WEBVTT - SYSK Selects: How Dying Works

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<v Speaker 1>Hi everyone, Hope you're having a good weekend. Here's a

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<v Speaker 1>podcast about dying from September nine, two. Uh. It is

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<v Speaker 1>My Stuff You Should Know. Select pick for the week

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<v Speaker 1>How Dying Works. This is a tough one, but necessary

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<v Speaker 1>and this may be as much or more so than

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<v Speaker 1>any other show we've ever done. We got a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of feedback on on just understanding the process of dying

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<v Speaker 1>literally physiologically. Has helped so many people over the years,

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<v Speaker 1>over the past five or six years, when their own

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<v Speaker 1>relatives are going through this kind of thing. So I'm

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<v Speaker 1>glad it's help people out in the past and hopefully

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<v Speaker 1>it will in the future. So, uh, enjoy maybe the

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<v Speaker 1>wrong word, but I hope you learned something today with

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<v Speaker 1>How Dying Works. Welcome to Stuff you Should Know, a

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<v Speaker 1>production of My Heart Radios How Stuff Works. Hey, and

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<v Speaker 1>welcome to the podcast. I'm Josh Clark, There's Charles w

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<v Speaker 1>Chuck Bryant, How you do It? Hey, and Jerry's over there.

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<v Speaker 1>Jerry for the first time, just saw a meme that's

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<v Speaker 1>been out for a couple of years. Yeah, that's that happened.

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<v Speaker 1>That's like when you rec rolled me like two years

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<v Speaker 1>after it was popular. You're like, isn't that the best? Well,

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<v Speaker 1>I was lying in Wait, yeah, I thought that happened. So,

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<v Speaker 1>And there's nothing more obnoxious than sending someone something and

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<v Speaker 1>be like sold it two years ago. Well, I'm so sorry.

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<v Speaker 1>I tried to show you something funny, right, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, Jerry just saw the do we even say

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<v Speaker 1>the mumble mouthed reporter maybe, Yeah, the lady who supposedly

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<v Speaker 1>had a migraine but appeared to have had a stroke,

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<v Speaker 1>reporting from the Grammy's in Los Angeles a couple of

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<v Speaker 1>years ago. Yeah. I still don't know whether it's okay

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<v Speaker 1>to laugh at that, because I don't know really what

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<v Speaker 1>happened to her. Well, we didn't laugh. We very solemnly

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<v Speaker 1>showed Jerry. Yeah yeah, and she laughed terrible. Jerry Station, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I've got one for you. I've got a bit of

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<v Speaker 1>an in show. It's not much, so get your hopes

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<v Speaker 1>up all right. Um? Have you ever heard of the

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<v Speaker 1>Population Reference Bureau? No? You have, big because I've mentioned

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<v Speaker 1>it before. I've mentioned this this article before. It's on

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<v Speaker 1>PRB dot org. It's called how Many People have Ever

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<v Speaker 1>Lived on Earth? And I don't know what we've mentioned

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<v Speaker 1>and maybe the population episode or something. But it's a

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<v Speaker 1>really cool little article by this demographer named Carl Hobb

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<v Speaker 1>h A U. B and he Um. There's even a

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<v Speaker 1>video of him explaining it if you couldn't get what

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<v Speaker 1>he was going with. But hobb Um he reckons that

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<v Speaker 1>modern humans people who are virtually indistinguishable from you or me,

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<v Speaker 1>aside from the fact that they're not wearing like any clothes.

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<v Speaker 1>Really um showed up about fifty thou years ago. So

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<v Speaker 1>hobb puts the population of humanity at two uh in

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<v Speaker 1>fifty BC. Okay, so from that point to two thousand eleven,

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<v Speaker 1>he extrapolates, does the math, does this little demography thing,

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<v Speaker 1>and hobb comes up with the number that one hundred

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<v Speaker 1>and seven billion, six hundred two million, seven hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>seven thousand, seven hundred nine people have ever lived between

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<v Speaker 1>fifty thousand BC and two thousand eleven. See, that's pretty neat,

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<v Speaker 1>it is. That's a lot of people. He says. That

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<v Speaker 1>means about six point five of that are alive right

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<v Speaker 1>now or were in two thousand eleven. Al Right, so

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<v Speaker 1>we're dying off. That's the point. All one hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>seven billion, six hundred two million, seven hundred seven thousand,

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<v Speaker 1>seven hundred ninety one of those people had one thing

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<v Speaker 1>in common, one thing aside from being humans, no, not

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<v Speaker 1>even not even yeah, yeah, they didn't have tax and

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<v Speaker 1>in fifty thousand BC they had running from sabre tooth

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<v Speaker 1>tigers death. It was death. That's the one thing all

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<v Speaker 1>one hundred and seven billions, six hundred two millions, seven

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<v Speaker 1>hundred seven thousand, seven hundred ninety one of those people

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<v Speaker 1>had in common. You know, when I was thinking of

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<v Speaker 1>your intro driving here today, I thought that'd be funny

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<v Speaker 1>if Josh was like, how long people been dying? Chuck,

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<v Speaker 1>and you know what, this wasn't that far off. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, he wouldn't do that. You're like, it'd be

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<v Speaker 1>way too boring. That's a good number. I like that.

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<v Speaker 1>Hundred seven billion, six hundred two million, seven one thousand

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<v Speaker 1>seven seven Yeah, yeah, and that includes you and me, Pal.

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<v Speaker 1>You know what that means. You're gonna die. I'm gonna die,

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<v Speaker 1>Jerry's gonna die at least two or three times. We're

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<v Speaker 1>all gonna die. Yeah. This is our dying podcast, and

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<v Speaker 1>we have covered just about every aspect of dying. Can

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<v Speaker 1>you die from a broken heart? How rigor mortis works.

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<v Speaker 1>What's the worst way to die? Um? Is there a

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<v Speaker 1>best way to die? Did we do that? That was

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<v Speaker 1>kind of in the is there was way to die? Yeah? Um,

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<v Speaker 1>we've covered everything from autopsy, peak oil, what can be

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<v Speaker 1>done with the dead body? Ninja's Yeah, well Ninja, at

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<v Speaker 1>least you should know better than that. Yeah. We really

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<v Speaker 1>have danced around everything except just how dying works. And

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<v Speaker 1>this is gonna be a sad podcast in many ways

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<v Speaker 1>and gruesome in some ways. Yeah, because we're gonna touch

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<v Speaker 1>on some of this stuff we hit on in like

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<v Speaker 1>rigor mortris and autopsies and the actual dying process. Right,

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<v Speaker 1>But I mean, so brace yourself. And I've mentioned this

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<v Speaker 1>guy scores of times at least, but as the it's

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<v Speaker 1>a Charles Man. You thinking of the great psychologist Ernest Becker.

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<v Speaker 1>Shout out to our pal Joe Randazzo, who's like in

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<v Speaker 1>the Becker Now, Ernest, Ernest, Ernest, you're thinking of Max Ernest. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>Ernest Becker um wrote the Denial of Death seminal work

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<v Speaker 1>that basically says, we're all just doing everything we came

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<v Speaker 1>to think about our own demise, and there is some

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<v Speaker 1>sort of health, whether it's spiritual, emotional. There's some sort

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<v Speaker 1>of health or well being I think from facing the

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<v Speaker 1>fact that you're going to die and talking about it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>so let's talk about death, baby, Let's talk about you

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<v Speaker 1>and me. Let's do it. Okay. So Molly Edmonds Um

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<v Speaker 1>who used to be on Sminty stef Mom never told

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<v Speaker 1>you we call it sminty Um wrote this one, and

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<v Speaker 1>I think it is interesting. And I usually don't like

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<v Speaker 1>it when article's day like the definition of blah blah blah.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's kind of interesting that in the first encyclopedia

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<v Speaker 1>it was just the separation of the soul from the body,

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<v Speaker 1>and now it's you know, thirty times that long in

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<v Speaker 1>the encyclopedia, right, And that's just sort of indicative of

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<v Speaker 1>how we used to think of it and how I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know if it's ironic or not, but how medical

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<v Speaker 1>science has complicated that over the years. Yeah, well it's

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<v Speaker 1>definitely ironic because I mean, we used to be confident

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<v Speaker 1>that we understood death. It's like that person isn't moving anymore.

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<v Speaker 1>If you ask him what he wants to eat, he's

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<v Speaker 1>not going to respond. If you choose something for him

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<v Speaker 1>to eat, like a block of cheese, it's not going

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<v Speaker 1>to be swallowed like, yeah, that's death. And since there

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<v Speaker 1>was perhaps a lot more religiousness associated with death and

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<v Speaker 1>dying than there is today, um, that kind of underscored

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<v Speaker 1>the belief and death. It's the soul departing from the body.

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<v Speaker 1>And what what more do you want to know, egghead?

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<v Speaker 1>It's death? Well yeah, and uh, way back, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>a fe d years ago, you'd call him a priest

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<v Speaker 1>and they they'd check the body, see if it's breathing,

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<v Speaker 1>and say, yep, they're dead, and that was pretty much it.

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<v Speaker 1>The doctor wasn't even involved at that point. Well, there

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<v Speaker 1>may not have even been such a thing as doctors,

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<v Speaker 1>and if there were, they were wearing like masks that

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<v Speaker 1>made them look like crows to protect them from the plague.

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<v Speaker 1>So they weren't any better at its ascertaining death than

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<v Speaker 1>a priest was. That's true. When doctors did come along

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<v Speaker 1>and they invented things like the stethoscope, they could actually

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<v Speaker 1>check and see if there was a heartbeat. Before that,

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<v Speaker 1>there was bal force test, which I couldn't find out

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<v Speaker 1>a lot about this other than you stick needles into

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<v Speaker 1>the heart with little flags on it and see if

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<v Speaker 1>the flags move. I think that's pretty straightforward. Really, yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's about it. I mean, that's the test.

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<v Speaker 1>I'll buy that. And there were other tests that like

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<v Speaker 1>a priest who may have come to say whether you're

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<v Speaker 1>dead or not, would use like placing a feather above

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<v Speaker 1>the mouth or around the mouth or knows to see

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<v Speaker 1>if it moves. Um, the old mirror mirror trick that's

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<v Speaker 1>still you know, useful, it is, but only if the

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<v Speaker 1>mouth is still moist. If it's a dried mouth, it's

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<v Speaker 1>probably not going to fog up a mirror. Well, if

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<v Speaker 1>it's not breathing, it's not gonna fall up a mirror,

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<v Speaker 1>right exactly. Um. So I said that medical science has

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<v Speaker 1>complicated it, and that's exactly what's happened over the years,

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<v Speaker 1>because as we progressed with medicine, we discovered a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of ways to actually reverse death, like bring people back

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<v Speaker 1>from the dead, whether it's something as easy as CPR

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<v Speaker 1>or as complicated as you know, machines to help you

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<v Speaker 1>breathe and feed you. Right, And not only that, we've

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<v Speaker 1>entered this really awkward period um in human medical history

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<v Speaker 1>where the machines that can tell us whether someone is

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<v Speaker 1>alive or not are more advanced than our machines that

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<v Speaker 1>can bring a person back from death. Yeah. So we

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<v Speaker 1>have ways to sustain the body, but not necessarily the

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<v Speaker 1>the person, depending on your definition of death, like the

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<v Speaker 1>faintest trace of a brain wave maybe right. Yeah. So

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<v Speaker 1>we went from holding a feather under somebody's mouth or

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<v Speaker 1>knows to see if they're alive, to using MRI s

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<v Speaker 1>to see whether there's electrical activity. And we're finding that

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<v Speaker 1>all of these old signs, these old outward signs of

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<v Speaker 1>death don't necessarily mean that the person is dead. And

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<v Speaker 1>even if the person is dead, we have technology, like

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<v Speaker 1>you were saying, to resuscitate them. The question is if

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<v Speaker 1>we resuscitate them and they're still not talking, they still

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<v Speaker 1>don't tell you what they want to eat. Yeah, are

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<v Speaker 1>they alive? Well? Yeah, and we in this hasn't been

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<v Speaker 1>that long, you know, I mean in the fifty two

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<v Speaker 1>thousand years or whatever the people have been dying. It's

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<v Speaker 1>only been the past you know, sixty something that we've

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<v Speaker 1>had to come up with terms like persistent vegetative state

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<v Speaker 1>and irreversible coma because of those machines that can resuscitate

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<v Speaker 1>or sustain a body. And that was when the French

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<v Speaker 1>neurologists describe the coma DePass, which was a state beyond

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<v Speaker 1>coma basically uh, brain death, although that didn't come along

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<v Speaker 1>until technically until nineteen when Harvard Medical School did UH

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<v Speaker 1>basically defined it for the first time. Yeah, although they

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<v Speaker 1>didn't even call it brain death at the time. What

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<v Speaker 1>they call it just irreversible coma like you're not coming back.

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<v Speaker 1>Brain death was attacked on later. Um. So yeah, so

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<v Speaker 1>comma to pass umge, persistent vegetative state, brain death. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>all these things would indicate again that you're dead. The

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<v Speaker 1>problem is is we have these machines that can keep

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<v Speaker 1>your body warm, and can keep your chest rising and falling,

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<v Speaker 1>can keep your body going indefinitely. Um. But the thing

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<v Speaker 1>is is there's something that's not there, and does that

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<v Speaker 1>mean you're dead. There's been a lot of talk about, um,

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<v Speaker 1>exactly what constitutes death. Defining death is a very very

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<v Speaker 1>difficult thing to do, especially with through the advancement of

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<v Speaker 1>medical technology. It's kind of changed every time you come

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<v Speaker 1>with it. Okay, I got it. This is the definition

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<v Speaker 1>of death. Medical technology can provide some picture of a

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<v Speaker 1>state of consciousness or life that throws a wrench in

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<v Speaker 1>the works, you know, yeah, and it's um. Actually, after

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<v Speaker 1>it took one a presidential commission is when they finally

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<v Speaker 1>in the United States wrote a paper called Defining Death, Medical,

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<v Speaker 1>Legal and Ethical Issues and the Determination of Death. That

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<v Speaker 1>was the basis for the Uniform Determination of Death Act,

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<v Speaker 1>which basically rejected the Harvard idea that the higher brain,

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<v Speaker 1>which is like when your personality and your memories are gone,

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<v Speaker 1>the cortical brain that means you're dead. And they rejected

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<v Speaker 1>that in favor of the whole brain, which includes the

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<v Speaker 1>brain stem, which is what keeps you breathing and functioning. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>they rejected in favor of that. So Harvard was like, right, Um,

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<v Speaker 1>I I I don't know. I think I subscribed to

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<v Speaker 1>the higher brain death definition of death. Yeah. Um, the

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<v Speaker 1>brain stem, I'm yeah, it's pretty significant. Sure, Um, you

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<v Speaker 1>can be born with just a brain stem. We talked

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<v Speaker 1>about Mike the headless chicken before. Yeah, Um, he had

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<v Speaker 1>his head cut off which included his brain. His brain

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<v Speaker 1>stem still there and he's a chicken, so it didn't

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<v Speaker 1>really matter. Um, but that is a there's a huge

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<v Speaker 1>division between the two because there's a big difference between

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<v Speaker 1>breathing and being able to swallow for yourself and making

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<v Speaker 1>a conscious decision whether again what you want to eat

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<v Speaker 1>right there, or having memories or just reacting to people

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<v Speaker 1>aside from like you know, physical reaction. Right. Yes, and

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<v Speaker 1>that's one of the one of the there's a whole

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<v Speaker 1>article on brain death. Maybe we'll do that one. I

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<v Speaker 1>thought we did that now I think we did it

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<v Speaker 1>in the organ donation Procurement episode. We talked about brain

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<v Speaker 1>death and testing for brain death like they shoot ice

0:13:39.640 --> 0:13:42.400
<v Speaker 1>cold water in your ear canal. Definitely remember covering at

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<v Speaker 1>some point. Yeah, I think it was in the organ

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<v Speaker 1>donation moment where maybe living wills. Obviously we might have

0:13:48.240 --> 0:13:50.960
<v Speaker 1>touched on it there. We did. We did wills, but

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<v Speaker 1>we hit on living wills. But you know you mentioned organs.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't think we said that. That was a big

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<v Speaker 1>kind of a quandary. In the nineteen sixties. Um, in

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<v Speaker 1>late I'm sorry, mid nineteen fifties, and then really in

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<v Speaker 1>the nineteen sixties is when we went oregan transplant crazy.

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<v Speaker 1>Um actually kind of not just the United States, all

0:14:09.880 --> 0:14:14.320
<v Speaker 1>over the world. Doctors said, hey, we can actually give

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<v Speaker 1>people a shot at life because we can now transplant

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<v Speaker 1>kidneys and lungs and hearts. The problem was, and this

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<v Speaker 1>is sort of one of the sad things that Molly

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<v Speaker 1>points out, is that the definition of death kind of

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<v Speaker 1>came about, was hurried along, maybe because we needed organs

0:14:32.320 --> 0:14:35.480
<v Speaker 1>from these bodies that we're still technically alive, which is

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<v Speaker 1>a very ghoulish proposition. I mean, it makes sense from

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<v Speaker 1>a very utilitarian standpoint. It's like this guy doesn't even

0:14:41.680 --> 0:14:43.920
<v Speaker 1>know he's laying there. Yeah, and he's got a great

0:14:44.000 --> 0:14:47.400
<v Speaker 1>kidney that could go to his sister who knows that

0:14:47.440 --> 0:14:49.240
<v Speaker 1>she needs a kidney or she's gonna die, and she's

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<v Speaker 1>got kids that she wants to hang out with, and like,

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<v Speaker 1>can put this kidney to good use, So let's let's

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<v Speaker 1>figure this out. But um, as Molly says, like most

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<v Speaker 1>developed countries have signed onto the brains where it's like

0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:07.200
<v Speaker 1>you're brain can no longer keep you alive, like on

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<v Speaker 1>your own, you can't swallow, you can't take a breath

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<v Speaker 1>for yourself, so you're dead. Um. The problem is that's

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<v Speaker 1>that's just that's different. That's a much m it's much more.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a narrower definition of deaths. And I think that

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<v Speaker 1>that probably rules out a lot of people who might

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<v Speaker 1>otherwise be used to harvest organs harvest I know. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>all right, so let's talk about death itself. It's funny

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<v Speaker 1>that you, well, it's not funny, but out of all

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<v Speaker 1>the different ways people can die, I thought it seems

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<v Speaker 1>simplified to break it down into three ways, but that's

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<v Speaker 1>really kind of the three ways. Yeah. I think we

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<v Speaker 1>talked about that in autopsies two. Right. Yeah, it can

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<v Speaker 1>be an accident obviously. Um, that's called the UPSI death. Yeah,

0:15:52.800 --> 0:15:56.680
<v Speaker 1>the violent death, which is also an opsie. I guess, well,

0:15:56.720 --> 0:16:01.960
<v Speaker 1>not an it's tragic, yeah, homicider suicide. So took, let's

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<v Speaker 1>talk about what it's like to die from different types

0:16:04.160 --> 0:16:08.960
<v Speaker 1>of death. You dug this upo, Yeah, because I really

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<v Speaker 1>wanted to know, like what is it like to drown

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<v Speaker 1>or to be burned alive? Yeah? And people have survived

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<v Speaker 1>some of these things, didn't come back to tell the tale.

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<v Speaker 1>That's obviously the only way we're going to find this

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<v Speaker 1>stuff out or from lucky people. Um, drowning, I've always

0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:26.080
<v Speaker 1>heard drowning is a good way to go because it's

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<v Speaker 1>not so painful. Yeah. And then like the brain supposedly

0:16:29.040 --> 0:16:32.480
<v Speaker 1>releases endorphins at the end. Yeah, same with freezing I've

0:16:32.520 --> 0:16:36.880
<v Speaker 1>heard too. Maybe true. Um, although uh, drowning victims have

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<v Speaker 1>reported uh aside from the panic, a tearing and burning

0:16:41.240 --> 0:16:45.680
<v Speaker 1>sensation when your water starts filling with lungs and quickly,

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<v Speaker 1>hopefully really quickly after that is the feeling of calmness

0:16:50.360 --> 0:16:54.480
<v Speaker 1>that overcomes in tranquility. Yeah. Um, heart attack. You've got

0:16:54.480 --> 0:16:58.280
<v Speaker 1>the squeezing chests, pain in your chest or your left arm. Yeah,

0:16:58.400 --> 0:17:00.920
<v Speaker 1>like I weight on your chest. Um. What I didn't

0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:05.040
<v Speaker 1>know is that because of the heart not delivering oxygen

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<v Speaker 1>to the brain any longer, you can lose consciousness. Um,

0:17:07.880 --> 0:17:11.600
<v Speaker 1>within like ten seconds. Um, I didn't realize that. I

0:17:11.640 --> 0:17:15.600
<v Speaker 1>thought like it was there's a lot more to it. Well,

0:17:15.640 --> 0:17:18.320
<v Speaker 1>it depends. You know, everyone has their own signature heart

0:17:18.320 --> 0:17:23.360
<v Speaker 1>attack as well. Um. If you bleed out, I imagine

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<v Speaker 1>this is not one of the best ways to go. Um.

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<v Speaker 1>After about a liter and a half of blood, you're

0:17:30.040 --> 0:17:34.320
<v Speaker 1>gonna be thirsty and weak and anxious. Anything over too,

0:17:34.840 --> 0:17:37.480
<v Speaker 1>You're gonna be pretty confused and dizzy and probably lose

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<v Speaker 1>consciousness pretty soon after. And all of that would be

0:17:40.000 --> 0:17:42.879
<v Speaker 1>that would relate to how fast you're losing blood, and

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<v Speaker 1>it would probably be very unpleasant depending on how you're

0:17:45.720 --> 0:17:49.240
<v Speaker 1>losing blood, Like why because you would imagine that if

0:17:49.240 --> 0:17:51.600
<v Speaker 1>you're stabbed in the gut or something like that. Yeah,

0:17:51.840 --> 0:17:54.720
<v Speaker 1>you got the attendant pain in addition to this dying

0:17:54.760 --> 0:17:58.159
<v Speaker 1>from loss of blood or like man reservoir dogs. Yeah,

0:17:58.200 --> 0:18:00.520
<v Speaker 1>that was like one of the most are ways to

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<v Speaker 1>open a movie or not open. But they cut right

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<v Speaker 1>to that scene after the diner scene, right after the

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<v Speaker 1>walk Yeah. Yeah. Um. Electrocution. Um, if you're in your

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<v Speaker 1>house and you get electrocuted, could stop your heart right

0:18:13.720 --> 0:18:17.399
<v Speaker 1>then and there. And if you're in an electric chair,

0:18:18.240 --> 0:18:22.520
<v Speaker 1>you may have actually heated your brain up to the

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<v Speaker 1>point where you die or suffocated to death. Right. But

0:18:25.520 --> 0:18:30.679
<v Speaker 1>the there's indications that being electrocuted with enough voltage that

0:18:31.119 --> 0:18:36.600
<v Speaker 1>instantly you lose consciousness. That's the idea probably with the

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<v Speaker 1>quote un quote humane I'm sorry quote humane end quote.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna stop doing that. I'm going back to quote

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<v Speaker 1>unquote what if you fall from a height. If you

0:18:48.160 --> 0:18:53.399
<v Speaker 1>fall from a height, supposedly time slows, which is awful. Yeah,

0:18:53.840 --> 0:18:57.520
<v Speaker 1>it's like, well, you're gonna experience all of this. Yeah,

0:18:57.760 --> 0:19:02.520
<v Speaker 1>that's uh. Yeah, the idea that you that you really

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<v Speaker 1>can take it all in. That's really awful. So they've

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<v Speaker 1>they did a study of UM jumpers from the Golden

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<v Speaker 1>gate Bridge, which is seventy five ms what is that

0:19:15.000 --> 0:19:20.320
<v Speaker 1>two hundred thirty ft it's high enough, and they they

0:19:20.440 --> 0:19:23.719
<v Speaker 1>found evidence that a lot of them died from exploded lungs,

0:19:23.760 --> 0:19:28.280
<v Speaker 1>exploded hearts, um. Their organs were all cut up from

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<v Speaker 1>their ribs, which would indicate death was pretty much instantaneous. Yeah.

0:19:33.480 --> 0:19:35.560
<v Speaker 1>We talked about that on something too recently, I think,

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<v Speaker 1>or maybe I heard it someone else talking about it.

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<v Speaker 1>It's pretty bad way to go. What the Golden gate

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<v Speaker 1>Bridge or just just falling dying from a height? Yeah,

0:19:42.800 --> 0:19:44.920
<v Speaker 1>I can't remember. I was talking to about jumping in

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<v Speaker 1>the water. I was like, what actually kills you when

0:19:46.359 --> 0:19:48.320
<v Speaker 1>you jump in the water from the eye and it

0:19:48.359 --> 0:19:51.440
<v Speaker 1>was like your organs smashed into each other and explode. Yeah,

0:19:51.520 --> 0:19:54.119
<v Speaker 1>I guess from any height. Yeah, when you when you

0:19:54.160 --> 0:19:57.960
<v Speaker 1>die from that would be from organ explosion or whatever. Yeah,

0:19:58.119 --> 0:20:03.399
<v Speaker 1>or you know the brain obviously if you go ahead first. Yeah,

0:20:03.440 --> 0:20:06.639
<v Speaker 1>that's UM. The long drop back in the day with

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<v Speaker 1>although they still you can get hung in certain states

0:20:10.840 --> 0:20:14.159
<v Speaker 1>if you choose really yeah, Washington State, and now you

0:20:14.200 --> 0:20:16.760
<v Speaker 1>can huh. Um, you can choose that as your method,

0:20:16.800 --> 0:20:19.600
<v Speaker 1>they'll build you the gallows and uh. The idea that

0:20:19.680 --> 0:20:22.119
<v Speaker 1>there is you want your neck to snap, otherwise he

0:20:22.359 --> 0:20:26.280
<v Speaker 1>died slower and you know, suffocate. The problem is there's

0:20:26.320 --> 0:20:29.440
<v Speaker 1>a study of thirty or four prisoners that found four

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<v Speaker 1>fifths of them died partly from asphyxiation. Really, that's the

0:20:33.960 --> 0:20:37.960
<v Speaker 1>wrong way to hang somebody, if you if you don't

0:20:38.000 --> 0:20:42.040
<v Speaker 1>snap their neck or they don't lose consciousness immediately, Um,

0:20:42.160 --> 0:20:46.680
<v Speaker 1>they sit there and hang and die of asphyxiation. That's

0:20:46.680 --> 0:20:49.920
<v Speaker 1>a bad way to go. Uh. And speaking of bad,

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<v Speaker 1>I think being burned to death maybe one of the worst.

0:20:53.480 --> 0:20:57.119
<v Speaker 1>And then what we came up with on the I

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<v Speaker 1>think so because you feel it, and you'd think, like

0:21:00.119 --> 0:21:02.080
<v Speaker 1>your nerve endings, that's what I thought, like, Oh, your

0:21:02.119 --> 0:21:05.840
<v Speaker 1>nerve endings are probably like stop responding quickly. But apparently

0:21:05.920 --> 0:21:07.560
<v Speaker 1>that's not the case. No, not only is that not

0:21:07.640 --> 0:21:12.440
<v Speaker 1>the case, apparently you're fire further sensitizes your nerve endings,

0:21:12.440 --> 0:21:16.720
<v Speaker 1>so you feel even more pain. Yeah, but luckily most people,

0:21:17.359 --> 0:21:20.560
<v Speaker 1>I think the vast majority of people who die in

0:21:20.640 --> 0:21:24.359
<v Speaker 1>fires actually die from smoke inhalation before they ever feel

0:21:24.359 --> 0:21:27.240
<v Speaker 1>pain from fire. Yeah, that are well, I don't know

0:21:27.240 --> 0:21:30.880
<v Speaker 1>about before they feel pain, but hopefully quick enough. Well,

0:21:30.880 --> 0:21:34.720
<v Speaker 1>you know, carbon monoxide sinks, so like well there's a

0:21:34.800 --> 0:21:38.280
<v Speaker 1>lot of smoke you are download to the ground and

0:21:38.320 --> 0:21:41.160
<v Speaker 1>that's where the carbon carbon monoxide is. So you're annailing

0:21:41.200 --> 0:21:44.760
<v Speaker 1>mostly that, So it's possible it's before it's true. And

0:21:44.800 --> 0:21:48.880
<v Speaker 1>then the natural death which is uh passing of old

0:21:48.880 --> 0:21:51.879
<v Speaker 1>age or disease. And here in this country we have

0:21:52.119 --> 0:21:54.320
<v Speaker 1>kind of whipped up a lot of the disease over

0:21:54.400 --> 0:21:58.880
<v Speaker 1>the years into into they've sniffed them off the case right, Well,

0:21:58.920 --> 0:22:01.040
<v Speaker 1>it depends like some of the ones that like kill

0:22:01.240 --> 0:22:05.919
<v Speaker 1>undeveloped countries, like diarrheal disease like dying from diarrhea. UM,

0:22:05.960 --> 0:22:08.480
<v Speaker 1>you don't have that much in the US, but we

0:22:08.640 --> 0:22:13.280
<v Speaker 1>have chronic disease like obesity and diabetes and UM cardio

0:22:13.320 --> 0:22:17.159
<v Speaker 1>pulmonary disease. UM, we have that downpat. I've got the

0:22:17.160 --> 0:22:19.320
<v Speaker 1>top five here. Actually, I think they're all in there,

0:22:19.320 --> 0:22:23.760
<v Speaker 1>aren't they. UM Heart is number one, Cancer is number two, UM,

0:22:23.920 --> 0:22:27.639
<v Speaker 1>lower respiratory is number three, strokers for an accidents or

0:22:27.800 --> 0:22:32.560
<v Speaker 1>five and it's a huge drop. Cancer and heart are

0:22:32.560 --> 0:22:35.600
<v Speaker 1>close to six. Hundred thousand, and then number three at

0:22:35.600 --> 0:22:38.199
<v Speaker 1>lower respiratories only a hundred and thirty eight thousand. So

0:22:38.880 --> 0:22:41.160
<v Speaker 1>that shows you what cancer and heart disease are doing

0:22:41.320 --> 0:22:43.280
<v Speaker 1>in the United States at least. And the upshot of

0:22:43.280 --> 0:22:45.760
<v Speaker 1>all this is that most of us are not going

0:22:45.840 --> 0:22:51.000
<v Speaker 1>to die suddenly, um, either by accident or by violent death. Yeah,

0:22:51.080 --> 0:22:53.200
<v Speaker 1>dying of old days didn't used to be a thing. No,

0:22:53.560 --> 0:22:55.119
<v Speaker 1>it was like, like a lot of ways to die,

0:22:55.160 --> 0:22:57.360
<v Speaker 1>but that wasn't one of them. You ticked off some

0:22:57.560 --> 0:23:04.760
<v Speaker 1>traveling night, or there is a dispute over grazing rights. Plague, Yeah,

0:23:04.800 --> 0:23:08.119
<v Speaker 1>you walked into a bear cave. Yeah, the plagues another

0:23:08.520 --> 0:23:11.400
<v Speaker 1>but um, yeah, old ages. It's kind of a new thing.

0:23:11.600 --> 0:23:16.520
<v Speaker 1>But it's one of the most um prevalent forms of

0:23:16.600 --> 0:23:21.840
<v Speaker 1>death in developed countries. It actually has its own name, frailty, Yeah,

0:23:21.840 --> 0:23:23.960
<v Speaker 1>which is great. It's sad, but it's great that now

0:23:24.000 --> 0:23:27.280
<v Speaker 1>we can live out our lives and and we're about

0:23:27.320 --> 0:23:29.560
<v Speaker 1>to talk about it. But sometimes the body, just like

0:23:29.600 --> 0:23:32.560
<v Speaker 1>any other machine, just stops working. It's not designed to

0:23:32.640 --> 0:23:37.680
<v Speaker 1>keep going indefinitely, and ultimately the system shuts down as

0:23:37.720 --> 0:23:41.639
<v Speaker 1>its subsystems shut down. Dude is shutting down every second

0:23:42.080 --> 0:23:46.160
<v Speaker 1>right right now are shutting down very slowly and for

0:23:46.240 --> 0:23:49.560
<v Speaker 1>that reason because you and I are both dying. I

0:23:49.560 --> 0:23:52.600
<v Speaker 1>guess once you're born, you start dying, or after you

0:23:52.640 --> 0:23:56.399
<v Speaker 1>stop growing, you start dying, right Is that just the

0:23:56.440 --> 0:24:00.520
<v Speaker 1>positive outlooker? But I mean like you're shedding sails and

0:24:00.600 --> 0:24:02.640
<v Speaker 1>like this is like the dying. We're in the midst

0:24:02.640 --> 0:24:05.080
<v Speaker 1>of the dying process. Just this natural system is in

0:24:05.119 --> 0:24:07.560
<v Speaker 1>the winding down, although it takes decades and we still

0:24:07.600 --> 0:24:11.200
<v Speaker 1>have plenty to do. Like you said, you're dying, I'm dying.

0:24:12.440 --> 0:24:16.159
<v Speaker 1>That's why they have a more specific definition of death,

0:24:16.600 --> 0:24:19.720
<v Speaker 1>which is um called active dying. Like you and I

0:24:19.760 --> 0:24:24.320
<v Speaker 1>are not actively dying right now. No, no, uh. Instead,

0:24:25.480 --> 0:24:27.919
<v Speaker 1>if we are actively dying, we're in the midst of

0:24:27.920 --> 0:24:32.040
<v Speaker 1>the dying process. Yeah, it has started. The dying processes started.

0:24:32.160 --> 0:24:36.320
<v Speaker 1>The descent, if you will, has started, right. So, Um,

0:24:36.480 --> 0:24:39.080
<v Speaker 1>all this kind of happens since different types of cells

0:24:39.600 --> 0:24:43.280
<v Speaker 1>die at different speeds, that's what it is. It's cell death.

0:24:44.000 --> 0:24:45.359
<v Speaker 1>Cellular I don't want to let the cat out of

0:24:45.400 --> 0:24:49.680
<v Speaker 1>the bag, but oxygen doesn't happen to different parts of

0:24:49.720 --> 0:24:53.360
<v Speaker 1>the body. Your cells are gonna die exactly, um, And

0:24:53.440 --> 0:24:56.719
<v Speaker 1>so as the cells die at different speeds, different systems

0:24:56.720 --> 0:24:59.560
<v Speaker 1>are going to shut down. But just from watching frail

0:25:00.080 --> 0:25:04.119
<v Speaker 1>people die of old age, um, they kind of have

0:25:04.400 --> 0:25:08.240
<v Speaker 1>like this, the the order in which it happens kind

0:25:08.240 --> 0:25:12.640
<v Speaker 1>of downpad. So there's the UM, there's the pre active

0:25:12.960 --> 0:25:17.240
<v Speaker 1>dying phase, which can take about three weeks, starts about

0:25:17.280 --> 0:25:20.920
<v Speaker 1>three weeks before death, two or three weeks. And then

0:25:20.920 --> 0:25:23.560
<v Speaker 1>there's the active dying phase, which can take a few days.

0:25:23.840 --> 0:25:26.040
<v Speaker 1>And obviously that's not set in stone. None of this

0:25:26.119 --> 0:25:28.640
<v Speaker 1>is set in stone, but this is all just um

0:25:28.960 --> 0:25:33.199
<v Speaker 1>kind of cumulative knowledge from observations of people dying in

0:25:33.280 --> 0:25:36.040
<v Speaker 1>like hospice and things like that. So you've got the

0:25:36.040 --> 0:25:39.440
<v Speaker 1>pre active phase of dying UM, and like I said,

0:25:39.480 --> 0:25:41.760
<v Speaker 1>it starts a couple of weeks ahead of the actual

0:25:41.880 --> 0:25:45.000
<v Speaker 1>death because we have this is a big deal right now,

0:25:45.040 --> 0:25:50.120
<v Speaker 1>what we're talking about, Like it's becoming very clear, um,

0:25:50.160 --> 0:25:53.760
<v Speaker 1>in our modern age, that death is not an instant,

0:25:53.880 --> 0:25:57.480
<v Speaker 1>it's not a moment. There's a process. Yeah, well unless

0:25:57.520 --> 0:26:00.760
<v Speaker 1>it isn't an instant. But yeah, old age die, yes,

0:26:01.840 --> 0:26:03.960
<v Speaker 1>or like other kinds of dying. But how about non

0:26:04.040 --> 0:26:07.239
<v Speaker 1>accidental dying. Okay, we'll call it that, because that's like

0:26:07.280 --> 0:26:10.040
<v Speaker 1>the instantaneous thing, right, and even sometimes in a very

0:26:10.040 --> 0:26:13.520
<v Speaker 1>short scale that can follow some of these you know,

0:26:15.800 --> 0:26:19.639
<v Speaker 1>oh yeah, I forgot it's audio, yes, nodding my head.

0:26:49.960 --> 0:26:54.399
<v Speaker 1>So the preactive phase of dying, Chuck, what do we got? Well, Um,

0:26:54.640 --> 0:26:57.000
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna start sleep, You're gonna get sleepy, You're not

0:26:57.000 --> 0:27:01.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna have much energy. You're gonna start sleeping more and more. Uh,

0:27:01.160 --> 0:27:04.520
<v Speaker 1>your skin might become cooler to the touch, might turn

0:27:04.560 --> 0:27:09.440
<v Speaker 1>a little bluish gray. Yeah, cyanosis. So what that's called

0:27:09.560 --> 0:27:12.040
<v Speaker 1>I was with us, it's just becoming oxygen deprived. Like

0:27:12.080 --> 0:27:14.959
<v Speaker 1>apparently your body's like, Okay, don't really need to use

0:27:15.000 --> 0:27:17.440
<v Speaker 1>the legs anymore because we're bedridden. So I'm gonna start

0:27:17.480 --> 0:27:21.760
<v Speaker 1>focusing more of the circulation on the inner organs. That

0:27:21.840 --> 0:27:24.520
<v Speaker 1>makes sense. Yeah, well that probably causes the modeling too,

0:27:24.680 --> 0:27:27.879
<v Speaker 1>which is, uh, your your skin can become sort of

0:27:27.920 --> 0:27:31.840
<v Speaker 1>reddish like splotchy, with reddish blue splotches as well. Right,

0:27:32.080 --> 0:27:36.880
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna, um, you're gonna be a little restless probably, Yeah,

0:27:36.960 --> 0:27:40.560
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna possibly come off as confused. Um, You're you're

0:27:40.560 --> 0:27:44.480
<v Speaker 1>not gonna be hungry. No, you're gonna probably withdraw from um,

0:27:44.640 --> 0:27:49.240
<v Speaker 1>social activities. You're gonna become a little a little withdrawn. Um.

0:27:49.600 --> 0:27:54.480
<v Speaker 1>You might wanna settle unfinished business with family. You might

0:27:54.520 --> 0:27:56.640
<v Speaker 1>request family come visit you for that kind of thing.

0:27:56.960 --> 0:27:59.920
<v Speaker 1>Oh sure, the non physical parts. That's definitely something you'd

0:28:00.080 --> 0:28:03.720
<v Speaker 1>be interested in doing. Right, But that's like, um, apparently

0:28:03.840 --> 0:28:08.399
<v Speaker 1>something that that people intuitively know like they need to.

0:28:09.440 --> 0:28:13.760
<v Speaker 1>Apparently patients know when they're dying. I've seen that happen.

0:28:13.960 --> 0:28:17.280
<v Speaker 1>And one of the one of the signs from UM

0:28:17.320 --> 0:28:21.000
<v Speaker 1>that's mentioned in hospice care palliative care UM is that

0:28:21.880 --> 0:28:25.520
<v Speaker 1>the patient may even state I'm dying, like I started,

0:28:26.080 --> 0:28:31.639
<v Speaker 1>it's coming. That's pretty common. Um. Yeah, and that's sad

0:28:31.840 --> 0:28:35.040
<v Speaker 1>that when you realize like, all right, this is this

0:28:35.119 --> 0:28:38.320
<v Speaker 1>is it, Like I feel myself, I'm gonna be gone soon.

0:28:39.120 --> 0:28:43.000
<v Speaker 1>But that's neat though, especially if you yeah, if you're like, okay,

0:28:43.040 --> 0:28:49.120
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna put everything in order then die happy or peacefully. Yeah,

0:28:49.280 --> 0:28:53.200
<v Speaker 1>that's neat that you have that that time to to

0:28:53.320 --> 0:28:55.480
<v Speaker 1>take care of that. Yeah, if you're fortunate enough to

0:28:55.520 --> 0:28:58.480
<v Speaker 1>go that way for sure. Back to physically, UM, you

0:28:58.480 --> 0:29:01.320
<v Speaker 1>you won't be able to heal from a wound or

0:29:01.320 --> 0:29:05.479
<v Speaker 1>and infection any longer. Yeah, you might um lose control

0:29:05.520 --> 0:29:08.840
<v Speaker 1>of your bladder and your bowels over the course of

0:29:08.920 --> 0:29:13.480
<v Speaker 1>some time. Um, you might be in pain, but chances

0:29:13.520 --> 0:29:15.719
<v Speaker 1>are here in the modern world they're gonna take care

0:29:15.720 --> 0:29:18.000
<v Speaker 1>of you in that respect, right. And again that's called

0:29:18.040 --> 0:29:21.240
<v Speaker 1>palliative care, where at some point it's very obvious that

0:29:21.280 --> 0:29:24.360
<v Speaker 1>you're going to die, um, and a lot of it

0:29:24.400 --> 0:29:27.880
<v Speaker 1>can be based on what you want, even even um,

0:29:27.960 --> 0:29:31.440
<v Speaker 1>without your wishes. There's probably a point in time where

0:29:32.400 --> 0:29:36.680
<v Speaker 1>medical science says, there's nothing we can do for you. Um,

0:29:36.760 --> 0:29:38.720
<v Speaker 1>we just want to make you comfortable, exactly, so we're

0:29:38.720 --> 0:29:42.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna give you pain meds. We're gonna like your your

0:29:42.240 --> 0:29:46.120
<v Speaker 1>care is being transferred over from a physician to who's

0:29:46.440 --> 0:29:48.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, wants to save your life and keep you

0:29:48.160 --> 0:29:52.840
<v Speaker 1>going to hospice workers, health care professionals who are trained

0:29:52.880 --> 0:29:55.160
<v Speaker 1>to just keep you as comfortable as possible for the

0:29:55.840 --> 0:29:58.640
<v Speaker 1>for the duration of your life. Right, Man, hats off

0:29:58.640 --> 0:30:02.240
<v Speaker 1>to those people. Yeah, like all health care professionals, of course,

0:30:02.280 --> 0:30:06.959
<v Speaker 1>but man, hospice nurses as tough stuff. You've got to be, like,

0:30:07.440 --> 0:30:09.959
<v Speaker 1>you've got to be made of the right qualities as

0:30:10.000 --> 0:30:12.680
<v Speaker 1>a human to be able to tackle something like that

0:30:12.760 --> 0:30:14.280
<v Speaker 1>and still get up and go to work every day

0:30:14.320 --> 0:30:16.760
<v Speaker 1>like they're literally in the business of dying. I mean,

0:30:17.160 --> 0:30:21.200
<v Speaker 1>very valuable, valuable service people provide. So that's the Um,

0:30:21.240 --> 0:30:24.840
<v Speaker 1>that's the preactive phase. That's the I'm getting ready to die.

0:30:24.840 --> 0:30:26.840
<v Speaker 1>I got a couple of weeks and all of my

0:30:26.920 --> 0:30:31.080
<v Speaker 1>systems are starting to wind down. In the active phase,

0:30:31.280 --> 0:30:34.880
<v Speaker 1>the systems are starting to shut down. Um, you may

0:30:35.080 --> 0:30:38.560
<v Speaker 1>not have consciousness, and if you do, you may. Uh.

0:30:38.960 --> 0:30:43.280
<v Speaker 1>If you are able to be aroused from conscious from unconsciousness,

0:30:43.360 --> 0:30:47.160
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna slip right back into it again. Possibly. Um,

0:30:47.320 --> 0:30:52.600
<v Speaker 1>you are probably and apparently families find this very disconcerting.

0:30:53.000 --> 0:30:56.440
<v Speaker 1>You're probably going to talk about people who are dead

0:30:56.440 --> 0:30:58.240
<v Speaker 1>as if they're in the room or you can see

0:30:58.280 --> 0:31:01.400
<v Speaker 1>them or hear them. Yeah, it's just just the mind slipping.

0:31:02.160 --> 0:31:05.200
<v Speaker 1>They don't know. Um. Hospice workers, from what I can tell,

0:31:05.360 --> 0:31:09.160
<v Speaker 1>tend to just treat it like it's real, treated on

0:31:09.240 --> 0:31:13.440
<v Speaker 1>its own terms. They're not saying it's real or it's

0:31:13.520 --> 0:31:16.240
<v Speaker 1>a hallucination or something like that, And they advise families

0:31:16.840 --> 0:31:19.800
<v Speaker 1>not to treat it like a hallucination, just to not

0:31:19.880 --> 0:31:22.640
<v Speaker 1>to correct them. Yeah, that makes sense, because you're there

0:31:22.680 --> 0:31:26.120
<v Speaker 1>to provide comfort, not say no, Grandpa, grandma has been

0:31:26.120 --> 0:31:28.720
<v Speaker 1>gone for years. Exactly why would you want to do that.

0:31:28.880 --> 0:31:31.440
<v Speaker 1>There is an exception to that. You would want to

0:31:31.440 --> 0:31:34.640
<v Speaker 1>do that if they're fearful from their visions, then you

0:31:34.680 --> 0:31:38.080
<v Speaker 1>can say that's it's not real. It's just you your brain,

0:31:38.680 --> 0:31:42.560
<v Speaker 1>that's not real or whatever. Again, all about comfort, yes,

0:31:43.000 --> 0:31:45.640
<v Speaker 1>but you don't want to contradict them if they're happy

0:31:45.800 --> 0:31:48.120
<v Speaker 1>or even saying it in a neutral tone. It's only

0:31:48.200 --> 0:31:50.040
<v Speaker 1>if they're they're fearful that you want to say that.

0:31:50.080 --> 0:31:53.080
<v Speaker 1>But apparently families are kind of like, oh god, they're

0:31:53.080 --> 0:31:56.200
<v Speaker 1>gone crazy, you know. But it's a it's a natural

0:31:56.280 --> 0:31:59.360
<v Speaker 1>part of the active dying process. Breathings can to become

0:31:59.640 --> 0:32:06.080
<v Speaker 1>really weird. Um, the patient's gonna stop breathing for disconcertingly

0:32:06.200 --> 0:32:09.960
<v Speaker 1>long periods of time. Yeah, that's just called Cheney strokes

0:32:10.160 --> 0:32:14.960
<v Speaker 1>respiration stokes sorry, Cheney Stokes name for John Cheney and

0:32:15.000 --> 0:32:18.680
<v Speaker 1>William Stokes obviously the first dudes who described it. Let's

0:32:18.720 --> 0:32:22.480
<v Speaker 1>get all the press quick. Deep breaths, sometimes very slow ones,

0:32:22.520 --> 0:32:26.760
<v Speaker 1>like you said, sometimes stopping altogether. Uh, And that is

0:32:26.800 --> 0:32:30.640
<v Speaker 1>caused by receptors in the heart and brain stem basically

0:32:30.720 --> 0:32:35.760
<v Speaker 1>being too sluggish to respond two different amounts of oxygen

0:32:35.760 --> 0:32:39.880
<v Speaker 1>and CEO two, and it's just kind of lagging behind. Again,

0:32:39.960 --> 0:32:42.280
<v Speaker 1>think of it as a machine that's just slowing down

0:32:42.880 --> 0:32:45.000
<v Speaker 1>and those receptors can't pick up on it in times,

0:32:45.000 --> 0:32:46.960
<v Speaker 1>so it's it doesn't know how to tell you to

0:32:47.000 --> 0:32:50.320
<v Speaker 1>breathe basically like at a steady rate. Um, we should

0:32:50.320 --> 0:32:56.200
<v Speaker 1>say that there isn't evidence that that is physically painful again,

0:32:56.480 --> 0:32:59.480
<v Speaker 1>like awful for the healthy person in the room. Yeah, yeah,

0:32:59.560 --> 0:33:01.920
<v Speaker 1>for the family watching it, you think that the person

0:33:02.000 --> 0:33:04.560
<v Speaker 1>is suffering. There's not evidence that they are in fact suffering,

0:33:05.400 --> 0:33:08.240
<v Speaker 1>but it seems like it. And that from what I

0:33:08.320 --> 0:33:12.080
<v Speaker 1>understand with palliative care, UM, not only making the patient

0:33:12.160 --> 0:33:15.560
<v Speaker 1>comfortable is one of the priorities. Making the family comfortable

0:33:15.600 --> 0:33:19.880
<v Speaker 1>as a priority as well, because how you die has

0:33:19.920 --> 0:33:22.760
<v Speaker 1>a very lasting impact on the people who are there

0:33:22.800 --> 0:33:27.120
<v Speaker 1>to witness your death for family, so UM, explaining that

0:33:27.160 --> 0:33:33.680
<v Speaker 1>they're not suffering, uh is helpful, but not necessarily enough. Yeah.

0:33:33.680 --> 0:33:36.800
<v Speaker 1>And I think actually this podcast itself could help like

0:33:36.960 --> 0:33:38.640
<v Speaker 1>some people, because I don't think a lot of people

0:33:38.680 --> 0:33:40.800
<v Speaker 1>do this sort of research. When they go into a

0:33:40.840 --> 0:33:43.960
<v Speaker 1>hospital room in the last hours of a loved one's life. Yeah,

0:33:44.000 --> 0:33:46.880
<v Speaker 1>and they may not be told. They may even if

0:33:46.920 --> 0:33:49.240
<v Speaker 1>it is explained to it might not sink in what

0:33:49.280 --> 0:33:53.280
<v Speaker 1>they're being told because you know, seeing somebody gasping for

0:33:53.320 --> 0:33:56.240
<v Speaker 1>breath and then being told that they're not really suffering,

0:33:56.360 --> 0:33:58.840
<v Speaker 1>those two things might not jibe. Well, yeah, you're you're

0:33:58.880 --> 0:34:01.800
<v Speaker 1>instinct that's probably trying to help. Yeah, Like they can't

0:34:01.800 --> 0:34:03.480
<v Speaker 1>breathe clearly, let's get a nurse in here. And the

0:34:03.560 --> 0:34:06.960
<v Speaker 1>nurse is like, no, that's that's that's part of it. Yeah.

0:34:07.000 --> 0:34:10.320
<v Speaker 1>Another one that's very disconcerting. Another sign of active dying

0:34:10.520 --> 0:34:14.000
<v Speaker 1>is the death rattle. And uh, I did a I

0:34:14.000 --> 0:34:18.000
<v Speaker 1>guess it. Don't be dumb on death rattles. And basically

0:34:18.040 --> 0:34:22.120
<v Speaker 1>either you have fluid in the lungs or like you know,

0:34:22.120 --> 0:34:24.759
<v Speaker 1>when you clear your throat like I just did. That's

0:34:24.760 --> 0:34:29.360
<v Speaker 1>a normal ability you have until you start dying. You

0:34:29.400 --> 0:34:33.759
<v Speaker 1>can't clear your throat anymore. Those are your laryngeal muscles, right,

0:34:33.880 --> 0:34:38.480
<v Speaker 1>basically spasm NG what clearing your throat? No, the death rattle. No,

0:34:38.600 --> 0:34:41.799
<v Speaker 1>the death rattle is just breathing through the mire. It's

0:34:41.840 --> 0:34:47.399
<v Speaker 1>both it's it's either liquid or it's the muscle spasms. Yeah, Okay,

0:34:47.440 --> 0:34:51.160
<v Speaker 1>so did you find that that's painful, because I found

0:34:51.200 --> 0:34:54.000
<v Speaker 1>that it's it doesn't cause pain, it's just it sounds

0:34:54.080 --> 0:34:57.000
<v Speaker 1>terrible again to the people in the room exactly. And

0:34:57.040 --> 0:34:58.960
<v Speaker 1>this is uh, I don't think we pointed out this

0:34:59.000 --> 0:35:02.960
<v Speaker 1>is the egonal phase of death and it's Greek for

0:35:03.040 --> 0:35:07.040
<v Speaker 1>struggle and agony. Yeah, that's sort of just encapsulates it.

0:35:07.120 --> 0:35:09.520
<v Speaker 1>I think that's probably why they call it the active

0:35:09.560 --> 0:35:13.080
<v Speaker 1>phase of death now rather than agonal. Oh do they

0:35:13.080 --> 0:35:15.000
<v Speaker 1>don't even call it that anymore. I mean, I think

0:35:15.040 --> 0:35:17.480
<v Speaker 1>some people do, but I think the active and agonol

0:35:17.480 --> 0:35:21.120
<v Speaker 1>are the same one and the same. It's just you know,

0:35:21.520 --> 0:35:24.040
<v Speaker 1>they're in the agony phase, right or they're in the

0:35:24.080 --> 0:35:28.840
<v Speaker 1>active phase. Uh. Your muscles, aside from your vocal cords,

0:35:28.960 --> 0:35:33.880
<v Speaker 1>um might start convulsive and spasm ng. Um. You can

0:35:33.920 --> 0:35:38.120
<v Speaker 1>get all you know, herky jerky and two things that

0:35:38.239 --> 0:35:40.640
<v Speaker 1>wouldn't seem like you should be able to do in

0:35:40.680 --> 0:35:45.040
<v Speaker 1>your state, like um, card tricks. I don't know if

0:35:45.040 --> 0:35:47.359
<v Speaker 1>you could do cards shuffling card tricks from one hand

0:35:47.400 --> 0:35:52.839
<v Speaker 1>to the other, and Grandpa never could. Before I knew

0:35:52.840 --> 0:35:58.239
<v Speaker 1>we could get some humor in here somehow. Um what else? Uh, well,

0:35:58.320 --> 0:36:00.600
<v Speaker 1>let's see, your blood pressure is gonna up, your jaw

0:36:00.640 --> 0:36:02.560
<v Speaker 1>is gonna drop, you might end up in a really

0:36:02.600 --> 0:36:08.600
<v Speaker 1>weird rigid position. Um and uh you're I think we

0:36:08.640 --> 0:36:12.200
<v Speaker 1>said your extremities are going to be cold to the touch. Yeah. Actually,

0:36:12.239 --> 0:36:16.520
<v Speaker 1>the the death rattle as a result of the spasming

0:36:16.560 --> 0:36:20.439
<v Speaker 1>of your laryngeal muscles that can also produce um. What

0:36:20.520 --> 0:36:23.800
<v Speaker 1>was described in what I read as a barking sound.

0:36:24.080 --> 0:36:27.040
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, yeah, And I've never I didn't search that

0:36:27.080 --> 0:36:29.879
<v Speaker 1>out to see if that was recorded anywhere, but I'm

0:36:29.880 --> 0:36:33.400
<v Speaker 1>curious what that sounds like. I've heard everything from gurgling

0:36:34.160 --> 0:36:39.280
<v Speaker 1>like gurgle to it sounds like there's marbles in your throat. Uh, barking.

0:36:39.320 --> 0:36:41.640
<v Speaker 1>That's a new one. But it makes I think everybody

0:36:41.640 --> 0:36:44.480
<v Speaker 1>has their own signature death rattle, you know. But they

0:36:45.120 --> 0:36:47.640
<v Speaker 1>rule of thumb, apparently among hospice workers is once the

0:36:47.640 --> 0:36:49.840
<v Speaker 1>death rattle comes, it's a sign that they got about

0:36:50.000 --> 0:36:53.319
<v Speaker 1>forty eight hours or less left to live. Yeah, and

0:36:53.480 --> 0:36:56.320
<v Speaker 1>all of these are tells, really, and all of them.

0:36:56.400 --> 0:36:58.360
<v Speaker 1>And we'll talk about what happens after the body is

0:36:58.360 --> 0:37:02.640
<v Speaker 1>dead too, and that helps finding out, you know, in forensics,

0:37:02.719 --> 0:37:04.560
<v Speaker 1>I think we put it out plenty of times at

0:37:04.560 --> 0:37:07.960
<v Speaker 1>the time of death, depending on the various things that happen,

0:37:08.120 --> 0:37:10.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, when they find you. But all all of

0:37:10.600 --> 0:37:15.720
<v Speaker 1>these are almost like like markers on a clock. Yeah,

0:37:15.760 --> 0:37:17.800
<v Speaker 1>and if you're in hospice care, you know these things

0:37:17.840 --> 0:37:20.719
<v Speaker 1>like oh this is this means this? Well, there there

0:37:20.719 --> 0:37:23.600
<v Speaker 1>are signs and symptoms of the system shut down that

0:37:23.640 --> 0:37:27.600
<v Speaker 1>the person's body is going through, you know. Yeah. So, Um,

0:37:29.040 --> 0:37:33.600
<v Speaker 1>the senses apparently also are lost in a healthy person

0:37:33.719 --> 0:37:37.360
<v Speaker 1>or a person who has all five senses. Um, they're

0:37:37.440 --> 0:37:40.839
<v Speaker 1>lost in a certain order, and touch and hearing are

0:37:40.880 --> 0:37:43.879
<v Speaker 1>the last to go. And another that's kind of nice.

0:37:43.920 --> 0:37:48.200
<v Speaker 1>Another very important point that hospice workers make is never

0:37:48.320 --> 0:37:52.040
<v Speaker 1>ever talk about the patient like they're not there, because

0:37:52.080 --> 0:37:54.560
<v Speaker 1>they can hear you up until the end. Like hearing

0:37:54.680 --> 0:37:57.320
<v Speaker 1>is kept so long as the person could hear before

0:37:57.360 --> 0:37:59.759
<v Speaker 1>then there's not any damage from you know, during the

0:37:59.760 --> 0:38:03.560
<v Speaker 1>act dying period. Um, they can hear you until the

0:38:03.600 --> 0:38:08.000
<v Speaker 1>moment they die, and you need to be careful what

0:38:08.080 --> 0:38:10.879
<v Speaker 1>you say. Yeah, and I think that's a really nice

0:38:10.920 --> 0:38:13.879
<v Speaker 1>thing that the last things that you can experience are

0:38:14.400 --> 0:38:15.920
<v Speaker 1>the touch of a loved one or the voice of

0:38:15.960 --> 0:38:18.880
<v Speaker 1>a loved one. Needs to see him. You may not

0:38:18.960 --> 0:38:21.960
<v Speaker 1>even be able to respond to that, but you can

0:38:21.960 --> 0:38:24.959
<v Speaker 1>still hear that's true. I would definitely pick that over sight.

0:38:25.400 --> 0:38:28.640
<v Speaker 1>I'd rather hear someone's words as I pass rather than

0:38:28.880 --> 0:38:31.840
<v Speaker 1>having silence and just seeing their faces staring at me,

0:38:32.719 --> 0:38:34.680
<v Speaker 1>so long as the words aren't. Wait, one more thing,

0:38:37.160 --> 0:38:39.120
<v Speaker 1>I think it would be almost cruel to be able

0:38:39.120 --> 0:38:41.480
<v Speaker 1>to see and not here at the end. You know,

0:38:43.000 --> 0:38:45.640
<v Speaker 1>like he wants to see your family upset. You want

0:38:45.640 --> 0:38:48.440
<v Speaker 1>to hear feel them hold your hand and say everything's

0:38:48.440 --> 0:38:51.319
<v Speaker 1>gonna be right. So you so you raise a good

0:38:51.360 --> 0:38:55.120
<v Speaker 1>issue like there's if you have a dying family member,

0:38:55.239 --> 0:38:57.880
<v Speaker 1>especially if they're dying a frailty or they're just dying,

0:38:57.920 --> 0:39:00.120
<v Speaker 1>like they're in the dying process, so they're about to

0:39:00.239 --> 0:39:04.120
<v Speaker 1>enter the dying process. Um, you could do worse things

0:39:04.160 --> 0:39:07.360
<v Speaker 1>than to go online and educate yourself on how to

0:39:07.400 --> 0:39:10.879
<v Speaker 1>be around them. I think people don't intuitively know how

0:39:10.920 --> 0:39:13.160
<v Speaker 1>to be around a dying person, and there's certain things

0:39:13.160 --> 0:39:15.719
<v Speaker 1>that you should do, certain things you shouldn't do, like,

0:39:15.760 --> 0:39:18.560
<v Speaker 1>for example, um, they say that you should talk to

0:39:18.640 --> 0:39:21.920
<v Speaker 1>the person, not the condition, So don't treat them like

0:39:21.960 --> 0:39:25.040
<v Speaker 1>they're frail or dying, like treat them like they're your

0:39:25.080 --> 0:39:28.960
<v Speaker 1>old friend who they are. Um, it's extremely important to

0:39:29.000 --> 0:39:33.080
<v Speaker 1>make sure that they're in a peaceful, calm environment. Um. So,

0:39:33.360 --> 0:39:37.120
<v Speaker 1>like maybe yelling at somebody over the will is a

0:39:37.160 --> 0:39:39.680
<v Speaker 1>really bad idea. They seem like no brainers. But I

0:39:39.680 --> 0:39:41.640
<v Speaker 1>guess some people need to be told this stuff. Yeah,

0:39:41.680 --> 0:39:44.160
<v Speaker 1>but I mean think about it, like it can put

0:39:44.160 --> 0:39:46.360
<v Speaker 1>you on edge being around a dying person, like do

0:39:46.440 --> 0:39:48.719
<v Speaker 1>you mention the fact that they're gonna die or do

0:39:48.840 --> 0:39:51.040
<v Speaker 1>you you know? I mean like do you dance around

0:39:51.080 --> 0:39:53.680
<v Speaker 1>it if they make a joke or something like can

0:39:53.760 --> 0:39:55.960
<v Speaker 1>you laugh or do you laugh too hard? Do you

0:39:56.040 --> 0:40:00.000
<v Speaker 1>not laugh enough? Like there's I think it's not necessarily

0:40:00.200 --> 0:40:03.080
<v Speaker 1>like yeah, I think it's it's just put you on edge.

0:40:03.239 --> 0:40:06.279
<v Speaker 1>Not everyone is as sensitive to So you're going to

0:40:06.320 --> 0:40:08.560
<v Speaker 1>add one. Don't bring your laptop in there and watch

0:40:09.200 --> 0:40:12.640
<v Speaker 1>reruns of the Office. No, yeah, are you speaking from experience?

0:40:13.000 --> 0:40:16.480
<v Speaker 1>I'm just going to add that. Okay, that's all my list. Okay,

0:40:16.560 --> 0:40:20.080
<v Speaker 1>get off your cell phone. Yeah, pay attention to them. Sure, yeah,

0:40:20.160 --> 0:40:22.800
<v Speaker 1>I mean that's what you're there for. That, as hospice

0:40:22.840 --> 0:40:26.080
<v Speaker 1>workers put it, you're giving them a very heartfelt gift

0:40:26.480 --> 0:40:30.240
<v Speaker 1>by being there with them while they're dying and maybe

0:40:30.280 --> 0:40:34.120
<v Speaker 1>receiving a gift, you know, and many religions and cultures,

0:40:34.120 --> 0:40:36.600
<v Speaker 1>it's very uh much an honor to be a part

0:40:36.640 --> 0:40:39.560
<v Speaker 1>of this whole thing. And even if you're not religious,

0:40:39.600 --> 0:40:41.799
<v Speaker 1>that you could just feel that way spiritually is a

0:40:41.880 --> 0:40:47.120
<v Speaker 1>human you know. Okay, uh, well, let's pause here because Chuck,

0:40:47.239 --> 0:41:10.880
<v Speaker 1>it's time for a message break and we're back. Okay,

0:41:10.920 --> 0:41:14.240
<v Speaker 1>So are we dead yet? Are we at that point? Yeah?

0:41:14.280 --> 0:41:17.640
<v Speaker 1>The the person has passed. It just sounded very cheery.

0:41:18.040 --> 0:41:21.200
<v Speaker 1>Yeah yeah, yeah, Well, I mean like we've rattled off

0:41:21.200 --> 0:41:24.920
<v Speaker 1>some pretty what seems like suffering, but now the suffering

0:41:25.000 --> 0:41:27.040
<v Speaker 1>is over. If there was any other person is dead.

0:41:28.040 --> 0:41:32.719
<v Speaker 1>So once you immediately immediately after you die, your pupils

0:41:32.719 --> 0:41:36.280
<v Speaker 1>are going to dilate because the muscles controlling the iris

0:41:36.360 --> 0:41:39.880
<v Speaker 1>or you know, gonna have their final rest. So your

0:41:39.880 --> 0:41:42.640
<v Speaker 1>pupils are going to dilate. And then have you heard

0:41:42.640 --> 0:41:46.759
<v Speaker 1>of the terminal tier or the lachrima mortis? No, this

0:41:46.840 --> 0:41:50.120
<v Speaker 1>is a usually in the right eye, and there's no

0:41:50.160 --> 0:41:54.880
<v Speaker 1>real explanation for it, but um, it is a final

0:41:54.960 --> 0:41:59.640
<v Speaker 1>tier that you shed. Wow, And um it doesn't always

0:41:59.640 --> 0:42:02.480
<v Speaker 1>happen right after you die, although it can. They did

0:42:02.480 --> 0:42:05.080
<v Speaker 1>a study in the early nineties in New Zealand and

0:42:05.120 --> 0:42:07.680
<v Speaker 1>out of a hundred deaths, fourteen of them right at

0:42:07.719 --> 0:42:11.400
<v Speaker 1>the time of death had the lacrymamortists here and uh

0:42:11.520 --> 0:42:14.040
<v Speaker 1>thirteen of them in the final ten hours. And they

0:42:14.080 --> 0:42:17.600
<v Speaker 1>say uh to to look out for that if you're

0:42:17.640 --> 0:42:20.760
<v Speaker 1>the family, because it can be a sign. And also

0:42:20.840 --> 0:42:23.080
<v Speaker 1>they try to talk you into the fact that it's

0:42:23.080 --> 0:42:27.239
<v Speaker 1>a comforting thing to see that tier being shed. Yeah.

0:42:27.600 --> 0:42:29.680
<v Speaker 1>And since we're on eyes, you know the old thing

0:42:29.760 --> 0:42:33.000
<v Speaker 1>where you close someone's eyes after they die, Oh yeah,

0:42:33.080 --> 0:42:35.799
<v Speaker 1>or you put silver dollars on if it's it's the

0:42:35.840 --> 0:42:39.680
<v Speaker 1>old West. Um. I guess people do that too. So

0:42:39.800 --> 0:42:42.520
<v Speaker 1>you're not having someone a dead body staring at you, right,

0:42:42.560 --> 0:42:45.719
<v Speaker 1>because if they're looking dead forward, straight forward there like

0:42:45.840 --> 0:42:48.440
<v Speaker 1>following you all through out there. Yeah, and it's definitely

0:42:48.480 --> 0:42:50.959
<v Speaker 1>a movie trope. But if you don't close the eyes.

0:42:50.960 --> 0:42:54.840
<v Speaker 1>And I never knew this um something called t a

0:42:54.960 --> 0:42:57.480
<v Speaker 1>c h E. Noir. I don't know if it's tash

0:42:57.719 --> 0:43:02.080
<v Speaker 1>or taste more as a black a dark reddish brown

0:43:02.200 --> 0:43:05.879
<v Speaker 1>strip that forms horizontally over your eyeball. And I guess

0:43:05.880 --> 0:43:07.640
<v Speaker 1>it's just you know, your eyeballs dry out and has

0:43:07.680 --> 0:43:10.040
<v Speaker 1>the air. So if you don't close your eyes, and

0:43:10.080 --> 0:43:13.520
<v Speaker 1>I looked it up, you're gonna see this weird horizontal

0:43:13.560 --> 0:43:17.000
<v Speaker 1>stripe across your eye. There's a plus the effect that

0:43:17.080 --> 0:43:19.759
<v Speaker 1>has in the living, the difference between seeing a dead

0:43:19.800 --> 0:43:21.799
<v Speaker 1>body with their eyes closed and a dead body with

0:43:21.800 --> 0:43:24.799
<v Speaker 1>their eyes open, And it's just it's like a galaxy

0:43:24.880 --> 0:43:27.880
<v Speaker 1>between the two as far as discomfort goes. Yeah, somebody

0:43:27.920 --> 0:43:30.319
<v Speaker 1>should edit together the like every time that's ever been

0:43:30.320 --> 0:43:35.280
<v Speaker 1>done in a movie. Yeah, there like super fast alright,

0:43:35.320 --> 0:43:40.120
<v Speaker 1>So that's all I got on the eyes. Um, so Chuck,

0:43:40.600 --> 0:43:43.879
<v Speaker 1>I want to alarm you right now. Boy, you have

0:43:44.280 --> 0:43:48.880
<v Speaker 1>living in your guts right now, the very organisms that

0:43:48.960 --> 0:43:51.600
<v Speaker 1>are going to decompose your body when you die, they're

0:43:51.640 --> 0:43:54.239
<v Speaker 1>just sitting around waiting, waiting for action, waiting for the

0:43:54.239 --> 0:43:58.880
<v Speaker 1>signal yep um. When you die, there's a lot of

0:43:58.960 --> 0:44:02.200
<v Speaker 1>stuff that's still alive, that's still going on even though

0:44:02.320 --> 0:44:06.759
<v Speaker 1>your brain dead, whole brain, higher, brain, heart dead, your

0:44:06.760 --> 0:44:10.239
<v Speaker 1>heart stopped dead. That's another definition of death. I don't

0:44:10.239 --> 0:44:12.680
<v Speaker 1>know if we mentioned heart. Your heart is not beating anymore.

0:44:13.440 --> 0:44:17.359
<v Speaker 1>You're dead, yes, Um, there's no bringing you back. You've

0:44:17.400 --> 0:44:20.800
<v Speaker 1>been in your heart hasn't your brain hasn't had oxygen

0:44:20.840 --> 0:44:24.920
<v Speaker 1>for a while. You died of hypothermia, uh, and they

0:44:25.160 --> 0:44:28.239
<v Speaker 1>warmed you up. So now you're officially dead. You're gone, right,

0:44:28.400 --> 0:44:31.760
<v Speaker 1>But there's still a lot of stuff. Remember the Poop

0:44:31.800 --> 0:44:35.239
<v Speaker 1>Shake episode we can forget, we talked about the microbio

0:44:35.280 --> 0:44:38.160
<v Speaker 1>and we have this whole other, like part of our

0:44:38.440 --> 0:44:41.879
<v Speaker 1>life are living organism that's still around, that's still operating,

0:44:42.560 --> 0:44:45.080
<v Speaker 1>and a lot of stuff living within us, including part

0:44:45.160 --> 0:44:49.000
<v Speaker 1>of our microbiome. They're still carrying on processes like apparently

0:44:49.080 --> 0:44:52.480
<v Speaker 1>you can harvest skin cells for twenty four hours and

0:44:52.480 --> 0:44:57.080
<v Speaker 1>and there's still alive. Just use them, yeah, for all

0:44:57.120 --> 0:45:00.680
<v Speaker 1>sorts of stuff. Yeah, you can harvest them. And then

0:45:00.800 --> 0:45:03.560
<v Speaker 1>of course inside your intestines there's a little tiny organisms

0:45:03.560 --> 0:45:05.799
<v Speaker 1>that are still living and are gonna help do the

0:45:05.840 --> 0:45:08.680
<v Speaker 1>work that comes next, starting a couple of days after death.

0:45:08.760 --> 0:45:11.399
<v Speaker 1>Like if you just fell over in the woods and

0:45:11.520 --> 0:45:14.759
<v Speaker 1>no one was around. I always loved the setting, right, um,

0:45:14.800 --> 0:45:19.240
<v Speaker 1>and you're just left there. Within about three days, these

0:45:19.440 --> 0:45:23.480
<v Speaker 1>organisms of micro flora is going to go to work

0:45:23.680 --> 0:45:27.200
<v Speaker 1>on you, starting in your intestines. Yeah, and this is

0:45:27.239 --> 0:45:31.000
<v Speaker 1>after the various mortises correct, Yes, which I guess we

0:45:31.000 --> 0:45:33.400
<v Speaker 1>should kind of go over it. But I would recommend everybody,

0:45:33.640 --> 0:45:36.879
<v Speaker 1>um go listen to what causes rigor mortis? Yeah, for sure,

0:45:36.920 --> 0:45:38.600
<v Speaker 1>it's on the website. You can go to stuff you

0:45:38.600 --> 0:45:43.440
<v Speaker 1>should know dot com, slash podcasts, uh slash what hyphen

0:45:43.680 --> 0:45:49.279
<v Speaker 1>causes hyphen rigor hyphen mortis. Um, we'll just run through

0:45:49.280 --> 0:45:52.360
<v Speaker 1>the mortis is real quick. Then um, algor mortis, or

0:45:52.360 --> 0:45:55.399
<v Speaker 1>the death chill, that's the first first thing that's gonna happen.

0:45:55.400 --> 0:45:58.040
<v Speaker 1>That's where your body starts dropping in temperature about a

0:45:58.080 --> 0:46:00.839
<v Speaker 1>degree and a half fahrenheit per hour, until you are

0:46:01.960 --> 0:46:05.880
<v Speaker 1>just like a nice red wine at room temperature. Yeah,

0:46:06.120 --> 0:46:08.319
<v Speaker 1>actually that's not quite true. Red wines like sixty four

0:46:08.320 --> 0:46:09.839
<v Speaker 1>degrees from you. I guess it dep into what kind

0:46:09.840 --> 0:46:11.280
<v Speaker 1>of room you're in. Yeah, if you're in a sixty

0:46:11.280 --> 0:46:15.880
<v Speaker 1>four degree it's perfect, all right. What else? Well, after

0:46:16.000 --> 0:46:18.440
<v Speaker 1>alger mortis, um, you get rigor mortis a couple of

0:46:18.480 --> 0:46:22.800
<v Speaker 1>hours after death where the body um settles into a

0:46:22.840 --> 0:46:26.800
<v Speaker 1>stiff state. Uh. And that lasts for what like twenty

0:46:26.800 --> 0:46:31.200
<v Speaker 1>four hours? I don't remember. We talked about it. Uh yeah, yeah,

0:46:31.239 --> 0:46:33.480
<v Speaker 1>I think so. Um, And then between those you have

0:46:33.560 --> 0:46:38.360
<v Speaker 1>live remortis or subdulation. That's where like all the blood

0:46:38.360 --> 0:46:41.680
<v Speaker 1>coagulates at the Yeah, basically that your red blood cells

0:46:41.680 --> 0:46:45.480
<v Speaker 1>are pretty heavy and they just sink and Um it's

0:46:45.480 --> 0:46:49.279
<v Speaker 1>about twenty minutes to three hours after death is when

0:46:49.320 --> 0:46:52.200
<v Speaker 1>you're going to be in live remortis, and then after

0:46:52.239 --> 0:46:55.360
<v Speaker 1>that is rigor. That's right, Okay, so not back to

0:46:55.520 --> 0:46:58.680
<v Speaker 1>putrification right, Well, that's the best thing to talk about. Yeah,

0:46:58.719 --> 0:47:01.719
<v Speaker 1>that's that's basically like cure. These organisms going to work

0:47:01.760 --> 0:47:05.880
<v Speaker 1>breaking down your body, and they do it pretty quick. Um.

0:47:05.960 --> 0:47:08.680
<v Speaker 1>The pancreas apparently has so many in there that it

0:47:08.800 --> 0:47:13.200
<v Speaker 1>just itself eats itself. The pancreas consumes itself. It's pretty efficient. Um,

0:47:13.280 --> 0:47:17.120
<v Speaker 1>your other organs are gonna eventually eventually be consumed in

0:47:17.880 --> 0:47:21.560
<v Speaker 1>turned into liquid. You're liquefied from the inside out. Yeah,

0:47:21.560 --> 0:47:25.160
<v Speaker 1>you're gonna turn colors in this order green than purple,

0:47:25.239 --> 0:47:28.880
<v Speaker 1>than black, which is just like a like a black eye,

0:47:28.920 --> 0:47:31.560
<v Speaker 1>I guess, yeah, in that the same stage. Yeah, except

0:47:31.560 --> 0:47:37.520
<v Speaker 1>it never fully heals explodes. Um you uh, within a

0:47:37.600 --> 0:47:42.760
<v Speaker 1>couple of weeks, you're going to be liquid inside. Uh.

0:47:43.080 --> 0:47:46.880
<v Speaker 1>The organisms that are eating you produce a gas as

0:47:46.920 --> 0:47:50.000
<v Speaker 1>a byproduct from their consumption. So you're going to be bloated.

0:47:50.000 --> 0:47:52.120
<v Speaker 1>Your tongue is going to stick out, it's gonna turn

0:47:52.200 --> 0:47:55.080
<v Speaker 1>dark to your tongue. Yeah, and that gas really stinks.

0:47:55.280 --> 0:47:58.399
<v Speaker 1>Your eyes are going to protrude. Yeah. Um. There's something

0:47:58.480 --> 0:48:02.840
<v Speaker 1>called purge fluid that is a putrid, reddish brown fluid

0:48:02.880 --> 0:48:08.680
<v Speaker 1>that can be expelled through just everywhere you've got an opening. Right,

0:48:08.760 --> 0:48:12.480
<v Speaker 1>you can come out of your mouth, your nose, your vagina. Uh,

0:48:12.520 --> 0:48:14.120
<v Speaker 1>it can be mixed with feces and come out of

0:48:14.160 --> 0:48:17.440
<v Speaker 1>your rectum. Another. Um, there's something else I can come

0:48:17.480 --> 0:48:20.960
<v Speaker 1>out of your vagina too. Yeah, this is maybe the

0:48:20.960 --> 0:48:24.759
<v Speaker 1>worst thing I've ever heard. I just I had no idea. Yeah,

0:48:25.120 --> 0:48:27.400
<v Speaker 1>I had no idea. You know, I know all about

0:48:27.400 --> 0:48:29.920
<v Speaker 1>death and all that, and it's like interests me. I

0:48:29.960 --> 0:48:31.839
<v Speaker 1>had never heard of this before. I don't even want

0:48:31.840 --> 0:48:33.320
<v Speaker 1>to talk about it. You don't either. Maybe we should

0:48:33.360 --> 0:48:36.160
<v Speaker 1>type it into the computer and make the computer say it.

0:48:37.239 --> 0:48:42.080
<v Speaker 1>Do we have that ability? Oh wow, that's pretty good, Chuck.

0:48:42.239 --> 0:48:45.360
<v Speaker 1>That's a good computer impression. So wait, that's what you

0:48:45.480 --> 0:48:48.480
<v Speaker 1>do when you don't want to say something yourself. You

0:48:48.640 --> 0:48:51.759
<v Speaker 1>pretend you're a computer. Yeah, that Emily and I. Most

0:48:51.800 --> 0:48:55.320
<v Speaker 1>of our fights are like that. Really, Yeah, it's pretty cute.

0:48:55.480 --> 0:48:59.960
<v Speaker 1>I go into a war games mode. What was it again, computer? Uh?

0:49:00.280 --> 0:49:06.319
<v Speaker 1>Cof coffin birth. So basically those gases that, um, this

0:49:06.400 --> 0:49:08.600
<v Speaker 1>is a real thing. We're not making this up. Yeah,

0:49:08.680 --> 0:49:11.360
<v Speaker 1>but post mortal fetal extrusion is another name for it.

0:49:11.480 --> 0:49:14.080
<v Speaker 1>So the gases that build up in the body before

0:49:14.080 --> 0:49:17.520
<v Speaker 1>the body ruptures um, which comes a little later, can

0:49:17.560 --> 0:49:22.120
<v Speaker 1>become so pressurized that a pregnant woman who has died

0:49:22.680 --> 0:49:26.040
<v Speaker 1>with the fet is still in utero can actually the

0:49:26.360 --> 0:49:30.760
<v Speaker 1>gases can push the fetus out of the vagina um,

0:49:30.800 --> 0:49:36.560
<v Speaker 1>which is coffin birth. Yeah. And this doesn't happen much anymore, thankfully,

0:49:36.600 --> 0:49:40.400
<v Speaker 1>because we take care of dead bodies pretty quickly. Um.

0:49:40.440 --> 0:49:42.520
<v Speaker 1>Although they did find evidence of it in a case

0:49:42.520 --> 0:49:44.279
<v Speaker 1>in two thousand eight where this woman was found like

0:49:44.280 --> 0:49:47.279
<v Speaker 1>in the woods, but um, it was described a lot

0:49:47.440 --> 0:49:52.359
<v Speaker 1>in like six to eighteenth century medical literature. Oh you know,

0:49:52.480 --> 0:49:56.000
<v Speaker 1>it just drove them crazy. To she was obviously alive

0:49:56.080 --> 0:50:00.560
<v Speaker 1>for weeks afterward. Yeah, And archaeologist apparently to or are

0:50:01.080 --> 0:50:04.400
<v Speaker 1>have to rethink sometimes when they find because sometimes you

0:50:04.400 --> 0:50:07.000
<v Speaker 1>would die during childbirth. But the um they would buried

0:50:07.080 --> 0:50:11.359
<v Speaker 1>the the baby with the mother, and so you would

0:50:11.360 --> 0:50:14.000
<v Speaker 1>find the bones like cradling each other almost. But then

0:50:14.040 --> 0:50:15.920
<v Speaker 1>they go back, they've had to go back and look

0:50:15.960 --> 0:50:19.560
<v Speaker 1>at somewhere they find the you know, between the legs,

0:50:19.640 --> 0:50:21.239
<v Speaker 1>the bones of the baby, and they think that might

0:50:21.280 --> 0:50:24.680
<v Speaker 1>be the case, like of a coffin birth. So there's

0:50:24.719 --> 0:50:28.320
<v Speaker 1>the worst thing in the world. Yeah, Um, there's probably

0:50:28.360 --> 0:50:30.480
<v Speaker 1>death metal band with that name. If there's not, there

0:50:30.560 --> 0:50:36.000
<v Speaker 1>is now. Um. So the gases ultimately, eventually, once they start,

0:50:36.360 --> 0:50:38.520
<v Speaker 1>once they really get down to business, and they're no

0:50:38.560 --> 0:50:41.080
<v Speaker 1>longer just what's the call where they're the fluids coming

0:50:41.080 --> 0:50:43.880
<v Speaker 1>out a little orifices here, they're purge fluid. Okay. So

0:50:43.960 --> 0:50:48.040
<v Speaker 1>once it's like enough with the purge fluid, the we're

0:50:48.080 --> 0:50:52.840
<v Speaker 1>just gonna tear the sucker open. Your body ultimately ruptures. Yeah,

0:50:52.880 --> 0:50:54.840
<v Speaker 1>and this is you know, your skin is already blistered

0:50:54.840 --> 0:50:58.279
<v Speaker 1>at this point. Um, your hair, nails, and teeth have

0:50:58.360 --> 0:51:01.000
<v Speaker 1>fallen out. They don't keep growing. No, it's your skin

0:51:01.120 --> 0:51:04.840
<v Speaker 1>receding from drawing out from desiccating. So pass that around

0:51:04.920 --> 0:51:08.120
<v Speaker 1>in school kids. When someone says that your fingernails keep

0:51:08.160 --> 0:51:11.000
<v Speaker 1>going after death, you set him straight. Tell him Josh saying,

0:51:12.000 --> 0:51:16.360
<v Speaker 1>oh god, I just realized there's kids listening to this. Yeah. Um.

0:51:16.400 --> 0:51:18.680
<v Speaker 1>And then the old d gloving, which we've talked about before.

0:51:19.000 --> 0:51:21.759
<v Speaker 1>Oh yeah, I forgot about that, remember that? Yeah? Where

0:51:21.800 --> 0:51:24.799
<v Speaker 1>the that can happen to you? If you drive at

0:51:24.840 --> 0:51:27.880
<v Speaker 1>ten and two and you have an air bag, the

0:51:27.960 --> 0:51:30.800
<v Speaker 1>gases that expand the air bag out of your steering

0:51:30.800 --> 0:51:34.600
<v Speaker 1>wheel are very hot. And if you're not driving at

0:51:34.760 --> 0:51:37.200
<v Speaker 1>nine and three and you have your hands at like

0:51:37.200 --> 0:51:39.520
<v Speaker 1>ten and two or something like, you're going to be

0:51:39.560 --> 0:51:44.600
<v Speaker 1>de gloved alive. Yeah, but your skin is just burned

0:51:44.680 --> 0:51:47.560
<v Speaker 1>right off your hands, or it's burned and separated and

0:51:47.600 --> 0:51:49.759
<v Speaker 1>then eventually comes off. So ten and two is not

0:51:49.800 --> 0:51:53.399
<v Speaker 1>how you should drive it on. Really, That's what I've learned. Yeah.

0:51:53.400 --> 0:51:56.640
<v Speaker 1>I drive it either just a straight up six o'clock

0:51:56.800 --> 0:51:59.719
<v Speaker 1>with one hand or a nooner, just a straight up

0:51:59.760 --> 0:52:02.440
<v Speaker 1>noon nude. I rarely have two hands on the wheel.

0:52:02.480 --> 0:52:04.359
<v Speaker 1>You don't drive with like your knees, with your hands

0:52:04.360 --> 0:52:08.960
<v Speaker 1>behind your head relaxing occasionally if i'm you know, relaxing, Yeah,

0:52:08.960 --> 0:52:14.160
<v Speaker 1>we're playing the guitar or something. Yeah, de gloving is

0:52:14.440 --> 0:52:18.040
<v Speaker 1>I know we talked about this in the probably rigor mortis.

0:52:18.080 --> 0:52:22.040
<v Speaker 1>But that's when your body farms. Maybe yeah, that's when

0:52:22.040 --> 0:52:26.160
<v Speaker 1>basically your skin is removed, still attached to things like

0:52:27.000 --> 0:52:29.440
<v Speaker 1>fingernails and things like that. And it's they call it

0:52:29.480 --> 0:52:31.440
<v Speaker 1>de gloving for a reason. I don't think we need

0:52:31.480 --> 0:52:34.640
<v Speaker 1>to explain it makes perfect sense. Or de socking sometimes,

0:52:34.680 --> 0:52:36.520
<v Speaker 1>you know, can happen to your feet. And I hadn't

0:52:36.520 --> 0:52:38.279
<v Speaker 1>heard of that one. Did you just make that up? Well,

0:52:38.560 --> 0:52:41.640
<v Speaker 1>they said gloves or socks if it's your feet, But

0:52:41.719 --> 0:52:45.800
<v Speaker 1>I did make up the socking. Well, I don't have

0:52:45.880 --> 0:52:47.640
<v Speaker 1>to use that from now on. That might be a

0:52:47.680 --> 0:52:53.000
<v Speaker 1>new thing. Um. So the body once it, once it ruptures,

0:52:53.080 --> 0:52:56.279
<v Speaker 1>your organs are already liquid um and all that's left

0:52:56.360 --> 0:53:00.600
<v Speaker 1>is a skeleton, which will eventually turn to dust too.

0:53:00.680 --> 0:53:03.080
<v Speaker 1>Can we be done? No, wait, we can't be done,

0:53:03.080 --> 0:53:04.840
<v Speaker 1>because we do need to talk a little bit about

0:53:04.960 --> 0:53:11.040
<v Speaker 1>UM assisted suicide. Yeah, I just eat that up for you.

0:53:11.000 --> 0:53:15.640
<v Speaker 1>You should. Um, that's quite a controversial subject, like we said, um,

0:53:15.760 --> 0:53:17.480
<v Speaker 1>I don't know if I said or not, Like this

0:53:17.520 --> 0:53:21.799
<v Speaker 1>has just been such a huge whirlwind of input of

0:53:21.840 --> 0:53:24.239
<v Speaker 1>information in my head in the last like thirty six

0:53:24.280 --> 0:53:27.480
<v Speaker 1>hours studying for this UM that I don't know what

0:53:27.560 --> 0:53:29.799
<v Speaker 1>I've said yet or not, or what we talked about

0:53:29.800 --> 0:53:32.560
<v Speaker 1>in another podcast, but so we talked about dying of

0:53:32.640 --> 0:53:37.080
<v Speaker 1>frailty of old age and that it's increasing. Supposedly five

0:53:37.200 --> 0:53:39.799
<v Speaker 1>out of ten people in the United States will die

0:53:39.920 --> 0:53:42.680
<v Speaker 1>in the intensive care unit. And I saw this Ted

0:53:42.719 --> 0:53:47.000
<v Speaker 1>talk from Newcastle, Australia with this guy I can't remember

0:53:47.040 --> 0:53:49.000
<v Speaker 1>what his name is, but it's it's about dying. I

0:53:49.000 --> 0:53:51.080
<v Speaker 1>think it's called it can we talk about dying or something,

0:53:51.520 --> 0:53:54.759
<v Speaker 1>And his point was, you're going to die in the

0:53:54.800 --> 0:53:58.480
<v Speaker 1>I see you, whether you want to or not, if

0:53:58.520 --> 0:54:03.040
<v Speaker 1>you die of a degenera, nrative disease or frailty, unless

0:54:03.360 --> 0:54:05.880
<v Speaker 1>you say you don't want to die there, because the

0:54:05.920 --> 0:54:09.640
<v Speaker 1>way medical science is currently set up, you are going

0:54:09.680 --> 0:54:13.840
<v Speaker 1>to be treated most of the time up until a

0:54:13.840 --> 0:54:18.480
<v Speaker 1>bitter end with life saving measures, and you're going to

0:54:18.600 --> 0:54:21.359
<v Speaker 1>die in the i c U with tubes hooked up

0:54:21.400 --> 0:54:25.520
<v Speaker 1>and things beeping, and like other people having crash carts

0:54:25.560 --> 0:54:28.440
<v Speaker 1>taken in and out of their room and people making

0:54:28.440 --> 0:54:31.320
<v Speaker 1>a big rucus up until the point you die, unless

0:54:31.400 --> 0:54:34.200
<v Speaker 1>they give you palliative care or or you say I

0:54:34.440 --> 0:54:37.560
<v Speaker 1>don't want to be sustained like that. I don't want

0:54:37.560 --> 0:54:39.680
<v Speaker 1>to go to the i c U. And this point was,

0:54:39.920 --> 0:54:43.120
<v Speaker 1>if half of Americans are going to die in the

0:54:43.160 --> 0:54:45.759
<v Speaker 1>i c U, you have to assume that maybe not

0:54:45.840 --> 0:54:47.680
<v Speaker 1>all of them would want to die in the i

0:54:47.800 --> 0:54:50.800
<v Speaker 1>c U. And therefore they need to think of things

0:54:50.840 --> 0:54:54.600
<v Speaker 1>like I wanted an advanced directive, a living will, I

0:54:54.640 --> 0:54:58.239
<v Speaker 1>want a living power of attorney to somebody to say no, no,

0:54:58.440 --> 0:55:00.960
<v Speaker 1>do not put them on a ventilator, do not put

0:55:01.000 --> 0:55:03.319
<v Speaker 1>them on feeding tubes. Like they don't want that. They

0:55:03.400 --> 0:55:05.680
<v Speaker 1>just want to die, or they want to go to hospice.

0:55:05.719 --> 0:55:08.359
<v Speaker 1>They want to go back home. That's another big one,

0:55:08.680 --> 0:55:11.839
<v Speaker 1>like they don't let you go back home, especially if

0:55:11.840 --> 0:55:15.640
<v Speaker 1>you can't speak for yourself. Like to medical science these days,

0:55:15.680 --> 0:55:18.480
<v Speaker 1>that's crazy. You don't leave the hospital when you know

0:55:18.560 --> 0:55:22.000
<v Speaker 1>you're dying. You stay in the hospital and and we

0:55:22.120 --> 0:55:24.960
<v Speaker 1>keep doing stuff until you die. That's not the way

0:55:24.960 --> 0:55:26.560
<v Speaker 1>it jobs with a lot of people. But if you

0:55:27.080 --> 0:55:29.239
<v Speaker 1>don't stop and think about it and then write it

0:55:29.239 --> 0:55:32.040
<v Speaker 1>down or tell somebody who can speak for you, that's

0:55:32.320 --> 0:55:34.640
<v Speaker 1>you're not going to go home, you're not going to

0:55:34.640 --> 0:55:37.040
<v Speaker 1>get to hospice. You have to do this ahead of time.

0:55:37.440 --> 0:55:39.719
<v Speaker 1>And part of that that's kind of come out of

0:55:39.719 --> 0:55:43.040
<v Speaker 1>this idea is okay, Well, if we have autonomy to

0:55:43.080 --> 0:55:46.160
<v Speaker 1>say I don't want you to intibate me, why don't

0:55:46.200 --> 0:55:48.680
<v Speaker 1>we have the autonomy to say, I want you to

0:55:48.760 --> 0:55:52.560
<v Speaker 1>give me some stuff that's going to painlessly end by life,

0:55:52.920 --> 0:55:55.960
<v Speaker 1>because it's either that or facing a tremendous amount of

0:55:56.000 --> 0:56:00.560
<v Speaker 1>pain and suffering through this degenerative disease. Basically saying I'm Eddie,

0:56:00.719 --> 0:56:04.080
<v Speaker 1>I am ready, it is my life. It's like the

0:56:04.160 --> 0:56:08.319
<v Speaker 1>Richard Dryfist movie from the eighties. Uh, covertis whose life

0:56:08.400 --> 0:56:11.799
<v Speaker 1>is anyway? I think I have no idea what you're

0:56:11.800 --> 0:56:13.279
<v Speaker 1>talking about. Yeah, I think so. It was a movie

0:56:13.840 --> 0:56:16.960
<v Speaker 1>about assisted suicide and do you should you have the

0:56:17.040 --> 0:56:19.000
<v Speaker 1>right to be able to You know, it's a hot

0:56:19.040 --> 0:56:22.640
<v Speaker 1>button issue for sure, but apparently most Americans or the

0:56:22.680 --> 0:56:26.439
<v Speaker 1>majority of Americans actually support it until you start using

0:56:26.440 --> 0:56:28.680
<v Speaker 1>a word like suicide. Right when you pull them and

0:56:28.719 --> 0:56:32.280
<v Speaker 1>say do you are you in favor of doctors helping

0:56:32.719 --> 0:56:35.839
<v Speaker 1>someone painlessly in their life or something at the end

0:56:35.840 --> 0:56:38.160
<v Speaker 1>of life? They yeah, And then they're like, okay, so

0:56:38.200 --> 0:56:41.839
<v Speaker 1>you're in favorite physician assisted suicide? No? No, no, h um,

0:56:41.880 --> 0:56:44.560
<v Speaker 1>what's that word? You know? And and the doctors who

0:56:44.560 --> 0:56:50.400
<v Speaker 1>are in favor of youuthan Asia is another term for it. Um, say,

0:56:51.360 --> 0:56:53.920
<v Speaker 1>look at palliative care, it's like half of a step

0:56:53.960 --> 0:56:58.120
<v Speaker 1>away from physician assisted suicide. Like you're keeping somebody if

0:56:58.120 --> 0:57:00.440
<v Speaker 1>they requested and knockdown on morphine of the rest of

0:57:00.480 --> 0:57:04.320
<v Speaker 1>their life so they're never gonna regain consciousness. Um. There's

0:57:04.360 --> 0:57:07.000
<v Speaker 1>this you you dug up this one article by a

0:57:07.080 --> 0:57:15.040
<v Speaker 1>British physician who argues that, um, that agonal um gasping reflex. Apparently,

0:57:15.040 --> 0:57:18.280
<v Speaker 1>when part of the apnea is that your body has

0:57:18.280 --> 0:57:21.960
<v Speaker 1>a reflex where you gasp for air and it's really

0:57:22.040 --> 0:57:24.920
<v Speaker 1>disconcerting to family members. Even though they don't think that

0:57:25.160 --> 0:57:29.120
<v Speaker 1>you're suffering, it looks like you're suffering. And this doctor argued, well,

0:57:29.160 --> 0:57:32.800
<v Speaker 1>we have drugs that can block this response so that

0:57:32.840 --> 0:57:35.240
<v Speaker 1>the person can't gasp for air, and what it's going

0:57:35.280 --> 0:57:37.840
<v Speaker 1>to cost them their last couple of breaths. But these

0:57:37.920 --> 0:57:40.280
<v Speaker 1>last couple of breaths make it appear like they're suffering,

0:57:40.320 --> 0:57:44.120
<v Speaker 1>and the family remembers that their kids suffered. Um, so

0:57:44.160 --> 0:57:47.800
<v Speaker 1>why wouldn't we do that? And there's this conversation that's

0:57:47.840 --> 0:57:50.640
<v Speaker 1>taking place more and more and more that ultimately it's

0:57:50.720 --> 0:57:54.880
<v Speaker 1>kind of like, who is somebody to say that somebody

0:57:54.960 --> 0:57:58.200
<v Speaker 1>can't choose to end their own life painlessly through the

0:57:58.280 --> 0:58:02.120
<v Speaker 1>use of like drugs or like Hunter Thompson didn't. Well,

0:58:02.160 --> 0:58:04.440
<v Speaker 1>I mean that's another way to go, and you anybody

0:58:04.440 --> 0:58:07.520
<v Speaker 1>can do that, sure, but there are some people out

0:58:07.520 --> 0:58:10.800
<v Speaker 1>there who don't want to die violently. They want for

0:58:10.840 --> 0:58:13.760
<v Speaker 1>their family. Like that's the part that I was upset

0:58:13.800 --> 0:58:16.760
<v Speaker 1>about with that was his wife, like finding him and stuff. Yeah,

0:58:17.040 --> 0:58:19.600
<v Speaker 1>his wife and his son. And it was like, not

0:58:19.640 --> 0:58:21.360
<v Speaker 1>only that he did it in his own basement, which

0:58:21.560 --> 0:58:23.840
<v Speaker 1>I can understand doing it at home, but he left

0:58:23.880 --> 0:58:25.960
<v Speaker 1>quite a mess in his own basement for his family

0:58:26.040 --> 0:58:29.200
<v Speaker 1>to clean up. But if he had other options these days,

0:58:29.760 --> 0:58:32.760
<v Speaker 1>like doctor assisted suicide, he might not have had to

0:58:32.760 --> 0:58:34.560
<v Speaker 1>make a mess in his basement for his families. Yeah,

0:58:35.200 --> 0:58:38.919
<v Speaker 1>and chuck, uh, we know that Hunter Thompson is far

0:58:39.000 --> 0:58:41.520
<v Speaker 1>from the only person to make his own exit his

0:58:41.560 --> 0:58:46.280
<v Speaker 1>own way. Another very famous person, uh, Sigmund Freud did too.

0:58:46.360 --> 0:58:51.000
<v Speaker 1>Huh oh yeah, yeah, you know that assisted suicide. Yeah, literally,

0:58:51.040 --> 0:58:55.480
<v Speaker 1>physician assisted suicide. He was um diagnosed with cancer of

0:58:55.560 --> 0:58:59.720
<v Speaker 1>the palette because he smoked tons of cigars, which were

0:58:59.760 --> 0:59:04.040
<v Speaker 1>some times just a cigar and uh. For sixteen years

0:59:04.040 --> 0:59:06.640
<v Speaker 1>he lived with that diagnosis and finally, towards the end,

0:59:06.680 --> 0:59:10.800
<v Speaker 1>he asked his surgeon, his physician, go ahead and hit

0:59:10.840 --> 0:59:14.040
<v Speaker 1>me up with I think five grams of morphine, like

0:59:14.240 --> 0:59:16.400
<v Speaker 1>just a ton of morphine. And he died three hours

0:59:16.480 --> 0:59:18.720
<v Speaker 1>after the injection of it, but which was more than

0:59:18.760 --> 0:59:22.120
<v Speaker 1>his usual two grams of morphine right or cocaine he

0:59:22.160 --> 0:59:25.920
<v Speaker 1>loved cocaine um, but he had um developed what was

0:59:25.960 --> 0:59:30.080
<v Speaker 1>called todden angst totin angst as German, which is a

0:59:30.160 --> 0:59:34.280
<v Speaker 1>dread of death. So and so he lived with that

0:59:34.320 --> 0:59:37.680
<v Speaker 1>for sixteen years. But he finally he decided along the way,

0:59:37.720 --> 0:59:40.520
<v Speaker 1>like I fear this, but I'm going to take it

0:59:40.520 --> 0:59:45.480
<v Speaker 1>into my own hands. Physician assisted suicide. And there's definitely

0:59:45.880 --> 0:59:47.960
<v Speaker 1>more than one side to this coin. There's a lot

0:59:48.000 --> 0:59:50.560
<v Speaker 1>of people. There's very strong opinions on either side. But

0:59:50.960 --> 0:59:53.080
<v Speaker 1>I think it's a at the very least, even if

0:59:53.120 --> 0:59:56.160
<v Speaker 1>you remove a motion from it's an extremely interesting conversation

0:59:56.560 --> 0:59:59.320
<v Speaker 1>and that it reveals so much about our attitudes toward

0:59:59.400 --> 1:00:03.200
<v Speaker 1>death total and autonomy, and like who's who has the

1:00:03.280 --> 1:00:05.840
<v Speaker 1>right to decide whether they're going to die or who

1:00:05.840 --> 1:00:07.680
<v Speaker 1>has the right to tell somebody that they can't do that.

1:00:07.880 --> 1:00:11.240
<v Speaker 1>Whose life is it anyway, Richard Dreyfuss, Uh, and then

1:00:11.320 --> 1:00:13.440
<v Speaker 1>chuck one. One other thing that we want to hit

1:00:13.480 --> 1:00:17.400
<v Speaker 1>on is um regret. Yeah. I actually saw this a

1:00:17.400 --> 1:00:19.560
<v Speaker 1>few weeks ago, just by chance, and then you sent

1:00:19.640 --> 1:00:22.720
<v Speaker 1>it to me. Um. I think it was in England

1:00:23.400 --> 1:00:28.880
<v Speaker 1>hospice nurse spent a lot of time researching life regrets

1:00:28.880 --> 1:00:31.240
<v Speaker 1>over the course of a certain amount of time and

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<v Speaker 1>came up with the five most common life regrets. And uh,

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<v Speaker 1>I think this is like a good way to end it,

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<v Speaker 1>you know. Number one, I wish I had the courage

1:00:41.840 --> 1:00:44.000
<v Speaker 1>to live a life true to myself and not the

1:00:44.000 --> 1:00:47.200
<v Speaker 1>life others expected of me. That was the number one regret.

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<v Speaker 1>Number two was I wish I didn't work so hard.

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<v Speaker 1>That doesn't surprise me at all. Number three I wish

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<v Speaker 1>I had the courage to express my feelings. Number four

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<v Speaker 1>I wish I had stayed in touch with my friends.

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<v Speaker 1>It's very sad. Had one and I wish I'd let

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<v Speaker 1>myself be happier. There's number five. Yeah, like that. She

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<v Speaker 1>was saying that they didn't realize towards until the end

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<v Speaker 1>of their life that happiness is a choice that you make.

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<v Speaker 1>It's not something that happens to you. It's something you

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<v Speaker 1>go search out. It's a state of mind that you

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<v Speaker 1>strive for and to figure that out like at the

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<v Speaker 1>end that that's a regret. Yeah, so call to action people, Yeah, really,

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<v Speaker 1>like you think about the stuff. You don't have to

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<v Speaker 1>wish these things on your deathbed if you start doing

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<v Speaker 1>something about it. Now, dying, Chuck, you know what we

1:01:33.840 --> 1:01:36.920
<v Speaker 1>might have just done. We might have just finished the

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<v Speaker 1>death of the Death Suite. I bet there's something else. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>only time can tell. But I don't know how much

1:01:44.080 --> 1:01:46.640
<v Speaker 1>more aspects of death we can cover. And I'll tell

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<v Speaker 1>you what. I'm gonna put all of them together in

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<v Speaker 1>a blog post the Death Suite, so everybody can go

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<v Speaker 1>listen to all things death via stuff you should know.

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<v Speaker 1>In the meantime, if you want to look up more

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<v Speaker 1>about dying, just type dying into the search bar. How

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<v Speaker 1>stuff works. I think it has its own channel. Um,

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<v Speaker 1>there's so much to it. Uh. And since I said

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<v Speaker 1>search bar, it's time for a listener mail. This is

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<v Speaker 1>a nice one. Um. We don't normally do shout outs,

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<v Speaker 1>but this was a nice one, and I thought, what

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<v Speaker 1>better way to end such a depressing show. Uh. Hey guys,

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<v Speaker 1>and Jerry loved the podcast. Josh, I have to thank

1:02:22.880 --> 1:02:25.400
<v Speaker 1>you for teaching my fiance, Danny and me about the

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<v Speaker 1>flashlight trick to see spiderizer. Yeah. I still haven't done it, man,

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<v Speaker 1>I never think about it at night. Jerry, you said

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<v Speaker 1>you tried it right and it worked. Yeah, okay, I

1:02:33.200 --> 1:02:34.680
<v Speaker 1>need to do it. I need to set a reminder.

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<v Speaker 1>And my my response to people who have been like,

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<v Speaker 1>can you can you explain it again? Practice That's my explanation.

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<v Speaker 1>Just practice, Just try it from a different angle. Just practice.

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<v Speaker 1>It's a real thing. It's not a trick. It is

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<v Speaker 1>completely amazing. And this is from Peache by the way. Uh.

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<v Speaker 1>And it's wonderful and frightening at the same time. But

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<v Speaker 1>the problem now is that whenever we walk our dogs

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<v Speaker 1>at night, I just can't have my normal fiance. I

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<v Speaker 1>have this dude with the flashlight stuck to his forehead

1:03:01.480 --> 1:03:03.360
<v Speaker 1>stopping at every field to let me know just how

1:03:03.360 --> 1:03:05.480
<v Speaker 1>many spiders are dogs are stepping on and how we

1:03:05.480 --> 1:03:09.800
<v Speaker 1>are always surrounded. Thanks for the show, and now for

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<v Speaker 1>a shameless request. I know you don't often give shout outs,

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<v Speaker 1>but it would be the most amazing thing ever, if

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<v Speaker 1>you could give a shout out to Danny on the

1:03:16.200 --> 1:03:21.200
<v Speaker 1>podcast The Airs sometime before our wedding on oct let

1:03:21.280 --> 1:03:23.600
<v Speaker 1>him know that I love him more than anything, and

1:03:23.600 --> 1:03:25.520
<v Speaker 1>then I'm excited to share my life with him, even

1:03:25.560 --> 1:03:27.680
<v Speaker 1>if he does have a flashlight stuff to his forehead,

1:03:28.120 --> 1:03:30.800
<v Speaker 1>with the rest of our lives walking our dogs together.

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<v Speaker 1>I know this is totally blown away. And I would

1:03:34.160 --> 1:03:37.800
<v Speaker 1>even let him listen to that podcast first. So thanks

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<v Speaker 1>to Jerry. Thanks guys. That is from Peachy in Thousand Oaks, California.

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<v Speaker 1>I think Peachy just expressed it very nicely. Yeah, so Danny, Peachy, congratulations, Uh,

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<v Speaker 1>best of luck, best witches from us. I told her

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<v Speaker 1>listen up for it on that Dying podcast and he

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<v Speaker 1>thought that was kind of funny, and it's like great, Yeah,

1:03:57.160 --> 1:03:59.520
<v Speaker 1>and Danny, um, maybe put down with five slight once

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<v Speaker 1>in a while, yeah, wife, Uh and Peg, don't use

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