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Speaker 1: It is time now for my Strawberry Letter for today,

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Speaker 2: We could be reading your letter live on the air.

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Speaker 1: Just like we're gonna read this one right here, right now,

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Speaker 1: and you never know, it could be yours.

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Speaker 3: It could be yours. Muggle up in hole, long time

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Speaker 3: we got it for you here it is strawberry.

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Speaker 1: Let us thanking a few subjects. You will ex His

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Speaker 1: ex is staying with us for a week.

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Speaker 4: Just Stephen.

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Speaker 1: Surely I'm not an evil person, but I will speak

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Speaker 1: up if I feel like I'm being played.

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Speaker 2: For a fool.

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Speaker 1: My husband was in a long term relationship that gave

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Speaker 1: him two beautiful children. He's best of friends with the

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Speaker 1: children's mom, and I like her a lot too. She

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Speaker 1: even came to my last birthday celebration because she happened

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Speaker 1: to be in town. My husband and I drive to

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Speaker 1: get the kids and we take them back home so

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Speaker 1: she doesn't have to drive the two hours. Co parenting

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Speaker 1: was great until recently my husband felt the need to

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Speaker 1: remind me that he's the parent and I'm the step parent.

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Speaker 1: After he agreed to let the kid's mom stay at

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Speaker 1: our house for a week. Mind you, she's at my

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Speaker 1: house while I'm sending this letter to you guys. She

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Speaker 1: had a big flood in her area, so we jumped

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Speaker 1: in to help her get things out of her house

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Speaker 1: and move them to her mom's house. We ended up

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Speaker 1: She got a minimal She got minimum water damage, but

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Speaker 1: the house had to dry out. She called my husband

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Speaker 1: and gave him a sob story about missing her kids.

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Speaker 2: There is no room for.

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Speaker 1: The kids in her mom's house, so he suggested that

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Speaker 1: few days. He told me she was coming, and I

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Speaker 1: assumed he meant she was getting a hotel room. Then

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Speaker 2: I asked for who for who? You know how we

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Speaker 2: do for who have rolled our eyes?

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Speaker 1: You know she rolled her?

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you did exactly.

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Speaker 1: He told me that I should be mature enough to

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Speaker 1: let the kids mom stay with us for a few days.

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Speaker 1: I haven't been able to go off on him because

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Speaker 1: the kids were here, and now their mama is too,

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Speaker 1: so so what we're all cool? He took it too

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Speaker 1: far by letting her stay here.

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Speaker 2: Am I being evil? Or did he cross the line? Okay,

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Speaker 2: did he cross the line?

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Speaker 1: Yes?

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Speaker 2: Are you being evil?

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Speaker 5: No?

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Speaker 1: And if you are, who cares at your house? But

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Speaker 1: first of all, I do want to thank you for

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Speaker 1: you for that. And no, you are not being evil

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Speaker 1: as a so called step mom. You've gone over and

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Speaker 1: aboard what is necessary. This is crazy and you've been

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Speaker 1: way too good to his kids for him to put

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Speaker 1: You are the mom to these kids. I'm sure you've

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Speaker 1: grown to love them too. You said they're beautiful children.

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Speaker 1: What your husband did is wrong. It's very disrespectful to

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Speaker 1: at your house. What there are a lot of hotels nearby.

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Speaker 1: I'm sure that was just foul. He was the one

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Speaker 1: being immature. He said you were immature. That was a

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Speaker 2: His ex staying at your house?

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Speaker 1: Come on, this is beyond crazy, and he was talking

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Speaker 1: to you crazy too. He should never treat you badly

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Speaker 1: This is your house too. Would he be okay with

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Speaker 2: But we all know the answer to that, and it's no.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for not arguing while the kids are there,

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Speaker 1: but as soon as they all leave, you need to

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Speaker 3: Tommy, she can't stay at our house, point blank. And

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Speaker 3: I don't care what disaster it is. Flood, hurricane, pseutonomy, cardnata, avalanche, earthquake,

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Speaker 4: You can't stay here.

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Speaker 3: Y'all didn't pay how many hotels between that house and

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Speaker 3: our house? It's too many of them. Red roof we

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Speaker 3: didn't pay it. About the red roof in we didn't

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Speaker 3: It's a whole bunch of places that you could stay

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Speaker 3: other than this house. In the last thing I'm fins

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Speaker 4: That's the last thing I'm finna do with you.

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Speaker 3: So, first of all, your husband is completely out of line.

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Speaker 3: One line that you do not cross is bringing your

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Speaker 3: this with your wife. You didn't even ask your wife permission.

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Speaker 3: You just you just ask her to help you put

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Speaker 3: man do that? One man don't ask his wife if

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Speaker 3: this is okay with you, poor man, don't do that.

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Speaker 3: This is your wife. This is you want to make

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Speaker 3: sure if nobody else is happy, your wife happy. So

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Speaker 3: you want to make sure you talk to your wife

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Speaker 3: and say, hey, listen, in the situation, you know it's

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Speaker 3: been a flood, are you comfortable with this? I want

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Speaker 3: to make sure you are right with this first. That's

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Speaker 3: what a real man is supposed to do. You're not

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Speaker 3: supposed to say you're gonna you acting a kind of

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Speaker 4: Boy, if you lost your mind, this is your wife.

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Speaker 3: If anybody's supposed to be happy, it's supposed to be

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 3: If you want to help your kids mother and you say, hey, baby,

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Speaker 3: we're gonna get our room, you know we won't get

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Speaker 3: our room over here because of the situation, blah blah blah.

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Speaker 3: You're cool with that, and then your wife needs to

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Speaker 3: sure your wife is cool on all. Now, if your

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Speaker 3: all right. She can stay here if you want them

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Speaker 3: to stay here with the kids. We don't want to

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Speaker 3: one that's going to say that your man is completely

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Speaker 3: shouldn't be acting like this. Now you done created a

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Speaker 3: problem with your wife. Now there's an issue. I don't

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Speaker 3: care you're talking about. You didn't want to cuss in

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Speaker 3: them kids, everybody, y'all go back to the flood for

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Speaker 1: Can hang on We'll have part two of today's Strawberry

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Speaker 1: Letter at twenty three minutes after the hour. Today's subject

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Speaker 1: he is his exis staying with us.

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Speaker 2: For a week.

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Speaker 1: we're going to recap today's Strawberry letter. The subject is

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Speaker 1: his ex is staying with us.

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Speaker 2: For a week.

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Speaker 1: This woman wrote in She says she's not an evil person,

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Speaker 1: but she will speak up when she feels like she's

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Speaker 1: being played. She's married, her husband was in a long

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Speaker 1: term relationship before her uh and he had two beautiful children.

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Speaker 1: She says from this relationship, he's best friends now with

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Speaker 1: the baby mama, and the wife says she likes the

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Speaker 1: they have a really cool relationship the two parents of

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Speaker 1: Co parenting was going just great until recently when the

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Speaker 1: wife had a flood. When the baby mama had a

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Speaker 1: They were gonna stay at the mom's house, but they're

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Speaker 1: guess what, the baby mama is going to stay at

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Speaker 1: their house and you're immature, wifey, and stop rolling your eyes.

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Speaker 1: So the wife wants to know is she is she

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Speaker 1: the question. Is she evil for not wanting the ex

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Speaker 1: to stay at their house? And why didn't the husband

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Speaker 1: ask her? Why didn't he discuss this with her? Just

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Speaker 1: one day? She just found out that the baby mama

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Speaker 1: is going to stay at their house for a week,

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Speaker 1: So she wants to know she being evil or did

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Speaker 1: he cross the line? Yes, he crossed the line, and

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Speaker 1: know you're not being evil. Tommy agrees, and Kira Junior,

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Speaker 1: what do you have to say about this?

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Speaker 5: I want Tommy me let me mabe. If you said

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Speaker 5: you're writing us and she.

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Speaker 6: At the house, now this is a good time to

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Speaker 6: start throwing stuff out right now?

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Speaker 5: Why'd you got time to write us? She's in your house?

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Speaker 6: See, I don't I don't care about the flood and

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Speaker 6: all your belongings and all of this type of stuff.

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Speaker 6: This don't even matter to me. This doesn't even make

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Speaker 6: no sense. There's not a I thought about this. If

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Speaker 6: this was my wife asked me, can't her baby daddy

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Speaker 6: said to how there's not a situation in life?

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Speaker 5: He can stay here.

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Speaker 6: I don't care, I know, Tommy said a flood or

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Speaker 6: hurricane or flash flood or pseudonymic or earthquake or volcanic corruption.

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Speaker 6: There's not no reason for him to ever stay here.

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Speaker 6: I can't see it.

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Speaker 6: If it's a gunshot wound, can't stay here, a stabbing,

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Speaker 6: he can't stay here. Car accident, can't stay here. I

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Speaker 6: don't care if he die and go peacefully when he

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Speaker 5: I don't care. Where are we at on earth.

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Speaker 6: There's no reason I can see for him to stay

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Speaker 5: What is wrong with you? I don't care. If he

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Speaker 5: got a kidnapping charge, can't stay here, I don't care.

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Speaker 5: It does not matter.

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Speaker 6: Bank robberies, shoot out with the police, probation violation, There's

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Speaker 6: nothing in his life that could happen.

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Speaker 5: He can stay here. There's no way. So what is

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Speaker 5: you doing? Why you can't feed this out? This ain't

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Speaker 5: your boyfriend, This ain't his house. This y'all house. You

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Speaker 5: a food even going in and even asked, this is

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Speaker 5: an automatic.

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Speaker 6: No, you don't even take long. I like if you

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Speaker 6: ask Carler, Carl can't can't so and so stay here?

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Speaker 5: No, that's it. That's a discussion, but.

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Speaker 1: He knew she was gonna say no. That's why he

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Speaker 1: didn't ask her.

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Speaker 5: Here just being a maid service too in your own house.

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Speaker 5: You in here making beds for buy what?

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Speaker 4: Putting the sheets on a blow up match?

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Speaker 2: There's just no just no way this.

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Speaker 5: I can't see it. The garage ain't even open to her.

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Speaker 5: She could have given your garage for more. I wish

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Speaker 5: you would open the garage. Don't for her to sleep in. No,

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Speaker 5: ain't nothing available. There's nothing in a situation. This is

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Speaker 5: not a friend of yours. This is his ex wife.

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Speaker 5: She ain't your.

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Speaker 1: Friend, baby, Mamma, Yeah, ain't your friend. You know what, ju,

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Speaker 1: But they hang out, they do all that.

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Speaker 3: Maybe we could have put a tent out in the

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Speaker 6: If we had a treehouse, tim and she can't get

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Speaker 6: in that. It don't matter.

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Speaker 2: What it is, just your hotel. Just stay at a hotel.

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Speaker 6: You better hope, you better hope they didn't cut the

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Speaker 6: FEMA check. You better get your FEMA check and get

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Speaker 6: on nothing, because that's about the only sister you getting.

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Speaker 5: You're not getting it from my husband, my wife.

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Speaker 6: You're not finna get that. And you know what here's

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Speaker 6: another thing, because it's the next line. But these my kids,

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Speaker 6: well you and your kids can go stay with her all, y'all,

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Speaker 6: but it's not gonna.

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Speaker 5: Be in here.

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, the problem in this letter is the husband,

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Speaker 1: for sure. It's the husband.

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Speaker 5: Yes, and yes he did go too far.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, absolutely can't. But then he called her and mature,

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Speaker 2: he on wife, immature?

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Speaker 1: Uh huh.

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Speaker 5: I don't care if a family member died. You can't

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Speaker 5: stay here? Wow, I don't care how you're not staying here?

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Speaker 5: Tell me we're gonna come together as a family. Not

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Speaker 5: not in here?

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Speaker 3: We not?

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Speaker 1: No?

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Speaker 4: Why not?

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Speaker 1: Are you afraid they might get back together? They in

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Speaker 1: the And that's you to keep.

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Speaker 4: Your wife happy, your your wife house what I'm dare?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, ask, Let me go ahead, ask my wife right now,

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Speaker 6: if if if my ask, can stay here and watch

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Speaker 6: the next time, y'all gover here is me getting right there.

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Speaker 5: By asking the question.

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