WEBVTT - Second Date Update PODCAST: In The Closet

0:00:00.200 --> 0:00:02.800
<v Speaker 1>Bread and butter wines pair with the life moments you love,

0:00:02.920 --> 0:00:06.320
<v Speaker 1>offering a rich and jammy Cabernet sauvignon, a silky smooth

0:00:06.320 --> 0:00:08.959
<v Speaker 1>piano now are, and a buttery Chardonnay. Bread and butter

0:00:09.000 --> 0:00:11.600
<v Speaker 1>wines are delicious. Find a bread and Butter wines in

0:00:11.600 --> 0:00:21.520
<v Speaker 1>your favorite store. Here's a question, when should you give

0:00:21.600 --> 0:00:25.720
<v Speaker 1>up searching for love and just accept the fact that

0:00:25.760 --> 0:00:28.960
<v Speaker 1>you're probably gonna die alone? Wow? I think I'm there

0:00:29.040 --> 0:00:35.560
<v Speaker 1>now when you're twenty four, but I'm not datable twenty five.

0:00:37.600 --> 0:00:39.920
<v Speaker 1>You shouldn't even really be even looking at that age.

0:00:39.960 --> 0:00:41.680
<v Speaker 1>I mean, let's wait a couple of way. Do you

0:00:41.760 --> 0:00:48.520
<v Speaker 1>call it quits? On this show, we say never, never, Never,

0:00:49.360 --> 0:00:52.240
<v Speaker 1>No matter how many times you fail miserably, you get

0:00:52.320 --> 0:00:55.120
<v Speaker 1>back up on that dating horse and you ride. Yeah,

0:00:55.360 --> 0:00:58.880
<v Speaker 1>you ride until your backsides blistered in blue, and you

0:00:59.120 --> 0:01:02.760
<v Speaker 1>finally fin that special person or at least someone who's

0:01:02.800 --> 0:01:05.399
<v Speaker 1>willing to spend time with you in exchange for money. Yes,

0:01:07.760 --> 0:01:10.280
<v Speaker 1>and in that spirit, we have a listener who was

0:01:10.319 --> 0:01:13.640
<v Speaker 1>on with us before for a second date update okay,

0:01:13.640 --> 0:01:15.920
<v Speaker 1>and we could not get it done for him the

0:01:16.000 --> 0:01:19.399
<v Speaker 1>last time to us like this, But even though we

0:01:19.520 --> 0:01:23.160
<v Speaker 1>failed him. Even though we failed him, he still trusts

0:01:23.240 --> 0:01:25.880
<v Speaker 1>us to help him out one more time. So let's

0:01:25.920 --> 0:01:32.040
<v Speaker 1>say welcome back to Noah. What's up, Noah? Hey guys, Yeah,

0:01:32.080 --> 0:01:35.040
<v Speaker 1>we're hanging there. Wait, Noah, can you just remind me

0:01:35.360 --> 0:01:38.440
<v Speaker 1>what happened last time you're on the phone with us? Oh? Man,

0:01:38.640 --> 0:01:40.280
<v Speaker 1>So this is this girl Anna that I was really

0:01:40.280 --> 0:01:43.280
<v Speaker 1>into and I set her a pillow. Oh with your

0:01:43.319 --> 0:01:47.480
<v Speaker 1>face on it. You set her like a right. Yeah,

0:01:47.520 --> 0:01:52.160
<v Speaker 1>you visited her a college right. Yeah, that didn't work out.

0:01:52.280 --> 0:01:54.279
<v Speaker 1>It was sweet, but it was too much got you.

0:01:54.680 --> 0:01:57.280
<v Speaker 1>She was kind of my high school crush. We hooked

0:01:57.360 --> 0:01:59.920
<v Speaker 1>up once, but that was it. Yeah, she sucks. We're over.

0:02:00.240 --> 0:02:06.320
<v Speaker 1>She's dead to us. That's right, we've moved. We're looking

0:02:06.400 --> 0:02:10.680
<v Speaker 1>forward to the next victim or from a love interest.

0:02:11.040 --> 0:02:15.200
<v Speaker 1>Next love interest? What's her name, Noah prospect? I couldn't

0:02:15.200 --> 0:02:19.440
<v Speaker 1>think of it. So her name is Sandra? Okay? She

0:02:19.919 --> 0:02:26.760
<v Speaker 1>is amazing, Like, okay, so Anna's sister. I just love Noah.

0:02:26.840 --> 0:02:30.680
<v Speaker 1>You are obviously a hopeless romantic. You fall hard, and

0:02:30.760 --> 0:02:33.480
<v Speaker 1>I love that you're open about your feelings. Where did

0:02:33.560 --> 0:02:36.640
<v Speaker 1>you meet her? The new girl? So she's actually not

0:02:36.720 --> 0:02:40.000
<v Speaker 1>that new um, it was a high school crush as well,

0:02:42.760 --> 0:02:46.760
<v Speaker 1>are there? Why why are we still living in high school?

0:02:46.800 --> 0:02:49.919
<v Speaker 1>In her mind? Noah, why can't we move forward? Okay,

0:02:49.960 --> 0:02:52.560
<v Speaker 1>to be fair, like this girl Sandra, I know I

0:02:52.600 --> 0:02:54.519
<v Speaker 1>didn't mention her before because I was really trying to

0:02:54.560 --> 0:02:57.760
<v Speaker 1>make it work with Anna, But I've always really liked

0:02:57.760 --> 0:03:00.280
<v Speaker 1>this girl. She's not even number two on the list.

0:03:00.360 --> 0:03:05.640
<v Speaker 1>She's like one beat on the same level as Anna,

0:03:05.720 --> 0:03:08.560
<v Speaker 1>but just not quite. I kind of understand that. I

0:03:08.560 --> 0:03:11.639
<v Speaker 1>hope you didn't tell her she was one be So

0:03:12.000 --> 0:03:16.120
<v Speaker 1>how'd you end up reconnecting with Sandra after all these years? Okay, guys,

0:03:16.160 --> 0:03:19.640
<v Speaker 1>so here's what happened. I after alf the Happy Hour,

0:03:20.280 --> 0:03:22.960
<v Speaker 1>and we had a great time. We started talking about,

0:03:22.960 --> 0:03:24.920
<v Speaker 1>you know, high school, some of the old days and stuff.

0:03:25.280 --> 0:03:27.680
<v Speaker 1>And like one of the pranks we did was we

0:03:27.720 --> 0:03:33.200
<v Speaker 1>filled the gymnasium with balloons for our senior prom. Yeah,

0:03:33.520 --> 0:03:36.120
<v Speaker 1>guys were a wild bunch. It was actually hilarious. It

0:03:36.160 --> 0:03:39.600
<v Speaker 1>was like a huge McDonald's play place. We were laughing

0:03:39.680 --> 0:03:43.280
<v Speaker 1>so hard about that, and we're just having so much fun,

0:03:43.360 --> 0:03:46.440
<v Speaker 1>Like it was really good to think back about high school. Yeah,

0:03:46.480 --> 0:03:52.240
<v Speaker 1>it sounds so what happened then? I mean, did you

0:03:52.240 --> 0:03:54.800
<v Speaker 1>guys end the night or so? We had a few

0:03:54.800 --> 0:03:59.920
<v Speaker 1>more drinks and we ended up back at her place, okay,

0:04:00.240 --> 0:04:03.120
<v Speaker 1>doing the play place at the apartment. Yeah, I mean

0:04:03.200 --> 0:04:05.960
<v Speaker 1>I she did see some sort of like romance or

0:04:06.040 --> 0:04:09.600
<v Speaker 1>chemistry there then, right, I think so, because we definitely

0:04:09.640 --> 0:04:15.080
<v Speaker 1>started making out. Oh right, like over the closed stuff.

0:04:15.120 --> 0:04:18.080
<v Speaker 1>I mean, this is high school romance, right. Well, guys,

0:04:18.120 --> 0:04:20.760
<v Speaker 1>we actually didn't get that far because we were interrupted.

0:04:21.000 --> 0:04:23.920
<v Speaker 1>Oh oh, does she have a roommate? I don't know.

0:04:24.160 --> 0:04:26.599
<v Speaker 1>I just I heard there were some keys at the

0:04:26.720 --> 0:04:29.880
<v Speaker 1>door and suddenly she's like, oh, quit, get in the closet.

0:04:30.200 --> 0:04:34.040
<v Speaker 1>So I had to grabble my stuff and get in. Wait,

0:04:34.080 --> 0:04:37.800
<v Speaker 1>get in the closet that's had a good size there.

0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:40.520
<v Speaker 1>Did you hide? Of course I hid in the closet.

0:04:40.600 --> 0:04:42.240
<v Speaker 1>She was like speaking out about it. I had no

0:04:42.320 --> 0:04:44.799
<v Speaker 1>idea what was going on. You you got to trust people.

0:04:45.920 --> 0:04:47.400
<v Speaker 1>You don't have to hide an there was a serial

0:04:47.440 --> 0:04:49.680
<v Speaker 1>tickler on the lucy. He's gonna come in and it's

0:04:49.720 --> 0:04:53.960
<v Speaker 1>obviously yeah, and the major thing is never good if

0:04:53.960 --> 0:04:55.960
<v Speaker 1>you're hiding in the closet, is what I'm saying. Did

0:04:55.960 --> 0:04:59.440
<v Speaker 1>you hear a male voice? Did she have a girlfriend girlfriend.

0:04:59.520 --> 0:05:02.400
<v Speaker 1>Maybe it was a did you hear a love interest? No,

0:05:02.480 --> 0:05:05.920
<v Speaker 1>it was definitely a guy. Okay, so what did he

0:05:06.080 --> 0:05:08.080
<v Speaker 1>What did they say? I mean, did she? Did she

0:05:08.160 --> 0:05:11.600
<v Speaker 1>live with a boyfriend? I don't know. I guess because

0:05:11.640 --> 0:05:15.880
<v Speaker 1>they definitely were making out. Oh my, well, you just

0:05:15.920 --> 0:05:18.599
<v Speaker 1>stayed in the closet the whole time all that happened. Well,

0:05:18.640 --> 0:05:20.159
<v Speaker 1>I was kind of freaking up. I don't know what

0:05:20.160 --> 0:05:21.880
<v Speaker 1>I was supposed to do. Like, they stay there for

0:05:22.040 --> 0:05:26.320
<v Speaker 1>over an hour, and the whole time, she's like trying

0:05:26.360 --> 0:05:29.640
<v Speaker 1>to get him to go to a bar, and he's like, no,

0:05:29.720 --> 0:05:31.159
<v Speaker 1>I just got back. Why do you want to go

0:05:31.200 --> 0:05:37.000
<v Speaker 1>to the bar? Why calling her back? She made you

0:05:37.080 --> 0:05:39.120
<v Speaker 1>hide in a closet for an hour while she made

0:05:39.160 --> 0:05:41.280
<v Speaker 1>out with her boyfriend. Are you still in the closet?

0:05:41.360 --> 0:05:44.720
<v Speaker 1>Is that why you're calling out? Out? Getting out? No?

0:05:44.800 --> 0:05:47.160
<v Speaker 1>I'm not in the closet. How did you? How did

0:05:47.160 --> 0:05:50.320
<v Speaker 1>you get out? Well, they finally left after about an

0:05:50.320 --> 0:05:52.960
<v Speaker 1>hour or something, and like, I mean, she and I

0:05:53.000 --> 0:05:55.160
<v Speaker 1>really had an amazing time, and so I don't even

0:05:55.200 --> 0:06:00.440
<v Speaker 1>think she wants to be with this guy. No, no closet.

0:06:00.920 --> 0:06:02.599
<v Speaker 1>I mean, I know I gave a big speech about

0:06:02.640 --> 0:06:05.520
<v Speaker 1>never giving up. But there's a time to be like,

0:06:05.600 --> 0:06:08.240
<v Speaker 1>you know what, maybe I need to give up on

0:06:08.279 --> 0:06:13.400
<v Speaker 1>this one. Why would you want to call her? Look,

0:06:13.440 --> 0:06:15.960
<v Speaker 1>if it's a choice between this guy and me, she's

0:06:16.000 --> 0:06:20.120
<v Speaker 1>gonna pick me, and she's gonna pick every other guy

0:06:20.320 --> 0:06:23.040
<v Speaker 1>that comes along and shows her any interest at all.

0:06:23.200 --> 0:06:24.960
<v Speaker 1>I know there's a lot of doubters in here, Noah,

0:06:25.000 --> 0:06:28.600
<v Speaker 1>but I do like your optimism. So let's try this

0:06:28.279 --> 0:06:30.720
<v Speaker 1>do Let's give it a shot. We're gonna play a song,

0:06:30.760 --> 0:06:33.640
<v Speaker 1>we'll come back, we'll call Sandra for you, and we'll

0:06:33.680 --> 0:06:36.360
<v Speaker 1>try and get you your second date. Update. Okay, thanks

0:06:36.360 --> 0:06:40.640
<v Speaker 1>so much, guys. All right, man, hold on, everybody's worse

0:06:40.839 --> 0:06:44.960
<v Speaker 1>night there is going on a date. Things spiral and

0:06:45.120 --> 0:06:51.000
<v Speaker 1>you turn into a closet case. That's what literally happened

0:06:51.120 --> 0:06:53.719
<v Speaker 1>to one of our listeners, Noah, during his date with

0:06:53.760 --> 0:06:56.679
<v Speaker 1>an old high school crush named Sandra. In the middle

0:06:56.720 --> 0:06:59.520
<v Speaker 1>of hooking up, the door to her apartment jiggled and

0:06:59.560 --> 0:07:03.000
<v Speaker 1>she told Noah to go hide in her closet. So

0:07:03.080 --> 0:07:05.880
<v Speaker 1>he did, and he stayed in there for over an hour,

0:07:06.240 --> 0:07:10.120
<v Speaker 1>listening to Sandra make out with some other dude. But

0:07:10.200 --> 0:07:12.840
<v Speaker 1>if there's one thing that we've learned about Noah through

0:07:12.880 --> 0:07:14.720
<v Speaker 1>all the calls we've had with him, it's that he

0:07:14.800 --> 0:07:17.960
<v Speaker 1>does not give up. No sweet Noah, No matter how

0:07:17.960 --> 0:07:20.600
<v Speaker 1>many roadbumps he has to clear or closets he has

0:07:20.640 --> 0:07:23.640
<v Speaker 1>to hide in, he wants to find love and still

0:07:23.720 --> 0:07:27.000
<v Speaker 1>wants us to call Sandra. And Noah, we never asked you.

0:07:27.240 --> 0:07:30.400
<v Speaker 1>Have you tried reaching out to her after the date? Like,

0:07:30.520 --> 0:07:33.440
<v Speaker 1>are you guys texting at all or anything? Yeah? I

0:07:33.520 --> 0:07:35.480
<v Speaker 1>texted her a couple of times and she didn't get

0:07:35.520 --> 0:07:36.960
<v Speaker 1>back to me. It was just like, what is that

0:07:37.040 --> 0:07:41.840
<v Speaker 1>all about? And uh, yeah nothing. You You are too

0:07:41.920 --> 0:07:45.520
<v Speaker 1>pure and too sweet for this Sandra woman. Okay, she

0:07:45.680 --> 0:07:48.880
<v Speaker 1>is going to walk all over you like a doormat. Wow,

0:07:48.920 --> 0:07:50.880
<v Speaker 1>are you absolutely sure that you want to make this

0:07:50.960 --> 0:07:54.400
<v Speaker 1>phone call? No, she's really amazing if you guys only

0:07:54.480 --> 0:07:57.080
<v Speaker 1>knew her, like, she's really awesome. Yeah, you're right, we

0:07:57.160 --> 0:08:01.800
<v Speaker 1>don't Okay. Yeah, she left you in the closet for

0:08:01.840 --> 0:08:05.000
<v Speaker 1>an hour and even apologize. Hasn't even called to say,

0:08:05.040 --> 0:08:09.000
<v Speaker 1>oh my god, you don't know her. She's probably embarrassed

0:08:09.000 --> 0:08:13.240
<v Speaker 1>Brook and didn't want to embarrass him too. Yeah, okay,

0:08:13.640 --> 0:08:16.840
<v Speaker 1>you know, I hear the lack of hope in this room,

0:08:16.920 --> 0:08:19.760
<v Speaker 1>and I want to remind you Noah believes. So we

0:08:19.840 --> 0:08:23.800
<v Speaker 1>need to believe for Noah. Noah, Okay, for you, for you, Noah,

0:08:23.800 --> 0:08:25.840
<v Speaker 1>We'll muster it up. I just no, no, no, I

0:08:25.920 --> 0:08:30.120
<v Speaker 1>just no, I just there's just just just believe places

0:08:30.120 --> 0:08:32.720
<v Speaker 1>he could put his energy. That's all. Come on, Brook,

0:08:32.760 --> 0:08:35.760
<v Speaker 1>I need you to believe in me. Ye, do know

0:08:35.760 --> 0:08:38.319
<v Speaker 1>what I do? Do you know what I'll do for you? Noah?

0:08:38.360 --> 0:08:40.079
<v Speaker 1>I won't even say I told you so. When you

0:08:40.120 --> 0:08:44.440
<v Speaker 1>call us three months from now, sad, oh wow, get

0:08:44.480 --> 0:08:46.800
<v Speaker 1>a date whatever, I'm gonna give the laugh laugh here.

0:08:47.880 --> 0:08:50.560
<v Speaker 1>That's the spirit. I do want you to win. I don't.

0:08:50.559 --> 0:08:55.040
<v Speaker 1>I'll tell you that. Don't haters. We're all realists. We're

0:08:55.040 --> 0:08:57.600
<v Speaker 1>all rooting for you. Man. So I'm gonna dial Sandra's number.

0:08:57.640 --> 0:08:59.240
<v Speaker 1>We're gonna try and get your second date up date.

0:08:59.240 --> 0:09:13.559
<v Speaker 1>You ready, all right, let's do it. Hello? Hey, is

0:09:13.600 --> 0:09:17.480
<v Speaker 1>this Sandra? Yes, it is Can I ask us calling? Yeah?

0:09:17.520 --> 0:09:19.959
<v Speaker 1>My name is jeff from the radio show Broken Jeffrey

0:09:19.960 --> 0:09:24.679
<v Speaker 1>in the Morning. How are you doing? Okay, I'm good good.

0:09:24.880 --> 0:09:27.480
<v Speaker 1>We're in the middle of a segment called a second

0:09:27.559 --> 0:09:29.560
<v Speaker 1>Date Update, and we'd like you to be a part

0:09:29.600 --> 0:09:33.920
<v Speaker 1>of it. Oh, um, I don't. I don't know what

0:09:34.040 --> 0:09:36.800
<v Speaker 1>is the work's good question? Yeah, it's really simple. It's

0:09:36.840 --> 0:09:38.360
<v Speaker 1>where if you go out on a date with someone,

0:09:38.360 --> 0:09:41.040
<v Speaker 1>and afterwards, if that person isn't calling you back, you

0:09:41.080 --> 0:09:43.360
<v Speaker 1>can email our show and we'll reach out to them

0:09:43.440 --> 0:09:47.199
<v Speaker 1>to help you figure out the reason why. Oh it

0:09:47.320 --> 0:09:53.480
<v Speaker 1>makes sense. Sure. Okay, So recently you went out with

0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:57.120
<v Speaker 1>a guy who really really likes you, and he's confused

0:09:57.120 --> 0:09:59.160
<v Speaker 1>about why you haven't been in touch with him lately.

0:09:59.200 --> 0:10:04.920
<v Speaker 1>His name's Noah. Yeah, okay, you remember sweet Noah. Um, yeah,

0:10:04.960 --> 0:10:07.480
<v Speaker 1>we hung out. I wouldn't necessarily say it was a date,

0:10:07.679 --> 0:10:11.720
<v Speaker 1>but I do know him. Okay, you had some chemistry

0:10:11.760 --> 0:10:15.840
<v Speaker 1>with him right while you guys were hanging out. Um, yeah,

0:10:15.880 --> 0:10:18.840
<v Speaker 1>you guys kissed. According to Noah, so I hope that

0:10:18.840 --> 0:10:21.040
<v Speaker 1>you'd have some sort of connection with him, unless you

0:10:21.040 --> 0:10:26.959
<v Speaker 1>just kiss anybody. How much did he tell you about

0:10:26.960 --> 0:10:30.080
<v Speaker 1>what happened? I mean he went to a lot of detail.

0:10:30.679 --> 0:10:33.160
<v Speaker 1>He said that you guys met up, you ended up

0:10:33.160 --> 0:10:36.560
<v Speaker 1>back at your apartment. You guys started to hook up

0:10:36.600 --> 0:10:41.120
<v Speaker 1>a little bit, but then you two were interrupted. Yeah. Yeah,

0:10:41.120 --> 0:10:43.640
<v Speaker 1>I feel really bad about that. Actually, we know about

0:10:43.679 --> 0:10:47.680
<v Speaker 1>the law. Yeah, yeah, you know. I did really like Noah.

0:10:47.920 --> 0:10:51.679
<v Speaker 1>He was really sweet, He's really funny, and I enjoyed

0:10:51.760 --> 0:10:54.120
<v Speaker 1>hanging out with him. It would be nice to have

0:10:54.200 --> 0:10:58.240
<v Speaker 1>someone like him in my life. But um, okay, I

0:10:58.280 --> 0:11:02.360
<v Speaker 1>don't really have that right now. So live with your boyfriend. No,

0:11:02.440 --> 0:11:10.600
<v Speaker 1>we don't live together. I have been seeing someone, yes, well,

0:11:10.960 --> 0:11:13.560
<v Speaker 1>but there's no label on it. How could there not

0:11:13.559 --> 0:11:15.360
<v Speaker 1>be a label on it? He had keys to your place.

0:11:15.360 --> 0:11:17.680
<v Speaker 1>That's how he got in, right, Like the Noah heard

0:11:17.760 --> 0:11:20.920
<v Speaker 1>jingling of keys and someone entering your apartment and you

0:11:21.000 --> 0:11:23.280
<v Speaker 1>told him to get into the closet. You could have

0:11:23.320 --> 0:11:24.800
<v Speaker 1>been a robber that broke in, and she made out

0:11:24.800 --> 0:11:32.960
<v Speaker 1>with him to save her rights on restract closet. Take

0:11:33.000 --> 0:11:38.880
<v Speaker 1>whatever you want later. Is that what happened, Sandra, It's okay,

0:11:39.000 --> 0:11:41.680
<v Speaker 1>that's what happened. Yeah, he's just kind of this on again,

0:11:41.720 --> 0:11:46.840
<v Speaker 1>off again boyfriend type thing. Okay, well we're just looking.

0:11:47.080 --> 0:11:50.080
<v Speaker 1>Is there anything possible down the road, even in the

0:11:50.120 --> 0:11:53.520
<v Speaker 1>future with Noah? Is there a chance? Look like, I

0:11:53.640 --> 0:11:56.600
<v Speaker 1>have been seeing another guy, but I do kind of

0:11:56.640 --> 0:11:58.920
<v Speaker 1>like know a better. I just think he's a better person.

0:11:59.360 --> 0:12:03.360
<v Speaker 1>Oh that's great. Look you know why, Let's find out

0:12:03.400 --> 0:12:05.959
<v Speaker 1>what Noah thinks about this, because he's on the other

0:12:06.000 --> 0:12:08.000
<v Speaker 1>line listening and wants to talk to you, and I'm

0:12:08.000 --> 0:12:12.280
<v Speaker 1>willing to bet he's on board again. Yeah, Noah, you there,

0:12:12.400 --> 0:12:19.040
<v Speaker 1>jump out of the closet, Zandra, it's me what you

0:12:19.120 --> 0:12:22.520
<v Speaker 1>have a radio station called me? Oh my god? Sorry,

0:12:22.600 --> 0:12:24.160
<v Speaker 1>I didn't really know how to get in touch with you,

0:12:24.200 --> 0:12:26.480
<v Speaker 1>and I've been texting and like, I was just really

0:12:26.520 --> 0:12:28.840
<v Speaker 1>nervous to be honest, and like, I really like you

0:12:28.880 --> 0:12:32.560
<v Speaker 1>a lot, but I didn't. I don't know. I kind

0:12:32.559 --> 0:12:35.280
<v Speaker 1>of thought you were just blowing me off. No, I wasn't.

0:12:35.320 --> 0:12:38.560
<v Speaker 1>I wasn't intentionally trying to blow you off. To be honest,

0:12:38.600 --> 0:12:40.720
<v Speaker 1>I felt the same way. I did, feel like there's

0:12:40.760 --> 0:12:44.800
<v Speaker 1>a connection. Oh, I just didn't know really how serious

0:12:44.840 --> 0:12:47.280
<v Speaker 1>you were about it. Noah, do you think this is

0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:50.320
<v Speaker 1>something that you would take seriously? If you feel like

0:12:50.400 --> 0:12:53.680
<v Speaker 1>that guy's not good for you, then I'm open. Wait,

0:12:54.520 --> 0:12:56.400
<v Speaker 1>this is a way to do it, you Jane around

0:12:56.440 --> 0:13:00.160
<v Speaker 1>till the guy calls a radio station, you pick him. Yeah.

0:13:00.160 --> 0:13:02.480
<v Speaker 1>Are we all just going to ignore the fact that, Sandra,

0:13:02.600 --> 0:13:06.720
<v Speaker 1>you haven't even apologized yet for leaving him in the closet,

0:13:07.679 --> 0:13:11.320
<v Speaker 1>he sounds happy, hying about having a boyfriend, Like, why

0:13:11.320 --> 0:13:15.120
<v Speaker 1>are you trying? I'm not digging anything up. It's like

0:13:15.240 --> 0:13:18.440
<v Speaker 1>right there trying to start a fight, trying to start

0:13:18.480 --> 0:13:20.600
<v Speaker 1>a fight. I'm just saying, Sandra, like what was going

0:13:20.640 --> 0:13:26.160
<v Speaker 1>through your mind when you're making out with some boyfriend

0:13:26.640 --> 0:13:28.840
<v Speaker 1>while he was in the closet? I know it looks

0:13:28.920 --> 0:13:31.200
<v Speaker 1>really bad. The thing is is that this guy that

0:13:31.240 --> 0:13:34.000
<v Speaker 1>I've been seeing, he's just kind of trouble. He has

0:13:34.040 --> 0:13:39.520
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of an anger management problem. Oh why

0:13:39.520 --> 0:13:42.600
<v Speaker 1>aren't you even talking to him? Still? What do you mean?

0:13:42.640 --> 0:13:46.079
<v Speaker 1>Like how angry? Is the type person? I mean, he

0:13:46.440 --> 0:13:50.200
<v Speaker 1>has been in and out of prison and does have

0:13:50.280 --> 0:13:52.360
<v Speaker 1>a little bit of a mean streak, not to me,

0:13:52.559 --> 0:13:59.280
<v Speaker 1>but to others who have wronged him. Yeah, Sandra, you

0:13:59.360 --> 0:14:02.520
<v Speaker 1>deserve better than that. You guys, listen, this guy's gonna

0:14:02.559 --> 0:14:05.800
<v Speaker 1>find out about their relationship and he's gonna kill him.

0:14:06.280 --> 0:14:08.800
<v Speaker 1>So he's not kind of like violent mean? Is he

0:14:09.160 --> 0:14:12.800
<v Speaker 1>just more like loud angry? Mean you went to prison,

0:14:12.960 --> 0:14:17.480
<v Speaker 1>not for like emotionally yelling at somebody. Sandra. You know,

0:14:17.480 --> 0:14:19.320
<v Speaker 1>I don't think I should talk about everything he's done

0:14:19.320 --> 0:14:20.800
<v Speaker 1>because I don't want to get him in trouble, and

0:14:20.880 --> 0:14:24.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't want to block that out onto the error.

0:14:24.200 --> 0:14:26.400
<v Speaker 1>But like Noah, like I said, and I told these guys,

0:14:26.480 --> 0:14:28.400
<v Speaker 1>you're the type of person that I need in my life,

0:14:28.400 --> 0:14:31.520
<v Speaker 1>and I am really interested, and I think it makes

0:14:31.520 --> 0:14:37.120
<v Speaker 1>sense we could have something okay her life. I feel

0:14:37.120 --> 0:14:40.080
<v Speaker 1>like there's something here to work with. I'm yeah, I

0:14:40.120 --> 0:14:43.479
<v Speaker 1>mean between the prison guy and Noah, she chooses Noah.

0:14:43.520 --> 0:14:45.520
<v Speaker 1>That's got to feel good. You're right, right? Does that

0:14:45.560 --> 0:14:47.760
<v Speaker 1>mean you're actually going to break up? Like break up?

0:14:47.840 --> 0:14:51.840
<v Speaker 1>Break up with prison dude? It's not gonna be easy.

0:14:51.960 --> 0:14:54.720
<v Speaker 1>But I think if I sit and talk with him

0:14:54.760 --> 0:14:57.880
<v Speaker 1>and kind of tell him everything and tell him about Noah,

0:14:58.040 --> 0:15:03.600
<v Speaker 1>then oh maybe he'll understand. I don't think. So yeah, wait,

0:15:03.720 --> 0:15:07.720
<v Speaker 1>why do you have to tell him about me? Yeah? Well,

0:15:07.720 --> 0:15:12.040
<v Speaker 1>he's gonna want to know who I'm seeing, So can't

0:15:12.040 --> 0:15:14.360
<v Speaker 1>you just tell him that's none of your business? I mean,

0:15:14.400 --> 0:15:16.240
<v Speaker 1>I told you he has an anger issue, so he's

0:15:16.240 --> 0:15:18.080
<v Speaker 1>gonna want to know, and I'm probably gonna want to

0:15:18.200 --> 0:15:21.800
<v Speaker 1>meet him. But like, I think it's going to be fine. Well,

0:15:21.840 --> 0:15:24.840
<v Speaker 1>maybe we can help make that happen, because we would

0:15:24.840 --> 0:15:26.880
<v Speaker 1>love to send you guys out on another day. We

0:15:26.920 --> 0:15:29.880
<v Speaker 1>will pay for it, and you, Noah and the prison

0:15:29.880 --> 0:15:33.080
<v Speaker 1>guy can all meet and discuss leaving your relationship to

0:15:33.160 --> 0:15:34.920
<v Speaker 1>just being with Noah. That sounds like it's going to

0:15:34.960 --> 0:15:37.120
<v Speaker 1>be civil. I mean, I'm sure he'll be the reasonable

0:15:37.120 --> 0:15:39.560
<v Speaker 1>one between the three of you. Yeah, Sandraw, what do

0:15:39.600 --> 0:15:42.080
<v Speaker 1>you say? I'm down to try and see if this

0:15:42.160 --> 0:15:44.840
<v Speaker 1>can work with Noah in whatever way possible. I think

0:15:44.840 --> 0:15:49.240
<v Speaker 1>that's good. You need a healthy relationship. Yes, Noah, you're

0:15:49.240 --> 0:15:51.640
<v Speaker 1>still up for this. Guys, this is all coming at

0:15:51.680 --> 0:15:54.240
<v Speaker 1>me so fast right now. Do you want to go

0:15:54.320 --> 0:15:55.960
<v Speaker 1>back in the closet and hide in for a second

0:15:55.960 --> 0:16:02.480
<v Speaker 1>and then think about it? Oh? I mean, Sandra, I

0:16:02.520 --> 0:16:05.120
<v Speaker 1>really want to make things work with you, but I'm

0:16:05.160 --> 0:16:08.240
<v Speaker 1>I'm a little nervous about you know this guy. Yeah,

0:16:11.360 --> 0:16:14.120
<v Speaker 1>come on, Sandra. He doesn't have to meet him, does he. Yeah?

0:16:14.120 --> 0:16:15.560
<v Speaker 1>I just tell him your name is like Jeffrey de

0:16:15.600 --> 0:16:21.600
<v Speaker 1>bou or something. Okay, running out of time. I think

0:16:21.600 --> 0:16:23.680
<v Speaker 1>it's gonna be fine. It's probably going to take him

0:16:23.720 --> 0:16:25.800
<v Speaker 1>a few days to get over it, but I think

0:16:25.840 --> 0:16:29.000
<v Speaker 1>we'll be okay. Okay. I don't know how I feel

0:16:29.000 --> 0:16:32.320
<v Speaker 1>positive right now, but I do don't know. You don't

0:16:32.800 --> 0:16:35.200
<v Speaker 1>look at Sandra taking charge of her own life, making

0:16:35.200 --> 0:16:38.200
<v Speaker 1>decisions for herself, good jobs. It sounds like someone's about

0:16:38.200 --> 0:16:43.240
<v Speaker 1>to go back to prison. Yeah, Broke and Jeffrey in

0:16:43.280 --> 0:16:44.480
<v Speaker 1>the morning.