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This 0:01:58.920 --> 0:02:02.000 is my little kid, So let me tell you all 0:02:02.000 --> 0:02:05.040 the story. So I came on here and told y'all um, 0:02:05.080 --> 0:02:07.040 I was being lonely. So I do want you all 0:02:07.040 --> 0:02:11.040 to pray for your single friends who live alone with 0:02:11.080 --> 0:02:14.840 no kids. That is me. So I have um actually 0:02:14.840 --> 0:02:17.480 been going through it um mentally. I've been talking to 0:02:17.560 --> 0:02:19.840 my mom. My mom was like even yesterday when I 0:02:19.840 --> 0:02:21.799 was leaving the grocery store, she was like, you sound 0:02:21.880 --> 0:02:25.280 kind of manic right now, and I'm concerned. Um, why 0:02:25.320 --> 0:02:29.120 did because just how I was talking, I was just 0:02:29.160 --> 0:02:32.200 like a girl. It was weird even though market and 0:02:32.320 --> 0:02:34.640 I didn't even notice it. But while I was grocery shopping, 0:02:34.680 --> 0:02:36.840 I was singing, I was dancing, I was losing my 0:02:36.880 --> 0:02:40.440 fucking mind. Um, and I was just like really talking 0:02:40.480 --> 0:02:42.840 really fast. She was just like really kind of concerned. 0:02:43.240 --> 0:02:46.640 So I want to shout out Demca. I believe her 0:02:46.760 --> 0:02:55.480 her name is or Demika. Anyway, she will listen, don't Anyways, 0:02:56.040 --> 0:02:58.880 one of our listeners actually hit me in the d 0:02:59.040 --> 0:03:01.560 M yesterday and was like, hey, girl, do you still 0:03:01.680 --> 0:03:05.720 want a kitten? One of my neighbors just walked up 0:03:05.760 --> 0:03:07.359 to us to sell the one. She was like, but 0:03:07.360 --> 0:03:09.600 I'm gonna be honest with you, but she only asked 0:03:09.639 --> 0:03:11.360 you for twenty dollars, so I think she just really 0:03:11.400 --> 0:03:13.359 need the twenty dollars. So I don't know where the 0:03:13.400 --> 0:03:20.040 cat really I gave her. I was like Okay, hopefully 0:03:20.080 --> 0:03:23.280 this twenty dollars isn't going to buy crack cocaine for 0:03:23.320 --> 0:03:28.000 this kitten. I don't know what I exchanged for this. Yeah, 0:03:28.000 --> 0:03:30.079 they actually showered it before they gave it to me, 0:03:30.440 --> 0:03:32.720 gave put it in a box and I got like 0:03:32.760 --> 0:03:35.040 a pe pad on it. I'm waiting on the litter 0:03:35.040 --> 0:03:37.120 box wich. I'm on Amazon last night because I go 0:03:37.200 --> 0:03:39.040 I want to pick it up last night and I 0:03:39.080 --> 0:03:40.880 was like, but I ain't got shipped. Girl. I gave 0:03:40.960 --> 0:03:45.040 us some tune us cat. So that's that's what I'm 0:03:45.040 --> 0:03:47.800 working on right now. So you could call it Cat's 0:03:49.440 --> 0:03:52.440 I will not. That reminds me of cat Dog actually 0:03:52.600 --> 0:03:58.200 the the you know the guy, So I kind of 0:03:58.240 --> 0:04:00.400 want to name it body. That's I don't know what 0:04:00.440 --> 0:04:03.760 I'm leaning towards, and only because it's reminded me of 0:04:03.760 --> 0:04:06.040 a hood as Bodega Cat, So I either want to 0:04:06.040 --> 0:04:09.760 call it for the body. I like Bodie better, more 0:04:09.840 --> 0:04:12.760 clever because it's ratchet. I'm not even gonna lie, let's 0:04:12.760 --> 0:04:15.320 not go with Bronx. You might move one day. Well, 0:04:15.800 --> 0:04:18.200 fuck you? Is the cat from the Bronx? Is that 0:04:18.320 --> 0:04:21.680 bit seven minutes away? She gave me her address to 0:04:21.680 --> 0:04:23.040 come pick it up. I was like, oh girl, you 0:04:23.160 --> 0:04:26.279 write you down the block, so I got it. I 0:04:26.320 --> 0:04:28.560 think that it's going to be good in terms of 0:04:28.880 --> 0:04:31.280 just my mental health because I am one of those 0:04:31.279 --> 0:04:34.720 that is really struggling right now well and my grandmother's 0:04:34.800 --> 0:04:37.560 nursing home. This is how I'm starting this. There's a 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:40.640 few people that have like baby dolls. It sounds so weird. 0:04:40.720 --> 0:04:42.960 They're really losing it, and they give it to them 0:04:42.960 --> 0:04:44.479 so they have something to take care of. So it 0:04:44.560 --> 0:04:47.440 makes you feel like you've got, you know, something to do. 0:04:47.560 --> 0:04:49.440 You look forward to something, and you're not only like 0:04:49.480 --> 0:04:51.560 now you have to fend for someone else. Someone else's like, 0:04:51.600 --> 0:04:52.840 you know what, I I need depending on you. So it's 0:04:52.839 --> 0:04:54.920 really helpful. You got to fend for the baby doll. 0:04:55.839 --> 0:04:59.039 Who finning for baby dolls? Them old ask people that's 0:04:59.080 --> 0:05:00.760 losing it just like you will. In the grocery stop, 0:05:01.279 --> 0:05:04.120 I was fending for my clip, which I actually had 0:05:04.160 --> 0:05:07.479 to stop touching because I started fake orgasming to go 0:05:07.560 --> 0:05:10.960 to bed, like literally my clip it's gone, Like I 0:05:11.000 --> 0:05:16.680 don't feel nothing, Just hand girl the womanizer. Goddamn put 0:05:16.680 --> 0:05:19.160 this on the motherfucker. You can't do it. Stopped working 0:05:19.400 --> 0:05:20.960 and then I realized, like, you know, this is how 0:05:20.960 --> 0:05:23.720 I go to bed at night. So I started like 0:05:23.800 --> 0:05:28.080 literally fake orgasming to my own self. I was like, oh, 0:05:28.120 --> 0:05:31.359 I'm doing the moment. I was like, uh, bitch, but no, 0:05:31.480 --> 0:05:34.120 I really didn't come and it would help me fall asleep. 0:05:34.120 --> 0:05:37.200 It's been really the cat. What about the cat's gonna 0:05:37.200 --> 0:05:39.640 bring me some happiness? Um god, I thought that bitch 0:05:39.680 --> 0:05:41.480 in the hallway last night. He wouldn't let me sleep. 0:05:41.480 --> 0:05:43.720 He just want to keep playing. So I set him 0:05:43.800 --> 0:05:46.159 up in the hallway. Business. You gotta new to the 0:05:47.520 --> 0:05:51.039 girl lit. Okay, it's lit, and I think it's a 0:05:51.160 --> 0:05:53.479 but don't act hyper on the because it's gonna match 0:05:53.480 --> 0:05:55.120 your energy. What do you mean to think it's a boy? 0:05:55.560 --> 0:05:58.040 So here's the thing, right, I think he picked up 0:05:58.040 --> 0:06:00.320 the cats. We can tell you. I did. Oh, it's 0:06:00.320 --> 0:06:03.440 either balls or a fat pussy. I can't tell, Like, 0:06:04.160 --> 0:06:06.400 I don't know. I gotta look on the internet and 0:06:06.400 --> 0:06:08.640 see what the balls as well. Don't be the person 0:06:08.720 --> 0:06:11.920 that says nipples makes it a boy or girl? That 0:06:12.240 --> 0:06:18.520 would be me. All right, I'm about to hold on cat, pussy, cat, 0:06:18.760 --> 0:06:22.400 male or female? This is but look at kitting because 0:06:22.400 --> 0:06:24.560 I know when the balls dropped. But so she hit 0:06:24.600 --> 0:06:26.760 me this morning and said, hey, the lady said it's 0:06:26.760 --> 0:06:28.320 a girl, and I was like, oh, bitch, I was 0:06:28.360 --> 0:06:31.000 just sure it was a boy. But I so, I 0:06:31.000 --> 0:06:32.800 guess it's a fat pussy. You know what. I take 0:06:32.839 --> 0:06:38.400 it back, um, typing cat male or female, and they 0:06:38.480 --> 0:06:41.720 show you the but oh, okay, here's a good tip. 0:06:41.920 --> 0:06:47.320 The boy booty hole. I not it's more circular. No, 0:06:47.560 --> 0:06:50.520 I am not looking at the booty hole. Bro. I 0:06:50.600 --> 0:06:52.279 like to look at the booty hole on a nigger. 0:06:52.320 --> 0:06:54.400 I'm not looking at the booty hole to see if 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:58.159 it's circular on my cat. Bro. Okay, So I think 0:06:58.440 --> 0:07:06.640 is that a joke? It's a um let me see 0:07:06.640 --> 0:07:09.880 what I'm feeling better about. I love going to the 0:07:09.880 --> 0:07:13.600 grocery store, bitch. That what a treat. Oh my god, 0:07:14.240 --> 0:07:17.240 Trader Joe's. I'd be in there like talking to people 0:07:17.280 --> 0:07:21.920 to share how y'all doing. I fucking love it. Also, Um, 0:07:21.960 --> 0:07:24.400 everyone that goes to the Trader Joe's and the Lower 0:07:24.440 --> 0:07:27.640 East Side for some reason listens to horrible decisions. Either 0:07:27.720 --> 0:07:29.560 that or they just want to now speak to me 0:07:29.680 --> 0:07:31.560 because I've been going to that Trader Joe's for the 0:07:31.640 --> 0:07:36.560 last two years, and everybody'd be like, Yo, what's that? Yeah, 0:07:36.840 --> 0:07:40.320 so how y'all recorded? And then one girl or was 0:07:40.360 --> 0:07:42.760 this like two days ago? She was like that ship. 0:07:42.800 --> 0:07:46.440 I don't believe y'all. Y'all did not fucking record that ship. Nah, 0:07:46.800 --> 0:07:49.120 Like I know, y'all did that ship in the house 0:07:49.120 --> 0:07:51.320 together whatever, y'all be faking like ya don't funk with 0:07:51.360 --> 0:07:54.120 each other. But she was at the same crap like 0:07:55.120 --> 0:07:57.120 but you could literally hear I think I had a 0:07:57.240 --> 0:08:00.600 package come. My buzzer went off. Y'all know I'm in 0:08:00.640 --> 0:08:03.240 the bronx of you go here to Sirens? Right, it's 0:08:03.280 --> 0:08:07.080 one time at least one um what else? Oh, I'm 0:08:07.080 --> 0:08:10.360 really excited about this weekend because I am going to 0:08:10.440 --> 0:08:14.040 throw another club quarantine. I found this stoddy as dress 0:08:14.120 --> 0:08:17.480 that I'm gonna put on, and yeah, I hit up 0:08:17.520 --> 0:08:19.280 my drug dealer. I was like, what do you have, 0:08:19.600 --> 0:08:21.240 Let's just turn it up and he was like, I'm 0:08:21.240 --> 0:08:22.760 really dry right now. I'm like, well, I'll take what 0:08:22.800 --> 0:08:24.840 you got. I just don't shoot up whatever it else 0:08:24.840 --> 0:08:26.920 it is, I'll take it because if we are getting 0:08:26.960 --> 0:08:29.600 fucked up. But my nigga is like, Yo, we can't 0:08:29.600 --> 0:08:31.640 get too late because we don't sunk up our immune system. 0:08:31.680 --> 0:08:34.160 We gotta keep our ships strong. I'm like, okay, well 0:08:34.240 --> 0:08:36.680 it's either that or I'll kill myself in this house 0:08:36.679 --> 0:08:39.840 if I don't go to the club. Well, someone's calling me. 0:08:39.840 --> 0:08:43.160 How do I do it? What someone's doing? Okay? Sorry, 0:08:43.200 --> 0:08:45.040 I was going through my phone anyway. So I got 0:08:45.040 --> 0:08:47.760 the stoddy as dress and I'm gonna do Instagram like 0:08:47.760 --> 0:08:50.880 I got gonna do Venus Ex or Manny Fresh because 0:08:50.880 --> 0:08:55.800 he was super lit this weekend. And also I'm going 0:08:55.840 --> 0:08:59.280 to get a virtual lap dance. Magic City has been girl. 0:09:00.080 --> 0:09:03.440 You is not doing the virtual lap dance ship Okay, 0:09:03.480 --> 0:09:05.920 you're gonna give it or you're gonna get it. So 0:09:06.640 --> 0:09:10.400 I'm gonna get it. And um yeah, right now I've 0:09:10.400 --> 0:09:13.880 been using what was I gonna say, porn h Premium. Um, 0:09:13.920 --> 0:09:16.000 my user name is Horny and why couple if you 0:09:16.040 --> 0:09:18.480 guys want to see the comments that I leave on 0:09:18.559 --> 0:09:21.079 my boot cockey videos. But yeah, I'm gonna do the 0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:22.960 virtual app dance. I think I'm gonna get one from 0:09:23.040 --> 0:09:25.599 Neon Tree and a few other Magic City girls. This 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:28.360 is my way to support, you know, the community and 0:09:28.520 --> 0:09:32.320 also another way, UM, you should do this too. So 0:09:32.400 --> 0:09:34.640 I'm doing a whole fucking purge of my apartment right 0:09:34.840 --> 0:09:36.800 because I would have donated these clothes anyway. So I'm 0:09:36.840 --> 0:09:40.160 making a posh mark and donating the I'm not personally 0:09:40.160 --> 0:09:43.960 not even gonna do the posh mark. There's a there's 0:09:44.000 --> 0:09:46.520 a watch McCall it downstairs for me to like just 0:09:46.640 --> 0:09:49.080 put clothes and ship in. Well, I was gonna do 0:09:49.120 --> 0:09:52.199 that too, but I'm doing the poshmart thing, and I'm 0:09:52.200 --> 0:09:56.000 donating the money to people that need it. Girl, you 0:09:56.000 --> 0:09:58.920 you said, I look like um love and hip hop 0:09:58.960 --> 0:10:00.480 if it was a person. I ain't giving these my 0:10:00.880 --> 0:10:04.480 spandex and they gonna love that ship got a liquid 0:10:04.559 --> 0:10:06.679 level ship from fashion. No no, no, no, no no, 0:10:06.720 --> 0:10:09.480 I'm not donating my clothes to COVID. Really, I'm like 0:10:09.679 --> 0:10:13.680 selling them and giving the proceeds so like stuff that 0:10:13.679 --> 0:10:16.360 I wore on the tour ship like that. The postmark 0:10:16.400 --> 0:10:18.840 game is wheezy. What the fuck? Um and everything. I'm 0:10:18.880 --> 0:10:21.240 still in ten dollars stuff, twenty dollars stuff, thirty dollar stuff, 0:10:21.240 --> 0:10:23.280 and then all that money I'm gonna give to um, 0:10:23.320 --> 0:10:26.400 you know, patrons and followers. I need it. That's really cute. 0:10:26.520 --> 0:10:28.120 I hope that's cute. Don't want to you know, it 0:10:28.160 --> 0:10:32.920 works out good. But anyways, guys, I'm excited because we 0:10:33.000 --> 0:10:35.920 are joined today by a yes, so we can introduce her. 0:10:35.920 --> 0:10:38.439 You've been quiet, am I bad foot but like holding 0:10:38.480 --> 0:10:40.040 you all, we just had to, you know, update the 0:10:40.040 --> 0:10:44.920 motherfucker's on what we're doing. She's black, We're back black. 0:10:45.200 --> 0:10:49.240 Who then I don't what I mean? You know, we 0:10:49.360 --> 0:10:51.280 mixing it up. We did have a caucagean last week 0:10:51.280 --> 0:10:53.320 she shout out to ms Corey Be shout out to 0:10:53.360 --> 0:10:56.840 her again. I hope you guys caught her um her 0:10:56.960 --> 0:11:00.760 podcast again her first episode. You can into her. Never 0:11:00.840 --> 0:11:04.600 have I ever squirted? And last week they did fucking fisting, 0:11:04.920 --> 0:11:07.319 which I still haven't gotten fisted. We know Wheezy has, 0:11:07.520 --> 0:11:10.400 but we're not gonna get her. Run Bro, you said, 0:11:10.960 --> 0:11:12.920 did you put your fists in her? Or she put 0:11:12.920 --> 0:11:15.079 her fisty? I didn't put this. I just put four 0:11:15.120 --> 0:11:20.440 fingers in and then I didn't knuckle up real quick, 0:11:20.520 --> 0:11:23.480 did you? This hole just said, I only put four 0:11:23.520 --> 0:11:27.320 fingers and the thumb that's your hand. But but I 0:11:27.320 --> 0:11:30.439 ain't make a fist, so I just fingered with my hand, 0:11:31.120 --> 0:11:33.120 but no one calls it handy, bro. I forgot I 0:11:33.440 --> 0:11:36.880 that bitch. Honestly, see, look at you. I'll remember before you. 0:11:37.440 --> 0:11:39.520 I want to. I want to introduce our guests. We 0:11:39.600 --> 0:11:42.480 have Andrea Jackson, who was a lifestyle coach and hosts 0:11:42.520 --> 0:11:47.240 of our Mirrors Reflections podcast. Hi Adrea, Hi girls, Hi Mandy, 0:11:47.360 --> 0:11:52.920 Hi Wheezy. Welcome to the show. So you are a 0:11:52.960 --> 0:11:55.800 lifestyle coach, So what is it that you focused on. 0:11:56.240 --> 0:12:00.560 I focused on a young girl's team, moms, uh mother's 0:12:01.280 --> 0:12:05.040 uh ex wives, you know, women who have been through trauma, 0:12:05.120 --> 0:12:07.719 Women who has done been through things when they were 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:11.120 younger that unfortunately that weren't able to talk about it 0:12:11.200 --> 0:12:14.000 until they were adults and it has now transferred into 0:12:14.000 --> 0:12:16.960 their marriage or their relationships. So I deal with women 0:12:16.960 --> 0:12:19.280 that has dealt with many trauma weathers from their husband, 0:12:19.400 --> 0:12:24.400 from their dads, from brothers. Um I myself have experienced, right, 0:12:24.559 --> 0:12:26.920 So it's near and dear to me to give back 0:12:26.920 --> 0:12:29.320 to young girls who went through what I went through. 0:12:29.960 --> 0:12:32.640 I really like that. I think, um we we We 0:12:32.679 --> 0:12:36.160 had the episode with dub Um and she spoke of, 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:40.160 you know, the gang rate that she experienced. But I 0:12:40.200 --> 0:12:42.480 think that it's important. We actually have we had any 0:12:42.520 --> 0:12:46.840 other conversations regarding trauma in sex and relationships as adults, Sweezie, 0:12:48.240 --> 0:12:51.200 I don't think we have. I thought of I know, 0:12:51.320 --> 0:12:54.640 I did the bonus episode regarding like the Surviving Society 0:12:54.679 --> 0:12:56.720 after the r Kelly thing, But I think we don't 0:12:56.760 --> 0:12:59.320 really talk about trauma much do. I think? Also, like 0:12:59.360 --> 0:13:02.440 a reason, Um, Andrea, we don't really talk about trauma 0:13:02.480 --> 0:13:06.960 too often is because, first of all, it's so subjective 0:13:07.000 --> 0:13:09.640 to that person. Like right, like we taught Mandy did 0:13:09.640 --> 0:13:12.559 a domestic violence episode and people didn't like it. People 0:13:12.640 --> 0:13:15.200 liked it, Like it's like, how soft can we be 0:13:15.240 --> 0:13:17.120 when we talk about it? How are we honoring that 0:13:17.160 --> 0:13:20.360 person that has the experience that listened. Um. Someone even 0:13:20.360 --> 0:13:22.800 said that our diaper Boy episode was triggering for them 0:13:22.840 --> 0:13:25.679 because it brought them back to molestation, and I'm like, 0:13:26.520 --> 0:13:29.280 just because he's freaking like you know. So I think 0:13:29.320 --> 0:13:32.720 that maybe steering clear from trauma has happened, or maybe 0:13:32.720 --> 0:13:34.520 people don't even hit us up about it too often 0:13:34.559 --> 0:13:38.400 to come on because they feel like we're too nasty. 0:13:38.440 --> 0:13:41.280 I don't know. Yeah, it's it's crazy because we focus 0:13:41.320 --> 0:13:43.960 a lot on kinks and the one thing that I 0:13:44.040 --> 0:13:46.160 know that I know we say no kink shaming, but 0:13:46.440 --> 0:13:49.440 I think that we do bring up that the fact 0:13:49.440 --> 0:13:51.680 that we don't like how a lot of people associate 0:13:51.760 --> 0:13:54.319 kinks with trauma. So I think you know what I mean, Like, 0:13:54.600 --> 0:13:57.720 if you're into something, oh you must have been molested 0:13:57.760 --> 0:13:59.839 as a child, or maybe you have daddy issues, and 0:14:00.160 --> 0:14:02.440 a lot of people tie kinks to trauma, and we 0:14:02.520 --> 0:14:05.520 try to like showcase that people can be into these 0:14:05.600 --> 0:14:08.720 kinks without having I I think you can be into 0:14:08.760 --> 0:14:12.120 these things and still have had trauma happened to you. Um. 0:14:12.320 --> 0:14:15.720 I feel if people are not dealing with certain situations, 0:14:15.920 --> 0:14:18.160 of course it's going to be triggering to you. But 0:14:18.200 --> 0:14:19.960 if you are out there getting your therapy and you're 0:14:19.960 --> 0:14:21.600 out there getting your help, you definitely know how to 0:14:21.640 --> 0:14:24.720 separate it. And I'm I'm living proof of that. Well 0:14:24.760 --> 0:14:26.800 should y'all know, I'll be triggering y'all wholes just be 0:14:26.840 --> 0:14:29.520 talking about married sucking married man, so I get everything 0:14:29.640 --> 0:14:33.480 trigger y'all. Motherfucker's Oh my god, she is just so 0:14:33.560 --> 0:14:37.120 proud to fuck married men. Okay, I'm sorry if you're triggered, 0:14:37.200 --> 0:14:43.280 married woman, Oh my god, Okay, may almost awful. I 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:46.600 don't know. It's nothing wrong with living your truth. It's 0:14:46.640 --> 0:14:49.360 nothing wrong, and I do like don't for living my truth. 0:14:49.440 --> 0:14:51.000 And people need to just be who they are and 0:14:51.040 --> 0:14:52.880 be in their own skin. And if you could can't 0:14:52.880 --> 0:14:56.240 be with it, then you can't be with it. Also, 0:14:56.360 --> 0:15:00.720 like cheating conversations are triggering sometimes in general, Like oh 0:15:00.760 --> 0:15:03.200 my god, when I hear about the situation ships, I 0:15:03.240 --> 0:15:05.200 just think back to every nigga that I was holding 0:15:05.200 --> 0:15:08.480 onn for and I'm like, it's just the worst. You know, 0:15:08.760 --> 0:15:13.080 there's so much triggering ship in everything, bro, Like that's 0:15:13.080 --> 0:15:15.880 why people have to deal with their stuff. I mean 0:15:15.920 --> 0:15:18.160 not only triggering. I don't know if y'all saw it, 0:15:18.200 --> 0:15:22.440 but Netflix just tweeted UM that they removed the are 0:15:22.520 --> 0:15:27.640 you still watching um? Feature on their platform because they 0:15:27.640 --> 0:15:30.160 know we're not doing nothing? And I felt triggered, like 0:15:30.200 --> 0:15:33.480 that was a fake tweet. I mean, well, oh I 0:15:33.560 --> 0:15:36.520 posted it, maybe they were let me see. I'm pretty 0:15:36.520 --> 0:15:38.320 sure that was when they said we know you guys 0:15:38.320 --> 0:15:41.800 are doing nothing. We do we I mean it's said Netflix. 0:15:42.920 --> 0:15:44.960 They said it was from Netflix. Because I reposted that 0:15:44.960 --> 0:15:49.520 ship to my story, I was like, oh, I feel triggered, baby, Like, 0:15:49.600 --> 0:15:51.440 how you know I'm not doing nothing? I mean I'm 0:15:51.480 --> 0:15:53.840 not doing nothing, but yeah, I don't think Netflix. Let's 0:15:53.840 --> 0:15:57.480 say that, bro, yeah, bro verified account. Look, I'm going 0:15:57.560 --> 0:15:59.800 to Mandy and do you think that they can't photo 0:16:00.040 --> 0:16:04.400 shot fucking fake ship? Oh you might be right, Okay 0:16:05.000 --> 0:16:10.360 photos shot I ain't, but no, they don't have it anymore. Okay, 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:12.720 So we're gonna We're gonna start this week's episode though 0:16:12.720 --> 0:16:15.880 with an icebreaker. Um. Last week we played never Have 0:16:16.040 --> 0:16:18.640 I Ever? And this week with our guests, I want 0:16:18.640 --> 0:16:21.200 to play have you ever? And if you've ever done 0:16:21.200 --> 0:16:25.680 these things? Do share? Please? This is now storytime. So 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:29.920 have you ever warns? Well? I know weezy done, of 0:16:29.960 --> 0:16:35.320 course done every Why did she always? I ain't gonna 0:16:35.320 --> 0:16:36.800 hold you. I feel like you may have done this 0:16:36.840 --> 0:16:40.760 in middle school, hope. Have you ever warned special clothes 0:16:40.800 --> 0:16:46.040 to cover a hickie? Now? Guess you're probably wearing turtlenecks 0:16:46.120 --> 0:16:49.200 in motherfucking the heat of summer, bitch, just to cover 0:16:49.280 --> 0:16:54.120 the hickies, Like you know, it's fashionable. I'm starting, That's 0:16:54.160 --> 0:17:00.280 why I'm one this weekend. You want to hit in Jorea? 0:17:00.360 --> 0:17:02.400 Have you ever worn special clothes? To cover a hicky. 0:17:02.560 --> 0:17:05.879 Yes I have. I'm guilty as charged. I ain't gonna lie. 0:17:05.920 --> 0:17:08.000 Hicky is kind of like hunching to me. It's such 0:17:08.000 --> 0:17:13.160 a weird word. I kind of like to show off 0:17:13.160 --> 0:17:14.919 that every now and then. I'm like, yeah, I know 0:17:14.960 --> 0:17:16.960 I'm an oldie, but goody, but I still get something. 0:17:17.040 --> 0:17:21.000 I was sucking you you like to show off your hickies. 0:17:21.000 --> 0:17:23.680 I think hickies are such a childish thing to get. Why. 0:17:24.440 --> 0:17:26.560 It just shows you how good it is, that's all. No, 0:17:26.800 --> 0:17:29.280 it's like, nigger, you a vampire? Why are you sucking 0:17:29.320 --> 0:17:32.119 on my neck like to where it leaves a mark? Like? 0:17:32.200 --> 0:17:34.440 Do you not know how to keep at People get 0:17:34.440 --> 0:17:38.480 spanked and leave marks there too. That's a passion mark. 0:17:39.359 --> 0:17:42.600 I didn't think about that same thing. The only thing 0:17:42.600 --> 0:17:44.320 that freaks out about higgies. I'm like, Oh, it's all 0:17:44.320 --> 0:17:47.679 the blood. Is that what it is? Oh? I know 0:17:47.720 --> 0:17:49.879 you're not cringing for blood? We know you love blood. 0:17:49.880 --> 0:17:52.600 Shut bitch. My periods sucking coming on on Monday, so 0:17:52.640 --> 0:17:54.119 by the time you guys here, this will be here. 0:17:54.160 --> 0:17:56.119 And I was like, nigga, we got suck everywhere this week. 0:17:56.600 --> 0:18:00.640 Oh my god, hallelujah. Y'all, she's made it another month 0:18:00.720 --> 0:18:06.040 without getting pregnant. I'd be praying for your period. I'll 0:18:06.080 --> 0:18:09.760 go on that baby like ali want um Nah. I 0:18:09.760 --> 0:18:11.639 saw a tweet the other day that said, playing parents, 0:18:11.640 --> 0:18:15.000 I need to open back up this motherfucker growing. Oh. 0:18:17.720 --> 0:18:20.560 So the second have you ever? Oh? Go ahead? What 0:18:20.600 --> 0:18:23.640 she was gonna say? Go ahead? Oh? I was gonna say. 0:18:23.760 --> 0:18:26.120 The second have you ever? Is? Have you ever had 0:18:26.160 --> 0:18:30.920 sex with a person whose name you didn't know? Nah? 0:18:31.280 --> 0:18:36.679 Damn no, no, no, only names? Wazy, I'm sorry, I'm 0:18:36.680 --> 0:18:40.120 reading what a hicky is? What? Um? Have you ever 0:18:40.160 --> 0:18:44.479 had sex with a person whose name you didn't know? So, 0:18:44.560 --> 0:18:47.160 y'all really gonna make me be the only one? I'm 0:18:47.200 --> 0:18:48.800 sure if there's I'm the only one of some things 0:18:48.800 --> 0:18:52.439 that you didn't do either, child. I told listen, okay, 0:18:52.440 --> 0:18:54.880 you're right um for this one, and I shared the story. 0:18:54.880 --> 0:18:56.399 I may have shared it on a Patreon. I went 0:18:56.440 --> 0:18:58.639 to a party a couple of months ago, and me 0:18:58.680 --> 0:19:01.879 and this guy ended up like it was just like 0:19:01.920 --> 0:19:04.000 a matchmate in heaven. We ended up getting a room 0:19:04.119 --> 0:19:08.439 in the city and we had just some wild sex 0:19:08.520 --> 0:19:11.680 and the next morning we reintroduced ourselves because I could 0:19:11.680 --> 0:19:14.040 not remember what he even said his name was, and 0:19:14.119 --> 0:19:16.440 so I was like, hey, nice to meeting. I was like, 0:19:16.480 --> 0:19:19.080 by the way, my name is Mandy. Um well that 0:19:19.160 --> 0:19:23.280 was interesting. Um so yeah, so I we reintroduced ourselves 0:19:23.280 --> 0:19:30.639 in the morning after having sex, so listen, you know, 0:19:30.760 --> 0:19:34.720 and I was and now I'm not because we're in quarantine, 0:19:34.760 --> 0:19:38.520 and so I'm glad I experienced what I have experienced. 0:19:38.600 --> 0:19:41.520 Um So the next one is have you ever faked 0:19:41.560 --> 0:19:44.280 an orgasm? Now? I shared that I faked an orgasm 0:19:44.320 --> 0:19:46.960 just recently with my goddamn self. Have y'all ever faked 0:19:46.960 --> 0:19:50.280 an orgasm with your partners? Of course? Oh with my 0:19:50.359 --> 0:19:57.040 partner currently? No? I mean ever, yeah, I have Do 0:19:57.080 --> 0:19:59.879 you fake? So? I know we faked it with guys before. 0:20:00.000 --> 0:20:02.320 Have you ever faked um an orgasm with a woman? 0:20:04.440 --> 0:20:06.600 How do you fake it with a woman? I get 0:20:06.600 --> 0:20:09.840 the same way. I'm just like, so you do the 0:20:09.880 --> 0:20:13.520 Caucasian moment? Am I faked it with a woman? That 0:20:14.680 --> 0:20:17.320 generally women are better? But I've sucked a few girls 0:20:17.320 --> 0:20:18.879 that like had never been with a woman, and then 0:20:18.880 --> 0:20:21.160 they're just like doing a lot. So I just wanted 0:20:21.240 --> 0:20:23.520 to be over so, but I just know that it's 0:20:23.520 --> 0:20:27.280 probably I am actually more sensitive to the woman's ego 0:20:27.320 --> 0:20:30.200 than I am the man's ego. That's why I feel 0:20:30.240 --> 0:20:32.400 like I've had two with girls, which is probably sucked up. 0:20:33.000 --> 0:20:36.960 I was gonna say, I thought my man recently faked 0:20:36.960 --> 0:20:39.240 an orgasm with me, and I had a whole fit 0:20:39.720 --> 0:20:42.280 and he was like, trust me, it's gonna come out. 0:20:42.359 --> 0:20:47.480 It's gonna come out, and like so he just had 0:20:47.520 --> 0:20:50.760 the quietest fucking come I'd ever heard, and he doesn't 0:20:50.760 --> 0:20:52.800 come that way. I was like, you didn't come. I 0:20:52.840 --> 0:20:55.159 got up. I was so mad. I took a shower 0:20:55.200 --> 0:20:57.560 and then I felt it and I was like, oh, 0:20:57.840 --> 0:21:00.359