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Speaker 1: That show is on, it's stay or go? All right,

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Speaker 1: Bethany is here? Always hit us up. Fred Show Radio

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Speaker 1: on Instagram, Fredshowradio dot Com on maybe you could have

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Speaker 1: the honor of being on stairgo Bethany? Do you feel

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Speaker 1: like it's an honor?

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Speaker 2: I wish I didn't have to be here, I say, I.

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Speaker 1: Don't know if it's an honor, but yeah, anyway, So

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Speaker 1: what's going on in your relationship? Obviously, the first thing

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Speaker 1: you would do is call a radio program, but most

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Speaker 1: more specifically this one, because we have the most esteemed

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Speaker 1: group of panelists representing all demographics. There's no way that

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Speaker 1: your problem can't be solved right now. Please take it away,

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Speaker 1: let's solve it.

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Speaker 3: I hope.

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Speaker 2: So this is my last resort. So I was looking

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Speaker 2: for a photo on my husband's phone and a text

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Speaker 2: came through from his coworker that it takes a lot

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Speaker 2: to shock me, but I was absolutely stunned. His female

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Speaker 2: co worker sent him a nude and I could not

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Speaker 2: could not, sorry I did. I confronted him and he

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Speaker 2: said he was shocked too, and then he looked. He

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Speaker 2: let me look through his entire phone in the entire

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Speaker 2: text thread with her and there was nothing suspicious, but like,

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Speaker 2: I trust him, I really want to believe him, But

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Speaker 2: I just don't understand why a coworker would feel so

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Speaker 2: comfortable sending something like that.

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Speaker 1: I just got a text from Kiki hol I would

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Speaker 1: say that you brought up an excellent point because he

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Speaker 1: can't necessarily control what he receives, right, But the fact

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Speaker 1: that she felt so comfortable to send that means that

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Speaker 1: there was more than likely some form of setup. That's

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Speaker 1: where my brain goes, because when I first heard about

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Speaker 1: this story in our pre show meeting, because that was

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Speaker 1: the funniest thing I've said all day, because there is

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Speaker 1: no presearch meeting now. When I heard this was coming

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Speaker 1: on this morning, I thought about this. I'm like, well,

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Speaker 1: I can't be responsible for what I receive. If I

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Speaker 1: know why my partner could get mad at me if

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Speaker 1: I had one. That being said, why would ninety nine

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Speaker 1: percent of people send me that picture because they either

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Speaker 1: have sent me that before, or because there's been some

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Speaker 1: form of pre picture sending communication, or because there's a

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Speaker 1: level of comfort there that might be beyond that of

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Speaker 1: a normal coworker relationship. So that's where my head goes immediately.

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Speaker 2: Bethany, Yeah, I mean I don't understand how, Like I

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Speaker 2: want to let it go, but I'm having a really

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Speaker 2: hard time. I just don't know what else I can do.

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Speaker 2: Like I didn't find anything else in their text, and

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Speaker 2: he's never done anything shady, but this is just really

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Speaker 2: weird and I can't let it go.

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Speaker 3: So I need I need advice.

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Speaker 4: Girl, did you call her?

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Speaker 3: No? No?

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Speaker 5: Right, that's the mistake number one. He would have been

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Speaker 5: a first time right then and there. Okay, all three of.

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Speaker 3: Us and talk to me.

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Speaker 5: Because how did you I mean, because he can lie

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Speaker 5: and say, you know, this was a mistake. Maybe she

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Speaker 5: meant to send it to Ted and she actually said

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Speaker 5: there's a fred I don't know right.

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Speaker 2: Think about that, Like, I trust him so much that

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Speaker 2: I can't even think about her. It was like, what

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Speaker 2: is your deal, buddy.

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Speaker 6: Sis, We've learned, We've learned in previous uh, in things

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Speaker 6: that you got to check the other sources like the

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Speaker 1: Yes, yes, yes, she takes seven or eight for that,

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Speaker 1: because the thing, the fact of the matter is you

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Speaker 1: the sources. I can't tell you how many times the

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Speaker 1: iPad gets people because they forget that that's connected to

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Speaker 1: The other thing you got to do is go look

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Speaker 1: the camera roll. Now that one surprised me at time

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Speaker 1: or two. Hey look at this picture of my niece.

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Speaker 1: Oh I forgot about this one, not that picture.

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Speaker 7: So there's no world where she just shot or shot

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Speaker 7: for the first time. I mean, dude, do it all

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Speaker 1: Yes, I've amazed that a number of guys that just

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Speaker 1: jug if it's not true. I've never I've never sent

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Speaker 1: just that that man will lead with the most disgusting things,

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Speaker 1: then I see the stuff that you guys get and

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Speaker 1: when you were on the dating apps prior, and I'm

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Speaker 1: just and my other friends and I'm like, men are ruthless, right,

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Speaker 7: Gotten drunk texts from dudes I know, And if my

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Speaker 3: He could easily be like, what the hell is this?

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Speaker 4: And I did nothing wrong?

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Speaker 5: That's true, but I would also have to say, what

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Speaker 3: That?

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Speaker 3: Think I like that? I don't like that road I

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Speaker 5: Road workers know I'm in a relationship and technically single,

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Speaker 5: so like we all know each other's relationship status. So

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Speaker 5: there's no world where I'm going to accidentally send rufio

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Speaker 1: And I wish you would, right, that doesn't stop some people,

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Speaker 1: some people, how many clueless damp people that we had

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Speaker 1: on this show over the years, by the phone at all. No,

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Speaker 1: people are not self aware. They're not and they're not

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Speaker 4: Co workers should know your relationship STATUSY do, But.

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Speaker 1: That doesn't necessarily mean that they don't think they're above that.

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Speaker 1: Now I'm gonna I'm gonna say that much. I agree

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Speaker 5: Well, my man, co workers, I wish you would send

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Speaker 5: my way. Well, if it's your coworkers, then it'd.

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Speaker 3: Be your gun.

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Speaker 5: Yes, I'm showing up at the next meeting at work

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Speaker 1: Look, there is a possibility that the person was just

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Speaker 1: shooting their shot. There's also the possibility that this person

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Speaker 1: there's other pictures. I'm not saying that means it's person

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Speaker 1: evens anything wrong, But there's a there's It could be

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Speaker 1: It could also very well be that there's other communication

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Speaker 1: going on that led to this, that that that Bethany

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Speaker 3: The thing is, we don't know.

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Speaker 7: I mean our Christmas party gets weird? Do it in

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Speaker 7: sales hit on me last year?

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Speaker 1: Like?

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Speaker 3: And I didn't ask for that.

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Speaker 4: I'm not putting vibes out there. I was just trying

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Speaker 3: How how do you show up? Let me start drinking

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Speaker 3: at a holiday party? How you think you are?

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Speaker 1: Everybody knows his number, everybody knows the sales department runs

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Speaker 3: They do whatever they want.

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Speaker 4: I feel so comfortable because they won't waste it. You understand, this.

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Speaker 1: Was trying to sell himself to her right right for

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Speaker 1: the amazess hay down. Let me take some phone calls.

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Speaker 1: At least they're marketing to somebody. Let me take some

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Speaker 1: phone calls. Okay, I want you to have the radio on,

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Speaker 1: please with the iHeart ap and let's see what happens.

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Speaker 1: You need to investigation, but that's actus one more question you.

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Speaker 1: Honestly though, without this, without seeing this, you would have

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Speaker 2: None, literally none.

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Speaker 1: I feel like my gut tells me you have to

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Speaker 1: he's never given you any indication, if you lean into this,

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Speaker 1: then I think that that's going to break the trust,

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Speaker 1: because it's very possible this guy didn't do anything. It's

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Speaker 1: very possible to someone just did something, tried it, and

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Speaker 1: it didn't work. That's, of course, assuming that you look

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Speaker 4: More deeper.

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Speaker 1: I hate it when like something happens one time, one

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Speaker 1: now you're making him pay for it, and it's possible

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Speaker 1: he did nothing. Now also I want to know how

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Speaker 1: did he handle it, what did he do? Did he

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Speaker 1: send them, did he send her something back like hey,

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Speaker 1: don't send me that, or like that's not appropriate, or

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Speaker 1: did he do anything about it?

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Speaker 2: He said that he wanted to talk to her and

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Speaker 2: not he's.

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Speaker 3: Never I like that.

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Speaker 2: I like that idea to do it somewhere else.

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Speaker 1: I like the idea that he's willing to talk to

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Speaker 1: her with you. I like that idea, Bethany. Actually they

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Speaker 1: get their stories.

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Speaker 4: Exactly, show up at that next marketing meeting.

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Speaker 1: He can gonna come with you. Have a good day, Methany.

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Speaker 1: Thank you, take some phone calls. Let me see here.

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Speaker 1: Someone said, girl, no, you can't lead on the trust

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Speaker 3: That trash is always the first.

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Speaker 1: Time again though, like what if I didn't Okay, So, like,

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Speaker 1: for example, I've I've been dating for basically, been single

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Speaker 1: for twenty years. Basically I've had like six months or

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Speaker 1: eight months here and there. But the thing is, like

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Speaker 1: when I get in a new relationship, when anyone gets

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Speaker 1: in a new relationship, especially early on, for example, this

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Speaker 1: is just one example I'm thinking of. You don't send

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Speaker 1: the last two years or three years or ever, and go,

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Speaker 1: I'm in a relationship now, nobody reach out to me.

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Speaker 1: And so what happens is maybe one month, two month, three,

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Speaker 1: you were out here in these streets at one point, Paul,

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Speaker 1: I read when you first, when you first got with Hobby,

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Speaker 1: you were still getting hit up, probably by strays. Yes,

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Speaker 1: stray's were hitting you up out of nowhere, guys from

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Speaker 1: a year ago, going, you know, hang you up. But

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Speaker 1: you but you tell them now. But you say that like, hey,

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Speaker 1: I'm in a relationship now, Like I can't talk to you,

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Speaker 1: you know, like whatever, you shut it down, right, But

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Speaker 1: I've gotten in trouble for text messages I've received that

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Speaker 3: And I'm getting in trouble for this.

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Speaker 1: But I didn't. I didn't do it. I didn't at

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Speaker 1: two in the morning, Hey you up. Well that was

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Speaker 1: acceptable a couple of months ago. That's no longer acceptable

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Speaker 1: because you know, hypothetically, I'm in a relationship, so I

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Speaker 1: you don't need to yell at me because I didn't

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Speaker 1: do it. Right, that's a similar example.

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Speaker 5: No, that's why when you get in a relationship, you

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Speaker 5: need to change your Facebook status.

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Speaker 4: Okay, in a relationship that.

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Speaker 3: Last place. Let me change my LinkedIn too.

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Speaker 5: Yes, this is a message out to everybody. I am

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Speaker 5: in a relationship, do not text my phone at two am.

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Speaker 3: You say it all the time.

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Speaker 4: When you get in a serious relationship, you gonna change

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Speaker 4: your number.

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Speaker 3: Because when I.

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Speaker 1: Get married, I was just telling Giddy and my Giddey

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Speaker 1: in the torture or my trainer the other day. There

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Speaker 1: is no doubt when I finally get married someday, the

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Speaker 1: entire phones being just the phone is being destroyed, the

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Speaker 1: Apple ID, the phone number. We're changing everything, different area code,

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Speaker 1: We're changing everything. You will not be able. The only

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Speaker 1: people who will know how to find me are you

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Speaker 1: guys in this room and my mom.

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Speaker 4: I mean this firm.

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Speaker 7: A woman who says I'm waiting to meet my husband,

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Speaker 7: I'm dating someone in on single Lord Jesus helped.

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Speaker 3: Me accord in your Facebook. There's no you don't get

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Speaker 3: on that right now.

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Speaker 1: Mary, you know I got a photo almost send you

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Speaker 1: a two in the morning, so my left pinky.

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Speaker 5: Everybody knows everybody I'm very clear.

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Speaker 4: Everybody knows where I.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, everyone knows that you're in a relationship with single.

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Speaker 1: It's very clear, clear here out of your mind. Hey, Michelle,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome, good morning, Michelle.

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Speaker 3: What are we gonna do? Stay or go?

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Speaker 1: Just to recap here, this woman, her boyfriend received a

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Speaker 1: random photograph from a cowork A nude photograph from a coworker.

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Speaker 1: It popped up. He immediately showed it to her, gave

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Speaker 3: He says, what.

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Speaker 9: Say you, I guarantee you that she deleted a huge

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Speaker 4: How can you guarantee that, Michelle, and they've been messing around?

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Speaker 3: How can you automatically go there?

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Speaker 9: Well, you can go under your text messages and you

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Speaker 9: deleted text messages, and I guarantee you there's gonna be

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Speaker 8: But she he deleted.

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Speaker 1: Now you don't know that, you're it's just your paranoia

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Speaker 1: lead you there.

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Speaker 5: Well, she used to get out.

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Speaker 1: Of that relationship but we don't even know.

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Speaker 3: We don't know for sure if there's context here.

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Speaker 9: Why would a random coworkers signed him a new picture

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Speaker 9: of her?

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Speaker 3: Jason does it all the time. He's trying on accident, Yes,

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Speaker 3: all the time.

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Speaker 4: And I don't want them that all.

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Speaker 3: Right, Michelle, you have a good day. You're not wrong.

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Speaker 1: Your status has been noted. Hold on guys. Antonia, Hi, Hi,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Hi Antonia. I just I don't I love you?

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Speaker 8: So I just wanted to start by saying that.

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Speaker 1: Say I love you too. But this room is crazy today,

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Speaker 1: and Kiki is she is unhinged.

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Speaker 2: Well, I totally agree with everything you're saying, Fred, but

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Speaker 2: you know, but thank you you and.

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Speaker 8: I do have a crazy sight.

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Speaker 2: So I would have immediately called the girl and see

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Speaker 2: how she responded to the callback.

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Speaker 1: And I don't think that woman wouldn't have had a

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Speaker 1: right to do that. I think she'd had every right

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Speaker 1: to make that phone call and go, hey, that's my boyfriend,

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Speaker 1: what are you doing?

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Speaker 5: And then where she was by her husband or boyfriend,

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Speaker 5: I would have went up to him and said, call

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Speaker 5: this number back right now, let me see how she's

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Speaker 5: going to.

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Speaker 4: Respond to you. Yeah, yeah, that is my.

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Speaker 3: Thank Antonia, thank you. Have a good day. You too, boy.

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Speaker 1: It is a rare day when someone texts The only

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Speaker 1: reasonable person in the room is Fred.

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Speaker 3: Oh my god, take a picture of it? Will it? Congress?

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Speaker 1: I'm more reasonable than I get credit for it. Very

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Speaker 1: sound of a very sound mind.

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Speaker 3: You are. I'm just so easy sometimes.

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Speaker 1: Andre, Hi. Actually no one's ever described me as of

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Speaker 3: Andre. Hey, Hey Fred, are you doing? Hey? Welcome man?

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Speaker 3: What do you think? Well, I'm going to tell you

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Speaker 3: I'm one of the thirteen love you guys, thank you,

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Speaker 3: love you years and Kiki, you're tripping? Oh what how?

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Speaker 3: I'm telling you you're right though, I will agree with you. Okay,

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Speaker 3: she made the call, Andre, He should have the phone

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Speaker 3: and made the call. But listen to this. The girl

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Speaker 3: has Tim and Timothy next to each other. His name

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Speaker 3: is Tim. She sent the picture to the wrong person.

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Speaker 4: Is that how it happened? Andre?

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Speaker 1: Perfectly reasonable explanation from Andre, right right, right, understanding.

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Speaker 7: I'm excellently accidentally sexted the wrong person.

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Speaker 4: I have to people have, yea many people have just

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Speaker 4: like sending an email, and you shouldn't reply to all

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Speaker 4: I do sex over email.

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Speaker 3: Yes, you're right, I'm possibly email sex thing.

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Speaker 1: It's crazy. Sometimes I do it like in there too.

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Speaker 1: It's pretty expensive though, a dollar of sex.

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Speaker 3: Have a good day.

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Speaker 1: I mean, hey, Gene, Gene makes an interesting point.

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Speaker 8: Go ahead, Hey, how were all doing this morning?

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Speaker 1: Hi? Doing well great. I'm a little confused. Kiki's all

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Speaker 8: What a little kmfussled. Yeah, But I think personally he

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Speaker 8: shouldn't have any problem going to HR. I mean, report

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Speaker 8: it and you know, let them do the investigation. There's

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Speaker 8: your neutral party. And if he's like, oh no, I can't,

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Speaker 8: then that's like that's another you know, you know, the

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Speaker 8: mail in his coffin. But I mean if he's like, well, hey, yeah,

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Speaker 8: that's a great idea, let's shot it HR and let

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Speaker 8: them figure out what it is, because they need to

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Speaker 8: know why she's sending her nudy pictures.

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Speaker 3: Out her nudy pictures.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I think that's what That would be an interesting

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Speaker 1: conversation at HR. So tell me about these nudy pictures

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Speaker 1: that you thank you have a good day, You're welcome

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Speaker 1: you to my former boss is a text. My former

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Speaker 1: boss accidentally sent me a nude video over breast.

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Speaker 3: I deleted it right away. Which you what Rufio just

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Speaker 3: sent me. It's his arm.

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Speaker 1: He's flexing, but it's like the crease in his arms.

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Speaker 1: Jackson's arm, A little ass. This looks nothing like the

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Speaker 1: pictures you normally sent me. What I normally get from

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Speaker 1: you were totally different. I'm gonna saved your camera. The

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Speaker 1: Entertainer Report is next Friend Show.