Speaker 1: Second date Update, Date. We have someone on the phone
Speaker 1: for a second date update who's on the rise to stardom.
Speaker 1: She's hoping soon she can influence what you eat, what
Speaker 1: you drink, what you wear, and what you wipe with.
Speaker 1: Do we have the the phone. I'm just saying, Earth
Speaker 1: friendly toilet wipes are going to be the next big thing.
Speaker 1: I switched the bamboo toilet paper myself, did you Yeah? Yours?
Speaker 1: It's a little scratchy, just a little bit of blood
Speaker 1: on there, but it's okay. Anyway. She's hoping to become
Speaker 1: an influencer someday, and she's also hoping that we can
Speaker 1: influence the guy who's not calling her back to give
Speaker 1: her another date. Okay, so let's say hello to Maryanne.
Speaker 1: How you doing? Hi? Guys, how are you good? So?
Speaker 1: What does Jeffrey mean? Are you like trying to be
Speaker 1: like an Instagram influencer? What are you doing? I am?
Speaker 1: I'm really active on the Graham and I just really
Speaker 1: love kind of those people who have this aspiring lifestyle
Speaker 1: and just really bring joy and comfort and happiness to
Speaker 1: other people. That's kind of what I aspire to be influence.
Speaker 1: She is a live laugh, love of instagrams. Well, marian
Speaker 1: before we get into this, I just feel like I
Speaker 1: need to ask you, are you only doing this just
Speaker 1: to get more publicity for your page show? Because I
Speaker 1: don't think it would be fair if you did that
Speaker 1: and we're giving out your Instagram handle just because of that.
Speaker 1: I won't plug my Instagram handle. That's just no offense.
Speaker 1: I don't know how much our show would help her out.
Speaker 1: That's a fair point. But let's get into your date. Marianne,
Speaker 1: tell us about the guy that you met. What's his name?
Speaker 1: So his name is David. Okay, day, you'd be nice. Okay,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. Did David slide into your dms? How do
Speaker 1: you meet him? He did flight into her DM? So
Speaker 1: you know, we're on Instagram and he likes a handful
Speaker 1: of my pictures and you know I kind of looked
Speaker 1: at his I liked one back. Okay. It's so funny.
Speaker 1: It's like a secret ritual when you're on Instagram, like
Speaker 1: you like a few of mine, I like one or
Speaker 1: two of years, and then that's the opening to like,
Speaker 1: m yeah, without saying anything. It's like a mating dance.
Speaker 1: And that way you know it's safe to write them
Speaker 1: because if they go back like a year and start liking,
Speaker 1: then you know, yeah, that has a little creepy weird right. Yeah, Okay,
Speaker 1: so well what was David like online? Well, I mean
Speaker 1: he's got a decent amount of followers. Is that important?
Speaker 1: Does that? Does that matter? How many followers he has?
Speaker 1: It was the first thing that she mentioned about it.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I thought that's what you're asking about. What
Speaker 1: type of guys? He's attractive guy? Yeah, I mean he's
Speaker 1: good looking, and it looks like he's fairly active and
Speaker 1: he likes to do things. She's like, oh my god,
Speaker 1: he's super ugly and lazy. Idea, what you guys do
Speaker 1: on your date? So he actually asked me to go
Speaker 1: to Boba. Yeah, and it's so instagram friendly, very gramworthy. Well,
Speaker 1: it's just a really fun, cheery place. But it's an
Speaker 1: opportunity for us just to kind of sit down and
Speaker 1: casually get to know each other. Was out a lot
Speaker 1: of like pretense. Okay, So did you treat it like
Speaker 1: it was a date or were you treating it more
Speaker 1: like a business meeting? Oh? Honestly, I have to say both, because,
Speaker 1: like similarly, Tommy and we found this that when we
Speaker 1: were talking before we met in person. Is that he
Speaker 1: wants to become an influencer as well, and he doesn't
Speaker 1: have as many followers as I do. But that was
Speaker 1: definitely something that we connected with. Okay, so you could
Speaker 1: be like the Instagram power couple eventually, right, you know,
Speaker 1: And it kind of something we joked about, but then
Speaker 1: it was like, oh, this would actually be fun and
Speaker 1: we were having a really good time. So we were
Speaker 1: talking about, you know, like different things that we could
Speaker 1: do and different ideas we had, like actually working on
Speaker 1: collaborations together. Yeah, you know. I mean when something is
Speaker 1: so close to your heart and you spent so much
Speaker 1: of your time and energy into it, it's just naturally
Speaker 1: going to come up to the conversation. So it did
Speaker 1: that for the both of us. Wo hashtag relationship goals
Speaker 1: because he was like talking about, you know, an idea
Speaker 1: to get more followers and he wants to buy an
Speaker 1: old school bus and retrofit it for a road trip.
Speaker 1: I've never seen that done on it a lot of accounts.
Speaker 1: I'm so glad you said that, because that's kind of
Speaker 1: what I said. I was like, oh, that's a cool idea,
Speaker 1: but I've definitely seen that done on several different accounts before.
Speaker 1: Was he put off by that that you kind of like, well,
Speaker 1: I mean he gave me to this kind of shocked
Speaker 1: look like I had hurt his baby. But then I
Speaker 1: was like, how much are you really on Instagram? Because
Speaker 1: that's pretty common right now. So anyways, we went on.
Speaker 1: The date went on, We walked around the park, We
Speaker 1: took some pictures, you know, as you would expect. It
Speaker 1: ended with a little kiss on the cheek, and we
Speaker 1: did it, took selfies of it. You took selfies of
Speaker 1: the kiss on the cheek. I mean you kind of
Speaker 1: have to. When it's the Golden hour and the sun setting,
Speaker 1: it's like perfect ending him out if she looks good enough,
Speaker 1: she's okay, hold on, let me grab my phone. I
Speaker 1: get that. But it feels so performance, right, It feels
Speaker 1: like a performance. It doesn't feel like a genuine moment
Speaker 1: between you two. Did you feel like it was? Oh? Absolutely?
Speaker 1: And I think it's probably because we had talked about
Speaker 1: different things we want to do and we kind of
Speaker 1: laughed about it have been like, I don't know, how
Speaker 1: do you want to end the state to the kick
Speaker 1: a selfie? And so we're it was kind of this
Speaker 1: like fun flirty way to end thing. Yeah, well, and
Speaker 1: I will give you credit, like as an influencer, whether
Speaker 1: it's YouTube or TikTok or anything, you're used to having
Speaker 1: the camera out at all times, Like how do you
Speaker 1: look at the world? So after the staged cheek kiss,
Speaker 1: how do you how do you end the night? We
Speaker 1: just ended the night and I went back to my car.
Speaker 1: He went back to his heart, and I had a
Speaker 1: great time. But I just haven't heard from him. The
Speaker 1: only thing I can think of is me kind of
Speaker 1: saying the bus wasn't the best idea because it been
Speaker 1: done before, betting such a minor thing. Did he get
Speaker 1: into a bus and drive away at the end of
Speaker 1: the day? That was It was like, I'm Marty in it.
Speaker 1: As far as I know, he did not. Well, we
Speaker 1: have some investigating to do. We're gonna play a song.
Speaker 1: We'll come back. We'll call David for you and then oh,
Speaker 1: excuse me, it's Datavad called Dad, And then we'll try
Speaker 1: and get your second date up dat Okay, Marianne, Okay,
Speaker 1: thank you, second date up date date. If you're just
Speaker 1: joining us, we're talking to a possible future Instagram star
Speaker 1: right now. Her name's mary Anne. She met a guy
Speaker 1: named David through the Graham They went out to work
Speaker 1: Bobati together, had a walk in the park, took some picks.
Speaker 1: But now he's not calling her back. And Marianne, I
Speaker 1: told you that we would not plug your Instagram on
Speaker 1: the show, but I never said we wouldn't plug our own.
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Speaker 1: and Brooks. Actually I don't follow you brook What is
Speaker 1: it a Fox? Fox? Two Foxes? Because remember, because I
Speaker 1: married the guy and he already had the last name Fox.
Speaker 1: It all makes you shouldn't have to describe your hand.
Speaker 1: You want to see a lot of baby pictures and
Speaker 1: like dog pictures. I'm very funny sometimes too, Yeah, very
Speaker 1: funny baby pictures. There go check out at brook Fox Fox. Okay,
Speaker 1: And sorry, Marianne, you told us in the first part
Speaker 1: you were worried that the reason David might not be
Speaker 1: calling you is because you made a comment about his
Speaker 1: idea about a school bus. What were you saying? He
Speaker 1: had this idea to buy like an old school bus
Speaker 1: and retrofit it, which is something that's been done a
Speaker 1: lot before, and they just thought there was better ideas
Speaker 1: out there. Okay, it does still sound fun, though it
Speaker 1: sounds like a lot of work. Yet. The other thing, though, Marianne,
Speaker 1: you guys had talked about collabbing on stuff. Did you
Speaker 1: have projects like set up that you were going to
Speaker 1: work with him on, Because not only is he not
Speaker 1: calling you back for a date, he's not calling you
Speaker 1: back for that either, right, And so some of my
Speaker 1: ideas I'm a little hesitant to say because they that
Speaker 1: was some me just feeling right. Let just say they're
Speaker 1: centered around travel. Okay, okay, so unique as jealous because
Speaker 1: you haven't gone viral is definitely all right. So we're
Speaker 1: ready to call David. Are you feeling ready, Marianne, Yeah,
Speaker 1: all right, here we go. I'm gonna dial his number.
Speaker 1: We're gonna get your second date update. Here we go. So, hey,
Speaker 1: I'm looking for David. Oh yeah, how's it David? Hey David,
Speaker 1: My name's jeff work on a morning radio show called
Speaker 1: Brooke and Jeffrey in the Morning. How you doing, man,
Speaker 1: I'm all right, what's this about? Oh? This is about
Speaker 1: your future and what it might hold. What what are
Speaker 1: you talking about. I'm talking about a date that you
Speaker 1: went on recently with one of our listeners. Oh, okay,
Speaker 1: who her name's mary Anne? Okay, well why are you
Speaker 1: calling me about it? The reason that we're calling on
Speaker 1: her behalf is because we're doing something called a second
Speaker 1: date update right now. That's where if you go out
Speaker 1: with one of our listeners and afterwards, if you're not
Speaker 1: calling them back, they can reach out to us and
Speaker 1: we'll call for them to help them figure out the
Speaker 1: reason why. Okay, this is a Bobat special because mary
Speaker 1: Anne told us that you guys went out to Bobat
Speaker 1: on your date. I mean, yeah, we did, and yeah,
Speaker 1: I just didn't feel like we were going to go
Speaker 1: out again. So yeah, I mean she said that you
Speaker 1: guys were even talking about like doing some collap stuff
Speaker 1: for Instagram because you're trying to be an influencer too,
Speaker 1: And did she get the wrong idea? Well no, I
Speaker 1: mean no, like the date was good, honestly, yeah, like, yeah,
Speaker 1: we got along and yeah, I thought it was going well,
Speaker 1: but I don't know, just something happened at the end
Speaker 1: that just told like, because she you know a lot
Speaker 1: of times you like go out with some of these
Speaker 1: Instagram influencers and like they're kind of vapid and like
Speaker 1: full of themselves, and like she really wasn't like that,
Speaker 1: so like I was really interested. Okay, so you're saying
Speaker 1: it happened at the end of the date. She did
Speaker 1: tell us about a stage sunset kiss. Yeah, is that
Speaker 1: what you're talking about? No, I do that all the time.
Speaker 1: That doesn't bother you always think that every single sunset
Speaker 1: he kisses someone. I mean, you know, that's that's kind
Speaker 1: of what we do. Like everything is for the public,
Speaker 1: you know. Okay, So what was it? Then? So we're talking,
Speaker 1: like we're ideas off each other stuff, and then like
Speaker 1: she knows that, like this is what I want to do.
Speaker 1: And so she said that she knows somebody who like
Speaker 1: could hook me up with a blue checkmark for my account. Okay,
Speaker 1: I will say, we all got she has some she
Speaker 1: is an in with the Instagram people, Yeah, which is
Speaker 1: like big time, you know. So I was like, awesome,
Speaker 1: you know that'd be great, blah blah blah. But like
Speaker 1: she wouldn't tell me who it was, like she didn't
Speaker 1: give me their contact. It was like she like bragged
Speaker 1: that she knew somebody and seemed like she was being like, oh,
Speaker 1: and I could get this for you, and then she
Speaker 1: didn't give me any information about it. Like it just
Speaker 1: seemed like super uncool, okayand maybe she was going to
Speaker 1: follow up later or maybe you know, like you said,
Speaker 1: like she's like, yeah, I don't know if I want it,
Speaker 1: Like she totally got off the subject when I asked,
Speaker 1: completely ignored me, and then that's when the picture happened.
Speaker 1: Is like she kind of like tricked me into like
Speaker 1: draw my attention away. Well, maybe it's like a maybe
Speaker 1: it's like a dating rule type thing where you have
Speaker 1: to wait for three dates so you have the blue checkmark.
Speaker 1: Talk that is big to give someone on a first date. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it's also weird to not call someone back. You had
Speaker 1: an amazing date and this girl has a hook up
Speaker 1: to a blue checkmark and she hasn't given it to you,
Speaker 1: and so you're refusing to talk to her. I'm not
Speaker 1: like they're never going to talk to her. We texted
Speaker 1: a few times after this, but like that was like
Speaker 1: a super selfless thing to do, and like I'm just
Speaker 1: not into like that quality in a person's checkmark back
Speaker 1: is selfish, Like this the times of change. I had
Speaker 1: a lot of relationship drama, but not this. Yeah. I mean,
Speaker 1: she can't inundate her one contact to Instagram with every
Speaker 1: dude she goes out with, you know, like to get
Speaker 1: our Yeah. Yeah, but like I'm not every dude. We
Speaker 1: connected like it felt different. I think you're actually connecting
Speaker 1: on more levels than you even realize, David. In fact,
Speaker 1: you're connecting to her right now, specifically her phone line,
Speaker 1: because she's been listening this entire phone conversation and she
Speaker 1: wants to talk to Oh my god, Yeah, Hi David, Marianne. Hi. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Time cool. Well, when you're like we texted a few
Speaker 1: times back and forth, when I say Hi, how's your
Speaker 1: day and your response is high, I don't know if
Speaker 1: that really counts. Oh, I'm sorry. I don't know all
Speaker 1: the time in the world to like write you a
Speaker 1: freaking novel every time you text me, Like I was
Speaker 1: just trying to be nice. Okay, Well, I'm sorry I was.
Speaker 1: You know, in regard to the blue check mark, I
Speaker 1: wasn't intentionally dangling it in front of you like a carrot.
Speaker 1: I was just saying, like, you know, things move forward,
Speaker 1: there's the possibility of this, And that was more I
Speaker 1: think of the business side rather than the potential relationship site.
Speaker 1: So it seems kind of sucky that you made that
Speaker 1: decision that, like nothing's going to move forward because I
Speaker 1: didn't further your Instagram accality. It kind of sounds like
Speaker 1: a bribe to me, yeah, or or or almost a
Speaker 1: check Mark tease. It is, though, but I hope she's
Speaker 1: right on, Like if you were in a business relationship
Speaker 1: with somebody, you wouldn't on the first time you met them,
Speaker 1: give them all of your secrets and goods, you know,
Speaker 1: the guy to get us check I mean, she's like
Speaker 1: talking about it, like we didn't have this like long.
Speaker 1: It's not like I walked up to her on the
Speaker 1: street was like, yo, hook me up with a blue
Speaker 1: check Mark, and like I have been asking for a
Speaker 1: long time. Like I've got over twenty five thousand followers
Speaker 1: and by the way, unlike you, they're all real people,
Speaker 1: like check Does that mean that who are you talking
Speaker 1: to when this Are you talking to one of us?
Speaker 1: Are you talking to check Mark? So I'm talking to Marrian,
Speaker 1: you know. Way, I hold on a second. As you
Speaker 1: sat there and went through every one of my fifty
Speaker 1: thousand followers to find out the real I hate when
Speaker 1: people buy fake followers. I mean it is really obvious
Speaker 1: when you have fake follows, get totally Russian names. Yeah,
Speaker 1: like underscores. Are you saying it's not true or is
Speaker 1: he right? I bought followers when I first started because
Speaker 1: I wanted to move things forward. But it's not something
Speaker 1: that I have done in like two years, dude. I
Speaker 1: will say I have worked with people who have done
Speaker 1: the same thing, okay, and like put a lot of
Speaker 1: money into it because they think that that's how they're
Speaker 1: gonna look important. Yeah. See, that's what I'm talking about.
Speaker 1: This is the whole point is to be authentic on there,
Speaker 1: to have a real, authentic persona, and you are just
Speaker 1: totally fake from the beginning to because if the bots
Speaker 1: brought other people in, they don't have to stay following
Speaker 1: my account if they don't like it, but they've managed
Speaker 1: to stay. I mean, I guess she's right. You could.
Speaker 1: I could argue either side, but I think we're really
Speaker 1: getting away from the part of you guys had like
Speaker 1: some romantic connection. I know, I'm living for the drama.
Speaker 1: Don't we want a date? Like? Can you guys get
Speaker 1: pass this? Can you put this in your pass. Brook. No.
Speaker 1: I mean it's not only a no for me, but
Speaker 1: like now I'm seriously thinking about reporting her to Instagram
Speaker 1: or having all these fake followers. No, bro, oh, don't
Speaker 1: get her account shut down after years of work. That
Speaker 1: could happen. Will they do that? If you have fake followers,
Speaker 1: I think I think some people you can go ahead
Speaker 1: and do whatever you want. Like I said before, I
Speaker 1: already have INDs with Instagram. Oh, that's right, that's what
Speaker 1: she has. The hook up. You're never getting a blue checkmark,
Speaker 1: David oh Man. I cannot wait to watch the reaction
Speaker 1: video on my own Instagram. It's young Jeffrey. Make sure
Speaker 1: you follow only real followers. Thank you, Yeah, because I'm
Speaker 1: a real deal. Contest hashtag Graham life broken Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the morning