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Speaker 1: Is there any place on the Internet that bride spend

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Speaker 1: dot gov could be another option. But Instagram does take

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Speaker 1: up a large chunk though, because you get to see

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Speaker 1: all the cool wedding venues, new traditions and trends that

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Speaker 2: It's so exciting and fun to do, and then you'd

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Speaker 2: like it for a couple of days. Your algorithm transforms the.

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Speaker 1: Wedding week exactly well. One of our listeners says the

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Speaker 1: idea that she took from online may have backfired on her,

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Speaker 1: and now she wants to know is she the jerk?

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Speaker 3: Oh?

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Speaker 2: I love you.

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Speaker 1: In our most non judgmental voices, let's welcome Ashley to

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Speaker 1: the show.

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Speaker 2: Hey, Ashley him sensitive especially, I have a big issue.

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Speaker 1: That's good, So actually welcome. Your wedding is coming up.

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Speaker 1: It hasn't happened yet.

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Speaker 3: It's coming up in three months.

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Speaker 4: AISO in trouble.

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Speaker 2: Well, she's laughing. You know what, though, Ashley's laughing. I

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Speaker 2: think that's a good sign.

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Speaker 4: We're crying.

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Speaker 1: I'm not sure which. Yeah, tell us about what's going on?

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Speaker 1: Why did you reach out to us about this.

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Speaker 3: All right. So, as I said, wedding is coming up

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Speaker 3: in three months, very excited, very happy to be marrying

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Speaker 3: them save some money and to also try to be inclusive, okay,

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Speaker 3: which is sending out non invites for my wedding.

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Speaker 1: Non invites?

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Speaker 3: Exactly, what do you mean?

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Speaker 4: What do you mean?

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Speaker 2: You're like, you get it saying that says you're not invited.

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Speaker 3: So basically it's sending out announcements like to let people

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Speaker 2: It's going to be a yeah, wait, you wedding three months?

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Speaker 2: Have you already done this?

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Speaker 1: I have done it.

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Speaker 3: And it's a tiny event, like it's only we're only

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Speaker 1: So are the.

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Speaker 2: Non invites or you're just soliciting for presence at that point?

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Speaker 2: Is that what you're trying to get because.

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Speaker 1: That's what book would definitely do, But.

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Speaker 2: Like, what do I don't really the point of.

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Speaker 3: It, Okay. The reason for it is because we want

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Speaker 1: Is that what you put on the non invites, Like, hey,

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Speaker 2: No.

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Speaker 3: No, it just has a link to our wedding web

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Speaker 3: one of our friends, I don't know who it was,

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Speaker 1: Guess that's kind of how it reads exactly.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, but you you swear that's not your that

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Speaker 5: It's for me.

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Speaker 3: It's just like do you want me to do like

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Speaker 4: They do have a small ceremony and then they send

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Speaker 2: Do you ever feel like, yeah, USh, what it knows?

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Speaker 2: I could mentally prepare that I wasn't I didn't make

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Speaker 1: To pay to go to that wedding. Alexis has been

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Speaker 1: you're saying that people online now are calling you rude

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Speaker 1: That saved the date. But not for you, yes, for yourself,

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Speaker 2: So that's one thousand dollars a person. You're spending those

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Speaker 3: That's just our family and our best friends. Literally, Like

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Speaker 2: Like any true have you gotten any positive feedback from

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Speaker 3: So like, I haven't seen any of that yet. I'm

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Speaker 3: They're saving me having to spend all this money on

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Speaker 1: So how do you feel about the people that get

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Speaker 1: How do you feel about that?

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Speaker 3: Okay, So if they don't want to buy any gifts,

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Speaker 3: if it was me, I would one hundred percent be

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Speaker 1: Is it okay? If they send you a spirit gift,

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Speaker 2: I see, I see.

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Speaker 1: That's the equal balance of it.

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Speaker 2: Not tangible, but it's an idea.

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Speaker 1: Yes, And that's my gift to you, is the thought

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Speaker 3: Oh, I know you guys are joking, but honestly, it

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Speaker 2: You know, Okay, Honestly my first reaction was I like

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Speaker 1: Good baby in there might be a bad kid. I

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Speaker 1: if you're just tuning in, what the non invite means

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Speaker 1: is basically an announcement saying we're getting married in a

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Speaker 2: We want you to know we're getting married and we're celebrating.

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Speaker 1: Unfortunately, we can't afford to have everywhere. It's a new trend.

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Speaker 1: Apparently that's happening on Instagram and Ashley tried it. It's

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Speaker 1: how this works, Ashley. You're asking us to ask our listeners,

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Speaker 1: are you the jerk? So text in seven eight, five

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Speaker 1: Texted in We're gonna find out the answer when we

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Speaker 1: continue am I the Jerk? Right after this, we're in

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Speaker 1: Towards the end, there were you changing her mind on

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Speaker 2: I was just trying to be kind, okay, But it's

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Speaker 1: But it's like she, I know, you're you're cheap and

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Speaker 2: You just make like I know they says I'm not

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Speaker 5: Now I know where it is.

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Speaker 2: She's honestly, she's.

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Speaker 1: the results live. But we did ask the listeners. Is

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Speaker 2: She's scar she knows that time it was a lie.

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Speaker 2: Jeffrey seven, try to be nice.

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Speaker 1: Let's get to the air nice I want. Yeah, you're

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Speaker 1: She's on the Let's just get to the answers here, okay.

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Speaker 1: Seventy two percent said she is the jerk sending out

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Speaker 1: no invites to her wedding? Yeah no, not c real quick,

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Speaker 1: alexis am I the jerk for asking what the other

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Speaker 1: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Hey, thanks for having me.

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Speaker 1: Want to talk to you. She got a non invite?

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Speaker 1: What's going on? You had some sort of wedding situation

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Speaker 1: come up with you?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so I got an invite to a wedding and

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Speaker 5: it was a couple of months ago. Bride's just a

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Speaker 5: coworker of mine. They had a nice event, you know.

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Speaker 5: They did their buffet style, which was Fine Eyes, which

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Speaker 5: is cool. There were eighteen tables. I'm at table seventeen

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Speaker 5: and of course table sixteen goes and then they ran

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Speaker 5: out of food.

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Speaker 2: Oh no, they ran out of food before the last

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Speaker 2: two tables went up.

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Speaker 5: They ran out of food. All they had left was

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Speaker 5: like a half a tray of beans.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, what a fail from the can or

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Speaker 2: a hunger yes, yet, Oh you're gonna blame them.

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Speaker 1: That's the ultimate wedding nightmare is running out of food.

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Speaker 1: What did they do?

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Speaker 2: Did they run out and get burgers for you guys

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Speaker 2: or something that.

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Speaker 5: Would have been nice? I mean, you know, we're just

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Speaker 5: watching everyone eat. Nobody was doing anything about it. It's

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Speaker 5: like they just didn't care the beans though, So I

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Speaker 5: was like, okay, I'll handle this. I called for pizza delivery. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: they showed to the venue. They bring in the pizzas

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Speaker 5: our two tables start cheering, and the bride she got

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Speaker 5: so angry. She said that we turned her big day

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Speaker 5: into a white trash wedding.

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Speaker 1: Oh especially especially with like everybody cheering for the pizza

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Speaker 1: when it came in. That may have been a bad

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Speaker 1: The bride didn't want the wedding. What's wrong with a

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Speaker 1: white trash wedding?

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Speaker 2: He's a real questionizza.

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Speaker 1: The bride is the one who was upset with you?

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: Oh?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, she was curious?

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Speaker 2: Well would wait, maybe she didn't know what was going on.

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Speaker 2: I like maybe she thought you were just ordering the

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Speaker 2: pizza because you didn't like it or something.

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Speaker 5: You know, she absolutely knew that they had run out

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Speaker 5: of food, but she didn't know that we called for pizza,

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Speaker 5: And maybe I should have let her know.

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Speaker 2: She didn't approve the pizza, but she also knew there

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Speaker 2: wasn't any food.

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Speaker 5: She just wanted you to suck it up.

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Speaker 2: Or maybe you should have met them and just ate

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Speaker 2: secretly behind a building.

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Speaker 1: So you're wondering if you're the jerk for ordering the

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Speaker 1: pizza after they had run out of food at the wedding.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, exactly, And did I really ruin her wedding?

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Speaker 1: Was how many? Or was it enough to share?

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Speaker 2: Or did you just get like one personal pizza?

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Speaker 5: I got enough for the two table.

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Speaker 1: Not enough time to do all like text board things.

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Speaker 1: So we're just gonna go around the room really quick

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Speaker 1: and vote on this one. Is Leo the jerk for

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Speaker 1: ordering pizza to a wedding that wasn't his when they

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Speaker 1: didn't have enough food for all the guests?

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Speaker 4: Alexis and done the same thing, so but not the jerk?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Brook, I mean, I do think you probably should

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Speaker 2: have informed the bride, but I'm still going to say,

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Speaker 2: not the jerk. Yeah, okay, everybody loves pizza, but you know,

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Speaker 2: wedding days kind of a big deal.

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Speaker 1: You got to ask the bride. So you're a jerk

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Speaker 1: here for sure.

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Speaker 2: Oh you're saying, absolutely got a jerk.

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Speaker 1: Okay, everybody loves pizza, but come on, you don't just

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Speaker 1: show up to somebody's wedding. My vote is NC for

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Speaker 1: no class. Could have ordered the pizza secretly aid it

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Speaker 1: out in the street like a rat, but you you

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Speaker 1: decided to bring it into the venue and shove it

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Speaker 1: in the bride's face. So you're saying no class.

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Speaker 2: I think it's fine to have no class.

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Speaker 1: Just you got two no jerks, one yes, jerk and

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Speaker 1: one no class. Not the jerk.

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Speaker 4: Leo to let's get pizza with you.

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Speaker 1: Congratulations, Thank you that you know.

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Speaker 5: Guys, that's why I called it. You're you're the ones

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Speaker 5: that are going to give me the brutal honesty. I

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Speaker 5: need to hear.

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Speaker 1: That's what we do best. Now shut up and go

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Speaker 1: to work. Okay, that's broken tree in the morning

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Speaker 2: And Jeffrey in the morning.