Speaker 1: What's happy our listeners. I'm one of your hosts, Becca
Speaker 1: Goo Friends, and I'm Michelle Young, and you are listening
Speaker 1: to Boucher Happy Hour exclusively on Wondery Plus. Yeah. So
Speaker 1: we are so happy to be here with you, and
Speaker 1: I'm excited because Becca, today we're answering fan questions and
Speaker 1: we do have some fun ones. So should we get
Speaker 1: right to it? Apps positively, tutely yes, these are always
Speaker 1: my favorite episodes. Honestly they are. I love I just
Speaker 1: love hearing these questions. Some of them are so good. Um,
Speaker 1: let's just take it away. We have a couple here
Speaker 1: that you have either DMed us about or email us about.
Speaker 1: So let's start with this first one. Michelle, what is
Speaker 1: your go to Boucher watch party snack or cocktail or both? Oh? Okay,
Speaker 1: so I'd say my favorite snack would probably have to
Speaker 1: be I don't know if this is a Minnesota thing,
Speaker 1: but you take like chips and you melt cheese on
Speaker 1: top of it, Like you take a little shred of cheese,
Speaker 1: melt on top of it, and then you have salsa
Speaker 1: on the side. Oh, it's just like chips and cheese
Speaker 1: and salsa. It's like eat all the time. Growing up,
Speaker 1: My dad would make it all the time when we'd
Speaker 1: watch like movies and stuff. So that's definitely like my
Speaker 1: weekly snack. Do you do it with doritos and like
Speaker 1: make them extra cheesy? Honestly, I've never done it with doritos, Michelle,
Speaker 1: you have to try it next this next week, okay,
Speaker 1: really like, but like I'm dipping it in salsa, doritos,
Speaker 1: cheese and sala extra seasoning. It's so good. That's what
Speaker 1: we grew grew eating too, Oh my gosh. And like
Speaker 1: if you get the cheese like extra cheesey crispy, it's
Speaker 1: so much better. Oh okay, I'll have to try that.
Speaker 1: What's your cock My cocktail would honestly probably either like
Speaker 1: if I'm drinking wine or some type of like margarita.
Speaker 1: But I've been going healthy lately, as you could tell
Speaker 1: by my snack choice, so it's so it's honestly just
Speaker 1: been like some type of like water with lemon. Wow,
Speaker 1: you're the epitome of health. Hey, look how about you
Speaker 1: go to snack? Go to snack? Oh man, I'm just
Speaker 1: such a snacker. I will literally eat anything. Um. Lately,
Speaker 1: I have been on a extra toasty cheese at Binge.
Speaker 1: I am obsessed with the still I got hooked when
Speaker 1: I was on tour and I just need like something
Speaker 1: to crunch on. So I just like those. Yeah, I
Speaker 1: don't know what it is. Um, I probably should be
Speaker 1: like eating carrots or something, but at least cheesets are
Speaker 1: orange too. And then cocktail, I would say, well, everyone
Speaker 1: knows I love wine. I love the bubbles, so I'm
Speaker 1: usually always drinking my Wineline Bordone for those of you
Speaker 1: who haven't heard of it, you can buy it at
Speaker 1: bordone dot com. Drink Bourdonne. But yeah, I just I
Speaker 1: always just have the bubbles. I don't know, it's just
Speaker 1: it's like my go too, it's me. Have you ever
Speaker 1: had the I think it's made by health Aid kombucha
Speaker 1: And like for anyone who's on like health kick and
Speaker 1: like doesn't want to drink wine during the week or
Speaker 1: its like on that whatever whatever thirty day challenge thing
Speaker 1: that you can't have alcohol, health Aid makes a rose
Speaker 1: kombucha and if you pour it in a wine glass,
Speaker 1: it is perfect, Like it's it's amazing. That's sounds delicious.
Speaker 1: But let me ask you this with kombucha, because it's tea.
Speaker 1: Does it keep you up at night with the caffeine? No,
Speaker 1: it doesn't. I don't know. I'm very caffeine sensitive, and
Speaker 1: so I don't, like I haven't had any issues with it.
Speaker 1: I don't even know how many milligrams of caffeine it
Speaker 1: actually hasn't it? As I say, I'm caffeine sensitive, sensitive,
Speaker 1: and I'm like drinking celsius and like shaking to death.
Speaker 1: But no, okay, maybe I'll give it a go. But yeah,
Speaker 1: I cannot sleep at night if I have like any
Speaker 1: sort of tea obviously can't do coffee past like one pm.
Speaker 1: But that sounds delicious. So I'll talk to up and
Speaker 1: I'll get back to you. Okay, thank you, Michelle. So
Speaker 1: you have now been living in LA for about a month.
Speaker 1: How is that going? Like are you feeling settled? Have
Speaker 1: you had any highlights lowlights? You say that I've been
Speaker 1: living in LA for a month, and I think I've
Speaker 1: maybe spent a total of like six full days in
Speaker 1: LA with all the traveling. That's true. During that time,
Speaker 1: I have gotten like everything set up so like I
Speaker 1: I'm in Becca's old house and so it's been so
Speaker 1: nice to have like all the essentials there, and now
Speaker 1: I'm like getting to the point where like I'm going
Speaker 1: to start doing a little bit of decorating. And it's
Speaker 1: been like putting together furniture and like stands and like
Speaker 1: ordering a dinner table and things like that, and so
Speaker 1: I'm like really st arting to feel like it's becoming
Speaker 1: home and now, but it's been It's just I don't know,
Speaker 1: it's nice and I've door dashed way too much already
Speaker 1: because I don't have my car yet. My car and
Speaker 1: my dog are going to be coming like at the
Speaker 1: end of the month, and so yeah, Dordash has been
Speaker 1: pretty pretty insane. But I've got a lot of really
Speaker 1: good food. Good there are so many good spots where
Speaker 1: you are. I mean, yeah, like you're right, well, I'm
Speaker 1: not going to give names, but there are so many
Speaker 1: I'll have to send you a list of recommendations too.
Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm so happy you're enjoying it. I feel
Speaker 1: like I've never felt like such a landlord in my life.
Speaker 1: Like Michelle will call me and be like the AC's
Speaker 1: out or like what about this, and I'm like, I
Speaker 1: don't know, this is not anything I've ever had to
Speaker 1: deal with, because if I'm being completely honest, Michelle. So
Speaker 1: I bought the house I closed. I was literally in
Speaker 1: the process of buying that house when I was in
Speaker 1: Paradise last year. So like that's what I thought. One
Speaker 1: of the producers every now and again would pull me
Speaker 1: out of like a group chat or an interview and
Speaker 1: be like him, your reeler's calling you, or your broker's
Speaker 1: calling you. You have to sign these documents. So the
Speaker 1: day I left Paradise was the day I officially closed
Speaker 1: on the house that you're living in. But I right
Speaker 1: after that got back together with Thomas and we were
Speaker 1: like back and forth between my place and San Diego
Speaker 1: that you've probably been in that house about the same
Speaker 1: amount of time that I, like actually formerly proberly lived
Speaker 1: in it. And so it's so funny. Thomas made that
Speaker 1: comment the other day. He's like, Michelle has been in
Speaker 1: that house probably just as long as you have, and
Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, that is so funny. I yeah, I
Speaker 1: love it. And I so it's like a two bedroom,
Speaker 1: two and a half bath, and the second bedroom has
Speaker 1: one of like you know, like that Murphy bed for
Speaker 1: like all the listeners. It has like the Murphy bed
Speaker 1: that can fold down and up. But I've made that
Speaker 1: like my podcasting slash styling room, and so like I
Speaker 1: have one of those cart the wardrobe rad wardrobe racks
Speaker 1: thank you, that has like all of my dresses for
Speaker 1: like these events coming up, and I have like a
Speaker 1: large mirror in there, and I have my desk and
Speaker 1: then like my heels and like stylists will come in
Speaker 1: and set up like all the shoes that I need
Speaker 1: to like try on for like these like carpet events
Speaker 1: and stuff. So it's like I'm loving having that second
Speaker 1: room as like my little personal closet. I love that.
Speaker 1: Will you please take videos or some photos because I
Speaker 1: never I never even got around to doing that, but
Speaker 1: I want to see like the difference of how you
Speaker 1: now decorate and style everything versus what the bones that
Speaker 1: I had when I was there. Absolutely yes, I'm planning
Speaker 1: making some like tiktoks with it too, so I'll definitely
Speaker 1: get that. I want to add. Okay, so you just
Speaker 1: mentioned that you have all these red carpets and appearances
Speaker 1: coming up. Please tell me because when I like haven't
Speaker 1: done that many just because I don't say yes to
Speaker 1: a lot of stuff because I just find those exhausting.
Speaker 1: Do you drive off of that or like, how do
Speaker 1: you feel about always doing red carpets appearances? Like being
Speaker 1: so like lively out and about. I am so extroverted
Speaker 1: that I get my energy, like I almost recharge when
Speaker 1: I'm around people. I will say though, that this show
Speaker 1: has made me become a little more introverted, just because
Speaker 1: every time you're out and about, you kind of feel
Speaker 1: like you have to be on and so that's hard
Speaker 1: as well. But I definitely get tired of like wearing
Speaker 1: makeup and dresses and things like that. But I also
Speaker 1: for me, it's kind of like a mindset thing. I
Speaker 1: really embrace like these experiences of you know, like you
Speaker 1: don't get to do this stuff. And it's like it's
Speaker 1: not the fact that like, you know, I've changed or
Speaker 1: I want to, you know, be a part of this
Speaker 1: life more than my old life. It's just more of
Speaker 1: like it is a cool experience and like when else
Speaker 1: do you get to do this stuff? Um? But I
Speaker 1: will also say I definitely get tired. Yeah, Like it's
Speaker 1: a lot because there's so many hours that get put
Speaker 1: into like finding a dress and you have to make
Speaker 1: sure your nails are done or not done. Like I
Speaker 1: literally like I have like half of my nails on
Speaker 1: and then I had to like stick other nails on
Speaker 1: because I didn't have time, and then half my nails
Speaker 1: are broken. So I'm like walk in the red carpet
Speaker 1: with broken nails, like to walk in my hands. Let
Speaker 1: me pur something with pockets, right, But it's just like
Speaker 1: it's a lot. It's like hair, makeup everything. So it's
Speaker 1: like it's probably gonna be a minute till I do
Speaker 1: my next event or so, but well, we'll have to go.
Speaker 1: We'll have to go together. It's nice when you can
Speaker 1: go with like people that you know, oh yeah, never
Speaker 1: on your own, right, it's fun. Yeah, well okay, let's
Speaker 1: let's ask this. And how about it's like favorite place
Speaker 1: from somebody else's season that you wish you could have
Speaker 1: gone to, favorite place from somebody else's season, um, any where,
Speaker 1: literally anywhere. I'm like, that is one thing that I
Speaker 1: feel like not I guess envious isn't the correct word.
Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know, but just like missing it by
Speaker 1: this much to like getting to travel the world. And
Speaker 1: I think Becky, you and I have spoken about this,
Speaker 1: Like Nimicole in Pennsylvania, California, Indian World, Minnesota, in Mexico,
Speaker 1: it's like damn. And then you know, you see all
Speaker 1: these like Paris and all these beautiful places. So I
Speaker 1: don't know anywhere anywhere, anywhere anywhere? What about you? Well,
Speaker 1: I think it was on, so I didn't. I started
Speaker 1: watching the show on and off, like I would watch
Speaker 1: it in college with my roommates because they loved the show.
Speaker 1: And then like once I moved out, I stopped watching it.
Speaker 1: So it's like so on and off, and I think
Speaker 1: it was Emily Maynard season, I believe where she went
Speaker 1: to Saint Lucia and it looked so beautiful and I
Speaker 1: just remember like seeing a part where I think she
Speaker 1: was doing some b roll and like walked out of
Speaker 1: her hotel room and like the beautiful mountains are just
Speaker 1: in the back. So I've always wanted to go to
Speaker 1: Saint Lucia. That like has been on my bucket list
Speaker 1: travel place because just from that um And again, like
Speaker 1: I could be wrong, I think it was her season.
Speaker 1: I'm sure everyone will correct me very shortly if this
Speaker 1: is a different season, but yeah, Saint Lucia Lucia definitely
Speaker 1: is on that list. Has anyone has anyone do you
Speaker 1: remember if it has anyone traveled to Switzerland during their season.
Speaker 1: I don't know, that's like my place. Well, but denying
Speaker 1: to travel to next I was curious. I think Rachel
Speaker 1: might have. I could be wrong too, I think Rachel
Speaker 1: Lindsay may have fiba. Um but okay, oh okay, wait
Speaker 1: this question. So somebody asked Becca, if you could set
Speaker 1: Michelle up with anyone from Bachuration, who would it be? Okay,
Speaker 1: oh wow, this is interesting. Um, this is funny. Honestly,
Speaker 1: no one, Um, thank you, thank you. I would say
Speaker 1: no one, but only because I know you and like
Speaker 1: I have, I have some people who like I consider
Speaker 1: brothers and close friends in this world that I've done
Speaker 1: the tour with, who I absolutely adore, but I don't
Speaker 1: know if they would be a fit for you. So
Speaker 1: I would personally rather set you up with somebody that's
Speaker 1: like maybe a cousin of Thomas's, so then we can
Speaker 1: basically be family one day if it all works. It
Speaker 1: sounds like you're scheming. Okay, I'm gone to that. Yeah.
Speaker 1: That that answers the next question. If I would ever
Speaker 1: go to Bachelor in Paradise, like, there would have to
Speaker 1: be something. There's just like nobody that I'm interested in
Speaker 1: right now. Well, that's the world there, doesn't need to
Speaker 1: be And like you went through a breakup, a very
Speaker 1: public one at that you just need some time on
Speaker 1: your own to date or not date on your own.
Speaker 1: But I will say, if you ever did consider going
Speaker 1: on Paradise, I mean when I did it, I was
Speaker 1: a few years removed from my season, which I think
Speaker 1: helped because I literally went in and I don't, like,
Speaker 1: this is going to sound bad, not giving the fuck
Speaker 1: and like not caring and just like not having any expectations.
Speaker 1: I went in being like, some of my girlfriends are
Speaker 1: going to be on that beach, some of my best
Speaker 1: friends who are the producers are there. It's gonna be
Speaker 1: great food. Like I went in with zero expectation of
Speaker 1: like finding a partner. So I feel like and also
Speaker 1: it took time for me to get there, like it
Speaker 1: wasn't like it took me a hot second, and so
Speaker 1: you could get there one day, who knows if you do.
Speaker 1: I would fully support you. I would never say that,
Speaker 1: like I would never close the door, like I joke
Speaker 1: about closing the door, but like potentially in the future,
Speaker 1: possibly if I was called up right now I'd be
Speaker 1: like no, because you also know everybody. Okay, you don't
Speaker 1: know everybody to extent, but you know who's in Bachelor Nation.
Speaker 1: And it's also like everybody most recent you know, how
Speaker 1: everybody gets off the season. I feel like, at least
Speaker 1: for the guys anyways, I feel like the guys go
Speaker 1: through this phase is they get off the season, everybody's
Speaker 1: out clubbing, everybody's out in their attention that they're getting
Speaker 1: and it's like I don't want that, Like I don't
Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like it call it a phase,
Speaker 1: whatever it is, get it out of your system. Like
Speaker 1: that's totally fine, there's nothing wrong with that. I just
Speaker 1: don't think it's that that's the right time for someone
Speaker 1: to choose to settle down. I don't see an evening
Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation that's like, you know, that's okay, honestly, Like
Speaker 1: take it from somebody who went in not having any expectations.
Speaker 1: I ended up meeting my fiance from Paradise, which I
Speaker 1: never ever ever would have thought it, Like I never
Speaker 1: thought I was going on Paradise to begin with. But
Speaker 1: the fact that like I found Thomas through that, Like
Speaker 1: you never know who will surprise you. But it is
Speaker 1: funny because I was walking on a red carpet someone
Speaker 1: asked me the same question, would you ever go on
Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise, And like, without even missing a beat,
Speaker 1: I was like, hell no, And I was like, but
Speaker 1: it did work for back On Thomas. So I like,
Speaker 1: I can understand that. I went immediately to you guys,
Speaker 1: and I learned I should never say no because every
Speaker 1: time I say, like, shut the door, hell no, definitely
Speaker 1: not happening. The opposite ali sense of happening in some
Speaker 1: way somehow. So I'm like, I just have to stop
Speaker 1: saying no. So I'm just trying to reverse psychology life
Speaker 1: right now, so then I can just hurry up and
Speaker 1: find my person. Yeah, that's that's what's happening. Well, All
Speaker 1: in good time, Michelle, All in good time. You are
Speaker 1: enjoying your single life in La Like, there's so much
Speaker 1: fun things happen, so many fun things. Oh wow, I
Speaker 1: cannot speak what are words right now? There's so many
Speaker 1: fun things happening for you. So just focus on you
Speaker 1: for a little bit, travel, have fun, like soak everything
Speaker 1: in and you know, all in good time exact when
Speaker 1: you're not looking, that's when it all takes place. I
Speaker 1: feel like, yes, a thousand percent. Okay, back the next
Speaker 1: question for you. Do you have a guilty pleasure? I
Speaker 1: have a thousand guilty pleasures. Yes, yes I do. I
Speaker 1: would say my guilty pleasure. I don't even know if
Speaker 1: this is guilty. I mean, and this is no shock.
Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with true crime obsessed like I'm Joey podcasts.
Speaker 1: I love crime documentaries, like the Dahmer documentary gets me
Speaker 1: like I just started, It's what episode started? It? Just
Speaker 1: like see episode one today this morning, have fun, text
Speaker 1: to me all about it when you're watching it. It's
Speaker 1: freaking wild wild. But that is definitely my guilty pleasure.
Speaker 1: Like I know too much about serial killers. It's like
Speaker 1: my mom actually yells at me to be like you
Speaker 1: shouldn't know this much, but I just like, yeah, it's
Speaker 1: just so I would say that's one of my guilty pleasures. Um,
Speaker 1: what about yours? Okay, we are very similar in this
Speaker 1: is because I have so much to say. Yes, crime
Speaker 1: just it's so fascinating. But do you ever catch yourself
Speaker 1: before I tell you my other one of my other
Speaker 1: guilty pleasures? Do you ever catch yourself? Um? Like you'll
Speaker 1: be driving, and or you like walk into a restroom
Speaker 1: at like a rest stop or at a gas station
Speaker 1: and like somebody else walks in, and because you're so
Speaker 1: used to like watching all this crime stuff, like you
Speaker 1: make note of like they're wearing like a red collared
Speaker 1: shirt and like the types of shoes, so that like
Speaker 1: at this time and yes, okay, listen crime drunk, he's
Speaker 1: one to one, be weird, be rude, and stay alive
Speaker 1: and pay attention to detail, oh all the time. And
Speaker 1: that's like I think, like I think some people obviously
Speaker 1: get very creeped out by it, but like I also
Speaker 1: want to know what I'm up against, and like I
Speaker 1: want to learn from things in the past. So I'm
Speaker 1: every time I walk my know or leo, now I
Speaker 1: always only have one earbuton I need to make sure
Speaker 1: I can like listen behind me take note of everything,
Speaker 1: like yeah, oh yeah, I'm like if I ever need
Speaker 1: to make a call, I will give you height, weight, tentative, age,
Speaker 1: what color I somebody had, like anything I use yet
Speaker 1: anything all of us always on the lurch a right.
Speaker 1: I feel like I had another guilty pleasure that I
Speaker 1: was thinking about the other day that I was like, oh,
Speaker 1: this is definitely something I shouldn't admit. But now I
Speaker 1: can't even remember what a guilty pleasure. I'm trying to
Speaker 1: think of one outside of the crab. I mean mine
Speaker 1: is very much just like probably junk food. Yeah, like
Speaker 1: I'm very very healthy, but like I go in junk
Speaker 1: food phases of like right now, mine's like donuts. So yeah,
Speaker 1: like I love it. Guilty, that's just a pleasure different,
Speaker 1: that's not even I don't know. I don't feel guilty
Speaker 1: about it. I just I'm like cool, I well everyone knows.
Speaker 1: Minus Chipotle. I literally go to Chipotle every weekle How
Speaker 1: we haven't done it Chipotle check in in a while,
Speaker 1: have you been, Like I'm paying rent at Chipotle. I'm
Speaker 1: always there every single day, every single day, Thomas night.
Speaker 1: Because yeah, because I got that card, we are there
Speaker 1: all the time. They know us like by name and order. Now, lovely,
Speaker 1: I might as well just work here, But that's you
Speaker 1: don't need to because you have a gold card now. No,
Speaker 1: but I kind of love it, Like I would like
Speaker 1: to leave work smelling like Chipole in my hair. You know,
Speaker 1: it's a good sense. I'm just gonna say, you're about
Speaker 1: to come up with like a Chipotle. They do have
Speaker 1: a Chipotle candle, actually do they? Yeah, I might have
Speaker 1: to send it to you. I don't know what it
Speaker 1: smells like. But Ryan, Ryan Klaytor, she sent it. She
Speaker 1: sent a picture to me and she's like, I feel
Speaker 1: like this is something that you would get, Michelle, And
Speaker 1: I was like, I'll have to send this to Becca.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Yes. If it smells like an actual
Speaker 1: chicken burrito, sign me wild or like the lime cilantro
Speaker 1: rice or something like that. Anything. I just it smells
Speaker 1: like heaven when I walk in. Okay, Michelle, do you
Speaker 1: have a worst date story? And it can be from
Speaker 1: the show or just like personally dating a worst date story?
Speaker 1: I think I'm not going to pick one from the show.
Speaker 1: I would say, Okay, so my worst date story would
Speaker 1: it's nothing like necessarily crazy. But it was right after college,
Speaker 1: like I had graduated. I had been in a relationship
Speaker 1: a lot of my college experience or whatever like for
Speaker 1: like three years, and so I just got out of college, graduated.
Speaker 1: I played sports in college, so I like really didn't
Speaker 1: like party or get to do like all those social
Speaker 1: things or whatever, and so like afterwards, like that time
Speaker 1: where I was, you know, transitioning into you know, going
Speaker 1: into education. It was the summer, so it's not like
Speaker 1: I could get a job right off the bat. I
Speaker 1: had to wait a little bit. But I had like
Speaker 1: started dating and it was just really really weird. And
Speaker 1: I went on this first date with this guy from
Speaker 1: Minnesota and we went out to eat. It was I
Speaker 1: can't even We went out to shoot what is it
Speaker 1: called w WA frost I think is what it's called.
Speaker 1: It's like downtown somewhere, Okay, super cute patio was like fine,
Speaker 1: you know I kind of already like figured that I
Speaker 1: wouldn't be going on a second day, like did nothing wrong.
Speaker 1: Was a good looking guy. I think he was like
Speaker 1: six seven, like super tall, athletic, all this other stuff.
Speaker 1: But he was like a yes many meaning that like
Speaker 1: everything I said, like he would just like mold into that.
Speaker 1: And so like he wasn't opinionated or was just like
Speaker 1: trying to connect so much that he had like no
Speaker 1: opinions of himself. And then when we were finished, it
Speaker 1: was like one of those situations where he forgot his wallet,
Speaker 1: which is fine, right, but he forgot his wallet. We
Speaker 1: came outside, like his his car ended up like breaking down,
Speaker 1: but it was a nice car, so it was just
Speaker 1: like this uncomfortable situation. And then by the time he
Speaker 1: dropped me off, he um like was trying to come inside,
Speaker 1: trying to come inside, trying to come inside, and I
Speaker 1: was like sorry, like I just like I was just
Speaker 1: so uncomfortable. And then he ended up like saying how
Speaker 1: he's never felt this way before, and like he said,
Speaker 1: I love you. Wait what he said, I love you?
Speaker 1: He just casually dropped it at the end of the conversation,
Speaker 1: like can I love you? No, No, he was talking
Speaker 1: to me like before, and like my foot was like
Speaker 1: my body was already halfway out the door of the car,
Speaker 1: like I'm ready to go, Like you know what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like I get, I get not even the ick, but
Speaker 1: like I don't open up very well, right, and I'm
Speaker 1: just like I get really uncomfortable, like once I know
Speaker 1: I don't like somebody, and if they're like coming on
Speaker 1: to me, I'm like, oh, like I'm like the people
Speaker 1: they love you, yeah yeah, And I was like, honestly,
Speaker 1: we had such great conversation and you know, like I
Speaker 1: feel so comfortable around you, and it's just so odd
Speaker 1: and I just like I am really into your energy
Speaker 1: and like, which is like, oh wonderful. I mean like
Speaker 1: the date wasn't horrible, but but yeah, and he's like,
Speaker 1: I'm I've never felt this way before, and like I
Speaker 1: need you to like pause for a second, like I
Speaker 1: have gone through a lot in my life, like I
Speaker 1: know what I want. And then yeah, he said, I
Speaker 1: really really think that, like I really think I know
Speaker 1: what this is. And I was just like, huh, because
Speaker 1: like I really do think that, like I believe in
Speaker 1: love at first sight. When I think that, like I'm
Speaker 1: starting to fall in love. I was like, let me
Speaker 1: ask you this. Now, have you ever grouped on him
Speaker 1: on Instagram? Like is he now engaged or married? Or
Speaker 1: like does he just moved really fast? Like have you
Speaker 1: do you know what is up with this man? In
Speaker 1: his O? No? Not no, not anymore. But it got
Speaker 1: to the point where like I had to block him
Speaker 1: from texting me my dad. My dad had to like
Speaker 1: I told him like I'm, I'm this is making me
Speaker 1: really uncomfortable, like I'm not there, like I just you know,
Speaker 1: tried to like let him down nicely. And he has
Speaker 1: sent these texts about like the balls in your court like,
Speaker 1: I'll wait for you to be ready to date my dad.
Speaker 1: I had to tell my dad. My dad almost had
Speaker 1: to get on the phone with him and tell him
Speaker 1: to like leave me alone, because he like wouldn't back off.
Speaker 1: If can you imagine if he would have stepped out
Speaker 1: of the limo on your season peace out? No, I
Speaker 1: mean I would have told him next, get back in.
Speaker 1: I would have been like, nope, absolutely, yeah, no, it
Speaker 1: was read the rule, you know, when someone's uncomfortable, like
Speaker 1: if a girl is saying, I'm physically uncomfortable with this, yeah, yikes. Okay,
Speaker 1: do you wait? Do you have a worst date story?
Speaker 1: Do you have an embarrassing story? Tell me? Oh, I
Speaker 1: have so many bad date stories. Where do you like,
Speaker 1: I don't even know what want to pick? Okay, there's
Speaker 1: one though that really sticks out. And this was before
Speaker 1: everyone on the show. I think I was twenty five
Speaker 1: and I went on with my name my Name. One
Speaker 1: of my best friends was living in an apartment building
Speaker 1: at the time, and we met her neighbor because this
Speaker 1: guy came by to like borrow a vacuum when I
Speaker 1: was there one day and I was like, oh, he's
Speaker 1: kind of cute, and she ended up giving him my
Speaker 1: number later on, so we went on a date. But
Speaker 1: it started off because so we had texted me. We
Speaker 1: planned like the day and time and location to meet
Speaker 1: great right before that he was like, hey, I don't
Speaker 1: remember what happened, Like he didn't have a car, and
Speaker 1: so he's like, can you come pick me up? And
Speaker 1: I'm like sure, that's fine whatever, So pick him up.
Speaker 1: We go to wherever we're eating dinner, and it was
Speaker 1: so bad. It was so bad. He was the type
Speaker 1: of guy that would not ask questions about you. He
Speaker 1: would just talk about himself. But he was also a
Speaker 1: finger liquor. Oh, so he would eat his food and
Speaker 1: then lick his fingers and I'm like, there are napkins
Speaker 1: for it, and it was so allowed and adop it
Speaker 1: all off. He ended up face timing his sister, Like
Speaker 1: I went to the bathroom really quick, came back and
Speaker 1: he was facetiming and his sister, which is one thing,
Speaker 1: Like I was gone, but then like he continued to
Speaker 1: stay on the phone with his sister for well after
Speaker 1: I sat down and I was like, still on this
Speaker 1: day with him? So what was he talking about with
Speaker 1: his sister? Was it like one of those situations. I
Speaker 1: don't know. People are on the phone and they want
Speaker 1: people to hear them talk. No, Michelle, I know exactly
Speaker 1: do you. This is what he was talking about, the questions.
Speaker 1: When I sat back down, he was talking to his
Speaker 1: sister about if she eats ice cream, does it make
Speaker 1: her cough? Like does eating cold foods make you cough?
Speaker 1: And I'm just like, this does not need to happen
Speaker 1: right now, But whatever I was, I wanted to hear
Speaker 1: what she had to say, and I was just like,
Speaker 1: this is not it. So end of the date, drop
Speaker 1: him off again, I'm like not into him. He was like,
Speaker 1: do you want to go grab a nightcap somewhere. I
Speaker 1: was like, nope, I'll bring you back by bring him
Speaker 1: drop him off at the front of his building and
Speaker 1: he leans over and tries to grab the back of
Speaker 1: my head for a kiss, and I was like, I
Speaker 1: was like, I'm not feeling this, No candy, buddy. So
Speaker 1: he got the hint he left. The next day, he
Speaker 1: texted me to be like, I had fun, want to
Speaker 1: go on another date. And by this point, I think
Speaker 1: it was like a Friday, so I was going out
Speaker 1: with some of my girlfriends who happened to be who
Speaker 1: like in the building that he lives with my friends,
Speaker 1: and so we all go out and apparently we're at
Speaker 1: one bar, Bar Louis. I think it's closed in Minneapolis.
Speaker 1: Now we're Bar Loui. And he had ended up texting
Speaker 1: one of my friends who was his neighbor, to be like, Hey,
Speaker 1: where are you guys at tonight? I'm going to come
Speaker 1: meet up with you. And so I rounded the corner
Speaker 1: and see him walking there and I'm like nope, and
Speaker 1: I booked the I was like, we're going to another bar.
Speaker 1: So we ended up just leaving. I was like, know,
Speaker 1: this guy is not it for me. Some of the
Speaker 1: stories he was telling me about his clients though, we're
Speaker 1: so disgusting. I was like, you should never tell anyone this,
Speaker 1: you should not even be representing these people. But like,
Speaker 1: you should not. No, I'm really curious, so like, off record,
Speaker 1: you might have to tell me. I'll tell you separately.
Speaker 1: I like, it's so disgusting. I like, don't it was?
Speaker 1: I should have just left right after that he told
Speaker 1: me this, But wait, what did he order for dinner? Like?
Speaker 1: What was he looking off his fingers? Um? So we
Speaker 1: had we shared a plate of nachos, and after I
Speaker 1: saw the finger looking, I was like, I don't need
Speaker 1: these nachos anymore. I don't remember what else we got,
Speaker 1: but I was, I was twenty five. It was it
Speaker 1: was a time in the life. I think I just
Speaker 1: like I had a couple of glasses of wine to
Speaker 1: not remember. But honestly, we're state stories and embarrassing stories.
Speaker 1: I think that's going to be my new guilty pleasure
Speaker 1: because I love that. I love that we had a
Speaker 1: website or the app fml. Yes. Yes, funny, so funny.
Speaker 1: And with that Happy Hour listener, we're going to wrap
Speaker 1: on such a high note of our worst date stories.
Speaker 1: Please write in and share yours because I would love
Speaker 1: to read some of these. Yes, but thank you to
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