1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:05,120 Speaker 1: Well, Steve, the time has come, so let's just get 2 00:00:05,160 --> 00:00:07,960 Speaker 1: to it. We're going to address what's been trending. 3 00:00:08,720 --> 00:00:13,440 Speaker 2: Well, here's the deal. We decided to just address it 4 00:00:13,520 --> 00:00:16,919 Speaker 2: since it's out there. You know, it's one thing when 5 00:00:16,960 --> 00:00:20,400 Speaker 2: we're dealing with gossip, rumor and hearsay, that's one thing. 6 00:00:21,280 --> 00:00:27,000 Speaker 2: You know, I've dealt with this for years. But when 7 00:00:27,040 --> 00:00:32,440 Speaker 2: it's not gossip and it comes from you know, a 8 00:00:33,400 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 2: reliable source, you I mean, then it turns into something different. 9 00:00:39,280 --> 00:00:42,760 Speaker 2: And so, you know, we all of this trending stuff 10 00:00:42,760 --> 00:00:48,280 Speaker 2: and all this here, and so after some deliberation, we 11 00:00:48,440 --> 00:00:51,440 Speaker 2: got together. Now here's the deal about this Strawberry letter. 12 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:53,960 Speaker 2: I have no idea what Sheirley is going to say. 13 00:00:55,680 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 2: I told Shirley that it was up to her how 14 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 2: she wanted to address it. You know, I did go 15 00:01:03,200 --> 00:01:07,000 Speaker 2: along with this as an idea. I'm not I'm not 16 00:01:07,040 --> 00:01:09,720 Speaker 2: saying I didn't do that, because we talked about it 17 00:01:09,760 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 2: as a radio family and decided this may be the 18 00:01:13,440 --> 00:01:17,399 Speaker 2: best way, you know, because it's not it's no longer rumor. 19 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:20,200 Speaker 3: It's no, it's not gossip or anything. 20 00:01:20,240 --> 00:01:23,160 Speaker 2: You know, this is this is something that's really touching 21 00:01:23,240 --> 00:01:26,200 Speaker 2: us all right now, and so yeah, this is not 22 00:01:27,360 --> 00:01:29,760 Speaker 2: this is a strawberry letter. And like you know, I was, 23 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:32,959 Speaker 2: you know, being sarcastic when I did the Tea's last week. 24 00:01:33,400 --> 00:01:37,360 Speaker 2: The Strawberry letter is. I didn't know the subject was. 25 00:01:37,480 --> 00:01:40,040 Speaker 2: I didn't know I was gonna be my own letter, 26 00:01:40,680 --> 00:01:43,680 Speaker 2: you know, which is true Now Oftentimes I joke about 27 00:01:43,680 --> 00:01:46,000 Speaker 2: it because some of these letters sound like I was 28 00:01:46,040 --> 00:01:50,200 Speaker 2: in it, but this one is. And so today, uh, 29 00:01:50,400 --> 00:01:52,040 Speaker 2: the way I want it, I'm gonna do it, Charlier, 30 00:01:52,040 --> 00:01:53,160 Speaker 2: I'm gonna just let you talk. 31 00:01:54,960 --> 00:01:56,720 Speaker 3: I think it to me. 32 00:01:57,680 --> 00:02:00,960 Speaker 2: I think it's up to you to be a honest 33 00:02:01,080 --> 00:02:04,560 Speaker 2: or revealing as you choose to be. You know, we 34 00:02:04,600 --> 00:02:08,160 Speaker 2: can talk about as much of it as you like. 35 00:02:09,160 --> 00:02:11,680 Speaker 2: But I think it's an opportunity for you to say 36 00:02:11,720 --> 00:02:15,640 Speaker 2: what you want to say and share your feelings on it, 37 00:02:15,720 --> 00:02:18,000 Speaker 2: and then we'll have an exchange about it. 38 00:02:18,360 --> 00:02:20,320 Speaker 4: Okay, all right, all right. 39 00:02:20,200 --> 00:02:24,120 Speaker 1: Steve, I'm going to just start by saying that my 40 00:02:24,280 --> 00:02:28,920 Speaker 1: estranged husband is in jail. He's been in jail for 41 00:02:29,040 --> 00:02:33,320 Speaker 1: over a year since about the right after the fourth 42 00:02:33,320 --> 00:02:38,720 Speaker 1: of July of twenty twenty two, and recently, some phone 43 00:02:38,720 --> 00:02:42,240 Speaker 1: calls from last year between he and I were leaked, 44 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:46,600 Speaker 1: and on those calls you hear me saying you were 45 00:02:46,639 --> 00:02:51,560 Speaker 1: winded going up the stairs at your home, and Marjorie 46 00:02:51,560 --> 00:02:54,959 Speaker 1: looks at us as the help and right here and now, 47 00:02:56,720 --> 00:02:59,160 Speaker 1: I want to apologize to you and Marjorie for what 48 00:02:59,240 --> 00:03:02,960 Speaker 1: I said. As much as I wish I could, I 49 00:03:03,000 --> 00:03:04,000 Speaker 1: can't take it back. 50 00:03:04,160 --> 00:03:07,200 Speaker 4: I can't. I said it, and you know I want 51 00:03:07,240 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 4: to apologize. It was definitely. 52 00:03:10,600 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 1: Not me trying to add to what you and Marjorie 53 00:03:13,160 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: already have going on in your lives right now. 54 00:03:18,360 --> 00:03:20,880 Speaker 4: But the fact that these tapes were released, it. 55 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:24,080 Speaker 1: Does seem like everyone is coming to you, a coming 56 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:26,640 Speaker 1: for you, I should say, at this time, including me. 57 00:03:27,560 --> 00:03:31,400 Speaker 1: But in reality, the tapes have nothing to do with 58 00:03:31,440 --> 00:03:33,920 Speaker 1: what you and Marjorie have going on. It was just 59 00:03:34,080 --> 00:03:36,920 Speaker 1: me running my mouth in a private conversation or what 60 00:03:36,960 --> 00:03:41,240 Speaker 1: I thought was a private conversation. And again I apologize. 61 00:03:41,360 --> 00:03:44,880 Speaker 1: I feel terrible. I make no excuses. You know, I 62 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: said what I said, and there's no denying it, there's 63 00:03:49,560 --> 00:03:54,720 Speaker 1: no taking it back. Back then, when the phone calls happened, 64 00:03:55,080 --> 00:03:58,240 Speaker 1: I was trying to stand by my man, be supportive wife. 65 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:02,640 Speaker 1: You know, I've been married to this man for eight years. 66 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:06,400 Speaker 1: I had no idea that all this was going on 67 00:04:06,560 --> 00:04:09,600 Speaker 1: with him. I had no idea. And the charges that 68 00:04:09,720 --> 00:04:14,920 Speaker 1: he's facing are horrific. There are really bad, and I 69 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:18,480 Speaker 1: for sure did not want your name mentioned in any 70 00:04:18,560 --> 00:04:22,120 Speaker 1: kind of way associated with my mess. So I had 71 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:23,919 Speaker 1: to call you. I had to tell you. It was 72 00:04:23,920 --> 00:04:26,880 Speaker 1: a horror call. Horror call for me to make, but 73 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 1: I called you, and I want to clear something up, Steve. 74 00:04:31,360 --> 00:04:35,240 Speaker 1: You did not introduce me to him. I met him 75 00:04:35,279 --> 00:04:40,640 Speaker 1: through a friend I should say an ex friend now anyway, 76 00:04:40,680 --> 00:04:42,440 Speaker 1: So so back to what I was saying, I had 77 00:04:42,440 --> 00:04:44,559 Speaker 1: to tell you he was in jail, it was gonna 78 00:04:44,560 --> 00:04:46,840 Speaker 1: come out. I didn't want you to hear it from 79 00:04:46,880 --> 00:04:48,560 Speaker 1: anyone else. I wanted you to hear it. 80 00:04:48,520 --> 00:04:49,720 Speaker 4: From me, because I knew. 81 00:04:49,760 --> 00:04:53,880 Speaker 1: Once the police and everyone you know got involved, and 82 00:04:53,920 --> 00:04:56,159 Speaker 1: they were already involved, and they found out who his 83 00:04:56,240 --> 00:04:59,120 Speaker 1: wife was and who she worked with and all of that, 84 00:04:59,760 --> 00:05:03,440 Speaker 1: you know, and that's you, Steve Harvey. It would become, 85 00:05:03,880 --> 00:05:08,480 Speaker 1: you know, a real big story because it's you, your name. 86 00:05:08,839 --> 00:05:11,279 Speaker 1: And like I told you, Steve, when I called you, 87 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:12,599 Speaker 1: I didn't want to call you. 88 00:05:12,720 --> 00:05:17,599 Speaker 4: I mean, I was embarrassed. I was hurt, you know. 89 00:05:17,960 --> 00:05:22,480 Speaker 1: I felt so stupid, and you know, I felt betrayed, humiliated. 90 00:05:22,760 --> 00:05:26,120 Speaker 4: You know, it was just terrible. 91 00:05:26,360 --> 00:05:28,719 Speaker 1: I mean, I kept saying to myself, how is this 92 00:05:28,920 --> 00:05:31,880 Speaker 1: my life? You know, police and jail and all of this. 93 00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:36,839 Speaker 1: It was just something that I didn't you know, I'd 94 00:05:36,880 --> 00:05:40,479 Speaker 1: never experienced anything like this. The police came, they took 95 00:05:40,560 --> 00:05:44,240 Speaker 1: my car. I was at the salon getting my hair done. 96 00:05:44,320 --> 00:05:47,800 Speaker 1: They rolled up, took my car. I had to have 97 00:05:47,880 --> 00:05:51,280 Speaker 1: my stylist take me home. I had to move in 98 00:05:51,360 --> 00:05:55,159 Speaker 1: with friends. I lost my house, I lost everything. Oh 99 00:05:55,440 --> 00:06:01,000 Speaker 1: and I have to tell you this too, Like on 100 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:05,679 Speaker 1: the day July fourth, we were having dinner with friends 101 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 1: and we were going to watch the fireworks after that, 102 00:06:09,320 --> 00:06:12,960 Speaker 1: And so the fireworks didn't happen that night because it 103 00:06:13,080 --> 00:06:16,960 Speaker 1: was like a terrible, terrible storm. So the fireworks got canceled. 104 00:06:17,760 --> 00:06:21,400 Speaker 1: And when I look back, I see now that that 105 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:23,960 Speaker 1: was kind of a metaphor for what was about to 106 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 1: happen in my life. The thunderstorms were coming, they were coming. 107 00:06:28,520 --> 00:06:31,000 Speaker 1: The next day was the last time I saw him. 108 00:06:31,560 --> 00:06:36,800 Speaker 1: He was arrested the very very next day. You know, 109 00:06:36,920 --> 00:06:39,360 Speaker 1: I didn't even know he was arrested. I couldn't get 110 00:06:39,400 --> 00:06:43,600 Speaker 1: in touch with him later that day. Well, I'll tell 111 00:06:43,600 --> 00:06:46,120 Speaker 1: you the rest later, how I got the phone call 112 00:06:46,160 --> 00:06:48,680 Speaker 1: from jail and all of that. But we'll be back 113 00:06:48,720 --> 00:06:51,080 Speaker 1: at twenty three minutes after the hour with this live 114 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:52,039 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. 115 00:06:52,520 --> 00:06:55,279 Speaker 5: You're listening Morning show. 116 00:06:56,040 --> 00:06:58,839 Speaker 2: Hey, we're backed everybody in our Strawberry Letter this morning. 117 00:06:58,880 --> 00:07:02,360 Speaker 2: As you can see, is very very real letter. I'm 118 00:07:02,360 --> 00:07:05,120 Speaker 2: not going to interrupt it at this point. Surely was 119 00:07:05,200 --> 00:07:07,960 Speaker 2: going over some of the key points about how she 120 00:07:08,080 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 2: discovered the actions of her husband, the date that she 121 00:07:12,160 --> 00:07:16,040 Speaker 2: discovered it. She's apologized for the things that was said 122 00:07:16,480 --> 00:07:20,960 Speaker 2: about myself and Marjorie in the letter. I'm not responding 123 00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:25,840 Speaker 2: right now. I'm allowing her to tell her story. I 124 00:07:25,880 --> 00:07:29,400 Speaker 2: think it's important that a person tells their side of 125 00:07:29,440 --> 00:07:31,960 Speaker 2: it because, like I said earlier, this is not this 126 00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:35,000 Speaker 2: is no longer hearsay. This is not gossip or rumor. 127 00:07:35,080 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 2: This is real life. So surely you can continue, all right. 128 00:07:38,840 --> 00:07:41,480 Speaker 1: So I was telling you how I found out that 129 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:45,400 Speaker 1: he was in jail. I got a call from the jail, 130 00:07:45,760 --> 00:07:48,440 Speaker 1: and you know, I didn't answer it because I'm like, 131 00:07:49,040 --> 00:07:51,040 Speaker 1: who would be calling me from jail? I looked at 132 00:07:51,040 --> 00:07:54,080 Speaker 1: my phone, like jail where'd this call? You know, it 133 00:07:54,240 --> 00:07:58,200 Speaker 1: just didn't compute, so I just ignored it. But he 134 00:07:58,280 --> 00:08:01,320 Speaker 1: got word to me through one of his friends. They 135 00:08:01,400 --> 00:08:04,240 Speaker 1: texted me that he was at Fulton County Jail. So 136 00:08:05,440 --> 00:08:07,400 Speaker 1: the next time he called, I picked up and that 137 00:08:07,680 --> 00:08:11,440 Speaker 1: was him that I called earlier from jail, and you know, 138 00:08:11,720 --> 00:08:14,080 Speaker 1: he told me what happened. I thought he would be 139 00:08:14,120 --> 00:08:16,520 Speaker 1: getting out in a couple of days, because that's what 140 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 1: he told me. 141 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:21,360 Speaker 4: But of course, you know, here we are a year later. 142 00:08:21,520 --> 00:08:24,679 Speaker 1: Those days turned into weeks, the weeks turned into months, 143 00:08:24,720 --> 00:08:28,120 Speaker 1: and like I said, I don't this, this is just 144 00:08:28,240 --> 00:08:31,280 Speaker 1: on and on every day. It's just something and my 145 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:34,240 Speaker 1: life has just been a nightmare ever since, and it's 146 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:35,160 Speaker 1: still going on. 147 00:08:35,280 --> 00:08:35,600 Speaker 3: Steve. 148 00:08:35,720 --> 00:08:37,960 Speaker 4: I mean, I had no idea that those tapes would 149 00:08:38,000 --> 00:08:39,160 Speaker 4: be released to the world. 150 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:42,160 Speaker 1: You know, I knew that they were being recorded, but 151 00:08:42,240 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 1: I didn't know that they were going to go out 152 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:46,160 Speaker 1: to the world. I mean, I was just trying to 153 00:08:46,160 --> 00:08:49,959 Speaker 1: make conversation with him, trying to, you know, just get 154 00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:53,000 Speaker 1: him to think about something other than where he was. 155 00:08:53,200 --> 00:08:55,800 Speaker 1: You know, I was telling him about my day this 156 00:08:55,880 --> 00:08:59,880 Speaker 1: particular day, and that was the day we were talking about, 157 00:09:00,520 --> 00:09:03,640 Speaker 1: you know, on the phone when I said those things 158 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 1: about you and the things that you heard and the 159 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:09,640 Speaker 1: world heard and cut you. 160 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:10,160 Speaker 4: Today. 161 00:09:11,200 --> 00:09:14,679 Speaker 1: I haven't spoken to him in quite some time. Divorce 162 00:09:14,760 --> 00:09:19,080 Speaker 1: proceedings are underway, and Steve, at this point, all I 163 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:22,760 Speaker 1: could say is what I have is my faith. If 164 00:09:22,800 --> 00:09:25,200 Speaker 1: it wasn't for God, I probably would have, you know, 165 00:09:25,480 --> 00:09:28,960 Speaker 1: lost my mind or something in this instance. You know, 166 00:09:29,080 --> 00:09:32,959 Speaker 1: people don't see what happens when these mics go off. 167 00:09:33,760 --> 00:09:37,000 Speaker 1: You know, who wants their personal stuff, their private conversations 168 00:09:37,040 --> 00:09:38,240 Speaker 1: to go out to public. 169 00:09:38,320 --> 00:09:38,720 Speaker 4: No one. 170 00:09:38,880 --> 00:09:41,400 Speaker 1: No one wants that. I mean, what could I say 171 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:45,640 Speaker 1: to you after this, you know happened. I was devastated, 172 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:49,079 Speaker 1: I mean absolutely devastated. I mean I thought of everything. 173 00:09:49,240 --> 00:09:51,920 Speaker 1: You know, I could lose my job, you know, how 174 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 1: could I face you everything? You know, what I'm going 175 00:09:55,080 --> 00:09:58,040 Speaker 1: through is what I'm going through, you know, and I've 176 00:09:58,080 --> 00:10:01,160 Speaker 1: been going through it for over a year, having spoken 177 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:01,720 Speaker 1: about it. 178 00:10:02,040 --> 00:10:02,280 Speaker 4: You know. 179 00:10:02,400 --> 00:10:05,080 Speaker 1: Then on top of all that, these tapes come out, 180 00:10:05,280 --> 00:10:09,080 Speaker 1: and you know I'm talking about you and Marjorie, and 181 00:10:09,240 --> 00:10:12,040 Speaker 1: you guys are going through your own private hell right now. 182 00:10:12,200 --> 00:10:15,920 Speaker 1: You know, you didn't need me to contribute to anything, 183 00:10:16,200 --> 00:10:19,679 Speaker 1: you know, And I thought back you know, because I 184 00:10:20,320 --> 00:10:22,920 Speaker 1: knew I had to say something. Speak on You created 185 00:10:23,000 --> 00:10:26,720 Speaker 1: this created this term years ago in Los Angeles called 186 00:10:26,760 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 1: reality radio, and I'm going to tell you right now 187 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:31,120 Speaker 1: this is about as real. 188 00:10:31,600 --> 00:10:33,520 Speaker 4: As it gets, you know. 189 00:10:36,559 --> 00:10:38,920 Speaker 1: And the reason I'm here before you now, I wanted 190 00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:41,319 Speaker 1: to say it live on the radio is because your 191 00:10:41,400 --> 00:10:43,520 Speaker 1: name is in it. You know, We've been friends for 192 00:10:43,559 --> 00:10:47,680 Speaker 1: a long time, Steve, and these jail calls were made public, 193 00:10:47,800 --> 00:10:51,560 Speaker 1: and I wanted to give you and Marjorie a public 194 00:10:51,720 --> 00:10:56,679 Speaker 1: apology and to ask for your forgiveness publicly. I just 195 00:10:56,720 --> 00:11:00,400 Speaker 1: wanted to have a real moment with you. And you know, 196 00:11:00,800 --> 00:11:02,600 Speaker 1: I have to tell you I've been coming to work 197 00:11:02,679 --> 00:11:06,200 Speaker 1: every day because you know, it's my only safe haven 198 00:11:06,320 --> 00:11:08,040 Speaker 1: right now. It gave me a place where I could 199 00:11:08,120 --> 00:11:11,880 Speaker 1: still be myself and forget my troubles for a little while, 200 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:14,760 Speaker 1: you know, and just you know, do my jobs. 201 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:17,320 Speaker 4: You know, I want to thank you guys. 202 00:11:17,679 --> 00:11:21,640 Speaker 1: I want to thank you, of course Steve, Tommy Junior, 203 00:11:21,840 --> 00:11:24,640 Speaker 1: and of course my girl Carla, you know, for the 204 00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:27,440 Speaker 1: space and the grace that you guys have shown me. 205 00:11:28,360 --> 00:11:30,720 Speaker 1: You know, this is a very difficult time in my life. 206 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:34,480 Speaker 1: Is if you can imagine you know. I just I 207 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:36,720 Speaker 1: love you guys. We're family, and I thank you, and 208 00:11:36,800 --> 00:11:39,720 Speaker 1: I just want to thank everyone. I'm just trying to live. 209 00:11:40,640 --> 00:11:42,680 Speaker 1: I'm sorry for what you and your wife are going 210 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:45,120 Speaker 1: through right now in your life. And I hate your 211 00:11:45,200 --> 00:11:48,400 Speaker 1: names were dragged into my drama because you certainly don't 212 00:11:48,440 --> 00:11:50,439 Speaker 1: deserve it. 213 00:11:50,160 --> 00:11:52,920 Speaker 3: That's it. Well, Shirley, let me say this. 214 00:11:54,400 --> 00:11:59,000 Speaker 2: First of all, what's happening to me and Marjorie. I'm 215 00:11:59,000 --> 00:12:03,800 Speaker 2: going to address that, but let me say this, though 216 00:12:04,760 --> 00:12:09,360 Speaker 2: the devil is busy. The devil is busy, and the 217 00:12:09,400 --> 00:12:15,800 Speaker 2: devil don't come for those he got, He sends those 218 00:12:15,920 --> 00:12:20,160 Speaker 2: that he has. So now with all that's going on 219 00:12:20,280 --> 00:12:23,720 Speaker 2: around us right now, what I do understand though, see 220 00:12:23,760 --> 00:12:27,280 Speaker 2: this jail house conversation you had was last year in 221 00:12:27,440 --> 00:12:31,760 Speaker 2: October twenty twenty two. But the devil know how to 222 00:12:31,800 --> 00:12:34,840 Speaker 2: pile on at the right time. So this take that 223 00:12:34,960 --> 00:12:39,800 Speaker 2: was made in October twenty twenty two gets released right 224 00:12:40,480 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 2: right on the heels of all it is to just 225 00:12:44,120 --> 00:12:48,160 Speaker 2: pile on some more. And I guess you say you 226 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:51,760 Speaker 2: know it was recorded because you know when you everybody 227 00:12:51,760 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 2: get that phone call who ain't had that phone call 228 00:12:54,040 --> 00:12:56,319 Speaker 2: for county, we please know what your set a phone call. 229 00:12:56,400 --> 00:12:59,760 Speaker 3: This phone call is being recorded. We come back, will 230 00:13:00,080 --> 00:13:00,880 Speaker 3: dress some more of it. 231 00:13:00,920 --> 00:13:03,360 Speaker 2: This Strawberry Letter looked like it's about to be the 232 00:13:03,440 --> 00:13:07,160 Speaker 2: nine o'clock hour, So we'll be back with more of 233 00:13:07,240 --> 00:13:09,120 Speaker 2: the Steve Hard Morning Show right after this. 234 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:12,400 Speaker 5: You're listening Morning show? 235 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:16,559 Speaker 2: All right, y'all, we're back, and the Strawberry Letter has 236 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:19,000 Speaker 2: been extended because I think there's a lot that need 237 00:13:19,080 --> 00:13:21,360 Speaker 2: to be said. Just to give you a brief recap, 238 00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:24,120 Speaker 2: we open up the floor for Shirley to tell her 239 00:13:24,400 --> 00:13:26,240 Speaker 2: story whatever she wanted to do. 240 00:13:26,559 --> 00:13:28,520 Speaker 3: We didn't rehearse this, we didn't plan this. 241 00:13:29,240 --> 00:13:31,920 Speaker 2: Shirley came out and apologized for the things that was 242 00:13:31,960 --> 00:13:35,079 Speaker 2: said about myself and my wife. But I also realized, 243 00:13:35,120 --> 00:13:38,160 Speaker 2: and I know the timing of all this is important 244 00:13:38,480 --> 00:13:42,600 Speaker 2: because this conversation she had with her estranged husband was 245 00:13:42,679 --> 00:13:44,720 Speaker 2: in October of twenty twenty two. 246 00:13:45,160 --> 00:13:47,480 Speaker 3: The tapes got released right now. 247 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:49,959 Speaker 2: So and then when you can throw my name on anything, 248 00:13:49,960 --> 00:13:53,040 Speaker 2: because you look at all these stories my name headlines 249 00:13:53,080 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 2: and stuff, and so surely when it came out, she 250 00:13:56,160 --> 00:14:01,520 Speaker 2: called right away, apologized and everything. Nah, and and so 251 00:14:01,720 --> 00:14:05,520 Speaker 2: I understand that, and Suley didn't want her mess to 252 00:14:05,559 --> 00:14:06,600 Speaker 2: become our mess. 253 00:14:07,000 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 3: Let me say this to you, Shirley. 254 00:14:10,160 --> 00:14:15,199 Speaker 2: We have known about this right after it happened, but 255 00:14:15,280 --> 00:14:18,319 Speaker 2: we can't get in nobody's marriage and just go girl, 256 00:14:18,360 --> 00:14:18,960 Speaker 2: what you're doing? 257 00:14:19,520 --> 00:14:20,560 Speaker 3: What you what you're thinking? 258 00:14:20,560 --> 00:14:25,120 Speaker 2: What you They didn't want to say nothing because we 259 00:14:25,160 --> 00:14:27,160 Speaker 2: didn't want to talk about it, and we wanted to 260 00:14:27,240 --> 00:14:29,920 Speaker 2: create for you a space where you could come to 261 00:14:29,960 --> 00:14:33,200 Speaker 2: work and have some moments, because I know what it's 262 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:37,560 Speaker 2: like and you did to get beaten and eaten alive, 263 00:14:38,360 --> 00:14:42,480 Speaker 2: and so it became for us. Let's just be there 264 00:14:42,520 --> 00:14:45,000 Speaker 2: for her, and when you want to tell us, you 265 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:48,520 Speaker 2: would tell us when you're ready. Now, good thing you 266 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:52,480 Speaker 2: had Monica, Mississippi Monica, who has been with you this 267 00:14:52,840 --> 00:14:53,520 Speaker 2: whole ride. 268 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:56,960 Speaker 3: You did confide in her, so Monica. 269 00:14:56,600 --> 00:15:00,120 Speaker 2: Would keep us posted, but until you wanted to invite us, 270 00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 2: and we were just left over here as a support system. 271 00:15:05,440 --> 00:15:07,720 Speaker 1: Yes, I'm sorry, I didn't mean to interrupt you, but 272 00:15:07,760 --> 00:15:10,880 Speaker 1: can I just say this. I look at you guys 273 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:15,240 Speaker 1: as my family. You know, we all are family. You 274 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:17,880 Speaker 1: know a lot of times there was a time when 275 00:15:17,880 --> 00:15:21,240 Speaker 1: we saw each other more than we saw our actual families, 276 00:15:21,960 --> 00:15:24,280 Speaker 1: and you know, it was just so hard for me 277 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:28,040 Speaker 1: to I'm a private person, you know, but we all 278 00:15:28,040 --> 00:15:31,360 Speaker 1: have our stuff. We talk afterwards, we're friends, we're all that. 279 00:15:31,480 --> 00:15:34,000 Speaker 1: It was just hard for me to bring this particular 280 00:15:34,040 --> 00:15:39,680 Speaker 1: thing up. I was just so embarrassed, you know, and humiliated, 281 00:15:39,920 --> 00:15:43,880 Speaker 1: and I just felt like a fool. I felt so stupid, 282 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:48,120 Speaker 1: and you know, I couldn't. It's not that I didn't 283 00:15:48,200 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 1: want to talk about it. I just couldn't find the words. 284 00:15:51,680 --> 00:15:55,080 Speaker 1: And that's the honest, to God's truth. I just couldn't 285 00:15:55,080 --> 00:15:57,480 Speaker 1: come to you, guys. You know, if you had come 286 00:15:57,520 --> 00:16:00,960 Speaker 1: to me, I would have opened up. But you know, 287 00:16:01,080 --> 00:16:04,640 Speaker 1: I understand, but I just I couldn't. It was too much. 288 00:16:04,760 --> 00:16:06,840 Speaker 1: It was just too much for me at that time. 289 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:11,280 Speaker 2: You know, surely we get it. Hang on, this Strawberry 290 00:16:11,320 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 2: letter has been extended. This is important, y'all. We'll be 291 00:16:14,360 --> 00:16:17,720 Speaker 2: back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right 292 00:16:17,760 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 2: after this. 293 00:16:18,840 --> 00:16:23,880 Speaker 5: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. 294 00:16:23,920 --> 00:16:27,160 Speaker 2: We're back on the Steve Harvey Morning Show. We've been 295 00:16:27,360 --> 00:16:29,600 Speaker 2: addressing it all. I don't want to spend too much 296 00:16:29,600 --> 00:16:32,160 Speaker 2: time on the recap because we got so many things 297 00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:35,000 Speaker 2: to go over. But if you've been listening, you've been listening. 298 00:16:35,040 --> 00:16:37,040 Speaker 2: If you have it, then you just got to get 299 00:16:37,040 --> 00:16:39,000 Speaker 2: bought up to speed. We're on our heart app. You 300 00:16:39,040 --> 00:16:40,680 Speaker 2: can play it all day long. You can get this 301 00:16:40,720 --> 00:16:44,080 Speaker 2: whole interview. Surely open up with the apology to me 302 00:16:44,160 --> 00:16:48,080 Speaker 2: and my wife, and I wanted to make you all 303 00:16:48,080 --> 00:16:51,840 Speaker 2: aware of the timing of it. You know, my wife 304 00:16:52,160 --> 00:16:54,240 Speaker 2: and me, we've been getting beat up for the past 305 00:16:54,280 --> 00:16:55,320 Speaker 2: two weeks. 306 00:16:55,840 --> 00:16:57,440 Speaker 3: But when. 307 00:16:58,800 --> 00:17:01,600 Speaker 2: When something like this happens, you know, we our model 308 00:17:01,640 --> 00:17:05,640 Speaker 2: has always been to never address bloggers, and we don't. 309 00:17:05,680 --> 00:17:09,439 Speaker 2: We don't give it no room or steem know nothing, 310 00:17:09,480 --> 00:17:12,320 Speaker 2: because we know who we are and we know whose 311 00:17:12,359 --> 00:17:14,320 Speaker 2: we are, and so we don't. 312 00:17:14,600 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 3: We don't address bloggers. 313 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:20,359 Speaker 2: When this came out, it's a little bit different because 314 00:17:20,400 --> 00:17:21,880 Speaker 2: it's not gossip. 315 00:17:21,720 --> 00:17:24,400 Speaker 3: Rumor or or malicious lie. 316 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:28,159 Speaker 2: It came from the inside circle, because we are inside circle. 317 00:17:28,240 --> 00:17:31,840 Speaker 2: We are family. And so when it came out, you know, 318 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 2: Marjorie is on baby watch right now. We got another 319 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:38,440 Speaker 2: grandchild coming and the babies do any minute, So Marjorie's 320 00:17:38,480 --> 00:17:39,600 Speaker 2: over there on babywatch. 321 00:17:39,600 --> 00:17:41,240 Speaker 3: He just doing grandmama duties. 322 00:17:41,720 --> 00:17:44,400 Speaker 2: And Marjorie don't really get into all this right here, 323 00:17:44,480 --> 00:17:49,119 Speaker 2: and so I didn't really. You know, look, I'm so 324 00:17:49,480 --> 00:17:57,199 Speaker 2: used to getting beat up, but I didn't know how 325 00:17:57,280 --> 00:18:02,680 Speaker 2: Marjorie was feeling about everything that's out there, because these 326 00:18:03,240 --> 00:18:08,440 Speaker 2: these bottom feeders are just beating my wife up. And 327 00:18:08,480 --> 00:18:11,440 Speaker 2: even though we've made a conscious effort and we said 328 00:18:11,480 --> 00:18:14,680 Speaker 2: we're not gonna dress it, I'm I'm tired of it. 329 00:18:15,760 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 2: And so when this came out, this is how the 330 00:18:18,880 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 2: devil works. 331 00:18:19,880 --> 00:18:21,040 Speaker 3: I'm gonna pile it on. 332 00:18:21,280 --> 00:18:24,480 Speaker 2: I'm gonna go get somebody that worked for me, because 333 00:18:24,520 --> 00:18:30,119 Speaker 2: one more time, God don't come. The Devil don't come 334 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:34,560 Speaker 2: for those he got. He sends the ones he has. 335 00:18:35,040 --> 00:18:38,520 Speaker 2: So now I'm gonna get me a government employee that 336 00:18:38,640 --> 00:18:41,680 Speaker 2: needs some money, that work in food and County. I'm 337 00:18:41,680 --> 00:18:44,720 Speaker 2: gonna get a hold of him. I'm gonna release these tapes. 338 00:18:44,800 --> 00:18:46,680 Speaker 2: I'm gonna get him to need a little bit of money. 339 00:18:46,760 --> 00:18:49,000 Speaker 2: I'm gonna give it to this female blogger and she 340 00:18:49,080 --> 00:18:50,320 Speaker 2: gonna get a little bit of money. 341 00:18:50,400 --> 00:18:51,600 Speaker 3: And now I'm aa soak them. 342 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 2: But the timing of it was ugly because of everything 343 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:59,400 Speaker 2: else that's going on right now, and and and it 344 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:00,680 Speaker 2: made it look like. 345 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:04,679 Speaker 3: Shirley was piling on and that wasn't her intent. But 346 00:19:05,320 --> 00:19:06,040 Speaker 3: it happened. 347 00:19:07,160 --> 00:19:10,680 Speaker 2: Like I say, I understand what I'm The part I'm 348 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 2: coming with now is because it then got it's been 349 00:19:14,800 --> 00:19:19,520 Speaker 2: so ugly for my wife. Man, And see, this is 350 00:19:19,560 --> 00:19:23,199 Speaker 2: what I've never done before. It's been so ugly for 351 00:19:23,359 --> 00:19:26,639 Speaker 2: my wife. And I've stood there trying not to say nothing. 352 00:19:26,800 --> 00:19:31,000 Speaker 2: But I'm not a blog. We me Shirley Carler, Tommy 353 00:19:31,119 --> 00:19:36,119 Speaker 2: Mississippi Junior. We ain't a blog. We're a real media platform. 354 00:19:36,320 --> 00:19:37,960 Speaker 2: And I don't know if you all know what it's 355 00:19:38,119 --> 00:19:41,040 Speaker 2: like to wake up every morning that we get up. 356 00:19:41,359 --> 00:19:44,560 Speaker 2: And our job and mission is to brighten your date. 357 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:48,760 Speaker 2: And it don't matter how dark our date is. We 358 00:19:48,880 --> 00:19:51,600 Speaker 2: got the job to be the morning show, and we 359 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:54,359 Speaker 2: got to put on the show. And Tommy come in 360 00:19:54,400 --> 00:19:58,520 Speaker 2: here with Junior, come in here off of crisis with 361 00:19:58,640 --> 00:20:01,080 Speaker 2: sickle sell Tommy come in in here with bad news. 362 00:20:01,280 --> 00:20:04,400 Speaker 2: Timmy get hit with cancer, surely going through her life 363 00:20:04,480 --> 00:20:08,720 Speaker 2: right here. Carla got a whole family over here. Everybody 364 00:20:08,840 --> 00:20:11,840 Speaker 2: got crosses to bath. But we got to come in 365 00:20:11,880 --> 00:20:14,520 Speaker 2: here anyway, and we got to be the morning show 366 00:20:15,520 --> 00:20:17,720 Speaker 2: in spite of what's happening in our life when it 367 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:21,120 Speaker 2: ain't funny or fun or inspirational or motivational or informative 368 00:20:21,160 --> 00:20:23,679 Speaker 2: at all. We just in here trying to make it 369 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 2: so I get it. So what I'm about to do 370 00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:34,680 Speaker 2: now is clear up a few things and and and 371 00:20:34,920 --> 00:20:37,440 Speaker 2: you know the comment that came out, it was untimely, 372 00:20:38,320 --> 00:20:40,080 Speaker 2: you know, but that's why we don't have people in 373 00:20:40,119 --> 00:20:43,120 Speaker 2: our house. That's why we don't. That's that's that's why 374 00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 2: a whole lot of stuff we don't do. But when 375 00:20:45,720 --> 00:20:49,720 Speaker 2: I come back, we'll be back and my fat we'z 376 00:20:49,800 --> 00:20:51,600 Speaker 2: and ass are straightened all this out. 377 00:20:52,119 --> 00:20:54,600 Speaker 4: I said, I was sorry, but I'm just going to. 378 00:20:56,800 --> 00:21:00,320 Speaker 3: My fat we'z and ass going to the steps back. 379 00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:03,080 Speaker 4: I'm not saying where you were? 380 00:21:03,080 --> 00:21:05,040 Speaker 3: You sorry? All you want? Hell, that's what I heard. 381 00:21:06,880 --> 00:21:09,639 Speaker 5: You're listening shows. 382 00:21:11,760 --> 00:21:12,320 Speaker 3: All right, y'all. 383 00:21:12,320 --> 00:21:16,760 Speaker 2: We're back and this morning we've been dealing with everything. 384 00:21:16,840 --> 00:21:19,359 Speaker 2: So I hope you've been up because I'm not going 385 00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:24,480 Speaker 2: to recap because it takes too much time. My wife 386 00:21:25,359 --> 00:21:28,640 Speaker 2: and I talked about this, and I prayed about this, 387 00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:32,520 Speaker 2: and Marjorie told me, Steve, drop it, let it go. 388 00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:37,679 Speaker 2: But I see my wife's face and I see the 389 00:21:37,720 --> 00:21:40,800 Speaker 2: pain she been in, and she ain't just been in 390 00:21:40,800 --> 00:21:42,120 Speaker 2: this pain for two weeks. 391 00:21:42,680 --> 00:21:46,080 Speaker 3: She been in this pain for seventeen years with me. 392 00:21:47,600 --> 00:21:49,560 Speaker 2: And so now what I want to do right now, 393 00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:53,920 Speaker 2: I want to tell you something about my wife because 394 00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:56,840 Speaker 2: we're sitting up in here and we're dealing with stuff, 395 00:21:56,960 --> 00:22:01,439 Speaker 2: and that y'all just printing lies and rumors and the 396 00:22:01,480 --> 00:22:04,879 Speaker 2: deviciousness of it is what I'm fit to talk about. 397 00:22:05,440 --> 00:22:06,639 Speaker 3: Now, let me tell you something. 398 00:22:07,720 --> 00:22:10,440 Speaker 2: Normally we don't care about your blogs and all this here, 399 00:22:11,080 --> 00:22:12,560 Speaker 2: but I'm really tired of y'all, man. 400 00:22:12,880 --> 00:22:14,919 Speaker 3: And you know the sad thing behind all of this. 401 00:22:15,400 --> 00:22:16,440 Speaker 3: The majority of these. 402 00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:22,359 Speaker 2: Blogs they black people, the very people that we try 403 00:22:22,359 --> 00:22:26,080 Speaker 2: to uphold and uplift the most. What all of our 404 00:22:26,119 --> 00:22:29,080 Speaker 2: foundation is about about saving and changing the lives of 405 00:22:29,119 --> 00:22:33,320 Speaker 2: young black people. And then it's the black bloggers that's 406 00:22:33,359 --> 00:22:38,320 Speaker 2: the nastiest when it comes to all of us. And 407 00:22:38,359 --> 00:22:40,320 Speaker 2: that's that's the part I want to I want to 408 00:22:40,359 --> 00:22:42,200 Speaker 2: get at. And then I'm gonna let it go because 409 00:22:42,240 --> 00:22:45,879 Speaker 2: after today ain't no more. After today, there will be 410 00:22:45,960 --> 00:22:49,880 Speaker 2: no more. So when we come back, we'll be more. 411 00:22:49,920 --> 00:22:51,960 Speaker 2: To Steve Harvey Morning Show, I'm so sick of this 412 00:22:52,040 --> 00:22:52,800 Speaker 2: strawberry letter. 413 00:22:52,840 --> 00:22:59,040 Speaker 5: Well you're listening show, all right? 414 00:22:59,160 --> 00:23:01,400 Speaker 3: We're back. There's a deal. I'm gonna do a list 415 00:23:01,400 --> 00:23:01,840 Speaker 3: of facts. 416 00:23:01,880 --> 00:23:04,800 Speaker 2: My wife asked me not to do it because she said, Steve, 417 00:23:05,080 --> 00:23:07,560 Speaker 2: all them hater's gonna do is flip anything you say 418 00:23:07,560 --> 00:23:08,040 Speaker 2: in reverse. 419 00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:09,440 Speaker 3: Well you're doing it anyway. 420 00:23:09,760 --> 00:23:12,520 Speaker 2: And y'all there just lying about my girl and you 421 00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,120 Speaker 2: tearing away at her character. 422 00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:16,360 Speaker 3: And I don't like what you're doing to her. 423 00:23:16,920 --> 00:23:19,680 Speaker 2: I don't like the timing of this jail house release 424 00:23:19,800 --> 00:23:22,080 Speaker 2: because it just seemed like it added more and it 425 00:23:22,119 --> 00:23:25,040 Speaker 2: came from the inside. I'm tired, but she got to 426 00:23:25,119 --> 00:23:27,959 Speaker 2: be tired. The woman I married is a good woman. 427 00:23:28,280 --> 00:23:31,040 Speaker 2: She the best thing ever happened to me. She's God feared, 428 00:23:31,280 --> 00:23:35,199 Speaker 2: she's loyal, she's faithful, and she's a kind and loving person. 429 00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:38,800 Speaker 2: I don't care what nobody said. And y'all quit talking 430 00:23:38,880 --> 00:23:41,919 Speaker 2: about she was in my other marriage and ruined it. 431 00:23:41,960 --> 00:23:42,440 Speaker 3: She didn't. 432 00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:46,080 Speaker 2: She was nowhere around that my marriage. I got divorced 433 00:23:46,119 --> 00:23:48,360 Speaker 2: in two thousand and five. My marriage was over when 434 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 2: The Kings of Comedy was out. Y'all ain't know that, 435 00:23:51,040 --> 00:23:54,399 Speaker 2: though digit it was over then it took us this 436 00:23:54,600 --> 00:23:57,400 Speaker 2: long to get to the divorce. That's when the official 437 00:23:57,400 --> 00:23:59,879 Speaker 2: paperwork came out. But in two thousand and five, let 438 00:23:59,920 --> 00:24:02,040 Speaker 2: me hip you to something. I had nothing. 439 00:24:02,600 --> 00:24:03,280 Speaker 3: I lost the. 440 00:24:03,320 --> 00:24:06,480 Speaker 2: Radio show we were on in LA on March twenty third, 441 00:24:06,480 --> 00:24:08,800 Speaker 2: and I lost the only TV show I had May tenth. 442 00:24:09,000 --> 00:24:10,280 Speaker 3: Steve Harvey had no money. 443 00:24:11,119 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 2: Got with Marjorie again on New Year's Eve, met her, 444 00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:18,200 Speaker 2: talked to her. She was with her kids in Hawaii. 445 00:24:18,480 --> 00:24:21,880 Speaker 2: We got together in two thousand and six. We had nothing. 446 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,800 Speaker 2: She didn't marry into no lad lap of riches. I 447 00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:28,520 Speaker 2: had nothing when I asked her to marry me at 448 00:24:28,520 --> 00:24:31,320 Speaker 2: the end of two thousand and six, and then she 449 00:24:31,359 --> 00:24:33,399 Speaker 2: said she wanted to get married in two thousand and seven. 450 00:24:33,560 --> 00:24:35,760 Speaker 2: I sold her too soon. I got to get some 451 00:24:35,800 --> 00:24:38,120 Speaker 2: stuff together. She said what I said, Baber, I ain't 452 00:24:38,160 --> 00:24:40,440 Speaker 2: really got nothing. I'm trying to build. She said, I'm 453 00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:42,520 Speaker 2: gonna get in there and bill with you. We got 454 00:24:42,520 --> 00:24:44,520 Speaker 2: married in two thousand and seven. Do you know what 455 00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:47,159 Speaker 2: I was doing in two thousand and seven nothing. We 456 00:24:47,240 --> 00:24:51,000 Speaker 2: had four stations. In two thousand and five four we 457 00:24:51,160 --> 00:24:55,159 Speaker 2: built this. All of us built this. We had four stations. 458 00:24:55,440 --> 00:24:58,040 Speaker 2: We turned this into something. But that woman got down 459 00:24:58,080 --> 00:24:59,720 Speaker 2: there at fox Hole with me and turned this in 460 00:24:59,760 --> 00:25:02,920 Speaker 2: This in two thousand and seven, we got married. In 461 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:06,320 Speaker 2: two thousand and eight, we found out that somebody had 462 00:25:06,440 --> 00:25:09,160 Speaker 2: stolen seven years of my tax returns. 463 00:25:09,280 --> 00:25:10,480 Speaker 3: I ain't gonna mention no name. 464 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:13,240 Speaker 2: And we owed the government twenty two million dollars a 465 00:25:13,240 --> 00:25:15,679 Speaker 2: week in debt. But then guess what. She stayed with 466 00:25:15,760 --> 00:25:18,719 Speaker 2: me in that. Then guess what. In two thousand and nine, 467 00:25:18,800 --> 00:25:21,520 Speaker 2: I got family FEUs. In two thousand and nine, the 468 00:25:21,600 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 2: book came out. In twenty twelve, the talk. 469 00:25:24,840 --> 00:25:26,080 Speaker 3: Show came out. 470 00:25:26,280 --> 00:25:29,320 Speaker 2: I'm telling you, this woman got in the hole and 471 00:25:29,480 --> 00:25:33,320 Speaker 2: built this with me. She didn't steal nothing. And I'm 472 00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:36,320 Speaker 2: tired of y'all talking about my girl, because my girl 473 00:25:36,400 --> 00:25:38,919 Speaker 2: is one of the best women I've ever met. And 474 00:25:39,000 --> 00:25:41,400 Speaker 2: why you black ass people out there got these blogs 475 00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:43,879 Speaker 2: like you just gonna destroy somebody. I don't really know 476 00:25:43,880 --> 00:25:46,080 Speaker 2: what that's about, But don't worry about it because it 477 00:25:46,119 --> 00:25:50,000 Speaker 2: ain't working. Because all we are now we are a tighter, 478 00:25:50,040 --> 00:25:53,280 Speaker 2: two handed circle. Thank you for doing that, and you're 479 00:25:53,400 --> 00:25:56,480 Speaker 2: not gonna split us up, and we're not going nowhere. 480 00:25:56,640 --> 00:25:58,960 Speaker 2: And she is none of what you said she is, 481 00:25:59,240 --> 00:26:02,320 Speaker 2: and she the best check our notes. Now I'm defending her, 482 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,080 Speaker 2: and you can feel how you want to feel about that. 483 00:26:05,080 --> 00:26:06,199 Speaker 3: That's the God in me. 484 00:26:06,400 --> 00:26:08,240 Speaker 2: But now just let me give you one piece of 485 00:26:08,240 --> 00:26:10,480 Speaker 2: Steve Hawt I see your ass. 486 00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:15,560 Speaker 1: We'll be back with more of the Steve Harvey Morning 487 00:26:15,600 --> 00:26:17,679 Speaker 1: Show right after this. 488 00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:21,080 Speaker 4: You're listening Harvey Morning Show. 489 00:26:21,960 --> 00:26:24,440 Speaker 2: All right, we're back. This is the end of the show. 490 00:26:24,600 --> 00:26:27,240 Speaker 2: It's been a it's been a morning. 491 00:26:28,040 --> 00:26:31,159 Speaker 6: I'm proud of you, sure, I really am. 492 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,159 Speaker 7: It takes a lot of strength and a lot of 493 00:26:34,200 --> 00:26:37,119 Speaker 7: courage to do what you did, to be transparent like this. Sly, 494 00:26:37,440 --> 00:26:40,640 Speaker 7: you tell your story. Don't let other people tell your 495 00:26:40,720 --> 00:26:44,040 Speaker 7: story in our journey in life. We all make mistakes, Surely, 496 00:26:44,080 --> 00:26:47,600 Speaker 7: we all make mistakes, and yeah we have to you 497 00:26:47,760 --> 00:26:50,040 Speaker 7: have to keep asking God to guide your steps. 498 00:26:50,840 --> 00:26:51,800 Speaker 4: Do you know what I'm saying? 499 00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:52,879 Speaker 3: For sure? 500 00:26:53,200 --> 00:26:53,760 Speaker 4: Yeah? 501 00:26:53,920 --> 00:26:55,240 Speaker 3: Can I say this? Yeah? 502 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:58,600 Speaker 6: Man, were family and we got family members. There's not 503 00:26:58,960 --> 00:27:02,040 Speaker 6: a moment that I ain't got on Steve nerves. And 504 00:27:02,080 --> 00:27:04,960 Speaker 6: he said, and in a private conversation with somebody else, 505 00:27:05,160 --> 00:27:06,960 Speaker 6: you know what Tommy got on my damn nerd today. 506 00:27:07,440 --> 00:27:11,360 Speaker 6: It's not like we haven't said things that we just say. 507 00:27:11,480 --> 00:27:13,320 Speaker 6: You know what the junior got on my damn nerds. 508 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:18,080 Speaker 6: I'm sick of Junior. I've said that to somebody. You 509 00:27:18,119 --> 00:27:18,920 Speaker 6: know what I'm saying this. 510 00:27:18,880 --> 00:27:21,040 Speaker 7: Morning before I came to work, A time to getting 511 00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:22,960 Speaker 7: on your nerves. You said it before you open the mic. 512 00:27:23,359 --> 00:27:30,400 Speaker 4: All the damn pictures, he said in Lord, call. 513 00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:32,360 Speaker 3: Us right, Tommy's right. 514 00:27:33,240 --> 00:27:39,280 Speaker 2: Nobody wants their private thoughts, man, nobody. Do you know 515 00:27:39,359 --> 00:27:42,840 Speaker 2: what would happen if any of us had our private 516 00:27:42,960 --> 00:27:49,080 Speaker 2: thoughts in private conversation, and Lord, we wouldn't have no 517 00:27:49,200 --> 00:27:51,399 Speaker 2: damn we wouldn't have a morning show y'all, wouldn't be 518 00:27:51,440 --> 00:27:54,520 Speaker 2: a y'all show, wouldn't have a job out there. I 519 00:27:54,640 --> 00:27:57,960 Speaker 2: just think that everybody, we don't live in the world 520 00:27:58,080 --> 00:28:02,840 Speaker 2: that's forgiving anymore. We don't live in a kind world anymore. 521 00:28:03,480 --> 00:28:06,320 Speaker 2: We live in a falling world. But we do have 522 00:28:06,400 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 2: a lot of huge fans on this show, and we 523 00:28:10,040 --> 00:28:13,560 Speaker 2: do understand that there's a lot of people who love us. 524 00:28:14,040 --> 00:28:16,840 Speaker 3: The problem that I've said at a hundred times is 525 00:28:17,000 --> 00:28:19,320 Speaker 3: hate is louder than love. 526 00:28:19,520 --> 00:28:22,399 Speaker 2: But love is stronger, and we all gonna have to 527 00:28:22,520 --> 00:28:26,640 Speaker 2: learn that lesson. And as much as I want to 528 00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:29,000 Speaker 2: get out there and change things, and as much as 529 00:28:29,040 --> 00:28:32,040 Speaker 2: I wish people would stand up and back me more. 530 00:28:32,720 --> 00:28:34,000 Speaker 3: That ain't the world we live in. 531 00:28:34,760 --> 00:28:39,080 Speaker 2: We live in a social media climate and everybody's idea 532 00:28:39,520 --> 00:28:43,560 Speaker 2: is to tas somebody down to get clicks. And we're 533 00:28:43,600 --> 00:28:45,320 Speaker 2: just not gonna sit here and let you click this 534 00:28:45,480 --> 00:28:48,240 Speaker 2: sister's life away. And I'm not gonna sit here no 535 00:28:48,320 --> 00:28:52,080 Speaker 2: longer and let you destroy my wife's image and character. 536 00:28:52,760 --> 00:28:56,440 Speaker 2: It's hard and we need each other to support each other, 537 00:28:56,520 --> 00:28:57,320 Speaker 2: to show love. 538 00:28:58,320 --> 00:29:01,560 Speaker 3: Now. Look, man, do I expect this to change anything? 539 00:29:01,960 --> 00:29:05,440 Speaker 2: Probably not, But you know what, at least it feel 540 00:29:05,520 --> 00:29:10,320 Speaker 2: good to say your peace. Sometimes. Man, you just want 541 00:29:10,400 --> 00:29:14,120 Speaker 2: to be able to say your side. That's to tell 542 00:29:14,400 --> 00:29:18,360 Speaker 2: your damn story, your truth. Now, are they gonna twist it? 543 00:29:18,720 --> 00:29:18,960 Speaker 3: Yes? 544 00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:20,040 Speaker 7: Yes. 545 00:29:20,080 --> 00:29:22,040 Speaker 3: Are they gonna try to flip it and use it 546 00:29:22,080 --> 00:29:23,360 Speaker 3: against you? Yes? 547 00:29:24,640 --> 00:29:28,959 Speaker 2: But I got news for you, Isaiah fifty four seventeen 548 00:29:29,120 --> 00:29:33,040 Speaker 2: is real. It's the word of God. And I don't 549 00:29:33,080 --> 00:29:37,000 Speaker 2: care what you do. What God got for me, what 550 00:29:37,200 --> 00:29:40,680 Speaker 2: God got for you, what God got for Shirley, ain't 551 00:29:40,840 --> 00:29:43,960 Speaker 2: nothing you can do about it. What God got for Caring, 552 00:29:44,400 --> 00:29:48,480 Speaker 2: what God got for Junior, for timeing for Monica is 553 00:29:48,560 --> 00:29:51,240 Speaker 2: nothing you can do about it. No weapon formed to 554 00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:54,720 Speaker 2: givest me show prosper. You know what's really crazy, man? 555 00:29:55,000 --> 00:29:57,480 Speaker 2: Do you know really how YouTube and all this stuff works. 556 00:29:57,640 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 2: Do you know how many tens of thousands of cliques 557 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:02,240 Speaker 2: you have to get to make three to five cent? 558 00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,240 Speaker 2: Do you know how many millions of views you got 559 00:30:05,240 --> 00:30:08,680 Speaker 2: to have to make thousands of dollars? But hear what 560 00:30:08,840 --> 00:30:12,840 Speaker 2: happened when y'all jump on that danger tam down trail 561 00:30:13,040 --> 00:30:14,320 Speaker 2: and you post your video. 562 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:17,800 Speaker 3: What y'all do to each other? Y'all cannibalize each other. 563 00:30:17,960 --> 00:30:20,320 Speaker 2: So if y'all would just leave that one video, everybody 564 00:30:20,360 --> 00:30:22,360 Speaker 2: would have to go there to see it, and that 565 00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:26,360 Speaker 2: person could profit. But no, y'all take it like y'all 566 00:30:26,360 --> 00:30:29,360 Speaker 2: did your music and you spread it on your site. 567 00:30:29,480 --> 00:30:31,840 Speaker 2: Now a person can go anywhere and get it. Now, 568 00:30:32,040 --> 00:30:36,280 Speaker 2: guess what now, ain't nobody getting a million views? So 569 00:30:36,520 --> 00:30:43,240 Speaker 2: don't nobody profit? No weapon formed to just me show possible. 570 00:30:44,200 --> 00:30:47,400 Speaker 2: And I just wish man, that we as a people 571 00:30:47,440 --> 00:30:50,440 Speaker 2: would get out the hate business, cause the hate business 572 00:30:50,480 --> 00:30:53,360 Speaker 2: don't pay. I don't know if y'all been watching real close, 573 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:55,640 Speaker 2: but if you look at anybody out there that's been 574 00:30:55,640 --> 00:30:58,760 Speaker 2: in a hate business, that don't look real good right now. 575 00:30:58,920 --> 00:31:00,200 Speaker 3: I don't know if you notice that. 576 00:31:01,360 --> 00:31:05,640 Speaker 2: Listen, y'all, there's a motivational speaker named George White, and 577 00:31:05,760 --> 00:31:10,480 Speaker 2: this dude he released something that has kept me and 578 00:31:10,600 --> 00:31:13,520 Speaker 2: I play. I play it to myself every day. I'm 579 00:31:13,520 --> 00:31:16,480 Speaker 2: gonna play this. This is George White, a motivational speaker. 580 00:31:16,560 --> 00:31:20,040 Speaker 8: God chose you, so you're gonna have to fight more. 581 00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:23,240 Speaker 8: You're gonna have to do more. You're gonna have to 582 00:31:23,280 --> 00:31:27,600 Speaker 8: overcome more, but you gonna receive more. You're gonna receive more. 583 00:31:28,200 --> 00:31:30,600 Speaker 8: You who your blood I have been waiting for. And 584 00:31:30,760 --> 00:31:33,200 Speaker 8: God chose you because he know he can trust you. 585 00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:35,640 Speaker 3: He knows he can trust you. He know you will 586 00:31:35,720 --> 00:31:37,120 Speaker 3: keep faith when things go bad. 587 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:39,720 Speaker 8: He knows you that you want to retaliate when people 588 00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:40,640 Speaker 8: do he evil gets you. 589 00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:43,000 Speaker 4: He knows that you want to be conformed to this world. 590 00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:45,080 Speaker 3: But you'll be praying form by the renew of your mind, 591 00:31:45,360 --> 00:31:47,440 Speaker 3: by the renew to your mind, because you jo. 592 00:31:49,720 --> 00:31:52,880 Speaker 2: That's the God I serve, that's the God we serve. Shirley, 593 00:31:53,280 --> 00:31:56,320 Speaker 2: You're our girl, you our family. All this forgiving. We 594 00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,440 Speaker 2: come into work. Tommy almost think really important. 595 00:31:59,440 --> 00:31:59,760 Speaker 3: Shirley. 596 00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:03,120 Speaker 4: Yes, at least you don't have to cook no more. 597 00:32:03,680 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 4: You know that you know what I'm everything she said, 598 00:32:07,120 --> 00:32:09,040 Speaker 4: you know what I'm I mean, you ain't. 599 00:32:11,120 --> 00:32:11,360 Speaker 3: Sure. 600 00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:13,280 Speaker 7: Look at the bright side, there's a a lot to 601 00:32:13,320 --> 00:32:14,200 Speaker 7: pots and pay us up. 602 00:32:14,200 --> 00:32:16,240 Speaker 4: Shut well. 603 00:32:16,480 --> 00:32:19,280 Speaker 1: I just want to say, you know, thank you guys 604 00:32:19,840 --> 00:32:23,200 Speaker 1: for letting me finally get that out holding it in 605 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:27,200 Speaker 1: for quite some time. Thank you, guys. That's all I 606 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:29,600 Speaker 1: can say. And Steve to you, thank you of course 607 00:32:30,360 --> 00:32:31,320 Speaker 1: for not firing me. 608 00:32:32,600 --> 00:32:35,000 Speaker 2: This ain't worth losing no job. I had way worse 609 00:32:35,000 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 2: stuff happened to me. But you know what did I 610 00:32:37,280 --> 00:32:40,960 Speaker 2: just found out my fat we using asked some cardio. 611 00:32:41,200 --> 00:32:43,800 Speaker 4: That's all I already. 612 00:32:43,440 --> 00:32:45,920 Speaker 2: Got the Hey, hey you forgot that's the old last 613 00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:52,600 Speaker 2: take you see me. I'm so flying right now. All right, y'all. Hey, Breg, y'all, 614 00:32:52,680 --> 00:32:53,480 Speaker 2: keep talking to God. 615 00:32:53,520 --> 00:32:59,880 Speaker 3: We love you for all, Steve. 616 00:33:00,000 --> 00:33:03,720 Speaker 1: Every contest no purchase necessary, voidware prohibited. 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