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Speaker 1: You know it's summer, but we don't take vacation here. No,

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Speaker 1: we're still giving you new episodes, not that we.

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Speaker 2: Just took a vacation a few weeks ago. Yeah, we

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Speaker 2: do take We're not on vacation today.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I have a brand new episode today, and I'm

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Speaker 2: It's Brook Jeffrey, and what do we got for comments?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it says Hi, I'm a scene from Kenya listening

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Speaker 3: to you guys?

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Speaker 2: Will I write lines of code? Maybe I'll create a

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Speaker 2: fun web for you.

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: One zero zero one zero?

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Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah talking code?

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Speaker 2: No, all right, let's get to this new episode right now.

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Speaker 2: Brooke and Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates.

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Speaker 3: If you're a guy, there's this very particular moment of

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Speaker 3: panic that sets in on a first date. Jose, I

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Speaker 3: know you've probably experienced this before, where you're out with

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Speaker 3: the woman and she unexpectedly says yes to coming back

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Speaker 3: to your place, and you re lies you are not

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Speaker 3: ready for it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like wait, did I make my bed?

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Speaker 2: Wait? But you just didn't expect a yes.

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Speaker 5: Place.

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Speaker 3: You realize suddenly you're not ready and you're trying to

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Speaker 2: I'm actually glad to hear that you guys actually cared.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I always thought that you just went back

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Speaker 1: there and you're like, well, they just didn't even realize

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Speaker 1: it was gross.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I respond with us psych Yeah, well, apparently

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Speaker 6: that's the type of panic that one of our listeners, David,

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Speaker 6: experienced when he met somebody recently, and now he needs

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Speaker 6: our help.

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Speaker 4: David, Welcome to the show man.

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Speaker 2: Hey guys, I'm so curious to hear.

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Speaker 1: Is your place the type of place that has empty

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Speaker 1: alcohol bottles as decoration?

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Speaker 7: I don't think it's that bad. Generally, didn't end the

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Speaker 3: All right, well, let's start from the beginning. What's this

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Speaker 3: woman's name that you met Anna?

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Speaker 7: Okay, we met Unhinge.

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Speaker 4: That's a class.

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Speaker 2: What did you like about her?

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Speaker 4: I would like to know, and also what didn't you

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Speaker 4: like about her? Let's play both sides of it.

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Speaker 1: Well, I hope that you didn't swipe on her if

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Speaker 4: One Okay, we can start with the likes.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean she's beautiful. Definitely was attracted to her,

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Speaker 7: and as we were talking, she gave me the impression

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Speaker 4: Yes, positive energy.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you don't want some anxiety.

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Speaker 4: So what did you and Anna do?

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Speaker 7: Well, we had talked about in our conversations. This food

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Speaker 7: Greek food truck. Yeah, so we went and we got

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Speaker 7: chemistry is flowing. Everything's really great. And we started talking

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Speaker 7: about movies. Okay, I love eighties movies. Big John Hughes Fan.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so that's like sixteen Candles. Isn't he in Breakfast Club?

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Speaker 7: Maybe you're he directed?

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Speaker 2: Were that made me sound like an idiot?

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Speaker 7: All right?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, totally, Okay. You like the classics?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? Absolutely, And Breakfast Club actually coincidentally came up.

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Speaker 2: Okay, that's the one where they're like high schoolers.

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Speaker 7: And they have to see they're trapped into ten. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: and she'd never seen it, so I was just like, oh, wow,

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Speaker 3: So you weren't the one that put the idea of

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Speaker 4: She kind of floated at first.

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Speaker 7: But like you guys are saying at the beginning of

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Speaker 7: So okay, gave her my address, and obviously I was

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Speaker 2: Please let Google Maps fail her.

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Speaker 4: So it's a race to your apartments, I'm guessing.

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Speaker 7: Yeah. And then when we got there, I ran in,

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Speaker 1: Okay, well, that obviously, because that's what the whole movie

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Speaker 7: So we paused the movie and we start talking, and

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Speaker 7: I was just like, you know, I do have an

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Speaker 7: what I look like? Oh?

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Speaker 4: Wow, that's like embarrassing.

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Speaker 7: Why it's vulnerable?

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: So I go into my bedroom and as I'm in

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Speaker 7: and so I'm just like, did she just leave?

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Speaker 4: Oh?

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Speaker 2: Did she?

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Speaker 7: Somehow? It was actually worse because when I come back

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Speaker 4: Oh God, show up like that.

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Speaker 3: Oh no, nobody's going to give her a better idea

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Speaker 3: of what you were like in high school than your

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Speaker 2: What was your mom doing?

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Speaker 7: She likes to bring me food that she makes every

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Speaker 7: once in a while, and I talked to her about

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Speaker 7: it before, but she likes to make it a surprise.

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Speaker 4: That's cute.

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Speaker 2: It is your date and your mom now having a conversation.

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Speaker 2: Oh yes, what are they talking about?

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Speaker 7: I don't even know. It was like what they were

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Speaker 1: Well, and it's hard for you because you don't want

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Speaker 2: You can't do anything.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's a hundred percent what I would do in

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Speaker 4: But what do you do?

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Speaker 7: Well? I just tried to you know, mom put the

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Speaker 4: She blocked you, bro, you got mom blocked.

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Speaker 1: I mean, it is a vibe shift when the mom

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Speaker 6: I think some girls would be like, well, at least

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Speaker 6: he's a guy that has a great relationship with his

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Speaker 1: Yeah, but you would usually, even if you're not going

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Speaker 2: Did she leave? Did Anna leave before your mom?

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Speaker 7: Yes? I offered to walk her to her car, and

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Speaker 7: what she said She said, yes, okay, And when we

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Speaker 7: and I leaned in for a.

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Speaker 2: Kiss right after mom was there.

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Speaker 7: Yea yeah, and she gave me the cheek.

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Speaker 4: So that was how you two left it. What's happened since?

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Speaker 7: Well, I've texted a couple of times and I have

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Speaker 4: Brother, it's the mom. But is it the mom.

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Speaker 2: Or is it the fact that your mom walks in?

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Speaker 4: Is it a conversation they have?

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Speaker 2: Well, that's what we're gonna find out.

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Speaker 4: So many questions. We're gonna ask all five hundred of them.

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Speaker 4: All right, We're gonna write.

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Speaker 3: Down all of them and ask our favorite ones to

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Speaker 3: Anna when we come back, and.

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Speaker 4: I'll do it with your second date update right after this.

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Speaker 4: Hold on, David, Thank you guys, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, broken Jeffrey in the morning. Second date updates.

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Speaker 3: The moms are kind of like computer software updates, always

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Speaker 3: popping up at the least convenience, Like when you have

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Speaker 2: O Mom, and it takes forever.

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Speaker 3: That's exactly what happened for our listener David recently when

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Speaker 3: he brought his date Anna back to his place to

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Speaker 3: burst through the door, stuck around a little bit too

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Speaker 3: long until Anna eventually said, you know what, I.

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Speaker 2: Better head out, Yeah, before the mom even left.

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Speaker 3: Yep, so seems like we already know the reason why

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Speaker 3: Anna's ghosting. Our job is probably going to be to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean you can tell her, right, David, that

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you know, I have talked to my mom about this,

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Speaker 7: and it's been decided that she's not just going to

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Speaker 3: Something that by or secret knock, i know, put a

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Speaker 2: Yeah, no, sug.

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Speaker 4: I don't have all the answers. I'm just providing suggestions.

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Speaker 7: Don't worry about that, Guys, it's totally handled.

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Speaker 2: That's good. That's a good thing that we can tell Anna.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll leave all that to you. Let's just dial

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Speaker 3: her number. We'll see if she picks up the phone,

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Speaker 3: and hopefully we can convince her to give you another chance.

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Speaker 4: But I'm gonna dialer right now here we go. Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 4: is this Annah.

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Speaker 5: Yes, this is she is calling.

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Speaker 3: Hey Anna, this is a radio show called Brooke and

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Speaker 3: Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 4: Good morning, Anna.

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Speaker 5: This is uh what's about him?

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Speaker 3: Sorry, we get that reaction a lot, and we understand

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Speaker 3: that this is probably coming at you at once. But

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Speaker 3: we're doing a segment here. It's called a second Date Update.

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Speaker 3: We're trying to help out one of our listeners that

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Speaker 3: went on a date with you recently, a guy named David.

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Speaker 7: Oh wow.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah.

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Speaker 3: We're not surprised by your reaction to that, because we

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Speaker 2: David wouldn't be surprised to hear that either.

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Speaker 5: I'm so confused that he contacted you to talk about

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Speaker 5: our day.

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Speaker 4: That's kind of how it works.

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Speaker 3: They reach out to us and kind of tell us

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Speaker 4: We're the middle men and women. Well said, thank you.

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Speaker 2: I love how you put men first.

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Speaker 3: So I mean, we're trying to help David get back

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Speaker 4: Anna.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we just want to hear how you felt about David.

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Speaker 7: I mean.

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Speaker 2: Okay, but there were some good parts.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like you guys had a lot.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, we may know, but could you tell us what

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Speaker 5: Yeah? It was his mother there, it is.

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Speaker 5: It was just very uncomfortable and I didn't know what

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Speaker 2: Wait, from the very beginning it was awkward.

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Speaker 7: Really?

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Speaker 4: Is that because you didn't have a shirt on to

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she's just sitting topless while he goes to get

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Speaker 2: I don't know what kind of fantasies you have about dates,

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Speaker 4: Off watching The Breakfast Club. Things Happened a.

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Speaker 2: Movie about high school teenagers. I mean, I don't it's boring.

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Speaker 3: Why we're asking you what happened, because we don't really

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Speaker 5: Oh gosh, this is a lot right now.

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Speaker 7: Sorry.

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Speaker 4: Come if that didn't happen. That's just me speculating what

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Speaker 2: Okay, what can make it uncreepy? Cha's good.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, this is a little creepy, But I mean, I'll

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Speaker 5: for the yearbook and she said, oh, it's so finally

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Speaker 5: nice to meet you, Katie. And my name isn't Katie.

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Speaker 7: Oh, mom about a girl named Katie?

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Speaker 1: So wait, what did you say in response to that?

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Speaker 2: Is really awkward.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm gonna be honest.

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Speaker 7: I didn't know what to say.

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Speaker 5: Maybe she got the name wrong, so I just went

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Speaker 5: About how she's heard so much about me, how happy

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Speaker 1: Kept going, wait, wow, Wait, though, does that mean David

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Speaker 5: He's obviously dating a katie that's very special to him,

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Speaker 5: I just wanted to get out of there. I you know,

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Speaker 5: it felt very awkward. I feel like his mom told

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Speaker 4: You could tell mom.

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Speaker 7: I met a girl that and she's like, when's the wedding?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, breakup till like six months after, because I don't

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Speaker 2: But that's a lot of detail.

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Speaker 3: We really should be finding out, though, from David directly,

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Speaker 3: and luckily for all of us, Annah, we can do

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Speaker 2: Just like his mom on the other side of the door.

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Speaker 7: Hey Anna, Yeah, oh my gosh, Anna, I am let

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Speaker 7: that had happened. I'm so sorry that you were putting

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Speaker 7: such an awkward position. But yes, I have been out

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Speaker 5: David, you went on like multiple dates with this person

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Speaker 5: and you're telling your mother about her. This feels like

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Speaker 7: We haven't discussed being together. It's not serious. Yeah, I've

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Speaker 7: still got some question marks. So I just I'm sorry

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Speaker 7: I made you feel so uncomfortable. Katie, Oh my god.

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Speaker 5: I think this is I think unfortunately this might be

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Speaker 2: Okay, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait does Katie? Is Katie

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Speaker 7: I mean maybe it's okay, it's I know that she

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Speaker 3: But David, I just need to ask you if it's

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Speaker 7: Like?

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Speaker 4: Is that why we're doing this?

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Speaker 7: I mean, I we've only been out once, but I

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Speaker 7: about anyone we're dating. That's what dating is.

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Speaker 3: But David, if I'm going to ask Anna to go

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Speaker 4: You're so indecisive.

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Speaker 2: Oh and see.

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Speaker 7: If those same question marks are there.

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Speaker 5: So you want me to say yes you to go

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Speaker 7: Basically, I mean, it's not like I'm saying you can't

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, he's pretty certain Anna that you're gonna beat Katie

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Speaker 2: I don't even actually get that feeling, Jeff at all.

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Speaker 4: I'm just trying.

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Speaker 2: It feels like Katie's really winning this battle according to

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Speaker 3: Anyway, Well, I guess at this point there's no other hope.

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Speaker 3: I'm just gonna ask Anna, would you like to go

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Speaker 4: And we'd pay for it if you do? No? Oh wow,

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Speaker 4: did you not see this coming? David?

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Speaker 2: What if Katie? What if Katie's listening?

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Speaker 4: Is she gonna feel a certain type of way.

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Speaker 7: I mean, we have we have not officially said that

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Speaker 7: feel like if she heard this, she would say, oh, hey,

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Speaker 7: he went out with another woman, just like I have

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Speaker 7: maybe gone out with another guy.

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Speaker 3: What would be even worse is if your mom heard this. Yes,

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Speaker 3: think about how devastated she's going to be.

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Speaker 2: She really likes Katie.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, she's gonna tell some third girl about the other two. Yeah,

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Speaker 7: now there's no third girl. There's no third girl.

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Speaker 4: Mom, Mom's the.

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Speaker 6: Third girl forever Brook and Jeffrey in the morning.

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Speaker 3: You know, I'm still waiting for the time where a

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Speaker 3: for her son. Oh you know, she just drops off

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Speaker 4: I'm coming on, mom.

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Speaker 2: Afrodisias is not going to be as hot as you

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Speaker 3: Ja Is Man, Why are the moms always blocking it?

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Speaker 3: Why can't some moms come through and step up for

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Speaker 4: Is that so much to ask?

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Speaker 7: Is that a crazy thing?

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Speaker 2: It's too crazy?

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Speaker 4: Okay, Well, yeah, it's not going to happen, all right, Well,

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Speaker 4: wish we'll thinking.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, don't live in that dream.

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Speaker 4: I guess not.

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Speaker 3: It wasn't meant to be for sure today with David

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Speaker 3: and Anna. Yeah, but it doesn't mean that your love

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Speaker 1: I mean, it may work out for Katie who knows,

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Speaker 1: and it could work out for you.

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Speaker 3: If you need help in your love life, reach out

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Speaker 3: to the show. We'll call that person who's not calling

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Speaker 3: you back. Go check out all of our second date updates.

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Speaker 3: They're up online where you get your podcast at Brook

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Speaker 3: and Jeffrey