WEBVTT - All This is Pratt with Heidi Pratt 0:00:01.880 --> 0:00:05.320 Wine Down with Janet Kramer and I Heart Radio Podcast. 0:00:06.440 --> 0:00:09.559 All Right, guys, catch my breath? All right, are you 0:00:09.560 --> 0:00:16.000 good there? KB? Whoa thirty weeks you guys were closing 0:00:16.040 --> 0:00:19.279 in downs the gun. Yeah, because you can technically, I 0:00:19.320 --> 0:00:21.720 mean technically technically I've had friends. Okay, what was it, 0:00:21.760 --> 0:00:24.279 twenty four weeks? She just get dry breast one? No, 0:00:24.360 --> 0:00:26.760 I filled them in. Thanks for noticing. She looks really pretty. 0:00:26.800 --> 0:00:31.440 She has good makeup? Did good makeup? I need you 0:00:31.480 --> 0:00:34.720 look really refreshed, like you look like yourself still, just 0:00:35.080 --> 0:00:37.559 like very refreshed version, which is my favorite kind of 0:00:37.560 --> 0:00:40.239 makeup for people. I just got some new just like yeah, 0:00:40.240 --> 0:00:46.640 like moisturize her anyway. Thanks. Yeah, I was just like sorry. 0:00:46.640 --> 0:00:47.600 It was the first time I looked at you, and 0:00:47.680 --> 0:00:50.800 I was like, all right, I like it. Really sorry 0:00:50.800 --> 0:00:53.080 back to you, KB, Apologies were taking that away from you. 0:00:53.120 --> 0:00:56.560 It's a big moment. No, it's just a big body. 0:00:58.200 --> 0:01:00.560 Uh No, I was saying, because we've gosh, well, how 0:01:00.680 --> 0:01:04.160 how young were those twins that are people? Twenty four 0:01:04.800 --> 0:01:06.920 micro which is my girl. Yeah, they had like a 0:01:07.000 --> 0:01:09.480 zero or like a two percent, and but they both survived. 0:01:10.000 --> 0:01:13.120 I shouldn't be sorry. I should This has been a no. 0:01:13.200 --> 0:01:15.280 But I know, but I'm saying, but like, at this point, 0:01:15.319 --> 0:01:18.000 your baby could survive. I feel really like there is 0:01:18.000 --> 0:01:20.280 a point in pregnancy where you get to where you 0:01:20.319 --> 0:01:23.679 just started a little deeper. Yeah, a little until you 0:01:23.720 --> 0:01:26.200 got the stairs and then you're back out of breath 0:01:26.200 --> 0:01:28.280 again and then you get out of breath. Yeah, but 0:01:28.400 --> 0:01:31.560 it's good, so good. This has been my most um 0:01:31.720 --> 0:01:35.200 reassuring baby of the three. Real love the four really 0:01:35.280 --> 0:01:40.360 but um yeah, because I it moves so much. Oh so, 0:01:40.400 --> 0:01:42.600 I never wonder if if it's okay in there. I 0:01:42.640 --> 0:01:45.160 think she's like, hey, just so you know, like, I'm here, Mom, 0:01:45.200 --> 0:01:48.200 I'm here. Danna always thinks it's a girl. It's for 0:01:48.320 --> 0:01:50.080 sure a girl, Like I will get a boy. I 0:01:50.080 --> 0:01:51.800 will put money on it. That's a girl. Are you 0:01:51.840 --> 0:01:54.720 a good guesser? Mmm? I mean I have a fifty 0:01:54.760 --> 0:01:59.040 fifty shots, right. I usually am wrong, So whatever I 0:01:59.080 --> 0:02:01.120 guess is usually a sit for people. That's why I 0:02:01.120 --> 0:02:05.160 wonder if you're like, yeah, I'm undefeated. What were you guessing? Oh? 0:02:05.200 --> 0:02:07.880 I think it's a girl too. I've been correct with 0:02:07.920 --> 0:02:12.600 my own children, but everybody else is I'm horrible. Oh interesting, Yeah, 0:02:12.600 --> 0:02:14.880 I feel like I can like call It's like my 0:02:14.960 --> 0:02:20.520 sense of direction. You know direction you do. Thank you 0:02:20.639 --> 0:02:22.200 every time we're out of town. Just trust me, I 0:02:22.240 --> 0:02:26.000 know where I'm going. Thank you. Don't even meet a map, 0:02:26.040 --> 0:02:29.400 I just sniff it out. We're all trying to get 0:02:29.440 --> 0:02:32.440 the you know, it's like it's this way, guys. I 0:02:32.440 --> 0:02:34.400 don't know. I've just always been you know why. It's 0:02:34.440 --> 0:02:36.600 because I lived in the boonies from all of my 0:02:36.639 --> 0:02:39.240 friends and at that time, that was pre map quest. 0:02:40.080 --> 0:02:41.760 I try to figure out how to get to figure 0:02:41.760 --> 0:02:45.040 it out. It was pre map quest, Yeah, print it 0:02:45.080 --> 0:02:46.880 out just to figure it out. No, I think it 0:02:47.000 --> 0:02:50.600 was like so I was the oldest of the drivers 0:02:50.840 --> 0:02:53.000 and so I think it was. I remember printing it out, 0:02:53.040 --> 0:02:56.520 like going it going to someone's house. But it was 0:02:56.600 --> 0:02:59.600 like very new. Yeah, like because I was like having 0:02:59.639 --> 0:03:01.960 to write out mapst got me in the biggest trouble 0:03:01.960 --> 0:03:05.480 of my life. What happened. So my best friend Julie 0:03:05.560 --> 0:03:10.239 Cooper and I Mattie, she is still my best friend. 0:03:10.400 --> 0:03:14.880 Shout out to UK. I've never heard of her territorial 0:03:14.960 --> 0:03:18.640 here for it. So we printed out we were going 0:03:18.680 --> 0:03:22.400 to sneak off to Michigan State oh uh huh, which 0:03:22.440 --> 0:03:24.760 is like not like me. I get very nervous. I'm 0:03:24.760 --> 0:03:28.040 a rule follower. And we printed up the directions from 0:03:28.080 --> 0:03:30.360 her house to Michigan State and left them on the 0:03:30.400 --> 0:03:33.400 printer and her mom was like, you're going to go 0:03:33.440 --> 0:03:36.040 to Michigan State tonight and we were like, no, no way, 0:03:36.080 --> 0:03:38.520 and she like holds up the paper, what is this for? 0:03:38.760 --> 0:03:40.960 And I was like uh oh, and we were busted 0:03:41.080 --> 0:03:42.920 and then we were forbidden to see each other for 0:03:43.040 --> 0:03:51.120 like ever, isn't that senior? A senior senior in high school? 0:03:51.200 --> 0:03:52.680 Do you ever have Do you have a defining moment 0:03:52.720 --> 0:03:56.880 from childhood or something? Because mine came up just a 0:03:56.880 --> 0:03:58.560 couple days ago and I was walking with the kids, 0:03:58.560 --> 0:04:01.360 like I remembered something from our child hood that I've 0:04:01.400 --> 0:04:05.880 just I've it's always like it's it's just an interest story, 0:04:05.960 --> 0:04:08.000 just kind of like that where you get caught, Okay, okay, 0:04:08.120 --> 0:04:10.160 so it's where you get caught, yeah, and I got 0:04:10.160 --> 0:04:12.600 caught as a kid, but it's I mean, it's years 0:04:12.680 --> 0:04:15.040 is years is better, but it's I was the same 0:04:15.040 --> 0:04:18.400 mind for Kat can think about hers, but I me 0:04:18.440 --> 0:04:23.960 and my girlfriend Lindsay Crocker. Who did you met her. Yeah, 0:04:24.160 --> 0:04:26.719 I've never met her, so she's acceptable. Yeah, she's she 0:04:26.839 --> 0:04:29.360 came on the best one time. She's I mean, I 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:32.520 mean we're not like you know, it was Lindsay Crocker. 0:04:32.600 --> 0:04:36.000 You're not like me and you go ahead there. It 0:04:36.040 --> 0:04:38.240 was Lindsay Crocker and Mary Dodge, and I was kind 0:04:38.240 --> 0:04:39.960 of always like so it was like me and Lindsay 0:04:40.000 --> 0:04:42.719 were the closest and then when there was the three 0:04:42.720 --> 0:04:45.240 of us, I was the outside. Okay, she was also 0:04:45.279 --> 0:04:49.160 close to Mary too, long story short, and Lindsay I 0:04:49.200 --> 0:04:52.440 was probably Jolie's age, like seven, six or seven. We 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:56.400 wanted to do a dance show for our neighborhood and 0:04:56.480 --> 0:04:59.080 put on a dance like in the common area. So 0:04:59.240 --> 0:05:04.599 days on brand, are you okay? So I had we 0:05:04.640 --> 0:05:07.120 had made these flyers. We came up with this amazing 0:05:07.200 --> 0:05:11.080 dance in her basement of course perfect and my I 0:05:11.120 --> 0:05:14.359 wasn't allowed to cross the street like without a parent, 0:05:15.120 --> 0:05:18.960 and so what I did, and so my because we 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:22.159 were had to hand out the flyers, right, I mean, 0:05:23.640 --> 0:05:26.000 when I go to the neighbor's house, like to give 0:05:26.080 --> 0:05:29.839 the flyers. Like, so my mom found out that you know, 0:05:29.920 --> 0:05:33.120 she saw the flyer in the other like in the mailbox, 0:05:33.160 --> 0:05:36.160 I think, or whatever, and I got grounded, and um, 0:05:36.400 --> 0:05:38.520 we never did our dance. But you know what's funny 0:05:38.720 --> 0:05:41.000 is I never really canceled it, so I don't even 0:05:41.000 --> 0:05:46.680 know that. I still wonder if anyone showed up, huge group, 0:05:48.320 --> 0:05:54.640 everyone in hand, wondering where. But I just remember getting 0:05:54.680 --> 0:05:57.320 like I couldn't cross the street. And so yesterday or 0:05:57.360 --> 0:05:58.880 the other day, when I was walking with the kids, 0:05:58.880 --> 0:06:01.520 I said, please stop at the stop sign, but they 0:06:01.560 --> 0:06:04.360 had then run across the street and gone home, and 0:06:04.360 --> 0:06:05.839 I was like, don't ever do that again. I was like, 0:06:05.839 --> 0:06:08.120 without mommy, because these cars I just go by so fast. 0:06:08.200 --> 0:06:10.000 But you know, and I wanted to be like and 0:06:10.120 --> 0:06:13.799 I had to cancel a dancers idea. They got grounding 0:06:14.080 --> 0:06:16.960 Kramer Cracker Done show was a big new show that 0:06:17.080 --> 0:06:21.680 was just Kramer and Cracker wasn't invited. He dodged one them. 0:06:22.160 --> 0:06:24.880 Thinking about all my kids running around the neighborhood right now, 0:06:24.960 --> 0:06:29.800 probably the streets different are a little older. So I've 0:06:29.800 --> 0:06:32.680 got Jace who doesn't look across with Jolie, and so 0:06:32.720 --> 0:06:35.040 I'm like, you can't just run brother across the street 0:06:35.120 --> 0:06:38.440 like that, like without looking you like more of the 0:06:38.600 --> 0:06:40.560 like Ramsey runs across the street to her, but like 0:06:40.560 --> 0:06:42.360 around a cold a sax, don't worry about it. Yeah, 0:06:42.360 --> 0:06:44.760 we're on the main like yeah, you are same, drive 0:06:44.880 --> 0:06:46.919 like no, no, like a highway basic and they like 0:06:47.000 --> 0:06:51.040 drive fast. And I'm like that parent that you're that one. 0:06:51.240 --> 0:06:53.440 I'm the old lady in the neighborhood. That's like waving 0:06:53.520 --> 0:06:58.360 my hand. Yeah. But it's like your kids live here. 0:06:58.760 --> 0:07:00.880 We had so many kids that run around in here 0:07:00.920 --> 0:07:02.320 that I just am like, you know, so I put 0:07:02.400 --> 0:07:05.359 my little uh turtle, I love your turtle with the 0:07:05.360 --> 0:07:11.240 flag in the middle of the street. You got one 0:07:11.240 --> 0:07:14.560 to um. All I can think about right now is 0:07:15.360 --> 0:07:17.880 I was not allowed to talk to boys on the phone. 0:07:18.120 --> 0:07:20.640 It was fifth grade. I remember I was ten. Fifth grade. 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:22.840 A boy called this is back in the day when 0:07:22.920 --> 0:07:25.440 like the answering machine. That was the worst. When you're 0:07:25.440 --> 0:07:27.440 sitting for dinner and then all of a sudden, it's like, hey, 0:07:27.880 --> 0:07:32.520 it's Sam just calling. And I'm like, Sam looked really 0:07:32.560 --> 0:07:39.640 pretty today, choir, but go ahead, um. But Chris Blank 0:07:39.760 --> 0:07:44.440 called me. I just remember, and I don't remember what 0:07:44.520 --> 0:07:48.080 he wanted, but I remember my mom. Well, I went 0:07:48.080 --> 0:07:50.320 to the other room to get it. I remember walking 0:07:50.360 --> 0:07:52.400 in the hallway and her meeting me in the hallway. 0:07:52.440 --> 0:07:55.080 I mean, like, why was he calling? And I made 0:07:55.160 --> 0:07:57.720 up a lie like he needed something for school. Well, 0:07:57.760 --> 0:07:59.920 she was listening the entire time on the other way 0:08:00.000 --> 0:08:06.240 in Mine's not liar liar pants on fire? Yeah, Chris 0:08:06.480 --> 0:08:09.920 l Guys, Maggie went out on Broadway the other day. 0:08:10.080 --> 0:08:12.640 She did? She did you guys ready for a few 0:08:12.640 --> 0:08:15.080 of that? I have not, so I only listened to 0:08:15.080 --> 0:08:18.000 one of them. But are you ready? She's precious. Here 0:08:18.040 --> 0:08:20.160 we go. I've got the videos too, And this is 0:08:20.200 --> 0:08:23.440 gonna just be one second. I mean, this is I'm 0:08:23.440 --> 0:08:26.200 gonna show this video. I mean she's she's a bridesmaid. 0:08:26.720 --> 0:08:30.840 She's got some purple hair. Wait was she really a bridesmaid? Yeah? 0:08:30.880 --> 0:08:33.280 I mean she's wearing the I feel like you can't 0:08:33.440 --> 0:08:35.240 wear the t R if you're not a bridesmaid? What 0:08:35.280 --> 0:08:36.920 I didn't if she was like posing maid? What do 0:08:36.960 --> 0:08:42.160 you mean bridesmaid? Because this is the most okay, But 0:08:42.200 --> 0:08:44.240 if you're in Nashville, this is a very undercover look. 0:08:44.280 --> 0:08:46.840 If you didn't want to be noticed because a bridesmaid 0:08:48.280 --> 0:08:51.840 except ath Carolina Eline, what is your biggest dick in 0:08:51.880 --> 0:08:55.720 a relationship when they don't know how to clean up 0:08:55.760 --> 0:09:01.040 after themselves in the dishwasher, put your close in the hammer, right, 0:09:02.760 --> 0:09:07.000 it's not that difficult. I agree, don't you agree? I 0:09:07.040 --> 0:09:11.360 do agree wholeheartedly. Payton. And my question is what is 0:09:11.360 --> 0:09:16.079 a good agent? Get married? Oh? Pay good question? Pay In? 0:09:16.800 --> 0:09:26.520 Do you know my gutens was it? Never? Never? Never? Run? Payton? No? 0:09:26.720 --> 0:09:33.520 What is your I would say thirty two. That was 0:09:33.559 --> 0:09:39.240 my first divorce. I mean I would say thirty two 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:42.079 or thirty five, Like I like thirty five, I feel 0:09:42.080 --> 0:09:44.760 thirty five. I don't know, because there's things I liked 0:09:44.800 --> 0:09:49.840 about being like well, having kids early, being married early, 0:09:49.880 --> 0:09:52.880 but having kids early. Um, but i'd say, like twenty 0:09:52.960 --> 0:09:55.199 eight to thirty. I still think I would have dined. 0:09:55.240 --> 0:09:57.560 I want you to be like solidly in your thirties. Yeah, 0:09:57.559 --> 0:10:00.920 I need a solid thirty two because yeah, the food. 0:10:01.200 --> 0:10:03.320 But it also depends where you're at, right, So like 0:10:03.360 --> 0:10:06.520 I wasn't fully there yet, but I don't think you 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:08.920 really get there till your thirties anyways. Maybe I don't know. 0:10:09.040 --> 0:10:10.960 But then when you look a cat, well I was 0:10:11.040 --> 0:10:15.720 like this at eighteen, so like you know, like old, 0:10:16.280 --> 0:10:19.760 like acting grandma at the age of eighteen, but most 0:10:19.760 --> 0:10:23.200 people are. I do think it just matters. I think 0:10:23.200 --> 0:10:27.199 it matters what you know to be sure of about yourself. Yeah, 0:10:27.240 --> 0:10:31.800 for sure. M like I I knew when I was 0:10:31.800 --> 0:10:35.040 getting married the first time it was not the time 0:10:35.360 --> 0:10:38.240 same and I look back and I'm like why, But 0:10:38.280 --> 0:10:42.880 it was like such a smart choice, like to people's plans, 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:51.280 that was mine. Oh yep, staying on branded people. This 0:10:51.360 --> 0:10:55.200 question is from from from from Broadway. Hi, I'm store 0:10:55.280 --> 0:10:58.320 me up from South Carolina, and my question is way 0:10:58.480 --> 0:11:04.400 in a relationship should you use are doing your partners laundry? Never? Ever? 0:11:04.559 --> 0:11:08.480 Also never never, someone's gonna wrap that up never never 0:11:08.520 --> 0:11:11.840 never a right three nevers And that was good from Broadway. 0:11:12.400 --> 0:11:15.439 I like personally, like I have I done? No, I 0:11:15.440 --> 0:11:18.839 haven't done Alan's laundry. H Allen strikes me as a 0:11:18.880 --> 0:11:21.240 do it yourself first and he does his laundry, and 0:11:22.400 --> 0:11:24.240 I think he's thrown mine in a few times. Oh 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:27.040 he did. He threw mine in and then he left 0:11:27.040 --> 0:11:29.839 it kind of in a pile, the dry pile. And 0:11:29.840 --> 0:11:31.480 I don't like the dry pile because then it's then 0:11:31.520 --> 0:11:33.840 it's wrinkled. So I'm like in my mind, I'm like, 0:11:33.880 --> 0:11:36.240 let's I didn't say anything because it's like great is 0:11:36.360 --> 0:11:38.560 sweet thought at the same time, like I will just 0:11:38.600 --> 0:11:45.720 rewash it. M go, don't touch my stuff. I shouldn't 0:11:45.720 --> 0:11:48.200 be married. I don't. I'm probably just pregnant and tired. 0:11:48.280 --> 0:11:50.800 But I really this person to his own laundry he 0:11:50.840 --> 0:11:54.160 does now do it. I will I do all of 0:11:54.160 --> 0:11:57.679 ours if his isn't there to do. But he's usually 0:11:57.679 --> 0:11:59.800 in and out repacking so quick that he's like let 0:11:59.800 --> 0:12:02.840 me to he just does allowed. I have a question though, 0:12:03.080 --> 0:12:05.079 because you do the kids laundry? Do you do the 0:12:05.120 --> 0:12:14.920 kids lundry? Yeah? Yeah, same obviously. Yeah, it'd be nice 0:12:15.320 --> 0:12:17.839 if they would. I know you're still gonna say no 0:12:17.920 --> 0:12:21.480 to this, but we have to do like double laundry, 0:12:21.800 --> 0:12:23.959 so it would be nice if they picked up the 0:12:24.040 --> 0:12:27.599 slack too. I'm about to cast my husband publicly go 0:12:27.800 --> 0:12:31.400 work because he's like I caught us up on laundry 0:12:31.480 --> 0:12:33.480 the other day and I was like, okay, dry pile, 0:12:35.080 --> 0:12:39.080 heaping dry pile on top of like the laundry room counter, 0:12:39.200 --> 0:12:41.880 and I was like, so that's not caught up. Caught 0:12:41.960 --> 0:12:44.360 up to me is like those items are then in 0:12:44.400 --> 0:12:47.680 their room and roy GBIV in the closet hanging that's 0:12:47.720 --> 0:12:51.559 caught up. So those are done, but those are not folded, 0:12:51.600 --> 0:12:53.400 and they're not put in a basket, and they're not 0:12:53.920 --> 0:12:56.679 up to the next level. Mine get folded on the 0:12:56.760 --> 0:13:00.280 kitchen table. Okay, Sota doesn't put him step put it away? 0:13:00.480 --> 0:13:03.680 No no, no really. Now, if I'm like in the 0:13:03.679 --> 0:13:05.560 middle of putting up a bunch of laundry and I say, hey, 0:13:05.559 --> 0:13:06.960 can you help me take some of this up? Like 0:13:07.040 --> 0:13:10.600 take he will. But in his defense, the girls are 0:13:10.600 --> 0:13:13.600 pretty much the same size. They're literally like small medium, 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:16.400 you know whatever. It makes me more mad when he 0:13:16.440 --> 0:13:17.920 puts it up, So I'm fine with that that I 0:13:17.920 --> 0:13:19.360 would like it in the basket. But he can't even 0:13:19.400 --> 0:13:22.040 separate the girls. He literally doesn't know who's who's and 0:13:22.080 --> 0:13:24.360 the girls at all. Yeah, Like I find my t 0:13:24.440 --> 0:13:26.720 shirts and loves pile and I'm just like, so that's 0:13:26.760 --> 0:13:28.839 just gonna get frustrated. So I am thankful for the 0:13:28.880 --> 0:13:31.840 folding though. That's nice. Yeah, the dry pile is like 0:13:31.880 --> 0:13:34.280 all done. I was like, um, I go in and 0:13:34.360 --> 0:13:37.440 Everest is like staring at me. Cool. Sometimes I'm guilty 0:13:37.480 --> 0:13:40.280 of that with nixt laundry though, because I need to 0:13:40.280 --> 0:13:42.120 move on from his and it's still in the dryer. 0:13:42.200 --> 0:13:46.120 So sometimes i'll do the dry pile you dry pilot 0:13:46.960 --> 0:13:50.720 sometimes only sometimes I appreciate No, it's not mean I 0:13:50.760 --> 0:13:52.840 appreciate alan though. I'll sit down on the couch and 0:13:52.880 --> 0:13:55.240 I'll start folding the kids clothes or my clothes or whatever, 0:13:55.320 --> 0:13:59.559 and he immediately grabs something and I go no, no, no no, no, no, 0:13:59.559 --> 0:14:02.280 no no no. He's like, let me help. He's like, 0:14:02.280 --> 0:14:04.720 I'm just saying like no. And then now I don't 0:14:04.760 --> 0:14:07.000 say no, I'm just like good, like sure, like if 0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:09.840 that's so sweet. He doesn't have to I'm not asking 0:14:09.880 --> 0:14:12.960 him to, but I just I appreciate the well. And 0:14:13.040 --> 0:14:15.600 I think at the end of the day, like if 0:14:15.640 --> 0:14:17.839 they're willing to help and they're trying to help, even 0:14:17.880 --> 0:14:19.920 if they don't know the way, that we should appreciate that. 0:14:20.000 --> 0:14:21.600 And I know it's not easy to do all the time, 0:14:22.080 --> 0:14:27.720 especially for me. I think it's it's uh, I like, 0:14:28.320 --> 0:14:31.080 and this is something I'll say too, where I like, 0:14:31.080 --> 0:14:33.720 like he's seen in the mornings, that's the very first 0:14:33.720 --> 0:14:36.040 thing I do as I empty the dishwasher, very first thing, 0:14:37.160 --> 0:14:40.600 same human because I don't like a dish in my 0:14:40.680 --> 0:14:42.320 saying right. And I know we talked about this before, 0:14:42.360 --> 0:14:45.480 but um, so that's the very first thing that I do. 0:14:45.520 --> 0:14:47.360 So that way the kids can then put their their 0:14:47.400 --> 0:14:51.080 stuff in the in the dishwasher. Um. And you know, 0:14:51.120 --> 0:14:53.200 one of the mornings I had was just like running 0:14:53.440 --> 0:14:55.440 late or whatever. That was the first thing that he did. 0:14:56.040 --> 0:14:57.880 So I was like he it's like he saw like 0:14:57.960 --> 0:15:00.520 my routine and like I was just like oh. I 0:15:00.600 --> 0:15:02.360 ended up being like thank you for that, like you 0:15:02.640 --> 0:15:05.600 would you saw what I do and then you yeah, 0:15:05.600 --> 0:15:08.720 I did it without even like asking her, because that's 0:15:08.720 --> 0:15:10.680 the something I don't like when people ask questions. Just 0:15:10.680 --> 0:15:12.600 just do it because when you ask, I'm like, no, no no, 0:15:12.800 --> 0:15:15.560 I got it. Yeah, always I got it, and then 0:15:15.600 --> 0:15:17.440 I'm tired. I got it. But what I mean to 0:15:17.440 --> 0:15:18.960 say is when I say I got it, I mean 0:15:19.040 --> 0:15:21.280 yes please. Yeah. When I say I got it'd be 0:15:21.280 --> 0:15:25.920 like ike out yeah, yeah, yeah yeah. When I say 0:15:25.920 --> 0:15:29.800 I got it, I got it, that's yeah. That's that's 0:15:29.800 --> 0:15:32.240 where you have to ask for I'm trying to get 0:15:32.280 --> 0:15:34.240 better by asking. I think we should get better at 0:15:34.320 --> 0:15:37.640 saying yes please. Yeah. I'm trying really hard because you 0:15:37.640 --> 0:15:40.160 almost can't get mad at the other person if they oh, yeah, 0:15:40.200 --> 0:15:42.480 no they don't. And then but then you're frustrated because 0:15:42.480 --> 0:15:44.320 it's like, but I really wanted you to do do. I'm 0:15:44.360 --> 0:15:46.360 up in third times a charm and by the third baby, 0:15:46.360 --> 0:15:47.800 I'm just gonna be like, yes, I'll take any help 0:15:47.800 --> 0:15:49.640 you can give me. I thought you talking about my marriages. 0:15:49.800 --> 0:15:55.920 Oh no, this is the final marriage? Oh amen, mine marriage? 0:15:56.240 --> 0:16:00.560 Or do you have any y? No? It was like, no, honey, 0:16:00.560 --> 0:16:04.840 I'm settled into mine. How has anyone had therapy with 0:16:04.880 --> 0:16:11.640 Amy lately? You guys are so much to unpack. I 0:16:11.680 --> 0:16:15.000 haven't even processed. Huh. Oh. I got in the car. 0:16:15.080 --> 0:16:16.680 It was one of those where I just got in 0:16:16.720 --> 0:16:20.840 the car, very grateful, heart very heavy, very grateful, very empowering, 0:16:21.600 --> 0:16:23.400 very tiring. And I got in the car and I 0:16:23.400 --> 0:16:27.320 didn't even want the air the sound of the fanom. 0:16:27.360 --> 0:16:31.359 I just drove and drank water and was like, okay, 0:16:31.600 --> 0:16:36.800 Like it's a lot my voyage of not trusting people 0:16:36.880 --> 0:16:40.120 or men, right, right? Did you do MDR today? I 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:43.800 did a lot of big MDAR. If I could frame 0:16:43.800 --> 0:16:45.480 it for you guys, I would frame it. Maybe by 0:16:45.520 --> 0:16:47.440 next week I can frame it it was just a lot. 0:16:47.560 --> 0:16:50.760 Well let's put a little pin pin in that one 0:16:51.600 --> 0:16:55.040 because we can. Yeah, something came up. I had therapy 0:16:55.120 --> 0:16:59.720 yesterday with Amy and I cried a lot. I cried, 0:17:00.480 --> 0:17:03.120 but it was something where yeah, it was just hard. 0:17:03.320 --> 0:17:07.879 So anything else, Nope, we'll pin it too. Let's pin it. 0:17:07.960 --> 0:17:11.760 Let's pin it. It's a lot to digest, like that's 0:17:11.800 --> 0:17:14.640 the hardest part and a lot of like big revelations. 0:17:14.680 --> 0:17:18.159 But then also just like, holy cow, I'm writing a 0:17:18.240 --> 0:17:25.880 note for for ourselves to unpin therapy talk. Yeah, therapy, 0:17:26.240 --> 0:17:28.879 but we're gonna switch gears because we have Heidi Pratt 0:17:29.400 --> 0:17:32.120 coming on and I know you were a big Hills watcher. 0:17:32.400 --> 0:17:37.119 I was. I watched uh some of it. I was 0:17:37.160 --> 0:17:40.720 a Laguna Hills. Yeah, you know, we have Jason Waller 0:17:40.760 --> 0:17:42.240 coming on, like he's gonna be sitting on the couch 0:17:42.280 --> 0:17:47.320 with us. It's not crushy how I feel. It's just 0:17:47.400 --> 0:17:51.360 I get excited Jason. Yeah, definitely not crushy. No no, no, 0:17:51.640 --> 0:17:54.960 you're married, right. But I mean also, even if I 0:17:55.119 --> 0:17:56.399 never had a cry, I don't have a lot of 0:17:56.400 --> 0:17:58.879 celebrity crush It's fun. Fact, do you have one? I 0:17:58.880 --> 0:18:02.399 had Matthew McConaughey, who I did too the greatest, And 0:18:02.520 --> 0:18:08.720 then I heard he was stinky stinky. I didn't believe whatever, 0:18:08.760 --> 0:18:10.879 It's probably just a rumor, but I needed something to 0:18:10.920 --> 0:18:13.240 break my healthy obsession, so that was fine. Can we 0:18:13.280 --> 0:18:15.159 just say something about the natural deodor and thing for 0:18:15.200 --> 0:18:18.320 a second. It doesn't work well, So I'm really stinky, 0:18:18.359 --> 0:18:20.800 Like I'm a naturally stinky person. I still have like 0:18:20.800 --> 0:18:23.240 PTSD from X because I was He'd like, I'm like, 0:18:23.280 --> 0:18:25.200 I know, I just feel like I never like so 0:18:25.320 --> 0:18:27.480 I'd always like I know, I'd literally never noticed it 0:18:27.520 --> 0:18:29.359 all the time. Like he I don't know, maybe he 0:18:29.440 --> 0:18:32.359 just like hated me so much, but like I like 0:18:32.400 --> 0:18:35.320 even my sense disgusted him. But like, I mean that 0:18:35.440 --> 0:18:37.320 was like to the point where like Alan's like you 0:18:37.320 --> 0:18:39.240 always smell so good, and I'm in my mind, I'm like, 0:18:39.280 --> 0:18:41.320 are you just saying that because I stink, Like because 0:18:41.400 --> 0:18:43.680 I'm just so ingrained that, like I have a bad 0:18:43.720 --> 0:18:46.280 odor or something. So I'm like constantly like putting on 0:18:46.359 --> 0:18:51.080 deodor and like all the time. And um So, but 0:18:51.160 --> 0:18:56.800 there was this girl that worked, do't I don't I 0:18:56.880 --> 0:19:02.480 say this? She was um at the house helping and 0:19:03.000 --> 0:19:05.560 she wore a natural doutor. And again, some natural deodorants 0:19:05.720 --> 0:19:08.440 might work for some people, but a lot of times 0:19:08.480 --> 0:19:11.120 if you have that stink, what I've noticed is you're 0:19:11.119 --> 0:19:14.480 just gonna it's gonna come out like pregnant. I it's 0:19:14.560 --> 0:19:19.159 work well, and so yeah, and so I smell and 0:19:19.200 --> 0:19:21.080 I'm like, it's to the point where you can't even 0:19:21.119 --> 0:19:23.720 You're like, like you can't breathe. And it's like and 0:19:23.760 --> 0:19:27.240 I'm very like smelly sensitive. And Jason's the same thing. 0:19:27.240 --> 0:19:32.160 He's like, mom, what stinks? And I'm like, But then 0:19:32.200 --> 0:19:35.639 when the person link sits on my couch and puts 0:19:35.680 --> 0:19:39.920 their arm like I'm the thing, and I was like 0:19:40.520 --> 0:19:41.600 and I was done, and I had to I had 0:19:41.640 --> 0:19:43.480 to let the person go because I stunk. I couldn't say, like, 0:19:43.520 --> 0:19:45.600 can you put on deodorant? How do how do you 0:19:45.640 --> 0:19:49.120 have that conversation. It's interesting to me when people can't 0:19:49.119 --> 0:19:52.000 smell themselves. I smell myself when I'm stinky, and then 0:19:52.000 --> 0:19:54.240 I usually I would say, oh, I'm probably stinky. I'm 0:19:54.280 --> 0:19:57.680 so paranoid about it. I'm not even that stinky. Really, 0:19:57.760 --> 0:20:00.240 I just do my thing, and you will not me 0:20:00.240 --> 0:20:04.560 doing natural deodorant because I have just I tried every 0:20:04.600 --> 0:20:07.440 single one of them. I did three years natural deodorant. 0:20:07.800 --> 0:20:11.920 None of it works for me my body chemistry. Yeah, 0:20:12.000 --> 0:20:14.679 well that just went. Whyever we even get to deodorant. 0:20:16.280 --> 0:20:20.720 Matthew McConaughey was not stinky. I don't know that Pert 0:20:20.920 --> 0:20:23.240 ever smelled him in real life. Given the opportunity, I 0:20:23.240 --> 0:20:25.360 would have loved the opportunity at once upon a time. 0:20:25.400 --> 0:20:27.439 But do you have a celebrity crush? I used to 0:20:27.440 --> 0:20:32.160 owe him and he's talked about that. But I don't 0:20:32.200 --> 0:20:34.840 have a whole lot either. Yeah, it takes a lot 0:20:34.880 --> 0:20:40.920 for me. Yeah, well, anybody anyways, moving on, we're gonna 0:20:40.920 --> 0:20:43.639 get heidion. She married her celebrity crush, she sure did, 0:20:43.680 --> 0:20:58.760 and we're gonna talk all things. Well. Hello, hey girl, 0:20:58.800 --> 0:21:00.760 Hey did you just get didn't work out? You're in 0:21:00.760 --> 0:21:04.080 your cute little like matching yoga set. Thank you. I'm 0:21:04.200 --> 0:21:06.280 trying to get it in, but it's hard with feeding 0:21:06.280 --> 0:21:09.040 and running around with this baby. And how's the baby now? 0:21:10.800 --> 0:21:17.359 He's four months? Are you sleeping? I'm more than with Gunner. 0:21:17.480 --> 0:21:20.080 So if I get like two hours straight three, I'm good. 0:21:21.040 --> 0:21:23.240 It's crazy how we get so sleep deprived that I 0:21:23.280 --> 0:21:24.679 feel like once we can get like a good two 0:21:24.800 --> 0:21:26.879 or three hour chunk, then we start to feel like 0:21:26.920 --> 0:21:28.959 we could run for office. Like it's like I got it, 0:21:29.600 --> 0:21:32.520 no big deal. Spencer's like, oh, I woke up once 0:21:32.600 --> 0:21:35.840 last night. I'm like, who are you talking to? Hi? 0:21:36.160 --> 0:21:38.960 What do you mean? That's when I say to my husband, respectfully, 0:21:39.080 --> 0:21:43.639 stop talking. Stop talking, girl. Thank you so much for 0:21:43.640 --> 0:21:46.640 coming on the podcast. So a funny story we like, 0:21:46.960 --> 0:21:52.280 and you will not remember this, but we met. Oh god, 0:21:52.320 --> 0:21:54.440 how many years ago is that? I mean god, I'm 0:21:54.440 --> 0:21:58.879