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Speaker 3: Baby, We've been together for like a year now, and
Speaker 3: we were having sex in the beginning, and it's like
Speaker 3: died out. So I like, I'm just confused.
Speaker 2: I guess, Dick, why don't you like having sex?
Speaker 4: I don't really know. It's not like I don't like
Speaker 4: to sorry to cuss on the strength to come, but
Speaker 4: it's just I don't know. I don't see the the
Speaker 4: point I guess.
Speaker 2: Interesting, so you don't see the point of coming. Hello, Hello, Hi,
Speaker 2: is this Dick and Jane?
Speaker 4: It is?
Speaker 2: It says here, Dick and Jane, you are twenty three
Speaker 2: and twenty two, You're from Phoenix, and you're trying to
Speaker 2: have some figure out some bedroom problems. It says here
Speaker 2: that Dick is not a fan of having sex, and
Speaker 2: that he's open to Jane having sex with other people
Speaker 2: to satisfy her need. But correct, Jane, it says here
Speaker 2: that you don't seem sure of whether or not you're
Speaker 2: comfortable doing that. Is that correct? What the call screener.
Speaker 3: Said, Well, I've never been like, I don't know, I've
Speaker 3: never been in this situation. So it's just very new
Speaker 3: and I'm I don't know I have I don't really
Speaker 3: even know how I feel about it.
Speaker 2: Interesting. Let me talk to uh, let me talk to
Speaker 2: Dick first. Dick, why don't you like having sex?
Speaker 4: I you know, I don't really know. It's not like
Speaker 4: I don't like to uh, sorry to cuss on the
Speaker 4: strength to come, but it's just I don't know. I
Speaker 4: don't see the the point I guess I don't know.
Speaker 5: It's just not in my.
Speaker 4: Like wants, if that makes any sense.
Speaker 2: Interesting, So you don't see the point of.
Speaker 5: Coming yeah, pretty much.
Speaker 4: I mean, well, it's kind of like, I don't know, man,
Speaker 4: I I'm happier drinking and like working.
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 4: I you know, I know it's a weird thing to say,
Speaker 4: but yeah, I don't know. Sex. Sex isn't my thing.
Speaker 2: It's just not in your wheelhouse. It's not of you
Speaker 2: have noticed it?
Speaker 6: Do you? Do?
Speaker 2: You masturbate.
Speaker 5: Every now and then?
Speaker 4: Very rarely? I would say, like once every couple of weeks.
Speaker 2: Okay, if you see, uh a person that you're attracted
Speaker 2: to on the street or on your computer or whatever,
Speaker 2: does that? Does that make you horny?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 4: I definitely get horny. It's not like a like I
Speaker 4: don't feel sexual desire. It's like I don't have the
Speaker 4: the desire to fulfill the desires, if that makes any sense.
Speaker 2: And yeah, no, that actually makes a lot of sense.
Speaker 2: Uh So, Jane are you there?
Speaker 6: Yes?
Speaker 5: Hello?
Speaker 2: Okay, how do you feel about all of uh? What? What?
Speaker 7: What?
Speaker 2: Dick has expressed?
Speaker 8: It's I guess it's a little confusing just because well,
Speaker 8: me and Dick, like we met in college and we
Speaker 8: were like friends with benefits with each other, but also
Speaker 8: like a lot of different people, and we were both having.
Speaker 3: A lot of sex while we were just friends, and
Speaker 3: then we've been together for like a year now and
Speaker 3: we were having sex in the beginning, and it's like
Speaker 3: died out. So I like, I'm just confused. I guess.
Speaker 2: Okay, So so Dick was at one point quite sexually active,
Speaker 2: but it just fizzled out. Yes, interesting, Dick, what made
Speaker 2: it fizzle out? Do you think do you have it?
Speaker 2: Do you even have an answer to that question? Or
Speaker 2: was it just a natural thing?
Speaker 4: Uh? I actually do I I literally I was just
Speaker 4: like I don't know if it's like just written into
Speaker 4: my brain, but I just see sex as like the
Speaker 4: courting process and then once you're actually you get somebody
Speaker 4: and it's like the actual love stuff matters.
Speaker 5: But I feel like.
Speaker 4: That, I know that the dumb argument. I know no
Speaker 4: one else thinks like that.
Speaker 2: So it's like, well, well, hold on, hold on, I
Speaker 2: don't think it's a dumb argument. It's just it's just
Speaker 2: there's no it's not a it's not a thing of
Speaker 2: correct or incorrect. It's just how you look at it.
Speaker 2: So you're not wrong. But I guess now that you
Speaker 2: are in a relationship and you have found a sort
Speaker 2: of love the sex part of that is is just
Speaker 2: not important to you.
Speaker 4: Well, and it's not that we don't have sex. We
Speaker 4: just I know she likes to have sex a lot,
Speaker 4: and I am like once a month, twice a month
Speaker 4: that is perfectly fine by me, where I know she
Speaker 4: would like it at least multiple times a week.
Speaker 2: So Jane, yes, sirs, tell tell us what is what
Speaker 2: is your sort of sexual situation is? Would you consider
Speaker 2: sex to be very important to you?
Speaker 3: I mean it's I've since I've started being sexual, like
Speaker 3: in my life, I haven't really slowed down, I guess,
Speaker 3: but I've also like used sex for not healthy purposes,
Speaker 3: if that makes any sense.
Speaker 2: Well healthy purposes.
Speaker 3: It's well, I mean I had a lot of body
Speaker 3: issues in my life, and I was like, well, if
Speaker 3: I have sex with people, like my body is fine,
Speaker 3: Like it's with like validation, you know. So it's like
Speaker 3: and I.
Speaker 9: Guess I still have body issues, so maybe that's why
Speaker 9: I feel that way, but I also just know, like
Speaker 9: I am a very sexual person, and so it was
Speaker 9: just like.
Speaker 3: I don't know, I like, I love dick so much,
Speaker 3: so it's like it was just off to me when
Speaker 3: I wait, okay, well you know Richard.
Speaker 2: But see, yeah, I was. I was wondering when you
Speaker 2: said you loved Dick so much. I was. I was genuinely.
Speaker 2: I know it's funny, but I was genuine wondering. Do
Speaker 2: you mean like you actually.
Speaker 4: Loved Dick but me Dick is what you mean?
Speaker 3: Anyways?
Speaker 2: Sorry, So you two are are are very much happy
Speaker 2: being with each other. Would you say that this is
Speaker 2: I was one of okay, great, so you would say
Speaker 2: that this is one of the really only source sticking points.
Speaker 4: It's not like a conflict or anything.
Speaker 5: It's just more of like.
Speaker 4: A I know that she wants this thing, and for me,
Speaker 4: I do not want this thing very often. And it's
Speaker 4: more of just like it wouldn't piss me off at
Speaker 4: all if she was doing this for you know, her thing,
Speaker 4: it just wouldn't you know.
Speaker 2: It's so now that we have the backgrounds. Uh, you
Speaker 2: have proposed the idea that Jane go out and have
Speaker 2: sex with other people. Uh, Jane, what what is your
Speaker 2: your thoughts on this idea?
Speaker 5: It's she I.
Speaker 3: Don't want to say that I like want to do it,
Speaker 3: but I'm open to the idea of doing it.
Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, hold on. When you say you
Speaker 2: don't want to say that you want to do it?
Speaker 2: Do you mean you don't want to say it? Or
Speaker 2: do you mean you you genuinely don't want to.
Speaker 3: It's not that I don't want to. I just don't
Speaker 3: know how to say, like I don't want to have
Speaker 3: sex with other people, but I.
Speaker 6: Want to have sex.
Speaker 3: M It's it's conflicting. So because I'm a very monogamous person,
Speaker 3: but like when I'm in a relationship, obviously, but that's
Speaker 3: just who I am. But I'm not closed off to
Speaker 3: the idea.
Speaker 5: I would just need.
Speaker 3: More clarification on like the process and how this is,
Speaker 3: how this is supposed to go.
Speaker 2: The process of how this is supposed to go? What what? What?
Speaker 2: What do you What's give me an example of like
Speaker 2: a process. I don't know what you mean by what
Speaker 2: when you say process?
Speaker 4: Where do we start?
Speaker 3: How do I do I scout someone out? Do do
Speaker 3: we go scouting out to get there?
Speaker 2: Let's listen, listen, listen, listen. Congratulations, you have the same
Speaker 2: exact problem of any other you know, single person who's
Speaker 2: trying to have sex. Does that track? I mean, that's
Speaker 2: that's your your here's the thing is your your But
Speaker 2: here's the thing your your boyfriend has given you permission
Speaker 2: to do whatever you want, and then from there the process. Uh,
Speaker 2: it's the fucking same as any other process of anyone
Speaker 2: else trying to get laid, which is like whatever, man,
Speaker 2: you go out to a bar, you go on tender,
Speaker 2: you join a soccer club, you know your boyfriend. Your
Speaker 2: boyfriend can give you permission within the bounds of your
Speaker 2: relationships to go have sex with other people, but he
Speaker 2: can't give you a guide on how to do it.
Speaker 2: He's not like a He can't like be some sort
Speaker 2: of pick up artist mentor for you.
Speaker 3: I guess it's like do you want like do you
Speaker 3: want to know details? Do you want? Like I just
Speaker 3: don't know what you do and you don't want to know.
Speaker 4: Like that's what I'm And I feel this is lile
Speaker 4: what you were just saying, Like it's just up to you,
Speaker 4: Like I'm just literally throwing the ballpark out there for
Speaker 4: what you need, and I just you you make the ship.
Speaker 2: You make the rules exactly. Look, because here's the thing,
Speaker 2: getting laid can be hard. I think that that might
Speaker 2: be one of the reasons why uh Dick doesn't want
Speaker 2: to have anything to do with it. So I mean, let'sten, there's, there's, here's,
Speaker 2: here's here's. I feel like one of the sort of
Speaker 2: final pieces of the puzzle. Are you wondering if Dick
Speaker 2: wants to know if you go have sex with other people?
Speaker 2: Because that's another thing I've heard about, you know, in
Speaker 2: some of these kind of relationship setups where it's like, Okay,
Speaker 2: you can do everything, but I don't want to know
Speaker 2: about it. And then there's a version where it's like, hey, honey,
Speaker 2: go out on a night to the town, go out
Speaker 2: on your date, nobody come home. We can talk all
Speaker 2: about it and I'll listen with glee. You know, I
Speaker 2: don't know what's what what you guys are though.
Speaker 4: It comes down to that's a that's a good question.
Speaker 4: I think we got to talk about that like on
Speaker 4: our own because I don't really know on that side,
Speaker 4: that's a good question. I don't know if I want
Speaker 4: to know or if I don't want to know. I
Speaker 4: feel like there's a guy taking her out on a night.
Speaker 4: Dat I don't see any problem with that. But it's like, yeah,
Speaker 4: I'm going to move here and get banned. Obviously that's
Speaker 4: not it's different. That's different, But at.
Speaker 3: The same time, the action that was just spoken about
Speaker 3: is like the whole point.
Speaker 5: Yeah, so it's hard, That's what I'm saying. I don't
Speaker 5: I don't know.
Speaker 2: Uh, well listen, here's here's the thing is, you know,
Speaker 2: I think regardless of what happens, because clearly sounds like
Speaker 2: you two, uh have no problem communicating with each other.
Speaker 2: So uh, I would just I would just continue to
Speaker 2: do that.
Speaker 4: I just think we wanted to hear just a third party.
Speaker 4: We just needed like a third party in this to
Speaker 4: like say something pretty much, we're a.
Speaker 3: Huge fan of your podcast.
Speaker 2: Like we Yeah, so I I appreciate that. I feel
Speaker 2: like you sound well, you you sound like you're you
Speaker 2: were like confused. You were like I don't know what
Speaker 2: the process is or whatever, and it's like, well, you're
Speaker 2: not going to be given a process. You're just going
Speaker 2: to be given permission within the bounds of the relationship.
Speaker 2: And then also, you know, I don't know, sounds like
Speaker 2: maybe you want to get into deeper specifics of what
Speaker 2: you know, should we talk about it? Like, you know,
Speaker 2: if I'm going on a date with if I'm texting
Speaker 2: some guy on Tinder, like does day does Dick want
Speaker 2: to be there, like, Oh, what should I say to
Speaker 2: him next type of ship? Like how involved does he
Speaker 2: want to be? You know, I think that's sort of
Speaker 2: the next step in the conversation for you.
Speaker 3: I agree, and yeah.
Speaker 2: This guys just cut out now. But uh, is there
Speaker 2: anything in particular you guys want to say to the
Speaker 2: people of the computer before we go?
Speaker 5: Sorry?
Speaker 6: Can you say that again?
Speaker 2: Is there anything you guys want to say before we go? No?
Speaker 3: No, we appreciate your out man.
Speaker 2: I hope you have a great day, beautiful, take care guys. Hi, man,
Speaker 2: people are really uh, people are really chill these days.
Speaker 2: I like it. I fuck with those two. Those two
Speaker 2: are sick. I there's a lot. I haven't read the chat,
Speaker 2: but dude, I posted this clip on Instagram a while
Speaker 2: ago from a polyamorous couple that called in, and there
Speaker 2: was just all these like nasty comments on it, being like, oh,
Speaker 2: that guy's a cock and uh whatever. I would never
Speaker 2: let my girlfriend do this, But I like, I fuck
Speaker 2: with both of them. They both seemed like they had
Speaker 2: like a really healthy relationship with each other. And that
Speaker 2: guy dick Uh he I'm I'm jealous of him. I
Speaker 2: wish I could transcend I wish I could fucking transcend
Speaker 2: my own desire to have sex. That would be incredible.
Speaker 2: I would get so much more done. I would be
Speaker 2: a happier person. Life would be great. Dick is chillin.
Speaker 2: He's he's not only transcended his desire to have sex,
Speaker 2: which which by the way, almost makes him God. We
Speaker 2: were put on the earth to kind of fuck each
Speaker 2: other and repopulate, and the biological drive all that stuff,
Speaker 2: And Dick looked at Dick looked at that, and he said, no,
Speaker 2: I am conscious. I am above the laws of my
Speaker 2: own body. What a what a G? What a G?
Speaker 2: And then he's not. And then not only that, he's
Speaker 2: secure enough in his relationship, he trusts his partner enough
Speaker 2: to be like, I don't give a fuck what you do.
Speaker 2: Does it go? Fuck whoever you want. Then come home
Speaker 2: and let's watch a movie or something. I like those guys.
Speaker 2: People are chill. There's another thing, too, is I feel
Speaker 2: like people who have And you could you could tell
Speaker 2: on the phone too that he was like he did.
Speaker 2: He hadn't even came to terms with how he felt
Speaker 2: like he was. He kept being like, I know, it's
Speaker 2: like wrong, Like he kept feeling like he was like
Speaker 2: doing something wrong by feeling the way he was feeling, uh,
Speaker 2: just because it's the way he's feeling is not probably reflected,
Speaker 2: and a lot of other people he meets or sees
Speaker 2: or hears about or whatever, you could tell that he
Speaker 2: was like in it, like weird in his mind. He
Speaker 2: he didn't quite come to terms with uh, like how
Speaker 2: he was feeling I think, And it possibly could have
Speaker 2: been because he was scared of of whether or not
Speaker 2: his partner would like be cool with it. But it's
Speaker 2: kind of surprising. I think the amount of people that
Speaker 2: are out there, if you find the right ones that
Speaker 2: kind of mesh with you, that will be cool with
Speaker 2: your weird thing. He found someone who's cool with his
Speaker 2: weird thing. I mean that that girl Jane, she's trying.
Speaker 2: She just trying to make it. She is with him,
Speaker 2: trying to make it work. That's sick. I like those guys.
Speaker 2: I think they'll be fine. I like, I would love
Speaker 2: to if Dick, if Dick is open to it, I
Speaker 2: would love to. H Like if I got an Instagram
Speaker 2: ad uh from and he was selling like an ebook
Speaker 2: along with a course or something on how to transcend
Speaker 2: your own desire to have sex. I would. I would
Speaker 2: absolutely buy that for fourteen ninety nine, I would. I would.
Speaker 2: You know, like, obviously you can't choose these things about you.
Speaker 2: You know, we all know that they're like whatever, conversion
Speaker 2: therapies and stuff that's you know, it's no good. But
Speaker 2: if I could attend some kind of asexual conversion therapy,
Speaker 2: I'm there, Hello, Hello, Jasmine? Is that you?
Speaker 4: Yeah?
Speaker 2: How's your life going, Jasmine?
Speaker 3: I'm fantastic, litt nervous?
Speaker 7: Am I talking to ghek?
Speaker 2: You are talking to the gecko boy?
Speaker 7: Uh god, it's so nice to meet you.
Speaker 2: It's nice to meet you as well. I do you
Speaker 2: consider talk?
Speaker 7: Do you?
Speaker 2: Would you consider this meeting? Even though we're on the phone.
Speaker 2: I feel like this is you know, it's pretty good.
Speaker 2: It's it's it's we are definitely connected. I can hear you,
Speaker 2: you can hear me. But have we met, right? I
Speaker 2: don't know.
Speaker 6: I think.
Speaker 7: It's more realistic this way than like walking around in
Speaker 7: the street, you know, like I don't. I'm not in
Speaker 7: Los Angeles, So I feel like I feel like this
Speaker 7: is a good way. It's I kept say this meetings,
Speaker 7: this is dope.
Speaker 2: Well, Jasmine, it says here you know, I'm I don't
Speaker 2: Sometimes I don't like doing the it says here a thing.
Speaker 2: What what is it that you called in to talk
Speaker 2: about today.
Speaker 7: Jasmine, Well, I called to share a little story about
Speaker 7: something that happened to me. And I think I was
Speaker 7: just like eighth grade or like a freshman in high
Speaker 7: school where poop my pants ship myself.
Speaker 2: As a result of.
Speaker 5: What'd you say?
Speaker 2: Well, okay, real quick, it's just here that you were
Speaker 2: trying to impress a boy when this happened.
Speaker 7: Yeah, I not with doing so it just happened to
Speaker 7: be a factor. I don't think he was impressed. I
Speaker 7: don't know if he knows to this day, but you know,
Speaker 7: it feels.
Speaker 2: Free if you want to start from the beginning of this.
Speaker 7: Oh perfect, Okay, I sorry, I think I'm I'm anxious
Speaker 7: or excited one of the two. But sweet, Okay. So
Speaker 7: I live over in the Midwest and there's a very
Speaker 7: big kind of like I don't know, like a it's
Speaker 7: like a water park and like a like a ride
Speaker 7: kind of area I guess if you will, all in
Speaker 7: one And I was going to church at the time,
Speaker 7: and my church group decided to go there for like
Speaker 7: a little day trip in the summertime, and there was
Speaker 7: another church group that was kind of merging with us,
Speaker 7: and I thought that one of the boys from that
Speaker 7: other church group was really cute, and so I was
Speaker 7: really excited that he was going to be there. And
Speaker 7: we go to this the water park section or whatever,
Speaker 7: and I'm very excited. I was kind of a little
Speaker 7: tomboy at that time, and so I just would kind
Speaker 7: of hang out with the boys and there is this
Speaker 7: big time There's this one water slide that just goes
Speaker 7: like straight down you know those guys, and you know,
Speaker 7: I was so excited. I was like, Oh, this is
Speaker 7: you know, this is my chance to impress Josh or whatever.
Speaker 7: And so I went up with all the guys and
Speaker 7: we were all kind of going back and forth or whatever, like,
Speaker 7: Oh my gosh, who's gonna go first? And so I
Speaker 7: was like, you know, fuck it, I'll do it. So
Speaker 7: I got ready. I went down the giant water slide
Speaker 7: and when I'm like sitting back up, I feel a
Speaker 7: little sloshing in my one piece and I'm a little confused,
Speaker 7: and so I don't really think much of it though.
Speaker 7: I just kind of stand up and we the entire
Speaker 7: group is just walking to the next thing or whatever.
Speaker 7: But I'm I'm trailing back and I smell this god
Speaker 7: awful smell, and I'm really nervous because the guys are like, ohh,
Speaker 7: I come do this thing with us or whatever, and
Speaker 7: I'm like, you know, I'm gonna go to the bathroom quick.
Speaker 7: And there's only public bathrooms there, not like you know,
Speaker 7: I guess like family ones or whatever that I could
Speaker 7: find at least. And so I went to the bathroom
Speaker 7: and I ran into a stall and like took my
Speaker 7: one piece off and just saw shit everywhere in my
Speaker 7: black swimsuit.
Speaker 5: And I got.
Speaker 7: Really nervous because I was like, oh my god, I
Speaker 7: have the entirety of the day. And so I like
Speaker 7: peek out off the stall really quickly to see if
Speaker 7: anybody's in there, and it looked like everyone had left.
Speaker 7: So I run out of the stall butt naked to
Speaker 7: the to the sink and I take off my swimsuit
Speaker 7: and I try to wash it in the sink with
Speaker 7: like soap and water, and I hear like a mother
Speaker 7: and a child come in, So I take it and
Speaker 7: then I run back into the stall and like try
Speaker 7: and just wipe everything up that I can, and I
Speaker 7: kind of just keep doing rounds back and forth to
Speaker 7: clean it.
Speaker 2: Man, that sounds intensely stressful. I really, I really you
Speaker 2: kind of like put me there. Yeah, I know you did,
Speaker 2: because I could smell it too. I was imagining what
Speaker 2: it would be like to be in that situation, you know,
Speaker 2: like especially when you're like in ninth grade and just
Speaker 2: just saw a pressure sure to not have shit in
Speaker 2: your pants at most times. I mean, that's that was
Speaker 2: heroic of you to run out of the bathroom but
Speaker 2: naked back in foot, you know what. You know, what
Speaker 2: I like about that story is that you experienced of
Speaker 2: extremely stressful situation and you attacked it with a solution.
Speaker 2: You know, you didn't give up. I mean, I mean realistically, realistically,
Speaker 2: you had no choice. You had no choice but to
Speaker 2: find a solution. It's inspiring story, actually great.
Speaker 7: I think this is my biggest example of perseverance. Like
Speaker 7: you know how when you go to jobs interviews and
Speaker 7: they're like, what's one one time that you showed this?
Speaker 7: I think this is a perfect example of one time.
Speaker 2: Have you ever told that story an answer question?
Speaker 7: I haven't. I've actually been terrified to share the story
Speaker 7: with anyone.
Speaker 5: For years.
Speaker 7: There's one time I got really drunk with my friends though,
Speaker 7: and I them about it finally, and they're the only
Speaker 7: ones who like know about it. And I think I
Speaker 7: told my boyfriend maybe once. I'm like, I I have not.
Speaker 2: Here really okay, So how do you feel having shared
Speaker 2: it on uh on the computer? You know, I feel
Speaker 2: with you.
Speaker 7: I feel comfortable with you. I'm gonna be really honest.
Speaker 7: I think I'm a I love your I listen to
Speaker 7: a lot of your stuff on Spotify and watch your
Speaker 7: dreams when I can. And every time I hear like
Speaker 7: a like a Pope story, I'm just like, fuck, I
Speaker 7: really got a call and share this one.
Speaker 2: No, I will look thank you for putting me. You know,
Speaker 2: it's funny because like if something like that happened to
Speaker 2: me now, actually stuff like that kind of does happen
Speaker 2: to me. I I I've clogged toilets at horrible uh
Speaker 2: times situations and I've had to deal with that. But
Speaker 2: I mean, especially at fifteen, that's a that's called the
Speaker 2: fight or flight situation to get in. So yeah, I don't.
Speaker 7: Know what I would do now at twenty, I have
Speaker 7: no idea.
Speaker 10: Uh.
Speaker 2: Is there anything else that you want to say to
Speaker 2: the people the computer.
Speaker 7: Before we go, thank you guys for listening and chat's
Speaker 7: really funny. So I appreciate how cool you guys were
Speaker 7: about it. And uh, I appreciate I hope you guys
Speaker 7: laughed as much as Actid during this.
Speaker 2: Beautiful Thank you for calling Jasmine.
Speaker 7: Thank you you're so lovely.
Speaker 5: Have a good night.
Speaker 2: She's very kind. Yeah, I don't know what I would
Speaker 2: have done in that situation. Uh, I guess I probably
Speaker 2: would have now did the stall have toilet paper in it?
Speaker 2: Because I it's hard to get like water in there, right,
Speaker 2: so you can probably just have like gotten naked in
Speaker 2: the stall and used toilet paper to wipe away the shit.
Speaker 2: That's what I would have done first, is I would
Speaker 2: have done the first a little wipe through, and then
Speaker 2: I would have gone out and washed the suit. But dude,
Speaker 2: I mean, in a public restroom like that, especially at
Speaker 2: a water park, there's probably like eight stalls, I mean,
Speaker 2: to find the opportunity and then you have to like
Speaker 2: sort of a look out and see if there's anybody there,
Speaker 2: and to find the opportunity where you are truly completely
Speaker 2: alone enough to wash that suit, complete that operation. That's
Speaker 2: a whole thing. I'm very impressed by that. Hello, Hello,
Speaker 2: Why is the sand?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 6: Yeah, it's sad, but yeah, that's.
Speaker 4: What I thought.
Speaker 2: I read Sam, and I was like, it's gotta be
Speaker 2: Sam to the end and the end way too close
Speaker 2: on the keyboard for for it not to be, for
Speaker 2: it not to be sad. Uh, what's going on? Uh say,
Speaker 2: I'm gonna you know, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna
Speaker 2: blasphemize the computer and tell that it's wrong. So I'm
Speaker 2: gonna just call you Sand if that's okay. Oh, Frad,
Speaker 2: what's going on with you? Sam?
Speaker 6: Just just got out of work, pretty tired.
Speaker 2: What do you do for work?
Speaker 6: I'm an electrician?
Speaker 2: You're a what.
Speaker 6: Electrician?
Speaker 2: You're an electrician? How how many times have you electrocuted yourself?
Speaker 10: Uh?
Speaker 6: Not gonna lie, electrocuting myself? Like at least three times
Speaker 6: to wake myself up? And I'm at work?
Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, hold on? You electrocute it yourself
Speaker 2: three times to wake yourself up?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Like I work at like seven in the morning. I
Speaker 6: had to be there. I had to wake up at
Speaker 6: five thirty and then be at the job set at
Speaker 6: seven in the morning, so I'm pretty still pretty tired,
Speaker 6: so I just like touched at a hot wired and
Speaker 6: it's just like wake up like that stead of drinking
Speaker 6: like a monster, like a rebel or would wake up.
Speaker 2: So you electricate yourself on purpose to wake up?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 6: Yeah, pretty much.
Speaker 2: And would you say it is more effective than an
Speaker 2: energy drink or a coffee?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Honestly, what does the sensation of electricating yourself feel like? Well?
Speaker 6: I played with one twenty votes, so that's like a baby,
Speaker 6: like that's baby compared to life and liken like uh
Speaker 6: in the job saie, that's like the baby's app So
Speaker 6: it's pretty much nothing. It's just like a regular shot
Speaker 6: like those guns them with like those guns that people
Speaker 6: would shock you they thic.
Speaker 9: Like one of those.
Speaker 2: Is this a common thing for electricians to do?
Speaker 6: I'm not sure. I'm not asking my co workers.
Speaker 2: How do you think your co workers would respond if
Speaker 2: you told them that you were intentionally shocking yourself to
Speaker 2: wake yourself up?
Speaker 6: Honestly, I think they'll do the same thing because they
Speaker 6: they're pretty tired as well, So.
Speaker 2: You think it would catch on?
Speaker 5: Yeah, I think so.
Speaker 2: Have you ever tried to entice one of your co
Speaker 2: workers into shocking themselves by telling them that it gives
Speaker 2: you a burst of energy.
Speaker 6: No, I have not.
Speaker 2: What does the actual process of shocking yourself look like?
Speaker 6: Uh? Just so we have like a little a little
Speaker 6: ten it's like a machine because it's called a pent
Speaker 6: tester or volt tester, and you turn it on and
Speaker 6: it's like lights of green and you go to like
Speaker 6: a hot wire. You make sure like it's hot, like
Speaker 6: the black obviously the black wire. If it's hot, they
Speaker 6: start beeping the vote test the pent tester and if
Speaker 6: from there, you just take out the wire net and
Speaker 6: just slightly touch it and then just let go and
Speaker 6: then you get a shock.
Speaker 2: Is this something that you would recommend to other people?
Speaker 4: No?
Speaker 2: M Do you feel like you can note? Do you
Speaker 2: feel like you can sense a notable difference in your
Speaker 2: day between a day where you do shock yourself and
Speaker 2: a day where you don't?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 6: Yes, oh yeah, because I always talk myself sometimes when
Speaker 6: like IA, like for example, when they your new podcast,
Speaker 6: like we're there, so I listened to it and I'm
Speaker 6: from there, like probably tomorrow I'll I may or may
Speaker 6: not do like shock myself to wake myself up because
Speaker 6: I have nothing else like no other podcasts like listen
Speaker 6: to it. It's just like your.
Speaker 2: Honestly, So if I have a podcast that comes out,
Speaker 2: you listen to that instead of shocking yourself.
Speaker 6: Yeah, like it like every well, Mondays and Wednesdays the
Speaker 6: room when you drop like a new episode and then
Speaker 6: from there it's just like that's my starts up my dating, honestly,
Speaker 6: and then from there like to them tomorrow. Like I said,
Speaker 6: it's no a new episode or just like like what
Speaker 6: can I wake my solf up with?
Speaker 2: Have you tried switching to just coffee or energy drinks
Speaker 2: as opposed to shocking yourself.
Speaker 6: I had no time for like to stop at a
Speaker 6: gas station and get like an energy drink for anything,
Speaker 6: because I'm already running late.
Speaker 2: I guess that makes sense because if you're already on
Speaker 2: the job working with wires, it's more convenient and sort
Speaker 2: of already on your way to just shock yourself instead
Speaker 2: of going to a convenience store and getting a coffee. Yeah,
Speaker 2: so it makes perfect sense. Yeah, you could say that, Sam,
Speaker 2: it'sis here that you have some baby mama drama. Do
Speaker 2: you want to tell us about that?
Speaker 6: Oh? Yeah, you might like this one version I'm in
Speaker 6: a long story, short story.
Speaker 2: I'll take the short story, all right.
Speaker 6: So me and mother Mama we were talking pro out whatever,
Speaker 6: and then I guess just things just stop working and
Speaker 6: we woke up and now image a new girl. And
Speaker 6: then in January came and boom, she told me she
Speaker 6: was pregnant. And I was like, oh, well, I guess
Speaker 6: I'm of that now. And yeah, pretty much it. I
Speaker 6: told my current girl and she sort and it's all
Speaker 6: my parents and they're supportive and somewhat supportive not and
Speaker 6: they like, well, we don't think it's my kid. My girlfriend,
Speaker 6: my current girlfriend doesn't think it's my kid, and there's
Speaker 6: just like.
Speaker 5: Just worried about it.
Speaker 6: If it is my kid, like I'm stepping up whatever.
Speaker 2: Okay. And so you were dating a girl, you broke up,
Speaker 2: she tells you that she has a kid and that
Speaker 2: it's yours.
Speaker 7: Uh.
Speaker 2: In the meantime, you started dating a new girl. You
Speaker 2: like the new girl, but you also want to be
Speaker 2: involved in the kid's life. Is that all correct?
Speaker 9: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Yeah? And then it says here that you're worried about
Speaker 2: how this ordeal will affect your new relationship. Yeah, in
Speaker 2: what in what way do you feel like being in
Speaker 2: this child's life will affect the relationship you have going
Speaker 2: with this new person.
Speaker 6: My new girl, she's kind of cycle, kind of like
Speaker 6: oh what we say here in Texas like where I'm from,
Speaker 6: like folks because toxics toxic people, and so yeah, like
Speaker 6: she did. My girl is just kind of crazy anyway.
Speaker 2: Okay, so you and you you consider your new girlfriend
Speaker 2: how long you dated this girl for?
Speaker 6: Oh, we did it about a year. We're about a year.
Speaker 6: We're always even if we were getting before and in
Speaker 6: from we woke up, we woke up this, we woke up.
Speaker 6: So when now were like two months again dating again?
Speaker 2: Right? All right, so let me let me let me
Speaker 2: get this time. That's straight. You're dating this new girl,
Speaker 2: you take a break, you date the girl who is
Speaker 2: your baby mama, you get her pregnant, you break up,
Speaker 2: you go back to dating the other girl.
Speaker 6: Yeah, pretty much.
Speaker 2: Okay, Uh, why do you consider this girl that you're
Speaker 2: dating now to be toxic?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 6: The way she is like she wants me there like
Speaker 6: at her she wants me there at twenty four to
Speaker 6: seven and every time like at her house. I can't
Speaker 6: of course that'll be with her twenty four seven. If
Speaker 6: my friend texts me, it's some of that she doesn't
Speaker 6: want me to hang out with my friends and like,
Speaker 6: just I'm just like that, and I gif I do
Speaker 6: go on my friends. She gets by her like I'm
Speaker 6: just sad and like she just wants to be there
Speaker 6: like with her twenty four seven.
Speaker 2: So I think I might be I think you you
Speaker 2: you might be some sort of a masochist. Do you
Speaker 2: know what a masochist does? No, I have not mask is
Speaker 2: somebody who enjoys I yeah, I think the saydest is
Speaker 2: the one who gives the I think a massacist is
Speaker 2: somebody who enjoys pain they inflict upon themselves.
Speaker 6: Because a little shocking.
Speaker 2: Thing, well, the shocking thing the fact that you're dating
Speaker 2: a girl who you openly are saying is is toxic.
Speaker 2: Why why do you continue to date this girl if
Speaker 2: you consider her time toxic?
Speaker 6: Because I mean, like it towards at the end of
Speaker 6: the day, like she makes me happy no matter what. Like, yeah,
Speaker 6: I think she makes me happy.
Speaker 2: Okay, So at the end of the day she makes
Speaker 2: you happy, But is she stopping you from doing other
Speaker 2: things that make you happy?
Speaker 3: Uh?
Speaker 6: Not really? Every Thursday, I play football, like I play
Speaker 6: sports for wherevery Thursday have a game. She goes through
Speaker 6: me and she like, m let me play football. But
Speaker 6: it's pretty good.
Speaker 2: Okay, all right, So she she's cool with you enjoying
Speaker 2: your hobbies. So how is she toxic? Then? If she
Speaker 2: she seems like she's cool with letting you do things.
Speaker 6: It's just like pharmacy wise, like I want like my
Speaker 6: own personal time and like all like because like I
Speaker 6: get out of work like super late, and I want
Speaker 6: my own time, and she like would bug me and
Speaker 6: like sometimes even check my phone or something and stuff
Speaker 6: like that, like she will like get messed, Like if
Speaker 6: I don't poster, she gets mad, like, hey, why don't
Speaker 6: you post to me? This isn't ad.
Speaker 2: Okay, So let's get back to the kid. Okay, what
Speaker 2: do you think she will think of the kid?
Speaker 6: Um oh in her mind right now, saying that it's
Speaker 6: not my kids. So right now we're just waiting put
Speaker 6: the kids to be born and from there we'll go on.
Speaker 6: She says she'll supporting me, but I'm not sure if
Speaker 6: she is or she isn't.
Speaker 2: Okay, So she thinks it's not your kid, and soon
Speaker 2: you're gonna take I assume opportunity test and you will,
Speaker 2: uh find out for sure whether or not it's your kid.
Speaker 6: Yeah, absolutely I.
Speaker 2: Will, Okay, And so assuming it is your kid, do
Speaker 2: you think that she will be support of you being
Speaker 2: in the kid's life.
Speaker 6: I think she will, but like her trust is going
Speaker 6: to go like.
Speaker 5: Pretty like.
Speaker 6: I'm not like pretty high like high alert because my
Speaker 6: like my mama wants because my band mama wants me
Speaker 6: to be like spend the day like go to her
Speaker 6: house and see the kids for at least two hours
Speaker 6: and then go do whatever I want after work and
Speaker 6: then from there, like if I want to see my
Speaker 6: if like my kid wants to be with me, like
Speaker 6: if I want to see the kid to like my aunts,
Speaker 6: er my parents' house, whatever, like my big mama has
Speaker 6: to be with me like so oft the whole time
Speaker 6: because the may is still new like a newborn.
Speaker 10: And when I listen, Sam, I think, I think you
Speaker 10: need to do a little bit of like you know
Speaker 10: in term you know, like you have good intentions.
Speaker 2: Uh you want to be a good boy friend and
Speaker 2: you want to be a good dad. I can tell
Speaker 2: that about you because if you didn't, you wouldn't be
Speaker 2: calling or you wouldn't even be thinking about these things,
Speaker 2: you would just be sort of fucking around. You want
Speaker 2: to be a good dad, and you want to be
Speaker 2: a good boyfriend. But I think you gotta kind of
Speaker 2: like step back for a second and examine what your
Speaker 2: priorities are, if that makes sense, And once you've done that,
Speaker 2: it would help you to just sort of stick by
Speaker 2: them and be like, Hey, these are my non negotiable
Speaker 2: priorities and you can either be with me as I
Speaker 2: attend to them or you cannot. Is that fair? What
Speaker 2: do you think about that? So for you to be like, hey, listen,
Speaker 2: what's what's this girl's h what's give me a fake
Speaker 2: name for your baby mama. I'm gonna call her Victoria.
Speaker 2: It feels like an interest. You gotta be like, hey, Victoria, listen,
Speaker 2: if this child is mine, I want to be in
Speaker 2: this child's life. That means I'm gonna go to the
Speaker 2: soccer games. I'm gonna go to the school parent teacher
Speaker 2: events where me and the baby mama are gonna have
Speaker 2: to sit down talk to the teacher. We're gonna have
Speaker 2: to do certain things together. Because it's the mother of
Speaker 2: my child, she's gonna have to be involved in my
Speaker 2: life to a certain extent and I'm gonna have to
Speaker 2: deal with that because I love my child. This is
Speaker 2: what's gonna happen. I'm putting my foot down. I'm telling
Speaker 2: you this because it's important to me. Do with that information,
Speaker 2: would you please? You have to kind of tell her
Speaker 2: that if that, if this is truly important to you.
Speaker 6: Yeah, well yeah, my daughter well might sooner being born.
Speaker 6: Daughter is pretty important to me at the home.
Speaker 2: Okay, So I mean, what do you think about what
Speaker 2: I've just said to you out like sort of internally
Speaker 2: lying out your priorities and trying as hard as you
Speaker 2: can just stand by them.
Speaker 6: Pretty much, was like, yeah, that's that's what I want
Speaker 6: kind of to do, like plus to my girl and
Speaker 6: tell her like hey, like yeah, like I said, I'm
Speaker 6: seeing authorities that about my kid. And if you said
Speaker 6: it perfectly.
Speaker 2: Listen, what's your name? San Sam? Do me a favor, Sam.
Speaker 2: Stop shocking yourself for not not not Don't do it
Speaker 2: for me, don't do it for don't even do it
Speaker 2: for you. Do it for the child because she's gonna
Speaker 2: she's gonna because here's the thing, Uh, I remember being
Speaker 2: a kid. When you're a kid, you want to fuck
Speaker 2: around with everything exposed, wires, barbed wires, spiky cactus shoes,
Speaker 2: just fuck around with stuff, just touch everything. And your
Speaker 2: kid's gonna see you fucking around with the wires, and
Speaker 2: she's gonna want to fuck around with the wires and
Speaker 2: the voltage that you use. It's not enough to kill you,
Speaker 2: but it's enough to kill her. So man, try like
Speaker 2: a monster or something. Those are pretty good. There's lots
Speaker 2: of alternatives out there for you. All hope is not lost.
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'll try a month. I'll say about red Bull
Speaker 6: the watermelon.
Speaker 2: Favor, that one I have tried, the reddible watermelon flavor.
Speaker 2: That could get their new slogan better than shocking yourself
Speaker 2: readibule watermelon. You could be the guy. You could be
Speaker 2: the spokesperson. You can tell people you're sorry you used
Speaker 2: to have to shock yourself with wires, but now you
Speaker 2: get an even better buzz from red Bull Watermelon.
Speaker 6: That's hey, Red Bull India.
Speaker 2: Is there anything else you want to say to the
Speaker 2: people of the computer before we go?
Speaker 6: Sam uh nos be just appreciate you, gig thanks to
Speaker 6: the words. I keeple with my heart, keep it in
Speaker 6: my mind every day, and you could do what you're doing.
Speaker 2: Thank you for Collin San.
Speaker 6: They've got they.
Speaker 2: See I uh, you know, I feel for San because,
Speaker 2: like I here's what I kind of believe, Not that
Speaker 2: I have any beliefs about anything, but I believe you
Speaker 2: can kind of you can kind of like do whatever
Speaker 2: you want until you have a kid. Like if you
Speaker 2: want to like shock yourself, or be in a shitty relationship,
Speaker 2: or run off to a foreign country or go to
Speaker 2: you can kind of just do anything with your life
Speaker 2: until you have a kid. Then you have this like
Speaker 2: inherent responsibility to a thing forever. That's why I don't
Speaker 2: want to have kids so that I can just be shitty.
Speaker 2: I would love I love being I love being shitty.
Speaker 2: It's awesome. I love being shitty and having no responsibilities
Speaker 2: to anyone except for myself. It's great. I never want
Speaker 2: to give that up. Maybe in a decade, when I
Speaker 2: find myself cripplingly lonely as a result of my actions,
Speaker 2: I'll rethink that. But until then, I'm having an awesome
Speaker 2: time answering to absolutely no one. Sam unfortunately has values
Speaker 2: that are going to cripple him. He has a genuine
Speaker 2: desire to be a good father, which will cripple him
Speaker 2: in his decisions, in his paths in life. He can't
Speaker 2: really go by the whims of his Uh, he's really enjoying.
Speaker 2: You could tell he's really enjoying living at the whim
Speaker 2: of his as he calls it, as he calls her
Speaker 2: toxic girlfriend, and like he can totally do that and
Speaker 2: enjoy doing that. But now he has a kid, and
Speaker 2: the love that he has for his kid is gonna
Speaker 2: conflict with that, and he's got to deal with that,
Speaker 2: and I feel for him. I hope he's able to
Speaker 2: deal with it in a constructive way. Meanwhile, myself and
Speaker 2: the rest of us that don't have children will enjoy
Speaker 2: bathing in as much toxicity as we please. Good luck
Speaker 2: to Sam, Sam whatever his name was, he had good intentions.
Speaker 2: I hope he follows them.
Speaker 7: Hello.
Speaker 2: Is this Dave from Tennessee?
Speaker 5: Yes to Dave?
Speaker 7: Dave?
Speaker 2: Yes, what's going on? Dave?
Speaker 5: Well, I'm chilling.
Speaker 2: Oh, happy heart is to you as well. David says
Speaker 2: here twenty five years old, you're from Tennessee. Says that
Speaker 2: you have a speech impediment, and you would like to
Speaker 2: discuss how you feel society views speech impediments. Is that accurate?
Speaker 5: Yeah?
Speaker 2: Okay, tell me more about that.
Speaker 5: Well, you know, it's it's it's a little difficult, I think,
Speaker 5: especially in the retail space, I get a lot of looks,
Speaker 5: but I'll try not to take it personally.
Speaker 2: Do you work in retail?
Speaker 5: I do. I won't disclose the company name this out
Speaker 5: of I guess either the respect or the fear that
Speaker 5: when you're fired. Okay, but yeah, I work in retail.
Speaker 2: Okay, So you work in retail, you get a lot
Speaker 2: of Do you get a lot of people being let's
Speaker 2: let's let we'll get to the looks, but let's start
Speaker 2: at like sort of the most intense reactions. Do you
Speaker 2: get people who are hostile with you because of your
Speaker 2: speech impediment?
Speaker 5: Not necessarily a hot style, but there are some people
Speaker 5: that I guess they have never experienced a speech impediment,
Speaker 5: so they tend to think that something is wrong. I
Speaker 5: guess when that's not the case at all.
Speaker 2: Mhm.
Speaker 5: It's worse with a stress and the work, it's it's
Speaker 5: it's hard, but I'm just like, hey, no, nothing's wrong.
Speaker 5: I'm just trying to help you out there. Famly, it's
Speaker 5: not a big deal.
Speaker 2: So when you're stressed out, does the speech impediment kind
Speaker 2: of get worse or a flare up more.
Speaker 5: Yeah, it definitely gets worse. The yes.
Speaker 6: Found it.
Speaker 5: It's already hard enough. I think it's worse with stress. Ah,
Speaker 5: just my my ability to communicate gets harder under stress.
Speaker 2: So people you said, I don't have a lot of
Speaker 2: experience with people have speech impediments, and you feel like
Speaker 2: that gives them a wrong idea. What would you like
Speaker 2: those people to know?
Speaker 9: Uh?
Speaker 5: I think the first thing is like I'm not and
Speaker 5: most people that have speak impediments are not like handicaps.
Speaker 5: I guess in like a mental way.
Speaker 6: M h.
Speaker 5: I mean, I guess that's the first thing. But the
Speaker 5: second thing is also like, it's not really that big
Speaker 5: of a deal to us, except for when it's made
Speaker 5: a big deal.
Speaker 2: Interesting.
Speaker 5: Then it becomes an become an iss you.
Speaker 2: So it's not a big deal to you except when
Speaker 2: somebody else outside of your own sphere comes along and
Speaker 2: in some way, shape or form makes it into a
Speaker 2: big deal.
Speaker 5: Yes, accurate.
Speaker 2: Do you have an example of that?
Speaker 5: Yeah? So in high scho school, which was like fifteen
Speaker 5: years ago, though we'll not fifteen, like ten years ago.
Speaker 2: Like my.
Speaker 5: Freshman high person year, I had moved to a to
Speaker 5: a tinier part Tennessee. I think I was the like
Speaker 5: the only person in that school that had like a
Speaker 5: a continuous speech impediment, uh like uh at that age,
Speaker 5: Like it had developed in a in it in my
Speaker 5: youth and never never went away. But I remember my
Speaker 5: first two three weeks there were just a number uhh
Speaker 5: uh of classmates that that thought that that I was
Speaker 5: like having a stroke, yeah, like a heart attack. And
Speaker 5: I was like, no, that's that's not That's not the
Speaker 5: case at all. I mean, that's that's not the case
Speaker 5: at all.
Speaker 2: And you know, you know, I assume that after a while,
Speaker 2: you you get annoyed with having to sort of be
Speaker 2: the uh spokesperson of yourself.
Speaker 5: Yeah, because the majority of the people during my life,
Speaker 5: I think I'm the only one that's in their life
Speaker 5: that has a speech impediment uh uh huh huh at
Speaker 5: my age.
Speaker 6: So it does.
Speaker 5: Become annoying. But I also I try to keep in
Speaker 5: my mind that most people don't really know like the
Speaker 5: whole thing just behind they speak impediment, So I try
Speaker 5: not to judge.
Speaker 2: I guess interesting, So I that's kind of cool to
Speaker 2: me that, you know, instead of responding with like a
Speaker 2: an anger. You it sounds like you almost kind of
Speaker 2: you get it. You're like, oh, I understand why people
Speaker 2: think the things that they think about me and what's
Speaker 2: going on with me. So I guess you know, you're like,
Speaker 2: I can't really blame them, because I'm sure if I
Speaker 2: were them, I'd think the same things.
Speaker 5: It's most definitely uh a god experience, I guess for
Speaker 5: people that don't have these speak speak impediment. But also
Speaker 5: the main worry that that I've had, at least is
Speaker 5: that people will will assume that I am uh huh
Speaker 5: unintelligent or uh or were incapable of communicating uh in
Speaker 5: the way that needs to be uh in that specific situations.
Speaker 5: So it's made uh, it's made the act of being uh.
Speaker 5: But you know, UH twenty year old, I guess ex experience.
Speaker 5: UH it's not one that uh I had uh uh
Speaker 5: a whole lot of access to uh uh uh until
Speaker 5: I had some friends that didn't really care and that
Speaker 5: I had a.
Speaker 2: Speaking right, right, you almost have to like, uh do
Speaker 2: a little bit of like extra proving yourself. I mean,
Speaker 2: you know, I look, everybody UH feels some kind of
Speaker 2: weird pressure to prove their own you know, intelligence and whatnot.
Speaker 2: And you've got a little bit of extra of that
Speaker 2: within you because you know, you're walking around with all
Speaker 2: these people's uh, you know, expectations of you know, what
Speaker 2: your what your level of intelligence is like because of
Speaker 2: of of how you sound.
Speaker 5: Definitely is more work that goes into it.
Speaker 2: Well, well, listen, Dave is there you know, I know
Speaker 2: we sort of talked a lot about this particular question,
Speaker 2: uh before we got kind of wanted to phrase it
Speaker 2: again so that you have the opportunity to like tell
Speaker 2: any any any wrap up thoughts on it. But what
Speaker 2: would you like the people listening to this to know
Speaker 2: about people with speech impediments that you think would make
Speaker 2: you know their lives a little bit easier.
Speaker 5: So more often but than not. Well, we are intelligent,
Speaker 5: but we just need a little extra time to communicate
Speaker 5: what we want to communicate, I guess is the main
Speaker 5: message that I want treat out there?
Speaker 2: Is there anything else I want to say to the
Speaker 2: people the computer before we go?
Speaker 6: Happy holidays?
Speaker 5: Make use of it.
Speaker 2: It is twenty It is for twenty at the time
Speaker 2: that this is being recorded. Or are you high right now? Uh?
Speaker 5: Not at the moment I was earlier. I had to
Speaker 5: make dinner, so I had to chill out a.
Speaker 2: Minute before the right answer, Because if you had said yes,
Speaker 2: I would have tracked the phone number, found your address
Speaker 2: and called the police on you instantly. But luckily I
Speaker 2: won't have to do that.
Speaker 5: I love you, Thank you, thank you, Dave. My see.
Speaker 2: Crap. I should have asked him if getting high made
Speaker 2: his speech better or worse. I'll have to look that up. Well,
Speaker 2: I don't even know if it's like a look uppable thing.
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's different for sort of each person.
Speaker 2: But who knows. You know, I go on Reddit a lot.
Speaker 2: If you go on read a lot, you know that
Speaker 2: weed is the cure for everything, cancer, speech impediments, loneliness.
Speaker 2: Never be kid goes on the line taking your phone
Speaker 2: calls every night. Never be kid goes to his side.
Speaker 4: He's teaching you cloud in the middle
Speaker 2: Of your life, but he's not really an expert.