WEBVTT - Ep133: Blame It On Another Hole Feat Eddie Dellasiepe 0:00:00.360 --> 0:00:05.920 Who doesn't love free ship? Nobody nobody doesn't love free ship. 0:00:06.640 --> 0:00:08.240 And you know who's gonna give you some free ship. 0:00:08.960 --> 0:00:11.319 Adam and Eve. They funk with us, you know their name, 0:00:11.400 --> 0:00:13.720 and we funk with them too. We love Adam and 0:00:13.760 --> 0:00:16.440 Eve dot com for all your sex toy needs, all 0:00:16.480 --> 0:00:20.640 your launch rage and your fucking nasty freaky ship, your 0:00:20.680 --> 0:00:23.319 anal dilators, your massage oils. You can get whatever you 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:27.639 want on there, okay, w D fifty of almost any 0:00:27.680 --> 0:00:31.000 item there, and they give you ten free gifts, including 0:00:31.200 --> 0:00:34.319 six free nasty ast movies. 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Oh yeah, 0:01:19.000 --> 0:01:22.800 I'm um peg the Stallion a k A. I still 0:01:22.840 --> 0:01:26.520 haven't gotten my chicken sandwich, but me neither, bitch. I 0:01:26.560 --> 0:01:30.000 went to Harlem and Brooklyn. We had a chicken now street. 0:01:30.000 --> 0:01:32.240 If Chinatowning got it, you know we're fucked. But anyway, 0:01:32.400 --> 0:01:35.959 today's a special episode because I was a superstand up 0:01:36.000 --> 0:01:38.520 two podcasts like three or four years ago, and it 0:01:38.640 --> 0:01:41.520 was barely friending and the read and the read was 0:01:41.600 --> 0:01:44.040 no offense bigger than barely friending. So it wasn't it 0:01:44.120 --> 0:01:47.480 easy to access the people on the read. But Eddie 0:01:47.520 --> 0:01:50.080 was nice enough to get on a phone call with 0:01:50.120 --> 0:01:51.640 me and Mandy because I was like, oh my god, 0:01:51.720 --> 0:01:53.400 I feel like I'm really funny and I could be 0:01:53.440 --> 0:01:56.120 a podcaster. And it's funny because when we got on 0:01:56.160 --> 0:01:57.280 the phone with you, one of the first things in 0:01:57.280 --> 0:01:58.800 your mouth it's like, yeah, everybody thinks they could do 0:01:58.800 --> 0:02:01.640 a podcast. So and you were such an asshole about it, 0:02:01.680 --> 0:02:04.720 but really a little bit, but I think you just 0:02:04.800 --> 0:02:07.760 want to remember you wanted to make you were like 0:02:08.320 --> 0:02:10.799 you were like, don't do it for money, Like don't 0:02:10.840 --> 0:02:12.600 be so I think I think what I meant was like, 0:02:12.639 --> 0:02:18.480 if you're looking at like be famous, famous, do it 0:02:19.040 --> 0:02:20.840 because you love to like sit around and talk with 0:02:20.880 --> 0:02:22.760 your friends. I want people to enjoy it. That's I think. 0:02:22.760 --> 0:02:25.440 That's I remember that phone call, but I remember I 0:02:26.000 --> 0:02:29.000 gave you no allusions towards like, yo, you're not going 0:02:29.040 --> 0:02:30.760 to be like, all right, it looks like I got 0:02:30.760 --> 0:02:33.320 a new place a new car. But if you get 0:02:33.400 --> 0:02:36.280 that great. Yeah, it's not easy that you guys are 0:02:36.320 --> 0:02:39.560 killing it in New York though, so right, it's really 0:02:40.200 --> 0:02:43.280 it's hard. Man. Like we were reading the statistics that 0:02:43.360 --> 0:02:47.480 talked about like podcast numbers, and we're top one percent 0:02:47.560 --> 0:02:49.440 most listen to in the world. You guys are killing 0:02:49.440 --> 0:02:52.280 it because there's just so fucking many that don't have 0:02:52.360 --> 0:02:55.040 them any listenings. Right, so there's millions. And yeah, but 0:02:55.080 --> 0:02:58.160 you give yourself credit. You do you do. You could 0:02:58.160 --> 0:03:00.160 be good at what you do, but you can stand out. 0:03:00.880 --> 0:03:02.400 You can't even be like, oh, the reason why we're 0:03:02.440 --> 0:03:04.200 doing well is because everyone's doing ship. You can say 0:03:04.240 --> 0:03:06.480 we're doing well because we're doing well. It's it feels 0:03:06.520 --> 0:03:08.920 really good to know that, Like I don't know, just 0:03:09.000 --> 0:03:11.280 even thinking of that conversation, like and I was such 0:03:11.320 --> 0:03:14.080 a barely friending fan, just to think that, like someone 0:03:14.160 --> 0:03:17.120 that you admire and what they do, like years that 0:03:17.200 --> 0:03:20.480 was three years ago. Like now we're sitting here and wow, 0:03:20.639 --> 0:03:23.919 I know I'm looking at the numbers. I was like, wow, crazy. 0:03:23.960 --> 0:03:25.560 It was a phone call. I remember. It was like December, 0:03:25.639 --> 0:03:27.560 wasn't it. I think it was home with my family. 0:03:28.360 --> 0:03:32.280 We started in January, so no, because we started it 0:03:32.400 --> 0:03:35.720 was cold podcast. This had to be in March or 0:03:35.760 --> 0:03:37.880 April because we started the podcast a month after we 0:03:37.880 --> 0:03:41.320 were kindled. No, no, no, we started in March because 0:03:41.320 --> 0:03:43.160 I had just went on the birthday trip. Remember that 0:03:43.200 --> 0:03:45.600 was our first episode. It's like your origin story. You 0:03:45.640 --> 0:03:47.320 guys have gone through an origin story yet. On the 0:03:47.360 --> 0:03:51.240 podcast Origin Story, we talked about how it all started. 0:03:51.280 --> 0:03:53.160 They're like, we really don't care. I remember that phone 0:03:53.160 --> 0:03:55.280 call being like, do it because you love it, don't 0:03:55.320 --> 0:03:56.880 look at the numbers and do it because not for 0:03:56.920 --> 0:03:58.920 the money. Do it because you like the ship with 0:03:58.960 --> 0:04:03.080 your friend. Yeah, uh that was heard. Yeah, it's almost 0:04:03.080 --> 0:04:06.200 like it's a thing for you. We'll introduce yourself, tell 0:04:06.200 --> 0:04:08.880 people why you're so special. My name is Eddie. Della Seppi. 0:04:08.960 --> 0:04:12.880 I'm a comedian and podcaster, and you the podcast no 0:04:12.920 --> 0:04:16.040 longer happening. It's done. What's called barely Friend. It was 0:04:16.080 --> 0:04:18.040 me my friend m J Riggins. How do you find us? 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:19.599 By the way some iTunes on the band or something 0:04:19.640 --> 0:04:21.440 that's probably like people found us. I just liked your 0:04:21.440 --> 0:04:24.000 cover art and then I write when you started the show, 0:04:24.040 --> 0:04:25.440 we used to say we used to date each other, 0:04:25.640 --> 0:04:28.520 we kind of hate each other, and now we're a podcast. Yeah, 0:04:29.560 --> 0:04:31.320 we should have done that. We should have we should 0:04:31.320 --> 0:04:39.240 have had something like that each other, all right. Yeah, 0:04:40.839 --> 0:04:43.800 but it was just so um different to me, to 0:04:43.839 --> 0:04:45.680 be honest with you, and I still think it's more 0:04:45.720 --> 0:04:48.599 different than any other podcast i've heard about dating a relationships, 0:04:48.600 --> 0:04:51.720 simply because you guys had such a good dynamic. You're 0:04:51.720 --> 0:04:54.840 both comedians, you both were so relatable. You talk about 0:04:54.880 --> 0:04:57.760 being broke and ship like, yeah, more MJ than you. 0:04:57.880 --> 0:05:00.359 She was always like, oh I got another gig, and 0:05:00.520 --> 0:05:02.800 I love that. You would always make jokes about how 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:05.080 you guys used to It was amazing. Yeah, I bring 0:05:05.080 --> 0:05:08.560 it up constantly. Yeah, but y'all, y'all really stop sucking. Yeah, 0:05:08.640 --> 0:05:13.520 you were doing the podcast. There's one time where after 0:05:13.560 --> 0:05:17.279 we recorded, Really did you talk about it all the time? 0:05:17.400 --> 0:05:20.800 I brought it up a lot constant reminders, like guys 0:05:20.839 --> 0:05:24.640 do that. I hate when guys bring up you got 0:05:24.680 --> 0:05:27.760 to if you want to do it again, Like, there's 0:05:27.800 --> 0:05:31.120 literally no, there's a guy in my d MS right now. 0:05:31.160 --> 0:05:34.120 We probably nine years ago. I don't even remember it. 0:05:34.160 --> 0:05:35.800 First off, he had to remind me that we even fun, 0:05:36.440 --> 0:05:38.440 and he's like really trying to go hard at like, 0:05:38.720 --> 0:05:40.280 so what do you do now? And I'm just like, 0:05:40.320 --> 0:05:41.960 this isn't going to be a thing again. Why don't 0:05:42.040 --> 0:05:45.960 you block him? No? I don't want to that, right, 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:48.760 you still want to see the messages, you know, I 0:05:48.800 --> 0:05:51.800 still want to boost, Like, you can't do that. This 0:05:51.800 --> 0:05:53.800 guy was kids bothering me, you can stop it. Why 0:05:53.839 --> 0:05:59.600 would I do that. I'm like, you're reading them and 0:05:59.680 --> 0:06:05.120 leaving it on scenes you send a message okay, yeah, yeah, 0:06:05.120 --> 0:06:07.360 it is awkward. So I hate every girl. You don't 0:06:07.360 --> 0:06:09.840 have a podcast with the guy. Yeah, you don't in 0:06:09.880 --> 0:06:12.360 a business with the dude. But regardless, when men bring 0:06:12.440 --> 0:06:14.600 up the fact that we were no longer fucking stop 0:06:14.600 --> 0:06:18.640 bringing you that. It's a bit lady, It's not don't 0:06:18.680 --> 0:06:21.520 really mean, it was a joke, but I'm sure every 0:06:21.560 --> 0:06:23.919 woman in their DM has got a guy says hey, Hey, 0:06:24.240 --> 0:06:28.599 remember that, Hey, what's up? Do you know every every 0:06:28.600 --> 0:06:30.039 girl in their d M right now? It's like like 0:06:30.080 --> 0:06:35.560 a guy that said hey twenty times with no responses. Wow, 0:06:36.360 --> 0:06:38.760 I've never responsed. I got there's a girl my DM 0:06:38.800 --> 0:06:42.240 s that just like, Hey, what's up? Nice shirt, cute smile, Hey, 0:06:42.279 --> 0:06:45.040 what's up? How's home? How's home? Just all the way 0:06:45.080 --> 0:06:47.120 through and just like how long can this go? How 0:06:47.200 --> 0:06:49.799 ugly is she that you won't reply? But speaks on private? 0:06:49.800 --> 0:06:51.560 I don't really know, but I mentioned I don't know 0:06:51.560 --> 0:06:53.080 if you were supposed to be a part of it, 0:06:53.120 --> 0:06:55.800 But do you guys see, um, what's going on with 0:06:55.800 --> 0:06:58.320 that new MTV show? And it's like really problematic. So 0:06:58.360 --> 0:07:01.240 it's a show about ghosting, but they're literally, yes, they're 0:07:01.279 --> 0:07:03.839 literally getting a camera crew to go find the person 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:06.800 that goes to you for whatever like reason it is. 0:07:06.839 --> 0:07:08.520 But it's just like, bro, you gott goes to this 0:07:08.520 --> 0:07:11.640 person no longer wants to see you. Remember that show 0:07:11.720 --> 0:07:15.720 Cheaters back in the day, Damn it was Remember I'm sorry, 0:07:15.920 --> 0:07:18.600 Cheaters was good. Cheaters was great. Cheeter goes great. I'm 0:07:18.640 --> 0:07:21.160 talking about ghosting. If someone goes to you, bro, they're 0:07:21.160 --> 0:07:23.280 over you, they don't want Why are you getting a 0:07:23.320 --> 0:07:25.600 camera crew to go? Fine? You know what's funny about? 0:07:25.920 --> 0:07:30.120 I agree that's that's for people fragile egos. It's fragile egos. 0:07:31.320 --> 0:07:32.960 But to find ghosts that we're talking like you fool 0:07:33.000 --> 0:07:35.080 around a bunch and then disappeared. Are we talking like 0:07:35.240 --> 0:07:39.160 one or so the show that that's why she said, 0:07:39.160 --> 0:07:40.760 I don't know if you're supposed to do it. Initially, 0:07:40.840 --> 0:07:45.040 MTV hit me up, and when you're going through questions, 0:07:45.800 --> 0:07:48.600 literally when up to be a part of the show. 0:07:49.440 --> 0:07:52.280 When I was finished, I immediately knew it wasn't gonna 0:07:52.280 --> 0:07:55.440 happen because of how my reactions were about ghosting. They 0:07:55.440 --> 0:07:59.720 were so strong in saying like, people aren't getting the hints, 0:08:00.080 --> 0:08:03.600 People aren't understanding that they're making people uncomfortable. For example, 0:08:03.960 --> 0:08:07.280 I've listened to this recording of this girl talking about 0:08:07.280 --> 0:08:10.840 this guy that she sucked twice. However, they did talk 0:08:10.920 --> 0:08:13.040 for a while. She talked about the sex, but blah 0:08:13.040 --> 0:08:15.560 blah blah. It sounds like to me they were dating. 0:08:15.600 --> 0:08:18.560 He was being nice, very casually. The sex wasn't good 0:08:18.560 --> 0:08:21.240 at all. She even said she wasn't experienced and he 0:08:21.320 --> 0:08:23.800 stopped texting her. And I'm like, you act like he 0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:26.040 owed you the world and now you want everyone to 0:08:26.080 --> 0:08:29.239 go find you. But then there were instances where people 0:08:29.240 --> 0:08:32.319 were dating for a minute, like we're talking like, hey, 0:08:32.360 --> 0:08:35.280 you met my friends? Oh my god, no no, no, no, no. 0:08:35.320 --> 0:08:38.079 There was a girl. I think if you put time 0:08:38.120 --> 0:08:40.760 into someone's life, you meet your friends, you do stuff. 0:08:43.440 --> 0:08:45.960 But if you meet someone's friends and you spend time, 0:08:46.000 --> 0:08:47.959 you at least deserve it, Like, hey, it's not working out, 0:08:48.080 --> 0:08:49.760 at least deserve that. There was a guy who went 0:08:49.800 --> 0:08:52.880 to her work gala and he stopped sucking talking doesn't 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:56.120 matter to me. Someone goes to you and stops talking 0:08:56.160 --> 0:08:58.640 to you, that tells you everything you need to know. 0:08:58.760 --> 0:09:00.920 They are not interested in you. There's no reason why 0:09:00.920 --> 0:09:03.439 you need to stalk the person down for them to 0:09:03.480 --> 0:09:07.960 say that. I get that. We think about catfish, like 0:09:08.000 --> 0:09:10.560 we know for a fact that like they haven't face 0:09:10.640 --> 0:09:13.199 time yet, but we stay still go like the same 0:09:14.080 --> 0:09:16.440 agree you shouldn't track somebody down, okay, and that's what 0:09:16.440 --> 0:09:20.079 you're doing. You know you don't deserve ship if if 0:09:20.080 --> 0:09:23.840 I know the same way we curb people. If I 0:09:23.840 --> 0:09:25.959 don't want to funk with you and I just decide 0:09:26.040 --> 0:09:29.240 I no longer want to respond to you, that should 0:09:29.280 --> 0:09:31.320 give you all the HI. I'm not interesting. I'm gonna 0:09:31.360 --> 0:09:34.920 be honest, maybe just totally disagree. I'm actually really surpids. 0:09:34.920 --> 0:09:37.320 You're saying this if we fucked a few times and 0:09:37.360 --> 0:09:40.119 like it was whatever, but if there was something substantial, 0:09:40.920 --> 0:09:43.800 but be substantial to one person, but not no, no, no, 0:09:43.840 --> 0:09:45.840 but if it was almost a relationship. You don't go 0:09:45.960 --> 0:09:48.520 someone that there's a real relationship and there's so many feelings. 0:09:48.640 --> 0:09:50.839 That's not true. No, it is because a lot of people, 0:09:50.840 --> 0:09:53.679 a lot of people I feel like, are in their 0:09:53.679 --> 0:09:55.120 mind maybe it's something more than what it is. You 0:09:55.120 --> 0:09:57.720 don't go someone you really love, so therefore maybe that 0:09:57.760 --> 0:09:59.800 person is just not that interested. If I don't want 0:09:59.840 --> 0:10:01.520 to talk to you, I think if I don't want you, 0:10:01.559 --> 0:10:03.040 I don't want you, and therefore you don't have to 0:10:03.080 --> 0:10:07.480 trick me down. I don't want When someone gets ghosted, 0:10:07.800 --> 0:10:10.080 one person think it's worth more than it was, actually 0:10:10.120 --> 0:10:12.400 more than what it was, yes, and then they're like, yo, 0:10:12.480 --> 0:10:15.760 what's the deal? And they're like, deal is three dates, right, 0:10:15.800 --> 0:10:17.720 So I don't think that that could always be the case, 0:10:18.240 --> 0:10:20.240 because I'm gonna tell you why I think that ghosting. 0:10:20.280 --> 0:10:22.000 You're saying one person thinks it could be more. I 0:10:22.040 --> 0:10:25.360 think sometimes people don't know how to deal with uncomfortable conversation. 0:10:25.440 --> 0:10:28.000 That's true, and they completely go to and I don't 0:10:28.040 --> 0:10:30.240 want to have that conversation. But that doesn't mean that 0:10:30.320 --> 0:10:33.080 someone's not deserving. That's unfair thing to say. You're everyone 0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:35.480 is deserving of at least some point of closure, or 0:10:35.480 --> 0:10:37.840 at least you to tell if we've had something going 0:10:37.920 --> 0:10:42.000 and you've led me on your like, I don't know 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:45.560 nobody goddamn thing. If I'm sitting here not responding to 0:10:45.600 --> 0:10:49.280 you and I ghost to you, don't fucking find me 0:10:49.640 --> 0:10:52.920 and feel like I owe you any explanation. If I'm 0:10:52.960 --> 0:10:55.160 not responding to you and I ghost to you, it's 0:10:55.240 --> 0:10:57.440 clear as day I am not interested in you. I 0:10:57.480 --> 0:11:00.520 don't owe you to your face the fact that hey, 0:11:00.920 --> 0:11:03.719 I'm not interested in you're asking you for a coffee. 0:11:03.760 --> 0:11:08.160 But I do think that if I ghost you, Closures 0:11:08.240 --> 0:11:10.080 necessary for a lot of people. Sometimes we have to 0:11:10.080 --> 0:11:14.880 create ourselves, but closures necessary for literally you're empathetic like 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:18.120 thing like you're sympathetic, empathetic, whatever that is. I don't 0:11:18.160 --> 0:11:21.640 owe nobody a motherfucker closure ghost you. I'm not interested, 0:11:21.920 --> 0:11:25.080 That's it. I don't owe how you deal with me ghosting. 0:11:26.160 --> 0:11:28.679 I'm going to go with the person that's the loudest. Uh. 0:11:34.440 --> 0:11:37.760 When you go to somebody, I don't ghost, I give 0:11:37.760 --> 0:11:40.320 a like, hey I'm busy, or hey I don't. There's 0:11:40.360 --> 0:11:42.760 like messages to hinting that it's not going to happen, 0:11:43.400 --> 0:11:45.920 but people still don't take them. That's true too, Yeah 0:11:45.920 --> 0:11:47.560 they don't. They don't look like what does that mean? 0:11:49.240 --> 0:11:54.960 I'm leaving the country, Like, yeah, but where I'm gonna 0:11:55.040 --> 0:12:02.640 kill myself? When? Okay, so jumping into something else. I 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:03.839 don't know if you've ever heard our show, but we 0:12:03.880 --> 0:12:05.800 have a segment called Vanilla Ship. But before you I 0:12:05.840 --> 0:12:08.679 did get ghosted on New Year's last year. That sucks. 0:12:09.200 --> 0:12:15.199 There you go, you think you could somebody else. She 0:12:15.240 --> 0:12:20.360 felt sorry for me. You grab your hair, your little bird, 0:12:20.760 --> 0:12:23.600 and she felt it. She was like, oh no, this 0:12:23.640 --> 0:12:26.120 guy looks like he's had it tough. He doesn't need 0:12:26.120 --> 0:12:29.040 that on the New Year. But yeah, she we were 0:12:29.080 --> 0:12:32.440 like dating. We're like November and we're like hanging out 0:12:32.600 --> 0:12:34.840 and just like message back and forth like I missed 0:12:34.840 --> 0:12:37.160 you can't wait to see you. And then I went 0:12:37.200 --> 0:12:39.360 back home for and you know when you get that 0:12:39.440 --> 0:12:42.679 feeling like yo, this is slipping. And what you do 0:12:42.800 --> 0:12:46.319 is when they go back, you go up when you 0:12:46.360 --> 0:12:48.760 should be just staying put and then realizing how far 0:12:48.760 --> 0:12:51.840 away they are, and you go, I gotta turn around. 0:12:52.400 --> 0:12:54.719 But we all do it because you want them to 0:12:54.800 --> 0:12:59.720 be more than what they're showing you. And you're subconsciously 0:12:59.720 --> 0:13:05.520 you're like, no, no, no, I'll cool. Why a jazz 0:13:05.520 --> 0:13:09.920 club when you when you'll see somebody pushing away, natural 0:13:09.960 --> 0:13:15.559 instant should be telling, but we're all weak, but we're 0:13:15.559 --> 0:13:18.680 all someone's gotten. But you know what, someone's got your number. 0:13:18.720 --> 0:13:22.920 Everyone's got someone's got everyone. Somebody's got your number, and 0:13:22.920 --> 0:13:24.840 you're like no, and then you're like he does or 0:13:24.880 --> 0:13:28.480 she does, but takes back. I'm like twent forward and 0:13:28.520 --> 0:13:30.720 then you're like anticipating the step back and you go 0:13:30.760 --> 0:13:33.160 even more closer. You're texting all the time, what are 0:13:33.160 --> 0:13:34.800 you doing, what are you free? What's going on? Like 0:13:34.840 --> 0:13:37.319 you just and you know it, but you just hope 0:13:37.360 --> 0:13:40.280 to get something back. And then we went out for 0:13:40.280 --> 0:13:42.720 dinner before I left, and I go, let's I got, 0:13:42.960 --> 0:13:44.319 I'm going on a party a New Year's want to go? 0:13:44.360 --> 0:13:47.320 I was like, yeah, that'd be great and hurt. In 0:13:47.440 --> 0:13:50.120 my defense, I was getting a lot of signals like yo, 0:13:50.520 --> 0:13:51.880 I can't wait to see you whatever, I can't wait 0:13:51.920 --> 0:13:54.800 to get back. And then the text every day becomes 0:13:54.800 --> 0:13:56.760 a text every two days, three days, and then you 0:13:57.160 --> 0:14:00.959 and You're like, you know, I'm initiating everything. I'm asking 0:14:01.000 --> 0:14:02.760 you what's up. You're not asking me what's up. I'm like, 0:14:03.440 --> 0:14:05.480 So then I come back and tell hey, I'm back, 0:14:05.920 --> 0:14:10.760 welcome back to l A. I was like what, I'm like, 0:14:12.440 --> 0:14:14.280 do you want to hang out? Like it's like yeah, 0:14:14.400 --> 0:14:17.200 let me see what's up? And then nothing and then 0:14:17.320 --> 0:14:21.120 like are you still okay, Sule? Yeah, Like we're just 0:14:21.200 --> 0:14:24.880 schedule another state, Like where do you come back? So 0:14:24.920 --> 0:14:26.920 then I go, uh, so are you still cool with 0:14:26.920 --> 0:14:29.520 the New Year's house party on the thirty one? And 0:14:29.560 --> 0:14:32.840 she's like yeah, And then I'm like okay. Two days 0:14:32.840 --> 0:14:37.440 go by, it's like like she knowst shows up. I'm 0:14:37.440 --> 0:14:42.120 like one I message like hey, what's going on? And 0:14:42.160 --> 0:14:46.440 she's like I'm sorry, I didn't get back to you. I, Uh, 0:14:47.800 --> 0:14:50.920 some makeup fell off a cabinet and I reached on 0:14:51.000 --> 0:14:52.560 a grab real quick and I hit my head on 0:14:52.600 --> 0:14:55.360 the cabinet. I got a black guy. What she said? 0:14:55.520 --> 0:14:57.520 That's what she said. Did she send you the picture 0:14:57.560 --> 0:14:59.520 of the black eyes? She posted a picture in her 0:14:59.520 --> 0:15:02.240 store with the guy, the nigga that she was dating. 0:15:02.400 --> 0:15:06.040 Oh my god, really what happened? She was with her dude, 0:15:06.280 --> 0:15:08.320 and you know she had to do but he was 0:15:08.360 --> 0:15:10.760 abusive to her. So you was decided, nigga, he was 0:15:10.760 --> 0:15:12.480 probably the really nice guy because she was dating the 0:15:12.480 --> 0:15:15.760 bag guy. So that really came from him seeing your messages, 0:15:15.760 --> 0:15:17.640 thinking that child was supposed to have New Year's Eve together. 0:15:17.680 --> 0:15:19.360 So he punched her, and you watch a lot of 0:15:19.360 --> 0:15:27.120 reality TV. I think she fell. What the hell just happen? 0:15:27.120 --> 0:15:30.680 He made a whole story of why can't why can't 0:15:30.680 --> 0:15:32.880 I leave this podcast? Thinking she felt you like, no, no, no, 0:15:32.960 --> 0:15:36.080 you're just a pawn in her game. Oh thanks, I 0:15:36.120 --> 0:15:39.480 felt low and I feel lower. No no, no, you're 0:15:39.520 --> 0:15:43.120 worthless and she respects somebody else, don't you see that? 0:15:46.760 --> 0:15:49.720 So she had like a black guy like are you okay? 0:15:49.880 --> 0:15:53.320 And she's like whatever. So then so then I go, 0:15:54.000 --> 0:15:55.960 what's going on? What's going on? Are you gonna be okay? 0:15:56.000 --> 0:15:58.080 It's like I gotta get this fixed. I gotta figure something. 0:15:59.200 --> 0:16:10.600 I don't know maybe so so then the party approaches, 0:16:10.840 --> 0:16:15.560 I'm like, are you okay? What's happening? Nothing? I hear nothing. 0:16:16.320 --> 0:16:18.160 I'm like, you know, you hit that breaking point, like 0:16:18.280 --> 0:16:20.760 fuck it. You tell your buddies, your friends or whatever, 0:16:20.880 --> 0:16:23.200 let's go as party. Fuck her, I'm not starting this 0:16:23.280 --> 0:16:25.600 year like this. So that I'm having a good time. 0:16:26.000 --> 0:16:30.840 I get a text at forty I hope you're enjoined 0:16:30.840 --> 0:16:39.240 the party. Happy New Year, trash. Next day I check Instagram. 0:16:39.240 --> 0:16:42.080 She posted a picture of her at a club with 0:16:42.120 --> 0:16:48.320 some friends, and she goes what I wanted to do 0:16:48.400 --> 0:16:51.280 the caption stay at home and wallowing me having a 0:16:51.280 --> 0:16:54.000 black guy. What I actually did do was put a 0:16:54.040 --> 0:16:55.960 hat on, put some makeup on, and have a good 0:16:55.960 --> 0:17:00.600 time with my friends. I was like, Wow, did you 0:17:00.640 --> 0:17:03.440 like her to leave a comment? Uh? No, I would 0:17:03.440 --> 0:17:06.560 just like I just screen captain told my friends, like, wow, 0:17:07.520 --> 0:17:10.480 like tell me something, say yo, I'm begn to go 0:17:10.520 --> 0:17:14.359 to anything. You don't owe me it. But like, but 0:17:14.800 --> 0:17:17.000 I found out the hard way. I found it the 0:17:17.080 --> 0:17:20.560 hard way I gonna be Uh girl, got to make 0:17:20.560 --> 0:17:22.600 sure I don't beat anybody else that when I'm out there. 0:17:23.040 --> 0:17:30.080 Sure you should take a punch. Uh yeah, I gotta 0:17:30.119 --> 0:17:35.239 find her. I can't what I want. Okay to our 0:17:35.240 --> 0:17:39.640 new segment for the week. It is from not The 0:17:39.720 --> 0:17:45.280 Daily the Daily Beat. The Japanese police are cracking down 0:17:45.320 --> 0:17:49.520 on sexual harassment via air drop. So they've gotten word 0:17:49.560 --> 0:17:52.399 that a new breed of creep called the air drop chicken. 0:17:52.840 --> 0:17:59.080 That's here we talked about this. Actually, they have the 0:17:59.080 --> 0:18:02.040 the app I told you where it says go away 0:18:02.119 --> 0:18:05.119 or calls them a pervert. Yeah, Jan, but this air 0:18:05.160 --> 0:18:07.120 drop ship happens here in New York too. Oh, it's 0:18:07.119 --> 0:18:09.800 happened to me. Men who use the photo in movie 0:18:09.800 --> 0:18:12.560 sharing function in many opper products and unwanted and obscene 0:18:12.600 --> 0:18:15.280 photos to people close by. On Tuesday, put the police 0:18:15.280 --> 0:18:26.360 in Foca Coca for cocaca, Fuco Cocaca. You got it wrong, 0:18:26.400 --> 0:18:34.320 but that's fine. What that is for cocaca? Okay, that's yeah, 0:18:34.359 --> 0:18:37.040 you did it right. In Southern Japan announced they had 0:18:37.080 --> 0:18:39.480 made their first arrest for the misuse of the function, 0:18:39.720 --> 0:18:41.600 and suddenly everyone in Japan with an iPhone is trying 0:18:41.600 --> 0:18:43.919 to figure out how to be avoid becoming a victim 0:18:44.080 --> 0:18:47.719 or perseverely how to get away with this new form 0:18:47.760 --> 0:18:50.400 because it's basically one made people want to figure out 0:18:50.400 --> 0:18:53.080 how to break down the barrier um. The man specifically 0:18:53.119 --> 0:18:55.840 stands accused of sending the obscene image to a smartphone 0:18:55.840 --> 0:18:58.560 of the thirty four year old male passenger nearby on 0:18:58.600 --> 0:19:03.520 a subway train that was running the coca um A 0:19:03.600 --> 0:19:06.320 board at eight forty five on July fip. I wanted 0:19:06.359 --> 0:19:08.480 to see how the recipient would react to the image. 0:19:08.480 --> 0:19:11.520 The man was quoted as telling investigators that he admitted 0:19:11.560 --> 0:19:14.879 to the allegations against him. The victim declined the image, 0:19:14.920 --> 0:19:18.120 but after he sent him at second one, he saved 0:19:18.160 --> 0:19:20.760 it for evidence, So I guess they checked his dick 0:19:20.760 --> 0:19:24.840 at for the police station. It's crazy because it's but 0:19:25.000 --> 0:19:27.960 this happens like if you're on the train in New 0:19:28.040 --> 0:19:30.560 York or anywhere that's like actually just a lot of 0:19:30.560 --> 0:19:33.240 people you get air dropped, and it'd be like sometimes 0:19:33.280 --> 0:19:35.919 it's not always dicks, like it's just dumb ship like memes. 0:19:36.520 --> 0:19:39.440 But sometimes but I'll be seeing like I was out 0:19:39.440 --> 0:19:41.159 of the club and we got a booty hole, like 0:19:41.200 --> 0:19:43.040 there was a booty hole sent to me and my 0:19:43.080 --> 0:19:45.320 friends and we were like, a man, it was a 0:19:45.359 --> 0:19:48.280 man booty because it was balls. It was a whole 0:19:48.280 --> 0:19:53.600 as booty hole. Sit. No, we were in the club. 0:19:53.760 --> 0:19:55.360 Damn what club were we at? And it wasn't even 0:19:55.359 --> 0:19:59.080 a gay club the gay club No, but we had 0:19:59.119 --> 0:20:01.439 a booty hole set but we couldn't tell if it 0:20:01.520 --> 0:20:03.439 was a girl booty hale. And then we saw the 0:20:03.480 --> 0:20:12.919 balls like like accepted that. When I was I was like, 0:20:13.000 --> 0:20:17.320 we really should booty halls. Bro. So uh, the next 0:20:17.320 --> 0:20:19.640 one that's like a form of flashing. That's like that's 0:20:19.680 --> 0:20:24.240 like modern day flash now it So for the kink 0:20:24.280 --> 0:20:26.640 of the week, does anyone know what necrophilia is? Yes? 0:20:27.600 --> 0:20:29.439 Now we have talked about it before, but this was 0:20:29.480 --> 0:20:32.679 a great screenshot from Reddit. There was a question. Now 0:20:32.680 --> 0:20:35.320 we have a whole male segment where people um ask 0:20:35.440 --> 0:20:38.600 questions from us UM. I also want to point out 0:20:38.680 --> 0:20:41.720 that we often use the hashtag and discussed that there 0:20:41.800 --> 0:20:45.800 is no kink shaming. However, we had followers. We had 0:20:45.800 --> 0:20:48.919 actually two people send this to our our Twitter and 0:20:49.080 --> 0:20:51.840 was like, listen, I know we say no kings, but 0:20:51.920 --> 0:20:55.119 should be shame this right so's go this way. Have 0:20:55.160 --> 0:20:59.280 you shamed this? You're like, I get it. A guy's dead, 0:21:00.000 --> 0:21:01.920 are you guys like swapping com not a big deal? 0:21:01.960 --> 0:21:04.359 But this, Yeah, we read the whole story. I think 0:21:04.400 --> 0:21:06.560 my boyfriend is a necrophiliac and I don't know what 0:21:06.600 --> 0:21:10.800 to do. She is what title pretty much sums it 0:21:10.880 --> 0:21:12.840 up for Mattie might be weird. I'm on a mobile phone. 0:21:12.960 --> 0:21:15.239