WEBVTT - "WE'RE TRYING AN OPEN RELATIONSHIP"

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, folks, it's Lyle.

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<v Speaker 3>Baby, We've been together for like a year now, and

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<v Speaker 3>we were having sex in the beginning, and it's like

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<v Speaker 3>died out. So I like, I'm just confused.

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<v Speaker 2>I guess, Dick, why don't you like having sex?

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<v Speaker 4>I don't really know. It's not like I don't like

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<v Speaker 4>to sorry to cuss on the strength to come, but

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<v Speaker 4>it's just I don't know. I don't see the the

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<v Speaker 4>point I guess.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting, so you don't see the point of coming. Hello, Hello, Hi,

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<v Speaker 2>is this Dick and Jane?

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<v Speaker 4>It is?

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<v Speaker 2>It says here, Dick and Jane, you are twenty three

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<v Speaker 2>and twenty two, You're from Phoenix, and you're trying to

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<v Speaker 2>have some figure out some bedroom problems. It says here

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<v Speaker 2>that Dick is not a fan of having sex, and

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<v Speaker 2>that he's open to Jane having sex with other people

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<v Speaker 2>to satisfy her need. But correct, Jane, it says here

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<v Speaker 2>that you don't seem sure of whether or not you're

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<v Speaker 2>comfortable doing that. Is that correct? What the call screener.

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<v Speaker 3>Said, Well, I've never been like, I don't know, I've

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<v Speaker 3>never been in this situation. So it's just very new

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<v Speaker 3>and I'm I don't know I have I don't really

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<v Speaker 3>even know how I feel about it.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting. Let me talk to uh, let me talk to

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<v Speaker 2>Dick first. Dick, why don't you like having sex?

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<v Speaker 4>I you know, I don't really know. It's not like

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<v Speaker 4>I don't like to uh, sorry to cuss on the

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<v Speaker 4>strength to come, but it's just I don't know. I

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<v Speaker 4>don't see the the point I guess I don't know.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just not in my.

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<v Speaker 4>Like wants, if that makes any sense.

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<v Speaker 2>Interesting, So you don't see the point of.

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<v Speaker 5>Coming yeah, pretty much.

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<v Speaker 4>I mean, well, it's kind of like, I don't know, man,

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<v Speaker 4>I I'm happier drinking and like working.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I you know, I know it's a weird thing to say,

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<v Speaker 4>but yeah, I don't know. Sex. Sex isn't my thing.

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<v Speaker 2>It's just not in your wheelhouse. It's not of you

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<v Speaker 2>have noticed it?

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<v Speaker 6>Do you? Do?

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<v Speaker 2>You masturbate.

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<v Speaker 5>Every now and then?

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<v Speaker 4>Very rarely? I would say, like once every couple of weeks.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, if you see, uh a person that you're attracted

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<v Speaker 2>to on the street or on your computer or whatever,

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<v Speaker 2>does that? Does that make you horny?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>I definitely get horny. It's not like a like I

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<v Speaker 4>don't feel sexual desire. It's like I don't have the

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<v Speaker 4>the desire to fulfill the desires, if that makes any sense.

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<v Speaker 2>And yeah, no, that actually makes a lot of sense.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh So, Jane are you there?

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<v Speaker 6>Yes?

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<v Speaker 5>Hello?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, how do you feel about all of uh? What? What?

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<v Speaker 7>What?

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<v Speaker 2>Dick has expressed?

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<v Speaker 8>It's I guess it's a little confusing just because well,

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<v Speaker 8>me and Dick, like we met in college and we

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<v Speaker 8>were like friends with benefits with each other, but also

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<v Speaker 8>like a lot of different people, and we were both having.

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<v Speaker 3>A lot of sex while we were just friends, and

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<v Speaker 3>then we've been together for like a year now and

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<v Speaker 3>we were having sex in the beginning, and it's like

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<v Speaker 3>died out. So I like, I'm just confused. I guess.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, So so Dick was at one point quite sexually active,

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<v Speaker 2>but it just fizzled out. Yes, interesting, Dick, what made

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<v Speaker 2>it fizzle out? Do you think do you have it?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you even have an answer to that question? Or

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<v Speaker 2>was it just a natural thing?

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<v Speaker 4>Uh? I actually do I I literally I was just

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<v Speaker 4>like I don't know if it's like just written into

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<v Speaker 4>my brain, but I just see sex as like the

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<v Speaker 4>courting process and then once you're actually you get somebody

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<v Speaker 4>and it's like the actual love stuff matters.

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<v Speaker 5>But I feel like.

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<v Speaker 4>That, I know that the dumb argument. I know no

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<v Speaker 4>one else thinks like that.

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<v Speaker 2>So it's like, well, well, hold on, hold on, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think it's a dumb argument. It's just it's just

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<v Speaker 2>there's no it's not a it's not a thing of

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<v Speaker 2>correct or incorrect. It's just how you look at it.

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<v Speaker 2>So you're not wrong. But I guess now that you

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<v Speaker 2>are in a relationship and you have found a sort

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<v Speaker 2>of love the sex part of that is is just

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<v Speaker 2>not important to you.

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<v Speaker 4>Well, and it's not that we don't have sex. We

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<v Speaker 4>just I know she likes to have sex a lot,

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<v Speaker 4>and I am like once a month, twice a month

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<v Speaker 4>that is perfectly fine by me, where I know she

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<v Speaker 4>would like it at least multiple times a week.

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<v Speaker 2>So Jane, yes, sirs, tell tell us what is what

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<v Speaker 2>is your sort of sexual situation is? Would you consider

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<v Speaker 2>sex to be very important to you?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it's I've since I've started being sexual, like

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<v Speaker 3>in my life, I haven't really slowed down, I guess,

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<v Speaker 3>but I've also like used sex for not healthy purposes,

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<v Speaker 3>if that makes any sense.

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<v Speaker 2>Well healthy purposes.

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<v Speaker 3>It's well, I mean I had a lot of body

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<v Speaker 3>issues in my life, and I was like, well, if

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<v Speaker 3>I have sex with people, like my body is fine,

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<v Speaker 3>Like it's with like validation, you know. So it's like

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<v Speaker 3>and I.

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<v Speaker 9>Guess I still have body issues, so maybe that's why

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<v Speaker 9>I feel that way, but I also just know, like

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<v Speaker 9>I am a very sexual person, and so it was

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<v Speaker 9>just like.

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<v Speaker 3>I don't know, I like, I love dick so much,

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<v Speaker 3>so it's like it was just off to me when

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<v Speaker 3>I wait, okay, well you know Richard.

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<v Speaker 2>But see, yeah, I was. I was wondering when you

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<v Speaker 2>said you loved Dick so much. I was. I was genuinely.

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<v Speaker 2>I know it's funny, but I was genuine wondering. Do

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<v Speaker 2>you mean like you actually.

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<v Speaker 4>Loved Dick but me Dick is what you mean?

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<v Speaker 3>Anyways?

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry, So you two are are are very much happy

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<v Speaker 2>being with each other. Would you say that this is

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<v Speaker 2>I was one of okay, great, so you would say

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<v Speaker 2>that this is one of the really only source sticking points.

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<v Speaker 4>It's not like a conflict or anything.

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<v Speaker 5>It's just more of like.

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<v Speaker 4>A I know that she wants this thing, and for me,

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<v Speaker 4>I do not want this thing very often. And it's

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<v Speaker 4>more of just like it wouldn't piss me off at

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<v Speaker 4>all if she was doing this for you know, her thing,

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<v Speaker 4>it just wouldn't you know.

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<v Speaker 2>It's so now that we have the backgrounds. Uh, you

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<v Speaker 2>have proposed the idea that Jane go out and have

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<v Speaker 2>sex with other people. Uh, Jane, what what is your

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<v Speaker 2>your thoughts on this idea?

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<v Speaker 5>It's she I.

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<v Speaker 3>Don't want to say that I like want to do it,

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<v Speaker 3>but I'm open to the idea of doing it.

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<v Speaker 2>Hold on, hold on, hold on. When you say you

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<v Speaker 2>don't want to say that you want to do it?

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<v Speaker 2>Do you mean you don't want to say it? Or

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<v Speaker 2>do you mean you you genuinely don't want to.

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<v Speaker 3>It's not that I don't want to. I just don't

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<v Speaker 3>know how to say, like I don't want to have

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<v Speaker 3>sex with other people, but I.

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<v Speaker 6>Want to have sex.

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<v Speaker 3>M It's it's conflicting. So because I'm a very monogamous person,

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<v Speaker 3>but like when I'm in a relationship, obviously, but that's

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<v Speaker 3>just who I am. But I'm not closed off to

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<v Speaker 3>the idea.

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<v Speaker 5>I would just need.

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<v Speaker 3>More clarification on like the process and how this is,

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<v Speaker 3>how this is supposed to go.

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<v Speaker 2>The process of how this is supposed to go? What what? What?

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<v Speaker 2>What do you What's give me an example of like

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<v Speaker 2>a process. I don't know what you mean by what

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<v Speaker 2>when you say process?

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<v Speaker 4>Where do we start?

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<v Speaker 3>How do I do I scout someone out? Do do

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<v Speaker 3>we go scouting out to get there?

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<v Speaker 2>Let's listen, listen, listen, listen. Congratulations, you have the same

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<v Speaker 2>exact problem of any other you know, single person who's

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<v Speaker 2>trying to have sex. Does that track? I mean, that's

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<v Speaker 2>that's your your here's the thing is your your But

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<v Speaker 2>here's the thing your your boyfriend has given you permission

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<v Speaker 2>to do whatever you want, and then from there the process. Uh,

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<v Speaker 2>it's the fucking same as any other process of anyone

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<v Speaker 2>else trying to get laid, which is like whatever, man,

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<v Speaker 2>you go out to a bar, you go on tender,

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<v Speaker 2>you join a soccer club, you know your boyfriend. Your

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<v Speaker 2>boyfriend can give you permission within the bounds of your

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<v Speaker 2>relationships to go have sex with other people, but he

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<v Speaker 2>can't give you a guide on how to do it.

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<v Speaker 2>He's not like a He can't like be some sort

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<v Speaker 2>of pick up artist mentor for you.

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<v Speaker 3>I guess it's like do you want like do you

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<v Speaker 3>want to know details? Do you want? Like I just

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<v Speaker 3>don't know what you do and you don't want to know.

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<v Speaker 4>Like that's what I'm And I feel this is lile

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<v Speaker 4>what you were just saying, Like it's just up to you,

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<v Speaker 4>Like I'm just literally throwing the ballpark out there for

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<v Speaker 4>what you need, and I just you you make the ship.

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<v Speaker 2>You make the rules exactly. Look, because here's the thing,

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<v Speaker 2>getting laid can be hard. I think that that might

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<v Speaker 2>be one of the reasons why uh Dick doesn't want

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<v Speaker 2>to have anything to do with it. So I mean, let'sten, there's, there's, here's,

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<v Speaker 2>here's here's. I feel like one of the sort of

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<v Speaker 2>final pieces of the puzzle. Are you wondering if Dick

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<v Speaker 2>wants to know if you go have sex with other people?

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<v Speaker 2>Because that's another thing I've heard about, you know, in

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<v Speaker 2>some of these kind of relationship setups where it's like, Okay,

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<v Speaker 2>you can do everything, but I don't want to know

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<v Speaker 2>about it. And then there's a version where it's like, hey, honey,

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<v Speaker 2>go out on a night to the town, go out

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<v Speaker 2>on your date, nobody come home. We can talk all

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<v Speaker 2>about it and I'll listen with glee. You know, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know what's what what you guys are though.

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<v Speaker 4>It comes down to that's a that's a good question.

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<v Speaker 4>I think we got to talk about that like on

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<v Speaker 4>our own because I don't really know on that side,

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<v Speaker 4>that's a good question. I don't know if I want

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<v Speaker 4>to know or if I don't want to know. I

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<v Speaker 4>feel like there's a guy taking her out on a night.

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<v Speaker 4>Dat I don't see any problem with that. But it's like, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>I'm going to move here and get banned. Obviously that's

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<v Speaker 4>not it's different. That's different, But at.

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<v Speaker 3>The same time, the action that was just spoken about

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<v Speaker 3>is like the whole point.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so it's hard, That's what I'm saying. I don't

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>Uh, well listen, here's here's the thing is, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>I think regardless of what happens, because clearly sounds like

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<v Speaker 2>you two, uh have no problem communicating with each other.

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<v Speaker 2>So uh, I would just I would just continue to

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<v Speaker 2>do that.

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<v Speaker 4>I just think we wanted to hear just a third party.

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<v Speaker 4>We just needed like a third party in this to

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<v Speaker 4>like say something pretty much, we're a.

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<v Speaker 3>Huge fan of your podcast.

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<v Speaker 2>Like we Yeah, so I I appreciate that. I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like you sound well, you you sound like you're you

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<v Speaker 2>were like confused. You were like I don't know what

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<v Speaker 2>the process is or whatever, and it's like, well, you're

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<v Speaker 2>not going to be given a process. You're just going

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<v Speaker 2>to be given permission within the bounds of the relationship.

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<v Speaker 2>And then also, you know, I don't know, sounds like

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<v Speaker 2>maybe you want to get into deeper specifics of what

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<v Speaker 2>you know, should we talk about it? Like, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>if I'm going on a date with if I'm texting

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<v Speaker 2>some guy on Tinder, like does day does Dick want

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<v Speaker 2>to be there, like, Oh, what should I say to

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<v Speaker 2>him next type of ship? Like how involved does he

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<v Speaker 2>want to be? You know, I think that's sort of

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<v Speaker 2>the next step in the conversation for you.

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<v Speaker 3>I agree, and yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>This guys just cut out now. But uh, is there

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<v Speaker 2>anything in particular you guys want to say to the

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<v Speaker 2>people of the computer before we go?

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<v Speaker 5>Sorry?

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<v Speaker 6>Can you say that again?

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<v Speaker 2>Is there anything you guys want to say before we go? No?

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<v Speaker 3>No, we appreciate your out man.

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<v Speaker 2>I hope you have a great day, beautiful, take care guys. Hi, man,

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<v Speaker 2>people are really uh, people are really chill these days.

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<v Speaker 2>I like it. I fuck with those two. Those two

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<v Speaker 2>are sick. I there's a lot. I haven't read the chat,

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<v Speaker 2>but dude, I posted this clip on Instagram a while

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<v Speaker 2>ago from a polyamorous couple that called in, and there

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<v Speaker 2>was just all these like nasty comments on it, being like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>that guy's a cock and uh whatever. I would never

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<v Speaker 2>let my girlfriend do this, But I like, I fuck

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<v Speaker 2>with both of them. They both seemed like they had

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<v Speaker 2>like a really healthy relationship with each other. And that

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<v Speaker 2>guy dick Uh he I'm I'm jealous of him. I

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<v Speaker 2>wish I could transcend I wish I could fucking transcend

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<v Speaker 2>my own desire to have sex. That would be incredible.

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<v Speaker 2>I would get so much more done. I would be

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<v Speaker 2>a happier person. Life would be great. Dick is chillin.

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<v Speaker 2>He's he's not only transcended his desire to have sex,

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<v Speaker 2>which which by the way, almost makes him God. We

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<v Speaker 2>were put on the earth to kind of fuck each

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<v Speaker 2>other and repopulate, and the biological drive all that stuff,

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<v Speaker 2>And Dick looked at Dick looked at that, and he said, no,

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<v Speaker 2>I am conscious. I am above the laws of my

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<v Speaker 2>own body. What a what a G? What a G?

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<v Speaker 2>And then he's not. And then not only that, he's

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<v Speaker 2>secure enough in his relationship, he trusts his partner enough

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<v Speaker 2>to be like, I don't give a fuck what you do.

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<v Speaker 2>Does it go? Fuck whoever you want. Then come home

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<v Speaker 2>and let's watch a movie or something. I like those guys.

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<v Speaker 2>People are chill. There's another thing, too, is I feel

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<v Speaker 2>like people who have And you could you could tell

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<v Speaker 2>on the phone too that he was like he did.

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<v Speaker 2>He hadn't even came to terms with how he felt

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<v Speaker 2>like he was. He kept being like, I know, it's

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<v Speaker 2>like wrong, Like he kept feeling like he was like

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<v Speaker 2>doing something wrong by feeling the way he was feeling, uh,

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<v Speaker 2>just because it's the way he's feeling is not probably reflected,

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<v Speaker 2>and a lot of other people he meets or sees

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<v Speaker 2>or hears about or whatever, you could tell that he

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<v Speaker 2>was like in it, like weird in his mind. He

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<v Speaker 2>he didn't quite come to terms with uh, like how

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<v Speaker 2>he was feeling I think, And it possibly could have

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<v Speaker 2>been because he was scared of of whether or not

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<v Speaker 2>his partner would like be cool with it. But it's

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<v Speaker 2>kind of surprising. I think the amount of people that

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<v Speaker 2>are out there, if you find the right ones that

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<v Speaker 2>kind of mesh with you, that will be cool with

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<v Speaker 2>your weird thing. He found someone who's cool with his

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<v Speaker 2>weird thing. I mean that that girl Jane, she's trying.

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<v Speaker 2>She just trying to make it. She is with him,

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<v Speaker 2>trying to make it work. That's sick. I like those guys.

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<v Speaker 2>I think they'll be fine. I like, I would love

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<v Speaker 2>to if Dick, if Dick is open to it, I

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<v Speaker 2>would love to. H Like if I got an Instagram

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<v Speaker 2>ad uh from and he was selling like an ebook

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<v Speaker 2>along with a course or something on how to transcend

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<v Speaker 2>your own desire to have sex. I would. I would

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<v Speaker 2>absolutely buy that for fourteen ninety nine, I would. I would.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, like, obviously you can't choose these things about you.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, we all know that they're like whatever, conversion

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<v Speaker 2>therapies and stuff that's you know, it's no good. But

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<v Speaker 2>if I could attend some kind of asexual conversion therapy,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm there, Hello, Hello, Jasmine? Is that you?

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 2>How's your life going, Jasmine?

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<v Speaker 3>I'm fantastic, litt nervous?

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<v Speaker 7>Am I talking to ghek?

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<v Speaker 2>You are talking to the gecko boy?

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<v Speaker 7>Uh god, it's so nice to meet you.

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<v Speaker 2>It's nice to meet you as well. I do you

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<v Speaker 2>consider talk?

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<v Speaker 7>Do you?

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<v Speaker 2>Would you consider this meeting? Even though we're on the phone.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like this is you know, it's pretty good.

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<v Speaker 2>It's it's it's we are definitely connected. I can hear you,

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<v Speaker 2>you can hear me. But have we met, right? I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know.

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<v Speaker 6>I think.

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<v Speaker 7>It's more realistic this way than like walking around in

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<v Speaker 7>the street, you know, like I don't. I'm not in

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<v Speaker 7>Los Angeles, So I feel like I feel like this

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<v Speaker 7>is a good way. It's I kept say this meetings,

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<v Speaker 7>this is dope.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, Jasmine, it says here you know, I'm I don't

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<v Speaker 2>Sometimes I don't like doing the it says here a thing.

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<v Speaker 2>What what is it that you called in to talk

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<v Speaker 2>about today.

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<v Speaker 7>Jasmine, Well, I called to share a little story about

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<v Speaker 7>something that happened to me. And I think I was

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<v Speaker 7>just like eighth grade or like a freshman in high

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<v Speaker 7>school where poop my pants ship myself.

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<v Speaker 2>As a result of.

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<v Speaker 5>What'd you say?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, okay, real quick, it's just here that you were

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<v Speaker 2>trying to impress a boy when this happened.

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<v Speaker 7>Yeah, I not with doing so it just happened to

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<v Speaker 7>be a factor. I don't think he was impressed. I

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<v Speaker 7>don't know if he knows to this day, but you know,

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<v Speaker 7>it feels.

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<v Speaker 2>Free if you want to start from the beginning of this.

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<v Speaker 7>Oh perfect, Okay, I sorry, I think I'm I'm anxious

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<v Speaker 7>or excited one of the two. But sweet, Okay. So

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<v Speaker 7>I live over in the Midwest and there's a very

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<v Speaker 7>big kind of like I don't know, like a it's

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<v Speaker 7>like a water park and like a like a ride

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<v Speaker 7>kind of area I guess if you will, all in

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<v Speaker 7>one And I was going to church at the time,

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<v Speaker 7>and my church group decided to go there for like

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<v Speaker 7>a little day trip in the summertime, and there was

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<v Speaker 7>another church group that was kind of merging with us,

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<v Speaker 7>and I thought that one of the boys from that

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<v Speaker 7>other church group was really cute, and so I was

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<v Speaker 7>really excited that he was going to be there. And

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<v Speaker 7>we go to this the water park section or whatever,

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<v Speaker 7>and I'm very excited. I was kind of a little

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<v Speaker 7>tomboy at that time, and so I just would kind

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<v Speaker 7>of hang out with the boys and there is this

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<v Speaker 7>big time There's this one water slide that just goes

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<v Speaker 7>like straight down you know those guys, and you know,

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<v Speaker 7>I was so excited. I was like, Oh, this is

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<v Speaker 7>you know, this is my chance to impress Josh or whatever.

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<v Speaker 7>And so I went up with all the guys and

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<v Speaker 7>we were all kind of going back and forth or whatever, like,

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<v Speaker 7>Oh my gosh, who's gonna go first? And so I

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<v Speaker 7>was like, you know, fuck it, I'll do it. So

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<v Speaker 7>I got ready. I went down the giant water slide

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<v Speaker 7>and when I'm like sitting back up, I feel a

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<v Speaker 7>little sloshing in my one piece and I'm a little confused,

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<v Speaker 7>and so I don't really think much of it though.

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<v Speaker 7>I just kind of stand up and we the entire

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<v Speaker 7>group is just walking to the next thing or whatever.

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<v Speaker 7>But I'm I'm trailing back and I smell this god

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<v Speaker 7>awful smell, and I'm really nervous because the guys are like, ohh,

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<v Speaker 7>I come do this thing with us or whatever, and

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<v Speaker 7>I'm like, you know, I'm gonna go to the bathroom quick.

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<v Speaker 7>And there's only public bathrooms there, not like you know,

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<v Speaker 7>I guess like family ones or whatever that I could

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<v Speaker 7>find at least. And so I went to the bathroom

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<v Speaker 7>and I ran into a stall and like took my

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<v Speaker 7>one piece off and just saw shit everywhere in my

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<v Speaker 7>black swimsuit.

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<v Speaker 5>And I got.

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<v Speaker 7>Really nervous because I was like, oh my god, I

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<v Speaker 7>have the entirety of the day. And so I like

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<v Speaker 7>peek out off the stall really quickly to see if

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<v Speaker 7>anybody's in there, and it looked like everyone had left.

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<v Speaker 7>So I run out of the stall butt naked to

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<v Speaker 7>the to the sink and I take off my swimsuit

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<v Speaker 7>and I try to wash it in the sink with

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<v Speaker 7>like soap and water, and I hear like a mother

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<v Speaker 7>and a child come in, So I take it and

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<v Speaker 7>then I run back into the stall and like try

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<v Speaker 7>and just wipe everything up that I can, and I

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<v Speaker 7>kind of just keep doing rounds back and forth to

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<v Speaker 7>clean it.

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<v Speaker 2>Man, that sounds intensely stressful. I really, I really you

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<v Speaker 2>kind of like put me there. Yeah, I know you did,

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<v Speaker 2>because I could smell it too. I was imagining what

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<v Speaker 2>it would be like to be in that situation, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>like especially when you're like in ninth grade and just

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<v Speaker 2>just saw a pressure sure to not have shit in

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<v Speaker 2>your pants at most times. I mean, that's that was

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<v Speaker 2>heroic of you to run out of the bathroom but

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<v Speaker 2>naked back in foot, you know what. You know, what

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<v Speaker 2>I like about that story is that you experienced of

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<v Speaker 2>extremely stressful situation and you attacked it with a solution.

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<v Speaker 2>You know, you didn't give up. I mean, I mean realistically, realistically,

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<v Speaker 2>you had no choice. You had no choice but to

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<v Speaker 2>find a solution. It's inspiring story, actually great.

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<v Speaker 7>I think this is my biggest example of perseverance. Like

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<v Speaker 7>you know how when you go to jobs interviews and

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<v Speaker 7>they're like, what's one one time that you showed this?

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<v Speaker 7>I think this is a perfect example of one time.

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<v Speaker 2>Have you ever told that story an answer question?

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<v Speaker 7>I haven't. I've actually been terrified to share the story

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<v Speaker 7>with anyone.

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<v Speaker 5>For years.

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<v Speaker 7>There's one time I got really drunk with my friends though,

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<v Speaker 7>and I them about it finally, and they're the only

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<v Speaker 7>ones who like know about it. And I think I

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<v Speaker 7>told my boyfriend maybe once. I'm like, I I have not.

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<v Speaker 2>Here really okay, So how do you feel having shared

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<v Speaker 2>it on uh on the computer? You know, I feel

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<v Speaker 2>with you.

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<v Speaker 7>I feel comfortable with you. I'm gonna be really honest.

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<v Speaker 7>I think I'm a I love your I listen to

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<v Speaker 7>a lot of your stuff on Spotify and watch your

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<v Speaker 7>dreams when I can. And every time I hear like

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<v Speaker 7>a like a Pope story, I'm just like, fuck, I

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<v Speaker 7>really got a call and share this one.

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<v Speaker 2>No, I will look thank you for putting me. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>it's funny because like if something like that happened to

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<v Speaker 2>me now, actually stuff like that kind of does happen

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<v Speaker 2>to me. I I I've clogged toilets at horrible uh

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<v Speaker 2>times situations and I've had to deal with that. But

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, especially at fifteen, that's a that's called the

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<v Speaker 2>fight or flight situation to get in. So yeah, I don't.

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<v Speaker 7>Know what I would do now at twenty, I have

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<v Speaker 7>no idea.

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<v Speaker 10>Uh.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there anything else that you want to say to

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<v Speaker 2>the people the computer.

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<v Speaker 7>Before we go, thank you guys for listening and chat's

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<v Speaker 7>really funny. So I appreciate how cool you guys were

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<v Speaker 7>about it. And uh, I appreciate I hope you guys

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<v Speaker 7>laughed as much as Actid during this.

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<v Speaker 2>Beautiful Thank you for calling Jasmine.

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<v Speaker 7>Thank you you're so lovely.

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<v Speaker 5>Have a good night.

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<v Speaker 2>She's very kind. Yeah, I don't know what I would

0:26:41.600 --> 0:26:46.040
<v Speaker 2>have done in that situation. Uh, I guess I probably

0:26:46.080 --> 0:26:49.959
<v Speaker 2>would have now did the stall have toilet paper in it?

0:26:50.000 --> 0:26:53.840
<v Speaker 2>Because I it's hard to get like water in there, right,

0:26:53.880 --> 0:26:56.280
<v Speaker 2>so you can probably just have like gotten naked in

0:26:56.400 --> 0:27:01.760
<v Speaker 2>the stall and used toilet paper to wipe away the shit.

0:27:06.200 --> 0:27:07.760
<v Speaker 2>That's what I would have done first, is I would

0:27:07.760 --> 0:27:12.600
<v Speaker 2>have done the first a little wipe through, and then

0:27:13.080 --> 0:27:15.320
<v Speaker 2>I would have gone out and washed the suit. But dude,

0:27:15.359 --> 0:27:19.000
<v Speaker 2>I mean, in a public restroom like that, especially at

0:27:19.000 --> 0:27:22.600
<v Speaker 2>a water park, there's probably like eight stalls, I mean,

0:27:24.000 --> 0:27:27.000
<v Speaker 2>to find the opportunity and then you have to like

0:27:27.200 --> 0:27:32.359
<v Speaker 2>sort of a look out and see if there's anybody there,

0:27:32.480 --> 0:27:36.240
<v Speaker 2>and to find the opportunity where you are truly completely

0:27:36.280 --> 0:27:45.280
<v Speaker 2>alone enough to wash that suit, complete that operation. That's

0:27:45.320 --> 0:27:51.960
<v Speaker 2>a whole thing. I'm very impressed by that. Hello, Hello,

0:27:53.119 --> 0:27:54.080
<v Speaker 2>Why is the sand?

0:27:56.160 --> 0:27:56.400
<v Speaker 3>Uh?

0:27:56.800 --> 0:27:59.600
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, it's sad, but yeah, that's.

0:27:59.480 --> 0:27:59.880
<v Speaker 4>What I thought.

0:27:59.880 --> 0:28:02.960
<v Speaker 2>I read Sam, and I was like, it's gotta be

0:28:03.040 --> 0:28:06.600
<v Speaker 2>Sam to the end and the end way too close

0:28:07.480 --> 0:28:12.800
<v Speaker 2>on the keyboard for for it not to be, for

0:28:12.840 --> 0:28:18.120
<v Speaker 2>it not to be sad. Uh, what's going on? Uh say,

0:28:18.160 --> 0:28:21.240
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna you know, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna

0:28:22.080 --> 0:28:25.280
<v Speaker 2>blasphemize the computer and tell that it's wrong. So I'm

0:28:25.280 --> 0:28:29.560
<v Speaker 2>gonna just call you Sand if that's okay. Oh, Frad,

0:28:30.440 --> 0:28:34.120
<v Speaker 2>what's going on with you? Sam?

0:28:34.520 --> 0:28:37.080
<v Speaker 6>Just just got out of work, pretty tired.

0:28:38.800 --> 0:28:39.640
<v Speaker 2>What do you do for work?

0:28:41.320 --> 0:28:42.120
<v Speaker 6>I'm an electrician?

0:28:43.480 --> 0:28:44.000
<v Speaker 2>You're a what.

0:28:45.600 --> 0:28:46.200
<v Speaker 6>Electrician?

0:28:47.120 --> 0:28:50.040
<v Speaker 2>You're an electrician? How how many times have you electrocuted yourself?

0:28:51.480 --> 0:28:51.640
<v Speaker 10>Uh?

0:28:52.240 --> 0:28:54.880
<v Speaker 6>Not gonna lie, electrocuting myself? Like at least three times

0:28:54.880 --> 0:28:56.760
<v Speaker 6>to wake myself up? And I'm at work?

0:28:57.240 --> 0:29:01.360
<v Speaker 2>Hold on, hold on, hold on? You electrocute it yourself

0:29:01.720 --> 0:29:03.920
<v Speaker 2>three times to wake yourself up?

0:29:05.520 --> 0:29:05.800
<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

0:29:06.040 --> 0:29:08.120
<v Speaker 6>Like I work at like seven in the morning. I

0:29:08.120 --> 0:29:09.280
<v Speaker 6>had to be there. I had to wake up at

0:29:09.320 --> 0:29:11.400
<v Speaker 6>five thirty and then be at the job set at

0:29:11.440 --> 0:29:14.440
<v Speaker 6>seven in the morning, so I'm pretty still pretty tired,

0:29:15.000 --> 0:29:17.160
<v Speaker 6>so I just like touched at a hot wired and

0:29:17.160 --> 0:29:19.600
<v Speaker 6>it's just like wake up like that stead of drinking

0:29:19.600 --> 0:29:22.160
<v Speaker 6>like a monster, like a rebel or would wake up.

0:29:25.000 --> 0:29:28.600
<v Speaker 2>So you electricate yourself on purpose to wake up?

0:29:28.880 --> 0:29:29.280
<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

0:29:30.320 --> 0:29:31.200
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, pretty much.

0:29:32.640 --> 0:29:35.080
<v Speaker 2>And would you say it is more effective than an

0:29:35.200 --> 0:29:36.720
<v Speaker 2>energy drink or a coffee?

0:29:38.600 --> 0:29:38.840
<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

0:29:38.960 --> 0:29:47.080
<v Speaker 2>Honestly, what does the sensation of electricating yourself feel like? Well?

0:29:47.120 --> 0:29:50.520
<v Speaker 6>I played with one twenty votes, so that's like a baby,

0:29:50.560 --> 0:29:54.000
<v Speaker 6>like that's baby compared to life and liken like uh

0:29:54.400 --> 0:29:57.080
<v Speaker 6>in the job saie, that's like the baby's app So

0:29:57.400 --> 0:30:00.000
<v Speaker 6>it's pretty much nothing. It's just like a regular shot

0:30:00.080 --> 0:30:02.400
<v Speaker 6>like those guns them with like those guns that people

0:30:02.400 --> 0:30:03.280
<v Speaker 6>would shock you they thic.

0:30:03.400 --> 0:30:03.960
<v Speaker 9>Like one of those.

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<v Speaker 2>Is this a common thing for electricians to do?

0:30:11.560 --> 0:30:14.560
<v Speaker 6>I'm not sure. I'm not asking my co workers.

0:30:15.520 --> 0:30:17.600
<v Speaker 2>How do you think your co workers would respond if

0:30:17.640 --> 0:30:20.760
<v Speaker 2>you told them that you were intentionally shocking yourself to

0:30:20.760 --> 0:30:21.520
<v Speaker 2>wake yourself up?

0:30:23.240 --> 0:30:26.040
<v Speaker 6>Honestly, I think they'll do the same thing because they

0:30:26.360 --> 0:30:29.280
<v Speaker 6>they're pretty tired as well, So.

0:30:29.240 --> 0:30:30.080
<v Speaker 2>You think it would catch on?

0:30:31.800 --> 0:30:32.440
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, I think so.

0:30:33.840 --> 0:30:35.840
<v Speaker 2>Have you ever tried to entice one of your co

0:30:35.920 --> 0:30:40.440
<v Speaker 2>workers into shocking themselves by telling them that it gives

0:30:40.480 --> 0:30:41.720
<v Speaker 2>you a burst of energy.

0:30:44.320 --> 0:30:46.200
<v Speaker 6>No, I have not.

0:30:51.120 --> 0:30:54.040
<v Speaker 2>What does the actual process of shocking yourself look like?

0:30:56.480 --> 0:31:00.960
<v Speaker 6>Uh? Just so we have like a little a little

0:31:01.080 --> 0:31:03.280
<v Speaker 6>ten it's like a machine because it's called a pent

0:31:03.320 --> 0:31:06.160
<v Speaker 6>tester or volt tester, and you turn it on and

0:31:06.200 --> 0:31:08.200
<v Speaker 6>it's like lights of green and you go to like

0:31:08.240 --> 0:31:10.720
<v Speaker 6>a hot wire. You make sure like it's hot, like

0:31:10.760 --> 0:31:13.040
<v Speaker 6>the black obviously the black wire. If it's hot, they

0:31:13.040 --> 0:31:15.959
<v Speaker 6>start beeping the vote test the pent tester and if

0:31:15.960 --> 0:31:17.760
<v Speaker 6>from there, you just take out the wire net and

0:31:17.880 --> 0:31:20.640
<v Speaker 6>just slightly touch it and then just let go and

0:31:20.680 --> 0:31:21.520
<v Speaker 6>then you get a shock.

0:31:23.440 --> 0:31:25.640
<v Speaker 2>Is this something that you would recommend to other people?

0:31:27.480 --> 0:31:27.560
<v Speaker 4>No?

0:31:31.200 --> 0:31:36.040
<v Speaker 2>M Do you feel like you can note? Do you

0:31:36.080 --> 0:31:39.840
<v Speaker 2>feel like you can sense a notable difference in your

0:31:40.000 --> 0:31:43.840
<v Speaker 2>day between a day where you do shock yourself and

0:31:43.880 --> 0:31:44.720
<v Speaker 2>a day where you don't?

0:31:47.160 --> 0:31:47.560
<v Speaker 3>Uh?

0:31:48.480 --> 0:31:52.760
<v Speaker 6>Yes, oh yeah, because I always talk myself sometimes when

0:31:52.880 --> 0:31:55.880
<v Speaker 6>like IA, like for example, when they your new podcast,

0:31:56.040 --> 0:31:58.120
<v Speaker 6>like we're there, so I listened to it and I'm

0:31:58.160 --> 0:32:01.239
<v Speaker 6>from there, like probably tomorrow I'll I may or may

0:32:01.280 --> 0:32:03.600
<v Speaker 6>not do like shock myself to wake myself up because

0:32:04.120 --> 0:32:06.400
<v Speaker 6>I have nothing else like no other podcasts like listen

0:32:06.440 --> 0:32:08.520
<v Speaker 6>to it. It's just like your.

0:32:09.160 --> 0:32:14.600
<v Speaker 2>Honestly, So if I have a podcast that comes out,

0:32:15.080 --> 0:32:17.480
<v Speaker 2>you listen to that instead of shocking yourself.

0:32:18.760 --> 0:32:21.480
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, like it like every well, Mondays and Wednesdays the

0:32:21.520 --> 0:32:24.160
<v Speaker 6>room when you drop like a new episode and then

0:32:24.160 --> 0:32:27.080
<v Speaker 6>from there it's just like that's my starts up my dating, honestly,

0:32:27.200 --> 0:32:30.880
<v Speaker 6>and then from there like to them tomorrow. Like I said,

0:32:31.120 --> 0:32:33.640
<v Speaker 6>it's no a new episode or just like like what

0:32:33.760 --> 0:32:34.720
<v Speaker 6>can I wake my solf up with?

0:32:37.360 --> 0:32:41.320
<v Speaker 2>Have you tried switching to just coffee or energy drinks

0:32:41.400 --> 0:32:42.760
<v Speaker 2>as opposed to shocking yourself.

0:32:45.520 --> 0:32:47.560
<v Speaker 6>I had no time for like to stop at a

0:32:47.600 --> 0:32:50.600
<v Speaker 6>gas station and get like an energy drink for anything,

0:32:51.120 --> 0:32:52.200
<v Speaker 6>because I'm already running late.

0:32:53.400 --> 0:32:55.480
<v Speaker 2>I guess that makes sense because if you're already on

0:32:55.520 --> 0:33:00.240
<v Speaker 2>the job working with wires, it's more convenient and sort

0:33:00.240 --> 0:33:05.120
<v Speaker 2>of already on your way to just shock yourself instead

0:33:05.120 --> 0:33:10.600
<v Speaker 2>of going to a convenience store and getting a coffee. Yeah,

0:33:11.480 --> 0:33:19.920
<v Speaker 2>so it makes perfect sense. Yeah, you could say that, Sam,

0:33:19.920 --> 0:33:22.120
<v Speaker 2>it'sis here that you have some baby mama drama. Do

0:33:22.120 --> 0:33:22.960
<v Speaker 2>you want to tell us about that?

0:33:24.600 --> 0:33:29.200
<v Speaker 6>Oh? Yeah, you might like this one version I'm in

0:33:29.200 --> 0:33:30.560
<v Speaker 6>a long story, short story.

0:33:32.840 --> 0:33:36.480
<v Speaker 2>I'll take the short story, all right.

0:33:36.520 --> 0:33:40.360
<v Speaker 6>So me and mother Mama we were talking pro out whatever,

0:33:41.360 --> 0:33:44.440
<v Speaker 6>and then I guess just things just stop working and

0:33:44.680 --> 0:33:47.240
<v Speaker 6>we woke up and now image a new girl. And

0:33:47.280 --> 0:33:50.640
<v Speaker 6>then in January came and boom, she told me she

0:33:50.720 --> 0:33:54.560
<v Speaker 6>was pregnant. And I was like, oh, well, I guess

0:33:54.560 --> 0:33:57.880
<v Speaker 6>I'm of that now. And yeah, pretty much it. I

0:33:57.920 --> 0:34:01.080
<v Speaker 6>told my current girl and she sort and it's all

0:34:01.160 --> 0:34:06.000
<v Speaker 6>my parents and they're supportive and somewhat supportive not and

0:34:06.120 --> 0:34:10.760
<v Speaker 6>they like, well, we don't think it's my kid. My girlfriend,

0:34:10.800 --> 0:34:13.160
<v Speaker 6>my current girlfriend doesn't think it's my kid, and there's

0:34:13.200 --> 0:34:13.560
<v Speaker 6>just like.

0:34:15.040 --> 0:34:15.680
<v Speaker 5>Just worried about it.

0:34:15.680 --> 0:34:17.680
<v Speaker 6>If it is my kid, like I'm stepping up whatever.

0:34:17.840 --> 0:34:22.640
<v Speaker 2>Okay. And so you were dating a girl, you broke up,

0:34:23.280 --> 0:34:24.880
<v Speaker 2>she tells you that she has a kid and that

0:34:24.920 --> 0:34:25.359
<v Speaker 2>it's yours.

0:34:26.320 --> 0:34:26.440
<v Speaker 7>Uh.

0:34:26.560 --> 0:34:29.160
<v Speaker 2>In the meantime, you started dating a new girl. You

0:34:29.280 --> 0:34:31.440
<v Speaker 2>like the new girl, but you also want to be

0:34:31.480 --> 0:34:34.240
<v Speaker 2>involved in the kid's life. Is that all correct?

0:34:34.480 --> 0:34:34.680
<v Speaker 9>Yeah?

0:34:36.120 --> 0:34:38.480
<v Speaker 2>Yeah? And then it says here that you're worried about

0:34:38.480 --> 0:34:43.480
<v Speaker 2>how this ordeal will affect your new relationship. Yeah, in

0:34:43.560 --> 0:34:45.759
<v Speaker 2>what in what way do you feel like being in

0:34:45.800 --> 0:34:50.120
<v Speaker 2>this child's life will affect the relationship you have going

0:34:50.680 --> 0:34:52.080
<v Speaker 2>with this new person.

0:34:54.800 --> 0:34:57.640
<v Speaker 6>My new girl, she's kind of cycle, kind of like

0:34:57.719 --> 0:35:01.239
<v Speaker 6>oh what we say here in Texas like where I'm from,

0:35:01.360 --> 0:35:07.799
<v Speaker 6>like folks because toxics toxic people, and so yeah, like

0:35:07.880 --> 0:35:10.600
<v Speaker 6>she did. My girl is just kind of crazy anyway.

0:35:11.400 --> 0:35:16.880
<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you and you you consider your new girlfriend

0:35:16.880 --> 0:35:17.960
<v Speaker 2>how long you dated this girl for?

0:35:19.600 --> 0:35:21.839
<v Speaker 6>Oh, we did it about a year. We're about a year.

0:35:22.280 --> 0:35:24.080
<v Speaker 6>We're always even if we were getting before and in

0:35:24.120 --> 0:35:27.160
<v Speaker 6>from we woke up, we woke up this, we woke up.

0:35:27.200 --> 0:35:30.160
<v Speaker 6>So when now were like two months again dating again?

0:35:30.280 --> 0:35:32.480
<v Speaker 2>Right? All right, so let me let me let me

0:35:32.480 --> 0:35:34.440
<v Speaker 2>get this time. That's straight. You're dating this new girl,

0:35:35.000 --> 0:35:37.440
<v Speaker 2>you take a break, you date the girl who is

0:35:37.480 --> 0:35:40.080
<v Speaker 2>your baby mama, you get her pregnant, you break up,

0:35:40.120 --> 0:35:41.479
<v Speaker 2>you go back to dating the other girl.

0:35:43.000 --> 0:35:44.360
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, pretty much.

0:35:46.480 --> 0:35:50.279
<v Speaker 2>Okay, Uh, why do you consider this girl that you're

0:35:50.360 --> 0:35:51.720
<v Speaker 2>dating now to be toxic?

0:35:53.640 --> 0:35:53.759
<v Speaker 3>Uh?

0:35:55.080 --> 0:35:57.560
<v Speaker 6>The way she is like she wants me there like

0:35:57.600 --> 0:35:59.239
<v Speaker 6>at her she wants me there at twenty four to

0:35:59.320 --> 0:36:02.520
<v Speaker 6>seven and every time like at her house. I can't

0:36:02.520 --> 0:36:04.359
<v Speaker 6>of course that'll be with her twenty four seven. If

0:36:04.360 --> 0:36:06.200
<v Speaker 6>my friend texts me, it's some of that she doesn't

0:36:06.200 --> 0:36:08.560
<v Speaker 6>want me to hang out with my friends and like,

0:36:09.880 --> 0:36:12.640
<v Speaker 6>just I'm just like that, and I gif I do

0:36:12.760 --> 0:36:14.719
<v Speaker 6>go on my friends. She gets by her like I'm

0:36:14.800 --> 0:36:18.120
<v Speaker 6>just sad and like she just wants to be there

0:36:18.239 --> 0:36:19.600
<v Speaker 6>like with her twenty four seven.

0:36:21.040 --> 0:36:23.880
<v Speaker 2>So I think I might be I think you you

0:36:23.880 --> 0:36:27.840
<v Speaker 2>you might be some sort of a masochist. Do you

0:36:27.920 --> 0:36:32.840
<v Speaker 2>know what a masochist does? No, I have not mask is

0:36:32.840 --> 0:36:36.799
<v Speaker 2>somebody who enjoys I yeah, I think the saydest is

0:36:36.800 --> 0:36:38.960
<v Speaker 2>the one who gives the I think a massacist is

0:36:38.960 --> 0:36:43.800
<v Speaker 2>somebody who enjoys pain they inflict upon themselves.

0:36:47.040 --> 0:36:48.239
<v Speaker 6>Because a little shocking.

0:36:47.960 --> 0:36:51.440
<v Speaker 2>Thing, well, the shocking thing the fact that you're dating

0:36:51.480 --> 0:36:56.240
<v Speaker 2>a girl who you openly are saying is is toxic.

0:36:56.280 --> 0:36:59.560
<v Speaker 2>Why why do you continue to date this girl if

0:36:59.760 --> 0:37:01.280
<v Speaker 2>you consider her time toxic?

0:37:03.680 --> 0:37:05.279
<v Speaker 6>Because I mean, like it towards at the end of

0:37:05.280 --> 0:37:11.560
<v Speaker 6>the day, like she makes me happy no matter what. Like, yeah,

0:37:11.960 --> 0:37:13.280
<v Speaker 6>I think she makes me happy.

0:37:14.160 --> 0:37:16.080
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So at the end of the day she makes

0:37:16.080 --> 0:37:20.399
<v Speaker 2>you happy, But is she stopping you from doing other

0:37:20.480 --> 0:37:21.680
<v Speaker 2>things that make you happy?

0:37:23.680 --> 0:37:23.960
<v Speaker 3>Uh?

0:37:24.080 --> 0:37:27.480
<v Speaker 6>Not really? Every Thursday, I play football, like I play

0:37:27.480 --> 0:37:30.560
<v Speaker 6>sports for wherevery Thursday have a game. She goes through

0:37:30.640 --> 0:37:33.960
<v Speaker 6>me and she like, m let me play football. But

0:37:34.080 --> 0:37:34.719
<v Speaker 6>it's pretty good.

0:37:35.960 --> 0:37:38.960
<v Speaker 2>Okay, all right, So she she's cool with you enjoying

0:37:38.960 --> 0:37:44.320
<v Speaker 2>your hobbies. So how is she toxic? Then? If she

0:37:44.320 --> 0:37:48.560
<v Speaker 2>she seems like she's cool with letting you do things.

0:37:48.600 --> 0:37:51.080
<v Speaker 6>It's just like pharmacy wise, like I want like my

0:37:51.120 --> 0:37:54.600
<v Speaker 6>own personal time and like all like because like I

0:37:54.600 --> 0:37:56.399
<v Speaker 6>get out of work like super late, and I want

0:37:56.400 --> 0:37:59.520
<v Speaker 6>my own time, and she like would bug me and

0:37:59.560 --> 0:38:02.760
<v Speaker 6>like sometimes even check my phone or something and stuff

0:38:02.800 --> 0:38:05.759
<v Speaker 6>like that, like she will like get messed, Like if

0:38:05.760 --> 0:38:07.680
<v Speaker 6>I don't poster, she gets mad, like, hey, why don't

0:38:07.680 --> 0:38:09.960
<v Speaker 6>you post to me? This isn't ad.

0:38:13.239 --> 0:38:19.239
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So let's get back to the kid. Okay, what

0:38:19.320 --> 0:38:21.040
<v Speaker 2>do you think she will think of the kid?

0:38:23.560 --> 0:38:27.359
<v Speaker 6>Um oh in her mind right now, saying that it's

0:38:27.480 --> 0:38:29.920
<v Speaker 6>not my kids. So right now we're just waiting put

0:38:29.960 --> 0:38:33.400
<v Speaker 6>the kids to be born and from there we'll go on.

0:38:33.680 --> 0:38:37.640
<v Speaker 6>She says she'll supporting me, but I'm not sure if

0:38:37.680 --> 0:38:39.120
<v Speaker 6>she is or she isn't.

0:38:41.480 --> 0:38:44.400
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So she thinks it's not your kid, and soon

0:38:44.440 --> 0:38:47.360
<v Speaker 2>you're gonna take I assume opportunity test and you will,

0:38:47.800 --> 0:38:50.360
<v Speaker 2>uh find out for sure whether or not it's your kid.

0:38:51.719 --> 0:38:52.759
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, absolutely I.

0:38:52.680 --> 0:38:58.359
<v Speaker 2>Will, Okay, And so assuming it is your kid, do

0:38:58.400 --> 0:39:01.480
<v Speaker 2>you think that she will be support of you being

0:39:01.520 --> 0:39:02.360
<v Speaker 2>in the kid's life.

0:39:04.880 --> 0:39:07.399
<v Speaker 6>I think she will, but like her trust is going

0:39:07.400 --> 0:39:08.040
<v Speaker 6>to go like.

0:39:09.640 --> 0:39:10.200
<v Speaker 5>Pretty like.

0:39:12.120 --> 0:39:18.719
<v Speaker 6>I'm not like pretty high like high alert because my

0:39:18.840 --> 0:39:21.200
<v Speaker 6>like my mama wants because my band mama wants me

0:39:21.320 --> 0:39:23.719
<v Speaker 6>to be like spend the day like go to her

0:39:23.760 --> 0:39:26.480
<v Speaker 6>house and see the kids for at least two hours

0:39:26.480 --> 0:39:29.239
<v Speaker 6>and then go do whatever I want after work and

0:39:29.280 --> 0:39:31.640
<v Speaker 6>then from there, like if I want to see my

0:39:31.719 --> 0:39:33.840
<v Speaker 6>if like my kid wants to be with me, like

0:39:33.880 --> 0:39:35.399
<v Speaker 6>if I want to see the kid to like my aunts,

0:39:35.480 --> 0:39:38.319
<v Speaker 6>er my parents' house, whatever, like my big mama has

0:39:38.360 --> 0:39:40.879
<v Speaker 6>to be with me like so oft the whole time

0:39:40.920 --> 0:39:43.760
<v Speaker 6>because the may is still new like a newborn.

0:39:43.800 --> 0:39:51.880
<v Speaker 10>And when I listen, Sam, I think, I think you

0:39:52.000 --> 0:39:54.960
<v Speaker 10>need to do a little bit of like you know

0:39:55.360 --> 0:39:58.160
<v Speaker 10>in term you know, like you have good intentions.

0:39:58.600 --> 0:40:00.840
<v Speaker 2>Uh you want to be a good boy friend and

0:40:00.880 --> 0:40:03.520
<v Speaker 2>you want to be a good dad. I can tell

0:40:03.520 --> 0:40:05.440
<v Speaker 2>that about you because if you didn't, you wouldn't be

0:40:05.520 --> 0:40:07.319
<v Speaker 2>calling or you wouldn't even be thinking about these things,

0:40:07.360 --> 0:40:12.680
<v Speaker 2>you would just be sort of fucking around. You want

0:40:12.680 --> 0:40:13.960
<v Speaker 2>to be a good dad, and you want to be

0:40:14.000 --> 0:40:17.040
<v Speaker 2>a good boyfriend. But I think you gotta kind of

0:40:17.080 --> 0:40:21.879
<v Speaker 2>like step back for a second and examine what your

0:40:21.880 --> 0:40:26.480
<v Speaker 2>priorities are, if that makes sense, And once you've done that,

0:40:27.840 --> 0:40:29.680
<v Speaker 2>it would help you to just sort of stick by

0:40:29.719 --> 0:40:33.959
<v Speaker 2>them and be like, Hey, these are my non negotiable

0:40:34.000 --> 0:40:39.960
<v Speaker 2>priorities and you can either be with me as I

0:40:40.000 --> 0:40:44.759
<v Speaker 2>attend to them or you cannot. Is that fair? What

0:40:44.760 --> 0:40:49.600
<v Speaker 2>do you think about that? So for you to be like, hey, listen,

0:40:49.600 --> 0:40:54.239
<v Speaker 2>what's what's this girl's h what's give me a fake

0:40:54.320 --> 0:40:57.520
<v Speaker 2>name for your baby mama. I'm gonna call her Victoria.

0:40:58.560 --> 0:41:02.760
<v Speaker 2>It feels like an interest. You gotta be like, hey, Victoria, listen,

0:41:03.080 --> 0:41:04.960
<v Speaker 2>if this child is mine, I want to be in

0:41:04.960 --> 0:41:09.000
<v Speaker 2>this child's life. That means I'm gonna go to the

0:41:09.160 --> 0:41:14.240
<v Speaker 2>soccer games. I'm gonna go to the school parent teacher

0:41:14.280 --> 0:41:17.640
<v Speaker 2>events where me and the baby mama are gonna have

0:41:17.680 --> 0:41:20.080
<v Speaker 2>to sit down talk to the teacher. We're gonna have

0:41:20.080 --> 0:41:22.440
<v Speaker 2>to do certain things together. Because it's the mother of

0:41:22.480 --> 0:41:24.920
<v Speaker 2>my child, she's gonna have to be involved in my

0:41:25.000 --> 0:41:27.600
<v Speaker 2>life to a certain extent and I'm gonna have to

0:41:27.640 --> 0:41:30.600
<v Speaker 2>deal with that because I love my child. This is

0:41:30.640 --> 0:41:33.320
<v Speaker 2>what's gonna happen. I'm putting my foot down. I'm telling

0:41:33.360 --> 0:41:38.960
<v Speaker 2>you this because it's important to me. Do with that information,

0:41:39.000 --> 0:41:43.799
<v Speaker 2>would you please? You have to kind of tell her

0:41:43.840 --> 0:41:47.200
<v Speaker 2>that if that, if this is truly important to you.

0:41:51.120 --> 0:41:55.359
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, well yeah, my daughter well might sooner being born.

0:41:55.440 --> 0:41:56.920
<v Speaker 6>Daughter is pretty important to me at the home.

0:41:57.680 --> 0:41:59.160
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So I mean, what do you think about what

0:41:59.160 --> 0:42:02.400
<v Speaker 2>I've just said to you out like sort of internally

0:42:02.480 --> 0:42:05.440
<v Speaker 2>lying out your priorities and trying as hard as you

0:42:05.440 --> 0:42:08.919
<v Speaker 2>can just stand by them.

0:42:08.960 --> 0:42:11.920
<v Speaker 6>Pretty much, was like, yeah, that's that's what I want

0:42:12.000 --> 0:42:14.000
<v Speaker 6>kind of to do, like plus to my girl and

0:42:14.040 --> 0:42:17.120
<v Speaker 6>tell her like hey, like yeah, like I said, I'm

0:42:17.080 --> 0:42:20.799
<v Speaker 6>seeing authorities that about my kid. And if you said

0:42:20.800 --> 0:42:21.840
<v Speaker 6>it perfectly.

0:42:23.719 --> 0:42:27.279
<v Speaker 2>Listen, what's your name? San Sam? Do me a favor, Sam.

0:42:27.320 --> 0:42:30.640
<v Speaker 2>Stop shocking yourself for not not not Don't do it

0:42:30.640 --> 0:42:33.600
<v Speaker 2>for me, don't do it for don't even do it

0:42:33.640 --> 0:42:39.160
<v Speaker 2>for you. Do it for the child because she's gonna

0:42:39.360 --> 0:42:42.000
<v Speaker 2>she's gonna because here's the thing, Uh, I remember being

0:42:42.040 --> 0:42:43.399
<v Speaker 2>a kid. When you're a kid, you want to fuck

0:42:43.440 --> 0:42:50.680
<v Speaker 2>around with everything exposed, wires, barbed wires, spiky cactus shoes,

0:42:50.760 --> 0:42:54.080
<v Speaker 2>just fuck around with stuff, just touch everything. And your

0:42:54.120 --> 0:42:56.160
<v Speaker 2>kid's gonna see you fucking around with the wires, and

0:42:56.160 --> 0:42:58.720
<v Speaker 2>she's gonna want to fuck around with the wires and

0:42:58.960 --> 0:43:01.200
<v Speaker 2>the voltage that you use. It's not enough to kill you,

0:43:01.280 --> 0:43:05.239
<v Speaker 2>but it's enough to kill her. So man, try like

0:43:05.280 --> 0:43:09.600
<v Speaker 2>a monster or something. Those are pretty good. There's lots

0:43:09.600 --> 0:43:12.240
<v Speaker 2>of alternatives out there for you. All hope is not lost.

0:43:16.640 --> 0:43:19.160
<v Speaker 6>Yeah, I'll try a month. I'll say about red Bull

0:43:19.200 --> 0:43:20.160
<v Speaker 6>the watermelon.

0:43:19.719 --> 0:43:23.600
<v Speaker 2>Favor, that one I have tried, the reddible watermelon flavor.

0:43:24.840 --> 0:43:27.520
<v Speaker 2>That could get their new slogan better than shocking yourself

0:43:27.600 --> 0:43:31.879
<v Speaker 2>readibule watermelon. You could be the guy. You could be

0:43:32.160 --> 0:43:35.799
<v Speaker 2>the spokesperson. You can tell people you're sorry you used

0:43:35.800 --> 0:43:38.960
<v Speaker 2>to have to shock yourself with wires, but now you

0:43:39.040 --> 0:43:43.360
<v Speaker 2>get an even better buzz from red Bull Watermelon.

0:43:48.080 --> 0:43:51.480
<v Speaker 6>That's hey, Red Bull India.

0:43:52.560 --> 0:43:53.520
<v Speaker 2>Is there anything else you want to say to the

0:43:53.520 --> 0:43:54.600
<v Speaker 2>people of the computer before we go?

0:43:54.680 --> 0:43:59.719
<v Speaker 6>Sam uh nos be just appreciate you, gig thanks to

0:43:59.760 --> 0:44:02.279
<v Speaker 6>the words. I keeple with my heart, keep it in

0:44:02.320 --> 0:44:04.719
<v Speaker 6>my mind every day, and you could do what you're doing.

0:44:05.480 --> 0:44:06.480
<v Speaker 2>Thank you for Collin San.

0:44:08.000 --> 0:44:11.840
<v Speaker 6>They've got they.

0:44:13.480 --> 0:44:17.880
<v Speaker 2>See I uh, you know, I feel for San because,

0:44:18.000 --> 0:44:22.279
<v Speaker 2>like I here's what I kind of believe, Not that

0:44:22.320 --> 0:44:27.680
<v Speaker 2>I have any beliefs about anything, but I believe you

0:44:27.719 --> 0:44:30.120
<v Speaker 2>can kind of you can kind of like do whatever

0:44:30.200 --> 0:44:35.120
<v Speaker 2>you want until you have a kid. Like if you

0:44:35.719 --> 0:44:41.080
<v Speaker 2>want to like shock yourself, or be in a shitty relationship,

0:44:41.920 --> 0:44:46.239
<v Speaker 2>or run off to a foreign country or go to

0:44:46.320 --> 0:44:48.560
<v Speaker 2>you can kind of just do anything with your life

0:44:49.480 --> 0:44:52.200
<v Speaker 2>until you have a kid. Then you have this like

0:44:52.360 --> 0:44:56.839
<v Speaker 2>inherent responsibility to a thing forever. That's why I don't

0:44:56.840 --> 0:44:58.760
<v Speaker 2>want to have kids so that I can just be shitty.

0:44:59.520 --> 0:45:02.160
<v Speaker 2>I would love I love being I love being shitty.

0:45:02.520 --> 0:45:06.440
<v Speaker 2>It's awesome. I love being shitty and having no responsibilities

0:45:06.440 --> 0:45:09.480
<v Speaker 2>to anyone except for myself. It's great. I never want

0:45:09.520 --> 0:45:15.160
<v Speaker 2>to give that up. Maybe in a decade, when I

0:45:15.200 --> 0:45:18.560
<v Speaker 2>find myself cripplingly lonely as a result of my actions,

0:45:19.000 --> 0:45:21.880
<v Speaker 2>I'll rethink that. But until then, I'm having an awesome

0:45:21.920 --> 0:45:29.800
<v Speaker 2>time answering to absolutely no one. Sam unfortunately has values

0:45:31.480 --> 0:45:35.160
<v Speaker 2>that are going to cripple him. He has a genuine

0:45:35.200 --> 0:45:37.399
<v Speaker 2>desire to be a good father, which will cripple him

0:45:38.320 --> 0:45:44.320
<v Speaker 2>in his decisions, in his paths in life. He can't

0:45:44.360 --> 0:45:48.720
<v Speaker 2>really go by the whims of his Uh, he's really enjoying.

0:45:48.880 --> 0:45:52.800
<v Speaker 2>You could tell he's really enjoying living at the whim

0:45:52.920 --> 0:45:56.040
<v Speaker 2>of his as he calls it, as he calls her

0:45:56.320 --> 0:46:00.799
<v Speaker 2>toxic girlfriend, and like he can totally do that and

0:46:00.960 --> 0:46:03.520
<v Speaker 2>enjoy doing that. But now he has a kid, and

0:46:03.560 --> 0:46:05.680
<v Speaker 2>the love that he has for his kid is gonna

0:46:05.960 --> 0:46:08.719
<v Speaker 2>conflict with that, and he's got to deal with that,

0:46:09.880 --> 0:46:12.160
<v Speaker 2>and I feel for him. I hope he's able to

0:46:12.160 --> 0:46:18.200
<v Speaker 2>deal with it in a constructive way. Meanwhile, myself and

0:46:18.239 --> 0:46:22.440
<v Speaker 2>the rest of us that don't have children will enjoy

0:46:23.920 --> 0:46:30.239
<v Speaker 2>bathing in as much toxicity as we please. Good luck

0:46:30.239 --> 0:46:34.799
<v Speaker 2>to Sam, Sam whatever his name was, he had good intentions.

0:46:35.120 --> 0:46:38.080
<v Speaker 2>I hope he follows them.

0:46:38.160 --> 0:46:38.480
<v Speaker 7>Hello.

0:46:40.160 --> 0:46:42.320
<v Speaker 2>Is this Dave from Tennessee?

0:46:44.160 --> 0:46:44.879
<v Speaker 5>Yes to Dave?

0:46:45.800 --> 0:46:46.080
<v Speaker 7>Dave?

0:46:48.400 --> 0:46:50.759
<v Speaker 2>Yes, what's going on? Dave?

0:46:53.280 --> 0:46:54.000
<v Speaker 5>Well, I'm chilling.

0:46:56.480 --> 0:46:58.680
<v Speaker 2>Oh, happy heart is to you as well. David says

0:46:58.760 --> 0:47:03.160
<v Speaker 2>here twenty five years old, you're from Tennessee. Says that

0:47:03.200 --> 0:47:05.840
<v Speaker 2>you have a speech impediment, and you would like to

0:47:05.880 --> 0:47:13.040
<v Speaker 2>discuss how you feel society views speech impediments. Is that accurate?

0:47:15.680 --> 0:47:18.759
<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

0:47:19.080 --> 0:47:20.279
<v Speaker 2>Okay, tell me more about that.

0:47:23.480 --> 0:47:29.000
<v Speaker 5>Well, you know, it's it's it's a little difficult, I think,

0:47:31.760 --> 0:47:39.040
<v Speaker 5>especially in the retail space, I get a lot of looks,

0:47:39.840 --> 0:47:43.200
<v Speaker 5>but I'll try not to take it personally.

0:47:46.520 --> 0:47:47.360
<v Speaker 2>Do you work in retail?

0:47:49.040 --> 0:47:56.040
<v Speaker 5>I do. I won't disclose the company name this out

0:47:56.080 --> 0:48:05.279
<v Speaker 5>of I guess either the respect or the fear that

0:48:05.520 --> 0:48:09.720
<v Speaker 5>when you're fired. Okay, but yeah, I work in retail.

0:48:11.520 --> 0:48:13.399
<v Speaker 2>Okay, So you work in retail, you get a lot

0:48:13.440 --> 0:48:19.719
<v Speaker 2>of Do you get a lot of people being let's

0:48:19.840 --> 0:48:22.800
<v Speaker 2>let's let we'll get to the looks, but let's start

0:48:22.840 --> 0:48:28.440
<v Speaker 2>at like sort of the most intense reactions. Do you

0:48:28.480 --> 0:48:33.200
<v Speaker 2>get people who are hostile with you because of your

0:48:33.200 --> 0:48:33.960
<v Speaker 2>speech impediment?

0:48:36.120 --> 0:48:41.640
<v Speaker 5>Not necessarily a hot style, but there are some people

0:48:41.840 --> 0:48:47.920
<v Speaker 5>that I guess they have never experienced a speech impediment,

0:48:49.000 --> 0:48:54.440
<v Speaker 5>so they tend to think that something is wrong. I

0:48:54.440 --> 0:48:58.799
<v Speaker 5>guess when that's not the case at all.

0:49:00.040 --> 0:49:00.320
<v Speaker 2>Mhm.

0:49:00.840 --> 0:49:04.560
<v Speaker 5>It's worse with a stress and the work, it's it's

0:49:04.680 --> 0:49:10.680
<v Speaker 5>it's hard, but I'm just like, hey, no, nothing's wrong.

0:49:10.719 --> 0:49:13.560
<v Speaker 5>I'm just trying to help you out there. Famly, it's

0:49:13.600 --> 0:49:14.279
<v Speaker 5>not a big deal.

0:49:15.520 --> 0:49:21.120
<v Speaker 2>So when you're stressed out, does the speech impediment kind

0:49:21.160 --> 0:49:23.560
<v Speaker 2>of get worse or a flare up more.

0:49:24.280 --> 0:49:31.920
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it definitely gets worse. The yes.

0:49:35.280 --> 0:49:35.759
<v Speaker 6>Found it.

0:49:36.560 --> 0:49:42.960
<v Speaker 5>It's already hard enough. I think it's worse with stress. Ah,

0:49:43.960 --> 0:49:51.320
<v Speaker 5>just my my ability to communicate gets harder under stress.

0:49:53.040 --> 0:49:56.719
<v Speaker 2>So people you said, I don't have a lot of

0:49:56.760 --> 0:50:00.200
<v Speaker 2>experience with people have speech impediments, and you feel like

0:50:00.239 --> 0:50:06.279
<v Speaker 2>that gives them a wrong idea. What would you like

0:50:07.080 --> 0:50:08.120
<v Speaker 2>those people to know?

0:50:12.400 --> 0:50:12.560
<v Speaker 9>Uh?

0:50:13.800 --> 0:50:19.400
<v Speaker 5>I think the first thing is like I'm not and

0:50:19.560 --> 0:50:31.319
<v Speaker 5>most people that have speak impediments are not like handicaps.

0:50:31.400 --> 0:50:34.120
<v Speaker 5>I guess in like a mental way.

0:50:34.880 --> 0:50:35.160
<v Speaker 6>M h.

0:50:37.239 --> 0:50:43.520
<v Speaker 5>I mean, I guess that's the first thing. But the

0:50:43.560 --> 0:50:46.560
<v Speaker 5>second thing is also like, it's not really that big

0:50:46.600 --> 0:50:53.399
<v Speaker 5>of a deal to us, except for when it's made

0:50:53.400 --> 0:50:54.200
<v Speaker 5>a big deal.

0:50:55.680 --> 0:50:56.120
<v Speaker 2>Interesting.

0:50:56.320 --> 0:51:00.200
<v Speaker 5>Then it becomes an become an iss you.

0:51:01.600 --> 0:51:05.320
<v Speaker 2>So it's not a big deal to you except when

0:51:05.800 --> 0:51:11.759
<v Speaker 2>somebody else outside of your own sphere comes along and

0:51:11.800 --> 0:51:14.600
<v Speaker 2>in some way, shape or form makes it into a

0:51:14.600 --> 0:51:15.080
<v Speaker 2>big deal.

0:51:17.760 --> 0:51:18.520
<v Speaker 5>Yes, accurate.

0:51:19.120 --> 0:51:20.360
<v Speaker 2>Do you have an example of that?

0:51:24.880 --> 0:51:30.080
<v Speaker 5>Yeah? So in high scho school, which was like fifteen

0:51:30.160 --> 0:51:35.759
<v Speaker 5>years ago, though we'll not fifteen, like ten years ago.

0:51:36.520 --> 0:51:36.839
<v Speaker 2>Like my.

0:51:38.760 --> 0:51:47.440
<v Speaker 5>Freshman high person year, I had moved to a to

0:51:47.560 --> 0:51:56.839
<v Speaker 5>a tinier part Tennessee. I think I was the like

0:51:57.400 --> 0:52:02.200
<v Speaker 5>the only person in that school that had like a

0:52:03.280 --> 0:52:14.560
<v Speaker 5>a continuous speech impediment, uh like uh at that age,

0:52:14.680 --> 0:52:21.160
<v Speaker 5>Like it had developed in a in it in my

0:52:21.280 --> 0:52:30.440
<v Speaker 5>youth and never never went away. But I remember my

0:52:32.160 --> 0:52:39.720
<v Speaker 5>first two three weeks there were just a number uhh

0:52:40.440 --> 0:52:45.120
<v Speaker 5>uh of classmates that that thought that that I was

0:52:45.160 --> 0:52:50.560
<v Speaker 5>like having a stroke, yeah, like a heart attack. And

0:52:50.600 --> 0:52:54.040
<v Speaker 5>I was like, no, that's that's not That's not the

0:52:54.080 --> 0:52:57.040
<v Speaker 5>case at all. I mean, that's that's not the case

0:52:57.080 --> 0:52:57.399
<v Speaker 5>at all.

0:52:57.480 --> 0:53:01.360
<v Speaker 2>And you know, you know, I assume that after a while,

0:53:01.800 --> 0:53:04.799
<v Speaker 2>you you get annoyed with having to sort of be

0:53:04.960 --> 0:53:08.600
<v Speaker 2>the uh spokesperson of yourself.

0:53:11.200 --> 0:53:16.520
<v Speaker 5>Yeah, because the majority of the people during my life,

0:53:17.800 --> 0:53:20.320
<v Speaker 5>I think I'm the only one that's in their life

0:53:20.680 --> 0:53:28.920
<v Speaker 5>that has a speech impediment uh uh huh huh at

0:53:28.960 --> 0:53:29.480
<v Speaker 5>my age.

0:53:30.440 --> 0:53:32.080
<v Speaker 6>So it does.

0:53:34.040 --> 0:53:42.120
<v Speaker 5>Become annoying. But I also I try to keep in

0:53:42.160 --> 0:53:47.719
<v Speaker 5>my mind that most people don't really know like the

0:53:47.760 --> 0:53:53.200
<v Speaker 5>whole thing just behind they speak impediment, So I try

0:53:53.280 --> 0:53:55.000
<v Speaker 5>not to judge.

0:53:55.200 --> 0:54:00.040
<v Speaker 2>I guess interesting, So I that's kind of cool to

0:54:00.080 --> 0:54:05.760
<v Speaker 2>me that, you know, instead of responding with like a

0:54:05.760 --> 0:54:08.440
<v Speaker 2>an anger. You it sounds like you almost kind of

0:54:08.800 --> 0:54:13.320
<v Speaker 2>you get it. You're like, oh, I understand why people

0:54:14.320 --> 0:54:18.120
<v Speaker 2>think the things that they think about me and what's

0:54:18.160 --> 0:54:22.160
<v Speaker 2>going on with me. So I guess you know, you're like,

0:54:22.440 --> 0:54:25.000
<v Speaker 2>I can't really blame them, because I'm sure if I

0:54:25.040 --> 0:54:27.160
<v Speaker 2>were them, I'd think the same things.

0:54:29.120 --> 0:54:40.160
<v Speaker 5>It's most definitely uh a god experience, I guess for

0:54:40.719 --> 0:54:46.480
<v Speaker 5>people that don't have these speak speak impediment. But also

0:54:48.360 --> 0:54:53.080
<v Speaker 5>the main worry that that I've had, at least is

0:54:53.120 --> 0:55:02.680
<v Speaker 5>that people will will assume that I am uh huh

0:55:02.800 --> 0:55:14.640
<v Speaker 5>unintelligent or uh or were incapable of communicating uh in

0:55:14.719 --> 0:55:22.200
<v Speaker 5>the way that needs to be uh in that specific situations.

0:55:22.239 --> 0:55:36.399
<v Speaker 5>So it's made uh, it's made the act of being uh.

0:55:34.920 --> 0:55:41.600
<v Speaker 5>But you know, UH twenty year old, I guess ex experience.

0:55:41.960 --> 0:55:50.720
<v Speaker 5>UH it's not one that uh I had uh uh

0:55:52.480 --> 0:56:01.200
<v Speaker 5>a whole lot of access to uh uh uh until

0:56:01.280 --> 0:56:05.000
<v Speaker 5>I had some friends that didn't really care and that

0:56:05.080 --> 0:56:05.480
<v Speaker 5>I had a.

0:56:05.840 --> 0:56:10.840
<v Speaker 2>Speaking right, right, you almost have to like, uh do

0:56:10.920 --> 0:56:14.480
<v Speaker 2>a little bit of like extra proving yourself. I mean,

0:56:14.480 --> 0:56:17.279
<v Speaker 2>you know, I look, everybody UH feels some kind of

0:56:17.320 --> 0:56:24.120
<v Speaker 2>weird pressure to prove their own you know, intelligence and whatnot.

0:56:24.200 --> 0:56:26.640
<v Speaker 2>And you've got a little bit of extra of that

0:56:26.760 --> 0:56:28.600
<v Speaker 2>within you because you know, you're walking around with all

0:56:28.640 --> 0:56:34.319
<v Speaker 2>these people's uh, you know, expectations of you know, what

0:56:34.360 --> 0:56:38.120
<v Speaker 2>your what your level of intelligence is like because of

0:56:37.880 --> 0:56:38.920
<v Speaker 2>of of how you sound.

0:56:44.080 --> 0:56:50.000
<v Speaker 5>Definitely is more work that goes into it.

0:56:50.640 --> 0:56:55.200
<v Speaker 2>Well, well, listen, Dave is there you know, I know

0:56:55.200 --> 0:56:58.440
<v Speaker 2>we sort of talked a lot about this particular question,

0:56:59.520 --> 0:57:01.680
<v Speaker 2>uh before we got kind of wanted to phrase it

0:57:01.719 --> 0:57:07.080
<v Speaker 2>again so that you have the opportunity to like tell

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<v Speaker 2>any any any wrap up thoughts on it. But what

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<v Speaker 2>would you like the people listening to this to know

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<v Speaker 2>about people with speech impediments that you think would make

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<v Speaker 2>you know their lives a little bit easier.

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<v Speaker 5>So more often but than not. Well, we are intelligent,

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<v Speaker 5>but we just need a little extra time to communicate

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<v Speaker 5>what we want to communicate, I guess is the main

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<v Speaker 5>message that I want treat out there?

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<v Speaker 2>Is there anything else I want to say to the

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<v Speaker 2>people the computer before we go?

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<v Speaker 6>Happy holidays?

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<v Speaker 5>Make use of it.

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<v Speaker 2>It is twenty It is for twenty at the time

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<v Speaker 2>that this is being recorded. Or are you high right now? Uh?

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<v Speaker 5>Not at the moment I was earlier. I had to

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<v Speaker 5>make dinner, so I had to chill out a.

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<v Speaker 2>Minute before the right answer, Because if you had said yes,

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<v Speaker 2>I would have tracked the phone number, found your address

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<v Speaker 2>and called the police on you instantly. But luckily I

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<v Speaker 2>won't have to do that.

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<v Speaker 5>I love you, Thank you, thank you, Dave. My see.

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<v Speaker 2>Crap. I should have asked him if getting high made

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<v Speaker 2>his speech better or worse. I'll have to look that up. Well,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't even know if it's like a look uppable thing.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know if it's different for sort of each person.

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<v Speaker 2>But who knows. You know, I go on Reddit a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>If you go on read a lot, you know that

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<v Speaker 2>weed is the cure for everything, cancer, speech impediments, loneliness.

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<v Speaker 2>Never be kid goes on the line taking your phone

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<v Speaker 2>calls every night. Never be kid goes to his side.

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<v Speaker 4>He's teaching you cloud in the middle

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<v Speaker 2>Of your life, but he's not really an expert.