840 --> 01:15:08,240 Speaker 1: I just said so much stupid stuff in my life 1168 01:15:08,280 --> 01:15:11,519 Speaker 1: and car a period. I'm in trouble. Man. They got 1169 01:15:11,640 --> 01:15:13,880 Speaker 1: a clip on me saying this, send me the clip, dog. 1170 01:15:14,280 --> 01:15:15,560 Speaker 1: And then he goes, all right, man, this is what 1171 01:15:15,680 --> 01:15:18,040 Speaker 1: we're gonna shape it this way. He don't never go 1172 01:15:18,240 --> 01:15:24,479 Speaker 1: and I can't leave. You said, you know that's because 1173 01:15:24,960 --> 01:15:27,240 Speaker 1: because honestly, and I tell people that's all the time, 1174 01:15:28,080 --> 01:15:30,880 Speaker 1: that one of the things you're gonna see in Age 1175 01:15:30,960 --> 01:15:34,080 Speaker 1: and Steve is just a good solid dude. And if 1176 01:15:34,160 --> 01:15:36,880 Speaker 1: you don't do what you can to protect brothers like that, 1177 01:15:37,040 --> 01:15:39,920 Speaker 1: then you ain't on our team. Period. I don't care. 1178 01:15:40,240 --> 01:15:42,439 Speaker 1: You just ain't on our team. You're on a different team. 1179 01:15:42,439 --> 01:15:44,000 Speaker 1: I don't care what color you come in, but you 1180 01:15:44,080 --> 01:15:46,320 Speaker 1: ain't on our team. Right, you're not on our team, 1181 01:15:46,439 --> 01:15:48,920 Speaker 1: and it's clip. And once you're not on our team, 1182 01:15:49,720 --> 01:15:52,800 Speaker 1: you don't know the squad dog. So now you don't 1183 01:15:52,840 --> 01:15:54,960 Speaker 1: come out to the you know, like you know when 1184 01:15:54,960 --> 01:15:58,240 Speaker 1: we have to mentor and camp together. The meeting places 1185 01:15:58,520 --> 01:16:01,200 Speaker 1: is my house out there to mentor, ain't can and 1186 01:16:01,479 --> 01:16:06,200 Speaker 1: we gotta we gotta smoke. We gotta an area that's 1187 01:16:06,240 --> 01:16:10,360 Speaker 1: about in the back end forty by fifty and it 1188 01:16:10,520 --> 01:16:15,559 Speaker 1: screened in so the flies can't eat us. And all 1189 01:16:15,640 --> 01:16:18,800 Speaker 1: we doing in there smoking meat. And if you're not 1190 01:16:19,040 --> 01:16:22,479 Speaker 1: in on the team, you can't come out here. No, no, no, 1191 01:16:23,439 --> 01:16:26,599 Speaker 1: I'm telling you. Gotta save up your calories. Otherwise you're 1192 01:16:26,680 --> 01:16:29,639 Speaker 1: telling and you ain't gonna get along because I ain't 1193 01:16:29,680 --> 01:16:32,960 Speaker 1: nothing but T shirt and whatever whatever's got the lastic 1194 01:16:33,040 --> 01:16:35,680 Speaker 1: band on it. Because I'm telling you. Steve used to 1195 01:16:35,760 --> 01:16:38,479 Speaker 1: tell you, y'all don't recognize that brother can straight cook 1196 01:16:38,720 --> 01:16:42,280 Speaker 1: like straight every day I go out there. Look every 1197 01:16:42,320 --> 01:16:44,040 Speaker 1: time I go back home, I'm like, I'll kick my 1198 01:16:44,360 --> 01:16:51,040 Speaker 1: my smoker life. Dag. I'm smoking you suck. He's doing it. Hey, y'all, 1199 01:16:51,080 --> 01:16:52,720 Speaker 1: let me tell you this man wedn't got off. But 1200 01:16:52,760 --> 01:16:55,800 Speaker 1: I want you all to understand. So everybody that lives 1201 01:16:55,800 --> 01:17:03,919 Speaker 1: in New York, LA, Houston, Atlanta, Detroit, Orlando, Florida, and Charlotte, 1202 01:17:03,960 --> 01:17:07,920 Speaker 1: North Carolina and Phoenix were in all of these cities. 1203 01:17:08,040 --> 01:17:14,200 Speaker 1: New York, LA, Houston, Atlanta, Detroit, Orlando, Florida, Charlotte, North Carolina. 1204 01:17:14,720 --> 01:17:19,120 Speaker 1: Steve Perry's show is on Fox at one o'clock every day. 1205 01:17:19,240 --> 01:17:23,439 Speaker 1: In this call breakthrough, I want you all to tune in, man, 1206 01:17:23,520 --> 01:17:26,639 Speaker 1: so this two week run can be good, Doctor Perry. 1207 01:17:26,680 --> 01:17:31,719 Speaker 1: We love you, boyd. Stay with it now you're listening. 1208 01:17:34,240 --> 01:17:40,120 Speaker 1: Well Tomorrow, Steve, it's your birthday and that's my dog. No. 1209 01:17:40,520 --> 01:17:43,400 Speaker 1: We've been talking about it, and we've been talking about aging. 1210 01:17:43,560 --> 01:17:47,280 Speaker 1: Happy birthday, man, Yeah, happy birthdays you healthy boy. You 1211 01:17:47,439 --> 01:17:52,920 Speaker 1: look good boy, man, party and everything. You got some money, man, 1212 01:17:54,000 --> 01:17:57,080 Speaker 1: thank you Jesus Lord. I ain't even gonna lie to 1213 01:17:58,000 --> 01:18:04,960 Speaker 1: your birthday. Man, you ain't gonna lie to tea. I'm 1214 01:18:05,000 --> 01:18:08,760 Speaker 1: so grateful to God because man, I man, let me 1215 01:18:08,800 --> 01:18:11,120 Speaker 1: tell you something. And at not having money, I I 1216 01:18:12,439 --> 01:18:14,840 Speaker 1: you know, it ain't like he can't relate to what 1217 01:18:14,920 --> 01:18:17,439 Speaker 1: I'm talking about. So everybody out thinking and had these 1218 01:18:17,600 --> 01:18:20,960 Speaker 1: moments or you just be going damn yeah, you know 1219 01:18:21,080 --> 01:18:24,120 Speaker 1: I'm gonna do and you start thinking something you ever 1220 01:18:24,200 --> 01:18:27,599 Speaker 1: had you have been so broke that you have crazy thoughts. Yeah. See, 1221 01:18:27,680 --> 01:18:31,320 Speaker 1: that's why we empathize so much with the government shutdown, 1222 01:18:31,439 --> 01:18:36,320 Speaker 1: because we know, Yeah, I was sitting at one time 1223 01:18:36,360 --> 01:18:38,760 Speaker 1: in my apartment on the hand and rent You know, 1224 01:18:38,840 --> 01:18:41,840 Speaker 1: they ed to slip notes under your door and guess 1225 01:18:41,920 --> 01:18:44,880 Speaker 1: what I was thinking about going down there and set 1226 01:18:44,960 --> 01:18:52,600 Speaker 1: the rental offense over so you don't from you and 1227 01:18:52,800 --> 01:18:57,160 Speaker 1: burn the files up and then say I paid. And 1228 01:18:57,280 --> 01:19:01,720 Speaker 1: if you're creative, you were creative. I just had to 1229 01:19:01,800 --> 01:19:06,840 Speaker 1: chang money in there. Yall got Why does this sound 1230 01:19:06,920 --> 01:19:11,639 Speaker 1: like comedy roulette? Why does this? He was, he just had. 1231 01:19:13,360 --> 01:19:15,679 Speaker 1: Have you ever been so broke that you think about 1232 01:19:15,800 --> 01:19:23,000 Speaker 1: doing crazy stuff? Yeah, we've been. That's how we know 1233 01:19:23,439 --> 01:19:27,320 Speaker 1: we can just infordize with the government shutdown, right because 1234 01:19:27,439 --> 01:19:29,759 Speaker 1: we know how it is to live paycheck to paycheck, 1235 01:19:30,200 --> 01:19:32,960 Speaker 1: or not have a check period, not be able to 1236 01:19:33,040 --> 01:19:38,599 Speaker 1: pay your rent. All of that comedy. He does not care, 1237 01:19:39,520 --> 01:19:42,439 Speaker 1: he said, he is not going to back down. Surety. 1238 01:19:42,439 --> 01:19:44,040 Speaker 1: I was struggling so hard, and come one time my 1239 01:19:44,120 --> 01:19:46,200 Speaker 1: birthday came around, I didn't get not a phone call 1240 01:19:46,320 --> 01:19:51,800 Speaker 1: for my birthday because my cell phone was off. Nobody 1241 01:19:53,439 --> 01:19:55,680 Speaker 1: but so they did call. No, I don't know if 1242 01:19:55,720 --> 01:19:57,680 Speaker 1: they did or not. You know they did, but the 1243 01:19:57,760 --> 01:20:00,880 Speaker 1: phone j junior junior, I came up when we was 1244 01:20:00,960 --> 01:20:03,479 Speaker 1: in when I was in college, and wasn't no cell phone. 1245 01:20:03,520 --> 01:20:07,240 Speaker 1: It was a landline and calling the next town calls 1246 01:20:07,320 --> 01:20:10,160 Speaker 1: a dollar and something to call per minute. And you 1247 01:20:10,240 --> 01:20:13,960 Speaker 1: didn't have that. What Yeah, that's when you run a 1248 01:20:14,040 --> 01:20:16,880 Speaker 1: bill up man. Yeah, or Carl, I knew you could 1249 01:20:16,880 --> 01:20:19,120 Speaker 1: relate to this empty out of all your old purses 1250 01:20:19,160 --> 01:20:22,360 Speaker 1: and stuff and get the change at the bottom of 1251 01:20:22,439 --> 01:20:27,120 Speaker 1: your bag. Yeah, man, you get change in the couch 1252 01:20:27,240 --> 01:20:30,720 Speaker 1: though it's in't that couch. I got in that couch. Man. 1253 01:20:31,080 --> 01:20:33,160 Speaker 1: You ever just walked in the grocery store and start 1254 01:20:33,280 --> 01:20:38,760 Speaker 1: eating whatever you mean, like some great grapes? Great, I'm 1255 01:20:38,800 --> 01:20:41,880 Speaker 1: talking about I'm talking about down that aisle, opening up meat. 1256 01:20:43,760 --> 01:20:46,680 Speaker 1: I used to pile groceries in a grocery car, put 1257 01:20:46,760 --> 01:20:49,640 Speaker 1: a pack of ham on top. Go get me some 1258 01:20:49,760 --> 01:20:52,679 Speaker 1: bread and some mustard. While I walk around. I tatted 1259 01:20:52,720 --> 01:20:55,559 Speaker 1: pack over with the meat, but just keep walking. Then 1260 01:20:55,640 --> 01:20:58,799 Speaker 1: I tatted bread open and keep walking. Then I squirted 1261 01:20:58,840 --> 01:21:01,080 Speaker 1: some mustard on it, keep walking. Then next thing you know, 1262 01:21:01,120 --> 01:21:04,200 Speaker 1: I had the whole pack of ham between two slices 1263 01:21:04,200 --> 01:21:06,639 Speaker 1: of the bread, and as I walk, I just bite 1264 01:21:06,680 --> 01:21:11,760 Speaker 1: and chew, and fifteen I ate the whole sandwich and 1265 01:21:11,840 --> 01:21:13,680 Speaker 1: then I just walk out lead the grocery car. Now 1266 01:21:13,720 --> 01:21:19,040 Speaker 1: is and therething ever? Everything Dog I had to I 1267 01:21:19,080 --> 01:21:22,200 Speaker 1: handle a choice. I didn't have it. I think the 1268 01:21:22,280 --> 01:21:24,519 Speaker 1: only thing I've ever done is when you go to SAMs, 1269 01:21:24,600 --> 01:21:28,080 Speaker 1: they have so much stuff for you to sam those samples. Yeah, yeah, 1270 01:21:28,560 --> 01:21:32,360 Speaker 1: that ain't no, that's if you hang around loan No, 1271 01:21:32,439 --> 01:21:35,040 Speaker 1: they're gonna run you off doorf I did read somewhere 1272 01:21:35,160 --> 01:21:36,920 Speaker 1: that when you go in the grocery store and you 1273 01:21:37,000 --> 01:21:38,920 Speaker 1: take the grapes and eat them and all that that 1274 01:21:39,200 --> 01:21:42,280 Speaker 1: is considered stealing. They don't get you for that steal. 1275 01:21:42,400 --> 01:21:44,400 Speaker 1: They don't charge you for you kat eat nothing out 1276 01:21:44,439 --> 01:21:47,160 Speaker 1: of that. You didn't pay stealer. Yeah, I didn't ate 1277 01:21:47,240 --> 01:21:49,920 Speaker 1: some apples and oranges. Dog, I went in there too, 1278 01:21:50,000 --> 01:21:55,559 Speaker 1: sty What are we talking about? This? Into an apple? 1279 01:21:56,240 --> 01:21:59,839 Speaker 1: When you went in he was needed orange? You peeled? 1280 01:22:00,240 --> 01:22:03,400 Speaker 1: What do you peel? Eat? Peel it? I made a 1281 01:22:03,640 --> 01:22:07,599 Speaker 1: sandwich I'm talking about Tommy said, he ate an apple, 1282 01:22:07,680 --> 01:22:10,439 Speaker 1: loud apple. But why Steve, I know how much you 1283 01:22:10,560 --> 01:22:13,320 Speaker 1: love peanut butter. Did you make it down the peanut butter? Ayle? 1284 01:22:13,400 --> 01:22:15,840 Speaker 1: Because I know how much you love yea. I used 1285 01:22:15,880 --> 01:22:19,320 Speaker 1: to take fall open the peanut butter. Y'all had a 1286 01:22:19,400 --> 01:22:22,720 Speaker 1: big spoon and just put it in the fall and 1287 01:22:22,920 --> 01:22:25,640 Speaker 1: do what with it? Put it in my shirt, my 1288 01:22:25,720 --> 01:22:27,920 Speaker 1: jacket and walk on that. Take it with you, the 1289 01:22:28,000 --> 01:22:30,400 Speaker 1: peanut butter. I don't have a job. Peanut butter free 1290 01:22:31,200 --> 01:22:34,479 Speaker 1: red eyes fall. Now you ain't done hing? But I 1291 01:22:34,560 --> 01:22:37,519 Speaker 1: didn't had them grapes looking like weeds? What no grapes 1292 01:22:37,600 --> 01:22:39,880 Speaker 1: own it? It just like what is? What is that? 1293 01:22:40,200 --> 01:22:42,880 Speaker 1: Is that a new platform? I didn't made grapes look 1294 01:22:42,960 --> 01:22:47,920 Speaker 1: like weed? My trape, this hill top all right, grape's 1295 01:22:47,920 --> 01:22:52,599 Speaker 1: gonna top making a whole sand lu and two pieces 1296 01:22:52,600 --> 01:22:59,040 Speaker 1: of bread. Babies can get grapes. I'm the reason. I 1297 01:22:59,240 --> 01:23:04,759 Speaker 1: am so come on single handedly responsible for the sign 1298 01:23:04,880 --> 01:23:08,800 Speaker 1: that you see at the gas pay before you come. 1299 01:23:12,160 --> 01:23:16,360 Speaker 1: When I was homeless, I'm the reason. But that sign 1300 01:23:16,600 --> 01:23:21,000 Speaker 1: is on gas pumps of nationwide because in the run 1301 01:23:21,200 --> 01:23:26,240 Speaker 1: I had from eighty to seven to ninety that run 1302 01:23:26,439 --> 01:23:37,240 Speaker 1: right there down south. Uh look out for Bonneville approaching 1303 01:23:37,800 --> 01:23:45,240 Speaker 1: nine eighty six. Bonneville approaching uh Negro at the wheel up. 1304 01:23:47,520 --> 01:23:53,800 Speaker 1: Believe he's uh, they say it African American. H he's uh, 1305 01:23:54,240 --> 01:24:00,799 Speaker 1: he's still in gas. Oh. He just putting three dollars 1306 01:24:00,920 --> 01:24:04,400 Speaker 1: in down the titch and pull them right on like 1307 01:24:04,600 --> 01:24:06,640 Speaker 1: it like if you came out like you was like 1308 01:24:06,840 --> 01:24:09,800 Speaker 1: kneeling around or something. I cut it off. It went 1309 01:24:09,880 --> 01:24:14,760 Speaker 1: to it. Oh, so you would just get what you could. Yeah, 1310 01:24:14,800 --> 01:24:16,639 Speaker 1: you know, when I can't stand there, you know, fill 1311 01:24:16,720 --> 01:24:19,479 Speaker 1: up the whole tank. Sometimes it had to be a 1312 01:24:19,600 --> 01:24:24,880 Speaker 1: quiet or a lot of traffic. It's all this why 1313 01:24:24,960 --> 01:24:27,840 Speaker 1: you can't be president? All this stuff right here? This, Oh, 1314 01:24:28,240 --> 01:24:33,599 Speaker 1: I don't know he can be president now? Yeah, background 1315 01:24:33,680 --> 01:24:40,599 Speaker 1: checking everything. Yeah, I'm black. All right, we gotta we'll 1316 01:24:40,640 --> 01:24:42,360 Speaker 1: be back. We'll let more of the Steve Harvey Morning 1317 01:24:42,400 --> 01:24:49,000 Speaker 1: Show coming up right after this. You're listening to show, okay, 1318 01:24:49,280 --> 01:24:53,439 Speaker 1: Uh listen. This is a never ending story, guys, and 1319 01:24:54,680 --> 01:24:57,439 Speaker 1: more stuff is coming out more fallout from the Surviving 1320 01:24:57,680 --> 01:25:00,920 Speaker 1: R Kelly docu series. Both America, can Idol and The 1321 01:25:01,080 --> 01:25:03,800 Speaker 1: Voice announced that they'd be dropping our Kelly's music from 1322 01:25:03,840 --> 01:25:07,479 Speaker 1: the shows, and an insider says that a lot of times, 1323 01:25:07,560 --> 01:25:10,320 Speaker 1: I believe I Can Fly has been an option and 1324 01:25:10,439 --> 01:25:14,280 Speaker 1: a staple performers too, For performers to sing in auditions. 1325 01:25:14,479 --> 01:25:17,080 Speaker 1: I didn't know that. And on the show itself, or 1326 01:25:17,240 --> 01:25:20,519 Speaker 1: if our Kelly songs have been used as background for 1327 01:25:20,800 --> 01:25:23,840 Speaker 1: vignette or something, that didn't know that either. But that's 1328 01:25:23,920 --> 01:25:26,840 Speaker 1: not going to be the case anymore. It's actually not 1329 01:25:27,040 --> 01:25:29,760 Speaker 1: a shock that the voice is dropping his music. As 1330 01:25:29,840 --> 01:25:33,440 Speaker 1: you know, John Legend, who appeared in the Lifetime docuseries, 1331 01:25:33,600 --> 01:25:36,600 Speaker 1: will be one of the coaches for season sixteen. And 1332 01:25:36,680 --> 01:25:41,720 Speaker 1: I'm sure he's not having it. Yeah, he's not having it. 1333 01:25:42,360 --> 01:25:44,200 Speaker 1: You've been not open up for him. And they really 1334 01:25:44,240 --> 01:25:46,640 Speaker 1: should have a place to where you send people to 1335 01:25:46,720 --> 01:25:50,200 Speaker 1: get theirs. They really should have it. Oh, they have it. 1336 01:25:51,960 --> 01:25:56,519 Speaker 1: What's it called. It's called prisoner. They have it. They 1337 01:25:56,600 --> 01:26:01,960 Speaker 1: got another place to the starts with a pee, y'all scared. 1338 01:26:02,800 --> 01:26:06,920 Speaker 1: It's just playground, y'all. I was trying to think of 1339 01:26:07,000 --> 01:26:10,120 Speaker 1: what it was. I think we were. You can get 1340 01:26:10,160 --> 01:26:13,040 Speaker 1: your head whipping. Everybody got the whoping on playground. Everyone. 1341 01:26:13,200 --> 01:26:17,439 Speaker 1: Most people have. Yes, we know you've took. One of 1342 01:26:17,520 --> 01:26:20,400 Speaker 1: my most severe was on the place a lot of place. 1343 01:26:20,479 --> 01:26:24,000 Speaker 1: You was talking noise in front of the color stuff. 1344 01:26:24,280 --> 01:26:27,920 Speaker 1: I think that's where you started. A k A. Stop, 1345 01:26:28,680 --> 01:26:32,719 Speaker 1: got up, stop, stopped beating my ass under the basket 1346 01:26:32,840 --> 01:26:35,679 Speaker 1: one time. Wait. Wait why they call him stop though? 1347 01:26:36,320 --> 01:26:40,800 Speaker 1: Because when he ate, he always stopped his plate. I 1348 01:26:40,840 --> 01:26:43,519 Speaker 1: don't care what he did. I don't care what he 1349 01:26:43,640 --> 01:26:47,479 Speaker 1: had corns. He stopped his plate. Three fingers and some 1350 01:26:47,640 --> 01:26:52,839 Speaker 1: bread swirled. It ain't twist it, boy, twist it twist 1351 01:26:52,880 --> 01:26:58,560 Speaker 1: sit Wow. I can't tell you the real reason. So 1352 01:26:58,720 --> 01:27:02,040 Speaker 1: we're gonna go with that one. Well, we got to 1353 01:27:02,080 --> 01:27:05,479 Speaker 1: say congratulations to J Drake because in other music news, 1354 01:27:05,840 --> 01:27:10,320 Speaker 1: Drake might be taking over Las Vegas. Recently, he performed 1355 01:27:10,360 --> 01:27:14,360 Speaker 1: at the XS Nightclub at when the Win Hotel in Vegas. 1356 01:27:14,439 --> 01:27:18,800 Speaker 1: He hinted at a residency. Um, he said, Vegas. When 1357 01:27:18,840 --> 01:27:21,720 Speaker 1: I come back, I thought it'd be um. I thought 1358 01:27:21,760 --> 01:27:24,719 Speaker 1: I'd be back at the Tmobile Arena or some stuff 1359 01:27:24,800 --> 01:27:27,200 Speaker 1: like that. But I'll be back right here at the 1360 01:27:27,400 --> 01:27:30,879 Speaker 1: Excess all year. You all have a lot of chances 1361 01:27:30,960 --> 01:27:33,280 Speaker 1: to see me, he told the crowd. Other reports have 1362 01:27:33,439 --> 01:27:36,639 Speaker 1: revealed that Drake inked a twenty five million dollar deal 1363 01:27:37,000 --> 01:27:41,080 Speaker 1: to do twelve shows. Over two years, and official announcement 1364 01:27:41,240 --> 01:27:46,840 Speaker 1: is reportedly coming soon. So congratulations to him. Twelve right shows. Yeah, 1365 01:27:47,080 --> 01:27:49,760 Speaker 1: that's almost like two million a show right here? As 1366 01:27:49,800 --> 01:27:57,400 Speaker 1: we doing? Wait wait stop? Well, when is we going 1367 01:27:57,600 --> 01:28:03,439 Speaker 1: to it again? Tommy queen? As we going to the queen? 1368 01:28:04,280 --> 01:28:11,200 Speaker 1: This is queen? Ain't queen at the Queen? Your nephew stude. 1369 01:28:11,280 --> 01:28:20,800 Speaker 1: You hear your nephew talking to you? This is that 1370 01:28:20,960 --> 01:28:26,479 Speaker 1: makes no sense. If we come together as one and 1371 01:28:26,640 --> 01:28:31,200 Speaker 1: go to the Queen, we will plan come home. Man, 1372 01:28:31,960 --> 01:28:34,240 Speaker 1: we'll be back with Martha the Steve Harvey Morning Show 1373 01:28:34,479 --> 01:28:38,599 Speaker 1: right after this. Crazy you're listening to the Steve Harvey 1374 01:28:38,640 --> 01:28:44,080 Speaker 1: Morning Show. In entertainment news, Alicia Keys, congratulations to her. 1375 01:28:44,160 --> 01:28:47,320 Speaker 1: Alicia Keys has been tapped to host the twenty nineteen 1376 01:28:47,479 --> 01:28:54,160 Speaker 1: Grammy Awards. That's cool, right. She shared a video on 1377 01:28:54,240 --> 01:28:56,960 Speaker 1: her YouTube channel making the big announcement. She said, I'm 1378 01:28:57,120 --> 01:29:00,599 Speaker 1: so excited to announce that I'll be hosting the sixty 1379 01:29:00,680 --> 01:29:04,479 Speaker 1: feet annual Grammy Awards. She says, there's so much in store. Yeah, 1380 01:29:04,600 --> 01:29:06,760 Speaker 1: there's so much in store, and she can't wait for 1381 01:29:06,920 --> 01:29:09,000 Speaker 1: us to see it and for it all to come 1382 01:29:09,080 --> 01:29:12,160 Speaker 1: to life. The Grammys will air live on February tenth 1383 01:29:12,840 --> 01:29:17,400 Speaker 1: on CBS. And who's hosting the Oscars? No one. I 1384 01:29:17,520 --> 01:29:21,680 Speaker 1: think it's useless. Yeah, no, no host Oscars. I think 1385 01:29:21,720 --> 01:29:23,720 Speaker 1: everybody that go up there, they just bring up the 1386 01:29:23,840 --> 01:29:26,080 Speaker 1: next person. You just keep it moving. That's all. That's 1387 01:29:26,120 --> 01:29:30,639 Speaker 1: only way you can. Yeah, yeah, that's gonna be next. 1388 01:29:31,200 --> 01:29:33,479 Speaker 1: I I ain't got to watch it. Nohow, but I 1389 01:29:33,640 --> 01:29:35,880 Speaker 1: really after they played Kevin like that, I said, I'm 1390 01:29:35,920 --> 01:29:40,479 Speaker 1: not watching. I probably will watch it, no way, But 1391 01:29:40,720 --> 01:29:43,800 Speaker 1: you know, this just gives you a better reason. Now, Oh, 1392 01:29:43,960 --> 01:29:46,320 Speaker 1: this was a show, ain't gonna it ain't gonna be on. 1393 01:29:47,840 --> 01:29:49,960 Speaker 1: But I love the fact that Kevin is still winning 1394 01:29:50,000 --> 01:29:52,280 Speaker 1: though he has a number one movie in country right now, 1395 01:29:52,840 --> 01:29:56,519 Speaker 1: you know with the other do yeah, I mean there's 1396 01:29:56,560 --> 01:29:59,840 Speaker 1: a talent. Yeah, you responsible to right, he got t 1397 01:30:00,120 --> 01:30:04,320 Speaker 1: let work ethic great dude, man yeah man. Yeah, and 1398 01:30:04,520 --> 01:30:07,639 Speaker 1: and other entertainment news congratulations are in order for our girl. 1399 01:30:09,320 --> 01:30:11,760 Speaker 1: He's got plenty of money. Kevin had enough money to 1400 01:30:11,840 --> 01:30:14,760 Speaker 1: buy his co host calls and everything. You know what 1401 01:30:14,840 --> 01:30:16,519 Speaker 1: I'm saying he got I just wanted to put that 1402 01:30:16,600 --> 01:30:21,000 Speaker 1: out there. His cost, you know, you say, was gonna 1403 01:30:21,000 --> 01:30:24,639 Speaker 1: be different. I'm just telling you right now. You're talking 1404 01:30:24,640 --> 01:30:29,639 Speaker 1: about the guys at tool with him. Yes, yeah, y'all 1405 01:30:29,680 --> 01:30:33,720 Speaker 1: need to it no way, what you mean? I was 1406 01:30:33,800 --> 01:30:39,560 Speaker 1: on to it with you for a long time one. 1407 01:30:39,680 --> 01:30:43,120 Speaker 1: I mean we did a long time one. Ye. Then 1408 01:30:43,240 --> 01:30:49,760 Speaker 1: you start smelling yourself broke off, told me no, I 1409 01:30:49,920 --> 01:30:54,080 Speaker 1: got We're not gonna do this. You know my money 1410 01:30:54,240 --> 01:30:56,160 Speaker 1: was set. I didn't have to wear about my money. 1411 01:30:57,080 --> 01:31:02,200 Speaker 1: Can we continue to congratulate Jena Hall please? And a 1412 01:31:02,280 --> 01:31:05,960 Speaker 1: manlist on Stenberg. They are the stars of the hate 1413 01:31:06,000 --> 01:31:09,439 Speaker 1: you give. They're being honored at essence at their annual 1414 01:31:09,520 --> 01:31:14,800 Speaker 1: Black Women in Hollywood Luncheon. Yeah that's really nice. If 1415 01:31:14,880 --> 01:31:18,160 Speaker 1: Beale Street could talk, Star Kiki Lane and Jennifer Lewis. 1416 01:31:18,240 --> 01:31:21,360 Speaker 1: So we love us from Jennifer Lewis of Black Yes, 1417 01:31:21,680 --> 01:31:28,160 Speaker 1: Miss Ruby all please help me black Jesus black social media. 1418 01:31:28,560 --> 01:31:32,639 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, clown, especially when it's Ronnie election time. 1419 01:31:34,040 --> 01:31:37,320 Speaker 1: Get your butt out and vote, all right? Uh yeah, anyway, 1420 01:31:37,439 --> 01:31:40,400 Speaker 1: Jennifer Lewis is also going to be honored for all 1421 01:31:40,439 --> 01:31:43,120 Speaker 1: of their marvelous work and for their stunning achievements. The 1422 01:31:43,200 --> 01:31:46,559 Speaker 1: Black Women in Hollywood Luncheon takes place on February twenty first, 1423 01:31:47,080 --> 01:31:52,960 Speaker 1: in Beverly Hills. So there you go. Good. That's right. Congratulations, Yes, 1424 01:31:54,280 --> 01:31:57,720 Speaker 1: deservingly so though. Regina Hall, I mean, she's such a 1425 01:31:57,840 --> 01:32:00,680 Speaker 1: talent and a sweet person. She really is. Yeah, I 1426 01:32:00,760 --> 01:32:05,439 Speaker 1: see you on the cover Essence magazine. Yeah, look really good. Family. 1427 01:32:05,479 --> 01:32:08,840 Speaker 1: I ain't forgot them. I love him to death. Yeah, absolutely, 1428 01:32:09,080 --> 01:32:13,280 Speaker 1: people forgot him. I ain't forgot him. Boy. I did 1429 01:32:13,360 --> 01:32:15,479 Speaker 1: seven years over there. That was pretty good, run man, 1430 01:32:15,800 --> 01:32:20,160 Speaker 1: it was yeah, I did seven I hosted for seven years. Dude, Wow, 1431 01:32:21,160 --> 01:32:25,200 Speaker 1: not bad. I ain't made it nothing. Oh we love Essence. 1432 01:32:26,160 --> 01:32:29,400 Speaker 1: All right, coming up, it's Steve Harvey and his closing remarks. 1433 01:32:29,439 --> 01:32:31,639 Speaker 1: You don't want to miss it at forty nine after 1434 01:32:31,760 --> 01:32:36,519 Speaker 1: the hour you're listening to morning show. All right, here 1435 01:32:36,560 --> 01:32:38,439 Speaker 1: we are, guys, last break of the day. It's been 1436 01:32:38,439 --> 01:32:44,880 Speaker 1: a good days, been a good day. Yeah, birthday, Yeah, yeah, 1437 01:32:46,760 --> 01:32:51,000 Speaker 1: I'll be here. How you feeling, man? Oh? You know, man, 1438 01:32:51,120 --> 01:32:55,240 Speaker 1: I don't feel I don't feel older. But you know what, 1439 01:32:55,479 --> 01:32:58,120 Speaker 1: it's getting crazy because these years are going by way 1440 01:32:58,280 --> 01:33:00,560 Speaker 1: faster now. But you know what they said, when you 1441 01:33:00,720 --> 01:33:04,040 Speaker 1: get older older, they go faster. Each year, it goes faster. 1442 01:33:04,280 --> 01:33:06,720 Speaker 1: That's what I heard that, especially at this age, man, 1443 01:33:06,760 --> 01:33:10,479 Speaker 1: because you got to look at mortality and you know 1444 01:33:10,600 --> 01:33:20,080 Speaker 1: immortality mortality or you know motails. But you know, it's 1445 01:33:20,120 --> 01:33:23,760 Speaker 1: just that's such a blessing. Man. I just never saw 1446 01:33:23,920 --> 01:33:27,800 Speaker 1: sixty two. Really, that's not that I'm saying I didn't 1447 01:33:27,840 --> 01:33:30,400 Speaker 1: think I'd make it to sixty two. I just it 1448 01:33:30,560 --> 01:33:32,560 Speaker 1: was just a number I thought was so big and 1449 01:33:32,680 --> 01:33:36,600 Speaker 1: so far away, you know, because it seems like just 1450 01:33:36,760 --> 01:33:41,800 Speaker 1: a minute ago I was forty. Yeah, yeah, you know 1451 01:33:42,800 --> 01:33:47,479 Speaker 1: forty man. Well, I'm Steve in lieu of your birthday 1452 01:33:47,479 --> 01:33:50,800 Speaker 1: and everything. I guess your nephew has decided he's going 1453 01:33:50,880 --> 01:33:55,280 Speaker 1: to do closing remarks for you. Yeah. Really, yeah, I mean, 1454 01:33:55,360 --> 01:33:59,280 Speaker 1: what a gift. What a gift? Okay, okay, let me 1455 01:33:59,360 --> 01:34:07,000 Speaker 1: step up it high state my closing remarks today. It's 1456 01:34:07,080 --> 01:34:12,000 Speaker 1: called homework. That is what my closing remarks are about. 1457 01:34:12,560 --> 01:34:16,800 Speaker 1: It's about homework. When I was in school, I did 1458 01:34:16,880 --> 01:34:20,439 Speaker 1: my homework. I didn't I didn't do it to the 1459 01:34:20,600 --> 01:34:23,280 Speaker 1: level of where I should have done it. I didn't 1460 01:34:23,320 --> 01:34:24,960 Speaker 1: do it the way I was supposed to do it. 1461 01:34:25,080 --> 01:34:28,320 Speaker 1: But I did my homework just enough to get by. 1462 01:34:29,000 --> 01:34:31,360 Speaker 1: I did my homework. You're in high school, you're in 1463 01:34:31,439 --> 01:34:34,679 Speaker 1: junior high school, you're in college, you do your homework, 1464 01:34:34,760 --> 01:34:37,840 Speaker 1: that's what you're supposed to do, and then life kicks 1465 01:34:37,920 --> 01:34:41,479 Speaker 1: in after all of that. After all of that, life starts, 1466 01:34:42,080 --> 01:34:45,680 Speaker 1: and then God puts you in a different classroom and 1467 01:34:45,800 --> 01:34:50,840 Speaker 1: you're supposed to do your homework. And sometimes I didn't 1468 01:34:50,880 --> 01:34:53,839 Speaker 1: do my homework when I was in the life class. 1469 01:34:54,600 --> 01:34:57,760 Speaker 1: So here I am now at the age that I am. 1470 01:34:57,800 --> 01:35:00,920 Speaker 1: I'm fifty one years old, and I keep looking back 1471 01:35:00,960 --> 01:35:05,599 Speaker 1: and I'm saying, Wow, there's some homework that I passed 1472 01:35:05,680 --> 01:35:09,280 Speaker 1: up on. I'm in a position now. I had my 1473 01:35:09,400 --> 01:35:12,720 Speaker 1: own TV show for the first time, and now I'm 1474 01:35:12,760 --> 01:35:15,479 Speaker 1: in a position wondering am I going to get it again? 1475 01:35:16,439 --> 01:35:19,320 Speaker 1: But the class that I was in before was my 1476 01:35:19,560 --> 01:35:24,479 Speaker 1: uncle's class, and I watched him, but I wasn't doing 1477 01:35:25,280 --> 01:35:28,840 Speaker 1: my homework. I wasn't watching what he was going through. 1478 01:35:28,920 --> 01:35:31,560 Speaker 1: I was with him while he was going through it, 1479 01:35:31,920 --> 01:35:37,360 Speaker 1: but I wasn't doing my homework. So I don't have 1480 01:35:37,600 --> 01:35:41,000 Speaker 1: a long closing remark. All I can do is tell 1481 01:35:41,120 --> 01:35:45,880 Speaker 1: you is do your homework, because at some point it's 1482 01:35:45,960 --> 01:35:49,000 Speaker 1: going to pay off or it's not going to pay off. 1483 01:35:49,640 --> 01:35:52,479 Speaker 1: If you've done your homework, then you've watched long enough, 1484 01:35:52,600 --> 01:35:55,880 Speaker 1: You've studied long enough, you're you're you're soaking it in 1485 01:35:56,040 --> 01:36:00,120 Speaker 1: long enough to guess what the homework is going to 1486 01:36:00,360 --> 01:36:05,559 Speaker 1: pay off. Here, I am wondering did I do enough homework? 1487 01:36:06,160 --> 01:36:09,280 Speaker 1: And when I get to do what I'm looking forward 1488 01:36:09,320 --> 01:36:12,720 Speaker 1: to doing in the future, did I do enough of 1489 01:36:12,920 --> 01:36:16,960 Speaker 1: my homework? That is? That's the closing remarks from the 1490 01:36:17,640 --> 01:36:22,400 Speaker 1: Excuse me, sir, excuse no, excuse me? What have you 1491 01:36:22,560 --> 01:36:27,080 Speaker 1: done with Tommy? Who are you? Stop all this? Who 1492 01:36:27,280 --> 01:36:32,000 Speaker 1: is that birthday? Tom Man? Where is Tommy? I'm so 1493 01:36:32,240 --> 01:36:36,639 Speaker 1: damn confused. I mean that was good. I was sitting 1494 01:36:37,200 --> 01:36:43,360 Speaker 1: it was really good. Yeah, my sister's child like that. 1495 01:36:45,960 --> 01:36:55,719 Speaker 1: I'm scared. Yeah, that was good Tommy though, so Steve. 1496 01:36:56,040 --> 01:37:00,040 Speaker 1: What he's saying is he's been listening now you and 1497 01:37:00,280 --> 01:37:03,080 Speaker 1: think that you your mentoring was getting through, but it's 1498 01:37:03,120 --> 01:37:14,280 Speaker 1: getting up through now. It's it's sort of crazy, you know. 1499 01:37:16,240 --> 01:37:19,599 Speaker 1: You know, I actually, in all honesty, can see him 1500 01:37:19,680 --> 01:37:24,120 Speaker 1: getting it and getting a grasp on it. But I 1501 01:37:24,240 --> 01:37:30,760 Speaker 1: think what's helpful is that he's now seen it. He's 1502 01:37:31,040 --> 01:37:34,599 Speaker 1: he's got the view from the stage. Now. It's it's 1503 01:37:34,640 --> 01:37:38,400 Speaker 1: different when you got an audience seat. The audience seat, 1504 01:37:38,479 --> 01:37:42,480 Speaker 1: you just see though the stage, the lights, the curtains, 1505 01:37:43,160 --> 01:37:49,360 Speaker 1: the ambiance, the special effects. When you on stage, you 1506 01:37:49,600 --> 01:37:53,400 Speaker 1: was behind the curtain for you walked out all that 1507 01:37:53,600 --> 01:37:55,920 Speaker 1: stuff in the back. Man, it's what it is. It's 1508 01:37:55,960 --> 01:37:58,160 Speaker 1: like when I met with Dapper Dan up in New York. 1509 01:37:58,240 --> 01:37:59,920 Speaker 1: He made the coat that I wore on New y 1510 01:38:00,120 --> 01:38:04,320 Speaker 1: Is Ea. And me and Dapper Dan was having a conversation. Man, 1511 01:38:05,200 --> 01:38:11,240 Speaker 1: and I started crying talking to Dapper Dan because man, 1512 01:38:11,400 --> 01:38:15,559 Speaker 1: he was so rich with information. And I realized, man 1513 01:38:16,800 --> 01:38:19,360 Speaker 1: like me and him were sitting up talking. Cats like 1514 01:38:19,560 --> 01:38:23,439 Speaker 1: me and him is a dying breed. It ain't many 1515 01:38:23,640 --> 01:38:26,800 Speaker 1: me and Dapper dance, and me and Dap were sitting 1516 01:38:26,880 --> 01:38:29,320 Speaker 1: up there just talking about what we knew about Harlem 1517 01:38:29,400 --> 01:38:31,400 Speaker 1: and how I was like back in the day, and 1518 01:38:31,520 --> 01:38:35,000 Speaker 1: what Cleveland was like and running numbers and hustling like 1519 01:38:35,160 --> 01:38:37,880 Speaker 1: that to real win. I mean, man, we just set 1520 01:38:37,960 --> 01:38:41,760 Speaker 1: up there. We had a great conversation and Dapper Dan 1521 01:38:41,920 --> 01:38:45,080 Speaker 1: says something really important to me. He says, Steve Harvey, 1522 01:38:45,240 --> 01:38:50,200 Speaker 1: what I respect about you is your road work. He said, Man, 1523 01:38:50,320 --> 01:38:54,000 Speaker 1: you put in road work. Brother, he said, in the gym, 1524 01:38:54,400 --> 01:38:58,719 Speaker 1: everybody d gym, punching bag, speed bag, dancing round cameras. 1525 01:39:00,040 --> 01:39:02,439 Speaker 1: He said, what day You'll never see no camera following, 1526 01:39:02,520 --> 01:39:04,880 Speaker 1: no fighter when you're doing road work because it's four 1527 01:39:04,920 --> 01:39:08,599 Speaker 1: o'clock in the morning and it's dog don't nobody won't flops. 1528 01:39:08,720 --> 01:39:11,519 Speaker 1: I respect your road work man. It meant a lot 1529 01:39:11,600 --> 01:39:14,880 Speaker 1: to me. Wow. Two closing remarks, They'll have a great 1530 01:39:14,920 --> 01:39:31,000 Speaker 1: weekend for all Steve Harvey contests. No purchase necessary void 1531 01:39:31,080 --> 01:39:34,320 Speaker 1: where prohibited. Participants must be legal US residents at least 1532 01:39:34,439 --> 01:39:38,160 Speaker 1: eighteen years old, unless otherwise stated. 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