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Speaker 1: up searching for love and just accept the fact that
Speaker 1: you're probably gonna die alone? Wow? I think I'm there
Speaker 1: now when you're twenty four, but I'm not datable twenty five.
Speaker 1: You shouldn't even really be even looking at that age.
Speaker 1: I mean, let's wait a couple of way. Do you
Speaker 1: call it quits? On this show, we say never, never, Never,
Speaker 1: No matter how many times you fail miserably, you get
Speaker 1: back up on that dating horse and you ride. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you ride until your backsides blistered in blue, and you
Speaker 1: finally fin that special person or at least someone who's
Speaker 1: willing to spend time with you in exchange for money. Yes,
Speaker 1: and in that spirit, we have a listener who was
Speaker 1: on with us before for a second date update okay,
Speaker 1: and we could not get it done for him the
Speaker 1: last time to us like this, But even though we
Speaker 1: failed him. Even though we failed him, he still trusts
Speaker 1: us to help him out one more time. So let's
Speaker 1: say welcome back to Noah. What's up, Noah? Hey guys, Yeah,
Speaker 1: we're hanging there. Wait, Noah, can you just remind me
Speaker 1: what happened last time you're on the phone with us? Oh? Man,
Speaker 1: So this is this girl Anna that I was really
Speaker 1: into and I set her a pillow. Oh with your
Speaker 1: face on it. You set her like a right. Yeah,
Speaker 1: you visited her a college right. Yeah, that didn't work out.
Speaker 1: It was sweet, but it was too much got you.
Speaker 1: She was kind of my high school crush. We hooked
Speaker 1: up once, but that was it. Yeah, she sucks. We're over.
Speaker 1: She's dead to us. That's right, we've moved. We're looking
Speaker 1: forward to the next victim or from a love interest.
Speaker 1: Next love interest? What's her name, Noah prospect? I couldn't
Speaker 1: think of it. So her name is Sandra? Okay? She
Speaker 1: is amazing, Like, okay, so Anna's sister. I just love Noah.
Speaker 1: You are obviously a hopeless romantic. You fall hard, and
Speaker 1: I love that you're open about your feelings. Where did
Speaker 1: you meet her? The new girl? So she's actually not
Speaker 1: that new um, it was a high school crush as well,
Speaker 1: are there? Why why are we still living in high school?
Speaker 1: In her mind? Noah, why can't we move forward? Okay,
Speaker 1: to be fair, like this girl Sandra, I know I
Speaker 1: didn't mention her before because I was really trying to
Speaker 1: make it work with Anna, But I've always really liked
Speaker 1: this girl. She's not even number two on the list.
Speaker 1: She's like one beat on the same level as Anna,
Speaker 1: but just not quite. I kind of understand that. I
Speaker 1: hope you didn't tell her she was one be So
Speaker 1: how'd you end up reconnecting with Sandra after all these years? Okay, guys,
Speaker 1: so here's what happened. I after alf the Happy Hour,
Speaker 1: and we had a great time. We started talking about,
Speaker 1: you know, high school, some of the old days and stuff.
Speaker 1: And like one of the pranks we did was we
Speaker 1: filled the gymnasium with balloons for our senior prom. Yeah,
Speaker 1: guys were a wild bunch. It was actually hilarious. It
Speaker 1: was like a huge McDonald's play place. We were laughing
Speaker 1: so hard about that, and we're just having so much fun,
Speaker 1: Like it was really good to think back about high school. Yeah,
Speaker 1: it sounds so what happened then? I mean, did you
Speaker 1: guys end the night or so? We had a few
Speaker 1: more drinks and we ended up back at her place, okay,
Speaker 1: doing the play place at the apartment. Yeah, I mean
Speaker 1: I she did see some sort of like romance or
Speaker 1: chemistry there then, right, I think so, because we definitely
Speaker 1: started making out. Oh right, like over the closed stuff.
Speaker 1: I mean, this is high school romance, right. Well, guys,
Speaker 1: we actually didn't get that far because we were interrupted.
Speaker 1: Oh oh, does she have a roommate? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I just I heard there were some keys at the
Speaker 1: door and suddenly she's like, oh, quit, get in the closet.
Speaker 1: So I had to grabble my stuff and get in. Wait,
Speaker 1: get in the closet that's had a good size there.
Speaker 1: Did you hide? Of course I hid in the closet.
Speaker 1: She was like speaking out about it. I had no
Speaker 1: idea what was going on. You you got to trust people.
Speaker 1: You don't have to hide an there was a serial
Speaker 1: tickler on the lucy. He's gonna come in and it's
Speaker 1: obviously yeah, and the major thing is never good if
Speaker 1: you're hiding in the closet, is what I'm saying. Did
Speaker 1: you hear a male voice? Did she have a girlfriend girlfriend.
Speaker 1: Maybe it was a did you hear a love interest? No,
Speaker 1: it was definitely a guy. Okay, so what did he
Speaker 1: What did they say? I mean, did she? Did she
Speaker 1: live with a boyfriend? I don't know. I guess because
Speaker 1: they definitely were making out. Oh my, well, you just
Speaker 1: stayed in the closet the whole time all that happened. Well,
Speaker 1: I was kind of freaking up. I don't know what
Speaker 1: I was supposed to do. Like, they stay there for
Speaker 1: over an hour, and the whole time, she's like trying
Speaker 1: to get him to go to a bar, and he's like, no,
Speaker 1: I just got back. Why do you want to go
Speaker 1: to the bar? Why calling her back? She made you
Speaker 1: hide in a closet for an hour while she made
Speaker 1: out with her boyfriend. Are you still in the closet?
Speaker 1: Is that why you're calling out? Out? Getting out? No?
Speaker 1: I'm not in the closet. How did you? How did
Speaker 1: you get out? Well, they finally left after about an
Speaker 1: hour or something, and like, I mean, she and I
Speaker 1: really had an amazing time, and so I don't even
Speaker 1: think she wants to be with this guy. No, no closet.
Speaker 1: I mean, I know I gave a big speech about
Speaker 1: never giving up. But there's a time to be like,
Speaker 1: you know what, maybe I need to give up on
Speaker 1: this one. Why would you want to call her? Look,
Speaker 1: if it's a choice between this guy and me, she's
Speaker 1: gonna pick me, and she's gonna pick every other guy
Speaker 1: that comes along and shows her any interest at all.
Speaker 1: I know there's a lot of doubters in here, Noah,
Speaker 1: but I do like your optimism. So let's try this
Speaker 1: do Let's give it a shot. We're gonna play a song,
Speaker 1: we'll come back, we'll call Sandra for you, and we'll
Speaker 1: try and get you your second date. Update. Okay, thanks
Speaker 1: so much, guys. All right, man, hold on, everybody's worse
Speaker 1: night there is going on a date. Things spiral and
Speaker 1: you turn into a closet case. That's what literally happened
Speaker 1: to one of our listeners, Noah, during his date with
Speaker 1: an old high school crush named Sandra. In the middle
Speaker 1: of hooking up, the door to her apartment jiggled and
Speaker 1: she told Noah to go hide in her closet. So
Speaker 1: he did, and he stayed in there for over an hour,
Speaker 1: listening to Sandra make out with some other dude. But
Speaker 1: if there's one thing that we've learned about Noah through
Speaker 1: all the calls we've had with him, it's that he
Speaker 1: does not give up. No sweet Noah, No matter how
Speaker 1: many roadbumps he has to clear or closets he has
Speaker 1: to hide in, he wants to find love and still
Speaker 1: wants us to call Sandra. And Noah, we never asked you.
Speaker 1: Have you tried reaching out to her after the date? Like,
Speaker 1: are you guys texting at all or anything? Yeah? I
Speaker 1: texted her a couple of times and she didn't get
Speaker 1: back to me. It was just like, what is that
Speaker 1: all about? And uh, yeah nothing. You You are too
Speaker 1: pure and too sweet for this Sandra woman. Okay, she
Speaker 1: is going to walk all over you like a doormat. Wow,
Speaker 1: are you absolutely sure that you want to make this
Speaker 1: phone call? No, she's really amazing if you guys only
Speaker 1: knew her, like, she's really awesome. Yeah, you're right, we
Speaker 1: don't Okay. Yeah, she left you in the closet for
Speaker 1: an hour and even apologize. Hasn't even called to say,
Speaker 1: oh my god, you don't know her. She's probably embarrassed
Speaker 1: Brook and didn't want to embarrass him too. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: you know, I hear the lack of hope in this room,
Speaker 1: and I want to remind you Noah believes. So we
Speaker 1: need to believe for Noah. Noah, Okay, for you, for you, Noah,
Speaker 1: We'll muster it up. I just no, no, no, I
Speaker 1: just no, I just there's just just just believe places
Speaker 1: he could put his energy. That's all. Come on, Brook,
Speaker 1: I need you to believe in me. Ye, do know
Speaker 1: what I do? Do you know what I'll do for you? Noah?
Speaker 1: I won't even say I told you so. When you
Speaker 1: call us three months from now, sad, oh wow, get
Speaker 1: a date whatever, I'm gonna give the laugh laugh here.
Speaker 1: That's the spirit. I do want you to win. I don't.
Speaker 1: I'll tell you that. Don't haters. We're all realists. We're
Speaker 1: all rooting for you. Man. So I'm gonna dial Sandra's number.
Speaker 1: We're gonna try and get your second date up date.
Speaker 1: You ready, all right, let's do it. Hello? Hey, is
Speaker 1: this Sandra? Yes, it is Can I ask us calling? Yeah?
Speaker 1: My name is jeff from the radio show Broken Jeffrey
Speaker 1: in the Morning. How are you doing? Okay, I'm good good.
Speaker 1: We're in the middle of a segment called a second
Speaker 1: Date Update, and we'd like you to be a part
Speaker 1: of it. Oh, um, I don't. I don't know what
Speaker 1: is the work's good question? Yeah, it's really simple. It's
Speaker 1: where if you go out on a date with someone,
Speaker 1: and afterwards, if that person isn't calling you back, you
Speaker 1: can email our show and we'll reach out to them
Speaker 1: to help you figure out the reason why. Oh it
Speaker 1: makes sense. Sure. Okay, So recently you went out with
Speaker 1: a guy who really really likes you, and he's confused
Speaker 1: about why you haven't been in touch with him lately.
Speaker 1: His name's Noah. Yeah, okay, you remember sweet Noah. Um, yeah,
Speaker 1: we hung out. I wouldn't necessarily say it was a date,
Speaker 1: but I do know him. Okay, you had some chemistry
Speaker 1: with him right while you guys were hanging out. Um, yeah,
Speaker 1: you guys kissed. According to Noah, so I hope that
Speaker 1: you'd have some sort of connection with him, unless you
Speaker 1: just kiss anybody. How much did he tell you about
Speaker 1: what happened? I mean he went to a lot of detail.
Speaker 1: He said that you guys met up, you ended up
Speaker 1: back at your apartment. You guys started to hook up
Speaker 1: a little bit, but then you two were interrupted. Yeah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I feel really bad about that. Actually, we know about
Speaker 1: the law. Yeah, yeah, you know. I did really like Noah.
Speaker 1: He was really sweet, He's really funny, and I enjoyed
Speaker 1: hanging out with him. It would be nice to have
Speaker 1: someone like him in my life. But um, okay, I
Speaker 1: don't really have that right now. So live with your boyfriend. No,
Speaker 1: we don't live together. I have been seeing someone, yes, well,
Speaker 1: but there's no label on it. How could there not
Speaker 1: be a label on it? He had keys to your place.
Speaker 1: That's how he got in, right, Like the Noah heard
Speaker 1: jingling of keys and someone entering your apartment and you
Speaker 1: told him to get into the closet. You could have
Speaker 1: been a robber that broke in, and she made out
Speaker 1: with him to save her rights on restract closet. Take
Speaker 1: whatever you want later. Is that what happened, Sandra, It's okay,
Speaker 1: that's what happened. Yeah, he's just kind of this on again,
Speaker 1: off again boyfriend type thing. Okay, well we're just looking.
Speaker 1: Is there anything possible down the road, even in the
Speaker 1: future with Noah? Is there a chance? Look like, I
Speaker 1: have been seeing another guy, but I do kind of
Speaker 1: like know a better. I just think he's a better person.
Speaker 1: Oh that's great. Look you know why, Let's find out
Speaker 1: what Noah thinks about this, because he's on the other
Speaker 1: line listening and wants to talk to you, and I'm
Speaker 1: willing to bet he's on board again. Yeah, Noah, you there,
Speaker 1: jump out of the closet, Zandra, it's me what you
Speaker 1: have a radio station called me? Oh my god? Sorry,
Speaker 1: I didn't really know how to get in touch with you,
Speaker 1: and I've been texting and like, I was just really
Speaker 1: nervous to be honest, and like, I really like you
Speaker 1: a lot, but I didn't. I don't know. I kind
Speaker 1: of thought you were just blowing me off. No, I wasn't.
Speaker 1: I wasn't intentionally trying to blow you off. To be honest,
Speaker 1: I felt the same way. I did, feel like there's
Speaker 1: a connection. Oh, I just didn't know really how serious
Speaker 1: you were about it. Noah, do you think this is
Speaker 1: something that you would take seriously? If you feel like
Speaker 1: that guy's not good for you, then I'm open. Wait,
Speaker 1: this is a way to do it, you Jane around
Speaker 1: till the guy calls a radio station, you pick him. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Are we all just going to ignore the fact that, Sandra,
Speaker 1: you haven't even apologized yet for leaving him in the closet,
Speaker 1: he sounds happy, hying about having a boyfriend, Like, why
Speaker 1: are you trying? I'm not digging anything up. It's like
Speaker 1: right there trying to start a fight, trying to start
Speaker 1: a fight. I'm just saying, Sandra, like what was going
Speaker 1: through your mind when you're making out with some boyfriend
Speaker 1: while he was in the closet? I know it looks
Speaker 1: really bad. The thing is is that this guy that
Speaker 1: I've been seeing, he's just kind of trouble. He has
Speaker 1: a little bit of an anger management problem. Oh why
Speaker 1: aren't you even talking to him? Still? What do you mean?
Speaker 1: Like how angry? Is the type person? I mean, he
Speaker 1: has been in and out of prison and does have
Speaker 1: a little bit of a mean streak, not to me,
Speaker 1: but to others who have wronged him. Yeah, Sandra, you
Speaker 1: deserve better than that. You guys, listen, this guy's gonna
Speaker 1: find out about their relationship and he's gonna kill him.
Speaker 1: So he's not kind of like violent mean? Is he
Speaker 1: just more like loud angry? Mean you went to prison,
Speaker 1: not for like emotionally yelling at somebody. Sandra. You know,
Speaker 1: I don't think I should talk about everything he's done
Speaker 1: because I don't want to get him in trouble, and
Speaker 1: I don't want to block that out onto the error.
Speaker 1: But like Noah, like I said, and I told these guys,
Speaker 1: you're the type of person that I need in my life,
Speaker 1: and I am really interested, and I think it makes
Speaker 1: sense we could have something okay her life. I feel
Speaker 1: like there's something here to work with. I'm yeah, I
Speaker 1: mean between the prison guy and Noah, she chooses Noah.
Speaker 1: That's got to feel good. You're right, right? Does that
Speaker 1: mean you're actually going to break up? Like break up?
Speaker 1: Break up with prison dude? It's not gonna be easy.
Speaker 1: But I think if I sit and talk with him
Speaker 1: and kind of tell him everything and tell him about Noah,
Speaker 1: then oh maybe he'll understand. I don't think. So yeah, wait,
Speaker 1: why do you have to tell him about me? Yeah? Well,
Speaker 1: he's gonna want to know who I'm seeing, So can't
Speaker 1: you just tell him that's none of your business? I mean,
Speaker 1: I told you he has an anger issue, so he's
Speaker 1: gonna want to know, and I'm probably gonna want to
Speaker 1: meet him. But like, I think it's going to be fine. Well,
Speaker 1: maybe we can help make that happen, because we would
Speaker 1: love to send you guys out on another day. We
Speaker 1: will pay for it, and you, Noah and the prison
Speaker 1: guy can all meet and discuss leaving your relationship to
Speaker 1: just being with Noah. That sounds like it's going to
Speaker 1: be civil. I mean, I'm sure he'll be the reasonable
Speaker 1: one between the three of you. Yeah, Sandraw, what do
Speaker 1: you say? I'm down to try and see if this
Speaker 1: can work with Noah in whatever way possible. I think
Speaker 1: that's good. You need a healthy relationship. Yes, Noah, you're
Speaker 1: still up for this. Guys, this is all coming at
Speaker 1: me so fast right now. Do you want to go
Speaker 1: back in the closet and hide in for a second
Speaker 1: and then think about it? Oh? I mean, Sandra, I
Speaker 1: really want to make things work with you, but I'm
Speaker 1: I'm a little nervous about you know this guy. Yeah,
Speaker 1: come on, Sandra. He doesn't have to meet him, does he. Yeah?
Speaker 1: I just tell him your name is like Jeffrey de
Speaker 1: bou or something. Okay, running out of time. I think
Speaker 1: it's gonna be fine. It's probably going to take him
Speaker 1: a few days to get over it, but I think
Speaker 1: we'll be okay. Okay. I don't know how I feel
Speaker 1: positive right now, but I do don't know. You don't
Speaker 1: look at Sandra taking charge of her own life, making
Speaker 1: decisions for herself, good jobs. It sounds like someone's about
Speaker 1: to go back to prison. Yeah, Broke and Jeffrey in
Speaker 1: the morning.