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Speaker 1: I bamed my girlfriend from a house after I got

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Speaker 1: a paternity to test that proved that she cheated and

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Speaker 1: was pregnant. Am I the a hole?

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Speaker 2: You know? I'm gonna go out on a limb here?

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Speaker 2: I don't know if you're an a hole?

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Speaker 1: I don't know. I think she should go to the

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Speaker 1: other daddy's daddy's place. How about my dad there? How

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Speaker 1: about that daddy?

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Speaker 2: Is that ain't yo daddy?

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Speaker 1: My ex and I have been together for two years.

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Speaker 1: It was rocky for the last couple of months when

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Speaker 1: she lost her job and just seemed to refuse to

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Speaker 1: look for work, just living free in my house, causing

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Speaker 1: me to financially support us both. I also suspected she

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Speaker 1: was cheating on me even more weeks, and eventually I

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Speaker 1: broke up with her and she left to live with

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Speaker 1: her parents. A few weeks ago, she comes knocking on

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Speaker 1: my door to let me know she's pregnant with my child.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, She's practically beaming with glee.

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Speaker 2: I have your child, which I guess one could be excited,

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Speaker 2: but I feel like I feel like.

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Speaker 1: The circumstances are, yeah, something fishy. I agreed to let

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Speaker 1: her stay with me again as my home would be

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Speaker 1: a healthier place to stay, as her mom smokes like

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Speaker 1: a chimney and refused to stop smoking inside when you

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Speaker 1: found out her daughter was pregnant. What why one of

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Speaker 1: these mother in laws being normal? I didn't want to

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Speaker 1: subject my child to that, which is totally fair. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: we want a healthy child. The one caveat to this

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Speaker 1: arrangement being we would go in a couple of weeks

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Speaker 1: to get a paternity test done. She very happily agreed, which, okay,

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Speaker 1: seems initially good. Yeah, her reaction actually washed away some

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Speaker 1: of the fears I had about her possibly cheating on me.

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Speaker 1: So she lives with me for a couple of weeks

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Speaker 1: and we go and get the test done. We find

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Speaker 1: out the child is not mine. No, and like a

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Speaker 1: switch is flipped, I honestly no longer care about that

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Speaker 1: kid anymore and tell her to pack up her shit

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Speaker 1: and get out of my house. Hate on board.

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Speaker 2: Baby, you feed us.

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Speaker 1: Daddy, I'm not gonna feed you. That's right, Go feed

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Speaker 1: us and me. This was a week ago. She moved

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Speaker 1: her stuff back to her parents' house, but is staying

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Speaker 1: with a friend to avoid the cigarette smoke and other

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Speaker 1: problems there. She her friends, and even a few of

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Speaker 1: our mutual friends are texting and messaging me about how

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Speaker 1: I'm a terrible person for doing that to an innocent child,

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Speaker 1: that I have plenty of room in my home and

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Speaker 1: I should just help her out. I feel like I've

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Speaker 1: been through the emotional ringer of these past few months,

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Speaker 1: and I've been through every emotion I am capable of feeling.

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Speaker 1: This man is octu. He's been through a lot. Oh,

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Speaker 1: he really has. Yeah, and it doesn't like I mean,

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Speaker 1: she kind of built this, this terrible situation for herself.

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Speaker 2: She broke the trust and had a baby with another person.

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Speaker 1: While they were in a relationship, Like, come on, and

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Speaker 1: he's been through a lot of emotions, I mean, from

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Speaker 1: realizing I was possibly a father, to the betrayal I

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Speaker 1: felt when her cheating was confirmed. Honestly, I feel so

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Speaker 1: emotionally raw, and sometimes I agree with them that maybe

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Speaker 1: I should take her back and just care for the kid.

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Speaker 1: Was I unfair to this unborn child? Am I a

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Speaker 1: total piece of shit for not wanting them in my

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Speaker 1: home in this vulnerable time for them? She cheated on me?

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Speaker 1: But is this a situation that I should suck it

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Speaker 1: up and take care of them anyway, she broke.

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Speaker 2: The trust and this he did not have the child

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Speaker 2: with her, so the child isn't her responsibility. It does.

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Speaker 2: It suck that she's kind of like the doesn't have

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Speaker 2: the greatest place to go. It does, but it's just

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Speaker 2: not I think he at a bare minimum deserves some

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Speaker 2: space to like think through and figure out because it's

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Speaker 2: not his child.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, and also like all these friends that are being like, yo,

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Speaker 1: you should like take care of this kid, flip it

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Speaker 1: back on them being like, hey, this baby isn't mine,

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Speaker 1: This baby isn't yours. How about you example and take

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Speaker 1: care of this baby that is also not yours.

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Speaker 2: Yes, it's like, hey, hey there's a poor defenseles baby.

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Speaker 2: That's that's you know, not going to have the best setup.

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Speaker 2: We're both we both know this person and have no

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Speaker 2: relation to it whatsoever.

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Speaker 1: So by all goings means take care of This is

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Speaker 1: a absolutely awful, uh situation. But I don't think OP

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Speaker 1: is actually like responsible or shouldn't be OP.

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Speaker 2: Again, it sucks, but I release you, Op. You're free

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Speaker 2: to go. You are not the fly away. You beautiful dove,

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Speaker 2: beautiful bird,