Speaker 1: Say, Elvis rand presents the off air show Steerie Jones,
Speaker 1: Greg tea yeah episode and what was missing from that?
Speaker 1: Just before I say that Greg is supposed to go,
Speaker 1: I'm supposed to scream something obnoxious. Hey, guess what, there's
Speaker 1: no lookout today because Greg T got violently ill at
Speaker 1: five o'clock in the morning while he was doing his
Speaker 1: pre morning show before the Elvis d Ran Big Show
Speaker 1: comes on at six. He went he went to a
Speaker 1: commercial break, and he went into the bathroom and he
Speaker 1: just started violently vomiting everywhere. And at six o'clock when
Speaker 1: he finished his one hour pre show, he told Elvis,
Speaker 1: I'm really sick, man, I'm gonna go so so Gregg
Speaker 1: T went home, leaving me alone. Chery will be here
Speaker 1: in just a couple of minutes. We're gonna do sharing
Speaker 1: nose in just a second. But how sick is Greg T?
Speaker 1: It's now a quarter after twelve. He's had some time
Speaker 1: to go home and sleep. I'm gonna call him up
Speaker 1: real quick. And I promised this won't be a boring podcast.
Speaker 1: We're gonna have some fun today, maybe not as much
Speaker 1: fun as when Gregg T's here. I'll tell you one thing.
Speaker 1: It won't be as loud as it normally is. And
Speaker 1: I don't know where bald Freak is either. I'm gonna
Speaker 1: call him next because he hasn't been here in like
Speaker 1: three weeks. Seriously, everybody, Hey, t yeah, Hey, it's scary.
Speaker 1: How you doing, buddy? How are you feeling good? Not good?
Speaker 1: Throw up? You're throwing up? Oh my crazy, I'm throwing
Speaker 1: up like freaking Uh well, I'm on the pod. I
Speaker 1: just started the podcast by myself, and I'm and the
Speaker 1: and the lookout was missing, and I'm like, I told
Speaker 1: the story quickly of what happened to you in five
Speaker 1: o'clock this morning. So so you're not like playing hooky here.
Speaker 1: This isn't like it's gonna be degree today. I want
Speaker 1: to go home and I want to go my swimming pool. No, bro,
Speaker 1: I threw up like I threw up an entire erosian. Okay, Okay,
Speaker 1: you're getting a little gross, so real quick. Uh didn't
Speaker 1: you have an appearance to do today? Yep? Garrett's doing it.
Speaker 1: Oh man. So he's at seven eleven Times Square And
Speaker 1: they texted me and they want me to do social media.
Speaker 1: So they've been sending me pictures that I've had to
Speaker 1: put up, and I tried to tell them that I'm dying.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry, Do you have like come some kind of
Speaker 1: a bug, some kind of a I don't know. My
Speaker 1: stomach is empty at this point, so now it's just energy.
Speaker 1: And then I'm supposed to go to a sales dinner
Speaker 1: later on. I don't know what I'm gonna do with that.
Speaker 1: You're gonna go? I told him I would tell him
Speaker 1: by two o'clock, right, So I just need well. I
Speaker 1: wanted to prove to the off air heads that are
Speaker 1: listening right now that this wasn't a joke. This wasn't
Speaker 1: you trying to This is no joke. Trust me, this
Speaker 1: is no joke. Trust me. Trust me. You do not
Speaker 1: want to have what Greg T is having right now. No, no, no, no, no, no,
Speaker 1: Look at wake in the room. Oh yes, here, I
Speaker 1: have finally had somebody to talk to you. There you go.
Speaker 1: What's going on? Hello? What's going on? Yeah? Greg didn't
Speaker 1: show up today? Homesick. I'm homesick. Really, you're not here, scary,
Speaker 1: Let's just do Yeah, Greg and Gregg T is dying.
Speaker 1: You want to you want to hang out on the
Speaker 1: phone with us if you want to peek at any
Speaker 1: point you can. No, this will make me more sick. No, see,
Speaker 1: you really sick very much. So we'll feel better, man,
Speaker 1: feel better. Hold on, I guess the sales people are
Speaker 1: texting me more pictures but on social media? Are hold on?
Speaker 1: Are you pretending like you're at the event. Yeah, I'm
Speaker 1: at location Prime Square, New York City. Wow. Wow, who's
Speaker 1: the salesperson on that? Jamie? I love it? Oh boy,
Speaker 1: gotta go. Okay, bye, that's my phone. They're sending me
Speaker 1: more pictures. So he's sitting in bed. He's tweeting pictures
Speaker 1: of an event that Hey, it's a beautiful day here
Speaker 1: for an a great time. In the meantime, he's home.
Speaker 1: He's home tweeting and instagramming from bed. We just se
Speaker 1: we kind of pulled the curtain back there. We broke
Speaker 1: what we call in show business of breaking the fourth wall. Yeah,
Speaker 1: so we broke some. We're welcome. Hi, it's good to
Speaker 1: see you. It's it's quiet. We need to make this
Speaker 1: place a little more lively. Hey, where's my music? Here's
Speaker 1: my need to sharing those music. I'm sorry, I was
Speaker 1: like I needed to be here. We have a big share.
Speaker 1: By the way, hasn't even been here in a couple
Speaker 1: of weeks either, answer, let me call him, okay, is
Speaker 1: he's in the next studio. Maybe he wants to grace
Speaker 1: us with his presence. He said, he was so busy.
Speaker 1: Let's see here, let's see what's going on. I'm just
Speaker 1: gonna this is gonna be the the podcast of me
Speaker 1: calling people hello, hey, bald freak Ronnie. Yeah, scary and
Speaker 1: share and shares here too. Yeah, but the contest love
Speaker 1: you and I love you too. But here's the thing.
Speaker 1: I'm by myself and Greg t. I had to call
Speaker 1: him up on the phone and he's vomiting, and you
Speaker 1: haven't been here in three weeks? All right, thanks? I
Speaker 1: really And now it's just scary and share, see what
Speaker 1: I mean? I know that thirty years and he's hanging
Speaker 1: up in my face. That's a problem. It's an issue.
Speaker 1: And you know what's funny? That leads right into the
Speaker 1: share nose question because has to do all about friendships. Okay,
Speaker 1: but before you get to that, can I want I
Speaker 1: wanted to tell the listeners about what I did in Chicago,
Speaker 1: and I think you could appreciate this. I can't wait
Speaker 1: to hear so I went to listen. First of all,
Speaker 1: you know, a lot of times what we do is
Speaker 1: talk about New York's any where we're going around Brooklyn,
Speaker 1: but we never talked about other parts of the country
Speaker 1: because you know, this is where we're based and it
Speaker 1: is amazing and it is so I mentioned I did
Speaker 1: a huge thing about Nashville the other day, and by
Speaker 1: the way, thank you for your comments at the off
Speaker 1: air show at gmail dot com. That was kind of cool.
Speaker 1: But and I like Nashville. I've been found there, C
Speaker 1: M T S and a bunch of other events. Let
Speaker 1: me down there, and I happen to think it's great. Yeah,
Speaker 1: And I was saying that it's now mainstream Nashville is
Speaker 1: kind of cool now that a lot of New York
Speaker 1: has come to Nashville, New York and moving there. But anyway,
Speaker 1: I went off for about fifteen minutes on that. I
Speaker 1: just gave them a nice giant plug for the for
Speaker 1: the I mean, I hope you're gonna be going back
Speaker 1: down to Nashville soon. That I gotta let the listeners
Speaker 1: know about what I did in Chicago. Okay, there's this
Speaker 1: place that's been there since like the nineties. It's called
Speaker 1: the Wieners Circle. Okay, I didn't talk. I talked about
Speaker 1: this on my people who follow me on snapchat. Uh
Speaker 1: they saw my story, but it was gone in twenty
Speaker 1: four hours. Um. The Weeners Circle is a place that's
Speaker 1: been well documented over the years. It's been on The
Speaker 1: Corner O'Brien show. It's been on like all if they've
Speaker 1: had a reality show where the people behind the counter
Speaker 1: get really really nasty with you, really oh, completely nasty,
Speaker 1: um late at night. So you go in there for
Speaker 1: like what they call a charred dog or burger, and
Speaker 1: you walk in and all you gotta do is just
Speaker 1: just show up. And it's usually crowded, you know the type.
Speaker 1: It's the afterbar, late night Greece place to go and
Speaker 1: people are drunk and their hammered into're like whatever else there.
Speaker 1: This is like a two am type spot. I mean
Speaker 1: it's open like for most of the day, but it
Speaker 1: gets raunchy after midnight because there's there's like dozens of
Speaker 1: people trying to get in there, and it's just like
Speaker 1: a stand, like a hot dog stand, and the ladies
Speaker 1: behind the counter set up a side of sass with
Speaker 1: their so on this given night, when I went in
Speaker 1: there there were these two dudes with the glasses and
Speaker 1: then she goes, what the fuck you, Harry Potter, motherfucking
Speaker 1: looking dudes. Wat's holding court and like everyone's like laughing.
Speaker 1: But here's the thing. The tradition at Weener Circle is
Speaker 1: to scream at them and scream back, and they scream
Speaker 1: at each other. I'm not even going to tell you
Speaker 1: the profanity that was flying back and forth, but you,
Speaker 1: as a customer is supposed to scream like, hey, I
Speaker 1: want that cheeseburger you give dog, motherfucker and be like
Speaker 1: give me some fries, bitch, yes, and but nasty, using
Speaker 1: the P word and F word that I don't know
Speaker 1: if I could flying back and forth, and I swear
Speaker 1: to god it is hilarious. But here's the thing, though,
Speaker 1: I mean, you know a lot of people are not
Speaker 1: tolerant of this. I mean, this is a very political
Speaker 1: PC society. So to have like an old vestige of
Speaker 1: something that a slice of Americana, as we say, of this,
Speaker 1: a place like this it's still in existence, is great,
Speaker 1: but I think it's going to go away soon because
Speaker 1: I mean the kind of ship that flush back harsh.
Speaker 1: To be honest, like, I think it's funny. It sounds funny,
Speaker 1: but maybe if I was like in the environment, it
Speaker 1: might be a little hard to get into it first.
Speaker 1: It is. It is very difficult. Lot of people don't
Speaker 1: know what's going on. They just walk in to order
Speaker 1: a hot dog and they're like, why are people screaming
Speaker 1: with a sentities back in front the customers and her.
Speaker 1: Now here's the best part. There's a secret, and I
Speaker 1: want people to google this. Google Weener's circle. Hold on,
Speaker 1: but chocolate shake Weener Circle chocolate shake. Chocolate shake is
Speaker 1: something that's not on the menu, but it's kind of
Speaker 1: like an elbow wink wink kind of thing. You give
Speaker 1: her twenty bucks and then she, you know, a couple
Speaker 1: of people order chocolate shakes and after about five or
Speaker 1: ten minutes, after screaming for your chocolate shake, because she
Speaker 1: never does give you a chocolate shake. Secret. By the way,
Speaker 1: side note, there is no real chocolate shake on the menu.
Speaker 1: It's really just code word. You say chocolate shake. After
Speaker 1: five or ten minutes, the lights start flickering on and
Speaker 1: off like Johnny Rockets. The music comes up really all
Speaker 1: of a sudden. You you focus your your eyes on
Speaker 1: the side door. Yeah, can we start flickering the lights.
Speaker 1: I feel like we have to get into the hold.
Speaker 1: All of a sudden, the door opens and the lady,
Speaker 1: the main lady from behind the counter, and she's she's
Speaker 1: a larger woman with her giant triple e boobs out
Speaker 1: out like topless, and she she kind of like she
Speaker 1: lifts her shirt and she folds her apron in the middle,
Speaker 1: so her boobs are coming out the side with the
Speaker 1: left boom with the right boot e ch apron. Hold on,
Speaker 1: hold on, no, no, no, and she starts shaking them
Speaker 1: back and forth and that's your chocolate shake, and oh
Speaker 1: my god. Seconds and then everybody screams, and then the
Speaker 1: door closes and that's it, and the lights come back
Speaker 1: on and and then she goes back to screaming and
Speaker 1: yelling at you behind the counter. I've been going on,
Speaker 1: especially weekends like Friday Saturday night. If you're in the
Speaker 1: Chicago area, you must, you absolutely must visit Weener Circle.
Speaker 1: And the lady I forgot her name. Her name, real
Speaker 1: name is ROBERTA. Jackson. She's the main one. They have
Speaker 1: a bunch of people that work with her, but she's
Speaker 1: been there the longest and she's been carrying on the tradition.
Speaker 1: All I can tell you is if you google Conan
Speaker 1: O'Brien Weiner's Circle, they sent Jack Jack mcbray, who's the
Speaker 1: dude from thirty Rock. He plays the NBC page, the
Speaker 1: nicest guy in the world him, And what did the
Speaker 1: rubber dog that Conan has with the cigar and Triumph
Speaker 1: the insult comic dog. So Jack from Dirty Rock and
Speaker 1: and and um Triumph went in there to order stuff
Speaker 1: from Winer Circle and Jack gets crapped on by the
Speaker 1: lady behind the counter, and then they go back in
Speaker 1: with Triumph. Is an eight minute thing that they did
Speaker 1: on Conan O'Brien. I swear to god, it is the
Speaker 1: funniest eight minutes of a video you'll watch. Go to YouTube,
Speaker 1: it's all over there, Hulu, whatever it is. Watch google
Speaker 1: Conan O'Brien Weener Circle or Jack Jack mcbray, Weener Circle, Triumph,
Speaker 1: whatever it is. You will see the video and you
Speaker 1: will see Roberta, a younger Roberta. She's blue hair in
Speaker 1: the video or purple hair. Um. She is full of sass.
Speaker 1: And then when when she's going at it with the
Speaker 1: dog back and forth, screaming, the words are going. I
Speaker 1: don't think there's a a version that that you could
Speaker 1: find that's uncensored. I think it's all peeped out. That
Speaker 1: just makes it worse, so because now we're all on
Speaker 1: uncensored here. Yeah, but you'll see what it is. And
Speaker 1: if you're ever in Chicago, visit the Weiner Circle on
Speaker 1: North Clark Street. You will not be disappointed. But always
Speaker 1: after midnight on Friday and Saturday. Okay, And I'm never
Speaker 1: going to think of a milkshake the same. I want
Speaker 1: you to know that. I mean, you really just messed
Speaker 1: me up. I think you messed up half the off
Speaker 1: air scary, scary. Give me milkshake. Yeah, I need milkshake.
Speaker 1: I need the lights flickering, I need milkshake. I need
Speaker 1: something happening here after that story. By the way, they
Speaker 1: don't play this song. They should have played this song.
Speaker 1: This would have been perfect for the Chocolate Mill. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, it would have been great. Are you kidding?
Speaker 1: Would have been the extra touch that I'm still trying
Speaker 1: to go back to. I guess they assume there's nobody
Speaker 1: that's like under age at this environment after a certain time.
Speaker 1: Is that like kind of how they do it? Yeah?
Speaker 1: None of that is what how they do it. They
Speaker 1: make sure that it's like at least college level of higher.
Speaker 1: I mean, I hate to bring it back to reality,
Speaker 1: but um, when it came time for the milkshake moment,
Speaker 1: the guy came from behind the the counter. He came
Speaker 1: from you know, with dispatchel in his hand. Yeah, he
Speaker 1: screamed at us through the window. Everybody, put your ammer
Speaker 1: f in phones away, you hear me, put them away.
Speaker 1: Right up until that point, everyone's snapchats, instagrams, and it's
Speaker 1: like putting video up because it's it's a hilarious dialogue
Speaker 1: that makes sense, throwing insults. But when that moment comes,
Speaker 1: all phones have to go away. So I don't have that.
Speaker 1: So that's why you don't have it. But I should post.
Speaker 1: Maybe I should post to the I didn't save the
Speaker 1: snap story. Damn it. I'm such a bad snapper. Snapper,
Speaker 1: I don't save my snaps your stories. No, not usually,
Speaker 1: not usually you should probably though, especially when we do
Speaker 1: like something and we're away, we should probably start saving them.
Speaker 1: That's another like little leg where we're gonna start doing,
Speaker 1: which is all around the world we share. So you've
Speaker 1: got to bring in some mural around the world's too right,
Speaker 1: exactly around the world. Maybe we will save our snaps
Speaker 1: from now on. Maybe. Okay, okay, are you ready? I'm ready?
Speaker 1: What's going on in Share Nose this week? And by
Speaker 1: the way, I'm sorry if you're looking to this podcast
Speaker 1: halfway through the fair heads, I won't captain wax Sparrow
Speaker 1: could have just easily just packed it up and gone
Speaker 1: off course. And I sailed this ship in tonight and
Speaker 1: not done a podcast. Not when he knew Share Nose
Speaker 1: was coming in with some great Share Nose over here.
Speaker 1: Then I was like, I was going to call you back,
Speaker 1: you know what? Then then you know what? Listen, No,
Speaker 1: I like this, this is like scary and share now
Speaker 1: this is awesome. This is great. I think I bet,
Speaker 1: I bet the whole idea of the idea today was
Speaker 1: to do the share Nose. Gonna have a nice segment
Speaker 1: to Share Nose right now. I don't see anything wrong
Speaker 1: with did you really complaining? I'm just telling you a
Speaker 1: fairheads who think that this is like this is like
Speaker 1: a whatever kind of show, let me tell you something.
Speaker 1: This could have been worse. It could have been no
Speaker 1: show at all. I think you're wrong. I don't think
Speaker 1: there to think it's a bad show in here to
Speaker 1: do a show with what we have. You heard proof
Speaker 1: on the phone, Greg ts sick and bold freak. I
Speaker 1: don't know what his deal is, but what you have
Speaker 1: is me today. So I happen to think since our
Speaker 1: off airheads show me so much love, this actually works
Speaker 1: out perfect because we get a share nose and there
Speaker 1: won't be any interfering or by this point usually showing
Speaker 1: one of his body parts or we're looking at my
Speaker 1: nails or my hair, my jonger. Am I gonna take
Speaker 1: his place? Yeah? I'm gonna start showing body parts. That's
Speaker 1: what we're gonna do today. I mean, after all, we
Speaker 1: just went from milkshakes and a Brinds and everything else.
Speaker 1: We might as well. But we start flickering the lights
Speaker 1: that we don't have anyone here to do it. Oh,
Speaker 1: we have someone videoing us? What's going on? We do
Speaker 1: we do have? We have an intern in here videoing us.
Speaker 1: It's Kim intern, Kim Kim Nikolouch from Bay Ridge. Are
Speaker 1: you enjoying this? Is this a mess? What's going on?
Speaker 1: Let me let me get your microphone on over there? Uh?
Speaker 1: Is this is this a mess to you or what
Speaker 1: you could talk? You could talk. I'm trying to keep
Speaker 1: the video going while I do this, but no, this
Speaker 1: is so funny. I love this. Yeah, see this is
Speaker 1: the podcast still did she just wants to turn her
Speaker 1: into a trip into a job. How'll do this any
Speaker 1: day for you guys. You know, I want you off
Speaker 1: airheads to comment on how much do they enjoy this
Speaker 1: podcast when it's over all? Right, thank you so much?
Speaker 1: What are we taping this? Facebook loss? So no? So
Speaker 1: right now, I think we're on video and this will
Speaker 1: be posted to the Instagram page. Um under chop it off.
Speaker 1: We will chop a little bit, but it'll be posted
Speaker 1: on the Instagram. Started here, Hi, how are you? I'm
Speaker 1: and I'm share sharing us just do off air show
Speaker 1: minus Gregg t and uh he's out today and we're
Speaker 1: not going to talk about the fact that he's vomiting.
Speaker 1: Everything from before this point is only for the audio podcast,
Speaker 1: and everything from here on can go on the pages.
Speaker 1: We're about to get into share nose. Well now we're
Speaker 1: going to actually flip it and she is going to
Speaker 1: help us by going to Facebook Live. That's the end
Speaker 1: of this video. That's it, right, all right, So we're
Speaker 1: gonna go on Facebook live now, okay, good, we'll do
Speaker 1: We'll do Facebook Live. Uh. You can always get in
Speaker 1: touch with us at the Aufair Show at gmail dot com.
Speaker 1: But if you want to do a share nose and
Speaker 1: get a question on for her, uh, go on her
Speaker 1: Facebook page, like her Facebook page, search at Share Nose
Speaker 1: fan page at Share Nose fan page, like the page,
Speaker 1: and then message her privately so you don't have to
Speaker 1: uh get your you know, some questions you know need
Speaker 1: some anonymity, as we say. So yeah, so there you go.
Speaker 1: So so get her over there. So at Share Nose
Speaker 1: fan page on Facebook. What do you got here today?
Speaker 1: Who's who's? Do we say who's writing in? Or no,
Speaker 1: we can say a first name. She has allowed me
Speaker 1: to do a first name, so with Michelle today. Hi Michelle.
Speaker 1: Michelle is a an off air head and she has
Speaker 1: said to us that she needs the Share Nose bad. Basically,
Speaker 1: she's getting officially officially married in September, officially officially officially.
Speaker 1: Well the way I married been getting married and getting
Speaker 1: officially married. First of all, well, I think the idea
Speaker 1: is when somebody actually writes officially officially married, it means
Speaker 1: that they have a long relationship with the person they're
Speaker 1: in already, or they have like a very tight bond already.
Speaker 1: Maybe they have a baby together, and maybe they have
Speaker 1: a house together. There's something more than just the high
Speaker 1: we started going out and got an engage memborying decided
Speaker 1: now we're gonna get married. There's like a lot more
Speaker 1: to it. So that's how I read it. How I
Speaker 1: read it, She's getting married, right. So Michelle writes that
Speaker 1: she needs some help because she set up her wedding party.
Speaker 1: Wedding such an important time for a bride, and she
Speaker 1: didn't feel like she had any drama going on, and
Speaker 1: all of a sudden, one of her bridesmaids that's a
Speaker 1: friend since she was seven years old, decided she has
Speaker 1: to back out, and backing out, but with good reason,
Speaker 1: backing out because her mother's sick. Now, the real twist
Speaker 1: is is that to Michelle, she doesn't know if she
Speaker 1: really feels that it's a good reason, but she wants
Speaker 1: to be supportive of her friend. But she's really in
Speaker 1: a bune now because she goes, how do I ask
Speaker 1: another bride'smaid to step into her place? Well, it's easy.
Speaker 1: You ask another bride'smaid to step into her scary. You
Speaker 1: do not understand there is so much more to this.
Speaker 1: She backed out, so much more to this. Are you
Speaker 1: ready for this? There's even statistics on this stuff. I
Speaker 1: bet Michelle doesn't know how common this is and how
Speaker 1: much drama it actually causes. Its out her mom's seck.
Speaker 1: We know really why she backed out. All I know
Speaker 1: is her mom sick. Well she knows is her mom's sex.
Speaker 1: There's no more noulate. But there are people who throw
Speaker 1: excuses out there, right right, So here's the thing, right,
Speaker 1: The first thing I would say to Michelle is, if
Speaker 1: you really care about this person, maybe you could try
Speaker 1: to figure it out. So here's the bottom line. How
Speaker 1: great of a friend is this person? To Michelle? Because
Speaker 1: if it's your's your bestie, sticky, it's sticky scary, don't what? Right?
Speaker 1: But here's the thing, right, So are a huge time commitment.
Speaker 1: There are huge money money money. I mean you're talking
Speaker 1: major money. So you mean from the engagement party to
Speaker 1: the bachelorte parties, to the showers, to the dress fittings, okay,
Speaker 1: to the rehearsal dinners to the actual big day. You're
Speaker 1: talking a lot of things that they go through. So
Speaker 1: with that being said, maybe maybe let's just assume her
Speaker 1: mom's sick. Maybe if she talks to her and she
Speaker 1: really wants her to be a part of it still,
Speaker 1: she could tell her she could let her off of
Speaker 1: some of those commitments. Maybe she could give her a
Speaker 1: little bit of a break. Maybe it is a monetary thing.
Speaker 1: Maybe she should have a heart to heart with her
Speaker 1: and say, if I have you part of my wedding
Speaker 1: still because it means so much to me, could I
Speaker 1: lessen your responsibilities as part of my bridal party. That
Speaker 1: may work. So that's the first thing I wanted to
Speaker 1: put out there was if you run into this problem,
Speaker 1: see if you could talk to the person and lessen
Speaker 1: the responsibility. However, if that doesn't work and there's no
Speaker 1: way because it's too emotional for her with her mom,
Speaker 1: you have to take a second and understand the fact
Speaker 1: that it is her mother and whether you agree or not,
Speaker 1: you have to be there for for her because it's
Speaker 1: still your friend. So moving on from that, do you
Speaker 1: find a replacement because that word is not a very
Speaker 1: nice word. Replacement sounds exactly like it is a plan B.
Speaker 1: So if you're die hard that you can't do the
Speaker 1: wedding as is without her, Which is my first suggestion, Michelle,
Speaker 1: leave the wedding party the way it is. If it's
Speaker 1: nothing that bothers you that much, don't pick another person.
Speaker 1: You're just saying, just just maybe have a hologram of
Speaker 1: her show up that there. No, maybe just have one
Speaker 1: less person. Why why, there's nothing to do with numbers anymore.
Speaker 1: Weddings don't have to be even anymore a girl for
Speaker 1: every boy and a boy for every No. See, that's
Speaker 1: actually something that that I actually have checked into that
Speaker 1: more weddings nowadays are trying to do it where it
Speaker 1: isn't like that the two girls with one guy. It
Speaker 1: looks adorable. Even like families are very separate nowadays, families
Speaker 1: are very different nowadays. So sometimes people women have their
Speaker 1: moms walk them. Nowadays women have their moms and dads
Speaker 1: walk them. It's very different. Are you saying that that
Speaker 1: I'm trying to understand this, So you mean to say,
Speaker 1: just that's it, I'm done finished you. You might be
Speaker 1: safer because here comes the drama. When you step in
Speaker 1: to asking that other friend, you run into some sticky
Speaker 1: territory and the pressure is on. It's almost more work
Speaker 1: for you, bribes, because now you have to make sure
Speaker 1: that person can handle the fact that they weren't your
Speaker 1: first choice, that they're emotionally okay with the fact that
Speaker 1: they're stepping into a situation. First person who backed out
Speaker 1: that you're pissing off. It's the second person that you're
Speaker 1: asking so and so can't make it. So, so hey, listen,
Speaker 1: can you fill her spot? And it's almost like they
Speaker 1: little with tickets to the game. I mean, I can't go. No,
Speaker 1: if I'm going to a mack game with a friend
Speaker 1: and then that friend backs out and I just call
Speaker 1: friend b They're not gonna be offended. They're not gonna
Speaker 1: be offended that that they weren't first asked to go.
Speaker 1: They'll be like, I'm going to a free freaking game
Speaker 1: right here. Yeah, that's a little different you're asking. So
Speaker 1: I'll tell you the difference you're asking. That's exactly the
Speaker 1: key word free. You're asking this person, this replacement, to
Speaker 1: come in as a full party to your bridal shower.
Speaker 1: So you're talking they're going to be able to. Now
Speaker 1: they have to take on the responsibility of the money.
Speaker 1: They have to take on the responsibility of the time commitment,
Speaker 1: and they have to feel good about it, and they
Speaker 1: also have to do other things. So you're ready for this.
Speaker 1: If she has got her dresses already, depending upon how
Speaker 1: quick she worked this out, the bridesmaids will know each other.
Speaker 1: It's like a little clan. Come on, think girls here. Okay,
Speaker 1: it's like this little clan of girls. Right. This is
Speaker 1: why I have more guy friends, by the way, anyway,
Speaker 1: but this girls tend to be clicky. Right, So if
Speaker 1: they're already down the path of let's plan her bridal shower,
Speaker 1: let's plan this. Now this girl has to step into
Speaker 1: this platform where she has to become part of the group.
Speaker 1: So so you're what you're trying to say is that
Speaker 1: the journey that if they're not with them from the
Speaker 1: beginning of the journey, they shouldn't just come in like
Speaker 1: three quarters of the way through, because they've probably missed
Speaker 1: out on all the bonding and all the fun that
Speaker 1: went that led up to it's a really good chance
Speaker 1: and maybe maybe a problem with the dresses to right,
Speaker 1: And then it's an ask of like money, like okay,
Speaker 1: now now you're gonna be spending all the sext your money, right.
Speaker 1: So it's kind of something where it could really get
Speaker 1: into a sticky situation. So I kind of see that.
Speaker 1: But but here's the positive. If the person is a
Speaker 1: team player and she's really cool and she's kind of
Speaker 1: like a little light about it, you may be fine
Speaker 1: with it. This is all obviously, this is all situational.
Speaker 1: So if you know somebody that's actually someone that I'll
Speaker 1: tell you the best situation. If you had someone that
Speaker 1: was a friend that you had asked to do let's say,
Speaker 1: a reading at your wedding or be an usher because
Speaker 1: you wanted them to be part of it, but you
Speaker 1: really weren't sure if they were going to be bridesmaid
Speaker 1: because that's like a special thing to be in. Maybe
Speaker 1: you could try to upgrade that person because they already
Speaker 1: know you cared enough to make them a part of
Speaker 1: something in your wedding, but they weren't a bridesmaid because
Speaker 1: maybe free you it was something where you had an
Speaker 1: even number, so you use that as just the reason
Speaker 1: and you said, hey, I don't have enough space, but
Speaker 1: could you be a part of my special day. That
Speaker 1: type of situation, you might be able to put that
Speaker 1: person into this into the platform easier. You know, listen,
Speaker 1: I got my pad here, we got wet. She's got
Speaker 1: a note. This is the handwriting of a share notes
Speaker 1: that cares and dedicates her time to her fans. Us
Speaker 1: we do so wait a second, so you gotta hear this. Okay,
Speaker 1: recently married and women. This doesn't say much for us,
Speaker 1: but recently married women, it has been proven that say
Speaker 1: they don't even talk to their bridesmaids anymore. So the
Speaker 1: ideas at so here's a special day scary, and I
Speaker 1: have to turn to you since he is not here
Speaker 1: to add about his wedding and everything else. You got
Speaker 1: a boys club. I hang with a lot of guys.
Speaker 1: I happen to find it to be fun and drama free.
Speaker 1: So now I have the question to you. Do eyes
Speaker 1: go through this when they have a wedding? And well,
Speaker 1: first of all, you just struck a nerve because this
Speaker 1: is something I feel very strongly about. And women do
Speaker 1: this to each other all the time. Women forget about
Speaker 1: women after marriage and especially after babies. Once kids come,
Speaker 1: women forget about their female friends overall. I'm listen, this
Speaker 1: is as Elvis would say, general Eyes general generalizes reporting
Speaker 1: for duty. This is I'm generalizing, okay, but I've seen
Speaker 1: more often than not women's circles of friends like get
Speaker 1: smaller and shrink and get narrower and narrower. And it's
Speaker 1: because of the way women treat each other. And this
Speaker 1: because this starts at the beginning with with the formulation
Speaker 1: of a relationship, the boyfriend thing. Yeah, a girl gets
Speaker 1: a boyfriend and she drops her female friends. A girl
Speaker 1: gets engaged, I'll see you later, or she doesn't go
Speaker 1: out with her single friends anymore because all of a
Speaker 1: sudden she feels like she needs to do Like the
Speaker 1: boyfriends pretty much drops everybody and and but guys are
Speaker 1: not as quick to do that. Guys are still bonding,
Speaker 1: Guys are still friends with guys, you could and even
Speaker 1: if you haven't been you know, hanging out or you
Speaker 1: haven't seen each other's like instagrams or Facebook feeds in
Speaker 1: a while whatever, Like, guys could pick up where they
Speaker 1: left off, like four years later, it's like, Hey, what's up, Hey,
Speaker 1: why did you call me? You dick? Hey, by the way,
Speaker 1: how you been? You pick up where you're left off
Speaker 1: and if you're and guys do that, and guys can
Speaker 1: do that. Guys go in and out of each other's
Speaker 1: lives all the time. But guys are not quick by
Speaker 1: the same token, and guys are not quick to just
Speaker 1: drop their friends the second they get a girlfriend. Guys
Speaker 1: are not quick their friends after they get married, they
Speaker 1: still hang or again generalizes reporting for duty. Generalized general,
Speaker 1: I'm captain. I wear many hats, Captain wax battle and
Speaker 1: I'm the generalized guy. So I'm in the army as
Speaker 1: a general that should be in a position in our cabinet. Generalized,
Speaker 1: I'm generalized, Rie Jones. But it's true. But it is true.
Speaker 1: But but women are quicker to do that, And I
Speaker 1: think that that's a problem later in life because if
Speaker 1: a woman, you know, God forbid, you know, she gets
Speaker 1: divorced or separated, they feel very lonely then like now
Speaker 1: I'm screwed. They don't know how to go back out
Speaker 1: in date. I absolutely agree with you and guys actually,
Speaker 1: and they don't have to call up their all friends
Speaker 1: and that they haven't spoke to in ten years, because
Speaker 1: then now they're trying to save face. Don't ever lose
Speaker 1: your friends, No, And I think you make such valid
Speaker 1: points because the ideas and I that's what I love
Speaker 1: about this because you get the guy's perspective the girl's perspective.
Speaker 1: But really, I have to say, I play in boys playgrounds.
Speaker 1: I'm very much the girl that likes my guy friends.
Speaker 1: Not that kind of not that kind of playground now.
Speaker 1: But I like the idea of hanging with the guys
Speaker 1: because I find that it's less drama. I do think that,
Speaker 1: and I think everything you said is the reason why
Speaker 1: I think guys actually handle certain things ladies a little
Speaker 1: better than we do. But with all that being said,
Speaker 1: here's one other thing that's a total girl thing, Michelle,
Speaker 1: I want you to know. Also, stats show that jealousy
Speaker 1: and financial issues actually pair most of the bride'smaids apart
Speaker 1: from the bride. By the time the weddings over, they
Speaker 1: actually have shown um statistics that they get jealous again
Speaker 1: because of their own situations. The women can't really handle
Speaker 1: the whole yeah itself. There we go all over the
Speaker 1: place that you know, we get emails all the time
Speaker 1: on that. It's terrible though, and guys don't go through
Speaker 1: this then, So you're saying you've never had scary an
Speaker 1: issue where you were like, you got a type group
Speaker 1: of guys you go away together you just did a trip, right,
Speaker 1: So those guys, some of them are married, right. We
Speaker 1: had a conversation about that about guys that are married
Speaker 1: going on trips with the single guys. Remember that fact.
Speaker 1: And then we had that my friends friends are your
Speaker 1: friends are angels? You know? No? So the point is
Speaker 1: is that with your friends when they've had those weddings
Speaker 1: and stuff, has there ever been any drama between the
Speaker 1: the groomsman? Everybody's happy. That's that's petty stuff. Have you
Speaker 1: ever been a second? Say never, never sweat the petty
Speaker 1: stuff and never picked and never pet the sweaty stuff. Okay,
Speaker 1: never swept the petty stuff and never put the sweaty stuff.
Speaker 1: What about have you ever been a second? A second?
Speaker 1: That's a very open ended question. A second in a wedding?
Speaker 1: Have you ever been the second? The secondary person that
Speaker 1: was asked? You know, the backup, the backup, the replaced,
Speaker 1: the backup, rides made of the backup, the backup, best
Speaker 1: man of the backup. That's rough, that's tough. That's a
Speaker 1: whole another question. So okay, so how are you going
Speaker 1: to help Michelle here? Because we're gonna up here. You go,
Speaker 1: you're ready? Point one? If you really care about this person.
Speaker 1: She's been your friends since the seventh grade. Which you
Speaker 1: need to do is first care about her in her situation,
Speaker 1: even if it's hard for you to understand because your
Speaker 1: own personal life. You need to care about her situation
Speaker 1: and understand that she loves you just the same. She
Speaker 1: might really be in a bind, and see if you
Speaker 1: could work out with her time commitment and the monetary
Speaker 1: commitment coming around, I totally agree. If you can't and
Speaker 1: you're gonna go to the replacement mode, yeah, I don't
Speaker 1: know what cred lightly. At first, I was going to
Speaker 1: go to replacement mode, but you've talked some sense to me.
Speaker 1: I'm with you now, and this it might be easier
Speaker 1: for you to keep drama out of your situation and
Speaker 1: out of your wedding by just keeping the numbers where
Speaker 1: they are unless it really bothers you. And if it does,
Speaker 1: see if you could go to those other things I
Speaker 1: talked about, like getting somebody that was special to you
Speaker 1: but you had an understanding with. Maybe they were pregnant
Speaker 1: at the time and now they're not. The joke out
Speaker 1: of it walking down the right it could be two
Speaker 1: guys on one woman. I mean, I think that sounds great,
Speaker 1: Like I almost like have the girl in the middle
Speaker 1: and the two guys on either side escorting her down
Speaker 1: the aisle. I mean, that's cute. That's how they make
Speaker 1: up for it, and they're like, hey, we're all going
Speaker 1: back to the hotel room. Here we go. I knew
Speaker 1: that was coming off area. So Saron knows this is
Speaker 1: your big day for sharing love with that special someone.
Speaker 1: Don't let that change a thing. Don't forget that friend
Speaker 1: some support and care. Okay, she is your good friend.
Speaker 1: She wasn't being malicious, and unless you have that perfect
Speaker 1: girl who's gonna fit, don't force it because it's gonna
Speaker 1: look horrible and leave it alone. Okay, I love it, alright, Cool,
Speaker 1: there we go Share Share Nose. Make sure everybody I
Speaker 1: know scary it said this, but make sure you go
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Speaker 1: Rewind this if you want to know where to go.
Speaker 1: We said it at the beginning to all you gotta
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Speaker 1: there at the beginning. You can scroll back. Oh is
Speaker 1: that the best part? Just like no, but because no,
Speaker 1: I think in terms of live radio. But it's not live,
Speaker 1: so you don't give it again. I forget that because
Speaker 1: I'm a live person. I'm a TV girl. You forget that.
Speaker 1: So being TV trained, there are no cutbacks. And when's
Speaker 1: your freaking movie coming out? You know? I actually have
Speaker 1: a call in to find out because I'm not going
Speaker 1: to let people down. I want to know when Glen
Speaker 1: John Malkovich and Glenn Close are going to be on
Speaker 1: screen for the first time in a long time time
Speaker 1: in the wedding called Wild Weddings, Wild Wedding, wedding in
Speaker 1: a movie called Wild. But now I got weddings on
Speaker 1: my mind. That's funny. It's a wedding. My characters Eva
Speaker 1: and she plays across from Noah Emerick in the movie.
Speaker 1: I want to see this film. I want to see
Speaker 1: this film email. Actually, I actually reached out to the
Speaker 1: directors and they have ago. Is this what happens with
Speaker 1: film releases? Yes? And now you've got to realize something else.
Speaker 1: You have Can's Festival right now, people are traveling. This
Speaker 1: is a busy time all throughout the year. People don't realize,
Speaker 1: but everybody gets hung up on other things. Sundance, this
Speaker 1: and that. You know, you had um, you had the
Speaker 1: Upfronts this past week. People come in and out. Now
Speaker 1: that's TV, but it's still everybody's in the same world
Speaker 1: to TV and film clumped together. There's a lot of
Speaker 1: stuff that goes on that people don't realize people are
Speaker 1: doing behind the scenes. But I do think it's got
Speaker 1: to come out soon, very soon, very very soon. All right, well,
Speaker 1: well scary think of it this way till then you
Speaker 1: have their share nose in town and she's been able
Speaker 1: to support the show. Thank you for being here for me,
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