Speaker 1: Welcome to Insider's Guide to the Other Side, a production
Speaker 1: of iHeartRadio. Hi, y'all, I'm Julie.
Speaker 2: Hi there, I'm Brenda. Welcome to Insider's Guide to the
Speaker 2: Other Side.
Speaker 1: Now, y'all need to know that we are obsessed with
Speaker 1: everything on the other side.
Speaker 2: Yes, we are, because once you learn to navigate the energetic,
Speaker 2: or to some the invisible world, life is going to
Speaker 2: be more fun and much more serene.
Speaker 1: Uh heck, yes it can, because, let's be honest, br in,
Speaker 1: earth school is hard. In fact, you taught me.
Speaker 2: That let's crush Earth school together.
Speaker 1: Well, hello, my wishy poo, the laughing has already begun, folks.
Speaker 1: Hello everybody, now you do my witchypoo. Anything exciting to report?
Speaker 2: Yes, I have completed my six month corporate course that
Speaker 2: I teach, and it's a big deal to have that
Speaker 2: wrapped up and off my plate. So for a little.
Speaker 1: Bit fan freak fantastic, I know how much work that
Speaker 1: is so exciting. When you first started, of course, the
Speaker 1: inner child elf wanted to the inner elf wanted to
Speaker 1: interrupt you when you said I've completed my six months
Speaker 1: course and I was going to come up with something
Speaker 1: very sarcastic, and I with hell, thank you, yes, and
Speaker 1: how honoring?
Speaker 2: How are you?
Speaker 1: Well? Uh, you know good. We're moving to our house soon,
Speaker 1: so very excited about that.
Speaker 2: You can imagine.
Speaker 1: I think of the worst scenario possible, and that's what
Speaker 1: an enforce than that. I mean, we just we've got
Speaker 1: to go. It's all, we just got to go. I
Speaker 1: can't handle this being untethered and temporary thing much longer
Speaker 1: sow all.
Speaker 2: The longest temporary assignment.
Speaker 1: Oh my god. Yeah, news to all think about. If
Speaker 1: you ever want to build anything and you got to
Speaker 1: go rent a while, just just know it can really suck.
Speaker 1: Not to not sorry new builders if you're listening, Uh,
Speaker 1: but it can suck hard. But yeah, so we're just
Speaker 1: kind of getting prepared for that. And in the meantime,
Speaker 1: you know, I read it's weird. It's I get funny
Speaker 1: stories sent to me all the time, and I think
Speaker 1: it's because the algorithms and they see I like that stuff,
Speaker 1: and they just keep feeding me weird shit. So I
Speaker 1: have the weird Shit news feed, and I encourage everyone
Speaker 1: because it's quite entertaining. Lots of alien activity, by the way,
Speaker 1: but that's not what we're talking about today. But the
Speaker 1: most recent one that I got so excited about is
Speaker 1: this woman she claimed, and God for better I remember
Speaker 1: who it is, but it doesn't really matter because the
Speaker 1: show is an about her. But she claimed and called
Speaker 1: herself a reincarnationist. I'm like, that is fabulouist. She's a
Speaker 1: fabulist because she claims that she's a reincarnationist.
Speaker 2: Is is that like a term do other people use that?
Speaker 1: I've never heard it, So that's why brought me so
Speaker 1: much joy. And it's also a thing I think that
Speaker 1: you know, it's so weird how people will ask questions
Speaker 1: or want to get into conversations about different topics, and
Speaker 1: lately a lot of it has been reincarnation. So of course,
Speaker 1: you know, my weird shit news feed sends me to
Speaker 1: somebody who calls herself a reincarnationist, and you know, she
Speaker 1: really and she's so defiant about it, which I love,
Speaker 1: you know how much I love to find people. And
Speaker 1: she was just so firm in her belief because she's
Speaker 1: had so many experiences that she knows came from another lifetime,
Speaker 1: from other lifetimes.
Speaker 3: It's plural, that's great, right, Yeah, and so you know,
Speaker 3: and yeah, go well, I'm just I'm just curious. Did
Speaker 3: she talk about how that, you know, that belief that
Speaker 3: knowing that she has, how does that influence how she
Speaker 3: moves through the world.
Speaker 1: I think what it has brought to her more than
Speaker 1: anything is a sense of comfort. And I think the
Speaker 1: comfort comes from a lot of different places. For her.
Speaker 1: It's just kind of like the same my first time
Speaker 1: and it ain't my last time, Say, ain't that was
Speaker 1: the Oklahoma coming out, So of course I think it
Speaker 1: was more it's not my first or it's not my last.
Speaker 1: And I think there's a comfort to that for her.
Speaker 1: And I find the same comfort. And it's although times
Speaker 1: I wish this was my last, but because I'm still here,
Speaker 1: I don't think it is. And then there's that, but
Speaker 1: I think it's a comfort to her.
Speaker 2: And I think, you know, when when loved ones pass,
Speaker 2: it's also like, well, it's just a matter of time
Speaker 2: before I see them again, you know, Like I think.
Speaker 1: For sure, Well, and I think too that right that
Speaker 1: comfort is knowing that we are eternal in that way,
Speaker 1: and nothing is ever truly lost. It just changes form,
Speaker 1: which science tells us by the way right water turns
Speaker 1: to ice, water can also turn to gas, y'all. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I think the spirit does that in some ways too.
Speaker 1: It's like it just changes form. It's still it's essence
Speaker 1: is what it is, but changes form. And to know
Speaker 1: that we can, you know, yeah, that we can go
Speaker 1: and be with those people we love. You know. I
Speaker 1: was just talking to my friend a couple hours ago
Speaker 1: who her brother had jumped, and he was an angel
Speaker 1: in a human suit and he was, you know, he
Speaker 1: had some some issues he had from birth and he
Speaker 1: had not an easy life, but overcame them in so
Speaker 1: it's just beautiful human way. And my friend, you know,
Speaker 1: was talking about him this morning, how she struggled and
Speaker 1: she's like I put on some weight through my grieving
Speaker 1: and I and the first thing I said was, girl,
Speaker 1: you know you're gonna see him again, Like that was
Speaker 1: the first place. And because that is such a go
Speaker 1: to for me, and I know this that I kind
Speaker 1: of feel like a recarnation is too.
Speaker 2: I love it.
Speaker 1: I love it.
Speaker 2: Yeah. Can we get some shirts totally stickers have a handshake?
Speaker 1: Oh my god, her reincarnation is a handshake. We'll practice
Speaker 1: that after we record. Okay, yeahll you can't see what
Speaker 1: she just did, but she just did the like poof
Speaker 1: with her hands with all tin, with all she was
Speaker 1: hanging tin.
Speaker 2: And I think, you know, it also just reminding people that,
Speaker 2: you know, we don't have to wait to jump to
Speaker 2: reconnect with them, you know. And I think, you know,
Speaker 2: inviting people into the space of reflection, of calling them in,
Speaker 2: of talking to them, you know, reminding them of all
Speaker 2: the little tools that we have to build the bridge
Speaker 2: of connection, because the love is the foundation of the
Speaker 2: connection and that's already there. So we're just refining that
Speaker 2: connection in this you know, slow vibration of Earth school
Speaker 2: of embodiment. We just have to slow it down a
Speaker 2: little bit and you know, slow their energy down speeders
Speaker 2: up to make the connection.
Speaker 1: So I think you're absolutely right. And also just everybody
Speaker 1: knows this is just one of those like stop and
Speaker 1: smell the roses, stop, drop and roll to remember your
Speaker 1: life a bit. You know. I think we're gonna be
Speaker 1: talking about some of these topics because it's so hard
Speaker 1: to remember these things, and it is part of ourst school,
Speaker 1: you know, it's part of our job to remind not
Speaker 1: only you but ourselves as well about these things that
Speaker 1: are so important.
Speaker 2: You know, we're we're in airy season, and so things
Speaker 2: are speeding up so fast in the world. There's this
Speaker 2: ignition energy, and so this sort of pausing reflecting weight
Speaker 2: life is bigger than just what's happening in my little bubble.
Speaker 2: And it goes on and on and on, like we
Speaker 2: don't have to do it perfectly this time. We get
Speaker 2: to do it the best we can in the moment.
Speaker 2: But we're not judged for eternity on this one try, right,
Speaker 2: it's progress.
Speaker 1: Yeah, we're like lawyers and doctors. We're just practicing.
Speaker 2: It's all practice.
Speaker 1: Okay, not lawyer's a dog, but it's all practice, all right,
Speaker 1: Like they call it a practice for a reason, and yeah,
Speaker 1: it is all a practice. So on that practice note,
Speaker 1: let's take a quickie break because my Witchipoo had the
Speaker 1: most insightful pre conversation about animals that I think we
Speaker 1: need to take up a whole segment on. It's fantastic.
Speaker 1: So we'll be right back, y'all. Hang tight, okay, y'all,
Speaker 1: we're back with the magical witch of them all. So
Speaker 1: you got to share the story you shared with me
Speaker 1: because it was like it made my day.
Speaker 2: It's so exciting, right, it's so magical yes, So it's
Speaker 2: just funny. It's so funny that we've you know, you
Speaker 2: had this experience with your fun newsfeed, and I you know,
Speaker 2: ran into this in mine and even though we hadn't
Speaker 2: talked about it, like, it just lined up so perfectly,
Speaker 2: which I love, love it when that happens. And you know,
Speaker 2: and we got to celebrate the little things for sure, right,
Speaker 2: And so you know, I've been at this game for
Speaker 2: a while and studied a lot of material from the
Speaker 2: twenties and thirties and and you know, even back further,
Speaker 2: and it's always fun to run into something that's a
Speaker 2: little you know, a little dated. And so there was
Speaker 2: this video that showed up. It's not a long clip,
Speaker 2: it's a short clip, but it's about a woman talking.
Speaker 2: So I think it was I'm guessing early sixties is
Speaker 2: where when it was from, which isn't that old. But anyhow,
Speaker 2: she was.
Speaker 1: Saying interesting time though, the sixties. Oh yeah, so oh yeah,
Speaker 1: this is interesting. I'm interested to hear more about what
Speaker 1: she said.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And what she was talking about was the animals, right,
Speaker 2: and how animals have a collective soul. This is why
Speaker 2: they and they operate collectively, they operate like you know,
Speaker 2: we have wolf packs and schools of fish and flocks
Speaker 2: of birds and pods.
Speaker 1: And flocks of seagulls just like the just like the
Speaker 1: band with the big hair. That's all I can add.
Speaker 2: Okay, continue right exactly like that, right, And and they
Speaker 2: move like if you you know, pods of you are
Speaker 2: schools of dolphins, right, and you know, different different giggles
Speaker 2: like a parliament of owls, you know, and how they
Speaker 2: move in groups and they murmurs as one unit, one collective.
Speaker 2: And that's why we understand that when you have a
Speaker 2: dog spirit, you're going to come back as a dog,
Speaker 2: you know. And people are like you talk about Homer
Speaker 2: being you know, coming back.
Speaker 1: He was my dad, I swear to God. I mean,
Speaker 1: I really always believe you. But I'm going to tell
Speaker 1: you it's very overpowering that in a past life home
Speaker 1: Er my lab was my dad. He was so bossed.
Speaker 1: He was bossy as ship day in day out, I
Speaker 1: mean seriously bran like, every day, every minute he was
Speaker 1: telling me what to do.
Speaker 2: He was a bossy one, that's for sure. My god,
Speaker 2: I'm very charming. When he did it, and he did
Speaker 2: it, it was such authority.
Speaker 1: He meant it.
Speaker 2: He was serious and so anyhow, knowing, knowing how that
Speaker 2: you always feel like that, and this doesn't exactly address that,
Speaker 2: but I knew you'd love this story. What she talked
Speaker 2: about is this is the natural state of things. This
Speaker 2: is how these collective souls have chosen to operate. It's
Speaker 2: efficient for them, and it's just how it works. And
Speaker 2: that's why we as humans understand that if you're a dolphin,
Speaker 2: you're going to be reincarnating it as a dolphin, smarter
Speaker 2: dolphin right the next time around. But it's still a dolphin.
Speaker 1: A dolphin that's a chemist next time around. Joking, Yeah,
Speaker 1: nice something again these stories, all I can add is
Speaker 1: like stupid humor, keep going.
Speaker 2: So But then she talked about when we choose to
Speaker 2: domesticate these animals, whether it's a horse that you have,
Speaker 2: you know, a specific relationship with, or in our case,
Speaker 2: when we bring dogs you know, from their packs into
Speaker 2: our homes, we individuate them so they have a chance
Speaker 2: to have a personality develop on their own without a pack.
Speaker 2: And in the individuation, as they choose to express their
Speaker 2: spirit without the guidance, support, or limitation or teaching of
Speaker 2: their pack, they are being put on a possible trajectory
Speaker 2: of transcendence to another spirit. It would obviously take many
Speaker 2: lifetimes of this to accomplish something like that, but it
Speaker 2: was so interesting to me. And after we had had
Speaker 2: the animal communication, Yeah, with Carl, she was so fabulous.
Speaker 2: That was such that was so much fun. But you know,
Speaker 2: after her conversation and so many experiences of specific communication
Speaker 2: with wild animals as much as domestic animals as their spirits,
Speaker 2: I'm not sure what out and on the ground with Snake, but.
Speaker 1: I'm not either, Like I totally admire her for lots
Speaker 1: of reasons.
Speaker 2: On the top, I mean, come on, she was amazing,
Speaker 2: amazing really, you know, and I have had experiences with
Speaker 2: both wild animals and domestic animals that I don't know what,
Speaker 2: They'll just start talking to me like that and I'm like, hello, what,
Speaker 2: So like they have this you know, this ability to
Speaker 2: to individuate from the collective, and I just thought that
Speaker 2: was just so fascinating because we've all had that experience
Speaker 2: like oh my god, the dog will just look at
Speaker 2: you and that's it, you know, or an animal or.
Speaker 1: Or when coreyol was talking about the whale, the humpback right,
Speaker 1: like the big giant eye size of a whatever. The
Speaker 1: size of it was a VW bug. I mean that, like,
Speaker 1: but that's like, that's this ascended animal. I mean like, Okay,
Speaker 1: so you know, I got to go to the suki
Speaker 1: route because she's busting me right now. But Teddy, what's
Speaker 1: been really interesting with her because in a pack, I
Speaker 1: think they're some of the limitations I believe are asking
Speaker 1: for what you need, Like that's a very human thing.
Speaker 1: Not that the pack can't help when it needs help,
Speaker 1: but I think they're far more primal with that type
Speaker 1: of communication and needs. And what I've noticed with this
Speaker 1: one that she has learned to communicate and ask for
Speaker 1: things that are above that kind of need base like
Speaker 1: she now and also just for her to ask for
Speaker 1: what she wants her needs as a miracle from where
Speaker 1: she came from. Remember, this was the dog that was
Speaker 1: horrified in life anxiety, I mean the highest I've ever seen,
Speaker 1: and felt like she probably didn't deserve anything, you know,
Speaker 1: That's what it kind of felt like. Now she's like
Speaker 1: large and in charge. She's asking for what she wants
Speaker 1: and what she needs, no for I mean, but really
Speaker 1: it's amazing. Yeah, and to watch that growth. I don't
Speaker 1: think that growth could have happened in a pack of
Speaker 1: a while pack of dogs. Yeah, like there is an
Speaker 1: ascension for her and not it's not because of me,
Speaker 1: it's because of her. We we were here for it.
Speaker 1: But it's it's I think it's interesting.
Speaker 2: And she gets to choose that right, and she gets
Speaker 2: and that's the thing with the individuation, she gets to choose.
Speaker 2: She could have stayed in that submissive place.
Speaker 1: She could could have and.
Speaker 2: So it's just it's just so interesting to think about
Speaker 2: that and how you can you know, it's obviously I've
Speaker 2: never been a mom to a human, so I want
Speaker 2: to be.
Speaker 1: Really clear it's in this lifetime, in this.
Speaker 2: Lifetime, but I want to be really clear that it's
Speaker 2: it's a different sort of creating space for the safety
Speaker 2: so that they come out. Because in the pack there's
Speaker 2: usually a pecking order or hierarchical order that stays put
Speaker 2: until a natural evolution happens.
Speaker 1: And who was elphable for right next in line thing?
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, the next generation or you know whatever. But
Speaker 2: it's a different sort of evolution. And I just found
Speaker 2: it so interesting and so fascinating, and I just thought
Speaker 2: our listeners would be really interested in that because we
Speaker 2: get so many comments on the animal things.
Speaker 1: Oh, we will love it. Okay, one more sicky story
Speaker 1: before we go to break. But because I talk, we
Speaker 1: could just have Sicky episodes and Lulu episodes and you
Speaker 1: and I'd be happy. But everyone stop listening. The other
Speaker 1: interesting thing that I've really noticed in her is there's
Speaker 1: this salon that Susanna and I go to here and
Speaker 1: they do hair and nails and and this group of
Speaker 1: women because I think they're all women now that work.
Speaker 1: There are exquisite human beings. And so the first thing
Speaker 1: is I walk in, I take Siki off with Lisha,
Speaker 1: and like, go say hi to your aunt Cindy, because
Speaker 1: Cindy Barefoot is is our person and Barefoot is her
Speaker 1: real name. Just for the family's wondering keeping score, she's
Speaker 1: her family is indigenous, and uh. And Suki goes and
Speaker 1: goes and gets Cindy and brings Cindy back, and then
Speaker 1: I'm getting like my name, I'm good. Like then the
Speaker 1: pedicure happens. But here's what Suki does. This is what
Speaker 1: the best part. She goes around and says hello to everybody.
Speaker 1: She says hello to everybody who works there, and she
Speaker 1: says hello to even their customers, and they're now calling
Speaker 1: her the salon dog, and they're like, she's so calming
Speaker 1: for all of us. We love her, and I'm going
Speaker 1: to tell you that dog would not have done that.
Speaker 1: She chose that path. She chose to be the dog
Speaker 1: that would bring people if just a moment of love,
Speaker 1: just a moment, and that's.
Speaker 2: Her so sweet. I love that, right, I love that.
Speaker 2: That's so great.
Speaker 1: So she is a reincarnationist herself.
Speaker 2: Well, she's an individualist and going to be a train.
Speaker 1: She's an individualist. She's gonna but she is a but
Speaker 1: for real, like I because she didn't come this way.
Speaker 1: She chose like, Okay, I'm gonna like step up my
Speaker 1: game exactly.
Speaker 2: That's so beautiful.
Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah, okay, we can go to Bright now.
Speaker 1: I just had to talk about my dog I love
Speaker 1: so much. Okay, we're back. I forgot that I was
Speaker 1: supposed to say that. I was so excited from my
Speaker 1: countdown that I forgot to tell everybody that we're back.
Speaker 1: But we're here, so that means we're back, just like
Speaker 1: that poof.
Speaker 2: So when we think about the reincarnation aspect that's available
Speaker 2: to us to entertain or dismiss as you like. But
Speaker 2: the thing is, we've all had that deja vu moment
Speaker 2: that said, oh this is familiar. Why is this familiar?
Speaker 2: I've never been here before, I've never met that person
Speaker 2: for I've never done or tasted or smelled this before.
Speaker 2: Why is this so I'm so home?
Speaker 1: Or I've never been to India before. I talked about
Speaker 1: that all the time.
Speaker 2: Right, And there's just so many times and you know,
Speaker 2: or it's it's like if I'm standing someplace and I'm
Speaker 2: facing one direction, it's not it's not a thing, it's
Speaker 2: not a place. I just stand where I am and
Speaker 2: I'm fine, and all of a sudden I turned to
Speaker 2: the left and I remember so much about that place
Speaker 2: that I have never been there before. Like it can
Speaker 2: be an instant download, but sometimes it's not like a
Speaker 2: whole download, and you wonder like, oh, why there used
Speaker 2: to be a door here? You know, like you can
Speaker 2: literally see the place you're in in its original form
Speaker 2: and things like that, and it's really fun and that's
Speaker 2: dramatic and makes for great stories. And there's other times
Speaker 2: where you hear someone talking and you understand what they're saying,
Speaker 2: and you're following the conversation, but you actually remember them
Speaker 2: saying different things the last time you were with them,
Speaker 2: even though you don't ever remember being with them before.
Speaker 2: But you know, like it's just like almost a haze
Speaker 2: or a mist or a whisper in the back of
Speaker 2: your mind. And when that happens, there's there's just an
Speaker 2: invite that too, you know, as my elf would say,
Speaker 2: stop drop and roll.
Speaker 1: They taught us that elementary school Oklahoma, y'all stop drop
Speaker 1: and roll. That's all I got out of it that
Speaker 1: and I stopped stuttering.
Speaker 2: But go ahead, But to like just make a note
Speaker 2: of it, and if you can spend just a few
Speaker 2: minutes reflecting, making a couple of notes in your phone
Speaker 2: or better yet, rolling old school and writing long hand
Speaker 2: can be really helpful to bring up some of those memories.
Speaker 2: What was what was there for me? What am I
Speaker 2: ready to remember or reclaim? What is a reflection of
Speaker 2: the last time I felt like this? Like there's there's
Speaker 2: messages that can be trying to come through to awaken
Speaker 2: or remind you of a lesson, of an experience of
Speaker 2: mastery of blessings. To keep watching for whatever it is,
Speaker 2: and that can be really exciting.
Speaker 1: So that's right, And I think setting yourself up too,
Speaker 1: because odd sorry, all we're all going to be back.
Speaker 1: I might say this is good news, some might take
Speaker 1: it as bad news. Either way, it's news. And think
Speaker 1: about also how you operate in your life with maybe
Speaker 1: this could be somebody you see next time. Around two
Speaker 1: that's like huge, right, is kind of taking it to
Speaker 1: another level. Like I have to say, Tracy is the
Speaker 1: woman who I call her our landlady, and she's our
Speaker 1: neighbor and she is most importantly our friend. And the
Speaker 1: other day, because I've been traveling for my work and
Speaker 1: I see her in our shared parking area and she
Speaker 1: comes running to me that she's like she hasn't seen
Speaker 1: me in one hundred years, and like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: and big hug. And at that moment, and this is
Speaker 1: why I love like these conversations, just to keep us reminded,
Speaker 1: because I try to live in this space as much
Speaker 1: as I can. And at that moment, I remember thinking, oh,
Speaker 1: I'll see you next time.
Speaker 2: Yeah, yep.
Speaker 1: Because that relationship has formed to a level that it is,
Speaker 1: it can transcend into another lifetime and that's fun too,
Speaker 1: it's right fun.
Speaker 2: It's so fun. Actually, in a related sort of way,
Speaker 2: I had a conversation with a coaching client today who's
Speaker 2: in a very tough, agitated organization, and she's just so
Speaker 2: frustrated and she was just really frustrated by the organization,
Speaker 2: by what was being said, about being talked over, all
Speaker 2: the things. And she said, I got up and walked out,
Speaker 2: and I realized that that's a step too far. And
Speaker 2: someone said, hey, that's a step too far. So I
Speaker 2: know it's a step too far. I know it's a
Speaker 2: step too far when I'm doing it, but I was
Speaker 2: just so mad. I said, you know, next time, just
Speaker 2: say I'm really frustrated, and out of respect for myself
Speaker 2: and everybody in this room, I'm going to leave before
Speaker 2: I say something I regret, you know, because you're going
Speaker 2: to run into those people again.
Speaker 1: Yeah, you are exactly. And you know what, here's the thing.
Speaker 1: My fate is that the Hewlett Packard procurement people from
Speaker 1: the early two thousands I will see in another life
Speaker 1: because I did walk out on them in a negotiation
Speaker 1: in Roseville or wherever the hell it was, California, and
Speaker 1: I walked out.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And look, sometimes it's right, and I shouldn't.
Speaker 1: Sometimes it works.
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's going to get to me.
Speaker 1: Yeah, what was it meant to be a ploy? I
Speaker 1: just I really was afraid I was going to say
Speaker 1: something or do something that could have potentially let that.
Speaker 2: Me that little caveat that says, hey, out of respect,
Speaker 2: this isn't I'm not doing a power play. I'm not
Speaker 2: trying to explode on you. I'm actually trying to do
Speaker 2: the opposite. So I'm going to leave now and take
Speaker 2: a little break and put myself in a time out.
Speaker 2: And if we can do that, if we allow ourselves
Speaker 2: the grace to do that in a situation, create the
Speaker 2: context that says it's not you, it's me, and I'm
Speaker 2: responsible for me, and I'm walking myself out of here.
Speaker 1: And you're not stuck with it later. Yeah, you're karmically better.
Speaker 1: You're right.
Speaker 2: Right, But she's been clear as opposed to Oh my god,
Speaker 2: we're in so much trouble.
Speaker 1: She's so mad. And it's like.
Speaker 2: When you're clear about it, like just keep your side
Speaker 2: of the street clean. Now, once you leave, they can
Speaker 2: talk trash about you and that's on them totally.
Speaker 1: Yeah, and that's fine, And I encourage them to do
Speaker 1: it behind my back. Yeah, so I totally support that.
Speaker 1: But I think it's that funny thing about when you
Speaker 1: look at being a recarnationist, which I now I've claimed it.
Speaker 1: I'm a ghost photographer and a reincarnationist. Yeah, it's so
Speaker 1: good and dog mom, and but when you look at it,
Speaker 1: there's there's again, it's it's I think the key for
Speaker 1: everybody is to look at the both sides of the coin, right.
Speaker 1: One side is the past and one side is the future.
Speaker 1: And how do you who are you? And how and
Speaker 1: like who are you from? Where you came from and
Speaker 1: where you are today? And who is it and who
Speaker 1: do you want to bring with you in the future? Ye?
Speaker 1: And you know, uh, and that is part of that
Speaker 1: future part is Katie keeping your side of the street clean.
Speaker 1: You taught me that. I use it a ton. It's like,
Speaker 1: oh yeah, it's and it's so visual. And it also
Speaker 1: reminds me when I first saw Tracy Chapman and we
Speaker 1: live when we lived in San Francisco, wear me out
Speaker 1: and and I said, see her all the time. We
Speaker 1: didn't live very far from her, and uh, and I
Speaker 1: would see her on trash days taking her trash out
Speaker 1: and I think one time I made some comment about
Speaker 1: keeping your side of the street clean kind of thing.
Speaker 1: So it's just a funny thing. It was a literal thing,
Speaker 1: and I just thought she was awesome back in the nineties,
Speaker 1: and she was and she still is today, but it's
Speaker 1: but it was because she had garbage, and I'm like, oh,
Speaker 1: you keep your eyes supercret and so it's just kind
Speaker 1: of a fun thing to think about that. And even
Speaker 1: if you just think about it on trash day, I'm
Speaker 1: taking out the trash. I'm gonna keep my side of
Speaker 1: the spiritual street clean, whatever it takes.
Speaker 2: Yeah, And because everything, you're gonna answer for everything, right,
Speaker 2: you're gonna answer for we are you know, all of
Speaker 2: it someday, and not in a punishment kind of way,
Speaker 2: but in a growth lesson kind of way, like.
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's a few I would like to get. There's
Speaker 1: a few I'd like to have a little punishment for it.
Speaker 1: But that's okay that I got to start that out,
Speaker 1: But that's not on me. I'm not I cannot, I
Speaker 1: cannot rewrite the rules. I'm just gonna let it be.
Speaker 2: Right.
Speaker 1: It's not my side of the street. You're exactly right,
Speaker 1: say keep yours plane and stay off of the other streets.
Speaker 2: That's exactly right. That's exactly right. So I hope you
Speaker 2: fun to think about, something to giggle about, and something
Speaker 2: to just keep in mind as we navigate these super
Speaker 2: charged times. How to stay centered, how to stay focused
Speaker 2: on your side of the street, and how to celebrate
Speaker 2: and cultivate those relationships as deep connections you want to
Speaker 2: come back to over and over and just create more
Speaker 2: love on the planet.
Speaker 1: And join our reincarnationist movement because that's what I'm calling
Speaker 1: it now. And I'm also going to call out because
Speaker 1: I know he listens so much, but my high school
Speaker 1: boyfriend John and his husband Joey always listen, and so John,
Speaker 1: for the record, you're in my next life too, So
Speaker 1: I'm just like putting it out there. I love him.
Speaker 1: He's awesome of it.
Speaker 2: So thanks for listening to everybody, and remember our school
Speaker 2: is hard without the other side. Thank you for joining
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