1 00:00:02,240 --> 00:00:05,440 Speaker 1: What's happy our listeners. I'm one of your hosts, Becca 2 00:00:05,519 --> 00:00:08,880 Speaker 1: Goo Friends, and I'm Michelle Young, and you are listening 3 00:00:08,960 --> 00:00:12,560 Speaker 1: to Boucher Happy Hour exclusively on Wondery Plus. Yeah. So 4 00:00:12,640 --> 00:00:15,080 Speaker 1: we are so happy to be here with you, and 5 00:00:15,280 --> 00:00:20,440 Speaker 1: I'm excited because Becca, today we're answering fan questions and 6 00:00:20,560 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: we do have some fun ones. So should we get 7 00:00:22,920 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: right to it? Apps positively, tutely yes, these are always 8 00:00:27,840 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 1: my favorite episodes. Honestly they are. I love I just 9 00:00:31,520 --> 00:00:34,599 Speaker 1: love hearing these questions. Some of them are so good. Um, 10 00:00:35,120 --> 00:00:36,960 Speaker 1: let's just take it away. We have a couple here 11 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:41,360 Speaker 1: that you have either DMed us about or email us about. 12 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 1: So let's start with this first one. Michelle, what is 13 00:00:45,720 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 1: your go to Boucher watch party snack or cocktail or both? Oh? Okay, 14 00:00:52,320 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 1: so I'd say my favorite snack would probably have to 15 00:00:56,880 --> 00:00:59,120 Speaker 1: be I don't know if this is a Minnesota thing, 16 00:00:59,520 --> 00:01:02,840 Speaker 1: but you take like chips and you melt cheese on 17 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:04,920 Speaker 1: top of it, Like you take a little shred of cheese, 18 00:01:04,959 --> 00:01:06,800 Speaker 1: melt on top of it, and then you have salsa 19 00:01:06,880 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 1: on the side. Oh, it's just like chips and cheese 20 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:12,440 Speaker 1: and salsa. It's like eat all the time. Growing up, 21 00:01:12,600 --> 00:01:14,119 Speaker 1: My dad would make it all the time when we'd 22 00:01:14,120 --> 00:01:16,720 Speaker 1: watch like movies and stuff. So that's definitely like my 23 00:01:16,760 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 1: weekly snack. Do you do it with doritos and like 24 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:24,400 Speaker 1: make them extra cheesy? Honestly, I've never done it with doritos, Michelle, 25 00:01:24,480 --> 00:01:27,360 Speaker 1: you have to try it next this next week, okay, 26 00:01:27,480 --> 00:01:31,119 Speaker 1: really like, but like I'm dipping it in salsa, doritos, 27 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 1: cheese and sala extra seasoning. It's so good. That's what 28 00:01:35,040 --> 00:01:37,440 Speaker 1: we grew grew eating too, Oh my gosh. And like 29 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:40,319 Speaker 1: if you get the cheese like extra cheesey crispy, it's 30 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:43,119 Speaker 1: so much better. Oh okay, I'll have to try that. 31 00:01:43,480 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: What's your cock My cocktail would honestly probably either like 32 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 1: if I'm drinking wine or some type of like margarita. 33 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:54,640 Speaker 1: But I've been going healthy lately, as you could tell 34 00:01:54,720 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 1: by my snack choice, so it's so it's honestly just 35 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:06,520 Speaker 1: been like some type of like water with lemon. Wow, 36 00:02:06,680 --> 00:02:11,840 Speaker 1: you're the epitome of health. Hey, look how about you 37 00:02:11,880 --> 00:02:15,960 Speaker 1: go to snack? Go to snack? Oh man, I'm just 38 00:02:16,000 --> 00:02:19,800 Speaker 1: such a snacker. I will literally eat anything. Um. Lately, 39 00:02:20,120 --> 00:02:25,120 Speaker 1: I have been on a extra toasty cheese at Binge. 40 00:02:25,480 --> 00:02:30,040 Speaker 1: I am obsessed with the still I got hooked when 41 00:02:30,040 --> 00:02:33,800 Speaker 1: I was on tour and I just need like something 42 00:02:33,840 --> 00:02:37,000 Speaker 1: to crunch on. So I just like those. Yeah, I 43 00:02:37,000 --> 00:02:38,880 Speaker 1: don't know what it is. Um, I probably should be 44 00:02:38,880 --> 00:02:41,960 Speaker 1: like eating carrots or something, but at least cheesets are 45 00:02:42,000 --> 00:02:47,400 Speaker 1: orange too. And then cocktail, I would say, well, everyone 46 00:02:47,440 --> 00:02:50,640 Speaker 1: knows I love wine. I love the bubbles, so I'm 47 00:02:50,800 --> 00:02:54,360 Speaker 1: usually always drinking my Wineline Bordone for those of you 48 00:02:54,400 --> 00:02:56,079 Speaker 1: who haven't heard of it, you can buy it at 49 00:02:56,440 --> 00:03:00,720 Speaker 1: bordone dot com. Drink Bourdonne. But yeah, I just I 50 00:03:00,720 --> 00:03:03,040 Speaker 1: always just have the bubbles. I don't know, it's just 51 00:03:03,360 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: it's like my go too, it's me. Have you ever 52 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:09,680 Speaker 1: had the I think it's made by health Aid kombucha 53 00:03:09,720 --> 00:03:13,480 Speaker 1: And like for anyone who's on like health kick and 54 00:03:13,560 --> 00:03:15,639 Speaker 1: like doesn't want to drink wine during the week or 55 00:03:15,680 --> 00:03:19,440 Speaker 1: its like on that whatever whatever thirty day challenge thing 56 00:03:19,480 --> 00:03:23,079 Speaker 1: that you can't have alcohol, health Aid makes a rose 57 00:03:23,720 --> 00:03:26,880 Speaker 1: kombucha and if you pour it in a wine glass, 58 00:03:27,240 --> 00:03:31,519 Speaker 1: it is perfect, Like it's it's amazing. That's sounds delicious. 59 00:03:31,680 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: But let me ask you this with kombucha, because it's tea. 60 00:03:36,200 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 1: Does it keep you up at night with the caffeine? No, 61 00:03:39,760 --> 00:03:44,040 Speaker 1: it doesn't. I don't know. I'm very caffeine sensitive, and 62 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:46,560 Speaker 1: so I don't, like I haven't had any issues with it. 63 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:49,880 Speaker 1: I don't even know how many milligrams of caffeine it 64 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:53,600 Speaker 1: actually hasn't it? As I say, I'm caffeine sensitive, sensitive, 65 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:56,600 Speaker 1: and I'm like drinking celsius and like shaking to death. 66 00:03:56,720 --> 00:04:00,280 Speaker 1: But no, okay, maybe I'll give it a go. But yeah, 67 00:04:00,280 --> 00:04:02,240 Speaker 1: I cannot sleep at night if I have like any 68 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: sort of tea obviously can't do coffee past like one pm. 69 00:04:05,360 --> 00:04:07,720 Speaker 1: But that sounds delicious. So I'll talk to up and 70 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:11,000 Speaker 1: I'll get back to you. Okay, thank you, Michelle. So 71 00:04:11,560 --> 00:04:15,600 Speaker 1: you have now been living in LA for about a month. 72 00:04:15,800 --> 00:04:18,640 Speaker 1: How is that going? Like are you feeling settled? Have 73 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:22,720 Speaker 1: you had any highlights lowlights? You say that I've been 74 00:04:22,760 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 1: living in LA for a month, and I think I've 75 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:28,640 Speaker 1: maybe spent a total of like six full days in 76 00:04:28,800 --> 00:04:33,560 Speaker 1: LA with all the traveling. That's true. During that time, 77 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 1: I have gotten like everything set up so like I 78 00:04:37,120 --> 00:04:40,680 Speaker 1: I'm in Becca's old house and so it's been so 79 00:04:40,839 --> 00:04:44,680 Speaker 1: nice to have like all the essentials there, and now 80 00:04:44,680 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 1: I'm like getting to the point where like I'm going 81 00:04:46,160 --> 00:04:49,960 Speaker 1: to start doing a little bit of decorating. And it's 82 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:54,080 Speaker 1: been like putting together furniture and like stands and like 83 00:04:54,360 --> 00:04:58,080 Speaker 1: ordering a dinner table and things like that, and so 84 00:04:58,240 --> 00:05:01,679 Speaker 1: I'm like really st arting to feel like it's becoming 85 00:05:01,760 --> 00:05:05,440 Speaker 1: home and now, but it's been It's just I don't know, 86 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:08,799 Speaker 1: it's nice and I've door dashed way too much already 87 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:11,039 Speaker 1: because I don't have my car yet. My car and 88 00:05:11,080 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 1: my dog are going to be coming like at the 89 00:05:13,120 --> 00:05:17,240 Speaker 1: end of the month, and so yeah, Dordash has been 90 00:05:17,240 --> 00:05:20,040 Speaker 1: pretty pretty insane. But I've got a lot of really 91 00:05:20,040 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 1: good food. Good there are so many good spots where 92 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:25,920 Speaker 1: you are. I mean, yeah, like you're right, well, I'm 93 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:28,839 Speaker 1: not going to give names, but there are so many 94 00:05:29,000 --> 00:05:31,080 Speaker 1: I'll have to send you a list of recommendations too. 95 00:05:31,120 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 1: But yeah, I'm so happy you're enjoying it. I feel 96 00:05:35,880 --> 00:05:38,080 Speaker 1: like I've never felt like such a landlord in my life. 97 00:05:38,080 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 1: Like Michelle will call me and be like the AC's 98 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:42,800 Speaker 1: out or like what about this, and I'm like, I 99 00:05:42,839 --> 00:05:44,880 Speaker 1: don't know, this is not anything I've ever had to 100 00:05:44,920 --> 00:05:47,640 Speaker 1: deal with, because if I'm being completely honest, Michelle. So 101 00:05:47,760 --> 00:05:51,320 Speaker 1: I bought the house I closed. I was literally in 102 00:05:51,320 --> 00:05:53,600 Speaker 1: the process of buying that house when I was in 103 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 1: Paradise last year. So like that's what I thought. One 104 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 1: of the producers every now and again would pull me 105 00:05:59,600 --> 00:06:02,200 Speaker 1: out of like a group chat or an interview and 106 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:05,320 Speaker 1: be like him, your reeler's calling you, or your broker's 107 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:08,040 Speaker 1: calling you. You have to sign these documents. So the 108 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:11,840 Speaker 1: day I left Paradise was the day I officially closed 109 00:06:11,960 --> 00:06:15,080 Speaker 1: on the house that you're living in. But I right 110 00:06:15,120 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 1: after that got back together with Thomas and we were 111 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:19,400 Speaker 1: like back and forth between my place and San Diego 112 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:22,400 Speaker 1: that you've probably been in that house about the same 113 00:06:22,400 --> 00:06:27,400 Speaker 1: amount of time that I, like actually formerly proberly lived 114 00:06:27,440 --> 00:06:29,280 Speaker 1: in it. And so it's so funny. Thomas made that 115 00:06:29,279 --> 00:06:30,880 Speaker 1: comment the other day. He's like, Michelle has been in 116 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:33,240 Speaker 1: that house probably just as long as you have, and 117 00:06:33,279 --> 00:06:37,600 Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, that is so funny. I yeah, I 118 00:06:37,680 --> 00:06:40,320 Speaker 1: love it. And I so it's like a two bedroom, 119 00:06:40,680 --> 00:06:43,880 Speaker 1: two and a half bath, and the second bedroom has 120 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:46,320 Speaker 1: one of like you know, like that Murphy bed for 121 00:06:46,400 --> 00:06:48,320 Speaker 1: like all the listeners. It has like the Murphy bed 122 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:50,600 Speaker 1: that can fold down and up. But I've made that 123 00:06:50,720 --> 00:06:55,960 Speaker 1: like my podcasting slash styling room, and so like I 124 00:06:56,080 --> 00:07:01,320 Speaker 1: have one of those cart the wardrobe rad wardrobe racks 125 00:07:01,360 --> 00:07:03,719 Speaker 1: thank you, that has like all of my dresses for 126 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:05,719 Speaker 1: like these events coming up, and I have like a 127 00:07:05,839 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 1: large mirror in there, and I have my desk and 128 00:07:08,000 --> 00:07:11,200 Speaker 1: then like my heels and like stylists will come in 129 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:13,120 Speaker 1: and set up like all the shoes that I need 130 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:16,000 Speaker 1: to like try on for like these like carpet events 131 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:19,120 Speaker 1: and stuff. So it's like I'm loving having that second 132 00:07:19,200 --> 00:07:24,360 Speaker 1: room as like my little personal closet. I love that. 133 00:07:24,600 --> 00:07:28,640 Speaker 1: Will you please take videos or some photos because I 134 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:31,120 Speaker 1: never I never even got around to doing that, but 135 00:07:31,160 --> 00:07:33,720 Speaker 1: I want to see like the difference of how you 136 00:07:33,760 --> 00:07:37,120 Speaker 1: now decorate and style everything versus what the bones that 137 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:40,840 Speaker 1: I had when I was there. Absolutely yes, I'm planning 138 00:07:41,000 --> 00:07:43,840 Speaker 1: making some like tiktoks with it too, so I'll definitely 139 00:07:43,840 --> 00:07:47,520 Speaker 1: get that. I want to add. Okay, so you just 140 00:07:47,600 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 1: mentioned that you have all these red carpets and appearances 141 00:07:50,320 --> 00:07:54,120 Speaker 1: coming up. Please tell me because when I like haven't 142 00:07:54,160 --> 00:07:56,680 Speaker 1: done that many just because I don't say yes to 143 00:07:56,720 --> 00:07:58,720 Speaker 1: a lot of stuff because I just find those exhausting. 144 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:02,560 Speaker 1: Do you drive off of that or like, how do 145 00:08:02,600 --> 00:08:07,239 Speaker 1: you feel about always doing red carpets appearances? Like being 146 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:13,840 Speaker 1: so like lively out and about. I am so extroverted 147 00:08:14,600 --> 00:08:18,880 Speaker 1: that I get my energy, like I almost recharge when 148 00:08:18,880 --> 00:08:22,680 Speaker 1: I'm around people. I will say though, that this show 149 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:26,240 Speaker 1: has made me become a little more introverted, just because 150 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:28,600 Speaker 1: every time you're out and about, you kind of feel 151 00:08:28,600 --> 00:08:31,920 Speaker 1: like you have to be on and so that's hard 152 00:08:31,920 --> 00:08:36,280 Speaker 1: as well. But I definitely get tired of like wearing 153 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 1: makeup and dresses and things like that. But I also 154 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 1: for me, it's kind of like a mindset thing. I 155 00:08:42,640 --> 00:08:47,280 Speaker 1: really embrace like these experiences of you know, like you 156 00:08:47,400 --> 00:08:49,480 Speaker 1: don't get to do this stuff. And it's like it's 157 00:08:49,520 --> 00:08:52,720 Speaker 1: not the fact that like, you know, I've changed or 158 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 1: I want to, you know, be a part of this 159 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:57,840 Speaker 1: life more than my old life. It's just more of 160 00:08:57,880 --> 00:09:01,000 Speaker 1: like it is a cool experience and like when else 161 00:09:01,040 --> 00:09:03,600 Speaker 1: do you get to do this stuff? Um? But I 162 00:09:03,640 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 1: will also say I definitely get tired. Yeah, Like it's 163 00:09:06,240 --> 00:09:09,079 Speaker 1: a lot because there's so many hours that get put 164 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 1: into like finding a dress and you have to make 165 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:14,800 Speaker 1: sure your nails are done or not done. Like I 166 00:09:14,880 --> 00:09:18,000 Speaker 1: literally like I have like half of my nails on 167 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:20,199 Speaker 1: and then I had to like stick other nails on 168 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:21,960 Speaker 1: because I didn't have time, and then half my nails 169 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:24,440 Speaker 1: are broken. So I'm like walk in the red carpet 170 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 1: with broken nails, like to walk in my hands. Let 171 00:09:27,280 --> 00:09:29,720 Speaker 1: me pur something with pockets, right, But it's just like 172 00:09:29,760 --> 00:09:32,160 Speaker 1: it's a lot. It's like hair, makeup everything. So it's 173 00:09:32,160 --> 00:09:33,800 Speaker 1: like it's probably gonna be a minute till I do 174 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:37,400 Speaker 1: my next event or so, but well, we'll have to go. 175 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:39,240 Speaker 1: We'll have to go together. It's nice when you can 176 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:43,320 Speaker 1: go with like people that you know, oh yeah, never 177 00:09:43,400 --> 00:09:48,160 Speaker 1: on your own, right, it's fun. Yeah, well okay, let's 178 00:09:48,240 --> 00:09:50,640 Speaker 1: let's ask this. And how about it's like favorite place 179 00:09:50,760 --> 00:09:53,520 Speaker 1: from somebody else's season that you wish you could have 180 00:09:53,520 --> 00:10:00,240 Speaker 1: gone to, favorite place from somebody else's season, um, any where, 181 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:05,000 Speaker 1: literally anywhere. I'm like, that is one thing that I 182 00:10:05,040 --> 00:10:09,079 Speaker 1: feel like not I guess envious isn't the correct word. 183 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:13,000 Speaker 1: Maybe I don't know, but just like missing it by 184 00:10:13,080 --> 00:10:16,240 Speaker 1: this much to like getting to travel the world. And 185 00:10:16,280 --> 00:10:17,880 Speaker 1: I think Becky, you and I have spoken about this, 186 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:25,640 Speaker 1: Like Nimicole in Pennsylvania, California, Indian World, Minnesota, in Mexico, 187 00:10:25,800 --> 00:10:28,240 Speaker 1: it's like damn. And then you know, you see all 188 00:10:28,240 --> 00:10:35,000 Speaker 1: these like Paris and all these beautiful places. So I 189 00:10:35,120 --> 00:10:39,280 Speaker 1: don't know anywhere anywhere, anywhere anywhere? What about you? Well, 190 00:10:39,360 --> 00:10:42,800 Speaker 1: I think it was on, so I didn't. I started 191 00:10:42,800 --> 00:10:46,280 Speaker 1: watching the show on and off, like I would watch 192 00:10:46,320 --> 00:10:51,440 Speaker 1: it in college with my roommates because they loved the show. 193 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:53,880 Speaker 1: And then like once I moved out, I stopped watching it. 194 00:10:53,920 --> 00:10:55,920 Speaker 1: So it's like so on and off, and I think 195 00:10:56,040 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 1: it was Emily Maynard season, I believe where she went 196 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:08,400 Speaker 1: to Saint Lucia and it looked so beautiful and I 197 00:11:08,440 --> 00:11:10,280 Speaker 1: just remember like seeing a part where I think she 198 00:11:10,360 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 1: was doing some b roll and like walked out of 199 00:11:11,880 --> 00:11:14,800 Speaker 1: her hotel room and like the beautiful mountains are just 200 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:18,640 Speaker 1: in the back. So I've always wanted to go to 201 00:11:18,640 --> 00:11:21,600 Speaker 1: Saint Lucia. That like has been on my bucket list 202 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:25,200 Speaker 1: travel place because just from that um And again, like 203 00:11:25,200 --> 00:11:26,959 Speaker 1: I could be wrong, I think it was her season. 204 00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:29,960 Speaker 1: I'm sure everyone will correct me very shortly if this 205 00:11:30,080 --> 00:11:34,079 Speaker 1: is a different season, but yeah, Saint Lucia Lucia definitely 206 00:11:34,280 --> 00:11:37,880 Speaker 1: is on that list. Has anyone has anyone do you 207 00:11:37,920 --> 00:11:40,960 Speaker 1: remember if it has anyone traveled to Switzerland during their season. 208 00:11:42,480 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 1: I don't know, that's like my place. Well, but denying 209 00:11:46,880 --> 00:11:50,840 Speaker 1: to travel to next I was curious. I think Rachel 210 00:11:50,960 --> 00:11:53,600 Speaker 1: might have. I could be wrong too, I think Rachel 211 00:11:53,640 --> 00:12:01,840 Speaker 1: Lindsay may have fiba. Um but okay, oh okay, wait 212 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:06,040 Speaker 1: this question. So somebody asked Becca, if you could set 213 00:12:06,080 --> 00:12:13,959 Speaker 1: Michelle up with anyone from Bachuration, who would it be? Okay, 214 00:12:14,120 --> 00:12:21,119 Speaker 1: oh wow, this is interesting. Um, this is funny. Honestly, 215 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:27,240 Speaker 1: no one, Um, thank you, thank you. I would say 216 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:32,120 Speaker 1: no one, but only because I know you and like 217 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:35,880 Speaker 1: I have, I have some people who like I consider 218 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:39,040 Speaker 1: brothers and close friends in this world that I've done 219 00:12:39,080 --> 00:12:42,640 Speaker 1: the tour with, who I absolutely adore, but I don't 220 00:12:42,679 --> 00:12:45,600 Speaker 1: know if they would be a fit for you. So 221 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:49,600 Speaker 1: I would personally rather set you up with somebody that's 222 00:12:49,679 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 1: like maybe a cousin of Thomas's, so then we can 223 00:12:54,880 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 1: basically be family one day if it all works. It 224 00:12:57,000 --> 00:13:01,040 Speaker 1: sounds like you're scheming. Okay, I'm gone to that. Yeah. 225 00:13:01,080 --> 00:13:03,920 Speaker 1: That that answers the next question. If I would ever 226 00:13:03,960 --> 00:13:06,320 Speaker 1: go to Bachelor in Paradise, like, there would have to 227 00:13:06,320 --> 00:13:11,000 Speaker 1: be something. There's just like nobody that I'm interested in 228 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:15,440 Speaker 1: right now. Well, that's the world there, doesn't need to 229 00:13:15,480 --> 00:13:18,480 Speaker 1: be And like you went through a breakup, a very 230 00:13:18,520 --> 00:13:20,679 Speaker 1: public one at that you just need some time on 231 00:13:20,720 --> 00:13:23,640 Speaker 1: your own to date or not date on your own. 232 00:13:24,320 --> 00:13:26,679 Speaker 1: But I will say, if you ever did consider going 233 00:13:26,720 --> 00:13:29,360 Speaker 1: on Paradise, I mean when I did it, I was 234 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:34,720 Speaker 1: a few years removed from my season, which I think 235 00:13:34,960 --> 00:13:40,480 Speaker 1: helped because I literally went in and I don't, like, 236 00:13:40,520 --> 00:13:43,760 Speaker 1: this is going to sound bad, not giving the fuck 237 00:13:43,800 --> 00:13:47,640 Speaker 1: and like not caring and just like not having any expectations. 238 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:49,960 Speaker 1: I went in being like, some of my girlfriends are 239 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:52,040 Speaker 1: going to be on that beach, some of my best 240 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:54,440 Speaker 1: friends who are the producers are there. It's gonna be 241 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:58,480 Speaker 1: great food. Like I went in with zero expectation of 242 00:13:58,520 --> 00:14:01,760 Speaker 1: like finding a partner. So I feel like and also 243 00:14:01,760 --> 00:14:03,520 Speaker 1: it took time for me to get there, like it 244 00:14:03,600 --> 00:14:06,280 Speaker 1: wasn't like it took me a hot second, and so 245 00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 1: you could get there one day, who knows if you do. 246 00:14:10,200 --> 00:14:13,680 Speaker 1: I would fully support you. I would never say that, 247 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:16,360 Speaker 1: like I would never close the door, like I joke 248 00:14:16,400 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 1: about closing the door, but like potentially in the future, 249 00:14:22,320 --> 00:14:26,040 Speaker 1: possibly if I was called up right now I'd be 250 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:30,600 Speaker 1: like no, because you also know everybody. Okay, you don't 251 00:14:30,640 --> 00:14:33,680 Speaker 1: know everybody to extent, but you know who's in Bachelor Nation. 252 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:39,760 Speaker 1: And it's also like everybody most recent you know, how 253 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:43,720 Speaker 1: everybody gets off the season. I feel like, at least 254 00:14:43,720 --> 00:14:46,400 Speaker 1: for the guys anyways, I feel like the guys go 255 00:14:46,480 --> 00:14:49,960 Speaker 1: through this phase is they get off the season, everybody's 256 00:14:50,000 --> 00:14:55,520 Speaker 1: out clubbing, everybody's out in their attention that they're getting 257 00:14:55,920 --> 00:14:58,560 Speaker 1: and it's like I don't want that, Like I don't 258 00:14:58,640 --> 00:15:00,720 Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like it call it a phase, 259 00:15:00,800 --> 00:15:03,280 Speaker 1: whatever it is, get it out of your system. Like 260 00:15:03,320 --> 00:15:07,000 Speaker 1: that's totally fine, there's nothing wrong with that. I just 261 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 1: don't think it's that that's the right time for someone 262 00:15:11,640 --> 00:15:13,960 Speaker 1: to choose to settle down. I don't see an evening 263 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:18,200 Speaker 1: Bachelor Nation that's like, you know, that's okay, honestly, Like 264 00:15:18,680 --> 00:15:21,840 Speaker 1: take it from somebody who went in not having any expectations. 265 00:15:22,360 --> 00:15:27,480 Speaker 1: I ended up meeting my fiance from Paradise, which I 266 00:15:27,560 --> 00:15:31,040 Speaker 1: never ever ever would have thought it, Like I never 267 00:15:31,040 --> 00:15:32,840 Speaker 1: thought I was going on Paradise to begin with. But 268 00:15:32,880 --> 00:15:35,480 Speaker 1: the fact that like I found Thomas through that, Like 269 00:15:35,520 --> 00:15:37,840 Speaker 1: you never know who will surprise you. But it is 270 00:15:37,840 --> 00:15:39,880 Speaker 1: funny because I was walking on a red carpet someone 271 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:41,360 Speaker 1: asked me the same question, would you ever go on 272 00:15:41,360 --> 00:15:43,920 Speaker 1: Bachelor in Paradise, And like, without even missing a beat, 273 00:15:43,960 --> 00:15:46,520 Speaker 1: I was like, hell no, And I was like, but 274 00:15:46,600 --> 00:15:48,360 Speaker 1: it did work for back On Thomas. So I like, 275 00:15:48,360 --> 00:15:51,440 Speaker 1: I can understand that. I went immediately to you guys, 276 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:54,840 Speaker 1: and I learned I should never say no because every 277 00:15:54,840 --> 00:15:57,800 Speaker 1: time I say, like, shut the door, hell no, definitely 278 00:15:57,800 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 1: not happening. The opposite ali sense of happening in some 279 00:16:01,000 --> 00:16:03,120 Speaker 1: way somehow. So I'm like, I just have to stop 280 00:16:03,160 --> 00:16:06,520 Speaker 1: saying no. So I'm just trying to reverse psychology life 281 00:16:06,600 --> 00:16:08,000 Speaker 1: right now, so then I can just hurry up and 282 00:16:08,000 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 1: find my person. Yeah, that's that's what's happening. Well, All 283 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:13,040 Speaker 1: in good time, Michelle, All in good time. You are 284 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:17,040 Speaker 1: enjoying your single life in La Like, there's so much 285 00:16:17,080 --> 00:16:19,320 Speaker 1: fun things happen, so many fun things. Oh wow, I 286 00:16:19,360 --> 00:16:22,720 Speaker 1: cannot speak what are words right now? There's so many 287 00:16:22,760 --> 00:16:26,080 Speaker 1: fun things happening for you. So just focus on you 288 00:16:26,160 --> 00:16:28,760 Speaker 1: for a little bit, travel, have fun, like soak everything 289 00:16:28,800 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 1: in and you know, all in good time exact when 290 00:16:32,080 --> 00:16:33,840 Speaker 1: you're not looking, that's when it all takes place. I 291 00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 1: feel like, yes, a thousand percent. Okay, back the next 292 00:16:37,520 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 1: question for you. Do you have a guilty pleasure? I 293 00:16:43,240 --> 00:16:48,800 Speaker 1: have a thousand guilty pleasures. Yes, yes I do. I 294 00:16:48,800 --> 00:16:53,120 Speaker 1: would say my guilty pleasure. I don't even know if 295 00:16:53,120 --> 00:16:55,440 Speaker 1: this is guilty. I mean, and this is no shock. 296 00:16:55,520 --> 00:17:00,840 Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with true crime obsessed like I'm Joey podcasts. 297 00:17:00,920 --> 00:17:06,120 Speaker 1: I love crime documentaries, like the Dahmer documentary gets me 298 00:17:06,240 --> 00:17:13,280 Speaker 1: like I just started, It's what episode started? It? Just 299 00:17:13,400 --> 00:17:18,440 Speaker 1: like see episode one today this morning, have fun, text 300 00:17:18,440 --> 00:17:20,240 Speaker 1: to me all about it when you're watching it. It's 301 00:17:21,080 --> 00:17:25,199 Speaker 1: freaking wild wild. But that is definitely my guilty pleasure. 302 00:17:25,280 --> 00:17:28,840 Speaker 1: Like I know too much about serial killers. It's like 303 00:17:29,200 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 1: my mom actually yells at me to be like you 304 00:17:31,840 --> 00:17:34,720 Speaker 1: shouldn't know this much, but I just like, yeah, it's 305 00:17:34,760 --> 00:17:39,399 Speaker 1: just so I would say that's one of my guilty pleasures. Um, 306 00:17:39,560 --> 00:17:43,080 Speaker 1: what about yours? Okay, we are very similar in this 307 00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:46,360 Speaker 1: is because I have so much to say. Yes, crime 308 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:50,440 Speaker 1: just it's so fascinating. But do you ever catch yourself 309 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:52,400 Speaker 1: before I tell you my other one of my other 310 00:17:52,400 --> 00:17:57,960 Speaker 1: guilty pleasures? Do you ever catch yourself? Um? Like you'll 311 00:17:57,960 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 1: be driving, and or you like walk into a restroom 312 00:18:03,280 --> 00:18:06,320 Speaker 1: at like a rest stop or at a gas station 313 00:18:06,680 --> 00:18:09,680 Speaker 1: and like somebody else walks in, and because you're so 314 00:18:09,840 --> 00:18:11,719 Speaker 1: used to like watching all this crime stuff, like you 315 00:18:11,760 --> 00:18:14,200 Speaker 1: make note of like they're wearing like a red collared 316 00:18:14,240 --> 00:18:17,720 Speaker 1: shirt and like the types of shoes, so that like 317 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:22,920 Speaker 1: at this time and yes, okay, listen crime drunk, he's 318 00:18:22,920 --> 00:18:26,679 Speaker 1: one to one, be weird, be rude, and stay alive 319 00:18:26,760 --> 00:18:29,879 Speaker 1: and pay attention to detail, oh all the time. And 320 00:18:30,320 --> 00:18:32,919 Speaker 1: that's like I think, like I think some people obviously 321 00:18:33,000 --> 00:18:35,320 Speaker 1: get very creeped out by it, but like I also 322 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:37,119 Speaker 1: want to know what I'm up against, and like I 323 00:18:37,160 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 1: want to learn from things in the past. So I'm 324 00:18:40,560 --> 00:18:42,440 Speaker 1: every time I walk my know or leo, now I 325 00:18:42,480 --> 00:18:44,800 Speaker 1: always only have one earbuton I need to make sure 326 00:18:44,840 --> 00:18:48,760 Speaker 1: I can like listen behind me take note of everything, 327 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:52,199 Speaker 1: like yeah, oh yeah, I'm like if I ever need 328 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:56,679 Speaker 1: to make a call, I will give you height, weight, tentative, age, 329 00:18:56,680 --> 00:19:00,240 Speaker 1: what color I somebody had, like anything I use yet 330 00:19:00,359 --> 00:19:05,160 Speaker 1: anything all of us always on the lurch a right. 331 00:19:05,240 --> 00:19:07,159 Speaker 1: I feel like I had another guilty pleasure that I 332 00:19:07,200 --> 00:19:09,119 Speaker 1: was thinking about the other day that I was like, oh, 333 00:19:09,119 --> 00:19:11,240 Speaker 1: this is definitely something I shouldn't admit. But now I 334 00:19:11,240 --> 00:19:14,040 Speaker 1: can't even remember what a guilty pleasure. I'm trying to 335 00:19:14,080 --> 00:19:16,520 Speaker 1: think of one outside of the crab. I mean mine 336 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:22,080 Speaker 1: is very much just like probably junk food. Yeah, like 337 00:19:22,160 --> 00:19:25,800 Speaker 1: I'm very very healthy, but like I go in junk 338 00:19:25,840 --> 00:19:31,479 Speaker 1: food phases of like right now, mine's like donuts. So yeah, 339 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:36,320 Speaker 1: like I love it. Guilty, that's just a pleasure different, 340 00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:38,760 Speaker 1: that's not even I don't know. I don't feel guilty 341 00:19:38,800 --> 00:19:42,200 Speaker 1: about it. I just I'm like cool, I well everyone knows. 342 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:46,560 Speaker 1: Minus Chipotle. I literally go to Chipotle every weekle How 343 00:19:46,880 --> 00:19:49,480 Speaker 1: we haven't done it Chipotle check in in a while, 344 00:19:49,680 --> 00:19:52,439 Speaker 1: have you been, Like I'm paying rent at Chipotle. I'm 345 00:19:52,480 --> 00:19:56,080 Speaker 1: always there every single day, every single day, Thomas night. 346 00:19:56,080 --> 00:19:58,760 Speaker 1: Because yeah, because I got that card, we are there 347 00:19:59,040 --> 00:20:03,840 Speaker 1: all the time. They know us like by name and order. Now, lovely, 348 00:20:04,119 --> 00:20:07,199 Speaker 1: I might as well just work here, But that's you 349 00:20:07,240 --> 00:20:09,439 Speaker 1: don't need to because you have a gold card now. No, 350 00:20:09,560 --> 00:20:11,639 Speaker 1: but I kind of love it, Like I would like 351 00:20:11,680 --> 00:20:14,320 Speaker 1: to leave work smelling like Chipole in my hair. You know, 352 00:20:14,840 --> 00:20:17,600 Speaker 1: it's a good sense. I'm just gonna say, you're about 353 00:20:17,600 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 1: to come up with like a Chipotle. They do have 354 00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:22,639 Speaker 1: a Chipotle candle, actually do they? Yeah, I might have 355 00:20:22,720 --> 00:20:24,560 Speaker 1: to send it to you. I don't know what it 356 00:20:24,600 --> 00:20:28,199 Speaker 1: smells like. But Ryan, Ryan Klaytor, she sent it. She 357 00:20:28,280 --> 00:20:29,800 Speaker 1: sent a picture to me and she's like, I feel 358 00:20:29,800 --> 00:20:32,960 Speaker 1: like this is something that you would get, Michelle, And 359 00:20:33,160 --> 00:20:34,680 Speaker 1: I was like, I'll have to send this to Becca. 360 00:20:34,760 --> 00:20:37,159 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Yes. If it smells like an actual 361 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:42,480 Speaker 1: chicken burrito, sign me wild or like the lime cilantro 362 00:20:42,680 --> 00:20:45,840 Speaker 1: rice or something like that. Anything. I just it smells 363 00:20:45,840 --> 00:20:51,439 Speaker 1: like heaven when I walk in. Okay, Michelle, do you 364 00:20:51,640 --> 00:20:55,320 Speaker 1: have a worst date story? And it can be from 365 00:20:55,520 --> 00:21:03,800 Speaker 1: the show or just like personally dating a worst date story? 366 00:21:05,440 --> 00:21:10,119 Speaker 1: I think I'm not going to pick one from the show. 367 00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:13,960 Speaker 1: I would say, Okay, so my worst date story would 368 00:21:14,040 --> 00:21:19,720 Speaker 1: it's nothing like necessarily crazy. But it was right after college, 369 00:21:19,720 --> 00:21:22,440 Speaker 1: like I had graduated. I had been in a relationship 370 00:21:22,720 --> 00:21:26,359 Speaker 1: a lot of my college experience or whatever like for 371 00:21:26,400 --> 00:21:29,800 Speaker 1: like three years, and so I just got out of college, graduated. 372 00:21:29,840 --> 00:21:32,360 Speaker 1: I played sports in college, so I like really didn't 373 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 1: like party or get to do like all those social 374 00:21:36,800 --> 00:21:40,200 Speaker 1: things or whatever, and so like afterwards, like that time 375 00:21:40,240 --> 00:21:44,440 Speaker 1: where I was, you know, transitioning into you know, going 376 00:21:44,440 --> 00:21:47,399 Speaker 1: into education. It was the summer, so it's not like 377 00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:49,159 Speaker 1: I could get a job right off the bat. I 378 00:21:49,200 --> 00:21:52,080 Speaker 1: had to wait a little bit. But I had like 379 00:21:52,160 --> 00:21:57,199 Speaker 1: started dating and it was just really really weird. And 380 00:21:57,600 --> 00:22:00,200 Speaker 1: I went on this first date with this guy from 381 00:22:00,200 --> 00:22:05,480 Speaker 1: Minnesota and we went out to eat. It was I 382 00:22:05,520 --> 00:22:09,159 Speaker 1: can't even We went out to shoot what is it 383 00:22:09,160 --> 00:22:12,000 Speaker 1: called w WA frost I think is what it's called. 384 00:22:12,000 --> 00:22:16,119 Speaker 1: It's like downtown somewhere, Okay, super cute patio was like fine, 385 00:22:16,640 --> 00:22:20,239 Speaker 1: you know I kind of already like figured that I 386 00:22:20,280 --> 00:22:25,720 Speaker 1: wouldn't be going on a second day, like did nothing wrong. 387 00:22:25,880 --> 00:22:28,240 Speaker 1: Was a good looking guy. I think he was like 388 00:22:28,720 --> 00:22:32,919 Speaker 1: six seven, like super tall, athletic, all this other stuff. 389 00:22:34,080 --> 00:22:37,800 Speaker 1: But he was like a yes many meaning that like 390 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:41,800 Speaker 1: everything I said, like he would just like mold into that. 391 00:22:42,280 --> 00:22:47,040 Speaker 1: And so like he wasn't opinionated or was just like 392 00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:49,960 Speaker 1: trying to connect so much that he had like no 393 00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 1: opinions of himself. And then when we were finished, it 394 00:22:54,400 --> 00:22:56,719 Speaker 1: was like one of those situations where he forgot his wallet, 395 00:22:56,760 --> 00:23:00,359 Speaker 1: which is fine, right, but he forgot his wallet. We 396 00:23:00,520 --> 00:23:06,920 Speaker 1: came outside, like his his car ended up like breaking down, 397 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:09,000 Speaker 1: but it was a nice car, so it was just 398 00:23:09,040 --> 00:23:11,879 Speaker 1: like this uncomfortable situation. And then by the time he 399 00:23:11,960 --> 00:23:16,880 Speaker 1: dropped me off, he um like was trying to come inside, 400 00:23:16,880 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 1: trying to come inside, trying to come inside, and I 401 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:22,439 Speaker 1: was like sorry, like I just like I was just 402 00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:28,720 Speaker 1: so uncomfortable. And then he ended up like saying how 403 00:23:28,760 --> 00:23:31,760 Speaker 1: he's never felt this way before, and like he said, 404 00:23:31,880 --> 00:23:36,399 Speaker 1: I love you. Wait what he said, I love you? 405 00:23:36,760 --> 00:23:38,960 Speaker 1: He just casually dropped it at the end of the conversation, 406 00:23:39,080 --> 00:23:43,680 Speaker 1: like can I love you? No, No, he was talking 407 00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:46,560 Speaker 1: to me like before, and like my foot was like 408 00:23:46,600 --> 00:23:49,240 Speaker 1: my body was already halfway out the door of the car, 409 00:23:49,359 --> 00:23:52,320 Speaker 1: like I'm ready to go, Like you know what I mean, 410 00:23:52,400 --> 00:23:55,439 Speaker 1: Like I get, I get not even the ick, but 411 00:23:55,600 --> 00:24:00,480 Speaker 1: like I don't open up very well, right, and I'm 412 00:24:00,520 --> 00:24:03,240 Speaker 1: just like I get really uncomfortable, like once I know 413 00:24:03,280 --> 00:24:05,320 Speaker 1: I don't like somebody, and if they're like coming on 414 00:24:05,359 --> 00:24:08,800 Speaker 1: to me, I'm like, oh, like I'm like the people 415 00:24:08,920 --> 00:24:12,440 Speaker 1: they love you, yeah yeah, And I was like, honestly, 416 00:24:12,640 --> 00:24:16,560 Speaker 1: we had such great conversation and you know, like I 417 00:24:16,600 --> 00:24:19,160 Speaker 1: feel so comfortable around you, and it's just so odd 418 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:21,520 Speaker 1: and I just like I am really into your energy 419 00:24:22,000 --> 00:24:25,840 Speaker 1: and like, which is like, oh wonderful. I mean like 420 00:24:25,880 --> 00:24:28,320 Speaker 1: the date wasn't horrible, but but yeah, and he's like, 421 00:24:28,400 --> 00:24:31,400 Speaker 1: I'm I've never felt this way before, and like I 422 00:24:31,440 --> 00:24:34,879 Speaker 1: need you to like pause for a second, like I 423 00:24:34,920 --> 00:24:36,760 Speaker 1: have gone through a lot in my life, like I 424 00:24:36,840 --> 00:24:39,880 Speaker 1: know what I want. And then yeah, he said, I 425 00:24:39,920 --> 00:24:43,359 Speaker 1: really really think that, like I really think I know 426 00:24:43,400 --> 00:24:45,879 Speaker 1: what this is. And I was just like, huh, because 427 00:24:45,920 --> 00:24:48,639 Speaker 1: like I really do think that, like I believe in 428 00:24:48,640 --> 00:24:50,919 Speaker 1: love at first sight. When I think that, like I'm 429 00:24:50,960 --> 00:24:53,280 Speaker 1: starting to fall in love. I was like, let me 430 00:24:53,320 --> 00:24:55,959 Speaker 1: ask you this. Now, have you ever grouped on him 431 00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:59,399 Speaker 1: on Instagram? Like is he now engaged or married? Or 432 00:24:59,480 --> 00:25:02,000 Speaker 1: like does he just moved really fast? Like have you 433 00:25:02,359 --> 00:25:04,199 Speaker 1: do you know what is up with this man? In 434 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:07,000 Speaker 1: his O? No? Not no, not anymore. But it got 435 00:25:07,000 --> 00:25:08,760 Speaker 1: to the point where like I had to block him 436 00:25:09,080 --> 00:25:13,199 Speaker 1: from texting me my dad. My dad had to like 437 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:15,199 Speaker 1: I told him like I'm, I'm this is making me 438 00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:18,639 Speaker 1: really uncomfortable, like I'm not there, like I just you know, 439 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:21,240 Speaker 1: tried to like let him down nicely. And he has 440 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,480 Speaker 1: sent these texts about like the balls in your court like, 441 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:26,920 Speaker 1: I'll wait for you to be ready to date my dad. 442 00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,359 Speaker 1: I had to tell my dad. My dad almost had 443 00:25:29,359 --> 00:25:30,600 Speaker 1: to get on the phone with him and tell him 444 00:25:30,600 --> 00:25:32,600 Speaker 1: to like leave me alone, because he like wouldn't back off. 445 00:25:32,640 --> 00:25:34,760 Speaker 1: If can you imagine if he would have stepped out 446 00:25:34,760 --> 00:25:39,000 Speaker 1: of the limo on your season peace out? No, I 447 00:25:39,280 --> 00:25:41,760 Speaker 1: mean I would have told him next, get back in. 448 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:44,800 Speaker 1: I would have been like, nope, absolutely, yeah, no, it 449 00:25:44,880 --> 00:25:47,679 Speaker 1: was read the rule, you know, when someone's uncomfortable, like 450 00:25:47,720 --> 00:25:51,840 Speaker 1: if a girl is saying, I'm physically uncomfortable with this, yeah, yikes. Okay, 451 00:25:51,920 --> 00:25:53,760 Speaker 1: do you wait? Do you have a worst date story? 452 00:25:53,800 --> 00:25:57,560 Speaker 1: Do you have an embarrassing story? Tell me? Oh, I 453 00:25:57,600 --> 00:26:00,200 Speaker 1: have so many bad date stories. Where do you like, 454 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:03,600 Speaker 1: I don't even know what want to pick? Okay, there's 455 00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:05,800 Speaker 1: one though that really sticks out. And this was before 456 00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:07,960 Speaker 1: everyone on the show. I think I was twenty five 457 00:26:08,320 --> 00:26:12,760 Speaker 1: and I went on with my name my Name. One 458 00:26:12,760 --> 00:26:15,000 Speaker 1: of my best friends was living in an apartment building 459 00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:18,400 Speaker 1: at the time, and we met her neighbor because this 460 00:26:18,440 --> 00:26:20,919 Speaker 1: guy came by to like borrow a vacuum when I 461 00:26:20,960 --> 00:26:22,760 Speaker 1: was there one day and I was like, oh, he's 462 00:26:22,840 --> 00:26:24,760 Speaker 1: kind of cute, and she ended up giving him my 463 00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:26,600 Speaker 1: number later on, so we went on a date. But 464 00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:29,840 Speaker 1: it started off because so we had texted me. We 465 00:26:30,000 --> 00:26:32,320 Speaker 1: planned like the day and time and location to meet 466 00:26:32,520 --> 00:26:36,920 Speaker 1: great right before that he was like, hey, I don't 467 00:26:36,920 --> 00:26:39,439 Speaker 1: remember what happened, Like he didn't have a car, and 468 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:41,040 Speaker 1: so he's like, can you come pick me up? And 469 00:26:41,080 --> 00:26:44,719 Speaker 1: I'm like sure, that's fine whatever, So pick him up. 470 00:26:44,800 --> 00:26:48,320 Speaker 1: We go to wherever we're eating dinner, and it was 471 00:26:48,440 --> 00:26:51,720 Speaker 1: so bad. It was so bad. He was the type 472 00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:54,440 Speaker 1: of guy that would not ask questions about you. He 473 00:26:54,480 --> 00:26:58,680 Speaker 1: would just talk about himself. But he was also a 474 00:26:58,720 --> 00:27:04,320 Speaker 1: finger liquor. Oh, so he would eat his food and 475 00:27:04,359 --> 00:27:07,400 Speaker 1: then lick his fingers and I'm like, there are napkins 476 00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:09,560 Speaker 1: for it, and it was so allowed and adop it 477 00:27:09,600 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 1: all off. He ended up face timing his sister, Like 478 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:16,240 Speaker 1: I went to the bathroom really quick, came back and 479 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:18,159 Speaker 1: he was facetiming and his sister, which is one thing, 480 00:27:18,200 --> 00:27:20,880 Speaker 1: Like I was gone, but then like he continued to 481 00:27:20,880 --> 00:27:25,200 Speaker 1: stay on the phone with his sister for well after 482 00:27:25,280 --> 00:27:27,080 Speaker 1: I sat down and I was like, still on this 483 00:27:27,200 --> 00:27:29,520 Speaker 1: day with him? So what was he talking about with 484 00:27:29,560 --> 00:27:32,919 Speaker 1: his sister? Was it like one of those situations. I 485 00:27:32,920 --> 00:27:34,760 Speaker 1: don't know. People are on the phone and they want 486 00:27:34,800 --> 00:27:37,679 Speaker 1: people to hear them talk. No, Michelle, I know exactly 487 00:27:37,760 --> 00:27:40,680 Speaker 1: do you. This is what he was talking about, the questions. 488 00:27:41,080 --> 00:27:43,119 Speaker 1: When I sat back down, he was talking to his 489 00:27:43,200 --> 00:27:48,840 Speaker 1: sister about if she eats ice cream, does it make 490 00:27:48,880 --> 00:27:51,840 Speaker 1: her cough? Like does eating cold foods make you cough? 491 00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:55,520 Speaker 1: And I'm just like, this does not need to happen 492 00:27:55,640 --> 00:27:59,160 Speaker 1: right now, But whatever I was, I wanted to hear 493 00:27:59,160 --> 00:28:00,520 Speaker 1: what she had to say, and I was just like, 494 00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:03,480 Speaker 1: this is not it. So end of the date, drop 495 00:28:03,560 --> 00:28:06,320 Speaker 1: him off again, I'm like not into him. He was like, 496 00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:07,960 Speaker 1: do you want to go grab a nightcap somewhere. I 497 00:28:08,040 --> 00:28:10,720 Speaker 1: was like, nope, I'll bring you back by bring him 498 00:28:10,880 --> 00:28:13,000 Speaker 1: drop him off at the front of his building and 499 00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:15,679 Speaker 1: he leans over and tries to grab the back of 500 00:28:15,720 --> 00:28:18,119 Speaker 1: my head for a kiss, and I was like, I 501 00:28:18,200 --> 00:28:22,320 Speaker 1: was like, I'm not feeling this, No candy, buddy. So 502 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 1: he got the hint he left. The next day, he 503 00:28:25,359 --> 00:28:27,480 Speaker 1: texted me to be like, I had fun, want to 504 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,199 Speaker 1: go on another date. And by this point, I think 505 00:28:29,240 --> 00:28:30,640 Speaker 1: it was like a Friday, so I was going out 506 00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:33,160 Speaker 1: with some of my girlfriends who happened to be who 507 00:28:33,359 --> 00:28:35,040 Speaker 1: like in the building that he lives with my friends, 508 00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:37,960 Speaker 1: and so we all go out and apparently we're at 509 00:28:38,000 --> 00:28:41,480 Speaker 1: one bar, Bar Louis. I think it's closed in Minneapolis. 510 00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:46,760 Speaker 1: Now we're Bar Loui. And he had ended up texting 511 00:28:47,000 --> 00:28:49,240 Speaker 1: one of my friends who was his neighbor, to be like, Hey, 512 00:28:49,280 --> 00:28:51,200 Speaker 1: where are you guys at tonight? I'm going to come 513 00:28:51,200 --> 00:28:53,640 Speaker 1: meet up with you. And so I rounded the corner 514 00:28:53,760 --> 00:28:56,320 Speaker 1: and see him walking there and I'm like nope, and 515 00:28:56,400 --> 00:28:58,280 Speaker 1: I booked the I was like, we're going to another bar. 516 00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:00,120 Speaker 1: So we ended up just leaving. I was like, know, 517 00:29:00,200 --> 00:29:03,720 Speaker 1: this guy is not it for me. Some of the 518 00:29:03,800 --> 00:29:06,040 Speaker 1: stories he was telling me about his clients though, we're 519 00:29:06,120 --> 00:29:08,840 Speaker 1: so disgusting. I was like, you should never tell anyone this, 520 00:29:09,120 --> 00:29:11,240 Speaker 1: you should not even be representing these people. But like, 521 00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:14,120 Speaker 1: you should not. No, I'm really curious, so like, off record, 522 00:29:14,200 --> 00:29:16,280 Speaker 1: you might have to tell me. I'll tell you separately. 523 00:29:16,560 --> 00:29:18,800 Speaker 1: I like, it's so disgusting. I like, don't it was? 524 00:29:19,200 --> 00:29:21,480 Speaker 1: I should have just left right after that he told 525 00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:24,080 Speaker 1: me this, But wait, what did he order for dinner? Like? 526 00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:27,440 Speaker 1: What was he looking off his fingers? Um? So we 527 00:29:27,480 --> 00:29:31,240 Speaker 1: had we shared a plate of nachos, and after I 528 00:29:31,240 --> 00:29:33,000 Speaker 1: saw the finger looking, I was like, I don't need 529 00:29:33,000 --> 00:29:35,000 Speaker 1: these nachos anymore. I don't remember what else we got, 530 00:29:35,080 --> 00:29:37,200 Speaker 1: but I was, I was twenty five. It was it 531 00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:39,000 Speaker 1: was a time in the life. I think I just 532 00:29:39,040 --> 00:29:40,840 Speaker 1: like I had a couple of glasses of wine to 533 00:29:40,920 --> 00:29:44,880 Speaker 1: not remember. But honestly, we're state stories and embarrassing stories. 534 00:29:45,280 --> 00:29:47,440 Speaker 1: I think that's going to be my new guilty pleasure 535 00:29:47,600 --> 00:29:50,720 Speaker 1: because I love that. I love that we had a 536 00:29:50,760 --> 00:29:57,880 Speaker 1: website or the app fml. Yes. Yes, funny, so funny. 537 00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:01,200 Speaker 1: And with that Happy Hour listener, we're going to wrap 538 00:30:01,320 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 1: on such a high note of our worst date stories. 539 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:06,560 Speaker 1: Please write in and share yours because I would love 540 00:30:06,600 --> 00:30:11,120 Speaker 1: to read some of these. 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