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It was revealed that 21 00:01:18,959 --> 00:01:21,560 Speaker 1: the mother's boyfriend may soon be facing charges in the 22 00:01:21,560 --> 00:01:25,400 Speaker 1: boy's death. Surchuarren's detailed the little boy's plate, not eating 23 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:27,880 Speaker 1: vomiting in the days leading up to his death. Derek 24 00:01:28,040 --> 00:01:30,600 Speaker 1: wasn't taken to the hospital until a day after he 25 00:01:30,680 --> 00:01:33,360 Speaker 1: became gravely ill. By then, it was too late to 26 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:36,279 Speaker 1: save his life. When doctors discovered a torn and tested 27 00:01:36,520 --> 00:01:39,520 Speaker 1: twenty two year old Daisy Martinez looked shell shot to 28 00:01:39,560 --> 00:01:41,640 Speaker 1: be in a White County courtroom on the heels of 29 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:44,280 Speaker 1: her young son's death. Three can't talk. You have to 30 00:01:44,280 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: be the guardian of that child. You have to be 31 00:01:46,319 --> 00:01:48,680 Speaker 1: the advocate for that child and know when your child 32 00:01:48,800 --> 00:01:52,640 Speaker 1: needs to see somebody for professional medical care. A three 33 00:01:52,840 --> 00:01:59,880 Speaker 1: year old child is found dead. The stunning part it 34 00:02:00,160 --> 00:02:03,400 Speaker 1: could have been stopped. And right now the person you 35 00:02:03,440 --> 00:02:07,000 Speaker 1: would suspect the least has been arrested. I mean, I see, Grace. 36 00:02:07,080 --> 00:02:10,360 Speaker 1: This is crime Stories. Thank you for being with us. 37 00:02:10,400 --> 00:02:14,799 Speaker 1: Straight out to John Lemley Crimes Tooris contributing reporter John, 38 00:02:14,960 --> 00:02:18,520 Speaker 1: what happened Nancy? Police say that twenty two year old 39 00:02:18,760 --> 00:02:22,560 Speaker 1: Daisy Martinez could have helped her little boy, Eric, but 40 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:26,480 Speaker 1: for some reason, she didn't. She's been charged with felony 41 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:30,880 Speaker 1: negligent child abuse, leading to Eric's death this past summer. 42 00:02:31,320 --> 00:02:34,840 Speaker 1: Now Nancy. At the time, Daisy and her two kids 43 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:39,680 Speaker 1: were living with Daisy's boyfriend, Ezekiel Gonzalez, in an extended 44 00:02:39,760 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: stay motel in Garner, North Carolina. It's a suburb of Raleigh, 45 00:02:44,639 --> 00:02:49,640 Speaker 1: the state capitol. On August nine, police say something happened 46 00:02:49,680 --> 00:02:52,240 Speaker 1: to Eric that caused him to get a tear in 47 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 1: his intestine that led to sepsis. By the time he 48 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 1: was brought to a hospital, too much time had passed. 49 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,560 Speaker 1: It was just too late, and Nancy, this is the 50 00:03:01,760 --> 00:03:06,560 Speaker 1: especially heartbreaking part. He died just one day before his 51 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:11,079 Speaker 1: fourth birthday. Actually, will joining me, uh, well known child 52 00:03:11,120 --> 00:03:15,359 Speaker 1: advocate and lawyer, Ashley Willcott Um. You know John Limley, 53 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:17,760 Speaker 1: as he recited the facts as we know them right now, 54 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:24,480 Speaker 1: Really it just kind of glossed over the internal injury. 55 00:03:24,639 --> 00:03:28,400 Speaker 1: Not only were there internal injuries, there were physical symptoms. 56 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:33,520 Speaker 1: So the report is that the boyfriend actually sent video 57 00:03:33,840 --> 00:03:37,400 Speaker 1: to the mother at work showing the child throwing up, 58 00:03:37,560 --> 00:03:41,040 Speaker 1: clenching the stomach. That happened all the way through the 59 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:43,800 Speaker 1: night when the mother was home. So it's not just 60 00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:47,480 Speaker 1: there was an internal injury, there were physical signs of 61 00:03:47,520 --> 00:03:52,800 Speaker 1: that injury. To board with the Garner Police Department. Quote, 62 00:03:52,840 --> 00:03:54,960 Speaker 1: it had to be obvious his child had some kind 63 00:03:55,000 --> 00:03:58,760 Speaker 1: of internal injury and the parents should have known. The 64 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:03,080 Speaker 1: mother should have own that the child needed emergency care. 65 00:04:04,160 --> 00:04:08,320 Speaker 1: It's so clear to me. Joe Scott Morgan, Forensics Expert, 66 00:04:08,360 --> 00:04:13,720 Speaker 1: Professor Forensics, Jacksonville State University. Joe Scott, this is heinous. 67 00:04:13,760 --> 00:04:17,000 Speaker 1: This is torture what this little four year old boy 68 00:04:17,279 --> 00:04:24,600 Speaker 1: lived through before he finally mercifully died. Yeah, Nancy, Uh, 69 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:27,600 Speaker 1: the tragedy of all of this is that it could 70 00:04:27,600 --> 00:04:31,640 Speaker 1: have been prevented. Uh. Let me tell you something. Uh. 71 00:04:31,839 --> 00:04:36,320 Speaker 1: Ruptured intestines do not occur spontaneously. This is something in 72 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:39,960 Speaker 1: my experience that's generally associated with blunt force trauma. That 73 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:43,960 Speaker 1: means a blow to the abdomen that rips through the 74 00:04:44,040 --> 00:04:49,040 Speaker 1: intestine wall. It's a very painful, slow death. And his 75 00:04:49,040 --> 00:04:51,560 Speaker 1: his immediate cause of death was listed as sept to 76 00:04:51,640 --> 00:04:54,839 Speaker 1: seem in just so that people understand at home, except 77 00:04:54,839 --> 00:04:57,159 Speaker 1: to seem is a horrible way to die. Nancy. You 78 00:04:57,200 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: have severe nausea, UM, you have dizziness, uh, disorientation, and 79 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:06,479 Speaker 1: and most of all, you have a raging fever that 80 00:05:06,640 --> 00:05:10,360 Speaker 1: just goes throughout the entire body. The body is screaming out, uh, 81 00:05:10,480 --> 00:05:14,200 Speaker 1: that it's infected, and the child is not being rendered 82 00:05:14,279 --> 00:05:18,800 Speaker 1: any kind of assistance whatsoever. To Karen's talk Psychologists joining 83 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 1: me out of New York, Karen William, it's hard to 84 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:26,279 Speaker 1: understand how the mother was neglectful in this case, Nancy. 85 00:05:26,320 --> 00:05:29,520 Speaker 1: And I'm just wondering what she was afraid of, why 86 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:33,640 Speaker 1: she wouldn't take him for help, because he was obviously suffering, 87 00:05:34,040 --> 00:05:37,719 Speaker 1: and I'm suspecting that something was going on that made 88 00:05:37,760 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 1: her resist taking him for help. Well, wait a minute, 89 00:05:40,760 --> 00:05:43,680 Speaker 1: are you suggesting that she was afraid of what the 90 00:05:43,760 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 1: boyfriend would do to her, or she was afraid she 91 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 1: would be arrested. I think she was afraid that she 92 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:53,000 Speaker 1: would be arrested, that something was going on there that 93 00:05:53,240 --> 00:05:55,839 Speaker 1: she needed to keep secret. Well, let me tell you 94 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:59,120 Speaker 1: this much. If you're afraid of your boyfriend and your 95 00:05:59,200 --> 00:06:02,960 Speaker 1: husband or your spouse, that's the one thing. But to 96 00:06:03,040 --> 00:06:07,440 Speaker 1: stand by and let your child die, that's the whole 97 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:11,000 Speaker 1: another thing. And back to what Joseph Scott Morgan was saying, 98 00:06:11,360 --> 00:06:14,279 Speaker 1: this was not an illness, This was not uh that 99 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:17,560 Speaker 1: they didn't know how high his fever was, didn't realize 100 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:21,320 Speaker 1: he had step to seemia. No, he was suffering from 101 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:27,520 Speaker 1: horrible internal injury, horrible issues. And what were they Joseph, Well, Nancy, 102 00:06:27,560 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 1: what we're talking about here is this, uh, this tear 103 00:06:31,720 --> 00:06:35,120 Speaker 1: in the intestine, and the intestine is rather resilient. But 104 00:06:35,200 --> 00:06:37,960 Speaker 1: just to keep in mind that our intestines carry very 105 00:06:38,040 --> 00:06:41,200 Speaker 1: very nasty little bugs and once they get out, once 106 00:06:41,240 --> 00:06:43,919 Speaker 1: they get out of that contained area, all kinds of 107 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:47,280 Speaker 1: problems can arise. And one more important thing here that 108 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:50,280 Speaker 1: that really gives us an idea of neglect in the 109 00:06:50,320 --> 00:06:54,080 Speaker 1: warrant uh that was put out. One of the things 110 00:06:54,120 --> 00:06:57,000 Speaker 1: that they alluded to was that this poor little angel 111 00:06:57,240 --> 00:07:01,440 Speaker 1: was throwing up coffee ground like material. All that means 112 00:07:01,480 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: that it's dark, it's granular. Let me tell you what 113 00:07:04,920 --> 00:07:09,960 Speaker 1: this was. This was semi gelaginous blood that this child 114 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:13,240 Speaker 1: was throwing up. Nancy, as a result of this event, 115 00:07:13,320 --> 00:07:16,680 Speaker 1: it's just absolutely horrible. Well, I gotta tell you, sadly, 116 00:07:16,720 --> 00:07:19,200 Speaker 1: I knew exactly what you were going to say from 117 00:07:19,240 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 1: having seen it so many times. It comes from internal 118 00:07:22,000 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 1: bleeding and then the blood in your stomach starts to 119 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:29,960 Speaker 1: coagulate like it would when you have a cut on 120 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:33,160 Speaker 1: your skin. And the little boy was bleeding so much 121 00:07:33,200 --> 00:07:36,600 Speaker 1: internally that it was coagulating in his stomach and he 122 00:07:36,640 --> 00:07:39,160 Speaker 1: would start throwing it up. Now, I want to go 123 00:07:39,200 --> 00:07:43,400 Speaker 1: back to the facts. To John Limley Crime Stories investigative 124 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:50,000 Speaker 1: reporter John Uh, the boyfriend sent the mother video of 125 00:07:50,120 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 1: the little boy just vomiting up coagulated jellofied blood. Why 126 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:01,480 Speaker 1: why did he do that? This is not quite understood 127 00:08:01,520 --> 00:08:05,560 Speaker 1: just yet. The approve of investigators are still trying to 128 00:08:05,600 --> 00:08:09,240 Speaker 1: figure out why the video was even made in the 129 00:08:09,280 --> 00:08:12,280 Speaker 1: first place, let alone sent to the mother. The search 130 00:08:12,600 --> 00:08:16,960 Speaker 1: warrants detailed the little boy's plight. Uh he was not eating, 131 00:08:17,480 --> 00:08:20,640 Speaker 1: vomiting in the days leading up to his death, and 132 00:08:20,880 --> 00:08:24,960 Speaker 1: finally his jaw locked up and he became unresponsive. At 133 00:08:25,000 --> 00:08:28,440 Speaker 1: this point, his mother finally took him to the hospital, 134 00:08:28,760 --> 00:08:32,880 Speaker 1: but it was just too late. As for why charges 135 00:08:33,320 --> 00:08:36,400 Speaker 1: have just now been brought in this case, police say 136 00:08:36,480 --> 00:08:39,560 Speaker 1: their aim from the very beginning has been to practice 137 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:43,480 Speaker 1: due diligence, that they've been conducting a thorough investigation for 138 00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:47,200 Speaker 1: over three months now about these injuries that resulted in 139 00:08:47,240 --> 00:08:50,360 Speaker 1: the death of a child. Their goal, police say, is 140 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:54,319 Speaker 1: to provide solid justice for little Eric, and that they 141 00:08:54,360 --> 00:08:57,320 Speaker 1: want to be confident about every element in their case. 142 00:08:57,360 --> 00:08:59,199 Speaker 1: You might be able to help me on this, Karen Stark, 143 00:08:59,280 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 1: psychologist to New York. The officials at Wake matt Hospital 144 00:09:02,880 --> 00:09:07,079 Speaker 1: and Garner immediately called police after his parents bring him 145 00:09:07,120 --> 00:09:11,600 Speaker 1: there the night uh that they finally finally bring him 146 00:09:11,600 --> 00:09:15,120 Speaker 1: to the e er. They knew immediately police should be called, 147 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:19,839 Speaker 1: explained Karen why they had to call police because no, 148 00:09:20,080 --> 00:09:23,120 Speaker 1: and it was it was a clear case of neglect, Nancy. 149 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:28,240 Speaker 1: Somebody should have brought him to that hospital right away, 150 00:09:28,400 --> 00:09:32,280 Speaker 1: and so they understood that there was something going on 151 00:09:32,400 --> 00:09:35,880 Speaker 1: there that needed to be investigated. That's when police are 152 00:09:35,920 --> 00:09:39,720 Speaker 1: called when there's negligence, when there's abuse. I'm taking a 153 00:09:39,720 --> 00:09:41,839 Speaker 1: look at all of the documents right now. I want 154 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:45,600 Speaker 1: to go back to something. Ashley Wilcott, child advocate. The 155 00:09:45,720 --> 00:09:51,080 Speaker 1: boyfriend sends this video to the mother and it's of 156 00:09:51,120 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 1: the little boy vomiting, vomiting, vomiting a blood. Do you think, Ashley, 157 00:09:56,760 --> 00:09:59,240 Speaker 1: he's asking her, do you want me to take him 158 00:09:59,240 --> 00:10:02,160 Speaker 1: to the hospital? Look what's happening. I don't know what 159 00:10:02,200 --> 00:10:06,240 Speaker 1: to do or was there a more uh nefarious intent 160 00:10:06,320 --> 00:10:09,400 Speaker 1: of sending that video? Like look what I did? I 161 00:10:09,440 --> 00:10:12,240 Speaker 1: don't know the answer to that. We don't know the answer. 162 00:10:12,320 --> 00:10:15,360 Speaker 1: But the cynic in me says more nefarious. I do 163 00:10:15,440 --> 00:10:18,439 Speaker 1: not believe that it was a oh wow, look at him? 164 00:10:18,440 --> 00:10:21,480 Speaker 1: Should I call the doctor? Any person would know, whether 165 00:10:21,520 --> 00:10:23,880 Speaker 1: you're a boyfriend, a mother, a friend, or a stranger, 166 00:10:24,160 --> 00:10:27,440 Speaker 1: any person would know when a child's that's sick, you 167 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 1: go to the doctor. So I don't think it was 168 00:10:29,640 --> 00:10:32,400 Speaker 1: an innocent Oh look, he's sick. Should I go to 169 00:10:32,440 --> 00:10:35,600 Speaker 1: the doctor? I think there's something more nefarious because the 170 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:39,760 Speaker 1: other thing, factually, we know there was a domestic assault 171 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:44,880 Speaker 1: call to this particular home as well, so there's some 172 00:10:44,960 --> 00:10:48,400 Speaker 1: other situations going on in this home. Well, frankly, I 173 00:10:48,400 --> 00:10:50,800 Speaker 1: don't care what's going on between the two of them. 174 00:10:50,840 --> 00:10:54,560 Speaker 1: I'm worried about the little boy who is now dead. Okay, 175 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:58,160 Speaker 1: now here's another thing. What about this? Actually? Will gott 176 00:10:58,240 --> 00:11:03,679 Speaker 1: digest this and intre print She's charged, not him? Now? 177 00:11:03,800 --> 00:11:07,319 Speaker 1: That suggests to me he was sending the video going 178 00:11:07,360 --> 00:11:09,520 Speaker 1: what should I take him to the hospital. I don't 179 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:12,880 Speaker 1: get it. I honestly, just reviewing all the facts in 180 00:11:12,920 --> 00:11:15,200 Speaker 1: this case as we know them at this point in time, 181 00:11:15,480 --> 00:11:19,360 Speaker 1: I honestly cannot imagine or understand why the boyfriend has 182 00:11:19,440 --> 00:11:23,560 Speaker 1: not been charged because again, he was there too. You know, 183 00:11:23,640 --> 00:11:26,680 Speaker 1: maybe Nancy in the best flight, maybe he was saying, 184 00:11:26,720 --> 00:11:29,240 Speaker 1: oh my gosh, your son sick. This is terrible. We 185 00:11:29,280 --> 00:11:32,440 Speaker 1: need to go to the doctor. I'm just suspicious. I 186 00:11:32,520 --> 00:11:35,000 Speaker 1: don't buy it. I don't buy. What I don't buy 187 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:38,160 Speaker 1: is the fact that the injuries were there so long. 188 00:11:38,320 --> 00:11:41,480 Speaker 1: Joseph Scott Morgan, you're the death investigator that stept to 189 00:11:41,520 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 1: see me a set in. Now, what that is is 190 00:11:44,920 --> 00:11:48,719 Speaker 1: um blood poisoning, and a lot of times people get 191 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:51,160 Speaker 1: it in the hospital. You get it when you have 192 00:11:51,360 --> 00:11:54,640 Speaker 1: an injury or an infection, and an infection gets in 193 00:11:55,080 --> 00:11:57,520 Speaker 1: and it takes over your whole body and it kills 194 00:11:57,520 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 1: you pretty quickly. Joe Scott does what's really what's really 195 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:06,000 Speaker 1: tragic about this? For me, as as someone that's that's 196 00:12:06,000 --> 00:12:09,040 Speaker 1: been involved in forensic science, I know this area well 197 00:12:09,080 --> 00:12:12,559 Speaker 1: where they are there there within a very short distance 198 00:12:12,559 --> 00:12:17,439 Speaker 1: of some of the finest medical treatment in the nation, Nancy, 199 00:12:17,520 --> 00:12:20,880 Speaker 1: and they couldn't find it within themselves, uh to reach 200 00:12:20,920 --> 00:12:23,520 Speaker 1: out and try to help this child. This could have 201 00:12:23,600 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 1: been stemmed from the beginning when a child sustains If 202 00:12:27,240 --> 00:12:31,600 Speaker 1: this is what happened sustains blunt force trauma to the abdomen. 203 00:12:32,000 --> 00:12:33,880 Speaker 1: This is something that needs to be looked at in 204 00:12:33,960 --> 00:12:36,559 Speaker 1: the immediate. It really makes me think what else is 205 00:12:36,600 --> 00:12:38,720 Speaker 1: going on, what else is going on with other little 206 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:41,600 Speaker 1: ones that might be under their care, and what is 207 00:12:41,600 --> 00:12:45,120 Speaker 1: it that is stopping this man from asking for help 208 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:47,600 Speaker 1: that he has to send a video of this poor 209 00:12:47,679 --> 00:12:50,360 Speaker 1: child suffering to the mother who is at work. Did 210 00:12:50,440 --> 00:12:54,280 Speaker 1: she do something? Did she do something? Did she perpetrate something? 211 00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:57,400 Speaker 1: I think that's a big question going forward. Had she 212 00:12:57,480 --> 00:13:01,160 Speaker 1: told him do not call anybody? And that's something that's 213 00:13:01,200 --> 00:13:04,800 Speaker 1: gonna be found out, hopefully very soon. Well, we know 214 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 1: that the injury the autopsy revealed was trauma caused by 215 00:13:10,720 --> 00:13:16,839 Speaker 1: force to his abdomen to the extent he tore his intestine, 216 00:13:17,760 --> 00:13:24,720 Speaker 1: resulting in a fatal infection. So something hit him or 217 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:30,360 Speaker 1: force so strong and actually tore his intestine. I mean, 218 00:13:30,720 --> 00:13:36,080 Speaker 1: Ashley Wilcote, can you imagine the pain? I mean, okay, 219 00:13:36,160 --> 00:13:39,400 Speaker 1: don't laugh, Ashley, Okay, because you know my daughter. This 220 00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:45,240 Speaker 1: was about two years ago. She don't start laughing you either. 221 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:49,600 Speaker 1: Jackie just turned around. She got a splinter and she 222 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:51,520 Speaker 1: was having a fit, and when she would see me 223 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:56,360 Speaker 1: come toward her with a needle or the tweezers, she 224 00:13:56,400 --> 00:14:01,120 Speaker 1: would go berserk. Okay, So finally it's a planter, Ashley, 225 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:06,880 Speaker 1: a splinter. I drove to three med firsts until I 226 00:14:06,880 --> 00:14:10,600 Speaker 1: could get her in there so a nurse could remove it. 227 00:14:10,640 --> 00:14:12,360 Speaker 1: And what did she do? She just plugged it out 228 00:14:12,720 --> 00:14:18,920 Speaker 1: with tweezers. But it killed me to see Lucy crying 229 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:21,720 Speaker 1: and talking about all the pain and her fingers. I mean, 230 00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:25,080 Speaker 1: I knew it as a splinter, okay, but still seeing 231 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:27,440 Speaker 1: her like that, I'm like, Okay, get in the car. 232 00:14:27,480 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 1: We're going to the doctor right now. I could you know, 233 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 1: I could not stand it. This child went, I know, 234 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:41,840 Speaker 1: for an entire day, overnight through the next day, in 235 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:46,600 Speaker 1: this pain of a torn intestine. I can't imagine either. 236 00:14:46,800 --> 00:14:49,680 Speaker 1: They tortured this child by allowing the child to be 237 00:14:49,720 --> 00:14:52,880 Speaker 1: in that kind of pain, and in conjunction with the 238 00:14:52,920 --> 00:14:55,120 Speaker 1: amount of pain you know, the child was in. And 239 00:14:55,160 --> 00:14:57,080 Speaker 1: I'm like you, I see my child crying, what do 240 00:14:57,120 --> 00:14:59,000 Speaker 1: you do to fix it? You don't let it go 241 00:14:59,080 --> 00:15:02,239 Speaker 1: and go? They tort or this child. But in addition 242 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:06,520 Speaker 1: to that, I cannot imagine the amount of force this 243 00:15:06,600 --> 00:15:09,960 Speaker 1: child had to incur to even have the torn and 244 00:15:10,040 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 1: testine in the first place, So it's it's worse on 245 00:15:13,200 --> 00:15:15,760 Speaker 1: top of worse. Well, another thing that factors into it, 246 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:17,960 Speaker 1: And I want to ask you about this, John Linley, 247 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:22,440 Speaker 1: Crime Stories contributing investigative reporter, is that text messages on 248 00:15:22,520 --> 00:15:25,880 Speaker 1: the mom and the boyfriend's phone show they were arguing 249 00:15:26,560 --> 00:15:30,400 Speaker 1: via text while all this was happening. Were they arguing 250 00:15:30,560 --> 00:15:33,200 Speaker 1: about the boy? I don't know, but I know that 251 00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:36,160 Speaker 1: just adds on to it. They're so busy in their argument. 252 00:15:36,880 --> 00:15:41,360 Speaker 1: The boy is dying, the baby is dying. John. Is 253 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:44,320 Speaker 1: it true they were having this text argument? It appears 254 00:15:44,400 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 1: to be so. Investigators have a lot of questions about 255 00:15:47,560 --> 00:15:52,920 Speaker 1: these text messages. Uh, in addition to actually what happened 256 00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:57,480 Speaker 1: to cause these injuries in the first place. Neighbors in 257 00:15:57,520 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 1: the the Extended Stay hotel where the people were staying, uh, Daisy, 258 00:16:03,960 --> 00:16:08,160 Speaker 1: her boyfriend, and the two boys UM. One resident in 259 00:16:08,200 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 1: the hotel where the child lived with these uh, these three, 260 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:17,760 Speaker 1: these four actually Um stated that he often see the 261 00:16:17,800 --> 00:16:21,920 Speaker 1: boys crying. One time, this particular neighbor even asked the 262 00:16:21,920 --> 00:16:25,360 Speaker 1: boys if they were okay, and they became even more 263 00:16:25,560 --> 00:16:32,320 Speaker 1: upset by that simple question. Yeah, the neighbor says, every 264 00:16:32,320 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 1: time I came downstairs, like on my way to work, 265 00:16:35,320 --> 00:16:39,200 Speaker 1: the children are always crying, and I was always wondering 266 00:16:39,240 --> 00:16:42,680 Speaker 1: what's wrong. I asked the little boys, are you okay? 267 00:16:42,760 --> 00:16:47,240 Speaker 1: And they just burst out into tears. Okay. When you 268 00:16:47,320 --> 00:16:52,080 Speaker 1: hear the story like I do, it breaks my heart 269 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:56,960 Speaker 1: so much that I don't know what to do. I 270 00:16:57,200 --> 00:17:03,960 Speaker 1: know I can't fix this, but what I can do 271 00:17:04,960 --> 00:17:09,040 Speaker 1: is report on it. What I can do is urge 272 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:14,520 Speaker 1: everyone hearing this story. If you suspect a child is 273 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 1: being hurt or being neglected, please call authorities. If you're wrong, 274 00:17:22,280 --> 00:17:28,040 Speaker 1: you're wrong, but you're right to try. When I think 275 00:17:28,119 --> 00:17:31,720 Speaker 1: of these two little boys crying every time the neighbors 276 00:17:31,760 --> 00:17:36,800 Speaker 1: saw them, and now this one little angel is dead, 277 00:17:36,960 --> 00:17:44,160 Speaker 1: He's gone, and he suffered so horribly. Authorities say more 278 00:17:44,320 --> 00:17:49,160 Speaker 1: charges are likely to be handed down, and I am 279 00:17:49,280 --> 00:17:54,399 Speaker 1: awaiting an appointment with Lady Justice. I want to pause 280 00:17:54,440 --> 00:17:59,119 Speaker 1: and thank our partner who was making today's program possible 281 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:02,760 Speaker 1: where we expose what was done to this little child, 282 00:18:03,440 --> 00:18:08,520 Speaker 1: and that sponsor is circle with Disney. I want to 283 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:11,680 Speaker 1: talk to your parent, to parent, we know there's so 284 00:18:11,920 --> 00:18:16,399 Speaker 1: many dangers our children face every day. Why have a 285 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:19,600 Speaker 1: danger at home? I'm talking about the Internet. And yes, 286 00:18:20,119 --> 00:18:22,639 Speaker 1: I use the Internet with my children all the time. 287 00:18:22,760 --> 00:18:27,920 Speaker 1: We research all their school projects, everything together. But their 288 00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:30,800 Speaker 1: world is now the Internet. But there are spots of 289 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:33,520 Speaker 1: the Internet I don't want them to be and it's 290 00:18:33,560 --> 00:18:37,000 Speaker 1: hard to monitor what they're up to. Sneak up on 291 00:18:37,040 --> 00:18:40,080 Speaker 1: them all the time. I catch Lucy watching cat videos 292 00:18:40,080 --> 00:18:42,399 Speaker 1: and John David on Minecraft or as I like to 293 00:18:42,440 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 1: bother him and say minecraft or But there's so many 294 00:18:46,200 --> 00:18:49,199 Speaker 1: places I don't want them on the Internet. Now, there 295 00:18:49,240 --> 00:18:53,280 Speaker 1: are complicated, technical, expensive ways you can get some tech 296 00:18:53,359 --> 00:18:56,639 Speaker 1: pro to come in and install hardware and software that 297 00:18:56,680 --> 00:18:59,119 Speaker 1: affects everybody in the home, whole family. So what do 298 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:02,720 Speaker 1: you do, sir Coal With Disney it's a beautiful little 299 00:19:02,760 --> 00:19:06,359 Speaker 1: device designed for families to manage content and time online 300 00:19:06,680 --> 00:19:09,200 Speaker 1: for all the devices in your home. Yes, I said all. 301 00:19:09,640 --> 00:19:12,600 Speaker 1: You can filter content, set time limits, even set up 302 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:14,960 Speaker 1: a bad time. It's easy. Even I could do it. 303 00:19:15,280 --> 00:19:18,000 Speaker 1: Everybody in the family. Here's the here's the golden part 304 00:19:18,200 --> 00:19:21,359 Speaker 1: can have their own setting. That way, children do not 305 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:26,760 Speaker 1: end up in the dark Internet. But mom and dad 306 00:19:26,840 --> 00:19:29,520 Speaker 1: can still use the internet to research and get their 307 00:19:29,560 --> 00:19:33,240 Speaker 1: work done. Offer code Nancy in a and see why. 308 00:19:33,400 --> 00:19:36,400 Speaker 1: Use it at Circle with Nancy dot com, get ten 309 00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:40,479 Speaker 1: bucks off your Circle and free shipping. We are using 310 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:43,560 Speaker 1: it here in our home. It's so easy. John David 311 00:19:43,640 --> 00:19:46,639 Speaker 1: set it up. My son, my ten year old, and 312 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:49,840 Speaker 1: I want to thank Circle for what you've done for 313 00:19:49,960 --> 00:19:54,480 Speaker 1: my family and for being our partner. Today, a little 314 00:19:54,560 --> 00:20:00,000 Speaker 1: boy is dead, just before his fourth birthday, still three 315 00:20:00,240 --> 00:20:05,680 Speaker 1: years old. Why No, he was not a victim in 316 00:20:05,720 --> 00:20:09,320 Speaker 1: a car accident. Uh no, he didn't have an illness. 317 00:20:10,119 --> 00:20:15,720 Speaker 1: Oh no, he suffered at home, horrible, horrible pain from 318 00:20:15,840 --> 00:20:22,040 Speaker 1: ripped intestines. Mommy's living boyfriend actually sent Mommy a video 319 00:20:22,200 --> 00:20:28,240 Speaker 1: of the child vomiting up congealed blood. Why in the 320 00:20:28,320 --> 00:20:32,680 Speaker 1: last hours we learned mommy has been charged with felony 321 00:20:32,840 --> 00:20:36,400 Speaker 1: child neglect and joining me right now a very special 322 00:20:36,440 --> 00:20:39,600 Speaker 1: guest who was taking time out of the investigation to 323 00:20:39,720 --> 00:20:44,400 Speaker 1: join us. It is Captain Joe Bens from the Garner 324 00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:47,240 Speaker 1: p D. Captain, thank you so much for being with us, 325 00:20:47,760 --> 00:20:51,280 Speaker 1: Thank you for having me. You know, Captain, I know 326 00:20:51,560 --> 00:20:55,400 Speaker 1: you can't reveal everything to us as of right now. 327 00:20:55,640 --> 00:21:00,399 Speaker 1: She's charged with felony child neglect. I of course you 328 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:02,920 Speaker 1: know me, Captain, I think she should have been charged 329 00:21:03,240 --> 00:21:07,879 Speaker 1: with homicide. But let me ask you how this whole 330 00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:14,320 Speaker 1: investigation unfolded for your team? What happened? Sure, we got 331 00:21:14,359 --> 00:21:18,200 Speaker 1: called to a local hospital here in Garner, North Alanna. UM. 332 00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:21,679 Speaker 1: The doctors were seeing or or working on this child 333 00:21:21,920 --> 00:21:23,920 Speaker 1: and they gave us a call. The child came into 334 00:21:23,960 --> 00:21:28,760 Speaker 1: the hospital, he was unconscious, he was not responsive, UM 335 00:21:28,800 --> 00:21:31,800 Speaker 1: and so the the hospital staff contacted us and we 336 00:21:31,920 --> 00:21:35,439 Speaker 1: responded out to the hospital. The Garner Police Department said, 337 00:21:35,880 --> 00:21:41,919 Speaker 1: this boy, this sweet child, died of internal injuries and 338 00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:45,120 Speaker 1: its twenty two year old mother is accused of not 339 00:21:45,320 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 1: getting him medical treatment in a timely manner. Captain, how 340 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:55,399 Speaker 1: long does your team think this boy suffered before he died? 341 00:21:55,720 --> 00:21:58,240 Speaker 1: At this point, we really don't know. And that's that's 342 00:21:58,240 --> 00:22:00,640 Speaker 1: one of the heartbreaking things is is that we're still 343 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:04,240 Speaker 1: trying to determine how long, how long does child suffered, 344 00:22:04,240 --> 00:22:07,600 Speaker 1: We're trying to determine how how this actually occurred. We're 345 00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:10,920 Speaker 1: trying to figure out, um who may be responsible for 346 00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:13,119 Speaker 1: the actual injury itself. So there's just a lot of 347 00:22:13,160 --> 00:22:15,440 Speaker 1: pieces we still haven't put together yet and we're still 348 00:22:15,480 --> 00:22:18,879 Speaker 1: working on that, UM. But certainly the child should us 349 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:22,879 Speaker 1: receive some medical care much more promptly, UM, and we 350 00:22:22,880 --> 00:22:25,119 Speaker 1: could we have a totally different conversation if you well, 351 00:22:25,160 --> 00:22:29,200 Speaker 1: I know that he cried all through the night, suffering. 352 00:22:30,200 --> 00:22:33,560 Speaker 1: The next day mom goes to work, he's still suffering. 353 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:36,760 Speaker 1: She comes home and tries to feed him some grapes, 354 00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:41,880 Speaker 1: and that's when they realized his jaws had locked. Now, 355 00:22:41,920 --> 00:22:43,600 Speaker 1: I'm just a j D. I'm not an m D. 356 00:22:44,359 --> 00:22:48,840 Speaker 1: But when your jaws lock, that is bad. And because 357 00:22:48,880 --> 00:22:53,159 Speaker 1: of the internal injuries, they had been there at least 358 00:22:53,200 --> 00:22:57,439 Speaker 1: long enough for infection to set in. Now with the 359 00:22:57,520 --> 00:23:00,639 Speaker 1: body that that could be very quickly set This moves 360 00:23:00,960 --> 00:23:06,840 Speaker 1: very quickly. I'm thinking, uh, captain with me, everybody, Captain 361 00:23:06,960 --> 00:23:10,439 Speaker 1: Joe Bin's I know the mom is charged right now. 362 00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:13,800 Speaker 1: I'm thinking about that injury forensically and had to be 363 00:23:13,840 --> 00:23:18,560 Speaker 1: a very powerful blow to the boy's abdomen to rip 364 00:23:18,720 --> 00:23:22,520 Speaker 1: his intestines. And you typically think a man did it, 365 00:23:23,200 --> 00:23:27,240 Speaker 1: But what if he were kicked by a grown woman 366 00:23:28,040 --> 00:23:30,640 Speaker 1: That could result in the same thing. I mean, how 367 00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:34,119 Speaker 1: can you isolate who did what? Of course, this is 368 00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:36,959 Speaker 1: not a natural injury. That's what we're trying to do 369 00:23:37,160 --> 00:23:39,640 Speaker 1: is kind of narrow down a time frame for one 370 00:23:39,680 --> 00:23:42,840 Speaker 1: to ocur. So that'll helpe us, help us identify who 371 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:45,919 Speaker 1: was with the child potentially when this injury occurred, and 372 00:23:45,920 --> 00:23:48,399 Speaker 1: that will help us staring down to who we should 373 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:52,280 Speaker 1: focus on as far as injury itself. Is it true 374 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:57,080 Speaker 1: what we have read that the boyfriend to live in 375 00:23:57,600 --> 00:24:01,400 Speaker 1: sent the mom a video of the little boy coughing 376 00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: up congealed blood. That's great, there there's some evidence that 377 00:24:04,920 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 1: we received. Again this that goes to the whole point 378 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:10,960 Speaker 1: of when you have this a symptom, you have the 379 00:24:11,040 --> 00:24:14,439 Speaker 1: symptoms you've described just a while ago, any parent should 380 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:18,320 Speaker 1: know that child needs immediate medical care. And that's why 381 00:24:18,359 --> 00:24:22,840 Speaker 1: this child, uh was you said before? He suffered And 382 00:24:22,920 --> 00:24:25,640 Speaker 1: so that's why this parent was charged. And again our 383 00:24:25,720 --> 00:24:27,680 Speaker 1: job now from this point for it is to find 384 00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:31,800 Speaker 1: out how that actually occurred, when it occurred, and narrowed 385 00:24:31,840 --> 00:24:34,159 Speaker 1: down to potentially who might have been the one that 386 00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:38,040 Speaker 1: caused it. Well, you know where I stand, Captain, because 387 00:24:38,080 --> 00:24:41,399 Speaker 1: if if he is not a person of interest, he 388 00:24:41,520 --> 00:24:45,440 Speaker 1: is not a suspect. If the boyfriend did this thing. 389 00:24:46,160 --> 00:24:49,480 Speaker 1: If he did and the mom let it happen. Then 390 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:53,280 Speaker 1: she's just in the same pot as him. If the 391 00:24:53,359 --> 00:24:56,600 Speaker 1: mother did it and to live in boyfriend stood by 392 00:24:56,680 --> 00:24:59,600 Speaker 1: and did not take him to the doctor, they should 393 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:05,639 Speaker 1: both phase trial on these charges. But what is really disturbing, 394 00:25:05,840 --> 00:25:09,360 Speaker 1: and you brought this up, captain, is the time period, 395 00:25:09,560 --> 00:25:14,720 Speaker 1: all right, letting that standing there, letting the child be 396 00:25:14,840 --> 00:25:18,680 Speaker 1: in a fetal position, in pain, vomiting up congealed blood. 397 00:25:19,000 --> 00:25:23,520 Speaker 1: When you're vomiting up blood, you're in trouble, Captain. You 398 00:25:23,560 --> 00:25:29,880 Speaker 1: are in and deadly, deadly circumstances. And they did nothing. 399 00:25:30,200 --> 00:25:33,240 Speaker 1: They did nothing, Captain, that's great. Yeah, And then again 400 00:25:33,280 --> 00:25:35,920 Speaker 1: that's what makes this such an unfortunate insn't because if 401 00:25:35,960 --> 00:25:39,560 Speaker 1: if that child received timely care, we don't Again, we 402 00:25:39,600 --> 00:25:41,440 Speaker 1: don't know if you're having the same conversation or not. 403 00:25:41,520 --> 00:25:43,440 Speaker 1: Of course we can't predict that, but we just don't. 404 00:25:43,480 --> 00:25:45,199 Speaker 1: We don't know what kind of conversation would we have. 405 00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:47,880 Speaker 1: So this this child did stuff with this child, uh 406 00:25:48,000 --> 00:25:50,719 Speaker 1: did have an injury that should have been cared for 407 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:54,239 Speaker 1: or taken to see professional medical assistance long before he 408 00:25:54,400 --> 00:25:57,080 Speaker 1: was um. And again it's up to the d A. 409 00:25:57,240 --> 00:26:00,119 Speaker 1: You're going back to your statement about charges. Um, we 410 00:26:00,200 --> 00:26:02,560 Speaker 1: we just try. Our job is to put the piece together, 411 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,400 Speaker 1: to put that timeline together when things happened, to put 412 00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:08,480 Speaker 1: timelines together for or how it happened. You know, was 413 00:26:08,520 --> 00:26:11,240 Speaker 1: it a kick? Was it was it something just uh, 414 00:26:11,440 --> 00:26:14,360 Speaker 1: something totally different. So we we just don't know right now. 415 00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:16,760 Speaker 1: And I think once we get those answers, then we'll 416 00:26:16,760 --> 00:26:19,399 Speaker 1: of course bring the appropriate charges that we feel or 417 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:22,000 Speaker 1: at least recommend appropriate charges to our disc attorney that 418 00:26:22,040 --> 00:26:24,680 Speaker 1: we feel is appropriate for that case. So your job, 419 00:26:24,760 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 1: of course is to put together all the pieces, collect 420 00:26:27,359 --> 00:26:31,000 Speaker 1: all the evidence. I assume the scene has been processed. 421 00:26:31,240 --> 00:26:35,640 Speaker 1: Another issue is this child had siblings and one thing 422 00:26:35,720 --> 00:26:38,800 Speaker 1: I hate to do Captain has put a little child 423 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:41,720 Speaker 1: up on the stand. But I'll do it. I will 424 00:26:41,800 --> 00:26:46,399 Speaker 1: absolutely do it because what matters is seeking the truth, 425 00:26:47,359 --> 00:26:51,480 Speaker 1: and it's hard. You you've got to get a child psychologist. 426 00:26:51,840 --> 00:26:54,520 Speaker 1: You've got to have somebody that knows how to talk 427 00:26:54,560 --> 00:26:58,000 Speaker 1: to children that may not be able to verbalize what 428 00:26:58,160 --> 00:27:01,119 Speaker 1: they saw. You gotta go to to neighbors. You got 429 00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:04,120 Speaker 1: to hear what they said when they heard what they saw. 430 00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 1: I mean, this doesn't just happen overnight. This takes time. 431 00:27:09,200 --> 00:27:11,760 Speaker 1: To put a case like this together when you've got 432 00:27:11,760 --> 00:27:15,080 Speaker 1: a victim that could not really speak for themselves and 433 00:27:15,119 --> 00:27:19,000 Speaker 1: you're trying to deduce what happened. Is that right? That's great, 434 00:27:19,040 --> 00:27:21,200 Speaker 1: and that's that's the biggest and hardest part of dealing 435 00:27:21,240 --> 00:27:25,120 Speaker 1: with a child victim, UM, particularly the age that they're 436 00:27:25,200 --> 00:27:27,040 Speaker 1: at least, you know, they get a couple of years older, 437 00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:28,760 Speaker 1: you can they can tell you what happened. At least 438 00:27:28,760 --> 00:27:32,200 Speaker 1: you can maybe to coax them into telling you what happened. However, 439 00:27:32,240 --> 00:27:35,280 Speaker 1: this child is only three years old, almost four. His 440 00:27:35,400 --> 00:27:39,680 Speaker 1: younger sibling was was two almost three or somewhere around 441 00:27:39,680 --> 00:27:42,840 Speaker 1: and there. So there again, it's just not a whole 442 00:27:43,400 --> 00:27:46,040 Speaker 1: lot of people speaking up to saying, hey, this is 443 00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:48,760 Speaker 1: what happened to this child. And um, so we have 444 00:27:48,800 --> 00:27:51,679 Speaker 1: two friendsly go on the evidence. We have to identify 445 00:27:51,840 --> 00:27:54,280 Speaker 1: other potential witnesses that might have seen this child, so 446 00:27:54,280 --> 00:27:58,240 Speaker 1: we can put together timelines, put together potential uh causes 447 00:27:58,640 --> 00:28:01,760 Speaker 1: uh for the cat to UM. I mean I got 448 00:28:01,800 --> 00:28:07,400 Speaker 1: into the law business or the business of crime when 449 00:28:07,560 --> 00:28:10,600 Speaker 1: I became a crime victim myself and my fiancee was 450 00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:16,320 Speaker 1: murdered many many years ago, and that really affected the 451 00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:18,560 Speaker 1: rest of my life. I mean, it was over twenty 452 00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:24,879 Speaker 1: years before I could even consider marrying somebody else, you know, 453 00:28:24,960 --> 00:28:27,760 Speaker 1: And then I had waited so long I nearly died 454 00:28:27,800 --> 00:28:30,280 Speaker 1: in childbirth because you know, it was giving birth so 455 00:28:30,359 --> 00:28:34,200 Speaker 1: late in life. I mean, crimes like this affect people 456 00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:38,880 Speaker 1: in ways you never you never can you can't see 457 00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:42,640 Speaker 1: it at the time, how it's going to affect your life. 458 00:28:43,000 --> 00:28:46,800 Speaker 1: And I'm thinking about that little brother, I'm thinking about 459 00:28:47,320 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 1: that child, um, and how in the world you're gonna 460 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:54,840 Speaker 1: put this case together, Captain. When you see things like 461 00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:59,400 Speaker 1: this and you look at this woman, this mother, she's 462 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,320 Speaker 1: very beauty, a full you know, physically, she's very attractive 463 00:29:02,320 --> 00:29:05,920 Speaker 1: in the picture I see over, it's so hard for 464 00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:10,360 Speaker 1: me to take in someone could be so cruel and 465 00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:14,400 Speaker 1: to their own child. I mean, how do you keep 466 00:29:14,440 --> 00:29:17,120 Speaker 1: reporting to work every day? How do you do it? 467 00:29:18,280 --> 00:29:22,720 Speaker 1: We do it because, um, because of the victims. You know, 468 00:29:22,800 --> 00:29:25,720 Speaker 1: we do it because those victims are there that somebody 469 00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,440 Speaker 1: has to be an advocate for those victims. Somebody has 470 00:29:28,480 --> 00:29:31,800 Speaker 1: to be prepared to stand up and say, hey, we're 471 00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:33,880 Speaker 1: going to protect you, or we're gonna help you, or 472 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:35,640 Speaker 1: we're gonna get justice for you. And then you know 473 00:29:35,680 --> 00:29:37,600 Speaker 1: that's why you do it. You know, I know you're 474 00:29:37,600 --> 00:29:40,120 Speaker 1: gonna laugh, Captain, But in my personal life, I very 475 00:29:40,200 --> 00:29:43,880 Speaker 1: rarely get angry. It takes a lot to get me angry. 476 00:29:43,920 --> 00:29:46,960 Speaker 1: And my real life, I don't even like conflict. I'm 477 00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:49,479 Speaker 1: such a push over with my two children. That's why 478 00:29:49,520 --> 00:29:52,040 Speaker 1: I've got two cats, two dogs, and two guinea pigs 479 00:29:52,080 --> 00:29:59,040 Speaker 1: living here. But Captain, when I hear what happens to 480 00:29:59,200 --> 00:30:03,800 Speaker 1: other people, it just breaks my heart. It just breaks 481 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:07,880 Speaker 1: my heart. And the other thing is if you don't 482 00:30:07,920 --> 00:30:10,640 Speaker 1: take a stand in court, and you don't take a 483 00:30:10,720 --> 00:30:13,800 Speaker 1: stand in your line of work, that just means the 484 00:30:13,840 --> 00:30:17,959 Speaker 1: purp goes free to hurt another person. You know, it 485 00:30:18,000 --> 00:30:21,280 Speaker 1: doesn't end with this one child or this one victim. 486 00:30:21,560 --> 00:30:24,560 Speaker 1: What about the other little child living in that home? Well, 487 00:30:24,560 --> 00:30:26,840 Speaker 1: thank goodness that child has been removed from the home. 488 00:30:26,880 --> 00:30:29,720 Speaker 1: When that child has been uh is with some other 489 00:30:30,080 --> 00:30:32,400 Speaker 1: family that's going to take care of them. Um and 490 00:30:32,520 --> 00:30:36,120 Speaker 1: from our Child Create services. So again, UM we do it, 491 00:30:36,400 --> 00:30:39,360 Speaker 1: and UM we we take like I said before, we 492 00:30:39,360 --> 00:30:41,480 Speaker 1: we we go into work. We do what we can. 493 00:30:41,600 --> 00:30:44,240 Speaker 1: We make sure the victims have a voice, make sure 494 00:30:44,280 --> 00:30:49,320 Speaker 1: the victims are are received some justice for what occurred. Um, 495 00:30:49,360 --> 00:30:51,719 Speaker 1: And that's why you keep going. So you keep doing that, 496 00:30:51,840 --> 00:30:54,040 Speaker 1: keep doing that. Well, let me ask you this, Captain, 497 00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:57,600 Speaker 1: now that I've got you, captain, does it ever bother 498 00:30:57,760 --> 00:31:01,240 Speaker 1: you when you leave work? Because you know, I've thought 499 00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:03,719 Speaker 1: about this little boy so much. It just gives me 500 00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:06,720 Speaker 1: so upset. I can hardly stand thinking about what he 501 00:31:06,800 --> 00:31:10,160 Speaker 1: lived through every day coming home. The neighbors said that 502 00:31:10,200 --> 00:31:14,040 Speaker 1: these two little boys cried all the time, right in 503 00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,600 Speaker 1: front of the neighbors. I have never once seen my 504 00:31:16,720 --> 00:31:22,520 Speaker 1: children break out in tears when neighbors approached them. These 505 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:26,880 Speaker 1: children would just break out crying when the neighbors would 506 00:31:26,920 --> 00:31:31,920 Speaker 1: approach them. They were so beside themselves, living in fear, 507 00:31:32,360 --> 00:31:36,120 Speaker 1: living in danger. I mean, does this how do you 508 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:39,280 Speaker 1: internalize this? To you worry about it at night? Does 509 00:31:39,280 --> 00:31:41,400 Speaker 1: that make you work over time? Do you dream about it? 510 00:31:41,440 --> 00:31:44,400 Speaker 1: I mean, how do you deal with seeing this every day? 511 00:31:44,760 --> 00:31:46,840 Speaker 1: The biggest way is you have to be able to 512 00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:49,760 Speaker 1: talk about it um with with other people that are 513 00:31:49,760 --> 00:31:51,560 Speaker 1: going through the same thing. So we we do that 514 00:31:51,600 --> 00:31:53,920 Speaker 1: a lot. Um and police work in general because we 515 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:55,600 Speaker 1: do see that side of society that a lot of 516 00:31:55,600 --> 00:31:58,840 Speaker 1: people don't see. And we see it routinely. Um So 517 00:31:58,920 --> 00:32:01,840 Speaker 1: I have a great wife at home and two wonderful kids, 518 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:05,880 Speaker 1: and were you go home and you you you be 519 00:32:05,960 --> 00:32:08,520 Speaker 1: in their moment, you know. And that's something that I'm 520 00:32:08,520 --> 00:32:12,239 Speaker 1: glad you said that, Captain, because that really changed my 521 00:32:12,320 --> 00:32:16,400 Speaker 1: life when I had the twins. That allowed me to 522 00:32:16,640 --> 00:32:21,680 Speaker 1: force myself too, just for those moments that I'm with them, 523 00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:25,920 Speaker 1: to give them the happiest mother I can be and 524 00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:29,080 Speaker 1: the most uplifting mother, And it makes me not think 525 00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:33,280 Speaker 1: about crime for just those hours. You know, Captain, just 526 00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:36,160 Speaker 1: hearing your voice and hearing you talk about this case 527 00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:40,400 Speaker 1: makes me know that it is going to be handled 528 00:32:40,800 --> 00:32:45,040 Speaker 1: with the utmost importance because this child will not have 529 00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,600 Speaker 1: died in vain. And I want to thank you captain 530 00:32:47,640 --> 00:32:49,480 Speaker 1: for being with us. Oh, thank you very much. I 531 00:32:49,480 --> 00:32:53,080 Speaker 1: appreciate your opportunity. Can win your show and Hay, no pressure, 532 00:32:53,120 --> 00:32:59,480 Speaker 1: but we're watching absolutely there's a lot of people I 533 00:32:59,560 --> 00:33:03,880 Speaker 1: want to our partner making our program possible. 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Okay, super Beats, thank you 561 00:34:53,040 --> 00:34:58,120 Speaker 1: for being with us and being our sponsor today and 562 00:34:58,200 --> 00:35:01,280 Speaker 1: now we travel across the country in the last hours. 563 00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:06,200 Speaker 1: A ten year old little girl, Oh, my stars, that's 564 00:35:06,239 --> 00:35:09,200 Speaker 1: the age of my babies, John, David and Lucy. They 565 00:35:09,320 --> 00:35:13,160 Speaker 1: just turned in. I think there's a chance they still 566 00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:15,680 Speaker 1: believe in Santa Claus. I'm not going to test it 567 00:35:15,960 --> 00:35:17,799 Speaker 1: because then they might tell me no, and I don't 568 00:35:17,800 --> 00:35:22,439 Speaker 1: want to know that. They're just so innocent. They still 569 00:35:22,480 --> 00:35:25,719 Speaker 1: believe fairies live in the backyard. A ten year old 570 00:35:25,719 --> 00:35:30,880 Speaker 1: little girl has been taken off life support two weeks 571 00:35:31,600 --> 00:35:37,440 Speaker 1: after she hangs herself because the classmate posted a video 572 00:35:37,560 --> 00:35:43,879 Speaker 1: of her being bullied on social media. Ten years old, 573 00:35:43,960 --> 00:35:48,440 Speaker 1: a hundred and twenty months on this beautiful earth, and 574 00:35:48,480 --> 00:35:52,200 Speaker 1: the little thing hung herself. You know. John Limley with 575 00:35:52,239 --> 00:35:55,520 Speaker 1: me Crime Stories, contributing reporter. I could tell the facts, 576 00:35:55,520 --> 00:35:57,959 Speaker 1: but I just don't think I can get through them. John, 577 00:35:58,000 --> 00:36:01,440 Speaker 1: what happened? It's tragic to say the very least. A 578 00:36:01,600 --> 00:36:07,759 Speaker 1: Shaunty Davis died at Children's Hospital in Aurora, Colorado. This 579 00:36:07,880 --> 00:36:12,359 Speaker 1: is just east of Denver. Police received a nine one 580 00:36:12,480 --> 00:36:17,160 Speaker 1: one call about ten pm on November six from a 581 00:36:17,239 --> 00:36:22,000 Speaker 1: home in the East Oxford Drive neighborhood on a report 582 00:36:22,160 --> 00:36:26,600 Speaker 1: of a child who was not breathing. The child, Shaunty 583 00:36:26,680 --> 00:36:29,279 Speaker 1: Davis we now know her name, was taken to the 584 00:36:29,360 --> 00:36:35,080 Speaker 1: Aurora Medical Center, then transferred to Children's Hospital. Police are 585 00:36:35,239 --> 00:36:40,360 Speaker 1: investigating the death as a suicide hanging. The girl was 586 00:36:40,440 --> 00:36:44,480 Speaker 1: a fifth grader at Sunrise Elementary School in the Charity 587 00:36:44,840 --> 00:36:49,280 Speaker 1: School School district. Should have some response to this, because 588 00:36:49,320 --> 00:36:53,000 Speaker 1: Ashley Wilcot, you're our child advocate. This little girl I've 589 00:36:53,040 --> 00:36:56,080 Speaker 1: been being bullied at school and of course the school 590 00:36:56,120 --> 00:36:59,960 Speaker 1: says we don't tolerate bullying. But I can tell you, Ashley, 591 00:37:00,560 --> 00:37:04,880 Speaker 1: even these fancy private schools, they know bullying is happening 592 00:37:05,360 --> 00:37:08,240 Speaker 1: and they don't do anything about it. This little girl 593 00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:13,160 Speaker 1: not only was bullied, she said something to her bully 594 00:37:13,200 --> 00:37:16,160 Speaker 1: and she got a SmackDown at school and it was 595 00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:20,600 Speaker 1: on video and then apparently the bullies uploaded it onto 596 00:37:20,640 --> 00:37:26,279 Speaker 1: something called musical dot l y and she was devastated 597 00:37:26,840 --> 00:37:31,000 Speaker 1: that her SmackDown was now on social media and everybody 598 00:37:31,200 --> 00:37:34,799 Speaker 1: was watching it, Ashley. And here's the worst part. The 599 00:37:34,880 --> 00:37:39,759 Speaker 1: school actually says they don't tolerate bullying. And they say, oh, well, 600 00:37:39,760 --> 00:37:43,359 Speaker 1: that video wasn't made on school property, as if that 601 00:37:43,440 --> 00:37:47,120 Speaker 1: exonerates any knowledge of bullying. Oh, that didn't happen on 602 00:37:47,160 --> 00:37:49,759 Speaker 1: school property, But we all know the bullying that led 603 00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:53,120 Speaker 1: up to her taking that final straw and confronting it 604 00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:56,560 Speaker 1: did happen on school property. So so many different people 605 00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:59,640 Speaker 1: failed this child. And Nancy, I rudely interrupted you earlier 606 00:37:59,680 --> 00:38:02,759 Speaker 1: just to say this. Look at her picture and how 607 00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:06,120 Speaker 1: innocent she looks, just as innocent and sweet and wonderful 608 00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:10,000 Speaker 1: as her own kids look. So and she's ten. A 609 00:38:10,080 --> 00:38:12,200 Speaker 1: ten year old shouldn't even know what it means to 610 00:38:12,239 --> 00:38:15,320 Speaker 1: commit suicide, much less do it because of what's happened 611 00:38:15,320 --> 00:38:17,359 Speaker 1: to him at school. For those of you just joining us, 612 00:38:17,400 --> 00:38:22,160 Speaker 1: a tenure roll. Little Colorado girl has died two weeks 613 00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:26,520 Speaker 1: after she hangs herself because the video of her being 614 00:38:26,680 --> 00:38:34,040 Speaker 1: bullied was posted on social media. Her parents devastated, just 615 00:38:34,280 --> 00:38:37,680 Speaker 1: got Morgan. How would a child even know how to 616 00:38:37,760 --> 00:38:40,279 Speaker 1: do this? That's that's hard that's hard to say. I 617 00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:43,120 Speaker 1: was just contemplating that myself, Nancy, thinking about how does 618 00:38:43,160 --> 00:38:45,839 Speaker 1: a ten year old know to take take some kind 619 00:38:45,840 --> 00:38:49,080 Speaker 1: of ligature and suspend themselves in a closet, because apparently 620 00:38:49,280 --> 00:38:51,560 Speaker 1: that's where she was found, in the closet of her home. 621 00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:55,839 Speaker 1: I'm sure that she was not breathing or had agonal respirations, 622 00:38:55,880 --> 00:38:59,160 Speaker 1: which just means minimal respirations at best. The medical team 623 00:38:59,200 --> 00:39:02,239 Speaker 1: was called, it took at the hospital, and obviously she 624 00:39:02,400 --> 00:39:05,960 Speaker 1: was already past the point of saving at that point. Tom, 625 00:39:06,040 --> 00:39:09,040 Speaker 1: It's just a hopeless situation where I'm sure the child 626 00:39:09,080 --> 00:39:12,720 Speaker 1: had very little brain activity when they brought her into too. 627 00:39:12,760 --> 00:39:17,000 Speaker 1: Then Stark psychologists are joining us out of New York, Karen. 628 00:39:17,239 --> 00:39:21,560 Speaker 1: The mom knew she was afraid. The mom knew the 629 00:39:21,560 --> 00:39:25,560 Speaker 1: little girl was afraid. But I have seen cases, Karen, 630 00:39:25,840 --> 00:39:28,880 Speaker 1: where parents go to the school, go to the school, 631 00:39:29,040 --> 00:39:33,080 Speaker 1: go to the school saying this happened, this happened, this happened, 632 00:39:33,280 --> 00:39:35,960 Speaker 1: and the school says, oh, we haven't heard anything about it. 633 00:39:36,440 --> 00:39:39,799 Speaker 1: I know for a fact that happens, Karen, Stark. It 634 00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:45,000 Speaker 1: happens because the school is most concerned with not getting 635 00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:49,359 Speaker 1: the publicity, not getting sued looking good as in this 636 00:39:49,440 --> 00:39:52,439 Speaker 1: case where the school went out of their way to say, well, 637 00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:56,920 Speaker 1: this didn't happen on school property, instead of addressing the 638 00:39:56,960 --> 00:40:01,560 Speaker 1: fact that bullying is a very very seriou is offense, 639 00:40:01,719 --> 00:40:05,880 Speaker 1: that it happens, and that this kind of outcome does exist. 640 00:40:06,320 --> 00:40:10,040 Speaker 1: And because of the Internet and the media, children know, 641 00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:14,960 Speaker 1: they understand that you can kill yourself. They understand that 642 00:40:15,040 --> 00:40:18,240 Speaker 1: they could do something as awful as it may seem. 643 00:40:18,960 --> 00:40:23,439 Speaker 1: And so parents really need to be careful and pay 644 00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:26,960 Speaker 1: attention when they hear about any kind of bullying and 645 00:40:27,040 --> 00:40:30,000 Speaker 1: insist that the school do something. Well, the parents are 646 00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:33,400 Speaker 1: now saying the school did not do enough, did not 647 00:40:33,600 --> 00:40:37,360 Speaker 1: do enough to stop the bullying. It's now being called 648 00:40:37,760 --> 00:40:41,640 Speaker 1: bully side, which is a funny name, I know, but 649 00:40:42,160 --> 00:40:45,799 Speaker 1: it really grasps the whole concept. Ashley Willcott, because we're 650 00:40:45,840 --> 00:40:49,080 Speaker 1: hearing about it more and more and more. Ashley, Yeah, 651 00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:52,040 Speaker 1: it's a very common, regrettable thing that we hear about 652 00:40:52,080 --> 00:40:54,080 Speaker 1: in the news. And you know, there was all the 653 00:40:54,160 --> 00:40:58,319 Speaker 1: discussion about the Netflix show Thirteen Reasons Why, and some 654 00:40:58,600 --> 00:41:01,239 Speaker 1: argued that all that was was giving the kids the 655 00:41:01,360 --> 00:41:04,439 Speaker 1: idea if they were bullied, to commit suicide and then 656 00:41:04,520 --> 00:41:08,160 Speaker 1: some argue the opposite, which is it educates people community 657 00:41:08,200 --> 00:41:11,960 Speaker 1: parents about the fact, like we just heard kids know 658 00:41:12,040 --> 00:41:14,960 Speaker 1: what it is to commit suicide. Now now they know 659 00:41:15,160 --> 00:41:17,040 Speaker 1: how to do it, and so we have to be 660 00:41:17,120 --> 00:41:21,040 Speaker 1: even more diligent to educate them about. Oh my god, 661 00:41:21,080 --> 00:41:24,600 Speaker 1: if you are having troubles, being bullied, feeling bad about yourself, 662 00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:28,960 Speaker 1: seek someone out, don't commit to these horrible acts of suicide. 663 00:41:29,480 --> 00:41:31,680 Speaker 1: We've all got to be diligent. What she's talking about. 664 00:41:31,719 --> 00:41:36,520 Speaker 1: It's called Thirteen Reasons Why, and it is a Netflix show. Um, 665 00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:40,239 Speaker 1: it's theatrical, but I believe it's based on a real 666 00:41:40,320 --> 00:41:45,320 Speaker 1: story where a girl kills herself. A young girl kills 667 00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:50,279 Speaker 1: herself as a result of bullying. It's very popular and 668 00:41:50,360 --> 00:41:53,319 Speaker 1: now they say it's a fictional story of a teen 669 00:41:53,400 --> 00:41:59,839 Speaker 1: girl who leaves behind thirteen audio recordings after she kills 670 00:41:59,840 --> 00:42:03,960 Speaker 1: her self, and to my understanding of the show, it 671 00:42:04,160 --> 00:42:08,920 Speaker 1: calls out. Each audio calls out somebody that bullied her, 672 00:42:09,040 --> 00:42:14,080 Speaker 1: and in her death, she becomes popular at school. The 673 00:42:14,200 --> 00:42:19,160 Speaker 1: bullies examine themselves and they quote see the light and 674 00:42:19,200 --> 00:42:25,160 Speaker 1: they change their ways. Many argue this Thirteen Reasons Why 675 00:42:25,200 --> 00:42:31,600 Speaker 1: Netflix show is encouraging young people to kill themselves. They 676 00:42:31,640 --> 00:42:38,200 Speaker 1: don't understand it's forever and popular post mortem. It's not 677 00:42:38,320 --> 00:42:42,960 Speaker 1: quite the same as fame in life. I mean, Joseph's caught, Morgan, 678 00:42:43,080 --> 00:42:45,360 Speaker 1: You've got a young boy? Do you know about this 679 00:42:45,440 --> 00:42:49,200 Speaker 1: thirteen Reasons Why? Only peripherally? And I've never watched it, 680 00:42:49,239 --> 00:42:51,600 Speaker 1: but I can see and this is this is the 681 00:42:51,719 --> 00:42:55,440 Speaker 1: danger with social media, I think, and media in general, 682 00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:59,400 Speaker 1: where things are glorified like this, and it's it's a surreality, 683 00:42:59,440 --> 00:43:01,279 Speaker 1: as I like to referred to it, and it's a 684 00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:04,960 Speaker 1: reality that is unattainable for a lot of these kids. 685 00:43:05,040 --> 00:43:07,120 Speaker 1: It seems as though, and this is certainly outside of 686 00:43:07,160 --> 00:43:09,480 Speaker 1: my area, but it seems as though many of these 687 00:43:09,560 --> 00:43:13,640 Speaker 1: kids are incapable at these young ages of separating fiction 688 00:43:14,000 --> 00:43:17,720 Speaker 1: from reality, or the fiction that is the media world, 689 00:43:18,040 --> 00:43:21,480 Speaker 1: from what true reality is. And it's it's a very 690 00:43:21,600 --> 00:43:26,480 Speaker 1: very dangerous, dangerous situation. Lastly, Wilcott, what about this website, 691 00:43:27,040 --> 00:43:31,000 Speaker 1: musical dot l y that allowed this to be there? 692 00:43:31,040 --> 00:43:34,640 Speaker 1: I mean, other websites are very loosely monitored, but they 693 00:43:34,680 --> 00:43:37,800 Speaker 1: allowed this video of a little girl being bullied to 694 00:43:37,800 --> 00:43:40,759 Speaker 1: to stay online. And this is what's terrible. So musically, 695 00:43:40,880 --> 00:43:42,839 Speaker 1: as the kids tend to call it, at least the 696 00:43:42,880 --> 00:43:45,560 Speaker 1: little the fourth graders that I know call it. Musically 697 00:43:45,920 --> 00:43:49,000 Speaker 1: is very popular with that age, and it's about making 698 00:43:49,000 --> 00:43:51,560 Speaker 1: a video to music, and a lot of it's cute, right, 699 00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:54,360 Speaker 1: Like little girls are little boys dancing and singing songs 700 00:43:54,400 --> 00:43:57,320 Speaker 1: and it's a very cute. So a a lot of 701 00:43:57,400 --> 00:44:00,759 Speaker 1: kids are attracted to that particular website and we'll see 702 00:44:00,800 --> 00:44:04,640 Speaker 1: this terrible video and be Musically is not the place 703 00:44:04,680 --> 00:44:06,359 Speaker 1: for that kind of video. And I don't know how 704 00:44:06,360 --> 00:44:08,759 Speaker 1: it stayed on. I don't know how that wasn't monitored 705 00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:11,720 Speaker 1: right the heck off. The other thing I have to say, Nancy, 706 00:44:11,760 --> 00:44:14,640 Speaker 1: is I really need to clarify something that I misstated. 707 00:44:14,920 --> 00:44:19,040 Speaker 1: The school apparently actually said that the video did not 708 00:44:19,200 --> 00:44:23,280 Speaker 1: take place during school hours. They never said it didn't 709 00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:26,319 Speaker 1: occur on the property, but they made clear, Hey, this 710 00:44:26,360 --> 00:44:30,319 Speaker 1: didn't happen during school hours. That still doesn't excuse how 711 00:44:30,360 --> 00:44:33,440 Speaker 1: bullying is handled, but I did want to clarify that factually. 712 00:44:33,440 --> 00:44:35,560 Speaker 1: And I thought it was outside, like in the playground 713 00:44:35,600 --> 00:44:39,520 Speaker 1: of the parking lot. But another issue is the message 714 00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:42,440 Speaker 1: that sends about standing up to your bullies, which is 715 00:44:42,480 --> 00:44:45,840 Speaker 1: what most of us tell our children to do. But 716 00:44:46,280 --> 00:44:51,759 Speaker 1: not only that the mom knew the little girl was afraid. 717 00:44:52,680 --> 00:44:55,800 Speaker 1: She was afraid to go to school, she was afraid 718 00:44:55,960 --> 00:45:00,440 Speaker 1: of bullying. I mean, John Limley Crime Stories contributing porter 719 00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:03,279 Speaker 1: is am I right on. That didn't the mom say 720 00:45:03,360 --> 00:45:07,080 Speaker 1: she knew Ash was afraid? Yes, indeed. And what's so 721 00:45:07,120 --> 00:45:10,880 Speaker 1: ironic about this is this was not a child that 722 00:45:11,080 --> 00:45:16,640 Speaker 1: was ordinarily afraid or or depressed. Shaunty's parents describe her 723 00:45:16,800 --> 00:45:20,279 Speaker 1: as bright and vibrant. The little girl wanted to be 724 00:45:20,400 --> 00:45:23,799 Speaker 1: a w n B A star. However, towards the end 725 00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:28,920 Speaker 1: of October, that little happy girl disappeared. In the video 726 00:45:28,960 --> 00:45:33,160 Speaker 1: of the fight, uh, Ashaunty can be seen wearing pink 727 00:45:33,719 --> 00:45:38,600 Speaker 1: fighting with another girl. And what's amazing is this was 728 00:45:38,760 --> 00:45:44,480 Speaker 1: her very first fight ever. And this whole episode was 729 00:45:44,600 --> 00:45:48,239 Speaker 1: drawn out over the course of by the time of 730 00:45:48,280 --> 00:45:52,880 Speaker 1: her death four weeks because uh, you know, the bullying 731 00:45:53,480 --> 00:45:56,879 Speaker 1: took place, then the fight, then the video, and then 732 00:45:57,239 --> 00:46:00,759 Speaker 1: of course two weeks later she hangs her self, and 733 00:46:00,800 --> 00:46:04,640 Speaker 1: then two weeks later she's taken off life support. Just 734 00:46:05,160 --> 00:46:09,160 Speaker 1: a horrible drawn out story here, Nancy. If I could 735 00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:12,160 Speaker 1: interject just one more thing that that was just that 736 00:46:12,360 --> 00:46:15,120 Speaker 1: striking to me about this thing. You know, when when 737 00:46:15,160 --> 00:46:18,520 Speaker 1: we were all kids, we we had a small little 738 00:46:18,520 --> 00:46:20,520 Speaker 1: sphere that we dealt with. I know that I did 739 00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:23,960 Speaker 1: at least, and the opinions of that group, you know, 740 00:46:24,320 --> 00:46:26,360 Speaker 1: they kind of changed the course of our life in 741 00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:29,960 Speaker 1: many cases. But now just imagine this ten year old girl. 742 00:46:30,080 --> 00:46:32,799 Speaker 1: One thing that she is truly oriented to that we 743 00:46:32,960 --> 00:46:36,840 Speaker 1: might not be is that she understands, or understood maybe 744 00:46:37,160 --> 00:46:40,440 Speaker 1: in some small way, that this thing that happened in 745 00:46:40,520 --> 00:46:44,320 Speaker 1: her life wasn't just with her small little group of friends. 746 00:46:44,360 --> 00:46:46,879 Speaker 1: She starts, she she has a stark reality that this 747 00:46:46,960 --> 00:46:51,520 Speaker 1: whole episode has played out potentially between you know, before 748 00:46:51,640 --> 00:46:55,239 Speaker 1: tens of thousands of people that get onto this website. 749 00:46:55,360 --> 00:46:58,000 Speaker 1: How harsh of a reality is that for this little 750 00:46:58,080 --> 00:47:00,880 Speaker 1: this little baby that hasn't had in exposure to the 751 00:47:00,920 --> 00:47:04,160 Speaker 1: real world except through media, and now this is in 752 00:47:04,239 --> 00:47:07,200 Speaker 1: her face. It's it's she's faced with the reality of this. 753 00:47:07,400 --> 00:47:11,359 Speaker 1: It just seems very, very hopeless. And then compound this 754 00:47:12,280 --> 00:47:16,759 Speaker 1: more bullying as other kids tease her about the video, 755 00:47:16,920 --> 00:47:19,560 Speaker 1: which you know, they can all seem musically and they 756 00:47:19,600 --> 00:47:22,040 Speaker 1: are a lot of them. Look at it. It's really 757 00:47:22,239 --> 00:47:25,960 Speaker 1: a website to make little music videos or short videos. 758 00:47:26,000 --> 00:47:28,360 Speaker 1: But they all saw it and then they started bullying 759 00:47:28,400 --> 00:47:31,560 Speaker 1: her and teasing her about that. This is what I know. 760 00:47:32,480 --> 00:47:38,040 Speaker 1: According to the CDC Centers for Disease Control, suicide is 761 00:47:38,080 --> 00:47:43,319 Speaker 1: the second leading cause of death age fifteen twenty four. 762 00:47:43,719 --> 00:47:47,960 Speaker 1: It is the third leading cause of death in children 763 00:47:48,800 --> 00:47:52,960 Speaker 1: age ten to fourteen. Let that sink in. The third 764 00:47:53,120 --> 00:47:57,520 Speaker 1: leading cause of death for children tend to thirteen. That's 765 00:47:57,560 --> 00:48:05,200 Speaker 1: my children, is suicide. They don't understand. It's forever and 766 00:48:05,840 --> 00:48:13,440 Speaker 1: you would think car crash, you know, um, childhood cancer accidents? 767 00:48:13,520 --> 00:48:19,239 Speaker 1: What a suicide? The third leading cause of death of 768 00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:24,160 Speaker 1: children ten to fourteen? And back to this Netflix thirteen 769 00:48:24,160 --> 00:48:31,600 Speaker 1: reasons why that's about a girl's suicide and it shows, Uh, 770 00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:40,360 Speaker 1: it's very glamorized, like people are taking selfies beside Hannah's locker. Okay, 771 00:48:40,400 --> 00:48:47,239 Speaker 1: that she's a celebrity now, and uh, it glorifies the 772 00:48:47,280 --> 00:48:52,719 Speaker 1: whole thing. Now, another thing we know is that four 773 00:48:52,880 --> 00:48:59,120 Speaker 1: percent of preschool children, five percent school age, eleven percent 774 00:48:59,239 --> 00:49:05,960 Speaker 1: at a lessons meet all the criteria from major depression. 775 00:49:07,600 --> 00:49:13,000 Speaker 1: And then this child is thrown into the thick of it. 776 00:49:14,800 --> 00:49:19,160 Speaker 1: Right now, all I can do is pray for ash 777 00:49:19,200 --> 00:49:25,919 Speaker 1: and her family and hope that justice is rained down 778 00:49:27,040 --> 00:49:34,279 Speaker 1: on those parties responsible for this beautiful girl's death. The 779 00:49:34,480 --> 00:49:40,239 Speaker 1: National Suicide Prevention Lifeline eight hundred to seven three eight 780 00:49:40,280 --> 00:49:45,799 Speaker 1: to five eight hundred two seven three eight two five. 781 00:49:47,040 --> 00:49:51,280 Speaker 1: Take a listen to what ashes parents told Denvers Fox 782 00:49:51,320 --> 00:49:55,680 Speaker 1: thirty one. Listen, we watched our daughters lives slipped through 783 00:49:55,680 --> 00:49:58,320 Speaker 1: our fingers, through our hands, you know what I'm saying, 784 00:49:58,400 --> 00:50:02,000 Speaker 1: And that mirror le didn't come for us. She was 785 00:50:02,120 --> 00:50:06,319 Speaker 1: just a child of joy. You know. She brought joy 786 00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:09,960 Speaker 1: to everyone. She's always been a happy girl. Her parents 787 00:50:09,960 --> 00:50:13,520 Speaker 1: say that changed last month when she confronted some bullies 788 00:50:13,560 --> 00:50:18,520 Speaker 1: after school. She uh got into our first every fight. Uh. 789 00:50:18,600 --> 00:50:23,200 Speaker 1: It was recorded by a student and sent to an 790 00:50:23,239 --> 00:50:28,480 Speaker 1: app uh called Musically. I see. My daughter was scared. 791 00:50:29,040 --> 00:50:31,799 Speaker 1: She was devastated when she found out that it had 792 00:50:31,840 --> 00:50:34,920 Speaker 1: made it to Musically. And then my daughter come home 793 00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:40,040 Speaker 1: two weeks later and hangs herself in the closet. It's 794 00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:42,959 Speaker 1: just devastating. They believe she's the victim of what's called 795 00:50:43,120 --> 00:50:46,400 Speaker 1: bully site. When someone takes their own life because of bullying. 796 00:50:46,840 --> 00:50:48,840 Speaker 1: We have to stop it. We have to stop it 797 00:50:48,920 --> 00:50:52,240 Speaker 1: within our kids. 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