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Speaker 1: Paulin.

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Speaker 2: Thank you so much, dear blog. As you guys know,

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Speaker 2: my husband Hobby and I'm we are a different kind

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Speaker 2: of couple when we come when it comes down to fighting.

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Speaker 2: I know sometimes I can take it to hell necklace

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Speaker 2: for everybody. Everybody gets it, not just Hobby, but the

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Speaker 2: way we fight is very not traditional and it's almost

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Speaker 2: kind of silly. But to me it means a lie

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Speaker 2: and it means something when we fight, because my fights

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Speaker 2: with him are and I know we've talked about before

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Speaker 2: where like I got upset once and I cried because

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Speaker 2: he called me a clown and I was very upset.

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Speaker 2: I was very very hurt. I was like, I'm not

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Speaker 2: being a clown, Like I'm actually very serious about the topic.

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Speaker 1: And I actually see Hobby with his straight face and

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Speaker 1: very little emotion calling you.

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Speaker 2: A cloud, like stop being a clown, and it is like,

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Speaker 2: I I can't.

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Speaker 1: I Also, I have to say I don't have the

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Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever had the bulls to call

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Speaker 1: someone i'm dating a clown. Yeah, No, I don't think

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Speaker 1: i've ever. No I've said I've said, I.

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Speaker 2: Said, I've said worse right, No, I've said I've said worse.

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Speaker 1: I've said worse than that, but they may or may

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Speaker 1: not have earned the title.

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Speaker 2: But why else may or may not being a clown

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Speaker 2: in that moment. But our latest one is he doesn't

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Speaker 2: believe me about something and it makes me so angry.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, can you just admit this?

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Speaker 1: And he won't.

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Speaker 2: I have told him time and time again. I'm like, listen,

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Speaker 2: you're a hard working man, Like I see you out here,

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Speaker 2: you aren't working okay, And I was like, but do

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Speaker 2: you understand that I can out hustle you, so I

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Speaker 2: run laps around you when it comes to my hustle.

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Speaker 2: So our latest my husband, who can hustle?

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Speaker 1: Yes, like this are funny. Why is this even an

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Speaker 1: argument worth having? That's a rhetorical question. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: We've just gotten into a couple of times and I'm like, bro,

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Speaker 2: like I could run laps around you. My life is

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Speaker 2: different today. I'm like the primary caregiver for our daughter,

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Speaker 2: like hobbies, working two jobs, like I am the home

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Speaker 2: my daughter after I get off the radio, So like,

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Speaker 2: I get it. But I was like, if we switch

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Speaker 2: places so quick, do you understand the laps I would

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Speaker 2: run around you like I am a hustler at heart.

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Speaker 2: That is who I am. I'm like, you cannot take

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Speaker 2: it away from me. And I was like, but you

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Speaker 2: knew me. I was like I was doing this, I

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Speaker 2: was working there, I was doing I was always going

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Speaker 2: outside and getting some money. And he's like, that's not true.

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Speaker 2: He's like, you would be running errands, which is not

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Speaker 2: wrong to target. You'd be returning stuff. You put your

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Speaker 2: little dress out and go to the nightclub, then go

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Speaker 2: to work two hours later and think that you were hustling, Like,

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Speaker 2: but she were just out, you were outside.

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Speaker 1: I don't like that, you know. I like Hobby.

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Speaker 2: No, I love him. I love him so much. But

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Speaker 2: like he's not wrong with that part. Like I would

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Speaker 2: just go out and like party, yes, but I would

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Speaker 2: hustle before that, like I would always get some money. Like,

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Speaker 2: don't get me wrong, Like I'm a hard worker. And

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Speaker 2: I think he and I don't like align with that

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Speaker 2: because he sees a different, a softer side of me.

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Speaker 2: Let's just say I'm in my soft girl era, Like

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Speaker 2: I'm not like necessarily taking I mean I am taking

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Speaker 2: care of right, I'm his wife, he takes care of us.

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Speaker 2: You have a whole other company.

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Speaker 1: What do you say, I don't think that.

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Speaker 2: Multiply inside her, but it's nothing to him.

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Speaker 1: I will say this you you you are a very

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Speaker 1: hard worker, and you are a hustler. Now, you got

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Speaker 1: a lot of balls in the air. We don't catch

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Speaker 1: them all. They're sad. I mean we you know, we're

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Speaker 1: we're real turing, we're spray tanning where ye philanthropising a.

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Speaker 2: Bag business brings in a lot.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I was gonna say, we're not necessarily reaching the

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Speaker 1: pinnacle of any one particular thing. I mean, we got

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Speaker 1: a lot of balls in the air, but the world thing,

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Speaker 1: and we don't always maybe get them all as high

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Speaker 1: as they can go. But how do we know, Paulina,

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Speaker 1: you haven't sold a house. Okay, you haven't finished her.

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Speaker 1: You haven't sold You have to finish your the test

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Speaker 1: like you've coming here and been like I'm a real

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Speaker 1: tour Well we gotta do that. But what I will

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Speaker 1: say is all of that represents my argument, which is

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Speaker 1: that you are constantly trying different things, and you are

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Speaker 1: a hustler, and so I don't I don't know that.

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Speaker 1: That's also even if you weren't not an argument I'm

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Speaker 1: willing to have. I'm not willing to tell the person

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Speaker 1: unless they are really lazy, which you are not. I

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Speaker 1: am not willing to tell the person updating that they

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Speaker 1: don't do enough. And I'm not saying that's what he

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Speaker 1: would say exactly right, Well, this is not a fight

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Speaker 1: I'm willing to have. If you want to be the

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Speaker 1: biggest hustler in the house, then just be the biggest hustler.

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Speaker 2: Make me the biggest hustler. I want to be hustling daddy, right,

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Speaker 2: And like that's the thing too. He didn't even know

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Speaker 2: me back in the day, even before I worked on

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Speaker 2: this show. Like I was a student full time, working

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Speaker 2: with the Park diship full time right interning at a

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Speaker 2: radio station like in Chicago. I was doing it all

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Speaker 2: and I will Dan if I do, damned if I don't.

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Speaker 1: I would let you have this one because I think

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Speaker 1: the evidence is there that you're that you're trying different

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Speaker 1: things all the time, and uh, and so I would

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Speaker 1: let you have this is not we're not, We're not.

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Speaker 1: That's real. And he's a firefighter and he does his thing,

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Speaker 1: and he's just I'm not getting into the who works

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Speaker 1: harder argument because I just don't think you know, unless.

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Speaker 2: You want to get into.

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Speaker 1: That unless there was something where I need to spend

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Speaker 1: more money than you because of it. I mean I

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Speaker 1: suppose that you could get into like if if I

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Speaker 1: don't know, yeah, if it had like a quantifiable like, hey,

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Speaker 1: we need to go do this because I work harder

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Speaker 1: than you and I have you know, I don't know,

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Speaker 1: like maybe we couldn't afford it or that kind of converse.

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Speaker 1: But like as far as who works harder and who

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Speaker 1: does more not doing it.

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Speaker 2: And I agree with you too, and maybe because he's

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Speaker 2: like a traditional job, right, like he's a firefighter, he's

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Speaker 2: like a salary. So I think that's a big argument

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Speaker 2: in household A lot it's like, well I have this

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Speaker 2: traditional check or whatever, and then we worked a different industry,

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Speaker 2: right are we got to hustle? You know? So I

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Speaker 2: think a lot of people.

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Speaker 1: I don't think this is really work, and a lot

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Speaker 1: of people, honestly, and a lot of people I will

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Speaker 1: say this much. I would think the argument of you

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Speaker 1: wanting to be a radio personality and then you getting

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Speaker 1: a job upstairs in a different department. I mean, everyone

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Speaker 1: in this room has a hustle story. Kiki, you know,

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Speaker 1: and Paulina you have. You have very special hustle stories

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Speaker 1: that were unconventional that led you to where you wanted

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Speaker 1: to be. That in itself, with nothing else, represents hustle

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Speaker 1: to me. You are now on the show, you've been

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Speaker 1: on the show for a long time. Are you doing

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Speaker 1: great that that in itself is enough of a hustle

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Speaker 1: argument for me