1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:03,560 Speaker 1: From the dark corners of the web, an emerging mindset 2 00:00:03,760 --> 00:00:06,040 Speaker 1: I am a loser if also we know wouldn't pay 3 00:00:06,040 --> 00:00:06,440 Speaker 1: me either. 4 00:00:06,640 --> 00:00:11,400 Speaker 2: A hidden world of resentment, cynicism, anger against women at 5 00:00:11,400 --> 00:00:12,840 Speaker 2: a deadly tipping point. 6 00:00:13,119 --> 00:00:15,600 Speaker 3: In Cells will be added to the Terrorism Guide. 7 00:00:15,800 --> 00:00:16,240 Speaker 4: Pelissea. 8 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:20,520 Speaker 5: A driver intentionally drove into a crowd, killing ten people. 9 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:25,279 Speaker 6: Tomorrow is the day of retribution, the day in which 10 00:00:25,400 --> 00:00:27,040 Speaker 6: I will have my revenge. 11 00:00:27,200 --> 00:00:30,840 Speaker 7: Is very angry, expressing a lot of hatred towards women 12 00:00:31,120 --> 00:00:33,680 Speaker 7: and towards men who get all the women. 13 00:00:34,320 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 8: I just told my husband I know she's dead. 14 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:44,120 Speaker 1: This is in Cells, a production of Kat's Studios and iHeartRadio, 15 00:00:44,920 --> 00:00:52,920 Speaker 1: Season one, Episode two, Blackpilled. I'm Courtney Armstrong, a producer 16 00:00:52,960 --> 00:00:57,760 Speaker 1: at KATI Studios, with Stephanie Leidecker, Gabriel Castillo, Connor Powell, 17 00:00:58,000 --> 00:01:02,200 Speaker 1: and Carolyn Miller. Even as we write this script, the 18 00:01:02,240 --> 00:01:05,720 Speaker 1: idea of online radicalization of all forms has been top 19 00:01:05,760 --> 00:01:06,279 Speaker 1: of news. 20 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:10,400 Speaker 9: What we are seeing is people that are being radicalized 21 00:01:10,880 --> 00:01:14,039 Speaker 9: typically are high and what's called the dark triad, which 22 00:01:14,080 --> 00:01:19,240 Speaker 9: is macavelianism, narcissism, and psychopathy, leading us to believe that 23 00:01:19,319 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 9: this ideology had infected him and had taken over. 24 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 10: A lot of us are not immune to the danger 25 00:01:27,760 --> 00:01:30,039 Speaker 10: of the kind of radicalization that takes place. 26 00:01:31,560 --> 00:01:33,800 Speaker 1: This goes all the way up to the Senate Judiciary 27 00:01:33,800 --> 00:01:37,920 Speaker 1: Committee hearing on September sixteenth. Here's Director of the FBI 28 00:01:38,080 --> 00:01:41,560 Speaker 1: Cash Betel, speaking with Senator Lindsay Graham. 29 00:01:42,120 --> 00:01:45,360 Speaker 10: The data shows that social media is wildly out of control. 30 00:01:45,640 --> 00:01:49,120 Speaker 9: This guy's FBI director. He says that social media is 31 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:50,480 Speaker 9: wildly out of control. 32 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 1: Online radicalization of all sorts is becoming more prevalent, specifically 33 00:01:56,360 --> 00:01:59,200 Speaker 1: as it relates to an uptick in in cell ideology. 34 00:02:00,480 --> 00:02:03,000 Speaker 1: Last episode, we covered the basics of what a self 35 00:02:03,000 --> 00:02:07,520 Speaker 1: identifying in cell is, an involuntarily celibate man who often 36 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:10,639 Speaker 1: feels hopeless with his position in life and who can 37 00:02:10,680 --> 00:02:15,720 Speaker 1: sometimes turn violent. Here's boys In Hodson, Communications and marketing 38 00:02:15,760 --> 00:02:19,760 Speaker 1: director for the Mankind Project. He explains research going on 39 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:22,640 Speaker 1: in this area. 40 00:02:22,720 --> 00:02:26,560 Speaker 10: There is really beautiful research out there from Equamundo than 41 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:30,280 Speaker 10: another organization called Diverting Hate. That have all been kind 42 00:02:30,320 --> 00:02:33,640 Speaker 10: of looking at these things, and what they see about 43 00:02:33,800 --> 00:02:36,400 Speaker 10: men who get involved in the in cell community is 44 00:02:36,480 --> 00:02:40,840 Speaker 10: that they are really attached to adhering to really strict 45 00:02:41,040 --> 00:02:43,839 Speaker 10: gender roles around what it means to be a man, 46 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:49,600 Speaker 10: and the more they adhere to that kind of dominance based, hierarchical, 47 00:02:50,040 --> 00:02:53,680 Speaker 10: really unhealthy beliefs about women, really unhealthy beliefs about people 48 00:02:53,680 --> 00:02:56,680 Speaker 10: of color, a lot of that stuff. And the more 49 00:02:56,720 --> 00:03:00,960 Speaker 10: that they get attached to these rigid, unhealthy the ideas 50 00:03:01,040 --> 00:03:03,080 Speaker 10: about what it means to be a man, the easier 51 00:03:03,120 --> 00:03:06,280 Speaker 10: it is for them to get drawn into hating other people, 52 00:03:06,360 --> 00:03:08,920 Speaker 10: to get drawn into self harm and harm of others. 53 00:03:09,280 --> 00:03:12,960 Speaker 10: We talk about it as either dominance based masculinity or 54 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:14,160 Speaker 10: the man box culture. 55 00:03:15,560 --> 00:03:18,480 Speaker 1: We ask Boyson to explain man box culture. 56 00:03:19,720 --> 00:03:22,760 Speaker 10: The idea of the man box is that most boys 57 00:03:22,880 --> 00:03:25,280 Speaker 10: and men that you speak to out there in the world, 58 00:03:25,720 --> 00:03:29,799 Speaker 10: they know what they're supposed to do. They know what 59 00:03:29,880 --> 00:03:33,080 Speaker 10: fits in the man box. Don't be gay, make a 60 00:03:33,080 --> 00:03:37,160 Speaker 10: lot of money, keep your emotions to yourself, man up, 61 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 10: don't hurt, don't share. All of these kinds of things 62 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:45,480 Speaker 10: that you know. Little boys start embodying these things at 63 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:49,640 Speaker 10: four or five years old. They already know what's inside 64 00:03:49,680 --> 00:03:50,120 Speaker 10: the box. 65 00:03:51,600 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 1: We spoke to Boyson about how these messages get internalized 66 00:03:54,960 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 1: and what that does to the mindset of in cells. 67 00:03:59,160 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 10: So the messages that many of us heard when we 68 00:04:02,040 --> 00:04:04,240 Speaker 10: were younger, and this is you know, I'm in my 69 00:04:04,320 --> 00:04:08,560 Speaker 10: fifties and I still remember these messages, right. Don't get 70 00:04:08,680 --> 00:04:14,480 Speaker 10: vulnerable with other people, don't show your weakness, don't share 71 00:04:14,520 --> 00:04:20,760 Speaker 10: your emotions, toughen up. A lot of these messages get internalized, 72 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:27,640 Speaker 10: and from those internalized messages, it is absolutely recipe for isolation. 73 00:04:28,160 --> 00:04:32,159 Speaker 10: It is absolutely a recipe to stay home, not go out, 74 00:04:32,520 --> 00:04:37,120 Speaker 10: only have online community, and restrict your kind of sharing 75 00:04:37,160 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 10: about what's real and true and vulnerable about who you are. 76 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:45,280 Speaker 1: To better understand the different ideologies and cells fall into, 77 00:04:45,320 --> 00:04:49,239 Speaker 1: we first need to understand the terminology that's used, starting 78 00:04:49,279 --> 00:04:52,919 Speaker 1: with red pill and black pill. 79 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:57,480 Speaker 10: So there's the red pill world where you've woken up 80 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 10: in quotation marks to the fact that you know feminism 81 00:05:00,520 --> 00:05:02,840 Speaker 10: has gone too far and men are really the ones 82 00:05:02,880 --> 00:05:05,880 Speaker 10: who are being victimized these days, and that is backed 83 00:05:05,920 --> 00:05:08,680 Speaker 10: up in the in cell world by this idea of 84 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:13,000 Speaker 10: black pill and the blackpill science that they bring into 85 00:05:13,040 --> 00:05:20,720 Speaker 10: this is really flawed versions of evolutionary science or eugenics 86 00:05:21,200 --> 00:05:27,359 Speaker 10: that places human beings in very distinct hierarchies. So this 87 00:05:27,640 --> 00:05:31,719 Speaker 10: idea of six' six' six six, feet tall six figure 88 00:05:31,800 --> 00:05:37,360 Speaker 10: incomes six. Inches plus that's the, ideal, man right and 89 00:05:37,400 --> 00:05:42,280 Speaker 10: then every other gradation of society is kind of ranked based. 90 00:05:42,320 --> 00:05:45,680 Speaker 10: On that so a lot of the in cell ideology 91 00:05:45,880 --> 00:05:50,880 Speaker 10: is based on really bad science that they call, black 92 00:05:50,960 --> 00:05:55,080 Speaker 10: pill that they believe is these are the women, Who 93 00:05:55,120 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 10: succeed these are the men. Who succeed i'm, Not that 94 00:05:58,680 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 10: i'll never. Be that i'm doomed. 95 00:06:02,600 --> 00:06:05,560 Speaker 1: For a deeper dive into black, pill ideology as well 96 00:06:05,600 --> 00:06:08,400 Speaker 1: as the blue and red pill ideologies that go along. 97 00:06:08,440 --> 00:06:11,880 Speaker 1: With it we spoke To Doctor david lay who describes 98 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:15,960 Speaker 1: the importance of in cels having their. Own Language doctor 99 00:06:16,040 --> 00:06:19,359 Speaker 1: lay is a, clinical psychologist, sex therapist and author of. 100 00:06:19,440 --> 00:06:24,159 Speaker 1: Multiple books he also does training for therapists around. The, world. 101 00:06:25,680 --> 00:06:29,200 Speaker 2: So, you, know first it's important to recognize that having, 102 00:06:29,400 --> 00:06:36,280 Speaker 2: idiosyncratic terminology having a certain language and terminology that is 103 00:06:37,000 --> 00:06:40,120 Speaker 2: native and unique to a community is one of the 104 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:45,320 Speaker 2: ways of building identity because people that are outside the 105 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:49,200 Speaker 2: community don't know what these, terms mean and having the 106 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:53,440 Speaker 2: secret language keeps other people out and it builds this 107 00:06:53,640 --> 00:06:58,760 Speaker 2: idea of secret knowledge. And belongingness by not only knowing, 108 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:02,839 Speaker 2: the terms but using the whole pill kind, of concept 109 00:07:02,960 --> 00:07:05,080 Speaker 2: you know the red pill and. Blue pill we remember That, 110 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:08,240 Speaker 2: from matrix and, you know the red pill is when 111 00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:12,280 Speaker 2: you reject society being the way you've been told it's going, 112 00:07:12,360 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 2: to be and you decide to see underneath. 113 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:15,920 Speaker 6: The current. 114 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 1: The people who do not see underneath the curtain are considered. 115 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 1: Blue pilled this is someone who is not part of 116 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:29,360 Speaker 1: the in cell community and is considered ignorant of what 117 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:33,760 Speaker 1: in cells believe to be the quote truth in the in. 118 00:07:33,840 --> 00:07:37,200 Speaker 1: Cell worldview those who are blue pilled believe what we'd 119 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:42,360 Speaker 1: call mainstream ideas. About relationships that personality and emotional connection 120 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:46,920 Speaker 1: are important in attracting, a partner that sex and intimacy 121 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:51,080 Speaker 1: are not commodities controlled solely, by women and that gender 122 00:07:51,160 --> 00:07:55,080 Speaker 1: roles in society are not unfairly skewed. Against Men doctor 123 00:07:55,160 --> 00:07:58,360 Speaker 1: lay continues describing the, bleakest designation the. 124 00:07:58,400 --> 00:08:05,360 Speaker 11: Black pill, the, blackpill though is somewhat unique to the, 125 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:11,280 Speaker 11: insel community and it is a bleak cynical view that 126 00:08:11,520 --> 00:08:15,920 Speaker 11: in seldom being an insul is a permanent state that 127 00:08:16,040 --> 00:08:21,080 Speaker 11: cannot be overcome or altered by. An insul it's really 128 00:08:21,160 --> 00:08:27,120 Speaker 11: an embracing, of hopelessness which is a unique component again 129 00:08:27,400 --> 00:08:30,520 Speaker 11: of the in. Cel community that's one of the things 130 00:08:30,560 --> 00:08:33,640 Speaker 11: that there's a lot of, echoes around which is you can't, 131 00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 11: get out you can't, change this and if you, try to. 132 00:08:37,200 --> 00:08:40,280 Speaker 11: You'll fail and if you, try to you're not a. 133 00:08:40,320 --> 00:08:44,199 Speaker 11: Real insul you're only a real insul if you accept 134 00:08:44,600 --> 00:08:45,440 Speaker 11: that this is. 135 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:46,840 Speaker 2: Your existence. 136 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:51,360 Speaker 1: The concept of echo chambers came up often while producing. 137 00:08:51,400 --> 00:08:55,479 Speaker 1: This podcast most, of us to, be honest. Were unfamiliar 138 00:08:56,040 --> 00:08:58,560 Speaker 1: we Asked doctor lay to explain what an echo chamber 139 00:08:58,720 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: is in this context and what the. Implications are. 140 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:08,760 Speaker 2: The echo chamber component of any online extreme ideology group 141 00:09:09,160 --> 00:09:16,280 Speaker 2: is intended to enforce rules upon what is said and 142 00:09:16,320 --> 00:09:21,080 Speaker 2: how people behave in, this community and it also sets 143 00:09:21,200 --> 00:09:25,400 Speaker 2: up these men that if they ever dare to question 144 00:09:26,080 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 2: or go against the components of the, echo chamber they 145 00:09:30,520 --> 00:09:35,920 Speaker 2: are viewed, as unfaithful. As disloyal all of that is 146 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:42,240 Speaker 2: intended to shame and mandate loyalty to the echo. Chamber 147 00:09:42,440 --> 00:09:46,000 Speaker 2: dialogue the reason it's an echo chamber is that it 148 00:09:46,040 --> 00:09:50,920 Speaker 2: is intended to program that ideology into. People's thinking. 149 00:09:55,200 --> 00:09:57,920 Speaker 1: Let's stop here for, a break we'll be back in. 150 00:09:57,960 --> 00:10:20,160 Speaker 1: A moment while learning about the blue pill and black, 151 00:10:20,200 --> 00:10:23,960 Speaker 1: pill Designations Doctor david lay also spoke to us about 152 00:10:23,960 --> 00:10:25,720 Speaker 1: what it means. To ascend. 153 00:10:27,679 --> 00:10:31,319 Speaker 2: So ascend is a term that the in cells us 154 00:10:31,400 --> 00:10:35,559 Speaker 2: to describe when an in cell overcomes their in cell 155 00:10:35,679 --> 00:10:39,319 Speaker 2: nature and when the, in cell frankly is successful at 156 00:10:39,320 --> 00:10:41,800 Speaker 2: getting a date or getting, a girlfriend getting a. Sex 157 00:10:41,840 --> 00:10:46,559 Speaker 2: partner and they described that this is when he ascends 158 00:10:46,840 --> 00:10:51,360 Speaker 2: past or out of his in. Cel identity but, even 159 00:10:51,400 --> 00:10:53,440 Speaker 2: though and there have been a couple of, you know 160 00:10:53,679 --> 00:10:58,360 Speaker 2: relatively well known in cell leaders who then quote unquote 161 00:10:58,400 --> 00:11:03,400 Speaker 2: ascended and did successfully get a date or. A girlfriend 162 00:11:03,880 --> 00:11:07,360 Speaker 2: and what was fascinating in those cases was that at 163 00:11:07,520 --> 00:11:11,760 Speaker 2: first these guys were somewhat celebrated by their, inceel peers 164 00:11:12,440 --> 00:11:16,640 Speaker 2: and then they. Were attacked then they were horrifically attacked 165 00:11:16,720 --> 00:11:20,160 Speaker 2: and shamed and just cut to ribbons in these online 166 00:11:20,280 --> 00:11:25,960 Speaker 2: communities by their inceell peers for, betraying them for betraying 167 00:11:25,960 --> 00:11:28,760 Speaker 2: the in. Cell identity and so even though they have 168 00:11:28,880 --> 00:11:33,360 Speaker 2: this term that you, can ascend the in cells encourage 169 00:11:33,360 --> 00:11:36,320 Speaker 2: each other against it because it would go Against that 170 00:11:36,360 --> 00:11:39,560 Speaker 2: blackpiel kind of idea that. It's hopeless. 171 00:11:41,000 --> 00:11:44,000 Speaker 1: Then this language in cells used to describe others the 172 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:48,960 Speaker 1: quote normies or normal people often normies refer to those with, 173 00:11:49,040 --> 00:11:54,120 Speaker 1: healthy relationships specifically romantic and. Sexual ones this brings us 174 00:11:54,160 --> 00:11:59,559 Speaker 1: To the chads and the staces for a, Visual picture Barbie. 175 00:11:59,559 --> 00:12:00,319 Speaker 1: And Kendall. 176 00:12:02,360 --> 00:12:06,600 Speaker 2: The Chad and Stacy and becky are these terms that 177 00:12:06,760 --> 00:12:10,720 Speaker 2: they that the in cels use to describe those men 178 00:12:10,960 --> 00:12:17,400 Speaker 2: and women who are more qualitatively attractive. AND Desirable a 179 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:21,120 Speaker 2: chad is, you know that that man who is, you 180 00:12:21,160 --> 00:12:25,520 Speaker 2: know perceived as being tall and successful and, you know 181 00:12:25,600 --> 00:12:30,400 Speaker 2: traditionally handsome and desired, by women with social characteristics to 182 00:12:30,559 --> 00:12:33,920 Speaker 2: qualities like wealth that will make women attracted to him 183 00:12:34,000 --> 00:12:40,720 Speaker 2: and choose him over. The Insul the stacy is a more, 184 00:12:40,760 --> 00:12:44,840 Speaker 2: attractive female But the stacy is is oftentimes perceived as 185 00:12:44,880 --> 00:12:50,800 Speaker 2: also being kind of dumb. And shallow becky is a less, 186 00:12:50,960 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 2: you know kind of classically, attractive woman but more more 187 00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 2: the kind of bookish sort, of female but also still 188 00:12:57,559 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 2: again more attractive than the. End cell and again there's 189 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:06,120 Speaker 2: there's a tremendous amount of misogyny in the in, cell 190 00:13:06,160 --> 00:13:10,080 Speaker 2: community and most of, their anger most of their hatred 191 00:13:10,679 --> 00:13:14,679 Speaker 2: is actually reserved for the women and Not. That chad 192 00:13:15,080 --> 00:13:17,560 Speaker 2: they don't talk about Killing, the chad but they do 193 00:13:17,720 --> 00:13:24,240 Speaker 2: talk about the deceptiveness and the dishonesty, of Women both 194 00:13:24,280 --> 00:13:30,480 Speaker 2: Becky's and stacy's that they would choose those chads over 195 00:13:30,840 --> 00:13:32,000 Speaker 2: other men such as. 196 00:13:32,000 --> 00:13:33,000 Speaker 3: The insuls. 197 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:37,560 Speaker 1: Another thing to look at is just where in. Cells 198 00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:40,960 Speaker 1: congregate part of the reasons so little is widely known 199 00:13:40,960 --> 00:13:44,160 Speaker 1: about the subculture is that they self select into different 200 00:13:44,160 --> 00:13:49,679 Speaker 1: online spaces to speak openly. Among themselves Here's Producer, connor 201 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:52,720 Speaker 1: powell who has spent time engaging on in cell forums for. 202 00:13:52,760 --> 00:13:54,080 Speaker 1: This podcast. 203 00:13:55,840 --> 00:13:58,160 Speaker 7: There is this sort of feeling that their real life 204 00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:01,160 Speaker 7: for them is behind the key board on a social, 205 00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 7: media forum Whether it's discord or the insell, community forums 206 00:14:05,240 --> 00:14:08,000 Speaker 7: Or even reddit to, some Extent although reddit doesn't have 207 00:14:08,040 --> 00:14:09,880 Speaker 7: as many in cells on it as it used to 208 00:14:09,920 --> 00:14:12,120 Speaker 7: because they've banned a lot of the language and the 209 00:14:12,160 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 7: behavior that you know it used. 210 00:14:13,400 --> 00:14:14,440 Speaker 3: To attract. 211 00:14:16,720 --> 00:14:20,320 Speaker 1: Reddit is mainly used for, community discussions with thousands of 212 00:14:20,360 --> 00:14:25,240 Speaker 1: specialized forums. Called subreddits any of us might Go to 213 00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:28,920 Speaker 1: reddit to discuss literally anything from the best medical shows 214 00:14:28,920 --> 00:14:31,440 Speaker 1: to WATCH on tv to how to clean. Your windows, 215 00:14:32,320 --> 00:14:35,520 Speaker 1: as mentioned many in cell conversations have been Banned. From 216 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:39,440 Speaker 1: reddit discord is another platform we've been hearing a lot, 217 00:14:39,480 --> 00:14:40,480 Speaker 1: about lately. 218 00:14:42,720 --> 00:14:46,160 Speaker 10: We're also going to be investigating anyone and everyone involved 219 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:46,440 Speaker 10: In that. 220 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:50,520 Speaker 6: Discord chat there's an increase in violent online groups using 221 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:51,080 Speaker 6: the App. 222 00:14:51,120 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 1: CALLED discord i Spoke with Chase. About discord chase is 223 00:14:56,600 --> 00:14:59,760 Speaker 1: in his, early twenties outgoing with a healthy, social life. 224 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:01,200 Speaker 1: A girlfriend. 225 00:15:03,280 --> 00:15:07,040 Speaker 6: I use discord for the first time probably my freshman 226 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:09,920 Speaker 6: sophomore year of. High school it was primarily used, for 227 00:15:10,080 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 6: gaming BUT as i started to establish more friends on, 228 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:16,560 Speaker 6: the platform it then became more of an. Interpersonal thing 229 00:15:16,640 --> 00:15:18,760 Speaker 6: like a lot of people Get on discord to talk 230 00:15:18,800 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 6: to people that they wouldn't necessarily see in. REAL life 231 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:23,800 Speaker 6: i have friends across the COUNTRY that i keep up 232 00:15:23,840 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 6: With on DISCORD that i might not even necessarily still game, 233 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:29,480 Speaker 6: with actively like maybe here. And there but it's primarily 234 00:15:29,520 --> 00:15:33,040 Speaker 6: just something where it's a community based PLATFORM that i 235 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:34,760 Speaker 6: use to talk to PEOPLE that i don't have any 236 00:15:34,800 --> 00:15:35,440 Speaker 6: connection with in. 237 00:15:35,480 --> 00:15:40,280 Speaker 1: REAL life I asked chase if while in the process 238 00:15:40,280 --> 00:15:43,840 Speaker 1: of playing games and Chatting, on discord he only communicated 239 00:15:43,880 --> 00:15:49,120 Speaker 1: with those he knew in, real life or if he connected. With, strangers, oh. 240 00:15:49,120 --> 00:15:52,080 Speaker 6: Yeah it's primarily strangers and, funny ENOUGH like i have 241 00:15:52,240 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 6: friends in real life that have introduced me to people 242 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 6: on Discord that i've never met in, real life that 243 00:15:57,360 --> 00:15:59,200 Speaker 6: have then gone on to introduce me to more people 244 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:00,800 Speaker 6: and more People in before you, know it you're a 245 00:16:00,800 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 6: part of this twenty thirty forty person discord and you 246 00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:05,160 Speaker 6: don't know ninety five percent. 247 00:16:05,200 --> 00:16:08,800 Speaker 1: OF them I, asked chase with the discussion Centered, around. 248 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:13,120 Speaker 6: Honestly Especially as i've, grown older the discord has gone 249 00:16:13,480 --> 00:16:16,280 Speaker 6: well above and beyond. Just gaming now we're talking, about 250 00:16:16,320 --> 00:16:21,080 Speaker 6: politics we're talking about, social relationships we're talking about what 251 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:24,080 Speaker 6: people are doing in their, free time what their. Interests 252 00:16:24,120 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 6: are it goes way. Beyond gaming and it's to the 253 00:16:26,920 --> 00:16:28,600 Speaker 6: point NOW where i can SAY that i have a 254 00:16:28,760 --> 00:16:31,320 Speaker 6: very solid grasp of the types of People that i'm 255 00:16:31,360 --> 00:16:35,160 Speaker 6: dealing with strictly through discord without ever having actually. 256 00:16:35,160 --> 00:16:38,880 Speaker 1: MET them I asked chase if he'd encountered conversations that. 257 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:43,160 Speaker 6: Turned, Volatile ABSOLUTELY and, I mean i'm not even. Gonna 258 00:16:43,160 --> 00:16:45,760 Speaker 6: lie most of the people on this discord are older 259 00:16:45,760 --> 00:16:49,280 Speaker 6: guys or just like guys, my age and they're. Strictly 260 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:51,640 Speaker 6: gamers and a lot of these people the farther AND 261 00:16:51,720 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 6: farther i get removed from the PEOPLE that i know in. 262 00:16:53,920 --> 00:16:56,320 Speaker 6: Real life the more people that are Different that, i'm 263 00:16:56,360 --> 00:16:59,000 Speaker 6: meeting a lot of which are people that don't really 264 00:16:59,040 --> 00:17:02,400 Speaker 6: have interaction with other people in. Real life like a 265 00:17:02,440 --> 00:17:05,000 Speaker 6: lot of, these people most of their relationships Exist through 266 00:17:05,000 --> 00:17:08,880 Speaker 6: discord or through, online platforms and it's very obvious when 267 00:17:08,880 --> 00:17:11,800 Speaker 6: you're interacting with those people because they socialize a little 268 00:17:11,800 --> 00:17:13,960 Speaker 6: bit differently than the people that you know in. 269 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:22,040 Speaker 1: Real life let's stop here for. Another break we'll be 270 00:17:22,080 --> 00:17:22,359 Speaker 1: back in. 271 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:23,040 Speaker 8: A moment. 272 00:17:42,680 --> 00:17:46,240 Speaker 1: In cell chatter can be, hate, filled menacing. And threatening 273 00:17:47,840 --> 00:17:50,600 Speaker 1: in what might be the absolute worst instance of what, 274 00:17:50,640 --> 00:17:55,359 Speaker 1: can Happen Producer carolyn miller Spoke With. Kim devns kim's 275 00:17:55,400 --> 00:17:59,439 Speaker 1: seventeen year, Old Daughter, bianca devins was tragically killed her 276 00:17:59,520 --> 00:18:03,240 Speaker 1: killer that took brutal Pictures of bianca's corpse and posted 277 00:18:03,400 --> 00:18:03,679 Speaker 1: to in. 278 00:18:03,760 --> 00:18:08,480 Speaker 4: Cell groups seventeen Year Old bianca Devins of utica was 279 00:18:08,520 --> 00:18:10,399 Speaker 4: found dead in a wooded area at the end of. 280 00:18:10,440 --> 00:18:13,520 Speaker 4: The street when police arrived on, the scene, The Suspect 281 00:18:13,640 --> 00:18:16,800 Speaker 4: Brandon andrew Clark, of cicero laying on top of the 282 00:18:16,840 --> 00:18:17,680 Speaker 4: tarp covering. 283 00:18:17,720 --> 00:18:22,000 Speaker 3: The Body in july, twenty nineteen the social Media platform 284 00:18:22,080 --> 00:18:25,639 Speaker 3: discord was buzzing about a photo that appeared to show 285 00:18:25,720 --> 00:18:26,160 Speaker 3: a dead. 286 00:18:26,240 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 10: Young woman her killer posted the images of her body 287 00:18:29,240 --> 00:18:32,240 Speaker 10: online and they soon. Went viral but if that wasn't, 288 00:18:32,240 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 10: horrific enough the images were also sent to the victim's family. 289 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:40,320 Speaker 3: On discord it's fairly common for people to post gore 290 00:18:40,600 --> 00:18:43,760 Speaker 3: and disturbing images just to sort of get a rise out. 291 00:18:43,760 --> 00:18:44,680 Speaker 3: Of people. 292 00:18:46,000 --> 00:18:48,919 Speaker 1: The image, was shared turned, into memes and used to 293 00:18:48,920 --> 00:18:51,959 Speaker 1: her As the devons family in an online campaign that 294 00:18:52,000 --> 00:18:53,280 Speaker 1: goes on to. This day. 295 00:18:54,960 --> 00:18:57,439 Speaker 3: My Name Is. KIM devons i am the Mother Of, 296 00:18:57,560 --> 00:19:02,640 Speaker 3: bianca devons who was murdered in. TWENTY nineteen i don't 297 00:19:02,640 --> 00:19:03,240 Speaker 3: want to say. 298 00:19:03,040 --> 00:19:04,960 Speaker 8: His, name okay then Don't say. 299 00:19:05,160 --> 00:19:09,040 Speaker 3: Bianca was she was an amazing person with so. Much 300 00:19:09,080 --> 00:19:13,800 Speaker 3: potential she. Was seventeen she had just graduated high school 301 00:19:14,119 --> 00:19:17,040 Speaker 3: two weeks prior to. Her death she had plans to 302 00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:20,760 Speaker 3: pursue a degree. In psychology she wanted to work with 303 00:19:20,880 --> 00:19:25,080 Speaker 3: adolescence because she herself struggled with some pretty severe mental. 304 00:19:25,119 --> 00:19:29,000 Speaker 3: Health issues she was. Very artsy she was into music. 305 00:19:29,320 --> 00:19:33,119 Speaker 3: And art she especially liked. Digital art my favorite memories 306 00:19:33,160 --> 00:19:37,560 Speaker 3: are just our times of us, Being together LIKE when 307 00:19:37,600 --> 00:19:40,080 Speaker 3: i Think OF bianca i always think of like she 308 00:19:40,200 --> 00:19:43,679 Speaker 3: was always by. My side she, was definitely, you know 309 00:19:43,800 --> 00:19:46,320 Speaker 3: my little. Best friend like since she, was little she was. 310 00:19:46,520 --> 00:19:50,199 Speaker 3: Always attached was she an only child or did she 311 00:19:50,240 --> 00:19:53,760 Speaker 3: have any? Brothers sisters so she has her, Younger, sister 312 00:19:53,840 --> 00:19:57,680 Speaker 3: olivia and then She has maddie who is, now eight 313 00:19:57,960 --> 00:20:02,240 Speaker 3: and she has a stepbrother and. To stepsisters she's the oldest. 314 00:20:02,240 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 5: Of everyone so she had just graduated from high school 315 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:07,840 Speaker 5: and she wanted to go, to college and you said 316 00:20:07,880 --> 00:20:08,439 Speaker 5: she wanted to go. 317 00:20:08,480 --> 00:20:10,040 Speaker 8: Into psychology she. 318 00:20:09,960 --> 00:20:12,159 Speaker 3: Was going to start in her. Community College so biaka 319 00:20:12,200 --> 00:20:14,920 Speaker 3: was a young senior in. High school she, was still, 320 00:20:15,080 --> 00:20:17,520 Speaker 3: you know seventeen and would have turned eighteen in. The 321 00:20:17,560 --> 00:20:20,680 Speaker 3: fall so she wasn't ready to leave. Home yet so 322 00:20:20,720 --> 00:20:23,000 Speaker 3: she had decided she wanted to do her first two 323 00:20:23,080 --> 00:20:25,600 Speaker 3: years at community college and then she would transfer to 324 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:27,880 Speaker 3: a four. Year school but she wasn't ready to leave. 325 00:20:27,880 --> 00:20:31,119 Speaker 3: Me Yet, so biaka you never knew what kind of 326 00:20:31,119 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 3: like aesthetic she was gonna have from day. To day 327 00:20:34,320 --> 00:20:35,639 Speaker 3: she often dyed her hair in the middle of. The 328 00:20:35,720 --> 00:20:37,160 Speaker 3: night we never knew what we were going to wake 329 00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:39,760 Speaker 3: up to. Color hair she. Was seventeen she was just 330 00:20:39,840 --> 00:20:44,560 Speaker 3: kind of. Finding herself she was just very much a, 331 00:20:44,600 --> 00:20:49,919 Speaker 3: free spirit but confident, in herself like she knew she 332 00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:52,639 Speaker 3: kind of merged to the beat of her, own drum 333 00:20:53,160 --> 00:20:54,639 Speaker 3: but had confidence. 334 00:20:54,640 --> 00:20:55,160 Speaker 2: In that. 335 00:20:57,520 --> 00:20:59,159 Speaker 8: You don't have to say, His name i'll. Say it 336 00:20:59,480 --> 00:21:02,600 Speaker 8: She Knew. Brandon clark would you consider? 337 00:21:02,720 --> 00:21:06,640 Speaker 3: Them friends they were. Good friends we all, knew him. 338 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:09,080 Speaker 3: You know she'd introduced him to everyone in. The family 339 00:21:09,280 --> 00:21:11,479 Speaker 3: they hadn't known each other for like, too long but 340 00:21:11,560 --> 00:21:13,920 Speaker 3: it was a, few months, and yeah they were. 341 00:21:13,920 --> 00:21:18,919 Speaker 1: Good Friends on, july thirteenth, Twenty nineteen bianca went to 342 00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:23,199 Speaker 1: a Concert With. Brandon clark He murdered bianca in the 343 00:21:23,240 --> 00:21:28,320 Speaker 1: early Morning of. July fourteenth it's been widely Reported that 344 00:21:28,320 --> 00:21:31,320 Speaker 1: bianca met up with a male friend, Of, hers alex at, 345 00:21:31,320 --> 00:21:35,639 Speaker 1: the concert that the pair shared, a kiss and that's 346 00:21:35,680 --> 00:21:39,480 Speaker 1: somehow it Quote set brandon off and led to. The 347 00:21:39,560 --> 00:21:43,640 Speaker 1: murder we asked him to clarify the events of. The, evening. 348 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:50,440 Speaker 3: No that is. A misconception he had planned this. Very 349 00:21:50,480 --> 00:21:55,560 Speaker 3: clearly there's clear evidence at least a, week prior including 350 00:21:55,760 --> 00:21:59,000 Speaker 3: on a note in his notesap on his Phone from 351 00:21:59,200 --> 00:22:04,080 Speaker 3: july eleventh entitled, murder suicide and he had a list 352 00:22:04,119 --> 00:22:07,159 Speaker 3: he makes lists for, LIKE everything i mean down to 353 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:09,480 Speaker 3: like his. Favorite cereals they found in his jail sadelel 354 00:22:09,560 --> 00:22:12,240 Speaker 3: List of so there was a list that was Created on, 355 00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:15,480 Speaker 3: july eleventh and there was other evidence Prior to july 356 00:22:15,560 --> 00:22:17,480 Speaker 3: eleventh of. His planning if he was. 357 00:22:17,480 --> 00:22:19,720 Speaker 8: Planning this did he ever have a motive as. 358 00:22:19,760 --> 00:22:23,600 Speaker 3: To, why no he still maintains it was just extreme. 359 00:22:23,640 --> 00:22:30,120 Speaker 3: Emotional disturbance he has never given us. A why if 360 00:22:30,160 --> 00:22:33,040 Speaker 3: we had gone, to trial the motive presented by the 361 00:22:33,040 --> 00:22:35,960 Speaker 3: prosecution would have been. Number one he was just obsessed 362 00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:38,520 Speaker 3: with murder and it was something that he researched, a 363 00:22:38,600 --> 00:22:40,320 Speaker 3: lot and, you know read up on a lot of 364 00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:44,800 Speaker 3: different serial killers and, you know. Murder cases and he 365 00:22:44,920 --> 00:22:47,800 Speaker 3: was very Jealous. Of bianca she had this really. Bright 366 00:22:47,880 --> 00:22:50,720 Speaker 3: future she just kind of had everything that he didn't 367 00:22:50,760 --> 00:22:53,000 Speaker 3: and that. He wanted part of the motive would have 368 00:22:53,000 --> 00:22:55,280 Speaker 3: been LIKE if i can't, have you no. One Can 369 00:22:55,640 --> 00:22:58,520 Speaker 3: because bianca had made it very clear that they were 370 00:22:58,600 --> 00:23:01,840 Speaker 3: just friends and he definitely wanted more and. She didn't 371 00:23:01,960 --> 00:23:05,000 Speaker 3: she just wanted to. Be friends so that was definitely 372 00:23:05,000 --> 00:23:08,479 Speaker 3: another part of his motive was extreme jealousy AND if 373 00:23:08,520 --> 00:23:10,879 Speaker 3: i can't, have you no. One can one of my 374 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:12,760 Speaker 3: vivid memories is sitting down with the police at the 375 00:23:12,760 --> 00:23:16,120 Speaker 3: police station and them telling me there were no red 376 00:23:16,119 --> 00:23:18,240 Speaker 3: FLAGS because i WHAT did? I miss i did not. 377 00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:21,120 Speaker 3: SEE anything i never would have, Expected this and they, 378 00:23:21,119 --> 00:23:24,080 Speaker 3: were like there really weren't any red flags that you could. 379 00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:29,160 Speaker 3: Have seen and it wasn't necessarily this concert or any type. 380 00:23:29,200 --> 00:23:32,320 Speaker 3: Of event it was just he's. A murderer he's evil 381 00:23:32,680 --> 00:23:35,000 Speaker 3: and if it wasn't, your daughter and if, it wasn't, 382 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:37,800 Speaker 3: you know after, this concert it would have been. Someone else. 383 00:23:37,880 --> 00:23:41,159 Speaker 1: Another time we asked him to walk us through what 384 00:23:41,240 --> 00:23:48,800 Speaker 1: happened at. Her home the Morning of, JULY fourteenth i. 385 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,719 Speaker 3: Was woken up by My, daughter olivia who was fifteen at, 386 00:23:51,760 --> 00:23:55,479 Speaker 3: the time and, she said the police are here Something. 387 00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:58,119 Speaker 3: About bianca it was like little after, seven am so 388 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:01,560 Speaker 3: she's just woken up kind. Of us they presented that 389 00:24:01,600 --> 00:24:04,359 Speaker 3: they were coming for a. Welfare check, that first, you 390 00:24:04,440 --> 00:24:06,280 Speaker 3: know we're saying with bank, your daughter is? She here 391 00:24:06,320 --> 00:24:08,320 Speaker 3: and then they asked me if she went to, a 392 00:24:08,400 --> 00:24:13,560 Speaker 3: concert and then said that he had posted some concerning 393 00:24:13,600 --> 00:24:15,679 Speaker 3: things on the internet that he may have. 394 00:24:15,760 --> 00:24:16,280 Speaker 2: Hurt her. 395 00:24:19,359 --> 00:24:19,959 Speaker 8: What happened? 396 00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:23,720 Speaker 3: After that at the time that they came to. My 397 00:24:23,800 --> 00:24:27,000 Speaker 3: house the police were also getting calls from people In 398 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:30,240 Speaker 3: the discoord server where the picture was, originally posted and 399 00:24:30,280 --> 00:24:33,000 Speaker 3: THEN they i know that they received a call from, 400 00:24:33,200 --> 00:24:36,359 Speaker 3: his aunt who he had called after. The murder he 401 00:24:36,440 --> 00:24:39,440 Speaker 3: had called and left several messages on family, members' phones 402 00:24:39,480 --> 00:24:42,600 Speaker 3: and then at some point while they were still at, 403 00:24:42,600 --> 00:24:46,040 Speaker 3: my house he called them. One himself in, the meantime 404 00:24:46,119 --> 00:24:49,560 Speaker 3: while we were trying to figure, this out, you know 405 00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:52,520 Speaker 3: we were all going through. Our Phones bianca's instagram was 406 00:24:52,520 --> 00:24:56,240 Speaker 3: logged into, my PHONE so i was going through her 407 00:24:56,280 --> 00:24:58,760 Speaker 3: messages to try to find messages between him and her 408 00:24:58,800 --> 00:25:01,000 Speaker 3: to see if there was any THING that i. Could 409 00:25:01,000 --> 00:25:04,880 Speaker 3: find and as we were, doing that my best friend 410 00:25:04,880 --> 00:25:07,359 Speaker 3: lived with me at, the time and she saw the 411 00:25:07,400 --> 00:25:09,639 Speaker 3: Picture on instagram and brought it out to my father 412 00:25:09,680 --> 00:25:12,720 Speaker 3: who was outside talking to. The police so my father 413 00:25:12,880 --> 00:25:17,920 Speaker 3: and my friend knew pretty early on that most likely 414 00:25:18,040 --> 00:25:19,080 Speaker 3: she had. Been killed. 415 00:25:21,080 --> 00:25:24,520 Speaker 8: He took a photo of her and posted. 416 00:25:24,560 --> 00:25:29,240 Speaker 3: It, online yes he Took, several yeah and he did that. Right, 417 00:25:29,280 --> 00:25:32,920 Speaker 3: away yes he recorded the, entire thing and then he 418 00:25:33,000 --> 00:25:37,440 Speaker 3: did take some, still photos posted that On her, discord 419 00:25:37,480 --> 00:25:41,600 Speaker 3: server and then he moved her out of his car 420 00:25:42,080 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 3: covered her with. A tarp he took several photos he 421 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:49,240 Speaker 3: Posted to instagram, in snapchat, you know with her body 422 00:25:49,320 --> 00:25:52,760 Speaker 3: covered in the background with the knife. Of himself he 423 00:25:53,440 --> 00:25:56,560 Speaker 3: spray painted May You Never forget me on the roadway 424 00:25:57,040 --> 00:25:59,520 Speaker 3: in front of. His car he started a fire and 425 00:26:00,359 --> 00:26:03,920 Speaker 3: like tried to burn a laptop in a hard drive 426 00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:07,199 Speaker 3: and some. Other things really kind of like try to 427 00:26:07,240 --> 00:26:11,200 Speaker 3: make this as sensationalized. As, possible really, you know the 428 00:26:11,320 --> 00:26:15,119 Speaker 3: most attention seeking is as he. Passively could and then 429 00:26:15,520 --> 00:26:18,800 Speaker 3: he made sure to call name one. ONE himself i 430 00:26:18,800 --> 00:26:22,040 Speaker 3: think the police knew we're trying to confirm things before, 431 00:26:22,080 --> 00:26:24,320 Speaker 3: telling us but we knew that something had happened to 432 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:29,359 Speaker 3: Be and olivia's friend immediately came over and a round the, 433 00:26:29,359 --> 00:26:31,679 Speaker 3: same time the police told us that they, you know they, 434 00:26:31,720 --> 00:26:34,480 Speaker 3: found him and, they found, you know a woman that 435 00:26:34,920 --> 00:26:36,719 Speaker 3: matched the, act's description and they believe it. 436 00:26:36,760 --> 00:26:37,080 Speaker 8: Was her. 437 00:26:37,400 --> 00:26:42,040 Speaker 3: OLIVIA'S friend i just, heard This like i've never heard 438 00:26:42,119 --> 00:26:45,040 Speaker 3: such a scream in, my life as like literal just. 439 00:26:45,240 --> 00:26:47,679 Speaker 3: Horrible Scream and olivia's friend had been sent the Picture. 440 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:49,960 Speaker 3: On instagram he was fifteen at the. 441 00:26:49,960 --> 00:26:52,119 Speaker 8: Time too he tried to. 442 00:26:52,160 --> 00:26:54,040 Speaker 5: Commit suicide he thought it was going to be a, 443 00:26:54,119 --> 00:26:58,200 Speaker 5: murder suicide and when they, got there he attempted to 444 00:26:58,359 --> 00:26:59,680 Speaker 5: slit his, own throat. 445 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,000 Speaker 3: So he waited for the police to. Show up before he, 446 00:27:03,040 --> 00:27:05,840 Speaker 3: did that he took pictures laying on top, of her 447 00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:08,840 Speaker 3: waited for the police to, show up took a picture 448 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:11,919 Speaker 3: and posted like as he was letting, his throat took 449 00:27:11,920 --> 00:27:14,520 Speaker 3: a picture and posted It. To snapchat and then as 450 00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:17,520 Speaker 3: they were wheeling him away in, the ambulance he was 451 00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:20,760 Speaker 3: asking the police how many news stations had picked up. 452 00:27:20,760 --> 00:27:24,320 Speaker 3: The story oh. My god SO when I say i 453 00:27:24,359 --> 00:27:27,400 Speaker 3: don't want to give him the attention that, he's seeking 454 00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:30,920 Speaker 3: it's like every single thing he did was to get 455 00:27:30,920 --> 00:27:31,959 Speaker 3: as much attention on him. 456 00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,359 Speaker 5: AS possible i can imagine you guys are just losing 457 00:27:34,400 --> 00:27:37,679 Speaker 5: your minds about all the photos that were posted and 458 00:27:38,160 --> 00:27:42,280 Speaker 5: the images that are. Being circulated what did that do 459 00:27:42,920 --> 00:27:43,280 Speaker 5: to your. 460 00:27:43,320 --> 00:27:47,439 Speaker 3: GRIEVING process i just think we were so much in 461 00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:50,720 Speaker 3: shock and disbelief that like this had actually happened, to 462 00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:53,840 Speaker 3: her like that he had done this. TO her i 463 00:27:53,880 --> 00:27:57,960 Speaker 3: don't think we really processed that her picture had, Gone 464 00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:01,160 Speaker 3: viral and, you know it was a few days after 465 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:02,719 Speaker 3: and then the police had told, us like, you know 466 00:28:02,760 --> 00:28:05,399 Speaker 3: we are getting, you know they're just coming in, so 467 00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:08,600 Speaker 3: Fast like Instagram and facebook are just telling, us like 468 00:28:09,160 --> 00:28:11,400 Speaker 3: we don't know if we can. Stop this like people 469 00:28:11,400 --> 00:28:15,320 Speaker 3: would Tell me, biaco's trending and, you Know Irap bianca devins, 470 00:28:15,440 --> 00:28:18,080 Speaker 3: was trending and it just none of that really made 471 00:28:18,119 --> 00:28:18,719 Speaker 3: sense to me at. 472 00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:24,000 Speaker 1: The time, like many if, not, Most teenagers bianca spent 473 00:28:24,040 --> 00:28:27,919 Speaker 1: a lot of time online on, various platforms including discord 474 00:28:28,760 --> 00:28:32,520 Speaker 1: that's where the death picture was originally posted and began its, 475 00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:37,760 Speaker 1: insidious circulation propelled by. In cells we asked him if 476 00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:40,000 Speaker 1: she knew at the time what an. Insul, was. 477 00:28:42,880 --> 00:28:45,240 Speaker 3: Yes it was A term. BIAKA used, I mean i 478 00:28:45,280 --> 00:28:47,320 Speaker 3: wouldn't say she used, it often but once in. A while, 479 00:28:47,880 --> 00:28:49,880 Speaker 3: you know biakare just telling me about like things going 480 00:28:49,880 --> 00:28:52,600 Speaker 3: on In her internet groups and with. Her friends, YOU 481 00:28:52,640 --> 00:28:55,040 Speaker 3: know i was familiar with the term. In cell, you 482 00:28:55,080 --> 00:28:57,040 Speaker 3: know she would tell me about like in cells On 483 00:28:57,200 --> 00:29:02,240 Speaker 3: four chan posting about her who represented everything that in, cels, hate, 484 00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:08,600 Speaker 3: Beautiful confident she oftentimes would help other young girls her 485 00:29:08,680 --> 00:29:12,840 Speaker 3: age recognize these in cels were trying to groom them and, 486 00:29:13,160 --> 00:29:15,719 Speaker 3: you know get them away. From them that the in. 487 00:29:15,760 --> 00:29:19,920 Speaker 3: Cel abuse So the intel community and these, you know 488 00:29:20,480 --> 00:29:24,239 Speaker 3: kind of dark Websites like fourtan and some discordsers like 489 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:27,880 Speaker 3: they already hated her to begin with because she thwarted 490 00:29:27,920 --> 00:29:30,320 Speaker 3: their plans and she stood for everything that. They hated 491 00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:35,080 Speaker 3: they typically, hate strong. Independent women, SO yeah, I was 492 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:37,920 Speaker 3: i was familiar with the term at. The time i've 493 00:29:37,960 --> 00:29:42,320 Speaker 3: spoken to several experts and in cells. And psychologists he's 494 00:29:42,360 --> 00:29:46,280 Speaker 3: not necessarily considered an in cell because he did. Have 495 00:29:46,320 --> 00:29:50,080 Speaker 3: girlfriends he did other Girlfriends and bianca, and Stuff. Murdering 496 00:29:50,120 --> 00:29:52,720 Speaker 3: bianca these in Cels took brandon and put him on. 497 00:29:52,800 --> 00:29:56,400 Speaker 3: A pedestal he was now their hero because, you know 498 00:29:56,960 --> 00:29:59,240 Speaker 3: he took out. This egirl. 499 00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:06,320 Speaker 1: An egirl stands for electronic or, internet girl popularized on social. 500 00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:10,960 Speaker 1: Media platforms often egirls have distinctive fashion aesthetics that my 501 00:30:11,080 --> 00:30:15,480 Speaker 1: blend emo and, anime styles frequently paired with vibrantly dyed 502 00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:17,520 Speaker 1: hair and. Wing dyeliner. 503 00:30:19,520 --> 00:30:22,080 Speaker 3: The thing that, they hated, you know this one particular 504 00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:25,120 Speaker 3: egir that they. ESPECIALLY hated i think a lot of 505 00:30:25,200 --> 00:30:29,040 Speaker 3: experts agree we wouldn't consider him an in cell at. 506 00:30:29,040 --> 00:30:32,239 Speaker 3: That point he did have some of the tendencies and, you. 507 00:30:32,240 --> 00:30:36,400 Speaker 3: Know ideology but what he did and then the way 508 00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:40,320 Speaker 3: that he posted all the pictures brought out all the 509 00:30:40,320 --> 00:30:44,000 Speaker 3: in cells and the Spread of bianca's picture was the 510 00:30:44,040 --> 00:30:47,160 Speaker 3: in cells and, you know, the messages the horrific messages 511 00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:50,080 Speaker 3: that friends and family. Were receiving that was all all 512 00:30:50,440 --> 00:30:54,000 Speaker 3: that harassment was coming from the in. CELL community i 513 00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:57,480 Speaker 3: mean they were making social, media pages, you know praising 514 00:30:57,560 --> 00:31:01,160 Speaker 3: him as a hero and giving him the attention that 515 00:31:01,200 --> 00:31:05,960 Speaker 3: he was looking for While harassing biaka's family and. Exploiting 516 00:31:05,960 --> 00:31:09,760 Speaker 3: her and do you still get those to? THIS day, i, 517 00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:13,040 Speaker 3: do definitely not, as often but every once in, a 518 00:31:13,040 --> 00:31:16,080 Speaker 3: while like you just never know when you're going to find, 519 00:31:16,120 --> 00:31:18,200 Speaker 3: a post someone's going to tell you about, a post 520 00:31:18,920 --> 00:31:21,880 Speaker 3: when you're going to get. A message but even, you 521 00:31:21,960 --> 00:31:24,440 Speaker 3: know to this day now that her, you know the 522 00:31:24,440 --> 00:31:28,600 Speaker 3: older the kid's youngest kids are, now, eight, fourteen, Fifteen 523 00:31:28,640 --> 00:31:33,680 Speaker 3: sixteen so now it's just this constant fear of are 524 00:31:33,680 --> 00:31:35,719 Speaker 3: they going to come across? The picture are they going 525 00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:38,160 Speaker 3: to come across these posts with these people are saying 526 00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,520 Speaker 3: horrible things about their sister and that she. DESERVED it, 527 00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:42,200 Speaker 3: i mean to, this day if you Go On, biaka's 528 00:31:42,200 --> 00:31:45,960 Speaker 3: instagram there's comments saying that she deserved it and just saying. 529 00:31:46,000 --> 00:31:50,000 Speaker 3: AWFUL things i didn't see the picture for about a 530 00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,880 Speaker 3: year and. A half anytime there was a notification on, 531 00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:56,000 Speaker 3: my phone someone else picked up my. Phone first and 532 00:31:56,040 --> 00:32:01,160 Speaker 3: then about eighteen months after, HER past i was just 533 00:32:01,760 --> 00:32:04,320 Speaker 3: scrolling on my phone one NIGHT and i Got an 534 00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:10,080 Speaker 3: instagram notification and the profile picture was the. Death photo 535 00:32:10,680 --> 00:32:11,240 Speaker 3: what did that do? 536 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:11,400 Speaker 4: To? 537 00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:14,360 Speaker 3: You mentally there's no way to, describe IT because i 538 00:32:14,520 --> 00:32:20,000 Speaker 3: already was just. So broken that was. My baby no 539 00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:22,840 Speaker 3: one should ever have to, see anyone let alone their child. 540 00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:27,400 Speaker 5: Like that so he goes, to trial he does get, 541 00:32:27,840 --> 00:32:31,600 Speaker 5: found guilty and he got twenty five years. To life 542 00:32:31,840 --> 00:32:34,880 Speaker 5: do you feel that you got Justice for brianca or 543 00:32:34,960 --> 00:32:36,280 Speaker 5: that was that enough? 544 00:32:36,280 --> 00:32:36,360 Speaker 1: For? 545 00:32:36,440 --> 00:32:40,480 Speaker 3: YOU no i don't think there's a justice in this situation. 546 00:32:40,560 --> 00:32:43,720 Speaker 3: At all you keep there's no bringing. Her back even 547 00:32:43,720 --> 00:32:46,040 Speaker 3: if he was able to be charged with first degree 548 00:32:46,120 --> 00:32:48,840 Speaker 3: murder and, you know was sentenced to life, WITHOUT parole 549 00:32:49,320 --> 00:32:53,880 Speaker 3: i don't feel. THAT'S justice i. DON'T feel i, don't, know, like, 550 00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:57,000 Speaker 3: yeah okay he's going to set his life. IN prison 551 00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:00,680 Speaker 3: i felt more Justice when bianca's life was Passed In 552 00:33:00,720 --> 00:33:01,480 Speaker 3: New york state. 553 00:33:03,000 --> 00:33:06,080 Speaker 1: We asked him To explain bianca's law as well as 554 00:33:06,120 --> 00:33:07,960 Speaker 1: who helped her make progress. WITH it. 555 00:33:10,800 --> 00:33:14,080 Speaker 3: A couple of Weeks after, brihanca's death we started tracking 556 00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:17,400 Speaker 3: how many times these messages were being sent, to us 557 00:33:17,440 --> 00:33:20,080 Speaker 3: how many like we literally had, exiuse spreadsheets and we 558 00:33:20,120 --> 00:33:22,200 Speaker 3: were tracking where, they were, you know where they were being, 559 00:33:22,320 --> 00:33:25,040 Speaker 3: uploaded to who they were being, sent to how long 560 00:33:25,080 --> 00:33:27,600 Speaker 3: it was taking for them to be, taken down, you 561 00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:29,880 Speaker 3: know if they were, being reported what was the outcome of, 562 00:33:29,920 --> 00:33:33,960 Speaker 3: the report, The response and so we contacted our. Local 563 00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:37,160 Speaker 3: congressmen this is just something that really rocked. Our community 564 00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:41,360 Speaker 3: and he had brought up the, you know we went 565 00:33:41,400 --> 00:33:43,160 Speaker 3: to him for help because we could not get a 566 00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:47,160 Speaker 3: hold of Anyone at Instagram, or facebook and they were 567 00:33:47,200 --> 00:33:52,560 Speaker 3: the main social media platforms that were allowing these pictures to. 568 00:33:52,680 --> 00:33:56,760 Speaker 3: BE shared i know that within like the, First week 569 00:33:57,040 --> 00:34:00,720 Speaker 3: instagram Told the uticul, police, department like we just can't. 570 00:34:00,720 --> 00:34:03,920 Speaker 3: Do anything it's we're just being flooded with. The pictures 571 00:34:03,960 --> 00:34:07,080 Speaker 3: it's being shared. Too often we just can't. Stop it 572 00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:10,879 Speaker 3: they just really overstated what, they did what they were going, 573 00:34:10,920 --> 00:34:13,839 Speaker 3: to do, you know to prevent the pictures from being 574 00:34:13,880 --> 00:34:17,360 Speaker 3: spread they never really followed through, with anything, you know 575 00:34:17,400 --> 00:34:19,319 Speaker 3: and they just they kind of, always, said well, you know, 576 00:34:19,520 --> 00:34:24,880 Speaker 3: our technology it can't, you know. Catch everything so now. 577 00:34:24,719 --> 00:34:28,520 Speaker 8: You have this congressman. On, board yes so what does he? 578 00:34:28,600 --> 00:34:34,560 Speaker 3: Get started he introduced a bail for A Federal beiyanca's law. 579 00:34:34,920 --> 00:34:38,120 Speaker 8: And tell Us what byanca's, law is so it's changed. 580 00:34:38,160 --> 00:34:41,799 Speaker 3: Over time one of our legislative writers actually rode up 581 00:34:41,880 --> 00:34:45,200 Speaker 3: drafted a really, really good in depth version of A 582 00:34:45,200 --> 00:34:48,800 Speaker 3: Federal beyanca's law that would, you know have carve outs 583 00:34:48,880 --> 00:34:52,879 Speaker 3: to repeal section two thirty so that these companies would 584 00:34:52,920 --> 00:34:57,040 Speaker 3: be held liable if these companies are aware of an 585 00:34:57,040 --> 00:35:00,680 Speaker 3: offending picture that goes against, their guidelines and it would be, 586 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:03,600 Speaker 3: you know as defined in, this bill they are then 587 00:35:03,680 --> 00:35:07,000 Speaker 3: liable for making sure that it's not shared on. Their 588 00:35:07,000 --> 00:35:11,799 Speaker 3: platform it would also create a parent's bill of right 589 00:35:12,080 --> 00:35:17,239 Speaker 3: and this basically would force the companies to set up 590 00:35:17,400 --> 00:35:21,200 Speaker 3: a centralized. Crisis, center WHO like, i said when this 591 00:35:21,360 --> 00:35:25,160 Speaker 3: happened to us and these pictures were spreading and, GOING 592 00:35:25,239 --> 00:35:27,640 Speaker 3: viral i was very LUCKY that i had a personal 593 00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,840 Speaker 3: connection to someone. In power most people don't. Have that 594 00:35:31,280 --> 00:35:34,759 Speaker 3: and these companies really do need to have a designated 595 00:35:34,760 --> 00:35:38,080 Speaker 3: crisis center so that you can speak to someone outside 596 00:35:38,120 --> 00:35:41,000 Speaker 3: of the in app reporting that you're just reporting to. 597 00:35:41,040 --> 00:35:45,160 Speaker 3: A computer and it would not only apply to. Graphic 598 00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:48,040 Speaker 3: photos that would, you know, child pornography, child grooming things, 599 00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:51,920 Speaker 3: like that and then it would also make it a 600 00:35:52,160 --> 00:35:55,680 Speaker 3: crime and there would be some, you know civil liability 601 00:35:55,960 --> 00:36:00,680 Speaker 3: for people that are sharing. These photos on the, federal 602 00:36:00,800 --> 00:36:06,040 Speaker 3: level what, Happened nothing it. Got, dropped Unfortunately when biden was, 603 00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:11,319 Speaker 3: in office he had task force dealing with social. Media 604 00:36:11,400 --> 00:36:13,719 Speaker 3: regulation he had social Media task force was it was 605 00:36:13,760 --> 00:36:17,040 Speaker 3: a part Of his Violence against Women. Task Force and 606 00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:20,520 Speaker 3: i've had. Several conversations we've all seen the, you know 607 00:36:20,600 --> 00:36:23,799 Speaker 3: the social media Hearings. In congress Now that trump's, taken, 608 00:36:23,800 --> 00:36:27,480 Speaker 3: over unfortunately that has all kind of. Gone Away even 609 00:36:27,680 --> 00:36:30,680 Speaker 3: Instagram and facebook they've repealed a lot of their community guidelines, 610 00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:35,040 Speaker 3: and regulations so, you know we've really taken a lot of. 611 00:36:35,040 --> 00:36:38,719 Speaker 3: Steps backwards we did Pass A new york state law 612 00:36:38,800 --> 00:36:42,600 Speaker 3: which is it's very limiting because it only Applies To New. 613 00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:45,759 Speaker 3: York state, so basically if that's something's being shared With 614 00:36:45,760 --> 00:36:48,560 Speaker 3: The New york state and that IS. Called Niaka and 615 00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:53,520 Speaker 3: caroline's law that makes it a crime to share crime 616 00:36:53,560 --> 00:36:57,680 Speaker 3: scene photos any kind of graphic crime scene photos with 617 00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:00,960 Speaker 3: the intent, to harm SO that i mean that's always it's, 618 00:37:01,080 --> 00:37:04,640 Speaker 3: very encouraging but it's also it's just very limited because 619 00:37:04,640 --> 00:37:07,560 Speaker 3: it's just a. STATE law, i, mean ideally we need. 620 00:37:07,600 --> 00:37:12,200 Speaker 3: International regulation and THAT'S where i really felt like we had, some, Justice, 621 00:37:12,280 --> 00:37:16,000 Speaker 3: like okay we're. Doing something we are because that's automatically 622 00:37:16,120 --> 00:37:19,520 Speaker 3: like when, THIS happened i just Went into, mamma, Bearmon, 623 00:37:19,680 --> 00:37:22,880 Speaker 3: like okay we're not going to have her more exploited in, 624 00:37:22,920 --> 00:37:25,080 Speaker 3: Her DEATH like i still have to protect. My daughter 625 00:37:25,440 --> 00:37:30,479 Speaker 3: and by working on laws so that other people don't 626 00:37:30,520 --> 00:37:32,560 Speaker 3: have to go through what we went through and we 627 00:37:32,600 --> 00:37:35,680 Speaker 3: are still, going through WAS where i found some JUSTICE 628 00:37:36,000 --> 00:37:38,800 Speaker 3: and i felt like, we were, you know actually doing Something. 629 00:37:38,880 --> 00:37:42,440 Speaker 3: For bianca it's DEFINITELY something i will always. Advocate for 630 00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:45,279 Speaker 3: and it's hard to see the. Harassment online it is 631 00:37:45,360 --> 00:37:49,759 Speaker 3: hard to see people saying negative things and just really 632 00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:52,560 Speaker 3: vile things about. Your daughter, you know my mom always 633 00:37:52,520 --> 00:37:54,839 Speaker 3: does the like consider, the source, you know do we 634 00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:58,640 Speaker 3: really care what these insuls in like the basements or, 635 00:37:58,800 --> 00:38:02,640 Speaker 3: you know with no life, saying right like definitely with, 636 00:38:02,719 --> 00:38:05,920 Speaker 3: The internet i've seen the worst parts Of, the internet 637 00:38:06,160 --> 00:38:08,640 Speaker 3: but the best parts Of, the internet and the people 638 00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:12,040 Speaker 3: telling me how much my daughter helped them even in, 639 00:38:12,040 --> 00:38:15,400 Speaker 3: Her death like the message that she's in her spirit 640 00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:18,560 Speaker 3: and how much like hope people are getting from her 641 00:38:18,600 --> 00:38:21,360 Speaker 3: story and from, you know seeing things that, she's written 642 00:38:21,400 --> 00:38:25,920 Speaker 3: her videos that definitely outweighs the bad and that in 643 00:38:26,000 --> 00:38:29,479 Speaker 3: our darkest, worst times that is definitely what helps carry. 644 00:38:29,560 --> 00:38:33,520 Speaker 3: Us through and my biggest piece of advice is to 645 00:38:33,880 --> 00:38:36,080 Speaker 3: just watch your kids and know what. They're doing PIANK 646 00:38:36,120 --> 00:38:40,320 Speaker 3: and i were. VERY close i manaitored both my children's, 647 00:38:40,360 --> 00:38:42,320 Speaker 3: Social MEDIA so i am not going TO say i 648 00:38:42,360 --> 00:38:44,440 Speaker 3: would never SAY that i always knew exactly what she. 649 00:38:44,480 --> 00:38:46,239 Speaker 3: Was doing she, Was seventeen like she knew how to, 650 00:38:46,320 --> 00:38:48,800 Speaker 3: hide things exactly everything she was doing In. The INTERNET 651 00:38:48,840 --> 00:38:52,600 Speaker 3: but i was pretty knowledgeable About, the internet the, different 652 00:38:52,640 --> 00:38:56,400 Speaker 3: websites the, different apps what was. Going ON and i 653 00:38:56,440 --> 00:38:59,399 Speaker 3: think that that's like the biggest message with your kids 654 00:38:59,480 --> 00:39:00,839 Speaker 3: is just the end or not can be a, great 655 00:39:00,840 --> 00:39:03,280 Speaker 3: place but also it can be. Very dangerous so it's 656 00:39:03,760 --> 00:39:07,840 Speaker 3: very very easy to get indoctrinated in, these dark, evil 657 00:39:07,840 --> 00:39:12,680 Speaker 3: websites and, you know these, intel websites They're, just yeah 658 00:39:12,719 --> 00:39:14,759 Speaker 3: it's such that you can't even, imagine that like that 659 00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:17,440 Speaker 3: people are talking about and like the theories they come, 660 00:39:17,520 --> 00:39:19,800 Speaker 3: up with in the ideals that they have and the messages. 661 00:39:19,800 --> 00:39:23,640 Speaker 3: They're spreading it alters, your brain just as like someone 662 00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:26,560 Speaker 3: that you, would think right is like your average. Normal 663 00:39:26,800 --> 00:39:29,799 Speaker 3: person just you can't tell, me that like reading that 664 00:39:30,040 --> 00:39:31,960 Speaker 3: doesn't alter your brain at some point and if you 665 00:39:32,080 --> 00:39:35,680 Speaker 3: are reading it enough and then you start like connecting. 666 00:39:35,760 --> 00:39:39,840 Speaker 1: With that kim is talking about, echo chambers Which doctor 667 00:39:39,920 --> 00:39:43,520 Speaker 1: lay described to us earlier in. This episode what happened 668 00:39:43,520 --> 00:39:46,280 Speaker 1: To the devin's family is a prime and hideous example 669 00:39:46,440 --> 00:39:50,240 Speaker 1: of what constant negativity and violent messages with no escape. 670 00:39:50,280 --> 00:39:53,680 Speaker 3: Can do and that's the problem With the internet is 671 00:39:54,000 --> 00:39:56,200 Speaker 3: you would never be talking about this stuff out. In, 672 00:39:56,200 --> 00:39:59,560 Speaker 3: public people most people would never be saying these things 673 00:39:59,600 --> 00:40:04,320 Speaker 3: in public now wouldn't be ALLOWED on tv or, streaming 674 00:40:04,360 --> 00:40:08,520 Speaker 3: services any kind of. Cable networks IT'S while, I knew 675 00:40:08,560 --> 00:40:11,640 Speaker 3: i personally knew how special my, daughter was it was 676 00:40:11,719 --> 00:40:14,440 Speaker 3: really really nice to see how special she was to. 677 00:40:14,520 --> 00:40:16,640 Speaker 3: The world and, you know even to, THIS day i 678 00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:19,920 Speaker 3: still get messages and that's amazing, to see, you know 679 00:40:20,040 --> 00:40:23,000 Speaker 3: she really is still making an impact on people. ALL 680 00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:25,319 Speaker 3: over i hate, when people as they said it a 681 00:40:25,320 --> 00:40:27,440 Speaker 3: lot in, the beginning we'll just get off, the internet 682 00:40:27,440 --> 00:40:31,319 Speaker 3: stay off. Social media but why WHY should i not 683 00:40:31,440 --> 00:40:34,240 Speaker 3: be able to Get supports like there are so many 684 00:40:34,280 --> 00:40:38,960 Speaker 3: good support Groups, on facebook, you know for parents that 685 00:40:39,000 --> 00:40:43,120 Speaker 3: have lost, their children or, grief groups and ESPECIALLY. Through covid, 686 00:40:43,160 --> 00:40:45,279 Speaker 3: YOU know covid happened just a few months after. Her 687 00:40:45,320 --> 00:40:49,400 Speaker 3: passing and WHY can i not connect for support or 688 00:40:49,480 --> 00:40:53,560 Speaker 3: stay in contact with my family just because there's a 689 00:40:53,760 --> 00:40:56,440 Speaker 3: certain set of evil people that want to. Ruin THINGS 690 00:40:56,719 --> 00:40:58,879 Speaker 3: so i always hated that when people, Were like i'll just. Stay, 691 00:40:58,880 --> 00:41:03,160 Speaker 3: off no why don't we regulate it and make it safe? 692 00:41:03,160 --> 00:41:09,319 Speaker 3: For everyone it just needs to. BE safer i think 693 00:41:09,360 --> 00:41:12,759 Speaker 3: our laws have not caught up to the technology and. 694 00:41:12,800 --> 00:41:15,560 Speaker 3: THE times, i mean just as recently As The charlie. 695 00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:19,240 Speaker 3: Clark murder no one needs to see someone, getting, shot 696 00:41:19,520 --> 00:41:22,000 Speaker 3: right even like the new channels that, we're showing like 697 00:41:22,040 --> 00:41:25,760 Speaker 3: the blurred, out video you can report on news without 698 00:41:25,800 --> 00:41:28,360 Speaker 3: having to show something That, GRAPHIC like i feel like 699 00:41:28,520 --> 00:41:34,439 Speaker 3: people have just become so desensitized and it's just it's things. 700 00:41:34,480 --> 00:41:37,040 Speaker 3: Like that it's just NOT necessary. I don't i don't 701 00:41:37,120 --> 00:41:41,440 Speaker 3: understand the sensationalism and how people just don't think anything 702 00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:46,320 Speaker 3: of watching someone get shot. AND die i don't, understand 703 00:41:46,360 --> 00:41:50,560 Speaker 3: it but, it definitely, you know our society has just 704 00:41:50,680 --> 00:41:55,799 Speaker 3: become way too desensitized. To violence, so yes we, need 705 00:41:55,880 --> 00:41:59,080 Speaker 3: regulation we. NEED laws i don't Know that i'll ever. 706 00:41:59,120 --> 00:42:01,239 Speaker 3: Accept it how do you accept that your daughter is never? 707 00:42:01,320 --> 00:42:05,280 Speaker 3: Coming home, you know this seventeen year old, Healthy GIRL 708 00:42:06,239 --> 00:42:07,239 Speaker 3: and i. 709 00:42:07,239 --> 00:42:07,799 Speaker 2: DON'T know i. 710 00:42:07,840 --> 00:42:10,800 Speaker 3: DON'T know i think that we just survive. 711 00:42:10,880 --> 00:42:16,799 Speaker 5: Each day was there also a scholarship Formed in? 712 00:42:16,840 --> 00:42:22,000 Speaker 3: Bianca's, name yes so we formed a scholarship and the 713 00:42:22,719 --> 00:42:26,920 Speaker 3: scholarship goes to a college student at our local university 714 00:42:27,000 --> 00:42:32,520 Speaker 3: that is pursuing psychology and specifically with the intent to work. 715 00:42:32,560 --> 00:42:36,680 Speaker 3: With adolescents so kind of a way to help people 716 00:42:37,000 --> 00:42:37,560 Speaker 3: To achieve. 717 00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:43,000 Speaker 1: Bianca's, dream finally We, ASKED kim, i said any final 718 00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:45,080 Speaker 1: ways She'd like bianca's memory to be? 719 00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:50,799 Speaker 3: Carried on Be, like bianca, be kind don't spread negativity on. 720 00:42:50,840 --> 00:42:51,720 Speaker 3: The internet. 721 00:42:54,760 --> 00:42:57,760 Speaker 1: For more information on the case and, relevant photos follow 722 00:42:57,840 --> 00:43:02,360 Speaker 1: Us on Instagram at Kati On. 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