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Speaker 1: All right. This is from mis anonymous on Steve Harve FM,

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Speaker 1: and you'll see why she wants to remain anonymous after this.

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Speaker 1: She says that recently posted a meme that I thought

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Speaker 1: was funny, only to find out later it had some

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Speaker 1: really messed up racist origins. I had no idea. I

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Speaker 1: thought it was just a silly little internet joke, but

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Speaker 1: as soon as someone pointed it out, I deleted it.

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Speaker 1: I got several dms from friends saying w TF, and

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Speaker 1: I was able to explain it to them that I

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Speaker 1: just had no clue about the memes meaning. But now

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Speaker 1: I'm wondering if I should make a public post explaining myself,

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Speaker 1: or will that just make things worse? Is silence the

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Speaker 1: better move? Or do I own my ignorance out loud?

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Speaker 1: And she did not say, what mean what racist meme?

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Speaker 1: It was? It's a white woman. I can tell it's

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Speaker 1: a white woman.

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Speaker 2: Yeah you see, Karen, Yeah, it's a white lady and

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Speaker 2: her black friends, and then hit up with with WTF,

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Speaker 2: I get it. And now she's trying to figure out

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Speaker 2: how to how to just come just come out and say, look,

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Speaker 2: I had no idea, I'm sorry, I apologize. I let

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Speaker 2: it go. But yeah, your black friends can hit you

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Speaker 2: up for show.

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Speaker 1: Yeah yes, yeah, yeah, just own it so we can

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Speaker 1: move on. But you know, a teaching moment.

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Speaker 3: Do you think she should post something? I think she's silent.

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Speaker 3: I don't think she shouldn't.

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Speaker 2: Don't, don't, don't make it worse.

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Speaker 1: Ye, yeah, that's that's that's what she's saying. Yeah, should

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Speaker 1: she make a public post explaining herself?

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Speaker 3: Will that just makes it worse? Yeah.

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Speaker 2: Once black people send you a w TL, you need

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Speaker 2: to check yourself. You check yourself because you're right on

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Speaker 2: the edge. You're right on the.

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Speaker 3: Edge, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Tracy on Seve Barb FM, Tracy says,

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Speaker 1: it's a small world. I recently got, you know, a

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Speaker 1: woman who was smart, funny and just genuinely fun to

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Speaker 1: be around. And it turns out she's also my boyfriend's ex.

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Speaker 1: They dated a few years ago, nothing dramatic or toxic.

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Speaker 1: They've clearly moved on. But the minute he found out

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Speaker 1: we've been hanging out, he started tripping. He says it

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Speaker 1: makes him uncomfortable and asked me to stop being friends

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Speaker 1: with her. The thing is, I really like her. I

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Speaker 1: don't understand. I don't feel threatened, and I know she's

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Speaker 1: not trying to start anything, So do I just have

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Speaker 1: to cut her off because of their past? She likes

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Speaker 1: the woman, so she wants to remain friends.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but her man a little uncomfortable though, you know

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Speaker 3: what is that? What's more?

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Speaker 2: What's more, he's I don't know, he's uncomfortable. So if

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Speaker 2: he's uncomfortable, you gotta respect that. When you what would

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Speaker 2: your ladies do if your man is saying he's uncomfortable?

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Speaker 3: Can we just do you have to be friends with

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Speaker 3: this one? Prison?

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Speaker 2: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: I mean I'll be like, what does that mean? What

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Speaker 1: does that mean? You're uncomfortable?

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Speaker 3: See? Why why did you have to go haul deeper

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Speaker 3: into all? Yeah? The man is saying he uncomfortable, so

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Speaker 3: I don't want to be her friend. I'm good. Look

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Speaker 3: at my man, You're right.

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Speaker 1: You know I'm.

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Speaker 4: Saying this time, I'm gonna say just like this too,

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Speaker 4: because you know you don't know her like I know her.

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Speaker 3: That's why we exes. I know, Okay, I know that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, you think she's funny, she's genuine, and she does

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Speaker 4: all this great person all that stuff.

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Speaker 3: See that's true, that's not true. See, everybody love evil

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Speaker 3: people in public. Evil people are loved in public. Everybody

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Speaker 3: loved evil my ex. Think about my own eggs.

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Speaker 4: Everybody. Everybody love evil people in public? In public, everybody

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Speaker 4: loved them. You know what I would like my ex?

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Speaker 4: She took all my clothes and put them in a

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Speaker 4: trash bag and set them my side.

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Speaker 3: But then she go to my mama house for Thanksgiving.

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Speaker 3: Ain't that evil?

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Speaker 1: Oh that's evil. Now I'm with you when you're right,

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Speaker 1: that's evil.

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Speaker 3: At my mama. Everybody loved her. Then I walk in

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Speaker 3: the house. They is right there to turn my own

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Speaker 3: family against me. Help you. Everybody love evil people in public?

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Speaker 3: Yes they do understand by that. Yeah, family is just

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Speaker 3: I'm just telling you. Everybody love evil people in public.

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Speaker 3: She can't do no wrong. But then I know all

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Speaker 3: the cussing out she did to me. I know everything

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Speaker 3: she's done to me.

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Speaker 2: I know, Okay, turn my cell phone off.

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Speaker 3: I know she turned it off.

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Speaker 4: I know why you don't have your own phone.

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Speaker 3: No, she had my social security number.

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