1 00:00:00,960 --> 00:00:04,960 Speaker 1: Look mare, Oh, I see you my own Look over 2 00:00:05,000 --> 00:00:08,800 Speaker 1: there is that culture. Yes, goodness, lost. 3 00:00:08,640 --> 00:00:14,880 Speaker 2: Culture dig lost culture. Ace is sniffing my little shoe. 4 00:00:15,200 --> 00:00:17,680 Speaker 3: We are visited once again by the mascot, the King 5 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:21,480 Speaker 3: Ya dog, the King Ace. He's got a little bit 6 00:00:21,480 --> 00:00:24,759 Speaker 3: of and star quality. We were told that when we 7 00:00:24,920 --> 00:00:27,880 Speaker 3: began the episode he may make an entrance and look 8 00:00:28,120 --> 00:00:28,760 Speaker 3: who is here? 9 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:30,320 Speaker 1: But he's not the only person here. 10 00:00:30,560 --> 00:00:33,400 Speaker 2: Oh there's a there's a gentleman of great another gentleman 11 00:00:33,479 --> 00:00:38,560 Speaker 2: of great repute and renown. I think he's gay ag 12 00:00:38,680 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 2: Lee for the versatility in his work. 13 00:00:41,040 --> 00:00:45,640 Speaker 1: That's really major. I was going I was going through it. 14 00:00:45,640 --> 00:00:51,320 Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, sure, big musical Nicholas Sparks adaptation. Yeah, 15 00:00:51,479 --> 00:00:56,360 Speaker 2: fucking fucking Airplane esque drag a comedy like this. 16 00:00:56,680 --> 00:00:59,680 Speaker 1: What can't the man do? I have to say? So 17 00:00:59,840 --> 00:01:02,120 Speaker 1: the gayest thing is to the gayest thing is to 18 00:01:02,120 --> 00:01:03,360 Speaker 1: make a Nicholas Sparks movie. 19 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:07,360 Speaker 3: Yeah, And speaking of that one. So I remember, this 20 00:01:07,480 --> 00:01:09,200 Speaker 3: is the way I described. 21 00:01:08,640 --> 00:01:11,400 Speaker 1: My interactions with the film. I'll walk to remember. 22 00:01:11,440 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 3: When I was a kid, sometimes I would play it 23 00:01:14,200 --> 00:01:17,120 Speaker 3: just to see how much I could cry. You know, 24 00:01:17,160 --> 00:01:20,360 Speaker 3: It's like when you're a little gay boy, the roost, 25 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 3: the projects, just kidding. That's when you are a little 26 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:27,120 Speaker 3: gay boy and you just want to push yourself to 27 00:01:27,160 --> 00:01:29,839 Speaker 3: like an emotional limit, but you need like a gay 28 00:01:29,920 --> 00:01:30,800 Speaker 3: dramatic excuse. 29 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:34,040 Speaker 1: For me, it was watching Mandy Moore die in a film, right, 30 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:35,560 Speaker 1: and was it? And did you run to the bathroom 31 00:01:35,600 --> 00:01:36,480 Speaker 1: to the mirror? Poiler alert? 32 00:01:36,920 --> 00:01:39,760 Speaker 3: Of course? What what are tiers if you can't see 33 00:01:39,760 --> 00:01:41,679 Speaker 3: them in the mirror? It's actually really cult. You're number seven. 34 00:01:41,880 --> 00:01:43,160 Speaker 3: What are tiers if you can't. 35 00:01:43,040 --> 00:01:44,760 Speaker 1: See them in the mirror? You know, Diane Cook has 36 00:01:44,760 --> 00:01:47,000 Speaker 1: a great joke about that. What does he say? He 37 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:49,160 Speaker 1: has a lot of great jokes. Bring back, Bring him back, 38 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:51,640 Speaker 1: Bring him back, b k lown, Come. 39 00:01:51,480 --> 00:01:54,000 Speaker 2: On, no, he has I think it was like it's 40 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:56,040 Speaker 2: his third album or whatever. It was like, you know, 41 00:01:56,120 --> 00:01:57,880 Speaker 2: you just every time you you just gotta go to 42 00:01:57,880 --> 00:01:58,600 Speaker 2: the fucking mirror. 43 00:01:58,760 --> 00:02:02,360 Speaker 3: Yeah. See, I like that about Dan Cook. He's he's 44 00:02:02,640 --> 00:02:06,440 Speaker 3: man enough to admit he's gay. And that's rule culture 45 00:02:06,480 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 3: number eleven. 46 00:02:07,120 --> 00:02:10,799 Speaker 1: So that's why I like Dan Cook. Dan Cook man 47 00:02:10,960 --> 00:02:14,639 Speaker 1: enough to admit he's gay. He's gay. Sorry, supe is 48 00:02:14,639 --> 00:02:15,079 Speaker 1: pretty good. 49 00:02:15,160 --> 00:02:17,000 Speaker 3: God didn't want me to make that joke, so he 50 00:02:17,080 --> 00:02:18,440 Speaker 3: stopped me right in the middle. It made me say, 51 00:02:18,520 --> 00:02:19,800 Speaker 3: Dan cook at my mouth. 52 00:02:19,800 --> 00:02:21,560 Speaker 1: Speaking of God. Can I talk about my experience with 53 00:02:21,600 --> 00:02:22,440 Speaker 1: the Walk drove on now? 54 00:02:22,680 --> 00:02:26,120 Speaker 2: Wore that DVD out and I've told I told Manny this, 55 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:33,079 Speaker 2: but the commentary you stay mentioning the comment adam of 56 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 2: our guest Shane West Manny Moore, the three of them 57 00:02:36,960 --> 00:02:40,160 Speaker 2: having a blast, barely talking about the movie, just every 58 00:02:40,200 --> 00:02:42,440 Speaker 2: few minutes going oh, there's Daryl Hannah in a wig, 59 00:02:42,639 --> 00:02:46,079 Speaker 2: and then just going on and on, Oh my god, wait. 60 00:02:46,240 --> 00:02:49,440 Speaker 2: Walk to Remember has one of the great wonners. Great 61 00:02:49,480 --> 00:02:51,799 Speaker 2: on in the beginning at the water, which is just 62 00:02:51,800 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 2: one one take, and then in the fat. 63 00:02:53,240 --> 00:02:54,600 Speaker 1: Of but which one I don't remember it. It's been 64 00:02:54,639 --> 00:02:55,040 Speaker 1: a second. 65 00:02:55,080 --> 00:02:57,160 Speaker 2: It's when they go to that you know, like you know, 66 00:02:57,280 --> 00:03:00,239 Speaker 2: cement factory or whatever, or just right like the and 67 00:03:00,280 --> 00:03:02,120 Speaker 2: then like they get that, they get that kid. The 68 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:04,600 Speaker 2: reason why Shane Wess white Landing gets suspended or gets 69 00:03:04,639 --> 00:03:07,720 Speaker 2: in trouble has to go right, right, right, right right, 70 00:03:08,240 --> 00:03:11,440 Speaker 2: really the inside the inciting so what not the inciting 71 00:03:11,520 --> 00:03:17,280 Speaker 2: just ye image whatever what the rate, save the cat 72 00:03:17,360 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 2: put us and to stop making us get everything right 73 00:03:20,560 --> 00:03:21,080 Speaker 2: all the time. 74 00:03:21,280 --> 00:03:23,639 Speaker 1: This is a podcast that gets a little mess season 75 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:26,520 Speaker 1: now it gets a little messy sometimes. Oh god. 76 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:29,280 Speaker 3: Anyway, it's great that our guest is here to talk 77 00:03:29,320 --> 00:03:32,920 Speaker 3: about the twenty fourth anniversary of A. 78 00:03:35,720 --> 00:03:40,280 Speaker 1: Stop That Train is a film that is an experience. 79 00:03:40,880 --> 00:03:43,560 Speaker 3: I would just go ahead as to say, you can't 80 00:03:43,600 --> 00:03:46,400 Speaker 3: be on enough of an edible to get and watch 81 00:03:46,560 --> 00:03:47,520 Speaker 3: to get yourself together. 82 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 1: Watch this movie. I am in it. I do play 83 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:51,559 Speaker 1: the press secretary. 84 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:54,520 Speaker 3: I am honored to live in a world where RuPaul 85 00:03:54,600 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 3: is the President of the United States and shooty gag gag. 86 00:03:58,280 --> 00:04:01,840 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, upid fucking name. I get to do all 87 00:04:01,880 --> 00:04:03,880 Speaker 1: sorts of shenanigans through Uh. 88 00:04:03,920 --> 00:04:06,200 Speaker 3: We went to the premiere and saw the movie, Melissa 89 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:10,120 Speaker 3: and I we screamed. It has so many incredible people 90 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:14,440 Speaker 3: in the cast giving great performances. Juju b and Ginger stars. 91 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,880 Speaker 3: By the way, we are the number one jujub fans, absolutely, 92 00:04:17,960 --> 00:04:20,119 Speaker 3: and that was a big reason why they became friends. 93 00:04:20,120 --> 00:04:24,159 Speaker 3: Actually we were the Jujubi and Pandora. Yeah, oh Juju 94 00:04:24,279 --> 00:04:28,360 Speaker 3: and Ramon. I'm sorry, okay, so we are the Jujan Raven. 95 00:04:28,440 --> 00:04:30,880 Speaker 3: But yeah, our guest is the best also directed. 96 00:04:30,640 --> 00:04:32,720 Speaker 1: I don't know Hairspray, Come on the fuck. 97 00:04:33,360 --> 00:04:35,880 Speaker 2: If anything, the Culture Awards this year were was justin 98 00:04:35,920 --> 00:04:37,720 Speaker 2: Adam Shankman sort of love letter. 99 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:39,520 Speaker 1: We had Brittany Snow We were just talking about that. 100 00:04:39,640 --> 00:04:43,279 Speaker 1: Malin Akerman derated. I don't care what anyone says. 101 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:49,320 Speaker 2: Mandy Moore herself, yes, and Rupel and miss herself. The 102 00:04:49,360 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 2: New Muse, Yeah, the new the new Shankman Muse, the 103 00:04:52,040 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 2: new shank Mws. I hope to be a shank Mews 104 00:04:53,760 --> 00:04:54,159 Speaker 2: one day. 105 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:57,359 Speaker 3: I'm ready to bring the shank News shank Man Man 106 00:04:57,760 --> 00:05:00,400 Speaker 3: so that you can hopefully become the shank mus Yeah. 107 00:05:00,560 --> 00:05:01,160 Speaker 3: The episode. 108 00:05:01,200 --> 00:05:07,320 Speaker 1: All right, everyone, please welcome the Gay Angle. Do you 109 00:05:07,440 --> 00:05:09,160 Speaker 1: like gay Angle as a title of app? 110 00:05:09,760 --> 00:05:19,800 Speaker 4: How about Gangly gang Gang Gangly Dangly? Do they call 111 00:05:19,880 --> 00:05:20,680 Speaker 4: you that in school? 112 00:05:21,160 --> 00:05:28,760 Speaker 1: The Risen? Yeah, that was my prison. You must not 113 00:05:28,960 --> 00:05:33,080 Speaker 1: enough time, not enough time. Prison. I have nothing to 114 00:05:33,120 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: add about prison. I'm not I'm gonna get you just 115 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:41,119 Speaker 1: said that. You said that this podcast prison experience in prison, 116 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:44,200 Speaker 1: it's it's a gilded it is a guilded cage, as 117 00:05:44,240 --> 00:05:47,880 Speaker 1: it were, podcasting magnificence. You remember that when I met you, 118 00:05:48,040 --> 00:05:52,640 Speaker 1: you were doing a podcast I was we met all 119 00:05:52,720 --> 00:05:56,400 Speaker 1: of this whole manifestation of coming and being on this 120 00:05:56,560 --> 00:06:02,720 Speaker 1: podcast Voice Now is really pretty intense for reasons beyond 121 00:06:02,720 --> 00:06:06,320 Speaker 1: the fact that I am a slavish listener. I do 122 00:06:06,480 --> 00:06:09,680 Speaker 1: not miss I had to actually when I heard John 123 00:06:09,760 --> 00:06:11,840 Speaker 1: Waters say my name, when you guys talked about me 124 00:06:11,920 --> 00:06:13,640 Speaker 1: with John Waters, I had to pull over and I 125 00:06:13,720 --> 00:06:19,040 Speaker 1: started crying. No, I couldn't believe it. And I and 126 00:06:19,480 --> 00:06:21,440 Speaker 1: every time I hear you guys mentioned one of the 127 00:06:21,520 --> 00:06:23,000 Speaker 1: things that I've done or one of the people I've 128 00:06:23,000 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 1: worked with, I'm like, oh God, what's good. That's news 129 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:30,080 Speaker 1: to you, but it's it's it is news to me 130 00:06:30,240 --> 00:06:32,400 Speaker 1: because I live in a very small world. I live 131 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:36,640 Speaker 1: in a very tiny life, I really do. But Matt 132 00:06:36,760 --> 00:06:39,520 Speaker 1: and I met when I was doing a podcast. RuPaul 133 00:06:39,600 --> 00:06:43,560 Speaker 1: had me on a What's What's the tea? And we 134 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 1: shot it in a little hotel room on Robertson in 135 00:06:48,360 --> 00:06:51,160 Speaker 1: some weird little hotel that does that even exist anymore? 136 00:06:51,279 --> 00:06:53,280 Speaker 3: I don't know, but I can't remember what it was, 137 00:06:53,360 --> 00:06:55,360 Speaker 3: but I remember like I was told to go there 138 00:06:56,760 --> 00:06:58,240 Speaker 3: in the door. They let me in and ru Paul 139 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:00,800 Speaker 3: is mid podcast with Adam Shank and I sat in 140 00:07:00,920 --> 00:07:03,039 Speaker 3: the room while to wait for them to finish because 141 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:04,240 Speaker 3: I was going on after. 142 00:07:04,240 --> 00:07:07,840 Speaker 1: And yeah, real well, that's crazy. I feel like you 143 00:07:07,920 --> 00:07:10,320 Speaker 1: have to sit on the bed. I was sitting on 144 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 1: the bed while you guys were finishing into like director's 145 00:07:13,120 --> 00:07:15,280 Speaker 1: chairs or something, and it was It's an even crazier 146 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:15,800 Speaker 1: story though. 147 00:07:15,920 --> 00:07:18,360 Speaker 3: So the earlier that day I met RuPaul for the 148 00:07:18,440 --> 00:07:21,880 Speaker 3: first time because this is and this is tea. Imagine 149 00:07:22,040 --> 00:07:26,200 Speaker 3: was doing a reboot of Star Booty and Matt was 150 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:27,200 Speaker 3: attached to. 151 00:07:28,880 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 1: Your fucking this guy right now. 152 00:07:31,760 --> 00:07:35,480 Speaker 3: Literally earlier that day I brought I brought my twelve 153 00:07:35,960 --> 00:07:38,920 Speaker 3: page treatment in for Star Booty. I had a meeting 154 00:07:38,960 --> 00:07:42,640 Speaker 3: with RuPaul because Imagine like picked my treatment that they 155 00:07:42,800 --> 00:07:45,800 Speaker 3: liked the best. I go, I sit down, I walk in. 156 00:07:46,040 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 3: RuPaul comes in and obviously like statuesque, gorgeous. This is 157 00:07:50,440 --> 00:07:52,400 Speaker 3: like it's RuPaul And I. 158 00:07:52,440 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 1: Go, RuPaul, how are you? And RuPaul goes, I don't 159 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:57,440 Speaker 1: see how any how that is any of your business? 160 00:07:57,520 --> 00:08:01,960 Speaker 3: Classic to the eye, and I said, you're right and 161 00:08:02,080 --> 00:08:06,040 Speaker 3: I should fuck off, and he goes And that's when 162 00:08:06,080 --> 00:08:08,360 Speaker 3: I because I knew how to talk to him because 163 00:08:08,400 --> 00:08:10,480 Speaker 3: of the show. But we hit it off and he 164 00:08:10,560 --> 00:08:13,000 Speaker 3: invited me on the podcast. I was nobody and I 165 00:08:13,120 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 3: walk in and there's you, a director that we have 166 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:18,400 Speaker 3: always loved. Seriously, Jesus Christ. 167 00:08:18,440 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 1: That makes me sound old, but great you shut. I 168 00:08:27,680 --> 00:08:32,240 Speaker 1: knew exactly that this is where this was all. But yes, 169 00:08:32,480 --> 00:08:36,880 Speaker 1: we met them, but then I forgot about you completely. Yes, 170 00:08:37,720 --> 00:08:41,040 Speaker 1: and you existed in no part of my brain. And 171 00:08:41,200 --> 00:08:48,640 Speaker 1: then during the pandemic, during lockdown, I had been in 172 00:08:48,760 --> 00:08:53,040 Speaker 1: a in a a long thirteen year relationship that ended 173 00:08:53,080 --> 00:08:57,360 Speaker 1: about two weeks into lockdown. Into lockdown, yeah, and I 174 00:08:57,600 --> 00:09:03,160 Speaker 1: was alone. I had no pot, no bubble, no anything. 175 00:09:03,720 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 1: And so my all my relationships were being kept alive, 176 00:09:07,920 --> 00:09:12,280 Speaker 1: both on social media. Well someone not so much on 177 00:09:12,360 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 1: social media, but it was podcasts and zooms. Yeah, yeah, 178 00:09:15,960 --> 00:09:17,480 Speaker 1: it was podcasts and zooms. And I had this great 179 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:20,840 Speaker 1: I had the greatest Zoom club ever with the greatest 180 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:23,199 Speaker 1: people ever, which I don't know you know about this 181 00:09:23,400 --> 00:09:28,880 Speaker 1: weird thing like famous game Game Night, the Academy Award 182 00:09:29,160 --> 00:09:36,439 Speaker 1: winning trivia contest thing they these people are the It was. 183 00:09:36,559 --> 00:09:39,360 Speaker 1: It was pretty and we would get together every week 184 00:09:40,400 --> 00:09:44,959 Speaker 1: on Friday, we on Zoom. We would have watched a 185 00:09:45,160 --> 00:09:48,720 Speaker 1: movie the Oscar winning Best Pictures starting from the very 186 00:09:48,800 --> 00:09:54,120 Speaker 1: beginnings from and then so this is how we occupy ourselves. 187 00:09:54,160 --> 00:09:55,480 Speaker 1: But what we'd get on the Zoom we do a 188 00:09:55,520 --> 00:09:59,920 Speaker 1: trivia contest, and whoever was hosting that week, we'd rotate 189 00:10:00,040 --> 00:10:02,680 Speaker 1: who was the host of that would ask the trivia questions, 190 00:10:02,760 --> 00:10:05,960 Speaker 1: and we'd give a prize at the end. Which there's 191 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:09,800 Speaker 1: a whole other weird story about this, But what started happening. 192 00:10:09,840 --> 00:10:14,120 Speaker 1: We started showing up on the Zoom in costume as 193 00:10:14,240 --> 00:10:18,600 Speaker 1: either somebody from or something from the movie fun By 194 00:10:18,920 --> 00:10:21,880 Speaker 1: the pictures that I have because we have them all 195 00:10:22,800 --> 00:10:26,240 Speaker 1: Melissa and Ben as the box of chocolates from Forrest 196 00:10:26,320 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 1: Gump is one of the craziest things about wait Amy 197 00:10:29,559 --> 00:10:36,480 Speaker 1: Adams for Patten built a Sherman tank out of out 198 00:10:36,520 --> 00:10:40,400 Speaker 1: of Amazon boxes like things like that, and it was 199 00:10:40,440 --> 00:10:43,120 Speaker 1: all crafty. Everything was just anything we could find around 200 00:10:43,120 --> 00:10:45,840 Speaker 1: our house. I was the oh in terms of endearment, 201 00:10:45,960 --> 00:10:47,720 Speaker 1: I was the portrait. I was the renoir. 202 00:10:52,600 --> 00:10:53,080 Speaker 3: But you know. 203 00:10:55,320 --> 00:10:57,640 Speaker 1: It was it was crazy, you guys. See, you guys 204 00:10:57,640 --> 00:10:59,520 Speaker 1: got all the way up to the nineties. No, we 205 00:10:59,600 --> 00:11:01,400 Speaker 1: did them all, and we had to add that. We 206 00:11:01,880 --> 00:11:04,480 Speaker 1: kept going after the pandemic because we liked it so much, 207 00:11:04,760 --> 00:11:08,360 Speaker 1: including while everybody was in different countries filming, like Melissa 208 00:11:08,400 --> 00:11:10,600 Speaker 1: and Ben were in Australia doing that Perpost and then 209 00:11:10,640 --> 00:11:14,719 Speaker 1: she was doing Ursula. At one point I committed that 210 00:11:14,880 --> 00:11:17,120 Speaker 1: we were all doing it when we would find our 211 00:11:17,160 --> 00:11:19,160 Speaker 1: time zones. While I was doing Disenchanted, I was in 212 00:11:19,280 --> 00:11:21,559 Speaker 1: Dublin doing it, and I was in the drag is 213 00:11:21,640 --> 00:11:26,240 Speaker 1: Velma for Chicago like it is. It was fucking crazy, Wow, 214 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:31,160 Speaker 1: greatest time. But during that period I started to realize 215 00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:36,760 Speaker 1: that I have no gay friends, and yeah, yeah exactly, 216 00:11:38,040 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 1: I had, like I guess, my life had really shrunk 217 00:11:41,400 --> 00:11:43,800 Speaker 1: into kind of the business and my family and my 218 00:11:43,920 --> 00:11:49,280 Speaker 1: friends growing up. And I started listening to you guys 219 00:11:49,960 --> 00:11:58,360 Speaker 1: and stradio and keep It Yeah, and I one day 220 00:11:58,960 --> 00:12:01,080 Speaker 1: what it happened is you guys became like my friends 221 00:12:01,720 --> 00:12:05,520 Speaker 1: because I I had no one else other than my 222 00:12:05,720 --> 00:12:08,520 Speaker 1: zoom friends who were dressed as the hand from Jaws 223 00:12:08,559 --> 00:12:17,199 Speaker 1: and the same you know, and and and she and 224 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:20,040 Speaker 1: and and I had this weird thing come over me 225 00:12:20,880 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 1: where I thought, what if I DM these people who 226 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:26,439 Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know if they're going to 227 00:12:26,559 --> 00:12:28,520 Speaker 1: know who I am. If not, I'm just going to 228 00:12:28,559 --> 00:12:32,240 Speaker 1: say something nice to them because I am so grateful 229 00:12:32,320 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 1: for their company. And so I DMed both of you. 230 00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:39,400 Speaker 1: I d M Lewis and I d M and I 231 00:12:39,559 --> 00:12:42,880 Speaker 1: just went like, Hi, I'm Adam. I don't know, like, 232 00:12:43,080 --> 00:12:44,880 Speaker 1: I just want to tell you thank you so much. 233 00:12:45,400 --> 00:12:48,760 Speaker 1: You know, I love your pod and it's really helping 234 00:12:48,840 --> 00:12:53,559 Speaker 1: me during the lockdown, and you guys got back to me, 235 00:12:54,800 --> 00:13:02,120 Speaker 1: and that's how this started. And now it's like and. 236 00:13:02,160 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 2: Now I'm sitting here and then like I feel like 237 00:13:05,360 --> 00:13:07,439 Speaker 2: we're always hitting each other up, just to check in 238 00:13:07,520 --> 00:13:08,920 Speaker 2: and say, hey, he do we do? 239 00:13:09,120 --> 00:13:11,120 Speaker 1: I mean, I've like talked to you, I've like come 240 00:13:11,160 --> 00:13:13,400 Speaker 1: to you and there's like the boy problems I've been Oh, 241 00:13:13,480 --> 00:13:14,840 Speaker 1: I love. 242 00:13:14,760 --> 00:13:18,040 Speaker 3: Running into you turning it on the floor at Hollywood Equinox. 243 00:13:18,480 --> 00:13:20,240 Speaker 3: This man, if you want to find him, you might 244 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:23,480 Speaker 3: just find him choreographing the next RuPaul's Drag Race Mega 245 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:25,760 Speaker 3: Mix on the floor at Hollywood Equinox. 246 00:13:25,880 --> 00:13:29,800 Speaker 1: He don't care who's watching. This is the let's now 247 00:13:29,960 --> 00:13:38,599 Speaker 1: tease my keep it. I mean, this is this is 248 00:13:38,640 --> 00:13:40,680 Speaker 1: another thing that people, yeah, might keep it just turned 249 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:41,880 Speaker 1: into and I don't think so, honey. 250 00:13:42,200 --> 00:13:47,280 Speaker 2: I always forget that you your dancer down you are 251 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:51,120 Speaker 2: and you you you Todd John Chew everything he knows. 252 00:13:51,559 --> 00:13:57,360 Speaker 1: I am so proud of that man, who I still 253 00:13:57,400 --> 00:13:59,360 Speaker 1: think of as a boy because, like I remember when 254 00:13:59,400 --> 00:14:03,160 Speaker 1: he or I remember when he first came into the office. 255 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:07,160 Speaker 1: That was a crazy thing. Like when we were doing 256 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:12,319 Speaker 1: Step Up two, which was his first movie was supposed 257 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:15,920 Speaker 1: to go straight to video, and he came in and 258 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:18,120 Speaker 1: met with us, and I was like, I'd been reading 259 00:14:18,160 --> 00:14:20,960 Speaker 1: about this guy forever in the trades as being you know, 260 00:14:21,200 --> 00:14:23,200 Speaker 1: the next this and the next that, and he was 261 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:26,120 Speaker 1: attached to all these projects and then he came in 262 00:14:26,480 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 1: to meet with us on this straight to video sequel 263 00:14:29,440 --> 00:14:32,440 Speaker 1: to Step Up, which I was like, isn't he too 264 00:14:32,520 --> 00:14:34,960 Speaker 1: fancy for this? This is crazy? And he came in 265 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 1: and said, no, I love dancing, and to be honest, 266 00:14:38,320 --> 00:14:40,720 Speaker 1: I can't get any of those movies made and I 267 00:14:40,840 --> 00:14:42,920 Speaker 1: want to do this. This seems like it would be 268 00:14:43,000 --> 00:14:45,280 Speaker 1: great for me because it was a dance ie that 269 00:14:45,400 --> 00:14:48,280 Speaker 1: was going to get made. Yeah, And he was really 270 00:14:48,320 --> 00:14:50,280 Speaker 1: really into the dancers. He was friends with all the dancers, 271 00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:55,880 Speaker 1: and so we hired him. And I sat there and 272 00:14:56,360 --> 00:14:58,880 Speaker 1: watched that man blossom wow in front of me and 273 00:14:59,000 --> 00:15:03,440 Speaker 1: then when uh three D happened, I was like, you've 274 00:15:03,480 --> 00:15:05,760 Speaker 1: lost your mind? What is this movie that you're taking? 275 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 4: Yeah? 276 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:11,480 Speaker 1: Crazy? And I yeah, I produced all those movies. And 277 00:15:11,800 --> 00:15:14,760 Speaker 1: but I was so proud of him and I his passion. 278 00:15:16,080 --> 00:15:19,360 Speaker 1: His passion for filmmaking is actually sort of equal, I 279 00:15:19,400 --> 00:15:23,400 Speaker 1: would say from a director standpoint to what Tom Cruise 280 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:29,120 Speaker 1: is for acting. Wow, just this this uh undiscriminating love 281 00:15:29,240 --> 00:15:29,520 Speaker 1: for it. 282 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, like like like that's perfect, like John coming in 283 00:15:32,480 --> 00:15:35,960 Speaker 2: to be like I can't even like it's not even 284 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:39,040 Speaker 2: about getting the things that he wants made. It's just 285 00:15:39,160 --> 00:15:41,040 Speaker 2: that he wants to do it because this thing will 286 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:43,640 Speaker 2: get made. In that is that is the perfect sort 287 00:15:43,680 --> 00:15:46,080 Speaker 2: of thing. It's like this like like Matt and I 288 00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:47,520 Speaker 2: are even talking about this now where we're just like, 289 00:15:47,920 --> 00:15:50,200 Speaker 2: you know what, let's when we take out our our stuff, 290 00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:53,240 Speaker 2: let's just let's just make sure it gets made. 291 00:15:53,280 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 1: That's the most important thing. He also has a he 292 00:15:58,480 --> 00:16:00,760 Speaker 1: has something so different than me, like I could. I 293 00:16:01,040 --> 00:16:03,440 Speaker 1: can barely say the names of my own movies like 294 00:16:03,520 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 1: I can bear like I can't. I don't have My 295 00:16:06,440 --> 00:16:13,760 Speaker 1: relationship with my own work is very stressful. And whereas 296 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:18,080 Speaker 1: he his is not. He he he really truly loves 297 00:16:18,920 --> 00:16:23,640 Speaker 1: you know, he lives and he lives sitting sitting watching 298 00:16:23,960 --> 00:16:27,680 Speaker 1: sitting watching him watch Wicked was almost as good as 299 00:16:28,240 --> 00:16:32,080 Speaker 1: that man loves Wicked, and I love it. It's really 300 00:16:32,400 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 1: really something, you know. 301 00:16:33,960 --> 00:16:37,240 Speaker 5: I was like, I'll never like it as much as him. 302 00:16:37,360 --> 00:16:40,040 Speaker 2: So to contrasts amazing well, because okay, so and so 303 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:42,480 Speaker 2: to contrast to that, before we got on the mic, 304 00:16:43,120 --> 00:16:45,040 Speaker 2: you were saying, I was like, I can't wait to 305 00:16:45,040 --> 00:16:49,880 Speaker 2: see stop that Train June twelfth. You're like, I will 306 00:16:50,040 --> 00:16:52,520 Speaker 2: still never watch my own work. And I was about 307 00:16:52,560 --> 00:16:53,920 Speaker 2: to ask you, well, what was the last thing of 308 00:16:53,960 --> 00:16:56,240 Speaker 2: yours that you watched? And can I can can you 309 00:16:56,320 --> 00:16:57,160 Speaker 2: now answer that question? 310 00:16:57,480 --> 00:17:02,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, I've seen two of my movies since I made them. Okay, 311 00:17:02,880 --> 00:17:07,240 Speaker 1: one was and by the way, all the way through, 312 00:17:07,440 --> 00:17:10,000 Speaker 1: like because sometimes like my movies will be on TV 313 00:17:10,200 --> 00:17:12,680 Speaker 1: when I have like my TV, My TV just runs 314 00:17:12,720 --> 00:17:15,280 Speaker 1: in my house and sometimes I'll see something and I'll 315 00:17:15,359 --> 00:17:17,720 Speaker 1: change the channel if I see something that I've made. 316 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:19,880 Speaker 1: Bringing down the House comes on, You're New York bringing 317 00:17:19,920 --> 00:17:22,240 Speaker 1: your turn, bringing down there, bringing down the House. I 318 00:17:22,440 --> 00:17:27,399 Speaker 1: just put my hand over my mouth because I was like, 319 00:17:29,359 --> 00:17:31,560 Speaker 1: that's actually one of the few movies that I've made 320 00:17:31,640 --> 00:17:35,440 Speaker 1: that I quote, but I don't quote it from I 321 00:17:35,440 --> 00:17:38,040 Speaker 1: would quote it from my memory of making it in 322 00:17:38,080 --> 00:17:42,879 Speaker 1: front like yeah, yeah, but I can't believe, like that 323 00:17:43,040 --> 00:17:45,760 Speaker 1: movie could never get made today. There is no way. 324 00:17:45,880 --> 00:17:46,760 Speaker 1: It's a beautiful time and. 325 00:17:48,440 --> 00:17:48,800 Speaker 3: It was. 326 00:17:49,160 --> 00:17:51,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean Steve Martin is running around that club 327 00:17:51,840 --> 00:17:54,200 Speaker 1: and acting like a rapper at the end with Joan 328 00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:57,560 Speaker 1: plow Wright smoking in the club going to do be 329 00:17:57,680 --> 00:18:01,399 Speaker 1: and the thing. It was crazy anyway, Genie Smart, Like, 330 00:18:01,680 --> 00:18:05,720 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean Missy Pile, I mean that is that. 331 00:18:06,080 --> 00:18:10,200 Speaker 3: Miss that another shank news that is Missy Pile basically 332 00:18:10,240 --> 00:18:12,919 Speaker 3: steals the movie in her She steals every movie. 333 00:18:14,080 --> 00:18:17,840 Speaker 1: But this say, the two movies that you've seen, movies 334 00:18:17,920 --> 00:18:20,720 Speaker 1: that the two movies that I've seen was when I 335 00:18:21,200 --> 00:18:23,680 Speaker 1: was And I have no problem talking about this when 336 00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:28,200 Speaker 1: I was, because it was in the news plenty when 337 00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:30,000 Speaker 1: I went to rehab twelve and a half years ago 338 00:18:31,640 --> 00:18:36,120 Speaker 1: on New Year's Eve. By the way, there's very few 339 00:18:36,200 --> 00:18:39,000 Speaker 1: things that are depressing as New Year's even rehab. Yeah, yeah, 340 00:18:39,000 --> 00:18:41,720 Speaker 1: and I was in a lovely rehab, but it was 341 00:18:41,880 --> 00:18:45,600 Speaker 1: it's still pretty grim and everybody wants to you know, 342 00:18:45,920 --> 00:18:47,600 Speaker 1: is going like all the things that we can't do, 343 00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:50,040 Speaker 1: but we're on New Year's on New Year's yeah, yeah, 344 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:52,959 Speaker 1: and mourning all the New Year's eve pasts and other 345 00:18:53,080 --> 00:18:55,520 Speaker 1: things which, by the way, nobody remembered any of them. Yeah, 346 00:18:55,600 --> 00:18:59,920 Speaker 1: it was you know, it's rehab. And there was about 347 00:19:00,000 --> 00:19:04,160 Speaker 1: out There was about twelve of us there and had 348 00:19:04,240 --> 00:19:08,040 Speaker 1: about at eight the celebrations were over, and because they 349 00:19:08,040 --> 00:19:09,639 Speaker 1: gave it, you know, we had a nice dinner and 350 00:19:09,760 --> 00:19:14,600 Speaker 1: then whatever. And so we go into the common room 351 00:19:15,240 --> 00:19:17,280 Speaker 1: and there's a big TV in there and we turned 352 00:19:17,320 --> 00:19:21,119 Speaker 1: it on and walked to remember was starting and I 353 00:19:21,400 --> 00:19:22,800 Speaker 1: and oh, by the way, none of them knew what 354 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:26,920 Speaker 1: I did for a living. Oh, I said. So I went, oh, 355 00:19:28,119 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 1: maybe we don't watch this, and everyone, no, no, no, 356 00:19:31,080 --> 00:19:33,040 Speaker 1: we love this movie. And that was the first time 357 00:19:33,040 --> 00:19:37,200 Speaker 1: I was like, wait what then which walked I remember anyway, 358 00:19:37,240 --> 00:19:39,720 Speaker 1: They were like, no, we love this movie like that, 359 00:19:39,840 --> 00:19:43,120 Speaker 1: and I said, guys, please, And this one girl who 360 00:19:43,240 --> 00:19:49,439 Speaker 1: was really really tough, who had the we're tramped inside 361 00:19:52,600 --> 00:19:55,440 Speaker 1: like that, and she becomes a president well, and she 362 00:19:55,680 --> 00:19:57,760 Speaker 1: was hiding from the law in rehab. That was the 363 00:19:57,800 --> 00:19:59,720 Speaker 1: prayer her father had put there and he was about 364 00:20:00,280 --> 00:20:03,040 Speaker 1: he was waiting to smuggle her to Mexico. He was 365 00:20:03,119 --> 00:20:09,520 Speaker 1: waiting to get her out to Jesus were there. So 366 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:13,000 Speaker 1: we're in there and she busts in. She goes, don't 367 00:20:13,119 --> 00:20:17,359 Speaker 1: touch that fucking dial. This is my favorite movie. And 368 00:20:17,680 --> 00:20:23,080 Speaker 1: I was like, okay. So I sat there and then 369 00:20:23,119 --> 00:20:26,920 Speaker 1: it said Adam Shankman in the credits, and people sort 370 00:20:26,920 --> 00:20:30,000 Speaker 1: of turned and looked at me, and I shrugged, and 371 00:20:30,080 --> 00:20:33,159 Speaker 1: then nobody said anything, and then everybody turned to look 372 00:20:33,200 --> 00:20:36,440 Speaker 1: at TV and we I sat and I watched the 373 00:20:36,520 --> 00:20:43,320 Speaker 1: movie and it was hard for me to watch. But 374 00:20:43,440 --> 00:20:45,240 Speaker 1: then there was a moment where I sort of dropped 375 00:20:45,280 --> 00:20:48,760 Speaker 1: in and I was just aware of what it was 376 00:20:48,800 --> 00:20:53,240 Speaker 1: about and the message, and I started to like pay 377 00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:57,720 Speaker 1: attention to that part of it and what was going 378 00:20:57,760 --> 00:21:03,680 Speaker 1: on scene by scene, And afterwards I went like, I think, 379 00:21:03,840 --> 00:21:07,320 Speaker 1: I'm really proud that that's the story. I told him 380 00:21:07,320 --> 00:21:10,359 Speaker 1: that I put that out in the world and I 381 00:21:10,520 --> 00:21:14,919 Speaker 1: can criticize myself and my work and my the craft 382 00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:17,119 Speaker 1: behind it, which you know, was my second movie. I 383 00:21:17,119 --> 00:21:20,520 Speaker 1: didn't know the fuck I was doing. And and and 384 00:21:20,640 --> 00:21:23,800 Speaker 1: I remembering, like the scene where she's standing on both 385 00:21:24,040 --> 00:21:29,080 Speaker 1: you knows someone we We shot that in twenty minutes, 386 00:21:29,560 --> 00:21:32,040 Speaker 1: that whole scene. But I think because Mandy was a 387 00:21:32,160 --> 00:21:35,000 Speaker 1: minor and her time was that she was about to pumpkin, 388 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:38,080 Speaker 1: and so we ran into that spot, turned the car 389 00:21:38,240 --> 00:21:40,600 Speaker 1: lights on and just shot that. I kept going now around, now, 390 00:21:40,680 --> 00:21:43,040 Speaker 1: turn the camera now, turning the camera like that, and 391 00:21:43,240 --> 00:21:45,760 Speaker 1: that's how that scene happened. It happened in twenty minutes 392 00:21:45,760 --> 00:21:49,360 Speaker 1: and dollible scene I've ever heard, and I've always thought 393 00:21:49,359 --> 00:21:50,960 Speaker 1: that that scene was really really sweet. It's one of 394 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 1: the most romantic things to me that's ever been in 395 00:21:55,280 --> 00:21:59,520 Speaker 1: That's so I feel I felt really good about having 396 00:21:59,640 --> 00:22:03,159 Speaker 1: made that. I'll never watch it again, but I but I, 397 00:22:03,400 --> 00:22:05,240 Speaker 1: but I felt good about making it. What was and 398 00:22:05,280 --> 00:22:06,679 Speaker 1: what's the second? You're bad? Lets you want to keep 399 00:22:06,680 --> 00:22:09,720 Speaker 1: talking about this? No, fine, because that rehab story. 400 00:22:09,640 --> 00:22:12,400 Speaker 3: Is incredible, by the way, I can't if you didn't 401 00:22:12,440 --> 00:22:13,879 Speaker 3: say anything beforehand. 402 00:22:14,280 --> 00:22:17,080 Speaker 1: I didn't know what to say. Of course, I was like, 403 00:22:18,359 --> 00:22:21,280 Speaker 1: we don't we like in the therapies there we did. 404 00:22:21,280 --> 00:22:23,040 Speaker 1: It's not like we sat around and talked about our jobs. 405 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:26,159 Speaker 2: So it was already an emotional night because it was 406 00:22:26,200 --> 00:22:28,520 Speaker 2: New Year's and you're with all these people. 407 00:22:28,600 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 1: Was already an anarchistic there anyway. It's like I made 408 00:22:31,320 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 1: them celebrate Christmas when they weren't supposed to celebrate Christmas, 409 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:37,160 Speaker 1: and that's the most anarchist thing you could do. Achy 410 00:22:39,119 --> 00:22:44,879 Speaker 1: want Christmas anarchy. And and then the other one was 411 00:22:45,240 --> 00:22:51,200 Speaker 1: somebody I was dating really twisted my arm and said 412 00:22:52,000 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 1: they had never seen Hairspray and they wanted to watch 413 00:22:54,359 --> 00:22:59,920 Speaker 1: it with me, and I I just went, I said, 414 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:03,840 Speaker 1: there's some ground rules. Yeah, can't talk during it. Yeah, 415 00:23:03,880 --> 00:23:05,800 Speaker 1: don't ask me a questions. Don't ask me questions during it. 416 00:23:05,920 --> 00:23:10,400 Speaker 1: Number one. Great rule Number two, I am you will 417 00:23:10,440 --> 00:23:13,879 Speaker 1: see my face twisting, probably because I will be having 418 00:23:14,160 --> 00:23:18,520 Speaker 1: some reaction because my memory of making that movie is 419 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:22,000 Speaker 1: so precious to me and so glorious and it was 420 00:23:22,240 --> 00:23:25,359 Speaker 1: the absolute best time of my life making it and 421 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:28,560 Speaker 1: I and I so then I was like, I'm scared 422 00:23:28,880 --> 00:23:31,679 Speaker 1: of what I haven't going to feel about it today totally, 423 00:23:31,840 --> 00:23:34,920 Speaker 1: and I said, just please don't ask me questions, and 424 00:23:35,359 --> 00:23:37,240 Speaker 1: then if you want to know something afterwards, you're going 425 00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:39,920 Speaker 1: to have to let me process it. Because I know 426 00:23:40,200 --> 00:23:43,359 Speaker 1: that it's a loud movie. It's like or there's a 427 00:23:43,400 --> 00:23:46,200 Speaker 1: lot going on in it, stimulating it's a very stimulating movie. 428 00:23:46,240 --> 00:23:50,000 Speaker 1: I mean that was the intent. And so so we 429 00:23:50,320 --> 00:23:55,000 Speaker 1: sat and I watched it, and it was sometimes painful 430 00:23:55,720 --> 00:23:59,880 Speaker 1: and then sometimes I was really proud of the kids particularly, 431 00:24:01,800 --> 00:24:05,520 Speaker 1: And then I was sort of stunned at how little 432 00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:07,400 Speaker 1: dialogue there is in it. I was like, I didn't 433 00:24:07,400 --> 00:24:10,520 Speaker 1: even remember how little dialogue there is in it. It's 434 00:24:10,520 --> 00:24:15,760 Speaker 1: almost as sung through its Hairspray is an opera, Y 435 00:24:16,880 --> 00:24:17,600 Speaker 1: number seven. 436 00:24:18,880 --> 00:24:23,320 Speaker 3: Opera the second day. That's a good sign means we're 437 00:24:23,320 --> 00:24:27,760 Speaker 3: not thinking about the numbers. So what was that about 438 00:24:27,800 --> 00:24:29,639 Speaker 3: it though? Was it just that, like it was your 439 00:24:29,720 --> 00:24:32,480 Speaker 3: opportunity to direct, like I guess what is commonly known 440 00:24:32,520 --> 00:24:35,160 Speaker 3: as one of the modern great musicals, Like it's it's 441 00:24:35,200 --> 00:24:38,159 Speaker 3: it's an opportunity to take something to this screen. What 442 00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:40,960 Speaker 3: do you mean, my my wanting my direct I guess 443 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,200 Speaker 3: when you talk about how that was like the peak, 444 00:24:43,520 --> 00:24:46,760 Speaker 3: like that was like a wonderful, incredible, like magical time 445 00:24:46,840 --> 00:24:48,879 Speaker 3: making that movie, I would imagine it was because it's 446 00:24:48,960 --> 00:24:53,320 Speaker 3: the opportunity to totally blow out like greats. 447 00:24:53,800 --> 00:24:56,520 Speaker 1: I had never made a movie with dancing really in it, 448 00:24:56,880 --> 00:25:00,080 Speaker 1: and dancing was my background. I come from theatre in 449 00:25:00,160 --> 00:25:05,119 Speaker 1: choreography and I'm dancer and whatever. Yeah, and so it 450 00:25:05,240 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 1: was sort of strange that it was my fifth movie 451 00:25:08,000 --> 00:25:12,320 Speaker 1: and that I had made the other four movies without 452 00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:16,000 Speaker 1: including any big dance. And it was sort of notable, 453 00:25:16,080 --> 00:25:18,680 Speaker 1: at least in my head, that I that my whole 454 00:25:18,720 --> 00:25:21,200 Speaker 1: life had been danced up until I started directing, and 455 00:25:21,280 --> 00:25:23,159 Speaker 1: then it was no dance and then. So so this 456 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:24,920 Speaker 1: was kind of if I was going to do it. 457 00:25:25,600 --> 00:25:27,879 Speaker 1: It was that I had an emotional connection with it 458 00:25:28,000 --> 00:25:31,600 Speaker 1: because I when Mark Shaman and Scott Whitman were writing it, 459 00:25:33,119 --> 00:25:36,040 Speaker 1: I was I would be at their summer house and 460 00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,399 Speaker 1: I was around while they were writing it. I was 461 00:25:38,480 --> 00:25:45,800 Speaker 1: listening to Jennifer Lewis like singing, Yeah, I was aware 462 00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:47,760 Speaker 1: of it. I went to the opening night in Seattle 463 00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:50,480 Speaker 1: when it was out of town, tryout Marc scot or 464 00:25:50,520 --> 00:25:56,119 Speaker 1: two of my closest friends and when and so I 465 00:25:56,280 --> 00:25:59,879 Speaker 1: had a lot of hairspray in me. Plus I was 466 00:26:00,080 --> 00:26:03,960 Speaker 1: a crazy fan of John Waters version and I and 467 00:26:04,480 --> 00:26:09,239 Speaker 1: so all of it was a perfect compotation of all 468 00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:13,840 Speaker 1: these things. So when I, oh, I have a story 469 00:26:13,840 --> 00:26:19,600 Speaker 1: you're going to like when I when it happened, it 470 00:26:19,680 --> 00:26:21,960 Speaker 1: took a long time, for them to actually end up 471 00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:23,760 Speaker 1: coming to me, and they had gone with some other 472 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,800 Speaker 1: people and then those people didn't work out and some 473 00:26:26,920 --> 00:26:28,960 Speaker 1: stuff happened, and I'd been really hurt because I really 474 00:26:29,040 --> 00:26:30,800 Speaker 1: wanted to do it, and then they got I was 475 00:26:30,880 --> 00:26:32,359 Speaker 1: really really close and then I didn't And it was 476 00:26:32,400 --> 00:26:36,080 Speaker 1: the first movie I'd really fought for and it was 477 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:37,920 Speaker 1: really hard because too my best friends had written it, 478 00:26:38,040 --> 00:26:40,680 Speaker 1: so it was there was it was emotionally fraud and 479 00:26:41,880 --> 00:26:47,320 Speaker 1: I and when I finally got it, I was in. 480 00:26:49,040 --> 00:26:53,280 Speaker 1: This was so crazy. I was in Baltimore shooting The 481 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:57,479 Speaker 1: First Step Up, Wow, which was my best friend Ann Fletcher, 482 00:26:57,480 --> 00:27:00,760 Speaker 1: who directed The First Step Up. It was her first film, 483 00:27:01,400 --> 00:27:03,840 Speaker 1: and I was producing it yep, and it was it 484 00:27:03,880 --> 00:27:06,840 Speaker 1: the first movie I produced anyway. I can't even remember anyway, 485 00:27:07,240 --> 00:27:12,200 Speaker 1: So we were there, I'm in Baltimore and I get 486 00:27:12,240 --> 00:27:16,040 Speaker 1: a call saying like it's you. We want you to 487 00:27:16,280 --> 00:27:19,800 Speaker 1: direct Hairspray. And I sort of took it in and 488 00:27:19,880 --> 00:27:22,600 Speaker 1: I was like okay, and I said, can I have 489 00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:25,160 Speaker 1: John Watt? Can somebody get me John Waters email because 490 00:27:25,160 --> 00:27:27,320 Speaker 1: I want to send him an email that there wasn't 491 00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:29,280 Speaker 1: really I don't remember doing a lot of texting back 492 00:27:29,320 --> 00:27:36,240 Speaker 1: then whatever in the early aughts. But but so somebody 493 00:27:36,320 --> 00:27:39,879 Speaker 1: sent me John's thing and I wrote him an email, 494 00:27:39,920 --> 00:27:42,720 Speaker 1: and all the emails said was, dear mister Waters, my 495 00:27:42,800 --> 00:27:45,439 Speaker 1: name is Adam Shankman, and I've been hired to direct 496 00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:48,920 Speaker 1: the new version of the musical of Hairspray. I hope 497 00:27:48,920 --> 00:27:53,960 Speaker 1: you don't mind, best Adam Shankman. And he wrote me 498 00:27:54,080 --> 00:27:56,960 Speaker 1: back within three minutes and said this is so fabulous. 499 00:27:57,040 --> 00:27:59,480 Speaker 1: Where are you? And I said, well, weirdly, I'm in Baltimore. 500 00:27:59,560 --> 00:28:02,159 Speaker 1: This is all over email, and he said fabulous. Can 501 00:28:02,200 --> 00:28:07,879 Speaker 1: we have lunch tomorrow? And I froze. I was like panic, stritten, cricken, 502 00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,000 Speaker 1: but of course I was like in my freezing, my 503 00:28:10,080 --> 00:28:13,240 Speaker 1: fingers were at least unfrozen enough to write the word yeah. 504 00:28:13,840 --> 00:28:19,359 Speaker 1: And we had lunch the next day and I'm still 505 00:28:19,440 --> 00:28:23,280 Speaker 1: processing that I'm making the movie and I'm sitting with 506 00:28:23,440 --> 00:28:27,480 Speaker 1: John Waters and he's just telling me, oh, it's gotta 507 00:28:27,480 --> 00:28:29,400 Speaker 1: be fabulous and happens. And I was like, you know, look, 508 00:28:29,480 --> 00:28:33,720 Speaker 1: I'm really nervous because there's your version and the fans 509 00:28:33,720 --> 00:28:36,160 Speaker 1: of your version, and then there's the fans of the musical, 510 00:28:36,800 --> 00:28:40,880 Speaker 1: and it's a really like, those are really intense fan basis, 511 00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:43,960 Speaker 1: and they're they're going to be have a bulls eye 512 00:28:44,000 --> 00:28:49,520 Speaker 1: on me and or a target on me. And he said, oh, 513 00:28:49,600 --> 00:28:52,720 Speaker 1: fuck everybody, the whole tradition of hairspray. Do what you do. 514 00:28:52,920 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 1: You're fabulous, you just do you. And I really took 515 00:28:57,760 --> 00:29:01,120 Speaker 1: that in and then he said and I believe I'd 516 00:29:01,120 --> 00:29:02,440 Speaker 1: had a couple of glasses of wine because I was 517 00:29:02,520 --> 00:29:04,920 Speaker 1: very nervous, and he said, do you want to go 518 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:08,480 Speaker 1: see where I shot the movie? And I went yeah, 519 00:29:08,840 --> 00:29:12,080 Speaker 1: And so we jumped in his giant, crazy boat of 520 00:29:12,120 --> 00:29:14,960 Speaker 1: a car at the time, which was convertible and it 521 00:29:15,040 --> 00:29:17,320 Speaker 1: was the summer, and he drove me around all the 522 00:29:17,440 --> 00:29:21,400 Speaker 1: locations where he shot the movie. And then he was like, 523 00:29:21,480 --> 00:29:23,880 Speaker 1: I want to see where the real people lived that 524 00:29:24,000 --> 00:29:25,360 Speaker 1: I based it on. And I said yeah, and he 525 00:29:25,440 --> 00:29:28,719 Speaker 1: took me around to that and then he said it's 526 00:29:28,760 --> 00:29:30,360 Speaker 1: so cool, and then he said I want to come 527 00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:33,760 Speaker 1: over to my house. Wow, And I was like yeah. 528 00:29:34,400 --> 00:29:38,000 Speaker 1: And I had this full day with John steeped in 529 00:29:39,120 --> 00:29:44,280 Speaker 1: you know, the legitimate lore of hairspray, and it all 530 00:29:44,440 --> 00:29:48,760 Speaker 1: felt very lovely. It was really like it was just 531 00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:52,120 Speaker 1: like he blessed me doing the movie, and so I 532 00:29:52,200 --> 00:29:56,080 Speaker 1: took it very very seriously, and I spent a lot, 533 00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,400 Speaker 1: and I was very very careful about like choreographing it 534 00:29:58,480 --> 00:30:01,880 Speaker 1: and how I was going to do everything, and I 535 00:30:02,040 --> 00:30:04,480 Speaker 1: was very very I was I was in that. 536 00:30:04,760 --> 00:30:04,960 Speaker 3: Yeah. 537 00:30:05,080 --> 00:30:07,800 Speaker 2: Can I say something about this that I think kind 538 00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:13,040 Speaker 2: of tries to connect all these things together. I think 539 00:30:13,120 --> 00:30:17,120 Speaker 2: John Waters is a director who does not really care 540 00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,640 Speaker 2: about the outcome, and I think that is a really 541 00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:24,160 Speaker 2: liberating thing that I don't think I'm trying to work towards. 542 00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:28,160 Speaker 2: I think because we are in a business that treats 543 00:30:28,280 --> 00:30:33,920 Speaker 2: accomplishment in a very specific way. You can look at 544 00:30:33,920 --> 00:30:38,280 Speaker 2: accomplishment either in an outcomes centered way or in a 545 00:30:38,680 --> 00:30:44,600 Speaker 2: skill and mastery centered way. And the outcome centered way 546 00:30:44,720 --> 00:30:48,479 Speaker 2: means that you think, well, if this, depending on whatever outcome, 547 00:30:48,600 --> 00:30:52,560 Speaker 2: it will determine my worth as a person. And then 548 00:30:52,640 --> 00:30:54,960 Speaker 2: the sort of skills centered way to think about it is, 549 00:30:55,680 --> 00:30:57,960 Speaker 2: let me do this so that I can get better 550 00:30:58,040 --> 00:31:02,040 Speaker 2: at this thing, just to see. Well, that's an oversimplification, right, 551 00:31:02,240 --> 00:31:05,760 Speaker 2: It's not really an oversimplification. I think sometime over simplifications 552 00:31:05,800 --> 00:31:08,840 Speaker 2: are just the truth. Sure, you know, it's just the 553 00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:14,160 Speaker 2: basic totally, and that is true, hey, but on point 554 00:31:14,200 --> 00:31:16,160 Speaker 2: of order, it feels like nothing is what it says 555 00:31:16,200 --> 00:31:19,360 Speaker 2: it is anymore. Point of answer, it's because everything has 556 00:31:19,400 --> 00:31:21,320 Speaker 2: a catch, hey, or it turns out to be something 557 00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:25,480 Speaker 2: else entirely like a total catfish situation. Except for hotels 558 00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:28,200 Speaker 2: dot com. Yeah, that one's pretty literal because it's hotels 559 00:31:28,240 --> 00:31:31,200 Speaker 2: dot com. It's in the domain. You go there, you 560 00:31:31,280 --> 00:31:34,160 Speaker 2: book hotels, hundreds of thousands of them and hold up. 561 00:31:34,360 --> 00:31:35,880 Speaker 1: That's it. That's it. 562 00:31:36,160 --> 00:31:38,320 Speaker 2: And when stays are booked as a member, rewards are 563 00:31:38,360 --> 00:31:42,440 Speaker 2: earned every time, every stay, every stay, no tracking or managing, 564 00:31:42,600 --> 00:31:45,400 Speaker 2: just rewards that can be used like cash on future booking. 565 00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:48,080 Speaker 1: Which by the way, already feels nicer than most rewards programs. 566 00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:50,400 Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, members can also get up to twenty percent 567 00:31:50,440 --> 00:31:52,480 Speaker 2: off booking, so savings start right away. 568 00:31:52,560 --> 00:31:55,720 Speaker 1: Does that mean no weird restrictions and no blackout dates? 569 00:31:55,760 --> 00:31:59,480 Speaker 1: Book what works? When it works, it's actually really fitting 570 00:31:59,600 --> 00:32:03,080 Speaker 1: of travel. So the name is honest you're saying, and 571 00:32:03,160 --> 00:32:06,800 Speaker 1: the rewards are too exactly hotels dot com. It's all 572 00:32:06,840 --> 00:32:07,240 Speaker 1: in the name. 573 00:32:08,120 --> 00:32:10,120 Speaker 2: And I feel like John Waters is someone who I 574 00:32:10,200 --> 00:32:13,560 Speaker 2: feel like had this incredible development as a director where 575 00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:16,000 Speaker 2: he evolved so seamlessly from one thing into the next, 576 00:32:16,080 --> 00:32:16,920 Speaker 2: even though it's such a. 577 00:32:16,960 --> 00:32:22,640 Speaker 1: Wide breadth of work, like well, staying very him exactly, 578 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:25,800 Speaker 1: and I feel like and like as you probably heard 579 00:32:25,840 --> 00:32:27,680 Speaker 1: in his interview with us, it's like he was just 580 00:32:27,760 --> 00:32:31,120 Speaker 1: like yeah, whatever, like the translated it you. 581 00:32:31,600 --> 00:32:35,480 Speaker 2: I think I would imagine that you. While you have 582 00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:37,960 Speaker 2: a hard time watching your own work, I think it's 583 00:32:38,040 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 2: because you are watching it from a skills even though 584 00:32:44,200 --> 00:32:46,640 Speaker 2: you're thinking about the outcomes. You're you know, Hairsport was 585 00:32:46,640 --> 00:32:49,800 Speaker 2: a huge success. Many of your movies are huge successes, 586 00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:52,200 Speaker 2: and I hope the same is true for Stop that Train. 587 00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:55,120 Speaker 2: But I feel like you should look back on your 588 00:32:55,200 --> 00:32:57,240 Speaker 2: work or just I don't know, talk about it with 589 00:32:57,400 --> 00:33:01,080 Speaker 2: us or with friends or fans whatever. Terms of you 590 00:33:01,320 --> 00:33:04,480 Speaker 2: sort of furthering your skill as a director. Well, that's 591 00:33:04,680 --> 00:33:06,000 Speaker 2: that's actually how thank you. 592 00:33:06,200 --> 00:33:09,480 Speaker 1: That's very kind, And that's how I feel because for 593 00:33:09,600 --> 00:33:11,360 Speaker 1: so it feels really nice to sitting with my friends 594 00:33:11,400 --> 00:33:16,880 Speaker 1: and talking. Yeah, but the I feel very strongly that 595 00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:20,720 Speaker 1: I haven't gotten good enough of what I do, and 596 00:33:20,840 --> 00:33:23,480 Speaker 1: like I have so far to go, and I feel 597 00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:29,120 Speaker 1: like so many stories in me and I have, but 598 00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:30,880 Speaker 1: it has nothing to do with having like some drum 599 00:33:30,960 --> 00:33:33,080 Speaker 1: to beat. It's just like there's there's just a lot. 600 00:33:33,560 --> 00:33:36,360 Speaker 1: There's a lot to do, And yes, I can get 601 00:33:36,400 --> 00:33:38,680 Speaker 1: on a set and I definitely know how it works 602 00:33:39,040 --> 00:33:43,960 Speaker 1: and I know what I do well, which is actually 603 00:33:44,000 --> 00:33:44,760 Speaker 1: get us through a day. 604 00:33:45,000 --> 00:33:47,240 Speaker 3: And I was gonna say that was that was a 605 00:33:47,280 --> 00:33:49,400 Speaker 3: lot of my experience on Stop that Train too, because 606 00:33:49,400 --> 00:33:51,440 Speaker 3: you can imagine, and part of its charm is the 607 00:33:51,480 --> 00:33:52,880 Speaker 3: fact that it is very low budget. 608 00:33:53,000 --> 00:33:54,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know what I mean, what was it twenty 609 00:33:54,440 --> 00:33:56,560 Speaker 1: two days nineteen. 610 00:33:58,800 --> 00:34:03,200 Speaker 3: Like with about proximallyven thousand cast members and you know, 611 00:34:03,760 --> 00:34:07,560 Speaker 3: like a lot of considerations that obviously most the vast 612 00:34:07,640 --> 00:34:10,000 Speaker 3: majority of the cast is getting into full drag, right. 613 00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:10,680 Speaker 1: You know what I mean, Like. 614 00:34:12,200 --> 00:34:19,000 Speaker 3: Many locations quote unquote lots going on, and it really, honestly, 615 00:34:19,239 --> 00:34:22,160 Speaker 3: when we were shooting it, like you were just like, yep, great, 616 00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:24,360 Speaker 3: this is great, and you were just so. 617 00:34:24,520 --> 00:34:26,719 Speaker 1: Confident in moving on. I remember I turned to you 618 00:34:27,120 --> 00:34:29,520 Speaker 1: and I was like you feel you feel good? And 619 00:34:29,640 --> 00:34:30,600 Speaker 1: he was like, I wouldn't move on. 620 00:34:30,600 --> 00:34:32,560 Speaker 3: If I didn't, And I was like, you're right, I 621 00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:34,440 Speaker 3: shouldn't have even fucking asked. And I actually felt like 622 00:34:34,480 --> 00:34:37,080 Speaker 3: a dipshit for asking because I like, of course. 623 00:34:36,840 --> 00:34:39,680 Speaker 1: He knows to move on. I understand, but if you 624 00:34:39,920 --> 00:34:41,040 Speaker 1: have a feeling's valid. 625 00:34:41,239 --> 00:34:43,560 Speaker 3: I guess my thing is I just like I just wanted. 626 00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:45,320 Speaker 3: But it's probably the same thing, right, It's like, you 627 00:34:45,360 --> 00:34:46,600 Speaker 3: want to do a good job, you want to make 628 00:34:46,640 --> 00:34:48,360 Speaker 3: sure that you made the use of that time. But 629 00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:52,440 Speaker 3: I just like, really respect a director that knows exactly 630 00:34:52,520 --> 00:34:55,040 Speaker 3: what he wants and gets it and confidently moves on. 631 00:34:55,280 --> 00:34:57,759 Speaker 1: That is leadership. Well, thank you, that's kind. But you 632 00:34:57,840 --> 00:35:00,680 Speaker 1: were also everybody who was doing it ended up exceeding 633 00:35:00,800 --> 00:35:03,319 Speaker 1: what was like what was on the page was really good, 634 00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:04,279 Speaker 1: which is why y'all did it. 635 00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:06,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, Connor and Christina they went to a dramatic writing 636 00:35:06,520 --> 00:35:08,719 Speaker 3: a Tish and I went back and did the commencement 637 00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:10,279 Speaker 3: speech and their whole department is so. 638 00:35:10,400 --> 00:35:12,799 Speaker 1: Proud of them. Oh, I was so happy that they 639 00:35:13,360 --> 00:35:16,480 Speaker 1: got to have that opportunity. Well, everybody, they did such 640 00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:20,080 Speaker 1: a great job, and everybody, Most people when they would 641 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:22,600 Speaker 1: try to improv would end up being like, yeah, you 642 00:35:22,680 --> 00:35:27,360 Speaker 1: know the script, and so they everybody did it and 643 00:35:27,480 --> 00:35:31,000 Speaker 1: then brought whatever they brought into it and it elevated it. 644 00:35:31,160 --> 00:35:35,080 Speaker 1: And so most things I didn't have to do much 645 00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:38,360 Speaker 1: because everybody was swimming in the same direction on the 646 00:35:39,440 --> 00:35:42,640 Speaker 1: and and everybody knew what the drill was and how 647 00:35:42,719 --> 00:35:45,120 Speaker 1: fast we were going to go. And you know, people 648 00:35:45,239 --> 00:35:48,280 Speaker 1: bring people are starting to bring up the our steady 649 00:35:48,280 --> 00:35:51,759 Speaker 1: cam shot around the Oval and they're like, how many 650 00:35:51,800 --> 00:35:54,279 Speaker 1: times you do that? I was like seventeen and seventeen 651 00:35:54,400 --> 00:35:57,960 Speaker 1: We did it seventeen times. Still a low number, Still 652 00:35:57,960 --> 00:35:58,239 Speaker 1: a loon. 653 00:35:58,360 --> 00:35:58,560 Speaker 3: Really. 654 00:35:58,719 --> 00:36:00,759 Speaker 1: I was the choreographer on Book Nights and I think 655 00:36:00,840 --> 00:36:03,839 Speaker 1: we did that opening shot of Boogie Nights like eleven times. 656 00:36:03,880 --> 00:36:05,200 Speaker 1: I mean, but it was like an hour and a 657 00:36:05,200 --> 00:36:06,719 Speaker 1: half reset. I don't know. I'd have to call it 658 00:36:07,120 --> 00:36:07,800 Speaker 1: spoiler alert. 659 00:36:07,960 --> 00:36:12,880 Speaker 3: There is one really fun Warner of a tracking shot 660 00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:17,279 Speaker 3: that Ruin I do with a bunch of the extras 661 00:36:17,440 --> 00:36:20,759 Speaker 3: in the Oval office. Yes, and I remember when I 662 00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:24,440 Speaker 3: when you said the script that was I read it 663 00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:26,880 Speaker 3: that scene and I was like, oh, this is gonna 664 00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:28,719 Speaker 3: be legitimately really because. 665 00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:31,279 Speaker 1: It reminded me of Airplane. Yeah, it's Bowen. And I 666 00:36:31,440 --> 00:36:34,040 Speaker 1: went to go see The Naked Gun in theaters. 667 00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:36,960 Speaker 3: Actually, I saw it two days in a row because 668 00:36:37,000 --> 00:36:39,200 Speaker 3: I am so craving movies. 669 00:36:38,920 --> 00:36:41,840 Speaker 1: Like this with high joke density. It's a very this 670 00:36:42,000 --> 00:36:45,480 Speaker 1: is a very high joke every every every scene is 671 00:36:45,600 --> 00:36:47,240 Speaker 1: like a game that it's playing. 672 00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:48,759 Speaker 3: And I joke like Bostin powers, you know what I mean, 673 00:36:48,800 --> 00:36:50,160 Speaker 3: where you can kind of boil it down to like 674 00:36:50,239 --> 00:36:51,400 Speaker 3: every scene is like a sketch. 675 00:36:53,280 --> 00:36:55,279 Speaker 1: Check out the window and it's all of that. It's 676 00:36:55,360 --> 00:36:58,319 Speaker 1: it's that's what it's design is. And so you guys 677 00:36:58,400 --> 00:37:00,640 Speaker 1: were great at it. What I mean. The fun part 678 00:37:00,800 --> 00:37:03,719 Speaker 1: for me sitting in the audience and watching people watch 679 00:37:03,800 --> 00:37:06,080 Speaker 1: the movie and that scene is they're laughing through so 680 00:37:06,200 --> 00:37:08,440 Speaker 1: much of it. They miss they miss all the jokes. 681 00:37:08,640 --> 00:37:12,239 Speaker 1: Yeah there, and so they're going to be compelled to 682 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:14,880 Speaker 1: watch it again. And I think it's going to be 683 00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:16,000 Speaker 1: like really well. 684 00:37:16,080 --> 00:37:18,479 Speaker 3: First of all, I have to say, I I don't 685 00:37:18,840 --> 00:37:23,000 Speaker 3: you never really know because like algorithmically, the bubble of 686 00:37:23,040 --> 00:37:25,120 Speaker 3: it all, like you don't know if just the people. 687 00:37:25,320 --> 00:37:27,040 Speaker 1: I remember I thought Bros. Was going to make a 688 00:37:27,160 --> 00:37:30,880 Speaker 1: hundred million the first weekend, I can't know. 689 00:37:31,040 --> 00:37:33,399 Speaker 3: And I'm always like a little surprised sometimes when something 690 00:37:33,480 --> 00:37:37,480 Speaker 3: is either a hit or not so successful, but it 691 00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:38,640 Speaker 3: feels really good. 692 00:37:38,760 --> 00:37:40,680 Speaker 1: I just had the gayest moment ever when I was 693 00:37:40,760 --> 00:37:48,919 Speaker 1: listening to you said, that's key. You should. They really 694 00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:54,400 Speaker 1: are so much gay there, God the shoes are you? 695 00:37:55,840 --> 00:37:58,000 Speaker 1: It was so well, let me show you something. This 696 00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:06,720 Speaker 1: one we call n F y C shoe finger clapping, 697 00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:12,600 Speaker 1: finger clapping clap, so it is so cut. 698 00:38:12,800 --> 00:38:14,879 Speaker 2: But no, this is but this is what we're talking about. 699 00:38:14,920 --> 00:38:17,239 Speaker 2: It's like, uh, it's like it's like the just I 700 00:38:17,560 --> 00:38:19,719 Speaker 2: like that things aren't as like box office, or maybe 701 00:38:19,719 --> 00:38:21,279 Speaker 2: they still are and I'm just choosing to ignore it. 702 00:38:21,320 --> 00:38:24,640 Speaker 2: But it's like it seems like the outcome of the 703 00:38:24,680 --> 00:38:28,000 Speaker 2: box office gross, like determining the worth of something. 704 00:38:28,040 --> 00:38:30,520 Speaker 1: I'm just like, we never bought into that. Dude. Dude 705 00:38:30,600 --> 00:38:33,800 Speaker 1: background making eighty one million dollars this weekend. It's like 706 00:38:34,680 --> 00:38:38,320 Speaker 1: I've never heard people. It's like kind of obsession is 707 00:38:38,360 --> 00:38:41,600 Speaker 1: like things like that. It's like it's it's it's not 708 00:38:41,719 --> 00:38:43,279 Speaker 1: like people aren't going and paying money to go to 709 00:38:43,360 --> 00:38:48,120 Speaker 1: the readers. I mean, look the outsized there's something for me, 710 00:38:49,080 --> 00:38:52,479 Speaker 1: particularly because of what I do obviously, which is sad 711 00:38:52,520 --> 00:38:55,520 Speaker 1: to me that that you know, there are a third 712 00:38:55,760 --> 00:38:58,800 Speaker 1: of the comedies being released than there are of the 713 00:38:59,160 --> 00:39:02,879 Speaker 1: horror now when I my favorite words to say when 714 00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:06,080 Speaker 1: I produced the Oscars. I did a tribute to Horror 715 00:39:06,920 --> 00:39:09,880 Speaker 1: in there. I remember that the Academy was actually they 716 00:39:09,920 --> 00:39:12,920 Speaker 1: were not pleased, of course, with that, because they it 717 00:39:13,000 --> 00:39:14,759 Speaker 1: felt a little I think at the time it felt 718 00:39:14,840 --> 00:39:16,839 Speaker 1: like low to them in some way, and we were 719 00:39:16,880 --> 00:39:20,520 Speaker 1: not that at that point, they were not courting younger viewers. 720 00:39:21,239 --> 00:39:23,839 Speaker 1: And I remember also like during that thing, they were 721 00:39:23,880 --> 00:39:26,560 Speaker 1: not thrilled that I brought out all of the It 722 00:39:26,640 --> 00:39:28,440 Speaker 1: was there that John Hughes died and I brought out 723 00:39:28,440 --> 00:39:32,560 Speaker 1: all the cast members from the John Hughes movies Low Culture. No, 724 00:39:32,800 --> 00:39:35,000 Speaker 1: it was like, well, you're pulling him out of the 725 00:39:35,120 --> 00:39:37,520 Speaker 1: end memoriam and you're making a thing about him, and 726 00:39:38,480 --> 00:39:41,600 Speaker 1: there was and I was like, he is the reason 727 00:39:41,680 --> 00:39:43,920 Speaker 1: why half this room is doing what they do when 728 00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:48,359 Speaker 1: they do, so everybody needs to just pump the brakes. Yeah, 729 00:39:50,440 --> 00:39:52,680 Speaker 1: And we got to see them all standing on stage together. 730 00:39:52,440 --> 00:39:56,160 Speaker 2: Which yeah, but you're saying like Horror like has this 731 00:39:56,320 --> 00:40:00,000 Speaker 2: new appreciation. It's appreciated in value, right, It's appreciated value. 732 00:40:00,000 --> 00:40:03,080 Speaker 1: And you don't need stars, So you don't you don't 733 00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:06,279 Speaker 1: need stars to sell at the concepts sell themselves and 734 00:40:07,239 --> 00:40:11,280 Speaker 1: and you have imagery matched with a score and music 735 00:40:11,520 --> 00:40:16,040 Speaker 1: that can do like a very very desired dopamine hit 736 00:40:16,160 --> 00:40:19,359 Speaker 1: by the audiences, and the dopamine hits that you get 737 00:40:19,520 --> 00:40:23,319 Speaker 1: in comedy generally, because comedies are much softer now, they 738 00:40:23,480 --> 00:40:25,759 Speaker 1: used to be much more outrageous, much more thing. I mean, 739 00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:27,600 Speaker 1: when you go back to the early Mail Brooks and 740 00:40:27,719 --> 00:40:29,680 Speaker 1: you go back to the airplanes and you do all 741 00:40:29,719 --> 00:40:31,680 Speaker 1: that you were getting open means because you could not 742 00:40:31,760 --> 00:40:33,680 Speaker 1: believe what the fuck was coming out of anybody's mouth 743 00:40:33,840 --> 00:40:35,960 Speaker 1: was shocked. It was so much that so you could 744 00:40:36,000 --> 00:40:38,440 Speaker 1: get that same kind of feeling, And we're so numbed 745 00:40:38,480 --> 00:40:42,000 Speaker 1: out now that when we have these movies that are 746 00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:45,680 Speaker 1: giving us the promise of those dopamine hits, then that's 747 00:40:45,760 --> 00:40:48,520 Speaker 1: going to be when you don't have star salaries to do. 748 00:40:48,880 --> 00:40:55,719 Speaker 2: My thesis was that like comedy is undervalued right now. 749 00:40:55,800 --> 00:40:58,040 Speaker 2: It is in a way in a literal sense of 750 00:40:58,239 --> 00:41:02,920 Speaker 2: like it is a very necessary thing that people are 751 00:41:02,960 --> 00:41:05,400 Speaker 2: not appreciating in the way that I feel like they should, 752 00:41:05,440 --> 00:41:09,440 Speaker 2: which is that common comedy is inherently optimistic and that 753 00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:10,320 Speaker 2: is short supply. 754 00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:12,280 Speaker 1: That makes it soft. That makes it soft. 755 00:41:12,760 --> 00:41:16,440 Speaker 2: But I think with movies like Naked Gun Remake and 756 00:41:16,560 --> 00:41:19,920 Speaker 2: with Stop that train. Now, it's like, this is actually 757 00:41:20,600 --> 00:41:22,840 Speaker 2: hugely important in the same way that you go to 758 00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:24,640 Speaker 2: a horror movie to you go to the theater for 759 00:41:24,640 --> 00:41:27,600 Speaker 2: a horror movie to scream and be surprised with an 760 00:41:27,600 --> 00:41:30,480 Speaker 2: audience and have this communal experience. Yeah, Like Matt and 761 00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:33,200 Speaker 2: I loved going to Naked Gun and laughing along with 762 00:41:33,760 --> 00:41:35,000 Speaker 2: with a room full of people because I was like, 763 00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:36,920 Speaker 2: and then we were a little stone. But I was like, oh, 764 00:41:37,040 --> 00:41:38,240 Speaker 2: this feels so foreign. 765 00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:40,640 Speaker 3: Well, so, by the way, we were in a fight 766 00:41:40,760 --> 00:41:44,960 Speaker 3: that day and we we actually were actually reaching the 767 00:41:45,080 --> 00:41:48,120 Speaker 3: apex of the conflict as we were going up the 768 00:41:48,280 --> 00:41:50,640 Speaker 3: escalators at Alamo Drafts House to see the movie. 769 00:41:51,120 --> 00:41:53,760 Speaker 1: And then we watched it and it did help. It helped, 770 00:41:53,760 --> 00:41:55,960 Speaker 1: and we were like, we have to put our feelings aside. 771 00:41:55,960 --> 00:41:57,600 Speaker 1: We're about to watch Naked Gun. And then it was 772 00:41:57,719 --> 00:42:01,759 Speaker 1: like we were that thing. We love this so much. 773 00:42:01,840 --> 00:42:05,000 Speaker 1: That's the whole thing is it's relief. It's literally and 774 00:42:05,200 --> 00:42:05,719 Speaker 1: it's relief. 775 00:42:05,840 --> 00:42:08,200 Speaker 3: And this is why I'm saying, like, yes, I think 776 00:42:08,360 --> 00:42:11,640 Speaker 3: like people don't want to make risk, but also people 777 00:42:11,719 --> 00:42:15,400 Speaker 3: are it's it's it's they're just too afraid to because 778 00:42:15,480 --> 00:42:18,200 Speaker 3: comedy is like there's a hit percentage with it, right, 779 00:42:18,360 --> 00:42:21,200 Speaker 3: like it's and then so there's risk. 780 00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:24,600 Speaker 1: In making it in terms of making the movie funny 781 00:42:25,120 --> 00:42:26,000 Speaker 1: funny exactly, and. 782 00:42:26,040 --> 00:42:29,200 Speaker 3: I feel like because you can't like plan for what's 783 00:42:29,360 --> 00:42:32,440 Speaker 3: exactly gonna happen audience wise, it's the. 784 00:42:32,520 --> 00:42:35,200 Speaker 1: First to go. That's why Stop that Train actually is 785 00:42:35,600 --> 00:42:38,360 Speaker 1: is why I jumped at it so much, is because 786 00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:43,080 Speaker 1: Stop that Train's brand of humor is universal. It's like 787 00:42:43,280 --> 00:42:47,040 Speaker 1: it's slapstick. Yeah, it's it's it's smart, stupid. You can 788 00:42:47,160 --> 00:42:47,840 Speaker 1: laugh with stupid. 789 00:42:47,880 --> 00:42:52,560 Speaker 3: Smart, you can laugh with it. Mute, did a thousand joke? 790 00:42:52,680 --> 00:42:55,840 Speaker 3: Wait three seconds? Wait, you forget about that joke and 791 00:42:55,880 --> 00:42:56,520 Speaker 3: you're gonna. 792 00:42:56,320 --> 00:42:58,600 Speaker 2: Like the next one is three seconds after that, Which 793 00:42:58,600 --> 00:43:00,640 Speaker 2: is why the comparison to horrors, and because in a 794 00:43:00,680 --> 00:43:03,840 Speaker 2: horror film, it's like a screamer. Scare can can be 795 00:43:03,920 --> 00:43:06,600 Speaker 2: spaced out pretty far. Yeah right, It's like you don't 796 00:43:07,080 --> 00:43:09,200 Speaker 2: like you are thinking comedies in like a laughs per 797 00:43:09,280 --> 00:43:09,960 Speaker 2: minute way. 798 00:43:10,360 --> 00:43:14,520 Speaker 1: Unless it's like a very heavily plotted out comedy. If 799 00:43:14,560 --> 00:43:16,920 Speaker 1: it's a plot heavy comedy. I mean, look scary movies 800 00:43:16,960 --> 00:43:19,120 Speaker 1: coming out. That's gonna scary movie. 801 00:43:19,760 --> 00:43:22,160 Speaker 3: And drew twelfth for them, to be two of those 802 00:43:22,200 --> 00:43:25,000 Speaker 3: movies just a week apart, is I think a big victory. 803 00:43:25,160 --> 00:43:29,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's there's a there's a good joke density there. Yes, yeah, 804 00:43:29,080 --> 00:43:32,640 Speaker 1: and so I feel I feel good about being a 805 00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:35,480 Speaker 1: part of it. I've never as queer coded as all 806 00:43:35,560 --> 00:43:38,000 Speaker 1: my movies are, because I'm the one who made them. 807 00:43:38,440 --> 00:43:44,960 Speaker 1: I you know, this is for sure. This is straight down, 808 00:43:45,000 --> 00:43:50,000 Speaker 1: the straight down. Thank you for casting Shane West. Little 809 00:43:50,080 --> 00:43:54,920 Speaker 1: Gamy was so happy about that. I mean, want I 810 00:43:54,960 --> 00:43:55,399 Speaker 1: know the funny. 811 00:43:55,440 --> 00:43:55,960 Speaker 3: I just. 812 00:43:57,520 --> 00:44:00,920 Speaker 1: I just recently found their chemistry read. 813 00:44:03,000 --> 00:44:05,120 Speaker 3: Just by the way, one of the things one of 814 00:44:05,160 --> 00:44:08,879 Speaker 3: the biggest compliments I'll give about that movie, the incredible 815 00:44:09,200 --> 00:44:10,600 Speaker 3: chemistry they found together. 816 00:44:11,320 --> 00:44:17,080 Speaker 1: And he first film, No she had made Diaries, Well, 817 00:44:17,200 --> 00:44:20,080 Speaker 1: you know, she was playing a stock type there, she 818 00:44:20,200 --> 00:44:23,280 Speaker 1: was leading, she was yeah, she was. She was playing 819 00:44:23,800 --> 00:44:27,080 Speaker 1: in a weird way, like the bitchy version of her candy, 820 00:44:27,840 --> 00:44:28,839 Speaker 1: of her pop star person. 821 00:44:29,120 --> 00:44:31,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, and that probably was an easy self to like, Oh, 822 00:44:31,760 --> 00:44:33,520 Speaker 3: there's Mandy Moore. She's going to play like the mean 823 00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:36,040 Speaker 3: girl who's and she's blonde. She's going to pick on 824 00:44:36,239 --> 00:44:37,879 Speaker 3: Anne with her brown, curly hair, et cetera. 825 00:44:38,280 --> 00:44:39,839 Speaker 1: But then to see her. 826 00:44:41,320 --> 00:44:44,440 Speaker 3: Just all that vulnerability and all that kindness and goodness 827 00:44:44,480 --> 00:44:45,520 Speaker 3: that is so inherent in. 828 00:44:45,560 --> 00:44:50,439 Speaker 1: Her besides the chemistry. Read okay, So the studio wanted 829 00:44:50,520 --> 00:44:56,319 Speaker 1: Jessica Simpson, so they wanted Wanton because they wanted her. Well, 830 00:44:56,400 --> 00:44:59,400 Speaker 1: it was a it was a very that was a 831 00:44:59,480 --> 00:45:00,000 Speaker 1: low budget. 832 00:45:00,239 --> 00:45:00,319 Speaker 6: Oh. 833 00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:03,840 Speaker 1: She was also super Christian and she was very Christian famously, 834 00:45:04,600 --> 00:45:08,080 Speaker 1: and Andrew Lloyd Webber this is the tea that we got. 835 00:45:08,320 --> 00:45:11,680 Speaker 1: Andrew Weber was interested in her for Christine and Phantom, 836 00:45:11,800 --> 00:45:14,040 Speaker 1: and they wanted to use Walk to Remember to kind 837 00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:23,279 Speaker 1: of audition that and C so and so, I and 838 00:45:23,480 --> 00:45:27,120 Speaker 1: so we had lunch and that was its own thing 839 00:45:27,160 --> 00:45:32,800 Speaker 1: with her and her dad and there were yeah, the 840 00:45:32,880 --> 00:45:40,880 Speaker 1: Warmer Warner Brothers cafeteria. But I was driving home and 841 00:45:41,840 --> 00:45:45,320 Speaker 1: on the radio, a little voice came over the radio 842 00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:47,360 Speaker 1: singing a little song called I Want to Be with 843 00:45:47,440 --> 00:45:56,120 Speaker 1: You but I guess seemed and anything, and it had 844 00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:58,480 Speaker 1: just all that breathiness to it, and I love her. 845 00:45:58,600 --> 00:46:01,640 Speaker 1: I went, God, that that's like that would be like 846 00:46:01,760 --> 00:46:06,680 Speaker 1: how I pictured Jamie singing. And then I went and 847 00:46:06,800 --> 00:46:09,040 Speaker 1: I looked up what the album cover looked like. Do 848 00:46:09,120 --> 00:46:11,400 Speaker 1: you remember what that album cover? The white with her 849 00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:14,319 Speaker 1: like blowing out, and I was like, that's her, that's yeh, 850 00:46:14,560 --> 00:46:17,200 Speaker 1: that's Jamie. I went, Oh my God, Please God, let 851 00:46:17,239 --> 00:46:21,120 Speaker 1: her be able to act, Please, thank God. And this 852 00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:24,799 Speaker 1: is what happened. So I met with her. She came 853 00:46:25,520 --> 00:46:28,400 Speaker 1: to lunch at the IVY for a meeting with me, 854 00:46:28,920 --> 00:46:32,200 Speaker 1: holding her copy of Walk to Remember the Book, the 855 00:46:32,280 --> 00:46:36,560 Speaker 1: book when she was sixteen, fifteen sixteen, and our first 856 00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:40,000 Speaker 1: day of shooting was her seventeenth birthday, I remember, and 857 00:46:40,560 --> 00:46:45,800 Speaker 1: she she came and she was so mandy, Like what 858 00:46:45,960 --> 00:46:48,800 Speaker 1: you get now is like just the more mature conversion 859 00:46:48,880 --> 00:46:51,320 Speaker 1: of what it was. But that that sweetness, that innocence, 860 00:46:51,400 --> 00:46:54,120 Speaker 1: that little laugh, that the big dough, I think that 861 00:46:54,320 --> 00:46:58,680 Speaker 1: was all there then. And I just was like in 862 00:46:58,800 --> 00:47:00,160 Speaker 1: my head the whole time, I was like, God, please, 863 00:47:00,239 --> 00:47:01,799 Speaker 1: letter be able to please, Letter to be able to act. 864 00:47:02,360 --> 00:47:06,840 Speaker 1: And so I read her and she was good, and 865 00:47:07,040 --> 00:47:10,080 Speaker 1: then I had her do the chemistry read with Shane, 866 00:47:10,200 --> 00:47:12,200 Speaker 1: who was pretty popular on his TV show at that time. 867 00:47:12,400 --> 00:47:15,920 Speaker 1: And I will tell you this, neither of them were 868 00:47:15,960 --> 00:47:19,680 Speaker 1: particularly good in the reading in terms like they didn't 869 00:47:19,719 --> 00:47:22,680 Speaker 1: have their characters down, but the way they listened to 870 00:47:22,800 --> 00:47:24,800 Speaker 1: each other and the chemistry they had, I was like, 871 00:47:25,160 --> 00:47:29,600 Speaker 1: I can't teach that, I can't direct that, so that 872 00:47:29,840 --> 00:47:33,759 Speaker 1: became them and it was that's how that went down. 873 00:47:33,960 --> 00:47:35,799 Speaker 2: Okay, Adam Fankman, it's time to ask you the question, 874 00:47:36,400 --> 00:47:38,040 Speaker 2: what is the culture that made you say culture is 875 00:47:38,239 --> 00:47:38,440 Speaker 2: for me? 876 00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:43,440 Speaker 1: It's funny because all roads lead back to both culture 877 00:47:43,960 --> 00:47:50,680 Speaker 1: and also well being gay. Yes, and I really I 878 00:47:50,840 --> 00:47:54,440 Speaker 1: really fought between two subjects because they were both very 879 00:47:54,440 --> 00:47:59,960 Speaker 1: impactful for me. But I would say the culture made 880 00:48:00,719 --> 00:48:03,480 Speaker 1: culture was for me would have to be seeing the 881 00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:08,120 Speaker 1: sound of music for the first time. And why I 882 00:48:08,280 --> 00:48:11,880 Speaker 1: say that also relates to my because I was very 883 00:48:11,960 --> 00:48:16,160 Speaker 1: very young movie was made like they used to re 884 00:48:16,280 --> 00:48:19,120 Speaker 1: release movies very quickly and back then into the theaters 885 00:48:19,400 --> 00:48:22,279 Speaker 1: like I was born in nineteen sixty four, and which 886 00:48:22,320 --> 00:48:24,879 Speaker 1: I believe is when it was made and or came out, 887 00:48:25,360 --> 00:48:30,160 Speaker 1: and so I think I was probably about three or 888 00:48:30,640 --> 00:48:34,000 Speaker 1: four when I saw it for the first time. Because 889 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:36,680 Speaker 1: my parents were really into playing musical My mom loved 890 00:48:36,719 --> 00:48:41,759 Speaker 1: them and and they exposed me to musical thing. I 891 00:48:41,840 --> 00:48:46,839 Speaker 1: was very drawn to it very early. And some inappropriate 892 00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:51,560 Speaker 1: stuff by the way, like Chicago and but you know, 893 00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:54,080 Speaker 1: the sexual stuff all flew over my head whatever. I 894 00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:57,000 Speaker 1: was really into, just looking at the costumes and listening 895 00:48:57,000 --> 00:48:59,520 Speaker 1: to music and watching the women, watching Anita put on 896 00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:03,880 Speaker 1: her nine and steang Anita's gonna get a kick and 897 00:49:04,440 --> 00:49:09,919 Speaker 1: I are putting on perfume and anyway, So I saw 898 00:49:10,040 --> 00:49:15,120 Speaker 1: that that opening shot with those flutes, and coming down 899 00:49:15,239 --> 00:49:19,040 Speaker 1: and finding Julie Andrews spinning in a circle skirt on 900 00:49:19,600 --> 00:49:24,279 Speaker 1: the top of that mountain. I think my head fell 901 00:49:24,360 --> 00:49:27,399 Speaker 1: off its body like I are, like I suddenly was born. 902 00:49:28,320 --> 00:49:34,279 Speaker 1: And then to track this story of this person who 903 00:49:34,560 --> 00:49:36,839 Speaker 1: has so much good and so much love in her, 904 00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:41,760 Speaker 1: who is also naughty and kind of a rule breaker, 905 00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:49,200 Speaker 1: and then lives this insane fantasy life in wealth, surrounded, 906 00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:55,439 Speaker 1: never giving up being who she is, and then gets 907 00:49:56,760 --> 00:50:01,400 Speaker 1: the fallen in love with by this stud and finding 908 00:50:01,600 --> 00:50:06,040 Speaker 1: love and all that. I was just like, I this, 909 00:50:06,719 --> 00:50:10,320 Speaker 1: I want that, This is me, I am this, This 910 00:50:10,480 --> 00:50:12,600 Speaker 1: is everything I dream of in my entire life. It 911 00:50:12,719 --> 00:50:15,600 Speaker 1: was like every even at that age, all of it 912 00:50:15,880 --> 00:50:18,160 Speaker 1: was fulfilled. And that's how old I was when I 913 00:50:18,239 --> 00:50:23,040 Speaker 1: saw it. And I have an unfortunately good memory. For 914 00:50:23,360 --> 00:50:26,479 Speaker 1: fortunate for us, well, I have got plenty of planning 915 00:50:26,480 --> 00:50:33,800 Speaker 1: to go around. And that to me was everything because 916 00:50:33,880 --> 00:50:40,960 Speaker 1: it also tethers into gay to the gay and I 917 00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:43,879 Speaker 1: had sort of and what's interesting about and I want 918 00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:46,640 Speaker 1: to talk about the cultural significance of sound of music, 919 00:50:46,680 --> 00:50:50,960 Speaker 1: if you'd like. But also it tethers into what I 920 00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:55,279 Speaker 1: had pre told you about, which is you know, which 921 00:50:55,400 --> 00:50:59,840 Speaker 1: is that that kind of fantasist living and my relating 922 00:50:59,880 --> 00:51:03,440 Speaker 1: to Maria and wanting to be Maria and to have 923 00:51:03,640 --> 00:51:08,960 Speaker 1: that experience was I started to say to my parents like, 924 00:51:09,080 --> 00:51:10,440 Speaker 1: I want to I want to be a girl. I 925 00:51:10,480 --> 00:51:13,920 Speaker 1: want to be a girl. And nineteen sixty seven was 926 00:51:14,000 --> 00:51:16,600 Speaker 1: sixty eight. My parents were My mom and dad were 927 00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:19,840 Speaker 1: twenty two and twenty three when I was born, and 928 00:51:20,360 --> 00:51:23,360 Speaker 1: it was not okay, and they were very concerned about me, 929 00:51:24,200 --> 00:51:26,560 Speaker 1: and they wanted to know the best way to parent me. 930 00:51:27,120 --> 00:51:29,759 Speaker 1: And they're very liberal. My parents were very liberal, and 931 00:51:30,280 --> 00:51:34,640 Speaker 1: they were so they sought some help. And there was 932 00:51:34,960 --> 00:51:41,560 Speaker 1: a program at UCLA for kids with gender dysmorphia, and 933 00:51:42,239 --> 00:51:45,080 Speaker 1: so they talked to the doctor and they felt like 934 00:51:46,080 --> 00:51:48,000 Speaker 1: he said, I can help them, and you know, we'll 935 00:51:49,000 --> 00:51:52,440 Speaker 1: figure this out. And they and my mom drove me 936 00:51:52,680 --> 00:51:56,440 Speaker 1: to these so I'd see him twice a week privately, 937 00:51:56,760 --> 00:52:00,000 Speaker 1: and then twice sorry, twice a month privately, and twice 938 00:52:00,360 --> 00:52:04,520 Speaker 1: a month studied with a group. And what my mother 939 00:52:04,680 --> 00:52:07,080 Speaker 1: sitting in the thing, didn't know is she had inadvertently 940 00:52:07,120 --> 00:52:10,719 Speaker 1: put me in conversion therapy at four years old. And 941 00:52:11,400 --> 00:52:18,120 Speaker 1: what that man did and said was soul can will 942 00:52:18,200 --> 00:52:22,040 Speaker 1: never be undone. I will be fighting with that inner 943 00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:26,839 Speaker 1: narrative of what like I'm bad, like my existence is bad. 944 00:52:27,440 --> 00:52:31,160 Speaker 1: And I was told in you know, in so many words, 945 00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:34,759 Speaker 1: that if I was if I said I was a girl, 946 00:52:34,760 --> 00:52:36,000 Speaker 1: if I said I wanted to be a girl, or 947 00:52:36,040 --> 00:52:39,840 Speaker 1: any of these things which had to do with fabric 948 00:52:40,160 --> 00:52:44,440 Speaker 1: and like a prince charming taking care of me, that 949 00:52:44,920 --> 00:52:50,799 Speaker 1: my parents would discard me. I would perish, i would starve, 950 00:52:50,880 --> 00:52:53,640 Speaker 1: I'd have no friends, I'd never know any love. I 951 00:52:53,800 --> 00:52:56,480 Speaker 1: was four years old, and this man said it to 952 00:52:56,560 --> 00:53:01,960 Speaker 1: me over and over and over again and in different ways. 953 00:53:02,760 --> 00:53:08,560 Speaker 1: And the way my mother describes what was happening was 954 00:53:08,680 --> 00:53:11,240 Speaker 1: at a certain point she started to get very concerned 955 00:53:11,280 --> 00:53:13,439 Speaker 1: because she said she saw my light go out. Yeah, 956 00:53:14,200 --> 00:53:17,960 Speaker 1: and I stopped being the singing, dancy, happy kid that 957 00:53:18,040 --> 00:53:25,440 Speaker 1: you see at equinox, and and that I was becoming quiet. 958 00:53:26,239 --> 00:53:29,040 Speaker 1: And one day I just said to her, I don't 959 00:53:29,040 --> 00:53:31,320 Speaker 1: want to go back and see doctor Green. And she 960 00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:34,640 Speaker 1: was like, no problem, and they took me out. And 961 00:53:35,120 --> 00:53:37,239 Speaker 1: when did it stop? How far in? 962 00:53:37,520 --> 00:53:42,160 Speaker 5: Yeah, I don't know. I want to text my mom. 963 00:53:42,239 --> 00:53:44,880 Speaker 5: But like, you know, at least six months, I mean, so. 964 00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:48,520 Speaker 1: You were that young when you were able to vocalize 965 00:53:48,760 --> 00:53:51,400 Speaker 1: like and the real And what I want to be 966 00:53:51,560 --> 00:53:55,719 Speaker 1: very clear about was I wanted to be a girl. 967 00:53:55,800 --> 00:53:57,719 Speaker 1: I did not feel like a girl. It was I 968 00:53:57,880 --> 00:54:00,400 Speaker 1: was not trained. I think everyone understands I said the 969 00:54:00,440 --> 00:54:02,080 Speaker 1: same I said the same. I said the same thing. 970 00:54:02,239 --> 00:54:02,400 Speaker 1: You know. 971 00:54:02,600 --> 00:54:04,800 Speaker 3: I want to put a towel in in in the 972 00:54:04,880 --> 00:54:06,440 Speaker 3: back of me so that I feel like I had 973 00:54:06,480 --> 00:54:07,640 Speaker 3: long hair. I wanted to be teen. 974 00:54:07,880 --> 00:54:09,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, it was about it was about dress up, and 975 00:54:10,320 --> 00:54:12,440 Speaker 1: it was about but it really was a lot about 976 00:54:12,560 --> 00:54:15,000 Speaker 1: like wanting to be taken care of and protected. 977 00:54:15,080 --> 00:54:17,960 Speaker 2: Of course, it's the difference between you know, this is 978 00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:19,480 Speaker 2: an oversimplification. 979 00:54:19,520 --> 00:54:19,960 Speaker 1: Another one. 980 00:54:20,080 --> 00:54:23,360 Speaker 2: It's the difference between drag and being and feeling like 981 00:54:23,640 --> 00:54:26,560 Speaker 2: you are in the wrong body. Yes, but yes, so 982 00:54:27,440 --> 00:54:30,960 Speaker 2: of course, and yet and how does your like because 983 00:54:31,160 --> 00:54:33,239 Speaker 2: my mom, having gone through a similar thing at a 984 00:54:33,320 --> 00:54:36,000 Speaker 2: very different age for a much shorter amount of time, 985 00:54:36,080 --> 00:54:38,239 Speaker 2: like my parents now are still like, we are so 986 00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:38,719 Speaker 2: sorry that. 987 00:54:38,719 --> 00:54:40,640 Speaker 1: We put you. My parents feel like it's the most 988 00:54:40,719 --> 00:54:43,360 Speaker 1: harm they've ever done. They cannot they cannot cope with it. 989 00:54:44,239 --> 00:54:51,040 Speaker 1: In some ways we've come to they didn't know they 990 00:54:51,080 --> 00:54:56,120 Speaker 1: were lied to. Yes, they were lied to, and because 991 00:54:56,160 --> 00:54:58,160 Speaker 1: they were trying. It was because they were trying to 992 00:54:58,200 --> 00:55:02,359 Speaker 1: figure out the best way to their beloved baby son 993 00:55:03,200 --> 00:55:07,759 Speaker 1: feel safe and okay, and unfortunately they were lied to 994 00:55:08,120 --> 00:55:11,000 Speaker 1: and put me in the hands of a monster and 995 00:55:12,760 --> 00:55:17,440 Speaker 1: who And the worst thing that I realized when I 996 00:55:17,520 --> 00:55:19,640 Speaker 1: had to obviously a ton of therapy and all of that, 997 00:55:20,400 --> 00:55:25,240 Speaker 1: that I realized that happened was because I think to myself, 998 00:55:25,280 --> 00:55:27,320 Speaker 1: you know that ended at a certain point, Why is 999 00:55:27,360 --> 00:55:30,800 Speaker 1: this still haunting me? And I realized it's because I 1000 00:55:30,960 --> 00:55:34,000 Speaker 1: made his voice mind. Yes, that's exactly it. I was 1001 00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:36,239 Speaker 1: gonna say, I made his voice mind. But I was 1002 00:55:36,320 --> 00:55:39,680 Speaker 1: too young to know any different. And it became like 1003 00:55:39,760 --> 00:55:44,520 Speaker 1: this life narrative where it's all been about like pleasing 1004 00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:46,799 Speaker 1: and shame and this and that and the next thing, 1005 00:55:46,920 --> 00:55:51,400 Speaker 1: and and and and not feeling safe a lot of 1006 00:55:51,440 --> 00:55:56,759 Speaker 1: the time. And that's why set is so important to me. 1007 00:55:57,280 --> 00:55:59,920 Speaker 1: Because I feel so safe at work. I know exactly 1008 00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:02,839 Speaker 1: what I'm supposed to be doing there. I feel appreciated, 1009 00:56:03,000 --> 00:56:04,840 Speaker 1: I feel you know, you get me. Offset I'm a 1010 00:56:05,040 --> 00:56:07,840 Speaker 1: fucking disaster. I don't know how to walk around in 1011 00:56:07,880 --> 00:56:10,759 Speaker 1: the world like a normal person. It was after a 1012 00:56:10,760 --> 00:56:12,120 Speaker 1: while I was on So you Think you can Dance? 1013 00:56:12,160 --> 00:56:13,920 Speaker 1: And I was for that period of time kind of 1014 00:56:14,080 --> 00:56:16,440 Speaker 1: like TV famous and on air. It was like an 1015 00:56:16,480 --> 00:56:18,840 Speaker 1: on air personality, and people would come up to it. 1016 00:56:18,960 --> 00:56:22,719 Speaker 1: I was like, and you want to know, you want 1017 00:56:22,760 --> 00:56:25,280 Speaker 1: to be set up for a drug and alcohol problem. 1018 00:56:25,760 --> 00:56:27,920 Speaker 1: That shit sets you up for a drug and alcohol problem. 1019 00:56:28,000 --> 00:56:29,759 Speaker 1: That happened to me when I was a kid, and 1020 00:56:32,000 --> 00:56:35,600 Speaker 1: and it was the only way I could cope. And 1021 00:56:36,400 --> 00:56:40,760 Speaker 1: so anyway, all that is to say, yes, my parents 1022 00:56:41,520 --> 00:56:47,360 Speaker 1: are We'll never be able to express there. On the 1023 00:56:47,440 --> 00:56:51,320 Speaker 1: other hand, when they then outed me when I was 1024 00:56:52,040 --> 00:56:54,800 Speaker 1: graduating high school because like I had girlfriends and I like, 1025 00:56:54,880 --> 00:56:59,640 Speaker 1: I was like, they were like, just we want you 1026 00:56:59,719 --> 00:57:01,360 Speaker 1: to know, oh, X, Y, and Z. They took me 1027 00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:03,560 Speaker 1: on separatis. They were divorced at that point, and they 1028 00:57:03,600 --> 00:57:06,040 Speaker 1: took me on separate trips and basically told me that 1029 00:57:06,160 --> 00:57:09,640 Speaker 1: they either knew or felt good about me gay, which. 1030 00:57:09,800 --> 00:57:12,120 Speaker 5: Was the worst possible thing that they could have said 1031 00:57:12,160 --> 00:57:12,279 Speaker 5: to me. 1032 00:57:12,400 --> 00:57:17,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, we know, well I wasn't out to me exactly, 1033 00:57:17,840 --> 00:57:21,080 Speaker 1: so I was like, what the fuck is happening? And 1034 00:57:21,120 --> 00:57:23,000 Speaker 1: I would be like, I am not and there is 1035 00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:25,080 Speaker 1: this and they're like, well, just in case. And then 1036 00:57:25,160 --> 00:57:27,280 Speaker 1: my mom's sending me books called now that we know 1037 00:57:27,760 --> 00:57:31,480 Speaker 1: and I'm like, I'm like, oh my god that I like, 1038 00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:39,560 Speaker 1: I'm losing my mind because coming out took me so long, 1039 00:57:41,160 --> 00:57:43,640 Speaker 1: and I was like every time I would say to 1040 00:57:43,680 --> 00:57:46,400 Speaker 1: one of my friends like, I'm like, I'm gay, and 1041 00:57:46,480 --> 00:57:50,720 Speaker 1: they'd be like, yeah, this is like and I was like, what, 1042 00:57:51,640 --> 00:57:52,960 Speaker 1: how does everybody know this thing? 1043 00:57:53,040 --> 00:57:56,560 Speaker 3: That I'm so frustrating that was souse. They're using so 1044 00:57:56,720 --> 00:57:59,120 Speaker 3: much energy to convince everyone else. But I was just 1045 00:57:59,240 --> 00:58:02,600 Speaker 3: so lucky to come out into love. Yeah you know 1046 00:58:02,640 --> 00:58:04,280 Speaker 3: what I mean That that I know is a blessing 1047 00:58:04,360 --> 00:58:05,640 Speaker 3: that not everybody gets. 1048 00:58:06,520 --> 00:58:09,560 Speaker 1: But the thing that happened when I was young will 1049 00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:12,000 Speaker 1: never fucking go away, and it drives me crazy. Yeah, 1050 00:58:12,280 --> 00:58:13,400 Speaker 1: it will never go away. 1051 00:58:14,360 --> 00:58:16,560 Speaker 2: But you've already done the work, which is to like 1052 00:58:17,400 --> 00:58:20,120 Speaker 2: name it, externalize it. It is not a part of you, 1053 00:58:20,240 --> 00:58:22,400 Speaker 2: it's bouncing around. But it's it's as long as you 1054 00:58:22,400 --> 00:58:26,040 Speaker 2: can be like that soft green. Yeah, that's what he's dad. 1055 00:58:26,240 --> 00:58:31,320 Speaker 1: He he lived a sad life where he was causing 1056 00:58:31,400 --> 00:58:35,200 Speaker 1: harm at the end and guess what he was gay, 1057 00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:38,640 Speaker 1: Well that I would imagine that's that's yeah, that was 1058 00:58:38,760 --> 00:58:41,120 Speaker 1: like my you know, there was some talk about him, 1059 00:58:41,640 --> 00:58:44,240 Speaker 1: like my suspecting that, like my parents felt like he 1060 00:58:44,360 --> 00:58:46,280 Speaker 1: hit all my dad kind of thing like there was 1061 00:58:46,600 --> 00:58:48,000 Speaker 1: of course my dad was hot when he was young. 1062 00:58:48,120 --> 00:58:54,560 Speaker 1: So yeah, anyways, lucky anyway, that having to do. 1063 00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:59,120 Speaker 3: With the sound of music, it all, it's it's a 1064 00:58:59,200 --> 00:59:01,040 Speaker 3: it's a first of all, thank you for sharing that. 1065 00:59:01,400 --> 00:59:07,360 Speaker 3: And I think that unfortunately a lot of times, like 1066 00:59:09,040 --> 00:59:12,640 Speaker 3: it's those things that bring us into the light, which 1067 00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:15,640 Speaker 3: also makes us kind of expose ourselves. And sometimes it 1068 00:59:15,680 --> 00:59:18,520 Speaker 3: happens a little earlier than we're ready, or you know, 1069 00:59:18,680 --> 00:59:22,640 Speaker 3: we sort of you know, we become bigger, more expressive 1070 00:59:22,960 --> 00:59:28,520 Speaker 3: versions of ourselves when and then all of a sudden 1071 00:59:28,600 --> 00:59:31,720 Speaker 3: we've revealed too much and the world is mean, and. 1072 00:59:31,760 --> 00:59:35,680 Speaker 1: The world is mean. And it's very interesting because during 1073 00:59:35,760 --> 00:59:37,600 Speaker 1: this sort of press run and for stop that train, 1074 00:59:37,920 --> 00:59:40,640 Speaker 1: I'm constantly being asked what pride means to me because 1075 00:59:40,680 --> 00:59:45,840 Speaker 1: we're coming out into gay pride, and you know, as 1076 00:59:46,720 --> 00:59:49,160 Speaker 1: silly as a question that that mean, because it's so like, 1077 00:59:49,200 --> 00:59:51,160 Speaker 1: I don't know, you want the Wikipedia? Do you want that? Wait? 1078 00:59:51,200 --> 00:59:52,560 Speaker 1: What are we talking about? 1079 00:59:53,560 --> 00:59:53,720 Speaker 3: You know? 1080 00:59:53,920 --> 00:59:58,240 Speaker 1: For me, the gratitude that I have and need to 1081 00:59:58,320 --> 01:00:04,280 Speaker 1: express more rather than the complaint, because we actually live 1082 01:00:04,320 --> 01:00:08,840 Speaker 1: in a place where being us is legal, and even 1083 01:00:08,920 --> 01:00:11,400 Speaker 1: though they want to take away rights and stuff like 1084 01:00:11,480 --> 01:00:14,640 Speaker 1: a lot of them these days, it's still legal and 1085 01:00:14,680 --> 01:00:17,480 Speaker 1: we're allowed to exist, whereas there's places in this earth 1086 01:00:17,560 --> 01:00:20,680 Speaker 1: where people are stoned to death and that are jailed 1087 01:00:21,040 --> 01:00:26,080 Speaker 1: for being simply who they are. And so to not 1088 01:00:26,360 --> 01:00:29,920 Speaker 1: acknowledge that we get to have that as we fight 1089 01:00:30,080 --> 01:00:34,120 Speaker 1: for ourselves right now, which we have to, it felt 1090 01:00:34,600 --> 01:00:39,080 Speaker 1: strange too. And then to see that there was like 1091 01:00:39,160 --> 01:00:43,320 Speaker 1: some talk about reversing the conversion ban, I was like, 1092 01:00:43,880 --> 01:00:48,960 Speaker 1: what the fuck like that that is? I have firsthand experiences, 1093 01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:49,200 Speaker 1: do you? 1094 01:00:49,480 --> 01:00:51,479 Speaker 3: And and well it's kind of they are now trying 1095 01:00:51,560 --> 01:00:54,480 Speaker 3: to frame it or they're trying to make us believe 1096 01:00:54,600 --> 01:00:57,640 Speaker 3: that actually conversion therapy. 1097 01:00:57,400 --> 01:01:00,520 Speaker 1: Would be limiting. Like I guess like crespe and I 1098 01:01:00,560 --> 01:01:03,160 Speaker 1: guess like some sort of like religious practice, you know 1099 01:01:03,200 --> 01:01:03,400 Speaker 1: what I. 1100 01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:05,880 Speaker 3: Mean, because it's like it's it's it's almost as if 1101 01:01:05,960 --> 01:01:08,840 Speaker 3: saying no, you can't pray the gay away is like 1102 01:01:08,920 --> 01:01:11,680 Speaker 3: anti God, when meanwhile, we're just stating a fact. You 1103 01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:15,480 Speaker 3: are not able to pray the gay away. It's not sacrilegious, 1104 01:01:15,600 --> 01:01:16,520 Speaker 3: it's just truth. 1105 01:01:16,880 --> 01:01:19,040 Speaker 1: Well, it's also you're trying to inflict your beliefs on 1106 01:01:19,120 --> 01:01:22,760 Speaker 1: someone else, which you like, and make somebody else's truth 1107 01:01:22,840 --> 01:01:30,400 Speaker 1: and reality yours involuntarily. Yeah, that's what, that's what. That's what. 1108 01:01:30,640 --> 01:01:32,720 Speaker 1: And and to say that it's a parent's des I 1109 01:01:32,760 --> 01:01:38,280 Speaker 1: mean to if a child express it like it is 1110 01:01:38,360 --> 01:01:42,040 Speaker 1: expressed themselves, that the parents are upset with what they 1111 01:01:43,280 --> 01:01:48,000 Speaker 1: have in front of them, their child, you know, to 1112 01:01:48,160 --> 01:01:53,640 Speaker 1: potentially put them in extraordinary mental and emotional dress and 1113 01:01:53,800 --> 01:01:58,280 Speaker 1: harm to make them more how they would like them 1114 01:01:58,360 --> 01:02:01,919 Speaker 1: to be is patently wrong. 1115 01:02:02,160 --> 01:02:06,240 Speaker 2: While these people are saying it's to protect the children, 1116 01:02:06,320 --> 01:02:08,800 Speaker 2: it's like this, it's it's tale as old as time. 1117 01:02:09,240 --> 01:02:11,760 Speaker 2: It's like it's parody on the Simpsons at this point, Yeah, 1118 01:02:12,160 --> 01:02:15,200 Speaker 2: what about the children? Woman, It's like, well, that that's what, 1119 01:02:15,440 --> 01:02:17,959 Speaker 2: that's what, you know, that's the That's been the best 1120 01:02:19,640 --> 01:02:24,680 Speaker 2: way to campaign oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah to the children, 1121 01:02:24,840 --> 01:02:26,960 Speaker 2: the children, but you are the children, but you are 1122 01:02:27,160 --> 01:02:28,280 Speaker 2: endangering the children. 1123 01:02:28,400 --> 01:02:33,480 Speaker 1: It's like, it's crazy, how dissonant that which brings us 1124 01:02:33,520 --> 01:02:36,200 Speaker 1: back to the sound of music when the Nazis children. 1125 01:02:36,880 --> 01:02:38,240 Speaker 1: By the way, you know that I did make a 1126 01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:42,600 Speaker 1: movie with a Nazi subplot that has the sound of music, 1127 01:02:42,640 --> 01:02:47,600 Speaker 1: which is the pacifier, which is which pretty snow film. 1128 01:02:47,800 --> 01:02:53,000 Speaker 1: My first Brittany and There Max the Area has a 1129 01:02:53,120 --> 01:02:56,440 Speaker 1: plot where Vin Diesel discovered he's dyed his hair blonde, 1130 01:02:56,520 --> 01:03:00,360 Speaker 1: bleached his hair blonde, and finds a swastika armband in 1131 01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:04,480 Speaker 1: his dressing room and thinks that the kid is a 1132 01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:08,600 Speaker 1: not Nazi and follows him to one of his meetings, 1133 01:03:08,800 --> 01:03:11,560 Speaker 1: where he meets up in an alley with other blonde 1134 01:03:11,640 --> 01:03:14,600 Speaker 1: guys wearing Nazi armbands, and then when he follows him in, 1135 01:03:14,760 --> 01:03:20,680 Speaker 1: they're just rehearsing a production a music perfect, perfect. So 1136 01:03:20,800 --> 01:03:22,680 Speaker 1: I got to make the Disney movie with the Nazi 1137 01:03:22,720 --> 01:03:26,680 Speaker 1: sub fu although I would say, I guess bed Offs 1138 01:03:26,680 --> 01:03:29,680 Speaker 1: and Broomsticks has a nice war you know time thing 1139 01:03:29,760 --> 01:03:32,120 Speaker 1: going on in there too. Yeah, sure, but it's not 1140 01:03:32,240 --> 01:03:34,320 Speaker 1: Nazis specific. But it's beautiful. 1141 01:03:34,320 --> 01:03:35,880 Speaker 2: You're talking about sound of music this way where it's 1142 01:03:35,960 --> 01:03:39,360 Speaker 2: like it's Marie, you can your your surrogate is Maria, 1143 01:03:39,440 --> 01:03:41,160 Speaker 2: and it's the children, right Like as a kid, you're like, 1144 01:03:41,200 --> 01:03:42,200 Speaker 2: I want to I just want to be one of 1145 01:03:42,240 --> 01:03:44,320 Speaker 2: them on trap kids. Yeah, But then as you grow 1146 01:03:44,400 --> 01:03:47,200 Speaker 2: up you're like, oh, right, I identify with her because 1147 01:03:47,200 --> 01:03:49,880 Speaker 2: it's like she's a good heart, but she's misunderstood and 1148 01:03:49,960 --> 01:03:51,520 Speaker 2: she just needs to like find the right place. 1149 01:03:52,080 --> 01:03:55,280 Speaker 1: And that's how I continue to feel yes in you know, 1150 01:03:55,680 --> 01:04:00,720 Speaker 1: and which is which is fine? Like it's I'm not 1151 01:04:00,800 --> 01:04:02,480 Speaker 1: mad at who I am and how I am. I'm like, 1152 01:04:02,600 --> 01:04:04,280 Speaker 1: it's it's way I am. And I've had like a 1153 01:04:04,640 --> 01:04:09,240 Speaker 1: freaking amazing life. I've had opportunities and experiences that when 1154 01:04:09,280 --> 01:04:14,640 Speaker 1: I lay it out, I can't even fathom that person. 1155 01:04:16,200 --> 01:04:20,480 Speaker 1: And yet here I am, and all I want to 1156 01:04:20,480 --> 01:04:22,360 Speaker 1: do is just get another job and work. You know. 1157 01:04:23,280 --> 01:04:26,040 Speaker 2: Of course we identify with this completely. And I also 1158 01:04:26,120 --> 01:04:28,520 Speaker 2: just want to say I feel compelled to say, And 1159 01:04:28,640 --> 01:04:31,240 Speaker 2: I know you're like, why does this kid keep talking 1160 01:04:31,280 --> 01:04:33,920 Speaker 2: about the DVD commentary of A Walk to Remember? 1161 01:04:34,560 --> 01:04:38,640 Speaker 1: You know? What happened? Because of that DVD commentary? What happened? Well, 1162 01:04:38,680 --> 01:04:40,920 Speaker 1: first of all, it did become a thing, and there 1163 01:04:41,000 --> 01:04:43,800 Speaker 1: was like a whole like fan site devoted to it, 1164 01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:46,760 Speaker 1: like there was like a whole thing. But I said 1165 01:04:46,920 --> 01:04:51,560 Speaker 1: something on the commentary about one of the cast members 1166 01:04:52,200 --> 01:04:56,280 Speaker 1: screwing everybody in all the girls in North Carolina during 1167 01:04:56,360 --> 01:05:00,480 Speaker 1: the thing, and I didn't know he was in gauged 1168 01:05:01,120 --> 01:05:04,360 Speaker 1: at the time, and they found and that the girl 1169 01:05:04,560 --> 01:05:07,160 Speaker 1: heard it and broke off. 1170 01:05:07,240 --> 01:05:12,600 Speaker 3: The better for her, better for him, I guess, Yeah, Yeah, 1171 01:05:12,840 --> 01:05:14,360 Speaker 3: it doesn't seem like someone that wanted to be. 1172 01:05:14,960 --> 01:05:17,400 Speaker 1: I believe on the commentary. I may have said I 1173 01:05:17,440 --> 01:05:19,240 Speaker 1: could be totally wrong about this, but I remember saying, 1174 01:05:21,440 --> 01:05:23,440 Speaker 1: that's that's what I do. Watch, that's my commentary. No, 1175 01:05:23,640 --> 01:05:25,640 Speaker 1: I believe that. I said, like that kid was paid 1176 01:05:25,680 --> 01:05:31,080 Speaker 1: to get laid. And I and Mandy and Shane were 1177 01:05:31,120 --> 01:05:35,360 Speaker 1: sitting across the desk from me going like no, don't, don't, don't, don't. 1178 01:05:35,640 --> 01:05:39,600 Speaker 1: Real well, they were like, don't let this out because 1179 01:05:39,760 --> 01:05:43,240 Speaker 1: of his girlfriend. Sure, and I did, And I couldn't 1180 01:05:43,280 --> 01:05:45,200 Speaker 1: know what the fun they were talking about. You know 1181 01:05:45,280 --> 01:05:49,360 Speaker 1: who is my Do you remember Danny from the Real World? Yeah, 1182 01:05:49,960 --> 01:05:52,280 Speaker 1: like because he had Paul. It was New Orleans and 1183 01:05:52,400 --> 01:05:56,280 Speaker 1: Paul the fuzzy face out his face. It was like that. 1184 01:05:56,800 --> 01:05:59,640 Speaker 1: They It was right after their season aired that we 1185 01:05:59,680 --> 01:06:02,880 Speaker 1: shot that, and they lived across the street from me 1186 01:06:03,720 --> 01:06:07,720 Speaker 1: in Wilmington. Yeah, but Wrightsville Beach. I was at right 1187 01:06:07,760 --> 01:06:12,160 Speaker 1: till Beach where my place was, and I'd see him 1188 01:06:12,400 --> 01:06:16,200 Speaker 1: out on the street like washing his car, and I 1189 01:06:16,240 --> 01:06:17,480 Speaker 1: felt like I had to look away because he was 1190 01:06:17,480 --> 01:06:19,840 Speaker 1: such a big star. Back then, the real world kids 1191 01:06:19,880 --> 01:06:23,920 Speaker 1: were like you. 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This product is not intended to diagnose, treat, cure, 1220 01:08:00,880 --> 01:08:02,240 Speaker 3: or prevent any disease. 1221 01:08:02,640 --> 01:08:04,640 Speaker 1: I thought you said it was proven by science. I 1222 01:08:04,720 --> 01:08:06,880 Speaker 1: never said that. I just said it was good. 1223 01:08:08,200 --> 01:08:10,360 Speaker 2: I want to say on the note of the commentary, 1224 01:08:10,440 --> 01:08:13,920 Speaker 2: it's like I just want you to receive this, and 1225 01:08:14,000 --> 01:08:15,360 Speaker 2: I think like you will believe me. Like, and I 1226 01:08:15,440 --> 01:08:20,439 Speaker 2: think I've told you it's like that. That commentary. It 1227 01:08:20,640 --> 01:08:22,760 Speaker 2: just I would just rewatch it over and over again 1228 01:08:22,800 --> 01:08:25,840 Speaker 2: because I was like, oh my god, it's like such 1229 01:08:25,880 --> 01:08:28,600 Speaker 2: a sad movie, but they're being so funny on it, 1230 01:08:28,840 --> 01:08:33,120 Speaker 2: especially Adam Shankman, And it was like the first time, 1231 01:08:33,360 --> 01:08:35,560 Speaker 2: now that we're on a podcast, it's like it was 1232 01:08:35,600 --> 01:08:37,479 Speaker 2: the first time that I had like heard like a 1233 01:08:37,640 --> 01:08:42,080 Speaker 2: gay man's voice just like lead this conversation in such 1234 01:08:42,080 --> 01:08:44,160 Speaker 2: a fun, funny direction. 1235 01:08:45,760 --> 01:08:46,880 Speaker 1: The way you were cracking jokes. 1236 01:08:46,920 --> 01:08:48,280 Speaker 2: I was like, I want to be friends with this. 1237 01:08:48,439 --> 01:08:53,120 Speaker 2: This guy seems so great. I was like, and this 1238 01:08:53,360 --> 01:08:56,439 Speaker 2: is it's representation is I guess the best word for it. 1239 01:08:56,479 --> 01:08:57,360 Speaker 1: But I was just like it was. 1240 01:08:57,600 --> 01:09:00,680 Speaker 2: It was a very important early moment for me to 1241 01:09:00,760 --> 01:09:03,200 Speaker 2: be like, Wow, you can direct a movie like this 1242 01:09:03,479 --> 01:09:06,400 Speaker 2: as a gay man. You can like have this rapport 1243 01:09:06,520 --> 01:09:10,080 Speaker 2: where you're like nurturing this talent and really bonding with them, 1244 01:09:10,120 --> 01:09:12,479 Speaker 2: and you're on there, You're at their level, You're you're 1245 01:09:12,560 --> 01:09:16,120 Speaker 2: you're just cracking wise and I was like, this seems great. 1246 01:09:16,120 --> 01:09:18,960 Speaker 2: I was like, you, I consider you and have always 1247 01:09:19,000 --> 01:09:21,599 Speaker 2: considered you an incredible role. 1248 01:09:21,560 --> 01:09:26,519 Speaker 1: Model in that way. Wow, I'm I watched I don't 1249 01:09:26,720 --> 01:09:29,080 Speaker 1: you have no idea? And am I like you? You 1250 01:09:29,160 --> 01:09:31,760 Speaker 1: are very you you you you feel you're Why is 1251 01:09:31,800 --> 01:09:37,680 Speaker 1: this episode sad? It's not sad, it's a little I 1252 01:09:37,760 --> 01:09:41,080 Speaker 1: don't know. I'm okay. It's happy. It is happy. No, 1253 01:09:41,160 --> 01:09:43,200 Speaker 1: it's happy, and it's remember it's said. 1254 01:09:44,680 --> 01:09:44,720 Speaker 3: That. 1255 01:09:45,400 --> 01:09:53,280 Speaker 1: No, it's hopeful. I can't see. Thank you. I'm so happy. 1256 01:09:53,360 --> 01:09:57,559 Speaker 2: I forced us to be friends, didn't forced us to film. 1257 01:09:57,600 --> 01:09:58,680 Speaker 2: And for me, I was like, oh my god, this 1258 01:09:58,800 --> 01:10:02,479 Speaker 2: man that I've always loved, like it's it's it's so cool. 1259 01:10:02,560 --> 01:10:04,880 Speaker 1: Well this is you're doing this now for other kids? 1260 01:10:05,000 --> 01:10:07,160 Speaker 3: You know that you know what you know what you're 1261 01:10:07,200 --> 01:10:11,440 Speaker 3: describing as like a parasocial Yes, exactly exactly. 1262 01:10:11,680 --> 01:10:12,600 Speaker 1: I think that that is. 1263 01:10:12,680 --> 01:10:15,280 Speaker 3: I was thinking about the DVD commentary of it all 1264 01:10:15,280 --> 01:10:17,240 Speaker 3: and how much I enjoyed it as well. 1265 01:10:18,000 --> 01:10:23,720 Speaker 1: Everything I can only pay attention to. It wasn't that. 1266 01:10:25,680 --> 01:10:28,280 Speaker 1: But really I was like, really, what they were was podcasts. 1267 01:10:29,400 --> 01:10:33,160 Speaker 2: You were listening to a podcast the movie exactly, and 1268 01:10:33,439 --> 01:10:34,800 Speaker 2: like that's what those were. 1269 01:10:35,080 --> 01:10:37,679 Speaker 1: And you know, I never did hear the Fire Island. 1270 01:10:38,120 --> 01:10:39,679 Speaker 1: Oh no, yes I did. I did watch the Fire 1271 01:10:39,720 --> 01:10:40,839 Speaker 1: Island DVD commentary. 1272 01:10:41,200 --> 01:10:43,200 Speaker 3: I guess that's the only movie I've ever been in 1273 01:10:43,360 --> 01:10:45,960 Speaker 3: that had the coary. And I was like, oh, what 1274 01:10:46,080 --> 01:10:49,000 Speaker 3: a nice thing that I hope people don't stop doing 1275 01:10:49,040 --> 01:10:49,360 Speaker 3: because it. 1276 01:10:49,439 --> 01:10:54,400 Speaker 1: Was first off that train. Yeah me, Christina and Connor. 1277 01:10:54,680 --> 01:10:58,280 Speaker 1: Oh great, that's great. I'm listening. It was. It was 1278 01:10:58,479 --> 01:11:02,840 Speaker 1: it was rough to keep on target, you know, talking 1279 01:11:02,840 --> 01:11:05,120 Speaker 1: about the movie. But it's just fun to hear. It's 1280 01:11:05,200 --> 01:11:07,760 Speaker 1: fun to hear. I like bts. 1281 01:11:08,040 --> 01:11:12,040 Speaker 3: I like hearing, Oh, that was a fun thing that 1282 01:11:12,160 --> 01:11:14,360 Speaker 3: happened this day, et cetera. Like I don't know, like, 1283 01:11:14,439 --> 01:11:16,479 Speaker 3: I just I'm into that, Like it's funny. 1284 01:11:17,400 --> 01:11:20,320 Speaker 1: Did they got sketch? No, Oh my god, that's so funny. 1285 01:11:20,360 --> 01:11:23,000 Speaker 1: I was just I didn't think you could possibly remember it. 1286 01:11:23,320 --> 01:11:25,080 Speaker 2: Matt to sketch when we were in college. Wasn't mean 1287 01:11:25,360 --> 01:11:27,599 Speaker 2: suit Citi rod a sketch when we were in college. 1288 01:11:27,640 --> 01:11:31,320 Speaker 2: It was Doubt, the DVD commentary of Doubt, and then 1289 01:11:31,400 --> 01:11:32,679 Speaker 2: one of one of them, it was you know whatever 1290 01:11:32,720 --> 01:11:32,920 Speaker 2: it was. 1291 01:11:32,960 --> 01:11:35,800 Speaker 3: It was literally it was Philip Seymour Hoffman, Meryl Streep, 1292 01:11:35,880 --> 01:11:37,200 Speaker 3: and then the one woman who rank. 1293 01:11:37,120 --> 01:11:40,519 Speaker 2: Crevices their drive by process and then Study comes in 1294 01:11:40,600 --> 01:11:42,320 Speaker 2: and chimes in with her voice and on that day 1295 01:11:42,360 --> 01:11:43,400 Speaker 2: there was a cobb salad for. 1296 01:11:46,400 --> 01:11:48,160 Speaker 1: This was it was really tough because this was a 1297 01:11:48,200 --> 01:11:51,519 Speaker 1: hot day. On said this was a cop salad and 1298 01:11:51,600 --> 01:11:53,840 Speaker 1: that I ended up being it was a short one. 1299 01:11:55,080 --> 01:11:55,400 Speaker 4: It was. 1300 01:11:57,880 --> 01:12:02,000 Speaker 2: This is the DVD commentary out now, like I missed it, 1301 01:12:02,200 --> 01:12:03,439 Speaker 2: Like you just didn't have that anymore. 1302 01:12:03,439 --> 01:12:06,000 Speaker 1: But what were we gonna say? I think I forget. 1303 01:12:06,120 --> 01:12:08,840 Speaker 3: I was just I was just saying, like I just oh, 1304 01:12:09,920 --> 01:12:14,600 Speaker 3: I was watching I just like bts of movies and 1305 01:12:14,680 --> 01:12:16,320 Speaker 3: I like movie history, et cetera. 1306 01:12:16,640 --> 01:12:17,960 Speaker 1: And I was watching. 1307 01:12:19,160 --> 01:12:22,360 Speaker 3: Epic Ride, which is on Peacock and it's a three 1308 01:12:22,479 --> 01:12:25,800 Speaker 3: episode docuseriies like a little tiny thing about like the 1309 01:12:26,000 --> 01:12:29,640 Speaker 3: making of Epic Universe. And but but but when you 1310 01:12:29,880 --> 01:12:32,920 Speaker 3: when you zoom out, it's also about like Universal Studios. 1311 01:12:33,000 --> 01:12:36,240 Speaker 3: Actually Carl Lemley in the beginning of the Universal Studios, 1312 01:12:37,000 --> 01:12:40,280 Speaker 3: you know, production company, and how he bought Universal City 1313 01:12:40,400 --> 01:12:44,719 Speaker 3: and it literally the tram Tour actually started as people 1314 01:12:44,800 --> 01:12:47,880 Speaker 3: could just gather around and watch silent films get shot, 1315 01:12:47,960 --> 01:12:49,920 Speaker 3: and they could make noise and they could yell and 1316 01:12:50,000 --> 01:12:51,719 Speaker 3: they could you know, laugh and hoot and holler because 1317 01:12:51,720 --> 01:12:53,880 Speaker 3: it was a silent film, and they would stand around 1318 01:12:53,920 --> 01:12:56,760 Speaker 3: and just watch it, and that became the Tram Tour, 1319 01:12:57,280 --> 01:13:01,000 Speaker 3: which gave birth to Universal Studios as we know it. 1320 01:13:01,520 --> 01:13:04,960 Speaker 3: And I was just like, really fascinated by that history, 1321 01:13:05,120 --> 01:13:08,280 Speaker 3: and so I just like to hear bts about anything 1322 01:13:08,640 --> 01:13:11,920 Speaker 3: that I love, and just so I am motivated now 1323 01:13:12,080 --> 01:13:15,160 Speaker 3: to go watch the DVD commentary because I haven't seen 1324 01:13:15,200 --> 01:13:17,240 Speaker 3: that movie in a long time. I am curious how 1325 01:13:17,320 --> 01:13:20,040 Speaker 3: hard I could cry now today, I wonder if I 1326 01:13:20,080 --> 01:13:21,360 Speaker 3: can match myself at eleven. 1327 01:13:21,640 --> 01:13:24,120 Speaker 1: I can't figure out how you guys can even stand 1328 01:13:24,680 --> 01:13:27,680 Speaker 1: given the fact that you have the schedules that you have, 1329 01:13:27,920 --> 01:13:30,040 Speaker 1: not just with the podcast, with everything else, with the 1330 01:13:30,080 --> 01:13:32,760 Speaker 1: awards that you just did with and with the press 1331 01:13:32,800 --> 01:13:37,560 Speaker 1: obligations that you have, with working your other jobs, with 1332 01:13:37,680 --> 01:13:41,120 Speaker 1: acting like that, and then being such loyal good friends 1333 01:13:41,160 --> 01:13:42,920 Speaker 1: to your friends, spending time with all the friends, and 1334 01:13:43,120 --> 01:13:47,760 Speaker 1: trying to consume culture, which I don't understand. How you 1335 01:13:47,840 --> 01:13:50,360 Speaker 1: make time to see all these things. I don't have that. 1336 01:13:50,680 --> 01:13:54,240 Speaker 1: I don't have that capacity, and it's extraordinary. And I 1337 01:13:54,280 --> 01:13:55,640 Speaker 1: brought this up to you on set. I was like, 1338 01:13:56,120 --> 01:13:57,759 Speaker 1: how do you do it all? I don't. 1339 01:13:58,439 --> 01:14:02,160 Speaker 2: The thing that suffers most for me is consuming more culture. 1340 01:14:02,439 --> 01:14:05,439 Speaker 2: It's the thing that and I'm unqualified to host this 1341 01:14:05,479 --> 01:14:11,080 Speaker 2: podcast or where I'm like, I've always said that, But. 1342 01:14:11,240 --> 01:14:14,000 Speaker 3: Here's the thing though, like everything we do is fun, 1343 01:14:14,560 --> 01:14:16,200 Speaker 3: Like we have fun doing all the things that we're 1344 01:14:16,360 --> 01:14:20,320 Speaker 3: fun and fun and uh, Storm of. 1345 01:14:20,400 --> 01:14:25,559 Speaker 1: Gonza so amazing. I love I love that that line 1346 01:14:25,800 --> 01:14:30,439 Speaker 1: gets used in the Trails a lot, which there's a 1347 01:14:30,479 --> 01:14:37,840 Speaker 1: Glamazonian Express. It's one of the great trailers in recent memory. 1348 01:14:39,080 --> 01:14:43,760 Speaker 1: I was if you y'all best to be playing this 1349 01:14:43,880 --> 01:14:44,680 Speaker 1: as a drama. 1350 01:14:46,800 --> 01:14:49,880 Speaker 3: Now, being like because you don't know, Like I was like, 1351 01:14:50,000 --> 01:14:52,599 Speaker 3: am I doing this completely? Traady goes oh dead ass. 1352 01:14:54,439 --> 01:14:56,840 Speaker 1: It's just all you do is go kick up to 1353 01:14:56,880 --> 01:14:57,960 Speaker 1: soap opera. That's it. 1354 01:14:58,400 --> 01:15:01,800 Speaker 3: But because everything is so absurd, there's in particular, there's 1355 01:15:01,920 --> 01:15:06,680 Speaker 3: one joke where we're in the press room just bleep this. 1356 01:15:08,200 --> 01:15:11,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just I'll just tell you. It's like I 1357 01:15:11,960 --> 01:15:13,840 Speaker 1: maybe I won't tell you, I don't tell me, but 1358 01:15:13,960 --> 01:15:17,920 Speaker 1: that he's a great scene. Absurd, Like it's so insane. Well, 1359 01:15:18,000 --> 01:15:20,920 Speaker 1: especially what happened with like that was like, yeah, that 1360 01:15:21,080 --> 01:15:22,760 Speaker 1: was like the dumbest thing that I was like, that's 1361 01:15:22,800 --> 01:15:24,840 Speaker 1: what I'm saying. It was so dumb thing upon dumb 1362 01:15:24,880 --> 01:15:28,760 Speaker 1: thing upon dumb thing. Adam did cut me. Yeah, it's all. 1363 01:15:29,600 --> 01:15:33,160 Speaker 3: He cut me swallowing a sword. And I think it's 1364 01:15:33,200 --> 01:15:37,080 Speaker 3: because I couldn't say swallow a sword. It's that I 1365 01:15:37,160 --> 01:15:38,880 Speaker 3: took out a sword and I swallowed it and it 1366 01:15:38,960 --> 01:15:41,719 Speaker 3: wasn't in the Maybe that'll be in the bonus feature. 1367 01:15:41,960 --> 01:15:46,080 Speaker 1: Sure, No, I wanted to end on Rubing's trust me 1368 01:15:46,320 --> 01:15:50,280 Speaker 1: you did the right. Movie didn't need me swallowing a sword. 1369 01:15:51,400 --> 01:15:54,479 Speaker 1: It did, and that people want to other movies do though. Yeah, 1370 01:15:57,120 --> 01:16:00,240 Speaker 1: it just ask Adam for the b roll. Yeah, yeah, 1371 01:16:00,240 --> 01:16:04,200 Speaker 1: for sure, Yeah that's happening. I am. This is thrilling 1372 01:16:04,880 --> 01:16:06,639 Speaker 1: that that this is all coming in as a boop 1373 01:16:06,640 --> 01:16:10,439 Speaker 1: of real. We are always saying bring back the blooper 1374 01:16:10,479 --> 01:16:13,320 Speaker 1: real always. There was no way I was not doing 1375 01:16:13,360 --> 01:16:15,360 Speaker 1: a blooper reel. This second I saw the first cut, 1376 01:16:15,360 --> 01:16:18,040 Speaker 1: I was like, let's start putting and rue and I 1377 01:16:18,160 --> 01:16:19,000 Speaker 1: made the bloop of real. 1378 01:16:19,040 --> 01:16:21,400 Speaker 3: I was so happy about it. I was very very 1379 01:16:21,439 --> 01:16:24,600 Speaker 3: thrilled about that. That that see, and that is I 1380 01:16:24,680 --> 01:16:27,400 Speaker 3: guess the message I would. I would imparton everyone. 1381 01:16:27,280 --> 01:16:30,120 Speaker 1: Like it's the movie. It's like the movies, you remember, Yes, 1382 01:16:30,240 --> 01:16:33,400 Speaker 1: you know what I'm saying it's like, it's like, it's. 1383 01:16:33,560 --> 01:16:38,040 Speaker 3: Just fun and it's so it's it's for you if 1384 01:16:38,080 --> 01:16:40,040 Speaker 3: you're watching it at home and it's coming out such 1385 01:16:40,040 --> 01:16:42,320 Speaker 3: a fun time. I'm also so happy that it comes 1386 01:16:42,360 --> 01:16:44,760 Speaker 3: out right before the Cultural Awards airs, because we were 1387 01:16:45,360 --> 01:16:47,920 Speaker 3: so excited to welcome so many of the cast of 1388 01:16:47,960 --> 01:16:51,360 Speaker 3: Stop That Train on the Cultural Who was there it 1389 01:16:51,479 --> 01:16:53,840 Speaker 3: was Rachel Bloom, who, by the way, is the lead 1390 01:16:53,960 --> 01:16:59,080 Speaker 3: of the film. Something that's kind of Simone Simon Reue 1391 01:17:00,600 --> 01:17:04,480 Speaker 3: you he of course, money money. 1392 01:17:06,479 --> 01:17:08,320 Speaker 1: I don't know. It was there was, there was, there 1393 01:17:08,439 --> 01:17:11,600 Speaker 1: was crawling would stop that train before it was underfoot. 1394 01:17:11,680 --> 01:17:18,960 Speaker 1: Everywhere you look there was a stop that. Yes, she 1395 01:17:19,160 --> 01:17:23,439 Speaker 1: has one of the stupidest lines in the movie that 1396 01:17:23,600 --> 01:17:30,360 Speaker 1: she delivers so blankly that it's it's it's it's absolutely insane. 1397 01:17:31,000 --> 01:17:35,599 Speaker 1: It's it's she can do it all. She's so blegend 1398 01:17:35,680 --> 01:17:39,280 Speaker 1: she's na, she's just and boy did she work that 1399 01:17:39,680 --> 01:17:40,840 Speaker 1: fucking Culture Award. 1400 01:17:44,040 --> 01:17:47,400 Speaker 2: God, Oh my god, let's manifest and put something out 1401 01:17:47,400 --> 01:17:49,560 Speaker 2: into the through because I feel like your breadth is 1402 01:17:49,640 --> 01:17:52,120 Speaker 2: so wonderful and expansive as a director. 1403 01:17:52,320 --> 01:17:53,800 Speaker 1: But what what what do you still want to do? 1404 01:17:54,080 --> 01:17:55,960 Speaker 1: I want to do thriller I want to do. I 1405 01:17:56,040 --> 01:17:57,719 Speaker 1: want to I want to bring back to the Ashley 1406 01:17:57,800 --> 01:18:02,080 Speaker 1: Judd like the Jeopardy like a double Jeopardy kind of thing. Yeah, 1407 01:18:02,320 --> 01:18:06,080 Speaker 1: all that. I want that. That is a genre that 1408 01:18:06,200 --> 01:18:08,840 Speaker 1: I miss. It's the woman in peril who wins. Yeah, 1409 01:18:10,360 --> 01:18:13,120 Speaker 1: and I love that. Jayla was doing a lot of that. Yeah, 1410 01:18:13,280 --> 01:18:14,000 Speaker 1: yeah you did. 1411 01:18:14,400 --> 01:18:17,840 Speaker 3: You also directed on my favorite Jlo's Wedding Planner, my 1412 01:18:17,920 --> 01:18:18,400 Speaker 3: first movie. 1413 01:18:18,479 --> 01:18:22,080 Speaker 1: That's so crazy. That is something I can't it's shocking 1414 01:18:22,120 --> 01:18:24,040 Speaker 1: to you. Can I ask you a question in song? Please? 1415 01:18:24,640 --> 01:18:35,760 Speaker 1: How can I plan on for when I have a 1416 01:18:35,800 --> 01:18:40,320 Speaker 1: lot of stories, the stories about that movie. 1417 01:18:40,520 --> 01:18:43,040 Speaker 3: That song, well, it's like a scene where Jayla has 1418 01:18:43,080 --> 01:18:44,479 Speaker 3: been dejected and tossed away. 1419 01:18:44,880 --> 01:18:47,599 Speaker 1: How could I plan on forever? He's the wedding planner 1420 01:18:48,080 --> 01:18:51,080 Speaker 1: when I never planned on you? Can you tell a 1421 01:18:51,160 --> 01:18:58,720 Speaker 1: Jayla story? Can I tell you your podcast? She was 1422 01:18:58,760 --> 01:19:01,040 Speaker 1: one of the few after that didn't mention me on 1423 01:19:01,120 --> 01:19:05,880 Speaker 1: your podcast, so I said, no, I love I love 1424 01:19:05,960 --> 01:19:12,639 Speaker 1: Jennifer she. I will tell you this. She was rapidly 1425 01:19:12,720 --> 01:19:15,200 Speaker 1: on the rise when we made that movie. Do you 1426 01:19:15,200 --> 01:19:18,920 Speaker 1: remember who she was dating at the time? No, Diddy? Correct? 1427 01:19:19,120 --> 01:19:23,400 Speaker 1: Oh yes, correct? Now? At the time. Also, that was 1428 01:19:23,520 --> 01:19:29,080 Speaker 1: crazy because Bridget Everett was dating before she married Pete Sampress, Jay, 1429 01:19:29,400 --> 01:19:33,719 Speaker 1: Jennifer was with Diddy. You said, Bridget Bridget Wilson, Bridget Wilson. 1430 01:19:33,760 --> 01:19:38,040 Speaker 1: Sorry Wilson, Sorry, Bridget Everett. Oh sorry, So Bridget Wilson, 1431 01:19:38,439 --> 01:19:48,800 Speaker 1: bridge Bridget Ever number thirty, Bridget evert Bridget Everett just 1432 01:19:48,840 --> 01:19:52,760 Speaker 1: texted me baby. So that's why I was thinking for So, 1433 01:19:52,960 --> 01:20:01,400 Speaker 1: Bridget Wilson married was pre Mary, Pete Sampress, Matthew McConaughey 1434 01:20:02,200 --> 01:20:08,559 Speaker 1: was loosely linked to Sandra Bullock, and Jennifer was with Diddy, 1435 01:20:09,200 --> 01:20:13,360 Speaker 1: and all of them were visiting on my first movie, 1436 01:20:13,800 --> 01:20:19,400 Speaker 1: Sandy Diddy and Pete Sanders. Honestly though, at the time 1437 01:20:19,600 --> 01:20:24,040 Speaker 1: that's where all the money in Hollywood was sports music 1438 01:20:24,200 --> 01:20:27,200 Speaker 1: and it was and I was like just trying to 1439 01:20:27,240 --> 01:20:32,360 Speaker 1: get my first Jennifer who Jennifer and I at that 1440 01:20:32,479 --> 01:20:36,920 Speaker 1: time were very, very locked intoge we were we were 1441 01:20:37,360 --> 01:20:40,360 Speaker 1: brothers sister down during the making of that movie and 1442 01:20:40,720 --> 01:20:44,439 Speaker 1: like I remember when we were this was actually really funny. 1443 01:20:45,360 --> 01:20:49,720 Speaker 1: We went to we went to uh we were that 1444 01:20:49,760 --> 01:20:52,880 Speaker 1: place flowly in up by San Francisco where they did 1445 01:20:52,920 --> 01:20:55,200 Speaker 1: the Spa retreat that those scenes where they went to 1446 01:20:55,320 --> 01:20:58,640 Speaker 1: the spa and we were there. It's like an hour 1447 01:20:58,680 --> 01:21:01,640 Speaker 1: outside of San Francisco, and we were there and it 1448 01:21:01,720 --> 01:21:07,320 Speaker 1: was the day that the No Strings Attached was coming out, 1449 01:21:07,400 --> 01:21:12,439 Speaker 1: the in Sync album, and we sent a pa into 1450 01:21:12,520 --> 01:21:16,920 Speaker 1: San Francisco to go get the DVD the CD, to 1451 01:21:16,960 --> 01:21:20,200 Speaker 1: go get wow this because you wanted it. We wanted it. 1452 01:21:20,280 --> 01:21:22,479 Speaker 1: We wanted to hear it. We hadn't heard anything of 1453 01:21:22,600 --> 01:21:25,080 Speaker 1: it and it was getting released and Jennifer and I 1454 01:21:25,400 --> 01:21:28,560 Speaker 1: were super yanked to hear it. And I have a 1455 01:21:28,680 --> 01:21:32,599 Speaker 1: picture of us sitting on the lawn outside of fillowly 1456 01:21:33,080 --> 01:21:36,479 Speaker 1: her her hair and makeup people. One is brushing her hair, 1457 01:21:36,560 --> 01:21:38,920 Speaker 1: one is touching up her lips. I'm laying on her lap, 1458 01:21:39,040 --> 01:21:44,920 Speaker 1: and we're listening to the first thing that Jennifer turned 1459 01:21:44,960 --> 01:21:48,040 Speaker 1: to me and she goes, there are no Backstreet Boys anymore. 1460 01:21:50,520 --> 01:21:53,679 Speaker 1: I was just like, damn girl, Like she she knew 1461 01:21:53,720 --> 01:21:56,120 Speaker 1: that that album was about to just wipe that that. 1462 01:21:56,200 --> 01:21:59,960 Speaker 1: Remember how huge that album? Major? It was mad? 1463 01:22:01,439 --> 01:22:03,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, it kind of because there had been Millennium and 1464 01:22:04,000 --> 01:22:06,680 Speaker 3: that felt like the biggest deal and then in Sync just. 1465 01:22:06,800 --> 01:22:12,400 Speaker 2: No Attached huge, Yeah, And and jen Digital Digital, get down, 1466 01:22:13,280 --> 01:22:14,520 Speaker 2: just do any. 1467 01:22:16,840 --> 01:22:16,880 Speaker 4: So. 1468 01:22:17,520 --> 01:22:20,160 Speaker 1: But I remember like that was also very traumatic though, 1469 01:22:20,160 --> 01:22:23,640 Speaker 1: because when that movie came out, basically I think it 1470 01:22:23,840 --> 01:22:28,360 Speaker 1: was number one for three weeks. Huge, but the reviews, 1471 01:22:29,680 --> 01:22:34,640 Speaker 1: somebody texted me and said, Mark Sheman actually texted me 1472 01:22:34,680 --> 01:22:36,160 Speaker 1: and he said, how does it feel to be the 1473 01:22:36,240 --> 01:22:39,400 Speaker 1: most hated man in America? They literally like called me 1474 01:22:39,520 --> 01:22:42,479 Speaker 1: the Jeffrey Dahmer of the DGA. It was like they 1475 01:22:42,479 --> 01:22:46,880 Speaker 1: were like it was like the headlines were so mean, 1476 01:22:47,920 --> 01:22:54,679 Speaker 1: and anything she was attached to and anything he needed 1477 01:22:54,880 --> 01:22:57,240 Speaker 1: to have a strong reaction to it. Yeah. I was 1478 01:22:57,320 --> 01:23:00,759 Speaker 1: warned that people don't you know, rom coms general unless 1479 01:23:00,800 --> 01:23:04,840 Speaker 1: they are like Julia Robertson got unfavorable reviews. They still 1480 01:23:04,960 --> 01:23:07,479 Speaker 1: know that, and so well, good news. You killed them. 1481 01:23:07,720 --> 01:23:11,040 Speaker 1: So thanks, thanks everyone out there. You killed them. It 1482 01:23:11,320 --> 01:23:18,880 Speaker 1: was right, I feel Yeah, but that was that was wild. 1483 01:23:19,240 --> 01:23:21,720 Speaker 1: That was wild. Yeah, but yeah, I got I got 1484 01:23:21,760 --> 01:23:23,800 Speaker 1: a lot of so oh I'll tell you another good Jennifer. Sorry, 1485 01:23:24,000 --> 01:23:27,639 Speaker 1: So we were outside doing the horseback riding thing where 1486 01:23:27,960 --> 01:23:30,960 Speaker 1: she's on the runaway horse. Do you remember that's up 1487 01:23:31,000 --> 01:23:33,280 Speaker 1: on a runaway horse. This is after she was almost 1488 01:23:33,400 --> 01:23:37,040 Speaker 1: hit by the by the trash chairs. You saved my shoes, 1489 01:23:37,160 --> 01:23:41,200 Speaker 1: you said my shoe. Yeah. The two of them together 1490 01:23:41,560 --> 01:23:43,519 Speaker 1: was that was comedy. The two of them together was 1491 01:23:43,600 --> 01:23:47,000 Speaker 1: the most I do too. I love that man. There's 1492 01:23:47,160 --> 01:23:49,280 Speaker 1: nothing but goodness in his that part that is that 1493 01:23:49,600 --> 01:23:51,600 Speaker 1: that is just kindness and goodness that runs through that 1494 01:23:51,640 --> 01:23:56,080 Speaker 1: man's fans. Anyway, so Jennifer, the day we were supposed 1495 01:23:56,080 --> 01:23:58,000 Speaker 1: to be out there, Sony shut us down for a 1496 01:23:58,080 --> 01:24:01,760 Speaker 1: day so that Jennifer could go to the Grammys. And 1497 01:24:01,960 --> 01:24:06,599 Speaker 1: at that Grammys, the dress and I saw the big 1498 01:24:06,720 --> 01:24:10,040 Speaker 1: but Sony, who is making the wedding planner, shut us down. 1499 01:24:10,120 --> 01:24:11,519 Speaker 1: They paid for us to shut down for the day 1500 01:24:11,560 --> 01:24:12,799 Speaker 1: so she could go to the Grammy. 1501 01:24:12,920 --> 01:24:13,160 Speaker 3: Wow. 1502 01:24:13,600 --> 01:24:17,160 Speaker 1: And and then she came the next day and walked in, 1503 01:24:17,280 --> 01:24:19,720 Speaker 1: and I walked in. I was like, and she she 1504 01:24:19,920 --> 01:24:21,840 Speaker 1: just looked at me and and I just was shaking mind. 1505 01:24:21,880 --> 01:24:25,000 Speaker 1: She's like, I'm a fucked it up. And I was like, 1506 01:24:25,840 --> 01:24:30,040 Speaker 1: I was like, yes, girl was born, and at Google 1507 01:24:30,120 --> 01:24:33,639 Speaker 1: image was born. But on that day then it ended 1508 01:24:33,720 --> 01:24:40,280 Speaker 1: up being Jennifer Famously. Obviously, were's a lot of clip closs. 1509 01:24:40,320 --> 01:24:42,320 Speaker 1: I mean, she always has that beautiful shine on her lip, 1510 01:24:42,400 --> 01:24:46,519 Speaker 1: that glass lip and on this beautiful day the temperature 1511 01:24:46,560 --> 01:24:49,360 Speaker 1: dropped to like zero, and we were doing the part 1512 01:24:49,400 --> 01:24:51,719 Speaker 1: where they were like and we were in that Disney 1513 01:24:52,479 --> 01:24:57,320 Speaker 1: back lot like ranch at Disney Ranch, and Matthew's walking 1514 01:24:57,400 --> 01:25:04,519 Speaker 1: her down the house and her call Froze FROs and like, 1515 01:25:04,680 --> 01:25:06,960 Speaker 1: while we were talking, I noticed that she was suddenly 1516 01:25:07,040 --> 01:25:12,080 Speaker 1: having troubles, like she was like at any day I was. 1517 01:25:12,640 --> 01:25:14,599 Speaker 1: I was like, this is the greatest thing that I've 1518 01:25:14,600 --> 01:25:15,880 Speaker 1: ever seen the entire life. 1519 01:25:17,240 --> 01:25:18,000 Speaker 2: But it was. 1520 01:25:18,360 --> 01:25:20,880 Speaker 1: God. We had so much fun making that movie though, 1521 01:25:21,080 --> 01:25:24,920 Speaker 1: the two of us, Like, I really to watch It's 1522 01:25:24,960 --> 01:25:26,920 Speaker 1: so fun to watch. I love that movie. That is 1523 01:25:26,960 --> 01:25:30,559 Speaker 1: a silly, silly movie, like the like her apartment would 1524 01:25:30,600 --> 01:25:33,920 Speaker 1: be like four and a half million dollars back then, 1525 01:25:34,280 --> 01:25:38,120 Speaker 1: and her hair is absurd. It's like, it's so done. 1526 01:25:38,640 --> 01:25:40,920 Speaker 1: I neede that movie to be like an old nineteen 1527 01:25:40,960 --> 01:25:43,120 Speaker 1: forties movie. Yeah, that's what I wanted it to be. 1528 01:25:43,160 --> 01:25:44,920 Speaker 1: Everything's a little too big, everything's a little to pretty. 1529 01:25:44,960 --> 01:25:47,120 Speaker 1: Of course, the Flower budget on that thing was practically 1530 01:25:47,479 --> 01:25:50,360 Speaker 1: a budget, Like it was crazy, but you picked the 1531 01:25:50,360 --> 01:25:55,280 Speaker 1: important stuff. Again, it has to be like aesthetically something 1532 01:25:55,360 --> 01:25:58,360 Speaker 1: like that thing. I mean, that's what John I honestly 1533 01:25:58,439 --> 01:26:00,679 Speaker 1: love you. I love this song. What do you think? 1534 01:26:01,120 --> 01:26:02,040 Speaker 5: I think it's perfect? 1535 01:26:02,880 --> 01:26:08,640 Speaker 1: First see me shot? Wow? Fact that was that car? 1536 01:26:08,880 --> 01:26:13,240 Speaker 1: That was that was that was a tough day day one, 1537 01:26:14,040 --> 01:26:17,200 Speaker 1: no day one was there. The opening moments were stressful, 1538 01:26:17,240 --> 01:26:24,400 Speaker 1: but for another time. Many of stories there. But uh yeah, 1539 01:26:24,479 --> 01:26:27,439 Speaker 1: so I can't remember what I did earlier today, But 1540 01:26:27,600 --> 01:26:32,120 Speaker 1: I can literally remember everything. Isn't that always? Always like 1541 01:26:32,840 --> 01:26:35,719 Speaker 1: it's always how it is? Do you have that about 1542 01:26:35,840 --> 01:26:39,160 Speaker 1: Wicked where like you just can you? I? Yes, absolutely 1543 01:26:39,720 --> 01:26:40,280 Speaker 1: Wicked was. 1544 01:26:41,400 --> 01:26:44,960 Speaker 2: There's there's like different moments of it where I'm like, yes, 1545 01:26:45,000 --> 01:26:46,840 Speaker 2: I remember this vividly, and then there are other moments 1546 01:26:46,840 --> 01:26:49,160 Speaker 2: of it where I'm like I was on a plane 1547 01:26:49,600 --> 01:26:52,000 Speaker 2: like like like I was that was a really tough 1548 01:26:52,040 --> 01:26:52,519 Speaker 2: time you. 1549 01:26:52,920 --> 01:26:55,519 Speaker 1: I I was going through it with you on the podcast. 1550 01:26:55,680 --> 01:26:58,360 Speaker 1: I felt everything. I think I even texted you a 1551 01:26:58,400 --> 01:27:01,680 Speaker 1: couple of times, but I I was concerned about you, 1552 01:27:01,760 --> 01:27:03,160 Speaker 1: and I was concerned about you when you broke up 1553 01:27:03,160 --> 01:27:05,479 Speaker 1: with the guy like I like I thought, I was like, 1554 01:27:06,400 --> 01:27:08,800 Speaker 1: this is the weird thing about podcast friendships. Like I 1555 01:27:09,240 --> 01:27:13,800 Speaker 1: was like, it's strange knowing you when I have you 1556 01:27:13,960 --> 01:27:16,320 Speaker 1: with me so much of the time. It's just a 1557 01:27:16,400 --> 01:27:18,519 Speaker 1: flavor of it's a it's a different like, it's a 1558 01:27:18,600 --> 01:27:21,679 Speaker 1: new flavor of friendship. Yeah, you know this is all fake. 1559 01:27:23,720 --> 01:27:27,439 Speaker 1: This is this is you know, this is a fake. 1560 01:27:28,080 --> 01:27:31,519 Speaker 1: It's been hugely success standard. No, I know, I don't 1561 01:27:31,560 --> 01:27:34,320 Speaker 1: even know you guys figured out you pulled that woolf 1562 01:27:34,400 --> 01:27:42,280 Speaker 1: so far. Guys. My wife's name is Terry, kind of 1563 01:27:42,280 --> 01:27:43,840 Speaker 1: a gay name. I have two kids. 1564 01:27:44,720 --> 01:27:47,360 Speaker 2: I legit want to write a play that is like 1565 01:27:47,880 --> 01:27:52,160 Speaker 2: a director of great renown and success. I gotta I 1566 01:27:52,280 --> 01:27:55,000 Speaker 2: basically have to option your life. I want to write 1567 01:27:55,000 --> 01:27:58,240 Speaker 2: the movie no like I like to play, but just 1568 01:27:58,360 --> 01:28:01,720 Speaker 2: one one one one set on stage of just the 1569 01:28:01,920 --> 01:28:04,200 Speaker 2: what you're what you described of like watching your movie 1570 01:28:04,280 --> 01:28:06,880 Speaker 2: but like trying like not really well. 1571 01:28:06,880 --> 01:28:09,360 Speaker 1: I'm gonna like, you know, because you've had so many 1572 01:28:09,520 --> 01:28:12,760 Speaker 1: varied I've worn a lot of hats between the dancer, choreographer, 1573 01:28:13,640 --> 01:28:17,320 Speaker 1: TV personality director or all the other ship, you know, 1574 01:28:17,360 --> 01:28:20,040 Speaker 1: all the stuff that I've done. I have garnered a 1575 01:28:20,080 --> 01:28:21,760 Speaker 1: lot of stories, and I've been in a lot of 1576 01:28:21,840 --> 01:28:25,559 Speaker 1: rooms and not as the featured player in many of them, 1577 01:28:25,720 --> 01:28:27,360 Speaker 1: and so there's been a lot of fly on the 1578 01:28:27,360 --> 01:28:30,519 Speaker 1: wall stuff that I've seen and and then there's some 1579 01:28:30,840 --> 01:28:32,320 Speaker 1: stuff where I have been sort of the featured player 1580 01:28:32,360 --> 01:28:39,280 Speaker 1: where and it's been fairly extraordinary, and and I you know, 1581 01:28:39,640 --> 01:28:41,400 Speaker 1: sometimes people are like, are you going to write a book? 1582 01:28:41,439 --> 01:28:45,000 Speaker 1: And I'm like, absolutely not. There's no freaking way, because 1583 01:28:45,160 --> 01:28:47,200 Speaker 1: it would there's no way for it to not end 1584 01:28:47,320 --> 01:28:50,720 Speaker 1: up taking down some people. And I would never. I 1585 01:28:50,760 --> 01:28:53,759 Speaker 1: would never, because you can't have a story without conflict. 1586 01:28:54,840 --> 01:28:57,080 Speaker 1: There's no good story that happens without coming well, you have. 1587 01:28:57,120 --> 01:28:59,400 Speaker 3: To either be willing to say I guess for me, 1588 01:28:59,520 --> 01:29:01,599 Speaker 3: I think about that too, like whether or not down 1589 01:29:01,640 --> 01:29:03,720 Speaker 3: the road, I would write like some sort of you know. 1590 01:29:03,720 --> 01:29:06,479 Speaker 1: I've witnessed people being really terrible. Yeah, that's the thing is. 1591 01:29:06,560 --> 01:29:09,120 Speaker 1: It's like I would do it if I but only 1592 01:29:09,200 --> 01:29:12,360 Speaker 1: if it was all was a story I was trying 1593 01:29:12,400 --> 01:29:13,920 Speaker 1: to tell, like if there was something of. 1594 01:29:14,080 --> 01:29:18,320 Speaker 3: Value to be learned from things, and that would but 1595 01:29:18,439 --> 01:29:20,960 Speaker 3: that would be the only way that I think it 1596 01:29:21,000 --> 01:29:24,719 Speaker 3: will be worth it. In a in a voyeuristic world 1597 01:29:24,880 --> 01:29:26,600 Speaker 3: like the one that we live in, where people just 1598 01:29:26,760 --> 01:29:31,320 Speaker 3: get off on knowing anything or being privy to information 1599 01:29:31,439 --> 01:29:34,160 Speaker 3: that they shouldn't, there is gaining from it, were. 1600 01:29:34,240 --> 01:29:37,599 Speaker 1: Exact from it, I just like there's nothing. There's nothing 1601 01:29:38,120 --> 01:29:41,479 Speaker 1: my what I my legacy hopefully is going to be 1602 01:29:42,080 --> 01:29:45,639 Speaker 1: when I'm gone. But my good relationships were with people 1603 01:29:45,800 --> 01:29:47,720 Speaker 1: and the way that I treated people and the and 1604 01:29:47,920 --> 01:29:50,479 Speaker 1: hopefully you know, like it's not like I've always been 1605 01:29:50,600 --> 01:29:55,000 Speaker 1: great to everybody, but I try really really hard, and 1606 01:29:55,400 --> 01:29:59,840 Speaker 1: I'm also and I want I want to be known 1607 01:29:59,840 --> 01:30:02,840 Speaker 1: as nice, you know. I mean again, it sounds you wouldn't. 1608 01:30:02,479 --> 01:30:06,240 Speaker 3: Necessarily be known as not nice if you told your 1609 01:30:06,400 --> 01:30:08,840 Speaker 3: story and the characters in it are ones that we know, 1610 01:30:09,040 --> 01:30:13,519 Speaker 3: it would just be you being I guess pick and 1611 01:30:13,680 --> 01:30:17,360 Speaker 3: choosy about like what you share. There's such a thing 1612 01:30:17,439 --> 01:30:19,639 Speaker 3: called a fake name, sir. 1613 01:30:21,360 --> 01:30:23,360 Speaker 2: This is the thing because people like grill us all 1614 01:30:23,400 --> 01:30:26,200 Speaker 2: the time, ever since Tina fe was like authenticity just expensive, 1615 01:30:26,479 --> 01:30:29,640 Speaker 2: Like you guys aren't as authentic anymore, are you. It's like, 1616 01:30:30,280 --> 01:30:35,040 Speaker 2: it's not about us being authentic or inauthentic to ourselves. 1617 01:30:35,160 --> 01:30:39,680 Speaker 2: It's that we know that if we say it out 1618 01:30:39,800 --> 01:30:44,320 Speaker 2: loud on a microphone, it will be interpreted and likely 1619 01:30:44,760 --> 01:30:49,000 Speaker 2: misinterpreted by people. Yeah, it will be like there will 1620 01:30:49,040 --> 01:30:51,200 Speaker 2: be a game of telephone that happens where I don't know. 1621 01:30:51,320 --> 01:30:53,760 Speaker 2: It's like the context doesn't really matter anymore. People just 1622 01:30:53,920 --> 01:30:58,120 Speaker 2: want like bax or tig or something along the lines 1623 01:30:58,160 --> 01:31:01,040 Speaker 2: of like, but which is fine, totally valid. But to 1624 01:31:01,120 --> 01:31:04,400 Speaker 2: equate that with like being inauthentic is always confusing to me. 1625 01:31:04,479 --> 01:31:06,160 Speaker 2: It's like, well, it's I don't know. 1626 01:31:06,400 --> 01:31:10,360 Speaker 1: It's like when when an act of kindness is interpreted 1627 01:31:10,560 --> 01:31:14,320 Speaker 1: as manipulation, you know what I mean, Like you know, like, ah, 1628 01:31:14,360 --> 01:31:16,280 Speaker 1: but would you have really done like is that self 1629 01:31:16,320 --> 01:31:18,960 Speaker 1: serving in some way? And I was like, well, I mean, 1630 01:31:19,000 --> 01:31:21,080 Speaker 1: I guess I get the hit of like I did 1631 01:31:21,160 --> 01:31:24,360 Speaker 1: a nice thing, but I didn't do it for that hit, right, 1632 01:31:24,800 --> 01:31:27,360 Speaker 1: And And that's what I mean. 1633 01:31:27,439 --> 01:31:30,040 Speaker 3: Though, if you want, if you ever had the desire 1634 01:31:30,120 --> 01:31:33,040 Speaker 3: to tell your story, you should tell it because you 1635 01:31:33,120 --> 01:31:36,559 Speaker 3: have so many You have a story to tell. Of course, 1636 01:31:36,640 --> 01:31:39,400 Speaker 3: you have stories to tell and to share, but you 1637 01:31:39,439 --> 01:31:41,080 Speaker 3: also have a story to tell, and you are such 1638 01:31:41,080 --> 01:31:44,760 Speaker 3: an amazing storyteller. But who knows, maybe one day you 1639 01:31:44,880 --> 01:31:47,120 Speaker 3: will want to do your little fableman's. 1640 01:31:46,960 --> 01:31:48,599 Speaker 1: You know what I mean, Like, who knows, there's well 1641 01:31:48,640 --> 01:31:52,240 Speaker 1: there you would be well, Like, for example, somebody got 1642 01:31:52,280 --> 01:31:54,600 Speaker 1: ahead of me and my sister and they made the 1643 01:31:54,680 --> 01:31:58,640 Speaker 1: movie of my childhood, which was sex education. I had 1644 01:31:58,680 --> 01:32:01,920 Speaker 1: a sex therapist mother and an attorney dad. But we 1645 01:32:02,240 --> 01:32:05,240 Speaker 1: grew up here and my sister and I always were like, 1646 01:32:05,280 --> 01:32:06,880 Speaker 1: we've got to put together because my sister gave me 1647 01:32:06,960 --> 01:32:09,040 Speaker 1: my first job, my my first directing job. My sister 1648 01:32:09,080 --> 01:32:10,519 Speaker 1: produced wedding Planner. Wow and. 1649 01:32:12,560 --> 01:32:13,200 Speaker 5: Nebotism. 1650 01:32:13,400 --> 01:32:16,800 Speaker 1: She couldn't. Actually she couldn't. Actually I'm such a baby. No, 1651 01:32:17,000 --> 01:32:21,000 Speaker 1: she no. She I was about to direct my first 1652 01:32:21,120 --> 01:32:24,120 Speaker 1: my short film which I made, and she sent me 1653 01:32:24,200 --> 01:32:26,320 Speaker 1: the script and I read it and I was like, oh, well, 1654 01:32:26,360 --> 01:32:27,800 Speaker 1: you're my thoughts on She said, would you eman meet 1655 01:32:27,800 --> 01:32:29,680 Speaker 1: with the studio. I met with the studio. They hired me, 1656 01:32:30,360 --> 01:32:32,360 Speaker 1: and that's how that went. But they didn't hire me 1657 01:32:32,600 --> 01:32:37,280 Speaker 1: because of that anyway, that's cool. Yeah, and she and 1658 01:32:37,360 --> 01:32:39,240 Speaker 1: I had a deal at Disney for over a decade 1659 01:32:39,479 --> 01:32:43,920 Speaker 1: and she's great. You guys would love her. 1660 01:32:45,880 --> 01:32:49,720 Speaker 2: And uh or your good storytellers is what Matt's saying. 1661 01:32:49,920 --> 01:32:52,040 Speaker 2: Like you you you you should feel compelled to tell 1662 01:32:52,080 --> 01:32:52,519 Speaker 2: your story. 1663 01:32:52,560 --> 01:32:54,880 Speaker 1: If not, Yeah, and I have like and there's like 1664 01:32:55,520 --> 01:32:57,680 Speaker 1: dark days that I would make very funny about, you know, 1665 01:32:57,840 --> 01:33:00,200 Speaker 1: during like the ship that I got into during my 1666 01:33:00,320 --> 01:33:03,679 Speaker 1: heavy using and all that was like it's it's dark 1667 01:33:04,240 --> 01:33:08,000 Speaker 1: as it usually is. Yeah, if it hadn't gotten dark, 1668 01:33:08,000 --> 01:33:13,240 Speaker 1: I'd still be doing it. Well, we veered into I 1669 01:33:13,240 --> 01:33:14,880 Speaker 1: don't think so, honey, territory, So why don't we just 1670 01:33:14,920 --> 01:33:15,120 Speaker 1: do that? 1671 01:33:15,600 --> 01:33:18,519 Speaker 3: Do it? This is our sixty second segment where we 1672 01:33:18,680 --> 01:33:22,040 Speaker 3: pop off. Actually we've never we haven't really really said it. 1673 01:33:22,240 --> 01:33:24,160 Speaker 3: And I don't think Sonny is just popping off. 1674 01:33:24,280 --> 01:33:25,240 Speaker 1: That's really all it is. 1675 01:33:25,280 --> 01:33:27,280 Speaker 2: And you get down to it and I have one. Okay, 1676 01:33:27,960 --> 01:33:29,599 Speaker 2: this is Matt Rodgers. I don't think so many time 1677 01:33:29,640 --> 01:33:30,559 Speaker 2: starts now, I don't think. 1678 01:33:30,479 --> 01:33:30,840 Speaker 1: So, honey. 1679 01:33:30,920 --> 01:33:34,920 Speaker 3: Steven Spielberg, Oh do you think you're gonna own June twelfth? Bitch, 1680 01:33:35,400 --> 01:33:38,200 Speaker 3: We're gonna see you there. Disclosure day more like stop 1681 01:33:38,320 --> 01:33:41,400 Speaker 3: that train day. Yeah, Steven Spielberg is doing a movie 1682 01:33:41,400 --> 01:33:43,479 Speaker 3: about aliens. Yeah, I saw that back in the seventies. 1683 01:33:43,640 --> 01:33:45,960 Speaker 3: You know what, I haven't seen drag Queen's on a train. 1684 01:33:46,320 --> 01:33:49,200 Speaker 3: I haven't seen a drag Queen president. I haven't seen 1685 01:33:49,320 --> 01:33:52,519 Speaker 3: Rue Paul as President Judy Gagwell, well I may have 1686 01:33:52,560 --> 01:33:54,400 Speaker 3: seen it because I was in the Oval office with her, 1687 01:33:54,840 --> 01:33:58,560 Speaker 3: the fake one, which guess what isn't as much despair 1688 01:33:59,080 --> 01:34:05,040 Speaker 3: in this film any room is in disclosure day. Oh 1689 01:34:05,160 --> 01:34:07,840 Speaker 3: what the alien's gonna come get us? Well, guess what, 1690 01:34:08,080 --> 01:34:11,679 Speaker 3: guess who's gonna come get us? And stop that train? Hm, 1691 01:34:12,120 --> 01:34:16,920 Speaker 3: I kind of forget the plot. Actually, storm a Ganza 1692 01:34:17,640 --> 01:34:21,400 Speaker 3: to me, Aliens, you could never handle a storm agonza. 1693 01:34:21,840 --> 01:34:23,880 Speaker 1: This is really good stuff. 1694 01:34:24,280 --> 01:34:28,200 Speaker 3: Hey, mister Spielberg, mister director, take a seat and take 1695 01:34:28,240 --> 01:34:28,599 Speaker 3: a hike. 1696 01:34:28,920 --> 01:34:30,080 Speaker 1: And that's one minute. 1697 01:34:30,720 --> 01:34:30,960 Speaker 2: Dude. 1698 01:34:31,080 --> 01:34:34,160 Speaker 1: This is harder than I thought, just because in real 1699 01:34:34,320 --> 01:34:38,799 Speaker 1: time one minute is long. It is, so you always 1700 01:34:38,840 --> 01:34:41,519 Speaker 1: have like twenty seconds of gas and then you're like, yeah, 1701 01:34:42,320 --> 01:34:47,640 Speaker 1: just just just paste it out. But you know you 1702 01:34:47,760 --> 01:34:51,439 Speaker 1: posted this. They're calling, they're calling the barb STD stop 1703 01:34:51,520 --> 01:35:00,240 Speaker 1: that disclosure day. Yeah. I think you guys will be 1704 01:35:00,320 --> 01:35:02,479 Speaker 1: just fine. I think we're gonna do great. It would 1705 01:35:02,520 --> 01:35:04,400 Speaker 1: be nice. I know we're gonna do okay, I think 1706 01:35:04,600 --> 01:35:08,080 Speaker 1: or I don't know anything, but they like, okay, here's 1707 01:35:08,120 --> 01:35:10,760 Speaker 1: the priest whatever, and so I don't. I don't know. 1708 01:35:10,880 --> 01:35:13,040 Speaker 1: It's like when there's the studio machine behind it, I 1709 01:35:13,120 --> 01:35:17,479 Speaker 1: really know what's going on all of that. But I've 1710 01:35:17,520 --> 01:35:20,920 Speaker 1: also I've also like I've just I've just given over 1711 01:35:21,000 --> 01:35:24,160 Speaker 1: to the gods on this one because we're also existing 1712 01:35:24,760 --> 01:35:27,880 Speaker 1: in a time where there is so much homophobia, Like 1713 01:35:28,080 --> 01:35:30,439 Speaker 1: I don't know who's gonna rise up. I mean, there's 1714 01:35:30,479 --> 01:35:32,400 Speaker 1: the heated rivalry of it all, and there's it's gonna 1715 01:35:32,439 --> 01:35:34,599 Speaker 1: do amazing, it's gonna do. It be great if people 1716 01:35:34,600 --> 01:35:36,720 Speaker 1: will allow themselves to go and drag there straight from 1717 01:35:36,800 --> 01:35:38,640 Speaker 1: because by the way, straight people are laughing harder than 1718 01:35:38,640 --> 01:35:42,040 Speaker 1: the gay people because it's just funny. Because it's funny. 1719 01:35:42,160 --> 01:35:47,960 Speaker 1: It doesn't punch at anyone particularly. And then, okay, are 1720 01:35:47,960 --> 01:35:49,840 Speaker 1: you ready to do your things? Honey? I do, And 1721 01:35:49,880 --> 01:35:52,519 Speaker 1: I think this will cause a huge debate. Okay, okay, 1722 01:35:52,640 --> 01:35:54,240 Speaker 1: this is bowen yangs. I don't think so, honey. Time 1723 01:35:54,280 --> 01:35:55,519 Speaker 1: starts now. I don't think so, honey. 1724 01:35:55,600 --> 01:35:58,360 Speaker 2: Apparently you're not supposed to talk to people when they 1725 01:35:58,400 --> 01:36:01,920 Speaker 2: have wet hair. I was talking to a friend and 1726 01:36:02,040 --> 01:36:03,640 Speaker 2: he was like, well, I saw this woman, but she 1727 01:36:03,760 --> 01:36:05,519 Speaker 2: was in the elevator but her hair was wet, so I. 1728 01:36:05,479 --> 01:36:06,200 Speaker 1: Couldn't talk to her. 1729 01:36:06,240 --> 01:36:09,559 Speaker 2: I was like, is this a rule that, like, especially 1730 01:36:09,680 --> 01:36:13,360 Speaker 2: with longer haired people, if their hair is wet, the 1731 01:36:13,520 --> 01:36:18,960 Speaker 2: etiquette is you don't engage in conversation with them. I'm 1732 01:36:19,080 --> 01:36:23,120 Speaker 2: losing my mind at the notion that there's an unspoken 1733 01:36:23,360 --> 01:36:25,639 Speaker 2: rule that I now have the bravery to say out 1734 01:36:25,720 --> 01:36:29,439 Speaker 2: loud that you're not supposed to someone when the hair 1735 01:36:29,520 --> 01:36:32,240 Speaker 2: is if our hairs, if our hairs were wet. 1736 01:36:32,360 --> 01:36:34,120 Speaker 1: We'd be like, oh, sure, Adam's hair is wet, Man's 1737 01:36:34,160 --> 01:36:35,559 Speaker 1: hair is wet, bones hair is wet. 1738 01:36:35,720 --> 01:36:38,519 Speaker 2: But let's say, like if Anna's hair was wet, we're 1739 01:36:38,560 --> 01:36:41,479 Speaker 2: not supposed to like ask her why it's wet. It's like, well, clear, 1740 01:36:41,640 --> 01:36:43,160 Speaker 2: she came out of the shower, but it's like, but 1741 01:36:43,280 --> 01:36:46,800 Speaker 2: apparently it's like disrespectful to engage in conversation with someone 1742 01:36:46,920 --> 01:36:51,800 Speaker 2: if the hair is wet. Like to back, I don't 1743 01:36:52,120 --> 01:36:55,600 Speaker 2: don't try to invent these new rules. Etiquette is for squares. 1744 01:36:55,640 --> 01:36:56,800 Speaker 2: I don't want to talk about this. 1745 01:36:57,000 --> 01:37:00,920 Speaker 1: And that's one minute. You are so brave. Why did 1746 01:37:00,960 --> 01:37:01,439 Speaker 1: they say it? 1747 01:37:01,560 --> 01:37:05,639 Speaker 2: And what was then my friend, the great my friend 1748 01:37:05,720 --> 01:37:10,000 Speaker 2: named Jesse over dinner, he was just like, yeah, it 1749 01:37:10,080 --> 01:37:13,800 Speaker 2: was just this woman was wanted film about this woman 1750 01:37:13,800 --> 01:37:15,439 Speaker 2: in film festival. I'd seen like, you know, the night 1751 01:37:15,439 --> 01:37:16,680 Speaker 2: before and then and then we were staying at the 1752 01:37:16,680 --> 01:37:18,479 Speaker 2: same hotel and then the the elevator doors are but 1753 01:37:18,760 --> 01:37:19,320 Speaker 2: her hair was wet. 1754 01:37:19,320 --> 01:37:21,200 Speaker 1: So I didn't want to say Hi. Well, maybe. 1755 01:37:23,640 --> 01:37:25,880 Speaker 3: I don't think it's a thing where like it's like, oh, 1756 01:37:26,000 --> 01:37:28,160 Speaker 3: you can't talk to a woman with wet hair. 1757 01:37:28,280 --> 01:37:31,400 Speaker 1: I think he just felt I don't. I don't want 1758 01:37:31,400 --> 01:37:33,840 Speaker 1: to know because because I think that her did the 1759 01:37:33,920 --> 01:37:37,639 Speaker 1: wetness of her hair create a thing that felt inappropriately intimate? 1760 01:37:39,240 --> 01:37:45,800 Speaker 1: Heard of this, I think we're about to the people 1761 01:37:45,800 --> 01:37:50,479 Speaker 1: will come out from the shadows after this. Don't you 1762 01:37:50,560 --> 01:37:52,800 Speaker 1: know what the problem is? He just let the genie 1763 01:37:52,840 --> 01:37:55,479 Speaker 1: out of the bottle. Yeah, I know it's are going 1764 01:37:55,520 --> 01:37:57,800 Speaker 1: to be like I don't want to be spoken to 1765 01:37:58,080 --> 01:37:58,400 Speaker 1: my hair. 1766 01:37:59,720 --> 01:38:03,360 Speaker 2: I'm telling them below, I'm telling you it's a thing 1767 01:38:03,479 --> 01:38:07,040 Speaker 2: apparently like if someone has their hair wet, it's like 1768 01:38:08,040 --> 01:38:09,880 Speaker 2: you can't engage, you. 1769 01:38:09,920 --> 01:38:12,040 Speaker 1: Can't ask them. Pools and features are gonna be a 1770 01:38:12,160 --> 01:38:17,040 Speaker 1: night with no talking to any of the women hang 1771 01:38:17,120 --> 01:38:23,639 Speaker 1: out with anyway. Okay, Adam, do you have one? 1772 01:38:24,040 --> 01:38:24,280 Speaker 2: I do? 1773 01:38:24,920 --> 01:38:26,880 Speaker 1: I do. Hold on, let me just say, because I've 1774 01:38:26,960 --> 01:38:31,120 Speaker 1: done a couple, Okay, I'll just meld. I'm gonna I'm 1775 01:38:31,160 --> 01:38:36,320 Speaker 1: gonna free ball it. I'm gonna I'm this this is 1776 01:38:36,400 --> 01:38:38,680 Speaker 1: commando a little bit. Okay, this is Adam Shakman's I 1777 01:38:38,680 --> 01:38:40,679 Speaker 1: don't think so, honey. As time starts now, I don't 1778 01:38:40,680 --> 01:38:43,240 Speaker 1: think so honey. People who give me side I or 1779 01:38:43,400 --> 01:38:45,120 Speaker 1: puff out their chest when they see me living my 1780 01:38:45,240 --> 01:38:49,120 Speaker 1: life at the gym, dancing around. I am listening to 1781 01:38:49,560 --> 01:38:53,000 Speaker 1: Doja Cat. Yes, I am listening to do I am 1782 01:38:53,080 --> 01:38:56,240 Speaker 1: listening to New Madonna. I am like I'm having the 1783 01:38:56,360 --> 01:39:01,439 Speaker 1: time of my life. I was once dancer who danced 1784 01:39:01,520 --> 01:39:04,000 Speaker 1: for like Paul Abduel and Jim A Jack Procession. I 1785 01:39:04,120 --> 01:39:06,120 Speaker 1: lived my life back then, and that was the happiest 1786 01:39:06,120 --> 01:39:09,040 Speaker 1: I've ever been. I had no responsibilities and when, and 1787 01:39:09,240 --> 01:39:12,680 Speaker 1: it is a signifier of how fat, how happy I am. 1788 01:39:13,080 --> 01:39:15,519 Speaker 1: So if I'm in the gym and I have them 1789 01:39:15,600 --> 01:39:18,720 Speaker 1: bitches in my ear, yes, giving me life and I 1790 01:39:18,800 --> 01:39:23,320 Speaker 1: am popping, do not give me like the ill or 1791 01:39:23,439 --> 01:39:26,360 Speaker 1: like what's that gay doing? Or things like that. First 1792 01:39:26,360 --> 01:39:28,680 Speaker 1: of all, I don't really dance gay. I don't even 1793 01:39:28,720 --> 01:39:30,519 Speaker 1: know what dancing gay. Well, I kind of know what 1794 01:39:30,600 --> 01:39:33,479 Speaker 1: dancing gay is. But I'm in there. I'm in there living, 1795 01:39:33,560 --> 01:39:35,880 Speaker 1: and you know what, maybe I am partographing some new 1796 01:39:35,880 --> 01:39:38,439 Speaker 1: piece of entertainment that you're about to consume. Please, I 1797 01:39:38,560 --> 01:39:41,000 Speaker 1: don't think so honey, you're saying, so, honey, you giving 1798 01:39:41,040 --> 01:39:43,080 Speaker 1: me side at the gym while I live my life. 1799 01:39:44,560 --> 01:39:47,560 Speaker 1: By the way, nothing I've ever done is side. I 1800 01:39:47,840 --> 01:39:50,880 Speaker 1: am always in a There is a lot of peacocking 1801 01:39:50,960 --> 01:39:54,720 Speaker 1: and preening, and there is a lot of a very 1802 01:39:54,800 --> 01:39:58,439 Speaker 1: specific kind of influencer like body pride, right, and and 1803 01:39:58,600 --> 01:40:02,439 Speaker 1: there is and it does feel replete with judgment, like horrible, 1804 01:40:02,880 --> 01:40:03,439 Speaker 1: like it's so. 1805 01:40:03,720 --> 01:40:07,600 Speaker 2: First thought of course, like I want this male peacocking 1806 01:40:07,680 --> 01:40:11,960 Speaker 2: body fashism at like the grove, and I want to 1807 01:40:12,000 --> 01:40:14,839 Speaker 2: where you least expected. By the way, what about those. 1808 01:40:14,720 --> 01:40:17,880 Speaker 1: Guys who are are like straight, but they're like into 1809 01:40:17,960 --> 01:40:20,880 Speaker 1: yoga and they're doing handstands and walking across the floor 1810 01:40:20,960 --> 01:40:23,919 Speaker 1: on their hands, and I don't I give them their flowers? 1811 01:40:24,360 --> 01:40:25,800 Speaker 2: Like you do you? 1812 01:40:26,479 --> 01:40:29,559 Speaker 1: You do you? Baby? Like I'm like, I like, I'm 1813 01:40:29,640 --> 01:40:32,720 Speaker 1: just standing right by my little smith machine and I'm 1814 01:40:32,800 --> 01:40:35,160 Speaker 1: just bumping away. I'm just like, you know, you're not 1815 01:40:35,280 --> 01:40:38,360 Speaker 1: taking up a lot of space. No, you were, you were, 1816 01:40:38,680 --> 01:40:42,240 Speaker 1: I'm like across the floor. You're not a stormgonza. 1817 01:40:44,400 --> 01:40:46,800 Speaker 2: You can use your body in whatever way you wish, 1818 01:40:46,880 --> 01:40:50,080 Speaker 2: as long as it's like like within. 1819 01:40:52,040 --> 01:40:54,439 Speaker 1: God, this got so hot it was sad, then it 1820 01:40:54,560 --> 01:40:59,000 Speaker 1: was hot. This is the best podcast ever in a 1821 01:40:59,160 --> 01:41:00,800 Speaker 1: sad hot episode. Yeah. 1822 01:41:02,360 --> 01:41:07,519 Speaker 3: Well, honestly, I hope to see your creations on drag Race. 1823 01:41:07,560 --> 01:41:08,960 Speaker 3: Well they will you go back and do more? 1824 01:41:09,240 --> 01:41:10,920 Speaker 1: I feel like you just have me, but I don't know. 1825 01:41:11,000 --> 01:41:13,360 Speaker 1: I told him that I wanted speaking of a full 1826 01:41:13,400 --> 01:41:16,839 Speaker 1: circle moment. The last thing I did was Star Booty Ruzical, 1827 01:41:17,280 --> 01:41:20,280 Speaker 1: and I felt not happy with that one for me, 1828 01:41:20,560 --> 01:41:24,680 Speaker 1: and so I want to I need a redemption. You 1829 01:41:24,760 --> 01:41:27,680 Speaker 1: need a redemption. You're gonna get a redemption. Way, just 1830 01:41:27,800 --> 01:41:28,519 Speaker 1: close up on that. 1831 01:41:28,600 --> 01:41:31,439 Speaker 3: They never did make that Starboody movie, but it was 1832 01:41:31,600 --> 01:41:33,760 Speaker 3: offered to me that weekend and then I found out 1833 01:41:33,920 --> 01:41:37,640 Speaker 3: on Monday. Never mind, because they wanted they wanted to 1834 01:41:37,720 --> 01:41:40,360 Speaker 3: be someone they wanted to it was. So they asked 1835 01:41:40,360 --> 01:41:42,400 Speaker 3: me to write it as like an Austin Powers movie, 1836 01:41:43,120 --> 01:41:45,880 Speaker 3: and I did, and then they were go, never mind, 1837 01:41:46,000 --> 01:41:48,000 Speaker 3: Rue wants to do like it to be more like 1838 01:41:48,080 --> 01:41:51,360 Speaker 3: Black Exploitation, and and then they go, but he still 1839 01:41:51,400 --> 01:41:52,840 Speaker 3: would love for you to write it, And I was like, 1840 01:41:52,960 --> 01:41:54,519 Speaker 3: I don't think I'm the person that. 1841 01:41:57,439 --> 01:42:01,599 Speaker 1: Would be tricky. Yeah, that's that. That was twenty nineteen, 1842 01:42:02,479 --> 01:42:03,240 Speaker 1: isn't they're crazy. 1843 01:42:03,360 --> 01:42:07,320 Speaker 2: It's sitting somewhere, someone's working on it. I just said, geez, Louise, 1844 01:42:07,360 --> 01:42:11,920 Speaker 2: that's how old I am, Louise. You do Yeah, exactly 1845 01:42:12,200 --> 01:42:12,719 Speaker 2: is Louise. 1846 01:42:13,360 --> 01:42:16,360 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter. Sing out Louise. That's who she is. 1847 01:42:16,439 --> 01:42:19,320 Speaker 2: So it's another right back to gay pride. No, it 1848 01:42:19,680 --> 01:42:24,240 Speaker 2: should be someone named Louis christ. I think it's Jesus's cousin. 1849 01:42:24,600 --> 01:42:28,559 Speaker 1: Louisa Riis Jesus Louise. 1850 01:42:28,960 --> 01:42:32,640 Speaker 3: Louisa's Jesus had a Luigi, just like Mario Louis' Louis's. 1851 01:42:33,040 --> 01:42:35,559 Speaker 1: Let's right, let's pitch that animated show. I'm in for. 1852 01:42:37,680 --> 01:42:41,040 Speaker 2: A network or whatever. I have some really fun ideas 1853 01:42:41,479 --> 01:42:44,559 Speaker 2: I think we should do. We would rock Christian cartoon show. 1854 01:42:45,200 --> 01:42:48,240 Speaker 1: I made when okay, so how about this after Walker? 1855 01:42:48,320 --> 01:42:51,400 Speaker 1: Remember they buried me. I never did one lick of 1856 01:42:51,479 --> 01:42:53,240 Speaker 1: press for Walk to remember because I was a gay 1857 01:42:53,360 --> 01:43:01,160 Speaker 1: Jew and there and they I didn't do any that's 1858 01:43:01,240 --> 01:43:06,280 Speaker 1: crazy and so they. But when the movie came out 1859 01:43:06,360 --> 01:43:10,320 Speaker 1: and was a success, I got a letter from the 1860 01:43:10,400 --> 01:43:14,720 Speaker 1: head of the Crystal Cathedral and he like, there was 1861 01:43:14,800 --> 01:43:16,320 Speaker 1: in the letter it has something to do thank you 1862 01:43:16,400 --> 01:43:21,439 Speaker 1: being for the new voice of Christianity. I was like, girl, girl, 1863 01:43:21,560 --> 01:43:23,000 Speaker 1: this is like when I got a scholarship from the 1864 01:43:23,040 --> 01:43:27,320 Speaker 1: Mormon church in suburban Colorado. It was I was looking 1865 01:43:27,360 --> 01:43:32,000 Speaker 1: around going like, this is comedy. I've never seen anyone 1866 01:43:32,080 --> 01:43:33,840 Speaker 1: more Christian and more Mormon than you. 1867 01:43:35,240 --> 01:43:40,120 Speaker 2: Me yay, yay, look, well stop that train is out. 1868 01:43:40,280 --> 01:43:44,000 Speaker 2: June twelfth is there is time in my life with Adam, 1869 01:43:44,560 --> 01:43:47,559 Speaker 2: my first parasocial bestie. Wow. 1870 01:43:48,800 --> 01:43:52,760 Speaker 1: Oh no, I'm really really grateful for all that you 1871 01:43:52,960 --> 01:43:58,240 Speaker 1: have given me in terms of like you're just being 1872 01:43:58,320 --> 01:44:00,920 Speaker 1: authentic and doing what you're doing and having these conversations 1873 01:44:00,960 --> 01:44:03,599 Speaker 1: with people. And it's funny now because I can tell 1874 01:44:03,600 --> 01:44:05,200 Speaker 1: when they're going well now and when they're not going 1875 01:44:05,280 --> 01:44:06,639 Speaker 1: as well as you want them to be. But it's 1876 01:44:06,640 --> 01:44:08,080 Speaker 1: a bit because I don't. 1877 01:44:09,520 --> 01:44:11,600 Speaker 3: Wait, I'm actually curious, and I'm not going to cut it. 1878 01:44:11,680 --> 01:44:13,360 Speaker 3: I'm not, but we're not going to respond. What's the 1879 01:44:13,439 --> 01:44:14,720 Speaker 3: time you didn't think it went well? 1880 01:44:14,840 --> 01:44:16,720 Speaker 1: And you can be honest where I felt like where 1881 01:44:16,840 --> 01:44:18,920 Speaker 1: I felt it's not that it didn't go well, I'm sorry, 1882 01:44:18,960 --> 01:44:22,679 Speaker 1: it's where you guys were felt more tense, less free. Sure, yeah, 1883 01:44:24,400 --> 01:44:26,479 Speaker 1: I'll have to go back and remember, but no, no, no, 1884 01:44:26,600 --> 01:44:28,160 Speaker 1: I will have to go back and remember, because did 1885 01:44:28,200 --> 01:44:29,280 Speaker 1: you think we were with Jennifer? 1886 01:44:31,000 --> 01:44:34,840 Speaker 2: I thought you were fine, But we ended up having 1887 01:44:34,880 --> 01:44:36,720 Speaker 2: a great time because we were like it was like 1888 01:44:36,800 --> 01:44:39,800 Speaker 2: a Sunday, it was like after it, she is. 1889 01:44:40,600 --> 01:44:45,160 Speaker 1: Jennifer is is a big present and she turns into 1890 01:44:45,360 --> 01:44:47,719 Speaker 1: super like a girl. 1891 01:44:48,400 --> 01:44:48,920 Speaker 2: She did. 1892 01:44:49,040 --> 01:44:52,280 Speaker 1: I thought we immediately got her liking us and on 1893 01:44:52,400 --> 01:44:54,680 Speaker 1: our side, and she had She had an amazing time 1894 01:44:54,720 --> 01:44:57,120 Speaker 1: and she even DMed me after great. 1895 01:44:57,240 --> 01:44:59,960 Speaker 2: I mean, no one ever m and she was generally 1896 01:45:00,040 --> 01:45:01,720 Speaker 2: after the after the mix ruptures like that was so 1897 01:45:01,840 --> 01:45:02,240 Speaker 2: much fun. 1898 01:45:02,439 --> 01:45:02,639 Speaker 3: Yeah. 1899 01:45:02,800 --> 01:45:07,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's just that it's just about with Jennifer. There 1900 01:45:07,479 --> 01:45:10,360 Speaker 1: is so much authenticity, but there's also there's been so 1901 01:45:10,520 --> 01:45:12,680 Speaker 1: much pain and so much protector and she and she's 1902 01:45:12,760 --> 01:45:16,080 Speaker 1: so and she's very and it's important that she protect 1903 01:45:16,120 --> 01:45:18,160 Speaker 1: herself and she always has. I liked listening to you 1904 01:45:18,240 --> 01:45:20,800 Speaker 1: guys talk to Nicole. That was fun. I love that 1905 01:45:21,000 --> 01:45:25,639 Speaker 1: John Waters was fun, but it's it felt like very 1906 01:45:28,320 --> 01:45:31,439 Speaker 1: There was nothing it's all good, like it's all great, 1907 01:45:31,479 --> 01:45:35,040 Speaker 1: but like with John, he's just like an older guy. 1908 01:45:35,160 --> 01:45:37,519 Speaker 2: Can I tell you that was the first episode in 1909 01:45:37,600 --> 01:45:40,200 Speaker 2: a lot in years where I was like, well, I 1910 01:45:40,320 --> 01:45:43,920 Speaker 2: was very, very nervous throughout the entire time. I didn't 1911 01:45:43,920 --> 01:45:46,240 Speaker 2: feel like with Nicole Kidman, didn't feel like like more 1912 01:45:46,400 --> 01:45:48,800 Speaker 2: like our other like a listers. But John wanted that 1913 01:45:48,880 --> 01:45:49,960 Speaker 2: he's just someone who's so important. 1914 01:45:49,960 --> 01:45:52,640 Speaker 1: There's just like certain people like by the way, I 1915 01:45:52,680 --> 01:45:55,200 Speaker 1: would have the same fucking thing like the It's not 1916 01:45:55,400 --> 01:45:58,360 Speaker 1: like like I think it took me a while to 1917 01:45:58,439 --> 01:46:02,600 Speaker 1: get there today. I was like, no, it's like I'm like, 1918 01:46:02,720 --> 01:46:03,960 Speaker 1: I don't know what am I going to say? What 1919 01:46:04,040 --> 01:46:05,840 Speaker 1: are we going to talk about? I'm generally I thought 1920 01:46:05,840 --> 01:46:09,240 Speaker 1: this is uncomfortable episode. I'm very I'm generally pretty uncomfortable 1921 01:46:09,280 --> 01:46:11,000 Speaker 1: talking about myself. So it's like, you know, it's like 1922 01:46:11,080 --> 01:46:13,000 Speaker 1: it's the same thing as like walking watching I don't 1923 01:46:13,000 --> 01:46:14,840 Speaker 1: tell anything about my personal life ever, So that's why 1924 01:46:15,120 --> 01:46:16,120 Speaker 1: was sort of a thing. 1925 01:46:16,600 --> 01:46:21,639 Speaker 3: Yeah, we're really happy that you shared that story because 1926 01:46:21,680 --> 01:46:24,800 Speaker 3: I think so many more people have a version of it. 1927 01:46:24,920 --> 01:46:27,040 Speaker 1: Then then people you know, it's one of those things 1928 01:46:27,080 --> 01:46:30,120 Speaker 1: that it's just to talk about, like being a sex worker, 1929 01:46:30,120 --> 01:46:33,479 Speaker 1: because more of us are sex workers than media. But 1930 01:46:34,120 --> 01:46:38,040 Speaker 1: would like to be no, but there's but like you know, 1931 01:46:38,080 --> 01:46:40,519 Speaker 1: I'd heard you talk about it, and I was like 1932 01:46:41,720 --> 01:46:44,280 Speaker 1: I was like, it's time. It's time, and I don't 1933 01:46:44,320 --> 01:46:46,680 Speaker 1: feel like I don't feel like I'm going to be 1934 01:46:46,840 --> 01:46:48,519 Speaker 1: like have to wear like I'm a poster boy for 1935 01:46:48,640 --> 01:46:51,920 Speaker 1: like conversion therapy like that, because there was a version 1936 01:46:52,600 --> 01:46:54,920 Speaker 1: for a long time there was I couldn't figure out 1937 01:46:54,960 --> 01:46:57,160 Speaker 1: how to tell the story without indicting my parents. 1938 01:46:57,800 --> 01:46:57,880 Speaker 3: And. 1939 01:46:59,640 --> 01:47:01,439 Speaker 2: And that it took me a while to realize that 1940 01:47:01,520 --> 01:47:05,679 Speaker 2: that is just another wave of pain that was caused 1941 01:47:05,720 --> 01:47:08,679 Speaker 2: and wrought by by the person sort of reading the harm. 1942 01:47:09,760 --> 01:47:11,759 Speaker 2: Our parents were just collateral damage. 1943 01:47:11,800 --> 01:47:14,840 Speaker 1: Interestingly enough, I didn't get over that until I actually 1944 01:47:14,880 --> 01:47:17,080 Speaker 1: had a long sit down with my mom. Yeah, it 1945 01:47:17,240 --> 01:47:20,360 Speaker 1: takes that recently, it needs Yeah, and where I was like, 1946 01:47:20,640 --> 01:47:23,439 Speaker 1: can you tell me exactly what you were doing during 1947 01:47:23,600 --> 01:47:27,799 Speaker 1: this period, because I've never gotten into what you actually 1948 01:47:27,880 --> 01:47:30,439 Speaker 1: thought was happening in your experience and your experience of it. 1949 01:47:30,560 --> 01:47:32,120 Speaker 1: And she was lied to, and she was lied to 1950 01:47:32,840 --> 01:47:36,680 Speaker 1: and she was very unhappy about that. So anyway, thank 1951 01:47:36,720 --> 01:47:39,280 Speaker 1: you guys, love this has been amazing. Stop that train 1952 01:47:39,800 --> 01:47:42,920 Speaker 1: this Friday, and we end every episode with a song. 1953 01:47:43,040 --> 01:47:55,120 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, always remember it was late afternoon, yay, lasted forever. 1954 01:47:57,560 --> 01:47:59,280 Speaker 3: And so soon. 1955 01:48:01,560 --> 01:48:07,240 Speaker 1: You were run by yourself staring out at a dark grace. Guy. 1956 01:48:08,520 --> 01:48:11,599 Speaker 1: I was changed. 1957 01:48:12,640 --> 01:48:17,080 Speaker 6: In places no one Well, Vine, Oh, you're feeling. 1958 01:48:16,840 --> 01:48:19,360 Speaker 1: So deep inside it. 1959 01:48:19,720 --> 01:48:30,400 Speaker 6: Deep was there realize that forever was iis the moment. 1960 01:48:30,280 --> 01:48:32,240 Speaker 3: Of so you c. 1961 01:48:36,520 --> 01:48:39,280 Speaker 1: So fucking much. You can't say you can feel it, 1962 01:48:39,400 --> 01:48:41,120 Speaker 1: you can you can feel it. I remember when they 1963 01:48:41,120 --> 01:48:42,960 Speaker 1: shot the video. I went to the video shoot and 1964 01:48:43,160 --> 01:48:46,000 Speaker 1: I was like, what is it? Because it was for Walker, remember, 1965 01:48:46,040 --> 01:48:50,080 Speaker 1: and they had her like black ass and I was 1966 01:48:50,160 --> 01:48:55,719 Speaker 1: like serving to heaven. And then I was like, heaven't 1967 01:48:55,760 --> 01:48:57,800 Speaker 1: She's like it's like she's a slot, like she was 1968 01:48:57,840 --> 01:49:02,120 Speaker 1: a dut a slot in heaven. Jane. 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