WEBVTT - Why is Jordan getting ghosted, and was he too confident?

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<v Speaker 1>First Day to follow Up powered by the Advocates Injury

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<v Speaker 1>Attorneys Online at advocates dot com.

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<v Speaker 2>Jordan is on the phone today for a first Day

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<v Speaker 2>follow up and he's getting ghosted by a woman named Chrisa.

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<v Speaker 2>So in a few minutes we'll call her and see

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<v Speaker 2>if she'll tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe

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<v Speaker 2>get him another date. But first, Jordan, how long is it,

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<v Speaker 2>Vinces you heard from Chrisa.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean it's been it's been a few days. I

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<v Speaker 3>left a voicemail. I mean it just fell right, I

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<v Speaker 3>mean the date was fire.

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<v Speaker 2>It's only been a few days, though. Are you sure

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<v Speaker 2>you're getting ghosted?

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<v Speaker 3>I mean, look, it's this, It's just a vibe, and

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<v Speaker 3>it's just I was just after a few days, I'm

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<v Speaker 3>kind of like, what's up?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay?

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<v Speaker 4>So you expected her to be like right on it.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, yeah, no doubt locked in.

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<v Speaker 3>I mean I knew the second the second we nash

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<v Speaker 3>like National online, I knew that date was going to

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<v Speaker 3>be fire.

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<v Speaker 4>What did you say in the voicemail?

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<v Speaker 3>Just said there's a vibe, there's fires, you know they

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<v Speaker 3>I was just saying stuff that I was just making

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<v Speaker 3>her laugh, you know, she was listening, and you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I was just thrown down some some motivational things about like,

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<v Speaker 3>you know how my life all figured out and you

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<v Speaker 3>know how I started from the bottom. Now I'm up there,

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<v Speaker 3>you know. And I just got that vibe that she

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<v Speaker 3>kind of responded to me a little sarcastic, but but

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<v Speaker 3>she was with it.

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<v Speaker 5>And I'm all about a girl and keep up with me,

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<v Speaker 5>you know.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, So when was all of this going down? Was

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<v Speaker 4>this part of the date?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 3>No, I mean it started off in the d MS, okay,

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<v Speaker 3>And then afterward, after I said, you know, she can

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<v Speaker 3>keep up, you know, she she's got it, I.

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<v Speaker 5>Decided to take her over to you know, fancy joints.

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<v Speaker 5>It shows that I got class, you know, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Was she impressed?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, I mean she was attracted.

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<v Speaker 3>I could tell, like she raised an eyebrow when I

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<v Speaker 3>sat down. In all classes, she could not keep her

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<v Speaker 3>eyes off me. I could feel my magnetism just pulling

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<v Speaker 3>that all in.

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<v Speaker 4>You get the same feeling when you look in the mirror.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh of course I'm drawn to it, you know. So

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<v Speaker 3>Dinners starts off perfect right.

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<v Speaker 5>And I'm like, I'm just vibing.

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<v Speaker 3>Now I'm just killing it. With my stories. Okay, I

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<v Speaker 3>mean especially yeah, my gym routine. I mean, like this

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<v Speaker 3>is it's something special, you know, it's something it's built

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<v Speaker 3>from inspiration.

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<v Speaker 2>Is she into working out stuff? Like would you be

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<v Speaker 2>interested in that? Because you know sometimes you've thrown into it.

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<v Speaker 2>They don't want to hear about the gym stuff.

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<v Speaker 1>No.

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<v Speaker 3>I knew she was into it, Like, but she was

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<v Speaker 3>making jokes about it. But that's just she's just sarcastic,

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<v Speaker 3>you know. Okay, she knew my movies were bold and

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<v Speaker 3>she was liking its.

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<v Speaker 5>She was with it.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, you're talking about how much she was with Like

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<v Speaker 4>what did you like about her? Like? Was she engaging

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<v Speaker 4>other than being sarcastic? Other than your gym routine? Was

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<v Speaker 4>anything else going on?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh? She was just a good listener. But she she

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<v Speaker 5>could keep up, you know, and that's what I really liked.

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<v Speaker 4>So what could have gone wrong?

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<v Speaker 5>Then?

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe, you know, maybe it's I just got a little

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<v Speaker 3>too motivational because that's my future.

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<v Speaker 5>Like I'm going to be a motivational speaker.

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<v Speaker 3>Okay, you paid like six figures to say a few things,

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<v Speaker 3>you knowing the kids believing themselves, you know, So I

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<v Speaker 3>went from my gym routine straight into my motivational speech

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<v Speaker 3>because like the mood was there right, Like I was like, hey,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, talking about like what we're doing with our lives.

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<v Speaker 3>And I just stood up and I hit the restaurant

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<v Speaker 3>with some high energy like I'm talking. We're looking at me,

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<v Speaker 3>like I was like Tony Robbins, you know, and I

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<v Speaker 3>just I told her. I looked her in the eyes

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<v Speaker 3>and I said, it's my purpose to inspire people to

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<v Speaker 3>change lives.

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<v Speaker 5>You know.

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<v Speaker 4>So you didn't just address her, you addressed the entire restaurant.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, they were looking at me. They knew, you know.

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<v Speaker 3>And she was smiling. I mean she was shaking her

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<v Speaker 3>head in a few things. I know that kind of hadshake,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, you know I got hadshake when you know

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<v Speaker 3>you're so lucky, like like you won the lottery or embarrassed.

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<v Speaker 3>Well you just see this guy with great sayings and

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<v Speaker 3>great gains, like oh I like that. Yeah, you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I said good night. You know, I said good night.

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<v Speaker 3>I mcclassy dude, you know. And one of I was,

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<v Speaker 3>you know, wanting to get to know her more. I

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<v Speaker 3>said a text later, telling her I had a blast

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<v Speaker 3>and I just let the voice not the next day.

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<v Speaker 3>You know, I'm just because I'm just being thoughtful, you.

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<v Speaker 2>Know, Well, why do you think she's ghosting you?

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<v Speaker 5>I think I just think I've gone Maybe I went

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<v Speaker 5>a little too big.

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<v Speaker 3>It's in five days, and I mean, but we had chemistry,

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<v Speaker 3>and I mean, I know she wants a confident guy outgoing.

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<v Speaker 5>Can't get more outgoing than that, And I just think.

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<v Speaker 3>Maybe maybe I'm being a little misunderstood, but but I'm

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<v Speaker 3>definitely your.

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<v Speaker 5>Type, but definitely are tight.

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<v Speaker 2>All right, Well, we'll try to figure out where you

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<v Speaker 2>play a song come back, and then call her and

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<v Speaker 2>see if she'll tell us why she's ghosting you and

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<v Speaker 2>maybe get you another day to write.

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, you got it, you got it?

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, thank you, play song, come back, and get your

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<v Speaker 2>first day follow up next. Right in the middle of

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<v Speaker 2>today's first date follow up and if you're just joining us,

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<v Speaker 2>Jordan is on the phone and he's getting ghosted by Christa.

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<v Speaker 2>So we're about to call her and see if she'll

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<v Speaker 2>tell us why she's ghosting him and maybe get him

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<v Speaker 2>another date. But first, Jordan, why don't you kind of

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<v Speaker 2>recap your day for us?

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, so we went out to a fancy place. We

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<v Speaker 3>hit it off. The spot definitely had chemistry. She couldn't

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<v Speaker 3>keep her eyes off me. I couldn't keep her eyes

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<v Speaker 3>off her. I was just being confident, you know, just

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<v Speaker 3>showing off my outgoing nature.

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<v Speaker 5>I told her some stories.

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<v Speaker 3>We hit it off, and you know, I went into

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<v Speaker 3>my gym routine and then got into my whole motivation,

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<v Speaker 3>and uh, we hit it off. I had a I

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<v Speaker 3>had a blast, And I've been texting her about Hey, yes,

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<v Speaker 3>let's keep this going, like, let's when I am.

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<v Speaker 5>When am I going to see your game?

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<v Speaker 2>Ready for us to call her?

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, no doubt, Let's do it.

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<v Speaker 2>Here we go. I may I speak to Chrystal please?

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<v Speaker 2>Hey Christa, how are you? My name is jew Well.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm calling from a radio show. It's called The Jubile Show.

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<v Speaker 4>Hi, Christo, we're all here. My name's Nina, Hi, and

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<v Speaker 4>I'm Victoria.

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<v Speaker 6>Okay, I know you guys.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh you do? Sweet well, thank you very much for

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<v Speaker 2>knowing us. Appreciate that. We do a segment on the show.

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<v Speaker 2>It's called the First Day follow Up. It's where if

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<v Speaker 2>you go on a date with somebody and you end

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<v Speaker 2>up ghosting them, that person can email us to call

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<v Speaker 2>you and find out why you're ghosting. So any idea

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<v Speaker 2>who would email us about you?

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<v Speaker 6>Jordan?

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<v Speaker 2>Obviously, Yes it is Jordan.

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<v Speaker 4>So you asked you are blatantly ghosting? Jordan?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh yeah, definitely.

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<v Speaker 2>H okay, would you mind telling us why? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, like the whole day just felt like I

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<v Speaker 1>was like on some episode of a crazy fitness reality show.

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<v Speaker 6>It was an absurd human I don't know.

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<v Speaker 4>I don't know any highlights of the reality show that

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<v Speaker 4>you felt like.

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<v Speaker 6>You were on so many let's see.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well, okay, first off, he's really not my type,

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<v Speaker 1>Like it is not normally the type of guy I

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<v Speaker 1>would go out with. But you know, he scoot and

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<v Speaker 1>me pick the fancy restaurant, so I figured, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>why not?

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<v Speaker 6>And so I walk in and there he is in this.

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<v Speaker 1>Like totally skin tight, like long sleeve white almost febru

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<v Speaker 1>shirt with like you know, his bicets are like screaming

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<v Speaker 1>to please give me a break from bicep curls.

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<v Speaker 6>He just was a total meat, you know what I mean,

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<v Speaker 6>Like you could just tell.

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<v Speaker 1>And so dinner started fine until like Jordan started talking

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<v Speaker 1>and he noticed the waiter who was like the kind

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<v Speaker 1>of a skinny, young, you know, dorky kind of guy.

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<v Speaker 1>So Jordan starts calling him scrawny to his face, and then.

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<v Speaker 6>Out of nowhere it got worse.

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<v Speaker 1>So like that was embarrassing enough, but then out of nowhere,

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<v Speaker 1>Jordan like grabs the guy's arm and is like and

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<v Speaker 1>looks at me and goes, Babe, check this out, and

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<v Speaker 1>then challenge water arm wrestling. You don't know me challenging

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<v Speaker 1>to an arm wrestling match. Luckily, Scrownnie to decline, so

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<v Speaker 1>we got away with not dealing with that. But yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>and then he just like wouldn't stop talking about like

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<v Speaker 1>his gym and like every ingredient and his protein shake

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<v Speaker 1>in the mornings and like all of this crap. And

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<v Speaker 1>then the worst part was it's towards the end, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm just kind of laughing at him because he's again

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<v Speaker 1>an absurd human. And towards the end he starts talking

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<v Speaker 1>about how he wants to be like a Tony Robbins,

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<v Speaker 1>like motivational speaker guy, and he stands up and does

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<v Speaker 1>like a motivational seat to the back corner of the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>He's really proud of it, of course he was.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, it was mortifying it was mortifying. And then

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<v Speaker 1>when the date was so he bade the check, sat

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<v Speaker 1>back down, you know whatever, and then he wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>go like he wasn't ready for the night to be

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<v Speaker 1>over and wanted to take me to some bar so

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<v Speaker 1>that he could arm wrestle more.

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<v Speaker 2>Got like I wanted to show off a little more.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, yeah, he just got to like show off that

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<v Speaker 1>he could like arm rustle or bench press anybody.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know. It was just a third.

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<v Speaker 1>So you didn't go no, no, I got out of there.

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<v Speaker 2>You know who might be surprised to hear that you

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<v Speaker 2>felt that way.

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<v Speaker 5>Jordan.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, And guess what, Jordan is actually on the phone

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<v Speaker 2>listening and wants to talk to you.

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<v Speaker 3>Oh god, okay, yeah, hey Christa good to hear from you.

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<v Speaker 5>Ray, how are you doing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm good.

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<v Speaker 3>I just want to say that you're misunderstanding the whole thing.

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<v Speaker 3>Like I get that that maybe the arm wrestling was

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<v Speaker 3>a bit it was a bit much, but you know,

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<v Speaker 3>I'll keep things fun.

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<v Speaker 5>You know, we were having fun.

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<v Speaker 3>And and it wasn't about it about showing off.

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<v Speaker 5>I mean, look, I'm not It's natural, maybe a little

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<v Speaker 5>because that's who I.

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<v Speaker 3>Am, but it's because I wanted you to see I'm

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<v Speaker 3>not I'm not boring.

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<v Speaker 5>I don't play it safe. I'm not that kind of guy.

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<v Speaker 3>But I didn't realize it comes off or I came

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<v Speaker 3>off in any way as anxious, and I'll admit I

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<v Speaker 3>probably went overboard.

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<v Speaker 5>But but that's.

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<v Speaker 3>Me being me, that's Jordan's being Jordan's you know. But

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<v Speaker 3>but for real, I think there's still chemistry there with us.

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<v Speaker 3>And I promise I'll turn it down because I'm not

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<v Speaker 3>so meat to try and to prove himself.

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<v Speaker 5>I'm proven. I just wanted to make a good impression.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, So I really appreciate how confident and out knowing

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<v Speaker 1>you are, and I think that's that's super great. And

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<v Speaker 1>you're not afraid to be yourself, and I think that's great.

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<v Speaker 1>I've also realized that, you know, I think we're probably

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<v Speaker 1>like looking for different things. You know, You've got this

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<v Speaker 1>like big, bold personality anything going, and I don't really

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<v Speaker 1>mess with that kind of energy, like that's not my

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<v Speaker 1>jam kind of.

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<v Speaker 3>Well, first off, I appreciate that you recognize my big

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<v Speaker 3>and bold presence.

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<v Speaker 5>Who I am, and you you appreciate.

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<v Speaker 3>My confidence, and then that that's great and I just

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<v Speaker 3>want to know if I could see you again, Chris,

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<v Speaker 3>would you.

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<v Speaker 2>Like Jordan again? We'll pay for it.

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<v Speaker 6>No, No, I'm I'm good, thinks so yeah.

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<v Speaker 3>Yeah, I mean if you hear right there, you started

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<v Speaker 3>off with a yes and change, so you just changing

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<v Speaker 3>your mind there.

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<v Speaker 5>I see you're still working it out. I know, I

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<v Speaker 5>know there's still suff You just need some time, you know.

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<v Speaker 5>And hey, I'm not to keep in touch you know now, Jordan.

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<v Speaker 1>Jordan's delete my number. I think that would be for

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<v Speaker 1>the best. If you need me. Look, if you don't

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<v Speaker 1>like fitness, Jordan, go back to the gym.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm I'm I'm good.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, if I delete your number, how will I know

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<v Speaker 5>when you decided to call me? You will first date,

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<v Speaker 5>follow up