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Speaker 1: It is time for your favorite segment, Steve asked the

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Speaker 1: CLO Chief Love Officer, Steve Harvey, ready for your love questions.

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Speaker 1: This one is from Tally in Kansas. Tally writes, my

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Speaker 1: seven year old son came home and told me that

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Speaker 1: his dad has a new girlfriend and he hates her.

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Speaker 1: I told him that's not nice to say about anyone,

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Speaker 1: and he said she made two steaks for her and

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Speaker 1: his dad, and she gave him chicken tenders. I spoke

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Speaker 1: to my ex and asked if my son was telling

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Speaker 1: the truth, and he said that his child is fine

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Speaker 1: with chicken tenders.

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Speaker 2: He's only seven. Now we've got a problem.

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Speaker 1: Because my ex is on board with his unequal treatment

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Speaker 1: of his own child. Should I talk to him? Should

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Speaker 1: I have a talk with them before this gets any worse?

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Speaker 3: What? Well, we have a situation here, Taty. First, your

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Speaker 3: question was your son hates your ex's new boyfriend. Now

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Speaker 3: you hear from her, Well you hate her now, So

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Speaker 3: we're not everybody in Teleyhouse hate the new girl. So

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Speaker 3: now we do have a problem. And you've spoken to

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Speaker 3: him and the seven year old on his steak, Now

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Speaker 3: I can understand. I don't know why you got these

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Speaker 3: chicken tenders turned into hate for you. I would have

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Speaker 3: been more than happy when I was seven, and plus

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Speaker 3: when I was seven. Back in them days, I wasn't

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Speaker 3: allowed to say I didn't want nothing. I hate them

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Speaker 3: damn chicken tenders, and shut my damn mouth. If I don't

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Speaker 3: up my mouth about them damn chicken tenders, them chicken

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Speaker 3: tenders would have got packed up in me and it

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Speaker 3: wouldn't have been as hard to go to the bathroom

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Speaker 3: next time.

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Speaker 2: So that's any way.

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Speaker 3: It would have happened. Yeah, you know what, now you

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Speaker 3: just let these chicken tenders out the next time you go.

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Speaker 3: So that's what it would have happened. In him. Do

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Speaker 3: you have a little situation. I think you should just

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Speaker 3: talk to him or your ex, and he really would

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Speaker 3: have been fine with the chicken tenders. I think this

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Speaker 3: is an overreaction. Your boy's seven years old. He's smart,

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Speaker 3: he's manipulative. He know to come in here with you

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Speaker 3: and say the right thing. So please be aware of

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Speaker 3: how smart and cunning kids are. I'm gonna come in

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Speaker 3: and upset my mama. I'm gonna tell her I hate

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Speaker 3: her because they had steaks and they gave me chicken tenders. Well,

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Speaker 3: you know you got a little bitty ass teeth, so

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Speaker 3: you know we got a little baby teeth, little baby

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Speaker 3: teeth posted to eat chicken tenders. I don't think it's

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Speaker 3: that big of a deal, and I wouldn't let this

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Speaker 3: little boy drive a wedge in it right down. This

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Speaker 3: unequal treatment is because he's not equal. What you don't

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Speaker 3: like is it was done by the new girlfriend, and

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Speaker 3: he made sure you knew it. Quite a slick moved

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Speaker 3: from the seven year old that loves his mother deally tally,

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Speaker 3: and he's just doing what little boys do because he

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Speaker 3: doesn't know yet that it's okay to love two people.

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Speaker 3: He does not know that yet, and so he's picking sides.

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Speaker 3: He's chosen you. But let's not make it any harder

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Speaker 3: than it can be. Yeah, very good, the chicken Tenders's fine.

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Speaker 2: Feel love all right. Moving on to Aaron in Oklahoma.

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Speaker 1: Aaron says, my mother's sixty four year old boyfriend makes

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Speaker 1: comments about my butt and it's making me uncomfortable. I'm

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Speaker 1: five to three and I'm a curby girl, but I

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Speaker 1: dress very conservatively. I've told my mother that he is

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Speaker 1: a dirty old man, and she said he means no harm.

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Speaker 1: It is underhanded way of giving a compliment. My husband

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Speaker 1: is about to get involved since my mom thinks it's cute.

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Speaker 1: I'm forty years old, so I don't need my husband's help.

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Speaker 2: How do I stop this dirty old fool?

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Speaker 3: Uh uh no, No, let your husband Hanley. Let your

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Speaker 3: husband Hanley. You're gonna whoop be there, but just let

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Speaker 3: him hand it. You're forty, you don't need your husband.

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Speaker 2: You don't.

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Speaker 3: But the husband can talk to him a little bit

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Speaker 3: different in a man. Any more comments about my lady behind,

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Speaker 3: he's going to be a problem for you. Be cho behind.

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Speaker 3: You just got a little man said it'll end a

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Speaker 3: lot quicker. See you then already went to yo mama

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Speaker 3: about it. It didn't work out. Now you're gonna go

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Speaker 3: to him. How you think it's gonna work out? Let

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Speaker 3: your husband talk to the man and it'll be done.

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Speaker 3: It's just a respectful conversation. He that's sixty four year old,

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Speaker 3: don't want it.

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Speaker 2: Forty.

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Speaker 3: He don't want that?

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Speaker 2: What he won't he fast?

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Speaker 3: See I'm sixty four. I'm telling you that ain't what

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Speaker 3: we want. Look at the ring, scared of it, but

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Speaker 3: we don't need that. A lot of speed moving around

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Speaker 3: in that room, and it ain't coming from him. A

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Speaker 3: lot of speed in that room, a lot of endings,

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Speaker 3: and it ain't coming from the sixty four year old.

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Speaker 2: All right's moving, that's behind him. You're on point this morning.

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Speaker 1: Celo Courtney in Tampa writes that I am recently divorced

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Speaker 1: and I have a crush on my coworker. I heard

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Speaker 1: he's messing with another girl at work, so I don't

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Speaker 1: need or want any drama. He won't admit that he's

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Speaker 1: messing around, but the fact that he's sinking around with

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Speaker 1: me makes me believe it's true. We've done everything except

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Speaker 1: go all the way, and I want him badly, but

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Speaker 1: for some reason, he's holding back. I invited him to

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Speaker 1: my house.

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Speaker 2: But he won't come.

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Speaker 1: Does this mean he is with another woman and he's

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Speaker 1: trying to be faithful to her? Lady?

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Speaker 3: Are you for real?

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Speaker 1: Huh?

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Speaker 2: Yep, she's for real?

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Speaker 3: Wait? Are you for real?

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Speaker 2: Courtney?

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Speaker 3: You all have done everything but go all the way.

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Speaker 3: He won't go all the way. You invited him to

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Speaker 3: your house, but he won't come. You know he's dating

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Speaker 3: a coworker that he's fooling around with you don't want

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Speaker 3: no drama, but you right on the edge of creating drama. Can't.

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Speaker 3: I can't help you, Courtney, because it seems to me

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Speaker 3: like you want to do what you want to do regardless.

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Speaker 3: Now you just need Uncle Steve's permission. I'm not gonna

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Speaker 3: give it to you.

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Speaker 2: Good, that's what she wants.

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Speaker 3: You're dating this man is dating another woman on the job.

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Speaker 3: But he won't admit it. But you know it. He

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Speaker 3: don't admit to you either. You just got divorce. Why

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Speaker 3: would you jump into somebody that's in a relationship. That's

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Speaker 3: probably why you got divorced in the first place. Somebody

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Speaker 3: would meet somebody already in a relationship, Courtney. Let's not

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Speaker 3: be stupid here, Courtney. There are other men out there.

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Speaker 3: Open up your pool, get on a day, app Quit

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Speaker 3: trying to find your man. At your job and your church,

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Speaker 3: it's the same people down there every week. Open up

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Speaker 3: your but it's the same men every week at the church.

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Speaker 3: Ain't no new men coming to the church. It's new

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Speaker 3: women coming to the church. Ain't no new men coming

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Speaker 3: to the church. Men sign up for church like Republicans

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Speaker 3: sign up for the vaccine.

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Speaker 2: Dang, and we all want it. Right there. This it

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Speaker 2: leave it right there?

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Speaker 3: Wow?

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Speaker 1: Does this mean he is with another woman and he's

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Speaker 1: trying to be faithful to her?

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Speaker 3: It means he don't want you? What you're trying to

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Speaker 3: put it out here? He don't want you. He'd have

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Speaker 3: done everything with you except go all the way. You'd

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Speaker 3: invited him over the house and he won't come. One

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Speaker 3: and one is two.

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Speaker 2: Yes, what you won't?

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Speaker 3: Whatever he doing, don't worry about that. He don't, won't you? Hello?

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Speaker 2: Will come on Courtney, Come on, Courtney girl. All right,

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Speaker 2: thank you, Clo. You're listening Morning Show