WEBVTT - Second Date Update: Mom Blocked 0:00:00.280 --> 0:00:02.480 You know it's summer, but we don't take vacation here. No, 0:00:02.600 --> 0:00:05.600 we're still giving you new episodes, not that we. 0:00:05.680 --> 0:00:07.600 Just took a vacation a few weeks ago. Yeah, we 0:00:07.680 --> 0:00:10.440 do take We're not on vacation today. 0:00:10.600 --> 0:00:13.720 Okay, I have a brand new episode today, and I'm 0:00:13.760 --> 0:00:15.880 patting ourselves on the back for showing up. 0:00:16.120 --> 0:00:19.480 It's Brook Jeffrey, and what do we got for comments? 0:00:19.560 --> 0:00:22.720 Yeah, it says Hi, I'm a scene from Kenya listening 0:00:22.720 --> 0:00:23.240 to you guys? 0:00:23.400 --> 0:00:26.320 Will I write lines of code? Maybe I'll create a 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:27.480 fun web for you. 0:00:28.640 --> 0:00:29.880 Yeah? 0:00:29.960 --> 0:00:31.760 One zero zero one zero? 0:00:31.920 --> 0:00:35.840 Oh yeah yeah talking code? 0:00:36.080 --> 0:00:39.080 No, all right, let's get to this new episode right now. 0:00:39.560 --> 0:00:42.560 Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates. 0:00:43.640 --> 0:00:47.040 If you're a guy, there's this very particular moment of 0:00:47.200 --> 0:00:50.519 panic that sets in on a first date. Jose, I 0:00:50.520 --> 0:00:53.720 know you've probably experienced this before, where you're out with 0:00:53.760 --> 0:00:58.080 the woman and she unexpectedly says yes to coming back 0:00:58.120 --> 0:01:01.600 to your place, and you re lies you are not 0:01:01.800 --> 0:01:02.440 ready for it. 0:01:02.680 --> 0:01:05.080 Yeah, like wait, did I make my bed? 0:01:05.240 --> 0:01:07.800 Wait? But you just didn't expect a yes. 0:01:10.440 --> 0:01:10.679 Place. 0:01:10.800 --> 0:01:12.680 You realize suddenly you're not ready and you're trying to 0:01:12.680 --> 0:01:14.200 figure out how am I going to hide the air 0:01:14.280 --> 0:01:18.840 mattress and breathe the mystery smell and whatever's growing in 0:01:18.840 --> 0:01:20.880 my kitchen sink before she gets in the building. 0:01:21.000 --> 0:01:23.040 I'm actually glad to hear that you guys actually cared. 0:01:23.360 --> 0:01:26.000 Yeah, well, I always thought that you just went back 0:01:26.000 --> 0:01:27.840 there and you're like, well, they just didn't even realize 0:01:27.840 --> 0:01:28.520 it was gross. 0:01:28.640 --> 0:01:32.880 I mean, I respond with us psych Yeah, well, apparently 0:01:32.920 --> 0:01:35.279 that's the type of panic that one of our listeners, David, 0:01:35.319 --> 0:01:38.640 experienced when he met somebody recently, and now he needs 0:01:38.640 --> 0:01:39.120 our help. 0:01:39.240 --> 0:01:41.280 David, Welcome to the show man. 0:01:41.720 --> 0:01:43.960 Hey guys, I'm so curious to hear. 0:01:44.160 --> 0:01:46.160 Is your place the type of place that has empty 0:01:46.240 --> 0:01:48.000 alcohol bottles as decoration? 0:01:48.920 --> 0:01:52.280 I don't think it's that bad. Generally, didn't end the 0:01:52.320 --> 0:01:52.920 way that I hope. 0:01:52.960 --> 0:01:55.280 All right, well, let's start from the beginning. What's this 0:01:55.480 --> 0:01:57.560 woman's name that you met Anna? 0:01:58.040 --> 0:01:59.440 Okay, we met Unhinge. 0:02:00.520 --> 0:02:01.080 That's a class. 0:02:01.640 --> 0:02:02.600 What did you like about her? 0:02:02.640 --> 0:02:04.640 I would like to know, and also what didn't you 0:02:04.680 --> 0:02:06.280 like about her? Let's play both sides of it. 0:02:06.760 --> 0:02:08.800 Well, I hope that you didn't swipe on her if 0:02:08.840 --> 0:02:10.360 you didn't like something immediately. 0:02:11.440 --> 0:02:13.040 One Okay, we can start with the likes. 0:02:13.560 --> 0:02:17.079 Yeah, I mean she's beautiful. Definitely was attracted to her, 0:02:17.360 --> 0:02:19.840 and as we were talking, she gave me the impression 0:02:19.840 --> 0:02:21.799 that she was really, I don't want to say, like 0:02:21.840 --> 0:02:24.520 a hippie vibe, but a really free spirit, just sort 0:02:24.520 --> 0:02:27.080 of not many cares in the world. And I've always 0:02:27.160 --> 0:02:28.720 kind of been drawn to people like that. 0:02:29.040 --> 0:02:31.680 Yes, positive energy. 0:02:31.760 --> 0:02:33.520 Yeah, you don't want some anxiety. 0:02:33.680 --> 0:02:35.360 So what did you and Anna do? 0:02:36.240 --> 0:02:39.600 Well, we had talked about in our conversations. This food 0:02:39.600 --> 0:02:41.720 truck came up that's been all over TikTok and the 0:02:41.800 --> 0:02:47.160 Greek food truck. Yeah, so we went and we got 0:02:47.160 --> 0:02:49.440 our food, and we're meeting and I feel like the 0:02:49.520 --> 0:02:53.080 chemistry is flowing. Everything's really great. And we started talking 0:02:53.120 --> 0:02:59.320 about movies. Okay, I love eighties movies. Big John Hughes Fan. 0:02:59.680 --> 0:03:03.040 Okay, so that's like sixteen Candles. Isn't he in Breakfast Club? 0:03:03.080 --> 0:03:05.840 Maybe you're he directed? 0:03:06.160 --> 0:03:08.720 Were that made me sound like an idiot? 0:03:08.960 --> 0:03:09.240 All right? 0:03:10.440 --> 0:03:13.079 Yeah, totally, Okay. You like the classics? 0:03:13.440 --> 0:03:17.200 Yeah? Absolutely, And Breakfast Club actually coincidentally came up. 0:03:17.600 --> 0:03:20.280 Okay, that's the one where they're like high schoolers. 0:03:19.800 --> 0:03:22.040 And they have to see they're trapped into ten. Yeah, 0:03:22.240 --> 0:03:25.519 and she'd never seen it, so I was just like, oh, wow, 0:03:25.720 --> 0:03:29.359 you got to see Breakfast Club. And she was like, well, 0:03:29.600 --> 0:03:31.320 why don't we watch it tonight? 0:03:31.680 --> 0:03:34.920 Oh okay, okay, I see. 0:03:35.040 --> 0:03:37.840 So you weren't the one that put the idea of 0:03:37.960 --> 0:03:39.120 like going back somewhere. 0:03:39.200 --> 0:03:40.920 She kind of floated at first. 0:03:40.880 --> 0:03:42.760 But like you guys are saying at the beginning of 0:03:42.800 --> 0:03:45.440 the call, I was worried about my place, Like my 0:03:45.480 --> 0:03:48.720 place isn't terrible, but I honestly couldn't remember what shape 0:03:48.760 --> 0:03:52.160 it was in. Oh, I just didn't you get up 0:03:52.160 --> 0:03:53.920 in the morning, you leave, You don't think about that stuff. 0:03:54.000 --> 0:03:57.240 So okay, gave her my address, and obviously I was 0:03:57.280 --> 0:04:00.240 assuming she had GPS, so I was trying to speed 0:04:00.360 --> 0:04:03.760 up a little bit before I could get all as 0:04:03.760 --> 0:04:04.680 quickly as possible. 0:04:05.840 --> 0:04:07.320 Please let Google Maps fail her. 0:04:08.560 --> 0:04:10.920 So it's a race to your apartments, I'm guessing. 0:04:11.000 --> 0:04:13.680 Yeah. And then when we got there, I ran in, 0:04:13.720 --> 0:04:15.160 but I was like, oh, it's not as bad as 0:04:15.200 --> 0:04:17.240 I remember. I picked a couple of things up and 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:20.840 everything was fine. So she comes in. Okay, we're watching 0:04:20.880 --> 0:04:24.040 the movie and we start talking about high school. 0:04:24.120 --> 0:04:26.480 Okay, well, that obviously, because that's what the whole movie 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:28.440 is set in high school. 0:04:29.400 --> 0:04:31.280 So we paused the movie and we start talking, and 0:04:31.360 --> 0:04:33.840 I was just like, you know, I do have an 0:04:33.839 --> 0:04:36.240 old earbook around here somewhere. Would you like to see 0:04:36.279 --> 0:04:37.320 what I look like? Oh? 0:04:37.480 --> 0:04:40.040 Wow, that's like embarrassing. 0:04:40.600 --> 0:04:43.080 Why it's vulnerable? 0:04:43.160 --> 0:04:43.480 Yeah. 0:04:43.880 --> 0:04:46.440 So I go into my bedroom and as I'm in 0:04:46.480 --> 0:04:50.480 my bedroom, I hear my front door open and close, 0:04:51.279 --> 0:04:53.360 and so I'm just like, did she just leave? 0:04:54.080 --> 0:04:55.520 Oh? 0:04:55.560 --> 0:04:55.880 Did she? 0:04:56.680 --> 0:05:01.159 Somehow? It was actually worse because when I come back 0:05:01.240 --> 0:05:04.440 into the living room, my mother is standing there. 0:05:04.720 --> 0:05:09.240 Oh God, show up like that. 0:05:09.440 --> 0:05:11.960 Oh no, nobody's going to give her a better idea 0:05:11.960 --> 0:05:13.520 of what you were like in high school than your 0:05:13.520 --> 0:05:16.599 mom came up at that point. 0:05:16.720 --> 0:05:17.880 What was your mom doing? 0:05:18.800 --> 0:05:20.600 She likes to bring me food that she makes every 0:05:20.600 --> 0:05:22.240 once in a while, and I talked to her about 0:05:22.240 --> 0:05:25.520 it before, but she likes to make it a surprise. 0:05:26.600 --> 0:05:27.240 That's cute. 0:05:27.440 --> 0:05:31.480 It is your date and your mom now having a conversation. 0:05:32.080 --> 0:05:36.320 Oh yes, what are they talking about? 0:05:36.960 --> 0:05:39.080 I don't even know. It was like what they were 0:05:39.120 --> 0:05:41.719 saying didn't matter, but they seem to be having a 0:05:41.760 --> 0:05:42.800 pleasant conversation. 0:05:43.080 --> 0:05:44.760 Well, and it's hard for you because you don't want 0:05:44.760 --> 0:05:47.800 to overreact and go mom, get out, because that makes 0:05:47.839 --> 0:05:48.479 you look wame. 0:05:50.200 --> 0:05:51.240 You can't do anything. 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:53.520 Yeah, that's a hundred percent what I would do in 0:05:53.520 --> 0:05:54.200 that scenario. 0:05:54.240 --> 0:05:54.960 But what do you do? 0:05:55.440 --> 0:05:58.359 Well? I just tried to you know, mom put the 0:05:58.400 --> 0:06:00.880 food in the kitchen and kept thing like, oh, I'll 0:06:00.880 --> 0:06:02.240 be out of here in just a second. But they 0:06:02.320 --> 0:06:08.559 kept talking. Finally Anna goes, you know what, I gotta 0:06:08.600 --> 0:06:09.240 go anyway. 0:06:10.960 --> 0:06:13.520 She blocked you, bro, you got mom blocked. 0:06:13.520 --> 0:06:15.680 I mean, it is a vibe shift when the mom 0:06:15.720 --> 0:06:16.680 comes into the room. 0:06:16.800 --> 0:06:18.840 I think some girls would be like, well, at least 0:06:18.839 --> 0:06:21.000 he's a guy that has a great relationship with his 0:06:21.160 --> 0:06:22.640 mom and they're loving and. 0:06:22.839 --> 0:06:24.800 Yeah, but you would usually, even if you're not going 0:06:24.880 --> 0:06:27.080 to stay much longer, you would wait for the mom 0:06:27.120 --> 0:06:29.080 to leave so you could have at least one more 0:06:29.120 --> 0:06:30.400 one on one. 0:06:30.800 --> 0:06:33.840 Did she leave? Did Anna leave before your mom? 0:06:34.320 --> 0:06:39.400 Yes? I offered to walk her to her car, and 0:06:39.440 --> 0:06:43.039 what she said She said, yes, okay, And when we 0:06:43.160 --> 0:06:45.599 got to her car, I kind of set the chance 0:06:45.800 --> 0:06:46.800 and I leaned in for a. 0:06:46.880 --> 0:06:49.599 Kiss right after mom was there. 0:06:49.720 --> 0:06:52.960 Yea yeah, and she gave me the cheek. 0:06:54.480 --> 0:06:56.600 So that was how you two left it. What's happened since? 0:06:57.440 --> 0:07:00.719 Well, I've texted a couple of times and I have 0:07:00.839 --> 0:07:02.559 to off heard anything, and it's been a few days. 0:07:03.240 --> 0:07:06.880 Brother, it's the mom. But is it the mom. 0:07:06.760 --> 0:07:08.880 Or is it the fact that your mom walks in? 0:07:09.080 --> 0:07:10.360 Is it a conversation they have? 0:07:10.600 --> 0:07:11.800 Well, that's what we're gonna find out. 0:07:12.280 --> 0:07:17.360 So many questions. We're gonna ask all five hundred of them. 0:07:18.600 --> 0:07:19.640 All right, We're gonna write. 0:07:19.480 --> 0:07:22.880 Down all of them and ask our favorite ones to 0:07:23.080 --> 0:07:25.520 Anna when we come back, and. 0:07:25.800 --> 0:07:28.640 I'll do it with your second date update right after this. 0:07:28.720 --> 0:07:30.200 Hold on, David, Thank you guys, all. 0:07:30.200 --> 0:07:33.840 Right, broken Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates. 0:07:35.040 --> 0:07:39.720 The moms are kind of like computer software updates, always 0:07:39.800 --> 0:07:43.640 popping up at the least convenience, Like when you have 0:07:43.680 --> 0:07:46.080 a girl over and you're trying to make a move, 0:07:46.600 --> 0:07:49.200 but mom stops by to give you a tupperware of 0:07:49.200 --> 0:07:51.160 her old tuna noodle castle. 0:07:51.240 --> 0:07:53.360 O Mom, and it takes forever. 0:07:55.320 --> 0:07:57.920 That's exactly what happened for our listener David recently when 0:07:57.920 --> 0:08:00.120 he brought his date Anna back to his place to 0:08:00.160 --> 0:08:04.200 watch The Breakfast Club on Blu Ray and David's mom 0:08:04.360 --> 0:08:07.080 burst through the door, stuck around a little bit too 0:08:07.120 --> 0:08:10.480 long until Anna eventually said, you know what, I. 0:08:10.480 --> 0:08:12.560 Better head out, Yeah, before the mom even left. 0:08:12.720 --> 0:08:15.480 Yep, so seems like we already know the reason why 0:08:15.560 --> 0:08:18.520 Anna's ghosting. Our job is probably going to be to 0:08:18.600 --> 0:08:20.600 convince her to hopefully change her mind. 0:08:20.720 --> 0:08:23.200 Yeah, I mean you can tell her, right, David, that 0:08:23.280 --> 0:08:26.280 you have boundaries with your mom established that maybe you 0:08:26.320 --> 0:08:27.560 didn't before, like knocking. 0:08:28.040 --> 0:08:30.160 Yeah, you know, I have talked to my mom about this, 0:08:30.480 --> 0:08:33.400 and it's been decided that she's not just going to 0:08:33.440 --> 0:08:35.760 pop in anymore. There's always going to be some sort 0:08:35.760 --> 0:08:38.000 of text or verbal confirmation or. 0:08:37.960 --> 0:08:44.360 Something that by or secret knock, i know, put a 0:08:44.360 --> 0:08:45.160 stock on the door. 0:08:47.520 --> 0:08:50.800 Yeah, no, sug. 0:08:53.200 --> 0:08:55.959 I don't have all the answers. I'm just providing suggestions. 0:08:56.040 --> 0:08:57.960 Don't worry about that, Guys, it's totally handled. 0:08:59.040 --> 0:09:01.200 That's good. That's a good thing that we can tell Anna. 0:09:01.360 --> 0:09:03.400 Yeah, we'll leave all that to you. Let's just dial 0:09:03.440 --> 0:09:05.319 her number. We'll see if she picks up the phone, 0:09:05.360 --> 0:09:07.640 and hopefully we can convince her to give you another chance. 0:09:07.880 --> 0:09:18.920 But I'm gonna dialer right now here we go. Hello, Hi, 0:09:19.000 --> 0:09:21.800 is this Annah. 0:09:22.120 --> 0:09:23.480 Yes, this is she is calling. 0:09:23.640 --> 0:09:25.679 Hey Anna, this is a radio show called Brooke and 0:09:25.760 --> 0:09:26.720 Jeffrey in the Morning. 0:09:28.360 --> 0:09:32.360 Good morning, Anna. 0:09:34.120 --> 0:09:35.839 This is uh what's about him? 0:09:35.880 --> 0:09:40.240 Sorry, we get that reaction a lot, and we understand 0:09:40.320 --> 0:09:42.200 that this is probably coming at you at once. But 0:09:42.200 --> 0:09:44.520 we're doing a segment here. It's called a second Date Update. 0:09:44.800 --> 0:09:47.079 We're trying to help out one of our listeners that 0:09:47.200 --> 0:09:49.800 went on a date with you recently, a guy named David. 0:09:51.640 --> 0:09:52.080 Oh wow. 0:09:54.160 --> 0:09:56.960 Oh yeah. 0:09:57.520 --> 0:10:00.200 We're not surprised by your reaction to that, because we 0:10:00.240 --> 0:10:01.120 heard what happened. 0:10:01.200 --> 0:10:02.880 David wouldn't be surprised to hear that either. 0:10:03.840 --> 0:10:06.880 I'm so confused that he contacted you to talk about 0:10:06.960 --> 0:10:07.440 our day. 0:10:08.320 --> 0:10:09.880 That's kind of how it works. 0:10:10.280 --> 0:10:12.839 They reach out to us and kind of tell us 0:10:12.840 --> 0:10:16.160 about what happened, and then we try to help step 0:10:16.160 --> 0:10:18.560 in and you know, make things right if anything's wrong. 0:10:18.720 --> 0:10:22.520 We're the middle men and women. Well said, thank you. 0:10:22.600 --> 0:10:23.760 I love how you put men first. 0:10:23.800 --> 0:10:32.760 So I mean, we're trying to help David get back 0:10:32.800 --> 0:10:33.600 in touch with you. 0:10:33.720 --> 0:10:34.000 Anna. 0:10:34.280 --> 0:10:36.680 Yeah, we just want to hear how you felt about David. 0:10:39.880 --> 0:10:40.400 I mean. 0:10:42.040 --> 0:10:45.720 That they wasn't when I was expecting. 0:10:45.559 --> 0:10:47.480 Okay, but there were some good parts. 0:10:47.559 --> 0:10:47.760 Right. 0:10:48.320 --> 0:10:49.360 Sounds like you guys had a lot. 0:10:49.320 --> 0:10:51.200 Of fun at the food truck and you wanted to 0:10:51.200 --> 0:10:53.720 watch the movie together, went. 0:10:53.600 --> 0:10:55.320 Back to his place. That's always a good sign. 0:10:55.440 --> 0:10:58.719 I mean you're feeling good then, right, Yeah, but I 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:01.840 mean there was a situation and it was not good. 0:11:02.200 --> 0:11:05.520 Yeah, we may know, but could you tell us what 0:11:05.559 --> 0:11:07.280 the situation was, at least. 0:11:07.080 --> 0:11:07.920 In your mind? 0:11:08.880 --> 0:11:11.840 Yeah? It was his mother there, it is. 0:11:13.200 --> 0:11:15.280 Can I just ask, Like, you're sitting on the couch, 0:11:15.559 --> 0:11:17.800 You're waiting for him to come back from the bedroom 0:11:17.800 --> 0:11:20.920 with a high school yearbook and the door opened suddenly. 0:11:21.600 --> 0:11:22.679 What were you thinking? 0:11:24.720 --> 0:11:26.880 It was just very uncomfortable and I didn't know what 0:11:26.960 --> 0:11:30.120 to do, and maybe he didn't hear what was said, 0:11:30.360 --> 0:11:33.440 but it was a very awkward conversation. 0:11:34.080 --> 0:11:36.120 Wait, from the very beginning it was awkward. 0:11:36.160 --> 0:11:36.439 Really? 0:11:36.559 --> 0:11:38.199 Is that because you didn't have a shirt on to 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:41.040 put it back? How awkward in the middle? 0:11:41.400 --> 0:11:44.240 Yeah, she's just sitting topless while he goes to get 0:11:44.240 --> 0:11:45.240 his high school yearbook. 0:11:46.000 --> 0:11:48.600 I don't know what kind of fantasies you have about dates, 0:11:48.600 --> 0:11:51.160 but I'm guessing Anna had all over closed. 0:11:50.760 --> 0:11:54.280 Off watching The Breakfast Club. Things Happened a. 0:11:54.240 --> 0:11:57.840 Movie about high school teenagers. I mean, I don't it's boring. 0:11:57.880 --> 0:12:00.600 So you started doing all the things, and this is. 0:12:00.520 --> 0:12:03.040 Why we're asking you what happened, because we don't really 0:12:03.080 --> 0:12:03.960 know the full story. 0:12:04.679 --> 0:12:06.280 Oh gosh, this is a lot right now. 0:12:06.520 --> 0:12:06.760 Sorry. 0:12:06.800 --> 0:12:09.080 I sorry talking about me having my shirt off when 0:12:09.200 --> 0:12:10.040 that was not said. 0:12:10.320 --> 0:12:13.640 Come if that didn't happen. That's just me speculating what 0:12:13.880 --> 0:12:14.440 really happened. 0:12:14.480 --> 0:12:17.720 Okay, what can make it uncreepy? Cha's good. 0:12:19.679 --> 0:12:21.880 Yeah, this is a little creepy, But I mean, I'll 0:12:21.880 --> 0:12:23.880 tell myself of the story so that I can just 0:12:24.040 --> 0:12:26.280 kind of move on with my day. But I will 0:12:26.280 --> 0:12:29.600 say that his mom came in while he was looking 0:12:29.600 --> 0:12:33.800 for the yearbook and she said, oh, it's so finally 0:12:33.920 --> 0:12:37.000 nice to meet you, Katie. And my name isn't Katie. 0:12:37.120 --> 0:12:42.400 Oh, mom about a girl named Katie? 0:12:42.480 --> 0:12:45.480 So wait, what did you say in response to that? 0:12:45.600 --> 0:12:46.440 Is really awkward. 0:12:46.720 --> 0:12:47.920 Yeah, I'm gonna be honest. 0:12:47.920 --> 0:12:48.840 I didn't know what to say. 0:12:49.000 --> 0:12:51.560 Maybe she got the name wrong, so I just went 0:12:51.640 --> 0:12:52.040 with it. 0:12:52.200 --> 0:12:53.839 But then she started talking. 0:12:53.600 --> 0:12:58.000 About how she's heard so much about me, how happy 0:12:58.280 --> 0:13:03.000 I'm making his son, and how lovely our dates sounded, 0:13:03.200 --> 0:13:06.839 and she hopes that it works out. I sounded special, 0:13:07.160 --> 0:13:09.440 and I just she just. 0:13:09.720 --> 0:13:12.800 Kept going, wait, wow, Wait, though, does that mean David 0:13:12.880 --> 0:13:14.160 is dating a katie. 0:13:14.520 --> 0:13:17.880 He's obviously dating a katie that's very special to him, 0:13:18.320 --> 0:13:22.280 and you know, it sounds like they're more serious, which 0:13:22.320 --> 0:13:27.320 is which is fine, but it was a little disappointing. Yeah. 0:13:27.400 --> 0:13:29.400 I just wanted to get out of there. I you know, 0:13:29.440 --> 0:13:31.719 he followed me, he tried to kiss me. I just 0:13:32.120 --> 0:13:35.520 it felt very awkward. I feel like his mom told 0:13:35.520 --> 0:13:37.320 me everything I needed to know, so. 0:13:39.080 --> 0:13:39.960 You could tell mom. 0:13:39.880 --> 0:13:41.920 I met a girl that and she's like, when's the wedding? 0:13:42.040 --> 0:13:46.520 Yeah, breakup till like six months after, because I don't 0:13:46.520 --> 0:13:47.200 want to deal with time. 0:13:48.559 --> 0:13:49.679 But that's a lot of detail. 0:13:49.800 --> 0:13:53.200 We really should be finding out, though, from David directly, 0:13:53.440 --> 0:13:55.880 and luckily for all of us, Annah, we can do 0:13:55.920 --> 0:13:58.760 that because David's on the other line of this call, listening, 0:13:58.800 --> 0:14:00.360 waiting to talk to you. 0:14:00.280 --> 0:14:01.800 Just like his mom on the other side of the door. 0:14:04.480 --> 0:14:15.400 Hey Anna, Yeah, oh my gosh, Anna, I am let 0:14:15.440 --> 0:14:18.719 me just explain. Let me I had no idea that 0:14:18.520 --> 0:14:20.880 that had happened. I'm so sorry that you were putting 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:24.560 such an awkward position. But yes, I have been out 0:14:24.600 --> 0:14:28.320 on a few dates with a girl named Katie, and 0:14:29.320 --> 0:14:31.960 probably about seven or eight dates over the course of 0:14:32.080 --> 0:14:34.720 probably about a month and a half. 0:14:37.440 --> 0:14:40.840 David, you went on like multiple dates with this person 0:14:41.080 --> 0:14:44.400 and you're telling your mother about her. This feels like 0:14:44.440 --> 0:14:46.000 you're with somebody. 0:14:46.440 --> 0:14:49.920 We haven't discussed being together. It's not serious. Yeah, I've 0:14:49.920 --> 0:14:53.200 still got some question marks. So I just I'm sorry 0:14:53.240 --> 0:15:00.560 I made you feel so uncomfortable. Katie, Oh my god. 0:15:00.200 --> 0:15:03.680 I think this is I think unfortunately this might be 0:15:05.200 --> 0:15:06.480 at the end of the conversation. 0:15:07.800 --> 0:15:11.320 Okay, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait does Katie? Is Katie 0:15:11.320 --> 0:15:13.280 also dating other guys to David? 0:15:13.360 --> 0:15:17.320 I mean maybe it's okay, it's I know that she 0:15:17.520 --> 0:15:19.920 can good answer. 0:15:22.680 --> 0:15:24.000 Yeah, that's good answer. 0:15:24.320 --> 0:15:26.880 But David, I just need to ask you if it's 0:15:26.920 --> 0:15:31.720 between Anna and Katie, are you picking Anna? 0:15:31.760 --> 0:15:31.840 Like? 0:15:31.920 --> 0:15:32.840 Is that why we're doing this? 0:15:32.920 --> 0:15:35.000 I mean, I we've only been out once, but I 0:15:35.080 --> 0:15:39.360 really like her. I haven't made a final decision yet 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:43.720 about anyone we're dating. That's what dating is. 0:15:43.880 --> 0:15:46.120 But David, if I'm going to ask Anna to go 0:15:46.200 --> 0:15:48.760 out on another date with you, I would think you 0:15:48.760 --> 0:15:51.480 would need to give a little bit more passion, like 0:15:51.920 --> 0:15:53.160 be more in on her. 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:54.600 You're so indecisive. 0:15:54.800 --> 0:15:56.800 Yeah, I just need to get to know her a 0:15:56.800 --> 0:15:57.400 little bit better. 0:15:57.760 --> 0:15:58.760 Oh and see. 0:15:58.560 --> 0:16:00.120 If those same question marks are there. 0:16:00.760 --> 0:16:02.920 So you want me to say yes you to go 0:16:03.000 --> 0:16:05.200 out with you and compete with another girl? 0:16:05.240 --> 0:16:10.680 Basically, I mean, it's not like I'm saying you can't 0:16:10.720 --> 0:16:12.160 go out with other guys. 0:16:12.480 --> 0:16:13.040 Yeah, I don't think. 0:16:14.640 --> 0:16:14.880 Yeah. 0:16:15.120 --> 0:16:19.040 Yeah, he's pretty certain Anna that you're gonna beat Katie 0:16:19.440 --> 0:16:20.320 if you go out with him. 0:16:20.400 --> 0:16:23.520 I don't even actually get that feeling, Jeff at all. 0:16:23.560 --> 0:16:24.200 I'm just trying. 0:16:24.200 --> 0:16:27.120 It feels like Katie's really winning this battle according to 0:16:27.160 --> 0:16:27.440 the mom. 0:16:27.520 --> 0:16:30.480 Anyway, Well, I guess at this point there's no other hope. 0:16:30.520 --> 0:16:32.120 I'm just gonna ask Anna, would you like to go 0:16:32.160 --> 0:16:33.440 out with David one more time? 0:16:33.600 --> 0:16:38.160 And we'd pay for it if you do? No? Oh wow, 0:16:39.240 --> 0:16:41.920 did you not see this coming? David? 0:16:42.000 --> 0:16:44.880 What if Katie? What if Katie's listening? 0:16:45.080 --> 0:16:46.760 Is she gonna feel a certain type of way. 0:16:47.440 --> 0:16:49.840 I mean, we have we have not officially said that 0:16:49.880 --> 0:16:52.240 we are monogamous in not seeing other people. So I 0:16:52.280 --> 0:16:55.200 feel like if she heard this, she would say, oh, hey, 0:16:55.240 --> 0:16:57.760 he went out with another woman, just like I have 0:16:58.000 --> 0:16:59.680 maybe gone out with another guy. 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:02.960 What would be even worse is if your mom heard this. Yes, 0:17:03.760 --> 0:17:05.639 think about how devastated she's going to be. 0:17:05.760 --> 0:17:06.720 She really likes Katie. 0:17:06.880 --> 0:17:10.080 Yeah, she's gonna tell some third girl about the other two. Yeah, 0:17:10.160 --> 0:17:13.880 now there's no third girl. There's no third girl. 0:17:14.600 --> 0:17:15.399 Mom, Mom's the. 0:17:15.400 --> 0:17:20.000 Third girl forever Brook and Jeffrey in the morning. 0:17:21.920 --> 0:17:23.879 You know, I'm still waiting for the time where a 0:17:23.960 --> 0:17:28.040 mom randomly shows up and actually helps seal the deal 0:17:28.200 --> 0:17:31.240 for her son. Oh you know, she just drops off 0:17:31.280 --> 0:17:34.360 some champagne and maybe a tray of a dozen oysters, 0:17:34.800 --> 0:17:36.679 pretends like she's from door Dash. 0:17:37.960 --> 0:17:39.080 I'm coming on, mom. 0:17:39.200 --> 0:17:41.439 Afrodisias is not going to be as hot as you 0:17:41.480 --> 0:17:41.920 think it is. 0:17:42.080 --> 0:17:44.879 Ja Is Man, Why are the moms always blocking it? 0:17:44.920 --> 0:17:47.359 Why can't some moms come through and step up for 0:17:47.440 --> 0:17:49.399 your baby boys? Yeah? 0:17:50.000 --> 0:17:51.080 Is that so much to ask? 0:17:51.160 --> 0:17:52.160 Is that a crazy thing? 0:17:52.320 --> 0:17:53.000 It's too crazy? 0:17:53.040 --> 0:17:55.479 Okay, Well, yeah, it's not going to happen, all right, Well, 0:17:55.960 --> 0:17:56.600 wish we'll thinking. 0:17:56.680 --> 0:17:57.720 Yeah, don't live in that dream. 0:17:58.160 --> 0:17:58.520 I guess not. 0:17:58.640 --> 0:18:01.040 It wasn't meant to be for sure today with David 0:18:01.040 --> 0:18:03.880 and Anna. Yeah, but it doesn't mean that your love 0:18:03.960 --> 0:18:06.240 life is over? Is because your mom shows up. 0:18:06.320 --> 0:18:09.280 I mean, it may work out for Katie who knows, 0:18:09.960 --> 0:18:10.920 and it could work out for you. 0:18:11.000 --> 0:18:12.800