1 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,440 Speaker 1: Hey, this is Annie and Samantha. I'm walking to Steph. 2 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:19,320 Speaker 1: I never told your protection of iHeartRadio and we're back 3 00:00:19,400 --> 00:00:22,520 Speaker 1: with our Happy Hour edition of Sex in the City, 4 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:27,600 Speaker 1: Viewing of Times, Party Times. I keep messing these intros up, 5 00:00:27,600 --> 00:00:29,040 Speaker 1: but I'm gonna go with it because I feel like 6 00:00:29,400 --> 00:00:32,720 Speaker 1: that's the spontaneity of it all. And today we're so 7 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: excited because we're gonna have collaborator friend all the things 8 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:43,519 Speaker 1: of the show. Joey Yay. Hello. All right now I 9 00:00:43,640 --> 00:00:46,000 Speaker 1: need to ask, although I know the answer, but you 10 00:00:46,040 --> 00:00:49,040 Speaker 1: need to tell our listeners how familiar are you with 11 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:52,800 Speaker 1: Sex in the City. So I'm not super familiar. It 12 00:00:52,880 --> 00:00:55,960 Speaker 1: was it was a little, a little before my time, 13 00:00:57,480 --> 00:01:04,160 Speaker 1: so just a little. But I know my mom watched it. 14 00:01:04,319 --> 00:01:06,320 Speaker 1: I think my sister only my little sisters are there too. 15 00:01:07,800 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 1: I'm sorry, but I also do. I was. I live 16 00:01:17,920 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 1: in New York and I went to college in New 17 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:23,200 Speaker 1: York and like all live my momice for ends when 18 00:01:23,200 --> 00:01:25,080 Speaker 1: I was moving out to New York. We're like, you 19 00:01:25,120 --> 00:01:27,160 Speaker 1: need to watch this, and I was like yeah, and 20 00:01:27,200 --> 00:01:33,560 Speaker 1: then I didn't. I will say I have had one 21 00:01:33,600 --> 00:01:36,360 Speaker 1: sided beat with Sarah Jessica Parker since I was a 22 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:39,960 Speaker 1: kid because my initials are also s JAP Joey's for 23 00:01:40,000 --> 00:01:44,360 Speaker 1: my middle name, and all of the SJAP social media 24 00:01:44,360 --> 00:01:46,160 Speaker 1: handles were taking my Sarah Jessica Parker and I was 25 00:01:46,160 --> 00:01:48,000 Speaker 1: really mad about that when I was like first getting 26 00:01:48,000 --> 00:01:53,880 Speaker 1: on Twitter. Um, but yeah, I'm excited excited to watch 27 00:01:54,640 --> 00:01:57,400 Speaker 1: I've seen like clips here and there, you know, I like, 28 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,760 Speaker 1: it's hard to like avoid it, but I'm excited to 29 00:02:00,240 --> 00:02:03,080 Speaker 1: watch my first full episode of Sex and the City. 30 00:02:03,240 --> 00:02:06,840 Speaker 1: When you're in for a treat, and this one is interesting. Yeah, 31 00:02:06,880 --> 00:02:08,840 Speaker 1: so go ahead and put a little warning at the beginning, 32 00:02:08,960 --> 00:02:11,440 Speaker 1: as per usual with all of these episodes, and as 33 00:02:11,440 --> 00:02:16,040 Speaker 1: you heard from Joey, yes, their mom watched it, So 34 00:02:16,120 --> 00:02:19,000 Speaker 1: let's just go ahead and say that. And with that, 35 00:02:19,200 --> 00:02:22,000 Speaker 1: some of the content and topics, of course, is outdated, 36 00:02:22,840 --> 00:02:24,320 Speaker 1: and so we're gonna come back and talk about it, 37 00:02:24,320 --> 00:02:26,240 Speaker 1: because you know, we never scart away from the issues 38 00:02:26,639 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 1: with the show, because we would like to talk about 39 00:02:28,520 --> 00:02:30,959 Speaker 1: the good, the bad, and ugly and the wonderful. So 40 00:02:31,200 --> 00:02:34,959 Speaker 1: we will definitely address any of those things beforehand. And 41 00:02:35,000 --> 00:02:38,400 Speaker 1: as per usual, we have to have a review from 42 00:02:38,560 --> 00:02:42,040 Speaker 1: the wonderful Annie Reese. Please give us a quick review 43 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,200 Speaker 1: of what has been happening in the world of Sex 44 00:02:44,200 --> 00:02:47,640 Speaker 1: in the City. Well, this is so fun because I 45 00:02:47,680 --> 00:02:50,840 Speaker 1: too have never seen sex in the City, but obviously 46 00:02:50,880 --> 00:02:53,520 Speaker 1: I've been here for all the episodes prior to this, 47 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 1: which there are ninety four episodes Joey just so you know, 48 00:02:56,320 --> 00:03:02,280 Speaker 1: and three movies and then another many not mini series anymore. Yeah, 49 00:03:02,360 --> 00:03:07,119 Speaker 1: there's a lot of content. So I've been thinking about this. 50 00:03:07,600 --> 00:03:11,480 Speaker 1: I feel like normally I just give a very haphazard 51 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:16,160 Speaker 1: review of the last episode, but I will tell you 52 00:03:16,520 --> 00:03:19,800 Speaker 1: it's four friends and they're having high jinks. In the 53 00:03:19,840 --> 00:03:23,200 Speaker 1: relationship world in New York, there is usually a club 54 00:03:23,280 --> 00:03:30,120 Speaker 1: scene or restaurants in her boat. But you've got Charlotte 55 00:03:30,120 --> 00:03:33,480 Speaker 1: who's trying to find the one and just never does 56 00:03:33,639 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 1: and works in the art world, sort of if you're 57 00:03:36,160 --> 00:03:39,320 Speaker 1: like more conservative. I wouldn't say she's like conservative, but 58 00:03:39,360 --> 00:03:44,680 Speaker 1: like of them, she wants to get married. She has 59 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 1: dated some interesting characters though, like an actor who really 60 00:03:47,800 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: had no brains recently. And then you've got Samantha, who 61 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:56,200 Speaker 1: is the one that's like, oh, I just want to 62 00:03:56,200 --> 00:03:58,680 Speaker 1: have sex, I feel comfortable in my body, like all 63 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:02,560 Speaker 1: that stuff. And then you've got Miranda who's sort of 64 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:06,080 Speaker 1: your like single woman in an apartment, has a good 65 00:04:06,160 --> 00:04:09,800 Speaker 1: job as a lawyer, but she has met her dude 66 00:04:10,480 --> 00:04:12,720 Speaker 1: that people who have seen the show know about Steve, 67 00:04:13,560 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 1: and they're trying to negotiate like a she banks more 68 00:04:16,080 --> 00:04:19,520 Speaker 1: money than him, and that was the whole thing. And 69 00:04:20,360 --> 00:04:23,000 Speaker 1: they have different schedules because he's a bartend. There's that 70 00:04:23,040 --> 00:04:25,880 Speaker 1: was the whole thing. And then you've got Kerry, who 71 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:31,359 Speaker 1: is your main character, who has met Big, who is 72 00:04:31,400 --> 00:04:34,200 Speaker 1: her on and again off again dude. And they've had 73 00:04:34,240 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 1: a lot of conversations around like religion and marriage and 74 00:04:39,480 --> 00:04:43,480 Speaker 1: what they want and is he actually a douchebag all 75 00:04:43,480 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 1: those kinds of things. At the heart of it is 76 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:49,360 Speaker 1: their friendship, the friendship of these four characters. And that's 77 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:51,599 Speaker 1: about where we are is We've got Miranda with Steve 78 00:04:52,680 --> 00:04:55,200 Speaker 1: trying to figure out money things. They just broke up. 79 00:04:55,760 --> 00:04:58,000 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, they just broke up, but over kind of 80 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:06,359 Speaker 1: money is okay, Charlotte not finding the one, Samantha doing 81 00:05:06,400 --> 00:05:10,479 Speaker 1: her thing, and then Carrie was Big and they continue 82 00:05:10,520 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: to have these big relationship conversations. Very nice, what a 83 00:05:16,520 --> 00:05:20,320 Speaker 1: good succinct summary. So now you know Joey where we're 84 00:05:20,400 --> 00:05:24,480 Speaker 1: at a little bit um because this is a happy hour. 85 00:05:24,800 --> 00:05:27,360 Speaker 1: We maybe may or may not be drinking on some cocktails. 86 00:05:27,360 --> 00:05:31,839 Speaker 1: Anybody drinking anything special? What you got? Annie? Red wine? 87 00:05:32,200 --> 00:05:36,200 Speaker 1: Every time? Every time? I am keeping it low key 88 00:05:36,320 --> 00:05:40,360 Speaker 1: with my bubbly water, very bubbled it. Maybe the head 89 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:44,400 Speaker 1: water that we recently were given. I don't know what 90 00:05:44,440 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 1: about you. I was originally flat at having red wine. 91 00:05:52,560 --> 00:05:55,719 Speaker 1: But I'm still on my coffee from this morning, so 92 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:59,119 Speaker 1: I'm gonna stick to it. Finishing my coffee right, Yeah, 93 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:03,520 Speaker 1: I'm drinking coffee. Yes, little peak behind the curtains. It's 94 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:06,560 Speaker 1: not exactly happy our time for us, but you know 95 00:06:07,080 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 1: we're pretending right any times happy hour if you want 96 00:06:10,680 --> 00:06:15,360 Speaker 1: it to be h And just as a reminder, if 97 00:06:15,440 --> 00:06:17,760 Speaker 1: you know, just a reminder if you are drinking as 98 00:06:17,800 --> 00:06:22,480 Speaker 1: you're listening to this episode or whatever you're doing, be responsible. Technically, 99 00:06:22,760 --> 00:06:24,719 Speaker 1: those Streaks that we've talked about are not a current 100 00:06:24,760 --> 00:06:29,160 Speaker 1: sponsor for this episode, though they may be sponsors throughout 101 00:06:29,200 --> 00:06:32,039 Speaker 1: who knows. Hey, So the title of this episode and 102 00:06:32,080 --> 00:06:35,880 Speaker 1: this is my favorite part, we're gonna give it to uh, well, 103 00:06:35,920 --> 00:06:38,200 Speaker 1: I'll let you get I'll tell you the episode and 104 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 1: then Joey, you can either take it or give it 105 00:06:40,120 --> 00:06:42,839 Speaker 1: to Annie first for the prediction, I'll let you decide. 106 00:06:43,240 --> 00:06:46,719 Speaker 1: But the title of this episode of season two, episode 107 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 1: eleven is evolution. So anybody want to take a guess? Okay, 108 00:06:54,240 --> 00:06:58,200 Speaker 1: I'm right, I'm right. Have just given our conversation earlier, 109 00:06:58,200 --> 00:07:01,080 Speaker 1: because I know there is I think about one of them, 110 00:07:01,120 --> 00:07:04,880 Speaker 1: like quote, becoming a lesbian at one point or something. 111 00:07:05,400 --> 00:07:08,000 Speaker 1: I don't know if this is it, but I again 112 00:07:08,440 --> 00:07:12,360 Speaker 1: using that in quotational rights. I don't know if I 113 00:07:12,600 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 1: yeah a terminology, but maybe it's that episode. I'm not 114 00:07:17,320 --> 00:07:19,360 Speaker 1: I'm not totally sure. I feel like there's gonna be 115 00:07:19,440 --> 00:07:24,480 Speaker 1: some like queerness though, Okay, this is my guess, right, 116 00:07:24,560 --> 00:07:27,600 Speaker 1: I like it. Annie always add in they go to 117 00:07:27,680 --> 00:07:37,640 Speaker 1: a club, go to the club, to right, probably probably 118 00:07:37,680 --> 00:07:42,920 Speaker 1: after the club post club. Okay, I feel like it's Oh. 119 00:07:42,960 --> 00:07:45,600 Speaker 1: I think that there's gotta be something about sort of 120 00:07:46,320 --> 00:07:49,000 Speaker 1: oh no, this is what happens to me, Joey, I 121 00:07:49,000 --> 00:07:51,920 Speaker 1: always get my head back. Okay. I think it's gotta 122 00:07:51,960 --> 00:07:57,000 Speaker 1: be you know, evolving outside of relationships to the next 123 00:07:57,040 --> 00:08:03,360 Speaker 1: relationship and or discussion and about how we have evolved 124 00:08:03,840 --> 00:08:06,960 Speaker 1: in the terms of relationships and what we think is 125 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:14,400 Speaker 1: a good relationship, bad relationship, or something else. Mm I 126 00:08:14,480 --> 00:08:19,040 Speaker 1: bet there'll be something with yeah, Rand and Steve and 127 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:23,720 Speaker 1: just to talk about, like what do we even want? 128 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 1: What do we even want in this world? I like 129 00:08:27,840 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 1: the desperation towards the end in your prediction here, Annie like, 130 00:08:34,360 --> 00:08:41,920 Speaker 1: and that's a great question. What do we want? We want? Wow? Y'all? Yeah, 131 00:08:41,960 --> 00:08:44,559 Speaker 1: you guys hit it all over the place. I will say, 132 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:52,120 Speaker 1: they are definitely elements to what you're saying. Joey any Yeah, 133 00:08:51,480 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 1: you're passing. I think, Okay, we'll get into that at 134 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:58,240 Speaker 1: the end. But yeah, let's go ahead. Let's go ahead 135 00:08:58,240 --> 00:09:19,400 Speaker 1: and start this episod. Actually I'm going off it. Are 136 00:09:19,400 --> 00:09:24,400 Speaker 1: you trying to have a baby? No? No? I yes, 137 00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:26,640 Speaker 1: I sort of jumped the gun going on in the 138 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:30,120 Speaker 1: first place because Steve, the guy that I went on 139 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:33,160 Speaker 1: it for the first real relationship I've had in years, 140 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:36,160 Speaker 1: is over. And I don't need a daily reminder that 141 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:39,679 Speaker 1: I'm not having sex. So that's the story with the pill. 142 00:09:39,760 --> 00:09:42,480 Speaker 1: And I know the concept of the pill is a 143 00:09:42,559 --> 00:09:52,360 Speaker 1: little different, like I got on a ulate my system essentially, Yeah, 144 00:09:52,360 --> 00:09:57,480 Speaker 1: oh god, I'm not having sex? Do you just want 145 00:09:57,520 --> 00:10:04,839 Speaker 1: to yes or no, that's it. I don't even know why. 146 00:10:05,559 --> 00:10:08,920 Speaker 1: With big I think it's best to walk softly and 147 00:10:09,000 --> 00:10:11,920 Speaker 1: carry a big purse. Yes, she shouldn't leave anything there. 148 00:10:11,960 --> 00:10:14,920 Speaker 1: It's important to remain a creature of mystery. So talking 149 00:10:14,920 --> 00:10:19,120 Speaker 1: about leaving things behind at your partner's house to stake territory, which, 150 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:21,360 Speaker 1: by the way, is a new TikTok trend, maybe not new, 151 00:10:21,480 --> 00:10:24,200 Speaker 1: a TikTok trend in which women who have stayed and 152 00:10:24,240 --> 00:10:27,240 Speaker 1: maybe even an over one night stand will leave things 153 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:29,600 Speaker 1: just in case they are having a relationship in light 154 00:10:29,679 --> 00:10:32,680 Speaker 1: about it and the other person can find it to 155 00:10:32,800 --> 00:10:36,000 Speaker 1: know that they were there. So what you're telling, how interesting? 156 00:10:36,360 --> 00:10:39,600 Speaker 1: But this is different obviously prove I've heard about it 157 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:41,959 Speaker 1: more in terms of that's how you get the invite back. 158 00:10:42,600 --> 00:10:49,560 Speaker 1: It's like you lea so many different things this, this 159 00:10:49,960 --> 00:10:53,559 Speaker 1: route has evolved in itself. It sounds like she's doing 160 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:57,319 Speaker 1: it to stak territory. Then it's become something else altogether. 161 00:11:02,040 --> 00:11:04,240 Speaker 1: Then I want a T shirt that says I dated 162 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:07,680 Speaker 1: a bartender and all I got was this lousy ovary. 163 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:10,960 Speaker 1: It is funny hearing them talk about it. Or she's 164 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:13,120 Speaker 1: like the sperm has to jump over it. This sounds 165 00:11:13,160 --> 00:11:18,360 Speaker 1: like me as a kid trying to explore. I don't know, 166 00:11:18,400 --> 00:11:21,439 Speaker 1: maybe it's personal stuff, but I would be like great, 167 00:11:21,679 --> 00:11:23,319 Speaker 1: like less of a chance I can get partner Like 168 00:11:24,160 --> 00:11:28,839 Speaker 1: that sounds amazing. We're held different generation. Shut that down. 169 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:39,320 Speaker 1: Immediately shut it down. He must be a gay straight 170 00:11:39,360 --> 00:11:41,640 Speaker 1: man because he has Charlotte out for a second day, 171 00:11:41,920 --> 00:11:45,320 Speaker 1: unless he's a straight gay man in denial. But so, 172 00:11:45,559 --> 00:11:48,480 Speaker 1: Charlotte is now seeing a gay straight man who has 173 00:11:48,600 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 1: great taste in fashion and also well quote unquote her 174 00:11:52,840 --> 00:11:57,080 Speaker 1: or kill sir, nicer version. Wait. So is the implication though, 175 00:11:57,200 --> 00:12:00,240 Speaker 1: that he's closeted and he's trying to be straight or 176 00:12:00,320 --> 00:12:02,960 Speaker 1: maybe it's the opposite, in which he just feels more 177 00:12:03,160 --> 00:12:10,360 Speaker 1: able to be effeminate but is straight. That's the question. Okay. 178 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 1: Imagining Samantha with a broken heart was almost more confusing 179 00:12:16,640 --> 00:12:18,640 Speaker 1: to Charlotte than a French kiss from a gay man 180 00:12:18,800 --> 00:12:26,000 Speaker 1: ancient history. They just really in this And also as 181 00:12:26,000 --> 00:12:29,800 Speaker 1: a reminder, sex in the City really did not have spectrums. 182 00:12:29,840 --> 00:12:33,240 Speaker 1: They were hard line you're gay straight, and there was 183 00:12:33,280 --> 00:12:37,040 Speaker 1: not even like bisexuality. They didn't literally there's a line 184 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:39,360 Speaker 1: later in episode saying that she didn't believe in that. 185 00:12:39,440 --> 00:12:41,440 Speaker 1: So it's kind of this whole conversation of like, yeah, 186 00:12:42,400 --> 00:12:44,520 Speaker 1: I think I've definitely seen that clip for then I 187 00:12:44,640 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 1: thought about it. I don't know, it's just just it's 188 00:12:46,400 --> 00:12:49,440 Speaker 1: so funny, like the just the conversation that has changed 189 00:12:49,480 --> 00:12:53,280 Speaker 1: so much because I'm bisexual and I'm like I I'm 190 00:12:53,320 --> 00:12:55,120 Speaker 1: like most I don't know. I feel like most of 191 00:12:55,120 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 1: my friends are somewhere on the spectrum, ay right, I 192 00:13:01,040 --> 00:13:03,040 Speaker 1: don't know. Maybe it's just the people I'm around, but 193 00:13:03,640 --> 00:13:07,720 Speaker 1: it makes sense. Of course, like I as the older, 194 00:13:08,280 --> 00:13:11,360 Speaker 1: I would definitely have grown with that because it to me, 195 00:13:11,440 --> 00:13:13,319 Speaker 1: I didn't know it was anything but the binary. But 196 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:14,920 Speaker 1: then you're like, oh, yeah, that doesn't make sense. It 197 00:13:15,000 --> 00:13:17,439 Speaker 1: really doesn't make sense in me. Yeah, I will say 198 00:13:17,440 --> 00:13:19,839 Speaker 1: I think because I remember being in like high school, 199 00:13:19,880 --> 00:13:22,079 Speaker 1: and I was still like I don't know, Like I 200 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:24,600 Speaker 1: feel like I didn't Bisexuality wasn't like a thing people 201 00:13:24,600 --> 00:13:27,120 Speaker 1: talked about until like I was in my late teens, 202 00:13:27,360 --> 00:13:31,600 Speaker 1: which is still, you know, pretty young. I love that. Still, yeah, 203 00:13:31,640 --> 00:13:39,800 Speaker 1: it's definitely growth. Do you want me to leave socks here? Well? 204 00:13:39,880 --> 00:13:42,520 Speaker 1: Never mind what I want? What do you want? I 205 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:45,160 Speaker 1: don't know. Let's save an hour. Why don't you just 206 00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:50,280 Speaker 1: tell me what I want? No? Really in your mind? Terrible, 207 00:13:51,520 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 1: terrible in relationship. It is funny how much if this 208 00:13:54,679 --> 00:13:57,520 Speaker 1: is about how we don't really communicate well in relationships though, 209 00:13:57,640 --> 00:14:00,360 Speaker 1: And there's all these games we play, like power games, 210 00:14:01,080 --> 00:14:05,040 Speaker 1: and what is that. I have my place, you have yours. 211 00:14:05,920 --> 00:14:08,360 Speaker 1: We're together when we want to be, and we're apart 212 00:14:08,440 --> 00:14:14,120 Speaker 1: one we want to be like Woody and Mia really bad, 213 00:14:14,559 --> 00:14:20,000 Speaker 1: really bad, take really bad. That was like a gut 214 00:14:20,680 --> 00:14:23,320 Speaker 1: right Wait what did he say? She said, like Woody 215 00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:26,240 Speaker 1: and Mia before Sunni, which is the adopted Do you 216 00:14:26,320 --> 00:14:29,120 Speaker 1: know the story of what you No? I don't think so? 217 00:14:32,040 --> 00:14:41,120 Speaker 1: Yeahs too. I was like, yeah before the adopted daughter. Yes, yeah, 218 00:14:41,240 --> 00:14:43,960 Speaker 1: so I will say I did. I also would have 219 00:14:44,000 --> 00:14:48,440 Speaker 1: subscribed to the whole Separate but Together conversation. I loved 220 00:14:48,840 --> 00:14:52,480 Speaker 1: that aspect in my relationship previously. Don't get me wrong, 221 00:14:52,720 --> 00:14:56,760 Speaker 1: I love living with them now, but like there was 222 00:14:56,920 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 1: the safety in knowing it. I had my own space 223 00:14:59,360 --> 00:15:01,320 Speaker 1: that I had to take care of, and they had 224 00:15:01,400 --> 00:15:03,160 Speaker 1: their home space that they had to take care of. 225 00:15:03,440 --> 00:15:05,960 Speaker 1: But because we were our neighbors, like I lived upstairs 226 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 1: he lived downstairs. It was a beautiful setup. So I 227 00:15:11,200 --> 00:15:16,040 Speaker 1: loved that. There's something true. Totally support that. Yeah, I 228 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 1: feel like that. I mean, if I left the hair 229 00:15:17,960 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 1: dryer at somebody's place, I'd have to get another hair dryer. 230 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:23,040 Speaker 1: I'm not going to their apartment every time they use 231 00:15:23,240 --> 00:15:29,160 Speaker 1: the hair dryer. You as a minimalist for certain things, Yeah, 232 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:37,080 Speaker 1: I was like, are you n I don't know, short hair, 233 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:39,400 Speaker 1: I don't have as much makeup for all that I 234 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:45,600 Speaker 1: think carried us. But right, just like umpires all the 235 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:49,240 Speaker 1: things obviously, and she can afford it for some reason. Yeah, 236 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:57,160 Speaker 1: all of a sudden it hit me that if the 237 00:15:57,320 --> 00:16:01,400 Speaker 1: other ovary shuts down, I'm out of business. So I've 238 00:16:01,440 --> 00:16:05,840 Speaker 1: started taking hormones and now I'm actually considering freezing my eggs. 239 00:16:07,400 --> 00:16:12,000 Speaker 1: Freezing your eggs, yeah, you know, like a fertility savings account. 240 00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:15,120 Speaker 1: I think it would take the pressure off I will say, 241 00:16:15,400 --> 00:16:17,240 Speaker 1: as getting older, and I'm like, I still don't know. 242 00:16:17,880 --> 00:16:20,120 Speaker 1: Maybe I had thought about should I freeze eggs? But 243 00:16:20,200 --> 00:16:22,120 Speaker 1: then I'm like, I don't think so that's a good idea. 244 00:16:22,240 --> 00:16:25,320 Speaker 1: What is all this reproductive technology doing for us? I mean, 245 00:16:25,400 --> 00:16:30,400 Speaker 1: do we want desperate women having babies? At fifty. Maybe 246 00:16:30,480 --> 00:16:33,920 Speaker 1: some people aren't supposed appropriate. Maybe this is the world's 247 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 1: way of weeding out the week, sweating out on a 248 00:16:39,120 --> 00:16:44,960 Speaker 1: date exactly designer sperm and he simulated wounds. Here's a 249 00:16:44,960 --> 00:16:51,920 Speaker 1: good idea. Why don't we just eliminate men all together? Yeah? Man, 250 00:16:51,960 --> 00:16:59,160 Speaker 1: who's doing crop rotation on his forehead? A little quickly, 251 00:16:59,240 --> 00:17:02,320 Speaker 1: I've been in this with the dude before, too. We 252 00:17:02,480 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 1: get of Yes, I'm like, sure, I didn't you get 253 00:17:14,359 --> 00:17:18,560 Speaker 1: a crop rotation is talking about natural selection and you're like, 254 00:17:18,640 --> 00:17:22,080 Speaker 1: wait what just people? Yeah. Also, it should be totally 255 00:17:22,160 --> 00:17:26,080 Speaker 1: cool to just have a conversation about your horribones, not 256 00:17:26,560 --> 00:17:37,400 Speaker 1: have someone freak out good morning, good morning, sleepy something smment. 257 00:17:37,480 --> 00:17:39,879 Speaker 1: I really need to know if war women who have 258 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:42,840 Speaker 1: had like one night stands or sleep women actually end 259 00:17:42,960 --> 00:17:46,320 Speaker 1: up wearing the dude's shirt the next day, because I'm like, 260 00:17:46,480 --> 00:17:49,680 Speaker 1: when do you judge a picture? What point? Yeah? What point? 261 00:17:49,720 --> 00:17:53,879 Speaker 1: Who does has done this? Unless it's on purpose? Because 262 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:59,399 Speaker 1: you like, right, like when you start stealing your partners 263 00:17:59,440 --> 00:18:05,840 Speaker 1: stuff or are you borrowing it? Yeah? Sure borrowing tell 264 00:18:05,920 --> 00:18:27,680 Speaker 1: my partner that I don't think that his name is 265 00:18:27,760 --> 00:18:34,359 Speaker 1: big so much so the origination of that is that 266 00:18:35,200 --> 00:18:39,520 Speaker 1: the first episode, second episode, first episode of the show, 267 00:18:40,400 --> 00:18:44,240 Speaker 1: Sam knew him as the next big real estate person 268 00:18:44,440 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 1: and like the next big rich dude. So they talk 269 00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:52,720 Speaker 1: most of the times in references to like nicknames. So 270 00:18:52,880 --> 00:18:56,840 Speaker 1: that stuck for him unfortunately, because yeah, it's not great, 271 00:18:57,560 --> 00:18:59,480 Speaker 1: but he may be the only dude that it has 272 00:18:59,560 --> 00:19:04,800 Speaker 1: a nickname, because that's how when I was dating, I 273 00:19:04,880 --> 00:19:08,040 Speaker 1: would never give him a name. They would have some 274 00:19:08,240 --> 00:19:12,479 Speaker 1: type of nickname until like we were more official. Okay, 275 00:19:13,080 --> 00:19:16,040 Speaker 1: yeah that makes sense. Yeah, So like it could be 276 00:19:16,720 --> 00:19:18,720 Speaker 1: just because so much of dating and I was like 277 00:19:18,800 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 1: online dating, I was just like, oh, yeah, that hinge person. Yeah, 278 00:19:21,800 --> 00:19:24,400 Speaker 1: like the tender person. Yeah, I'll talk to my friends 279 00:19:24,440 --> 00:19:28,400 Speaker 1: about exactly. I think the tender person was one. Um. 280 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:32,640 Speaker 1: I think I called one. The musician, I called one 281 00:19:32,720 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 1: like like so many different what was he. I still 282 00:19:36,480 --> 00:19:38,120 Speaker 1: don't know if he was telling me the truth, because 283 00:19:38,160 --> 00:19:42,360 Speaker 1: he told me he was something a capital investment dude, 284 00:19:42,359 --> 00:19:44,600 Speaker 1: and I was like, what does that mean. I still 285 00:19:44,640 --> 00:19:48,120 Speaker 1: think he might have been lying to be fair, because 286 00:19:48,160 --> 00:19:50,840 Speaker 1: he was like, I have a BMW, but it's in 287 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:54,080 Speaker 1: the shop, and I was like, yeah, there's so many 288 00:19:54,160 --> 00:20:00,719 Speaker 1: things that I'm like this doesn't this doesn't head up. 289 00:20:01,080 --> 00:20:03,399 Speaker 1: But yeah, there you go. So Annie, you did talk 290 00:20:03,440 --> 00:20:07,680 Speaker 1: about evolving in their life. So I'll give you a thing. 291 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:11,000 Speaker 1: They do mention Steve kind of, but not a lot. 292 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:14,239 Speaker 1: They didn't go to a club. I'm sorry. They did 293 00:20:14,320 --> 00:20:16,920 Speaker 1: not go to a club. Oh yeah, actually they did. 294 00:20:17,080 --> 00:20:21,840 Speaker 1: They did go to a club. Yeah, you're right. I forgot. 295 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:24,760 Speaker 1: That's where the dominic isn't that club? You're right, So 296 00:20:24,880 --> 00:20:26,440 Speaker 1: there is a club scene, so I'll give you that. 297 00:20:27,000 --> 00:20:33,640 Speaker 1: There's definitely queer reference in like not being very evolved 298 00:20:33,680 --> 00:20:37,600 Speaker 1: in it, I guess at this point. So there you go. 299 00:20:38,280 --> 00:20:41,760 Speaker 1: I will give both of y'all points. I'll give you 300 00:20:41,840 --> 00:20:46,360 Speaker 1: a tie. Y'all did good. Y'all did good? Yeah you did. 301 00:20:48,000 --> 00:20:49,840 Speaker 1: I think the mystery was the whole like, yeah, the 302 00:20:49,880 --> 00:20:53,520 Speaker 1: metrosexual dude coming into play, which is hilarious because that's 303 00:20:53,560 --> 00:20:56,480 Speaker 1: so gone. That term is gone now, right, Like that's 304 00:20:56,560 --> 00:21:01,119 Speaker 1: the smest when I'm very good friend who is a 305 00:21:01,200 --> 00:21:04,040 Speaker 1: straight man who regularly refers to himself as metrosexual, and 306 00:21:04,080 --> 00:21:05,360 Speaker 1: I make fun of him about it all the time, 307 00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:07,879 Speaker 1: and he's the only person I know that uses that, 308 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:10,920 Speaker 1: Like I've heard in the past, like ten years the 309 00:21:11,040 --> 00:21:15,560 Speaker 1: word metrosexual. Yeah, yeah, it's not. Do they do it 310 00:21:15,680 --> 00:21:21,000 Speaker 1: seriously or jokingly? He says it seriously every time. I'm like, 311 00:21:21,240 --> 00:21:27,480 Speaker 1: I stop, but um yeah, he's also very very straight. 312 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:31,720 Speaker 1: That's funny. I feel like, yeah, but I do think 313 00:21:32,359 --> 00:21:37,760 Speaker 1: like effeminate quote unquote, like straight man is becoming more 314 00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:41,520 Speaker 1: like normalized, you know, and like definitely through the like 315 00:21:41,800 --> 00:21:44,680 Speaker 1: I don't know, like the whole TikTok like thing and 316 00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:49,960 Speaker 1: all of that. Um yeah again, I'm also like, I'm 317 00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:52,600 Speaker 1: a queer person who is mostly friends with queer people, 318 00:21:52,680 --> 00:21:55,480 Speaker 1: and I feel like it's a different conversation. I don't know. 319 00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:59,480 Speaker 1: I definitely like like I can't imagine any of my 320 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:02,159 Speaker 1: like your girlfriends being like, yeah, I'm not gonna date 321 00:22:02,200 --> 00:22:05,159 Speaker 1: this guy because he like acted to a feminine or two. 322 00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:06,919 Speaker 1: I feel like that's like a plus, Like that's why, Oh, 323 00:22:07,000 --> 00:22:08,879 Speaker 1: he's like more in touch with this emotion, right, Like 324 00:22:09,320 --> 00:22:14,760 Speaker 1: he gets like more you know, traditionally feminine things like 325 00:22:14,880 --> 00:22:16,240 Speaker 1: fashion or all of that. Like I feel like that's 326 00:22:16,240 --> 00:22:18,440 Speaker 1: a plus. Yeah, but I don't know. I love a 327 00:22:18,480 --> 00:22:20,879 Speaker 1: man who cooks. I love a man who can have 328 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:25,240 Speaker 1: a conversation about feminism. That's wonderful. Yeah, legitimately and understanding it. 329 00:22:26,080 --> 00:22:28,040 Speaker 1: That's why I think K dramas are a big hit 330 00:22:28,160 --> 00:22:31,640 Speaker 1: right now because they are all about the sensitive man 331 00:22:31,920 --> 00:22:35,359 Speaker 1: slash some other things. But they do definitely are like 332 00:22:35,440 --> 00:22:36,879 Speaker 1: one of the lines and some of them was like 333 00:22:37,080 --> 00:22:39,120 Speaker 1: it's okay to cry. They keep saying that to each 334 00:22:39,160 --> 00:22:41,840 Speaker 1: other though. I think it's interesting, but there you go. 335 00:22:42,080 --> 00:22:45,440 Speaker 1: How do you feel about your first experience in watching 336 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:49,480 Speaker 1: the full episode of Sex and the City, Joey, that 337 00:22:49,680 --> 00:22:53,520 Speaker 1: was fun? I definitely was not. I I feel like 338 00:22:53,560 --> 00:22:56,200 Speaker 1: I'm so used to like the really long after and 339 00:22:56,280 --> 00:22:58,160 Speaker 1: drawn out to shows out It's like, this is fun, 340 00:22:58,280 --> 00:23:01,359 Speaker 1: just kind of quick. But yeah, I definitely it was 341 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:05,680 Speaker 1: an interesting experience. Was was expecting a lot of that 342 00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:09,840 Speaker 1: like nineties, like forty percent of the way there with 343 00:23:09,960 --> 00:23:16,440 Speaker 1: the sexual liberation. But yeah, it was good. It's fun. 344 00:23:17,200 --> 00:23:21,560 Speaker 1: I know there's I should have asked my My little 345 00:23:21,600 --> 00:23:23,440 Speaker 1: sister likes the show too, and I know there's like 346 00:23:23,480 --> 00:23:26,640 Speaker 1: one because everybody's always like I'm a like Miranda or Samantha. 347 00:23:26,680 --> 00:23:29,399 Speaker 1: There's one that she says reminds her of me. I 348 00:23:29,600 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 1: cannot remember when it was, though, I definitely want to 349 00:23:31,560 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 1: know now, so know that. I'm like, I feel like 350 00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:37,600 Speaker 1: I haven't Miranda maybe right, it's Miranda's the lawyer. Yes, 351 00:23:38,200 --> 00:23:43,040 Speaker 1: so she's a very straightforward sure, like no holes barred 352 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:46,639 Speaker 1: type of person who, let you know, very very uh 353 00:23:47,600 --> 00:23:50,240 Speaker 1: they are for her friends and very loyal for sure. 354 00:23:50,480 --> 00:23:56,040 Speaker 1: So that sounds like very blunt. Yeah, but I'm definitely 355 00:23:56,040 --> 00:24:00,439 Speaker 1: gonna ask after those. Yeah, you should report No, definitely. 356 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:02,119 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I'll let you guys know. We've had to 357 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,160 Speaker 1: do it. We should wait. Oh, we should have made 358 00:24:04,160 --> 00:24:06,280 Speaker 1: you do a quiz that we've done that before. We 359 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,440 Speaker 1: should have made you do a quiz beforehand. We'll send 360 00:24:08,480 --> 00:24:10,600 Speaker 1: you one after the fact. We'll get we'll do a 361 00:24:11,000 --> 00:24:13,960 Speaker 1: short back. It's not going to be ever on and yeah, 362 00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:16,880 Speaker 1: in my realization, this episode was released before you were born. 363 00:24:17,160 --> 00:24:23,760 Speaker 1: So when was it? Nineteen ninety nine? Okay, I was 364 00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:29,680 Speaker 1: born at ninety nine. Okay, you were born. Wait, what 365 00:24:29,960 --> 00:24:31,760 Speaker 1: is your birthday? We don't know your birthday. You don't 366 00:24:31,760 --> 00:24:35,080 Speaker 1: have to announced it over a birth episode. Well, I'm 367 00:24:35,119 --> 00:24:37,919 Speaker 1: then cancer. It's in July. Okay, So, okay, you were 368 00:24:37,960 --> 00:24:40,360 Speaker 1: born right before the release of this episode. Yeah, because 369 00:24:40,400 --> 00:24:44,040 Speaker 1: this was done in August of nineteen ninety Okay, so 370 00:24:44,280 --> 00:24:52,720 Speaker 1: the yearn and I was going to college, it's okay, gosh, 371 00:24:55,840 --> 00:24:59,400 Speaker 1: I definitely it is funny to watch stuff that's said 372 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:02,240 Speaker 1: in New York. Yeah, it was like right before everything 373 00:25:02,280 --> 00:25:05,240 Speaker 1: that's super super gentrified. I was like, oh my god, 374 00:25:05,280 --> 00:25:08,360 Speaker 1: I can't imagine like being like I don't I don't 375 00:25:08,359 --> 00:25:12,879 Speaker 1: think I know anybody who lives in Chelsea that's very 376 00:25:12,960 --> 00:25:15,440 Speaker 1: very expensive. Now, well, it's so funny. Is like I 377 00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:17,359 Speaker 1: think people want you to watch it to see as 378 00:25:17,400 --> 00:25:19,400 Speaker 1: if like it's going to be a setup for your life. 379 00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:22,480 Speaker 1: You're like, there's no way, to hell anyone lives this 380 00:25:22,680 --> 00:25:25,320 Speaker 1: life unless you are already rich, like you are born 381 00:25:25,520 --> 00:25:28,200 Speaker 1: rich and probably a part of a family that has 382 00:25:28,359 --> 00:25:30,440 Speaker 1: lived and has owned property in New York for the 383 00:25:30,480 --> 00:25:34,840 Speaker 1: past hundred years. You're not gonna ask that life. And 384 00:25:34,960 --> 00:25:36,800 Speaker 1: I was like, they have set all their apartments. They 385 00:25:36,840 --> 00:25:39,320 Speaker 1: have like an actual like like I'm in my bedroom 386 00:25:39,440 --> 00:25:41,440 Speaker 1: right now, and everything is very like you can see 387 00:25:41,480 --> 00:25:44,520 Speaker 1: my bedroom frame right now, because it's it's very compact. 388 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:51,040 Speaker 1: I guess Carrie's department is probably the most because you 389 00:25:51,119 --> 00:25:53,600 Speaker 1: see the bedroom in the like the living room is connected, 390 00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:56,240 Speaker 1: it's not separate. And then they have a bathroom in 391 00:25:56,320 --> 00:26:01,320 Speaker 1: a kitchen, but still it was like, still, that's that's expensive, 392 00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:03,280 Speaker 1: because I think she lives in a brownstone or something. 393 00:26:03,480 --> 00:26:07,520 Speaker 1: You're like, nah, that's not a definitely thing for the 394 00:26:07,560 --> 00:26:10,280 Speaker 1: people who were just starting out. But yeah. There was 395 00:26:10,320 --> 00:26:13,680 Speaker 1: so much in this episode about evolution and growing, which 396 00:26:13,760 --> 00:26:15,760 Speaker 1: is quite funny because as we look back on it, 397 00:26:15,840 --> 00:26:18,159 Speaker 1: it is very outdated and what they think is being 398 00:26:18,280 --> 00:26:21,920 Speaker 1: evolved between the trope we let's let's name all the 399 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,840 Speaker 1: tropes I was in there. Obviously the effeminate man being 400 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:30,000 Speaker 1: gay versus also the women having to hurry up and 401 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:33,440 Speaker 1: save their eggs or they're gonna be useless. What else? 402 00:26:33,520 --> 00:26:35,080 Speaker 1: What else? What are the other tropes we saw on 403 00:26:35,160 --> 00:26:40,560 Speaker 1: those There's so many good ones. Believing the shirt yeah, 404 00:26:40,640 --> 00:26:45,920 Speaker 1: the shirt, yeah, the territorial markets the thing, I feel 405 00:26:45,920 --> 00:26:49,520 Speaker 1: like that's always and yeah, but also the inability to 406 00:26:49,640 --> 00:26:57,000 Speaker 1: communicate so therefore you do things passive aggressively. Yeah. I 407 00:26:57,119 --> 00:26:59,119 Speaker 1: feel like the there was kind of a vibe with 408 00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:04,200 Speaker 1: Miranda the because she's the like business oriented one. She's 409 00:27:04,280 --> 00:27:07,760 Speaker 1: having this trouble with the lads of your wary um 410 00:27:08,080 --> 00:27:11,560 Speaker 1: where she's being punished for like putting her job first. 411 00:27:12,800 --> 00:27:16,520 Speaker 1: I've punished, but like the conversation being, oh, you put 412 00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:20,000 Speaker 1: your job first, here's the cost, which you know, there's 413 00:27:20,040 --> 00:27:22,440 Speaker 1: a there's a legitimate conversation you can have about that. 414 00:27:22,480 --> 00:27:24,520 Speaker 1: But it felt much more like, I guess I'll date this. 415 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:31,639 Speaker 1: It implied douchebag that's been harassing her for would have 416 00:27:31,800 --> 00:27:36,440 Speaker 1: a baby, to possibly have a baby, which should possibly 417 00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:39,280 Speaker 1: have a baby. It's a whole thing throughout I will 418 00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:43,880 Speaker 1: say eventually, I'm just saying, Okay, let maybe you think 419 00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:45,560 Speaker 1: of I don't know if you guys watched like New 420 00:27:45,600 --> 00:27:48,520 Speaker 1: Girl at all, they had like a similar arc in 421 00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:51,359 Speaker 1: that with one of the characters. It was very odd, 422 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:52,879 Speaker 1: and then she turned out to be able to have 423 00:27:53,000 --> 00:27:59,720 Speaker 1: tons of babies. Yeah, yeah, definitely not at that point 424 00:27:59,800 --> 00:28:03,280 Speaker 1: in my life yet. But I'm just very It's it's interesting. 425 00:28:03,400 --> 00:28:06,119 Speaker 1: I His reaction though, is definitely like I feel like 426 00:28:06,200 --> 00:28:08,960 Speaker 1: that's I don't. I also maybe this is me being 427 00:28:09,240 --> 00:28:12,119 Speaker 1: not even not interacting with straight mud as much, but 428 00:28:12,280 --> 00:28:15,840 Speaker 1: like I feel like I'm not that's not as shocking 429 00:28:15,920 --> 00:28:18,480 Speaker 1: any bore to be like, oh, like some people freeze 430 00:28:18,520 --> 00:28:22,440 Speaker 1: their eggs or like some people, you know, there's a 431 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:26,600 Speaker 1: lot of modern medicine is great, Right, there's lots of 432 00:28:26,640 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 1: alternatives for you, because I get the whole like wanting 433 00:28:29,000 --> 00:28:30,560 Speaker 1: to be a relationship to have a kid. But at 434 00:28:30,560 --> 00:28:32,760 Speaker 1: the same time, I'm like, whenever this sort of trope 435 00:28:32,800 --> 00:28:34,120 Speaker 1: comes up, it was like the same with me, girl, 436 00:28:34,160 --> 00:28:35,520 Speaker 1: I was like, why I don't even look into like 437 00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:40,480 Speaker 1: just getting a sperm downer, Like like that's never part 438 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:43,560 Speaker 1: of the conversation. It's like, if you want kids, it's 439 00:28:43,560 --> 00:28:45,320 Speaker 1: always coming and has to come with the man or 440 00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,560 Speaker 1: show like I don't know. Yeah, right, it was interesting. 441 00:28:48,880 --> 00:28:51,000 Speaker 1: It was it would It's definitely interesting. And at Lisa 442 00:28:51,040 --> 00:28:54,320 Speaker 1: couple them because the conversation starts out with a lesbian 443 00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:57,360 Speaker 1: couple going to treatment because they wanted to they want 444 00:28:57,400 --> 00:29:00,760 Speaker 1: a baby, and then all that stuff and like you 445 00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:02,920 Speaker 1: you only have a certain amount of time, let me 446 00:29:03,000 --> 00:29:04,760 Speaker 1: tell you this, but like it had to be a 447 00:29:04,840 --> 00:29:08,440 Speaker 1: couple committed, a couple before they even had that conversation. 448 00:29:08,600 --> 00:29:12,240 Speaker 1: And then yeah, CC who is the character goes into 449 00:29:12,440 --> 00:29:17,640 Speaker 1: like a dating spree, matchups free to find her perfect mate. 450 00:29:18,080 --> 00:29:20,320 Speaker 1: But yeah, I think it's interesting. But I know, we 451 00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:23,400 Speaker 1: haven't talked much about this. This didn't really get brought 452 00:29:23,480 --> 00:29:27,320 Speaker 1: up here, but the fact that with this anti reproductive 453 00:29:27,360 --> 00:29:32,040 Speaker 1: healthcare movement, it does push back on seagacy as well 454 00:29:32,160 --> 00:29:35,520 Speaker 1: as IVF treatments and such as that a little bit 455 00:29:35,760 --> 00:29:37,600 Speaker 1: a lot more than you would think, and it could 456 00:29:37,680 --> 00:29:41,600 Speaker 1: affect the laws. There's a lot of laws possibly undermining 457 00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:45,760 Speaker 1: any of those things in the future. But again, this 458 00:29:45,880 --> 00:29:47,640 Speaker 1: is where we go a little dark. I go there, 459 00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:52,600 Speaker 1: but there's yeah, there's a whole lot of stuff that's 460 00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:55,000 Speaker 1: not that we have to think on. But yeah, in 461 00:29:55,160 --> 00:30:00,440 Speaker 1: this episode, it meant turning into really bad choice of 462 00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:04,640 Speaker 1: men in order to be able to be a full woman. 463 00:30:04,920 --> 00:30:08,120 Speaker 1: I guess it's the idea. Yeah, And we've talked about 464 00:30:08,160 --> 00:30:11,440 Speaker 1: this before, Joey, but a lot of times at the 465 00:30:11,520 --> 00:30:14,080 Speaker 1: end of these it's it's kind of what would seem 466 00:30:14,160 --> 00:30:15,840 Speaker 1: like a frivolous thing in a lot of ways, but 467 00:30:15,880 --> 00:30:18,080 Speaker 1: it was very important when it came out, and like, 468 00:30:18,200 --> 00:30:21,440 Speaker 1: obviously we've come a long way, but well we'll talk 469 00:30:21,440 --> 00:30:23,200 Speaker 1: about the damn meaning of life at the end of 470 00:30:23,200 --> 00:30:26,160 Speaker 1: these sometimes, like we're still having these conversations, just kind 471 00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:31,400 Speaker 1: of differently more evolved. You might say, oh, yeah, yeah, 472 00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:34,480 Speaker 1: I mean I'm totally I'm totally been critical of this, 473 00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:37,160 Speaker 1: but also I like I totally respect how this show 474 00:30:37,200 --> 00:30:39,640 Speaker 1: I like had such a big impact on like it 475 00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:41,680 Speaker 1: was one of the first shows I like really talked 476 00:30:41,720 --> 00:30:45,080 Speaker 1: about sex and sectuality for like women, right women, and 477 00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:48,840 Speaker 1: the fact that they had choices. Yeah, that's that would 478 00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:52,240 Speaker 1: begin a whole new conversation of like living. Of course, 479 00:30:52,280 --> 00:30:54,880 Speaker 1: it's very privileged people who are having these choices, and 480 00:30:55,040 --> 00:30:57,680 Speaker 1: that's a different conversation in itself. But yeah, it's like 481 00:30:58,560 --> 00:31:02,040 Speaker 1: having a moment of free in knowing that just because 482 00:31:02,360 --> 00:31:05,800 Speaker 1: you do like sex doesn't make you a bad person, 483 00:31:05,840 --> 00:31:07,880 Speaker 1: and just because it doesn't mean marriage, which is not 484 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:11,520 Speaker 1: a bad thing. This is the quite a beginning, especially 485 00:31:11,520 --> 00:31:14,240 Speaker 1: in the nineties, after all the sitcoms were differently like 486 00:31:14,440 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 1: the Wholesome Family sitcoms, and then you had this on HBO. 487 00:31:19,560 --> 00:31:22,360 Speaker 1: So you know, yeah, I definitely did a lot of markers. 488 00:31:22,640 --> 00:31:26,360 Speaker 1: Is it still problematic, yes, yes, yes, and we have 489 00:31:26,440 --> 00:31:29,160 Speaker 1: to talk about that. But it did open some doors 490 00:31:29,360 --> 00:31:33,600 Speaker 1: for sure in this topic and conversation. Yeah, yeah, you 491 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:36,920 Speaker 1: should come back, Joey. I'm so fun. I have seen 492 00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,560 Speaker 1: it and it's just fun to be like, look at 493 00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:41,360 Speaker 1: this nineties Like I usually I'm the one that's like, 494 00:31:41,400 --> 00:31:44,360 Speaker 1: look at that Godzilla nineteen ninety eight poster. Here's a 495 00:31:44,440 --> 00:31:49,520 Speaker 1: hard two and it's only gonna keep growing. And I'm 496 00:31:49,560 --> 00:31:51,640 Speaker 1: so excited that you are able to come on. Joey. 497 00:31:51,800 --> 00:31:53,880 Speaker 1: We definitely need you to back be back on. We 498 00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,520 Speaker 1: need Christina back on. We haven't had Maya yet. You 499 00:31:56,600 --> 00:31:58,600 Speaker 1: gotta have them. Maybe we should do as a whoping panel. 500 00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:02,600 Speaker 1: I don't know how much of them a mess fun, 501 00:32:02,680 --> 00:32:05,560 Speaker 1: but it would be a whole thing. Christina's like, I'll 502 00:32:05,680 --> 00:32:10,200 Speaker 1: never edit this Elber. That's just for our own benefit. 503 00:32:12,080 --> 00:32:14,680 Speaker 1: We never published it. It's just take it out having fun. 504 00:32:17,160 --> 00:32:19,920 Speaker 1: Kind of my excuse. But yes, thank you for coming on. 505 00:32:20,760 --> 00:32:25,080 Speaker 1: I hope you enjoyed it as Yeah I did. I did. Yeah, 506 00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:28,760 Speaker 1: I would totally totally come out of God for they 507 00:32:29,120 --> 00:32:32,640 Speaker 1: got a winner. Yes, well I'm gonna say I got 508 00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:40,560 Speaker 1: a gold star for this one. You too, Joey, thank you, Yes, 509 00:32:41,560 --> 00:32:45,280 Speaker 1: as always, thanks for joining us, Joey. Where can listens 510 00:32:45,280 --> 00:32:50,040 Speaker 1: fine too? Yeah, you can find me on Instagram or 511 00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:53,840 Speaker 1: Twitter at pat not Pratt that is p A t 512 00:32:54,040 --> 00:32:57,600 Speaker 1: t n O T p r A t T yeah, 513 00:32:57,880 --> 00:33:01,040 Speaker 1: or follow the sminthy tech talk at stuff Mom never 514 00:33:01,120 --> 00:33:04,800 Speaker 1: told you on TikTok. Yeah, I'm also there. Yes, Joey 515 00:33:04,960 --> 00:33:07,440 Speaker 1: has been very kind and help us start that then 516 00:33:07,560 --> 00:33:13,120 Speaker 1: run it, and we have not forgotten about bringing a 517 00:33:13,200 --> 00:33:16,040 Speaker 1: listener on. We promised we're keeping your names. They're in there. 518 00:33:16,200 --> 00:33:20,120 Speaker 1: This was actually Joey was helping us test our technology, 519 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 1: so thanks for that as well. But yes, yes, don't worry. 520 00:33:23,560 --> 00:33:26,000 Speaker 1: That is coming in the meantime. If you would like 521 00:33:26,040 --> 00:33:28,760 Speaker 1: to contact us, you can our emails stuff Edia Mom 522 00:33:28,800 --> 00:33:30,760 Speaker 1: Stuff at iheartmeta dot com. You can find us on 523 00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:35,479 Speaker 1: Twitter at momsa podcast, or on TikTok and Instagram at 524 00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,760 Speaker 1: stuff Mom Never Told You Awesome. On YouTube, we have 525 00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:42,920 Speaker 1: a book coming out. Look that up. Thanks as always 526 00:33:42,960 --> 00:33:46,840 Speaker 1: too our superproducer Christina, our executive producer Maya, and to 527 00:33:47,040 --> 00:33:51,600 Speaker 1: Joey for all of your help. Yes, thank y'all, and 528 00:33:52,000 --> 00:33:54,240 Speaker 1: thanks to you for listening. 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