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Speaker 1: It's that time. It's that time. Buckle up and hold

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Speaker 1: on tight, Strawberry Letta, All right, here we go. You're crazy,

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Speaker 1: Steve subject, what's to do? Hello, Steve, Shirley and Gang.

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Speaker 1: I know the answer, but sometimes you have to hear

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Speaker 1: it from someone else. Here it is. I have been

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Speaker 1: in this relationship for seven months. It is a good

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Speaker 1: relationship up until April. That's when all hell broke loose.

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Speaker 1: She was in a relationship for eight years. She says,

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Speaker 1: it was hell on earth. She brought her problems forward

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Speaker 1: into our relationship. Check this out. We got to go

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Speaker 1: to bed when she's ready. I get the cookie on

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Speaker 1: her time and the way she wanted, and only in

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Speaker 1: the bedroom. If I get mad or upset, it's stupid.

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Speaker 1: No one's feelings matter but hers. If I go to

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Speaker 1: the car, it's where are you going? She questions. Any

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Speaker 1: cell phone calls I get, but I cannot question hers.

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Speaker 1: If we go out to a city where we will

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Speaker 1: not see people, we know after seven months we have

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Speaker 1: not taken any pictures. Oh and if we go out,

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Speaker 1: I cannot touch her in any way. From October oh eight,

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Speaker 1: I have shown her mad love, but got back. I

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Speaker 1: know I got to cut my ties with her. But

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Speaker 1: like I say, sometimes you got to hear it from

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Speaker 1: someone else. All right, you already know. I mean you

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Speaker 1: said it in your letter, you know, So what are

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Speaker 1: you doing? Get out of this mess? This woman has

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Speaker 1: issues clearly, but um, you know, how did you get here?

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Speaker 1: And what really went down? What exactly happened? I don't

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Speaker 1: get that. And what what is eight years of her

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Speaker 1: pure hell with someone else have to do with you?

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Speaker 1: I mean, you didn't cause it, You weren't there. You know,

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Speaker 1: she just has not let this situation go. She brought

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Speaker 1: her old baggage of her old relationship for you to

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Speaker 1: deal with in this relationship. And you know, my question

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Speaker 1: to you again is have you tried to work it

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Speaker 1: out before it got this bad? And if the answers yes,

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Speaker 1: I mean, what else can you do? You know, it

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Speaker 1: seems like you've done everything. You know, when you get

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Speaker 1: tired your lead. She's got issues. This whole relationship has issues. Steve. Yeah, okay,

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Speaker 1: I don't know on this one. I need a drinking

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Speaker 1: I see you're pouring water. Oh sign? What to do?

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Speaker 1: What's to do? Hi? Steve, Shirley and Gang. Okay, When

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Speaker 1: a man writes like that. I just want you all

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Speaker 1: know some little stuff here. You've got issues with that?

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Speaker 1: Hi Steve, Shirley and Gang? Who who talks like that? Hi? Gang? No,

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Speaker 1: it was written by That's why that's segment something negative.

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Speaker 1: You would not say anything though. It would be all

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Speaker 1: right though, but you know a week try to keep

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Speaker 1: you from saying something stupid. Had to be stupid. Then

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Speaker 1: I can't say nothing stuff that. That is a point, Steve,

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Speaker 1: what what was the point? The point was you hired

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Speaker 1: him to be stupid. Now he can't say anything stupid.

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Speaker 1: To make up your you confused? Right back to the letter.

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Speaker 1: We're digressing. Uh, young man, guy, gang, whoever you are,

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Speaker 1: listen to me, get out. There's dangerous signs in this letter,

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Speaker 1: and I'm gonna share it with you. Obviously you're young

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Speaker 1: and you don't see them. But here's the part you

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Speaker 1: have a problem with, one part that you might not.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna have to get over this soon. Check this out.

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Speaker 1: We go to bed when she ready, I get the

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Speaker 1: cookie on her time and the way she wanted, and

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Speaker 1: no one's feeling doesn't matter but her. Okay, that's pretty

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Speaker 1: much how it goes. I hate to break hate did

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Speaker 1: not get expectations down. You can't get the cooking less

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Speaker 1: they get it to you, and they gotta want to

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Speaker 1: tell you right now they do it and they don't

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Speaker 1: want to You ain't even gonna like it. So that's

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Speaker 1: pretty much how it goes. Wrap your mind around that

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Speaker 1: and gonna have yourself a happy life. But you got

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Speaker 1: bigger problems though, And I'm gonna share the line with you.

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Speaker 1: After seven months, we have not taken any pictures and

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Speaker 1: or if we go out, I cannot touch her in

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Speaker 1: any way. That is the line we are focusing on.

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Speaker 1: When I come back, you can't take no pictures with it,

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Speaker 1: and you can't touch her in anyway. I will share

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Speaker 1: with you why as soon as we come back. Um,

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Speaker 1: this young guy wants to know what to do. He's

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Speaker 1: been dating this woman and had a great relationship for

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Speaker 1: seven months when all hell broke loose. She was in

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Speaker 1: relationship for eight years. She said it was hell on earth.

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Speaker 1: She bought her problems for it in our relationship. Check

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Speaker 1: this out. We gotta go to bed when she ready.

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Speaker 1: I get to cookie on her time and the way

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Speaker 1: she wanted, and only in the bedroom if I get

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Speaker 1: mad up said, it's stupid. No one's feelings matters but hers.

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Speaker 1: where we will not see people we know. After seven months,

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Speaker 1: we do go out, I cannot touch her in anyway. Okay,

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Speaker 1: what does that mean, you said, Oh, yeah, I'll tell

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Speaker 1: you what it is. And from October ave I've shown

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Speaker 1: her Mad Love eight but only got back. I know,

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Speaker 1: I gotta cut my ties with it. But like I say, something,

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Speaker 1: you gotta sometimes you got to hear it from someone else. Well,

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Speaker 1: here's first of all, you do have to cut your

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Speaker 1: ties because this is going nowhere. Let me tell you

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Speaker 1: a couple of reasons why it's going nowhere. Number one,

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Speaker 1: she's still in relationship. That's number one. She's leading a

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Speaker 1: double life. She cannot be seen with you in public

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Speaker 1: showing any form of affection. That can be no photos

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Speaker 1: of her. She has a double photo unless you're with

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Speaker 1: Jennifer Lopez, who is famous. Then really won't get to

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Speaker 1: know pictures and don't touch me unless she just can't

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Speaker 1: stand your stupid being. That could be it. I think

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Speaker 1: you're right, But here is the thing you gotta be

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Speaker 1: cannot touch her in any way. Were you're not listening

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Speaker 1: In the letter she said she was in the relationship

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Speaker 1: that was hell on earth. That hell on earth she

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Speaker 1: talking about. You put your hands on and take a picture,

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Speaker 1: and you're gonna find out what the hell the hell

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Speaker 1: is she talking about? Again, You're gonna find out what

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Speaker 1: the hell on the hell is she talking about? Car

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Speaker 1: set there as a man somewhere lurking, and she know

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Speaker 1: and just leave them. Dudes is hard to leave hell

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Speaker 1: giving dudes is way ignorant. He is somewhere in the bushes.

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Speaker 1: You're gonna put your arms around it. He's gonna spring

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Speaker 1: know why. You're getting your ask by the silver back,

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Speaker 1: But the silver back gonna come up hand. Whoop, you're behind.

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Speaker 1: Now you're gonna get caught off God cause you're young,

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Speaker 1: you're stupid. You're trying to love or take pictures and

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Speaker 1: a click, click, come on that that relationship. The silver

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Speaker 1: Back is gonna come in there and bite both your

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Speaker 1: elbows off. Whatever. You know, we gotta go. You can

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Speaker 1: Letter at my Girls surely, And I want to say

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