1 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:21,720 Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your girl Cheeky's and you've reached the 2 00:00:21,760 --> 00:00:24,200 Speaker 1: voicemail box for Dear Cheeky's. I'm here to give you 3 00:00:24,239 --> 00:00:27,160 Speaker 1: advice on anything and everything you need help with. Maybe 4 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:29,320 Speaker 1: you're going through a breakup, maybe you're having issues with 5 00:00:29,360 --> 00:00:32,159 Speaker 1: your family, or maybe you need help figuring out how 6 00:00:32,200 --> 00:00:34,680 Speaker 1: to balance your checkbook or how to start a business. 7 00:00:35,000 --> 00:00:37,560 Speaker 1: What arever the cases I want to hear from you. 8 00:00:37,680 --> 00:00:40,120 Speaker 1: Remember these are my thoughts and opinions, and if you're 9 00:00:40,159 --> 00:00:42,599 Speaker 1: suffering from an issue or hardship, you should seek help 10 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:45,600 Speaker 1: from a qualified professional. All right, now, go ahead and 11 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:47,360 Speaker 1: leave your question at the sound of the beeB. 12 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:52,199 Speaker 2: Hi, Cheeky's. My name is Omar, and I am a 13 00:00:52,280 --> 00:00:55,840 Speaker 2: huge fan of you of your mother since Cheeky's and Roxy. 14 00:00:56,200 --> 00:00:59,520 Speaker 2: I was like eleven or twelve at the time, and 15 00:00:59,600 --> 00:01:02,920 Speaker 2: I remember just loving you guys, and I still currently do. 16 00:01:03,000 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 2: I am not twenty five, so Mahina's an amount of 17 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:09,919 Speaker 2: love I have for the both of you. Pollosa's empowering woman. 18 00:01:10,560 --> 00:01:13,840 Speaker 2: I love you guys that much. But my first question, girl, 19 00:01:14,040 --> 00:01:18,440 Speaker 2: is how do I go about becoming an antista. I 20 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:22,959 Speaker 2: know there's a lot of self promoting involved, but there's 21 00:01:23,000 --> 00:01:25,320 Speaker 2: also a lot more to it. Who do I go to, 22 00:01:25,680 --> 00:01:29,480 Speaker 2: who do I pay? What do I do? That's my 23 00:01:29,520 --> 00:01:32,280 Speaker 2: first question. The next one would be, would you see 24 00:01:32,360 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 2: Cheeky signing her own artists in the future, Sacandosta Salelante. 25 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:40,319 Speaker 2: If so, you have a prototype right here. His name 26 00:01:40,360 --> 00:01:44,759 Speaker 2: is Wimar. If not, it's cool, I get it. But yeah, 27 00:01:44,920 --> 00:01:47,240 Speaker 2: that advice would really help me. Cheeky's thank you. 28 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:51,320 Speaker 1: Oh you're so cute, Omar, thank you so much. I 29 00:01:51,360 --> 00:01:55,360 Speaker 1: love your question. I actually have sweet sound records and 30 00:01:55,400 --> 00:01:57,320 Speaker 1: I'm trying to convince John to let me sign him. 31 00:01:57,400 --> 00:01:59,720 Speaker 1: So you never know, maybe you'll be the next artist. 32 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: And thank you for watching me on I love Jenny 33 00:02:03,080 --> 00:02:04,800 Speaker 1: and Cheese and Roxy. That means a lot to me. 34 00:02:04,840 --> 00:02:07,480 Speaker 1: Think you think you? Thank you? Okay, So here's the 35 00:02:07,520 --> 00:02:10,200 Speaker 1: thing now with social media, it makes me so much easier, 36 00:02:10,200 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 1: you guys, so you have to put yourself out there, YouTube, Instagram, 37 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:18,200 Speaker 1: TikTok is huge, TikTok, especially using the right hashtags, you guys. 38 00:02:18,440 --> 00:02:20,880 Speaker 1: That'll help you a little more. And finding yourself a 39 00:02:20,880 --> 00:02:23,480 Speaker 1: good publicist I think that was the first thing to do. Obviously, 40 00:02:23,520 --> 00:02:26,400 Speaker 1: someone to manage you, someone that you trust. I can 41 00:02:26,400 --> 00:02:28,080 Speaker 1: give you advice on that later on, once you have 42 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 1: found someone, I'll tell you exactly what you need to 43 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:33,440 Speaker 1: ask and what you need to carve out or having 44 00:02:33,520 --> 00:02:36,000 Speaker 1: your contract because it's very important. Okay, good lawyer's wealth 45 00:02:36,040 --> 00:02:39,360 Speaker 1: that's going to review your contracts, you guys, please, I 46 00:02:39,440 --> 00:02:42,079 Speaker 1: learned my lesson the hard way. So anyways, going back 47 00:02:42,080 --> 00:02:44,560 Speaker 1: to that, a publicists because of publicist, I think is 48 00:02:44,560 --> 00:02:47,280 Speaker 1: a great investment, especially when you're starting out, because they're 49 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:49,560 Speaker 1: going to be able to put you everywhere you need 50 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 1: an entertainment publicist. Okay, remember that, and yeah, just post 51 00:02:53,480 --> 00:02:55,399 Speaker 1: a bunch of videos. I mean a lot of these 52 00:02:55,440 --> 00:02:59,120 Speaker 1: new artists are being discovered on TikTok. So put yourself 53 00:02:59,120 --> 00:03:02,040 Speaker 1: out there. Be willing. And you sound very handsome, so 54 00:03:02,240 --> 00:03:04,079 Speaker 1: I don't know you got that going for you. I 55 00:03:04,080 --> 00:03:06,720 Speaker 1: don't know what you look like, but anyways, but yes, 56 00:03:06,720 --> 00:03:08,800 Speaker 1: put yourself out there, put up a video, and if 57 00:03:08,840 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 1: you can tag me, I'd love to hear what you 58 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:14,320 Speaker 1: sound like and what you're sing and yeah, so that 59 00:03:14,440 --> 00:03:16,919 Speaker 1: is my advice. Omar, thank you so much for your question. 60 00:03:17,040 --> 00:03:22,160 Speaker 1: I really appreciate it. Now we're going to move on 61 00:03:22,240 --> 00:03:25,760 Speaker 1: to the next question from Christine Hi chiky. 62 00:03:26,480 --> 00:03:29,800 Speaker 3: I'm reaching out because I need help and figure out 63 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:34,120 Speaker 3: how to go about this. I've been dealing with toxic 64 00:03:34,200 --> 00:03:37,800 Speaker 3: family members for a long time. Now that I'm an 65 00:03:37,840 --> 00:03:41,840 Speaker 3: adult and I have a daughter, I'm like trying to 66 00:03:41,880 --> 00:03:45,640 Speaker 3: heal and have more of a positive and loving and 67 00:03:45,680 --> 00:03:49,960 Speaker 3: caring environment for her. She's only a year old, almost two, 68 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:54,839 Speaker 3: and I just realized, like it's time to stop pretending 69 00:03:55,200 --> 00:03:58,800 Speaker 3: or stop letting them, you know, be this way and 70 00:04:00,200 --> 00:04:03,680 Speaker 3: have this hold on our family in general, Like I 71 00:04:03,720 --> 00:04:07,120 Speaker 3: want to step away, respectfully, leave the I guess, leave 72 00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:10,880 Speaker 3: the door open for possible reconciliation. Before now, I don't 73 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:12,440 Speaker 3: want to give in anymore. I don't want to give 74 00:04:12,480 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 3: in to their tops of behavior, their disrespect, and their selfishness. 75 00:04:16,480 --> 00:04:18,840 Speaker 3: So you know, what can I do or how can 76 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:21,040 Speaker 3: I go about this? Thank you so. 77 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:27,960 Speaker 1: Much, Christine, you are preaching to the choir girl. It's tough. 78 00:04:28,120 --> 00:04:31,880 Speaker 1: It's tough because it's family and we love them. But 79 00:04:32,480 --> 00:04:34,560 Speaker 1: I say this a lot on the podcast. You guys 80 00:04:34,640 --> 00:04:36,840 Speaker 1: that if someone is not good for your soul, if 81 00:04:36,880 --> 00:04:39,479 Speaker 1: someone's causing you more pain than good, it is okay 82 00:04:39,520 --> 00:04:42,599 Speaker 1: for you to set boundaries. Boundaries. They're healthy, it's okay 83 00:04:42,600 --> 00:04:45,560 Speaker 1: to love people from Afar. Don't feel guilty about that. 84 00:04:45,600 --> 00:04:49,159 Speaker 1: You are protecting your daughter now and you want the 85 00:04:49,200 --> 00:04:51,719 Speaker 1: best for her, and you want to break generational curses, 86 00:04:51,760 --> 00:04:54,599 Speaker 1: which I get because I felt I needed to do 87 00:04:54,680 --> 00:04:57,560 Speaker 1: that for my little family, my siblings and their kids. 88 00:04:58,120 --> 00:05:00,320 Speaker 1: It's not to say that they won't change, so that 89 00:05:00,360 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 1: you keep your keeping that door open for the possibility 90 00:05:03,000 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 1: of you know, reconciliation. But for now, if you feel 91 00:05:07,640 --> 00:05:09,960 Speaker 1: this way, it's okay for you, Like I said, for 92 00:05:10,040 --> 00:05:13,040 Speaker 1: you to love them from Afar and wish them the best, 93 00:05:14,040 --> 00:05:16,520 Speaker 1: and if they need something one day, then you can 94 00:05:16,560 --> 00:05:18,400 Speaker 1: go ahead and do it. Look at the Nasca. You 95 00:05:18,440 --> 00:05:20,840 Speaker 1: have to go with what feels right in your heart, 96 00:05:21,120 --> 00:05:24,640 Speaker 1: but you don't have to make it or try to 97 00:05:24,640 --> 00:05:26,920 Speaker 1: make it work because they're your family. Because we were 98 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 1: taught blood is thicker than water, and sometimes we create 99 00:05:31,600 --> 00:05:34,200 Speaker 1: this false narrative in our mind that well, we have 100 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:36,720 Speaker 1: to put up with everything because that's our family. That's 101 00:05:36,760 --> 00:05:39,640 Speaker 1: our grandma, that's our uncle, that's our cousin, that's and 102 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:43,400 Speaker 1: even with parents, sometimes you have to create boundaries. That's 103 00:05:43,440 --> 00:05:46,159 Speaker 1: being respectful to yourself and being good, a good steward 104 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:48,800 Speaker 1: of what God has given you and you have a 105 00:05:48,880 --> 00:05:52,040 Speaker 1: daughter that you're trying to protect, So that is my advice. 106 00:05:52,920 --> 00:05:54,840 Speaker 1: I hope it works out, and I hope that they 107 00:05:54,880 --> 00:05:59,000 Speaker 1: realize what they're losing and once you, you know, once 108 00:05:59,040 --> 00:06:02,040 Speaker 1: they see that space that you're creating between you and 109 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:04,880 Speaker 1: the other person or the other people, that they appreciate 110 00:06:04,920 --> 00:06:07,239 Speaker 1: and value who you are, and they change. I'm hoping 111 00:06:07,279 --> 00:06:09,279 Speaker 1: that's what I'm hoping. So thank you so much for 112 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:10,719 Speaker 1: your question, and I hope it works out. I'm going 113 00:06:10,760 --> 00:06:12,159 Speaker 1: to send you a big, big hug because I know, 114 00:06:12,560 --> 00:06:21,279 Speaker 1: I know, girl, I feel you. Our next question comes 115 00:06:21,320 --> 00:06:23,360 Speaker 1: from cass Hi. 116 00:06:23,279 --> 00:06:27,360 Speaker 4: Cheeky's Love Your Podcast. I recently started watching it because 117 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:30,719 Speaker 4: I would watch your sister's podcast, and you know you 118 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:32,919 Speaker 4: mentioned it not you had mentioned on there that you 119 00:06:32,960 --> 00:06:35,560 Speaker 4: had one as well, and I really like your podcast 120 00:06:35,640 --> 00:06:38,360 Speaker 4: as well, and I guess I want some advice on 121 00:06:39,720 --> 00:06:44,640 Speaker 4: the podcast. I started mine recently and I am tracking 122 00:06:44,800 --> 00:06:48,839 Speaker 4: our journey. My husband's a nice journey because he recently 123 00:06:48,839 --> 00:06:52,719 Speaker 4: got deported and I also made the move to Mexico 124 00:06:52,760 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 4: because I didn't want to be in the United States 125 00:06:56,320 --> 00:06:58,719 Speaker 4: without him, and I wanted to track our journey. But 126 00:06:58,760 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 4: I didn't want the podcast only to be about that, 127 00:07:02,680 --> 00:07:04,359 Speaker 4: you know, I wanted it to be a space for me, 128 00:07:04,480 --> 00:07:06,720 Speaker 4: a space where I can talk about anything I want to, 129 00:07:07,440 --> 00:07:11,080 Speaker 4: you know, La coma Latina and all of that. And 130 00:07:11,800 --> 00:07:16,080 Speaker 4: I recently had a conversation with somebody and they kind 131 00:07:16,080 --> 00:07:19,040 Speaker 4: of were telling me that they didn't understand why I 132 00:07:19,160 --> 00:07:21,960 Speaker 4: named the podcast the way I did, and for me, 133 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:25,000 Speaker 4: it was something meaningful related to, you know, the situation 134 00:07:25,080 --> 00:07:28,240 Speaker 4: that I am now. I am in now, and they 135 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:30,360 Speaker 4: were just like, I don't understand what you named it 136 00:07:30,440 --> 00:07:33,200 Speaker 4: if it's not just going to be about that, And 137 00:07:33,320 --> 00:07:35,040 Speaker 4: I feel kind of like it wasn't really much of 138 00:07:35,040 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 4: a support. It was kind of more bringing me down, 139 00:07:37,240 --> 00:07:43,280 Speaker 4: you know, And I feel like, you know, all podcasts 140 00:07:43,360 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 4: don't really relate to what the name is about, and 141 00:07:47,520 --> 00:07:49,440 Speaker 4: I just, you know, I want some advice on how 142 00:07:49,520 --> 00:07:52,920 Speaker 4: to deal with stuff like that or and as well 143 00:07:52,960 --> 00:07:56,400 Speaker 4: as you know, being consistent on your podcast, growing the 144 00:07:56,440 --> 00:08:01,800 Speaker 4: podcast and making it a better podcast for myself and 145 00:08:01,920 --> 00:08:02,600 Speaker 4: working on it. 146 00:08:03,480 --> 00:08:05,840 Speaker 1: Cass, you forgot to tell me the name of your podcast. 147 00:08:06,360 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 1: I wish I knew, so I can give you a 148 00:08:07,960 --> 00:08:10,160 Speaker 1: little bit more advice on that. But regardless, it doesn't 149 00:08:10,160 --> 00:08:13,320 Speaker 1: matter what the name of your podcast is and what 150 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:15,640 Speaker 1: anyone else thinks. At the end of the day, it's 151 00:08:15,880 --> 00:08:17,680 Speaker 1: what is coming out of your heart and what you're 152 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:20,560 Speaker 1: trying to do, not only for yourself and for your relationship, 153 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:23,480 Speaker 1: but also to help other people. So don't worry too 154 00:08:23,560 --> 00:08:26,400 Speaker 1: much about what that person said, or you know you 155 00:08:26,400 --> 00:08:29,560 Speaker 1: didn't feel that it was they're being supportive. At the 156 00:08:29,640 --> 00:08:33,240 Speaker 1: end of the day, just know that it'll grow slowly, maybe, 157 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:35,760 Speaker 1: but surely. Don't worry if, like right now, you don't 158 00:08:35,800 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 1: have a lot of listeners, or maybe you do, that's awesome. 159 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:40,080 Speaker 1: I'm just saying, like, don't worry much. Don't worry too 160 00:08:40,120 --> 00:08:42,600 Speaker 1: much about that about numbers. I think in the society 161 00:08:42,600 --> 00:08:43,920 Speaker 1: that we live in right now, we worry so much 162 00:08:43,920 --> 00:08:45,719 Speaker 1: about numbers. And I'm telling you because sometimes it does 163 00:08:45,720 --> 00:08:48,360 Speaker 1: affect me until I remember I'm like, Okay, if one 164 00:08:48,440 --> 00:08:50,840 Speaker 1: person is watching, if one person is listening, if five 165 00:08:50,840 --> 00:08:52,760 Speaker 1: people are going to go to my show, those five 166 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:54,800 Speaker 1: people are meant to be there, and I'm going to 167 00:08:54,880 --> 00:08:57,000 Speaker 1: give them the best of me. So as long as 168 00:08:57,040 --> 00:08:58,880 Speaker 1: what you're doing is coming from your heart and for 169 00:08:58,920 --> 00:09:02,760 Speaker 1: the right reasons, don't worry about anything else, and I 170 00:09:02,760 --> 00:09:05,400 Speaker 1: think the best thing right now. Podcasting is like huge 171 00:09:05,440 --> 00:09:08,480 Speaker 1: and it's so fun. So congratulations on that. By the way. 172 00:09:09,360 --> 00:09:11,120 Speaker 1: Just keep at it, you know, and make sure you're 173 00:09:11,120 --> 00:09:14,439 Speaker 1: staying true to yourself and putting it out there. I mean, 174 00:09:14,679 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 1: YouTube is a great place as well to promote it. 175 00:09:18,440 --> 00:09:20,880 Speaker 1: And you know, we have all these different platforms, so 176 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:25,000 Speaker 1: just be patient and always be willing to talk about 177 00:09:25,080 --> 00:09:27,000 Speaker 1: things that people aren't willing to talk about. Like a 178 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 1: podcast is where you can be transparent. It's your platform. 179 00:09:30,200 --> 00:09:33,240 Speaker 1: It's your way for people to hear you and to 180 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:36,400 Speaker 1: change the world. So I hope everything goes well, and 181 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:43,559 Speaker 1: don't worry about the naysayers. Girl like, just stay focused, focused. Okay, guys, 182 00:09:44,200 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 1: that goes for all of us. All right, Cas, thank 183 00:09:46,120 --> 00:09:48,440 Speaker 1: you so much for your question, and I'm wishing you 184 00:09:48,440 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 1: all the best. Next time, tell me please tell me 185 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:55,880 Speaker 1: the name of your podcast. Our next question comes from 186 00:09:56,040 --> 00:09:57,520 Speaker 1: an anonymous listener. 187 00:09:57,920 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 5: Ome ky keys Cool had a question for you. I 188 00:10:03,000 --> 00:10:05,760 Speaker 5: wanted to say fri Us that I am hire everything 189 00:10:05,800 --> 00:10:09,959 Speaker 5: you do and your strength to keep going forward after 190 00:10:10,000 --> 00:10:15,040 Speaker 5: everything you went through is amazing. I was just wondering 191 00:10:15,120 --> 00:10:17,679 Speaker 5: if you have any advice. I don't know if you 192 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:25,400 Speaker 5: ever dealt with nobody like family members not believing your abuse, 193 00:10:25,520 --> 00:10:29,680 Speaker 5: and if you did, how did you go on without, 194 00:10:29,880 --> 00:10:34,800 Speaker 5: like with them not believing you, or if you didn't, 195 00:10:35,240 --> 00:10:39,440 Speaker 5: if you have any advice on how to keep going 196 00:10:39,480 --> 00:10:43,319 Speaker 5: forward when certain family members don't believe the abuse that 197 00:10:43,480 --> 00:10:50,040 Speaker 5: happened to you. That's the advice I wanted, And I 198 00:10:50,080 --> 00:10:53,000 Speaker 5: just had one more thing. It's just a question for you. 199 00:10:53,120 --> 00:10:59,280 Speaker 5: Do you ever plan on trying to buy your mom's 200 00:10:59,280 --> 00:10:59,760 Speaker 5: own house? 201 00:11:01,320 --> 00:11:04,320 Speaker 1: Hi, anony misused listener. I understand why you probably didn't 202 00:11:04,360 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 1: leave your name, and that's fine. Let me start backwards. 203 00:11:07,040 --> 00:11:08,640 Speaker 1: I'm going to answer your question in regards to my 204 00:11:08,679 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 1: mom's house. I get that question a lot. I would 205 00:11:11,800 --> 00:11:15,120 Speaker 1: love to one day. Now it's millions and millions of dollars. 206 00:11:16,080 --> 00:11:19,520 Speaker 1: I think that it would be awesome if I could. 207 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:21,240 Speaker 1: I would, But then I'm like, do I really want 208 00:11:21,280 --> 00:11:22,920 Speaker 1: to live in that house without my mom? I've thought 209 00:11:22,960 --> 00:11:25,760 Speaker 1: about that too, and I'm like, I don't know, something 210 00:11:25,800 --> 00:11:28,679 Speaker 1: I got to pray about because I don't know. I 211 00:11:28,720 --> 00:11:30,280 Speaker 1: think it'd be hard for not only me, but all 212 00:11:30,280 --> 00:11:33,120 Speaker 1: my siblings. You know what I mean. So, now going 213 00:11:33,200 --> 00:11:38,560 Speaker 1: to your initial question, Yes, there are people that didn't 214 00:11:38,559 --> 00:11:40,920 Speaker 1: believe me and probably still don't believe me till this 215 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:44,400 Speaker 1: day about my abuse, especially like my dad's side of 216 00:11:44,400 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 1: the family, which, to be honest, I understand, you know, 217 00:11:48,280 --> 00:11:50,400 Speaker 1: because that's his family and they're going to have his back, 218 00:11:50,720 --> 00:11:52,559 Speaker 1: and I'm not upset about it anymore. If anything, I 219 00:11:52,600 --> 00:11:55,240 Speaker 1: still I actually now talk to some of my dad's family. 220 00:11:56,520 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 1: Another one is my grandpa's my grandpa's sister. She didn't 221 00:12:00,440 --> 00:12:03,000 Speaker 1: believe me and said a lot of things, and that 222 00:12:03,080 --> 00:12:05,240 Speaker 1: really hurt me. I was like, what the heck, But 223 00:12:05,280 --> 00:12:09,000 Speaker 1: you know what, I started understanding that there are gonna 224 00:12:09,000 --> 00:12:11,800 Speaker 1: be people that are not going to believe a lot 225 00:12:11,800 --> 00:12:14,360 Speaker 1: of things. And as long as I know in my 226 00:12:14,480 --> 00:12:17,000 Speaker 1: heart what the truth is and I forgive the person, 227 00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:20,400 Speaker 1: I think more than anything, it's you forgiving the person. 228 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:25,120 Speaker 1: I know it's and I'm sure I think you're asking 229 00:12:25,360 --> 00:12:28,480 Speaker 1: about for yourself, I think, but if not, I think 230 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:31,520 Speaker 1: it's just forgiving the person and people that don't believe you, 231 00:12:31,720 --> 00:12:34,040 Speaker 1: like you just got to let it be and probably 232 00:12:34,080 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 1: stay away from those people. And I don't know who 233 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:40,520 Speaker 1: the people are, but it's painful, and I think it's 234 00:12:40,520 --> 00:12:42,920 Speaker 1: just going to take time to heal that wound, and 235 00:12:42,960 --> 00:12:46,080 Speaker 1: you're gonna have to be okay with just putting up 236 00:12:46,280 --> 00:12:50,440 Speaker 1: a wall and a shield of you know what. I'm 237 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:53,480 Speaker 1: going to protect my heart, my mind, and my body. 238 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:57,240 Speaker 1: And if these people don't believe me, it's maybe they 239 00:12:57,240 --> 00:12:59,600 Speaker 1: have issues that they're working through. I don't know, but 240 00:12:59,600 --> 00:13:02,840 Speaker 1: it's for you to stay away because you still have 241 00:13:02,960 --> 00:13:04,960 Speaker 1: You're going through your healing process. It's something that's gonna 242 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:08,360 Speaker 1: take a while, so I hope that helps. It's really 243 00:13:08,440 --> 00:13:10,960 Speaker 1: tough because I wish I had more to tell you, 244 00:13:11,000 --> 00:13:14,840 Speaker 1: but I understand it. It can be very painful, but 245 00:13:15,880 --> 00:13:18,720 Speaker 1: stay away from those people because people that love you. 246 00:13:18,720 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 1: That's one thing I think my mom for that. She 247 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:23,320 Speaker 1: never questioned me. She believed me and had my back, 248 00:13:23,400 --> 00:13:27,160 Speaker 1: and that feels good. Stay close to the people that 249 00:13:27,440 --> 00:13:31,319 Speaker 1: have your back and believe you, you know. So I'm 250 00:13:31,360 --> 00:13:34,080 Speaker 1: wishing you all the best. You guys, thank you so 251 00:13:34,200 --> 00:13:36,720 Speaker 1: much for listening to another episode of Dear Cheekys and 252 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:39,200 Speaker 1: watching as well. 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