WEBVTT - Ashley & Jared Return to ‘Paradise’ 0:00:02.240 --> 0:00:05.440 What's happy our listeners. I'm one of your hosts, Becca 0:00:05.519 --> 0:00:08.880 Goo Friends, and I'm Michelle Young, and you are listening 0:00:08.960 --> 0:00:12.560 to Boucher Happy Hour exclusively on Wondery Plus. Yeah. So 0:00:12.640 --> 0:00:15.080 we are so happy to be here with you, and 0:00:15.280 --> 0:00:20.440 I'm excited because Becca, today we're answering fan questions and 0:00:20.560 --> 0:00:22.840 we do have some fun ones. So should we get 0:00:22.920 --> 0:00:27.800 right to it? Apps positively, tutely yes, these are always 0:00:27.840 --> 0:00:31.320 my favorite episodes. Honestly they are. I love I just 0:00:31.520 --> 0:00:34.599 love hearing these questions. Some of them are so good. Um, 0:00:35.120 --> 0:00:36.960 let's just take it away. We have a couple here 0:00:37.040 --> 0:00:41.360 that you have either DMed us about or email us about. 0:00:41.479 --> 0:00:45.640 So let's start with this first one. Michelle, what is 0:00:45.720 --> 0:00:52.199 your go to Boucher watch party snack or cocktail or both? Oh? Okay, 0:00:52.320 --> 0:00:56.840 so I'd say my favorite snack would probably have to 0:00:56.880 --> 0:00:59.120 be I don't know if this is a Minnesota thing, 0:00:59.520 --> 0:01:02.840 but you take like chips and you melt cheese on 0:01:02.880 --> 0:01:04.920 top of it, Like you take a little shred of cheese, 0:01:04.959 --> 0:01:06.800 melt on top of it, and then you have salsa 0:01:06.880 --> 0:01:09.440 on the side. Oh, it's just like chips and cheese 0:01:09.440 --> 0:01:12.440 and salsa. It's like eat all the time. Growing up, 0:01:12.600 --> 0:01:14.119 My dad would make it all the time when we'd 0:01:14.120 --> 0:01:16.720 watch like movies and stuff. So that's definitely like my 0:01:16.760 --> 0:01:19.319 weekly snack. Do you do it with doritos and like 0:01:19.360 --> 0:01:24.400 make them extra cheesy? Honestly, I've never done it with doritos, Michelle, 0:01:24.480 --> 0:01:27.360 you have to try it next this next week, okay, 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:31.119 really like, but like I'm dipping it in salsa, doritos, 0:01:31.480 --> 0:01:34.959 cheese and sala extra seasoning. It's so good. That's what 0:01:35.040 --> 0:01:37.440 we grew grew eating too, Oh my gosh. And like 0:01:37.480 --> 0:01:40.319 if you get the cheese like extra cheesey crispy, it's 0:01:40.360 --> 0:01:43.119 so much better. Oh okay, I'll have to try that. 0:01:43.480 --> 0:01:48.440 What's your cock My cocktail would honestly probably either like 0:01:48.480 --> 0:01:52.040 if I'm drinking wine or some type of like margarita. 0:01:52.240 --> 0:01:54.640 But I've been going healthy lately, as you could tell 0:01:54.720 --> 0:02:00.280 by my snack choice, so it's so it's honestly just 0:02:00.480 --> 0:02:06.520 been like some type of like water with lemon. Wow, 0:02:06.680 --> 0:02:11.840 you're the epitome of health. Hey, look how about you 0:02:11.880 --> 0:02:15.960 go to snack? Go to snack? Oh man, I'm just 0:02:16.000 --> 0:02:19.800 such a snacker. I will literally eat anything. Um. Lately, 0:02:20.120 --> 0:02:25.120 I have been on a extra toasty cheese at Binge. 0:02:25.480 --> 0:02:30.040 I am obsessed with the still I got hooked when 0:02:30.040 --> 0:02:33.800 I was on tour and I just need like something 0:02:33.840 --> 0:02:37.000 to crunch on. So I just like those. Yeah, I 0:02:37.000 --> 0:02:38.880 don't know what it is. Um, I probably should be 0:02:38.880 --> 0:02:41.960 like eating carrots or something, but at least cheesets are 0:02:42.000 --> 0:02:47.400 orange too. And then cocktail, I would say, well, everyone 0:02:47.440 --> 0:02:50.640 knows I love wine. I love the bubbles, so I'm 0:02:50.800 --> 0:02:54.360 usually always drinking my Wineline Bordone for those of you 0:02:54.400 --> 0:02:56.079 who haven't heard of it, you can buy it at 0:02:56.440 --> 0:03:00.720 bordone dot com. Drink Bourdonne. But yeah, I just I 0:03:00.720 --> 0:03:03.040 always just have the bubbles. I don't know, it's just 0:03:03.360 --> 0:03:05.600 it's like my go too, it's me. Have you ever 0:03:05.800 --> 0:03:09.680 had the I think it's made by health Aid kombucha 0:03:09.720 --> 0:03:13.480 And like for anyone who's on like health kick and 0:03:13.560 --> 0:03:15.639 like doesn't want to drink wine during the week or 0:03:15.680 --> 0:03:19.440 its like on that whatever whatever thirty day challenge thing 0:03:19.480 --> 0:03:23.079 that you can't have alcohol, health Aid makes a rose 0:03:23.720 --> 0:03:26.880 kombucha and if you pour it in a wine glass, 0:03:27.240 --> 0:03:31.519 it is perfect, Like it's it's amazing. That's sounds delicious. 0:03:31.680 --> 0:03:36.000 But let me ask you this with kombucha, because it's tea. 0:03:36.200 --> 0:03:39.400 Does it keep you up at night with the caffeine? No, 0:03:39.760 --> 0:03:44.040 it doesn't. I don't know. I'm very caffeine sensitive, and 0:03:44.160 --> 0:03:46.560 so I don't, like I haven't had any issues with it. 0:03:46.920 --> 0:03:49.880 I don't even know how many milligrams of caffeine it 0:03:49.920 --> 0:03:53.600 actually hasn't it? As I say, I'm caffeine sensitive, sensitive, 0:03:53.600 --> 0:03:56.600 and I'm like drinking celsius and like shaking to death. 0:03:56.720 --> 0:04:00.280 But no, okay, maybe I'll give it a go. But yeah, 0:04:00.280 --> 0:04:02.240 I cannot sleep at night if I have like any 0:04:02.240 --> 0:04:05.280 sort of tea obviously can't do coffee past like one pm. 0:04:05.360 --> 0:04:07.720 But that sounds delicious. So I'll talk to up and 0:04:07.760 --> 0:04:11.000 I'll get back to you. Okay, thank you, Michelle. So 0:04:11.560 --> 0:04:15.600 you have now been living in LA for about a month. 0:04:15.800 --> 0:04:18.640 How is that going? Like are you feeling settled? Have 0:04:18.760 --> 0:04:22.720 you had any highlights lowlights? You say that I've been 0:04:22.760 --> 0:04:25.400 living in LA for a month, and I think I've 0:04:25.760 --> 0:04:28.640 maybe spent a total of like six full days in 0:04:28.800 --> 0:04:33.560 LA with all the traveling. That's true. During that time, 0:04:33.680 --> 0:04:37.120 I have gotten like everything set up so like I 0:04:37.120 --> 0:04:40.680 I'm in Becca's old house and so it's been so 0:04:40.839 --> 0:04:44.680 nice to have like all the essentials there, and now 0:04:44.680 --> 0:04:46.080 I'm like getting to the point where like I'm going 0:04:46.160 --> 0:04:49.960 to start doing a little bit of decorating. And it's 0:04:50.000 --> 0:04:54.080 been like putting together furniture and like stands and like 0:04:54.360 --> 0:04:58.080 ordering a dinner table and things like that, and so 0:04:58.240 --> 0:05:01.679 I'm like really st arting to feel like it's becoming 0:05:01.760 --> 0:05:05.440 home and now, but it's been It's just I don't know, 0:05:05.480 --> 0:05:08.799 it's nice and I've door dashed way too much already 0:05:08.800 --> 0:05:11.039 because I don't have my car yet. My car and 0:05:11.080 --> 0:05:13.000 my dog are going to be coming like at the 0:05:13.120 --> 0:05:17.240 end of the month, and so yeah, Dordash has been 0:05:17.240 --> 0:05:20.040 pretty pretty insane. But I've got a lot of really 0:05:20.040 --> 0:05:23.480 good food. Good there are so many good spots where 0:05:23.480 --> 0:05:25.920 you are. I mean, yeah, like you're right, well, I'm 0:05:25.920 --> 0:05:28.839 not going to give names, but there are so many 0:05:29.000 --> 0:05:31.080 I'll have to send you a list of recommendations too. 0:05:31.120 --> 0:05:35.880 But yeah, I'm so happy you're enjoying it. I feel 0:05:35.880 --> 0:05:38.080 like I've never felt like such a landlord in my life. 0:05:38.080 --> 0:05:40.400 Like Michelle will call me and be like the AC's 0:05:40.440 --> 0:05:42.800 out or like what about this, and I'm like, I 0:05:42.839 --> 0:05:44.880 don't know, this is not anything I've ever had to 0:05:44.920 --> 0:05:47.640 deal with, because if I'm being completely honest, Michelle. So 0:05:47.760 --> 0:05:51.320 I bought the house I closed. I was literally in 0:05:51.320 --> 0:05:53.600 the process of buying that house when I was in 0:05:53.720 --> 0:05:56.880 Paradise last year. So like that's what I thought. One 0:05:56.920 --> 0:05:59.560 of the producers every now and again would pull me 0:05:59.600 --> 0:06:02.200 out of like a group chat or an interview and 0:06:02.279 --> 0:06:05.320 be like him, your reeler's calling you, or your broker's 0:06:05.360 --> 0:06:08.040 calling you. You have to sign these documents. So the 0:06:08.160 --> 0:06:11.840 day I left Paradise was the day I officially closed 0:06:11.960 --> 0:06:15.080 on the house that you're living in. But I right 0:06:15.120 --> 0:06:16.960 after that got back together with Thomas and we were 0:06:17.000 --> 0:06:19.400 like back and forth between my place and San Diego 0:06:19.440 --> 0:06:22.400 that you've probably been in that house about the same 0:06:22.400 --> 0:06:27.400 amount of time that I, like actually formerly proberly lived 0:06:27.440 --> 0:06:29.280 in it. And so it's so funny. Thomas made that 0:06:29.279 --> 0:06:30.880 comment the other day. He's like, Michelle has been in 0:06:30.880 --> 0:06:33.240 that house probably just as long as you have, and 0:06:33.279 --> 0:06:37.600 I'm like, yeah, that is so funny. I yeah, I 0:06:37.680 --> 0:06:40.320 love it. And I so it's like a two bedroom, 0:06:40.680 --> 0:06:43.880 two and a half bath, and the second bedroom has 0:06:43.920 --> 0:06:46.320 one of like you know, like that Murphy bed for 0:06:46.400 --> 0:06:48.320 like all the listeners. It has like the Murphy bed 0:06:48.360 --> 0:06:50.600 that can fold down and up. But I've made that 0:06:50.720 --> 0:06:55.960 like my podcasting slash styling room, and so like I 0:06:56.080 --> 0:07:01.320 have one of those cart the wardrobe rad wardrobe racks 0:07:01.360 --> 0:07:03.719 thank you, that has like all of my dresses for 0:07:03.760 --> 0:07:05.719 like these events coming up, and I have like a 0:07:05.839 --> 0:07:07.960 large mirror in there, and I have my desk and 0:07:08.000 --> 0:07:11.200 then like my heels and like stylists will come in 0:07:11.240 --> 0:07:13.120 and set up like all the shoes that I need 0:07:13.160 --> 0:07:16.000 to like try on for like these like carpet events 0:07:16.000 --> 0:07:19.120 and stuff. So it's like I'm loving having that second 0:07:19.200 --> 0:07:24.360 room as like my little personal closet. I love that. 0:07:24.600 --> 0:07:28.640 Will you please take videos or some photos because I 0:07:28.800 --> 0:07:31.120 never I never even got around to doing that, but 0:07:31.160 --> 0:07:33.720 I want to see like the difference of how you 0:07:33.760 --> 0:07:37.120 now decorate and style everything versus what the bones that 0:07:37.200 --> 0:07:40.840 I had when I was there. Absolutely yes, I'm planning 0:07:41.000 --> 0:07:43.840 making some like tiktoks with it too, so I'll definitely 0:07:43.840 --> 0:07:47.520 get that. I want to add. Okay, so you just 0:07:47.600 --> 0:07:50.320 mentioned that you have all these red carpets and appearances 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:54.120 coming up. Please tell me because when I like haven't 0:07:54.160 --> 0:07:56.680 done that many just because I don't say yes to 0:07:56.720 --> 0:07:58.720 a lot of stuff because I just find those exhausting. 0:07:59.160 --> 0:08:02.560 Do you drive off of that or like, how do 0:08:02.600 --> 0:08:07.239 you feel about always doing red carpets appearances? Like being 0:08:08.000 --> 0:08:13.840 so like lively out and about. I am so extroverted 0:08:14.600 --> 0:08:18.880 that I get my energy, like I almost recharge when 0:08:18.880 --> 0:08:22.680 I'm around people. I will say though, that this show 0:08:22.760 --> 0:08:26.240 has made me become a little more introverted, just because 0:08:26.280 --> 0:08:28.600 every time you're out and about, you kind of feel 0:08:28.600 --> 0:08:31.920 like you have to be on and so that's hard 0:08:31.920 --> 0:08:36.280 as well. But I definitely get tired of like wearing 0:08:36.400 --> 0:08:40.280 makeup and dresses and things like that. But I also 0:08:40.640 --> 0:08:42.600 for me, it's kind of like a mindset thing. I 0:08:42.640 --> 0:08:47.280 really embrace like these experiences of you know, like you 0:08:47.400 --> 0:08:49.480 don't get to do this stuff. And it's like it's 0:08:49.520 --> 0:08:52.720 not the fact that like, you know, I've changed or 0:08:52.800 --> 0:08:55.320 I want to, you know, be a part of this 0:08:55.360 --> 0:08:57.840 life more than my old life. It's just more of 0:08:57.880 --> 0:09:01.000 like it is a cool experience and like when else 0:09:01.040 --> 0:09:03.600 do you get to do this stuff? Um? But I 0:09:03.640 --> 0:09:06.240 will also say I definitely get tired. Yeah, Like it's 0:09:06.240 --> 0:09:09.079 a lot because there's so many hours that get put 0:09:09.160 --> 0:09:12.120 into like finding a dress and you have to make 0:09:12.120 --> 0:09:14.800 sure your nails are done or not done. Like I 0:09:14.880 --> 0:09:18.000 literally like I have like half of my nails on 0:09:18.200 --> 0:09:20.199 and then I had to like stick other nails on 0:09:20.240 --> 0:09:21.960 because I didn't have time, and then half my nails 0:09:21.960 --> 0:09:24.440 are broken. So I'm like walk in the red carpet 0:09:24.440 --> 0:09:27.280 with broken nails, like to walk in my hands. Let 0:09:27.280 --> 0:09:29.720 me pur something with pockets, right, But it's just like 0:09:29.760 --> 0:09:32.160 it's a lot. It's like hair, makeup everything. So it's 0:09:32.160 --> 0:09:33.800 like it's probably gonna be a minute till I do 0:09:33.840 --> 0:09:37.400 my next event or so, but well, we'll have to go. 0:09:37.480 --> 0:09:39.240 We'll have to go together. It's nice when you can 0:09:39.280 --> 0:09:43.320 go with like people that you know, oh yeah, never 0:09:43.400 --> 0:09:48.160 on your own, right, it's fun. Yeah, well okay, let's 0:09:48.240 --> 0:09:50.640 let's ask this. And how about it's like favorite place 0:09:50.760 --> 0:09:53.520 from somebody else's season that you wish you could have 0:09:53.520 --> 0:10:00.240 gone to, favorite place from somebody else's season, um, any where, 0:10:01.040 --> 0:10:05.000 literally anywhere. I'm like, that is one thing that I 0:10:05.040 --> 0:10:09.079 feel like not I guess envious isn't the correct word. 0:10:09.240 --> 0:10:13.000 Maybe I don't know, but just like missing it by 0:10:13.080 --> 0:10:16.240 this much to like getting to travel the world. And 0:10:16.280 --> 0:10:17.880 I think Becky, you and I have spoken about this, 0:10:18.000 --> 0:10:25.640 Like Nimicole in Pennsylvania, California, Indian World, Minnesota, in Mexico, 0:10:25.800 --> 0:10:28.240 it's like damn. And then you know, you see all 0:10:28.240 --> 0:10:35.000 these like Paris and all these beautiful places. So I 0:10:35.120 --> 0:10:39.280 don't know anywhere anywhere, anywhere anywhere? What about you? Well, 0:10:39.360 --> 0:10:42.800 I think it was on, so I didn't. I started 0:10:42.800 --> 0:10:46.280 watching the show on and off, like I would watch 0:10:46.320 --> 0:10:51.440 it in college with my roommates because they loved the show. 0:10:51.600 --> 0:10:53.880 And then like once I moved out, I stopped watching it. 0:10:53.920 --> 0:10:55.920 So it's like so on and off, and I think 0:10:56.040 --> 0:11:02.240 it was Emily Maynard season, I believe where she went 0:11:02.320 --> 0:11:08.400 to Saint Lucia and it looked so beautiful and I 0:11:08.440 --> 0:11:10.280 just remember like seeing a part where I think she 0:11:10.360 --> 0:11:11.880 was doing some b roll and like walked out of 0:11:11.880 --> 0:11:14.800 her hotel room and like the beautiful mountains are just 0:11:14.880 --> 0:11:18.640 in the back. So I've always wanted to go to 0:11:18.640 --> 0:11:21.600 Saint Lucia. That like has been on my bucket list 0:11:21.640 --> 0:11:25.200 travel place because just from that um And again, like 0:11:25.200 --> 0:11:26.959 I could be wrong, I think it was her season. 0:11:27.080 --> 0:11:29.960 I'm sure everyone will correct me very shortly if this 0:11:30.080 --> 0:11:34.079 is a different season, but yeah, Saint Lucia Lucia definitely 0:11:34.280 --> 0:11:37.880 is on that list. Has anyone has anyone do you 0:11:37.920 --> 0:11:40.960 remember if it has anyone traveled to Switzerland during their season. 0:11:42.480 --> 0:11:46.800 I don't know, that's like my place. Well, but denying 0:11:46.880 --> 0:11:50.840 to travel to next I was curious. I think Rachel 0:11:50.960 --> 0:11:53.600 might have. I could be wrong too, I think Rachel 0:11:53.640 --> 0:12:01.840 Lindsay may have fiba. Um but okay, oh okay, wait 0:12:01.880 --> 0:12:06.040 this question. So somebody asked Becca, if you could set 0:12:06.080 --> 0:12:13.959 Michelle up with anyone from Bachuration, who would it be? Okay, 0:12:14.120 --> 0:12:21.119 oh wow, this is interesting. Um, this is funny. Honestly, 0:12:21.720 --> 0:12:27.240 no one, Um, thank you, thank you. I would say 0:12:27.320 --> 0:12:32.120 no one, but only because I know you and like 0:12:32.200 --> 0:12:35.880 I have, I have some people who like I consider 0:12:36.200 --> 0:12:39.040 brothers and close friends in this world that I've done 0:12:39.080 --> 0:12:42.640 the tour with, who I absolutely adore, but I don't 0:12:42.679 --> 0:12:45.600 know if they would be a fit for you. So 0:12:45.800 --> 0:12:49.600 I would personally rather set you up with somebody that's 0:12:49.679 --> 0:12:54.480 like maybe a cousin of Thomas's, so then we can 0:12:54.880 --> 0:12:56.920 basically be family one day if it all works. It 0:12:57.000 --> 0:13:01.040 sounds like you're scheming. Okay, I'm gone to that. Yeah. 0:13:01.080 --> 0:13:03.920 That that answers the next question. If I would ever 0:13:03.960 --> 0:13:06.320 go to Bachelor in Paradise, like, there would have to 0:13:06.320 --> 0:13:11.000 be something. There's just like nobody that I'm interested in 0:13:11.160 --> 0:13:15.440 right now. Well, that's the world there, doesn't need to 0:13:15.480 --> 0:13:18.480 be And like you went through a breakup, a very 0:13:18.520 --> 0:13:20.679 public one at that you just need some time on 0:13:20.720 --> 0:13:23.640 your own to date or not date on your own. 0:13:24.320 --> 0:13:26.679 But I will say, if you ever did consider going 0:13:26.720 --> 0:13:29.360 on Paradise, I mean when I did it, I was 0:13:29.679 --> 0:13:34.720 a few years removed from my season, which I think 0:13:34.960 --> 0:13:40.480 helped because I literally went in and I don't, like, 0:13:40.520 --> 0:13:43.760 this is going to sound bad, not giving the fuck 0:13:43.800 --> 0:13:47.640 and like not caring and just like not having any expectations. 0:13:47.679 --> 0:13:49.960 I went in being like, some of my girlfriends are 0:13:49.960 --> 0:13:52.040 going to be on that beach, some of my best 0:13:52.040 --> 0:13:54.440 friends who are the producers are there. It's gonna be 0:13:54.480 --> 0:13:58.480 great food. Like I went in with zero expectation of 0:13:58.520 --> 0:14:01.760 like finding a partner. So I feel like and also 0:14:01.760 --> 0:14:03.520 it took time for me to get there, like it 0:14:03.600 --> 0:14:06.280 wasn't like it took me a hot second, and so 0:14:06.720 --> 0:14:09.880 you could get there one day, who knows if you do. 0:14:10.200 --> 0:14:13.680 I would fully support you. I would never say that, 0:14:13.760 --> 0:14:16.360 like I would never close the door, like I joke 0:14:16.400 --> 0:14:22.040 about closing the door, but like potentially in the future, 0:14:22.320 --> 0:14:26.040 possibly if I was called up right now I'd be 0:14:26.080 --> 0:14:30.600 like no, because you also know everybody. Okay, you don't 0:14:30.640 --> 0:14:33.680 know everybody to extent, but you know who's in Bachelor Nation. 0:14:34.760 --> 0:14:39.760 And it's also like everybody most recent you know, how 0:14:39.800 --> 0:14:43.720 everybody gets off the season. I feel like, at least 0:14:43.720 --> 0:14:46.400 for the guys anyways, I feel like the guys go 0:14:46.480 --> 0:14:49.960 through this phase is they get off the season, everybody's 0:14:50.000 --> 0:14:55.520 out clubbing, everybody's out in their attention that they're getting 0:14:55.920 --> 0:14:58.560 and it's like I don't want that, Like I don't 0:14:58.640 --> 0:15:00.720 you know what I mean, Like it call it a phase, 0:15:00.800 --> 0:15:03.280 whatever it is, get it out of your system. Like 0:15:03.320 --> 0:15:07.000 that's totally fine, there's nothing wrong with that. I just 0:15:08.080 --> 0:15:11.600 don't think it's that that's the right time for someone 0:15:11.640 --> 0:15:13.960 to choose to settle down. I don't see an evening 0:15:14.000 --> 0:15:18.200 Bachelor Nation that's like, you know, that's okay, honestly, Like 0:15:18.680 --> 0:15:21.840 take it from somebody who went in not having any expectations. 0:15:22.360 --> 0:15:27.480 I ended up meeting my fiance from Paradise, which I 0:15:27.560 --> 0:15:31.040 never ever ever would have thought it, Like I never 0:15:31.040 --> 0:15:32.840 thought I was going on Paradise to begin with. But 0:15:32.880 --> 0:15:35.480 the fact that like I found Thomas through that, Like 0:15:35.520 --> 0:15:37.840 you never know who will surprise you. But it is 0:15:37.840 --> 0:15:39.880 funny because I was walking on a red carpet someone 0:15:39.920 --> 0:15:41.360 asked me the same question, would you ever go on 0:15:41.360 --> 0:15:43.920 Bachelor in Paradise, And like, without even missing a beat, 0:15:43.960 --> 0:15:46.520 I was like, hell no, And I was like, but 0:15:46.600 --> 0:15:48.360 it did work for back On Thomas. So I like, 0:15:48.360 --> 0:15:51.440 I can understand that. I went immediately to you guys, 0:15:51.440 --> 0:15:54.840 and I learned I should never say no because every 0:15:54.840 --> 0:15:57.800 time I say, like, shut the door, hell no, definitely 0:15:57.800 --> 0:16:00.960 not happening. The opposite ali sense of happening in some 0:16:01.000 --> 0:16:03.120 way somehow. So I'm like, I just have to stop 0:16:03.160 --> 0:16:06.520 saying no. So I'm just trying to reverse psychology life 0:16:06.600 --> 0:16:08.000 right now, so then I can just hurry up and 0:16:08.000 --> 0:16:11.000 find my person. Yeah, that's that's what's happening. Well, All 0:16:11.000 --> 0:16:13.040 in good time, Michelle, All in good time. You are 0:16:13.720 --> 0:16:17.040 enjoying your single life in La Like, there's so much 0:16:17.080 --> 0:16:19.320 fun things happen, so many fun things. Oh wow, I 0:16:19.360 --> 0:16:22.720 cannot speak what are words right now? There's so many 0:16:22.760 --> 0:16:26.080 fun things happening for you. So just focus on you 0:16:26.160 --> 0:16:28.760 for a little bit, travel, have fun, like soak everything 0:16:28.800 --> 0:16:32.080 in and you know, all in good time exact when 0:16:32.080 --> 0:16:33.840 you're not looking, that's when it all takes place. I 0:16:33.880 --> 0:16:37.440 feel like, yes, a thousand percent. Okay, back the next 0:16:37.520 --> 0:16:43.160 question for you. Do you have a guilty pleasure? I 0:16:43.240 --> 0:16:48.800 have a thousand guilty pleasures. Yes, yes I do. I 0:16:48.800 --> 0:16:53.120 would say my guilty pleasure. I don't even know if 0:16:53.120 --> 0:16:55.440 this is guilty. I mean, and this is no shock. 0:16:55.520 --> 0:17:00.840 I'm obsessed with true crime obsessed like I'm Joey podcasts. 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:06.120 I love crime documentaries, like the Dahmer documentary gets me 0:17:06.240 --> 0:17:13.280 like I just started, It's what episode started? It? Just 0:17:13.400 --> 0:17:18.440 like see episode one today this morning, have fun, text 0:17:18.440 --> 0:17:20.240 to me all about it when you're watching it. It's 0:17:21.080 --> 0:17:25.199 freaking wild wild. But that is definitely my guilty pleasure. 0:17:25.280 --> 0:17:28.840 Like I know too much about serial killers. It's like 0:17:29.200 --> 0:17:31.840 my mom actually yells at me to be like you 0:17:31.840 --> 0:17:34.720 shouldn't know this much, but I just like, yeah, it's 0:17:34.760 --> 0:17:39.399 just so I would say that's one of my guilty pleasures. Um, 0:17:39.560 --> 0:17:43.080 what about yours? Okay, we are very similar in this 0:17:43.160 --> 0:17:46.360 is because I have so much to say. Yes, crime 0:17:46.640 --> 0:17:50.440 just it's so fascinating. But do you ever catch yourself 0:17:50.480 --> 0:17:52.400 before I tell you my other one of my other 0:17:52.400 --> 0:17:57.960 guilty pleasures? Do you ever catch yourself? Um? Like you'll 0:17:57.960 --> 0:18:03.000 be driving, and or you like walk into a restroom 0:18:03.280 --> 0:18:06.320 at like a rest stop or at a gas station 0:18:06.680 --> 0:18:09.680 and like somebody else walks in, and because you're so 0:18:09.840 --> 0:18:11.719 used to like watching all this crime stuff, like you 0:18:11.760 --> 0:18:14.200 make note of like they're wearing like a red collared 0:18:14.240 --> 0:18:17.720 shirt and like the types of shoes, so that like 0:18:18.080 --> 0:18:22.920 at this time and yes, okay, listen crime drunk, he's 0:18:22.920 --> 0:18:26.679 one to one, be weird, be rude, and stay alive 0:18:26.760 --> 0:18:29.879 and pay attention to detail, oh all the time. And 0:18:30.320 --> 0:18:32.919 that's like I think, like I think some people obviously 0:18:33.000 --> 0:18:35.320 get very creeped out by it, but like I also 0:18:35.440 --> 0:18:37.119 want to know what I'm up against, and like I 0:18:37.160 --> 0:18:40.320 want to learn from things in the past. So I'm 0:18:40.560 --> 0:18:42.440 every time I walk my know or leo, now I 0:18:42.480 --> 0:18:44.800 always only have one earbuton I need to make sure 0:18:44.840 --> 0:18:48.760 I can like listen behind me take note of everything, 0:18:49.200 --> 0:18:52.199 like yeah, oh yeah, I'm like if I ever need 0:18:52.240 --> 0:18:56.679 to make a call, I will give you height, weight, tentative, age, 0:18:56.680 --> 0:19:00.240 what color I somebody had, like anything I use yet 0:19:00.359 --> 0:19:05.160 anything all of us always on the lurch a right. 0:19:05.240 --> 0:19:07.159 I feel like I had another guilty pleasure that I 0:19:07.200 --> 0:19:09.119 was thinking about the other day that I was like, oh, 0:19:09.119 --> 0:19:11.240 this is definitely something I shouldn't admit. But now I 0:19:11.240 --> 0:19:14.040 can't even remember what a guilty pleasure. I'm trying to 0:19:14.080 --> 0:19:16.520 think of one outside of the crab. I mean mine 0:19:16.640 --> 0:19:22.080 is very much just like probably junk food. Yeah, like 0:19:22.160 --> 0:19:25.800 I'm very very healthy, but like I go in junk 0:19:25.840 --> 0:19:31.479 food phases of like right now, mine's like donuts. So yeah, 0:19:31.640 --> 0:19:36.320 like I love it. Guilty, that's just a pleasure different, 0:19:36.920 --> 0:19:38.760 that's not even I don't know. I don't feel guilty 0:19:38.800 --> 0:19:42.200 about it. I just I'm like cool, I well everyone knows. 0:19:42.640 --> 0:19:46.560 Minus Chipotle. I literally go to Chipotle every weekle How 0:19:46.880 --> 0:19:49.480 we haven't done it Chipotle check in in a while, 0:19:49.680 --> 0:19:52.439 have you been, Like I'm paying rent at Chipotle. I'm 0:19:52.480 --> 0:19:56.080 always there every single day, every single day, Thomas night. 0:19:56.080 --> 0:19:58.760 Because yeah, because I got that card, we are there 0:19:59.040 --> 0:20:03.840 all the time. They know us like by name and order. Now, lovely, 0:20:04.119 --> 0:20:07.199 I might as well just work here, But that's you 0:20:07.240 --> 0:20:09.439 don't need to because you have a gold card now. No, 0:20:09.560 --> 0:20:11.639 but I kind of love it, Like I would like 0:20:11.680 --> 0:20:14.320 to leave work smelling like Chipole in my hair. You know, 0:20:14.840 --> 0:20:17.600 it's a good sense. I'm just gonna say, you're about 0:20:17.600 --> 0:20:19.040 to come up with like a Chipotle. They do have 0:20:19.080 --> 0:20:22.639 a Chipotle candle, actually do they? Yeah, I might have 0:20:22.720 --> 0:20:24.560 to send it to you. I don't know what it 0:20:24.600 --> 0:20:28.199 smells like. But Ryan, Ryan Klaytor, she sent it. She 0:20:28.280 --> 0:20:29.800 sent a picture to me and she's like, I feel 0:20:29.800 --> 0:20:32.960 like this is something that you would get, Michelle, And 0:20:33.160 --> 0:20:34.680 I was like, I'll have to send this to Becca. 0:20:34.760 --> 0:20:37.159 Oh my gosh. Yes. If it smells like an actual 0:20:38.000 --> 0:20:42.480 chicken burrito, sign me wild or like the lime cilantro 0:20:42.680 --> 0:20:45.840 rice or something like that. Anything. I just it smells 0:20:45.840 --> 0:20:51.439 like heaven when I walk in. Okay, Michelle, do you 0:20:51.640 --> 0:20:55.320 have a worst date story? And it can be from 0:20:55.520 --> 0:21:03.800 the show or just like personally dating a worst date story? 0:21:05.440 --> 0:21:10.119 I think I'm not going to pick one from the show. 0:21:10.720 --> 0:21:13.960 I would say, Okay, so my worst date story would 0:21:14.040 --> 0:21:19.720 it's nothing like necessarily crazy. But it was right after college, 0:21:19.720 --> 0:21:22.440 like I had graduated. I had been in a relationship 0:21:22.720 --> 0:21:26.359 a lot of my college experience or whatever like for 0:21:26.400 --> 0:21:29.800 like three years, and so I just got out of college, graduated. 0:21:29.840 --> 0:21:32.360 I played sports in college, so I like really didn't 0:21:32.400 --> 0:21:36.480 like party or get to do like all those social 0:21:36.800 --> 0:21:40.200 things or whatever, and so like afterwards, like that time 0:21:40.240 --> 0:21:44.440 where I was, you know, transitioning into you know, going 0:21:44.440 --> 0:21:47.399 into education. It was the summer, so it's not like 0:21:47.440 --> 0:21:49.159 I could get a job right off the bat. I 0:21:49.200 --> 0:21:52.080 had to wait a little bit. But I had like 0:21:52.160 --> 0:21:57.199 started dating and it was just really really weird. And 0:21:57.600 --> 0:22:00.200 I went on this first date with this guy from 0:22:00.200 --> 0:22:05.480 Minnesota and we went out to eat. It was I 0:22:05.520 --> 0:22:09.159 can't even We went out to shoot what is it 0:22:09.160 --> 0:22:12.000 called w WA frost I think is what it's called. 0:22:12.000 --> 0:22:16.119 It's like downtown somewhere, Okay, super cute patio was like fine, 0:22:16.640 --> 0:22:20.239 you know I kind of already like figured that I 0:22:20.280 --> 0:22:25.720 wouldn't be going on a second day, like did nothing wrong. 0:22:25.880 --> 0:22:28.240 Was a good looking guy. I think he was like 0:22:28.720 --> 0:22:32.919 six seven, like super tall, athletic, all this other stuff. 0:22:34.080 --> 0:22:37.800 But he was like a yes many meaning that like 0:22:38.359 --> 0:22:41.800 everything I said, like he would just like mold into that. 0:22:42.280 --> 0:22:47.040 And so like he wasn't opinionated or was just like 0:22:47.520 --> 0:22:49.960 trying to connect so much that he had like no 0:22:50.040 --> 0:22:54.280 opinions of himself. And then when we were finished, it 0:22:54.400 --> 0:22:56.719 was like one of those situations where he forgot his wallet, 0:22:56.760 --> 0:23:00.359 which is fine, right, but he forgot his wallet. We 0:23:00.520 --> 0:23:06.920 came outside, like his his car ended up like breaking down, 0:23:07.000 --> 0:23:09.000 but it was a nice car, so it was just 0:23:09.040 --> 0:23:11.879 like this uncomfortable situation. And then by the time he 0:23:11.960 --> 0:23:16.880 dropped me off, he um like was trying to come inside, 0:23:16.880 --> 0:23:19.359 trying to come inside, trying to come inside, and I 0:23:19.440 --> 0:23:22.439