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Speaker 1: let's get into the podcast.

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Speaker 3: Baby, We've been together for like a year now, and

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Speaker 3: we were having sex in the beginning, and it's like

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Speaker 3: died out. So I like, I'm just confused.

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Speaker 2: I guess, Dick, why don't you like having sex?

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Speaker 4: I don't really know. It's not like I don't like

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Speaker 4: to sorry to cuss on the strength to come, but

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Speaker 4: it's just I don't know. I don't see the the

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Speaker 4: point I guess.

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Speaker 2: Interesting, so you don't see the point of coming. Hello, Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 2: is this Dick and Jane?

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Speaker 4: It is?

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Speaker 2: It says here, Dick and Jane, you are twenty three

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Speaker 2: and twenty two, You're from Phoenix, and you're trying to

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Speaker 2: have some figure out some bedroom problems. It says here

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Speaker 2: that Dick is not a fan of having sex, and

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Speaker 2: that he's open to Jane having sex with other people

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Speaker 2: to satisfy her need. But correct, Jane, it says here

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Speaker 2: that you don't seem sure of whether or not you're

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Speaker 2: comfortable doing that. Is that correct? What the call screener.

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Speaker 3: Said, Well, I've never been like, I don't know, I've

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Speaker 3: never been in this situation. So it's just very new

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Speaker 3: and I'm I don't know I have I don't really

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Speaker 3: even know how I feel about it.

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Speaker 2: Interesting. Let me talk to uh, let me talk to

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Speaker 2: Dick first. Dick, why don't you like having sex?

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Speaker 4: I you know, I don't really know. It's not like

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Speaker 4: I don't like to uh, sorry to cuss on the

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Speaker 4: strength to come, but it's just I don't know. I

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Speaker 4: don't see the the point I guess I don't know.

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Speaker 5: It's just not in my.

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Speaker 4: Like wants, if that makes any sense.

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Speaker 2: Interesting, So you don't see the point of.

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Speaker 5: Coming yeah, pretty much.

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Speaker 4: I mean, well, it's kind of like, I don't know, man,

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Speaker 4: I I'm happier drinking and like working.

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Speaker 5: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: I you know, I know it's a weird thing to say,

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Speaker 4: but yeah, I don't know. Sex. Sex isn't my thing.

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Speaker 2: It's just not in your wheelhouse. It's not of you

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Speaker 2: have noticed it?

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Speaker 6: Do you? Do?

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Speaker 2: You masturbate.

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Speaker 5: Every now and then?

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Speaker 4: Very rarely? I would say, like once every couple of weeks.

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Speaker 2: Okay, if you see, uh a person that you're attracted

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Speaker 2: to on the street or on your computer or whatever,

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Speaker 2: does that? Does that make you horny?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: I definitely get horny. It's not like a like I

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Speaker 4: don't feel sexual desire. It's like I don't have the

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Speaker 4: the desire to fulfill the desires, if that makes any sense.

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Speaker 2: And yeah, no, that actually makes a lot of sense.

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Speaker 2: Uh So, Jane are you there?

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Speaker 5: Hello?

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Speaker 2: Okay, how do you feel about all of uh? What? What?

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Speaker 7: What?

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Speaker 2: Dick has expressed?

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Speaker 8: It's I guess it's a little confusing just because well,

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Speaker 8: me and Dick, like we met in college and we

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Speaker 8: were like friends with benefits with each other, but also

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Speaker 8: like a lot of different people, and we were both having.

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Speaker 3: A lot of sex while we were just friends, and

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Speaker 3: then we've been together for like a year now and

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Speaker 3: we were having sex in the beginning, and it's like

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Speaker 3: died out. So I like, I'm just confused. I guess.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So so Dick was at one point quite sexually active,

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Speaker 2: but it just fizzled out. Yes, interesting, Dick, what made

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Speaker 2: it fizzle out? Do you think do you have it?

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Speaker 4: Uh? I actually do I I literally I was just

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Speaker 4: like I don't know if it's like just written into

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Speaker 5: But I feel like.

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Speaker 4: That, I know that the dumb argument. I know no

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Speaker 4: one else thinks like that.

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Speaker 2: So it's like, well, well, hold on, hold on, I

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Speaker 2: don't think it's a dumb argument. It's just it's just

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Speaker 2: there's no it's not a it's not a thing of

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Speaker 2: correct or incorrect. It's just how you look at it.

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Speaker 2: So you're not wrong. But I guess now that you

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Speaker 2: are in a relationship and you have found a sort

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Speaker 2: not important to you.

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Speaker 4: Well, and it's not that we don't have sex. We

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Speaker 4: just I know she likes to have sex a lot,

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Speaker 4: and I am like once a month, twice a month

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Speaker 4: that is perfectly fine by me, where I know she

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Speaker 2: So Jane, yes, sirs, tell tell us what is what

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Speaker 2: is your sort of sexual situation is? Would you consider

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Speaker 2: sex to be very important to you?

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Speaker 3: I mean it's I've since I've started being sexual, like

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Speaker 3: in my life, I haven't really slowed down, I guess,

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Speaker 3: but I've also like used sex for not healthy purposes,

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Speaker 2: Well healthy purposes.

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Speaker 3: It's well, I mean I had a lot of body

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Speaker 3: issues in my life, and I was like, well, if

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Speaker 3: I have sex with people, like my body is fine,

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Speaker 3: Like it's with like validation, you know. So it's like

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Speaker 9: Guess I still have body issues, so maybe that's why

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Speaker 9: I feel that way, but I also just know, like

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Speaker 9: I am a very sexual person, and so it was

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Speaker 3: I don't know, I like, I love dick so much,

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Speaker 3: so it's like it was just off to me when

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Speaker 3: I wait, okay, well you know Richard.

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Speaker 2: But see, yeah, I was. I was wondering when you

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Speaker 2: said you loved Dick so much. I was. I was genuinely.

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Speaker 2: I know it's funny, but I was genuine wondering. Do

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Speaker 2: you mean like you actually.

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Speaker 4: Loved Dick but me Dick is what you mean?

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Speaker 3: Anyways?

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Speaker 2: Sorry, So you two are are are very much happy

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Speaker 2: being with each other. Would you say that this is

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Speaker 2: I was one of okay, great, so you would say

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Speaker 4: It's not like a conflict or anything.

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Speaker 5: It's just more of like.

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Speaker 4: A I know that she wants this thing, and for me,

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Speaker 4: I do not want this thing very often. And it's

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Speaker 4: more of just like it wouldn't piss me off at

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Speaker 4: all if she was doing this for you know, her thing,

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Speaker 4: it just wouldn't you know.

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Speaker 2: It's so now that we have the backgrounds. Uh, you

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Speaker 2: have proposed the idea that Jane go out and have

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Speaker 2: sex with other people. Uh, Jane, what what is your

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Speaker 5: It's she I.

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Speaker 3: Don't want to say that I like want to do it,

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Speaker 3: but I'm open to the idea of doing it.

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Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, hold on. When you say you

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Speaker 2: don't want to say that you want to do it?

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Speaker 2: Do you mean you don't want to say it? Or

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Speaker 3: It's not that I don't want to. I just don't

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Speaker 3: know how to say, like I don't want to have

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Speaker 3: sex with other people, but I.

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Speaker 6: Want to have sex.

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Speaker 3: M It's it's conflicting. So because I'm a very monogamous person,

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Speaker 3: but like when I'm in a relationship, obviously, but that's

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Speaker 3: just who I am. But I'm not closed off to

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Speaker 5: I would just need.

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Speaker 3: More clarification on like the process and how this is,

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Speaker 3: how this is supposed to go.

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Speaker 2: The process of how this is supposed to go? What what? What?

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Speaker 2: What do you What's give me an example of like

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Speaker 2: a process. I don't know what you mean by what

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Speaker 4: Where do we start?

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Speaker 3: How do I do I scout someone out? Do do

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Speaker 3: we go scouting out to get there?

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Speaker 2: Let's listen, listen, listen, listen. Congratulations, you have the same

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Speaker 2: exact problem of any other you know, single person who's

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Speaker 2: trying to have sex. Does that track? I mean, that's

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Speaker 2: that's your your here's the thing is your your But

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Speaker 2: here's the thing your your boyfriend has given you permission

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Speaker 2: to do whatever you want, and then from there the process. Uh,

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Speaker 2: it's the fucking same as any other process of anyone

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Speaker 2: else trying to get laid, which is like whatever, man,

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Speaker 2: you go out to a bar, you go on tender,

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Speaker 2: can't give you a guide on how to do it.

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Speaker 2: He's not like a He can't like be some sort

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Speaker 2: of pick up artist mentor for you.

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Speaker 3: I guess it's like do you want like do you

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Speaker 3: want to know details? Do you want? Like I just

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Speaker 3: don't know what you do and you don't want to know.

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Speaker 4: Like that's what I'm And I feel this is lile

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Speaker 4: what you were just saying, Like it's just up to you,

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Speaker 4: Like I'm just literally throwing the ballpark out there for

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Speaker 4: what you need, and I just you you make the ship.

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Speaker 2: You make the rules exactly. Look, because here's the thing,

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Speaker 2: getting laid can be hard. I think that that might

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Speaker 2: to have anything to do with it. So I mean, let'sten, there's, there's, here's,

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Speaker 2: here's here's. I feel like one of the sort of

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Speaker 2: final pieces of the puzzle. Are you wondering if Dick

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Speaker 2: wants to know if you go have sex with other people?

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Speaker 2: Because that's another thing I've heard about, you know, in

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Speaker 2: some of these kind of relationship setups where it's like, Okay,

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Speaker 2: you can do everything, but I don't want to know

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Speaker 2: about it. And then there's a version where it's like, hey, honey,

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Speaker 2: go out on a night to the town, go out

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Speaker 2: on your date, nobody come home. We can talk all

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Speaker 2: about it and I'll listen with glee. You know, I

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Speaker 2: don't know what's what what you guys are though.

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Speaker 4: It comes down to that's a that's a good question.

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Speaker 4: I think we got to talk about that like on

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Speaker 4: our own because I don't really know on that side,

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Speaker 4: that's a good question. I don't know if I want

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Speaker 4: to know or if I don't want to know. I

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Speaker 4: feel like there's a guy taking her out on a night.

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Speaker 4: Dat I don't see any problem with that. But it's like, yeah,

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Speaker 4: I'm going to move here and get banned. Obviously that's

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Speaker 4: not it's different. That's different, But at.

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Speaker 4: I just think we wanted to hear just a third party.

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Speaker 4: We just needed like a third party in this to

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Speaker 3: Huge fan of your podcast.

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Speaker 2: Like we Yeah, so I I appreciate that. I feel

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Speaker 2: And then also, you know, I don't know, sounds like

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Speaker 3: I agree, and yeah.

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Speaker 2: This guys just cut out now. But uh, is there

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Speaker 5: Sorry?

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Speaker 2: Is there anything you guys want to say before we go? No?

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Speaker 3: No, we appreciate your out man.

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Speaker 2: I hope you have a great day, beautiful, take care guys. Hi, man,

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Speaker 2: people are really uh, people are really chill these days.

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Speaker 2: I like it. I fuck with those two. Those two

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Speaker 2: He's he's not only transcended his desire to have sex,

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Speaker 2: And then he's not. And then not only that, he's

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Speaker 2: and let's watch a movie or something. I like those guys.

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Speaker 2: People are chill. There's another thing, too, is I feel

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Speaker 2: weird thing. I mean that that girl Jane, she's trying.

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Speaker 2: She just trying to make it. She is with him,

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Speaker 2: I think they'll be fine. I like, I would love

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Speaker 2: absolutely buy that for fourteen ninety nine, I would. I would.

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Speaker 2: You know, like, obviously you can't choose these things about you.

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Speaker 2: You know, we all know that they're like whatever, conversion

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Speaker 2: I'm there, Hello, Hello, Jasmine? Is that you?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: How's your life going, Jasmine?

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Speaker 3: I'm fantastic, litt nervous?

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Speaker 7: Am I talking to ghek?

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Speaker 2: You are talking to the gecko boy?

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Speaker 7: Uh god, it's so nice to meet you.

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Speaker 2: It's nice to meet you as well. I do you

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Speaker 2: consider talk?

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Speaker 7: Do you?

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Speaker 2: Would you consider this meeting? Even though we're on the phone.

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Speaker 2: I feel like this is you know, it's pretty good.

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Speaker 2: It's it's it's we are definitely connected. I can hear you,

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Speaker 2: you can hear me. But have we met, right? I

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Speaker 6: I think.

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Speaker 7: It's more realistic this way than like walking around in

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Speaker 2: Well, Jasmine, it says here you know, I'm I don't

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Speaker 2: Sometimes I don't like doing the it says here a thing.

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Speaker 2: What what is it that you called in to talk

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Speaker 7: Jasmine, Well, I called to share a little story about

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Speaker 2: As a result of.

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Speaker 2: Well, okay, real quick, it's just here that you were

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I not with doing so it just happened to

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Speaker 2: Free if you want to start from the beginning of this.

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Speaker 2: Man, that sounds intensely stressful. I really, I really you

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Speaker 2: You know, you didn't give up. I mean, I mean realistically, realistically,

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Speaker 7: I think this is my biggest example of perseverance. Like

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Speaker 2: Have you ever told that story an answer question?

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Speaker 7: I haven't. I've actually been terrified to share the story

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Speaker 5: For years.

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Speaker 7: There's one time I got really drunk with my friends though,

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Speaker 2: Here really okay, So how do you feel having shared

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Speaker 7: I feel comfortable with you. I'm gonna be really honest.

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Speaker 7: I think I'm a I love your I listen to

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Speaker 7: a lot of your stuff on Spotify and watch your

442
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Speaker 7: dreams when I can. And every time I hear like

443
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Speaker 7: a like a Pope story, I'm just like, fuck, I

444
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Speaker 7: really got a call and share this one.

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Speaker 2: No, I will look thank you for putting me. You know,

446
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Speaker 2: it's funny because like if something like that happened to

447
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Speaker 2: me now, actually stuff like that kind of does happen

448
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Speaker 2: to me. I I I've clogged toilets at horrible uh

449
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Speaker 2: times situations and I've had to deal with that. But

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Speaker 2: I mean, especially at fifteen, that's a that's called the

451
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Speaker 2: fight or flight situation to get in. So yeah, I don't.

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Speaker 7: Know what I would do now at twenty, I have

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Speaker 7: no idea.

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Speaker 10: Uh.

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Speaker 2: Is there anything else that you want to say to

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Speaker 2: the people the computer.

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Speaker 7: Before we go, thank you guys for listening and chat's

458
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Speaker 7: really funny. So I appreciate how cool you guys were

459
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Speaker 7: about it. And uh, I appreciate I hope you guys

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Speaker 7: laughed as much as Actid during this.

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Speaker 2: Beautiful Thank you for calling Jasmine.

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Speaker 7: Thank you you're so lovely.

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Speaker 5: Have a good night.

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Speaker 2: She's very kind. Yeah, I don't know what I would

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Speaker 2: have done in that situation. Uh, I guess I probably

466
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Speaker 2: would have now did the stall have toilet paper in it?

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Speaker 2: Because I it's hard to get like water in there, right,

468
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Speaker 2: so you can probably just have like gotten naked in

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Speaker 2: the stall and used toilet paper to wipe away the shit.

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Speaker 2: That's what I would have done first, is I would

471
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Speaker 2: have done the first a little wipe through, and then

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Speaker 2: I would have gone out and washed the suit. But dude,

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Speaker 2: I mean, in a public restroom like that, especially at

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Speaker 2: a water park, there's probably like eight stalls, I mean,

475
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Speaker 2: to find the opportunity and then you have to like

476
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Speaker 2: sort of a look out and see if there's anybody there,

477
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Speaker 2: and to find the opportunity where you are truly completely

478
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Speaker 2: alone enough to wash that suit, complete that operation. That's

479
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Speaker 2: a whole thing. I'm very impressed by that. Hello, Hello,

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Speaker 2: Why is the sand?

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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, it's sad, but yeah, that's.

483
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Speaker 4: What I thought.

484
00:27:59,880 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 2: I read Sam, and I was like, it's gotta be

485
00:28:03,040 --> 00:28:06,600
Speaker 2: Sam to the end and the end way too close

486
00:28:07,480 --> 00:28:12,800
Speaker 2: on the keyboard for for it not to be, for

487
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Speaker 2: it not to be sad. Uh, what's going on? Uh say,

488
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Speaker 2: I'm gonna you know, I'm not gonna I'm not gonna

489
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Speaker 2: blasphemize the computer and tell that it's wrong. So I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna just call you Sand if that's okay. Oh, Frad,

491
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Speaker 2: what's going on with you? Sam?

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Speaker 6: Just just got out of work, pretty tired.

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Speaker 2: What do you do for work?

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Speaker 6: I'm an electrician?

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Speaker 2: You're a what.

496
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Speaker 6: Electrician?

497
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Speaker 2: You're an electrician? How how many times have you electrocuted yourself?

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Speaker 10: Uh?

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Speaker 6: Not gonna lie, electrocuting myself? Like at least three times

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Speaker 6: to wake myself up? And I'm at work?

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Speaker 2: Hold on, hold on, hold on? You electrocute it yourself

502
00:29:01,720 --> 00:29:03,920
Speaker 2: three times to wake yourself up?

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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 6: Like I work at like seven in the morning. I

505
00:29:08,120 --> 00:29:09,280
Speaker 6: had to be there. I had to wake up at

506
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Speaker 6: five thirty and then be at the job set at

507
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Speaker 6: seven in the morning, so I'm pretty still pretty tired,

508
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Speaker 6: so I just like touched at a hot wired and

509
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Speaker 6: it's just like wake up like that stead of drinking

510
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Speaker 6: like a monster, like a rebel or would wake up.

511
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Speaker 2: So you electricate yourself on purpose to wake up?

512
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Speaker 5: Yeah?

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00:29:30,320 --> 00:29:31,200
Speaker 6: Yeah, pretty much.

514
00:29:32,640 --> 00:29:35,080
Speaker 2: And would you say it is more effective than an

515
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:36,720
Speaker 2: energy drink or a coffee?

516
00:29:38,600 --> 00:29:38,840
Speaker 5: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Honestly, what does the sensation of electricating yourself feel like? Well?

518
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Speaker 6: I played with one twenty votes, so that's like a baby,

519
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:54,000
Speaker 6: like that's baby compared to life and liken like uh

520
00:29:54,400 --> 00:29:57,080
Speaker 6: in the job saie, that's like the baby's app So

521
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Speaker 6: it's pretty much nothing. It's just like a regular shot

522
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Speaker 6: like those guns them with like those guns that people

523
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Speaker 6: would shock you they thic.

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Speaker 9: Like one of those.

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Speaker 2: Is this a common thing for electricians to do?

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Speaker 6: I'm not sure. I'm not asking my co workers.

527
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Speaker 2: How do you think your co workers would respond if

528
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Speaker 2: you told them that you were intentionally shocking yourself to

529
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Speaker 2: wake yourself up?

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Speaker 6: Honestly, I think they'll do the same thing because they

531
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Speaker 6: they're pretty tired as well, So.

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Speaker 2: You think it would catch on?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I think so.

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Speaker 2: Have you ever tried to entice one of your co

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Speaker 2: workers into shocking themselves by telling them that it gives

536
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Speaker 2: you a burst of energy.

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Speaker 6: No, I have not.

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Speaker 2: What does the actual process of shocking yourself look like?

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Speaker 6: Uh? Just so we have like a little a little

540
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 6: ten it's like a machine because it's called a pent

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Speaker 6: tester or volt tester, and you turn it on and

542
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Speaker 6: it's like lights of green and you go to like

543
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Speaker 6: a hot wire. You make sure like it's hot, like

544
00:31:10,760 --> 00:31:13,040
Speaker 6: the black obviously the black wire. If it's hot, they

545
00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:15,959
Speaker 6: start beeping the vote test the pent tester and if

546
00:31:15,960 --> 00:31:17,760
Speaker 6: from there, you just take out the wire net and

547
00:31:17,880 --> 00:31:20,640
Speaker 6: just slightly touch it and then just let go and

548
00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:21,520
Speaker 6: then you get a shock.

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Speaker 2: Is this something that you would recommend to other people?

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Speaker 4: No?

551
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Speaker 2: M Do you feel like you can note? Do you

552
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Speaker 2: feel like you can sense a notable difference in your

553
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Speaker 2: day between a day where you do shock yourself and

554
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Speaker 2: a day where you don't?

555
00:31:47,160 --> 00:31:47,560
Speaker 3: Uh?

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00:31:48,480 --> 00:31:52,760
Speaker 6: Yes, oh yeah, because I always talk myself sometimes when

557
00:31:52,880 --> 00:31:55,880
Speaker 6: like IA, like for example, when they your new podcast,

558
00:31:56,040 --> 00:31:58,120
Speaker 6: like we're there, so I listened to it and I'm

559
00:31:58,160 --> 00:32:01,239
Speaker 6: from there, like probably tomorrow I'll I may or may

560
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Speaker 6: not do like shock myself to wake myself up because

561
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Speaker 6: I have nothing else like no other podcasts like listen

562
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:08,520
Speaker 6: to it. It's just like your.

563
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Speaker 2: Honestly, So if I have a podcast that comes out,

564
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Speaker 2: you listen to that instead of shocking yourself.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, like it like every well, Mondays and Wednesdays the

566
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Speaker 6: room when you drop like a new episode and then

567
00:32:24,160 --> 00:32:27,080
Speaker 6: from there it's just like that's my starts up my dating, honestly,

568
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Speaker 6: and then from there like to them tomorrow. Like I said,

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Speaker 6: it's no a new episode or just like like what

570
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Speaker 6: can I wake my solf up with?

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Speaker 2: Have you tried switching to just coffee or energy drinks

572
00:32:41,400 --> 00:32:42,760
Speaker 2: as opposed to shocking yourself.

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Speaker 6: I had no time for like to stop at a

574
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Speaker 6: gas station and get like an energy drink for anything,

575
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Speaker 6: because I'm already running late.

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Speaker 2: I guess that makes sense because if you're already on

577
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Speaker 2: the job working with wires, it's more convenient and sort

578
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:05,120
Speaker 2: of already on your way to just shock yourself instead

579
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Speaker 2: of going to a convenience store and getting a coffee. Yeah,

580
00:33:11,480 --> 00:33:19,920
Speaker 2: so it makes perfect sense. Yeah, you could say that, Sam,

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Speaker 2: it'sis here that you have some baby mama drama. Do

582
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Speaker 2: you want to tell us about that?

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Speaker 6: Oh? Yeah, you might like this one version I'm in

584
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Speaker 6: a long story, short story.

585
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Speaker 2: I'll take the short story, all right.

586
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Speaker 6: So me and mother Mama we were talking pro out whatever,

587
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Speaker 6: and then I guess just things just stop working and

588
00:33:44,680 --> 00:33:47,240
Speaker 6: we woke up and now image a new girl. And

589
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Speaker 6: then in January came and boom, she told me she

590
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Speaker 6: was pregnant. And I was like, oh, well, I guess

591
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Speaker 6: I'm of that now. And yeah, pretty much it. I

592
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Speaker 6: told my current girl and she sort and it's all

593
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Speaker 6: my parents and they're supportive and somewhat supportive not and

594
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:10,760
Speaker 6: they like, well, we don't think it's my kid. My girlfriend,

595
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Speaker 6: my current girlfriend doesn't think it's my kid, and there's

596
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Speaker 6: just like.

597
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Speaker 5: Just worried about it.

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Speaker 6: If it is my kid, like I'm stepping up whatever.

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Speaker 2: Okay. And so you were dating a girl, you broke up,

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Speaker 2: she tells you that she has a kid and that

601
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Speaker 2: it's yours.

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Speaker 7: Uh.

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Speaker 2: In the meantime, you started dating a new girl. You

604
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Speaker 2: like the new girl, but you also want to be

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Speaker 2: involved in the kid's life. Is that all correct?

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Speaker 9: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? And then it says here that you're worried about

608
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Speaker 2: how this ordeal will affect your new relationship. Yeah, in

609
00:34:43,560 --> 00:34:45,759
Speaker 2: what in what way do you feel like being in

610
00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:50,120
Speaker 2: this child's life will affect the relationship you have going

611
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Speaker 2: with this new person.

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Speaker 6: My new girl, she's kind of cycle, kind of like

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Speaker 6: oh what we say here in Texas like where I'm from,

614
00:35:01,360 --> 00:35:07,799
Speaker 6: like folks because toxics toxic people, and so yeah, like

615
00:35:07,880 --> 00:35:10,600
Speaker 6: she did. My girl is just kind of crazy anyway.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you and you you consider your new girlfriend

617
00:35:16,880 --> 00:35:17,960
Speaker 2: how long you dated this girl for?

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Speaker 6: Oh, we did it about a year. We're about a year.

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Speaker 6: We're always even if we were getting before and in

620
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Speaker 6: from we woke up, we woke up this, we woke up.

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Speaker 6: So when now were like two months again dating again?

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Speaker 2: Right? All right, so let me let me let me

623
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Speaker 2: get this time. That's straight. You're dating this new girl,

624
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Speaker 2: you take a break, you date the girl who is

625
00:35:37,480 --> 00:35:40,080
Speaker 2: your baby mama, you get her pregnant, you break up,

626
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Speaker 2: you go back to dating the other girl.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, pretty much.

628
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Speaker 2: Okay, Uh, why do you consider this girl that you're

629
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Speaker 2: dating now to be toxic?

630
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Speaker 3: Uh?

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Speaker 6: The way she is like she wants me there like

632
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Speaker 6: at her she wants me there at twenty four to

633
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Speaker 6: seven and every time like at her house. I can't

634
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Speaker 6: of course that'll be with her twenty four seven. If

635
00:36:04,360 --> 00:36:06,200
Speaker 6: my friend texts me, it's some of that she doesn't

636
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:08,560
Speaker 6: want me to hang out with my friends and like,

637
00:36:09,880 --> 00:36:12,640
Speaker 6: just I'm just like that, and I gif I do

638
00:36:12,760 --> 00:36:14,719
Speaker 6: go on my friends. She gets by her like I'm

639
00:36:14,800 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 6: just sad and like she just wants to be there

640
00:36:18,239 --> 00:36:19,600
Speaker 6: like with her twenty four seven.

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00:36:21,040 --> 00:36:23,880
Speaker 2: So I think I might be I think you you

642
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Speaker 2: you might be some sort of a masochist. Do you

643
00:36:27,920 --> 00:36:32,840
Speaker 2: know what a masochist does? No, I have not mask is

644
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:36,799
Speaker 2: somebody who enjoys I yeah, I think the saydest is

645
00:36:36,800 --> 00:36:38,960
Speaker 2: the one who gives the I think a massacist is

646
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:43,800
Speaker 2: somebody who enjoys pain they inflict upon themselves.

647
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Speaker 6: Because a little shocking.

648
00:36:47,960 --> 00:36:51,440
Speaker 2: Thing, well, the shocking thing the fact that you're dating

649
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Speaker 2: a girl who you openly are saying is is toxic.

650
00:36:56,280 --> 00:36:59,560
Speaker 2: Why why do you continue to date this girl if

651
00:36:59,760 --> 00:37:01,280
Speaker 2: you consider her time toxic?

652
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:05,279
Speaker 6: Because I mean, like it towards at the end of

653
00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:11,560
Speaker 6: the day, like she makes me happy no matter what. Like, yeah,

654
00:37:11,960 --> 00:37:13,280
Speaker 6: I think she makes me happy.

655
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:16,080
Speaker 2: Okay, So at the end of the day she makes

656
00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:20,399
Speaker 2: you happy, But is she stopping you from doing other

657
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:21,680
Speaker 2: things that make you happy?

658
00:37:23,680 --> 00:37:23,960
Speaker 3: Uh?

659
00:37:24,080 --> 00:37:27,480
Speaker 6: Not really? Every Thursday, I play football, like I play

660
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Speaker 6: sports for wherevery Thursday have a game. She goes through

661
00:37:30,640 --> 00:37:33,960
Speaker 6: me and she like, m let me play football. But

662
00:37:34,080 --> 00:37:34,719
Speaker 6: it's pretty good.

663
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Speaker 2: Okay, all right, So she she's cool with you enjoying

664
00:37:38,960 --> 00:37:44,320
Speaker 2: your hobbies. So how is she toxic? Then? If she

665
00:37:44,320 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 2: she seems like she's cool with letting you do things.

666
00:37:48,600 --> 00:37:51,080
Speaker 6: It's just like pharmacy wise, like I want like my

667
00:37:51,120 --> 00:37:54,600
Speaker 6: own personal time and like all like because like I

668
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:56,399
Speaker 6: get out of work like super late, and I want

669
00:37:56,400 --> 00:37:59,520
Speaker 6: my own time, and she like would bug me and

670
00:37:59,560 --> 00:38:02,760
Speaker 6: like sometimes even check my phone or something and stuff

671
00:38:02,800 --> 00:38:05,759
Speaker 6: like that, like she will like get messed, Like if

672
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:07,680
Speaker 6: I don't poster, she gets mad, like, hey, why don't

673
00:38:07,680 --> 00:38:09,960
Speaker 6: you post to me? This isn't ad.

674
00:38:13,239 --> 00:38:19,239
Speaker 2: Okay, So let's get back to the kid. Okay, what

675
00:38:19,320 --> 00:38:21,040
Speaker 2: do you think she will think of the kid?

676
00:38:23,560 --> 00:38:27,359
Speaker 6: Um oh in her mind right now, saying that it's

677
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:29,920
Speaker 6: not my kids. So right now we're just waiting put

678
00:38:29,960 --> 00:38:33,400
Speaker 6: the kids to be born and from there we'll go on.

679
00:38:33,680 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 6: She says she'll supporting me, but I'm not sure if

680
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:39,120
Speaker 6: she is or she isn't.

681
00:38:41,480 --> 00:38:44,400
Speaker 2: Okay, So she thinks it's not your kid, and soon

682
00:38:44,440 --> 00:38:47,360
Speaker 2: you're gonna take I assume opportunity test and you will,

683
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:50,360
Speaker 2: uh find out for sure whether or not it's your kid.

684
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:52,759
Speaker 6: Yeah, absolutely I.

685
00:38:52,680 --> 00:38:58,359
Speaker 2: Will, Okay, And so assuming it is your kid, do

686
00:38:58,400 --> 00:39:01,480
Speaker 2: you think that she will be support of you being

687
00:39:01,520 --> 00:39:02,360
Speaker 2: in the kid's life.

688
00:39:04,880 --> 00:39:07,399
Speaker 6: I think she will, but like her trust is going

689
00:39:07,400 --> 00:39:08,040
Speaker 6: to go like.

690
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:10,200
Speaker 5: Pretty like.

691
00:39:12,120 --> 00:39:18,719
Speaker 6: I'm not like pretty high like high alert because my

692
00:39:18,840 --> 00:39:21,200
Speaker 6: like my mama wants because my band mama wants me

693
00:39:21,320 --> 00:39:23,719
Speaker 6: to be like spend the day like go to her

694
00:39:23,760 --> 00:39:26,480
Speaker 6: house and see the kids for at least two hours

695
00:39:26,480 --> 00:39:29,239
Speaker 6: and then go do whatever I want after work and

696
00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:31,640
Speaker 6: then from there, like if I want to see my

697
00:39:31,719 --> 00:39:33,840
Speaker 6: if like my kid wants to be with me, like

698
00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:35,399
Speaker 6: if I want to see the kid to like my aunts,

699
00:39:35,480 --> 00:39:38,319
Speaker 6: er my parents' house, whatever, like my big mama has

700
00:39:38,360 --> 00:39:40,879
Speaker 6: to be with me like so oft the whole time

701
00:39:40,920 --> 00:39:43,760
Speaker 6: because the may is still new like a newborn.

702
00:39:43,800 --> 00:39:51,880
Speaker 10: And when I listen, Sam, I think, I think you

703
00:39:52,000 --> 00:39:54,960
Speaker 10: need to do a little bit of like you know

704
00:39:55,360 --> 00:39:58,160
Speaker 10: in term you know, like you have good intentions.

705
00:39:58,600 --> 00:40:00,840
Speaker 2: Uh you want to be a good boy friend and

706
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:03,520
Speaker 2: you want to be a good dad. I can tell

707
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:05,440
Speaker 2: that about you because if you didn't, you wouldn't be

708
00:40:05,520 --> 00:40:07,319
Speaker 2: calling or you wouldn't even be thinking about these things,

709
00:40:07,360 --> 00:40:12,680
Speaker 2: you would just be sort of fucking around. You want

710
00:40:12,680 --> 00:40:13,960
Speaker 2: to be a good dad, and you want to be

711
00:40:14,000 --> 00:40:17,040
Speaker 2: a good boyfriend. But I think you gotta kind of

712
00:40:17,080 --> 00:40:21,879
Speaker 2: like step back for a second and examine what your

713
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:26,480
Speaker 2: priorities are, if that makes sense, And once you've done that,

714
00:40:27,840 --> 00:40:29,680
Speaker 2: it would help you to just sort of stick by

715
00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:33,959
Speaker 2: them and be like, Hey, these are my non negotiable

716
00:40:34,000 --> 00:40:39,960
Speaker 2: priorities and you can either be with me as I

717
00:40:40,000 --> 00:40:44,759
Speaker 2: attend to them or you cannot. Is that fair? What

718
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:49,600
Speaker 2: do you think about that? So for you to be like, hey, listen,

719
00:40:49,600 --> 00:40:54,239
Speaker 2: what's what's this girl's h what's give me a fake

720
00:40:54,320 --> 00:40:57,520
Speaker 2: name for your baby mama. I'm gonna call her Victoria.

721
00:40:58,560 --> 00:41:02,760
Speaker 2: It feels like an interest. You gotta be like, hey, Victoria, listen,

722
00:41:03,080 --> 00:41:04,960
Speaker 2: if this child is mine, I want to be in

723
00:41:04,960 --> 00:41:09,000
Speaker 2: this child's life. That means I'm gonna go to the

724
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:14,240
Speaker 2: soccer games. I'm gonna go to the school parent teacher

725
00:41:14,280 --> 00:41:17,640
Speaker 2: events where me and the baby mama are gonna have

726
00:41:17,680 --> 00:41:20,080
Speaker 2: to sit down talk to the teacher. We're gonna have

727
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 2: to do certain things together. Because it's the mother of

728
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:24,920
Speaker 2: my child, she's gonna have to be involved in my

729
00:41:25,000 --> 00:41:27,600
Speaker 2: life to a certain extent and I'm gonna have to

730
00:41:27,640 --> 00:41:30,600
Speaker 2: deal with that because I love my child. This is

731
00:41:30,640 --> 00:41:33,320
Speaker 2: what's gonna happen. I'm putting my foot down. I'm telling

732
00:41:33,360 --> 00:41:38,960
Speaker 2: you this because it's important to me. Do with that information,

733
00:41:39,000 --> 00:41:43,799
Speaker 2: would you please? You have to kind of tell her

734
00:41:43,840 --> 00:41:47,200
Speaker 2: that if that, if this is truly important to you.

735
00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:55,359
Speaker 6: Yeah, well yeah, my daughter well might sooner being born.

736
00:41:55,440 --> 00:41:56,920
Speaker 6: Daughter is pretty important to me at the home.

737
00:41:57,680 --> 00:41:59,160
Speaker 2: Okay, So I mean, what do you think about what

738
00:41:59,160 --> 00:42:02,400
Speaker 2: I've just said to you out like sort of internally

739
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:05,440
Speaker 2: lying out your priorities and trying as hard as you

740
00:42:05,440 --> 00:42:08,919
Speaker 2: can just stand by them.

741
00:42:08,960 --> 00:42:11,920
Speaker 6: Pretty much, was like, yeah, that's that's what I want

742
00:42:12,000 --> 00:42:14,000
Speaker 6: kind of to do, like plus to my girl and

743
00:42:14,040 --> 00:42:17,120
Speaker 6: tell her like hey, like yeah, like I said, I'm

744
00:42:17,080 --> 00:42:20,799
Speaker 6: seeing authorities that about my kid. And if you said

745
00:42:20,800 --> 00:42:21,840
Speaker 6: it perfectly.

746
00:42:23,719 --> 00:42:27,279
Speaker 2: Listen, what's your name? San Sam? Do me a favor, Sam.

747
00:42:27,320 --> 00:42:30,640
Speaker 2: Stop shocking yourself for not not not Don't do it

748
00:42:30,640 --> 00:42:33,600
Speaker 2: for me, don't do it for don't even do it

749
00:42:33,640 --> 00:42:39,160
Speaker 2: for you. Do it for the child because she's gonna

750
00:42:39,360 --> 00:42:42,000
Speaker 2: she's gonna because here's the thing, Uh, I remember being

751
00:42:42,040 --> 00:42:43,399
Speaker 2: a kid. When you're a kid, you want to fuck

752
00:42:43,440 --> 00:42:50,680
Speaker 2: around with everything exposed, wires, barbed wires, spiky cactus shoes,

753
00:42:50,760 --> 00:42:54,080
Speaker 2: just fuck around with stuff, just touch everything. And your

754
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:56,160
Speaker 2: kid's gonna see you fucking around with the wires, and

755
00:42:56,160 --> 00:42:58,720
Speaker 2: she's gonna want to fuck around with the wires and

756
00:42:58,960 --> 00:43:01,200
Speaker 2: the voltage that you use. It's not enough to kill you,

757
00:43:01,280 --> 00:43:05,239
Speaker 2: but it's enough to kill her. So man, try like

758
00:43:05,280 --> 00:43:09,600
Speaker 2: a monster or something. Those are pretty good. There's lots

759
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:12,240
Speaker 2: of alternatives out there for you. All hope is not lost.

760
00:43:16,640 --> 00:43:19,160
Speaker 6: Yeah, I'll try a month. I'll say about red Bull

761
00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:20,160
Speaker 6: the watermelon.

762
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:23,600
Speaker 2: Favor, that one I have tried, the reddible watermelon flavor.

763
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:27,520
Speaker 2: That could get their new slogan better than shocking yourself

764
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:31,879
Speaker 2: readibule watermelon. You could be the guy. You could be

765
00:43:32,160 --> 00:43:35,799
Speaker 2: the spokesperson. You can tell people you're sorry you used

766
00:43:35,800 --> 00:43:38,960
Speaker 2: to have to shock yourself with wires, but now you

767
00:43:39,040 --> 00:43:43,360
Speaker 2: get an even better buzz from red Bull Watermelon.

768
00:43:48,080 --> 00:43:51,480
Speaker 6: That's hey, Red Bull India.

769
00:43:52,560 --> 00:43:53,520
Speaker 2: Is there anything else you want to say to the

770
00:43:53,520 --> 00:43:54,600
Speaker 2: people of the computer before we go?

771
00:43:54,680 --> 00:43:59,719
Speaker 6: Sam uh nos be just appreciate you, gig thanks to

772
00:43:59,760 --> 00:44:02,279
Speaker 6: the words. I keeple with my heart, keep it in

773
00:44:02,320 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 6: my mind every day, and you could do what you're doing.

774
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 2: Thank you for Collin San.

775
00:44:08,000 --> 00:44:11,840
Speaker 6: They've got they.

776
00:44:13,480 --> 00:44:17,880
Speaker 2: See I uh, you know, I feel for San because,

777
00:44:18,000 --> 00:44:22,279
Speaker 2: like I here's what I kind of believe, Not that

778
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:27,680
Speaker 2: I have any beliefs about anything, but I believe you

779
00:44:27,719 --> 00:44:30,120
Speaker 2: can kind of you can kind of like do whatever

780
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:35,120
Speaker 2: you want until you have a kid. Like if you

781
00:44:35,719 --> 00:44:41,080
Speaker 2: want to like shock yourself, or be in a shitty relationship,

782
00:44:41,920 --> 00:44:46,239
Speaker 2: or run off to a foreign country or go to

783
00:44:46,320 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 2: you can kind of just do anything with your life

784
00:44:49,480 --> 00:44:52,200
Speaker 2: until you have a kid. Then you have this like

785
00:44:52,360 --> 00:44:56,839
Speaker 2: inherent responsibility to a thing forever. That's why I don't

786
00:44:56,840 --> 00:44:58,760
Speaker 2: want to have kids so that I can just be shitty.

787
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:02,160
Speaker 2: I would love I love being I love being shitty.

788
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:06,440
Speaker 2: It's awesome. I love being shitty and having no responsibilities

789
00:45:06,440 --> 00:45:09,480
Speaker 2: to anyone except for myself. It's great. I never want

790
00:45:09,520 --> 00:45:15,160
Speaker 2: to give that up. Maybe in a decade, when I

791
00:45:15,200 --> 00:45:18,560
Speaker 2: find myself cripplingly lonely as a result of my actions,

792
00:45:19,000 --> 00:45:21,880
Speaker 2: I'll rethink that. But until then, I'm having an awesome

793
00:45:21,920 --> 00:45:29,800
Speaker 2: time answering to absolutely no one. Sam unfortunately has values

794
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:35,160
Speaker 2: that are going to cripple him. He has a genuine

795
00:45:35,200 --> 00:45:37,399
Speaker 2: desire to be a good father, which will cripple him

796
00:45:38,320 --> 00:45:44,320
Speaker 2: in his decisions, in his paths in life. He can't

797
00:45:44,360 --> 00:45:48,720
Speaker 2: really go by the whims of his Uh, he's really enjoying.

798
00:45:48,880 --> 00:45:52,800
Speaker 2: You could tell he's really enjoying living at the whim

799
00:45:52,920 --> 00:45:56,040
Speaker 2: of his as he calls it, as he calls her

800
00:45:56,320 --> 00:46:00,799
Speaker 2: toxic girlfriend, and like he can totally do that and

801
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:03,520
Speaker 2: enjoy doing that. But now he has a kid, and

802
00:46:03,560 --> 00:46:05,680
Speaker 2: the love that he has for his kid is gonna

803
00:46:05,960 --> 00:46:08,719
Speaker 2: conflict with that, and he's got to deal with that,

804
00:46:09,880 --> 00:46:12,160
Speaker 2: and I feel for him. I hope he's able to

805
00:46:12,160 --> 00:46:18,200
Speaker 2: deal with it in a constructive way. Meanwhile, myself and

806
00:46:18,239 --> 00:46:22,440
Speaker 2: the rest of us that don't have children will enjoy

807
00:46:23,920 --> 00:46:30,239
Speaker 2: bathing in as much toxicity as we please. Good luck

808
00:46:30,239 --> 00:46:34,799
Speaker 2: to Sam, Sam whatever his name was, he had good intentions.

809
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:38,080
Speaker 2: I hope he follows them.

810
00:46:38,160 --> 00:46:38,480
Speaker 7: Hello.

811
00:46:40,160 --> 00:46:42,320
Speaker 2: Is this Dave from Tennessee?

812
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:44,879
Speaker 5: Yes to Dave?

813
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:46,080
Speaker 7: Dave?

814
00:46:48,400 --> 00:46:50,759
Speaker 2: Yes, what's going on? Dave?

815
00:46:53,280 --> 00:46:54,000
Speaker 5: Well, I'm chilling.

816
00:46:56,480 --> 00:46:58,680
Speaker 2: Oh, happy heart is to you as well. David says

817
00:46:58,760 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 2: here twenty five years old, you're from Tennessee. Says that

818
00:47:03,200 --> 00:47:05,840
Speaker 2: you have a speech impediment, and you would like to

819
00:47:05,880 --> 00:47:13,040
Speaker 2: discuss how you feel society views speech impediments. Is that accurate?

820
00:47:15,680 --> 00:47:18,759
Speaker 5: Yeah?

821
00:47:19,080 --> 00:47:20,279
Speaker 2: Okay, tell me more about that.

822
00:47:23,480 --> 00:47:29,000
Speaker 5: Well, you know, it's it's it's a little difficult, I think,

823
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:39,040
Speaker 5: especially in the retail space, I get a lot of looks,

824
00:47:39,840 --> 00:47:43,200
Speaker 5: but I'll try not to take it personally.

825
00:47:46,520 --> 00:47:47,360
Speaker 2: Do you work in retail?

826
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:56,040
Speaker 5: I do. I won't disclose the company name this out

827
00:47:56,080 --> 00:48:05,279
Speaker 5: of I guess either the respect or the fear that

828
00:48:05,520 --> 00:48:09,720
Speaker 5: when you're fired. Okay, but yeah, I work in retail.

829
00:48:11,520 --> 00:48:13,399
Speaker 2: Okay, So you work in retail, you get a lot

830
00:48:13,440 --> 00:48:19,719
Speaker 2: of Do you get a lot of people being let's

831
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:22,800
Speaker 2: let's let we'll get to the looks, but let's start

832
00:48:22,840 --> 00:48:28,440
Speaker 2: at like sort of the most intense reactions. Do you

833
00:48:28,480 --> 00:48:33,200
Speaker 2: get people who are hostile with you because of your

834
00:48:33,200 --> 00:48:33,960
Speaker 2: speech impediment?

835
00:48:36,120 --> 00:48:41,640
Speaker 5: Not necessarily a hot style, but there are some people

836
00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:47,920
Speaker 5: that I guess they have never experienced a speech impediment,

837
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:54,440
Speaker 5: so they tend to think that something is wrong. I

838
00:48:54,440 --> 00:48:58,799
Speaker 5: guess when that's not the case at all.

839
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:00,320
Speaker 2: Mhm.

840
00:49:00,840 --> 00:49:04,560
Speaker 5: It's worse with a stress and the work, it's it's

841
00:49:04,680 --> 00:49:10,680
Speaker 5: it's hard, but I'm just like, hey, no, nothing's wrong.

842
00:49:10,719 --> 00:49:13,560
Speaker 5: I'm just trying to help you out there. Famly, it's

843
00:49:13,600 --> 00:49:14,279
Speaker 5: not a big deal.

844
00:49:15,520 --> 00:49:21,120
Speaker 2: So when you're stressed out, does the speech impediment kind

845
00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:23,560
Speaker 2: of get worse or a flare up more.

846
00:49:24,280 --> 00:49:31,920
Speaker 5: Yeah, it definitely gets worse. The yes.

847
00:49:35,280 --> 00:49:35,759
Speaker 6: Found it.

848
00:49:36,560 --> 00:49:42,960
Speaker 5: It's already hard enough. I think it's worse with stress. Ah,

849
00:49:43,960 --> 00:49:51,320
Speaker 5: just my my ability to communicate gets harder under stress.

850
00:49:53,040 --> 00:49:56,719
Speaker 2: So people you said, I don't have a lot of

851
00:49:56,760 --> 00:50:00,200
Speaker 2: experience with people have speech impediments, and you feel like

852
00:50:00,239 --> 00:50:06,279
Speaker 2: that gives them a wrong idea. What would you like

853
00:50:07,080 --> 00:50:08,120
Speaker 2: those people to know?

854
00:50:12,400 --> 00:50:12,560
Speaker 9: Uh?

855
00:50:13,800 --> 00:50:19,400
Speaker 5: I think the first thing is like I'm not and

856
00:50:19,560 --> 00:50:31,319
Speaker 5: most people that have speak impediments are not like handicaps.

857
00:50:31,400 --> 00:50:34,120
Speaker 5: I guess in like a mental way.

858
00:50:34,880 --> 00:50:35,160
Speaker 6: M h.

859
00:50:37,239 --> 00:50:43,520
Speaker 5: I mean, I guess that's the first thing. But the

860
00:50:43,560 --> 00:50:46,560
Speaker 5: second thing is also like, it's not really that big

861
00:50:46,600 --> 00:50:53,399
Speaker 5: of a deal to us, except for when it's made

862
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:54,200
Speaker 5: a big deal.

863
00:50:55,680 --> 00:50:56,120
Speaker 2: Interesting.

864
00:50:56,320 --> 00:51:00,200
Speaker 5: Then it becomes an become an iss you.

865
00:51:01,600 --> 00:51:05,320
Speaker 2: So it's not a big deal to you except when

866
00:51:05,800 --> 00:51:11,759
Speaker 2: somebody else outside of your own sphere comes along and

867
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:14,600
Speaker 2: in some way, shape or form makes it into a

868
00:51:14,600 --> 00:51:15,080
Speaker 2: big deal.

869
00:51:17,760 --> 00:51:18,520
Speaker 5: Yes, accurate.

870
00:51:19,120 --> 00:51:20,360
Speaker 2: Do you have an example of that?

871
00:51:24,880 --> 00:51:30,080
Speaker 5: Yeah? So in high scho school, which was like fifteen

872
00:51:30,160 --> 00:51:35,759
Speaker 5: years ago, though we'll not fifteen, like ten years ago.

873
00:51:36,520 --> 00:51:36,839
Speaker 2: Like my.

874
00:51:38,760 --> 00:51:47,440
Speaker 5: Freshman high person year, I had moved to a to

875
00:51:47,560 --> 00:51:56,839
Speaker 5: a tinier part Tennessee. I think I was the like

876
00:51:57,400 --> 00:52:02,200
Speaker 5: the only person in that school that had like a

877
00:52:03,280 --> 00:52:14,560
Speaker 5: a continuous speech impediment, uh like uh at that age,

878
00:52:14,680 --> 00:52:21,160
Speaker 5: Like it had developed in a in it in my

879
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:30,440
Speaker 5: youth and never never went away. But I remember my

880
00:52:32,160 --> 00:52:39,720
Speaker 5: first two three weeks there were just a number uhh

881
00:52:40,440 --> 00:52:45,120
Speaker 5: uh of classmates that that thought that that I was

882
00:52:45,160 --> 00:52:50,560
Speaker 5: like having a stroke, yeah, like a heart attack. And

883
00:52:50,600 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 5: I was like, no, that's that's not That's not the

884
00:52:54,080 --> 00:52:57,040
Speaker 5: case at all. I mean, that's that's not the case

885
00:52:57,080 --> 00:52:57,399
Speaker 5: at all.

886
00:52:57,480 --> 00:53:01,360
Speaker 2: And you know, you know, I assume that after a while,

887
00:53:01,800 --> 00:53:04,799
Speaker 2: you you get annoyed with having to sort of be

888
00:53:04,960 --> 00:53:08,600
Speaker 2: the uh spokesperson of yourself.

889
00:53:11,200 --> 00:53:16,520
Speaker 5: Yeah, because the majority of the people during my life,

890
00:53:17,800 --> 00:53:20,320
Speaker 5: I think I'm the only one that's in their life

891
00:53:20,680 --> 00:53:28,920
Speaker 5: that has a speech impediment uh uh huh huh at

892
00:53:28,960 --> 00:53:29,480
Speaker 5: my age.

893
00:53:30,440 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 6: So it does.

894
00:53:34,040 --> 00:53:42,120
Speaker 5: Become annoying. But I also I try to keep in

895
00:53:42,160 --> 00:53:47,719
Speaker 5: my mind that most people don't really know like the

896
00:53:47,760 --> 00:53:53,200
Speaker 5: whole thing just behind they speak impediment, So I try

897
00:53:53,280 --> 00:53:55,000
Speaker 5: not to judge.

898
00:53:55,200 --> 00:54:00,040
Speaker 2: I guess interesting, So I that's kind of cool to

899
00:54:00,080 --> 00:54:05,760
Speaker 2: me that, you know, instead of responding with like a

900
00:54:05,760 --> 00:54:08,440
Speaker 2: an anger. You it sounds like you almost kind of

901
00:54:08,800 --> 00:54:13,320
Speaker 2: you get it. You're like, oh, I understand why people

902
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:18,120
Speaker 2: think the things that they think about me and what's

903
00:54:18,160 --> 00:54:22,160
Speaker 2: going on with me. So I guess you know, you're like,

904
00:54:22,440 --> 00:54:25,000
Speaker 2: I can't really blame them, because I'm sure if I

905
00:54:25,040 --> 00:54:27,160
Speaker 2: were them, I'd think the same things.

906
00:54:29,120 --> 00:54:40,160
Speaker 5: It's most definitely uh a god experience, I guess for

907
00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:46,480
Speaker 5: people that don't have these speak speak impediment. But also

908
00:54:48,360 --> 00:54:53,080
Speaker 5: the main worry that that I've had, at least is

909
00:54:53,120 --> 00:55:02,680
Speaker 5: that people will will assume that I am uh huh

910
00:55:02,800 --> 00:55:14,640
Speaker 5: unintelligent or uh or were incapable of communicating uh in

911
00:55:14,719 --> 00:55:22,200
Speaker 5: the way that needs to be uh in that specific situations.

912
00:55:22,239 --> 00:55:36,399
Speaker 5: So it's made uh, it's made the act of being uh.

913
00:55:34,920 --> 00:55:41,600
Speaker 5: But you know, UH twenty year old, I guess ex experience.

914
00:55:41,960 --> 00:55:50,720
Speaker 5: UH it's not one that uh I had uh uh

915
00:55:52,480 --> 00:56:01,200
Speaker 5: a whole lot of access to uh uh uh until

916
00:56:01,280 --> 00:56:05,000
Speaker 5: I had some friends that didn't really care and that

917
00:56:05,080 --> 00:56:05,480
Speaker 5: I had a.

918
00:56:05,840 --> 00:56:10,840
Speaker 2: Speaking right, right, you almost have to like, uh do

919
00:56:10,920 --> 00:56:14,480
Speaker 2: a little bit of like extra proving yourself. I mean,

920
00:56:14,480 --> 00:56:17,279
Speaker 2: you know, I look, everybody UH feels some kind of

921
00:56:17,320 --> 00:56:24,120
Speaker 2: weird pressure to prove their own you know, intelligence and whatnot.

922
00:56:24,200 --> 00:56:26,640
Speaker 2: And you've got a little bit of extra of that

923
00:56:26,760 --> 00:56:28,600
Speaker 2: within you because you know, you're walking around with all

924
00:56:28,640 --> 00:56:34,319
Speaker 2: these people's uh, you know, expectations of you know, what

925
00:56:34,360 --> 00:56:38,120
Speaker 2: your what your level of intelligence is like because of

926
00:56:37,880 --> 00:56:38,920
Speaker 2: of of how you sound.

927
00:56:44,080 --> 00:56:50,000
Speaker 5: Definitely is more work that goes into it.

928
00:56:50,640 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 2: Well, well, listen, Dave is there you know, I know

929
00:56:55,200 --> 00:56:58,440
Speaker 2: we sort of talked a lot about this particular question,

930
00:56:59,520 --> 00:57:01,680
Speaker 2: uh before we got kind of wanted to phrase it

931
00:57:01,719 --> 00:57:07,080
Speaker 2: again so that you have the opportunity to like tell

932
00:57:07,120 --> 00:57:10,319
Speaker 2: any any any wrap up thoughts on it. But what

933
00:57:10,480 --> 00:57:15,680
Speaker 2: would you like the people listening to this to know

934
00:57:17,200 --> 00:57:20,560
Speaker 2: about people with speech impediments that you think would make

935
00:57:22,600 --> 00:57:25,000
Speaker 2: you know their lives a little bit easier.

936
00:57:28,560 --> 00:57:38,200
Speaker 5: So more often but than not. Well, we are intelligent,

937
00:57:39,160 --> 00:57:43,280
Speaker 5: but we just need a little extra time to communicate

938
00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:47,480
Speaker 5: what we want to communicate, I guess is the main

939
00:57:47,520 --> 00:57:50,040
Speaker 5: message that I want treat out there?

940
00:57:50,960 --> 00:57:52,000
Speaker 2: Is there anything else I want to say to the

941
00:57:52,040 --> 00:57:53,120
Speaker 2: people the computer before we go?

942
00:57:57,360 --> 00:57:58,520
Speaker 6: Happy holidays?

943
00:58:00,280 --> 00:58:02,080
Speaker 5: Make use of it.

944
00:58:02,080 --> 00:58:04,760
Speaker 2: It is twenty It is for twenty at the time

945
00:58:04,800 --> 00:58:10,040
Speaker 2: that this is being recorded. Or are you high right now? Uh?

946
00:58:10,200 --> 00:58:13,600
Speaker 5: Not at the moment I was earlier. I had to

947
00:58:13,640 --> 00:58:16,960
Speaker 5: make dinner, so I had to chill out a.

948
00:58:16,960 --> 00:58:19,800
Speaker 2: Minute before the right answer, Because if you had said yes,

949
00:58:19,960 --> 00:58:24,480
Speaker 2: I would have tracked the phone number, found your address

950
00:58:24,520 --> 00:58:29,000
Speaker 2: and called the police on you instantly. But luckily I

951
00:58:29,000 --> 00:58:29,800
Speaker 2: won't have to do that.

952
00:58:31,880 --> 00:58:37,280
Speaker 5: I love you, Thank you, thank you, Dave. My see.

953
00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:42,959
Speaker 2: Crap. I should have asked him if getting high made

954
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:50,200
Speaker 2: his speech better or worse. I'll have to look that up. Well,

955
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:51,880
Speaker 2: I don't even know if it's like a look uppable thing.

956
00:58:51,920 --> 00:58:55,640
Speaker 2: I don't know if it's different for sort of each person.

957
00:58:56,640 --> 00:59:06,439
Speaker 2: But who knows. You know, I go on Reddit a lot.

958
00:59:06,720 --> 00:59:09,760
Speaker 2: If you go on read a lot, you know that

959
00:59:10,160 --> 00:59:18,720
Speaker 2: weed is the cure for everything, cancer, speech impediments, loneliness.

960
00:59:20,960 --> 00:59:24,120
Speaker 2: Never be kid goes on the line taking your phone

961
00:59:24,120 --> 00:59:27,320
Speaker 2: calls every night. Never be kid goes to his side.

962
00:59:27,440 --> 00:59:29,040
Speaker 4: He's teaching you cloud in the middle

963
00:59:29,000 --> 00:59:32,120
Speaker 2: Of your life, but he's not really an expert.