1 00:00:00,720 --> 00:00:05,960 Speaker 1: Order. What's up, friend, and honey, I'm not even gonna 2 00:00:05,960 --> 00:00:08,320 Speaker 1: do my little spiel about how crazy the case is. 3 00:00:08,680 --> 00:00:12,080 Speaker 1: I'm just gonna start reading, so please buckle up because 4 00:00:12,119 --> 00:00:13,320 Speaker 1: this is this is something. 5 00:00:13,400 --> 00:00:13,720 Speaker 2: Okay. 6 00:00:13,840 --> 00:00:16,440 Speaker 1: It says, hey, ki key, am I wrong for changing 7 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:19,239 Speaker 1: the locks after my father in law let himself into 8 00:00:19,280 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 1: our house while I was in the shower. I have 9 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:25,759 Speaker 1: been married to my husband for three years. His dad, 10 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:30,040 Speaker 1: Rick has always had boundary issues. He's the type who 11 00:00:30,120 --> 00:00:33,920 Speaker 1: believes that family should never knock, and he has always 12 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:36,559 Speaker 1: had a spare key to our house since we moved in, 13 00:00:36,880 --> 00:00:41,159 Speaker 1: which I never agreed to. Rick uses the key randomly 14 00:00:41,200 --> 00:00:44,000 Speaker 1: to drop by. He pops in while I'm working from home. 15 00:00:44,240 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 1: He brings over food that I didn't ask for, and 16 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: if he catches me on my work break at home, 17 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:52,599 Speaker 1: he will just start going on rants about how I 18 00:00:52,720 --> 00:00:56,120 Speaker 1: emasculate his son because I am the bread winner, so 19 00:00:56,160 --> 00:00:58,800 Speaker 1: it's safe to say I don't really like Rick. I've 20 00:00:58,800 --> 00:01:01,840 Speaker 1: asked my husband multiple times to talk to his father 21 00:01:01,920 --> 00:01:05,360 Speaker 1: about just randomly popping up at our house, and he's tried, 22 00:01:05,840 --> 00:01:09,080 Speaker 1: but Rick brushes it off with jokes or guilt trips, 23 00:01:09,319 --> 00:01:12,039 Speaker 1: saying that I'm trying to exclude him from bonding with 24 00:01:12,080 --> 00:01:15,800 Speaker 1: his family. Well, last week, my husband was away on 25 00:01:15,840 --> 00:01:18,399 Speaker 1: a work trip, so that morning I got out of 26 00:01:18,440 --> 00:01:21,399 Speaker 1: the shower and walked out of my bathroom to go 27 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:25,600 Speaker 1: to my bedroom half naked, and Rick was standing right 28 00:01:25,640 --> 00:01:29,119 Speaker 1: in the middle of my kitchen. When I screamed, he said, oh, 29 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,600 Speaker 1: my bad, I didn't know you were here, and claims 30 00:01:31,640 --> 00:01:32,479 Speaker 1: that he came back. 31 00:01:32,480 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 2: To drop off a slow cooker. I freaked out. 32 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:37,880 Speaker 1: I told him to get out, and he had the 33 00:01:38,000 --> 00:01:41,760 Speaker 1: audacity to say that I was overreacting and acting like 34 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:44,720 Speaker 1: I had something to hide. Damn, this man is crazy. 35 00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:48,120 Speaker 1: After he left, I called the locksmith and had the 36 00:01:48,160 --> 00:01:51,560 Speaker 1: locks changed. The same day, when my husband came home 37 00:01:51,600 --> 00:01:54,920 Speaker 1: from his trip, he was furious, but at me. He said, 38 00:01:55,000 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 1: I overstepped by making a big decision about the house 39 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:00,880 Speaker 1: without talking to him, and now I've cost a rift 40 00:02:00,920 --> 00:02:06,120 Speaker 1: between him and his father. Okay, husband, husband, child. My 41 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:08,880 Speaker 1: father in law of course, is plain victim and telling 42 00:02:08,919 --> 00:02:12,080 Speaker 1: the whole family that I'm punishing him for caring about 43 00:02:12,080 --> 00:02:15,440 Speaker 1: his son and wanting to visit, and that I've poisoned 44 00:02:15,480 --> 00:02:18,639 Speaker 1: his son to be against him. Some family members are 45 00:02:18,680 --> 00:02:21,959 Speaker 1: siding with Rick, and saying that he's just a loving 46 00:02:22,040 --> 00:02:24,800 Speaker 1: dad and oh, that's just how he is, and I 47 00:02:24,800 --> 00:02:28,000 Speaker 1: should have handled it differently, but I don't care. I 48 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:30,480 Speaker 1: no longer want my father in law to have access 49 00:02:30,520 --> 00:02:32,240 Speaker 1: to my house. Am I wrong? 50 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:37,399 Speaker 2: Whoo girl? Okay, I got I gotta keep this one short. Girl. 51 00:02:37,400 --> 00:02:39,840 Speaker 1: You're not wrong, You're not wrong at all, and your 52 00:02:39,960 --> 00:02:43,079 Speaker 1: husband is on the complete wrong side of history. I'm 53 00:02:43,120 --> 00:02:47,120 Speaker 1: sorry your father in law has he is completely stepping 54 00:02:47,160 --> 00:02:49,800 Speaker 1: over the boundaries like he is, crossing so many boundaries. 55 00:02:50,000 --> 00:02:51,680 Speaker 2: You know. I don't even like people coming to my 56 00:02:51,720 --> 00:02:54,720 Speaker 2: house unannounced any nobody. The only person I. 57 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:56,760 Speaker 1: Want in my house unannounced is the Amazon man, and 58 00:02:56,800 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 1: even I know when he gonna pull up. Okay, I'd 59 00:03:00,960 --> 00:03:02,920 Speaker 1: for someone to have a key to your home and 60 00:03:03,040 --> 00:03:06,639 Speaker 1: just let themselves in. And then why are you coming 61 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:08,639 Speaker 1: when your son is on a work trip? I mean, 62 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:11,120 Speaker 1: if you know that your son works outside of the home, 63 00:03:11,480 --> 00:03:13,600 Speaker 1: why are you continuously popping up in the middle of 64 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 1: the day when your daughter in law is at home 65 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:19,320 Speaker 1: working from home. When she's at home alone, you don't 66 00:03:19,360 --> 00:03:21,840 Speaker 1: need to be there, Rick. And the fact that he 67 00:03:21,919 --> 00:03:23,600 Speaker 1: popped up on you after you got out of the 68 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:26,320 Speaker 1: shower and just like casually stood there. To me, that's 69 00:03:26,360 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 1: alarming as well. He should have screamed too. Oh hell no, girl, 70 00:03:30,360 --> 00:03:33,079 Speaker 1: you are not wrong. Okay, I need I need the 71 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:35,400 Speaker 1: jewelry to weigh in. I'm gonna post this video on 72 00:03:35,440 --> 00:03:38,040 Speaker 1: social You can follow my instagram at on air Keykey, 73 00:03:38,080 --> 00:03:42,080 Speaker 1: It'll be at Fredshell Radio two. Let me know your 74 00:03:42,120 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 1: thoughts on this, because for me, it's an absolute hell no. 75 00:03:45,880 --> 00:03:48,400 Speaker 1: There will if anybody has a spare key to my house, 76 00:03:48,400 --> 00:03:50,600 Speaker 1: which my family, My sister has a spare key to 77 00:03:51,000 --> 00:03:52,880 Speaker 1: my house, and if Big Tim wanted his mom to 78 00:03:52,920 --> 00:03:56,280 Speaker 1: have a spare key, fine, but nobody is popping up 79 00:03:56,320 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 1: at my house unannounced. 80 00:03:57,520 --> 00:03:57,880 Speaker 2: Nobody. 81 00:03:57,920 --> 00:03:59,800 Speaker 1: I don't give a damn who you are. So it's 82 00:03:59,840 --> 00:04:03,520 Speaker 1: an absolute no for me. Okay, hell no, that's my thoughts. 83 00:04:03,520 --> 00:04:05,520 Speaker 1: So let me know what you think, friend. Okay, I'll 84 00:04:05,560 --> 00:04:07,600 Speaker 1: be back in the court room on Thursday.