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Speaker 1: Hopefully nothing goes wrong with a baby, but I feel

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Speaker 1: welcome our family who has joined on this live stream.

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Speaker 1: Hey yo oh yep, big guy. Caitlyn Van campuses today's

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Speaker 1: stream will definitely be more tame.

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Speaker 2: What you're talking about?

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Speaker 1: What are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: Time here? You think it could be tamed.

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Speaker 1: We're still gonna say some some out of pocket stuff. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: naughty stuff, not naughty stuff. And so if he's gonna

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Speaker 1: that's what we do for a fan bros. Anyway. Some

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Speaker 1: Every family has one. I honestly don't know what happened,

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Speaker 3: Wooang so much A lot of partying, Yeah, a lot

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Speaker 1: Well, I guess I mean, like, yeah, to get.

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Speaker 2: Kicked out of law school? Is that that hare?

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Speaker 1: Like my degree. That's pretty hard to get kicked out of. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: in law school, it's like you have to keep your

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Speaker 1: a game. Yeah. Also, my mom said I should stop

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Speaker 1: making Golden Child jokes because someone left a comment about

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Speaker 1: but she did not true of what you're doing. It's

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Speaker 1: a joke. We make jokes here anyway, We make.

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Speaker 2: Jokes on this show.

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Speaker 1: Josh tried acting after that, Oh wow, And when that

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Speaker 1: didn't work out, he got a job teaching at a

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Speaker 2: You know, when all else fails.

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Speaker 2: Oh, I was gonna say, teach.

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Speaker 1: Real, that's real. But Josh didn't get his contract renewed

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Speaker 1: Julia are now living with my parents rent free. According

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Speaker 1: any real efforts to find another job. Wow, he sounds delightful,

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Speaker 1: but he's busy. He's drink. He's busy drinking. You know,

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Speaker 1: he's got so many drinks that he's got a drink. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: and there's only one person that's going to do them.

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Speaker 2: Sometimes it's it's your responsibility.

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Speaker 1: It's yeah, exactly. They say, drink responsibly, and I think

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Speaker 3: To drink, you have to show your driver's license to

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Speaker 1: Dude? These are the questions that we should not be asking.

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Speaker 1: But Josh didn't get his contract renewed for this year's

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Speaker 2: It's your fault that I went to law school. You

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Speaker 1: By is, it's five o'clock somewhere. Everyone in my family

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Speaker 2: Oh Well, Josh sounds like a stick in the mud.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Josh is. Josh is sticking in the mud. And

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Speaker 1: Sophia and the freaking grammar Police.

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Speaker 2: It implies something different.

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Speaker 1: Anyway, take this money in your mouth. I can continue

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Speaker 1: Josh is the one who drinks all day, and Ope

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Speaker 1: I'm jealous. Josh is jealous of that. He makes a

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Speaker 2: You're a lawyer.

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Speaker 1: You're a lawyer. You're everything that I wanted to be

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Speaker 1: and more. His nickname for her is Princess. He loves

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Speaker 2: But if this were like a Hallmark movie or something,

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Speaker 1: No, and really it was the brother all along, because

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Speaker 1: Also, he loves to spend time with his family, loves Christmas,

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Speaker 2: It doesn't matter your denominations.

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Speaker 1: Doesn't matter denomination because all the pumpkins are usually something. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: show them the great responsibility that you have. Drink all

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Speaker 1: how Jesus Moon pro pro Jesus Moon shadow a Zeus

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Speaker 1: for turning those cheeks. Don't let them get clapped. Riley

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Speaker 1: is used to rolling with the punches. That's so true.

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Speaker 2: I like her.

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Speaker 1: I like her, you know, like I'm like, oh, like

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Speaker 1: she's just so dorky, Like I hate her.

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Speaker 2: So ugly in like a really hot way.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I would never go after her unless.

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Speaker 1: Like I feel like she dominates the workplace and maybe me.

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Speaker 1: My mom has also asked him to stop being so

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Speaker 1: guess what hasn't gotten any better really quick? There's more

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Speaker 1: I mean like everyone's just like, hey, stop doing that,

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Speaker 1: and he's like, I said, I am Josh.

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Speaker 2: You know. I think that I'm just Josh in the road.

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Speaker 1: And maybe kick out of the kick out of the house. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're living on my dime, mister, living on my dime.

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Speaker 1: Eh, get off my dime and get off the wine too,

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Speaker 1: He's just celebrating. He's just celebrating. He's just a cool

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Josh was like, you know, I've had a couple

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Speaker 3: What why, Oh my god, Oh my god, how can

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Speaker 1: What?

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Speaker 2: Why is Julia in this marriage?

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Speaker 1: I have no idea. Maybe he's hot, what does he provided? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: Because there's no parents and is an a hole.

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Speaker 1: Dude, He's He's probably the hottest drunk dead beat, he

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Speaker 1: Why else? Because obviously his humor is not quite up there. Also,

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Speaker 1: could have died.

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Speaker 2: That's sad.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying. I'm saying, it's like, it's not fine

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Speaker 1: You're a cursing. You know you're putting that out into

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Speaker 1: the universe. You gotta knock on wood, got oh do

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Speaker 1: you knock on wood? Yeah? God right, he always knocks

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Speaker 1: on his yea. He started laughing hysterically, and I can't

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Speaker 1: he said this. I told Josh his comment was not okay. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but instead of shutting up, he continued to laugh and said,

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Speaker 1: the only way, oh man, miss bye, Josh, oh man,

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Speaker 1: I swear I didn't read ahead. You continue to laugh

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Speaker 1: and said the only way it could be anywhere is

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Speaker 1: if she died too.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, Oh my.

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Speaker 1: God, don't look at me. Wow. I can't believe someone

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Speaker 2: Promote violence, But Nicky Bordeaux, I see you, but bye,

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Speaker 2: Was, it happened. It happened. It's not like saying I mean,

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Speaker 1: Says, I don't like violence. That's fair, you know what. Honestly,

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Speaker 2: Remind me who Ryan is?

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Speaker 1: There we go. That's crisp, Chris, oh right there? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: So I gotta call Riley. Okay. So oh wait, I

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Speaker 1: said it didn't help matters by punching him since it

436
00:25:03,600 --> 00:25:05,879
Speaker 1: just upset Riley more. But it's never okay to resort

437
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Speaker 1: to violence, which I agree, Which I agree. Basically, she

438
00:25:09,320 --> 00:25:12,200
Speaker 1: thinks Josh Oh's Riley an apology, but I owe Josh

439
00:25:12,200 --> 00:25:15,200
Speaker 1: an apology for hitting him, and my dad an apology

440
00:25:15,240 --> 00:25:19,439
Speaker 1: for ruining his birthday. What do you think? What do

441
00:25:19,440 --> 00:25:23,560
Speaker 1: you think? Sophia? Eric? Eric question for you? Yeah, all right,

442
00:25:23,640 --> 00:25:26,919
Speaker 1: let's say I was a massive douche to you and

443
00:25:26,960 --> 00:25:30,240
Speaker 1: then you and I like I like, real said some

444
00:25:30,520 --> 00:25:32,960
Speaker 1: terrible things and you punched me in the face, but

445
00:25:33,040 --> 00:25:35,720
Speaker 1: then the good dust settles. Would you apologize to me

446
00:25:35,840 --> 00:25:38,320
Speaker 1: if I apologize to you? Yeah, yeah, I think I

447
00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 1: have a relationship.

448
00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, But it seems like Josh and Op's relationship

449
00:25:43,520 --> 00:25:47,640
Speaker 2: has kind of deteriorated a lot over the years because

450
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:52,760
Speaker 2: of Josh's continued bad behavior towards Opie's wife. So I

451
00:25:53,040 --> 00:25:57,560
Speaker 2: think that like this would be us we have a

452
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Speaker 2: horrible relationship.

453
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Speaker 1: Yeah, but I still think, like, like I guess, going

454
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:05,280
Speaker 1: from a place of having a good relationship, I think

455
00:26:05,320 --> 00:26:09,360
Speaker 1: you can still say, Okay, it's still good to apologize

456
00:26:09,359 --> 00:26:12,640
Speaker 1: for a bad action, like you really shouldn't ever punch someone,

457
00:26:12,840 --> 00:26:16,240
Speaker 1: even though like there was a lot that was said

458
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Speaker 1: to that that that that you know, that to provoke

459
00:26:20,600 --> 00:26:24,640
Speaker 1: really like you should never be hitting people, like that's

460
00:26:24,800 --> 00:26:26,400
Speaker 1: that's not something that we can don't on the show.

461
00:26:26,400 --> 00:26:29,040
Speaker 1: We never candone violence, even if things that are said

462
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:34,640
Speaker 1: or are terrible. So I see what the mom is saying.

463
00:26:35,920 --> 00:26:41,360
Speaker 1: I think you. I don't I think you. I think

464
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Speaker 1: like if we're looking at the most angelic thing here

465
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Speaker 1: is is uh or if what I would do is

466
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Speaker 1: I would apologize to Josh and say, hey, I'm sorry

467
00:26:51,400 --> 00:26:54,080
Speaker 1: I hit you, but you cannot like talk to my

468
00:26:54,160 --> 00:26:57,439
Speaker 1: wife like that. And in fact, it's gonna take me

469
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Speaker 1: a long time for you to build up trust for

470
00:27:00,680 --> 00:27:04,600
Speaker 1: you to ever see her or my family again. And

471
00:27:04,640 --> 00:27:07,840
Speaker 1: this could take years or it could be never. But

472
00:27:07,880 --> 00:27:09,560
Speaker 1: the first step that I need to see is like

473
00:27:09,880 --> 00:27:12,080
Speaker 1: you being sober, I will not be around you.

474
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Speaker 2: I think that's a great way to say it, because

475
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:16,120
Speaker 2: I was going to say I don't think he owes

476
00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:19,000
Speaker 2: Josh a relationship, because no, the mom's like, oh, you

477
00:27:19,000 --> 00:27:20,400
Speaker 2: need to support him. I don't think he does.

478
00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:21,639
Speaker 1: No, No, I think he's.

479
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:23,800
Speaker 2: Been hurt by Josh. But I do think that's a

480
00:27:23,840 --> 00:27:27,199
Speaker 2: good conversation to have with his brother and say, you know,

481
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:29,160
Speaker 2: sorry for hitting you, but.

482
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Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, so, yeah, sorry for hitting you. You kind

483
00:27:32,160 --> 00:27:36,879
Speaker 1: of deserved it, but like the hitting's never justified, and

484
00:27:37,040 --> 00:27:38,600
Speaker 1: I don't want to see you for a while. You

485
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:40,439
Speaker 1: go need to go to your own work to be sober.

486
00:27:40,600 --> 00:27:42,800
Speaker 1: When you're sober, we can start trying to have a

487
00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,720
Speaker 1: relationship yet, but I'm not going to subject my wife

488
00:27:45,720 --> 00:27:48,800
Speaker 1: to your presence until I'm sure you won't do the damage.

489
00:27:48,840 --> 00:27:51,840
Speaker 1: You just did and that will take a while. Yeah, yeah,

490
00:27:52,000 --> 00:27:53,560
Speaker 1: I imagine our petty audience.

491
00:27:55,440 --> 00:27:57,919
Speaker 2: What dash of startus is basically, I'm sorry I did it,

492
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Speaker 2: but not sorry why which.

493
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Speaker 1: I yeah, yeah, I like that. I like that. But

494
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:10,960
Speaker 1: let's check in with with our with the okay fam. Yeah,

495
00:28:11,040 --> 00:28:13,080
Speaker 1: I saw someone say so fil it's cute today. Oh

496
00:28:13,119 --> 00:28:17,200
Speaker 1: I thought it was relevant. Right now, we have eighty

497
00:28:17,280 --> 00:28:20,919
Speaker 1: one percent of y'all saying do not apologize, nah, and

498
00:28:21,000 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 1: twenty three percent of y'all saying to apologize, which is

499
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:27,160
Speaker 1: more than, you know, than usual. I think we maybe

500
00:28:27,359 --> 00:28:29,640
Speaker 1: swaying some people to be a little bit, a little

501
00:28:29,640 --> 00:28:32,240
Speaker 1: bit nice there, a little bit, a little bit universally

502
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:33,080
Speaker 1: turning cheeks.

503
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Speaker 2: I also, I don't think that this apology is is again,

504
00:28:36,480 --> 00:28:39,920
Speaker 2: I don't think it's saying O pos a relationship.

505
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 1: No, No, I don't think that's what that's because then

506
00:28:42,720 --> 00:28:45,560
Speaker 1: that's not fair to you that that's especially not fair

507
00:28:45,600 --> 00:28:49,360
Speaker 1: to Riley. No. No, you don't want to subject someone who, uh,

508
00:28:50,120 --> 00:28:51,640
Speaker 1: get out of here, Jony.

509
00:28:51,360 --> 00:28:53,440
Speaker 2: Poney, anybody that's so many, get out.

510
00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:55,880
Speaker 1: Of here, get out of here? A lot like can

511
00:28:55,920 --> 00:28:58,160
Speaker 1: we can we can? We? Uh? Can we A pause

512
00:28:58,200 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 1: her so she can't do any more comments. That's what

513
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:02,760
Speaker 1: you get what you mean to unless you're being unless

514
00:29:02,800 --> 00:29:04,840
Speaker 1: you're being unless you're being sarcastic. Way, it was down,

515
00:29:04,880 --> 00:29:05,800
Speaker 1: it was down, It was down.

516
00:29:05,920 --> 00:29:08,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, make it known if you're being in jest.

517
00:29:08,160 --> 00:29:10,560
Speaker 1: Yeah yeah, if you're doing Yeah, you better quick because

518
00:29:10,560 --> 00:29:13,480
Speaker 1: you're about to ban ban your booty. Uh a jony

519
00:29:13,480 --> 00:29:20,680
Speaker 1: pony right there? Oh hell yeah? All right? Uh anyway,

520
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 1: so we do out a little bit more to this story.

521
00:29:26,360 --> 00:29:28,560
Speaker 1: I haven't spoken to my wife about any of this,

522
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:30,800
Speaker 1: since I don't want to put any more stress on her,

523
00:29:31,040 --> 00:29:33,800
Speaker 1: but I don't plan and apologizing or even thinking about

524
00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:36,320
Speaker 1: letting her near your josh again. I don't like violence,

525
00:29:36,320 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 1: but I don't feel bad for punching my brother at all.

526
00:29:38,480 --> 00:29:40,200
Speaker 1: I also know he has a drinking problem and that

527
00:29:40,280 --> 00:29:43,720
Speaker 1: he probably wouldn't have said those things sober, but it

528
00:29:43,840 --> 00:29:50,600
Speaker 1: was still unforgivable in my eyes. So am I the

529
00:29:50,680 --> 00:29:53,520
Speaker 1: a hole for escalating things and not being open to

530
00:29:53,560 --> 00:29:57,920
Speaker 1: forgiving my brother after he gets help. Any advice would

531
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Speaker 1: be appreciated.

532
00:30:01,440 --> 00:30:02,960
Speaker 2: So I think we gave the advice?

533
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:03,760
Speaker 1: Is yeah?

534
00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:08,760
Speaker 2: I honestly I think we gave I agree, good job, but.

535
00:30:08,760 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 1: Let me know in the comments you guys think of

536
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:12,600
Speaker 1: if you think like anything different or you think I'm

537
00:30:12,640 --> 00:30:21,280
Speaker 1: a silly goose, dirty buddy, we won't pan you, dude,

538
00:30:21,320 --> 00:30:25,840
Speaker 1: I'm coming. I'm coming for you. Watch out, watch out.

539
00:30:26,400 --> 00:30:28,640
Speaker 1: But yeah, that's where that story ends. Yes, yeah, I

540
00:30:28,640 --> 00:30:31,440
Speaker 1: think generally not the a whole because it was like

541
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:34,560
Speaker 1: a like a actually justified a whole move. I agree

542
00:30:34,600 --> 00:30:36,840
Speaker 1: because you should never. You should never. So I don't

543
00:30:36,840 --> 00:30:38,760
Speaker 1: think not the ale. I think justified a whole. I

544
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Speaker 1: think so that's just different.

545
00:30:39,880 --> 00:30:43,400
Speaker 2: I think any sort of violent act not in defense

546
00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:48,440
Speaker 2: is a justified a whole, well, not any, but I

547
00:30:48,480 --> 00:30:51,760
Speaker 2: was saying, any sort of violent act not in defense

548
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:56,640
Speaker 2: isn't a whole move, but some are justified. Yes, yes, yes, yes, Okay,

549
00:30:57,160 --> 00:31:00,360
Speaker 2: let's get into the next doorge, get it in through

550
00:31:00,440 --> 00:31:03,120
Speaker 2: the next story. It's like an absence at school.

551
00:31:03,280 --> 00:31:07,680
Speaker 1: Some are excused, You're still still not good.

552
00:31:08,720 --> 00:31:09,760
Speaker 2: Still goes on your record.

553
00:31:09,840 --> 00:31:12,360
Speaker 1: Oh donos, let's hit those donus.

554
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:14,240
Speaker 2: And also, yes, these are overalls and I don't know

555
00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:16,240
Speaker 2: where I got them because I got them thrifted.

556
00:31:16,280 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 1: Sarah Francis, thank you for the two months of membership.

557
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:23,280
Speaker 1: I wanted to drop my favorite story this guy got

558
00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:27,320
Speaker 1: paid to do nothing. Sam's first solo story. Oh thank you.

559
00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,960
Speaker 1: We haven't done solo stories in a while because it's

560
00:31:30,960 --> 00:31:33,800
Speaker 1: more fun to record together. So it's true, or actually

561
00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:35,200
Speaker 1: that's not true. We did the solo like I was

562
00:31:35,200 --> 00:31:37,480
Speaker 1: about to say, we did it, but we haven't done

563
00:31:37,520 --> 00:31:40,400
Speaker 1: like like a lot of like long solos like an

564
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Speaker 1: hour more.

565
00:31:41,240 --> 00:31:44,720
Speaker 2: Oh, like Riley, I do them all the time, you know,

566
00:31:44,880 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 2: but you're you're with Riley.

567
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:48,680
Speaker 1: Oh you were just doing solos just like in a

568
00:31:48,920 --> 00:31:51,160
Speaker 1: like no One. Yeah, it was like this is like

569
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:54,960
Speaker 1: a year ago Jonespebadola burkewtz things are the two sixty

570
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Speaker 1: like the stream, Oh your face is hitting the pavement,

571
00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:03,720
Speaker 1: justified a hole, Lindsey can't stay for long. But like

572
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Speaker 1: the stream. Thanks who what twenty three those who Wadola Burquez,

573
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Speaker 1: Thanks for the two sixty alcohol shows your true colors

574
00:32:10,600 --> 00:32:14,040
Speaker 1: filter is gone. You want to hit this know me?

575
00:32:14,080 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 2: Thank you for the five gifted memberships, and also anyone

576
00:32:17,800 --> 00:32:19,840
Speaker 2: who got one of those memberships staysay, thank you.

577
00:32:20,000 --> 00:32:22,959
Speaker 1: Thank you, We see you, We see Dark Maiden Gabby

578
00:32:23,080 --> 00:32:26,880
Speaker 1: Jay Nerdy by Nature, Saffy Daffy, Emily Williams.

579
00:32:26,360 --> 00:32:28,720
Speaker 2: Exciting and Ouzzye girl in an art shop. Thank you

580
00:32:28,720 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 2: for the five gifted memberships and also again to those

581
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 2: five people who got that, so thank you.

582
00:32:35,320 --> 00:32:39,000
Speaker 3: And Mama Stormy for the twenty dollars sticker.

583
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Speaker 1: We appreciate it.

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Speaker 3: You see that the stickers don't show up here for

585
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Speaker 3: some reason.

586
00:32:43,880 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 1: Em sometimes watch this solo today. Wow, whoa crazy? But

587
00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:58,000
Speaker 1: let's get into this next story. This is go on.

588
00:32:58,680 --> 00:33:02,600
Speaker 2: My siblings received one hundred and fifty thousand dollars each

589
00:33:02,680 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 2: from our inheritance, but still expect me to share mine.

590
00:33:06,880 --> 00:33:09,520
Speaker 2: And also kind of relevant because we have an inheritance

591
00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 2: game show that you.

592
00:33:10,320 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 1: Guys can submit right now for Is there a link

593
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Speaker 1: anywhere that they could get righty.

594
00:33:15,080 --> 00:33:16,720
Speaker 2: There is a link so many places.

595
00:33:16,800 --> 00:33:19,520
Speaker 1: Get in the chat now. Ooh yeah, if you have

596
00:33:19,520 --> 00:33:23,080
Speaker 1: an inheritance story and you want to come on our show,

597
00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 1: talk to us live.

598
00:33:25,040 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 2: Just live and also a sweet body. We did feel

599
00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:30,400
Speaker 2: the earthquake woke me up. I was rising bigger. It

600
00:33:30,480 --> 00:33:32,680
Speaker 2: was a five point one, which is in the epicenter,

601
00:33:32,800 --> 00:33:34,000
Speaker 2: was like twenty minutes from us.

602
00:33:34,240 --> 00:33:37,200
Speaker 1: Yeah, it was close. It was close. The whole pier

603
00:33:37,360 --> 00:33:38,800
Speaker 1: was going like this one was running.

604
00:33:39,120 --> 00:33:44,520
Speaker 2: But let's run into this story goop. I thirty seven female,

605
00:33:44,640 --> 00:33:48,320
Speaker 2: have two siblings, forty three male and twenty nine female.

606
00:33:48,680 --> 00:33:50,360
Speaker 2: For the sake of the post, I will call them

607
00:33:50,440 --> 00:33:53,680
Speaker 2: Mason and Brittany. Our father died when we were young

608
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:57,560
Speaker 2: due to an undiagnosed heart problem. His parents had gifted

609
00:33:57,600 --> 00:33:59,920
Speaker 2: them an old family homestead on a lot of land

610
00:34:00,080 --> 00:34:01,920
Speaker 2: at their wedding and helped a lot to keep her

611
00:34:01,960 --> 00:34:06,080
Speaker 2: family above water before they passed. Our mother finally found

612
00:34:06,120 --> 00:34:09,200
Speaker 2: her feet after about five years of deeper depression and

613
00:34:09,320 --> 00:34:12,320
Speaker 2: did well for our family. But she was also very frugal.

614
00:34:12,480 --> 00:34:14,759
Speaker 1: They have five years of deep depression.

615
00:34:14,840 --> 00:34:18,360
Speaker 2: That's really hard trying to take care of three kids.

616
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Speaker 1: While being deeply depressed.

617
00:34:20,200 --> 00:34:23,719
Speaker 2: Ough, we had good clothing but or maybe I don't

618
00:34:23,719 --> 00:34:25,200
Speaker 2: know if they were kids at the time, but still,

619
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Speaker 2: but she was also very frugal. We had good clothing,

620
00:34:28,120 --> 00:34:31,360
Speaker 2: but no fancy vacations. Our mother had ignored signs of

621
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Speaker 2: bad health for years, even when we tried to get

622
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:36,359
Speaker 2: her to go see someone for it. She passed away

623
00:34:36,480 --> 00:34:40,799
Speaker 2: recently due to late stage cancer, leaving us with a lot.

624
00:34:41,640 --> 00:34:44,160
Speaker 2: By the way, this comes from unlikely cap on the

625
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Speaker 2: am I the ale would I be the ale public

626
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Speaker 2: sepparate it. So my siblings each got more than one

627
00:34:50,239 --> 00:34:54,279
Speaker 2: hundred and fifty thousand dollars in money, sentimental but expensive

628
00:34:54,360 --> 00:34:58,480
Speaker 2: items and furniture. I did not get the money I

629
00:34:58,600 --> 00:35:01,960
Speaker 2: received the house, land and some items.

630
00:35:02,200 --> 00:35:05,919
Speaker 1: Okay, so I mean but basically potentially actually got even

631
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:08,759
Speaker 1: more than maybe got more. I mean, like, what house

632
00:35:08,880 --> 00:35:11,880
Speaker 1: is less than one hundred and fifty k.

633
00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:16,479
Speaker 2: It seems like it was a fairly large house with land.

634
00:35:16,640 --> 00:35:19,240
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah you got Have you got land and house

635
00:35:19,400 --> 00:35:21,799
Speaker 1: like that looked out? Yeah you got it locked out

636
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:22,160
Speaker 1: for sure.

637
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:24,560
Speaker 2: The house and land, which had been sold off bit

638
00:35:24,640 --> 00:35:27,040
Speaker 2: by bit over the years due to my mom's declining

639
00:35:27,120 --> 00:35:30,760
Speaker 2: health and inability to properly tend to it, is worth

640
00:35:30,960 --> 00:35:33,920
Speaker 2: far below the one hundred and fifty thousand dollars my siblings.

641
00:35:34,000 --> 00:35:36,719
Speaker 1: Yes, wow, okay, well that kind of sucks that. Where

642
00:35:36,719 --> 00:35:38,160
Speaker 1: are they in America?

643
00:35:38,200 --> 00:35:40,480
Speaker 2: Well, they're saying that the house was sold off, so

644
00:35:40,600 --> 00:35:43,319
Speaker 2: it got smaller and smaller, and also it was depreciating

645
00:35:43,360 --> 00:35:43,840
Speaker 2: in value.

646
00:35:44,320 --> 00:35:46,719
Speaker 1: The house was sold off or the land was sold off.

647
00:35:48,040 --> 00:35:52,520
Speaker 1: The land, sorry, the land, so they probably okay, so

648
00:35:52,600 --> 00:35:54,720
Speaker 1: they probably had like a couple of acres of land

649
00:35:55,719 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 1: then sold but okay, I understand, I understand. I'm there.

650
00:35:58,560 --> 00:36:00,319
Speaker 2: I had moved in with my mother and or her

651
00:36:00,480 --> 00:36:02,840
Speaker 2: end and it really was only supposed to be temporary,

652
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,160
Speaker 2: as I believe the house would be sold after her

653
00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:08,920
Speaker 2: passing and the money split three ways. I already had

654
00:36:08,960 --> 00:36:11,080
Speaker 2: a plan to roommate with a friend and her family

655
00:36:11,160 --> 00:36:13,640
Speaker 2: after mom's death to make the process go more smoothly.

656
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:16,640
Speaker 2: Most of my stuff had been sitting in storage for

657
00:36:16,760 --> 00:36:20,480
Speaker 2: almost a year. As the one was the only one

658
00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:22,439
Speaker 2: who worked from home, I could watch the home health

659
00:36:22,480 --> 00:36:24,920
Speaker 2: workers and nurses to make sure they were being kind,

660
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:29,040
Speaker 2: doing their jobs and not stealing. Mostly it was to

661
00:36:29,080 --> 00:36:31,600
Speaker 2: make sure they treated my mother with respect and kindness.

662
00:36:32,040 --> 00:36:34,360
Speaker 2: But my brother did worry about someone walking off with

663
00:36:34,440 --> 00:36:36,480
Speaker 2: her wedding rings since she was so attached to it.

664
00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:39,560
Speaker 2: We all agreed for it to be placed in with

665
00:36:39,719 --> 00:36:40,320
Speaker 2: her ashes.

666
00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:43,319
Speaker 1: Oh the wedding ring. Yeah, okay, that's kind of cute.

667
00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:47,080
Speaker 1: It's sentimental. Yeah. Also really quick on the inheritance stories,

668
00:36:47,120 --> 00:36:48,920
Speaker 1: if you guys want to submit, it can be an

669
00:36:48,920 --> 00:36:52,160
Speaker 1: inheritance where you like had some kind of windfall. But

670
00:36:52,320 --> 00:36:55,400
Speaker 1: also if you got nothing and it was like a

671
00:36:55,560 --> 00:36:59,480
Speaker 1: crazy story, that is good too, because what were the Basically,

672
00:36:59,520 --> 00:37:02,480
Speaker 1: it's going to be one person got a bunch of

673
00:37:02,520 --> 00:37:05,120
Speaker 1: money and then everyone else maybe didn't. I got said,

674
00:37:05,320 --> 00:37:06,920
Speaker 1: and it's gonna be a game show style, so we're

675
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:09,239
Speaker 1: trying to guess who actually got got the money and such.

676
00:37:09,400 --> 00:37:11,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, a dash of starta says Opie took care of

677
00:37:11,840 --> 00:37:15,640
Speaker 2: the mom and she wanted to reward that, so maybe

678
00:37:15,719 --> 00:37:22,040
Speaker 2: she was Opie was expecting to get more. My siblings

679
00:37:22,160 --> 00:37:24,799
Speaker 2: came by frequently, three to six times a week, each

680
00:37:24,840 --> 00:37:28,000
Speaker 2: of them Mason had two kids and Brittany only as one.

681
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:30,799
Speaker 2: But they visited as well, though not as much near

682
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,080
Speaker 2: to the end because it was hard for them. So

683
00:37:33,400 --> 00:37:35,520
Speaker 2: in the weeks leading up to her death, my mom

684
00:37:35,600 --> 00:37:37,680
Speaker 2: had me pack up what items went to who in

685
00:37:37,840 --> 00:37:41,040
Speaker 2: large boxes and set them off to the side. My

686
00:37:41,120 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 2: siblings hated me doing this, but understood it was what

687
00:37:44,080 --> 00:37:47,600
Speaker 2: she wanted. The will was read, they checked their boxes

688
00:37:47,640 --> 00:37:49,799
Speaker 2: to make sure my mom didn't miss anything when telling

689
00:37:49,880 --> 00:37:52,760
Speaker 2: me to pack, and they left me to my house.

690
00:37:53,480 --> 00:37:56,360
Speaker 2: Weeks passed and I finally felt like I could start

691
00:37:56,600 --> 00:37:57,960
Speaker 2: doing things to the house.

692
00:37:58,239 --> 00:38:01,879
Speaker 1: So basically, Opeek took care of most of the yes,

693
00:38:02,640 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 1: the splitting up all of his or the mother's effects, belongings,

694
00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:09,600
Speaker 1: and affects. Yeah.

695
00:38:11,160 --> 00:38:13,759
Speaker 2: Now, I did say the house was dingy. It's not

696
00:38:13,960 --> 00:38:16,319
Speaker 2: worth one hundred and fifty thousand, but the housing market

697
00:38:16,440 --> 00:38:18,279
Speaker 2: is crazy, so I thought it was a bit of luck.

698
00:38:18,680 --> 00:38:21,720
Speaker 2: It needs repairs, the roof, the chimney, the water heaters,

699
00:38:21,800 --> 00:38:25,320
Speaker 2: some pipes, the doors and windows for heating purposes, and

700
00:38:25,600 --> 00:38:28,800
Speaker 2: everything inside is so darkly painted or made of wood

701
00:38:28,960 --> 00:38:31,960
Speaker 2: that it just sucks out all of the light. I

702
00:38:31,960 --> 00:38:34,800
Speaker 2: immediately had people checking the roof, the chimney, and the

703
00:38:34,880 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 2: water heater. My siblings offered to lend me the money,

704
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:39,680
Speaker 2: but I declined as I had been saving for a

705
00:38:39,760 --> 00:38:42,719
Speaker 2: while to buy an apartment or something small. Since it's

706
00:38:42,760 --> 00:38:45,600
Speaker 2: only me, I could also rent rooms for the local

707
00:38:45,680 --> 00:38:47,399
Speaker 2: college students to get some of the money back.

708
00:38:47,680 --> 00:38:52,200
Speaker 1: Oh cool, and college students will accept except any circumstance. Yeah,

709
00:38:52,360 --> 00:38:54,880
Speaker 1: if it's cheap, they'll take it. Yeah, dude, if it

710
00:38:55,000 --> 00:38:57,640
Speaker 1: has a rat, honestly cool. I won't be looking at

711
00:38:57,640 --> 00:38:58,120
Speaker 1: the roommate.

712
00:38:59,560 --> 00:39:02,120
Speaker 2: I picked out paints for different rooms, but decided to

713
00:39:02,200 --> 00:39:03,080
Speaker 2: leave the wood flooring.

714
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:03,560
Speaker 1: That's good.

715
00:39:04,200 --> 00:39:06,319
Speaker 2: As I started going through everything in the house which

716
00:39:06,360 --> 00:39:09,160
Speaker 2: had specifically been left to me As stated in the will.

717
00:39:09,640 --> 00:39:13,160
Speaker 2: I began finding things. Money in books and there are

718
00:39:13,360 --> 00:39:17,799
Speaker 2: so many books. Money taped under beds, money folded into

719
00:39:17,880 --> 00:39:21,480
Speaker 2: the fancy sheets, money hidden in the teapots and cups

720
00:39:21,520 --> 00:39:23,560
Speaker 2: that had passed down in the family which we had

721
00:39:23,640 --> 00:39:28,359
Speaker 2: never been allowed to touch. Break everywhere, money everywhere.

722
00:39:28,520 --> 00:39:30,439
Speaker 1: Oh, they're the old school money.

723
00:39:30,560 --> 00:39:33,080
Speaker 2: Hide you don't take it the bank.

724
00:39:33,320 --> 00:39:36,160
Speaker 1: The bank might run unless it's FDIC inshirt.

725
00:39:37,719 --> 00:39:38,839
Speaker 2: Is that a freak sponsorship?

726
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:42,040
Speaker 1: No, fdic insurt is just like the federal something. Oh,

727
00:39:42,320 --> 00:39:44,319
Speaker 1: I see like the fdic churt up to.

728
00:39:46,800 --> 00:39:49,800
Speaker 2: I found jewelry in different boxes, hidden in the attic,

729
00:39:49,920 --> 00:39:52,640
Speaker 2: the vents, in sock drawers. Some of it was so

730
00:39:52,880 --> 00:39:55,040
Speaker 2: gaudy it had to be costumed. But I put it

731
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:58,640
Speaker 2: all together, thank goodness I did, and took it to

732
00:39:58,760 --> 00:39:59,440
Speaker 2: be appraised.

733
00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:01,799
Speaker 1: This is kind of like an Easter egg hunt. Yeah,

734
00:40:02,080 --> 00:40:02,919
Speaker 1: sounds fun.

735
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:05,000
Speaker 2: Oh if he gets his house and then finds out

736
00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:08,799
Speaker 2: there's like hidden passages and then there's a mystery.

737
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 1: That sounds awesome. Die, I'm going to hide everything in

738
00:40:12,239 --> 00:40:13,040
Speaker 1: a bunch of different places.

739
00:40:13,120 --> 00:40:15,160
Speaker 2: When I die, I'm going to make so many hidden

740
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:21,279
Speaker 2: passages in my house with like a whole like scavenger hunt.

741
00:40:21,360 --> 00:40:23,640
Speaker 2: There's going to be a note that says the money

742
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:27,600
Speaker 2: is dot but like there's like blood on it.

743
00:40:28,239 --> 00:40:30,480
Speaker 1: Yeah, it's gonna be. And you have to like sequence

744
00:40:30,560 --> 00:40:32,759
Speaker 1: the DNA to find the cordinets too.

745
00:40:33,160 --> 00:40:35,520
Speaker 2: I'm going to host a murder mystery party.

746
00:40:35,880 --> 00:40:38,560
Speaker 1: But for my death, you're gonna go to glass Onion.

747
00:40:38,640 --> 00:40:39,720
Speaker 1: It classic.

748
00:40:40,320 --> 00:40:46,120
Speaker 2: Yes, the worth of the jewelry is nearly half of

749
00:40:46,239 --> 00:40:48,560
Speaker 2: what my siblings got. Even the would be cost of

750
00:40:48,600 --> 00:40:52,640
Speaker 2: jewelry is worth something. Even now, I'm still finding things.

751
00:40:53,120 --> 00:40:56,480
Speaker 2: Oh my god, so half of one hundred and fifty thousand.

752
00:40:56,520 --> 00:40:57,240
Speaker 2: That's crazy.

753
00:40:57,480 --> 00:41:00,360
Speaker 1: Wait, so I'm half one hundred fifty thousand is what

754
00:41:00,560 --> 00:41:01,720
Speaker 1: op has found.

755
00:41:02,040 --> 00:41:04,120
Speaker 2: The worth of the jewelry is nearly half of what

756
00:41:04,200 --> 00:41:08,800
Speaker 2: my siblings got. So not only did op get the house,

757
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:11,360
Speaker 2: which is not worth exactly one hundred and fifty thousand,

758
00:41:11,400 --> 00:41:14,160
Speaker 2: but they also maybe even a little bit under like

759
00:41:14,200 --> 00:41:15,960
Speaker 2: one hundred thousand even.

760
00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:19,719
Speaker 1: So Opie's make it, Opie's make it out. Yeah, let's go.

761
00:41:20,640 --> 00:41:24,440
Speaker 2: Even now, I'm still finding things. I found antique items,

762
00:41:24,560 --> 00:41:28,719
Speaker 2: fancy watches, untouched clothing and bags with price tags still

763
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:32,040
Speaker 2: on them, belts and shoes still in their boxes. All

764
00:41:32,239 --> 00:41:35,080
Speaker 2: of this was tucked away, apparently hidden and not talked about.

765
00:41:35,760 --> 00:41:38,680
Speaker 2: Some of the clothing still had receipts, and since neither

766
00:41:38,760 --> 00:41:41,080
Speaker 2: I nor my sister can wear them, I took them

767
00:41:41,120 --> 00:41:42,759
Speaker 2: back to see if I could get the refunds or

768
00:41:42,800 --> 00:41:46,840
Speaker 2: start selling them online. Since again everything left in the

769
00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:52,080
Speaker 2: house was specifically left to me, I took the cash

770
00:41:52,160 --> 00:41:54,160
Speaker 2: and used it to help pay for the immediate repairs,

771
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:57,040
Speaker 2: and it almost covered the whole thing. I looked through

772
00:41:57,080 --> 00:42:00,000
Speaker 2: the jewelry and kept what I like, which was very little,

773
00:42:00,160 --> 00:42:01,879
Speaker 2: as I'm not into that sort of thing, and put

774
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:05,280
Speaker 2: aside some for my sister and my brother's daughter. That's considerate,

775
00:42:05,680 --> 00:42:09,880
Speaker 2: that's nice. I liquidated the rest and put that into savings.

776
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:12,240
Speaker 2: I also put aside some of the bags and belts

777
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:15,439
Speaker 2: and watches for my siblings and their families. We can't

778
00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:18,360
Speaker 2: fit the clothes, but those things are easier to swap around.

779
00:42:19,719 --> 00:42:23,200
Speaker 2: I invited everyone over and gifted them the items, telling

780
00:42:23,280 --> 00:42:25,400
Speaker 2: them I had found them while I was cleaning everything

781
00:42:25,400 --> 00:42:28,279
Speaker 2: out and thought they might like to have them. Everyone

782
00:42:28,520 --> 00:42:30,760
Speaker 2: was happy to get them, and there wasn't much bickering

783
00:42:30,800 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 2: among the kids. They asked what else I found, and

784
00:42:33,560 --> 00:42:36,000
Speaker 2: I explained the jewelry I kept and the clothing I

785
00:42:36,160 --> 00:42:37,920
Speaker 2: was selling off my brother.

786
00:42:38,120 --> 00:42:42,160
Speaker 1: Oh no, oh no, but I see you at the chat.

787
00:42:42,239 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 1: If you know what's coming. Oh God, this is going

788
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:46,879
Speaker 1: to be bad. Yea yay.

789
00:42:48,000 --> 00:42:49,960
Speaker 2: My brother got a weird look on his face and

790
00:42:50,120 --> 00:42:52,360
Speaker 2: asked if I had found any money.

791
00:42:53,040 --> 00:42:53,480
Speaker 1: Uh oh.

792
00:42:54,719 --> 00:42:56,840
Speaker 2: I told him I had, but tried to downplay it

793
00:42:56,880 --> 00:43:00,879
Speaker 2: as mostly change and loose bills. He asked to see

794
00:43:00,920 --> 00:43:03,800
Speaker 2: the money, and I grabbed a giant water refilled container

795
00:43:03,880 --> 00:43:06,640
Speaker 2: I had started storing all the coins in. He told

796
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:08,480
Speaker 2: me that was a lot of coins and asked if

797
00:43:08,520 --> 00:43:10,439
Speaker 2: I was going to use it for the laundry mat

798
00:43:10,520 --> 00:43:13,120
Speaker 2: since I left them all loose. I rolled my eyes

799
00:43:13,200 --> 00:43:16,120
Speaker 2: because I have a washer dryer set. I told them

800
00:43:16,120 --> 00:43:18,400
Speaker 2: there was no point in cashing them in until I

801
00:43:18,480 --> 00:43:20,880
Speaker 2: cleaned the whole house. He told me to let them

802
00:43:20,960 --> 00:43:23,680
Speaker 2: know so we could all split that and the money

803
00:43:23,719 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 2: I got from selling the clothing. When I asked why,

804
00:43:27,600 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 2: he said, so we can split it. And by the way,

805
00:43:33,560 --> 00:43:35,440
Speaker 2: you can join us live on YouTube every week tod

806
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:36,680
Speaker 2: at three pm. Just tap a.

807
00:43:36,719 --> 00:43:40,840
Speaker 1: Profile really quick before we have we have more of

808
00:43:40,920 --> 00:43:45,600
Speaker 1: the story. But do they not understand that they got

809
00:43:45,840 --> 00:43:48,440
Speaker 1: way less money either the rest of the family.

810
00:43:49,080 --> 00:43:52,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's a little bit ridiculous when I think you

811
00:43:52,880 --> 00:43:54,680
Speaker 2: should make Yeah, I think you should make that clear

812
00:43:54,760 --> 00:43:58,239
Speaker 2: and say, hey, the cost of the house and also

813
00:43:58,320 --> 00:44:00,959
Speaker 2: the repairs is I'm getting way less than you guys,

814
00:44:01,600 --> 00:44:03,920
Speaker 2: So I'm using this to repair the house.

815
00:44:04,400 --> 00:44:04,600
Speaker 1: Yeah.

816
00:44:05,440 --> 00:44:08,960
Speaker 2: And you guys again got got more than I did.

817
00:44:09,160 --> 00:44:12,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, they got Yeah, j Justine Udohla bur Quest greedy siblings.

818
00:44:12,080 --> 00:44:14,439
Speaker 1: They got one hundred ft K and then Op gave

819
00:44:14,480 --> 00:44:15,760
Speaker 1: them stuff and yet trying.

820
00:44:15,640 --> 00:44:18,919
Speaker 2: To get gas went through the stuff and gave them things.

821
00:44:19,280 --> 00:44:21,080
Speaker 2: So I don't I don't think they have any right.

822
00:44:21,000 --> 00:44:25,319
Speaker 1: To ask funny Also, as Quine says, whoa we could

823
00:44:25,400 --> 00:44:28,560
Speaker 1: join a live Yeah? Done? Yeah?

824
00:44:29,600 --> 00:44:34,040
Speaker 2: Can. I asked him why I would split it when

825
00:44:34,040 --> 00:44:38,120
Speaker 2: they all had gotten large cash inheritances, sentimental and expensive

826
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:41,400
Speaker 2: things and some other things. I literally got the house,

827
00:44:41,600 --> 00:44:44,040
Speaker 2: the problems, the cleanup, and the nice things I did

828
00:44:44,120 --> 00:44:46,400
Speaker 2: find that I thought they might like. I hand it

829
00:44:46,480 --> 00:44:49,280
Speaker 2: over without being asked to. He told me I didn't

830
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,120
Speaker 2: have to be a greedy a hole about it, and

831
00:44:51,239 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 2: to never mind. Oh my goodness, my sister gave me

832
00:44:54,360 --> 00:44:56,960
Speaker 2: the side eye, but didn't say anything. But I feel

833
00:44:57,000 --> 00:45:00,399
Speaker 2: guilty for misleading how much I had actually found, even

834
00:45:00,480 --> 00:45:03,200
Speaker 2: though it was all put towards making the house better.

835
00:45:03,920 --> 00:45:06,000
Speaker 2: To be clear, all of my mother's debts were paid

836
00:45:06,040 --> 00:45:08,240
Speaker 2: and she had money set aside for the funeral service

837
00:45:08,360 --> 00:45:11,759
Speaker 2: and cremation. So am I the a hole?

838
00:45:11,920 --> 00:45:16,360
Speaker 1: Dude? Imagine if they money was found?

839
00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:19,719
Speaker 2: Yeah, do not tell them. I think sometimes money is

840
00:45:19,760 --> 00:45:23,360
Speaker 2: a way of complicating relationships.

841
00:45:24,440 --> 00:45:27,120
Speaker 1: I mean, I'm a little I'm like, I'm a little

842
00:45:27,239 --> 00:45:30,800
Speaker 1: split because it's like, I mean, that was such a

843
00:45:30,920 --> 00:45:37,200
Speaker 1: bad reaction, but I feel like you need to. I

844
00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:42,040
Speaker 1: feel like it needs to be known. How Like, I

845
00:45:42,080 --> 00:45:44,480
Speaker 1: think it should be equally split between all the siblings.

846
00:45:44,640 --> 00:45:46,160
Speaker 1: I think that should be true.

847
00:45:46,440 --> 00:45:48,279
Speaker 2: You think that the money that OPI found should be

848
00:45:48,320 --> 00:45:49,200
Speaker 2: equally I think.

849
00:45:49,280 --> 00:45:55,360
Speaker 1: The the equivalent inheritance should be split between all siblings.

850
00:45:55,400 --> 00:45:59,239
Speaker 1: So let's say spent the money on the house, and

851
00:45:59,320 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 1: now the house is worth like one hundred and fifty

852
00:46:01,080 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 1: grand or something, which is equal to everything else that

853
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:07,800
Speaker 1: everyone got. That anything over one hundred fifty grand should

854
00:46:07,840 --> 00:46:10,800
Speaker 1: be split amongst all the siblings. That I feel like

855
00:46:10,920 --> 00:46:11,520
Speaker 1: that would mean.

856
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:13,480
Speaker 2: Yeah, I hope you could say that, Like, if there's

857
00:46:13,520 --> 00:46:16,400
Speaker 2: anything left over, maybe we'll split it. But yeah, everything

858
00:46:16,480 --> 00:46:17,600
Speaker 2: right now is going to the house.

859
00:46:17,800 --> 00:46:22,319
Speaker 1: Yeah, I think chronic case as everyone sucks here. I'm

860
00:46:22,320 --> 00:46:26,320
Speaker 1: actually I'm curious, do you think OPI is not the

861
00:46:26,440 --> 00:46:28,480
Speaker 1: a hole? Or does everyone suck here?

862
00:46:29,280 --> 00:46:32,279
Speaker 2: I honestly think I don't think op is the a hole.

863
00:46:32,360 --> 00:46:35,200
Speaker 2: I think ope, in the like legally in the will,

864
00:46:36,560 --> 00:46:39,719
Speaker 2: maybe Angel move. I think maybe Angel move. She could

865
00:46:39,760 --> 00:46:42,359
Speaker 2: have divided up the stuff, but legally in the will,

866
00:46:42,640 --> 00:46:44,720
Speaker 2: she does not owe her siblings anything.

867
00:46:45,600 --> 00:46:51,600
Speaker 1: Yes, but like if if like mom and dad passed away, sad,

868
00:46:51,680 --> 00:46:54,399
Speaker 1: I don't like to think about that. It's gonna happen.

869
00:46:54,600 --> 00:46:58,240
Speaker 2: Dad stops and you got one hundred and fifty thousand

870
00:46:58,239 --> 00:46:59,200
Speaker 2: dollars and I got the house.

871
00:46:59,640 --> 00:47:01,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, you got the house. But then they're like they

872
00:47:01,800 --> 00:47:04,719
Speaker 1: hid stuff like all around the thing, and then all

873
00:47:04,760 --> 00:47:08,279
Speaker 1: of a sudden, like there's a million dollars in the house.

874
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:10,960
Speaker 2: Oh my god, what that's not even that's not even

875
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:12,319
Speaker 2: the thing here.

876
00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:13,879
Speaker 1: Oh I know. But I'm just saying, like, let's say

877
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:14,520
Speaker 1: they're like all the.

878
00:47:14,800 --> 00:47:16,719
Speaker 2: Million dollars and you've got one hundred and fifty.

879
00:47:16,719 --> 00:47:19,719
Speaker 1: One hundred fifty KA. But I don't think that that

880
00:47:19,960 --> 00:47:23,239
Speaker 1: is the situation here. No, it's not the situation. But

881
00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:27,360
Speaker 1: like I'm saying, like, if Op did the books and

882
00:47:27,600 --> 00:47:30,160
Speaker 1: found out it was more than like an equivalent a

883
00:47:30,200 --> 00:47:33,040
Speaker 1: hundred ft de k, the angel move would be to

884
00:47:33,320 --> 00:47:38,520
Speaker 1: split the uh, split the excess among the siblings. Yeah.

885
00:47:39,480 --> 00:47:41,359
Speaker 1: So actually made a good point. Wait can you can

886
00:47:41,400 --> 00:47:44,160
Speaker 1: you uh beautiful deskers? The mom probably calculated all the

887
00:47:44,200 --> 00:47:47,319
Speaker 1: things in the house when dividing the assets as well.

888
00:47:48,480 --> 00:47:51,520
Speaker 1: That's a good point. It's like, oh, maybe the uh,

889
00:47:51,680 --> 00:47:56,560
Speaker 1: maybe the mom knew exactly what was being given to Op. Yeah,

890
00:47:59,120 --> 00:47:59,920
Speaker 1: mom knew what she's doing.

891
00:48:00,000 --> 00:48:03,680
Speaker 2: I feel like the mom was pretty you know throw

892
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:06,040
Speaker 2: when she was doing. True, that's true, So maybe we

893
00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:07,960
Speaker 2: should she knew in advance that she was, you know,

894
00:48:08,400 --> 00:48:08,840
Speaker 2: not doing it.

895
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:11,840
Speaker 1: True, that's true. So maybe we should trust that the

896
00:48:11,920 --> 00:48:13,319
Speaker 1: mom knew what she was doing.

897
00:48:13,920 --> 00:48:17,280
Speaker 2: Also, Op did help a lot more than his siblings

898
00:48:17,280 --> 00:48:17,840
Speaker 2: in terms.

899
00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:22,480
Speaker 1: Of Yeah, and so it's like maybe true true, Yeah,

900
00:48:23,160 --> 00:48:25,840
Speaker 1: that is true. And probably you know, because she was

901
00:48:25,880 --> 00:48:27,600
Speaker 1: helping so much, paid more. Yeah.

902
00:48:27,719 --> 00:48:28,120
Speaker 2: Probably.

903
00:48:28,440 --> 00:48:33,040
Speaker 1: And yeah, I think I'm going to go not the ale.

904
00:48:33,080 --> 00:48:35,200
Speaker 1: I think I'm going to go not the a hole.

905
00:48:35,280 --> 00:48:37,759
Speaker 1: But I could see how people are would be like

906
00:48:37,920 --> 00:48:42,799
Speaker 1: oh she's hiding things, but given the context, I think

907
00:48:42,920 --> 00:48:43,560
Speaker 1: not the a hole.

908
00:48:43,640 --> 00:48:46,600
Speaker 2: So well, now you haven't I don't know.

909
00:48:46,880 --> 00:48:49,160
Speaker 1: As long I think not the a whole, as long

910
00:48:49,400 --> 00:48:52,120
Speaker 1: as what she got isn't like exorbitantly more than one

911
00:48:52,160 --> 00:48:56,000
Speaker 1: hundred fifty grand, which I don't think, doesn't think, doesn't

912
00:48:56,040 --> 00:48:56,480
Speaker 1: seem to be.

913
00:48:58,719 --> 00:49:00,360
Speaker 2: And that is the end of that story.

914
00:49:00,920 --> 00:49:02,480
Speaker 1: Cool, Wait, there's.

915
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:02,800
Speaker 2: More to that.

916
00:49:04,520 --> 00:49:07,920
Speaker 1: Look, is there more? No way, there wasn't when I

917
00:49:08,000 --> 00:49:10,799
Speaker 1: found it. Is there more? Is that story too?

918
00:49:11,880 --> 00:49:12,120
Speaker 2: Hmm?

919
00:49:17,360 --> 00:49:20,840
Speaker 1: Yeah, well let's Oh jellyba said they read it today,

920
00:49:20,920 --> 00:49:24,799
Speaker 1: so I think there's more if you want to. Yeah,

921
00:49:25,280 --> 00:49:29,680
Speaker 1: we got an update, update, updates, jelly Bud. Thank you

922
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:35,600
Speaker 1: so much for uh pointing that out. Appreciate it. And

923
00:49:35,719 --> 00:49:37,960
Speaker 1: that's the great thing about doing this live all you

924
00:49:38,040 --> 00:49:38,719
Speaker 1: can find it.

925
00:49:39,120 --> 00:49:39,880
Speaker 2: We can read it.

926
00:49:40,080 --> 00:49:42,080
Speaker 1: Find it, Yeah, read it, we can read it. We

927
00:49:42,120 --> 00:49:45,759
Speaker 1: could go. Jess Emms is not even if she got

928
00:49:45,760 --> 00:49:47,640
Speaker 1: over one hundred and fifty grand, she did more free

929
00:49:47,719 --> 00:49:50,520
Speaker 1: labor for her mother and the siblings, and also spent

930
00:49:50,719 --> 00:49:51,440
Speaker 1: the time.

931
00:49:51,280 --> 00:49:53,840
Speaker 2: To like to do it and appraise it and everything.

932
00:49:53,960 --> 00:49:56,359
Speaker 2: So I feel like that is also something to take Yeah,

933
00:49:56,440 --> 00:49:57,520
Speaker 2: true consideration.

934
00:49:58,440 --> 00:49:59,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, that's true.

935
00:50:00,040 --> 00:50:03,200
Speaker 2: But we could also take these donations into consideration. While

936
00:50:03,280 --> 00:50:10,640
Speaker 2: Riley Beat says updates, never mind uh outdate? Firstly, actually,

937
00:50:10,719 --> 00:50:14,200
Speaker 2: let's just read into the update. My house still feels weird,

938
00:50:14,280 --> 00:50:17,520
Speaker 2: saying typing. This already had outside cameras due to when

939
00:50:17,560 --> 00:50:19,920
Speaker 2: I moved in and installed them, but I did go

940
00:50:20,080 --> 00:50:22,480
Speaker 2: and add more to the property line inside the house

941
00:50:22,560 --> 00:50:23,320
Speaker 2: in key spots.

942
00:50:23,760 --> 00:50:27,200
Speaker 1: Oh so Opie is preparing for a break home invasion,

943
00:50:27,320 --> 00:50:33,640
Speaker 1: for an invasion little knives out situation. Yeah, we're really

944
00:50:33,760 --> 00:50:36,360
Speaker 1: knives out in this story. This situation is getting crazier

945
00:50:36,400 --> 00:50:36,920
Speaker 1: and crazier.

946
00:50:37,400 --> 00:50:39,799
Speaker 2: Actually, would that? Would this be more glass onion?

947
00:50:40,400 --> 00:50:42,520
Speaker 1: I don't remember the difference between the two.

948
00:50:42,480 --> 00:50:45,600
Speaker 2: And around the garage. I also put up no trespassing

949
00:50:45,680 --> 00:50:48,400
Speaker 2: signs while I look through the companies that do proper fences.

950
00:50:48,960 --> 00:50:51,520
Speaker 2: The property is just small enough I could swing the fence.

951
00:50:51,800 --> 00:50:53,719
Speaker 2: I did change the locks as soon as I read

952
00:50:53,719 --> 00:50:56,360
Speaker 2: the advice to do so. I hadn't thought about that

953
00:50:56,520 --> 00:50:59,239
Speaker 2: since I worked from home. Mom also kept a spare

954
00:50:59,360 --> 00:51:02,000
Speaker 2: hidden in a plant because my sister used to lose

955
00:51:02,160 --> 00:51:05,120
Speaker 2: everything constantly, so I made sure to remove it and

956
00:51:05,320 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 2: not replace it with the new one.

957
00:51:07,719 --> 00:51:08,279
Speaker 1: It's a good thing.

958
00:51:08,360 --> 00:51:12,920
Speaker 2: I did all this because two days after my initial

959
00:51:13,000 --> 00:51:16,560
Speaker 2: post ah, I had to run into town for groceries

960
00:51:16,680 --> 00:51:19,480
Speaker 2: and a few quick errands. I live on the outskirts

961
00:51:19,520 --> 00:51:21,680
Speaker 2: with neighbors a bit of a distance either way, so

962
00:51:21,800 --> 00:51:25,560
Speaker 2: they wouldn't notice anyone stopping by. I got a notification

963
00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:29,320
Speaker 2: on my phone about movement, and I checked because I

964
00:51:29,520 --> 00:51:33,800
Speaker 2: wasn't expecting any packages. My brother was getting out of

965
00:51:33,880 --> 00:51:37,759
Speaker 2: his car, looking around and check the windows. He tried

966
00:51:37,840 --> 00:51:40,160
Speaker 2: his key in the door and got upset it didn't work.

967
00:51:40,600 --> 00:51:43,960
Speaker 2: He checked the flower plant and kicked it over. The

968
00:51:44,080 --> 00:51:46,719
Speaker 2: cameras around the house. Let me communicate, so I just

969
00:51:46,800 --> 00:51:51,880
Speaker 2: said that was rude into the speaker. He jumped and

970
00:51:52,040 --> 00:51:55,000
Speaker 2: spun around to see nothing. I asked him what he wanted,

971
00:51:55,080 --> 00:51:57,560
Speaker 2: and he demanded to know why I put up cameras.

972
00:51:57,680 --> 00:52:00,360
Speaker 2: I said, because I'm a single woman living in the woods.

973
00:52:00,400 --> 00:52:02,960
Speaker 1: You dumb crap. I love Opie.

974
00:52:03,480 --> 00:52:06,080
Speaker 2: He shifted from foot to foot before saying he would

975
00:52:06,120 --> 00:52:10,360
Speaker 2: be back. Ominous, I'll be back, be back so we

976
00:52:10,440 --> 00:52:13,880
Speaker 2: could talk, and he left. I messaged the video evidence

977
00:52:13,920 --> 00:52:15,799
Speaker 2: of him trying to get in while I wasn't home

978
00:52:15,960 --> 00:52:19,200
Speaker 2: to him, his wife, my sister, and her fiance with

979
00:52:19,400 --> 00:52:21,920
Speaker 2: the message I sent I changed the locks because I

980
00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:24,520
Speaker 2: don't know who mom gave them out to, like her friends,

981
00:52:24,640 --> 00:52:27,440
Speaker 2: and I have cameras. Because of this attempt to get

982
00:52:27,480 --> 00:52:29,799
Speaker 2: in while I'm not home, no one will be getting

983
00:52:29,840 --> 00:52:32,319
Speaker 2: the new key. I don't just randomly try to get

984
00:52:32,360 --> 00:52:33,759
Speaker 2: into your house when you're not home.

985
00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:38,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, because also he's living there, right, he is

986
00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:42,839
Speaker 1: living it's literally her home. Now. That is that? That's

987
00:52:42,960 --> 00:52:46,080
Speaker 1: whack even if it is your your're sibling.

988
00:52:46,320 --> 00:52:48,400
Speaker 2: Yeah, I would that would be crazy.

989
00:52:48,520 --> 00:52:49,240
Speaker 1: That would be crazy.

990
00:52:49,520 --> 00:52:51,600
Speaker 2: He sent me a lot of nasty textuff for that,

991
00:52:51,880 --> 00:52:54,279
Speaker 2: trying to shame me for doing that. I told him

992
00:52:54,320 --> 00:52:56,160
Speaker 2: he shouldn't be doing things he doesn't want others to

993
00:52:56,239 --> 00:52:59,759
Speaker 2: know about, and that it's a reflection on him, not me.

994
00:53:00,360 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 2: He told me I was a bee and blocked me.

995
00:53:03,239 --> 00:53:05,279
Speaker 2: My sister thinks I went too far by telling his

996
00:53:05,360 --> 00:53:07,560
Speaker 2: wife because she is threatening to take the kids to

997
00:53:07,680 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 2: her mom's. Oh wow, she didn't know, and she thinks

998
00:53:11,120 --> 00:53:13,520
Speaker 2: I went too far by showing her fiance because now

999
00:53:13,560 --> 00:53:18,480
Speaker 2: he doesn't want him to have keys to theirs for emergencies. Somehow,

1000
00:53:18,640 --> 00:53:21,239
Speaker 2: I get the feeling this isn't over yet. Time to

1001
00:53:21,360 --> 00:53:25,959
Speaker 2: adopt a very big dog. I guess so he's going

1002
00:53:26,040 --> 00:53:30,920
Speaker 2: on hard for all the security apparently needed security. Your

1003
00:53:31,000 --> 00:53:34,040
Speaker 2: brother's trying to break into your house and steal your money.

1004
00:53:34,320 --> 00:53:37,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was seeing some comments where it's just like

1005
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:42,399
Speaker 1: it's sad what money does to family, which is just why,

1006
00:53:42,560 --> 00:53:45,000
Speaker 1: like when you do inheritance stuff, you just have to

1007
00:53:45,080 --> 00:53:48,399
Speaker 1: be you should have to be so clear about who

1008
00:53:48,520 --> 00:53:51,800
Speaker 1: gets what and why and kind of talk about that

1009
00:53:52,040 --> 00:53:53,759
Speaker 1: before you die.

1010
00:53:54,040 --> 00:53:57,840
Speaker 2: I honestly think that if Op had split up the

1011
00:53:57,920 --> 00:53:59,800
Speaker 2: money that she found in the house, they would have

1012
00:54:00,000 --> 00:54:02,239
Speaker 2: banded more. They would have said, oh, when you sell

1013
00:54:02,280 --> 00:54:05,200
Speaker 2: the house, we want that split too. I think they

1014
00:54:05,239 --> 00:54:07,440
Speaker 2: would have continued to ask for more if they if

1015
00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:10,080
Speaker 2: these were the actions and you know, reactions that they

1016
00:54:10,120 --> 00:54:10,520
Speaker 2: were taking