Speaker 1: It's time to Catch a Cheater. Only on the Jubile Show.
Speaker 1: Katie is on the phone today for to Catch a Cheater.
Speaker 1: She's been married to her husband for eight years. His
Speaker 1: name is Seth, but now she thinks that something might
Speaker 1: be going on, so we'll see if we can help
Speaker 1: her out. Katie, sorry, you're going through this, but why
Speaker 1: don't yourselves what was going on? Why do you think
Speaker 1: your husband is cheating?
Speaker 2: I don't know if he's cheating or not. It's just
Speaker 2: this weird. We have a very good marriage, and we
Speaker 2: have I mean, I guess we've had a handful of
Speaker 2: rough spots, but I mean over the course of eight Like, well,
Speaker 2: we were together for eleven years, so a couple of
Speaker 2: years before we got married, and so there's going to
Speaker 2: be some rough spots. But I mean, you know, we
Speaker 2: we still went out. You know, we were trying, we
Speaker 2: were having fun, we were going to concerts and like,
Speaker 2: I don't know, we like to bowl, and I don't know,
Speaker 2: I always looked at us and thought of us as
Speaker 2: being like a really strong couple, and I don't know,
Speaker 2: I guess in the last couple of years, we both
Speaker 2: just started to work more and more. You know, I
Speaker 2: got this promotion and at work so much that I
Speaker 2: guess I kind of got complacent. You know, maybe he
Speaker 2: did too, you know, get home and just eat dinner
Speaker 2: and go to bed, and now he doesn't really want
Speaker 2: to go out as much anymore, which I'm all of
Speaker 2: this in my mind is kind of normal. Like, you know,
Speaker 2: we've been together for a really long time, and he's
Speaker 2: kind of a stereotypically kind of lazy dude, and I
Speaker 2: like that about him, you know, I like being comfy
Speaker 2: and cozy at home, but he does you know, he
Speaker 2: goes to see his friend Josh, but he's like that's
Speaker 2: been one of his best friends since high school. And
Speaker 2: I don't think he could be the cheer types because
Speaker 2: he doesn't really want to go out and do anything.
Speaker 2: But like I said, things have been different this last month.
Speaker 2: So he's going over to Josh's place like twice as
Speaker 2: much as he usually does, and I don't know, I'm
Speaker 2: wondering what he's really doing at his house. I mean,
Speaker 2: I've heard he's complained in the past about how Josh was,
Speaker 2: like he can get annoying after a while. And I've
Speaker 2: hung out with Josh and Death before and he's I
Speaker 2: can confirm that, Like, I don't know if we met
Speaker 2: him now in real life, like would we be would
Speaker 2: he be close friends with him? I don't know. It's
Speaker 2: not like he's been friends with him since high school
Speaker 2: and you know they've I respect that and I admire that,
Speaker 2: and I see, you know, there's a lot of love
Speaker 2: there for him, But like, I don't know, he's a
Speaker 2: boring dude and he's kind of annoying, and I can't
Speaker 2: I can't figure out what he's doing over there twice
Speaker 2: as much as usual. So that's one thing. And then
Speaker 2: the other thing that's been this kind of like huge
Speaker 2: change is that, all of a sudden, staff is a
Speaker 2: workout guy. I probably wouldn't have called you guys if
Speaker 2: it wasn't for that. He's working out every single day
Speaker 2: for several hours at a time. But I don't think
Speaker 2: he's ever worked out since we first met. I'm just
Speaker 2: is he's doing it to impress someone? Is it someone
Speaker 2: at work? Like he's there a long time. I don't know.
Speaker 2: This is not me, Like I'm not normally an insecure person.
Speaker 2: I know that it doesn't feel good.
Speaker 3: Yeah, I wouldn't call yourself insecure even though it's like
Speaker 3: you're noticing things are changing, and of course it's going
Speaker 3: to set off an alarm in you.
Speaker 1: So that's not even an insecurity.
Speaker 2: And his appetite is less too now, like he said,
Speaker 2: he's not really very hungry when we have dinner, like
Speaker 2: he had a big lunch or something like that, and
Speaker 2: that like there's never been a time where Seth hasn't
Speaker 2: wanted like pizza or Friday, we usually get Mexican dinner,
Speaker 2: and I don't know, he's just not finishing his plate,
Speaker 2: which is again unusual. And I asked him about it,
Speaker 2: and he just said he wanted to get back out
Speaker 2: of shape, which again totally valid. I want to support
Speaker 2: him in that. I don't want to deter him in
Speaker 2: any way. I'm just nervous.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and then if you're spending more time at the
Speaker 3: boring Josh's house, maybe I'm just curious as well triggered it.
Speaker 3: Maybe it's not necessarily cheating. Maybe it's just he inspired
Speaker 3: by something.
Speaker 1: I don't know. Hopefully he's not all right. You already
Speaker 1: told us what grocery store you guys are rewards card
Speaker 1: members at. So we'll play a song, come back and
Speaker 1: then call him and pretend to be from the grocery
Speaker 1: store and say that every single month, we choose one
Speaker 1: rewards card member who gets free flowers delivered from our
Speaker 1: floral department. We'll see if he sends us to you
Speaker 1: or somebody else. Okay, okay, all right, we'll play us
Speaker 1: on come back, get your to catch teeter next. Right
Speaker 1: in the middle of to Catch a Teeter, if you're
Speaker 1: just joining us, Katie is on the phone and she
Speaker 1: thinks that her husband's Seith of eight years might be cheating.
Speaker 1: So in a second, we're gonna call him and pretend
Speaker 1: to be from the grocery store that he's a rewards
Speaker 1: member at, and say that every single month we choose
Speaker 1: one lucky Rewards card member who gets free flowers delivered
Speaker 1: from our floral department, and he's this month's big winner.
Speaker 1: We'll see if he sends those flowers to his wife,
Speaker 1: Katie or someone else. But first, Katie, why don't you
Speaker 1: refresh everybody's memory on what's going on.
Speaker 2: Yeah, we've just dressed a little. In the last couple
Speaker 2: of years, we both work a lot, and in the
Speaker 2: last couple of months he's totally changed. Suddenly he's going
Speaker 2: over to his friend house twice as much as usual.
Speaker 2: Assault school buddy, who I think is pretty boring. He's
Speaker 2: told me he's boring. And the big thing that's worrying
Speaker 2: me is suddenly he's working out every day, which is great.
Speaker 2: He's looking great, but he's never been a workout guy.
Speaker 2: He's eating healthy. It's just such a sudden shift, and
Speaker 2: I'm just worried.
Speaker 1: Okay, you ready for us to call him? Yeah, Okay,
Speaker 1: here we go. Hi, this is corrible calling from I
Speaker 1: was looking for a rewards card member named Seth Seth. Hi,
Speaker 1: Please don't hang up. This is not a marketing phone call.
Speaker 1: I'm calling to actually tell you congratulations. You're this month's
Speaker 1: big winner.
Speaker 4: Okay, what did I win?
Speaker 1: Every single month, we choose one lucky Rewards card member
Speaker 1: who gets free flowers delivered from our floral department, absolutely
Speaker 1: free on us to anybody that you want. You won
Speaker 1: thirty six long stain red roses, a box that cane
Speaker 1: your chocolate in a car to be delivered to anybody
Speaker 1: that you want.
Speaker 4: Hi, it's very cool, not bad.
Speaker 1: So here's how it works. I can take down the
Speaker 1: information in just a couple of minutes over the phone.
Speaker 4: That's fine. No, that's fine. I actually have a little
Speaker 4: bit of downtime.
Speaker 2: It's good.
Speaker 1: All I will need is the first and last name
Speaker 1: of the person you want to send them to.
Speaker 4: Okay, same last name as mine, und Katie.
Speaker 1: And anything you'd like to put on a card.
Speaker 4: Uh yeah, pretty roses for a pretty lady. Love you kid?
Speaker 3: Oh that is I like that?
Speaker 4: Thanks? Yeah?
Speaker 1: So you ever you ever cheat on your wife at all?
Speaker 2: Ever?
Speaker 1: Set My name is Jubil and I it's the radio show.
Speaker 1: It's called the Jebels Show.
Speaker 3: Hi, poll shows here.
Speaker 1: I'm Nina Hi, and I'm Victoria. And your wife Katie
Speaker 1: is actually on the phone listening to this.
Speaker 4: Ah, so this is kind of like a set up
Speaker 4: to see them cheating or something like that.
Speaker 1: Is that like a yes, that's exactly what it is.
Speaker 1: We do a segment called to Catch a Cheater, and
Speaker 1: Katie thought maybe there might be something going on, So
Speaker 1: we were saying, if we could catch you by who
Speaker 1: you send flowers too?
Speaker 2: It's kind of flowers, babe?
Speaker 4: What would you do this?
Speaker 2: Oh? I'm sorry, I just didn't more what to do.
Speaker 2: You've been so different this last month. I mean, you're
Speaker 2: not the same guy. You just you're working out every
Speaker 2: single day for like multiple hours at a time, and
Speaker 2: I don't know, I just got in my head about stuff.
Speaker 5: I mean, I just I asked you why, and you
Speaker 5: didn't give me a raising. You just said you want
Speaker 5: to do me more healthy, which is valid, but like
Speaker 5: it's just so sudden, and I don't know. You're spending
Speaker 5: all this time over at Josh is like double sometimes
Speaker 5: triple as much.
Speaker 2: As you used to, and like it's just a like,
Speaker 2: are you really there? I don't know.
Speaker 4: It's crazy you think that I actually cheat on you.
Speaker 4: It's very cute, but like not really giving cheat on
Speaker 4: you with some like hot little hot lady or something.
Speaker 1: That's not that's I'm sorry. He's definitely not cheating.
Speaker 4: I love you. I wouldn't. I wouldn't, but also I
Speaker 4: guess I should. We should probably talk about it. Something
Speaker 4: kind of happened that to made me, uh kind of
Speaker 4: look at my life where I am right now as
Speaker 4: this is, uh, this is weird. So uh the reason
Speaker 4: I haven't spend a lot of time with Josh and
Speaker 4: he doesn't really want anybody to know, but you're kind
Speaker 4: of forcing my hand in this. He's he's been diagnosed
Speaker 4: with uh cancer.
Speaker 1: I'm so sorry.
Speaker 4: I've been going with him to doctor visits and stuff,
Speaker 4: you know, because he's not he doesn't live near his family,
Speaker 4: and we just you know, we've been best friends for
Speaker 4: a long time. And doctors are saying that it's totally
Speaker 4: tradable and success rates are pretty pretty good, pretty pretty
Speaker 4: responsive with how how early they caught it. But I
Speaker 4: mean that's kind of what's going on with him, and
Speaker 4: you know, he's he's Josh is really kind of secretive
Speaker 4: in his life, and he's like, you know, don't tell anybody.
Speaker 4: It's very embarrassing and everything. And I just didn't know
Speaker 4: what to do. So I've just really been kind of
Speaker 4: there for him as he's going through this so he
Speaker 4: doesn't have to do it alone.
Speaker 2: I had no idea. I had no idea, and so
Speaker 2: I mean, wow, but what does that What does that
Speaker 2: have to do with you? Like the working out and
Speaker 2: the eating. I mean, it's all that.
Speaker 4: Honestly. It was when I saw the look in his
Speaker 4: eyes when he first told me, you know, he couldn't
Speaker 4: stop crying, and I it kind of freaked me out.
Speaker 4: It kind of like made me think about my mortality
Speaker 4: and everything. And I just as soon as I saw it,
Speaker 4: I look in his eyes, I just decided. I was like,
Speaker 4: you have to make sure that you're around for the
Speaker 4: people who you care about. You know, it wouldn't be
Speaker 4: good if you know he's going through this, and you know,
Speaker 4: I haven't been healthy. I haven't been there black blax
Speaker 4: and eating pizza. You know, we always go out for Chinese,
Speaker 4: go after Mexican food and everything. And I'm just like,
Speaker 4: let me just make sure that I'm here. Let me
Speaker 4: just make sure that I'm around. So I really just
Speaker 4: wanted to be healthier and just be here for him,
Speaker 4: be here for you, be here for everybody that I
Speaker 4: care about. And uh, you know, it just it sucked too,
Speaker 4: because I mean I haven't worked out like this in years.
Speaker 4: But now that I'm doing it and really focusing on
Speaker 4: the reasons for doing it, it makes me start to
Speaker 4: enjoy it. Like I kind of tricked my brain and
Speaker 4: just thinking like you want to do this, and next thing,
Speaker 4: you know, it's like, I do want to do this,
Speaker 4: and then eating right kind of followed. I Mean, I know,
Speaker 4: I say I don't have an apathet a lot of times,
Speaker 4: but I don't. I'm just trying to eat, eat a
Speaker 4: little bit better.
Speaker 2: You know, well, now it's so terrible. Why didn't you
Speaker 2: just tell me? Why didn't you tell me any of
Speaker 2: those I would have understood completely.
Speaker 4: I'm I'm a little to be honest, I'm a little
Speaker 4: embarrassed about it too. I haven't you know, I haven't
Speaker 4: done anything physical since way way before the pandemic, and
Speaker 4: I just got used to that lacked lifestyle. You know,
Speaker 4: we just hang out and we always just kind of
Speaker 4: stay home and hang out, and we've just been in
Speaker 4: that mode. And you know, when I Josh is health scared,
Speaker 4: made me kind of realize that, you know, that's not
Speaker 4: a way to live. It's just kind of a way
Speaker 4: to just be. And I want to I just want
Speaker 4: to do more. I just want to be here and
Speaker 4: just have a better, healthier life and you know, not
Speaker 4: make a noise every single time I've been over. And honestly,
Speaker 4: I think that maybe I didn't tell you because as
Speaker 4: Josh was going to this house, trying to respect his privacy,
Speaker 4: and then you know, the embarrassment from him kind of
Speaker 4: leaked over unto me, and I was like, let me
Speaker 4: just you know, it's like sometimes you're improving yourself. You
Speaker 4: kind of want to hide from the world and reappear
Speaker 4: as a better version of yourself. I should have definitely
Speaker 4: told you because you clearly thought I was you care
Speaker 4: around for somebody.
Speaker 2: I'm really I'm.
Speaker 1: Really sorry sorry about your friend man. But Katie, at
Speaker 1: least you know now he's not cheating.
Speaker 3: Yeah, and I'm glad they caught it early. Everybody's got
Speaker 3: this away and need for wellness, and I think that's
Speaker 3: a great thing.
Speaker 4: Yeah, I mean, I keep looking for a side piece though.
Speaker 1: Okay, well that happens. You know, you can hear from
Speaker 1: us again.
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