WEBVTT - #135: Replacing a Bridesmaid

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<v Speaker 1>Say, Elvis rand presents the off air show Steerie Jones,

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<v Speaker 1>Greg tea yeah episode and what was missing from that?

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<v Speaker 1>Just before I say that Greg is supposed to go,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm supposed to scream something obnoxious. Hey, guess what, there's

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<v Speaker 1>no lookout today because Greg T got violently ill at

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<v Speaker 1>five o'clock in the morning while he was doing his

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<v Speaker 1>pre morning show before the Elvis d Ran Big Show

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<v Speaker 1>comes on at six. He went he went to a

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<v Speaker 1>commercial break, and he went into the bathroom and he

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<v Speaker 1>just started violently vomiting everywhere. And at six o'clock when

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<v Speaker 1>he finished his one hour pre show, he told Elvis,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm really sick, man, I'm gonna go so so Gregg

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<v Speaker 1>T went home, leaving me alone. Chery will be here

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<v Speaker 1>in just a couple of minutes. We're gonna do sharing

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<v Speaker 1>nose in just a second. But how sick is Greg T?

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<v Speaker 1>It's now a quarter after twelve. He's had some time

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<v Speaker 1>to go home and sleep. I'm gonna call him up

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<v Speaker 1>real quick. And I promised this won't be a boring podcast.

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<v Speaker 1>We're gonna have some fun today, maybe not as much

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<v Speaker 1>fun as when Gregg T's here. I'll tell you one thing.

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<v Speaker 1>It won't be as loud as it normally is. And

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know where bald Freak is either. I'm gonna

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<v Speaker 1>call him next because he hasn't been here in like

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<v Speaker 1>three weeks. Seriously, everybody, Hey, t yeah, Hey, it's scary.

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<v Speaker 1>How you doing, buddy? How are you feeling good? Not good?

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<v Speaker 1>Throw up? You're throwing up? Oh my crazy, I'm throwing

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<v Speaker 1>up like freaking Uh well, I'm on the pod. I

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<v Speaker 1>just started the podcast by myself, and I'm and the

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<v Speaker 1>and the lookout was missing, and I'm like, I told

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<v Speaker 1>the story quickly of what happened to you in five

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<v Speaker 1>o'clock this morning. So so you're not like playing hooky here.

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<v Speaker 1>This isn't like it's gonna be degree today. I want

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<v Speaker 1>to go home and I want to go my swimming pool. No, bro,

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<v Speaker 1>I threw up like I threw up an entire erosian. Okay, Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>you're getting a little gross, so real quick. Uh didn't

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<v Speaker 1>you have an appearance to do today? Yep? Garrett's doing it.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh man. So he's at seven eleven Times Square And

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<v Speaker 1>they texted me and they want me to do social media.

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<v Speaker 1>So they've been sending me pictures that I've had to

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<v Speaker 1>put up, and I tried to tell them that I'm dying.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm sorry, Do you have like come some kind of

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<v Speaker 1>a bug, some kind of a I don't know. My

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<v Speaker 1>stomach is empty at this point, so now it's just energy.

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<v Speaker 1>And then I'm supposed to go to a sales dinner

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<v Speaker 1>later on. I don't know what I'm gonna do with that.

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<v Speaker 1>You're gonna go? I told him I would tell him

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<v Speaker 1>by two o'clock, right, So I just need well. I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to prove to the off air heads that are

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<v Speaker 1>listening right now that this wasn't a joke. This wasn't

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<v Speaker 1>you trying to This is no joke. Trust me, this

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<v Speaker 1>is no joke. Trust me. Trust me. You do not

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<v Speaker 1>want to have what Greg T is having right now. No, no, no, no, no, no,

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<v Speaker 1>Look at wake in the room. Oh yes, here, I

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<v Speaker 1>have finally had somebody to talk to you. There you go.

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on? Hello? What's going on? Yeah? Greg didn't

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<v Speaker 1>show up today? Homesick. I'm homesick. Really, you're not here, scary,

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<v Speaker 1>Let's just do Yeah, Greg and Gregg T is dying.

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<v Speaker 1>You want to you want to hang out on the

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<v Speaker 1>phone with us if you want to peek at any

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<v Speaker 1>point you can. No, this will make me more sick. No, see,

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<v Speaker 1>you really sick very much. So we'll feel better, man,

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<v Speaker 1>feel better. Hold on, I guess the sales people are

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<v Speaker 1>texting me more pictures but on social media? Are hold on?

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<v Speaker 1>Are you pretending like you're at the event. Yeah, I'm

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<v Speaker 1>at location Prime Square, New York City. Wow. Wow, who's

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<v Speaker 1>the salesperson on that? Jamie? I love it? Oh boy,

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<v Speaker 1>gotta go. Okay, bye, that's my phone. They're sending me

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<v Speaker 1>more pictures. So he's sitting in bed. He's tweeting pictures

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<v Speaker 1>of an event that Hey, it's a beautiful day here

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<v Speaker 1>for an a great time. In the meantime, he's home.

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<v Speaker 1>He's home tweeting and instagramming from bed. We just se

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<v Speaker 1>we kind of pulled the curtain back there. We broke

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<v Speaker 1>what we call in show business of breaking the fourth wall. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so we broke some. We're welcome. Hi, it's good to

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<v Speaker 1>see you. It's it's quiet. We need to make this

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<v Speaker 1>place a little more lively. Hey, where's my music? Here's

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<v Speaker 1>my need to sharing those music. I'm sorry, I was

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<v Speaker 1>like I needed to be here. We have a big share.

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<v Speaker 1>By the way, hasn't even been here in a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of weeks either, answer, let me call him, okay, is

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<v Speaker 1>he's in the next studio. Maybe he wants to grace

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<v Speaker 1>us with his presence. He said, he was so busy.

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<v Speaker 1>Let's see here, let's see what's going on. I'm just

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<v Speaker 1>gonna this is gonna be the the podcast of me

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<v Speaker 1>calling people hello, hey, bald freak Ronnie. Yeah, scary and

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<v Speaker 1>share and shares here too. Yeah, but the contest love

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<v Speaker 1>you and I love you too. But here's the thing.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm by myself and Greg t. I had to call

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<v Speaker 1>him up on the phone and he's vomiting, and you

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<v Speaker 1>haven't been here in three weeks? All right, thanks? I

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<v Speaker 1>really And now it's just scary and share, see what

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<v Speaker 1>I mean? I know that thirty years and he's hanging

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<v Speaker 1>up in my face. That's a problem. It's an issue.

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<v Speaker 1>And you know what's funny? That leads right into the

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<v Speaker 1>share nose question because has to do all about friendships. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>but before you get to that, can I want I

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to tell the listeners about what I did in Chicago,

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<v Speaker 1>and I think you could appreciate this. I can't wait

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<v Speaker 1>to hear so I went to listen. First of all,

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<v Speaker 1>you know, a lot of times what we do is

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<v Speaker 1>talk about New York's any where we're going around Brooklyn,

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<v Speaker 1>but we never talked about other parts of the country

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, this is where we're based and it

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<v Speaker 1>is amazing and it is so I mentioned I did

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<v Speaker 1>a huge thing about Nashville the other day, and by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, thank you for your comments at the off

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<v Speaker 1>air show at gmail dot com. That was kind of cool.

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<v Speaker 1>But and I like Nashville. I've been found there, C

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<v Speaker 1>M T S and a bunch of other events. Let

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<v Speaker 1>me down there, and I happen to think it's great. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>And I was saying that it's now mainstream Nashville is

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<v Speaker 1>kind of cool now that a lot of New York

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<v Speaker 1>has come to Nashville, New York and moving there. But anyway,

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<v Speaker 1>I went off for about fifteen minutes on that. I

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<v Speaker 1>just gave them a nice giant plug for the for

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<v Speaker 1>the I mean, I hope you're gonna be going back

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<v Speaker 1>down to Nashville soon. That I gotta let the listeners

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<v Speaker 1>know about what I did in Chicago. Okay, there's this

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<v Speaker 1>place that's been there since like the nineties. It's called

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<v Speaker 1>the Wieners Circle. Okay, I didn't talk. I talked about

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<v Speaker 1>this on my people who follow me on snapchat. Uh

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<v Speaker 1>they saw my story, but it was gone in twenty

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<v Speaker 1>four hours. Um. The Weeners Circle is a place that's

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<v Speaker 1>been well documented over the years. It's been on The

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<v Speaker 1>Corner O'Brien show. It's been on like all if they've

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<v Speaker 1>had a reality show where the people behind the counter

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<v Speaker 1>get really really nasty with you, really oh, completely nasty,

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<v Speaker 1>um late at night. So you go in there for

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<v Speaker 1>like what they call a charred dog or burger, and

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<v Speaker 1>you walk in and all you gotta do is just

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<v Speaker 1>just show up. And it's usually crowded, you know the type.

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<v Speaker 1>It's the afterbar, late night Greece place to go and

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<v Speaker 1>people are drunk and their hammered into're like whatever else there.

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<v Speaker 1>This is like a two am type spot. I mean

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<v Speaker 1>it's open like for most of the day, but it

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<v Speaker 1>gets raunchy after midnight because there's there's like dozens of

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<v Speaker 1>people trying to get in there, and it's just like

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<v Speaker 1>a stand, like a hot dog stand, and the ladies

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<v Speaker 1>behind the counter set up a side of sass with

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<v Speaker 1>their so on this given night, when I went in

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<v Speaker 1>there there were these two dudes with the glasses and

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<v Speaker 1>then she goes, what the fuck you, Harry Potter, motherfucking

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<v Speaker 1>looking dudes. Wat's holding court and like everyone's like laughing.

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<v Speaker 1>But here's the thing. The tradition at Weener Circle is

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<v Speaker 1>to scream at them and scream back, and they scream

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<v Speaker 1>at each other. I'm not even going to tell you

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<v Speaker 1>the profanity that was flying back and forth, but you,

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<v Speaker 1>as a customer is supposed to scream like, hey, I

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<v Speaker 1>want that cheeseburger you give dog, motherfucker and be like

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<v Speaker 1>give me some fries, bitch, yes, and but nasty, using

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<v Speaker 1>the P word and F word that I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if I could flying back and forth, and I swear

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<v Speaker 1>to god it is hilarious. But here's the thing, though,

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, you know a lot of people are not

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<v Speaker 1>tolerant of this. I mean, this is a very political

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<v Speaker 1>PC society. So to have like an old vestige of

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<v Speaker 1>something that a slice of Americana, as we say, of this,

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<v Speaker 1>a place like this it's still in existence, is great,

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<v Speaker 1>but I think it's going to go away soon because

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<v Speaker 1>I mean the kind of ship that flush back harsh.

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<v Speaker 1>To be honest, like, I think it's funny. It sounds funny,

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<v Speaker 1>but maybe if I was like in the environment, it

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<v Speaker 1>might be a little hard to get into it first.

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<v Speaker 1>It is. It is very difficult. Lot of people don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what's going on. They just walk in to order

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<v Speaker 1>a hot dog and they're like, why are people screaming

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<v Speaker 1>with a sentities back in front the customers and her.

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<v Speaker 1>Now here's the best part. There's a secret, and I

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<v Speaker 1>want people to google this. Google Weener's circle. Hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>but chocolate shake Weener Circle chocolate shake. Chocolate shake is

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<v Speaker 1>something that's not on the menu, but it's kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like an elbow wink wink kind of thing. You give

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<v Speaker 1>her twenty bucks and then she, you know, a couple

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<v Speaker 1>of people order chocolate shakes and after about five or

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<v Speaker 1>ten minutes, after screaming for your chocolate shake, because she

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<v Speaker 1>never does give you a chocolate shake. Secret. By the way,

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<v Speaker 1>side note, there is no real chocolate shake on the menu.

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<v Speaker 1>It's really just code word. You say chocolate shake. After

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<v Speaker 1>five or ten minutes, the lights start flickering on and

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<v Speaker 1>off like Johnny Rockets. The music comes up really all

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<v Speaker 1>of a sudden. You you focus your your eyes on

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<v Speaker 1>the side door. Yeah, can we start flickering the lights.

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<v Speaker 1>I feel like we have to get into the hold.

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<v Speaker 1>All of a sudden, the door opens and the lady,

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<v Speaker 1>the main lady from behind the counter, and she's she's

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<v Speaker 1>a larger woman with her giant triple e boobs out

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<v Speaker 1>out like topless, and she she kind of like she

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<v Speaker 1>lifts her shirt and she folds her apron in the middle,

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<v Speaker 1>so her boobs are coming out the side with the

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<v Speaker 1>left boom with the right boot e ch apron. Hold on,

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<v Speaker 1>hold on, no, no, no, and she starts shaking them

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<v Speaker 1>back and forth and that's your chocolate shake, and oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god. Seconds and then everybody screams, and then the

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<v Speaker 1>door closes and that's it, and the lights come back

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<v Speaker 1>on and and then she goes back to screaming and

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<v Speaker 1>yelling at you behind the counter. I've been going on,

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<v Speaker 1>especially weekends like Friday Saturday night. If you're in the

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<v Speaker 1>Chicago area, you must, you absolutely must visit Weener Circle.

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<v Speaker 1>And the lady I forgot her name. Her name, real

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<v Speaker 1>name is ROBERTA. Jackson. She's the main one. They have

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<v Speaker 1>a bunch of people that work with her, but she's

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<v Speaker 1>been there the longest and she's been carrying on the tradition.

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<v Speaker 1>All I can tell you is if you google Conan

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<v Speaker 1>O'Brien Weiner's Circle, they sent Jack Jack mcbray, who's the

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<v Speaker 1>dude from thirty Rock. He plays the NBC page, the

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<v Speaker 1>nicest guy in the world him, And what did the

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<v Speaker 1>rubber dog that Conan has with the cigar and Triumph

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<v Speaker 1>the insult comic dog. So Jack from Dirty Rock and

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<v Speaker 1>and and um Triumph went in there to order stuff

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<v Speaker 1>from Winer Circle and Jack gets crapped on by the

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<v Speaker 1>lady behind the counter, and then they go back in

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<v Speaker 1>with Triumph. Is an eight minute thing that they did

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<v Speaker 1>on Conan O'Brien. I swear to god, it is the

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<v Speaker 1>funniest eight minutes of a video you'll watch. Go to YouTube,

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<v Speaker 1>it's all over there, Hulu, whatever it is. Watch google

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<v Speaker 1>Conan O'Brien Weener Circle or Jack Jack mcbray, Weener Circle, Triumph,

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<v Speaker 1>whatever it is. You will see the video and you

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<v Speaker 1>will see Roberta, a younger Roberta. She's blue hair in

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<v Speaker 1>the video or purple hair. Um. She is full of sass.

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<v Speaker 1>And then when when she's going at it with the

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<v Speaker 1>dog back and forth, screaming, the words are going. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't think there's a a version that that you could

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<v Speaker 1>find that's uncensored. I think it's all peeped out. That

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<v Speaker 1>just makes it worse, so because now we're all on

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<v Speaker 1>uncensored here. Yeah, but you'll see what it is. And

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<v Speaker 1>if you're ever in Chicago, visit the Weiner Circle on

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<v Speaker 1>North Clark Street. You will not be disappointed. But always

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<v Speaker 1>after midnight on Friday and Saturday. Okay, And I'm never

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<v Speaker 1>going to think of a milkshake the same. I want

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<v Speaker 1>you to know that. I mean, you really just messed

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<v Speaker 1>me up. I think you messed up half the off

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<v Speaker 1>air scary, scary. Give me milkshake. Yeah, I need milkshake.

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<v Speaker 1>I need the lights flickering, I need milkshake. I need

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<v Speaker 1>something happening here after that story. By the way, they

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<v Speaker 1>don't play this song. They should have played this song.

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<v Speaker 1>This would have been perfect for the Chocolate Mill. Oh

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<v Speaker 1>my god, it would have been great. Are you kidding?

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<v Speaker 1>Would have been the extra touch that I'm still trying

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<v Speaker 1>to go back to. I guess they assume there's nobody

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<v Speaker 1>that's like under age at this environment after a certain time.

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<v Speaker 1>Is that like kind of how they do it? Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>None of that is what how they do it. They

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<v Speaker 1>make sure that it's like at least college level of higher.

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<v Speaker 1>I mean, I hate to bring it back to reality,

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<v Speaker 1>but um, when it came time for the milkshake moment,

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<v Speaker 1>the guy came from behind the the counter. He came

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<v Speaker 1>from you know, with dispatchel in his hand. Yeah, he

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<v Speaker 1>screamed at us through the window. Everybody, put your ammer

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<v Speaker 1>f in phones away, you hear me, put them away.

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<v Speaker 1>Right up until that point, everyone's snapchats, instagrams, and it's

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<v Speaker 1>like putting video up because it's it's a hilarious dialogue

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<v Speaker 1>that makes sense, throwing insults. But when that moment comes,

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<v Speaker 1>all phones have to go away. So I don't have that.

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<v Speaker 1>So that's why you don't have it. But I should post.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe I should post to the I didn't save the

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<v Speaker 1>snap story. Damn it. I'm such a bad snapper. Snapper,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't save my snaps your stories. No, not usually,

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<v Speaker 1>not usually you should probably though, especially when we do

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<v Speaker 1>like something and we're away, we should probably start saving them.

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<v Speaker 1>That's another like little leg where we're gonna start doing,

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<v Speaker 1>which is all around the world we share. So you've

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<v Speaker 1>got to bring in some mural around the world's too right,

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<v Speaker 1>exactly around the world. Maybe we will save our snaps

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<v Speaker 1>from now on. Maybe. Okay, okay, are you ready? I'm ready?

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<v Speaker 1>What's going on in Share Nose this week? And by

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<v Speaker 1>the way, I'm sorry if you're looking to this podcast

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<v Speaker 1>halfway through the fair heads, I won't captain wax Sparrow

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<v Speaker 1>could have just easily just packed it up and gone

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<v Speaker 1>off course. And I sailed this ship in tonight and

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<v Speaker 1>not done a podcast. Not when he knew Share Nose

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<v Speaker 1>was coming in with some great Share Nose over here.

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<v Speaker 1>Then I was like, I was going to call you back,

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<v Speaker 1>you know what? Then then you know what? Listen, No,

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<v Speaker 1>I like this, this is like scary and share now

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<v Speaker 1>this is awesome. This is great. I think I bet,

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<v Speaker 1>I bet the whole idea of the idea today was

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<v Speaker 1>to do the share Nose. Gonna have a nice segment

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<v Speaker 1>to Share Nose right now. I don't see anything wrong

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<v Speaker 1>with did you really complaining? I'm just telling you a

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<v Speaker 1>fairheads who think that this is like this is like

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<v Speaker 1>a whatever kind of show, let me tell you something.

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<v Speaker 1>This could have been worse. It could have been no

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<v Speaker 1>show at all. I think you're wrong. I don't think

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<v Speaker 1>there to think it's a bad show in here to

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<v Speaker 1>do a show with what we have. You heard proof

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<v Speaker 1>on the phone, Greg ts sick and bold freak. I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what his deal is, but what you have

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<v Speaker 1>is me today. So I happen to think since our

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<v Speaker 1>off airheads show me so much love, this actually works

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<v Speaker 1>out perfect because we get a share nose and there

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<v Speaker 1>won't be any interfering or by this point usually showing

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<v Speaker 1>one of his body parts or we're looking at my

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<v Speaker 1>nails or my hair, my jonger. Am I gonna take

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<v Speaker 1>his place? Yeah? I'm gonna start showing body parts. That's

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<v Speaker 1>what we're gonna do today. I mean, after all, we

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<v Speaker 1>just went from milkshakes and a Brinds and everything else.

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<v Speaker 1>We might as well. But we start flickering the lights

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<v Speaker 1>that we don't have anyone here to do it. Oh,

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<v Speaker 1>we have someone videoing us? What's going on? We do

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<v Speaker 1>we do have? We have an intern in here videoing us.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Kim intern, Kim Kim Nikolouch from Bay Ridge. Are

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<v Speaker 1>you enjoying this? Is this a mess? What's going on?

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<v Speaker 1>Let me let me get your microphone on over there? Uh?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this is this a mess to you or what

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<v Speaker 1>you could talk? You could talk. I'm trying to keep

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<v Speaker 1>the video going while I do this, but no, this

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<v Speaker 1>is so funny. I love this. Yeah, see this is

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<v Speaker 1>the podcast still did she just wants to turn her

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<v Speaker 1>into a trip into a job. How'll do this any

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<v Speaker 1>day for you guys. You know, I want you off

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<v Speaker 1>airheads to comment on how much do they enjoy this

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<v Speaker 1>podcast when it's over all? Right, thank you so much?

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<v Speaker 1>What are we taping this? Facebook loss? So no? So

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<v Speaker 1>right now, I think we're on video and this will

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<v Speaker 1>be posted to the Instagram page. Um under chop it off.

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<v Speaker 1>We will chop a little bit, but it'll be posted

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<v Speaker 1>on the Instagram. Started here, Hi, how are you? I'm

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm share sharing us just do off air show

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<v Speaker 1>minus Gregg t and uh he's out today and we're

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<v Speaker 1>not going to talk about the fact that he's vomiting.

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<v Speaker 1>Everything from before this point is only for the audio podcast,

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<v Speaker 1>and everything from here on can go on the pages.

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<v Speaker 1>We're about to get into share nose. Well now we're

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<v Speaker 1>going to actually flip it and she is going to

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<v Speaker 1>help us by going to Facebook Live. That's the end

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<v Speaker 1>of this video. That's it, right, all right, So we're

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<v Speaker 1>gonna go on Facebook live now, okay, good, we'll do

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<v Speaker 1>We'll do Facebook Live. Uh. You can always get in

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<v Speaker 1>touch with us at the Aufair Show at gmail dot com.

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<v Speaker 1>But if you want to do a share nose and

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<v Speaker 1>get a question on for her, uh, go on her

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook page, like her Facebook page, search at Share Nose

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<v Speaker 1>fan page at Share Nose fan page, like the page,

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<v Speaker 1>and then message her privately so you don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>uh get your you know, some questions you know need

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<v Speaker 1>some anonymity, as we say. So yeah, so there you go.

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<v Speaker 1>So so get her over there. So at Share Nose

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<v Speaker 1>fan page on Facebook. What do you got here today?

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<v Speaker 1>Who's who's? Do we say who's writing in? Or no,

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<v Speaker 1>we can say a first name. She has allowed me

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<v Speaker 1>to do a first name, so with Michelle today. Hi Michelle.

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<v Speaker 1>Michelle is a an off air head and she has

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<v Speaker 1>said to us that she needs the Share Nose bad. Basically,

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<v Speaker 1>she's getting officially officially married in September, officially officially officially.

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<v Speaker 1>Well the way I married been getting married and getting

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<v Speaker 1>officially married. First of all, well, I think the idea

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<v Speaker 1>is when somebody actually writes officially officially married, it means

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<v Speaker 1>that they have a long relationship with the person they're

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<v Speaker 1>in already, or they have like a very tight bond already.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe they have a baby together, and maybe they have

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<v Speaker 1>a house together. There's something more than just the high

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<v Speaker 1>we started going out and got an engage memborying decided

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<v Speaker 1>now we're gonna get married. There's like a lot more

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<v Speaker 1>to it. So that's how I read it. How I

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<v Speaker 1>read it, She's getting married, right. So Michelle writes that

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<v Speaker 1>she needs some help because she set up her wedding party.

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<v Speaker 1>Wedding such an important time for a bride, and she

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<v Speaker 1>didn't feel like she had any drama going on, and

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<v Speaker 1>all of a sudden, one of her bridesmaids that's a

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<v Speaker 1>friend since she was seven years old, decided she has

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<v Speaker 1>to back out, and backing out, but with good reason,

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<v Speaker 1>backing out because her mother's sick. Now, the real twist

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<v Speaker 1>is is that to Michelle, she doesn't know if she

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<v Speaker 1>really feels that it's a good reason, but she wants

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<v Speaker 1>to be supportive of her friend. But she's really in

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<v Speaker 1>a bune now because she goes, how do I ask

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<v Speaker 1>another bride'smaid to step into her place? Well, it's easy.

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<v Speaker 1>You ask another bride'smaid to step into her scary. You

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<v Speaker 1>do not understand there is so much more to this.

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<v Speaker 1>She backed out, so much more to this. Are you

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<v Speaker 1>ready for this? There's even statistics on this stuff. I

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<v Speaker 1>bet Michelle doesn't know how common this is and how

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<v Speaker 1>much drama it actually causes. Its out her mom's seck.

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<v Speaker 1>We know really why she backed out. All I know

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<v Speaker 1>is her mom sick. Well she knows is her mom's sex.

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<v Speaker 1>There's no more noulate. But there are people who throw

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<v Speaker 1>excuses out there, right right, So here's the thing, right,

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<v Speaker 1>The first thing I would say to Michelle is, if

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<v Speaker 1>you really care about this person, maybe you could try

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<v Speaker 1>to figure it out. So here's the bottom line. How

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<v Speaker 1>great of a friend is this person? To Michelle? Because

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<v Speaker 1>if it's your's your bestie, sticky, it's sticky scary, don't what? Right?

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<v Speaker 1>But here's the thing, right, So are a huge time commitment.

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<v Speaker 1>There are huge money money money. I mean you're talking

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<v Speaker 1>major money. So you mean from the engagement party to

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<v Speaker 1>the bachelorte parties, to the showers, to the dress fittings, okay,

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<v Speaker 1>to the rehearsal dinners to the actual big day. You're

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<v Speaker 1>talking a lot of things that they go through. So

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<v Speaker 1>with that being said, maybe maybe let's just assume her

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<v Speaker 1>mom's sick. Maybe if she talks to her and she

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<v Speaker 1>really wants her to be a part of it still,

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<v Speaker 1>she could tell her she could let her off of

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<v Speaker 1>some of those commitments. Maybe she could give her a

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<v Speaker 1>little bit of a break. Maybe it is a monetary thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Maybe she should have a heart to heart with her

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<v Speaker 1>and say, if I have you part of my wedding

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<v Speaker 1>still because it means so much to me, could I

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<v Speaker 1>lessen your responsibilities as part of my bridal party. That

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<v Speaker 1>may work. So that's the first thing I wanted to

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<v Speaker 1>put out there was if you run into this problem,

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<v Speaker 1>see if you could talk to the person and lessen

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<v Speaker 1>the responsibility. However, if that doesn't work and there's no

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<v Speaker 1>way because it's too emotional for her with her mom,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to take a second and understand the fact

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<v Speaker 1>that it is her mother and whether you agree or not,

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<v Speaker 1>you have to be there for for her because it's

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<v Speaker 1>still your friend. So moving on from that, do you

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<v Speaker 1>find a replacement because that word is not a very

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<v Speaker 1>nice word. Replacement sounds exactly like it is a plan B.

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<v Speaker 1>So if you're die hard that you can't do the

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<v Speaker 1>wedding as is without her, Which is my first suggestion, Michelle,

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<v Speaker 1>leave the wedding party the way it is. If it's

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<v Speaker 1>nothing that bothers you that much, don't pick another person.

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<v Speaker 1>You're just saying, just just maybe have a hologram of

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<v Speaker 1>her show up that there. No, maybe just have one

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<v Speaker 1>less person. Why why, there's nothing to do with numbers anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>Weddings don't have to be even anymore a girl for

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<v Speaker 1>every boy and a boy for every No. See, that's

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<v Speaker 1>actually something that that I actually have checked into that

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<v Speaker 1>more weddings nowadays are trying to do it where it

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<v Speaker 1>isn't like that the two girls with one guy. It

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<v Speaker 1>looks adorable. Even like families are very separate nowadays, families

0:22:02.359 --> 0:22:05.320
<v Speaker 1>are very different nowadays. So sometimes people women have their

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<v Speaker 1>moms walk them. Nowadays women have their moms and dads

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<v Speaker 1>walk them. It's very different. Are you saying that that

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to understand this, So you mean to say,

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<v Speaker 1>just that's it, I'm done finished you. You might be

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<v Speaker 1>safer because here comes the drama. When you step in

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<v Speaker 1>to asking that other friend, you run into some sticky

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<v Speaker 1>territory and the pressure is on. It's almost more work

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<v Speaker 1>for you, bribes, because now you have to make sure

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<v Speaker 1>that person can handle the fact that they weren't your

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<v Speaker 1>first choice, that they're emotionally okay with the fact that

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<v Speaker 1>they're stepping into a situation. First person who backed out

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<v Speaker 1>that you're pissing off. It's the second person that you're

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<v Speaker 1>asking so and so can't make it. So, so hey, listen,

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<v Speaker 1>can you fill her spot? And it's almost like they

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<v Speaker 1>little with tickets to the game. I mean, I can't go. No,

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm going to a mack game with a friend

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<v Speaker 1>and then that friend backs out and I just call

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<v Speaker 1>friend b They're not gonna be offended. They're not gonna

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<v Speaker 1>be offended that that they weren't first asked to go.

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<v Speaker 1>They'll be like, I'm going to a free freaking game

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<v Speaker 1>right here. Yeah, that's a little different you're asking. So

0:23:15.280 --> 0:23:17.600
<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you the difference you're asking. That's exactly the

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<v Speaker 1>key word free. You're asking this person, this replacement, to

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<v Speaker 1>come in as a full party to your bridal shower.

0:23:24.520 --> 0:23:26.960
<v Speaker 1>So you're talking they're going to be able to. Now

0:23:27.080 --> 0:23:29.040
<v Speaker 1>they have to take on the responsibility of the money.

0:23:29.359 --> 0:23:31.600
<v Speaker 1>They have to take on the responsibility of the time commitment,

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<v Speaker 1>and they have to feel good about it, and they

0:23:33.160 --> 0:23:34.879
<v Speaker 1>also have to do other things. So you're ready for this.

0:23:35.119 --> 0:23:37.399
<v Speaker 1>If she has got her dresses already, depending upon how

0:23:37.480 --> 0:23:39.840
<v Speaker 1>quick she worked this out, the bridesmaids will know each other.

0:23:39.960 --> 0:23:42.280
<v Speaker 1>It's like a little clan. Come on, think girls here. Okay,

0:23:42.480 --> 0:23:44.720
<v Speaker 1>it's like this little clan of girls. Right. This is

0:23:44.720 --> 0:23:46.560
<v Speaker 1>why I have more guy friends, by the way, anyway,

0:23:46.720 --> 0:23:49.760
<v Speaker 1>but this girls tend to be clicky. Right, So if

0:23:49.800 --> 0:23:52.879
<v Speaker 1>they're already down the path of let's plan her bridal shower,

0:23:53.000 --> 0:23:55.960
<v Speaker 1>let's plan this. Now this girl has to step into

0:23:56.040 --> 0:23:58.879
<v Speaker 1>this platform where she has to become part of the group.

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<v Speaker 1>So so you're what you're trying to say is that

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<v Speaker 1>the journey that if they're not with them from the

0:24:04.680 --> 0:24:07.159
<v Speaker 1>beginning of the journey, they shouldn't just come in like

0:24:07.200 --> 0:24:09.440
<v Speaker 1>three quarters of the way through, because they've probably missed

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<v Speaker 1>out on all the bonding and all the fun that

0:24:11.200 --> 0:24:13.160
<v Speaker 1>went that led up to it's a really good chance

0:24:13.200 --> 0:24:15.959
<v Speaker 1>and maybe maybe a problem with the dresses to right,

0:24:16.000 --> 0:24:18.720
<v Speaker 1>And then it's an ask of like money, like okay,

0:24:18.760 --> 0:24:20.880
<v Speaker 1>now now you're gonna be spending all the sext your money, right.

0:24:20.960 --> 0:24:22.880
<v Speaker 1>So it's kind of something where it could really get

0:24:22.920 --> 0:24:25.320
<v Speaker 1>into a sticky situation. So I kind of see that.

0:24:25.400 --> 0:24:28.080
<v Speaker 1>But but here's the positive. If the person is a

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<v Speaker 1>team player and she's really cool and she's kind of

0:24:30.680 --> 0:24:32.680
<v Speaker 1>like a little light about it, you may be fine

0:24:32.680 --> 0:24:35.120
<v Speaker 1>with it. This is all obviously, this is all situational.

0:24:35.359 --> 0:24:37.600
<v Speaker 1>So if you know somebody that's actually someone that I'll

0:24:37.600 --> 0:24:39.919
<v Speaker 1>tell you the best situation. If you had someone that

0:24:40.080 --> 0:24:41.800
<v Speaker 1>was a friend that you had asked to do let's say,

0:24:41.800 --> 0:24:43.960
<v Speaker 1>a reading at your wedding or be an usher because

0:24:44.000 --> 0:24:45.800
<v Speaker 1>you wanted them to be part of it, but you

0:24:45.840 --> 0:24:48.320
<v Speaker 1>really weren't sure if they were going to be bridesmaid

0:24:48.359 --> 0:24:51.040
<v Speaker 1>because that's like a special thing to be in. Maybe

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<v Speaker 1>you could try to upgrade that person because they already

0:24:54.400 --> 0:24:56.240
<v Speaker 1>know you cared enough to make them a part of

0:24:56.320 --> 0:24:59.399
<v Speaker 1>something in your wedding, but they weren't a bridesmaid because

0:24:59.480 --> 0:25:01.480
<v Speaker 1>maybe free you it was something where you had an

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<v Speaker 1>even number, so you use that as just the reason

0:25:04.080 --> 0:25:06.480
<v Speaker 1>and you said, hey, I don't have enough space, but

0:25:06.480 --> 0:25:08.359
<v Speaker 1>could you be a part of my special day. That

0:25:08.440 --> 0:25:10.239
<v Speaker 1>type of situation, you might be able to put that

0:25:10.280 --> 0:25:13.840
<v Speaker 1>person into this into the platform easier. You know, listen,

0:25:13.880 --> 0:25:18.520
<v Speaker 1>I got my pad here, we got wet. She's got

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<v Speaker 1>a note. This is the handwriting of a share notes

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<v Speaker 1>that cares and dedicates her time to her fans. Us

0:25:29.240 --> 0:25:31.640
<v Speaker 1>we do so wait a second, so you gotta hear this. Okay,

0:25:32.000 --> 0:25:34.399
<v Speaker 1>recently married and women. This doesn't say much for us,

0:25:34.520 --> 0:25:38.840
<v Speaker 1>but recently married women, it has been proven that say

0:25:39.000 --> 0:25:42.240
<v Speaker 1>they don't even talk to their bridesmaids anymore. So the

0:25:42.359 --> 0:25:47.280
<v Speaker 1>ideas at so here's a special day scary, and I

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<v Speaker 1>have to turn to you since he is not here

0:25:49.920 --> 0:25:52.440
<v Speaker 1>to add about his wedding and everything else. You got

0:25:52.440 --> 0:25:54.840
<v Speaker 1>a boys club. I hang with a lot of guys.

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<v Speaker 1>I happen to find it to be fun and drama free.

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<v Speaker 1>So now I have the question to you. Do eyes

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<v Speaker 1>go through this when they have a wedding? And well,

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<v Speaker 1>first of all, you just struck a nerve because this

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<v Speaker 1>is something I feel very strongly about. And women do

0:26:10.800 --> 0:26:13.959
<v Speaker 1>this to each other all the time. Women forget about

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<v Speaker 1>women after marriage and especially after babies. Once kids come,

0:26:18.320 --> 0:26:21.680
<v Speaker 1>women forget about their female friends overall. I'm listen, this

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<v Speaker 1>is as Elvis would say, general Eyes general generalizes reporting

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<v Speaker 1>for duty. This is I'm generalizing, okay, but I've seen

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<v Speaker 1>more often than not women's circles of friends like get

0:26:36.920 --> 0:26:40.120
<v Speaker 1>smaller and shrink and get narrower and narrower. And it's

0:26:40.160 --> 0:26:42.840
<v Speaker 1>because of the way women treat each other. And this

0:26:42.880 --> 0:26:45.680
<v Speaker 1>because this starts at the beginning with with the formulation

0:26:45.760 --> 0:26:49.200
<v Speaker 1>of a relationship, the boyfriend thing. Yeah, a girl gets

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<v Speaker 1>a boyfriend and she drops her female friends. A girl

0:26:51.800 --> 0:26:54.680
<v Speaker 1>gets engaged, I'll see you later, or she doesn't go

0:26:54.680 --> 0:26:56.359
<v Speaker 1>out with her single friends anymore because all of a

0:26:56.400 --> 0:26:58.359
<v Speaker 1>sudden she feels like she needs to do Like the

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriends pretty much drops everybody and and but guys are

0:27:02.520 --> 0:27:05.400
<v Speaker 1>not as quick to do that. Guys are still bonding,

0:27:05.400 --> 0:27:08.240
<v Speaker 1>Guys are still friends with guys, you could and even

0:27:08.280 --> 0:27:11.120
<v Speaker 1>if you haven't been you know, hanging out or you

0:27:11.160 --> 0:27:14.280
<v Speaker 1>haven't seen each other's like instagrams or Facebook feeds in

0:27:14.320 --> 0:27:17.239
<v Speaker 1>a while whatever, Like, guys could pick up where they

0:27:17.280 --> 0:27:19.800
<v Speaker 1>left off, like four years later, it's like, Hey, what's up, Hey,

0:27:19.800 --> 0:27:24.120
<v Speaker 1>why did you call me? You dick? Hey, by the way,

0:27:24.119 --> 0:27:26.640
<v Speaker 1>how you been? You pick up where you're left off

0:27:26.640 --> 0:27:28.640
<v Speaker 1>and if you're and guys do that, and guys can

0:27:28.680 --> 0:27:30.480
<v Speaker 1>do that. Guys go in and out of each other's

0:27:30.520 --> 0:27:33.120
<v Speaker 1>lives all the time. But guys are not quick by

0:27:33.119 --> 0:27:34.960
<v Speaker 1>the same token, and guys are not quick to just

0:27:35.440 --> 0:27:37.680
<v Speaker 1>drop their friends the second they get a girlfriend. Guys

0:27:37.720 --> 0:27:41.119
<v Speaker 1>are not quick their friends after they get married, they

0:27:41.200 --> 0:27:46.200
<v Speaker 1>still hang or again generalizes reporting for duty. Generalized general,

0:27:46.440 --> 0:27:49.879
<v Speaker 1>I'm captain. I wear many hats, Captain wax battle and

0:27:49.920 --> 0:27:52.880
<v Speaker 1>I'm the generalized guy. So I'm in the army as

0:27:52.880 --> 0:27:57.240
<v Speaker 1>a general that should be in a position in our cabinet. Generalized,

0:27:59.080 --> 0:28:02.280
<v Speaker 1>I'm generalized, Rie Jones. But it's true. But it is true.

0:28:02.520 --> 0:28:04.720
<v Speaker 1>But but women are quicker to do that, And I

0:28:04.760 --> 0:28:08.640
<v Speaker 1>think that that's a problem later in life because if

0:28:08.840 --> 0:28:11.160
<v Speaker 1>a woman, you know, God forbid, you know, she gets

0:28:11.160 --> 0:28:15.080
<v Speaker 1>divorced or separated, they feel very lonely then like now

0:28:15.119 --> 0:28:16.800
<v Speaker 1>I'm screwed. They don't know how to go back out

0:28:16.800 --> 0:28:20.280
<v Speaker 1>in date. I absolutely agree with you and guys actually,

0:28:20.520 --> 0:28:22.200
<v Speaker 1>and they don't have to call up their all friends

0:28:22.400 --> 0:28:24.080
<v Speaker 1>and that they haven't spoke to in ten years, because

0:28:24.080 --> 0:28:28.359
<v Speaker 1>then now they're trying to save face. Don't ever lose

0:28:28.359 --> 0:28:30.919
<v Speaker 1>your friends, No, And I think you make such valid

0:28:30.920 --> 0:28:32.960
<v Speaker 1>points because the ideas and I that's what I love

0:28:33.000 --> 0:28:36.199
<v Speaker 1>about this because you get the guy's perspective the girl's perspective.

0:28:36.240 --> 0:28:39.080
<v Speaker 1>But really, I have to say, I play in boys playgrounds.

0:28:39.200 --> 0:28:42.520
<v Speaker 1>I'm very much the girl that likes my guy friends.

0:28:43.360 --> 0:28:45.480
<v Speaker 1>Not that kind of not that kind of playground now.

0:28:45.840 --> 0:28:48.280
<v Speaker 1>But I like the idea of hanging with the guys

0:28:48.360 --> 0:28:51.320
<v Speaker 1>because I find that it's less drama. I do think that,

0:28:51.400 --> 0:28:53.240
<v Speaker 1>and I think everything you said is the reason why

0:28:53.240 --> 0:28:56.640
<v Speaker 1>I think guys actually handle certain things ladies a little

0:28:56.680 --> 0:28:59.680
<v Speaker 1>better than we do. But with all that being said,

0:28:59.800 --> 0:29:02.800
<v Speaker 1>here's one other thing that's a total girl thing, Michelle,

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<v Speaker 1>I want you to know. Also, stats show that jealousy

0:29:06.840 --> 0:29:11.719
<v Speaker 1>and financial issues actually pair most of the bride'smaids apart

0:29:11.800 --> 0:29:14.880
<v Speaker 1>from the bride. By the time the weddings over, they

0:29:14.920 --> 0:29:18.640
<v Speaker 1>actually have shown um statistics that they get jealous again

0:29:18.640 --> 0:29:21.600
<v Speaker 1>because of their own situations. The women can't really handle

0:29:22.120 --> 0:29:27.000
<v Speaker 1>the whole yeah itself. There we go all over the

0:29:27.000 --> 0:29:29.080
<v Speaker 1>place that you know, we get emails all the time

0:29:29.120 --> 0:29:31.560
<v Speaker 1>on that. It's terrible though, and guys don't go through

0:29:31.560 --> 0:29:34.080
<v Speaker 1>this then, So you're saying you've never had scary an

0:29:34.080 --> 0:29:35.720
<v Speaker 1>issue where you were like, you got a type group

0:29:35.760 --> 0:29:38.320
<v Speaker 1>of guys you go away together you just did a trip, right,

0:29:38.560 --> 0:29:40.280
<v Speaker 1>So those guys, some of them are married, right. We

0:29:40.680 --> 0:29:43.480
<v Speaker 1>had a conversation about that about guys that are married

0:29:43.520 --> 0:29:46.840
<v Speaker 1>going on trips with the single guys. Remember that fact.

0:29:47.600 --> 0:29:49.719
<v Speaker 1>And then we had that my friends friends are your

0:29:49.720 --> 0:29:54.680
<v Speaker 1>friends are angels? You know? No? So the point is

0:29:54.680 --> 0:29:57.400
<v Speaker 1>is that with your friends when they've had those weddings

0:29:57.400 --> 0:30:00.320
<v Speaker 1>and stuff, has there ever been any drama between the

0:30:00.320 --> 0:30:06.080
<v Speaker 1>the groomsman? Everybody's happy. That's that's petty stuff. Have you

0:30:06.080 --> 0:30:09.200
<v Speaker 1>ever been a second? Say never, never sweat the petty

0:30:09.200 --> 0:30:12.960
<v Speaker 1>stuff and never picked and never pet the sweaty stuff. Okay,

0:30:13.160 --> 0:30:15.440
<v Speaker 1>never swept the petty stuff and never put the sweaty stuff.

0:30:15.600 --> 0:30:17.920
<v Speaker 1>What about have you ever been a second? A second?

0:30:18.840 --> 0:30:22.280
<v Speaker 1>That's a very open ended question. A second in a wedding?

0:30:22.400 --> 0:30:24.560
<v Speaker 1>Have you ever been the second? The secondary person that

0:30:24.640 --> 0:30:28.320
<v Speaker 1>was asked? You know, the backup, the backup, the replaced,

0:30:28.480 --> 0:30:31.000
<v Speaker 1>the backup, rides made of the backup, the backup, best

0:30:31.000 --> 0:30:36.400
<v Speaker 1>man of the backup. That's rough, that's tough. That's a

0:30:36.400 --> 0:30:38.240
<v Speaker 1>whole another question. So okay, so how are you going

0:30:38.280 --> 0:30:40.840
<v Speaker 1>to help Michelle here? Because we're gonna up here. You go,

0:30:41.000 --> 0:30:44.360
<v Speaker 1>you're ready? Point one? If you really care about this person.

0:30:44.400 --> 0:30:46.880
<v Speaker 1>She's been your friends since the seventh grade. Which you

0:30:46.920 --> 0:30:49.920
<v Speaker 1>need to do is first care about her in her situation,

0:30:50.160 --> 0:30:52.080
<v Speaker 1>even if it's hard for you to understand because your

0:30:52.080 --> 0:30:55.000
<v Speaker 1>own personal life. You need to care about her situation

0:30:55.080 --> 0:30:57.280
<v Speaker 1>and understand that she loves you just the same. She

0:30:57.360 --> 0:30:59.080
<v Speaker 1>might really be in a bind, and see if you

0:30:59.120 --> 0:31:01.160
<v Speaker 1>could work out with her time commitment and the monetary

0:31:01.160 --> 0:31:05.239
<v Speaker 1>commitment coming around, I totally agree. If you can't and

0:31:05.320 --> 0:31:08.720
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna go to the replacement mode, yeah, I don't

0:31:08.720 --> 0:31:10.800
<v Speaker 1>know what cred lightly. At first, I was going to

0:31:10.880 --> 0:31:13.120
<v Speaker 1>go to replacement mode, but you've talked some sense to me.

0:31:13.160 --> 0:31:15.600
<v Speaker 1>I'm with you now, and this it might be easier

0:31:15.640 --> 0:31:17.840
<v Speaker 1>for you to keep drama out of your situation and

0:31:17.880 --> 0:31:20.480
<v Speaker 1>out of your wedding by just keeping the numbers where

0:31:20.520 --> 0:31:22.760
<v Speaker 1>they are unless it really bothers you. And if it does,

0:31:22.800 --> 0:31:24.480
<v Speaker 1>see if you could go to those other things I

0:31:24.520 --> 0:31:27.400
<v Speaker 1>talked about, like getting somebody that was special to you

0:31:27.440 --> 0:31:29.440
<v Speaker 1>but you had an understanding with. Maybe they were pregnant

0:31:29.440 --> 0:31:31.760
<v Speaker 1>at the time and now they're not. The joke out

0:31:31.800 --> 0:31:33.880
<v Speaker 1>of it walking down the right it could be two

0:31:33.880 --> 0:31:38.320
<v Speaker 1>guys on one woman. I mean, I think that sounds great,

0:31:38.920 --> 0:31:41.120
<v Speaker 1>Like I almost like have the girl in the middle

0:31:41.160 --> 0:31:43.720
<v Speaker 1>and the two guys on either side escorting her down

0:31:43.760 --> 0:31:46.280
<v Speaker 1>the aisle. I mean, that's cute. That's how they make

0:31:46.400 --> 0:31:47.800
<v Speaker 1>up for it, and they're like, hey, we're all going

0:31:47.920 --> 0:31:50.040
<v Speaker 1>back to the hotel room. Here we go. I knew

0:31:50.040 --> 0:31:53.640
<v Speaker 1>that was coming off area. So Saron knows this is

0:31:53.680 --> 0:31:56.240
<v Speaker 1>your big day for sharing love with that special someone.

0:31:56.480 --> 0:31:59.640
<v Speaker 1>Don't let that change a thing. Don't forget that friend

0:32:00.160 --> 0:32:02.600
<v Speaker 1>some support and care. Okay, she is your good friend.

0:32:02.640 --> 0:32:05.520
<v Speaker 1>She wasn't being malicious, and unless you have that perfect

0:32:05.680 --> 0:32:08.760
<v Speaker 1>girl who's gonna fit, don't force it because it's gonna

0:32:08.760 --> 0:32:12.920
<v Speaker 1>look horrible and leave it alone. Okay, I love it, alright, Cool,

0:32:13.000 --> 0:32:17.560
<v Speaker 1>there we go Share Share Nose. Make sure everybody I

0:32:17.600 --> 0:32:19.320
<v Speaker 1>know scary it said this, but make sure you go

0:32:19.360 --> 0:32:22.120
<v Speaker 1>to the fan page. It's at Share Nose your fan page.

0:32:22.200 --> 0:32:25.840
<v Speaker 1>Rewind this if you want to know where to go.

0:32:25.880 --> 0:32:27.240
<v Speaker 1>We said it at the beginning to all you gotta

0:32:27.280 --> 0:32:29.440
<v Speaker 1>do is just go and then you get it right

0:32:29.440 --> 0:32:31.520
<v Speaker 1>there at the beginning. You can scroll back. Oh is

0:32:31.560 --> 0:32:35.640
<v Speaker 1>that the best part? Just like no, but because no,

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<v Speaker 1>I think in terms of live radio. But it's not live,

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<v Speaker 1>so you don't give it again. I forget that because

0:32:40.600 --> 0:32:43.400
<v Speaker 1>I'm a live person. I'm a TV girl. You forget that.

0:32:43.880 --> 0:32:47.200
<v Speaker 1>So being TV trained, there are no cutbacks. And when's

0:32:47.200 --> 0:32:49.480
<v Speaker 1>your freaking movie coming out? You know? I actually have

0:32:49.560 --> 0:32:51.240
<v Speaker 1>a call in to find out because I'm not going

0:32:51.280 --> 0:32:55.120
<v Speaker 1>to let people down. I want to know when Glen

0:32:55.560 --> 0:32:57.800
<v Speaker 1>John Malkovich and Glenn Close are going to be on

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<v Speaker 1>screen for the first time in a long time time

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<v Speaker 1>in the wedding called Wild Weddings, Wild Wedding, wedding in

0:33:03.320 --> 0:33:05.200
<v Speaker 1>a movie called Wild. But now I got weddings on

0:33:05.240 --> 0:33:08.280
<v Speaker 1>my mind. That's funny. It's a wedding. My characters Eva

0:33:09.120 --> 0:33:12.120
<v Speaker 1>and she plays across from Noah Emerick in the movie.

0:33:12.520 --> 0:33:15.000
<v Speaker 1>I want to see this film. I want to see

0:33:15.000 --> 0:33:18.840
<v Speaker 1>this film email. Actually, I actually reached out to the

0:33:18.840 --> 0:33:21.880
<v Speaker 1>directors and they have ago. Is this what happens with

0:33:21.920 --> 0:33:25.480
<v Speaker 1>film releases? Yes? And now you've got to realize something else.

0:33:25.520 --> 0:33:28.000
<v Speaker 1>You have Can's Festival right now, people are traveling. This

0:33:28.080 --> 0:33:30.280
<v Speaker 1>is a busy time all throughout the year. People don't realize,

0:33:30.280 --> 0:33:32.440
<v Speaker 1>but everybody gets hung up on other things. Sundance, this

0:33:32.560 --> 0:33:34.760
<v Speaker 1>and that. You know, you had um, you had the

0:33:35.360 --> 0:33:37.440
<v Speaker 1>Upfronts this past week. People come in and out. Now

0:33:37.480 --> 0:33:40.040
<v Speaker 1>that's TV, but it's still everybody's in the same world

0:33:40.080 --> 0:33:42.880
<v Speaker 1>to TV and film clumped together. There's a lot of

0:33:42.880 --> 0:33:44.920
<v Speaker 1>stuff that goes on that people don't realize people are

0:33:44.920 --> 0:33:48.360
<v Speaker 1>doing behind the scenes. But I do think it's got

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<v Speaker 1>to come out soon, very soon, very very soon. All right, well,

0:33:53.760 --> 0:33:56.600
<v Speaker 1>well scary think of it this way till then you

0:33:56.640 --> 0:33:59.080
<v Speaker 1>have their share nose in town and she's been able

0:33:59.160 --> 0:34:02.000
<v Speaker 1>to support the show. Thank you for being here for me,

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<v Speaker 1>the only person here for me. I love the Afair Show.

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<v Speaker 1>We'll do another episode next week. Alright, alright, see you

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<v Speaker 1>take here, say Jackelo Jack Love would be so proud.

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<v Speaker 1>Just watch me now, it's just watch