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Speaker 1: now when you're twenty four, but I'm not datable twenty five.

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Speaker 1: I mean, let's wait a couple of way. Do you

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Speaker 1: call it quits? On this show, we say never, never, Never,

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Speaker 1: No matter how many times you fail miserably, you get

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Speaker 1: back up on that dating horse and you ride. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: finally fin that special person or at least someone who's

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Speaker 1: and in that spirit, we have a listener who was

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Speaker 1: in the Morning. How are you doing? Okay, I'm good good.

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